Woman Creates Lethal Love Triangle and Escapes Responsibility | Ashlie Stapp Case Analysis
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2023
- This video answers the question: Can I analyze case of Ashlie Stapp and Curtis Krueger?
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If you feel like you need to keep track of her, let her go.
This is a goat level comment
Or, ask yourself if you're a stalker 😅
Exactly. He made the decision to increase his controlling behavior and become violent. She was a THOT and he should have walked away in the beginning.
omg seriously that was my first thought, Like he didnt stop and think wow maybe this isnt working out?
@kneel1 experienced, and drug fueled vaginas preying on a simp with resources can be quite disconcerting I could imagine...
Boggles my mind that men fall for these kind of women.
He was on OXYTOCIN first one
losers seem to be able to sniff each other out
Curtis seems pretty much like a maniac
@@KoolTyou mean a different type of Oxy I think. This one is for inducing labor.
She was very attractive and knew how to work it to get what she wanted.
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when everyone takes a lot of drugs like this.
I don't. 42+ years of sobriety.
@@Mark-qv4bnAwesome, congrats!
If you enjoy this video please don't do drugs and live recklessly like these people
@@alecstaley1017 But if you must use drugs, use them right!
@@Mark-qv4bn that's excellent! congrats!
Narcissism is the bane of our society.
Nope, that would be fear and greed
@@artestraUSA is based on greed.
@@artestra those are included in narcissism. OP is correct.
@@ParadoxicaLeo730 Narcissism isn’t specific enough to be “the bane” Everyone knows immediately how destructive greed is
@@Koozomecmost countries are based on greed
It sounds like Ashlie made out in the deal. The court orders her to spend 6 months in a drug treatment facility while Curtis spends at least 15 years in jail, and Henry is dead. Manipulating people's feelings isn't considered a crime, and the court sees her as somebody who can contribute to society if she beats her addiction.
I definitely think she's a huge POS! And junkies by Nature are very manipulative.
Even if he gets out of prison, the trajectory of his life has changed drastically, he will always be a felon. But, how much can a person be manipulated into obsessive and paranoid Behavior so bad that you kill someone?
I think he's an abusive mate. He might not necessarily hit heard but he's very controlling and that's abusive.
I do hope she gets clean only so she can realize the damage she has done. The true Innocents are the children.
I do agree with you about Ashley, she should have gotten real prison time. She is just as responsible.
To be fair, drug "treatment" is completely and totally fake. The only drug "treatment" programs that have more than about a 5% "success" rate is methadone and few 12 step programs (this was a 12 step based "treatment" facility) support methadone "treatment"
She should have gotten a LOT more time, like at least 10 years. But her drug addiction was not being "treated" and her breaking the "rules" int he "treatment" facility is justified.
She'll end up unlifing someone for more drugs. Perhaps even an innocent person for money. DA won't care. Judge won't care. They're sociopaths.
To be honest, Curtis is the one who killed that man. He could have just dumped her, but he prefered to kill her lover. Curtis wasn't even on drugs, at least she has the excuse that she was an addict, which is difficult to overcome.
Reminds me of that lady who had shared custody of their son and went and picked him up from school without telling dad and dad rightfully got angry and went to her house and yelled at her and went to get his son and then her husband came out and shot him.
One guy went to prison, the other was killed, and the lady had no consequences even though she was the primary cause of the crime.
A man will kill you. A woman will get you killed.
Them fighting over her doesn't make her the cause tho. She really was an accessory after the fact in this case
Interestingly, in that case the man who did the shooting was not indicted. A grand jury decided it was self defense. Horrible situation all the way around. Totally unnecessary. The little boy lost his dad, new wife lost her new husband, and step dad didn’t get in trouble for escalating the conflict. It was a hard case but I agree with the ruling of self defense. It was unnecessary but still lawful. What a total tragedy
@@_HimToo she was a proxy. and a very slick one.
he didnt go to prison.
