My daughter never comes home. Out 4 nights a week...[Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.04.30]
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Hello Counselor EP.362
Guests : Hwang Chiyeul, Kim Kwangkyu, UNB's Feeldog&Euijin,
URBAN ZAKAPA's Jo Hyunah
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My mom is the opposite really. Instead of restraining me from going out, she's actually begging me to go out and socialize more😂😂😂 she's scared i might die lonely😂😂😂
vintage maryjess socialize at 3 am in the night ? 😂😂😂 lol 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 isn’t it better to sleep at night & socialize in the morning with morning people, i think it’s healthier both physical & relation.. 😬
Same.. I have been begging them to let me stay alone in my room with my phone but they say that they wouldn't stranded if it was them and they would have gone crazy....
me toooooo i'm just stuck at home on youtube lolll
You better socialize or else you become like me. I am only work,home woman. That's why I am still single at 38 and don't know so much about outside world. I haven't been to bar either😕
same xDD
the youngest daughter is an angel! what a sweet and considerate child!
Ikr! She even said that the padded coat her mom bought was beautiful and her friends loved it but actually she was being bullied, if I had a kid I wish she would be like her, she be an angel
@@dinoslippiercing9406 I think it was really kind of her but, if my child was being bullied I would want them to feel comfortable enough to tell me about it.
the youngest feel the burden at home
If I stayed outside and return 3AM my clothes would be outside our house 😑
If i stayed outside till 10 pm then when i com home exactly... my mom will yell "You are not My child anymore, pleasw go away!" :")))
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Wow she has guts. If I stayed away from home one night, I'd be disowned 😭😭
мαяιє - more like if i stayed out a few hours after my curfew, my ass would be beat and and disowned
Can totally relate 😭😭
When I was a kid, whenever I trip myself and get bruised, my grandma would spank my little butt and would never let me go out for a day xD
If i go past 4pm my parents wont let me in the house. and i get out of classes at 3
I think i will be grounded for a year
Her mind set must be *YOLO*
Something Park LOL😂
Just like bts song go go( I am talking about the meaning of it)
damdadi damdadi damdadi dadidadidam why not
damdadi damdadi damdadi dadidadidam bitch what is your problem I said the MEANING of the song Describes her You need to chill the fuck up
damdadi damdadi damdadi dadidadidam AND even if I do what your problem ITS MY OPINION I don’t think I need to ask for a Permission to say what on my mind 😇
she says she's fed up with arguing with her mom yet doesn't do anything to get her own house the AUDACITY OF THIS GIRL I CAN'T
sammy it’s a lot harder in Korea for them to get their own place. The “key” (deposit)they have to give for even a rent is ridiculously high. If she doesn’t have her ged she prob would not be able to get a job to afford it. (Plus she seems irresponsible either way)
TheFighterfemme don’t you think if you can party and leave home that maybe you should find your own places some places are cheap.
I have a friend just like her. I agree that her parents suck but instead of leaving she complains smokes pot, goes out all the time but goes back because of family’s $.
@@TheFighterfemme Actually it's not that hard..
There is a 50/50 deposit and rent place like studios "officetel" types, I was only 16 years old, had my own job, lived an hour and a half away from my parents, I was super independent, and yes I rented it at 16 because apparently in Korea the realtors can co sign for you instead of parents which when I think about it now is pretty ridiculous and I don't know why they even did that for all they know I could have been a runaway lol that was back in 2011/2012 I don't know if they still do that now lol.
I mean who doesn't argue ?
I think the girl is being rather selfish, she may think she is an adult now that she is 20 but the way she is behaving; she seems more like an immature child.
Yeah, I agree with u. I feel like a lot of people think that adult-ing is about having freedom at a certain age, being independent. But no, becoming older and being mature does not mean, "oh, I don't need my parents, I can take care of myself". Being mature means being able to take care of oneself, then others, parents, maybe even friends, and also, tbh, learning to take a step back and rely on others as well. Growing up is not all about providing providing. At the same time, it also means that we also have to learn to how to rely on others, asking for help when we realize we need it, allowing others to help us as well. We have to learn to see the full picture of developing relationships, romantic, platonic, friends or fam. If we see that growing up is being independent, all about the self, then ... you're not quite there yet.
