It’s really poetic calling this a child abuse commercial. Because even though the child isn’t the direct target of this abuse, he is still being abused by being forced to watch this and it’s doing harm to his psyche, and the harm makes him grow up and repeat his father’s abuse because that is the life he knew. Abuse doesn’t just hurt the ones who are directly hurt. It hurts those who are forced to witness it as well.
My father abuses my mother more often than he abuses me and though he’s never been physical it’s done quite a lot of harm to me since I’ve been forced to hear it
@@brokenman4668 I'm in the same boat. When I was three my father beat my mother nearly to death, and even though he never touched me, I saw all of it and it still affects me almost 14 years later. She's been in a bunch of abusive relationships since then, and again, while nobody hurt me, the yelling and screaming and breaking things have scarred me forever
People saying that he "just" could have re-heated the food. *It's not about the food,* if it wasn't the food it would have been something else, like the way she looked at him or something she said. It could also be the other way around with the genders, but what is important is that *violence is never the answer* .
Yep. It could have been a gourmet 5 star meal. It's about the man taking his anger out on the vulnerable target in the room he can get away with socially. It's sick. I watched it happen. I hope my kids never have to see their parents fight, i will try everything in my power to make them grow up happy healthy and seeing what a real couple looks like
Stfu, violence sometimes is the answer to certain things. In regards to the occupation of my home and our humiliating defeat, violence was the answer to that, but now it’s too late, hopefully I am wrong about this tho.
When it comes to abusive partners, it is always heads I win tails you lose for the abuser. If it was not for the food being cold, he would have found another reason to get angry. My mother was like this at times. If I answered a question with an answer she did not like, she would retroactively change the question.
I used to witness the same thing as a child. The look on that poor kid's face brings me back to the fear, sadness, and helplessness I used to feel knowing I couldn't stop what was going on.
Same i was always taught to lock my door when my father was at work then when she wasn't there anymore and when i isolated myself he got mad saying hed remove the door which to me was my safety and id have emotional outbursts but instead if helping me understand they'd punish me putting soap in my mouth or being called disobedient because i wanted privacy sometimes i never gotten it as i got older my grandmother would pop in me having no clothes on even once said i looked good naked i told my father but he ignored me or said it wasnt what i thought it was, or saying i didn't deserve privacy because we're all girls except for my father who sa me as i was getting older before i finished school and graduated. No one believed me when i told. i was locked in my room because i apperently deserved it for telling someone my problems. That's why i feel clingy to anyone who helps or understands me but i end up pushing them out of my bubble and i upset people i care about.
This really shows how history repeats itself and abuse is a horrific cycle. Notice how the kid in the flashback is different. I'm guessing that was the dad when he was just a kid witnessing his own father abusing his mother. Now he's doing the same thing in front of his son. If something doesn't change his son will end up as an abuser himself.
@Seanjohn5100 True, but a lot of people unfortunately do, and most of the time, they don’t even realize it because they grew up thinking that behavior is normal. I’ve seen this with my mom and aunts after finding out how my grandfather used treat them when they were kids.
Joe Swanson: That’s enough for that! This is serious! STOP IT!!!!!!!!! Get him! Police Car and Crypt Keeper: YES CHIEF SWANSON!!!!!!! (They beat up the Australian Man)
What a beautiful soul you have to raise public awareness of this one to many aweful scenes in a child's life....it honestly does affect a child's future and self esteem....
Darkest Fairy I'm sorry for your struggles in your family!! I guess that's the reason I found this post and it reminded me of our home,growing up....!!! It's not easy climbing out of that situation,when you can't just leave..instead you're left to suffer,until you can make your getaway!! Please know I'm sincerely sad,that it's become a huge problem across the world....my thoughts go out to you all....!!!
Donald Trump cuz children are more impressionable. By showing them that its okay to hurt each other, they will either be on the recieving or delivering side
Funny how the man's very nice to his kid, but is the complete opposite to his wife, and setting a bad example to his kid also. If he's so fed up with her when why not just file for a divorce instead of beating her senseless? There's really no need for it - at all.