A marine who worked hard to become an officer only to throw it all away for a girl who was playing him. Sad.
He clearly played himself. The military teaches you about accountability. He clearly did not pay attention. I guarantee you he was told by multiple people she was a hoe.
He was responsible for his actions.. he could.. and should...have walked away. Instead he responded with increased controlling behavior and violence.
sad, and think how good an officer he wouldve made! jaywalking??? HAMMER TO THE HEAD!
I am scared for my son (Marine) his new wife has similar issues he's not aware of all of them. Scary. When they're active and in reserves they have a $400,000 life insurance policy. Well my son does anyway she talked him into taking me off and one other person and making her the Only one on it this was a couple months Into marriage Only not Long after getting together. Omgoodness
We are all fools. No matter how smart we are, we can never be sure of outrunning it.
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Right? I rarely watch tv anymore.
How does someone survive a hammer strike to the head thats so strong in bends the hammer? Youd think that thing would have gone all the way into his skull.
Hammer someone's head that's preposterous you will kill them and be a noir film dust pan
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The human body can be unbelievably resilient sometimes.
There was a rail worker years ago who got a giant railroad spike going through his skull and brain, and he lived.
His skull must have been made of vibranium, or that was, as somebody else in the comments suggested, a Harbor Freight hammer
handle of the hammer impacted his skull, that is why it is bent imo.
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Thought the same thing.
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I think the best ones are when he talks about Megan Markle...oh he's a hoot!
@@H37P5kY57totally agree! Those are great
A lesson (Curtis) or (Kurtis) could've used prior to this experience: Once she disappears, it's time to leave her alone. No one can force someone to be with them happily. Charge it to the game and move on with life. Now he's locked up for over a decade while she's onto the next one...or two...or three.
6 months in rehab!? Holy crap. She got off practically scott free! That's insane.
I've been sober for 5 years on Sep 17th. I was addicted to opiates. Similar story. Car accident. Script from a less than responsible doctor who continued to fill them way longer than they should've. When they cut me off, I moved to Heroin. After being involved in that life for years and somehow managing to make it out alive (mostly) in-tact, one thing that I always thought to myself was, "Thank God I wasn't born female." Because I know for a fact that I would have used my body to get drugs or, more likely, gotten turned out by an opportunistic dealer. Young women who become addicts are so incredibly vulnerable to being trafficked, among other things. I don't know that I would have made it out if that were what I had to deal with regularly.
I made a very similar post. On and off since at least 2003. I always felt bad knowing what the women had to do.
I had the same experience. Mid 2000's, legit injury, over prescribed, cut off abruptly, had become dependent, sought illegal opiates, full addiction set in, typical misery and chaos ensued. I'm a woman and feel extremely fortunate I never had to resort to selling my body. I had a lot of savings that I sadly blew right through and I also made money working for dealers. I'm not naive though, so I realize I can never claim that falling down to a high level of desperation wouldn't eventually result in me going to that extreme. I'd like to think that under no circumstances would I ever do that, but the reality is most women do end up resorting to selling themselves at some point. Like I said, I feel fortunate. But you are absolutely correct that most female addicts do wind up in prostitution. I've personally known 8 female addicts and 7 of them sold their bodies at some point. Very, very sad and scary and hopeless place to be in to justify doing that. Very sad and very telling of the hold addiction can have on a person.
Horrible situations. I'm glad you have all make it through it.
Carry on.
She's a woman!
Ashlie absolutely deserved more punishment than she received.
I wonder how long her jail sentence was when she failed rehab.
@@elle9543Idk, but I suspect it wasn't long enough.
she was a knock out
her special treatment continues.
GO get her!
@@elle9543She went to court for violating probation. Her probation officer was present and asked the judge to put her in prison.
The judge gave her another chance after Ashlie Stapp Paddock told the judge she was going to become a drug counselor…. She only finished a few more months, and was released- only to leave the State..:
That is addiction. It is hard to understand why we're compelled to do the things we do. 8.5 years free!!
