Telling mom he was bullied at school for being half Filipino [Part 3] | K-DOC
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Korean bullying is next level. I went to school with a lot of Korean exchange students and WOW it was insane. Even the good looking Korean students would get bullied. The lead bully only needs a slight reason to dislike you and BOOM they all follow that lead bully without question. I'm gonna bet that his bullying is not just his looks, it's probably cuz he's poor too. That one was a really common reason.
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And also the fact that he's a foreigner. A lot of Koreans still think they are superior esp to South East Asians. 😭
I think is bullied because is not rich mean poor,u know all people know like what
@@soonsuicidal Which is weird because South East Asians are way more good looking than East Asians lol
@@Usernamee4687 is that just your opinion? Or Scientific proven?
He definitely habors some resentment towards his mom for being a foreigner. Sadly it's the result of being resented by his peers growing up. I'm sure he feels the same about himself, but he directs it towards his mom because 1) it makes it easier to cope with the pain and 2) prob to form some sort of disassociation.
He's still a teenager and so all that emotion is intensified. It seems his mom is doing a great job raising him. He'll eventually realize everything she's done for him. I hope he learns to love himself and understand that he's just as much Korean as he is Filipino, and that it's a beautiful thing.
Agree 😌
I'm sure the fact that she was so busy trying to put food on the table she barely had time to raise him also makes a huge impact. I feel so bad for both of them.
Koreans look down on SEA people but not westerners. If he was half white everyone would fawn over him. Sad state of asiain countries being racist against each other.
@@Mikketamakulo very true
@@Mikketamakulo this is VERY false statement....first of all not all westerners are white...secondly.....korea is a homogenous country...they are not open to outsiders regardless of the country you are from...its just that out of all the foreigners/westerners they .....they favor white foreigners/westerners a lot more ....but black ...indian and other darker skinned foreigners/westerners are treated the same way southeast asians are treated in korea
I was a factory worker in Korea and I've only known ma'am genie as a very hard working, multi tasking, a brave and strong woman that helps Filipino migrant workers in Korea. She always smiles and talks in a calm soft voice. And now watching this side of her story really melts my heart.
to be honest i feel that korea documentaries like this should really stop mentioning anything about the filipinos because they're just making plain insults against our people and spread more hate against us in their own country to make them even hate us more they are not praising us in this video it's very dissapointing
@@MTC008 I don’t think they are I think they are just spreading awareness
@@MTC008 What’s there to hate in this video though? This seems really inspiring and it shows the Filipinos’ strong love for family. Even the Korean hosts here look proud and in awe of how strong she is being a single parent.
@@giselle521 the way of this documentary how it describes filipinos are insulting and down grading them like how is it bad to be filipino and being unlucky enough to born as one of those people
@@giselle521 it's better not to support these because the more you support the more power they have to post more insult against us you should stop believing it's good to worship them these people doesn't like philippines at all they're just considering filipinos are garbage and nothing more other than that, you need to open your minds regarding foreigners who are using us for their own benefit there is no benefit for filipinos being mentioned in this video it's all about plain insults
The father does have a responsibility towards his son... He needs to be accountable for it
In Korea ? Lol
@@zoewtang is it not by law accountable in Korea?
@@diz_et_dat you can get it court ordered but the court won’t make the father pay. There’s no enforcement in Korea.
@@zoewtang hmmm... abandoning this way is really cruel... 😔
@@diz_et_dat I totally agree but it happens more often than we think
Bullying should be criminalized to be honest. It might appear like a minor issue on paper but it cuts deeper than what is visibly shown. It's literally a life-altering burden for a lot of people.
it's not that simple, bullying can be different, if we're talking about violence, it's a crime, but it might as well be gossiping, laughing, and it's hard to call such things a crime
@@Soreto23 hi okay thats a good argument. but Imma disagree bec Bullying is internal damage, it doesn't have to be PHYSICAL so as it is called violent or whatsoever. A single laughter, a cell of gossips with dirty intentions can cause one a brink to self-image, but to sort it out, I get your point of what crime is. I think the commenter points out the ratched effects Bullying made to people. Being human should be normalized as all a gateway to mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical aspects- they are all core to health and living, and should be subjected with prior protection too.
Bullying causes deep emotional trauma that usually steers the victims life away from being happy and healthy. Therefore it is actually a massive crime and there should be big punishments for that.
It comes down to like .. “who are you to bring down the life of somebody else”
In the Philippines "Anti-bullying law " is already implemented...
i may not totally relate to everything sungjae went through, but as a fellow teenager, I understand how hard it is to tell your parent/s about your life outside the house. I understand how hard it gets when you don't have anyone but yourself to talk to.
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So true growing up my parents are also busy. sometimes we only meet when its time to go to school. I am also like him not showy and talkative .
in my POV he knows how hard-working his mom...and he don't wanna add up to her burden... and have a hard time expressing it for the past years...all the emotions and confusions have pile up like a mountain.. it's good that they are in this show atleast a good start for their healing as a family for a new beginning.
