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In the previous video u actually debunked the idea of having a blue cut lens is better 😂😂😂. Nice upgrade.. BTW big fan keep doing good about ur topics❤
@@ryugaop06 because of social media... Now people have many choices, if I ever get into any serious relationship, I'll delete all the social media and only commit to my partner... Also social media creates fake expectations which spoils relationships
Dating has become a competition nowadays. People don't want someone who is suitable for them and can form a genuine connection but a person who can keep them entertained for longer time like a clown in a circus.
I am a 25 year old GEN-Z guy. I have been forever single and virgin. Never been into dating and hookup. I only want either meaningful relationship or I would go for Arranged Marriage
It's not just GenZ but for almost all ages. It's just that GenZ are able to talk about this more using social media. Loneliness has always been an issue, it just wasn't one that was made worse by social media before.
Older generations were community oriented. But we destroyed that, in the name of destroying patriarchy. Well, it was unequal in power, but with unequal responsibilities. Today, we have equal power, but unequal responsibilities. And men are having same responsibilities as before, but less power compared to before.
Apne hi generation se generation gap feel hota hai.. Friends call me 'boring' as they're busy in hookups, double triple dating, one night stand, friends with benefits while I'm still searching for old-school love
Disagree brother, ofcourse social media pe hoga yeh but if you took the time and developed your personality you would find things differently. I've seen it personally. A famous such example is Patrice o neal.
Unbiased youtuber is back All jokes apart, india has serious issues of loneliness, it all starts from the roots Also these dating companies know they have a big market in India, and are exploiting that to the fullest
It's better to buy a gaming PC to have fun and pass the time rather than wasting your time, money, and energy on self-centered Gen Z individuals. These Gen Z folks can drain your energy, time, and resources. Instead, focus on achieving something meaningful in your life. Eat healthy food, exercise regularly, read books, and become a lifelong learner. Spend less than you earn, live a simple life, and avoid showing off. Avoid toxic people,toxic food, and toxic drugs. Keep your life private, limit social media use, and avoid multitasking. Explore mountains, go hiking, and concentrate on increasing your earnings and making long-term investments. Be a high-quality person, and the right person will come into your life naturally. Don’t chase them, attract them.
dog is also a good option........... may be dog can be helpful in maintaining workout consistency like walking, playing........... cz fellow mates also sometimes may be lazy also😅
As a gen z I thankfully don't follow any so called gen z norm I am a proud Hindu I respect my parents,elders and country I hate western culture I hate relationship shit
Cheating is not a western concept. It exists in all countries and cultures. Before Indians used to cheat in secret and now due to social media they're getting caught.
Golden word is : jisko bhot saare partners change karne ki aadat lag chuki hai vo kabhi bhi ek ke sath settle nahi hoga that's why you should never choose partner who have more then 1-2 relationship in past
Hookup culture is for women and for those men who have looks like Greek gods. Rest of us men, well, we just have to accept that dating in this country is a party where we were never invited.
I'm 28 and I met this girl in tinder. Talking to her felt like there's no girl more understanding than her and I started liking her. Eventually we fell in love and started dreaming about our future. She was very transparent with me and always shared with me details about his male friends with whom she used to talk and they were just friends. But since she was my gf i used to feel jealous of her talking to other guys late night. I still kept consoling myself that they are just her friends. Today she broke up with me saying I'm not good enough and not understanding enough and that this breakup will also affect her emotionally. I hope she is happy wherever and with whoever she is.
Girl with male friends: ✅️ Girls with male besties and friends with benefits: ❌️ Ladko k liye v applicable hai kyuki un haramiyo k wajah se hi tumhari bandi tumko chhodke jaa rhi hai
Truuee😂😂, Back in our Clg in Bangalore we just edited our friend's face to make him look like a girl(and a hot one too😂) It got 2000+ swipes on Bumble in like 3 hrs. And the studiest stud of our batch got only 2 😔😂
I've been trying to date someone here in Mumbai for a week and still got zero matches and I'm 5'10 guy with good looks 😅the dating scenario is shitty for us boys
Hmm...as a millenial guy i can give an advice to you GenZ guys from my experience. I have remained single for several years (partially by choice) and have been with women of different countries as well. Hoping this comment don't get deleted 1. Problem with indian boys is severe lack so self confidence and self respect......this isn't just a genZ thing..... generations older than us were biggest smps u will find anywhere in world. Most indian boys are badly beaten and shouted at homes&schools...guilt-tripped by parents and almost never have money till they start earning..... keeping them out of any dating possibility. 2. Indian boys have scarcity mentality cos of pt.1 and are largely desperate to get any gurl possible in younger years(since their thinking is ...."bhai koi nhi mil rhi koi to mil jaye"). 3.No one admires someone who rolls on floor infront of them.. movies like those of SRK &their scarcity mindset makes most indian boys basically roll on floor in front of girls to be with them just for outing......those girls obviously dont respect such guys and take full advantage in draining their money. 4. One simple solution that had worked for me is....... have self -respect and improve yr looks/personality...be fun to be around.vAnd dont have any expectations....if some girls come well&good else dont chase....no one likes a dumb chaser.. bollywood has lies to you. 5. Dont listen to advice of men over 40 yrs age....be it that acharya or that gurgaon property seller uncle...they are caught in their prism of when they were desperate youngsters...and superimpose it on u guys Also their main aim largely is to get praise from neighbours(like jethalal). 6. once u start getting lot of physical rel, u start realising it isn't as exclusive as ppl around u make it out to be. Better watch corn to get satisfied when u have no one (dont overdo it),play games with homies.....lewrn to enjoy by yourself, that's almost like a superpower. 7. Indian society dont care AT ALL about men in age 18-35... including relatives. Everyone wants u to either give them your money or your effort....and in return can only give u emotional manipulation/shaming in return. Find your hobbies and people that genuinely can help u if situation gets tough(like rwal close friends).
apna philosophy simple hai, Do not go on social media to search a partner. Do not date someone whom you don't know personally. Either stay single or propose to someone whom you know personally, classmate or colleagues.
