Buried in Debt.Seriously addicted to micropayments[Hello Counselor Sub:ENG,THA / 2018.03.05]
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wow the daughter has over 40 pairs of shoes and the mom cant even buy a 20 dollar blanket thats so sad i hope she can change
I'm a bit shocked though, I can't believe that 50 people just sat there and thought "Nah, this isn't a concern" ...
They explained in one of the first episodes that the machine that is used to process the votes cannot process a full 200 because of glitches, pressing the button right after he counted down, pressing multiple times causing the machine to pick out which is just spam or not etc.
It's frustrating, but more people wouldve had their vote there.
Ikr? Smh
@@bubbletea2191 Eh, that's a real concern right there. What is this garbage voting machine that they're using?
I grew up low income, too. There were times where our power was cut off because we didn't have money to pay the electric bill. I also had a dog that I loved dearly and one day out of the blue she became incredibly sick. My parents could not afford to get her the proper treatment that she needed and so we had to let her go. It was very painful for me, but it was even harder on my parents because they knew how much I loved that dog. Either way, I have never once blamed them for it, or felt ashamed because we didn't have a lot of money. Even to this day I do not feel like my parents owe me anything because I know they did the best they could for what they had. This girl has no excuses nor does she have my sympathy.
yeah whatever the situation family always comes first. She should be grateful to have such a supportive mother.
Some parents don't even love their children and hurl abuse at them. I have a friend with both parents who are alcoholics...she is poor but on top of that the unthinkable happens. She is always depressed and jokes about killing herself. Nobody has made food for her; she cooks for herself. She never celebrates birthdays with her family....any convo related to family triggers her...because of that nobody has guided her properly in life. She acts very inappropriately at times and because of that her class members avoid being around her and even bully her. If only they knew what was going on in her life...
Good people always end up with terrible people, why is that so
Natalia S. good job. wishing you all the best.
제생각을 어떻게 이렇게 똑부러지게 할수있나요?
So right. She is a pathological liar. Listen to her talk about how the dog dies, it's her way of conning others into her being the 'victim'. I knew someone just like her but a male. I despise pathological liars because so often they leave a trail of misery and pain in their wake. 😗Users and abusers. I actually exposed that male but made sure it was in front of those he was planning on ripping off.. plus others to see him for who he was. 😗IT is the only way when it comes to those sort of individuals. He vanished days after that, no doubt off somewhere else to find more victims. 😗 Those who would swear he could never be as you describe him to be.. until of course the evidence is indisputable and therein lies the reason why they get away with the hell they leave behind, time after time.
How can she say that "IM EMBARASSED TO HAVE SOMEONE LIKE YOU IS MY MOM" wha i feel sorry for the mom
yes she needs to meet psychiatic. she is absolutely cant act any law even she's already 17 years old.
I hate seing her
I cried at that part oh lorrddddd. She is not mentally okay and she will regret EVERYTHING.
C Novika Maharani she's 28 years old.
Yes, I meant even if she's above 17 years old, which is 28 years old, with that habit she can't act any law
28 years in Korea is 26 years in the western world not 17 years so she is a fully grown adult.
저도 아버지가 갓난아이때 저희를 버리고 나가서 저도 이집 저집 맡겨지고 겉돌고 외로웠어요 그런데 당신처럼 안살아요 나이가 28이면 그게 핑계가 안돼요 답답하다 진짜 아버지한텐 그렇게 하셔도 엄마한테 그러지 말아야죠
멋진당신 응원합니다~~
집안에 물질적으로 도움 못주면 차라리 착하게 집안 살림이나 해주는게 낫다. 지방에선 저딴인간 채용도 안해주는데 서울이니 저딴인간 써주는곳 있네ㅋㅋㅋ
This is so frustrating
윤맘마 미야 Someone needs to slap her.
Pixie Love25 slapping her is not enough.. nees some black belt taekwando and judo master tu teach her lessons
윤맘마 미야 I like where you are going with this!
