as Korean Husband broke promises, Filipino mom became the head of the household & raised a son alone
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- Опубліковано 27 лип 2023
- She became a single mom at the age of 24. It was a tough time, but her son grew up and is now 19. It's sorry that she lost time to talk to her son while working 4 jobs, but she wants to raise him without any shortage. Hope this mom and her son happily every after.
(This is a previously posted episode, but it's so moving and worth to watch, so we're reuploading it as the full version)
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She's an amazing Mum. Not enough credit goes to single Mothers who were abandoned by their spouse. She is a strong,solid woman who has raised a great son. The awkwardness between Mother and son is totally normal for a teen, it's just a phase they go through. You can tell that he really loves and appreciates his Mum.
we will get her DEPORTED
she is one of those from south asia ,south east asia, africa , middle east etc. once they are in, they look for ways to stay on forever
@@user-tb7kd3xf3d who is this zombie on human earth? Go and deport her now. Irritant of a human being.
Sounds like she was abusive. That's not cool.
@@ceeIocAbusive in what form? By slapping his son?
I was raised by a single mom. All the anger that built up since the divorce bubbled to the surface when I was 17 and I said some things that also got me a slap to the face. Only now that I'm an adult, i realized how my mom worked so hard to keep it together with not much financial support from my dad. Kudos to all you single parents who try to do right by your children.
@@mc1069why would you say that?They were only 17, it’s valid for them to be frustrated at their situation. It’s not the moms fault but it’s not the kids fault either. Kids don’t understand the hardships their parents face until they’re older. It’s part of growing up. I’m sure you weren’t a total angel when you were a kid either. Let’s be more understanding…
@@mc1069he or she realized his/her fault.
@@mc1069 it's not their fault. The first person who really have an effect on divorce and people who have kids are the children. Parents and adults are suppose to be responsible for kids.
@@mc1069 PUTANG INA MO
I hope you already apologize to your poor mom 😢
Filipinos dont get as much credit as they deserved. Filipinos who are working overseas works so hard and they are very adaptive, intelligent, skilled, kind and humble people. I have colleagues who are Filipinos and they are great! They deserve to have higher salaries and not to be looked down just bec of their color or diction. In every country even in North America or Europe not everyone are privileged. Same goes with Asean countries. Much respect to these Filipinos who give their best everyday and work so hard for their love ones.
WE WILL GET BOTH OF THEM DEPORTED
Other Asian races in South Korea work hard too not just Filipinos🙄🙄🙄
international PARASITES, LOSERS keep coming and IF WE DON'T SHUT OUR DOORS TIGHT NOW & DO MASS DEPORTATION, married or not, have children or not OR WE WILL BECOME A 3RD WORLD SOON !
@@onelifeoneloveonedream1658 I never said that it’s only the Filipinos who works hard. Did I say that in my sentence? As you can see I said ASEAN COUNTRIES. Check the countries that falls under Asean countries.
@onelifeoneloveonedream1658 just because other ASEAN countries weren't mentioned doesn't mean we undermine their hardwork 🙄🙄🙄🙄
He's so lucky to have a mother like her 🥺
I totally agree.
@@Repeuh if it's so, they should move to Philippines... I dont know why they are still staying in Korea
@@computerprogrammer7212 money problem
@@computerprogrammer7212Better job opportunity, better pay, better living conditions and the list goes on.
@@computerprogrammer7212u make it sound so easy as if she cant think for herself
Hope this program heals their rift. I hope her son realizes how much she is working hard to give him a good life, and that they may not have much, but she has always provided for him. I hope she sees sometimes just her presence and attention is so much more impt than material stuff she can give him.
@@Repeuh so true…but so unfair
Very moving. Sons going through a lot I’m sure. He is thoughtful and loves his mom but is at that age there is much confusion and worries. Can’t imagine the societal pressure in South Korea while also being a minority while being raised by a single mom. Huge shout out to mom as well, she is a beast. I hope nothing but success and happiness for the two. From a Korean American living in US, FIGHTING!!!
