@@heyerikan Great quote but I would word it "the Ego Narrates" not "the Devil"... saying "the devil narrates" externalises and takes responsibility away from us (the one's thinking up those narratives based on OUR ego's insecurities/weakness).
To witness these Black men have this level of conversation is sooo healing and soo nourishing to my soul. I appreciate this conversation and I´m convinced healthy relationships can and will exist among Black women and men. I envision this level of emotional & spiritual intimacy for myself and my future partner. Amen, Ase & so it is.
10 mins in & I have to rewatch the episode, to absorb all the information you guys put out there! The execution in this episode is unique & depth of real life scenarios. 20/10!!
That mind connection he spoke about is called INTIMACY ❤ I tell my husband the same thing after a deep healthy conversation. It’s very stimulating. I feel connected to him on a mind level, not just physical.
I am starting a new relationship with a true man and we had a misunderstanding but were able to be vulnerable and talk and resolve things 🥲 I’m learning to listen as a women without being defensive. That comes from my parents too accusing me of being a bad child all the time but I was able to be aware of it and he was able to lead and today I feel amazing and boom this video comes out. So glad to be with a real man, I feel he is it ❤❤
Also I hear what you’re saying as far as creating a safe space for your partner to be vulnerable. But it’s also crucial to understand that sometimes.. no matter how safe the space you create, that person has trauma from their past that physically won’t allow them to open up and that requires work far beyond your scope as a partner. Jalon has clearly come to a place in his life where he has done the work to be able to correlate his present day feelings with childhood impact. The responsibility is on the individual to heal.
The part of knowing y’all planning for a lifetime of figuring it out and not having to know it all right then and there but bringing awareness to it. That part 👌🏽
Wow... that's the EXACT THING MY WIFE TELLS ME ALL THE TIME!!! Hearing it come from somewhere else really made me realize how much truth is in it. Thank you for opening my eyes❤🙏
Very similar to the book The Five Love Languages there is one called The Five Apology Languages. It’s a good read to further build that communication bond with your partner.
I LOOOVE this podcast! So good to see healthy communication modeled! Another thing to be careful of is facial expressions...that can definitely shut a person down when communicating!
I’m 24 and I’m getting married next month, I’ve never really had positive males in my life to each me how to be a healthy man for my wife but I just wanted to thank the fuck out of y’all for helping me be a better man for the woman I love
This conversation really makes me do some internal reflection as to how emotional availability properly displays for a woman. I definitely battle with attracting emotional available men, and I recognize that it’s based upon my internal struggles with vulnerability. I really wonder what that SHOULD look like, especially in consideration of healthy communication. Anyway, great episode Kings! Adore y’all 🥰🥃
This was an amazing conversation I never leave a comment but I had to give you your props today not to say that your other episodes aren't fire as well but this is really amazing it was very needed and I just love how you guys did and articulate the things that sometimes we don't know how to say but we know we're feeling it thank you so much and keep up the good work and you gentlemen are really helping a lot of individuals and couples that are really active and wanting to better themselves in every area of their lives.
When Omar started talking about the conversation between him and his girl while they were out to dinner and she equated the conversation to sex is the level of intimacy that I desire in my relationship!!! I love this podcast and the influence that you men are putting out especially for the men out here that have difficulty being vulnerable. I think that especially men they equate feeling and vulnerability to being soft and feminine which is not the case. Great job gentlemen with this one !!
I’ve never seen men be so vulnerable honest and smart . That’s sad at my big age I’ve been surrounded by clowns thinking it’s normal . Maybe I should move to another state
Referring to min 25:45 & onward Is it really effective to act like you don’t know what your partner’s talking about when they say “you’re acting weird” when you know exactly where they’re coming from? I think there’s power in being, as Duke said, H.O.T (honest, open & transparent) about your emotional state instead of having your partner question their intuitive insight. Especially if you ARE in-fact “acting weird”. Sometimes it’s hard to pinpoint concrete & tangible examples even when body language & energy is speaking LOUDLY. Just my 2 cents.
