Absolutely!!! I met my Boo at our local Senior Community Center! He put a ring on it. We're engaged now. I am 65 years young and he is 74 years young. We weren't looking and look at God. I am sharing my testimony, so please keep hope alive and your heart opened❤. Pray for God's discernment and be yourself. God bless you all.
❤❤❤❤❤!!!!! ACE, U BETTER SAY THAT SH!!!!!!!❤ ACE, I WAS THAT LADY 2 YEARS AGO GIVING CHANCES TO A TOXIC MAN. NOT NOW!!! I LEFT THAY SH!!!!! BACK IN 23! I WOKE UP, NO MORE FOR ME. I'M GLOWING , FEELING GREAT ABOUT MYSELF AND LOOKING FOR MY MAN THAT IS ON THE SAME FREQUENCY THAT I'M ON, BABY!!!!! ❤ I LUHV U FOR GIVING IT TO US RAW AND UNCUT!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤ GLORY TO GOD FOR MY DECERNMENT!!!!!
it does in a way, because you have to look for it, then give up when it doesnt work, except while the whole time working on (/&loving) yourself, and once you're finally content with that, boom! there it happens, cause you're authentically in your element and no longer in a place of desperation, which naturally draws people to you
I get what he's saying, but it takes God to raise up a good man for you. And if it's God's job to do that, don't you think God is going to make sure He delivers that person to you? I believe so. I've seen in my own life how God had raised up family members I haven't associated with in decades come through the door of my life! He restored my ENTIRE family.
😂😂 You're right,👏 💯. I met my husband at a rodeo, and a week later, we met again at work, where I still haul dirt. He turned out to be one of my company's bosses 😅. We've been married for 6 years now & move mountains for each other ❤. Get out of the house, beautiful people. There are people out there who desire what you want too. Stay safe.
so many of the good ones are taken, sadly... but I try to keep my head up and remind myself how short life is, and i'd rather wait a little longer for mr. right than waste my time and ruin my chances of finding him because of mr. wrong. Plus, there are so many damn people in this world and many of us are single for longer in life---part bc of the economy, covid aftermath, etc and part because we're living longer on top the fact that socioculturally, our life stages and values are shifting.
Ace we love you to….No if ands..And big buts about it.. “Get out the house if you wanna meet a spouse.” Go out in the community.. Communicate your intent while being yourself and focusing on the present moment…#AcemetaphorLiveEvents #TonightsConversation #TropicalSmoothie #GotToBeReal #TheFutureWifeHandbook
Damnnnn okay Ace, shit. I set a goal to go out aleast twice a month. I dont even want a relationship just a few runner ups lol but I definitely gotta get out more😩
Thank you so much for opening my eyes. You are a blessing Everything that you are saying is so true You are talking directly to me this is my wake up call I’m getting out of the house getting in social groups and hitting the gym. Thank you so much.
you can go out of the house and socialize but if you lack beauty, men will not see you let alone talk to you to get to know you. I've got a good personality but men will ultimately choose you only if they feel attracted to you physically.
I appreciate you for helping & Sharing the Real honest truth that myself an others need to know even if it hurts hearing an feeling it.... Honestly can't thank you for being there guiding us as a great mentor through on becoming a better woman in a relationship an to have knowledge of our values an self worth. Your Amazing ❤May God bless you and all your subscribers with peace Love unity prosperity happiness and positive vibes with blessings upon blessings to you and everyone here Amen in Jesus name Praise the Lord always 🕊️🕊️🕊️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏
Yes!!! Go out in person and meet people. Jazz / piano / sports events/ the gym/ resorts/ horse races / events on event brite, car shows/ bike shows during the week / day time is better. Places where mature men frequent.
There are plenty of narcissistic men on those dating apps that are looking for supply from any woman, and many of them are only looking for sex! High calibre men are not on those sites they are at events!.
