High value refers to the value women place on them. Not the value they possess as men being good or not. They are highly sought after by women and there are fewer of them. They have their pick of women. That makes them hight value. It has nothing to do with being a good man. A lot of women aren’t chasing good men.
Kev, believe it or not, there are a lot of us who place high value on kind, caring, loving guys. Of course we want financially stable and responsible men, but it doesn't mean they have to be filthy rich. If some rich guy chooses me, it doesn't mean I'll choose him back. For me, it takes a lot more than simply money & status to call a man "high value". Bottom line, everyone picks their own definition of "high value" be it money or kindness or whatever one chooses.
I’m not competing with other females for a man. I want a man who sees me and knows he wants to get to know me and pursue me... I’m a high quality woman, and I want a King who is looking for love, partnership, commitment, loyalty, purpose, growth, and destiny with his Queen. No games, competing, shallowness, and pretense. No outlandish standards, just being human, open, and honest..doing the work together to build up love and an empire together. I am the choice, not an option...
I got broken so many times that instead of being bitter I chose to love myself more, have boundaries, and focus more on MY future and what I like. I also stopped settling and allowed myself to have "Options" too. I keep my energy protected so I don't change who I am and I keep myself happy. Now every thing is smooth and I have so much fun and smooth relationships with so many different men now. I'm true to myself and they love it. I also don't f*ck with bums no more. Not even for entertainment.
@@tinker2217 Cool. I haven't read that, but I did watch a lot of videos this year because last year was a bad year and I said 2020 was gonna be the last.
@@kirsten1007 The truth does hurt. I had to get real with myself. I dug deep inside of myself.. forgave myself and accepted my "flaws" until I found a way to love them, got patient with myself. Allowed myself time and opportunities to heal and to learn/grow.. Now I rarely get upset with men anymore and vice-versa, because now that I know better, I do better, and I'm a better me.
@anelle Wiley Nooooo the key is to focus more on yourself, but if you been doing that, then you could try stepping outside of your box and make a couple random approaches to see how that works out, or also learn how to online date safely and smartly. We ain't getting no younger, we gotta try new things and step outside our comfort zones. There are so many different angles to finding good affection and attention. Gotta make that first step. Ain't no shame in the game.
This is the first time I actually disagree with him I see plenty of women who are not successful that are married to successful men and I found that I see that they are attracted to women who are not..amd the competitive thing makes me ill
What’s interesting is that a lot of these traits are masculine. In my experience men that have these ‘standards’ are looking for women who are masculine and are usually switch hitters behind the scenes. At least that’s what I’ve seen up close. It’s so hard to find a truly successful man who’s actually MASCULINE and looking for a powerfully feminine counterpart that adds value in ways that he both can and can’t. Most highly successful men I’ve noticed are successful as a compensatory mean to fill their emptiness and as a bandaid for their baggage and unfinished childhood business.
Being with high value men is not that great. They work super long hours. Their careers are a priority. Plans get cancelled because of work. He's always running late because of work. The limited time he does have to spend with you will be interrupted by work. On his downtime, it will be all about him and his needs and you will be expected to cater to him and there'll be very little time left for him to give back to you. You'll be left alone a lot, you'll often wonder if he's forgotten about you, most of the time your life will feel no different to when you were single. Except now there's an aching hole in your heart from where you made space for him. Yes, you landed yourself a high value man. He picked you out of all the other women throwing themselves at him. What an amazing ego trip. Is it worth it?
So true, especially after marrying to them you feel more lonely than ever. He's always working, I'm not super rich lady but I'm an upper middle class I dont need a man keep working for money. Family & love is my priorities
That's not a high-value man. That's a money/work/career-focused person who can't balance between people he cares about and work. He might just not care about you enough to give you what you deserve or he could be a workaholic type A personality and you should run not walk away from those types of people
The video should be named "Attract Financially Successful Men" not "High Value Men". Financial success doesn't necessarily mean high value. These rich guys will have options for sure but it doesn't guarantee that they will be kind, caring, respectful, compassionate.
9 times out of 10 high value men are financially successful men, or at the minimum they are men with a very high personal prerogative to provide and protect. If they’re not financially successful, they’re *about* to be, and they will have those same requirements for a woman as those Kev discussed above.
LOL Kevin 😂😂 Sorry not sorry Successful men only marry unsuccessful women who only want to be a successful🤣🙄 man's wife! I'm yet to see successful men secure enough to Marry successful women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hey ladies .. this is true what Kevin is saying .. when your unavailable at times this is what makes a man desire you ... don’t always answer him when he calls ,make him wait .. A man knows he suppose to wait on a woman...you are no door mat you are a high value woman ♥️🤗
@Tj Gard right then the guy might think she playing games and then it’s a set up for failure. Nothing wrong with letting a man or your man know you want all his time lol 😆
Right. I agree. Cancel a date or two also...tell him “Oh, I have to work later than usual tonight, let’s reschedule .” Or “ I forgot I promised a friend I’d meet up with them it, totally slipped my mind” never be TOO available.
@@KevHick I agree to an extent. However, I can almost bet money that a man came up with the term" high value" because to men, their value is determined financially. Quality DEFINITELY creates a demand as well. People will pay more for a certain type of headphones for instance than others because of this.
kev you are the most articulate, to the point, lay back at the same time dude ive ever seen. i havent watched your videos latley cuz i rotate depending on the season im in but just know you are the best that ever did it bro seriously. respect.
To Women: Worldly success does not make a man high value. And any man who considers his value based off his position and wealth is a fool. Worldly success such as wealth, status and position is a false sense of security. I will give you a scenario to illustrate what I'm talking about. In the movie Titanic, Rose had two options; Jack, the homeless man and her fiancé the wealthy man. When the ship hit the iceberg, none of the wealth or status that Rose's fiancé accumulated in his life could buy his way out of the situation, though he really tried if you've saw the movie and could remember. The only way he got off the boat, was by playing a loving, caring single parent father. Now Jack on the other hand, the one that most of you wouldn't even look his way because of him being homeless was the true treasure in the movie. Why? Because though he did not have lots of money or a place to stay at the moment, he had what most women miss all the time in a man they choose; which is a man who can see your best potential and bring it out of you. Jack had a skill (art) that could very well have turned out to make a lot of money with the right support. Jack was a survivor, he not only knew how to bring out the best in Rose, but he knew how to protect her, even from herself if you know what I mean. Jack truly loved her, while the wealthy fiancé saw her as another prize to his worldly collection of success. In the end, Rose's fiancé was willing to kill her and Jack because he could not have her. But Jack at the end when he realized he would not make it, encouraged Rose that she will live on and have lots of babies and do all the things they had talked about doing even if it meant he couldn't be a part of it. My sisters, that is true love. That is where the true treasure is. And yes there are still men out there like that. A man who truly loves you, will bring out the best in you and you will do the same for him if you are suitable to him. These are what destined life partners were meant to be to each other. And yes I do believe in destined partners. Our lives were written by the LORD of Host Himself, therefore He knows whether or not you have a life partner in the future. If this epidemic has taught us anything, its that life can drastically change at the snap of a finger. Businesses can go out and positions and statuses can be lost. Will you still love and respect your husband when he has lost everything? Will you still follow him? Sometimes we lose everything so that we can be made into something brand new; something far more pure and beautiful. So do not let the position of anyone fall into your judgement, you never know what or who that person could be to you. Quit falling for the illusion that wealth, status or position is security, it is not. Everything can change in an instant. Your foundation with your future husband must be grounded in true unconditional love and understanding. Therefore if everything goes to crap and all we as humans have left is each other, your relationship with your man will still be strong because your foundation WAS NOT built on trusting in the security of a lie or an illusion rather. True security comes from a relationship with Elohim, your Creator. Not religion, RELATIONSHIP. For the LORD gives us peace that passes understanding. He is our strong tower, our shield, our soul provider. I can go on, but i will end it here. I hope this helped my sisters. May you find the best man suitable for you and you for him. God bless.
