Why a Girl Leaves You On Read and Ignores Your Messages - DO THIS ASAP!
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- Wondering why a girl leaves you on read and ignored your messages? Getting left on read by a woman of your interest can be confusing and frustrating, and I detail exactly what to do if a girl leaves you on read.
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Listen people: Human beings do not ignore or neglect things that they value. Leaving you on read is saying I don't value you. So move on. That's it.
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that's finally what I did the other day. If the roles were reversed, she would be throwing a fit that you didn't reply to her message.
Never double text , just let her be and focus on following your goals and dreams
Finally someone that gives an actual instruction on what to do when the girl that ghosted you finally replies. Thanks dude.
I get ignored constantly, it’s like talking to a brick wall, she’s busy a lot with her job. I make an effort,
so I’ll just focus on my running, and leave out looking for love from this point on.
I followed your advice and it worked man I told her I thought you weren’t like other girls and I brought her down off her ego like you stated I haven’t talked to her for almost a month and a half and then I called her she picked up and now we’re dating. Thank you for your advice.
You are underrated coach! I love this, you will be the reason for all my relationships!!!
"You're not a priority at this moment" *gets left on opened every single snapchat is send* welp i guess im never gonna be a priority lol
Don't ever text her again bro. If she ever reaches out, tell her you're only willing to keep in contact if you are treated like a priority. Otherwise, don't ever do that again.
@@DOPELifeCoaching yeah its hard she just texted me yesterday and asked how i was doing and asked when im coming up cause we live in two different states but its hard to just let her go like that we were really good friends and liked each other at the end of 2020 and i guess she just lost interest and stopped texting me
It's her loss
stop it. hit the gym. be successful. she texts back, ignore her
I just stay left on read forever. Means she doesn’t give a shit so after I’m done being butthurt to myself I move on and forget about her
Very key point when you said that beacuse its kinda vague when people speak on female intrest when a woman's interest is not a linear thing there is really no such thing as to it workinh like that in her mind, women will respond To you based on how emotionally relavent her intrest is in the urgency or need it is for her so her intrest is more of a constant to flux of change it depends on the moment and how you meet the occasion as a guy
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This is by the best explanation for these situations ever!! Great vid💯
Thanks my man!!
This is good advice, because, in my case, I liked her for being really upfront, because she did go for what she wants. And leaving me on read goes against that, it ruins the thing that was special about her. If she reaches out, I'll tell her so.
how did it work out?
When my messages go unread when I message a woman the second time, I block her...I have done it before, I will do ot again...Real Men deal with Real Women...Real Men dont deal with immature kids...
That works as well. Most important thing is your peace of mind 🙏
@@DOPELifeCoaching What if you unfriended them, would that be harsh?
You are right bro that thing actually works even I have done it on the past and when I blocked her she actually got mad and started almost begging me to unblock her. But I eventually distant myself from her because of her immaturity
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Bro u dont have to block that just shows u r weak. Just ignore her while being civil and nonchalant.
This literally helped me out a lot💯
Its my pleasure brother 💯
@@DOPELifeCoaching your videos are blunt and they get to the point
This video is a year old but the advice is STILL valid. How do I know? It happened to me today
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this is the best video I will ever see in my life
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I subscribed I love your videos my brother everything you say is straight facts my brother 💯
Thanks my brother!
post on your story working out showing her your life is lit with or without.
That also works!
Another scenario is she can leave you hanging without apologizing-basically letting you walk away. But then say after 24-48 hrs later she may reach out to you with that apology. Look some women think men are their slaves and like their shit doesn't stink! She sees that you not only left but also you are not reaching back to her-and of course why should you but thats the way thir mindset works as sad as it is. I am sorry I personally just woul;dn't take anyone like that back period!
If she keeps giving you excuses all the time like I'm busy bro just leave don't waste your time
That works too
Yup it's her loss
Just come across your channel bro nice n wasy explained 👍👍
99.9% true dude..ur point same from true relationship psycology
My brotha 💯💯
Why should a man with value have to wait for her?