@@cam0987 i don't agree best is talk with them slowly slowly ask for marriage and have self respect don't be desperate that's it and don't feel bad because of broke up from other side
Loneliness epidemic in Japan is more overhyped because it's Japan and it will get more views in social media. Every country has this problem but majority indians doesn't address this issue, meanwhile saying we are traditional. I know several people who are cheating even thou they are married and has few year old kid. Both husband and wife are cheating but they had to stay together because of parents of both sides. Cheating is also a problem, also majority of cheaters doesn't get caught.
Relatable! It happened with me during lockdown. Every word of your, I have experienced personally. I got reality check in 2021. Instead of cursing those moments, I cherish the, those time taught me a lot and today I am away from all kinds of toxic Gen-z things including social media, focused on my career and soon will be joining government job.
I only heard these words in foreigners' scary dating stories lol never thought these will reach India so soon. And I live in a tier 2 city tho its close to Mumbai so might be that's why
Porn ko reality maanne se yahi hoga. Wo fantasy hai, "artwork" hai, usko waise hi dekho. Jo log is baat ko samajhte hai, wo ya to porn nhi dekhenge or agar dekhenge v to movie ki tarah isko imaginary samjhkar dekhke mazey leke chhod denge
@@abhishankpaul hana yaar lekin isme humare education ki bhi galti hai bachon ko sex education nahi dete iss wajah se bache porn ko hi sex education maan lete hai toh jitna gen z bachon ki galti hai utni humare system or thinking ki bi hai
The biggest reason behind this 'loneliness' epidemic in every country is that people have become very entitled and rude. If people were just kinder to each other and less self-interested there wouldn't be this problem
Mera toh simple hai naa kabhi insta,fb, Snapchat chlaya or dating site toh kya hii bawaseer चीज hai So seedha baat jo ladki insta, fb ye sab bawasir nhi chalati hogi or well mannered cultured girl hogi whi meri bandi hogi simple as that 🙏
As a genZ who don't use any social media and dating apps except for UA-cam and whatsapp i don't even know about these relationships terms and coming from a traditional family i have a hope for arrange marriage and feels like a lot better than these days dating culture.
Guys just go out in the world and start travelling. You will really meet many good people with various skills and that will enhance your thinking as well.
I am tired and fucked up with this shit. I am an complete old school amongst a bunch of GenZ so it's becoming next to impossible to find people or even a partner/bestfriend of the same mentality who is like old school becaue for me my close one's being of GenZ mentality going to clubbing is something I can't tolerate. So comment section help me.
Happy for you mate! Just a word of caution though - life hasn’t happened to both of you yet. That’s all I have to say. Be together through thick and thin.
Relationship se accha job mei invest kro... vha connections bnao, future mei tumhe hi Kaam ayenge. Fir business khada kro. Relationship se kai guna behtar hai ye
This is how you eventually end up with population crash. There is a survey which says world population is heading towards population crash, all developed countries are facing negative birth rates, India will soon follow this trend. When something as deep and meaningful as a relationship can be sold on an app, human emotions like commitment, love, trust become scarce. Eventually the population looses trust in relationships and prefers to remain single, thus not getting married and no procreation happens, ergo population crash.
@@ayushghosh2000 Partly agree with you but definitely not at the cost of our social fabric. If we lose our trust in the marriage institution, then it's game over for us as a society.
as a gen z mujhe lagta h bc jee se jyada terms toh ek relationship me h 😂. DTR, delulu, solulu, benching, breadcrumbing, situationship, catfished etc, etc btw the only social networking app i use is reddit so i was kinda familiar with these terms also the girl restaurant story originated from reddit
1970s me baal vivah, zabardasti shaadi, too many kids with financial burden, domestic violence, loneliness sb tha bhai, 1970s ka pyaar and 1970s ka filmo wala pyaar are different. Back then there was hardly any concept of love in marriage.
I left social media’s except UA-cam and WhatsApp it’s been 3years. Best decision anyone can take at first there will be urge and loneliness but later on you will live your best life ,a life without anxiety toxicity and things like that. Social media’s are causing from riot to mental illness everything negative mostly more than positive.
You would be surprised my friend. While the problem is a lot bigger in Tier 1 cities, Internet has acted as a great equalizer and the problem of upper echelon has sneakily sipped in the lower tiers as well.
I also used dating apps. It's heavily favoured to girls. It's not for men. I got a match..even then it was horrible. It's much better to have a personal connection. Most preferably at work.
I am genZ and I hate these type of social media loves , I believe in offline love mean jab tak koi mil nhi jaata tak too mai shayad single hii rahu koi chata hi nhi hai ki bhar ghume,Samartphone f*ked this generation😢😢
Loneliness is killer. But dont use social media Or dating apps, but pray and pray and pray to God and never ignore the parents when young. They are our backbone they are there with us hameshs. But never treat mama and papa as bad people. Jai hind
The speed at which you threw all those terms, my mind stopped working. I really feel extremely lucky to be a 90s kid. Golden era! Sahi time pe nikal gaye aur shaadi kar li :D
Also the desirability of a woman is high in that age range slowly getting to its peak and then a rapid decline while the desirability of a man steadily increases till his late 30s or even 40s (if they’re focused on maximizing their stats of course), hence by the time a girl comes to her senses and start looking for a “nice” guy, the nice guy has moved up a level and now vying for girls who are more “desirable” than her. Yeah, it’s a messed up world.