I just met one whose gonna be successful soon..he's assessing me and iam just being me, my best which I worked on for some time now..."when you start to take care of yourself, you start to feel and look better and you attract the best"
Ladies, a simple list of tips you could perhaps find useful: Be yourself, while being considerate of other people’s personal space and lives. (Don’t be too loud, brash, vulgar etc.- i see it so so often!) Don’t show interest before he has. Don’t text, don’t tell him he is “hot” (sadly, common as well, especially with girls on dating apps- check out youtube videos on what messages hot guys get on tinder), don’t fawn over him. Stop being so impressed by looks, stop acting like groupies. Never accept being f*ck buddies or FWB if you are looking to date/ a boyfriend / a relationship. No, the time spent together will not make him bond to you. Your accepting to be a sex toy when you want something else diminishes your value. Don’t ask him out, don’t plan dates, don’t text him the day after sex. Suggest things to do once or twice, be proactive only when you’re regularly seeing each other. Never text /call a man first after sex. I’ve seen it happen with my own eyes- guys will break the speed limit and literally check the time to count the hours , to text / call a girl they just slept with & truly like, so she doesn’t feel disrespected. They know it’s on them. Don’t ever do it. Don’t pay compliments related to his physical appearance, unless it’s to remark a radical change (massive weight loss, dramatic haircut etc). Paying compliments to men is unnatural, mannish and almost repulsive. Have dignity. If he cancels, isn’t consistent - don’t text, don’t ask anything- read the writing on the wall, be a lady and move on. Know that a man hitting you up with ”wyd” or “wya” is minimum effort for fishing for the coochie, not him “coming back”. Don’t reply to “you up” messages . Start demanding dates and have standards. There is no amount of looks, money or good pipe to be once in a lifetime. The more you understand this, the faster MORE men will pop up, EVERYWHERE. Be wise, calm, polite, don’t get violent, aggressive or ratchet. Nobody likes being verbally abused, especially when you barely know the other person. Stop moving your hands when talking, drop the Kardashianesque - Valley girl linguistic patterns (“omigod”, “so rude”, “totally obsessed”). It boxes you in the same category with everyone else, and doesn’t let your true personality shine through. Be yourself. I cannot stress this enough. Don’t over analyze, don’t overthink. Don’t know what to respond to a message? Respond with what pops in your head, you don’t need to impress anyone, he has to impress you! Same in conversation. Bring up random topics, laugh, be natural and RELAXED. And last, but not the least, because I’ve seen many girls struggle with how to convey their desire for a relationship, without sounding “desperate”. There is no such thing as desperate, if that’s what you want. However, you do have to convey your desire in a normal, healthy and reasonable way. The best way to put it has been, in my experience, “i am interested in dating and getting to know someone, to see if we are compatible for exclusive dating and being boyfriend -girlfriend “. It’s honest, simple, logical, natural, makes most sense. Again- don’t be shy or intimidated, don’t be too much either, don’t be nervous! I cannot begin to tell you the huge impact following these small things has had in my life, in general. Whilst i used to be an overthinker and stresser over any dude, i now date and chat with multiple men, feel so relaxed i sometimes forget to check my phone, act like myself and just feel good about life, in general! A dude doesn’t like me? Super! It’s his right! I move on, elegantly. I don’t hit him up, I don’t ask why, i simply am not there, I have mentally moved on. I don’t have the energy to analyze behaviours, or stress over someone else. The amount of guys who just popped out of the woodwork is surprising to say the least. I have exes chasing me, a dude asking for dates all the time, a guy who wasn’t interested driving 45 km daily, after work, during a pandemic, to sit and have a beer in the park with me. Because i am MENTALLY RELAXED and myself. It works, great. It doesn’t- it will with someone else. Keep shining, m’ladies!! Sorry for the long comment but someone had to say it! 👑❤️🥳
Love the honesty! 💯🔥 I don’t want the richest man but I do desire a man who’s not living paycheck to paycheck. I realize I have to be a good reflection/match for the type of man I desire because you don’t always attract what you want, you attract what you ARE! The only thing I feel I’m missing is the financial lol ya girl been broke in this pandemic lol but I’m definitely ambitious and have solid goals to bounce back
LOL Kevin 😂😂 Sorry not sorry Successful men only marry unsuccessful women who only want to be a successful🤣🙄 man's wife! I'm yet to see successful men secure enough to Marry successful women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@PriyankaGupta-ew1li my spouse and I are both successful. How you measure success is different for each individual or couple. Success is not just riches as far as money. Riches in other ways is a great trait to possess as well
I already carry myself according to all 5 points you mentioned and I am living my best life and focused. A high-value man should come soon. Also, having high standards chases boys away, real men step up to meet standards.
Brilliant advice! I also believe that a woman being too busy, most of the time is not good. HVM, once you're in a relationship with one, needs to know you are there, at home, providing an oasis of femininity, calm, respect, emotional support, beguiling beauty, honesty and plenty of loving as and when he needs it. (He provides the ambition, financial support, etc, which are predominantly masculine traits.)
I agree...... this is the truth. You can do these and fill your time up with hobbies so being available isn’t an option. There’s always that thin line.
It sounds to me that the high value men referred to here, aren't seeking to build a life, home and family WITH a woman, but more that they want a woman to fall in line with their own plans. That's not love to me at all. They sound shallow and selfish when it comes to anyone else, wife or not. What if the wife gets sick? Where will he be? They sound emotionless to me, and maybe they need an emotionless wife.
That’s what it means to be a help mate. Did Adam fall into Eve’s plans or did Eve fall into what Adam and God had already established? A man of God would never leave his wife. He made a vow before God to stay by her side in sickness and in health.