That’s an understatement.
"I hate being poor"
*Spends every cent she and her mother have 😑
and that is not even their money because now they are in debt
Her reaction is irrational, but it's a thing called 'scarcity' she knows she's poor so she spends everything in sight bexause she wants to know what it feels like to live like a rich person.
Because the mom give her the money willingly
Wow...the nephew and his family are nice...
Liqi Pan I would do the Same for one of my aunts. It all depends on your relationship with them
연을 모질게 끊어야하는데 어머니가 심성이 착하신듯 우리 부모님이었으면 세차게 내침. . 마음 강하게 먹고 성인딸 독립하세요
That girl was bringing up every bad thing in her to try get the audience on her side. She just won't take the blame and she's tryna push some of it onto her mother.
이건 진짜 고민 해결 되는 문제가 아니라 중독은 치료를 받게 해야 되는 건데
치료를 안받으면 계속 저런짓을 할텐데 엄마가 언제까지 지가 저지른 댓가를 엄마가 다내줘야 되 한푼도 아니고 큰돈인데
How could she blame her depression and her loneliness or her act?! She tought the one that suffer is only her? How about her mother? She should have help her mother! Why did she hurt her mother like that? What if her mother is become depressed too?
When you’re depressed, it’s hard to care about others. Seems like the daughter is trying hard to escape and instead she should face her problems. Doesn’t seem like Korea has the same mental health support as a country like America tho
ok. but what about the mom?
She seems more depressed than anyone. At least that ungrateful daughter has her unconditional support but her mom has nobody to rely on. I know heaps of depressed people how still care about the people the like and care about. I know this girl had a traumatic childhood; living in poverty but she always had a supportive mom; some kids don't have that. If she is in her late 20s she should be mature about it and understand that her mom did her absolute best and that she needs to learn to get over having hard feelings towards her mom.
Bunnies Forever being mature and understanding her mom won't cure depression. They should both get counselling
I know of heaps of people with mental illness and just because they are mentally ill doesn't mean they have completely gotten rid off the side that cares about other people. You are right that they both need counseling together but it still doesn't excuse how immature this girl is. She could not want to communicate with her mother but using her mother's money (for her petty reasons) at her age...can be classed as a criminal offense. How would you like it if someone stole your money and left you in poverty?
This issue is way more serious than you thought.
Bunnies Forever maybe don't generalize mental illnesses because it's different for everyone?
The daughter is clearly aware and she cares but she can't help herself. She needs help - counselling, medication, group therapy.
If my daughter was doing this I wouldn't even let it get that far.
The way that her mom babied her up until that point doesn't help her abnormal behaviour. She should probably stop supporting her daughter financially and the daughter needs a crash course on how to adult as well as proper support with what she is dealing with (and carrying since she realized she has problems)
Mental health is more serious than you think, it could even be dangerous to just say "too bad get over it stop bullying your mom" that doesn't help anybody. Best way is to get to the root of the cause (mental health)
"She's my mom so I ask her for it" this words that came out of her mouth.... I have no words for it. How can someone ever say something like that to their own mother?
?? 딸한테 다 넘기고 핸드폰을 왜 부모님이 사줘요?28살이면 지가 벌어서 지가 폰을 사야지.....저 앤 딸도 아니에요 물론 연 끊기는 힘들겠지만 연 끊어요.부모 아파도 나몰라라...지가 빈 빚은 지가 갚아야지 심각성을 알아야지....지 동생이나 본인이나...어휴...진짜 어머니 너무 안타깝고 슬프다...내가 더 화나고 눈물까지 날려고한다... 세상에 하고싶은거 다 하고 살 수 없다는걸 충분히 알 나이지 않나.... 하고싶은거 다 하고 사는게 가능하다면 이세상 사람 모두 행복하겠다...
