Uzbek mom sends kids to school, works 3 jobs and eats lunch alone at the park [Part 1] | K-DOC
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Sarang met her now-husband when he went to Uzbekistan on business. After 3 years of a long distance relationship, they got married in 2010. Her father actually disapproved of the marriage even until the day of their wedding, but she moved to Korea anyway. Is it everything she'd expected it would be?
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이웃집 찰스 [My neighbor Charles]
우즈베키스탄 김사랑 Air Date: 2018.7.17
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She's working 10x harder than most people for such little pay. Watching her eat alone in the park broke my heart. If my wife was busy like this I would call her on her lunch break just to talk and see how her day is going.
If I was her husband I would step up and provide for my family instead of watching her suffer like this.
@@juliennepujol5586 He should do more. But all he does is work. Since he started that delivery business, he's completely absent for her emotionally.
@@gerrym5170 almost like working all the time is slavery and not some kind of virtue
I get to eat lunch alone in a park for lunch and I love it ! Us introverts need the time away to decompress
@@camilleschilling7826 some people will never understand this and i dont want them to because its nice to have differences
I am from Uzbekistan, women here are very hard working and family loving, and i must say she's very responsible, hard working and excellent mom, she raises her children with good manners too😽💜
I am afghan and hazara and we are culturally and genetically very similar to Uzbek and its the same with us.
Greetings from the Phillippines!🤗
Everyone in South Korea is working hard...
@@derjasager86 even rich people?
hmm you can't talk for every women
I can't imagine how hard it must be to live like she's. Like I just can't imagine how vulnerable once she's alone, being scared and stuff. I hope she has emotional supports because her life is hard and she's doing her best for everyone
Maybe these little kids are her only hope it is a blessing to have those kids with her
And when they grow up, they'll be ungrateful to their mum and call them old. that's exactly what my son did.
I did two jobs to hire private tutors for my children. That's what I got.
Her two daughters are what makes her keep going. Good luck and wish her happiness in life.
@@silentwatch7643 and then did they learn eventually or not? Lol :)
@@silentwatch7643 maybe it’s cuz you hold it over their head? They don’t need to be grateful that ur doing ur job as a parent. U literally CHOSE this life. Ur child doesn’t owe u shit stop feeling entitled. U probably ARE old with how u feel u own ur kids. I feel sorry for ur child having a parent with such little emotional intelligence. Yeah we do shit for our kids. And if y only do shit for him so he can “be grateful” and u can use it as leverage later on so he does as he’s told. Then ur not doing it out of the goodness of ur heart. Ur doing it cuz u want leverage and control over him. Holy fuck ur sad
Lil one asking mom how she slept was the sweetest thing 🤗
Yes!! That part my heart was almost melting.
Well, the mom told her to 😁
It's just a typical Korean greeting. As sincere as the typical "how are you?"
He is the same father who wasn't letting her work or go to school to study. He himself had lost a job and starting fresh, it looks like she is building a life for herself and trying to break free.
Good for her.
Finally Uzbek mothers are being recognized. As an Uzbek who also speak tajik (the language they are talking in some parts) I feel happy and proud that she used her language to speak to her children and taught her children their own language.😁😁😁❤️❤️❤️
Dude thats usual life in South Korea. Have you ever seen Korean Delivery man??? ua-cam.com/video/1Xij_cIe5_A/v-deo.html
Loool Are you tajik or do some uzbeks speak farsi?
it's not the first time.....
I’m from
Afghanistan Uzbek ppl speak
Farsi but it’s different from
Afghan Farsi
In Uzbekistan our languages are mixed because Uzbekistan used to be a part of Soviet Union, so we speak uzbek, Tajik, and Russian
Uh! The husband is so clueless it makes me mad! I believe the children will look after her when she is old. They look like such lovely caring children.
Not just clueless but an ahole. She pays for everything. He gives her $50 when they went groceries and supposed to stretch that for 4 people
Where is the husband in the video
@@phil6298 the one in white. You see him next to her
It makes me mad too ! And when I found out he doesn’t even give his wife allowance and she has to raise her kids with the money she worked hard for which isn’t even enough. She doesn’t even need a husband at this point, she’s doing everything by herself. Raising two kids is hard enough but working 3 jobs ?