I thought the same way.. even motivated productive people fall short sometimes. Sometimes the brightest and smartest of people people are hurt, depressed, have to deal with death, accidents and other problems life throws at them... they're not always filled with life and energy
One of the best videos I've watched, because am tired of these broke a** guys. I am a very ambitious woman doing well for herself as well so I think I do deserve a successful man🙈🙈
I am a high value woman, I am educated, I have a thriving career, I have a small business that I am passionate about. I am a practicing Christian and I am no nonsense. I would definitely agree to a prenup because I have my own. However, a high value woman have priorities and can be busy so for me it’s about positioning myself to meet a like minded person. I am not readily available but I can plan my days how I want. I have plenty to do but for the right man...he will made the time and so will I. Stay high value.
I've recently started a level up phase in my life and now I do see that if you value, love and take care of yourself, you attract in turn, a levelled up type of person into your life. And those who clearly aren't growing and don't value themselves start to stick out like dog's balls & they don't seem like people that are worth the energy of dealing with. I don't get angry at what Kev is saying here. I kind of think it's mostly fair enough.
LOL Thank heaven someone pointed out😂😂 Sorry not sorry Successful men only marry unsuccessful women who only want to be a successful🤣🙄 man's wife! I'm yet to see successful men secure enough to Marry successful women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What’s interesting is that a lot of these traits are masculine. In my experience men that have these ‘standards’ are looking for women who are masculine and are usually switch hitters behind the scenes. At least that’s what I’ve seen up close. It’s so hard to find a truly successful man who’s actually MASCULINE and looking for a powerfully feminine counterpart that adds value in ways that he both can and can’t. Most highly successful men I’ve noticed are successful as a compensatory mean to fill their emptiness and as a bandaid for their baggage and unfinished childhood business.
I have never had a man leave me. Why? My mother said never ever speak down to a man. Always point our the best in him. Every single person on this earth have different gifts. If you put down a man you have been with then you put yourself down because you choose him. Be yourself and be successful but do not put him down. Do not brag about yourself. Just be you. It will shine through and if he is interested he will be observing you. One of my sisters does not take care of herself and is always giving to others. She found a really good looking kind man and he said I fell in love with your sister because she has the kindest heart I have ever seen. My other sister and I are always telling her you need to take better care of yourself. But I have to give credit to my mother who taught us that everyone matters and gave us confidence. My mother taught all three of us to cook but my food was so awful I felt discouraged but mother said you have other talents and one day you will find it so be patient. I realized I was good with building things so for my birthday I got a ladder. Still have it to this day. Love you all.
I used to demonize men who seemed to put so much importance into how a woman looks. Over time as I've learned more about how men think, it's like... why wouldn't they want a trophy wife? If they worked THAT hard to the point of being in the top 10% or earners, they SHOULD have a trophy wife. And she should live a life of luxury where she can spend all her time doing the beauty upkeep that she so enjoys, if she wants. It really shouldn't hurt anyones feelings.
@@purplemonsoon8376 Because they want to feel like they have a "prize." Everyone wants to be coveted, to have what others desire. That's the reason most people drive flashy cars. Because they like the attention.
@@angelicathompsonph.d.2003 why do many men end up fighting because one of them looked at the other's gf, then? They clearly are bothered by the perceived threat.
I LOVE being a single mom. My handsome boys value a strong woman. I've shared some of the most respected conversations about nearly EVERYTHING, with no judgement. I've learned I'm better single raising them and will have THE MAN when my youngest leaves the nest. My boys have seen enough of who I'm NOT interested in lol. They're gonna attract solid woman.
@@menuofgrace It would be lovely for them to see a man loving their mom and actively teaching them how to treat a woman. We set the tone for how our kids respond in relationships. I think it's important to give them a model.
@@denik9614 without a doubt! I know my limits and my sons know all about value..found my upgrade button btw lol. The environment I create for them is strong with or without a man. Intelligence is a loaded word in every sense and my daughter-n-laws will be legit and well respected.
That is why I never sought out this type of man. I'm just an average woman & always felt I was out of this type of man's league, but I did witness many men like this dating down and making exceptions for very beautiful women who didn't have their ish together, but were young with time on their hands and they saw potential in these females. I was even once seen as this type of female by a few higher value men when I was younger ( in my forties now). I do agree that success attracts success, however. My bff's granny and my Aunties told me early a good, successful man Doesn't want a Liability. I later found that to be true. Good advice young man! I only wish I had a big brother figure like you years ago!
What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul. If that man doesn't have a relationship with God he is NOT a "High Value Man" He is putting his trust in his own efforts and money and not depending on God. Especially since God is the one that created him.
Hunny💯💯💯facts. There is such a thing as being unequally yoked in a relationship. Find a man who is equally yoked. In these trying times many couples are breaking up even stable, secure couples. The culprit......... Unequally yoked. They may love each other, be best friends. But if they don't have God in their lives, their relationship is bound to crumble. The Devil is super busy during these challenging times. Evilness is increasing. Our only hope is God. A family/couple that prays together stays together.
Thank you for this! I now have my mind made up. I don't want a man. I'd rather be happy alone. Sounds like too much trouble. In the end, we are all just people. I will keep my head down and try to be out of sight to a man when I have both of my degrees and career going. I will have everything and be happy without a man. I don't need that stress or headache. That's just my humble opinion.
Can we please move away from money and career "success" being the benchmark for getting a 'high value' man? Not everyone can work due to illness or disability, doesn't mean we're not motivated (to do the things we can do), doesn't mean we've got nothing to offer a man and certainly doesn't mean that we don't deserve.a loving relationship. To be honest, I wouldn't want a man who only thinks about money, sees me in $/£ signs or cares about expensive cars. The sexiest men I know love nature, the environment, community, learning and being educators. That to me is 'high value'; not this capitalist BS.
Sorry Kev, while I appreciate and follow your content & advice a lot, this isn't what was conveyed in this video. I think the message has got a bit confused here
I watch all your videos..but please tell me your definition of "high value man" coz what i see is "high earning luxury lifestyle living man" and in those cases..your points are valid but for many of us.. "High value man" is someone who treats us with respect and is genuinely interested in us even when we are not highly money ambitious kind of women. The one who can envision spending their life with us and love us & commit to us. Please clear out your definition.
Prenups can be used as a defensive tool for women. If he wants to cheat or abuse you already have your deal on the table makes it easier to walk away. Protect yourself! Education is so important
100% I feel this way towards men. Guy I did love only offered loved and had nothing else to offer. I had to let him go he didnt want to strive for more or earn more. He was ok with the lowest if every form. So ofc I decided to move on. Hes a lovely person but hes not for me.
Look y’all find you a man that loves and cares about you and will work hard to provide for his family and y’all click... boom that’s it. Cuz all this is just just to much to go through lol
I realized your definition of high value is not exactly the same. I agree with pre-nup, success, working and having your own life, ect......I don't agree that a high value man has to drive expensive cars or look for women who do the same. You hit the spot at the end. It sounds more like a narcassist than a high value man. High value people don't have to show off what they have they have. They already know it in their heart they don't need the world's approval.