Just saw a BW met a man online. After 5 days they went out, she invited him to her place to watch a movie. He came on to her, slashed her throat; she fought and got away. She was lucky. Online dating apps/sites are FULL of felons, predators, married men only looking for a "hook up", con artists who are out to use you. If he doesn't have his own: Home/apt, car, money, good credit, good job; DO NOT date or marry him. Go to car shows, museums, cultural events, grocery store, volunteer, library.
I understand what he’s saying. But nothing is too hard for God. As long as you’re doing your part to prepare to be the Godly wife? God will take care of the rest. I haven’t met my husband just yet but I have met men just washing my car, walking, grocery store and so forth. And I do feel you can meet your husband at home. I’ve had men come to my house for pest control, delivering mail, landscaping and they’ve asked me out on dates. Granted, none of them were the ones for me. But God will not have you to miss your appointment meeting your spouse if you aren’t a person who goes out often. I’m a homebody but I have made it my mission to take more walks at the park more, go out to eat more, church and etcetera. Overall? God will make it happen when the time is right! He doesn’t need our help, He just needs us to position ourselves and get ready! ❤
Thank you for this excellent and sobering reminder. Especially point number one. I'm not closed to meeting folks online but the potential of making real genuine connections is so much greater than the online scene... As a natural introvert, I plan on being much more intentional on socializing this year. ❤
Absolutely!!! I met my Boo at our local Senior Community Center! He put a ring on it. We're engaged now. I am 65 years young and he is 74 years young. We weren't looking and look at God. I am sharing my testimony, so please keep hope alive and your heart opened❤. Pray for God's discernment and be yourself. God bless you all.
Thank You for sharing..I am 58 and KNOW that the third time WILL BE THE CHARM...I AM OPEN & READY...gonna GO OUT THIS WEEKEND😏
@@tmaa4bk949 Wonderful 💯
@@mc1069 thank you.
This me I’m always n the house
Damn SMH
I definitely need to get out more often. I'm always in the house 😊
How do I even go out alone as I don't have friends ! It's so hard ! And where do I even need to go ?
@@MarieN8959Alone is where the magic is.
❤❤❤❤❤!!!!! ACE, U BETTER SAY THAT SH!!!!!!!❤ ACE, I WAS THAT LADY 2 YEARS AGO GIVING CHANCES TO A TOXIC MAN. NOT NOW!!! I LEFT THAY SH!!!!! BACK IN 23! I WOKE UP, NO MORE FOR ME. I'M GLOWING , FEELING GREAT ABOUT MYSELF AND LOOKING FOR MY MAN THAT IS ON THE SAME FREQUENCY THAT I'M ON, BABY!!!!! ❤ I LUHV U FOR GIVING IT TO US RAW AND UNCUT!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤ GLORY TO GOD FOR MY DECERNMENT!!!!!
I’m at home resting from overtime work.
🤣✌🏻 He can meet me instead.
Was me last year, now I’m out here mingling❤❤❤Best advice ever! I go to upscale events of course no trashy places😂😂😂
Outside is not safe
😂😂😂😂😂 word this was my thought immediately. I’m like I’ll be over chilling lol
Go to seminars that are indoors, conferences, places of ppl of a high caliber
I had met a few dudes while taking my nature walks during the fall,spring and summer….🎉
Fr.
You’re so animated and passionate. I love it! lol ❤
When I say this people keep saying “ love finds you when your not looking for it “ that drives me crazy :(
it does in a way, because you have to look for it, then give up when it doesnt work, except while the whole time working on (/&loving) yourself, and once you're finally content with that, boom! there it happens, cause you're authentically in your element and no longer in a place of desperation, which naturally draws people to you
Talking about me. In the bed now 😂
Dang why you gotta be so mean when you speaking my truth. Okay I’ll do better soon.
I love go out need also money to go too
I get what he's saying, but it takes God to raise up a good man for you. And if it's God's job to do that, don't you think God is going to make sure He delivers that person to you? I believe so. I've seen in my own life how God had raised up family members I haven't associated with in decades come through the door of my life! He restored my ENTIRE family.