All the Dad had to do was to stick the food in the microwave oven for a few minutes. He probably came home late from work. Why is it the Mom's fault the food was cold?
My mum was abusive towards me and my brother and 2 sisters and dad even copped it sometimes but he always protected me when mum was drunk and would start on me. My dad was and always will be my hero
The kid is the one shown in the second instance with a different kid, hes abusing his own wife because of how he witnesses his father treat his mother, its literally all he knows how to treat women.
What we see here is a kid grown up beating his wife like he saw his father beating his mother years ago. And now his kid is witnessing this, and might continue the cycle when he grows up.
My father took his anger out on me not my mother,she would hide and pretend it didnt happen. I am a product of child abuse and lead an amazing life. There is hope dont ever give up.
I deployed to Afghanistan and I also worked as a corrections officer after the fact And I will tell you one thing, nothing compares to what I witnessed and how I was treated before age 20. Nothing bothers me more.
His mom should've said no and got outta there, and most importantly, she should've told someone she trusted, like her parents, a teacher, or a police officer.
This is part 4 or 5 (I forgot) of me reviewing PSA’s. “It’s cold… it’s got no flavor”. We got a fix for those. They’re called a microwave and spices. Maybe you’ve heard of them? Anyways, I appreciate the shots, they look nice, so, 7/10. Nice editing and camerawork. P.S: Speaking of “THE DOG EATS BETTER THEN THIS!”: There is an actual book called “My Dog Eats Better Than Your Kids”. Just thought I’d mention.
I grew up around domestic violence, it sucks I wish I was never born into it but at the same time I do not know why DCF, CPS in THE BRONX never ask me the right questions or help calm down when I was a child, plus I was physically , sexually and verbally abused . I should had been place in a foster home , I wish I could have one dream I want my childhood back and have had a different outcome in the 90s. 😕
You can say that again. He's seriously willing to get triggered over something as miniscule, and insignificant as a cold dinner? What a pathetic excuse for a man.
Are we going to get an ad campaign about the abuse by mothers and wives against their children and husbands, that no-one ever talks about, at some point?
This man is weak. He knows what happened in the past, but he does it anyway. This goes on for generations, and can destroy people’s lives. We need more of these ads on our TVs and the internet, and I don’t care if these would harm the children. They need to know about this, or they’ll find out the hard way. And by then, it’s too late.
Very much so Chris my brother in-law is one of em. He loves my sister and his kids very much. If he did hit her my dad would be very mad he taught my sister and I to never let a man hit you.
Bro. I can just imagine that if the husband was inviting some of his workmates or his boss for dinner and if they see him doing that to his wife. The boss might fire him or the workmates will surely beat him up.
this is like my exgf when i come around her place i have to tippytoe everywhere cause she just barks at me everychance about lots of small things,i sometimes put up a fight and then it can get really nasty :( but i love my 1 year old girl too much :)
Although an abuse still is an abuse, at least he did go through the abuse directly to me without my mom awareness because he said if you say something to mom, i will beat you more, i have no choice & let him do what he wants to do to me but when his home, i would hide at the corner
So y'all remember that seen from the amazing world of gumball where nicole thought about what would happen if she married someone else then that one moment during the episode where she is like "IS IT HOT ENOUGH FOR YOU" that's what the wife should have done
"it's cold"
"it has no tastes"
well put it in the microwave and put some salt on it.
bada Bing bada boom.
(Tastes food AND Harnesses my gordon ramsay)
HOLY SHIT, IT'S GODDAMN COLD you DONKEY!
GFTO
thank you and reply.....
MrsLukeArnold 😂
@@flavoredtears3898 whats so funny?
lmao
Why should salad be warm in the first place?
It’s really poetic calling this a child abuse commercial. Because even though the child isn’t the direct target of this abuse, he is still being abused by being forced to watch this and it’s doing harm to his psyche, and the harm makes him grow up and repeat his father’s abuse because that is the life he knew. Abuse doesn’t just hurt the ones who are directly hurt. It hurts those who are forced to witness it as well.