Couldn't agree more. I know that we teenagers usually don't open up to our parents. We are too shy to even tell our parents that we love them. I think that's normal, but sometimes we have to talk to our parents or tell them what's happening in our lives because it's too difficult to keep everything in ourselves. So let's all love our families and be more open to them.
good thing i dont have a life when i was a teenager. just kept studying. as expected by society.
As the child of a single parent and immigrants, I see you Sungjae! It’s like you’re grateful for your parents sacrifices, but when you get older you realize that their decisions (good/bad) affected you in a lot of ways and the pressure to pay back all of the sacrifices became a a burden not a gift. He probably has a lot of trauma/stress but talking to her about ways her actions were traumatic will make her feel like a bad mom. Plus you can be an amazing provider but a bad parent. Hope they communicate better in the future!
So true
This.
any filipinos who supports korean documentaries or any other foreign documentaries or foreigners and thinking it's good to be mentioned by those because of thinking it will promote philippines to this are just non sense and idiots, foreigners doesn't love philippines at all and they will never will, they're only promoting hate and boost themselves using philippine content to popularize only just for themselves, for views,
Exactly…you get so much stress about all those things about a kid. Even knowing your parents made those decisions for your own good still hurts.
She is an amazing provider but reality she just doesnt communnicate which left a strain on her sons relationship
A lot of Koreans discriminate against south asians. especially filipino and indian people. i'm so sorry this boy was bullied, i hope he'll have a lot of confidence and love in the future.
Idk about Filipinos but Indians are also hella racist against East Asians. Most of the older generations didn’t even want to be called Asians because they didn’t want to be associated with the southeast and East Asians. I’ve also heard that Filipinos discriminate against each other more than anyone else. Kinda naive and also racist itself to think it’s specially the korean people that is racist against others. And if this boy and his mom come to the United States, they will face racism for just being Asian in general. Almost every Asian American kid growing up has been bullied because of their race and especially now, Asians living in the west have it rough as the rates of Asian hate crimes have gone up.
Not only korean. The same is in all countries.
Any non koreans can get bullied .....but I hope the society and public condemn bullying.
@@clorozweepvmundosalazar5153 I'm sure it's an issue in other countries too, i just mentioned it because I had a lot of incidents while living in Korea where I was shocked how bluntly people talked bad about other nationalities. For example I heard often that indians "smell bad" and lack hygiene. Didn't mean to offend anyone
@@YouYou-sm8tf what I find most sad is that Koreans friends told me that they wouldn't marry a foreigner because when they have a mixed child it'll be bullied. Of course there are exceptions but.. the way they already knew there will be bullying :(
I hated the son at first but now i feel how he suffered. But its really important to talk to your parents or PARENT on how you really feel. Please take good care of your mother. Shes a wonderful mom and shes doing everything for you. TO ALL, PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOUR MOTHERS, ALWAYS TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM. WE ARE OUR MOMS TREASURE. ❤️❤️❤️
Yes, even though some parents seem to just discard their childrens feelings, which is sad.
Having a Filipino mother is one of a kind..don't disown her because she's a Filipino
YOU SHOULD LEARN TO LOVE AND STAND UP FOR YOUR MOTHER NO MATTER WHAT, WITHOUT HER YOU ARE NOT AROUND TO SEE THE WORLD WORLD
It’s good the mom initiated the conversation. Because a barrier was already visible between them. They lack communication, they don’t even know how to begin when they first sat together. The son refused to make deep conversations since he mentioned his mom doesn’t even listen or try to understand what he says. So it’s great to see they were able to patch things up easily.
They have to keep trying to communicate, as she was so busy working that he basically grew up alone. Of course they don't have many memories together and it's hard to communicate. I really hope they patch things up and only good things happen to them in the future.
It's not easy to say loving words to our parents. But showing them through actions is relatively easy. His mother has shown through her actions how much she loves him by raising him to be good and working day and night, despite being a single mother in a foreign country. He has shown through his words that he understands this and although it would be impossible to repay the love, he is gonna make an attempt.
Me to my parents: I don't say I love you, I don't hug, I don't call them. (I call my sister to check on them, how are they). We show that we care for each other the other way around.
filipinos still embrace and love the koreans and their culture despite koreans belittle them like a garbage LMAOOOO
@@MTC008 It is not because SOME korean belittle other race, doesn't mean all in other race are like that. It is not because someone acted wrong, doesn't mean other race need to hate.