Congratulations!
Good for you ! I’m happy for you and proud of you !
Thank you for your consistency and hard work Dr.G! We appreciate you.
I don't know how he puts out such frequent content, seeing as how each post requires a ton of research before he can make a video. (So it's not like these 15-20 minute videos only take up the 15-20 minutes of footage plus however long he needs to edit.)
Dr. G... do you ever sleep? 💤
@@MeganVictoriaKearnsit's called keeping an eye on the news and past events.
Ashlie got off way to easily. She should receive punishment for assisting her bf in getting rid of the body, plus stealing the drugs. She is a vile human.
I hate to admit it, but many young, pretty, white women get more privileges in this world than everybody else.
Ya and she manipulated Curtis. Depending on how those lies went, how would most react to their partner saying ' a guy sex trafficks me and forces me to have sex for drugs'? Curtis did what a lot of people would do. He got played, and unfortunately didn't have the right state of mind to investigate before acting.
So very sad that a man studies so hard to get a degree and then ends up in jail because of a worthless woman. Feel for him and his family especially if he has parents. Why don't friends come into the picture to help. So much trouble could have been avoided.
Ofcourse
Juries can sometimes provide unexpected results. Also, the plea bargain offered was a sweet deal. Men don't typically get sweetheart plea bargain deal, unless they're the son of powerful men
Life goal #23:
NEVER end up the subject on a Dr Grande video!!
lol Love ya Doc!!
Another tragic mess described succinctly, analyzed, and neatly presented as a real life lesson for anyone who is awake and paying attention. You may have saved someone from making the same mistakes in the future, Dr. Grande.
As someone who has become reliant on prescription medication to cope with numerous health conditions, it frightens me so much that people can reach the height of desperation that they do to just to survive this vicious cycle.
I was just thinking today about when I was in college I used to get angry seeing drug addicts on the streets and I kind of realized it was because they reminded me how close I was to that lifestyle. If one thing goes wrong here or I befriend the wrong person there that could be me on the streets and it freaked me out.
Some of us get lucky and made it out the other side. Stay strong sister
@@jonaswhite5842i am so happy for you
Ihave severe chronic pain
Never had an issue with opiods but Xanax ,for me at least-are my addiction
People who REALLY are in pain don't abuse their scripts. It's mandatory just to function and they know misuse could get them black listed.
@@ceilconstante640 no ...u can fall into this trap.I have severe chronic pain Most of the days i cannot even take a shower
Believe me,i ve done many stupid things cause i just wanted the pain to stop
"U don't get it,till u get it"....
#invisible_illnes
#you_dont_look_sick
From the outside looking in, the justice system doesn't seem to dole out the same punishment person-by-person. Some get 25 years for accessory to murder and others get 180 day drug rehab.
I’m in Australia. I’ve often been frustrated because it’s hard to get painkillers when I need them. Now that I’ve seen so many videos like this, I’m just glad that vulnerable people here are limited in what doctors will provide. It’s not worth the ruining of lives.
HARD? Just ASK ANY drug dealer. Or any DRUGGIE!!! They will….HOOK YOU UP!!!!
I will never understand why some men would prefer to be with such a train wreck instead of being single. I'm single; I would love to get married, however, I would prefer being miserably single than in a relationship like this!
Word. I proudly have avoided bad relationships. Being alone is better.
Absolutely right. If there's misery to be had, let it not be caused by a shitty relationship
Dr. Grande, you need to make merch that says “just a reminder, I’m not diagnosing anyone …….. “ you’re so iconic
I would totally buy it!!!
After the wonderful *irresistible Ashlie* thumbnail with a new analysis of the great Dr. Grande, I couldn't resist clicking on it. ✨️ ❤️ 💕 😌
it irritates the HECK out of me that judges and juries and prosecutors cannot see the OBVIOUS bs that people like this do to manipulate other people into doing so many things, and they should be held more accountable.
