122. How To Be More Confident and Calm in Your Communication: Managing the "ABC’s" of...

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  • @davidr4523
    @davidr4523 Рік тому +110

    Excellent topic. The best speech confidence/performance advice I received in the past are
    1. Over prepare if necessary for your speech. There is no failure in writing notes or your entire speech out.
    2. Watch great speakers on UA-cam and image you are them. Possibly copy their hand, body and head movements.
    3. Have full concentration when you speak. Try to reach that level of focus that those telekinesis or mentalist do when they bend spoons. Get in the zone.
    4. Speak slower. Great speakers may speak fast one on one, but to large groups they speak slow.
    5. Always smile.
    6. Get your audience to participate in your speech.
    7. Try to be comfortable and loose. If you seem nervous and uptight, the audience will never enjoy your speech.
    8. Have some visuals
    9. Just know that people care less what you are saying.
    10. If you are blessed with ability to be humorous, then use it appropriately and with tact to know who your audience is.
    11. Keep on practicing. The more you speak in groups the better you become.
    12. Go into every speech imaging you are the greatest speaking with the world.

    • @davidr4523
      @davidr4523 9 місяців тому +1

      @blablablaclaclacla9895 Thank you. You are too kind!

  • @VictorBrunko
    @VictorBrunko 11 місяців тому +10

    Confidence is key to effective communication. * Anxiety is a common barrier to confident * The "ABCS" of anxiety management are:
    **A**ffective (feelings and responses)
    *B**ehavioral (physical symptoms) ***C**ognitive (merntal processes) * Techniques to manage anxiety include: * Acknowledging and reframing negative thoughts
    * Seeing anxiety as a signal that you care * Practicing deep breathing * Using physical warm-ups * Adopting a mindset that stress can be enhancing
    * By managing anxiety, you can become more confident and effective in your communication.

  • @zoy8779
    @zoy8779 Рік тому +9

    Being anxious during speaking especially front people is the most difficult thing all we suffer from but after knowing . FEELINGS ANXIETY IS MORE THAN A NORMAL THING DURING SPEAKING we feel more comfortable ❤❤❤❤ thank you so much for this wonderful episode❤❤❤❤

  • @dharamindia563
    @dharamindia563 Рік тому +3

    This is a gem. Anxiety is real and scientific approaches help

  • @letsRegulateSociopaths
    @letsRegulateSociopaths 11 місяців тому +4

    The best technique I have found is to actually in your head say what you will say just before it comes out of your mouth. It regulates everything very nicely.

    • @jukebox419
      @jukebox419 11 місяців тому +2

      how's that even possible doing it parallelly in a less amount of time?

  • @Cardioclin
    @Cardioclin 11 місяців тому +2

    Good episode and excellent podcast, "Think Faster, Talk Smart." I believe that stressful situations present challenges for everybody and provide an opportunity to demonstrate emotional intelligence, which is the most important quality we possess. When anxiety arises, I think of positive aspects.

  • @prashantsaini9101
    @prashantsaini9101 11 місяців тому +1

    Best advice ever given within this video, beautifully curated on the subject to lower the anxiety, this is going to help us a lots. We can also make communication effective by taking the short pauses while addresses large audiences to avert some anxiety to be clear more before start to the next statement, this would attenuate the fast running nerves to control and come on the same momentum with add on more energies and it could be prove great when use effectively.

  • @samukelonkosi2165
    @samukelonkosi2165 Рік тому +3

    Great episode. I’ve struggled with confidence communication. I’m definitely going to use the insights shared to create my anxiety management plan for better communication.

  • @MathsHorizon
    @MathsHorizon 9 місяців тому

    Experience is the key . Speak out , it's ok to feel the anxiety . Gradually over time things will change to the better ,trust me.

  • @banderalkharmi4931
    @banderalkharmi4931 9 місяців тому

    Many thanks Abrahams, it's really helpful

  • @JonathanSebastian407
    @JonathanSebastian407 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Stanford

  • @EnzoNosis
    @EnzoNosis Рік тому +1

    Thank you!

  • @LeeMaverick
    @LeeMaverick Рік тому +2

    Great episode!

  • @MTGBOOKSS
    @MTGBOOKSS 11 місяців тому

    Amazing Topics

  • @clementgavi7290
    @clementgavi7290 Рік тому

    Yes. Think fast, think smart. I added think ethical.

  • @jiapusun7718
    @jiapusun7718 Рік тому +97

    can you please change the color of the cover image? it's so difficult to tell I‘ve watched this video or not. Thx.

    • @mayankkasliwal1925
      @mayankkasliwal1925 Рік тому +5

      Well then you are not watching it correctly

    • @np494609
      @np494609 Рік тому +4

      Haha you need a meter to remind you when you fully watched a video?

    • @michaelrowe8115
      @michaelrowe8115 Рік тому +6

      You’re in luck, with this video you don’t watch, you just have to listen.

    • @nurcholismadjid4232
      @nurcholismadjid4232 Рік тому +5

      That the purposed to make you watch it again 😂

    • @jiapusun7718
      @jiapusun7718 Рік тому

      🤣@@nurcholismadjid4232

  • @SpeedX0905
    @SpeedX0905 11 місяців тому

    thanks

  • @matthewwoods6318
    @matthewwoods6318 Рік тому

    Appreciate this message! 😮‍💨

  • @GustavoSilva-ny8jc
    @GustavoSilva-ny8jc 2 місяці тому

    1:00 Part true but you dont want to feel like shit cause you dont have skills or dont do something new cause you will do bad, we need to fix this core problem of misinterpretation and avoidance. This can lead to a preparation frenzy where youre never good enough or cant get out of your confort zone, we need to learn to accept facts like it's natural to make mistakes as a noob and to analyze a situation thinking "what is this? How can i act and even succeed with i already have even if i play differently? I feel bothered by their opnion or how i look? What are those things?"
    We often act on instincts we have no clue how it works its like trying to do medicine without knowing biology. To understand others you need to know how humans think and societies work for example, it's not something you'll learn in 1 conversation with a random person.

  • @kathiravan1902
    @kathiravan1902 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @ZeroToZenith123
    @ZeroToZenith123 Рік тому

    I want to learn how dale something

  • @norasalah134
    @norasalah134 11 місяців тому

    thanhs

  • @sadiyaoyshi5512
    @sadiyaoyshi5512 5 місяців тому

    I miss the intro music 🥲

  • @vuxuanhuy9079
    @vuxuanhuy9079 7 місяців тому

    I wish I can listen understand video but current I cannt haizz😢

  • @RB-go8ff
    @RB-go8ff 11 місяців тому

    Wow...

  • @lancerr7608
    @lancerr7608 11 місяців тому +2

    Unnormal is not a word.

  • @johannmuster9726
    @johannmuster9726 7 місяців тому

    Rule number one: don`t waste 2:30 min. to tell people what you going to tell them. it`s 2024

  • @MaryLee-r2v
    @MaryLee-r2v 3 місяці тому

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