What Happened to my AirBnb Guest? | Tragedy in my Home
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- UPDATE: I want to set the record straight on my most recent video about my experience with my AirBnb guest. I have been in touch with the families of both parties. I gave the mans belongings back to his family (they picked them up from my house) and we even shared a hug goodbye. I didnt make this video for shock value or fame (Ive gotten messages claiming this is the case). I made it to reach out to a community of supportive people that have helped me through difficult times in the past.
I encourage anyone going through a hard time mentally and emotionally to seek mental health guidance. Its something that Ive been adamant and passionate about on this channel for years.
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I can’t believe they wouldn’t come out and do a whole investigation and go through his room themselves. That is ridiculous. That police department does not know how to investigate.
They knew the motive and did not have to prosecute the case that’s why they didn’t investigate. Also if no family came forward then they wouldn’t prosecute
Yes I reported someone for unsafe actions and hiding items in vehicles, awkward behavior and no one took it seriously. Always worth a quick investigation and some quick questions. Better safe than sorry!
@@EdithIvhay what was the motive?
@@jilljohnson2457 but there already dead
What's to investigate, there both dead and they know how and why it was done
Wow. As the young people say "that’s crazy af"
It honestly was
@@imvicari
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Omg I'm only to the unloading of the revolver and I'm like OMG OMG... Not because it's guns, I own 3...but bc she grabbed someone else's and tried to unload it, lol ughhh.... As soon as I heard died, then opened the drawer and seen the guns that weren't mine.... I'd have called the cops back and told them to come get his shit, that's THEIR job, NOT MINE!
How old are you?
What a thoughtful video. I'm sorry this happened to you and you're clearly shaken by the event which demonstrates your humanity. It's sad your renter didn't seek mental/emotional assistance. It's particularly tragic for the murder victim and both parties' families. Best Wishes for your healing and for all your future endeavors.
I just found you....and immediately feel connected to you...I'm so sorry that this happened to you. How crazy! I think journaling about it will help you process it. I think that you are adorable and sweet and it's true that you never know who you are dealing with...be grateful that nothing happened in your space because he could have easily brought tragedy into your home. I hope you are able to sleep.
Look, all I've heard so far is that he's in his 50s, real estate developer, and drives a Cadillac. I'm the same generation. A guy in his 50s and suited up with a decent sounding job needing somewhere to stay is suspect. A guy in his 50s, again, who presents himself in a suit wanting to stay at an airnb instead of a hotel is suspect. A guy in his 50s driving a Cadillac is spot-on (he's the end of the big Cadillac generation) but, again, a Cadillac-er would not want to stay in an airnb...unless he's up to something. Now, I'll finish listening to her story.
I'd take the rest of his things to the police department because the laptop could have a lot of information on it.. along with the I phone!! Just take it all to the police department
Definitely when dealing with police you have to call until you get one of the good ones who will help. You might have to call 10 times or go in person but if you go to your local Justic center you will find someone who gives a crap. Don't just take "no". Ever. Make them do their job. There are amazing police, and I am so thankful for them, but for every incredible one it feels like there are 3 or 4 bad/lazy/uncaring/unscrupulous/immoral ones...... ugghhh
I’m watching this a year later and I definitely would have told the cops to take everything. That’s ridiculous. And yes that’s pretty creepy.
My long time neighbor 5 houses up was a murder suicide. Seemed nice. Kicked the door in and I heard the shots. Up til 2 a.m. making xmas sweets with ex hubby. He thought I imagined the blasts and told me to sleep. The snow turned brown I swear to god and told him to look. It's all brown. He said I'm overtired and to go to sleep. I was hysterical and finally went to sleep. I passed by her house to get a haircut and called in sick when I noticed something blood splattered hung across her front rail. Why'd they put that in plain site? The 2 year old woke my other neighbors in barefoot at the door sobbing. The baby lived without freezing from the door locked open BC mums body fell on him without smothering him. In front of my house; Her tracks still in the snow. Where do they go?
Fyi - if you call it a "spinny thing" don't touch the gun!!!
Chelsea - please consult an attorney right away in this situation. The police have given you terrible advice as has AirBNB. The estate can legally come after you and if the matter is brought into a court of law, I guarantee you that the police will deny that they said what you have alleged. Protect yourself - this could go wrong very fast!
No worries. I kept everything.
Very good point!!!!
@Dodge Charger stop being so annoying. My god. Everything is a conspiracy isn’t it? 🙄
@Dodge Charger It does seem crazy but I’ve seen/heard crazier. Maybe she was trying to be careful and didn’t want to transport a loaded gun. I know I wouldn’t want to transport a loaded gun. I also don’t know anything about guns so I would have called the police to deal with it. I’m sure her roommate/boyfriend didn’t just walk away, she’s probably just saying how he felt about the situation. And the officer could have been new and didn’t think they needed all the crap she had or he was an idiot. We weren’t there.
Not everyone handles situations the same.
If it’s not a true story it’s a good one.
If you don’t believe her story keep scrolling.
Attorney, attorney, attorney!
This is boggling my mind. The minute I would have even laid eyes on someone else's guns I would have called the police to retrieve the belongings. Scary stuff, hope you stay safe.
Exactly 💯💯
Exactly!!!
Right, there is no way I’m touching that stuff. I would have been recording as I went into that room. Scary stuff.
Right??
You’re not shaken that badly if you were able to touch his guns! You should’ve called the police straight away… miss busy body! You’re making this video, like your a victim! It’s not all about you !