I agree with you. Nothing is too hard for God.
Ace of spades, let me shuffle my deck. Qualified men, where u at? 😅
That’s a great comment!!! 🎉
And go where?
😂😂 You're right,👏 💯. I met my husband at a rodeo, and a week later, we met again at work, where I still haul dirt. He turned out to be one of my company's bosses 😅. We've been married for 6 years now & move mountains for each other ❤. Get out of the house, beautiful people. There are people out there who desire what you want too. Stay safe.
I live in a small frieken town there ain’t no meeting guys here. Guys here are weird I can’t wait to move back to civilization
Everywhere I go, everyone is booed up!!🤔
so many of the good ones are taken, sadly... but I try to keep my head up and remind myself how short life is, and i'd rather wait a little longer for mr. right than waste my time and ruin my chances of finding him because of mr. wrong. Plus, there are so many damn people in this world and many of us are single for longer in life---part bc of the economy, covid aftermath, etc and part because we're living longer on top the fact that socioculturally, our life stages and values are shifting.
@nat3199 I totally agree🙏🏽 we just have to continue to pray and be patience
You clocked me upside my head a few times & I LOVE IT😭🤣😂💕. I was this close 🤌🏾 to heading in the danger zone😮💨…Thank you for that werrrd💯
How do work up the courage to go out alone?
😂 2:16 stop calling me out, Ace
A person willing to be responsible won't be hurt by the truth, they will accept it and use it to grow 🥰
🤣🤣🤣I love my sheets though but I truly understand what your saying..
This is powerful king thank you!! I needed to hear this.
Ouch 😮😮😮❤❤😂😂😂you better say it omg so true preach AM WALKING OUT THE DOOR NOW THANK YOU❤❤❤❤❤ thank you for all this advice
Thats right. The park, the grocery store, the gym,church,and lounge/bar. Out of the house is the answer.
Ace we love you to….No if ands..And big buts about it.. “Get out the house if you wanna meet a spouse.” Go out in the community.. Communicate your intent while being yourself and focusing on the present moment…#AcemetaphorLiveEvents #TonightsConversation #TropicalSmoothie #GotToBeReal #TheFutureWifeHandbook
Stranga Danga!
This man cuss too much but he damn preaching!
This is the realist sh... here, thank you my brother 🙏
And to stop having all these babies ladies.... and stop playing house either
🤦🏾♀️ I need to get out more
THIS IS WHAT WOMEN NEED TO LISTEN TO....... YEA ITS BLUNT BUT ALOT OF US DONT LISTEN
Damnnnn okay Ace, shit. I set a goal to go out aleast twice a month. I dont even want a relationship just a few runner ups lol but I definitely gotta get out more😩
Ace.... you've got me taking notes while I'm listening. Another good Live!!!
Go after it = drop the handkerchief… give him permission to approach.. smile. Eye contact. Say hello, open the door to be approached.
They outside 😂 yes I need to do that. I feel like you’re speaking to me. yes I need to be more social and vulnerable
Thank you so much for opening my eyes. You are a blessing
Everything that you are saying is so true
You are talking directly to me this is my wake up call I’m getting out of the house getting in social groups and hitting the gym. Thank you so much.
I have a physical disability so it’s hard to get out and about at times. How do I meet people then?
you can go out of the house and socialize but if you lack beauty, men will not see you let alone talk to you to get to know you. I've got a good personality but men will ultimately choose you only if they feel attracted to you physically.
I appreciate you for helping & Sharing the Real honest truth that myself an others need to know even if it hurts hearing an feeling it.... Honestly can't thank you for being there guiding us as a great mentor through on becoming a better woman in a relationship an to have knowledge of our values an self worth. Your Amazing ❤May God bless you and all your subscribers with peace Love unity prosperity happiness and positive vibes with blessings upon blessings to you and everyone here Amen in Jesus name Praise the Lord always 🕊️🕊️🕊️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏
Ya’ll heard him ladies….HELP HIM FIND YOU!! ❤
I’m too exhausted with work. I can’t even afford clothes to go on a date.