Children should be taught to respect every race and culture by their parents so that no kid with foreign blood would emotionally suffer from discrimination...
unfortunately, racial violence exists in this world systematically and our adult parents knew it when they brought us into this world, or do they?
@@DONTcareAnymore000 sadly, parents are not always the best teachers nor models. I taught a class of Thai 10 year olds who, despite being good kids, were all ignorant about racial discrimination. When a Pakistani teacher (darkskinned, traditionally-dressed) came into view one day, they burst into laughter in unison. Sternly, I cut that short with a question: why are you laughing? You could've heard a pin drop. They didn't know what to say. Suffice to say that they received a lesson on why they should never repeat the behavior ever in future. Fact is, the parents of the school specifically asked that we don't hire non-Caucasian looking teachers. But few had the teaching qualifications we needed.
Yes shameless , they are all racist .during world war we Filipinos help Southkorean . I was disappointed ,i can believe that korean people are racist
@@jd-pw8yvThe same would happen in when teaching in China and South Korea. The best “qualifications” for a teacher seemed to be “White” in both, and in Korea, “female” due to their fear of male pedophiles. It was ridiculous. I did live in a Chinese city that was, at the time, more welcoming of non-White teachers, but I don’t know if it’s the same today as I’ve heard there has been an uptick in xenophobia since I left. I definitely had Black American friends with several years teaching experience that found it very difficult to find jobs when compared to no-experience White teachers in places like Beijing and Shanghai. Also, in Korea, you never wanted to admit you had ever been depressed on an application. It was a guarantee you wouldn’t be hired. Also, unless you’re well connected within the Korean educational complex when you lean into your 40’s, you’ll probably have a difficult time finding a job. Youth, as we all know, is highly valued in Korea. In fact, some schools prefer younger teachers because they are easier to manipulate whereas older, more experienced teachers know exactly what their schools can and cannot make them do per their contracts.
WE WILL GET BOTH OF THEM DEPORTED
I love how the son acknowledged his mom's struggles and that he wants to be successful cuz of her. I pray that their relationship gets better over time cuz they only both have each other. Nothing great than a mother's love.
I cried with Seongjae when he said he told his mother his honest mind and got slapped. I felt his pain, I know how hurtful it is cause I have very similar experiences with my parents. As a mom I understand the mom's perspective as well. I hope they can understand better each other and have a good relationship from now on
Filipino moms will move the heavens and earth for the sake of their children.
Most moms all around the world would do that
And their children esp sons would still end up being an incel
@@alexgrae8226 what does that even mean ?
@@Ironic_sans dude why are you bitter?😂😂😂 You’re pressed about about Filipino mothers sacrificing for the welfare of her children? You’re so fragile🤡 Fix yourself with superglue coz you’re weaker than a cheap glass
@@Ironic_sans It means that without a father figure in the home, the boy will never learn how to be masculine.
She put her whole life and youth on hold for her child. That selfish papa ran and never looked back. Full blessings and respect to this woman and others
As a third person watching, I understand both their struggles that led to some challenges in their relationship. This is so raw and pure. I appreciate this kind of love between parents and children. And how strong is that lady..such an inspiration.
Both sides are valid, the Mom really works so hard for the family, bills and rent is no joke, she's a solo parent so it should be really tough.
Thr son got so emotional because he's been feeling alone since 5th grade, it must have been hard for him not having physical and moral support from his Mom, he's also still young he's probably at a sensitive phase right now and it's best to fix their relationship right now, communication is basic, but it's really hard to have a good one.
It's hard but it's possible so hope all the best for them.
Of course, he’s been feeling alone but isn’t that selfish? He needs to be close to his mum not just promising to reward her.
@@dolapokosebinu5274 kids need to be allowed to be selfish and discover themselves and the world.
You raised a great son. “Mom, I believe in you.”
This made me cry. She's such a sweet mum, and her son's a good kid. They only have each other and are doing their very best to lead a happy life. What a good episode
It must have been hard for Seongjea being teased because his mother is deferent and a foreigner. No child should ever have to go through that. Because damage it causes is way too deep. I’m glad that he and his mother loves each other so much. It would be nice to hear their story in the future. Thank you for featuring them in your show. What a tear jerker and heartwarming story it really touched me.