I'm just 7 minutes in, but I can't believe you went into his room and unloaded the guns, let alone touch them before talking to the cops. Stay safe!
My thoughts exactly
Exactly. First off I'm not touching nobodies guns. No way in hell and I would've called the cops to come get his shit. Period. I'm not touching nothing.
Yah she should have called the police right away and said I’m not touching this guys stuff there are several ladies guns here. That was stupid and irresponsible
Right?
Sounds like Joey was the smart one..
And she said he was 50 maybe it was a heart attack..im 45 , guess im REALLY running out of TIME😳😳😳😳😅😅😅😅😅
He obviously didn't use any of these guns. JS
Darlin, you need to move out ASAP before you do anything else. Bad vibes, especially if you don’t feel comfortable enough to share with your housemates. Rent a studio apartment until you can get financially stable.. You do not need a big house. Having the personal belongings of someone who was a murderer doesn’t feel right. Don’t mess with the phone or computer. I suggest you drop them off at the police station yourself. You have no idea what might be on these devices.
This just came up in my feed. To say this is shocking is an understatement. And it’s shocking on many levels. I have never heard of such an incompetent police department! THEY should have come picked up his stuff and if they couldn’t do that much, they should have called the family to come pick it up. You shouldn’t have been involved. And it’s also unclear how the cops found out he was in your AirBnB. He probably wasn’t even married.
I feel like it’s more rare to have an actually competent police department. I wouldn’t trust them to do anything right. This situation is awful.
You must not listen to true crime. Incompetence happens in most cases.
You don't watch first amendment auditors, do you? If you want to see consistent incompetence go to Audit the Audit
There are some real wtf 🤦♀️ videos 😒
I'm guessing wife found AirBnB on credit card/bank statement, when this happened she told cops, they contacted AirBnB to try to figure out connection.
You’ve never heard? That is the most common thing you see in police departments! And not only in the US. But all over the world.
Girl you don't ever know about people. Years ago when I was a bartender I had a friend who used to let a young man stay at her house. One night it was below zero and he was napping in her car with it running because her husband wouldn't let him stay anymore. He said the guy was too weird. This is too long of a story to explain how she knew him. I tell her go get him he's going to get carbon monoxide aphyixaited out there. So he is refusing to come in. He finally agrees. He walks in, sits at the bar, and will not make eye contact with anyone at all. He was greasy and dirty looking. So she introduced her friend Jeff to me. Yes, it was Jeffery flipping Dahmer!!!! He told me he lived in Milwaukee and came to Chicago to meet friends occasionally. Same glasses, I can even remember the dirty ring around his collar. Flash forward two months later he's on the national news. It makes me ill thinking how close I stood to that monster. If it wasn't for my best friend working with me that night no one would have believed me. Let this be a lesson to you about people. I thank God you are safe. Your story could have possibly ended quite differently.
wow scary
😳😳😳
Wtf!
Yikes!
My brother met Jeffrey Dahmer and Gacey !!! I got in Ted Bundy's car, and left for dead by Kauai Serial Killer!...I know who he is and fbi does jack shit for 22yrs. You all BE AWARE !!! He's still out there!
Some of us just walk a strange karmic path...believe it.
Chelsea, the best suggestion left by one of the viewers is to take ALL of ‘Duncan’s’ things to the police station that the cop that came to your house works at. The cop right off the bat gave you incorrect info and had to come back and get some more of ‘Duncan’s’ things. I wouldn’t sell anything. I would take it all to the police. If any of the family members call asking where this or that is then you can say the police have everything. The last thing you need in your life right now is to have to tell the family member, ‘oh I sold that’! Honey, he paid you rent and left you a review. Let it go at that. You are a lovely young woman who has a caring heart. Nothing you did brought the ‘Duncan the murderer’ to your home. You rented to someone who you thought was an ok guy. That’s how he presented himself to you. You couldn’t have known the other sides of him. When you take his stuff to the police, air out the room and decide if you want to give the whole Airbnb another shot. If the room was at a separate location than where you live I would rent it out again. With you being right across the hall and have income from others than I wouldn’t do it. That’s just my opinion. What is your beautiful dogs name? I had dobermans for 25 years and I miss each one them so much. I have Jack Russell’s now and love them just as much. Please take care honey. You did the best you could, that is all anyone can ask for. Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year! Carleen
There are no coincidences. UA-cam just sent this to me randomly just now. I was going to do Airbnb in my home that I purchased this week but now, forget it! Thank you sis!
I was thinking the same thing. Not going to do it.
99.9 percent of time this doesn’t happen to airbnb renters and you’re going to let this one tragedy stop u from doing it? Tragedy can happen anytime anywhere. Don’t let it control your life.
Same here. I have been decorating an apartment to do Airbnb, but now I’m not sure at all. By the way, you are so cool. And yes, get a lawyer recording and notarising these details.
I'll bet you searched Airbnb on your phone. Its not a coincidence it's Googles algorithm. They know everything.
@@lotofbitsabout I’ve been getting ready to do this In the spring. I think I’ll just stay home
This is what I’m sure happened. He was dating this woman she found out anout his wife and broke it off. His wife probably also wanted to divorce him. He probably started to stalk this girl which is why he moved right down the street from her. Every time he was leaving for the day he was probably taking photos of her and tracking her every movement (hence the tracking device). It would’ve been nice if the cops would’ve handled it instead of leaving you to deal with it 🙃. I hope you’ve found a new place to live.