My father abuses my mother more often than he abuses me and though he’s never been physical it’s done quite a lot of harm to me since I’ve been forced to hear it
@@brokenman4668 I'm in the same boat. When I was three my father beat my mother nearly to death, and even though he never touched me, I saw all of it and it still affects me almost 14 years later. She's been in a bunch of abusive relationships since then, and again, while nobody hurt me, the yelling and screaming and breaking things have scarred me forever
@@neru5839 I’m really sorry that happened
I hope things are better now
People saying that he "just" could have re-heated the food. *It's not about the food,* if it wasn't the food it would have been something else, like the way she looked at him or something she said. It could also be the other way around with the genders, but what is important is that *violence is never the answer* .
I feel he most likely got it from his father as child
Yep. It could have been a gourmet 5 star meal. It's about the man taking his anger out on the vulnerable target in the room he can get away with socially. It's sick. I watched it happen. I hope my kids never have to see their parents fight, i will try everything in my power to make them grow up happy healthy and seeing what a real couple looks like
moral of the story:
ur not u when ur hungry
snickers
satisfies
Stfu, violence sometimes is the answer to certain things. In regards to the occupation of my home and our humiliating defeat, violence was the answer to that, but now it’s too late, hopefully I am wrong about this tho.
When it comes to abusive partners, it is always heads I win tails you lose for the abuser. If it was not for the food being cold, he would have found another reason to get angry. My mother was like this at times. If I answered a question with an answer she did not like, she would retroactively change the question.
He got triggered because of cold meat what a pathetic man
flukes777 it's for awareness
Police have got to be involved
Violet shut up ! Next time warm it up bitch !!!🖕😂
Omar Raymundo can I be the ref for your fight
My father never beat my mother. But often gets abusive and criticism for same reasons.
Wow how salty must you be to get crazy just because some cold food.
PhoenixKev PHOENIX? WELL ISN'T THIS A SUPRISE
I know how that little boy feels. My mom denies it ever happened, that I had the best childhood.😢
Wow. That's shocking. There's a pretty deep mental illness in women who allow themselves to be abused. Hope you keep healing. 🌼
@@TrueWalker88 police have to be invovled u know that
I'd eat cold food if my wife makes it. Domestic violence is ridiculous.
my sentiments exactly
Bal Mungram he's using bad language at home in England!!!!!
Bal Mungram Hey woman this dinner taste like farther and bullshit!!!!
+Andrew Schumm Everyone and his grandmother use bad language at home. I'm unsurprised.
+Bal Mungram *uses
The accuracy of this.......how he’s all sweet outside, and then mean as fuck inside. Very true
Please don’t swear God wouldn’t like that and there are children here I know you are trying to send a message but it’s not alright to swear
Men evil, women eternal victims....typical feminist, yawn.
@angelemeana2754 He was willing to get triggered over something as miniscule as a cold? What a pathetic excuse for a Man.
Scumbag !
*serves him ice cream*
"ITS COLD"
Faraaz Iqbal hahaa
IT’S GOT NO TASTE
@Primus The Fourteenth do it urself
*"THE DOG EATS BETTER THAN THIS!"*
I used to witness the same thing as a child. The look on that poor kid's face brings me back to the fear, sadness, and helplessness I used to feel knowing I couldn't stop what was going on.
I know how you feel. I'm still traumatized today about that
Same i was always taught to lock my door when my father was at work then when she wasn't there anymore and when i isolated myself he got mad saying hed remove the door which to me was my safety and id have emotional outbursts but instead if helping me understand they'd punish me putting soap in my mouth or being called disobedient because i wanted privacy sometimes i never gotten it as i got older my grandmother would pop in me having no clothes on even once said i looked good naked i told my father but he ignored me or said it wasnt what i thought it was, or saying i didn't deserve privacy because we're all girls except for my father who sa me as i was getting older before i finished school and graduated. No one believed me when i told. i was locked in my room because i apperently deserved it for telling someone my problems. That's why i feel clingy to anyone who helps or understands me but i end up pushing them out of my bubble and i upset people i care about.