Yes I do agree!
No child should go through that kind of traumatic experience but very unfortunately, his father didn’t make his promise 😳👀😳very unfortunately, sad and painful and scary bitter memory from the past 😢
That’s why having children is a big decision. Imagine if you were brown or black living in Korea. They will get bullied for sure.
BLaMe the irresponsibLE father
You know she is a thoughtful person when she first apologized to her son as they are about to talk about his dad. You don't see that in most separated parents. Usually they talk bad about each other without considering the child's feelings.
As a daughter from a single filipino mother, she's the most hardworking and loving person I know ever since my father left us at 2012 everything changed for our family. She had to raise two children while working I'm grateful to have a caring & loving mother ❤️ through the years she stuck with us thick and thin facing the struggles we have to overcome
As my mom says "keep on fighting, never give up"
Sending my respects and love to single parents out there, your unconditional affection towards us will be forever a monument in our hearts ❤️❤️
Mother's HUSTLE . There is no "try" it HAS TO BE DONE. Give your mom plenty of hugs and love. ❤
She's been through a lot, doing everything for her son. Such an inspiration mom to everyone.
The son is growing and going through phases, when he a bit older he would understand more, his mom is a superhero for him, feels sad thinking the struggles they have gone through, May God ease u guys always and give u strength and things that u need😊
To all single mom outhere I'm so proud of you... Not easy but when we see our son smile all our sadness,hard days ,and painful we carry all throughout .... One day we say I made it as a mom ❤
어머니도 너무 대단하시구 성재도 씩씩하게 잘 큰 것 같아서 기특하네요. 모녀가 계속 행복하길.
아드님 어머니한테 싹싹하게 잘 해주세요….저렇게 똑똑하고 성실하신데😢😢 행복하시길 바랍니다
I cried most of the time while watching this video. The hardwork and sacrifice that a mother can do just to raise a family is truly unmeasurable. Ate Genevieve is a great mom despite of raising her son alone. I salute her🫡 His son grows well even though there are shortcomings between their relationship. Stay strong ate Gen and son. God bless!
Watched this before and rewatch it now. I cried again. Such a moving story of Gennie and her son.
this mom is seriously a superwoman....I`m getting emotional just seeing her work so hard to give her son a good life. I do understand her son too though as I have felt rejected by my mom as well when I expressed being bullied or feeling depressed. Why even to this day I have issues telling her some stuff that`s happening in my life:/ I can see both of their sides....I think the lack of proper communication which both haven`t really learned from anyone, is the issue.
Don’t give up….my wife is also a Filipina with 3 Korean kids….2 in college and we married in 2017….. their Korean father passed recently and I am hoping to show them a better life than they have lived till now…. God Bless you and your son
That son has so much attitude . You are lucky to have that kind of mother!
As a daughter of a Filipino mom in an immigrant household, I can't help but to see myself in this kid alot ♥️ Growing up with a mother who faced so much hardship and trauma as an immigrant has impacted us children, too. We face alot of emotional neglect, and sometimes inherit mental health issues. I am beyond impressed how they both are such good people, who only wants the best for eachother, and how her son became such a kindred person. He will grow up to understand one day, and his experience and feelings are so valid, he only wants to be heard and understood. I'm confident he will grow up to become a strong, intelligent, kind and talented guy, the way they both work so hard to make it. I cannot imagine how brutal it is to live in Korea as a foreigner facing so much discrimination and racism there. My heart goes out to them ❤️🔥 Filipinos are truly the warmest, hard-working kind people in the world, we have so much strength in our hearts 🇵🇭 Love from distant fam in Norway 🇳🇴
I can't imagine how hard it must have been living in a foreign land with the language barrier. I believed the son doesn't have the language issues, and he could easily pass as a Korean teen if he speaks well. Among teens in Korea, cheerful attitudes matter. If you don't have common topics, it will be hard to be friends with you whether you are a foreigner or not. Don't be locked yourself up in the VICTIM mindset. You can only feel that you are a victim all the time. Brush off harsh comment because they are not your problems. Learn some sports. You will make friends easy. Sending love. ❤
I 🫡 salute to mommy Genevieve for trying so so hard to give the world for his son. As a Filipina I am so proud of her for sacrificing a lot for her son it’s truly an strong empowered woman. Mabuhay ka ate. 💜💜
Are you still looking to marry a Korean foreigner?