@@KSki26 On top of that, he wasn’t even aware of his daughter’s illness when he bought her cotton candy, really shows how bad of an effort he’s putting for his family.
Totally disgusting on how he treats her - he basically made her a slave. She works 3 jobs to support the entire family and his money is his. How selfish. That man has no shame and it severely toxic. I'm at a loss for words as to why the producers of this show find this acceptable. If a Korean wife married and moved to another country and was treated in this manner, Koreans everywhere would be up in arms about he being a slave. But when its a Korean man with a foreign wife, its ok? Disgusting.
It’s crazy how they are all just laughing as you watch trauma unfold. People are so out of touch w reality and how chronic poverty and single motherhood are a good combination for childhood trauma. Working 3 jobs away from her kids w no other choice. And they are laughing. So sad.
She has a husband
The invisible husband
@@noneya2945 That may be NoneYa. We'll never know for sure.
@@noneya2945 financial issues??? It exists. Still not all working moms struggle with it but you can clearly see her dejection to earning less. With two daughters, she has to prepare for their education and necessities. Bills etc
Stay at home while waiting for bills to pile up? nop. She's even working as a translator on the side, you can see how staying at home is not an option
@@noneya2945 her husband doesnt give her a cent lmao. her family would starve if she stayed home
Gosh when she ate her lunch in the park I almost cried. The struggle shows on her sad face 🥺
Wait till u found out what man have to go through all this years
@@riftstalker9567 no where near what a woman has to go through in this life. don't even compare mate
@@tinakolio7543 then ur biased
@@riftstalker9567 neither bias or sexist. think what you want mate. you still can't compare. the end
@@tinakolio7543 ☕
God please protect us all from lazy husbands
Yea but her husband is not
And god protect us from lazy wives as well 😁
@@lalamonzz I guess he is working himself. He wasn't there in the morning so I guess he has to leave work very early in the morning.
...she better be getting paid for this to have her personal life aired and all our there for the whole world to see.
Of course they get paid for that.
Okay! Otherwise this is just exploitation of someone’s struggle.
Nah they just go in her house and stat recording. Dumbass 😕
Why wouldn’t she get paid? Southkorea is a developed modern country
Why the hell would she be on the show if not for some sort of gain. Jeez some people don't think
She reminds me of my Ukrainian friend’s mom, she works, cooks and cleans and saved up money to buy a house all by herself 🥺 often times Slavic women marry dead beats and shoulder the responsibility all on themselves. There’s intense pressure to get married young so it results in much hardship
who said keep having kids with the deadbeat?
Jesus needs to hurry back!
Most wimin are dead-beats too, except society doesn't shame wimin for being broke
@Shinigami by deadbeat I'm referring to men who drink, gamble their money away, and barely provide for their family. In Sarang's case, she clearly is held back by her husband who can't afford to support his family, yet still chose to marry a foreigner and have 2 children. That's not sensible unless he's well-off, so the family is struggling unnecessarily. The mom looks pretty burnt out and miserable and literally works 3 jobs just to create a savings account for her kids. And as someone who grew up in a similar situation, it breaks my heart to see my mom in her.
@Shinigami ok...??
The woman in the video is Uzbek not slavic
You can see the struggles on her face but she still pushes through for her family. RESPECT
This is one loving mother. The way she takes care of her children is definitely a testimony of love. She also works so hard to support her children! I admire parents like her!
I know to recognize a good parent because I was also raised by loving parents and a loving maternal grandmother.
What an amazing mother! Her daughters are raised well and have kind manners .
did you see the other video where the younger one has a crazy fit over the ice cream? Pretty extreme 🤮
Must be so annoying and hard to have such an incompetent husband
Why are you blaming the husband?
Maybe the husband really has a real job that maintain them. Thanks to the husband she is enjoying in Korea. She would be poor In her country.
@@pedrojulio1960 how funny
She is enjoying so much with three jobs in S Korea lol
@@sabrina1380m you don't know the horrible country where she was born where she can have 10 jobs and still receiving less than in south Korea. In Korea men have the most difficult life. She decided to live like this.
@@pedrojulio1960 Have you watched Part 2?
The strength of a mother's love, overcome so many challenges.
You can tell she's really smart and also hardworking! It makes me sad to see her like this because you can tell she isn't happy in this situation (to me she seems depressed) but i can see she's really trying her besg for her kids! Sending lots of love and strength to her and her kids❤
She works hard for sure, I don’t think she’s that smart though. I see her having a tough life in Korea
What's that supposed to mean ?