Because she's a woman?🤣
Nope! A woman with value would not leave you on read and she sees your value enough to give you the information you need so you don't freak out.
There's a lot of things that play the part.. insecure, child hood trauma, heartbreak after heartbreak, inconsiderate, player, time waster but a woman with value will never make you feel devalued.
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In my experience yes.
Great video man, really needed to hear this
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Short answer: She thinks she can do better.
It's simple fellas.
Lol no my guy not the case. That’s only with a jezbel spirit and girls who break up with ppl first.
Yeah i agree with Leon T, it's not always the case
The real reason ^
If she likes you enough she will answer
Most of the time...it's not really about her thinking she can do better. It's more of a mind game, she wants control, attention and validation. That's the sign of immaturity and insecurities.
A girl at my work had been flirting with me, she's quite shy but seems fine talking to everyone else. I tried to reach out to her and asked her if she was ok as she was acting weird, she initially responded saying she's fine and thought i was upset, so i responded saying i was fine and would rather been working with her. She left it unbread after that. The next day was awkward as fuck at work, back to the silly ignore game. I should walk from that right? I'm tired of playing games, would rather she was honest and upfront than acting like a teenager.
any updates ?
@@xmorowe Not really. I removed my contracted day at work that we'd be in the same room together and now she acts like she doesn't give a shit. She says hi to me but we don't really talk unless we have to about work related stuff. I won't lie man, it hurts.
Any luck now?
@@apap3029 She got promoted a few months ago and things seemed really good for a bit. She started to break her shyness and was able to have a laugh with me but recently she's started falling back to her old games except it's worse now as she's my boss. I need a new job man.
@@Britishwolf89update ?
When she blocks you that when you know she is not interested
Lol of course
Or when she tells you to stop sending messages
Yea Issam Morgan has left me on read a few times but I always leave her on ignore I'll tell you why because sometimes she doesn't wanna talk for that I had to give her a little space then eventually she'll get back to me then me and her can come up with something fun so that I can ask her back out
I needed to hear this. Thanks!
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She left me on read sometimes , I expressed my feeling, she said she use to it... I just want to know more about her, not even loving her yet.. I don't understand this is a patience testing on me or she literally not interested
She's not interested brother
@@DOPELifeCoaching i feel that bro but since we are not very knowing each other yet, so i'll take the time as well as focusing on my studies and career instead of relationship, see how far we can get within a few months.
Today I got left on read ..
Frustrating..
Then I just realised while watching this video. I left her on read yesterday, 😂
Teaching me a lesson.
tbh I am working away , it just slipped my mind
You probably weren't super interested in her
This happened to me she left on open then a couple days later said “hey my bad I literally forgot to text you back” I left on delivered for hours then left her on open ,it’s been a week should I tell her that I didn’t appreciate that or just leave it at that?
@DOPELifeCoaching what would you tell her in this situation and have I played my cards right and it’s not too late to send that?
Ok so its been too long at this point to say anything, you'd be adding fuel to the fire. Just respond normally and ask how she's been. If she asks you about it, tell her you left her on read because you didn't appreciate that from her.
@@DOPELifeCoaching yo I texted her “Heyy, what kind of trouble are you getting into today” it was like 9:20p.m she didn’t read the message to the next morning and left me on open thoughts? I think she could also be trying to get back at me since I left her on open and do you think she’ll hit me back up sometime later?
@@1017-k6i Hahahahah why u guys always out of luck when it comes to texting women
There is a girl with whom things were about to start and she was reciprocating good. I went a month off the phone due to some personal/home issues. Later things got subtle and i started to talk to people and her, she isn't the way before. I know it's my fault but i don't know what I have to follow to keep her interested like before.
Reach out to her from time to time and try to set up a time to see her. If she resists, back off and don't try again.
It's her loss
I cut women off when they start with the leaving me on read shit. No one is that busy. Told someone that last night. Kings, we deserve better. Demand better and demand respect.