I was recently approached by a wealthy man. I didn’t know his wealth until a while after anyhow. But he did tell me I stood out because I wasn’t a yes woman yet I was feminine and submissive all at the same time.
Ah now I get it! Kev, I hear on the UA-cam “Black gender wars” opposition to all of these qualities you’ve named in the vid. Those men opposed to these type of women (high value/quality) are financially and morally broke!
Years later I dont know what made you do youtube but you're doing a good job .... thank you i don't know if you got cash app or PayPal ill donate without a session
SUCCESSFUL MEN WILL DUMP YOU FOR A 20 OLD ONCE YOUR WRINKLES START TO SHOW ,THEY CHEAT OPENLY TOO SO IF YOU WANT TO STAY MARRIED YOU GOTTA STAY QUIET OR LEAVE BROKE ! SADLY LOOKS DO MATTER
Exactly. I need a man to love me for things that are more than skin deep, otherwise it's just a waiting game before it ends... women don't mind when men age. It's natural. Why do they have an issue with it!
First of all I love most of Kevin's videos. I'm a high value woman and I know my worth. I do not agree with Kevin's 4 point that high value men seek women who are succesful in material things like wealth. From most of his other videos kevin stated that high value men look for women who love themselves. Women who set boundaries. Women who are goal oriented. Its the same with men. No high value woman is going to fall for a man's wealth who clearly is insecure and has a bad character. It's the man's character that matters, not his wealth. Yes, he must have a decent salary and be independent. But to say that high value men look for women who are wealthy is like saying that high value men look for women who are physically attractive, and if they are not, they are not considered high quality. That fourth trait threw me off👎...Wealth, status etc are all forms of a woman's appearance. It does not define her character!
They are high value because they are sought after. Not because they are decent. They are the few wanted by the many because of their prosperity and way with women. I didn’t say “good men” I said high value. Meaning in the market they are highly valued by women. Women give them value not money.
@@KevHick I don't value money. My man doesn't need to have a billion dollars. Neither does he have to be dirt poor. But a decent salary with a GOOD CHARACTER makes a man high quality. And many high value women DON'T want a rich dirt bag. They want a man who is loyal, caring, committed, respectful, protective and who has one need/option, and that is one woman to settle down with. Not multipe side chicks to f$#k with.
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls, I enjoy your content. But that’s not on brand for you. And it’s misleading. When you say “high value” it’s logical to think we, as women, believe it’s good. You preach healthy, happy helpful relationships. Don’t lead us to trouble. 🙏🏾 saying this with respect
Right! I'm Good on this, too much Im going to be good to me Genuine continue to work hard educate my self and if that's not enough than so be it...especially when I see women who doesn't do half of that with really successful counterparts .
High value refers to the value women place on them. Not the value they possess as men being good or not. They are highly sought after by women and there are fewer of them. They have their pick of women. That makes them hight value. It has nothing to do with being a good man. A lot of women aren’t chasing good men.
Kev, believe it or not, there are a lot of us who place high value on kind, caring, loving guys. Of course we want financially stable and responsible men, but it doesn't mean they have to be filthy rich. If some rich guy chooses me, it doesn't mean I'll choose him back. For me, it takes a lot more than simply money & status to call a man "high value". Bottom line, everyone picks their own definition of "high value" be it money or kindness or whatever one chooses.
In addition it is the value society places on them for being high earners.
This video is nothing but the truth, Kev. A hit dog will holler, as proven by some of these comments. Carry on, Kev!
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@@tomafackrell9377 Not THAT EITHER
To attract high value you should love and value yourself first
Hell yeah!
I disagree. Men attract women who are physically attractive and have all things self love isn’t one of them
Exactly!
Exactly...it’s this simple!!!
Well said, the 🔑
1. Be your best
2. Be genuine
3. Not available to them
4. Luxurious women
5. Highly successful women
A lot of women aren’t going to make the cut.
#5 is a lie! Alot of high value men do not want to feel as though they have to compete with a successful woman.
@@thelmathomas8414 that doesn’t mean it’s a lie.
I’m not competing with other females for a man. I want a man who sees me and knows he wants to get to know me and pursue me...
I’m a high quality woman, and I want a King who is looking for love, partnership, commitment, loyalty, purpose, growth, and destiny with his Queen. No games, competing, shallowness, and pretense. No outlandish standards, just being human, open, and honest..doing the work together to build up love and an empire together. I am the choice, not an option...
Well said to the core !
💯💯💯Well said!!! We don't accept less than we deserve. And when we are met with less than we deserve, we simply walk away.
People usually marry within their social class period.
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
Amen
I got broken so many times that instead of being bitter I chose to love myself more, have boundaries, and focus more on MY future and what I like. I also stopped settling and allowed myself to have "Options" too. I keep my energy protected so I don't change who I am and I keep myself happy. Now every thing is smooth and I have so much fun and smooth relationships with so many different men now. I'm true to myself and they love it. I also don't f*ck with bums no more. Not even for entertainment.
🙌🏿 Sounds like you figured it out. I'm reading "Men Don't Love Women Like You" and that's exactly what he says to do.
@@tinker2217 YES! That book was a game changer. The truth hurts
@@tinker2217 Cool. I haven't read that, but I did watch a lot of videos this year because last year was a bad year and I said 2020 was gonna be the last.
@@kirsten1007 The truth does hurt. I had to get real with myself. I dug deep inside of myself.. forgave myself and accepted my "flaws" until I found a way to love them, got patient with myself. Allowed myself time and opportunities to heal and to learn/grow.. Now I rarely get upset with men anymore and vice-versa, because now that I know better, I do better,
and I'm a better me.
@anelle Wiley Nooooo the key is to focus more on yourself, but if you been doing that, then you could try stepping outside of your box and make a couple random approaches to see how that works out, or also learn how to online date safely and smartly. We ain't getting no younger, we gotta try new things and step outside our comfort zones. There are so many different angles to finding good affection and attention. Gotta make that first step.
Ain't no shame in the game.
Whoever is reading this may God bless you with the desirers of your heart in the name if Jesus Amen!
Amen!
Thank you. Amen.
Thank you
Amen
Amen
So basically success attracts success.
Simply put👏🏻
This is the first time I actually disagree with him I see plenty of women who are not successful that are married to successful men and I found that I see that they are attracted to women who are not..amd the competitive thing makes me ill
@@themanyfacesofangiek1244 right
@@themanyfacesofangiek1244 Agreed
What’s interesting is that a lot of these traits are masculine. In my experience men that have these ‘standards’ are looking for women who are masculine and are usually switch hitters behind the scenes.
At least that’s what I’ve seen up close.
It’s so hard to find a truly successful man who’s actually MASCULINE and looking for a powerfully feminine counterpart that adds value in ways that he both can and can’t. Most highly successful men I’ve noticed are successful as a compensatory mean to fill their emptiness and as a bandaid for their baggage and unfinished childhood business.
