How Get Over a Brutal Breakup When Everything Reminds You of Her.

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  • Опубліковано 21 тра 2024
  • Breaking up after a long-term relationship can feel like losing a piece of yourself, especially when you've shared deep physical and emotional connections. In this video, we discuss practical and spiritual steps to heal after such a devastating loss. From understanding the emotional and physiological impacts of breakups to finding comfort in faith and healthy coping mechanisms, we cover it all.
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  • @bigpapa9418
    @bigpapa9418 Місяць тому +8

    Personally i delt with this and jesus saved me at the end of it. I focused on god and i prayed for her and i grew love and forgiveness for the things she did to me and I repented for the things i did back to her like abandoning and getting angered. The lord told me when he saved me he would take care of me and everything would be okay. He did not lie. 10 months later im happier than i was before i meet her and i am pursuing my dream job being a student pilot. I love the lord more than anyone now and he never lets anyone down. Amen🙏🏽

  • @lovaaaa2451
    @lovaaaa2451 Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for actually taking this seriously like that, that's exactly what it is. Being abandoned by what I felt to be my other half is the most soulcrushing thing I have ever experienced. I can't imagine life without her even more than a year later even though we were only together two years. It makes me feel so spiritually depraved I have a hard time even with my faith now, even though it is the most profound meaning in my life and the one thing that gives me peace. Please pray for me that the lord guides me to follow him and so that I can become baptized in the one true church.

  • @clouddancer46
    @clouddancer46 Місяць тому

    It's like being a beautiful, vibrant, and colorful butterfly, captured for its allure. You're placed in a jar, admired for your beauty, your essence, and your uniqueness. But once the captor has had their fill, they unscrew the lid and let you go. You're free, but you're not the same. Your colors seem duller, your wings feel heavier. You're still a butterfly, but the world seems less vibrant, less inviting. You feel like a shell of your former self, discarded and forgotten, left to navigate the world with a sense of emptiness that echoes with every flap of your wings. 😢🙏🏼

  • @csherina
    @csherina Місяць тому +1

    Going through a break up & this is very helpful... Thanks for the good reminders, Elizabeth! ❤

  • @veronicacorningstone3888
    @veronicacorningstone3888 Місяць тому

    I’ve been watching yalls older videos on the topic of breakups and dealing with them this week because I just went through one myself, and am honestly really struggling. This video couldn’t have come at a better time and I see it as a sign from God that there are always people like you guys who are praying for people go through pain like me. I’m praying for you too ❤️

  • @katpellot5898
    @katpellot5898 Місяць тому

    Loved all the recommendations provided in this video. Exercise, clean eating, journaling, daily mass, are all excellent to add to your daily routine after a break-up. Also, patience with yourself and trusting in the Lord's mercy and timing. It will get better 🙏❤

  • @ftx453
    @ftx453 Місяць тому

    I’m 6 years and 6 months after a breakup. She’ll haunt me until I die. I will never date again after that.
    Thanks be to God I developed a major clinical illness in November 2023. So, I hopefully won’t have to suffer with this loss much longer.

    • @user-or2io9cf7c
      @user-or2io9cf7c Місяць тому +1

      I'm going on 4 years now... still struggling. Thought I was alone in not getting over someone for years...
      But let's strive to be even more enamored with Jesus..... Jesus will never hurt us, only He can fully forgive and trust us again...

  • @franciscoruizluque1598
    @franciscoruizluque1598 Місяць тому

    I'm 3 months after the break up. I sadly did indulge in porn a lot to numb my pain. Didn't help at all, just made it worse and increased my addiction to it and now even thou I would like to stop my brain is just against it.
    I still miss my ex, I'd love to be with her but I can see me not being able to fully love because of my porn problem and the shame it brings (not even mentioning the mess it did in my brain and how that affects me with feeling love towards others).
    I don't totally know what to do nor what might happen in the future. Maybe deep in my heart I have this feeling/ache that I will meet my ex again but I don't know if it's just myself.
    I really regret all the damaged has done to my brain and how I feel and see the world. It really unabled me to connect more with my ex partner.
    Please pray for me and also her.

    • @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute
      @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute  Місяць тому +2

      Praying for you, brother! Keep fighting the good fight and hold on to the Man on the Cross.

    • @michaelwilliams949
      @michaelwilliams949 Місяць тому

      Bro, I’m with you! She wanted to break up with me and for the past several months I’ve been having a nightmare with it. Saying that I am seeing that God is purifying in the most powerful and profound way.
      Prayers bro 🙏

    • @franciscoruizluque1598
      @franciscoruizluque1598 Місяць тому

      @@michaelwilliams949 yeah, I broke up with her, mostly because I wasn't being a good partner and other stuff too. But man, I love her but see myself unable to love her properly.
      I sometimes had dreams about her. Where we re-encounter, talk, go on a date and I can remember all of them. I really miss her.
      I'll be praying for you. Hope God makes the best out of this.