@@Repeuh read her comment, she is idolizing the Filipina's situation, praising her. Other Filipina might read her comment and get inspired to have mixed Korean babies with older Korean men that come to the Philippines as tourists.
@@PaulMcB873Wtf are you saying
I'd like to say that she's one tough Mama! Filipino moms are actually, tough! And she didn't age, she still looks 24 to me! Good job Mom! You're great, loving and you put family first despite the struggles! Keep it up! 🤩❤
He is a lucky coz her mother need to work 3 times a day in a different job to support him,but atleast once a week or twice a week give him time and go out a date with him,job is only there but time for your son is so precious..
Aside from being a single mom, she has dreams too for herself and her family back home in The Philippines. That's why she's working hard and sacrificing a lot to give her son and probably loved ones in The Philippines a better life, her way of expressing love. For me I think true love is one that is sacrificial if not selfless. I pray that her son would come to realize and appreciate that what she is doing is out of nothing but pure love.
The dedication to providing for her son is amazing, but there’s obviously a lot to their relationship dynamic that isn’t being shown. This poor kid has severe abandonment issues from his father and basically growing up alone while his mom worked and the then the one time he is brave enough to open up, she slaps him and makes him feel like crap about it. Of course he won’t trust her or want to talk. My dad is filipino and he is the same way. Overbearing, easily losing his temper, controlling and terrible at communicating or problem solving. It’s a product of the culture they grew up in, but it sure doesn’t make it right or justifiable.
Exactly. And the worst is that they never know how to apologize even when they know they're wrong. My mom is like that too.
@@heyitsrosie my dad has never ONCE apologized for his actions. I actually also lived in Korea and even though it’s starting to change, emotional/psychological warfare isn’t really considered as “abuse”, especially for gen x and older. So I’m not surprised the hosts of the show tried to normalize her actions.
facts like im paused at that part rn cuz no one blinked after he stated she smacked him like huh?
The slap might have been a one time incident. She is a mom who works multiple jobs, who had literally no one but her son in a foreign land who discriminates against them, and was probably Very exhausted physically, emotionally and mentally too when the kid was telling everything he was unhappy about. She may have reached her limits too. I konw It's bad that she slapped him but it's not like she was abusing him.
@@sharonwilliams8552 and he also mentioned she hurt him because they were framing him as cold and ungrateful son.
Can’t blame anyone tho. Both were hurting. I’m glad they are making up slowly from the help of this program. Really happy for them.
He's so lucky to have a strong mom. She can do anything for him.
I lost both parents at a really young age and was raised with my other siblings by my oldest brother who only turned 18 at the time and though my situation is much different than the family in the video, I can understand the awkwardness between the mom and the son. My brother worked 3rd shift every day of the week to provide for us and my family is quite dysfunctional in terms of communicating with one another but we can all appreciate and understand the struggles we all shared as children because we were all children who had to raise children. It is a unique perspective that I grew up with and I hope this family can grow stronger from their past! Lots of love.
Makes me cry how hard most single mothers have it and for every single parent out there who was put into unfortunate circumstances because of undutiful partners
They are both lucky to have each other. Ate Genevie is doing her best to be a mother and father figure by working and caring for her son. Seongjae, on the other hand, is mature for his age. Despite the burden of being teased and the bottled-up feelings he can't express to his mother, he developed into a wonderful person. He understands his mother since he has always trusted her. Their love is strong in their connection. They just don't know how to express it properly, but I'm glad they are now. Baby steps...hoping for their future happiness and continued prosperity.