Being with high value men is not that great. They work super long hours. Their careers are a priority. Plans get cancelled because of work. He's always running late because of work. The limited time he does have to spend with you will be interrupted by work. On his downtime, it will be all about him and his needs and you will be expected to cater to him and there'll be very little time left for him to give back to you. You'll be left alone a lot, you'll often wonder if he's forgotten about you, most of the time your life will feel no different to when you were single. Except now there's an aching hole in your heart from where you made space for him. Yes, you landed yourself a high value man. He picked you out of all the other women throwing themselves at him. What an amazing ego trip. Is it worth it?
Get a life
Thanks for that reality check.
That sounds like a man who’s not interested. High value men know how to make time for what they want.
So true, especially after marrying to them you feel more lonely than ever. He's always working, I'm not super rich lady but I'm an upper middle class I dont need a man keep working for money. Family & love is my priorities
That's not a high-value man. That's a money/work/career-focused person who can't balance between people he cares about and work. He might just not care about you enough to give you what you deserve or he could be a workaholic type A personality and you should run not walk away from those types of people
The video should be named "Attract Financially Successful Men" not "High Value Men". Financial success doesn't necessarily mean high value. These rich guys will have options for sure but it doesn't guarantee that they will be kind, caring, respectful, compassionate.
Couldn't agree more, high value is NOT the same as financially successful= some with narcissistic tendencies.
Agreed. That was a very VERY narrow definition of "high value".
That part. 💯
9 times out of 10 high value men are financially successful men, or at the minimum they are men with a very high personal prerogative to provide and protect. If they’re not financially successful, they’re *about* to be, and they will have those same requirements for a woman as those Kev discussed above.
I dont see a superficial man as high value man, this guy only tells woman what they need to do to get a man, his voids are so bias.
Agreed! Physical appearance is highly important. Invest in yourself to get the best of the best.
"When 2 people solely focused on these things come together, it's a fair exchange" 😂😭
I feel like those days are gone.
LOL Kevin 😂😂
Sorry not sorry Successful men only marry unsuccessful women who only want to be a successful🤣🙄 man's wife! I'm yet to see successful men secure enough to Marry successful women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is interesting because a lot of successful women are single🤔
Right 🤔
Exactly!!
Successful and masculine
And how many successful men are with successful women besides Obama?
@@angelicathompsonph.d.2003 not many and thus us why I really like Kevin but he is Human and definitely dropped the ball with this one
The idea of what a high value man is, is debatable
Highly.
Hey ladies .. this is true what Kevin is saying .. when your unavailable at times this is what makes a man desire you ... don’t always answer him when he calls ,make him wait .. A man knows he suppose to wait on a woman...you are no door mat you are a high value woman ♥️🤗
@Tj Gard right then the guy might think she playing games and then it’s a set up for failure. Nothing wrong with letting a man or your man know you want all his time lol 😆
INDEED, DONT MAKE YOURSELF TOO AVAILABLE TO A MAN.
@@lizbonita5289 u SAID it sis, your MAN not men that are courting you who havent established rather you are a long- term mate .
Right. I agree. Cancel a date or two also...tell him “Oh, I have to work later than usual tonight, let’s reschedule .” Or “ I forgot I promised a friend I’d meet up with them it, totally slipped my mind” never be TOO available.
@Tj Gard she’s really not wrong tho...she’s 100% correct. Better take notes.
*Sadly, high value doesn't mean high quality. Most so called high value men are simply high earners, that's it.*
Correct. But to women who prioritize that they are high value. Demand decides a products cost not quality. Scarcity multiplies cost.
@@KevHick I agree to an extent. However, I can almost bet money that a man came up with the term" high value" because to men, their value is determined financially. Quality DEFINITELY creates a demand as well. People will pay more for a certain type of headphones for instance than others because of this.
This.
High on themselves lol
kev you are the most articulate, to the point, lay back at the same time dude ive ever seen. i havent watched your videos latley cuz i rotate depending on the season im in but just know you are the best that ever did it bro seriously. respect.
To Women:
Worldly success does not make a man high value. And any man who considers his value based off his position and wealth is a fool. Worldly success such as wealth, status and position is a false sense of security. I will give you a scenario to illustrate what I'm talking about.
In the movie Titanic, Rose had two options; Jack, the homeless man and her fiancé the wealthy man. When the ship hit the iceberg, none of the wealth or status that Rose's fiancé accumulated in his life could buy his way out of the situation, though he really tried if you've saw the movie and could remember. The only way he got off the boat, was by playing a loving, caring single parent father.
Now Jack on the other hand, the one that most of you wouldn't even look his way because of him being homeless was the true treasure in the movie. Why? Because though he did not have lots of money or a place to stay at the moment, he had what most women miss all the time in a man they choose; which is a man who can see your best potential and bring it out of you. Jack had a skill (art) that could very well have turned out to make a lot of money with the right support. Jack was a survivor, he not only knew how to bring out the best in Rose, but he knew how to protect her, even from herself if you know what I mean. Jack truly loved her, while the wealthy fiancé saw her as another prize to his worldly collection of success.
In the end, Rose's fiancé was willing to kill her and Jack because he could not have her. But Jack at the end when he realized he would not make it, encouraged Rose that she will live on and have lots of babies and do all the things they had talked about doing even if it meant he couldn't be a part of it. My sisters, that is true love. That is where the true treasure is. And yes there are still men out there like that.
A man who truly loves you, will bring out the best in you and you will do the same for him if you are suitable to him. These are what destined life partners were meant to be to each other.
And yes I do believe in destined partners. Our lives were written by the LORD of Host Himself, therefore He knows whether or not you have a life partner in the future.
If this epidemic has taught us anything, its that life can drastically change at the snap of a finger. Businesses can go out and positions and statuses can be lost. Will you still love and respect your husband when he has lost everything? Will you still follow him? Sometimes we lose everything so that we can be made into something brand new; something far more pure and beautiful. So do not let the position of anyone fall into your judgement, you never know what or who that person could be to you.
Quit falling for the illusion that wealth, status or position is security, it is not. Everything can change in an instant. Your foundation with your future husband must be grounded in true unconditional love and understanding. Therefore if everything goes to crap and all we as humans have left is each other, your relationship with your man will still be strong because your foundation WAS NOT built on trusting in the security of a lie or an illusion rather. True security comes from a relationship with Elohim, your Creator. Not religion, RELATIONSHIP. For the LORD gives us peace that passes understanding. He is our strong tower, our shield, our soul provider. I can go on, but i will end it here. I hope this helped my sisters. May you find the best man suitable for you and you for him. God bless.
Well written
I just met one whose gonna be successful soon..he's assessing me and iam just being me, my best which I worked on for some time now..."when you start to take care of yourself, you start to feel and look better and you attract the best"
So true
Congrats girl you keep playing your cards right lol you look great btw ☺
Ladies, a simple list of tips you could perhaps find useful:
Be yourself, while being considerate of other people’s personal space and lives.