저러다가 어머니마저도 안계시면 어쩌려그러는지
모르겠어요
독립을 하고 자취를 한다는건 경제적인 독립을 한다는 건데
걍 내버려둬야해... 누군 왕따 안당했나
본인이 대출갚고 신용등급 떨어지고 진짜 좆돼봐야 느끼지... 저건 독립이 아님
솔직히 부모잘못임 애가 불쌍하니까 내준다고?
평생 그럴수 있나... 그럴수 없으니 나온거잖아.
I'm so sad to see how the mum looks all crushed... she did everything on her own, paying off the debt while raising her kids alone, and when the child is all grown-up she was told she's embarassing :( I hope the daughter somehow come into realization that she's an adult and she should be the one who take care the mum now
I don't think I have ever cried this much watching Hello Counselor
IKR I legit cried like shit... Its so frustrating and sad...
Im guessing you haven’t watched the one where the elder daughter asks her dad why he doesn’t love her. That one made me cry like a little baby lol.
이거는 어머님이 계속 해줘서그럼 ㅎㅎ
지가 카드 다 막히고 불편하고 체납되서 빵 갔다오면 정신차림
아 난진짜 내가 쟤 부모면 오래전에 이미 연끊었을거같다 정말 역겨울정도로 비호감이다
Whoaa the daughter is talking without feeling guilty ! I bet all the hosts and guests want to smack some sense into her head bcs I really do.. grow some sense please, your mom is not getting younger
If i was her mom... I wouldnt give a damn about her freaking debt.. She does not even understanding the situation she put her mom in. At this age the mother is supposed to rest but because of her...she has to work. Wahh!! .....
보면서 화가 치밀어올랐던 사연
Shin Dong Yup is one fire, I can smell his anger through my screen. This woman just fucking up everybody's credit left and right....her daughter has no respect , and honestly the mom should have been taking her to the courts. She needs to learn responsibility.
Marsha-mee yes u rigth her mom to weak and spoil her
its saltier than Gordon Ramsay
엄마께서는 한번 마음독하게 먹고 딸에게
지원을 끊어야합니다.
빚 갚아주고 조금의돈까지 지원하니까
저렇게 등골이나 빼먹는게 당연한겁니다.
손절하는게 답이긴하지만...
어머님께서 마음이 많이 여리신거같은데
가능할지 모르겠습니다.
저거 만약에 어머님도 언제나 곁에 계셔주는것도
아닐텐데
이건 철없다고 할수밖에 없다고해야하나요?
본인이 지금 소비할때가 아닌거같은데..
일을 그렇게 저질러놓고 지금 왜 엄마에게
다 떠넘기는지..
28살이면 본인 행동에 책임져야할 나이인걸
본인도 자각해야하는데..
진짜 아빠가 그렇게 나가버렸으면 아빠가 없으면
엄마가 고생하면 큰 딸인 너라도 잘해야지
동생도 사고쳐서 그런판에 너까지 ㅈㄹ하냐?
지가 지금 신발 소비할때야?
빔프로젝터살때야? 등판에 타투할때냐고!!
진짜 동정심하나안가고 비난밖에 안나오는건
어쩔수없다ㅜㅜ
엄마분도 안타깝기도한데..
나 친구 중에 저런 애 있었는데 지금은 연 끊었음 걔도 나이 28 되면 저럴까
단편적이지만 내가 지켜본 바로는 엄마가 마지못해서 다 해주거나 나서서 다 해줬음... 딸이고 자기가 안 챙기면 개판되고 엄마 딴에는 가여우니까...
가족 카운셀링 같은 거 받는 게 제일 좋을 듯;; 저 분 행동이 충동적이고 과거의 상처에서 못 벗어나고 자신의 입장에만 연민을 가지는 양상이 두드러지네요...
딸도갑갑하고 엄마도 안됐고..근더 더 큰 답답함은 딸이다.쟨 고쳐쓰기 힘듬
Although I'm not as bad as the daughter and my situation is a bit different and i'm a bit younger... I felt like the words from the hello counselor team and the celebrity guests were talking to me... i need to change TT_TT and stop being so lazy and do something with my life...