Maybe dada dadi ka time mere according utna zada modern nhi hoga but atleast love ko love ki hi nazar se dekha jata hai ( im not talking about those rubbish wedding in which ladki ladkey ya ladka ladki ko jaanta hi nhi tha bss 15-16 ki age me shadi hogyi) ustime pe bhi modern loog thay please note that jo ek "healthy" Dating ka concept follow krtey thay
Don’t worry guys, money is everything, try to run after money , you won’t even imagine what you get. Live a life happily, you only live once. Why to waste on someone.
That's why i subscribed Open Letter after unsubscribing all UA-camrs forcing men towards dating apps. I love loneliness, it sucks but way better than being puppet of relationship and dating trap. ❤😂😂
Bhai mai bhi 1999 ka born hu 25 ka hone wala hu iss August mai aur ek baat boluga ki dating apps now a days use for hookup basically sex aur real life mai unki himmat nhi hoti ki woh ek ladki se ta ladke se face to face baat kre kyoki wha paar time effort lgta hai aur inko sirf Johnny sins banna hai
everyone is busy finding someone , its kind of like a fomo , we don't want to but the surroundings make us feel to do. everyone just searching for someone as a life partner but when it doesn't work then that guy just go mad and download the apps to find the attachment cause there is no time in this new world that you grief u need to move on as fast to cope up with the world.
My advice to the guys You can do two things, if you want to, you can also just follow your own path 1. Either try to fit in, get constantly rejected as the average guy is not attractive in the eyes of women and when you are financially sound/in a good position, in your later years, then all those women who ignored you will now be ready to commit to you(basically use you and the stability you will provide) OR 2. Be the best version of yourself, look where you are, if you have the potential go for finding a partner, that means good looks, height, good with money, etc. And if not then just ignore finding a partner but build your self up as you will have to live your life alone, try to improve yourself, in every way, health, physique, money, etc. Invest in yourself and try to be happy, don't build your character around women, you can do better, I might trigger some but remember, it's the guys who are left alone at the end
There is a downside to blue cut lens , if a light source is behind your face the back light's blue spectrum hits your eyes directly. And hurts more than protects from laptop
"अध्यात्म" Ko apne jeevan ka kendra banao aur Moh , Lob , Kaam , Krodh se chhutkara pao , ...aur Adhyatm Journey shuru karne ka sabse achha marg pustake hoti hai kyuki vo humare soyi hui Chetna ko jaga deti hai ,...So start with Bhagwat Geeta ji ❤ Jai Radhekrishna ❤ May Radheshyam ji show path to Everyone 😊
When u feel alone, walk around the city or town. I've done that when I felt, it gave some peace of mind to rejuvenate. Especially near to nature. Anyways time changes,now I'm settled with family & a good job. I'm a 90s born, not genZ btw
I think if a girl wants rich husband then a man should ask for a women with no past ❤ It should be a men's choice But he also should be like mard ka bacha with no past ❤
I can remember my childhood days ... Every community, gali, mahulla used to have a tea shop or a place where older people used to chat all together.... The ladies used to gossip and the kids used to play together in the grounds .... Even if the neighbour runs out of some spices they used to come and ask for it and it wasn't a shame.... Everybody knew everybody. The mornings were slow with traditional & hindu Sanskritik music & tea , newspapers, some used to practice art & music .... Then they go to study , school, comeback and go straight to the playground.... Those 2-3 hours used to feel like a lot more than that.... Whenever there was a blackout... People used to come out of their homes with " haricanens " a type of lantern... They used to have meaningful conversations,,, older people used to tell meaningful stories to children....not like our time where everything is messed up....no communication at all even with so much communicative mechanism.... It's all machine now ... Not humane 😅
My wife and I first met through Tinder 😂... Never took this app seriously.. but here I met the best person in my life... These apps definitely help... But you've to be careful though 😅😅
@@Saho717 tumse bada chaman koi nahi hai iss duniya me 😊 Past se hi future ka decide hota hai, past se hi character decide hota hai, past se hi decision making samajh aata hai..😊 Shekhar Dhawan, hardik pandya, md shami bhi apni wali ki past ignore Kiya tha 💀
It doesn't affect me at all, because I see this as a game, those who aren't getting it are crying. Better they learn the game before playing. This applies to everywhere in life
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In the previous video u actually debunked the idea of having a blue cut lens is better 😂😂😂. Nice upgrade.. BTW big fan keep doing good about ur topics❤
ये genz genz क्या है ये genz genz 😂😂
Bhai sponsorship itna chhota mention kiya h ki microscope se dekhna pad gya..
Dear brother how Hippocrates you are make sponsor on blue light glass in a video and call it scam in another video 😂
Bhai inka real name kya hai?
No of cheaters increasing in India which is sad .
It's not, it's just present day its much more difficult to hide as everyone is connected to social media
area bhai PUBG me bhi bht cheaters h aaj kl
hd h
calm down its satireeeee
@@Dli230exactly, if anything people are getting caught and are not forced to stay in relationships with cheaters
@@ryugaop06 because of social media...
Now people have many choices, if I ever get into any serious relationship, I'll delete all the social media and only commit to my partner...
Also social media creates fake expectations which spoils relationships
@@0ptic0p22😂😂
Dating has become a competition nowadays. People don't want someone who is suitable for them and can form a genuine connection but a person who can keep them entertained for longer time like a clown in a circus.
😂😂😂😊😅
sab single marenge ham, ye accept kr lo bhai aur kya
Don't include girls in it because they have so many choices, thanks to this simp generation.