Eloquent analysis. Wordsmith'ing is an art form many don't see behind the curtain of curiosity.
Unfortunately and sadly, my daughter is an "Ashley". Loving someone like that is nothing but suffering.
I’m a fan of psychology and dry humor- Dr. Grande is awesome!
Some people just cannot keep their heads on straight. Like come on lady, you didn’t even get sentenced to prison and you still had to cause trouble 🤦🏻♀️
Thank you. Gosh, this is such a sad, sad case. It's all just awful. What a mess. So well summed up re everyone was addicted to something. Thanks Dr G.
Why do people even get involved with people on drugs and drinking uncontrollably
Wise thought
“She worked at a Jamba Juice” lol he said it like it was the most outrageous job in the world haha.
I live near Murrieta and never heard of this story!
So sad!
Was that a Harbor Freight hammer?
With tears in her eyes, she pleaded "Beat him up for me!"
Never tire of your humor!!!
I got an acai mix smoothie at Jamba earlier today. It was good.
Poor guy. Those two are despicable to say the least. Drugs & jealousy are a dangerous combo, she got off easy. Good quips & points🔨Thanks Dr G😊💙💙
Seems that when a guy is insecure and becomes obsessed with controlling his girlfriend the odds of a murder increase substantially.
Substance abuse seems to be a Symptom of an underlying mental Causation.
Best advice a girlfriend ever said to me when the discussion started to get heated was, "Why don't you just go away so I'll miss you?" It's a great way to de-escalate for both and preserve a long-term relationship.
Nice to be an early commenter again! I’ve really enjoyed your last few videos. Goodnight to you Dr Grande and all your followers! 🇮🇪
I like how you say that the men were guilty of self-deception.
Ashlie will eventually end up in the usual places if she continues down this dark path... jails, insitutions, and death. 😢
Curtis was bottom fishing.
Dr. Grande… Todd? I love this Channel. It’s part of my daily routine.
You could say he was addicted to Astley and he was "never gonna give her up"
I think these men had low self esteem and she sensed that. The court let her slide in my opinion.
She played them
She's a woman!
Theres something about You Dr. Grande... i could listen to you all day...thank you for sharing your time and talent.
I really appreciated your take on the 3 way addiction & how powerful substance addiction is compared to the people addiction. Thanks, Dr. Grande!
Damn opioids will absolutely ruin a person
My best friend that I lived with for years stole 200$ from me
@@WilliamSussman Only $200 over the years or more often?
As a chronic pain case, crumbling spine, I don’t agree. Opioids let me move and become a human again. It’s the abusers of opioids that make the headlines. I don’t snort, smoke, peel or generally alter the pill in any way. I took it as prescribed and it did help me regain enough movement to get some life.
I did “get off” it as I’m not wanting to become dependant, but without it as a pain reliever, I’d probably be dead anyway.
I ask my consultants, what’s the best pain reliever to date, that’s non opiate. They say “nothing”.
@@louise2467 Oh sure. I agree. Some people do need them. When I was getting off them years ago a counselor I was seeing said something to the effect of “I’m too young to be dependent on opioids.”
I asked “36 is too young to be hurting and in pain?”
He replied “No that’s not it. You’re too young to be dependent upon and ‘On’ them constantly. As tolerance goes up we need more or stronger meds. At 36 by the time I was older I’d need so much to just be normal that it didn’t make sense.”
$600 per day? How many pills doea that translate to? Seems insane
I love how he says "jamba juice" as if it's a fascinating new species
Six-hundred dollars a day is certainly not Jamba Juice money. That's a crazy addiction she had going.
Someone was ripping her off lol
Some people are just evil. Drugs make them pure evil.
I cannot for the life of me understand why Curtis stayed with her - she must've had those magic lady parts 😮
Haaaa as a “lady” myself, I’m stumped!!? I’ve often wondered about that magic place, that any/all similar external being has, but not as magical…. I can only assume there is a bewitchment occurring, and the spell needs to be broken, like WAKING UP TO YOURSELF AND SEEING SHE IS A COW, Fool.