Yep.
Made me think he duplicated her key as well :(
It goes a little bit deeper than that. I looked them both up and found their obituaries, They were both married.
Aww hell 😩
@@Deanna0456 It's a pretty messed up situation all the way around.
As soon as you opened the drawer and saw the guns, you should’ve called the police station to have an officer come pick up the guns.
I'm not trying to troll or be rude. I just see it differently. I'm sure in hindsight she would have handled the entire situation differently, but to tell someone what they should or shouldn't do in a situation that you were not in doesn't make sense to me. Plus if you listened to what she said she didn't find out that there was any type of criminal element just that she needed to pack stuff up per the AirBnB and. take it to the police station for his family to collect.to When she was packing his stuff she had no clue. It was after she had handled the guns & packed his stuff that she found out that he had committed a murder/suicide. I can't imagine how you feel @Chelsea. I'd have been terrified. How could you ever trust someone to move in again unless it's someone you've known for a very long time. I realize this was posted a year ago and I'm fixing to search your channel for an update. I hope I find one. NAMASTE!
She said where she lives it’s normal for people to have guns. She didn’t know there was a crime yet.
Right. Literally everyone has guns in the south. I thought nothing of it until I found out what happened.
I agree with you as soon as I saw four guns lined up like that by a stranger coming onto my property without my knowledge I would have definitely called the police and told them to come get it themselves plus he just died mysteriously
@@joyousbibi I agree hindsight is 20/20, it’s easy to “armchair” quarterback someone’s response to a situation after the fact. At least she responded and tried to act upon with a course of action. That’s half the battle.
Seems like “Duncan” was stalking “Christine”….I’ve watched many MANY crime scene shows, true life crimes, etc. The detective in me thinks Christine wasn’t even aware Duncan was close by & he was stalking her, possibly she realized Duncan was married & ended it but Duncan wasn’t having it. Sounded like Duncan had ill intentions from the beginning & Christine had no clue she was in danger!
Definitely he was stalking her. Who really knows if the wife story was just made up! Scary
She definitely didn’t know… A TRACKER?! A kEY CLONE MAKER?!
I’m convinced he didn’t even have a wife. That he was just a deranged stalker who maybe couldn’t have what he wanted and so nobody else would either
The interesting thing is, Both of them were married.
@@carmela9988 No he really was married both of them were you can find their obituaries very easily.
I can’t believe that they didn’t want to see the tracking device and everything else that was weird that he left! 🤯🤯🤯
Very poor police work, this poor girl
to DEFEND the police they're overwhelmed w too much....not enough money or rescourrses...and wanting to deFUND POLICE, WILL get MUCH WORSE
I’m really shaken up that persons who know absolutely nothing about fire arms and firearm safety would try to disarm a weapon. You should not even pick the darn thing up. SMH that is how tragedies happen. So glad u r still around to tell us about this horrible tragedy
Also she said *everyone* in the house has guns when she is talking about her first finding them... So I thought that included her but 😬 yikes
Holy cow, I’m an expert marksman from my military service. The story sounded fishy to start with and the second I saw the weapons, that would be it for me. I know how to shoot them but you never know if they have been modified, etc. That cop sounds like a total idiot and they should have come and secured his belongings and possible evidence of a premeditated murder. I don’t blame you, I would be shook as well. Also the fact that they totally screwed up the chain of evidence by involving you in it.
“A lot of crazy things happen in this house…” as I’m staring at the stripper pole in the background. Lol.
Jk. I empathize with your struggle. And I’m sorry you went through such a horrific experience.
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Yeah lol noticed that too!!
LMAO 🤣 🤣 🤣 I didn't see it till I read your comment!!!
What the heck?!? The cops SERIOUSLY dropped the ball. They should have confiscated all of his belongings. Especially the phone and laptop! I’m blown away! My Dad is a retired homicide detective for LA county, in California. This NEVER would have been acceptable in any of his investigations.
I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Since this was posted a year ago, I sincerely hope you were able to process this whole traumatic experience.
Some people give a career their all while a handful only care about their check and do very little to get it. 🥺
LA ???? 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄
Tinker I'm a cop;s kid too & I had the same reaction! Did AirBnB not tell the cops her location? Why didn't they go there? Something isn't right.
The police seems to do this ALOT. Anymore unfortunately.
@@kookietherapy9398 Rock Hill, SC.
Girl! I own a airbnb that sits on my farm where I live. It's a great source of income but i'm a little nervous having strangers on my personal property. For the most part 99% of my guest are awesome but it only takes 1 bad experience to shake your sense of security. I had drug dealers book my place and for 24 hours cars where in and out and there was nothing I could prove and if I had the police raid the place I was afraid of retaliation. They destroyed my place and it ended up that it was booked under a false name and most likely a stolen credit card. I have been shaken up every sense. I have actually just signed a contract to sell my home of 27 years because I depend on the income from the airbnb and i just don't want to feel this way anymore. My heart feels you and I'm so sorry you're going through this. I think your instincts are right! Trust that! Wishing you the best.
Wow I couldn't imagine your feelings.... Letting go of that house
Omg I'm so sorry
I'm so sorry that this happened to you. We use to stay at Bed & Breakfast back in the day. You met everyone, it was chatty and friendly. My sweet husband would do it for me, but he always said, We're not here to meet new people. They're strangers. I don't want to make small talk. I want us to have our adventures and enjoy our time together. Fast forward 30 years to the VRBO and Air BnB age. I will NEVER book us a room in someone's home or with multiple rooms. I want a separate house, all I want to do is text. Pay for a service. Respect their property and leave. But Lord, there are people living lifestyles out there and don't give a single thought to respect or honor. I'm sorry your selling your home, but SHAKE THIS OFF and reclaim your sense of privacy and security.