I am a 25 year old GEN-Z guy. I have been forever single and virgin. Never been into dating and hookup. I only want either meaningful relationship or I would go for Arranged Marriage
Sotti?😂
Always see the girls past before arranging marriage. Never trust west bengal girls
Marriage is a trap to loot alimony 🤑 Maintenance 🤑 Property 🤑 child support 🤑
Or paid sex?
খুব ভালো 🙏👍
Excess of Social Media creates "FOMO" among its users. 💯💯
fomo means
Fear of missing out@@officialgamer6763
@@officialgamer6763Fear of missing out
Fear of missing out @@officialgamer6763
@@officialgamer6763 it means "Fear of Missing Out", and is spelt as "Bakchod log"
Dating app users 🤡
Guys who never installed 🗿
@@kunalborkarksb9554 guys who use Discord and Reddit: 🗿
Kid first clear ur 10th grade 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Jsjsjxjxjxnxnsskkznxnx tumne clear karke bhi kya ukhaad liya ? Ab bhi bhikhari hi hai na 😂
@@chanakya6735 yea bro like you
We use online video calling app 😅😅
Never downloaded any dating apps 🗿
Me 🗿
Also me 🗿( kya mtlb uske liye pehle 18+ hona pdta hai )
Yes.
@@sanatanithings +1
Isi baat ka ghamand hai🗿
I am never lonely Krishna is always with me who taught me the real meaning of love
(love means selfless devotion)
Hare Krishna
Bhai aap apne aap ko devote kr do work mein 16 16 ghnte kaam kro 😊😊😊
Hare krishna dandvat pranam
Hare Krishna
Congrats. ..U on best path,So good u can't even imagine
Hare krishna ❤💖💖💖🫀🫀🫀
Jay brahmachari
Acharya bano bhailog
Guru ya pandit bhi ban sakte ho
People are connected online but not offline.
Disconnected society
Fault of people or weak men who don't try
@@janiajain4618 tier 2 talks
It's not just GenZ but for almost all ages. It's just that GenZ are able to talk about this more using social media. Loneliness has always been an issue, it just wasn't one that was made worse by social media before.
He said genz way of dating! When he was talking about loneliness, he included all
True
Lol genz defending genz🥲
Older generations were community oriented. But we destroyed that, in the name of destroying patriarchy. Well, it was unequal in power, but with unequal responsibilities.
Today, we have equal power, but unequal responsibilities. And men are having same responsibilities as before, but less power compared to before.
Then build social skills to talk and make friends par nahi tumko sab ko toh Rand banna hai
Apne hi generation se generation gap feel hota hai..
Friends call me 'boring' as they're busy in hookups, double triple dating, one night stand, friends with benefits while I'm still searching for old-school love
Same here. Friends call me boring because I don't like smoking and drinking. Still because of peer pressure I did
@@UnknownNight-u5l same here..
I had to drink in peer pressure
@@UnknownNight-u5lI never did. Koo pressure mujhe hila nahi sakta 🗿😎
@@UnknownNight-u5l same here..
I had to drink because of peer pressure
Mera v same haal he vii😢.......old school love khojte khojte me khud old hota jaa rha hu
Lack of self respect and control over own mind is the cause.
Bro i am 28 and i have been living in Bangalore since 2022 , these apps are made for good looking people , if you are ugly you will be loyal.
💯
Womp womp
Ofcourse
Its basic commonsense
Disagree brother, ofcourse social media pe hoga yeh but if you took the time and developed your personality you would find things differently. I've seen it personally. A famous such example is Patrice o neal.
Never use Dating apps and never accept someone past
Yupp
Admin ne jaan bhujke comments like nhi kiya
Right 👍
Past is subjective I think.
A good person could be unlucky, be cautious.
💯
Unbiased youtuber is back
All jokes apart, india has serious issues of loneliness, it all starts from the roots
Also these dating companies know they have a big market in India, and are exploiting that to the fullest
Social media is taking people away from real friends...
It's better to buy a gaming PC to have fun and pass the time rather than wasting your time, money, and energy on self-centered Gen Z individuals. These Gen Z folks can drain your energy, time, and resources. Instead, focus on achieving something meaningful in your life. Eat healthy food, exercise regularly, read books, and become a lifelong learner. Spend less than you earn, live a simple life, and avoid showing off. Avoid toxic people,toxic food, and toxic drugs. Keep your life private, limit social media use, and avoid multitasking. Explore mountains, go hiking, and concentrate on increasing your earnings and making long-term investments. Be a high-quality person, and the right person will come into your life naturally. Don’t chase them, attract them.
that's the spirit no one can stop us 😊😊
Gaming yeah bro Iike it but no money 😅😢
@@soumyadipmukherjee6627😭😭😭 No money No Gaming 😭😭😭
dog is also a good option........... may be dog can be helpful in maintaining workout consistency like walking, playing........... cz fellow mates also sometimes may be lazy also😅
@@soumyadipmukherjee6627😭😭😭😭😭 No money No Gaming
As a gen z I thankfully don't follow any so called gen z norm
I am a proud Hindu
I respect my parents,elders and country
I hate western culture
I hate relationship shit
Sahi haii
Great. Appreciate that! I have the same ideology too.
Cheating is not a western concept. It exists in all countries and cultures. Before Indians used to cheat in secret and now due to social media they're getting caught.
Ur on best path. ..Jai shree krishna 🫀🫀🫀
Hindu with no caste
Proud Indian he might be 👍
But indian system is 👺💩
Golden word is : jisko bhot saare partners change karne ki aadat lag chuki hai vo kabhi bhi ek ke sath settle nahi hoga that's why you should never choose partner who have more then 1-2 relationship in past
Me ye dabe ke sath bol saktu hu apa ye batt sirf larkiyo ke lagu he..me ye soch ko samaj saktahu
yes
@@avishekpati2589 but girls ko bhi to player chahiye hote hai.