This really shows how history repeats itself and abuse is a horrific cycle. Notice how the kid in the flashback is different. I'm guessing that was the dad when he was just a kid witnessing his own father abusing his mother. Now he's doing the same thing in front of his son. If something doesn't change his son will end up as an abuser himself.
Not everyone who witnesses it becomes an abuser.
@@Sean-Johnson hopefully this boy will be the one that breaks the cycle.
@Seanjohn5100 True, but a lot of people unfortunately do, and most of the time, they don’t even realize it because they grew up thinking that behavior is normal. I’ve seen this with my mom and aunts after finding out how my grandfather used treat them when they were kids.
I grew up with parents like this and then I got diagnosed with anxiety
“It’s cold, it’s got no taste.” Microwave: Allow me to introduce myself
That’s enough 😡
Joe Swanson: That’s enough for that! This is serious! STOP IT!!!!!!!!! Get him!
Police Car and Crypt Keeper: YES CHIEF SWANSON!!!!!!! (They beat up the Australian Man)
I've heard stories about sons who've killed their fathers when they got older because of them being abused or their dad abusing their moms.
Sad. 😞😞😞 No child should have to witness anything like that. Poor kid
What a beautiful soul you have to raise public awareness of this one to many aweful scenes in a child's life....it honestly does affect a child's future and self esteem....
unfortunately i was one of those kids
Darkest Fairy I'm sorry for your struggles in your family!! I guess that's the reason I found this post and it reminded me of our home,growing up....!!! It's not easy climbing out of that situation,when you can't just leave..instead you're left to suffer,until you can make your getaway!! Please know I'm sincerely sad,that it's become a huge problem across the world....my thoughts go out to you all....!!!
Kimberly Brock its fine cuz im back with my alive and well mom, brother, my moms boyfriend, and our two new kittens flicka and jet
Donald Trump cuz children are more impressionable. By showing them that its okay to hurt each other, they will either be on the recieving or delivering side
I know how he feels....those Rotary club meetings drives us all crazy......
hahahahahahha
Not funny not funny at all
He has the same reaction of Gordon Ramsay
Funny how the man's very nice to his kid, but is the complete opposite to his wife, and setting a bad example to his kid also. If he's so fed up with her when why not just file for a divorce instead of beating her senseless? There's really no need for it - at all.
All the Dad had to do was to stick the food in the microwave oven for a few minutes.
He probably came home late from work. Why is it the Mom's fault the food was cold?
then The Police would never have been called to this incident
I know. He's willing to get triggered over something as minuscule, and insignificant as a cold dinner? What a pathetic excuse for a man.
Because he was late
No child deserves to see his or her parents fight like that
Brought back some memories for me wow
My mum was abusive towards me and my brother and 2 sisters and dad even copped it sometimes but he always protected me when mum was drunk and would start on me. My dad was and always will be my hero
I'm sorry you had to go through that you did not deserve it
Sry to hear that. I hope all is well with u. What's funny is is that women actually make up most abusive
When my step-grandmother Linda Henson would do that, my grandfather Julie Dean Hanson always came to my rescue. I miss him so bad.
This triggered my PTSD
so not only is it sad for the wife it's child mental abuse because he's sitting there watching it all?
This man needs to be arrested! 😠
Also I felt really sad for the boy 😢
It’s just acting u imbecile
Say what u want. This guy can act!! Bet he's a big teddy bear in real life
It brings back bad memories that scar my mind
Sameeeew here
Great video as it makes you think on this awful issue more. I was shocked watching this, had tears in my eyes.
If the food doesn't taste good or right, just eat something else. Don't have to get angry and start abusing like that, it doesn't help.
This bloke could be the new face of Hell's Kitchen.
decoyoctopusra IKR he's just like chef ramsey IT'S RAWWWW.
decoyoctopusra I understood that reference! ( Understand this one?)
Gordon Gecko no.