@@lmaoeverywhere6524 koreans don't like pinoys and they never will, you are still trash to them even if you idolize them
@@lmaoeverywhere6524 koreans are not fond pinoys they actually liked vietnamese people more than pinoys but they also humiliate them, there are numerous vietnamese women marrying korean men and most of them getting beaten up by their korean husbands, koreans seem to dislike southeast asians because they are much poorer than the east asia
This is both heartbreaking and heartwarming to watch. As a mother of half-Filipino children, living in a foreign land, it's very painful to watch and hear the child tell his mum that the problem lies in her being "a foreigner". I can't imagine how tough life must have been for them to live in a society that cannot accept them for who they are. I hope Sungjae would learn to embrace his roots for it is only in accepting who you are and where you come from can you truly start to love yourself. Kudos to the mum for reaching out to her son, making the most of a difficult situation, and doing her best to raise a responsible, independent and caring son! 👏👏👏
can we please stop supporting these documentary videos it only promotes more hate against us by koreans and they will never going to like us, these people are not going to be fond of filipinos because of philippines poor status and who are we to them to do such liking thing?
@Mari "You can't just go to a country and expect that they're going to be nice to you.
Humans are humans" these words of yours actually just give me reason to hate korea and not to respect them even more
@Mari they need to be nice to others if they also wanted to be respected
@Mari koreans don't like pinoys because of their bad attitude, poor conditions and not so good looking people, there is clearly no way of koreans ever going to like philippines and it's people if you think like that you absolutely have low IQ to have such a mindset of what you expect about them
@@MTC008 Well because you are new to them. Most koreans couldn't even speak English, the language barrier prevents friendly conversations happening. You're just xenophobic a hateful person. Filipinos knows how to speak English even the basic ones that's why foreigners are always warmly welcomed. Try being a tagalog speaking person and go to leyte (let's just assume they can't speak tagalog), you keep speaking your dialect but they can't understand you and what would happen if they can't understand you, they'll ignore you. Then misunderstandings happen because you can't even fcking communicate in the first place. You are just a hateful little child who grew up in comfort. Grow up.
This breaks my heart. 😞 This is the last thing parents want their children to experience.
Why is it that most Koreans always look down on Filipinos where in fact there a lot Koreans living in the Philippines and they were never discriminated. What cruel world! Kudos to you mom for doing a great job!
Too sad but I knew some of Korean are narrow-minded unlike others Asian (some of )welcome with full heart its don't discriminate peoples all are human being
That's the reality of Korean society. They think highly of themselves.
They're just mad cuz every Filipino can speak English but every Korean can't. 😉
not all korean. plz dont generalize all korean and im korean who lived in the Philippines for 20 years and i also experienced discrimination when i was in high school and university in the Philippines and many filipino people were trying to be close with me for borrowing money . approached foreigner for money . but i dont generalize all filipino to those some bad filipino. and every country has racism and discrimination. and sorry to say that even filipino to Filipino looking down each other so much .😥
True. There are so many Koreans studying in the Philippines and they are welcome here. And yet we don't get the same treatment in Korea.
I knew her son have his own side of stories to tell and he hides all his emotions the first two part of their stories. Finally he come out and shows his mom how much he actually acknowledge and appreciate what she had sacrifices for him despite she failed to be with him most of the time. Thank you for loving your mother and being a grown well-being young man. May you both exchange more smiles and laughters. Wishing happiness to you and God bless this family.
All she wants as a mother is to know that her son loves her. Makes all her sacrifices that more worth it. Your one amazing lady
너무 마음이 아프네요..ㅜ..타지에서 홀로서는게 얼마나 힘든일인데 지금까지 어떻게 버텨왔을까ㅠㅠ..저도 어렸을때 외국에서 살았고 부모님이 힘들게 일하셔서 학교에서 인종차별당하고 괴롭힘당해도 부모님께 말못하던때가 있었어요 짐될까봐..한국도 다를게없죠 어떤 이유로든 괴롭힘당하는건 용납안되는거고 어떤식으로든 가해자들한테 다 돌아갈겁니다 성재님 힘든것들 글로든 뭐로든 풀어내도 좋으니까 마음에 꼭꼭 담아두시지 마시고, 또 성재님이 진짜 멋있고 소중하고 사랑받는 존재란거 기억하고 또 기억하시길!! 이번기회에 용기내서 조금이라도 푸신게 너무 다행이고 대단해요..그리고 혹시 너무 외롭다면 한국에 사는 다문화가족모임이나 교회 등등 비슷한 커뮤니티를 알아보는것두 추천해욤 조은일만 가득하기를!
더 동의할 수 없어 ㅠㅠ우리 십대들은 보통 부모님께 마음을 열지 않는다는 것을 압니다. 우리는 부모님께 사랑한다는 말조차 하기에는 너무 부끄럽습니다. 나는 그것이 정상이라고 생각하지만 때때로 우리는 모든 것을 우리 자신 안에 유지하기가 너무 어렵기 때문에 우리 삶에서 일어나는 일을 부모님과 이야기하거나 부모님에게 말해야 합니다. 그러니 우리 모두 가족을 사랑하고 그들에게 더 열린 마음을 갖자
@@kendrix2308 that's good.