*Never been in a relationship. Now this is the Best
@@lookeshdas455same I'm 20
Hookup culture is for women and for those men who have looks like Greek gods. Rest of us men, well, we just have to accept that dating in this country is a party where we were never invited.
real
For real bro.😢
Ugly looking , dark skinned and poor people like me feels like i am not one of those people.😢
Better to dive into spirituality ❤
Not this country, everywhere
@@Yalla_Habibi_Cat1 if anyone is ugly and/or poor, they should always stay away from dating apps. Dark skin is a different issue
I'm 28 and I met this girl in tinder. Talking to her felt like there's no girl more understanding than her and I started liking her. Eventually we fell in love and started dreaming about our future. She was very transparent with me and always shared with me details about his male friends with whom she used to talk and they were just friends. But since she was my gf i used to feel jealous of her talking to other guys late night. I still kept consoling myself that they are just her friends. Today she broke up with me saying I'm not good enough and not understanding enough and that this breakup will also affect her emotionally. I hope she is happy wherever and with whoever she is.
💔
You should be aware of forming relationships with those girls who have male best friend. It is a red flag for you.
Male best friends hi red flag tha bhai😅
@@bhardwajsourabh4 girls with male besties are always red flag
Girl with male friends: ✅️
Girls with male besties and friends with benefits: ❌️
Ladko k liye v applicable hai kyuki un haramiyo k wajah se hi tumhari bandi tumko chhodke jaa rhi hai
Truuee😂😂, Back in our Clg in Bangalore we just edited our friend's face to make him look like a girl(and a hot one too😂)
It got 2000+ swipes on Bumble in like 3 hrs.
And the studiest stud of our batch got only 2 😔😂
😂😂😂😂
@@pranshu_Tewari tu hi vo darinda 🤣🤣🤣🤣jo ladko ka chutiya kaatta tha. 🤣🤣🤣
Boys ki desperation show karti hai ye
😂
I've been trying to date someone here in Mumbai for a week and still got zero matches and I'm 5'10 guy with good looks 😅the dating scenario is shitty for us boys
Hmm...as a millenial guy i can give an advice to you GenZ guys from my experience.
I have remained single for several years (partially by choice) and have been with women of different countries as well.
Hoping this comment don't get deleted
1. Problem with indian boys is severe lack so self confidence and self respect......this isn't just a genZ thing..... generations older than us were biggest smps u will find anywhere in world. Most indian boys are badly beaten and shouted at homes&schools...guilt-tripped by parents and almost never have money till they start earning..... keeping them out of any dating possibility.
2. Indian boys have scarcity mentality cos of pt.1 and are largely desperate to get any gurl possible in younger years(since their thinking is ...."bhai koi nhi mil rhi koi to mil jaye").
3.No one admires someone who rolls on floor infront of them.. movies like those of SRK &their scarcity mindset makes most indian boys basically roll on floor in front of girls to be with them just for outing......those girls obviously dont respect such guys and take full advantage in draining their money.
4. One simple solution that had worked for me is....... have self -respect and improve yr looks/personality...be fun to be around.vAnd dont have any expectations....if some girls come well&good else dont chase....no one likes a dumb chaser.. bollywood has lies to you.
5. Dont listen to advice of men over 40 yrs age....be it that acharya or that gurgaon property seller uncle...they are caught in their prism of when they were desperate youngsters...and superimpose it on u guys Also their main aim largely is to get praise from neighbours(like jethalal).
6. once u start getting lot of physical rel, u start realising it isn't as exclusive as ppl around u make it out to be. Better watch corn to get satisfied when u have no one (dont overdo it),play games with homies.....lewrn to enjoy by yourself, that's almost like a superpower.
7. Indian society dont care AT ALL about men in age 18-35... including relatives. Everyone wants u to either give them your money or your effort....and in return can only give u emotional manipulation/shaming in return.
Find your hobbies and people that genuinely can help u if situation gets tough(like rwal close friends).
apna philosophy simple hai, Do not go on social media to search a partner. Do not date someone whom you don't know personally.
Either stay single or propose to someone whom you know personally, classmate or colleagues.
As girl, I agree
@@cam0987 i don't agree best is talk with them slowly slowly ask for marriage and have self respect don't be desperate that's it and don't feel bad because of broke up from other side
Loneliness epidemic in Japan is more overhyped because it's Japan and it will get more views in social media.
Every country has this problem but majority indians doesn't address this issue, meanwhile saying we are traditional.
I know several people who are cheating even thou they are married and has few year old kid. Both husband and wife are cheating but they had to stay together because of parents of both sides.
Cheating is also a problem, also majority of cheaters doesn't get caught.
Thank God i don't have that's problem in my house but I hope i don't have to see this fat e
I'm loyal willing i don't want to be gulam
They are lonely bcz they don't live with their family and most don't even marry or have kids , japans declining population is no joke
Relatable! It happened with me during lockdown. Every word of your, I have experienced personally. I got reality check in 2021. Instead of cursing those moments, I cherish the, those time taught me a lot and today I am away from all kinds of toxic Gen-z things including social media, focused on my career and soon will be joining government job.