When is everybody gonna realize they’re talking about themselves. They need to have an off air sit down. All these questions and fake laughs…… the titles tell it all
The most difficult thing about communicating has to be understanding each others strengths when communicating. For example, I like most women can communicate to we blue in the face …I mean we will start spelling out words, synonyms,antonyms,etc.While I have came into contact in relationships that after “he” can’t explain any deeper it’s like …”just never mind , it’s cool” . 😂 so half of my marriage is me over communicating and him like “😳 ooo well what should I do so we not back in this space” ❤
As someone whose trying to work on being better at communicating this was very informative for me. I’m saving this to my archives to listen to again. @ Jalon are you a Scorpio? lol bc you sound like me I always ask questions to get deeper. Why is my favorite question. 😂
He always starts screaming name calling and making me feel out of line for even expressing how I'm a little stressed about a doctor's choice of treatment. He says I'm spoiled and want everything my way or somehow some way make it my fault for wanting a better understanding on my physical health.
I’m not a Scorpio but I’m with Jalon on getting to the bottom of things. I LOVE to ask why and ask questions to get a better understanding of my partner and other people I care about. When he broke down the clam thing!!! Man!! I was THERE WITH YOU!!! Like! Yes!! I love to communicate and j love to get deep with my person, that helps me love them better, to feed into them differently, alladat good shit. I really enjoy listening to y’all ♥️
This is my first time watching you guys and I am blown away. This is so great, to see black men use their voice and hear you guys talk about your relationship, I will be listening to more episodes!
I don’t think a particular gender is more mature than one another. I believe it’s based on the person maturity level and emotional intelligence. Some time women get overly emotional and start yelling and can’t have a simple conversation and I’ve also witnessed men be overly aggressive when a conversation is getting too heated. So it’s all based on the person emotional intelligence.
Everyone thinks they can communicate BUT speaking isnt communicating... The ability to explain your perspective AND hear & digest someone elses is difficult. Ego can take over if you arent willing to speak first... Anger can affect tone... Insecurities can creep in & prevent you from sharing yourself or cause you to accept BS. You really need to set up guidelines ahead of time, so both partners know how to communicate... AND do internal work to say, I'm willing to be the person to put ego, anger & fear aside for the sake of the both of us.... and you want a partner whose willing to do that as well
Idk where I been on this podcast but I found it today & im 4 episodes in ❤ it’s so breath taking to hear young men be so open honest vulnerable about real life issues
The first test of in/compatibility will show in a couple’s communication skills (or lack of) .. it goes beyond communication - big or small. You must listen to understand, not to simply respond. Are you able to put your ego to the side and comprehend what the other person needs to convey? Good, bad or both? Communication = Comprehension + execution
Lack of self awareness, maturity and the Ego's need to be right are what cause communication break downs... Some aren't self aware enough to know or understand the feelings they are experiencing so their Ego ends up taking over in a knee jerk reaction of self protection; thus the fight begins. Effective communication starts INTERNALLY within one's self; unfortunately most fail the assignment internally and that internal failure is then mirrored externally with others inbthe form of an argument... Relationships are merely mirrors of the relationship one has internally with themselves. Miscommunication is a #SYMPTOM of an internal breakdown; problem is we focus on external ego fights as opposed to the internal #ROOT issue. "Understanding others is Wisdom but understanding the self is Enlightenment." It all comes back to the self.
Whew, this was a really GOOD one! I love how each of you take the time out to reflect and add your personal experiences to the topic. I also love how Omar talks about him vs. the the ego because the ego is truly what hinders us from operating out of love. The ego wants us to believe everything is an attack, but with those constant self check-ins and reflections, we get better at being in control of our reactions and allow ourselves to be more vulnerable. It's also us vs. our ego.
Amaaaazing… this is the best conversation about communication and the effective way to communicate that I’ve heard. (Although, and no disrespect to you and said with much love- I’m 53 and old school, it would be great to be able to get through the conversation without cursing because that is a certain kind of communication too, I just see that today’s society has desensitized the vulgarity of it, just an ole gurl’s 2 cents but loved the message in the conversation) 🙌🏽💗
This was so good! So helpful. Communication is big to me and I’m always working on it but you guys made good points. Definitely had some take aways and perspective from men my age. I agree that it’s not a thing for women or men to be better communicators. Personally my childhood does effect how I communicate and receive information. Definitely subscribing
After all these years I Now know that I've been emotionally neglected. My mental needs, my emotional needs, my Own financial needs and obligations prior to our relationship has been All under his discretion. I Love him now, but I've been trapped by lust the first 3 years and after his and my mother's affair, with no more intense relations between us I've had to look hard to find something to live him for and keep from throwing away the relationship. EVEN THOUGH HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME , ID RATHER NOT HEAR IT BECAUSE HE MEANS HE LOVES THE FACT THAT IM a weak woman who is Needy and blind. He steps out all the time and it's frustrating and painful. If I could Only communicate better maybe he and can get passed the daily silence orr bitterness . I've caught him several times watching me with a emense look of disgust. How can I tell him I love and appreciate him but I want him to help me fall out of obsession and into understanding??