After multiple times of my girlfriend doing this i had to say something. And honestly just thinking of walking away. I know her triggers and i avoid them yet she does all my triggers.
Coach
Why Non Reactive become Reactive ??
By calling her out saying you dont appreciate she left you on Read ...
So it is NOT stay NON Reactive or call her out anyway?
What happened I first start with be in Non reactive and happy and she smile and talk but when I told her I am not happy she disappeared , her smile turn into resentment ..and make me feel I am petty weak that she has no wrong to Not reply and she has every right...
She said she want to do her own thing because any request or expectation is causing her stress because I am not happy she didnt text me back
I was set up ona date double date with a freand my friend put me on with the sister and we've been talking for 2 days everything was going good the one day when I asked her if she's off tomorrow left me on open what should I do
Do absolutely nothing. No response equals no interest brother
He is really good
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So I had an awesome first date with the girl last night. We got along really well and I could tell she was into me and she obviously tell I was into her. So long story short we played darts and had a little bit of kissing and cuddling going on then afterwords we said goodnight and I left, she told me today she wanted to hangout again so I texted her twice throughout the day seeing if we were still on for tonight, she ended up leaving me in read both times. Any advice?
Two things
Could have said nah maybe next time or not double texted
Be nonchalant like yeah let's chill like it doesn't phase you cuz it doesn't
I think the big mistake you make in this was texting her twice. You're showing her that you're needy and wanna see her so badly.
Just to let you know guys what he's saying is right Bcs it happen to me . And do exactly what he's saying then she started Chase.
got left on seen after a day of talking so i texted her again and she blocked me
Welcome to the norm, move on to the next one little bro
Listen I saw her at party we kept on looking at each other when she was about to leave I shot my shot and said can I get it insta she said yeah She took 2 days to accept follow and I sent her a text that wanna be cool friends and get to know her and asked if she was in a relation ship.She left me on read its been 2 days since she left me on read . Can you help out bro
I'm sorry bro but thats way too many mistakes. Schedule a free consultation with me and I'll explain why: www.dopelifecoaching.com/book-online/
You made so many mistakes bro you need to lookup the red pill
heard this man bro, i just do it and its work
King treatment only
Oh I just let her know that I don’t appreciate and I told her I blocked and have a nice life.
My girlfriend does this sometimes mostly when she is working it dosnt worry me one bit I’m not insecure about it and I’m not going to lie to her like you are saying that’s not the relationship for me. She always says i love you when she’s ready to talk a few times she said sorry and I just go on with other conversations. She hounds me after that but I’m not interested in being into messaging non stop it give me time to myself. You sound like you have insecurity’s about if your girlfriend likes you and control issues.
thank you for this brother
You got it brother
The female that I'm trying to get with is on pretty good terms with me, we linked up for a few hours 2 days ago and it went really well and she even said that she will definitely do it again and will let me know the next time she's free, so if she ever forgets then I'll just ask her soon down the line if and when she knows when she's free to link up again, so we can get closer and get to know eachother more. Because I'll make sure to use our 2nd link up in the future as an opportunity to 1 get closer and 2 recover from the roughness that happened yesterday. Which was her and I in the game of not responding every 5 mins-1 hour before we would, but it's still really early in the morning for me and I texted her at like 8:30-9pm last night, so I'm chillin and will wait a little bit to reply to her after she does for me so I can make sure it's maintained before the next chance we get to link up again so we can get closer and know eachother more before something finally happens, if it (hopefully) does.
Edit/Update: 2 mins later and I checked my snap (my snap notifications are off so I don't get automatically urged to respond asap so I just naturally check it a little while later so I can respond after a bit without me forcing myself to hold off) and she left me on open. However, it's actually understandable since it was from last night and basically me telling her goodnight and I'll talk to her later (which is today ofc, but I'm gonna wait until at least the early afternoon just so this situation can cool down and smoothen back on in order for us to start back up again before we link up again, since I'm personally gonna use that as a major opportunity to have us get closer and all that good stuff)
You get closer with time. I don't recommend purposefully holding back man. Say your part and just do your thing naturally. Shouldn't be a game, should be effortless. You get it?