God Bless & Merry Christmas 🎄
@@stacyjaye6350 I’m 32 & tired of renting! I live in Michigan so I understand wanting to leave here. Rent is skyrocketing. I’m so happy for you that you were able to find a place for a good price down there. Happy holidays from the mitten.
Girl, if you ever find guns DO 👏🏻 NOT touch them 🤷🏼♀️ I’m sure you’re shook enough to not now but leave them where they lay & call the police, you don’t want to tamper with evidence if they’re murder weapons or were used at a crime. People are never what they portray! My bfs moms bf is a whole married lawyer & is still with his wife 🤦🏼♀️ he’s got some crazy skeletons in his closet. Just keep it pushing girl 💁🏼♀️ you’ll get some good ones I’m sure. Hopefully couples 😂 trying to have a good weekend or something...
I shut down the room already on Air Bnb. Thank you for all your kind words
VICARI well do you have pics of the stuff for sale? My family is in the funeral business & we get stuff givin from families of loved ones often if they cannot make full payments & I have no trouble buying preowned stuff so someone else can get it off their own hands. I posted this before I finished the video & saw you wanted to move 😆 sorry girl 🤦🏼♀️
Actually the family retrieved all of his belongings
@@HughMadBro Selling dead people's stuff for a profit, nice. You sound like a peach.
I am sitting here listening to this story (it came up on my YT feed) and I am so shocked that you were handling firearms that you were not experienced with. You could have hurt yourself or other people in the home. I am glad this worked out for you but... WOW! Very dangerous!
Same here. When she said she was pointing out at the floor I just thought, there could be a kid right under her! Her hand could have slipped and she could have killed herself...
It's a really horrible situation she was put in and she 100% should have been told the police are coming and to not touch anything. They should have come out and done a thorough investigation. This could have ended up very very badly.
The second I saw those guns I would have called the police I would not have touched them at all.
I think she has guns as well she didn't think the revolver was a big deal I think she thought. But I was thinking the same. Im terrified of guns im not a good shooter
U need get mr hunting dead Jodi might want that stuff
They told her to gather all of his belongings and she had no idea how he had died. She assumed it was something innocent since no one wanted to tell her otherwise. This was handled so poorly by incompetent police and airbnb. She said everyone in the house has a gun so most likely she has handled guns as well. I'm sure she just was listening to stupid instructions by stupid law enforcement who don't know how to work a case in her city, not to mention she was probably in shock over the news.
I’m sorry this came into your life. My Airbnb experience has always been positive and my guests wonderful. Don’t give up on humanity yet!
I would have immediately called the police. Don’t touch things that could be evidence. I’m glad you finally did this. Sorry this happened to you. He was suspicious of his girlfriend, that was the tracking device. He was obsessed with her, that was all the photos. You were a better detective than they were. Get rid of his things to his relatives yourself. You need to have the house saged, or have a priest come and bless it.
💯 percent correct 🤠 the second I saw guns I would have called to request professionals remove them
@@jenniferjack2888 definitely.
When you have a house, and you rent out rooms to different people who you know nothing about can be dangerous....Now you experienced it in your home... Something bad could happen to you....Why not sell your house.?? Buy a smaller house so you can live in peace...We owned property in Queens N Y it was a two family house and we lived on the first floor, and rented the second floor apartment...We could share some stories.....People are a trip...We sold the house, and moved to Florida..in a smaller one family.... If you want to be a landlord it's better to own two separate property...You live in one, all the strangers live in the second house...I am so glad you are safe....
My friends urged me to buy a two family home and I declined for the reasons you mentioned. I wish I had the rental income but I prefer peace of mind. I have two close friends who rent property in NYC. The stories they’ve shared 😳.
To help get in tune with your intuition in scary encounters like this, this book is very helpful, “The Gift of Fear” by Gavin De Becker. I’m glad you’re ok.
Omg I read that book while I was in a domestic violence shelter waiting for the trial of my ex husband to start.
Great read.
Gavin had a record of his own.
one of my favorite books
Buy some rubber nitrile gloves. You’ll want them for next time you have to touch peoples stuff
That’s insane! I wouldn’t get rid of anything yet, because they might need to come back & get it. It’s unreal how the police have handled it 😖
Whoops, didn’t realize how old this video was. Man, the algorithm is super strange. I hope you’ve been able to move into your own place, away from this building by now!
@@ellieisabamf super creepy because it popped up in mine too
Mine too. 1215/2021
I want to set the record straight on my most recent video about my experience with my AirBnb guest. I have been in touch with the families of both parties. I gave the mans belongings back to his family (they picked them up from my house) and we even shared a hug goodbye. I didnt make this video for shock value or fame (Ive gotten messages claiming this is the case). I made it to reach out to a community of supportive people that have helped me through difficult times in the past.
I encourage anyone going through a hard time mentally and emotionally to seek mental health guidance. Its something that Ive been adamant and passionate about on this channel for years.
In addition, all of the money made from this video will be donated to victims of gun violence. My heart goes out to BOTH families involved. You're in my thoughts and Im sending nothing but love to you. If you are a member of either of the families involved and wish to speak to me directly, my email is chelseafork@gmail.com and I would be happy to answer any further questions you have.