I did a comment saying you donkey
This advert deffo shows how history repeats itself
They must not have microwaves in Australia, LOL
tvmattkc they do
I know, what I said was a joke
That kid must be traumatized for life.
The kid is the one shown in the second instance with a different kid, hes abusing his own wife because of how he witnesses his father treat his mother, its literally all he knows how to treat women.
What we see here is a kid grown up beating his wife like he saw his father beating his mother years ago. And now his kid is witnessing this, and might continue the cycle when he grows up.
Dad:"ITS COLD"(if the mom was bigger then him)mom:""OH HELL NO MAKE YOUR OWN FOOD THIS IS MY FOOD PUT IN THE MICROWAVE
He would beat her if she were to say that
+Heather Magdee he beat her anyway
This video makes me HATE domestic abuse in the first place.
husband:thanks for the food
then he be like the salad is cold
Wife:it should be cold
Husband:NO[O[O
morgan and Mila Don't cook him gazpacho.
morgan and Mila a
if I was that kid and saw my dad doing that I would have friggin be scared
Some kids deserve parents but some parents don’t deserve kids
My father took his anger out on me not my mother,she would hide and pretend it didnt happen. I am a product of child abuse and lead an amazing life. There is hope dont ever give up.
THE DOG EATS BETTER THAN THIS!
Christoman64 dog must be eating alpo.
Christoman64 then the dad should eat the dogs food😂😂😂😂😂😂
This was originally a commercial for IAMS dog food! 🤪
The sad thing is this is very common
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police have got to be involved and make an arrest
Even if they didn't have a kid to witness that, he shouldn't do that
I deployed to Afghanistan and I also worked as a corrections officer after the fact And I will tell you one thing, nothing compares to what I witnessed and how I was treated before age 20. Nothing bothers me more.
Just heat the damn food in the microwave, Jesus Christ
Kids with younger siblings who are exposed to this can often end up treating him, her, or them the same way.
I’m so sad that kid has to see it happened
Microwave : whats wrong? Dad: my wife cook cold food. Microwave :use me and i will make your food hot
he needs anger management. his behavior is DESPICABLE. WHO WOULD ACT LIKE THIS IN FRONT OF CHILD? HE NEEDS TO GET HIS ASS TOGETHER.
hey, you need to tell someone about that. And I don't mean online to a bunch of strangers. That isn't a normal situation and it doesn't have to last.
His mom should've said no and got outta there, and most importantly, she should've told someone she trusted, like her parents, a teacher, or a police officer.
Fax
Oh jeeez!.... This was hard and bought back memories..
Kid?!?! Call 911! Don't just stand there!
I am sorry he had to go thru this tho :(
Lightning he's just a kid. What if the father turns his anger on the boy he's like 8 or 9. No way could he protect himself from a grown man.
If a man put me in the hospital I would be calling the cops from the hospital and getting out of the situation.
They British
That's not child abuse. That's spouse abuse
Is he seriously willing to get triggered over something so miniscule and insignificant as a cold dinner? What a pathetic excuse for a man.
This is why I won't ever drink a lot of beer when I'm a Father
aka goldfinger lol I commented this when I was 11. Jeez time files a lot
aka goldfinger lol “just put it in the fucking microwave you donkey” -Wife
Its depressing that the boy became his father.
This is part 4 or 5 (I forgot) of me reviewing PSA’s.
“It’s cold… it’s got no flavor”. We got a fix for those. They’re called a microwave and spices. Maybe you’ve heard of them? Anyways, I appreciate the shots, they look nice, so, 7/10. Nice editing and camerawork.
P.S: Speaking of “THE DOG EATS BETTER THEN THIS!”: There is an actual book called “My Dog Eats Better Than Your Kids”. Just thought I’d mention.