(Don’t be too loud, brash, vulgar etc.- i see it so so often!)
Don’t show interest before he has. Don’t text, don’t tell him he is “hot” (sadly, common as well, especially with girls on dating apps- check out youtube videos on what messages hot guys get on tinder), don’t fawn over him.
Stop being so impressed by looks, stop acting like groupies.
Never accept being f*ck buddies or FWB if you are looking to date/ a boyfriend / a relationship. No, the time spent together will not make him bond to you. Your accepting to be a sex toy when you want something else diminishes your value.
Don’t ask him out, don’t plan dates, don’t text him the day after sex. Suggest things to do once or twice, be proactive only when you’re regularly seeing each other.
Never text /call a man first after sex. I’ve seen it happen with my own eyes- guys will break the speed limit and literally check the time to count the hours , to text / call a girl they just slept with & truly like, so she doesn’t feel disrespected. They know it’s on them. Don’t ever do it.
Don’t pay compliments related to his physical appearance, unless it’s to remark a radical change (massive weight loss, dramatic haircut etc). Paying compliments to men is unnatural, mannish and almost repulsive.
Have dignity. If he cancels, isn’t consistent - don’t text, don’t ask anything- read the writing on the wall, be a lady and move on.
Know that a man hitting you up with ”wyd” or “wya” is minimum effort for fishing for the coochie, not him “coming back”. Don’t reply to “you up” messages .
Start demanding dates and have standards.
There is no amount of looks, money or good pipe to be once in a lifetime. The more you understand this, the faster MORE men will pop up, EVERYWHERE.
Be wise, calm, polite, don’t get violent, aggressive or ratchet. Nobody likes being verbally abused, especially when you barely know the other person.
Stop moving your hands when talking, drop the Kardashianesque - Valley girl linguistic patterns (“omigod”, “so rude”, “totally obsessed”). It boxes you in the same category with everyone else, and doesn’t let your true personality shine through.
Be yourself. I cannot stress this enough. Don’t over analyze, don’t overthink. Don’t know what to respond to a message?
Respond with what pops in your head, you don’t need to impress anyone, he has to impress you! Same in conversation. Bring up random topics, laugh, be natural and RELAXED.
And last, but not the least, because I’ve seen many girls struggle with how to convey their desire for a relationship, without sounding “desperate”. There is no such thing as desperate, if that’s what you want. However, you do have to convey your desire in a normal, healthy and reasonable way. The best way to put it has been, in my experience, “i am interested in dating and getting to know someone, to see if we are compatible for exclusive dating and being boyfriend -girlfriend “. It’s honest, simple, logical, natural, makes most sense.
Again- don’t be shy or intimidated, don’t be too much either, don’t be nervous!
I cannot begin to tell you the huge impact following these small things has had in my life, in general. Whilst i used to be an overthinker and stresser over any dude, i now date and chat with multiple men, feel so relaxed i sometimes forget to check my phone, act like myself and just feel good about life, in general! A dude doesn’t like me? Super! It’s his right! I move on, elegantly. I don’t hit him up, I don’t ask why, i simply am not there, I have mentally moved on. I don’t have the energy to analyze behaviours, or stress over someone else.
The amount of guys who just popped out of the woodwork is surprising to say the least. I have exes chasing me, a dude asking for dates all the time, a guy who wasn’t interested driving 45 km daily, after work, during a pandemic, to sit and have a beer in the park with me. Because i am MENTALLY RELAXED and myself. It works, great. It doesn’t- it will with someone else.
Keep shining, m’ladies!! Sorry for the long comment but someone had to say it! 👑❤️🥳
I read every word! This is really good advice!
Thank you. Spot on
Screenshotted. Thank you so much!!
Love the honesty! 💯🔥
I don’t want the richest man but I do desire a man who’s not living paycheck to paycheck.
I realize I have to be a good reflection/match for the type of man I desire because you don’t always attract what you want, you attract what you ARE!
The only thing I feel I’m missing is the financial lol ya girl been broke in this pandemic lol but I’m definitely ambitious and have solid goals to bounce back
LOL Kevin 😂😂
Sorry not sorry Successful men only marry unsuccessful women who only want to be a successful🤣🙄 man's wife! I'm yet to see successful men secure enough to Marry successful women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@PriyankaGupta-ew1li my spouse and I are both successful. How you measure success is different for each individual or couple. Success is not just riches as far as money. Riches in other ways is a great trait to possess as well
I already carry myself according to all 5 points you mentioned and I am living my best life and focused. A high-value man should come soon. Also, having high standards chases boys away, real men step up to meet standards.
This is so true. I know my value, will not try to conform to what a man wants in order to "get him". Men know when women know their value.
Wow I just totally failed on the last relationship!! Thanks Kevin ! Your advice is always accurate!
Brilliant advice!
I also believe that a woman being too busy, most of the time is not good. HVM, once you're in a relationship with one, needs to know you are there, at home, providing an oasis of femininity, calm, respect, emotional support, beguiling beauty, honesty and plenty of loving as and when he needs it.
(He provides the ambition, financial support, etc, which are predominantly masculine traits.)
I'd have thought that too. I'm hearing so many contradictions, and men say that we are the confusing ones!
I agree...... this is the truth. You can do these and fill your time up with hobbies so being available isn’t an option. There’s always that thin line.
Stay strong Ladies! 💪🏽WE
Are The Prize!!!! 😍😘🥰
You've been watching that other UA-cam channel with that lady lol she cool :)
@@sophielorraine4654👀😂 You talking bout Breeny?
@@Lovelifleur No I was talking about @Sheraseven1 ☺️🙌
@@sophielorraine4654 i love Sheera🤣😂💁🏽♀️
This seems like reverse high maintenance if you will. Think I’ll just go it on my own or find someone that’s “my kind of genuine.”
Love the authenticity. Sounds like a good idea
1. Don't have kids out of wedlock
2. Be fit
3. Be submissive
4. Be feminine
5. Be cooperative
No BS, no sugar coating, straight to the point.
I just want to find a nice guy but I do need to work on myself. Great tips. Thank you.
It sounds to me that the high value men referred to here, aren't seeking to build a life, home and family WITH a woman, but more that they want a woman to fall in line with their own plans. That's not love to me at all. They sound shallow and selfish when it comes to anyone else, wife or not. What if the wife gets sick? Where will he be? They sound emotionless to me, and maybe they need an emotionless wife.
You damn right💯💯💯
Exactly!! I feel the same on this one. I was listenimg to Jaxon last night on this topic here and i believe in what je spole about than this one here.
That’s what it means to be a help mate. Did Adam fall into Eve’s plans or did Eve fall into what Adam and God had already established? A man of God would never leave his wife. He made a vow before God to stay by her side in sickness and in health.