You should pin this doll.
In this day and age, you take a chance with anyone and everyone!
Pretty much
A joke we use to have when we were kids as a excuse to not wear a costume.
I'm going as a psychopath. An everyday kind of person that looks just like you and me
@@mom4u412012 👍🕊
Sad, but true
Every day and age.
That cop seems incompetent to the max! You are wise to make a plan to get into a home by yourself, so you are more comfortable and safe! I am hoping the upcoming AirBnB people are better. Stay as upbeat as you can, I don’t blame you for being weirded out.
I know this video is old, but I still have to say it: I CANNOT believe you agreed to handle that task BEFORE knowing the circumstances of his death. Just sayin'
Agreed. Seems very off that Air BnB would be making a request like that and not the police themselves. My guess is they didn't want to deal with it and sent it your way. I'd have called the police to confirm things and asked their advice. Air BnB would have known contact details and could have helped you find the next of kin for a pick up. Shameful behaviour by Air BnB.
Some people find it rude to ask how someone died……
@@sasha44486 perhaps but not me-I would ask what happened!!!!
@@lindamaemullins5151 okay
@@sasha44486 you sound like you were raised right, Sasha.
Why would AirBNB tell you to gather his things? If Air BNB knew this guy was dead and he was staying at your place, why wouldn't they contact the police and have the cops deal with his belongings themselves? Why would you actually do it? You should have called the cops right after your AirBNB call to have them come to your house and open the door only after they are there. Then, let them handle everything without ever going in that room.
I just want you to know it really is more common than you think and it wasn’t your fault that this happened. I had a foster sister who aged out of the system and became an alcoholic. Despite that, she was sweet and nice all the time to me because I was so much younger than her. I grew up with this woman doting on me.
Her mother didn’t live too far away from her and they were very close. However, they were trouble when they were together because all they did was go out and drink.
Out of the blue one day we didn’t hear from either of them.... a few days later we see her on the news and the news anchor is talking about how she stabbed her mother 80 times.
I lived in a room next to this woman for the first 6 years of my life. She changed my diapers. She came to several of my birthday parties and holidays as a kid. I have pictures with her of me growing up and selfies of us together.
You just never know who can break on you.
I often think about what I could have said and done to prevent her from doing it but in the end all the decisions made were her own.
What this man did was not your fault. He made his own choices and hid his intentions well. He was very good at hiding it. I’m very sorry this scared you so much, though.
God bless and I pray everything goes well for you!💞💗✌️
Maybe the mother let some bad things happen to her and that was why she was in the Foster system or maybe they were doing drugs and she had hallucinations so said I have been crazy angry at my mom but never thought of murdering her that's crazy and super sad
@@MompreneurDiary she didn't just murder her mom she acted in a fit of rage. That shit was straight hatred and anger
Yeah, nice, still doesn't make it any safer for a young lady to be renting a room out to some old dude. Or young dude.
WOW!! Your very first Airbnb guest too, how ironic is that! I would be so shaken up too, as those are definitely very traumatic events. Recently where I live this same thing just happened, a murder/suicide between a woman and her boyfriend and turns out it was a friend of mines mom whom was murdered by her boyfriend. I know these kinds of things happen but it's different when it involves people you actually know. I'm so glad Joey came to help with the gun, I can only imagine how stressful that situation must have been. I hope you are able to find your OWN space soon ♥️♥️♥️
Not knowing HOW he died,the circumstances,but also knowing there was a "situation" with the wife...It SERIOUSLY BLOWS MY MIND that all these red flags didn't PUNCH U in the face.I haven't even finished the video! I had an OVERWHELMING NEED TO LEAVE right when Joey left! In video you were putting everyone at ease about guns,as if you were ok& comfortable.BUT YOU ARE NOT! YOU DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT PARTS ARE CALLED OR HOW TO BE SAFE! You didn't know how to unload! You even tried to SHOOT THE FREAKING THING INTO THE GROUND TO "RESET" IT!!!!!You could have killed yourself or someone else!
Ahhh,this is painful to listen to but have to see if you eventually shoot someone...
This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard! Who in their right mind would touch guns AND UNLOAD THEM? Are you crazy? Girl you call the darn POLICE! You don't EVER touch that stuff!
YOU SHOULD HAVE CALLED THE ACTUAL DETECTIVE WORKING THE CASE! That officer may not have even taken those guns in. You should have contacted the cops directly, explained the entire situation and then that detective absolutely would have wanted that stuff.
I know this is from a year ago, but I hope you have this all settled in your mind. You ran into this guy out of bad luck. Most people are good. Don't let this experience ruin you.
YOU TRUSTED HIM BECAUSE HE WAS A WHITE MAN & WELL DRESSED ETC. YOU NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY THE COVER!!!! GOOD CREDIT DOESN'T MAKE A GOOD PERSON!!!
Years ago I had a college roommate who ended up murdering his girlfriend and himself and about this time I had some unpleasant words with him cause he locked me out of the room and I had to crawl into the window to get inside our room so I was glad he did not end up being mad at me to any great extent but having seen some of your earlier videos your nose looks GREAT !!! I hope the breathing is excellent. The problem is you are a sweet soul so you may end up being more trusting and accepting to others than the average person which can get people like yourself in predicaments. Glad your working to having your own place the dwelling that you sleep in and stay in should be a safe place among other things and you should NOT be anywhere near a stranger while in this space. Having said this you could maybe require a background check of a person which they must pay for in order to be accepted to stay there though this may prevent many from even considering staying there. I think this is a unique and unusual situation and you will probably never have anything else like this happen to you the odds are with you UNLESS you engage in getting to close to strangers. I would consider seeking out church people they can be crazy too but on average are much less extreme than this crazy person.