Dr Grande, I wish you were the judge in these cases, your discernment is fantastic.
Dr. Grande is the best journalist of our time.
Both simped for her, and they won't be the last to do so.
This one was really interesting and informative, Dr. Grande. ❤Thank you for all your hard work and great vids. They are enjoyable and calming.❤
What a destructive woman, although I believe that the drug use exacerbated everything.
Thank you for the review, Dr. Grande.❤
@@AnarSchism. 🤮 CRINGE!!
Yes, let's always blame the woman, instead of the actual killer. Everybody is responsible for their own actions.
I worked at St. Bernadine’s off Waterman in ‘dino.
They had the hospital fully locked down (had to have a keycard or get buzzed in) bc of how common it was for addicts to try and barge in to violently strong arm the pharmacy for their fix.
‘dino folks DGAF
DINO folks are the scourge of the earth
So sad
Another frustrating story (Ashlie did get quite a deal, but I remember what Plato said about the unjust person's very nature being a punishment on its own). Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande.
Hello Dr. Grande😃🥰 Thank you for the video! Although all true crime cases are mind-boggling, It's situations & scenarios like the one you're speaking of today that both confuse me & inrage me at the same time. Makes zero sense as to how they thought this would even work out. I hope you enjoyed your holiday weekend!
I'm not speculating. Dr. Grande is the best.
This kinda TRIANGULATION happens so often that it seems common. Ashley is a danger to society.
100%
Absolutely…. All with Zero remorse-
Dr G, why not try a video premiere on your next vid? As you see it was uploaded 6 mins ago and there are already comments. Just a thought!
She'll be back in the news again.
Came to UA-cam to find a video about fixing my dishwasher. Grande posts a new video. I’ll fix it later.
What did Ashley do to be so irresistible that the prosecutor gave her such a ridiculous sentence?
Funny. I was asking myself that, too.🤔
Right, I know people who got longer for having weed smh
She played the confused and indecisive young addicted lolita.
She "did" being a woman! It works every time!
My ex is just like this woman. She would play so many people against one another and she would play victim and she would get everybody thinking that she was being abused and get people to fight each other it's so sick it's horrible is a horrible horrible jerk
Glad you kicked her to the curb.
Happy New Year to you and yours Dr. Grande.🎉😊
Grande! Always a pleasure to get your analyses!
[4:41] Wow. How hard would one have to hit somebody to bend a hammer like that? I wouldn't even think that was possible. My hammer has smashed many rigid things throughout its life and it's still as straight as the day I got it. They're made to be... tougher than nails, after all. I can't even imagine the force required to bend a steel hammer over someone's head. As morbid as it sounds, I feel like a skull would give way far sooner than a hammer would. I'm perplexed by that photo.
The hammer hit the floor and concrete..
Dr. Grande is a great content creator.
Always interesting
Thank you
Peace
Loved when you said Jamba Juice the first time.
Good evening Dr. Grande I never miss any of your videos. Thank you!!!
Good evening Dr Grande, excellent analysis. As always I learn something new from your videos.
Curtis was a Fool for love.....some things aren't worth fighting for! I feel sorry for deluded Henry, he didn't deserve what he got. 🧚♀
I am back in school part time while preparing for full time school this year. Now for sure my second former husband can accuse me of being addicted to learning. Any time student life seems too boring watching another Dr. Grande video episode that might encourage me in learning to like the boring student life style better all the time.
This is the worst story I have ever heard. What a horrible thing. Makes me glad I despise drugs and always have. Omg.
Excellent video 📹
The 'oldest profession' paid by a 'primitive barter system' turns out to be fatal.
Doctors who prescribe patients Opioids & then cut them off without implementing a withdrawal programme are medically negligent.