Ye benching
Breadcrumbing
Pata nhi kon konse word maine pehli baar sune
Though I live in South Delhi
😂😂
Uss bhai mai bhi pahli baar suna aur sun je lga ki ye benching to baithana hogya 😂
Ye words ka mostly girls ko pta hota hai kyuki ye sab girls side se hi jayda introduced hota hai
Same bro😅😅😅
bhai ye benching to suna thaa par ye dusra wala kya hai 😅
I only heard these words in foreigners' scary dating stories lol never thought these will reach India so soon. And I live in a tier 2 city tho its close to Mumbai so might be that's why
Gen z ka ek problem hai ki dating mai love partner ki jagah sexual attraction hai kyunki porn ne dimag kharab kar rakha hai
yes, one of the primary factors is porn addiction and exposure to pornography from a young age
@@viktori9p895absolutely true
@@viktori9p895
Social media is more dengerous than corn
Porn ko reality maanne se yahi hoga. Wo fantasy hai, "artwork" hai, usko waise hi dekho. Jo log is baat ko samajhte hai, wo ya to porn nhi dekhenge or agar dekhenge v to movie ki tarah isko imaginary samjhkar dekhke mazey leke chhod denge
@@abhishankpaul hana yaar lekin isme humare education ki bhi galti hai bachon ko sex education nahi dete iss wajah se bache porn ko hi sex education maan lete hai toh jitna gen z bachon ki galti hai utni humare system or thinking ki bi hai
Excellent message tosave Indian Boys....good job Bro...
well I'm also 18 years old and belong to Gen-z but I don't even know half of the terms....thank God I have never been in such types of situation
Same bro 😊
Your in my group great that not every person is running behind competition
@@RituKumari-gm7re han bro
The biggest reason behind this 'loneliness' epidemic in every country is that people have become very entitled and rude. If people were just kinder to each other and less self-interested there wouldn't be this problem
True
Reels or Tiktok Banane Wali se kabhi sadi mat karo Sirf Video Dekhne mei atchi lagti hai asli zindagi mei barbad ho jayegi
Reels or tiktok pr video banne wale ladke se kabhi shadi mat karo, zindagi barbad ho jayegi, pata hi nhi chalega ki ek sath wo kitni ko chala rha he
Mera toh simple hai naa kabhi insta,fb, Snapchat chlaya or dating site toh kya hii bawaseer चीज hai
So seedha baat jo ladki insta, fb ye sab bawasir nhi chalati hogi or well mannered cultured girl hogi whi meri bandi hogi simple as that 🙏
Dono seh hi sadi mat karo.
@@sumehra42tumhari itni kyun jaal rahi 😂
@@ShuklaJiihaibhaibandi ya biwi yeh fix karle 😂
कड़वी सच्चाई का मतलब है open letter ❤️!
As a genZ who don't use any social media and dating apps except for UA-cam and whatsapp i don't even know about these relationships terms and coming from a traditional family i have a hope for arrange marriage and feels like a lot better than these days dating culture.
Arrange Marriage is a Scam.
Arrange marriage is curse
Not knowing your partner is worst mistake
😂😂Delusionship: pat gayi bhai pat gayi bhai 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Delusionship: Bhai tujhe hi dekh rahi hai bhai...😂😂😅
@sunnyrawal59 kya kya subscribe kiye ho 😅😅24
I am a GenZ woman but never did those things. Its my pride
I won't let this generation define me or my values.
Guys just go out in the world and start travelling. You will really meet many good people with various skills and that will enhance your thinking as well.
@@prasadmankar7650 Bhai Haryana -Himachal Roadways ka conductor hoon aur Kitna travel karun
I am tired and fucked up with this shit. I am an complete old school amongst a bunch of GenZ so it's becoming next to impossible to find people or even a partner/bestfriend of the same mentality who is like old school becaue for me my close one's being of GenZ mentality going to clubbing is something I can't tolerate. So comment section help me.
True.. I fcking I hate clubbing
Same man 😢
Bhai same mein bhi apki mentality ka hu ek kam karte apan dono friend ban jaate apni insta id do apko follow karta hu
Kisi chote city se ladki search kro tho sayad mil sakti hai old school type
Wese tho ladkiyo k matter me same pattern hi chlta hai
@@Neetukumari-qz2ke looks avg ki chahiye.. aadmi shai honi chahiye bass
I am 20 rn, and glad to say i don't use any of these dating apps.. Still able to find my girl.
Happy for you mate! Just a word of caution though - life hasn’t happened to both of you yet. That’s all I have to say. Be together through thick and thin.
job nhi, dost nhi, bandi nhi, paise nhi pta nhi kya hoga ab
Bhai paise honay chahaiyea baaki sab to optional hai...
@@N7_YES abh bhai generational wealth to h nhi to jobs pe hi to mirbhar rhenge na (jo ki h nhi)
Relationship se accha job mei invest kro... vha connections bnao, future mei tumhe hi Kaam ayenge. Fir business khada kro. Relationship se kai guna behtar hai ye
😓
@@saiyanfriendshekhar5832 har koi job karega toh job me kon lga sab naukr thodi ban sakte 😢
This is how you eventually end up with population crash. There is a survey which says world population is heading towards population crash, all developed countries are facing negative birth rates, India will soon follow this trend. When something as deep and meaningful as a relationship can be sold on an app, human emotions like commitment, love, trust become scarce. Eventually the population looses trust in relationships and prefers to remain single, thus not getting married and no procreation happens, ergo population crash.
India badly needs it. Look at our population man 140cr it's not a joke india desperately needs a population crash😂
@@ayushghosh2000 Partly agree with you but definitely not at the cost of our social fabric. If we lose our trust in the marriage institution, then it's game over for us as a society.