K Julieeya you can do it! Hwaiting~~
I feel you 😭
same ,i will reflect on myself
Same here , I just don't think I have the confidence tbh like the idea of growing up Really scares me
You should ^^
The best part is when Dongyeop offered that job to her if she did change to be a better person ❤
본인이랑 똑같은 딸낳아서 똑같이 당해봐야지
철이없어도 저렇게 없을수가...
결혼할돈이나 있겠습니까?
모은것도 없이 빚만 쌓고 사촌들에게도 피해나 주는데..
경계성 지능 장애네요. 거의 저런 사람들은 일부로 저렇게 못되게 구는게 아니고 진짜 지능이 낮은거라 고칠수가 없어요... 제가 왜 잘 알겠어요... 어머니 저 딸은 자기 잘못도 절대 인지하지 못합니다. 그리고 다른 분들이 지원을 끊으라고 하시는데 저런 부류는 지원을 끊으면 도둑질을 시작할거에요. 왜 확신하냐고요? 제가 왜 잘알겠어요ㅠㅠ、에휴
ㅠㅠ약물 치료도 안되는건가요??
네 애초에 태어날 때부터 지능이 낮은거라 치료방법은 없고 오히려 지능이 떨어지기때문에 분노조절이나 성욕조절을 못할 수 있어서 정신과에서 꼭 진료를 받아야 해요
비하가 아니라 정말 지능 문제로 보여요.
어쩐지 너무 부끄럼이 없어보인달까
This hurts my heart so bad. I am crying I feel bad for the mother.
I don't see her changing anytime soon. She obviously has no will to change and everyone around her are enabling her habits
Hello Counselor, the best birth control.
Oh my god i'm so angry with her, how could she did that to her mother.
juan nita I understand the way depression can warp people's perceptions and negatively influence their behavior while hurting their relationships. But that didn't stop me from wanting to yell at the daughter for most of the concern. Few concerns disturbed me this much. I hope that the daughter and mother receive therapy, and the mother finally receives a warm blanket and the kindness she gave to others over the years. She is a strong woman.
굶어봐야 정신차리지.
정신 차려라 현실은 지옥이다.
환경탓 엄마탓 뭐탓 뭐탓 남들도 그정도 어려움은 있었다 참 철도 없다 28살짜리가
가난한게 싫으면
악착같이 살아야지
그따위로사냐..
저건 버리는 카드임
"I hate being poor..."
*Spends every cent she and her mother has*
Me:GURL YOU DID THIS TO YOURSELF
딱 저런관상은 다 하는행동이 똑같냐
So heartbreaking 😭😭😭your mom person who give birth to you! Love and respect her, you will regret if she leave you alone in this world😭😭
하... 진짜 정말 이기적인 끝판왕이네요... 보다가 울컥해서 울엇어요..빛다갚으면 뭐하고싶으세요? 물으니 어머님 하신말... 다갚을수는잇겟죠...? 어머님은 딸을 위해 빛만갚으면서 다내려놓으신건데 어머님도 어머님 인생이 잇는데.. 딸을 위해 희생하는데 당연한건없어요 엄마니까 하는거죠 무슨 개같은말인지 엄마가 잇기에 따님이 계신거예요..자존심이 돈을주는것도 밥먹여주는것도 아닌데 자존심이 쎄다고 좋은것도아니고 자존심을 부릴때 안부릴때 가려야죠 따님 철좀드시고 정신도 빠짝차리셔야죠!!! 자기가 갖고싶은게 잇으면 가져야한다는데 세상은 좋지않아여 자기가 갖고싶다고 다 가질수잇는게 아닌것도 없는것도 잇어요.. 어떻게 자기하고싶은대로 갖고싶은거 다 가지면서 살아요? 28살이면 자기 앞가림하기도 바쁘고 자기인생 살면서 부모님께 효도하기에도 바쁜인생이예요!!! 가난이싫어요 하는데 저희집안도 진짜너무 가난햇어요 저흰 차가없어 볼일잇으면 40분넘는거리를 걸어다니고 산에서 나뭇가지로 불떼서 물 데우고 바가지로 물떠서 씻고 얼음얼면 뜨거운물부어 녹여 깨서 밥하고 그랫어요! 장판이아닌 연탄으로 생활햇구요! 진짜 고치셔야해요.. 사람일은 모르는데 갑자기 엄마가 아프셔서 가시면 그땐 어떻하실려구요...그땐 엄마도 없고 의지할사람도 효도도 못하는데 저희 엄마는 환갑이미 넘고 70다되시는데 아직도 가난땜에 해주고싶은거 못해줫다고 못챙겨줫다고 미안해하시고 항상그래요... 근데 그건 죄가 아니고 환경때문인거지 부모님죄가 아니거든요.. 진짜 정말 심각한거예요..하...너무 충격먹엇어요...시간과 세월지나면 그 전은 다시 돌아오지않아요..끝이예요..후회해도 늦습니다ㅠㅠ 전 지금17갤 아들 을 키우고잇는 맘입니다.. 처음으로 조금저의 어린시절 얘기햇네요..(짧고 굵게) 유툽보다가 말하고싶어서 댓달아요...
이게 부모님이야 무한한 사랑과 희생.. 잊지 말고 잘해야지