@youngz13o of course she's a foreigner she's gonna have a tough life in Korea. But j don't necessarily think that makes her dumb
She’s smart with literacy skills but when it came to certain life lessons. You could see how gullible she was.
She deserves a better husband so hardworking and loving.
Cannot beat Mom's love.
some* moms. not every woman with kids is a mother. some are careless and monsters.
@@ISangaloUnofficialFR nobody’s talking about those mothers
My 3 year old daughter disagrees with you...daddy is her shining star 🌟
@@TheHitman- cringe, she will become a pickme for sure
@@Idk-fj7kf ???
Wow, her kids got up so calmly, ive seen war with some kids when they have to get up for school, tears and whining
every kid is different
It depends on how you educate them at first its hard to disciplines but once u re done with the first child the second just learns from the older one and it starts being easy from then on
@@IraQxNajafia as a kid i would get up for school even when i was tired, but when my mom woke my siblings, crying n yelling about either getting up or their clothes, i just wanted to get it over with n go home. I was the only one out of 4 kids who got up without whining, still remembering those war flashbacks
@@l.lisa09 flashbacks 😂😂😂😂 how bad was it??? Since i was raised from birth by my parents i didnt ve that problem, my brother was problematic bcs he was raised by my grandma the first 6 years (he was our family first grandchild) so all my uncles, aunty and grandma were just dotting on him and my parents some more more bcs they missed him so much.
She's an absolute legend. Someone needs to send her on a vacation where she can relax a bit. The husband is working but it seems like he should be doing more.
Муж-ленивая попа. Терпеть таких не могу. Тупой,ленивый. Кому он сдался-то. Только иностранка из бедной страны и подобрала сей неликвид. Допустим ни одна кореянка,даже иностранная,на него даже не посмотрела бы.
한국에서 택배 일을 하면 한달에 500만원~1000만원 이상 벌어요.
Sarang-ssi, you are an amazing mom!! Your beautiful daughters will be proud of you when they grow up. I wish you all the best.
It's actually sad that the parents have to work so hard just to make ends meet. I noticed they don't really smile or laugh much. I know they're doing their best, but it's just sad there's not much time to actually spend time together and connect.
The mom is the only one that works hard in that family
@@anna_2100 she's made ginormous sacrifices. I don't think her husband appreciates her enough
"I had no idea she took care of her lunches like that." Of course he didn't. He's too focused on himself and his 눈치 (Nunchi) needs a lot of work. He needs to learn from his daughter who was so sweet to ask her mom if she had slept well. :)
Wonderful mother !!! So sad that she's tiring herself so much. She looks absolutely exhausted. I really admire her dedication for her family. Hopefully her husband is good with her. That s why ladies, unless you're as brave as this mother, it s so important to settle with a good provider who can take care of his family without letting her wife exhausting herself to death. I m afraid that 5 years down the line, she'll have the energy of a tired 👵. 😫
These days women are encouraged to not settle with a good provider. If she does then she gets called gold digger. But many women literally has to take double responsibility in their family due to not having a cooperative husband. No one talks about that.
@@ihmsfm1040 I think it’s not necessarily that women are discouraged to settle with a good ‘provider’, but more women are beginning to desire independence in a relationship, and to them that looks like one where they work and ‘provide’ equal amounts. Neither parties should be feeling exhausted or taking double responsibility, in my opinion. As long as both people are happy in a relationship, whether the man ‘provides’ or the duty is divided equally, that’s all that matters!
What do you think. I have called out men constanltly. I call out my brother yet him being a LGBQTI supporter. But that is not the point. He is misognstic and fetizes women and say all sorts of stuff while claiming to be asupporter. I am not LGBTQI LIFE. I have nothing to do with it. I do not watch p@rn (makes me physically sick all catgories). I do not hold female friends or hands. I dress modestly (never in 10 years shown my arms, legs and neck. Inside and outside). I allways ask permission before entering a room with a woman. I do not fetize women. I do not follow women on social media. I look at one or two male kpop idols some times. I have nver seeked out women.
Hello "" ("Hello", I apologise in I have no other word in relation towards English. Me (a man) saying hello towards a sister/woman is a big unkind). **I say this as a man (born)*;
Men must be trained and be a high quality. Many Men are sick. Many Men are hypocrites.