WE WILL GET BOTH OF THEM DEPORTED
Aww how sweet this is they both have grown n have to communicate more with each other ❤
From now on Songjae, be good to your Mom...and Mom too, no matter how busy u are, find time to be with your son, he needs it...❤️😊
your son is so blessed to have a mom like you, may God bless you.. :)
Such a touching story🥹 She’s such a har working mommy❤️ Bless them! They deserve the world.
Filipino mum are amazing. Hardworking!
I felt every one of those tears. Seongjae, you and your mother are amazingly. Walk tall, walk proud.
This was one of the most emotional episodes. Everybody cried, including myself. Gosh.
Watched these more than ones, but still makes me cry. She is a great mom. Hope they get thru all the obstacle and be happy. God bless you both..great success for you Seongjae..🙏
She's a real warrior and a champion as a Mom and I admire her. I wish her the best in life
She's amazing, even making it easier for other Filipino overseas workers.
Wishing them nothing but pure bliss and happiness ❤
Filipino mom build different. They can survive whatever obstacles they have to face. I hope they're children will think carefully and be thankful for there mother
It’s hard sometimes realizing that kids are not always trying to be disrespectful with their words. Sometimes, they are so full of emotions that it just spills out. Later, when everyone is calm again, then express to them a more appropriate way to convey their thoughts. A lot of the time they will come back and apologize for sounding disrespectful.
Your a beautiful family and strong.❤🙏화이팅
She is a strong and determine woman. God bless both of you and may you both find happiness and success very soon
I’m cutting onions 😢😢 I cannot stop my tears from falling. Ate girl you are my hero, you made ur son proud that he has an amazing mommy. Fighting !!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
What an amazing and inspirational woman.♥
Genevie, you are such a strong and great mother. So proud of you, kababayan! Not all moms are this responsible and can sacrifice this much, fighting fairly in life to give their kid a comfortable life. Wish you good health and prosperity
I cried watching this. I pray she be happy always
I cried a lot on this story. This is how Filipino mom show her love to their child. To the son, you will be successful someday. You're such a good boy.❤
❤ wow she's amazing. I really admire a mom doing her best to raise a son as she's working hard double time . God bless you ma'am , I am so proud of you being a co-Filipino. Keep it up. More blessings be upon you. ❤
It must been so hard for both of them. It's literally just them, and no one to rely on. I'm so glad their relationship is starting to heal again. I wish all the best for both of them.
오히려 싱글맘 아니였으면 아까울정도로 능력이 좋으시네
I hope that they spend more time together (talk with each other everyday). Communication (with each other) is so important. God bless them both.
I think the mother should know his son not only what she see outwardly but also his deepest thought and feeling. If it a daughter maybe its different story...they both need a long vacation I think! 😊😁💗
i just can't get enough with these story.. salute to you being a single mother in a foreign country is hard but you choose to raised your son because of love and to be a best version of himself.. A mother's love is irreplaceable but ofcourse having a lot of work we tend to lose time, but hoping even sometime you'll can find time for bond growing/adulting needs a parental guidance.. God Bless your family! 🙏🏻
This made me cry a river. I miss my Mama so much. Kudos to all single moms!
Crying so much at this. Stay strong mama and SeongJae!
You’re an amazing mom....I salute you !
I can totally relate to her..As a single mom I have raised my son alone too. And for the past 20 years I worked so hard too. Working at daytime and doing online selling at night. It's so hard but everything that could add to our resources is worth the effort. For single moms it's the only way to live and provide for our child. I salute her. ❤❤❤
You are an amazing single mother. More power to you. God bless.
She is an amazing woman. Talented! Lots of love to her.
Watching this having 2 sons (4 years old and 9 months old) this made me cry! Sana hanggang lumaki sila, super close pa din kami. 💚
Wow! I really like this wonderful story of Filipino mom who moved to South Korea raising her son alone.💜☺️
I cant stop my tears while watching this. Its really hard for single mom but she still keep going because of her son. Proud of you❤❤❤
Im so proud of you ,as mother and Father to your son alone,I was crying as I watch this video and interview.God Blesses you both❤🙏
She's real heroin, thank you. Bless your family & you
I cried a lot in this episode. Being a single mom myself and working far from my sons made me more emotional. This supermom and son deserve all the happiness. Yes cheek kiss only to son 😊
This made me cry so hard. And it reminds me of my hardworking mother, and especially my eldest sister (who passed away 2 months ago) and her son. Now I miss her more and made me realized how sad it is for her only son. Kudos to all of our mothers!!!!!!