가난한 게 싫었으면 일 해서 가난을 벗어났어야지 뭔 말 같지도 않은 핑계만 대고 있냐 ;;
본방때도 그랬지만 다시봐도 귓방맹이 칵그냥.. 당장아무일없으니 저러지 뭔일생겨봐야 정신차려;; 엄마가 아아무것도 해주지 말아야함
요즘 8살도 그렇겐 안한다....!
아니 지가 돈을 아껴 썼으면 동물병원 갔겠지 강아지 죽은 것이 왜 엄마 탓이야
i keep crying... non stop😭😭
I wish they would do a check up thing a few months or a year after to see how people are doing later on, its easy to say you will change but actually doing it is different.
doireallyneedausername? They have hello news but idk if it's on all cases since recently I found out it existed..
" That day will come someday right ? " It literally broke my heart !
I grew up in a poor family as well but I used that as a motivation to work my ass off day and night to support our family's needs and wants. I hate being poor but I don't spend money on useless things. This is so frustrating!!!
She is older than me. But it feels like she's much younger than me from the way she thinks and acts. Although my parents are not kind like her mother and I don't like my parents but I still respect them. And I can relate to her because when I was kid I grew up with my aunt too. My family were so poor we didn't have house. Her story when she was younger sounds exactly like my story. But she chose to engage in escapism (game and shopping) instead of dealing with reality and fix her problem.
this concern should've gotten 200 votes
I just don’t understand how she can be like this. Who thinks that they can have everything they want? I’m 16 and I already feel bad spending my parents money on things, my parents would give me anything they possibly could, but I don’t ask for too much because I know that money is important. I want to get a job so I can spend that money on things I want to buy and not have to ask my parents for anything. Although I’ve never really wanted anything really badly before so maybe I can’t sympathize with the addiction aspect, but anyone can agree that it’s wrong to make your mother that’s done everything she can for you suffer. I wouldn’t be able to think about anything or sleep at night if I new my mom couldn’t even afford to buy a heating mat, like wtf! Also, to me it just feels like she’s using her depression as an excuse here. I could be wrong, but I haven’t heard much of people getting addicted to spending money that they don’t have and making their family suffer because they used to be depressed. And that thing about her resenting her mom because she couldn’t afford the vet bills to save it, why would you resent your mom for that? I love animals a lot and would be devastated if my dog or cat died even though he could have been saved, but that doesn’t mean you take it out on your mom. She chose your well-being over the dog’s considering how poor you were, any mother would do that.