Ri'AikaCröw you're acting like anyone under the age of 25 is completely irrational and incapable of making decisions. whilst the age of 25 is when the brain stops developing, and is when your decision making is fully developed, you actually start developing abstract thinking and hypothetical reasoning at the age of 12, meaning that at the age of 18 most people are more than capable of consenting to having sex and knowing how much is safe to drink (smoking's just fucking rank lmao). alcoholics don't start drinking at 18 when their brains aren't fully developed, then at the age of 25 immediately cut back because their brains are mature and they've suddenly realised alcoholism is bad. also, i love how you act as if having sex at 18 is scandalous when it's literally the most natural thing in the world.
i think she knows that she wont be able to live like this ever again , she knows what she wants to do, start a cafe and all. After all she is going to be the income source for the family since the mom cant work and they have no dad and her sister will most likely go to college which. Also i didnt like the mums attitude when the girl said she would finish hs she just acted like that wouldnt happen. she should have more faith in her daughter and argue with her less at this rate she is only pushing her daughter who was bullied her whole life into weird clubs where she needs to talk with strange men to feel acceptance
sidesideful i agree. When you are an adult it gets so much worse. When i was 11 i even prepared myself for the mental breakdowns in college ill have at 3:00 am. There is no freedom. The mom should just not let her in the house, or just get her a dorm
She wants to be treated like an adult, that's fine. Then she should act like one. And that doesn't mean being able to go out to drink and stay out as much as she wants, but to be independent and be responsible for her actions and its consequences...
that woman looks so good to have a 20-year old daughter
nana love tchoutchou Wtf is wrong with you? The woman is in her 40s and we dont know her actual age, and that doesnt mean she had a child when she was in highschool.
Shadow Wolf lol!! she said "a daughter in highschool" not the mom had her daughter in highschool 😂😂
As 17 yr old I even look older than her and her 20 yr old daughter
Asian don't raisin
@@jn.0923 im asian but I look like 20 lol. Im only 13
Her boyfriend is in the army but yet she goes to pick up bars????😵🤦🏾♀️😔🙏
She's definitely not staying in those motels with her friend. She even said her friend lives on her own and nearby so why would they need to stay somewhere else? She is going down a dangerous path. And this "boyfriend" of hers should be smart and end things. A girl with a boyfriend shouldn't be going to 'pick-up' bars.
I think she goes there only for guys to pay for her drinks and have fun. Maybe her mother doesn't give her enough money for what she wants to do. Doesn't mean she does anything. But the motel part is way too much, I'd go home while my mom is sleeping or go at my friends sometimes. Motels cost a lot i'd chose to go out with that moeny instead...
maybe her boyfriend is a pimp?
I don't want to be that person, but this girl has GOT to be doing some shady shit to be able to afford drinking and staying at motels...Her Mum probably doesn't give her that much spending money.
yuuuup
She gets money from her mom.
로라 she doesn’t need to be doing anything other than guys, often they’ll pay for it
She probably does stuff with old men that pay for everything
@@jungjinhyeongsbabymoma6694 you don't know the girl's pocket money or her lifestyle. Don't just put such dirty slander without knowing
I hope she grows to be more matured, learns to be strong and more responsible for her loved ones. Thank goodness her little Sister is so matured and understanding, and supportive towards her mom who has slogged her life for them.
nana love tchoutchou we get that but you should still respect your parents . At that age your supposed to be finishing up education anyways .
the younger sister is more mature than the older one, wow. i am sorry for the mom. its hard to watch this because my mom is also working so hard right now and dad is overseas, so she took care of us 3 at home. we learned that our parents are working so hard for us so we likely stayed at home and go out on weekend only.
anyway, i hope the older daughter snap out of it and help her mom, without her mom she wont be here as well.
Sparkling S ikr. She's not even mature enough to live on her own. She have no idea how precious it is to spend her time with family. At least if she can't help, just stay at home and don't make her worry.
Idk for you but if that was me my parents would change the door locks, block my number and cards the day after 🙄 and I'm 24
Marietou Diakhate ikr,,I am 24 too,,I worked and earn money by myself,but it would be the end for me if I am not coming home or come home that late,,
Lol so many People have the same parents 😊✌🏻in terms of Behavior and Stuff like that
Watched Exo kokobop SAME! I am an adult, earn my own money but well... in an african muslim household like mine that's just not something that excuse you 😂
OMG NOOO ESPECIALLY MUSLIM AFRICAN PARENT YALL, MY MOM WONT LET ME STEP OUT FOR 15 MINUTES WITHOUT CALLING ME TO GET MY ASS BACK TF HOMEB
Meka Jemal i can relate to this to a spiritual level 🤧✊🏾 that was my life as a teen. Now they are more open, but i do have to tell them beforehand if I'm going out and to do what and when I'll be back
UNB euijin is not just good looking and a talented dancer but at the same he is very mature , he is good in giving advice. .. Let's keep supporting him and his group. UNB fighting!!!!
mjaned melody so true...
I agreed
I agree
He is everything 😍
Hes worth to be a bias....
dude no suprise when she gets addicted wtf? I would cut the financial support or not let her in after a certain time :/
The problem is in some situations this can actually worsen. She might try to earn money in a wrong way or never come back anymore knowing she isnt allowed in after a certain time. I understand why the mom didnt try any of these methods.