Most men are sick. I have seen social of Europe Asia.
Men do not need to seek Women. Women do not need to seek Men.
He is terrible. Men
I also said on a female video regarding Women. ua-cam.com/video/dSrbU1hPwMET/v-deo.htmlhat
Any issues regarding yourself as a Woman cannot be solved with a Man.
"No. Do not be influenced by Men. Men should not fetize Women! You do not need to seek Men. Woman is a Woman. Husband should fill Rule go Wife! Your size is you Woman! It is not another Woman! Husband love you."
Women should not be influenced by men. Husbands should fuilill the right
But I have guidelines for if I marry.
A female best friend [to me. A Man] is someone who is:
1 - Supportive. Understands and
2 - Knowledgeable. Knows what is what, at times of peril and can relate to what you are going through. May this be medical, well-being, and education wise.
3 - Respectful. Understands what you are. What you do. What you strive for. And helping you where need be.
What is true to me as a man about a woman is:
Power - honesty to move through and be un-selfish at times of need.
Kindness - Attention to everyone, even if it hurts her.
Authority - To move through uneven times and events through a balanced and fair manner without being contradictory towards herself.
Language - Being self sufficient and acknowledging languages across the world. In order to be a great woman and at times a hero that does that back down.
All in all. I (male) wish to meet my best friend through education, groups and by not taking to them. If I am true as a person. I should be respectful and never expect anything and help and be fierce character but cool and listen too.
Many people who call their partner/current love relationship best friend seem to be offended and take the meaning out of it.
If my Beloved is not my best friend why would I marry her? Why would she Marry me?
Kind Regards
Fahad Malik
Date:11/02/2022
@EmpressKajal I see your point and I agree that the burden is unfairly placed on the mother. That’s why I said there isn’t any issue as long as both parties are happy, whether the financial duty is divided equally or not. Clearly, the people in this relationship are not happy so something has to change. At the end of the day, some people don’t want kids. Some husbands prefer to stay at home and look after the kids while the mother works. Some people like to split it down the middle. Every relationship is different! What works for some may not work for others, imo.
This poor lady… She is amazing but she deserves better. Working so hard… It makes me cry
she is an amazing mom and a very strong woman. I can't believe how hard she is working i hope everything works out for her
She’s doing so much and she’s so inspiring her husband seems so unsupportive and honestly terrible
It’s not even just unsupportive, he doesn’t have any emotional intelligence. I identify with her so much bc my husband is like hers, objectively worse.
from the way she spoke to her children she seems like a very kind and loving mother 🤍🫧🪷🪩🪷🪷🍨
she sounds just like hwasa when she speaks korean, she has such a calming voice
I was thinking this too!
for real. when she first spoke, i thought it was hwasa dubbing her
I truly admire this woman ... I come back just to watch her ... Salute to any hard working women and mothers like her.
Ooh! Been there, 4 jobs and ate in my car on the way to wherever I was going. You're too busy to realize how busy you are. Bless her
Her husband not surprised?! She make pack lunch herself. What the heck is he been up to then..gotta appreciate the jobs she handling is quite busy
What was the point in getting married ? She's just like a single parent, doing everything on her own.
And as a Uzbek I am proud of lady like her who is spreading ou culture and being strong women and amazing mom and loyal wife
This is romanticizing poverty, having to work 3 jobs + taking care of 3 children is hard as fuck
This poor woman's mental health must be fked
Yup
I don't think it's romanticizing poverty cause in part 2 it shows that her husband doesn't want her to extend her education cause he wants her to be with the kids 24/7. She could go to university so she can have just the one well laying job but he doesn't want her to
As someone working 2 jobs I felt her pain and stress. I think it's more so supposed be eye opening. Also it really shows you should really sit and talk with your partner about what you want in life before getting married and starring a family
@@Sara-dp5dg
tbh I think they're suffering financially. She's pretty much a clear example, there's no way anyone would tire themselves out like that. She's even working as a translator on the side.
It doesn't seem like they have much of a choice and the Husband was only saying that as a formality or to save face
Appreciate her hard working, but in the end, stress will destroy ur body.
I hope she will find some more free time and not work 24/7. Its not worth it.