😁 Church people.
You grabbed a dead man's gun..
You have no further info on his death...
Why not call the police FIRST before leaving all your finger prints all over the personal property ????
I’m not sure if Joey is your boyfriend? if he just left me to deal with this dude’s stuff by myself....
Deuces ✌🏻
He is and I honestly dont blame him.
yeah, what a trash boyfriend!
Ambre
Yikes, I didn’t say that..... I would hope my man would be supportive in this rather traumatic experience. Ladies, am I wrong? 🤔
Nothing negative to say about Joey, im sure he has a lot on his plate and is very supportive the majority of the time. I'll just stop there...
@@K2Kevin imo it doesn't matter what he has on his plate, his gf is dealing with guns in her home and a traumatic event that directly impacts her? joey needs to step it up and be HELPFUL. actions speak a lot louder than words.
About 10 min into the room, I would've asked the police if the want to investigate before I screw up a possible criuseless. Then again, right at the beginning it would've been hard to know.//wow, the police were worst than uselesss. So sorry you went through this.
Wow, this happened in Rock Hill? I live in Charlotte. I'm so sorry this happened, what a tragedy & so scary. I'm glad you weren't physically harmed!
Just… wow.. can’t believe the cops didn’t take everything… what a freaking nightmare!
It’s not like tv shows. Police only do that if it needs for evidence, but yeah they should have contacted medical examiner and homicide before leaving the scene. It’s not professional on what they did.
Hi, Chelsea, I am just passing by. I realize this happened almost 2 years ago now, but if you are still in this house, get the local priest out to pray over your house, so you feel safer there. Bad energy hangs around, do get some help. Good luck on your future. Praying for you.
or smudge the place!
No let’s not believe in fairy tales
@@charisselinnell-morton4137 What’s wrong with you?! During the CHRISTMAS Season your inclination is to mock someone’s beliefs in God? If you don’t live for God then what … money? Material wealth? Look deeper… even on your money it reads “in God we trust”. You don’t wanna believe… fine, but don’t criticize those that do. Shameful
Beautiful comment. I wanted to share the same advice but saw your comment 🙏🏽 Happy Holidays
@@southernsoul152 agreed
I don't know but your police department is completely and totally incompetent. They totally miss handled it. They should have come and sealed off that room as a crime scene, and had detectives process it. After they took whatever evidence they thought they needed, they should have had the guy's next of kin come and take the rest of his belongings. I think the police are giving you bad advice. That stuff belongs to his estate, whomever his closest relatives are. If you sell it, or otherwise dispose of it, you could end up owing damages to the estate. What a mess. :(
@@coffeeonthemoon .....Not exactlyyyyyy at all. The room is not a crime scene. True, the local police seem inept, but there was no urgency and they eventually did take what was needed for their investigation
There isn’t really a mystery to solve, it was a murder suicide the mystery is solved. I’m so sorry, this is traumatic.
Ok, this is weird. So when something like this happens you would think that the cops would've came to you/her home to gather his belongings. This would be evidence as such. Correct?
HOLY $%#@&!!!, girl! You are being incredibly strong!This is unreal! Sorry your first attempt at Air BnB turned into a real life CSI! And what is wrong with the local police department? I hope by now you have moved to your own space. Please keep us updated. These crazy things do happen! I knew of two families who lived the next house on the road from good friends. One family, was a murder suicide, the husband killed his wife...
The other was a woman murdered by hit men, hired by her husband, her daughter was with me at a school field trip that very day! Your story might make a good book!! Ever thought about writing a book??? Maybe this is your $$$. Take care of you!! Stay in your power.
We have a rental next door to us,that we own.We have had it for about 15 years.All I can say is that people say one thing on the agreement,and the monster comes later. We want to sell it,but it is an old,clean trailer,and no one wants to buy it. We are so done.Want to help people,but they have more baggage than the boxes they bring.It has been a bummer-cheating spouses,thieves,and people lying flat out on the rental agreement.Trying to sell the place.Hope your next chapter is a better story for you!
You never know what's going on in a person's mind, or if they're plain ole' crazy. 🤪 You might want to contact the Lieutenant again at the police station and ASK HIM yourself, if he needs the laptop, phone, etc., We know he won't want the clothing. Just an idea...You never really know a person.
JESUS CHRIST!! Murder, Viagra, Testosterone . Darling, I, have followed you from the beginning and sometimes it is like you are living a black comedy. God bless you.
It didn't happen to YOU
Everybody goes thru stuff.
Instead of it being about YOU stop and think about the families who lost somebody
Somebody's daughter was murdered
Somebody's son committed suicide after he murdered
You knew him for a month get over yourself think about the families
She also had a murderer in her house so she was in danger so she has every right to tell her side of the story and have her feelings. She’s not invalidating the family that lost their daughter.
The fact she ran to youtube for views to tell this story.I don't think youtube would have came to mind had this happened to anyone with some common sense.
that place got bad juju.
homeless squatters and windows painted shut.
when you moving?
Can't even trust yourself sometimes. All we can trust is our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Turn to Him today and never be the same. 💕
Lol
No... not everyone needs or wants christianity
@@ellenmendoza7246 Just know He is always there waiting. And yes He does give us a choice that unfortunately some will reject. Choose Life, choose Love.