It's really unfortunate that most of society views "being in a relationship" as the "end-all be-all" in life. I observe individuals calling themselves losers for not being in a relationship or how they're always searching for "The One". Even social media likes to romantize relationships and push them onto us.
I'd argue, relationships should be viewed more along the line of sacrificing a part of yourself. At the drop of a hat, I'll see most people go into a relationship, not knowing how much of themselves they are willing to sacrifice. And in most cases, they end up giving up more than they knew possible.
Such was the case for Henry, he unknowingly sacrificed 100% of himself. His entire being was at the disposal of Ashlee. It's as if in his mind, he had already married her; "and till death do us part".
And if the idea of being alone is so disturbing to you, atleast know how much you're willing to give up beforehand.
Nicely said. Everytime I get into a relationship I completely lose myself and my personality just to make the person happy. It drains the life out of me. And it’s hard because I do love them but I don’t know what to do once it reaches this point
@@jainas8331low self esteem ? Codependancy ? It may help to look for that.
Or the opposite, someone who is "never here", no or low authenticity (out of fear of judgment, lack of sincerity or motivation).
@@Koozomec I agree with the low self esteem but the codependency not so much. It’s actually the opposite. Like I start off just fine completely being myself and happy with them but the longer we’re together the more I have to suppress who I really am and the more I just wanna be alone and not in the relationship anymore. It’s happened with everyone I’ve dated and it seems like it’ll be that way with everyone
I can’t say that it’s for no reason though. Everyone I’ve been with has had their own issues that kinda push me into acting that way I guess. And I feel that because I’m with them I have to just deal with it and love them for who they are
Curtis : YOU'VE GOT TO FACE IT: YOU'RE ADDICTED TO LOVE! Poor guy, in fact poor guys, neither of them deserved this.. and Ashlie was totaled by her addictions as well.
Thanks for the upload on National Beer Lovers Day 2023, Dr. Grande!
Hahaha, really? Cheers 🍻 I was born in Germany 🇩🇪 on that certain day, which is kinda ironic because I don't like to drink such kinds of beverages. 😆
Make sure you got your BUD LIGHT.
@@RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose Oh yeah! Cheers!
@@stephendacey8761 Ew, I prefer craft beers.
Thank you Dr. Grande. You really nailed this one.
Inmate: What are you in for?
Ashley: Swapping clothing.
I’ve had issues with opiates on and off for almost 20 years. I always felt horrible knowing what women had to do.
Believe me, you aren’t alone with that!
Ashlie was never trafficked, Henry never abused her. Henry had no criminal history, was married for 18 years and he was lonely. Ashlie was the only woman he was seeing.
I like your cactus decorations
Appreciate your DETAILED anslysis! Built a new insight - Addiction to things over people deadly.
Not necessarily. Two people right here in this analysis addicted to people and way worse off for it. If you like things and can pay for them, you're not hurting anyone.
These 3 young people will never be living their best lives. If I had been the mom to any of them, I wouldn't ever be living my best life either. 😢
Just a reminder - it's not "paranoia" if your suspicions are correct.
Henry's amateur radio broadcasts are available in the archive audio files from Broadcastify. There were days when Henry would be on the air litterally 18 hrs a day talking to himself about nothing!!!
thank you for this
Love Your Punchlines!!!!!!
Thanks for another interesting video.
Curtis should of walked away because as far as I could see, Henry and Ashleigh had more in common than Curtis and Ashleigh. But as you said, Curtis had his own addition in Ashleigh.
Three weird people.
Somehow your channel fell out of my feed; however, I see your cactus obsession has grown since you were last in my feed. Gratz!
A true drama queen. I would rather be done wrong by a car salesman than a woman like her. She lies better than any politician. There are many, many more females with similar behavior , so I am taking note. Thank you Dr. Grande for bringing this behavior to light.
from personal experience , you can't get some one to quit drugs and alcohol. unless they want to quit.
This was well-done.
Thank you Dr Grande, this case is just sickening.