India me stability chaiye decline ho gya toh bhari nuksan bhi ho sakta jab rapid crash hoga
as a gen z mujhe lagta h bc jee se jyada terms toh ek relationship me h 😂. DTR, delulu, solulu, benching, breadcrumbing, situationship, catfished etc, etc
btw the only social networking app i use is reddit so i was kinda familiar with these terms
also the girl restaurant story originated from reddit
And I listened first time through this video
Most scary stories have their origins either from reddit or 4chan (Japanese website)
Itna wahiyat terms hai
Gen Z hoke bhu relate nahi kar pata😂
Mujhe chahiye 1970s ka pyarr
Right bro 😢
Chal Bhai, Time travel karte hai.
@@pranavchaudhari5828 chal karte hai
मुझसे तो वो भी नहीं हो पा रहा है मैं जेनजी हूँ(कागज़ में) लेकिन मैं जेनजी हूँ ही नहीं असल में। 😂
1970s me baal vivah, zabardasti shaadi, too many kids with financial burden, domestic violence, loneliness sb tha bhai, 1970s ka pyaar and 1970s ka filmo wala pyaar are different. Back then there was hardly any concept of love in marriage.
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Dekh liye tab bata rhe ho😅
I think terms like benching and breadcrumbing are more used by women who actually have an excess of options unlike men who have none.
I left social media’s except UA-cam and WhatsApp it’s been 3years. Best decision anyone can take at first there will be urge and loneliness but later on you will live your best life ,a life without anxiety toxicity and things like that.
Social media’s are causing from riot to mental illness everything negative mostly more than positive.
Lenskart ka promotion thora casual tha 😂😂
Bro this is your strength..make these kind of videos ❤
To be serious guys if you (Male) want a partner (gf/bf) be better day by day 👍🏻
As far as I can see, this is the problem of only the metro and a few other big cities. Especially slightly upper middle class and above
You would be surprised my friend. While the problem is a lot bigger in Tier 1 cities, Internet has acted as a great equalizer and the problem of upper echelon has sneakily sipped in the lower tiers as well.
I also used dating apps.
It's heavily favoured to girls.
It's not for men.
I got a match..even then it was horrible.
It's much better to have a personal connection. Most preferably at work.
Mujhe yah to pata tha ki dating app jaisa bhi kuchh hota Hai, but Itna sab kuchh hota hai yahan ye nahin pata tha thanks bhai
Iam in 7year relationship with my gf, and we trust each other,
Starting from graduation 😊
Good luck
14 years relationship, and continue.......since feb 2010........
People meeting through matrimonial apps also experience benching, breadcrumbing and ghoshting. They r competing with dating apps
I am genZ and I hate these type of social media loves , I believe in offline love mean jab tak koi mil nhi jaata tak too mai shayad single hii rahu koi chata hi nhi hai ki bhar ghume,Samartphone f*ked this generation😢😢
According to me, the first thing of having a meaningful relationship is not using social media.
Loneliness is killer. But dont use social media Or dating apps, but pray and pray and pray to God and never ignore the parents when young. They are our backbone they are there with us hameshs. But never treat mama and papa as bad people. Jai hind
Bruh be with animals bruh animals are better then women and men these days that's all and don't give a shi about others if u feel lonely simple
The speed at which you threw all those terms, my mind stopped working. I really feel extremely lucky to be a 90s kid. Golden era! Sahi time pe nikal gaye aur shaadi kar li :D
Ghosting toh kafi purani term hai. Mere sath ye 10-12 saal pehle hua hai😂
At 1:41 I was sure that you will do lenskart ad 😅
The prime age of men/women say 18-25 gets wasted in this bullshit and all their potential which can be used to achieve higher goals will be lost too.
Also the desirability of a woman is high in that age range slowly getting to its peak and then a rapid decline while the desirability of a man steadily increases till his late 30s or even 40s (if they’re focused on maximizing their stats of course), hence by the time a girl comes to her senses and start looking for a “nice” guy, the nice guy has moved up a level and now vying for girls who are more “desirable” than her. Yeah, it’s a messed up world.
@@OrangeDurito I'll be responsible about that 😜 no time waste on hook up culture
Hats off to u r topic selection
Bhai mai bhi Gen-Z hu but itta toh mujhe bhi nhi pta tha... Kya kya chl ra hai bhai market me😮
I never downloaded any dating apps
The transition from important topic to an ad was as seamless as a GenZ girl left-swiping someone.
You have spoken from the soul
Maybe dada dadi ka time mere according utna zada modern nhi hoga but atleast love ko love ki hi nazar se dekha jata hai ( im not talking about those rubbish wedding in which ladki ladkey ya ladka ladki ko jaanta hi nhi tha bss 15-16 ki age me shadi hogyi) ustime pe bhi modern loog thay please note that jo ek "healthy" Dating ka concept follow krtey thay
Don’t worry guys, money is everything, try to run after money , you won’t even imagine what you get. Live a life happily, you only live once. Why to waste on someone.
That's why i subscribed Open Letter after unsubscribing all UA-camrs forcing men towards dating apps. I love loneliness, it sucks but way better than being puppet of relationship and dating trap. ❤😂😂
Dating at teenager or early 25 is just headache and disturbing. Even after GenZ i still can't relate lol.
Bhai mai bhi 1999 ka born hu 25 ka hone wala hu iss August mai aur ek baat boluga ki dating apps now a days use for hookup basically sex aur real life mai unki himmat nhi hoti ki woh ek ladki se ta ladke se face to face baat kre kyoki wha paar time effort lgta hai aur inko sirf Johnny sins banna hai
everyone is busy finding someone , its kind of like a fomo , we don't want to but the surroundings make us feel to do. everyone just searching for someone as a life partner but when it doesn't work then that guy just go mad and download the apps to find the attachment cause there is no time in this new world that you grief u need to move on as fast to cope up with the world.