I thought the same way.. even motivated productive people fall short sometimes. Sometimes the brightest and smartest of people people are hurt, depressed, have to deal with death, accidents and other problems life throws at them... they're not always filled with life and energy
One of the best videos I've watched, because am tired of these broke a** guys. I am a very ambitious woman doing well for herself as well so I think I do deserve a successful man🙈🙈
Well said. You do!
@@Thislife78-p1w thank you J🙃
Money ain't everything you superficial woman
I really appreciate your content. Every video I've watched is clear, concise, direct, useful and humorous!
I am a high value woman, I am educated, I have a thriving career, I have a small business that I am passionate about. I am a practicing Christian and I am no nonsense. I would definitely agree to a prenup because I have my own. However, a high value woman have priorities and can be busy so for me it’s about positioning myself to meet a like minded person. I am not readily available but I can plan my days how I want. I have plenty to do but for the right man...he will made the time and so will I. Stay high value.
This “high value man” you speak of sounds incredibly shallow that just wants a trophy wife! Next...
@@mufasahm8238 it is
I've recently started a level up phase in my life and now I do see that if you value, love and take care of yourself, you attract in turn, a levelled up type of person into your life. And those who clearly aren't growing and don't value themselves start to stick out like dog's balls & they don't seem like people that are worth the energy of dealing with. I don't get angry at what Kev is saying here. I kind of think it's mostly fair enough.
LOL Thank heaven someone pointed out😂😂
Sorry not sorry Successful men only marry unsuccessful women who only want to be a successful🤣🙄 man's wife! I'm yet to see successful men secure enough to Marry successful women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What’s interesting is that a lot of these traits are masculine. In my experience men that have these ‘standards’ are looking for women who are masculine and are usually switch hitters behind the scenes.
At least that’s what I’ve seen up close.
It’s so hard to find a truly successful man who’s actually MASCULINE and looking for a powerfully feminine counterpart that adds value in ways that he both can and can’t. Most highly successful men I’ve noticed are successful as a compensatory mean to fill their emptiness and as a bandaid for their baggage and unfinished childhood business.
What is a switch hitter
Damn your good,, I was just thinking about this
Yh. Not concerned about that type of man. I value genuineness, transparency, integrity, devotion, reliability.
I guess, someone like myself. :)
I have never had a man leave me. Why? My mother said never ever speak down to a man. Always point our the best in him. Every single person on this earth have different gifts. If you put down a man you have been with then you put yourself down because you choose him. Be yourself and be successful but do not put him down. Do not brag about yourself. Just be you. It will shine through and if he is interested he will be observing you. One of my sisters does not take care of herself and is always giving to others. She found a really good looking kind man and he said I fell in love with your sister because she has the kindest heart I have ever seen. My other sister and I are always telling her you need to take better care of yourself. But I have to give credit to my mother who taught us that everyone matters and gave us confidence. My mother taught all three of us to cook but my food was so awful I felt discouraged but mother said you have other talents and one day you will find it so be patient. I realized I was good with building things so for my birthday I got a ladder. Still have it to this day. Love you all.
I used to demonize men who seemed to put so much importance into how a woman looks. Over time as I've learned more about how men think, it's like... why wouldn't they want a trophy wife? If they worked THAT hard to the point of being in the top 10% or earners, they SHOULD have a trophy wife. And she should live a life of luxury where she can spend all her time doing the beauty upkeep that she so enjoys, if she wants. It really shouldn't hurt anyones feelings.
Why are people so vain?
Why do men want other men looking at his woman? Surely that's a threat.
@@purplemonsoon8376 Because they want to feel like they have a "prize." Everyone wants to be coveted, to have what others desire. That's the reason most people drive flashy cars. Because they like the attention.
@@angelicathompsonph.d.2003 why do many men end up fighting because one of them looked at the other's gf, then?
They clearly are bothered by the perceived threat.
You're the brother/nephew/cousin/uncle I never had. Damn, where you been, Kev??? Once again, I thank you!🙏🏾
My pleasure! Thank you cuz😁
Thank you another awesome video! I need to get busy on my life! 🙏🙌Praise Yahuah for this breath of life!
If you haven't already could you make a video for single mothers?
I LOVE being a single mom. My handsome boys value a strong woman. I've shared some of the most respected conversations about nearly EVERYTHING, with no judgement. I've learned I'm better single raising them and will have THE MAN when my youngest leaves the nest. My boys have seen enough of who I'm NOT interested in lol. They're gonna attract solid woman.
@@menuofgrace It would be lovely for them to see a man loving their mom and actively teaching them how to treat a woman. We set the tone for how our kids respond in relationships. I think it's important to give them a model.
@@denik9614 without a doubt! I know my limits and my sons know all about value..found my upgrade button btw lol. The environment I create for them is strong with or without a man. Intelligence is a loaded word in every sense and my daughter-n-laws will be legit and well respected.
That is why I never sought out this type of man. I'm just an average woman & always felt I was out of this type of man's league, but I did witness many men like this dating down and making exceptions for very beautiful women who didn't have their ish together, but were young with time on their hands and they saw potential in these females. I was even once seen as this type of female by a few higher value men when I was younger ( in my forties now). I do agree that success attracts success, however. My bff's granny and my Aunties told me early a good, successful man Doesn't want a Liability. I later found that to be true. Good advice young man! I only wish I had a big brother figure like you years ago!
This video got me confused...is the man the prize or the woman.
To the women chasing them they are.
@@KevHick 😂
@@KevHick lmfao
@@KevHick lol
Right 🤷♀️
This is awesome Kevin. You are sooo full of wisdom that I saved this video!!!
What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul. If that man doesn't have a relationship with God he is NOT a "High Value Man" He is putting his trust in his own efforts and money and not depending on God. Especially since God is the one that created him.
Amen 🙏🏼
100%
Hunny💯💯💯facts. There is such a thing as being unequally yoked in a relationship. Find a man who is equally yoked. In these trying times many couples are breaking up even stable, secure couples. The culprit......... Unequally yoked. They may love each other, be best friends. But if they don't have God in their lives, their relationship is bound to crumble. The Devil is super busy during these challenging times. Evilness is increasing. Our only hope is God. A family/couple that prays together stays together.
This message is 100% true! Spot on!
You can have all this but if you're not their type physically....
Exactly!!!! It won’t matter to him, and I think this is where so many single successful women miss it.
Thank you for this! I now have my mind made up. I don't want a man. I'd rather be happy alone. Sounds like too much trouble. In the end, we are all just people. I will keep my head down and try to be out of sight to a man when I have both of my degrees and career going. I will have everything and be happy without a man. I don't need that stress or headache. That's just my humble opinion.
Can we please move away from money and career "success" being the benchmark for getting a 'high value' man? Not everyone can work due to illness or disability, doesn't mean we're not motivated (to do the things we can do), doesn't mean we've got nothing to offer a man and certainly doesn't mean that we don't deserve.a loving relationship.
To be honest, I wouldn't want a man who only thinks about money, sees me in $/£ signs or cares about expensive cars.