It’d be one thing if she didn’t really understand how much her mom is suffering, BUT SHE KNOWS AND DOESN’T CARE ENOUGH TO STOP! That infuriates me! Especially the seemingly smaller things like taking a cab instead of the bus, it just shows how much more she cares about herself than her mom. The mom is way too nice, she should have dropped her daughter a while ago, but I understand that she loves her too much, I’m just worried that this this debt that her daughter gave her in will ultimately kill her. What will she do if she gets sick or gets into an accident? How is she going to pay the medical bills? The daughter needs to get it together for her own sake too. What happens when her mother is no longer around? No one else is going to deal with her crap and then she’ll be all alone with just her dogs and her debt and ultimately she’ll have to face reality, or it will destroy her like it did her mom.
Sorry if that sounded a bit too dramatic, I’m sure I don’t understand some of what’s going on since I’m young and don’t know too much and about the world, but I’m just so angry right now. Actually I might be starting to almost cry... I really hope the mom ends up okay.
CreatureSoul446 i shared your concerns. Honestly I think the daughter is still depressed because she tries and tries to please herself by having whatever she wants, but her lifestyle doesn't make her happy. I think she is well aware that she is hurting her mother and instead of slowing down or completely cutting her expenses, she just goes right back to the spending out of fear/anger, which harms everyone again. I think she should invest in therapy and make the effort to commit to changing her lifestyle. It's like she's not in for the pursuit of happiness, but the pursuit of gratification. They are not the same things but to someone feeling down, they both might seem similar.
I think the mom has had difficulty asserting herself for a long time and may need help from a professional like the daughter. It is time for her to let go of her children's struggles. She has enough of her own. I am sorry that family matters battered her like this. I hope for the best for both of them.
I'm living in poor family and broken home, my mom leave me with my grandma, i need go to school and working helping my grandma after i comeback school when i still 11 years old i can earn money and save them to my chicken bank (save coins) so i can buy shoes and backpack like i want . Till now i'm just living like that's so if i want something i need to earn by myself try to not blaming my parents bcs there many people still more more unlucky than me,
That's what my gradma teach me( living are so short, so just don,t blaming and i need face my future with bright smile, we can,t stop the rain but we can use an umbrella to throught the rain)
U need to watch people in around the world there so many of them can,t eat, no freedom and war.
😑😑 don,t just look to your friend who had wealhty family
...분명 성장과정에서의 결핍으로 저리된걸거고 정신과 상담 받아서 치유해야됨.
아니 소액결제를 끊으면 되잖아!!!
😭😭😭 the mother!!!! Even at the end so sweet telling her daughter she can do it!!
Jesus I literally feel bad even asking for 10 dollars from my parents, what she's doing just seems completely insane. Even if it is her daughter there's a time where you have come to your senses and know it's time to just stop helping.
Meleathis same,i'll keep walking back and forth and thinking if it's ok to borrow some money from my parent,i don't understand how she can treat her mother like that.
god lord i really want to smack her so bad.
This whole episode makes me grateful to have such amazing parents. They never once forced me to study nor did they refuse to buy me something I wanted. Mom , Dad I love you and I hope we have a bright future together 💜
So many orphans yearning for a mother this loving and caring. Truly heartbreaking to see people take advantage of those who only want the best for them. I'm at a loss for words.
Rather than angry I couldn't stop crying. That such a kind hearted mother could have a daughter like her. I would do anything to have a mom like that. She would be treated like a treasure.
아이고 애기씨 상처는 냅두면 덧나요
지금 덧났네. 쯔쯔 엄마랑 서로 알콩달콩 힘내서
살아야지요. 엄마아파서 돌아가시면 어쩌려고요.
그땐 죽으려고요? 바보같이 그러지말고. 당차게 힘내서 살아야죠.