Really enjoyed this convo! Tbh, this is the first time I have heard a male led podcast touch basis on such an essential topic and with such maturity. Definitely gives me hope as a woman to know this this caliber of guys exist in this generation. You guys are dope! Definitely about to subscribe!
Love you guys conversations BUT you know you all are controlling the relationship and the women cannot feel 100% comfortable being their authentic self until after marriage. Men decides when which isn’t fair to women. To me a favor and ask your partner when do they think it’s the best time to get married.
I love how Omar gets hype about the intro. It really is 🔥 I have this song on my Apple Music because of this podcast. I say by the end of summer Omar will have the lyrics down and be rapping it like it’s his song 😂. Oan: this episode is IT just like all the others. I feel like I’m watching my dope a** brothers at this point. Love it here and shoutout to the guys for being stand up men and constantly growing ❤
I had a MENTAL ORGASM watching these MEN sharpen each other's swords !!! I know men TWICE their age that could NEVER engage in such conversations. Shout out to them, their parents , their women, and whomever else is responsible for this level of maturity and delicious intellect!!! I'm definitely a fan now ! Keep up the great content !!! I keep telling my friends, there are some still left LOL😂
How is it possible for a relationship or a situation-ship Be so miss guided and misunderstood after 5 years. Expressing any type of point of view or trying to express how my emotions are towards certain things, be seen as starting a fight or being judgemental?? My partner will Not or rather gets annoyed by any means of conversation.
One of the best podcast episodes on relationships I’ve ever listened to!!!! Its so refreshing to hear that others struggle in their relationship but also that there are others who have the tools to properly navigate it in a healthy way.
I watched this ep when it first came out and loved it, just finished the sex and intamcy ep with tank not too long ago and am leaving this comment here to have it noticed sooner as it is still in relation to cmmunication and relates to both eps, Love the podcast fellas, watch you guys all the time, and Nice & Neat is a podcast that is definetly in my top Two! would greatly appreciate an episode & topic inclusion on men not being satisifed sexually, and how to go about us as men becoming pleased when not satisfied, i feel its a taboo rare topic that might not be discussed often but exist, women are not the only ones, I learn so much information and gain so much positive dialogue from you guys as fellow black men and would love if this was a topic, on how to go about having our needs met in general, casually in casual sex etc, i often leave disatisfied and the women has came and or has mutiple times, i am a man that cares to please but dont know how to properly go about dating to recieve what i give, i care for the same pleasure but dont know how to go about properly getting what i dish out, ive never met my match but have been close a few times, Im 23 and single, & sex is of importance to me fellas, i look up to you guys Especially Duke & Jalon, and truly vaule you guys advice & apply it to my day to day, I hope this is something that could possibly be of disscussion in the near future, Not sure how many other men deal with this problem yeah.
Such a great episode, with real valid points . To summarize it all in .. vulnerability is such a big aspect of being able to communicate bc it’s coming straight from an conscious deep rooted place 🔑
"when you don't communicate, the devil narrates" - Jalon
I like that statement it’s so true
Snaps in poetry fingers
Heavy, right?
@@keishafam02 too good.
@@heyerikan Great quote but I would word it "the Ego Narrates" not "the Devil"... saying "the devil narrates" externalises and takes responsibility away from us (the one's thinking up those narratives based on OUR ego's insecurities/weakness).
To witness these Black men have this level of conversation is sooo healing and soo nourishing to my soul. I appreciate this conversation and I´m convinced healthy relationships can and will exist among Black women and men. I envision this level of emotional & spiritual intimacy for myself and my future partner. Amen, Ase & so it is.
Love!!! 🥃🥃🥃
I agree ❤this was really lovely to listen to my black brothers 😊
Yesssssssss!!!! Everything you said!!! ❤❤❤❤
I Agree💕
This podcast is so powerful because y’all are actively modeling better behaviors
Agree 💯
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I'd love to actually be a part of the conversation to pick their brains
10 mins in & I have to rewatch the episode, to absorb all the information you guys put out there! The execution in this episode is unique & depth of real life scenarios. 20/10!!