The sexiest men I know love nature, the environment, community, learning and being educators. That to me is 'high value'; not this capitalist BS.
High value refers to the value women place on them, not the value they possess.
Sorry Kev, while I appreciate and follow your content & advice a lot, this isn't what was conveyed in this video. I think the message has got a bit confused here
No. HVM is financial. HQM (High Quality Man) is character/personality.
Good stuff. Thanks, Kev!
Kev Thank you so so much!!!i needed this,you always come through💞you always make sense and things you say actually work
That's why I wanted to find love before my success comes...but it didnt happen like that...how I really hoped it would, so I'm like F it. Lol
Man of wisdom, thanks so much for this video I really do appreciate.
I'm loving myself, not wasting my time
I watch all your videos..but please tell me your definition of "high value man" coz what i see is "high earning luxury lifestyle living man" and in those cases..your points are valid but for many of us.. "High value man" is someone who treats us with respect and is genuinely interested in us even when we are not highly money ambitious kind of women. The one who can envision spending their life with us and love us & commit to us. Please clear out your definition.
This is how you land a Kev Hick or a Matthew Hussey! 🙌
😀😃😃😃
I attract them all the time but I never want them back & ones I want back are weird. smh I deserve no one 😔
The 4th explanation, was very well said. If anyone doesn’t understand that fair exchange. Then hey. Thank you for your words.
I Love you Kev! You said aforementioned! And you said it so nonchalantly. I've never heard anyone say aforementioned outside of a courtroom😁
He’s not rich but a king for sure(has a meaningful career) I need to learn not to lose him w my crazy ass 😭 he came in at my worst
Prenups can be used as a defensive tool for women. If he wants to cheat or abuse you already have your deal on the table makes it easier to walk away. Protect yourself! Education is so important
I knew you would do a great job on this topic. Best of all I love that you’re married. A husband is an excellent source.
Here bc I subscribed based off the video showed up on my feed about your son and wife💕
So basically Kev, I'm screwed.
@Juanita Wright you are so sweet. Thanks so very much. God bless you! 🙂
@Juanita Wright you're welcome.
Thank God I just found you !! 🤗You are just amazing. My whole life is clarified by watching your videos 🙂 Stay blessed and keep shining brother 💛❣️
100% I feel this way towards men. Guy I did love only offered loved and had nothing else to offer. I had to let him go he didnt want to strive for more or earn more. He was ok with the lowest if every form. So ofc I decided to move on. Hes a lovely person but hes not for me.
I get it! Nice classy counter attack! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 From one Kev to the 🤓.
You are very refreshing to listen to. Thank you for the great content!
Rules...
Great Video..
Yeah, yeah. Just be a beautiful instagram chick.
Wonderful channel 👏 ❤ 😀 🙌 💖 😊
Look y’all find you a man that loves and cares about you and will work hard to provide for his family and y’all click... boom that’s it. Cuz all this is just just to much to go through lol
Hmmm too much stress but it's ok, I like the bluntness.
Hmm. Interesting
Always value yourself!!!🖐👍🏼🙏🧐🌺💥💜💞💐
I realized your definition of high value is not exactly the same. I agree with pre-nup, success, working and having your own life, ect......I don't agree that a high value man has to drive expensive cars or look for women who do the same. You hit the spot at the end. It sounds more like a narcassist than a high value man. High value people don't have to show off what they have they have. They already know it in their heart they don't need the world's approval.
I was recently approached by a wealthy man. I didn’t know his wealth until a while after anyhow. But he did tell me I stood out because I wasn’t a yes woman yet I was feminine and submissive all at the same time.
Facts
Your mind is amazing.
Food for thought
Ah now I get it! Kev, I hear on the UA-cam “Black gender wars” opposition to all of these qualities you’ve named in the vid. Those men opposed to these type of women (high value/quality) are financially and morally broke!
Very good information here! 👍🏾👌🏼
You attract the value that you already are.
Years later I dont know what made you do youtube but you're doing a good job .... thank you i don't know if you got cash app or PayPal ill donate without a session
SUCCESSFUL MEN WILL DUMP YOU FOR A 20 OLD ONCE YOUR WRINKLES START TO SHOW ,THEY CHEAT OPENLY TOO SO IF YOU WANT TO STAY MARRIED YOU GOTTA STAY QUIET OR LEAVE BROKE !
SADLY LOOKS DO MATTER
Exactly. I need a man to love me for things that are more than skin deep, otherwise it's just a waiting game before it ends... women don't mind when men age. It's natural. Why do they have an issue with it!
Thank you, you always give very good advices 💙
Pretty Much! Sounds about right!💯
This was great❤
You are a blessing 🙏🏽🏆😊
First of all I love most of Kevin's videos. I'm a high value woman and I know my worth. I do not agree with Kevin's 4 point that high value men seek women who are succesful in material things like wealth. From most of his other videos kevin stated that high value men look for women who love themselves. Women who set boundaries. Women who are goal oriented. Its the same with men. No high value woman is going to fall for a man's wealth who clearly is insecure and has a bad character. It's the man's character that matters, not his wealth. Yes, he must have a decent salary and be independent. But to say that high value men look for women who are wealthy is like saying that high value men look for women who are physically attractive, and if they are not, they are not considered high quality. That fourth trait threw me off👎...Wealth, status etc are all forms of a woman's appearance. It does not define her character!
They are high value because they are sought after. Not because they are decent. They are the few wanted by the many because of their prosperity and way with women. I didn’t say “good men” I said high value. Meaning in the market they are highly valued by women. Women give them value not money.
@@KevHick I don't value money. My man doesn't need to have a billion dollars. Neither does he have to be dirt poor. But a decent salary with a GOOD CHARACTER makes a man high quality. And many high value women DON'T want a rich dirt bag. They want a man who is loyal, caring, committed, respectful, protective and who has one need/option, and that is one woman to settle down with. Not multipe side chicks to f$#k with.
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls, I enjoy your content. But that’s not on brand for you. And it’s misleading. When you say “high value” it’s logical to think we, as women, believe it’s good. You preach healthy, happy helpful relationships. Don’t lead us to trouble. 🙏🏾 saying this with respect
"Candidates for his love" yikes!
Right! I'm Good on this, too much Im going to be good to me Genuine continue to work hard educate my self and if that's not enough than so be it...especially when I see women who doesn't do half of that with really successful counterparts .
IM GETTING A HEADACHE TO THIS DATING THING TO MUCH 🙄
Right?! & to say " So if you're fishing for these guys exclusively..." has me in the wrong video to take advice from.
Excellent !
Thank you for this series.
Excellent video ❤
Love your advice ~ 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Still a great channel.
Love this! God bless you.
I’d rather be attractive to a high quality Man than a high value Man any day. Value is on the outside, quality is within😉
I think this World is so hard for women, we need to be perfect haha
Hey there my therapist. This is great. information.