Omg ... Just watching this make my heart hurts.
Its really really broke my heart to see the mom crying all her heart out. She's such a great mom and 'dad' for her children.❤️❤️ For the daughter, if u hate being a poor. Then, help your mom to settle all of the debts and be wealth. Shopping and wasting money for something that isn't even a "needs" wont make you look wealthy if you had your mom crying all the time over you. But the most importantly, your mom needs you by her side. I know you can do it. Hwaiting!!
"I'm embarrassed that someone like you is my mom"
This words is really broken my heart ..
소액결제 강성으로 막을수있어요. 이런사람은 본인명의 말고 다른사람 명의로해서 막아야합니다. 고객센터 전화해서 소액결제 강성으로 막아달라고 하면 휴대폰 인증으로도 안풀리고 꼭 본인이 신분증 갖고 신청해야 풀어줍니다.
다른 통신사는 어떤지 모르지만 저는 sk라 전화로 그렇게 막았습니다.
외국인들 다 딸 욕하네 투표 잘못된거 아니냐고 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 내가 엄마였음 장기매매로 딸 팔아버림
But what if your mother are no more in this world, how u gonna live when u are like this?
This is probably the most heartbreaking episode so far in my opinion, both the mom and daughter seem to believe the only future they’ll have is self pity. What probably made me the most sad was that even though the hosts and guests made funny jokes and laughed throughout the episode, the mother never smiled even once, much less laughed, her eyes we’re constantly looking down. Through this whole episode she was either barely holding back tears or was just flat out crying, not even a moment of joy. She’s such a strong woman for going through all of that, not many people would’ve been able to live through that kind of pressure, much appreciation for her. 👏👏
I sympathized with her when she talked about her dog dying. Deaths from a love one can cause depression but don't makes someone else life horrible just becasue of it.
Wow. This makes you feel grateful for your parents. They give us everything we need. But seriously, her mom needs to learn how to say no and be stern. She will get everything she want as long as her mother is being soft on her.
If you hurt your mother heart and dont seek forgiveness, you will not smell the scent of heaven.
Being lonely and neglected isn't an excuse to be destructive. I know it first hand because I've experienced not having anyone to confide into and I still don't, I've been struggling with my mental health and being suicidal for almost all my life but never tried to do anything to harm others. She's even so lucky her mother is so nice, mine had mental problems I inherited and emotionally abused me, trying to blame me about everything and wouldn't recognize her fault, my dad has also left me. I do confine myself in my own world but at least not be a burden to someone and give them a hard time. Therapy couldn't even help her because she didn't want to help herself, she's just selfish and self-righteous. My therapist once said that no matter the treatment if you don't have the will to help yourself nothing will happen. If she doesn't wanna change still her mother should just cut her off and stop suffering not only for herself but for the as well, because that's the only way she'd actually be able to stand up on her own.
I read in a fanfic once that went "sometimes we need to meet our parents halfway" and that line has always stuck with me since the first time i read it. I hope she actually tries to do her part as a daughter and be brave enough to face her problems. Evading problems is easy, but overcoming them is so much more powerful.
i love youngja,but sometimes she shifted the important topic into a jokes...thats why i love shin donghyup,ive been a fan of this show for more that 5 yrs,and i can see dongyup always try to listen first before he gave an advice..
I watch it again but its so frustrating after all the things she has done for her kids but they keep giving her trouble they are so lucky to have her because she gave up her life and living expenses because of the daughter's debt
I understand both sides. I can see that she is still depressed and she is using money to get a better feeling. But it wont last long, so she will buy again. Gaming will take her thoughts out of what she is feeling inside. And she will ask her mother for help to pay stuff. Yes, she should get help, for her depression and also for her shopping/gaming addiction. She should get help for depression, but also for addiction and go to therapy with her mother so they could get their relationship better. I hope nothing but best for both of them.