Dating App kabhi use Na karne ka ghamand hai 🗿
that's why i follow elder peoples(like you bhaiya) not so called influencers
Say no to dating apps
Yeah seriously just go and talk to a real woman
@@jewelsofjuly7377confidence nahi hai bro
be sigma 🗿
@@mit-qw8is be a man not a sigma ✅️
My advice to the guys
You can do two things, if you want to, you can also just follow your own path
1. Either try to fit in, get constantly rejected as the average guy is not attractive in the eyes of women and when you are financially sound/in a good position, in your later years, then all those women who ignored you will now be ready to commit to you(basically use you and the stability you will provide)
OR
2. Be the best version of yourself, look where you are, if you have the potential go for finding a partner, that means good looks, height, good with money, etc. And if not then just ignore finding a partner but build your self up as you will have to live your life alone, try to improve yourself, in every way, health, physique, money, etc. Invest in yourself and try to be happy, don't build your character around women, you can do better, I might trigger some but remember, it's the guys who are left alone at the end
In delhi karkadoma and laxmi nagar there are multiple cafes where scam is happening
Great Video on Spreading Awareness about the right things sir!
Who don't know about dating apps
Respect bhai 🗿😂
Kekin ab pata chal gaya😂
There is a downside to blue cut lens , if a light source is behind your face the back light's blue spectrum hits your eyes directly. And hurts more than protects from laptop
bhai genz hokr bhi ye terms ka koi idea ni tha... thanks for sharing 😂😂
Uss bruh😛
same
Ye mostly ladkiyo ko pta hota hai kyuki ye words ladki side se hi introduced hote hai
Benching breadcrumbing selulu baat aur ghosting ek dum real hai 🙋
The most happiest experience is Lonelyness....enjoy the happiness of being alone....
Preach...🙌
yes
Solitude you mean, Loneliness isn't a positive response
That's solitude lol , there is a difference between being alone and being lonely
"अध्यात्म" Ko apne jeevan ka kendra banao aur Moh , Lob , Kaam , Krodh se chhutkara pao , ...aur Adhyatm Journey shuru karne ka sabse achha marg pustake hoti hai kyuki vo humare soyi hui Chetna ko jaga deti hai ,...So start with Bhagwat Geeta ji ❤ Jai Radhekrishna ❤ May Radheshyam ji show path to Everyone 😊
Yeh genration badlwane ke form kaha milte hai?
Yamlok
Jaldi jao .uske baad bhi bohot wait karna padega 😊.
When u feel alone, walk around the city or town. I've done that when I felt, it gave some peace of mind to rejuvenate. Especially near to nature. Anyways time changes,now I'm settled with family & a good job. I'm a 90s born, not genZ btw
I think if a girl wants rich husband then a man should ask for a women with no past ❤
It should be a men's choice
But he also should be like mard ka bacha with no past ❤
I can remember my childhood days ... Every community, gali, mahulla used to have a tea shop or a place where older people used to chat all together.... The ladies used to gossip and the kids used to play together in the grounds .... Even if the neighbour runs out of some spices they used to come and ask for it and it wasn't a shame.... Everybody knew everybody.
The mornings were slow with traditional & hindu Sanskritik music & tea , newspapers, some used to practice art & music .... Then they go to study , school, comeback and go straight to the playground.... Those 2-3 hours used to feel like a lot more than that.... Whenever there was a blackout... People used to come out of their homes with " haricanens " a type of lantern... They used to have meaningful conversations,,, older people used to tell meaningful stories to children....not like our time where everything is messed up....no communication at all even with so much communicative mechanism.... It's all machine now ... Not humane 😅
Reality is brutal for us😢
Thanks for reducing the time ❤
My wife and I first met through Tinder 😂... Never took this app seriously.. but here I met the best person in my life... These apps definitely help... But you've to be careful though 😅😅
Wowwww......you r so lucky ❤
you're very talented, you merged the Lenskart Ad so seamlessly, we didn;t knew we're watching the ad, till you told about the link
Not just GenZ but GenY GenX, are facing the same challenges.
Thankfully people are walking away from dating apps and mixers are going to be popular again. Very good revolution for both men and women.
Meri wali toh Mummy layegi 🤗❤️
ye badiya ta😂
Seal v tuti hogi... With full of past
@@mdtarique8486 tera past clean hai kya be?
@@Saho717 tumse bada chaman koi nahi hai iss duniya me 😊
Past se hi future ka decide hota hai, past se hi character decide hota hai, past se hi decision making samajh aata hai..😊
Shekhar Dhawan, hardik pandya, md shami bhi apni wali ki past ignore Kiya tha 💀
@@Saho717 oo phir to thik hai, mujhe laga tera past clean hai
Waise hua kya tha.. dhokha khaya kya, love marriage pe aur bharosa nahi?
Im genz , a doctor and 26 now ,and dating my princess ,we met in 3rd class .
Its been 18 years❤❤
Get married dude 😭❤️
"Pankaj Tripathi Ke Father wale character ki feeling ho Rahi hai" reminded me of the whole series 😅
Your video topics, editing and storytelling are excellent bro ❤❤
Very important topic and well communicated. Needs to be questioned for a better fabric of the society going forward.
Me and girlfriend live in 1990 . we still write letter today. i,m 23 my partner is 22, years old
Bro i am not gonna lie but that's really really cute. God bless you both
Lol just don't pollute your relationship with social media i hope you are a one girl kind of a guy be happy.
It doesn't affect me at all, because I see this as a game, those who aren't getting it are crying. Better they learn the game before playing. This applies to everywhere in life
Aree bc fir toh iss game me top rank pe Janna padega