Unless she finds a husband, she will work constantly
@@YeshuaKingMessiah she does have a husband
yep, my mom destroyed her body working multiple jobs. She's only in her 40s but she really needs a break for the rest of her life, tbh
@@YeshuaKingMessiah that’s the thing she has a husband whatever tf he’s doing 😭
WHAT A WONDERFUL MOTHER!!! MAY GOD BLESS HER
She is such a sweet woman, I wish all the success in the world to her. To find a great income and continue saving for her daughter's education. She is highly intelligent speaking several languages, quite determined to succeed.
Him watching this should make him APPRECIATE and LOVE her even more
It won’t. Men are like this, most take their wives and the mother of their children for granted. Men like him very very very rarely change their ways. I wonder how she’s doing now?
Hard working mama. Idk why but these videos always put me in a good mood
She may not see this, but I hope she can at least feel my energy right now. I am sending all my love, energy, praise, support, strength and patience to this mom (and the rest of the family too)! She's working so hard and doing everything she can to keep everything running like a well oiled machine. I pray for her and her family. I pray she has time to herself for self care. I pray that she never feels tired or gets fatigued because she is the glue holding everything together. I hope that when the kids get old enough they will be able to appreciate all of her efforts and love their mommy even more. I also pray that they are blessed financially and are able to have a steady flow of money for the rest of their lives. So they no longer need for anything. I hope that they are and remain in great spirits. Momma fighting! 💓
This made me tear up, what a strong mother 🥺🥺
the " dream " of living in Korea as a foreigner woman............ what a " dream " ....- i just feel sorry to her. what a hard live. i wouldn't want to life like this. she could live 1000 times better in her homecountry. Thanks for uploading this reality.... it opens my eyes for a better serious thinking twice - woman shouldn't get pregnant so fast to foreigner in Korea - cause they can be trapped for the rest of their lives like her. her live is very VERY hard.
It was purely consent
Ok I am in love with this wonderful family!! The mom is so amazing and lovely and she takes such good care of her girls and works so hard. And her daughters are so adorable and respectful. This just warmed my heart so much!! I love this UA-cam channel.
im not a big fan of her husband...sorry to say.
Wow, she is an amazing mom. I wish she was able to eat more, tiredness and hunger is so hard to deal with.
respects to this hard working mom... many blessings to her🙏
Omg I really admire this mom of two because she works Soo hard.. and Soo passionately. Like she does not really complain at all.
This family story makes my heart hurt.. this woman deserves the world! So much talented and hard working for those babies
This makes me appreciate my mom more, she’s an amazing woman 😭
She’s such a good mama!❤
Again I admire foreigner who learns Korean. Awesome .
She should start her UA-cam channel! Love watching her! This mom
Amazing mum! ❤ Her kids are very lucky to have her!
This mother is an absolute hero!
Moms are incredible and deserve so much more recognition and support.
What a lovely mother. This is so heartwarming
The editor really makes these videos entertaining. Love the subtle self-commentary!
It reminds me of my mom😢 she is a teacher too. No matter how late she goes to sleep, she always manages to get up early to make us lunch box and breakfast
Then change roles! You can make her lunch Box, she Will be really proud ❤️❤️❤️
She's such a great wife and mom
If she already has her citizenship/residency, she should leave her husband. She can live independently and happier, with one less mouth to feed. And no one will be nagging on her anymore. And it will be healthier for the little girls as well. She can probably meet a better man, because she is clearly too good for him. She is strong and beautiful. She can live by herself without any man
that's such a gold digga move, suck the citizenship out of a man, and leave him for dead ,when you've got the goody bag, disgraceful behavior.
If you watch the other videos, this man is financially abusing her. Doesn't give her an allowance and wants her to be a STAHM and not work and tells her she's not spending enough time with kids. Heck she teaches them Korean because he won't.
@Shinigami She is the main source of income for the household. And her husband didn't help out with the house chores and kids.
@@Cxs1a3 she is clearly not a gold digger. Her husband has been abusing her and using her for years. She is the one who earns money for the household, taking care of the kids, and taking care of the house as well. Her husband doesnt contribute much to the marriage. That's why I said she should just leave him.
@Shinigami I didn't say that she should use him for the citizenship and ditch him afterward. What I was trying to say is that she should leave him and try to live independently, and it will be better if she already has the citizenship, because then she could at least obtain some benefits for her children. Also, if she is already a citizen, she will be well protected by the law.