When you saw drinkdrive ads, this is like going back to level 1 after unlocking level 1000
Child will become a school bully to have control in his life
His son should've just ran to the telephone and call the police immediately
this is more better than peta ads
"Its cold"
Then warm it tf up then
The food is cold the food hats no taste the sound is calm 😂
I grew up around domestic violence, it sucks I wish I was never born into it but at the same time I do not know why DCF, CPS in THE BRONX never ask me the right questions or help calm down when I was a child, plus I was physically , sexually and verbally abused . I should had been place in a foster home , I wish I could have one dream I want my childhood back and have had a different outcome in the 90s. 😕
when food is cold you go to the kitchen and you microwave it. No big deal man. People can eat microwaved food.
The start:😊 the end:💀
I just got a happy Labrador and he really likes it being nice and being happy eating good food
Is that the father as a lil kid in the flashback scene?
Marady Mon no, it was the father when he was a kid
+C. Willock Thought it was him.
C. Willock EYE THAT'S WHAT HE SAID
Why is it always the man playing the monster? Has no one ever heard of single fathers who take care of their kids because their mothers went crazy?
Marilynette amen
Sickening! Just cause you see a beautiful home doesn’t always mean a happy life apparently😰
You can say that again. He's seriously willing to get triggered over something as miniscule, and insignificant as a cold dinner? What a pathetic excuse for a man.
This commercial also shows how abuse can be generational if the cycle isn’t broken.
this is amazing and is a good point. just change the title to domestic violence because it's not child abuse
Legally, it is. It may not be as overt, but family violence in the presence of children is also considered child abuse.
Are we going to get an ad campaign about the abuse by mothers and wives against their children and husbands, that no-one ever talks about, at some point?
This man is weak. He knows what happened in the past, but he does it anyway. This goes on for generations, and can destroy people’s lives. We need more of these ads on our TVs and the internet, and I don’t care if these would harm the children. They need to know about this, or they’ll find out the hard way. And by then, it’s too late.
Has this guy ever heard of a thing called a microwave?
Really good acting
This nigga pulled the Boondocks DV line: "Bitch, this chicken is cold!"
Omg this is so wrong traumatizing and this gives me flashbacks
0:28 Gordon Ramsey with his Family.
I'm sure even he has his limits.
Relatable to me, I can't even call for help, my parents always lying to me. HELP ME
You alright?
@@MelsArchive Yes.
She knew as soon as he ate it what was gonna happen! 😂😂😂😂
real men are not abusive to there family's they treat there family like gold!!!!
Very much so Chris my brother in-law is one of em. He loves my sister and his kids very much. If he did hit her my dad would be very mad he taught my sister and I to never let a man hit you.
No wonder why Matt thinks ice cream is too cold...
So darn scary it hurts.
Bro. I can just imagine that if the husband was inviting some of his workmates or his boss for dinner and if they see him doing that to his wife. The boss might fire him or the workmates will surely beat him up.
What's the 2nd scene of a man abusing his wife about? Is that the kid growing up and doing the same thing?
this is like my exgf when i come around her place i have to tippytoe everywhere cause she just barks at me everychance about lots of small things,i sometimes put up a fight and then it can get really nasty :( but i love my 1 year old girl too much :)
What is he saying during shouting?
Although an abuse still is an abuse, at least he did go through the abuse directly to me without my mom awareness because he said if you say something to mom, i will beat you more, i have no choice & let him do what he wants to do to me but when his home, i would hide at the corner
I cried so fkn hard 😭😭😭😭
anyone know their ethnicity?
jesus dad what’s your problem
Wife:its night,the sun is not shining so its cold.what do you expect?
Husband:do you know karate?
Can someone please explain why they cut to another couple? And I don't quite get the outside and inside comment?
Dad has a flashback to when he was a kid watching his parents fight
I don't remember this scene from Inside Out....
Reminds me of that boondocks episode
poor mother and kid
I used to hate that when my mom and dad argue. My dad do not fight my mom he just argues sometimes and my mom do to I'm just tired of it
So y'all remember that seen from the amazing world of gumball where nicole thought about what would happen if she married someone else then that one moment during the episode where she is like "IS IT HOT ENOUGH FOR YOU" that's what the wife should have done
0:42
“THE DOG EATS BETTER THAN THIS!”
Be careful of who u choose my moms best friend got abused. Worst news i ever got