Amazing and strong mom, I cry watch this
What? They bully you just because you’re a foreigner? In Philippines we don’t such thing as that, in fact we even love foreigners too, we welcome them with all our heart, i hope korean society and that kind of thinking should be change, as for me being traumatized in korea in many ways, I Just filled my heart with love, Forget the bad guys and think the kind people that does good to me.
Filipino mom is truly amazing and loving. I feel sorry for this strong mom 16 years in korea and raising her only korean son alone 😢😢
I salute you for being a good single mother. We all want the best for our children, no matter how we feel. We want them to be happy. Your son even you don’t spend that much of quality time together in the past still remains to be a good son. He just needs to open up. Communication is very important in a relationship even mother and son. More power to you and good luck!
I am half Filipino and just adopted my beautiful son from South Korea. This woman is amazing and so strong.
This is a tear dropping. We have all difficulties in life struggling for those who are in the middle life of living we still struggle and I really feel her it os really hard for both of them I pray for them to be happier together as a Mother and Son. I wish and pray them well, God bless them always 🙏🏼✨
Amazing mom, god bless them.
I was teary the whole time and felt my heart in my throat.
I applaud her for her commitment! I notice that the son’s upbringing is different with the way he behaves! Maybe he is just shy but in the Philippines, the upbringing is more extrovert. Filipinos are mostly laid back, hospitable, friendly, and always cheerful. I have Korean friends and I can tell the difference when it comes to social interaction! They are less engaging!
They both endured so much. My heart goes out to them.😢😢😢
Hati seorang ibu itu persis seperti lautan. Di dalamnya tersimpan bermacam ragam hal yang berusaha disembunyikan supaya tidak muncul ke permukaan. Seorang ibu mungkin bisa memahami hati anaknya, tapi seorang anak biasanya sangat sulit untuk menyelami hati ibunya.
As a Filipino mother, its in our culture to raise our voice easily at our kids. Actually my eldest act likes Songjae so now I get him
어머니 한국에서 하시는 일을 보니 필리핀에서도 고등교육을 잘 받으신 똑똑한 여성이신 것 같네요. 대단합니다. 항상 행복한 일 가득하시길 바랄게요.
I know how she feels being a single parent myself. It is hard work but the love you feel from your child when they do the simplest things for you is surreal. My 17 yr old daughter went for her national id card recently as well. Lost my mother who was the backbone of my motivation always pushing me to do better and I felt empty. I wish her all the best and will pray her goals are met.
I cried watching this .Congratulations, you are a brave woman in a foreign land.I hope your Son will realize that Filipina Moms are the best!!
I can feel the sacrifices that you have for your son. I can relate being a solo parent too. Thank you for this show coz you helped them patch things up and I hope Sungjae’s dream to be successful for his mom will come true. God bless you both!
I was really moved and touched by the story of a single mom ...It's really hard to raise a child all alone until growing up ... Mother will do everything ,just to give a good life for her child, whatever it takes... Conflict arises especially when the child is left alone with other family member... Most of the time ,the child feel rejected .not love ......and he doesn't understand why his mom ,has no time for him ,because of four jobs , sacrifice . . In the end ,he's grown up already ,he realized and fully understand what his mom doing is for him. -Her son is everything ...LOVE !!!
This program is so gud...they make us know about different kind of problems people have...they are making people closer❤
Salute you’re the best mother to your son fighting ❤❤❤
You must be proud to have a single mom like her...
Ived cried a lot
Thank You omma for had a long roof to hold for your son.
You have an amazing Mom you are very lucky please love and take care your mom and your self also. have a stressful life
she is so strong hard working mum....