@@zethcao11 응ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
To sum up, majority of the people around the are ignorant. If dogs has different breed’s then it’s very easy to understand that people as well.
I am so touched in this video. Some Koreans are fake and some of them are true. I am a Filipina and I hate Koreans who bullied those Filipinos living in their country. Take note Koreans you are not master in all aspects of life so stop bullying the people who are in your own country even they're indian,Filipino, Indonesian or who they are because they are nicer if you are nice. In fact, we are embracing your culture because we accept your differences so you do to us. Koreans who understand English Hope you will notice this comment.
Sungjae 힘내세요. You should never feel embarrassed for having a Filipino blood. One day, this blood will give you pride and joy.💖
Half filipinos are fucking awesome. HER, Bruno Mars, Saweetie, Nicole Scherzinger, Aple de Ap, OLIVIA RODRIGO for example. And full blood Filipinos are making waves. Bella Poarch, bretman rock, patrick starr. So why be ashamed if these international celebs are proud of who they are? They're half, like him. He should be proud.
@@qwertyboo agree💖
Agree..You should be Proud that ur mom is A Filipino🤗..🇵🇭
@@qwertyboo There are zero full blood Filipino celebrities that are worth anything. Embarrassing how the greatest full Filipino celebrities out there are a makeup artist and a cringe Tiktok star. Also, Bruno Mars and Saweetie aren't even half Filipino.
@@npcie117 Bruno Mars is certainly half filipino; her mom is full filipina; dad is Puerto Rican.
😭😭😭😭. His mom is so strong and works so hard for her boy
I cried so much watching this because I could relate to it a lot. Having my immigrant parents next to me walking to school, at a school full with racist white people staring at us. Wishing I could be white than Hispanic. Having to stay home alone taking care of my little siblings because parents were too busy making money for us. This broke my heart for their situation. I wish the best for them
I guess you are short. Korean hate any short people especially filipino people. Also , filipino people believe their face are so ugly too.
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now i undertand why the son is not expressive to his mother that much on previous episode.becoz of what they've been thru. we really can't judge what we just saw. everything has it own reasons. now after seeing it all i can see he really love and appreciate his mother it just that he is shy to show and express it coz of what happened to them on the past.
i think the mom is pretty, especially on her younger days, and seungjae is also handsome. i hope he learns to be more affentiionate to his mom
I cried a thousand river on this episode. A simple I love you is irreplaceable.
It must've been hard for Seungjae growing up. Imagine he's suffering alone because he cannot tell his Mom, I'm just really glad he turned out be a good son. Hoping for their complete healing as family. Also, hoping the Korean society becomes more open and welcoming to non-white immigrants. They're are people too, worthy of respect. I am glad shows like this exist there, it's a good start. Kudos to Jenny eomma and Seungjae and to this show's production team!
your prejudice. Just as I am biased and false to say that all Filipinos are poor and incompetent. Most Koreans are friendly to foreigners. Some Koreans are racist as you say. There are good people and bad people in every country in the world. During my past trip to the Philippines, a thief stole my wallet. My expensive watch was stolen while traveling in Thailand. Are all Southeast Asians thieves? I don't think so. There are many Filipinos who live well in Korea and have many Korean friends. Your prejudice is wrong.
@@betterthannever3127 if koreans really love filipino people videos like this about philippines will never exist. IF THEY REALLY LOVE US but this video exist so they don't
i doubt that koreans will ever love the philippines, they see filipinos as garbage people and almost everyone is a burgular many koreans think this especially for those who don't know philippines
@@betterthannever3127 boy stop being delusional
An amazing, heroic Mom; and a quietly loving son. This is MUCH BETTER THAN ANY K-DRAMA I'VE WATCHED. All things in the end work for the good. GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY and ALL FILIPINO & KOREAN FAMILIES! Thank you K-DOC!!!
Maybe the mom has friends and we just didn't see them on the show, but it's SO important for adults not to put too much emotional burden on their children. It's really hard for single moms since they don't have adult support inside the home but they CAN find it among their peers. The "you're all I have" refrain doesn't make for a healthy relationship.
When your parent is your responsibility, it's hard to love them with lightness and freedom. It's a heavy burden to carry.
T.H.I.S!!!!!!!
BUT "you're all I have" is a fact. Not words of selfishness when one looks at her situation.
You should understand the heart of a mother.
We have saying in the Philippines "when a child loses his parents, he could survive. But when a parent loses his/her child, he/she loses her life."
You are right! I am almost from the same family and i can say that i am over 25 but still live with this burden. Mom shouldnt be so depressed and should stop showing how many things she do for him. All adults work hard and have problems, she is not special. I guess she wanted to marry korean man and stop working.
@@marblueony754 Ok, so it's a cultural thing. Gonna be honest tho, that doesn't make it healthy? A child is ANOTHER reason to live. Not anyone's ONLY reason to live.