Amazing how she has learnt the language like a local person
This happens all over the world Kudos to her and everyone who has done this. I had three jobs until I count perfect one and increase in salary in one. But for the first 10 years it was exhausting.
Just seeing this and admiring the resilience, talents and kindness of this lady. She is amazing! Speaks multiple languages, works super hard while taking great care of her loved ones and living in a country far away from her roots. Very inspiring.
What a hardworking and loving mom.. More power to her, wish her all the best..
If you ever read this comment, I want to tell you what an amazing woman, mother and wife you are. Your girls will be very proud of you and their father when they get older. Keep your head up and your family united, it’s in your hands. Greetings from Europe .
i hope you will read these comments. talk to your husband about financial matters becuase you will be the one who will suffer on the end and your teaching your children to be a slave to their husband. marriage is about partnership in all aspect.
she’s literally a super mom i hope her and her daughters situation will become better 💕
Such a lovely mother 💗
Wife really a good mother😢. Incredible women
She is a superhero.
Its sad that you need 3 jobs in Southkorea to survive..
1 Job should be enough. And as mother of 3 kids she should get money from the state and not work additionally
I'm rly shocked.
I believe those jobs are not full-time or even part-time. She works when she’s called, that’s why it’s not always the same amount of money. One full-time job is enough for most people.
And sadly I think non-nationals do not qualify for state assistance, even if their kids were born in Korea.
if getting money for being a single parent and having multiple kids is enough to qualify for government funding, then a lot of people would purposefully have many kids so that they don’t have to work outside of the house. one full-time job would be enough to support her and her family.
@@bluudrippz what do think ppl do here in the US? More kids, more cash assistance, food stamps and bigger paid for housing. Plus free medical, vision and dental. Plus heat or energy assistance. Plus free daycare if u do work at all-till they go to free school.
@@YeshuaKingMessiah and there are a significant number of families below the poverty line because of welfare. it might help some but it’s also an incentive to not do anything at all if an option to receive everything for free is available. korea does not need to be like the US lol.
@@bluudrippz hey I agree it is a grievous system
Just pointing out all the things u get for having children out of wedlock
This is why we should never downgrade our mothers
All mothers aren’t good ones. That’s a horrible misconception.
Nah my mom was a piece of shit. But this mother is amazing
Very loving and selfless mom. Worries for her kids and works hard for them. Has no time for herself. Moms like her are the greatest
The best mother!. Happy mothers day
I miss my mom
My respect to this lady and Uzbek people. Love ❤ Uzbek 🇺🇿 from India 🇮🇳.
She is a good wife and mother.
This reminds me of my mum when she used to do Gambian storytelling and performances in libraries when we lived in Sweden, she used to take me along with her sometimes. A true true hustler, this woman and her children will get their blessings in tenfold 🥹😭😭🖤🖤
I feel bad for this precious woman who have a useless husband who lacks love and care for her. He only loves himself. Hope this show will bring some good out of him.
I hope watching this will open her eyes. She is better by herself than with such an useless and probably a burden of a husband. I read in the description that her dad doesn't approve of him. Now I see why.
He not husband material the reason why he went to a poor country to find wife, he didn't expect her to be this independent
That looks exhausting! Every morning? What are the evenings like? I would be too exhausted to work! I applaud this mom she's amazing!
I feel so huge respect for the mother..God bless them
She is so hardworking ❤
I am a guy and I don't even think I could handle working 3 jobs at the same time. This woman is amazing and she really love her kids to make such sacrifices.
Mom are representative of Gods ❣️ 🇮🇳
Not all moms
Respect for her and I hope her husband treats her well and never treats her like helper. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Nobody asked where the father is?