I sent a message on whatsapp, I deleted it like 4 hours later, then she gets back like "I saw your nessage!"
Like wtf?
I didn't even respond yet...
what about friend who leave you on read when in the middle of the conversation?
Explain why? You get an enthusiastic message you think job done half way there so you message her then.......nothing ?? This has now happened a number of times its disturbing at personal leval l find it confusing and hard to understand? What actually going on here?
what if we have been only texting for a week will she still be curious? do i still use that technique and tell her that i don't appreciate being left on read after she contacts me?
You can, but if it's only been a week and she stopped talking to you, I'd say just move on bro.
What if she’s playing you ?
I don't think she gives af about me. I shot her a message and got left on delivered, we didn't see each other in a long time. Maybe she has someone else now or is surprised I sent a message. Idk, she'd look interested, she'd act shy around me. But I was the same, so that probably gave her the ick. I basically missed my chances with the one I wanted.
watching This video has just made me subscribe
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Alright you made me subscribe with ur good content.
I appreciate you bro!
I texted her after 3 week she ignore ne..i told her zat am moving on bcause i cant be her friend 3 week before
I just stay left on read forever. Means she doesn’t give a shit so after I’m done being butthurt to myself I move on and forget about her. I’m talking about being left on read for over a week btw
Same! It Sucks
Ah good old manipulation, my favorite
I'm really confused. Sometimes shell leave me on read and gives really lacklustre responses. Then other days she'll send me videos of herself. She's got a really busy job but I don't think that's an excuse right
youre on rotation dude! keep it moving
@@J1122 hahaha cheers mate. I ended it and 2 months later she popped up again but yeah I'm not pursuing. It just wasn't worth the headache, feel so much better now l.
@@abdull5721 Good man bro lol
@@J1122 rotation does that means she speaking to other guys
@@stockyguru you have a lot to learn.......................................
My problem is that she has a boyfriend, but I still want to be friends with her because I think she’s cool and she has a good personality
If you only want friendship with her, you don't have to do anything at all. It's a completely different dynamic brotha
Hmm im pretty conflicted about this advice... you say that they're excuses and acknowledged that most likely they are, and how people have 24 hours etc, when someone does this and displays this why even bother letting her back in in the first place rather than walking away? isn't that disrespecting yourself and accepting her excuses almost, plus its a high probability and chance that she will just do it again if you just accept her back again
So powerful message.
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What if I know she likes me because she’s expressed it before, and she has left me on read to a question?
Then just leave it at that and don't respond or message her unless she does
I waited 24 hours until they say something and if they don't, I just delete them and move on, im not going to double text or beg anyone at all. I have to keep my options open
That also works
Hey man. So I know for a fact she's quite seriously sick, for a week or so after our first date. I'm still talking to other girls, but she's at the top of the list. What would you advise? How long should I give her to get better then reply?
Check in on her every few days but only if she's actually sick. Then see if she will reach out on her own
I guess I did the right thing when I was left on read. I said nothing. But that is months ago. So she is not interested I guess. At least I kept my dignity.
Exactly bro! Good job!
I been on read for month now
Time to level up!!!
Thank you soooo much
You got it!!!!
PLEASE anyone suggest... She desired me in hotel.. I kept ignoring her.. She kept signalling me.. I ignored her for 2 days.. Totally.. Then I asked her number.. She happily gave.. And asked me out.. To hang out... But..... On chat she started keeping me on read.. I became from Alpha male in person to submissive male in chat 🥺🥺🥺😓😓😓😓and I kept texting sry etc.. But she kept me at read.. Then.. After 5 days of me texting her sry.. And she keeping me read.. I said sry last time for disturbing her and didn't texted her since then.. It's been 25days now.. She doesn't replied.. What should I do.. J actually had got desperate on chat because I was sry for ignoring her 😓and from her cream state in person she became cold ice on chat.. Just replied first day then she kept me on read which made me go desperate and sry 4 times to her 😓 what should I do now..?? I haven't texted nor she textd me it's been 25 days.. Whag should I do if I want her back??