I promise.
God has given all of us talents and abilities and people to get us through this life. 💕
@@marblueony754 just cause its a cultural thing doesn't mean it's right, it's still wrong, this is normal in my country too and my mom is a single mom too and i HATE it every time she tells me im all she has, i want her to have her own life and hobbies and friends i dont want me to be all she has.
It's good that we are seeing this different side of the son, to also learn his story
Be proud of your mom boy, don't forget your roots of being half filipino, when you become successful show the world how proud you are to your mom....
He probably doesn’t have much connection to his roots and basically is culturally and nationally korean. I hope her mom has done a good job of introducing her culture and life to him.
Know that you’re special and being a Filipino is the best. Show it to bullies!!!
He's got a great Mom. The son is also a work in progress but he is getting there in showing his Mom that he loves and cares for her. It'll just be a matter of time when they will learn the art of communicating and hopefully everything will be A-Ok.
i love the mom, when she cries i cry. wtf. i wish you both happiness and sungjae will be successful i pray for you both!!
Sungjae, you’re mom is a a super hero.. I can’t imagine living in a foreign land as a single mother.
Be proud of being half filipino, the history will tell how strong, brave and courage the fighting Filipino's during the Korean war, they liberated south Korea for possible (jeonbog) colonization.
they feel and enjoy freedom becouse of our brave soldiers.. be proud son.. 🇵🇭
I understand this situation as I grew up with a Filipino-Chinese mom and I could never really have a heart to heart talk with her as a kid and I still cannot in adulthood...
God please richly bless this hard working mom and her Son 🙏🏼🙏🏼. May they have much happiness and success in their lives
People are so cruel like imagine looking down on someone just because they are different than you. I COULD NEVER that’s not how my parents raised me to be. It’s 2021 racism shouldn’t even still be going on but sadly it will never stop there will always be someone in this world that will not like you because of your skin color or where you come from!! That’s why it’s so important to wake up and like/love yourself don’t let the opinions of others stop you from being you and pursing what you want in life. Love yourself and be proud of who you are and remember it’s okay to be different!
Welcome to the good old USA . We came so far to become where we r . Took us 50 years . Where we starting to respect others regarding of the colour of their skin . It took 4 yrs to undo history . Thanks to trump & his cronies. Let the GOP continues control on the state level . All people of difference colour will be 2nd class citizens. Or yet be lock up regardless u r born in the the USA . Sad ... but it coming . Ww2 is repeating it’s self .
@@ednamode7480 I think you’re racist toward conservative and gop too
When the conversation went ...
When I was a kid, people looked at you differently because you are foreigner.
My tears droppeeeeed! I cant imagine to call my mom as foreigner. They deserve happiness and love!
I'm giving props that even though her son does go through a lot, he doesn't choose to be going to a bad "phase". Communication is key, I hope the mother and son well be blessed and doing well. Hard work shall pay off for them.
See guys….he’s going through bullying and puberty….and why he doesn’t look nice with his mother…but man…I’m not Filipino….but he should be proud :)
This story of mother and son really really touched my heart.. I've been bawling my eyes out in every video.. they both have their own struggle, n I just wish that they come closer breaking all the barriers between them.. much much respect for the mother nd wish that the son becomes a successful man and take care of his mother.. ❤️
being filipino is amazing. he should be proud. and proud of his mom. i hope everything gets better for them and between them❤️
he’s a handsome young man.
whatever bad/sad had happened between mom n son it’s not intensional. love may not be obvious but it does exist between them.
👍 good job son.
What an amazing mother. I only wish joy and happiness in your future......from a fellow Filipino mother
She's Beautiful mom and her eyes are so lovely...super tantalizing eyes...i love it..
I just hope those children who bullied him at school or outside after watching this show realized how bad is their action and stop the bullying and those who are aware of it will report to the school to help him. I really wish for the best for both mum and son. God grant them good life, health and lots of luck in their life.
Its really a hurtful incident when someone picks at you just for you being different.
When will people realize that everyone is different. It doesn't have to be just your skin color. In general we all are different form each other.
This young gentleman man should respect his mom and should accept her for what she is and from where she is. You are in this World is just because of her and you should be proud of who you are.
Bullying is such prominent in such a developed country. Every time I just hear or see that people are bullied for no apparent reasons.
Cheer up man. You live your life by yourself and you define you life in whatever way you want too. No one else live your life for you and decide the course of your life for you.
All the best for your future endeavors and live your life to the fullest with your wonderful mom.
Tashi Delek.