I trust myself at all times.
@@besetfree5752 the world is a big place with many different beliefs. Please respect that and don't push your as the one we should all follow
I just googled this situation and it took me less than 4 seconds to get the real names... There's absolutely no reason for you to be using monikers . You gave the name of the town, it wasn't hard to look up murder suicide in that town and get their names. It also gave the address of the home it happened in... Which you said is right down the street from yours. You might want to change things up in this video a bit just to protect yourself in the future. Also, are you even allowed to sublet in your building? I personally don't care and think it was a great idea but definitely want to make sure you don't mess up your own lease 😉.
Also, the people telling you that you are now in the middle of a murder investigation and that you should never have touched his things blah blah blah... Settle down Sally's! This is obviously a murder suicide, it's an open and shut case, the investigation is more than likely 100% finished at this point. He killed her - end of story. By law you only have to hold his things 30 days and you can do whatever you want with them - if his family or the police don't clean out his room then everything in it is yours to keep or throw away or sell or whatever.
Where did it happen or what city
Or what did you type when you googled it
@@shebeccanelson7275 why? She clearly wanted to keep it private and not have people know where she lives. She’s been through a lot. Leave it be and get a hobby.
Mind your business, you are worried about her lease? ha wild
30 days? she Air BnB, that's not the law especially, with a dead guest. keyword. guest
That’s insane and hope things have calmed down since. I had some girl at the grocery store start randomly talking to me asking weird things to initiate conversation. It caught me off guard. She also said it was her first time at this grocery store bc it wasn’t too close to where she lived. I couldn’t tell if maybe she was trying to market her and her boyfriend’s small business (she briefly mentioned it) or if she was looking for a friend. My husband was with me too and we were friendly and did exchange my number with her. I only put in my first name and last name initial into her phone as a cautionary thing. When she texted me later on, she asked if she could pls have my full last name to add to her contacts. That was a red enough flag for me and I never responded back.
Super weird, I hope you never see her again
Edit* the family has retrieved his belongings.
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Chelsea - One more thing - do NOT sell any of the deceased man’s property- for sure the estate will launch a case of THEFT against you. The deceased’s property is not “abandoned property” in any legal sense - Please hire a lawyer right away - you have stated your intentions in a recorded video which can be subpoenaed from UA-cam in a court proceeding by the estate.
I still have all of his belongings. I think air bnb is going to get in touch with the family for me so they can get them even though the police told me to throw it all away.
One of my clients has an air bnb rental attached to his garage. His first guest overdosed in his rental. It really messed him up!
Damn 😔
I see this is a year ago but wanted to check in and make sure you are doing ok. I know this had to have been so difficult for you. I hope you have been able to move forward and find your place of peace.
@Dodge Charger oh ok 😒
Maybe it's just me, but I would not have touched the guns or any of his belongings. Why would it be your responsibility to pack his stuff? I'd let the police do that.
Wow that is one crazy story! I would have told that cop to take all his stuff! I mean, I think I would, when you are in that kind of shock though it’s hard to say what you would do...this is so long ago, I hope things are better for you now! 💜
OMG!! I'm right around 8 minutes in..... I can't believe you touched the belongings (especially guns) in this dead man's room... I wish the police would've come and gathered his belongings. Why was this your responsibility? smh
In the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and savior
Wow your crazy Airbnb story is bit crazier than mine... glad nothing happened in your house. i wonder how law enforcement found out he was staying in airbnb in the first place.
Girl, you were lucky! My stylist felt bad for two people and asked them back to her home to stay for a few days (obviously not an Airbnb). Thanksgiving day (years ago) I’m watching the news and see her house on the news. Those two people left her house and then decided she might know too much about them. They went back and executed her in her home. It legit changed the way I trust people and the level of help I extend. My home is a safe haven and I am not down with having strangers here with me. If a vibe feels strange, it is. The fact you questioned why he was telling you so much means your gut knew something was off. Thanks for sharing your experience!
What the ….. Jesus!
GIRLLLLL…. I’m prayin you have contacted and attorney! You need this stuff to be in the hands of the police. I can not BELIEVE, the Police were this incompetent in this investigation! Those poor families deserve answers. Those answers may be on those devices.
Always remember your first duty to yourself, is to keep yourself safe!
I’ll keep you in my prayers! Be Safe!
That Cadillac was your 1st clue 😆
Glad you guys are safe! That's fricking nuts CV.
I’d have called police once I saw guns! Never touch! Might mess up fingerprints?
I haven't read through all the comments and I'm sure someone has already mentioned this. Testosterone injections are often needed by men and women to stabilize hormone levels. However when men, especially, takes large amounts of testosterone it can cause extreme personality changes and severe rage issues for the person taking it. I used to have a friend who tried testosterone replacement therapy because he felt like his workouts weren't as effective as they used to be and that he was more tired than he used to be. He had to stop taking it because he said it caused him to be extremely angry and aggressive and to feel completely different from his normal self. I have no idea if in this case that was an issue but the doctors definitely don't usually explain the risks involved in taking testosterone. Of course it's also sold on the black market for bodybuilders Etc so it's possible he didn't even have it prescribed. Who knows. No matter what that's a horrific situation for you to have been dealing with. And how sad for his family and of course for the girl he murdered. Even people who seem like the nicest people in the world can do horrific things. Very sad
Watched your video my heart really goes out to you I can see in your face that you’re pretty stressed out so sorry you had to go through this I think you’re making a wise decision about getting your own place and you’re right you never know people what they’re gonna do you’re a beautiful girl get on with your life as best as you can I know you can’t trust everyone
This is random but, you have an energy lingering to b your house and you need to cleanse it. Mop and sweep and then save your home (salt in door corners) is do this 3 times. Also cleanse your energy.