That mind connection he spoke about is called INTIMACY ❤ I tell my husband the same thing after a deep healthy conversation. It’s very stimulating. I feel connected to him on a mind level, not just physical.
I am starting a new relationship with a true man and we had a misunderstanding but were able to be vulnerable and talk and resolve things 🥲 I’m learning to listen as a women without being defensive. That comes from my parents too accusing me of being a bad child all the time but I was able to be aware of it and he was able to lead and today I feel amazing and boom this video comes out. So glad to be with a real man, I feel he is it ❤❤
It’s important that you know where the root of your defensiveness comes from. Give yourself some credit for that! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Also I hear what you’re saying as far as creating a safe space for your partner to be vulnerable.
But it’s also crucial to understand that sometimes.. no matter how safe the space you create, that person has trauma from their past that physically won’t allow them to open up and that requires work far beyond your scope as a partner. Jalon has clearly come to a place in his life where he has done the work to be able to correlate his present day feelings with childhood impact.
The responsibility is on the individual to heal.
The part of knowing y’all planning for a lifetime of figuring it out and not having to know it all right then and there but bringing awareness to it. That part 👌🏽
It’s a marathon 🏁🏁🏁
If it’s one thing Jalon gunna do is drop a Gem!
When you don’t communicate, the devil narrates 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Wow... that's the EXACT THING MY WIFE TELLS ME ALL THE TIME!!! Hearing it come from somewhere else really made me realize how much truth is in it. Thank you for opening my eyes❤🙏
I really appreciate the vulnerability and openness that you Kings demonstrate. A great example for other Black Males to see, keep up the good work.
We will! 😤
Very similar to the book The Five Love Languages there is one called The Five Apology Languages. It’s a good read to further build that communication bond with your partner.
I LOOOVE this podcast! So good to see healthy communication modeled! Another thing to be careful of is facial expressions...that can definitely shut a person down when communicating!
This is true! 🥃🥃🥃
Where do men like these be at??👀 coz damn y’all are just going straight to the point!!!
I’m 24 and I’m getting married next month, I’ve never really had positive males in my life to each me how to be a healthy man for my wife but I just wanted to thank the fuck out of y’all for helping me be a better man for the woman I love
This conversation really makes me do some internal reflection as to how emotional availability properly displays for a woman. I definitely battle with attracting emotional available men, and I recognize that it’s based upon my internal struggles with vulnerability. I really wonder what that SHOULD look like, especially in consideration of healthy communication. Anyway, great episode Kings! Adore y’all 🥰🥃
Great take away! 🥃🥃🥃
You got this girlie!
Jalon always delivers I appreciate him so much❤
This was an amazing conversation I never leave a comment but I had to give you your props today not to say that your other episodes aren't fire as well but this is really amazing it was very needed and I just love how you guys did and articulate the things that sometimes we don't know how to say but we know we're feeling it thank you so much and keep up the good work and you gentlemen are really helping a lot of individuals and couples that are really active and wanting to better themselves in every area of their lives.
That is our mission! Bridging the gap between men and women through healthy conversations like this one. 🥃🥃🥃
When Omar started talking about the conversation between him and his girl while they were out to dinner and she equated the conversation to sex is the level of intimacy that I desire in my relationship!!! I love this podcast and the influence that you men are putting out especially for the men out here that have difficulty being vulnerable. I think that especially men they equate feeling and vulnerability to being soft and feminine which is not the case. Great job gentlemen with this one !!
Cool song who is the artist and what’s it called?
I’ve never seen men be so vulnerable honest and smart . That’s sad at my big age I’ve been surrounded by clowns thinking it’s normal . Maybe I should move to another state
Referring to min 25:45 & onward
Is it really effective to act like you don’t know what your partner’s talking about when they say “you’re acting weird” when you know exactly where they’re coming from? I think there’s power in being, as Duke said, H.O.T (honest, open & transparent) about your emotional state instead of having your partner question their intuitive insight. Especially if you ARE in-fact “acting weird”. Sometimes it’s hard to pinpoint concrete & tangible examples even when body language & energy is speaking LOUDLY. Just my 2 cents.