Just a reminder that life does not have to be this difficult. No glove, no love. And marry before you carry. Life insurance is essential to your family in the event that you pass away. If you can not afford children, do not have them. I see people calling this inspiring but it’s quite the opposite. Please want more for yourselves❤️
The irony of "marry before you carry" when you havent watched the full episode segment. She is a foreigner who IS MARRIED to a Korean native, which pretty much invalidates your whole narrative in which you shame a woman for not getting a ring before having children. So now she's actually married and trapped to a deadbeat, which is a much worse situation to be in, if she actually just was a single mother. That's actually why she's in the predicament you are observing, and unfairly blaming on single parenting when this is the result of a bad MARRIAGE, not single parenting. She's trapped in the confines of a marriage of an unsupportive spouse. Pretty sure it's much better to carry and not marry than be in a situation that is alot worse, like hers, which actually happens all too often because women tend to rush into marrying a man because they niavely believe (like you) that marriage is the solution to all their problems. It doesnt work like that. Marriage won't make problems magically disappear, or make child bearing any easier if the man you marry pulls a bait and switch like he did onto her. That's were your assessment and advixe is incorrect, and ironic givent he situation that it has landed the person you are using to make an example of. The man she married promised her many things, including to pay for her college tuition...only to bait and switch her once she got pregnant and had his children during their marriage. He is a cheapskate who will give her a $50 monthly "allowance" but that's not even enough for groceries. Not to mention that kids are expensive, and he doesn't buy them toys or clothes. He works, but ends up spending their monthly budget by tapping into her salary, yet contributes very little for the children's or wife's needs. This is why she is hustling, because she got tired of asking him to contribute for the children's and the household's expenses, and him budging very little to none at all. Moreover, she is the one taking care of the children's needs, spending time with them, and doing all the household chores, cleaning, accounting, and cooking. The man she married pretended to be everything she needed in a dependable spouse, but once married he bait and switched her. So there moral of the story here is, you can't always count on a man to take care of his family's needs, and sometimes you're better off alone as a single mother than with one weighing you down. Marriage will not guarantee a better spouse, in fact, sometimes its just another trap...and a harder one to wriggle out of. So would you not agree that this is an excellent example of how single parenting can be better than being married to the wrong person? Point is, your unsolicited advice to this woman's situation is not universal, every relationship is a lot more complicated than your superficial and generalized observation. There is no blanket statement solution that you can apply to everyone, this is a clear example of that. Sometimes, what is an outdated solution to a few women, is now a problem to other and many women like the one in this episode. She would much better thrive as a single parent, than the marriage trap she is currently in....where she is slaving away for a man that will not provide for her or her children, but controls their household income and even takes money away from her (& her children's) hard earnings.
@@rukiakuchiki5136 I don’t think you fully understand what “irony” is…
Regardless or her story, what I said Is still true no matter what. No glove, no love. Marry before you carry. And life insurance is essential. This story is not inspiring. It is quite sad to see her struggle.
@@Grinchthanksgiving I think it's you who doesn't fully understand what irony means. By stating "regardless" of her story, you've basically admitted that her story doesn't apply to your "lesson" as a statistic. Even if you and I disagree on whether or not "marriage" is an important deciding factor in a woman's future success, my point still stands that you've used this woman's situation as a bad example for your lesson. However, I think we live in point in time where marriage is not the only determining factor of a woman's happiness or success. Her husband in the docuseries is a prime example of how even in marriage, you can not always depend on the outcome of marrying a man you thought you'd be successful with. This is a woman who sacrificed and wasted her talents and potential, to settle down with a man in marriage. She was not pregnant before marriage, yet she married this man in order to settle their union the "appropriate" way, as society would say. Once married and pregnant however, all promises fell apart and the man turned out to be a dead beat who relied more on his wife than she could rely on him to be a good father to her children. Given her case, would you not agree she'd be better off raising her children on her own and divorcing her spouse and settling for child support? As it is basically already being demonstrated here that she is married to an unreliable husband who doesn't contribute anything when it comes to raising their children, despite him being the bread winner; all the while she's now caught in the role of a parent trap, doing all the thankless unpaid household work. This woman did not benefit from marriage, but she would have benefitted from establishing a career as a multilingual teacher (she speaks and translates 4 languages fluently, and knows the art of belly dancing). Instead, she married before establishing a career, and because she settled on the idea that marrying a man would be able to provide success and happiness (like many women believe and act on carelessly before establishing a career beforehand), she ended up becoming stifled by the man her children were suppose to be able to rely on. Marriage doesn't determine a woman's success in life, a woman's financial stability does. A woman's financial stability is akin to her freedom and happiness - without it, it doesn't matter if she is married or not because once children are in the picture, she is easily trapped. The benefit of not being married is, if your spouse refuses to contribute to your children's expenses, you still have the option to making him contribute via child support...but once married you're really f*cked over if your man turns out a deadbeat, as seen here. This woman had, and has, so much wasted potential with all her talents...and if only she had a more supportive husband, she could easily become the bread winner in this household. She really doesn't need him, if you watch the full series, you'd see it's him that's dragging her down, keeping her from achieving her goals because he wants to keep her to himself, by letting her waste herself away as a stay at home mom. The reason she struggles is because she wants so much more than what her man is capable or willing to provide. She is an inspiration because she hasn't given up yet on fulfilling her career, despite you and many others telling her "marriage" and a man would have fixed her situation. A bit tone deaf and condescending given her situation don't you think? I doubt she'd appreciate your advice that was entirely made on the assumption that she's not married - as if being a single woman were so bad? If only she'd have been so blessed. Marriage and a man got her in this situation. Her career and a divorce (w/ child support) are the only things getting her out. Only thing holding her back is the stigma of a society that discourages single parenting (she's already basically doing that though), but this woman is more than capable, given that she is young, dedicated, and success driven.