Regards
In part 1 and 2 I mentioned something like I wish the son is more kind and caring off camera towards his mom. I didn't know there would be a part 3. But I'm so so so glad they had a talk and quality time to built on their relationship. The beautiful letter he wrote for his mom. I wish them all the best, health and happiness in life. 💝💝💝💝❤❤❤ To the son I want to say: don't let bullies or any hardship get you down and pull you from your goals. All the negativity is part of life. You might encounter more negativity in Uni or at Corporate jobs. Keep your chin up, head high. Be proud of your Filipino/Korean heritage. Good luck in life very handsome son💝💝💝💝❤❤❤👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Even if the parents are divorced, there’s a law in Korea that the ex husband will give alimony to her right? That would help her financially in raising their son. She has to work multiple jobs could only mean that the ex husband is not helping financially.
If you watch from the start. They are not married in Korea. They just married in the Philippines and ever since she come in Korea. They never see the man again.
But if the husband doesn't want to link them some money, she needs more than a lawyer it's too complicated so maybe she doesn't want to have more such hard time mentally than physically
@@aldensola4908 - Marriage is typically one of those legal relationships that is recognized internationally, even when the union would NOT be legal in the country they live in. For example, in some countries same-sex marriage is not legal if the marriage takes place within their territory. However, if the couple gets married in a different country where it is legal, usually most countries will recognize their married status. For some reason, I thought that South Korea complied to that part of international regulations. Perhaps I was wrong.
In any case, it would be hard time-wise, legally and financially for her to try to find him if does not want to be found.
It’s hard in Korea to fight for money as a women. The man can total cut their old family off and there isn’t much you can do. It is better than before when I was in Korea , men would kick the woman out and she can’t keep anything. At least currently woman are allow to keep alimony and children if she fights .
@@aldensola4908 yep. It’s a big red flag if men want to get married in foreign countries that won’t able to make the ex husband to give you alimony or men who come to poor countries to find women is itself a red flag. I have seen it happens way too many times.
I know that it's bad to say that all Koreans are the same about being too narrow minded but many of them really looked down to foreigners especially the older ones. I hope the younger these days become more accepting. C'mon, the world is so diverse and what's wrong about being half-Filipino? Don't be a racist and spread peace. (This is for everyone.)
True. And they should bear in their hearts and minds that Filipinos were one of the ones to help them during the K. war. The Philippines open its doors for them as well and took in many refugees. People need to look beyond race, color and background; and just see & respect people for who they are. I wish those two all the best.
The sad part is that most Filipinos are welcoming and kind to foreigners when they go to the Philippines.
@@MA-pn9zx Yes, agree
@@MA-pn9zx so trueee.. And i dont know why do filipinos do that. I mean if we filipinos go to other countries we are on our own. But for Foreigners, most likely filipinos would give them advices or talk to them or even ask them to join lunch or dinner in there homes. (Or even give them a place to stay). Or maybe because it runs in our history??
@@MA-pn9zx most Asians do that
I’m so sorry for all the hurt this family is going through. My kids are Korean/Filipino. They are SO proud of their dual cultures…I hope this family find peace soon.
I can relate between the mother and son's relationship because It was the same for me. My parents are too busy with their work that they didn't have time for us(their children) until we grow up,not knowing that I have deep scars within me. It's so hard to have that as a child and growing up with that pain. And now, I'm so glad that I open up all of my pains, disappointment and everything to my parents. We keep crying,telling the stories of both side. And ask for forgiveness. It's all thanks to God who set us free.Thank you Lord. That's why I can't help but to really choose a loner friend because I can relate and guide that person. I can't help but feel compassion towards them maybe because of my experiences. How I wish I could became his friend haha.. I really won't mind but be open arms!
I can relate to her feelings since I am a single mother as well and I also raise my son alone, your more luckier than me because your son is with you at least you can see him watch him grow although you do not talk much to each other but still physically you are together. My son is with my mother in the Philippine and I am working as an OFW. But I salute you, your so strong you work 4 jobs. TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH and God bless.
I salute YOU! All single parents have my huge respect 🤍
I hope one day my daughther will also understand the efforts that i make as single parent
She will soon po. 😉💞❤️ Stay strong 💪
She will realize it when she gets older ☺️ You are doing amazing!! 🤍
She will!
If you really want to help your daughter you need to stop being a single mother.
Koreans should be educated how Filipinos help them to enjoy the freedom they are enjoying now, shame that their lack of knowledge to their history made them look down on Filipinos please review your history. 1000 fil soldiers fought 40,000 chinese for ur freedom not that u have to look up to filipinos just the respect they deserve
Really? Wow that’s a 1:4 ratio
@@rowenajuana8678 yeah it is all over youtube, even some of the soldiers who participated before were interviewed. There was even a monument built in south korea to commemorate Filipinos' love for your country check Yultong Battle
@@rowenajuana8678 yeah..coz Philippines was one of the most influential country in the world that time with a lot of advance technology and military equipment...but right now it flops because of corruption
Stop with this shit
May he grow up to be a better person than his bullies will ever be and teach kids how to handle such situations with wisdom. May he use the pain to be very successful. His mother and her love is so precious. ❤ I am proud of both of them for gaining such strength.