Great point! 🥃🥃🥃
When is everybody gonna realize they’re talking about themselves. They need to have an off air sit down. All these questions and fake laughs…… the titles tell it all
The most difficult thing about communicating has to be understanding each others strengths when communicating. For example, I like most women can communicate to we blue in the face …I mean we will start spelling out words, synonyms,antonyms,etc.While I have came into contact in relationships that after “he” can’t explain any deeper it’s like …”just never mind , it’s cool” . 😂 so half of my marriage is me over communicating and him like “😳 ooo well what should I do so we not back in this space” ❤
Mannnnnn. Y’all were in your bag this episode! So many gems. Heartfelt thank you for this one.
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As someone whose trying to work on being better at communicating this was very informative for me. I’m saving this to my archives to listen to again. @ Jalon are you a Scorpio? lol bc you sound like me I always ask questions to get deeper. Why is my favorite question. 😂
Scorpio gang ♏️♏️♏️
lmaoo sameeee😭😭
The spiritual and emotional maturity here is real. Love from GA❤
Love to GA! 🥃🥃🥃
Love this !!! I hope it is a life saver in my soon to be marriage . 😩 Pray for me y’all! I am taking notes 📝 and will apply these ASAP. Love this !!!
Y’all have been working hard on these intro lyrics ever since they ate y’all up in the comments about not knowing them 🤣🤣
Facts 😂😂😂
He always starts screaming name calling and making me feel out of line for even expressing how I'm a little stressed about a doctor's choice of treatment. He says I'm spoiled and want everything my way or somehow some way make it my fault for wanting a better understanding on my physical health.
I’m not a Scorpio but I’m with Jalon on getting to the bottom of things. I LOVE to ask why and ask questions to get a better understanding of my partner and other people I care about.
When he broke down the clam thing!!! Man!! I was THERE WITH YOU!!! Like! Yes!! I love to communicate and j love to get deep with my person, that helps me love them better, to feed into them differently, alladat good shit.
I really enjoy listening to y’all ♥️
I luv that you guys provided practical and easily implementable tips. More of that please 🖤
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The podcast does not get enough love. Yall are so dope❤
Keep sharing and we’ll get there! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is my first time watching you guys and I am blown away. This is so great, to see black men use their voice and hear you guys talk about your relationship, I will be listening to more episodes!
I don’t think a particular gender is more mature than one another. I believe it’s based on the person maturity level and emotional intelligence. Some time women get overly emotional and start yelling and can’t have a simple conversation and I’ve also witnessed men be overly aggressive when a conversation is getting too heated. So it’s all based on the person emotional intelligence.
Everyone thinks they can communicate BUT speaking isnt communicating... The ability to explain your perspective AND hear & digest someone elses is difficult. Ego can take over if you arent willing to speak first... Anger can affect tone... Insecurities can creep in & prevent you from sharing yourself or cause you to accept BS. You really need to set up guidelines ahead of time, so both partners know how to communicate... AND do internal work to say, I'm willing to be the person to put ego, anger & fear aside for the sake of the both of us.... and you want a partner whose willing to do that as well
Idk where I been on this podcast but I found it today & im 4 episodes in ❤ it’s so breath taking to hear young men be so open honest vulnerable about real life issues
The first test of in/compatibility will show in a couple’s communication skills (or lack of)
.. it goes beyond communication - big or small. You must listen to understand, not to simply respond.
Are you able to put your ego to the side and comprehend what the other person needs to convey? Good, bad or both?
Communication = Comprehension + execution
My favourite episode hands down.
Please share! 🥃🥃🥃
Mine toooo
Learning how to apologize is one of my biggest struggles. This is a conversation that needs a part two.
Y’all are just SPOT on. I truly love this podcast.
that emotional drawer analogy!!!
Lack of self awareness, maturity and the Ego's need to be right are what cause communication break downs... Some aren't self aware enough to know or understand the feelings they are experiencing so their Ego ends up taking over in a knee jerk reaction of self protection; thus the fight begins.
Effective communication starts INTERNALLY within one's self; unfortunately most fail the assignment internally and that internal failure is then mirrored externally with others inbthe form of an argument... Relationships are merely mirrors of the relationship one has internally with themselves. Miscommunication is a #SYMPTOM of an internal breakdown; problem is we focus on external ego fights as opposed to the internal #ROOT issue.