@@rukiakuchiki5136 woah. Nobody is reading all that😂. You have too much time on your hands
@@Grinchthanksgiving Appeal to Stone logical fallacy, after I responded to your hasty generalization. Why bother making an argument if you can't bother engaging past Twitter's maximum character input? I get it, in short, your point is invalid. I accept your concession.
What a lovely mom for her kids 😊
LIVING IN KOREA AS A FOREIGNER IS SUPER DEPRESSING AND LONELY this isn’t the first family I’ve seen in this show just having a horrible lonely life no friends.. tough schedule limited support like what the fuck kind of sad life is this . Just stay home people but good way of saying we shouldn’t relocate there
Firstly, that is fairly anecdotal. There have been foreigners who have been successful but it depends on what you do and how well you've adapted. However, there is already a deficits of work even for native Koreans. The problem with Korea is that their job market and corporate industry is in a bad need of reform. Majority of jobs outside of say the food industry is driven my giants backed by the government and they are highly selective in hiring. It's a stupid model for long term prosperity, however it is the driving force why things like UA-cam and e-comic careers have done so well there.
This woman adapted well but her work is in something too specific to her home country Ubekistan, which doesn't have high salience (language interpretation) or already saturated with many others (dance).
@Shinigami germans are also racist towards us
@Shinigami dude then you're not German living in Germany 😂 have you lived in Korea before?
es gibt genug Rassisten hier in Deutschland.
Both korea and Germany are racist to foreigners. So many youtubers,vloggers and bloggers can attest to that fact. No country is perfect .
Blanket statements that everyone is not doing well in Korea, for the sake of likes?
She is such a hard working women managing both her family and work.
Omg! Such a hardworking mom!
I know her treasure is where her heart is ♥
This episode got me to tears
Awesome mother. May God bless them and bring them all the best this life can bring.
These aren’t serious problems they are normal family struggles like everywhere in the world.
I love the family, but I hate when I hear comments from the panel of commentators like "doing her duty as the older sister", I know it's cultural. But I really don't like the assumption that the older children should have the burden of the younger ones just bcs they were born first.
That was burdensome? Helping her sister brush her teeth? Wow
@@YeshuaKingMessiah not it wasn't. And it would have been great saying "oh, look how helpful she's been!"..the term duty and knowing how they consider the filial duty in Asian countries, yeah not so much. The fact that you are the eldest sibling doesn't mean you have to parent your younger ones. In Asian societies, the eldest children are required to act a certain way that I don't find really right.
Not just older children but older female children in particular are often raised as second mothers with the idea that one day she will be “doing her duty as a wife” for a husband. Really horrible to think that she may never get to live for herself as a young boy might.
What an amazing mom!
I feel so sorry for this woman. Find another husband girl, who appreciates and truly deserves you. Or better yet maybe just co-parent. At least one set of dishes and laundry gone.
I’m very fortunate may god bless this wonderful mom and protect her beautiful daughters 😔💕
Uzbek ppl are from the same branch as Uyghur people from turkic ethnicity, they are lucky that have Asian features, as well as Turkmens, Kyrgyzs, Kazakhs, Mongols, Nogays, Buryats, Tatars n others from central Asia, Some turkic n mongol republics in Russia, so it's easy n right to fit into Korean or Japanese community.