Do absolutely nothing. She ignored you and that's disrespectful. Now if she ever comes back, she has to come back on your terms and she has to know that she disrespected you.
Today I got enlightenment with this video
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it literally means shes not interested or if there is any little interest there your at the bottom of that list women are the best texters they have their phone all the time on them if they have time to open and read your message then they have time to reply. Move on and dont waste your time
Great advice!
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Sounds like you coping, she leaves you on read move on to the next , DO NOT CHASE!
Boom!
Does this works if we are just friends and I told her that lol
Not in most cases, brother. Sometimes it does though
Is unfriending someone harsh?
Yes it is.
is it okay to unfriend her in social media?
Listen if you unfriend you need to unfriend AND BLOCK so you don’t show up in her friends lists. I did this to girl who was cold and she found out and cried that I did this hahaha. It was awesome
She left me on read but she texts my friend normally
She ain't interested
@@DOPELifeCoaching unfortunately
Her dog died 😭 bruh that happened to me last year and me and her were close then she got a boyfriend
She lied and that's ok, you move on. You'll laugh about this one day.
@@DOPELifeCoaching na she weren’t lying
theres streamers who can stream for 4 hours and make time for family
What about if it’s been 2 weeks. Last time we actually talked directly which was thru ig was feb 22 well after that she decided to leave me on read for some reason
Still a good idea to get back to her?? Or should I wait it out what I don’t get is she’ll still view my story and liked my post
No brother, she's not worth it
I'm a true subscriber
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A girl responded to me after 23 hours late in the evening. What do i do?
Mine never respond
Depends on her level of enthusiasm.
Then shes not for you bro
Wow, it makes sense now
Glad it goes
I don't feel it's the best advice to tell someone "I don't appreciate being left on read" it's bound to backfire.
Just take the excuse and don't reply
I typically won't recommend that but it can work in certain circumstances.
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I need help and advice
My LTR on and off broke up with me reason she said I stress her out by Calling her out and putting her in place..If I said she is rude she flakes she ghost she left me on Read , she will blame me for everything that her body pain and mental health is caused by me because I stress her out...
She will ghost me for 7days and try to text "I miss you" and then disappear again....I left her UnRead and she pull away 3 weeks without any text ...I went to see her but told me I caused her stress again because I told her dont ghost me ...what should I do ? Go No Contact until she reach out ? I depressed should I be UnReactive unaffected or tell her my boundaries or walk away to get the respect back ?
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What if she dint reply back after doing absolutely nothing !!?
Then she's not into you! Move on brother
men u just put the good vibes and care when she pulls back just dont react do nothing she will miss u and she will get back just punish her by not reacting and do the same she does if she replys late reply late thats it u must have another women on ur life dont depend on her let her chase u not u chasing her guys respect ur self and put a highvalue on urselfes
Preach!
I agree with this but at the same time you’re letting them off the hook just letting them act how they want to act. It’s a hard one … don’t do nothing and you’re a doormat . But if you kick up and say it’s disrespectful can come off as if you’re feelings were hurt. Any tips on how to get the right balance?
Or maybe we are just mad at him😶
Understood, but still not an excuse to do that. That's rude and immature.
One thing I've noticed is that this girl doesn't ever talk about why she dissapeared, or ever say sorry for dissapearing. She'll just come back.
I did what you said, and I even told the girl that I didn't think it was a good idea to keep taking because I didn't like the inconsistencies.
When I told her that, she asked me to explain more and ended up calling me.
She didn't just let me go but honestly I'm not sure about it.
I need more details to help you. Tell me more
Calling you is a great sign though.
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Lmaoooo