"Understanding others is Wisdom but understanding the self is Enlightenment." It all comes back to the self.
"who am I to be saying this." -Jalon
I literally watched this 3 times already, you guys are doing remarkable job with these important conversations🥃🥃🥃thank you!!!
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Never watched a male podcast. Y’all made me like them!! The points y’all made has me amazed
Thank you for watching and sharing!!! 🥃🥃🥃
Honestly this was insightful on many levels but for me as a parent.
What’s the intro song
Whew, this was a really GOOD one! I love how each of you take the time out to reflect and add your personal experiences to the topic. I also love how Omar talks about him vs. the the ego because the ego is truly what hinders us from operating out of love. The ego wants us to believe everything is an attack, but with those constant self check-ins and reflections, we get better at being in control of our reactions and allow ourselves to be more vulnerable. It's also us vs. our ego.
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Noooooo disrespect to my good sis channel 👑 but DUKE IS FIIIIIIIIIIIOOOOOOOOOOOOOONNNNEEEEE‼️ like GYAAAAAAATTTT😭😭🙏🏾
Amaaaazing… this is the best conversation about communication and the effective way to communicate that I’ve heard. (Although, and no disrespect to you and said with much love- I’m 53 and old school, it would be great to be able to get through the conversation without cursing because that is a certain kind of communication too, I just see that today’s society has desensitized the vulgarity of it, just an ole gurl’s 2 cents but loved the message in the conversation) 🙌🏽💗
Jalon gone drop a word in there every time 😂
This was so good! So helpful. Communication is big to me and I’m always working on it but you guys made good points. Definitely had some take aways and perspective from men my age. I agree that it’s not a thing for women or men to be better communicators. Personally my childhood does effect how I communicate and receive information. Definitely subscribing
What happen to "Them the Rules?"
Inability to be receptive or change is already a losing battle
After all these years I Now know that I've been emotionally neglected. My mental needs, my emotional needs, my Own financial needs and obligations prior to our relationship has been All under his discretion. I Love him now, but I've been trapped by lust the first 3 years and after his and my mother's affair, with no more intense relations between us I've had to look hard to find something to live him for and keep from throwing away the relationship. EVEN THOUGH HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME , ID RATHER NOT HEAR IT BECAUSE HE MEANS HE LOVES THE FACT THAT IM a weak woman who is Needy and blind. He steps out all the time and it's frustrating and painful. If I could Only communicate better maybe he and can get passed the daily silence orr bitterness . I've caught him several times watching me with a emense look of disgust. How can I tell him I love and appreciate him but I want him to help me fall out of obsession and into understanding??
Really enjoyed this convo! Tbh, this is the first time I have heard a male led podcast touch basis on such an essential topic and with such maturity. Definitely gives me hope as a woman to know this this caliber of guys exist in this generation. You guys are dope! Definitely about to subscribe!
Love you guys conversations BUT you know you all are controlling the relationship and the women cannot feel 100% comfortable being their authentic self until after marriage. Men decides when which isn’t fair to women. To me a favor and ask your partner when do they think it’s the best time to get married.
Is this what you took away from this episode?
Wish I came across this episode earlier this week Jalon literally explained my entire weekend if you don't communicate narrates WOW!
Loved this Episode
Dawg y’all were dropping bars on this one. Thank y’all for sharing knowledge 🙏🏽
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This topic is a great first date question…..Are you able to be vulnerable when communicating is uncomfortable???? Speak on it fellas!💙💙💙
You can go back to season one and look at some of our episode titles and use those as well as great driest date questions and hot topics! 🥃🥃🥃
I love how Omar gets hype about the intro. It really is 🔥 I have this song on my Apple Music because of this podcast. I say by the end of summer Omar will have the lyrics down and be rapping it like it’s his song 😂. Oan: this episode is IT just like all the others. I feel like I’m watching my dope a** brothers at this point. Love it here and shoutout to the guys for being stand up men and constantly growing ❤
Its inspiring to see y'all evolve in real time. I appreciate the vulnerability and accountability. Keep going! ✨
I had a MENTAL ORGASM watching these MEN sharpen each other's swords !!! I know men TWICE their age that could NEVER engage in such conversations. Shout out to them, their parents , their women, and whomever else is responsible for this level of maturity and delicious intellect!!! I'm definitely a fan now ! Keep up the great content !!! I keep telling my friends, there are some still left LOL😂
The hardest part is talking to a man who only has surface level answers. Who never has a WHY?