Peace sis.
No she needs to just move. Energy didn’t bring this on.
Good thing he didn’t do it in your home
I’m sorry you had to go through this. You need to get the police to give you contact info of his family. Stay strong
The cops should have taken all his belongings.... especially his phone and computer! Shoddy police work! Attorney here... that’s ridiculous! Go to an Attorney right away!
It's almost like he was stalking her or something or someone and then prehaps like you said she started seeing someone else and he couldn't take it. Either way if I was the cop I would think HELLO let me take everything since this is an ongoing investigation. Scary situation.
You are a young beautiful woman...pray for protection...I pray every day for Jesus to protect me and my home AND my guests....they come into my three airbnb suites with their own private door ...that is the only way I would do it even though here in Canada we are not permitted to carry guns , This is a dangerous world with dangerous people that can often look nice...so take extra precautions having strangers in your home....or don't do that ....get a room mate you can trust maybe....
Damn girl! I am sorry you have to deal with all this. The PD there seems like they are full of Barney Fife's from Mayberry, lol! Seriously though, that was a creepy situation to deal with. Don't let this affect you in a negative way! You have a lot to be grateful for and life is going to happen no matter what you do. The true mark of a man or woman is how we react to life's adversities. Push this aside and move on. Say a prayer for him, light a candle for him, make a donation in his name to some charity...do something to release your grief, anger, sadness and shock so you don't carry it around with you. This happens everyday in this world and no matter what we do or say, we can't change it. All we can do is accept the situation for what it is and move on. Bob Marley used to say, "stop thinking in a negative way and embrace the positive day." Your strong, so don't let this rattle you girl! Be well my nomad friend!
wow thank you for all this
Should have finished packing the box of ALL his things.a written itemization and pics of the list & items. And a copy of the police report..you tell no one else but you can tell UA-cam..SMH
Oh my Chelsey you never really know about people.I would do a background check if your bringing people in.Iam so glad nothing happened to you.Be careful please
Jo Cichon I rented an AirBNB last summer and they needed a copy of my license and they do some kind of check. But in this case it probably wouldn’t have helped anyway because he seemed like a normal Joe with family and everything
AirBNB called you to gather his staff and take it to the Police?! And you just went through his stuff? 😂 Why didn’t you call the police to verify that this is what you had to do?! That is just dumb! … if it’s true. Find a lawyer!
I do Airbnd.... if I found a gun, the cops would have been called before I touched anything! If the guy is dead, your fingerprints are on weapons in his possession.
I am disappointed with Airbnd to call YOU to pack up his stuff instead of the cops!
Girl... wth are you doing! Take this video down!!!! You are also implicating your bf. You should have called law enforcement right away and never touched a thing. Then you go an make a video about it?This was really not very smart.
This is like the ride shares. I just don't understand with the amount of violence in the World. Why are we doing this? It is one generation refusing to learn from another. You will all stop it. It will get forgotten about. And then the next generation will come up with something just as dangerous. And you will shake your heads. Come on people it is not a good thing to invite a stranger in your home. Mame I am sorry for you. I am glad nothing actually happened to you personally. And that he was fixated in another direction. Good luck to you.
This just came up in my feed, after watching I googled it and found the article/news release. That's so heartbreaking for his victims family and her children.
Ohhhhhhh child trust no one!!!!!!! Ever and if they start professing their Christianity to you first thing off the bat. (I am a Christian by the way) step away far far far away. My experience has been the person who does that is evil to the core and they are trying to build trust where there should be non.
Speaking from experience.
I told my mom the other day that there's no way I would do Airbnb. I'd rather rent it to someone with a contract for an amount of time..
@@ark194 that's crazy... I have saw several good things people say about staying in one... However I see way more horror stories than good one's. I hope you get your stuff back and recover your money back. Sorry to hear that you had that happen to you.
What's the history of this house? Comment sent Dec 17 2021...sell the house get a different house make sure your hanging around loving honest people...shame this happened to you glad you were safe
I know this was a year ago, but if you don’t even know what a barrel of a gun is called or how to operate the ‘hammer’, then you have no business touching a gun. I’m sorry this happened to you.
Oh my gosh honey, God Bless you. Take care it will get better. Do you do background checks on your renters? Even that is not fool proof. May God watch over you.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My first time finding you. You seem so sweet and down to earth. I’m older and could be your mom 🙃I’d not want my daughter to be in possession of his energy, (his stuff) I wouldn’t touch it at all, too late. Open window and smudge his energy gone. Stay guarded for now till you feel more at ease. 🤟🏼
You shouldn't have touched the guns, bullets or snything if you had to pack this stuff you should hav pulled the drawer out and dumped it all in a box or bag . Best yet you should have called the cops and touched nothing. You had better call an attorney i think. Go to the attorney then the cops with the attorney. Are you sure the guy who claimed to be a cop is a cop and not a bad guy?? Do the attorney and go to police detectives office with the attorney immediately. You may be in danger from some criminals if they are worried about what you know
I am so amazed I think i would hook up the camper and leave everything