PURE FACTS CHAMPION 👌🏽✨🏆 THANK YOU 💯
I was never the type to approach a man.
🤔 You have a very valid point though, got be to more social.
Im a new subscriber & this was one of the best videos ive heard on this topic.❤
You’re absolutely right Ace!
I needed to hear this. Thank you
I smile and spark up conversations at the gym 😂
I work to hard No staff on job always in call how can I enjoy Life
16:42.....22:45👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽..."Date to disqualify unqualified men!"
Truth! This is so important to me. I have been in . Thank you for this ❤
15:25. You are very wise, sir. I will remember these words.
How do we contact him? I have questions.
$ i got shit to do
🤣🗣️Wait on a man for whoooooo🤷🏾♀️
@@purpose4passion721 well oh well
Damn ace tellin the truth cant be mad. Bc the truth hurts 😵
That’s on Mary and her little lamb 🐑
So True Hey Ace ❤🙏🏾🥰👋🏽💯
❤I do need 2 get out more
Facts
I love this lol
I am guilty
I’m waiting on god n be still
Shyt my sister told me this entertainment of dusty
I crave a good conversation from a decent men
Speaking facts!
PREACH PREACHER ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
You not lying!
So online dating is off the table for 2024? 🤔
Yes!!! Go out in person and meet people. Jazz / piano / sports events/ the gym/ resorts/ horse races / events on event brite, car shows/ bike shows during the week / day time is better. Places where mature men frequent.
It’s been off sis! Ain’t nobody on there but lames. On all of them at that! 😂
There are plenty of narcissistic men on those dating apps that are looking for supply from any woman, and many of them are only looking for sex!
High calibre men are not on those sites they are at events!.
Just saw a BW met a man online. After 5 days they went out, she invited him to her place to watch a movie. He came on to her, slashed her throat; she fought and got away. She was lucky. Online dating apps/sites are FULL of felons, predators, married men only looking for a "hook up", con artists who are out to use you. If he doesn't have his own: Home/apt, car, money, good credit, good job; DO NOT date or marry him.
Go to car shows, museums, cultural events, grocery store, volunteer, library.
But the bed feels so darn good
TRUTH!!!!
Ok
Lmao "look like u want to be talked too" you wayy to loud
Bro you doing your thang 💪🏾💪🏾😎😎 I'ma get my daughter to listen to this before she gets into the dating world
I love you so much for being you. You are so helpful in my life. I needed to run across your videos. 😢❤
lol 😂 yup me
I understand what he’s saying. But nothing is too hard for God. As long as you’re doing your part to prepare to be the Godly wife? God will take care of the rest. I haven’t met my husband just yet but I have met men just washing my car, walking, grocery store and so forth. And I do feel you can meet your husband at home. I’ve had men come to my house for pest control, delivering mail, landscaping and they’ve asked me out on dates. Granted, none of them were the ones for me. But God will not have you to miss your appointment meeting your spouse if you aren’t a person who goes out often. I’m a homebody but I have made it my mission to take more walks at the park more, go out to eat more, church and etcetera. Overall? God will make it happen when the time is right! He doesn’t need our help, He just needs us to position ourselves and get ready! ❤
😂 💯
♥️
Need to get out more,thank you sooo much king,really appreciate you 😊
I really needed to here this.... thanks Ace
Thank you so much 💓
#Bars 🫰🏾🫰🏾
Lol i love him! Nothing but real!!!!
Facts Ace 💯
No apology necessary
Absolutely 💯
PREACH BROTHER!!
So true.
Straight facts💯
Thank you for this excellent and sobering reminder. Especially point number one. I'm not closed to meeting folks online but the potential of making real genuine connections is so much greater than the online scene... As a natural introvert, I plan on being much more intentional on socializing this year. ❤
i’m just liking cuz of the title. yes yes yes