Sadly, tribalism and bullying has forever existed in social groups regardless of age. The scary part is that we just accept it.
She's raised a great son! There's no doubt he'll pay back his mother's love!
What a good ending. I'm very happy n glad to see both of them expressed out their innermost feeling. But son's expression is too stone. I hope he will start to be relax n have an open mind n heart, which then eventually everything shall be shown in a natural ways. He just got to bring back the smile n happiness from his younger self to now n carried them with dignity n pride. All the best to both mother n son.
I pray that God bless this family and every dream of Sunjae is fulfilled.
I really hope that he continue to show affection to his mom and his mom to communicate more. They've been scarred both and they only have each other. They had a hard time so they need each other to have strength to continue on living their lives happily and bravely.
They're beautiful. Wishing them the best. 😭💛
I really do hope that racial discrimination stops. I don't understand why being a biracial is such an issue in South Korea. I have Korean friends and they too couldn't understand. We are all humans regardless of skin color. We go to the same destination when our life ends. We are living in a modern and a more civilized times. But some people behave & think like they're uneducated. Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.
It’s very unfortunate indeed. I’ve noticed Koreans tend to be more discriminatory of people from Southeast Asia or those of darker complexions. It’s just wrong all around, every human deserves respect.
@@ppjskh and they are ranked #3 in Suicide cases in the world. Most of the suicide happened was because of bullying.
@@ppjskh yes yes very true.. my friend who understand korean called the filipinas "Mud Angels".
Also, the recent issue of the filipino guy in Squid Game on how he was treated in the bus by a korean lady on her 50s. And his glasses was broken..but can't say that to myself as my korean classmates in College were nice to mw
it is unlikely that they will not. korean people see filipinos as garbage
You are lucky to have your Mom beside you..I hope you can speak Tagalog also sungjae..
I am proud of your Mom..
Son you have a Filipino mother, you should be proud, she carries the world for you. Treat her nicely with pride. I know you been going thru this stage, people are mean to treat you that way and i am sad you experienced that, but stay strong, you just started your own journey in life, Trust in God, You are blessed that you have a mother who will sacrifice everything for you. She loves you so much.
Love this mother and son. Their story is not easy and is beautiful at the same time. I wish you love and success. Greetings from France ❤
That is so sad, he is quite but knows everything his mom does is for him wishimg you both the best
Be strong kuya, the storm will calm soon..... just continue on what you do and god will do the rest! .. wishing your success in future!
..you need to appreciate all the hardwork of your mom...She's the best!
This made me cry. I hope you'll have a great life ahead.
honestly both mother and son are good looking, or isit just me? most Filipinos are honestly naturally good looking. the friends are probably jealous. ❤️❤️
That son should start smiling all the time from now on and embrace his uniqueness in the Korean society. He needs to start believing in his self and show the world what he got. Well, he is always welcome here in the PH without being discriminated. MOST Filipinos are not racist. If her mom only taught him to speak in english, he could work in the US, Canada, Europe or Australia.
Wohhh I cried watching this, I have 4 sons, take care of them a lot & my priorities. Now they're already grown ups. They're very sweet, thoughtful & loving to me.
The way the kid is acting towards her mom is understandable bc I feel like they weren't able to deeply bond when he was young and he's having a hard time opening up to her.Or he doesn't want to add to her moms problems.Plus being left alone as a child is gonna set you traumatized for the rest of your life.
I'm filipino and I had korean, half-korean classmates in high school and college. I can testify how we Filipinos try our very best to accomodate them-to make them feel like they belong and they are equal despite the language barrier. We filipinos are fans of Korean culture and most of the time, we watch kdrama and listen to kpop. But it's just sad to see that the feeling seem to be unreciprocated. it hurts me to see how he's being bullied because he's different...i'm honestly disappointed.
Wow, this is unbelievable to see this. Very touching from her son sending message of love and grateful to her for her incredible determination as a mom and working 4 jobs. Not easy for this, but I feel sorry for the mom going through all this while her son growing up in a foreign country like Korea. Blessings to you both from Canada!
You have such a wonderful mother. You can see she made so many sacrifices for you. And your mother is surely proud of a good son that you are. Look after her
I cried so much because she missed out on her child's growth in order to ensure it. Reminds me of my mom who's always working. To all the parents out there who are trying your best, may it pay off and may you live long enough to see it pay off.
God bless you two. Mom and her son are working so hard . Bullied at school and lonely at home. Oh no. Spread loves for people. We live in the world.🌍 We're the one. We're the human.💖 Stay open minded.
The son should sympathise for his mother no matter what happened
She's a brave mom and hard working woman. God bless her and her family
They have both struggled a lot but I believe that they can work through it all together. She’s such an amazing mother and human. Of course not everything is 100% perfect, but she’s doing her absolute best to provide for her son. I’m glad the son opened up about his struggles as a mixed kid in Korea and hope that he will have a lot of success coming his way.
