69. Feeling Nervous? How Anxiety Can Fuel Better Communication

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  • Опубліковано 10 жов 2022
  • Stress, anxiety, nervousness - when these feelings inevitably arise, lecturer Kelly McGonigal says it’s not about making them go away, but using them to your advantage.
    “What I have come to value about anxiety,” says McGonigal, “is it’s a sign that I care.” As she explains, feelings of stress alert us to things that matter to us and help us stay present in the moment - particularly useful, she says, when it comes to communication.
    In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, McGonigal and host Matt Abrahams discuss how to channel stress toward more effective communication and a deeper connection to our own purpose and meaning.

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    @8g-37-thuyvy8 9 місяців тому +209

    The main purpose that i watch this video is to practice my listening skill but it’s actually a helpful speech and i can understand mostly the meaning of this speech. I’m an anxious person when i have a communication from each other so this video helps me a lot about that problem❤

  • @cathywalton1062
    @cathywalton1062 8 місяців тому +101

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    @hisanaga1158 7 місяців тому +7

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  • @thegreatcatsby409
    @thegreatcatsby409 Рік тому +17

    Excellent discussion with sage advice 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
    I shared this with my son who is currently taking a speech/communication course. I’m sure it will help him. Thanks!!

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    @nurain5687 9 місяців тому

    i love the way u explain everything. thanks.

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    @rizwanulhaquemohammed4962 8 місяців тому +9

    What a brilliant podcast. Specially the idea of joy in body movements was simply superb. That's what manifests in the body language of powerful communicators. Literally worth a 1000 bucks. Thanks to Matt Abrahams and McGonigal.

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    @oppai_sause 9 місяців тому +13

    “Depression” is certainly promoted. Spiritually is very real thing yet they don’t want you to realize. If you brain is bothering you, listen to it constantly consistently. I can say, if you hear “your voice” in yoir head, that’s your left brain vocalizing on its own. It’s controlling you so get your ego detached from it. My advice is to be present, don’t think about future or past. Your voice will stop permanently trust me bro 😅

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    @vilma3146 9 місяців тому +17

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    @user-bi1ub6fh3d 8 місяців тому

    Fantastic speech. It is incredible and pleasure.. Helpful advice at the end. Thanks btw.

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  • @hsinyang473
    @hsinyang473 9 місяців тому +20

    Acknowledging the state and knowing that you care, paraphrasing it like the body is giving you a push from behind, really helps me manage the energy from being nervous! Dr. Kelly dives into the topic like thunder jeez.

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    @user-uv4hk9eb1i 9 місяців тому +1

    I am watching this video and its really helpful to understand English... Thanks

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    @lavanyaduhan8566 9 місяців тому +23

    It really changed the way we usually perceive anxiety.

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    @GlowUpgrade 9 місяців тому +1

    Helpful advice at the end. Thanks btw

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