yeah i agree, when i was 17? i had high anxiety issues that no one knew about, i'd have panic attacks but seemed normal to friends and family, it was a really vulnerable time during my puberty, and since I'm an only child i naturally turned to my parents who didn't understand, wouldn't listen, and said very harsh things to me about it. it was 10x 100x more traumatizing for me bc I was at my most vulnerable state and felt kicked down by ppl who cared for me, being a kid and not fully understanding mental health issues, on top of the adults in your life not being there for you, while getting out of it by yourself can be traumatizing and does leave emotional wounds that need healing. i also was on medication. only ppl that have experienced mental health issues, that walked through it, are the only ones who would understand. her addiction is a much much deeper issue, she also went through tough times in her teens, what can heal it is professional help and counseling, communication btw her and her mom.
Anucirq True
I feel so much for the mom! I really hope the daughter changes her spending habits since it’s cause so much pain for the mom and the family.
조카가….너무착하다ㅠㅠ
엄마가너무가여우시다ㅠㅠ..
마음아파..
I’m just looking at the mother and wonder how she is so kind and forgiving to her daughter, clearly she has suffered more then many of us can say and I just want to pray that this situation with hope that they can hopefully make at least 3/4 of the debt off their back.
when the daughter says " Im embarrassed someone like you is my mon"
how could you!?????
Aunty, i feel sorry that you has that kind of daughter. May God bless you always. May He keep you safe wherever you may be. Please stay strong and i wish you abundance of love and happiness. Please stay healthy keep moving forward. Like a rainbow after a rain, there's always a good thing after the pain.
her willingness to change must be appreciated. let's live a better life now, the mom and the daughter. it should've been that way for so long earlier. pls be happy you two!
I’m surprised they only got 150 votes like the mother’s hard work through the years and the girls immature actions deserved more votes than that
This was so painful to watch! The way she treated her mom and how she responds to her brother burns me up! I really hope she changes but I'm doubtful. If she moves in with her mom again and volunteers at an animal shelter I really do see things getting better
I stop playing after reading comments. Cus im afraid i will throw my phone across the room😡
The great May i hope so. Shes same age as me yet im here worrying about everything.. Im feel bad for her mom 💔
And i still couldnt watch yet 😂
진짜 내가 다 화가 난다 진짜 어휴~ 욕나올려고 한다 너가 그런다고 사람들이 인정을 해주냐 니가 딸이고 엄마의 자식이라면 어느 자식이 엄마한테 그런다던
너 엄마가 불쌍하다 진짜 어이그 진짜 욕나올려고 하네 아~ 씨
20:05 *im burst into tears*
No matter happens, she shouldnt ever talk like that to her mom!!!
Her mother was so strong...
😇
하 답답하네요.. 아이들이 제발.... 제발...정신좀 차리고
어머니도 어머니만을위한 삶을 사셨으면 좋겠어요 ㅠ ㅠ
She doesn't know how much she is lucky that's what broke my heart
혼자 살아라 엄마 괴롭히지 말고
why is she so proud of her actions? "I have more things I did, look at me, I'm so cool"
너무 마음이 아프네요...
It's just so sad! It's really hard to persuade someone to realize their mistakes when they pretend.
Some things is for the eyes if your pocket is empty.What's the use of having a job when your debts is larger than your salary😤😤
Okay I know this has nothing to do with the issue but her mom is super pretty omg
both of my parents are working too and I raised by my grandma. I grown up being poor too, when all my friends parents bought them cellphone, I need to hold myself and save my pocket money to be able to buy it.
Seriously, that girl need to grow up
For me, they have to rely to each other, depression is not easy to handle too. They have to talk sincerely, i just imagined if that daughter change, woah i bet the depression will gone, not fully but it'll help somehow.
Fighting!!
I've never been so annoyed and frustrated by a human before ugh! just looking at her mother made my heart break,,, being this immature at 28 is just - i cant even process it. hope she has changed now.