Filipinos are one of the most talented people in the world.. respect
we don't even have any contributions to the world so i doubt it
@@MTC008 learn HISTORY before commenting nonsense things. 🙄
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During his childhood years, look how his smile faded away through the passage of growing up… Its hard to smile, now his alone.
Praying for this family 🙏🏻 . May more blessings comes your way 🤍 hang in there you'll always get through hardships.
Oh gosh, I can almost feel the mother's pain. I count my blessings to have a loving and supportive husband and families around me. I can't imagine doing it all alone. God blesses her with a very loving, supportive and hard working son. I really hope those that bullies him for being anything but another human being need to be a better human being.
She's like my mom . I cant help but im crying . My dad left us when i was 3 . My memories about my mom got a beating from my dad is very fresh until now . Sometimes i got hit by my mom too everytime i cant do chores or when she got home and im not finish . Im the oldest with 2 sibling . It's hard because i need to take care my 2 siblings too.
But i never hate my mom . Never .
Im 24 y/o now . My mom still working . She's 18 when i was born .
I said it to my mom " mom , even if you're too young to became a mom . Atleast we grow up together ." Then she answered, "yeah , i have many mistakes in my life. But being a mother . I didnt regret it at all .y'all are blessing".
Everytime we have a family date , so many people always told us "y'all like siblings, not just by look . Because you act all like siblings".
This makes me sad. I'm half Korean too and it freaking sucks that Koreans don't accept us as Koreans. I know we are half but we are still HALF Korean.
I can relate to this a lot as my mom is from Spain. My relationship with my dad who is the Korean one ,is very rocky.
Cheering you both on 💕
I'm not in the exact same position, I am an immigrant who was raised in the new country and I always felt less. Acting confident and worthy makes me feel confident and worthy. I still struggle a lot tho.. I really understand how you feel ❤❤. I'm not arab enough for my relatives, and not Swedish enough for a lot of Swedes.
How about instead of thinking yourself as HALF, think yourself BOTH. "I am both Korean and Spanish" how you feel about you will help you a lot. It helps me when I try to think that way, like I have a right to be here and I don't need to be better than everybody else to "prove myself" as an equal.
@@booknerdjebbi5037 wow.. thank you. You are so right 💕 we are both and we are enough for both sides❣❣
@@yoomsuu Tu eres fuerte!
What's your insta? ..So I can see if you're a half korean lol.
@@potatogamingv_8301 no one is obligated to prove anything to you, creep
It is fortunate that you have your mom beside you when you're growing up. My mom too worked hard overseas because my father left us when im still in my moms' tummy.. make most out of your time when she's there. Make her feel in your own way how you appreciate her.
I keep crying while watching...
Its not easy to be a single mom..
Its a blessing the son able to open up his hurts toward her mom, because of that action ,they able to understand each other and reconcile.
Your son is good looking smart and dependable. He will be successful. More happiness and lo e to the both of you more blessings to your family! ❤
근데 솔직히 말하면 필리핀 혼혈이라서 왕따당하는 게 아니라 그냥 가해자들의 핑계일 뿐이지.어떤 아이는 돈이 없어서, 돈이 많아서, 예뻐서, 못생겨서, 뚱뚱해서, 너무 말라서 갖가지 이유를 들이대면서 놀리고 따돌리는 게 가해자들 심리임.그러니까 학교폭력은 피해자한테 문제가 있는게 아니라 가해하는 애들한테 문제가 있는 거임.
I really love every part of their son-mother relationship! Especially when they grew closer after expressing their feelings and thoughts 💖❤️💖💝
Puberty is a challenge in and of itself let alone adding other problems of life such as poverty, discrimination, bullying etc. this young man is a survivor. Hang in there young man.
I hope one day His mom can show to Sungjae his filipino side and culture.
You must be proud of being filipino bro, there are many good reasons.
Children with half foreign blood/race should be taught how wonderful they are because they have the best of both countries, culture, language race etc. So they should be proud of themselves and they shouldn't feel insecure whenever they get bullied. They should show that they can shine and do great things
Proud of them as, they serve as an inspiration.
매우 감사합니다
This is the best episode in 이웃집 찰스 [My Neighbor Charles], Wish all the happiness to Jenny and his son Seunjae 💕
Stay strong... be resilient as always...
Love from the Philippines 🇵🇭
😭💖🙏 *Aw... I can't stop crying!!! I am a Mom.. & I am a Filipina. He is very shy & Loving good boy. Very sweet young boy. Kabayan.. I'm very PROUD of U!!! U R very Wonderful Loving & Caring Mom. Take care both of U & God Bless!!!* 🙏💖😭
yes sungjae ! be successful person and pay back to your mom everything. once you have a good job . please take a lot of care to your mom . since shes been hustling working for family need . she the appa and eomma in family . it will be a happiness moment for her if she resting for her old days .