How is it possible for a relationship or a situation-ship Be so miss guided and misunderstood after 5 years. Expressing any type of point of view or trying to express how my emotions are towards certain things, be seen as starting a fight or being judgemental?? My partner will Not or rather gets annoyed by any means of conversation.
This is gooddddddd 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
My brothas, you make me so proud to hear how specifically emotionally intelligent your conversations are.
How mature and brave!! Thank you!!
I love this podcast omg
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Loved loved LOVED this podcast. I took a lot away from this and will be applying to my personal life . Thank you guys for your transparency!
Looking at the comments to decide whether or not this is the podcast i am looking for at this time and its looking pretty positive so far.
Look at our guys getting their views up!! 🎉🎉🎉
Welcome!! 🥃🥃🥃
Thank you!!! Keep sharing for us! 🥃🥃🥃
love you guys podcast
One of the best podcast episodes on relationships I’ve ever listened to!!!! Its so refreshing to hear that others struggle in their relationship but also that there are others who have the tools to properly navigate it in a healthy way.
Really good conversation! Made me want to communicate better!
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This was dope!!! Gratitude to you all! 🥰
Just listening i known its right yet im triggeredtherapy
Wow! This episode is very important in all aspects of relationship.
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I watched this ep when it first came out and loved it, just finished the sex and intamcy ep with tank not too long ago and am leaving this comment here to have it noticed sooner as it is still in relation to cmmunication and relates to both eps, Love the podcast fellas, watch you guys all the time, and Nice & Neat is a podcast that is definetly in my top Two! would greatly appreciate an episode & topic inclusion on men not being satisifed sexually, and how to go about us as men becoming pleased when not satisfied, i feel its a taboo rare topic that might not be discussed often but exist, women are not the only ones, I learn so much information and gain so much positive dialogue from you guys as fellow black men and would love if this was a topic, on how to go about having our needs met in general, casually in casual sex etc, i often leave disatisfied and the women has came and or has mutiple times, i am a man that cares to please but dont know how to properly go about dating to recieve what i give, i care for the same pleasure but dont know how to go about properly getting what i dish out, ive never met my match but have been close a few times, Im 23 and single, & sex is of importance to me fellas, i look up to you guys Especially Duke & Jalon, and truly vaule you guys advice & apply it to my day to day, I hope this is something that could possibly be of disscussion in the near future, Not sure how many other men deal with this problem yeah.
This is great 🥃🥃🥃
Okay so Jalon does have a girlfriend lol why we never see her jalon🤔
Naw if you know sir you playing games lol
Honestly wish I watched this a few months ago
No halftime show or was I just toooo focused on everything lol
No longer doing halftime. We want to keep the conversation flowing. 🥃🥃🥃
Chanel sounds like a true virgo from the stories on the podcast 🥰
Absolutely loved this episode ❤❤
I really enjoyed this conversation super insightful. Keep up the good work guys 👌🏽
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So good ❤
I needed this episode a few days ago😅😢
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Wow! Powerful message.
Appreciate the sophisticated conversation 👌🏾
Talk on the phone 🎉 so you can take turns and mute so that u can actively listen
Good tip! 🥃🥃🥃
Such a great episode, with real valid points . To summarize it all in .. vulnerability is such a big aspect of being able to communicate bc it’s coming straight from an conscious deep rooted place 🔑
Vulnerability is key 🥃🥃🥃
GREAT episode 🥃 🥃🥃
Man certain people have a defense mechanism to not even want to comprehend. No matter how well you explain something…
Every time i listen to this podcast I feel drunk with knowledge.❤❤
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Respect. Any content for single men?
This content is for all men looking to elevate. Anything you’re looking for specifically?
I believe accountability and transparency in addition to active listening 🎧...
In support of the ego has ABSOLUTELY NO PLACE IN THE CONVERSATION 🎉
I enjoy all your episodes... but this one is on replay!👌🏾
Make sure to share! 🥃🥃🥃
Duke always gets it! 👏🏽
Podcast started out GREAT, had my ear and then...CAN one communicate effectively and intelligently w/o profanity?
Very important episode for other Black Kings to listen to. And, even us Queens.
Be HOT! ❤❤❤❤❤ THIS!