I would have used the money on the younger kid.. atleast she is a nicer human. The elder one seems hopeless to me. The one who cannot see their own mother's hardship is beyond repair.
I feel sooo bad for the younger daughter. She's acting this way because her house is a minefield. She's a teenager, of course she wants to rebel and speak her mind and be a bit selfish. But there's no room for her to do so, and she's probably terrified of messing up.
“I think you’re attractive.”
“I’m gay.”
THE END. 😂
It's hard to believe that she sleeps alone or with her girl friends in the motel. There seems to be a lot of things she didn't reveal.
I wish all the best for the mother and the youngest daughter.
I want to hug her sister srsly
She's a definition of a selfish person. After hearing everything that her mom and her sister's struggles at the end she still thinks about herself and that stupid pick up bars. How could she go out, party all night and think only about herself when her mom is at home worried and couldn't even do much work because of her illness. And considering her age she should be responsible and mature enough to take care of her mom and her sister and find a decent job or even finish school.
that's our Euijin,
he's the man we've been looking for
Euijin so handsome
he is from what group?
UNB :)
blair he's promoting with UNB but is in Bigflo.
I just spit out coke when I saw my UNB babies 💕💕
Jamie Hensburg ł
If i did that.. my name will be gone from the family list 😂😅😂
f e l l o w kruryu LMAO SAME
hahha same
Not only my name my soul and life be gone from this world.
"Being 20 isn't about drinking. It's about becoming an adult." 👍👍👍 Meaningful words from Chanwoo! 😀 I used to drink and never experienced being drunk when I entered college at 16 but when I reached 18 I developed asian flush and scratches that wont make me sleep comfortably for a whole week. Since then i stopped drinking even for a little sip. Good thing my friends are not alcoholics 😂 i have good girls around me 😆
The young sister is such a great kid, I hope good things come to her when she grows up!
Now that Tae-joon left, Euijin should replace him.🙌🏻 Euijin is such an intelligent man who knows what to say! He needs to be part of Hello Counselor.👌🏻💕
she legit looks like the 9y/o flexer who's viral these days lmao.
yungest flexah of the century
Lil tay? Lmao
Sophia LMFAO💀
Wonwoo's Scream lil tay 💀💀💀
*You can clearly see that Euijin is a good person. SO MATURE.*
She’s old enough to get her own place why not just live in her own?
Brittany Blessed she didn’t complete high school so there isn’t a place that will hire her since they consider her untrustworthy. She said it in the video
In Korea, it can be difficult to get your own place if you don't have the money. A lot of apartments require you to pay a "key money" deposit, which is usually around 2 years' equivalent of the rent. So, if the rent was 500 dollars a month, she would have to pay a key deposit of around 12,000. Another option is living in a goshiwon but with her not being able to find a job, I doubt she'd have the money to afford that either.
Aww, how sad that she' s not willing to do things the right way, which is getting her GED, then she will be able to have some leeway in getting things on her own, job, house, etc.
Brittany Blessed I was thinking the same thing. I mean she’s already living on her own in motels why not move out?
Aww, didn't realize. Also, I think the minimum wage over there is around $7. :O Maybe she should try to get several part-time jobs and save up very very slowly. We can't get anywhere without hard work. However in her case, I don't think it's physical hard work she needs to work on. I think she needs to work on her emotional needs. I think she's avoiding the guilt of facing her family that she's so useless. She had originally wanted to look for a job. So I think she needs to put in the effort to be courageous and live with her family again and learn to accept her family's love despite all she's done.
I wish the show has given the younger sister a new winter coat.
I really loved what Euijin said💕
I can't even go out for a few hours ;-;
Kpop Air Conditioner what will we do how can we go to SK now???
Wtf?! I can't even get late atleast 15 minutes to go home..
EUIJIN is so warm, mature and handsome. how can a man like him? you’re so handsome but the important thing is he is so kindhearted
bia tsuki would you look the same way if someone was kind hearted but in your terms ugly? Damn people’s double ass standards towards people lmaooo
i'm crying at 4 am while watching this because of the younger sibling 😭 she is way too understanding and caring for her young age which probably is something children of her age wouldn't even understand. still can't understand how she affords to stay out all week long enough to eat and drink all day and night and even pay for a room that would probably cost more than $500 a week if she drinks with all her might. hope she learns her mom's concern and help their family a bit and i do hope she doesn't get into something dangerous.
Euijins words are so beautiful. The way he speaks and the things he says just shows how of an amazing humble person he is. Also to the younger sister, the incident with the coat like broke my heart :( that was something a lot of people nowadays wouldn't be able to do but she has a good heart. I just hope her older sister gets on a better path.
how can someone disrespect her own mother like this, seriously. i can't stop crying if i think about how my mom works everyday for her children and how she raised me, how she gave me birth, and so on.
My parents wouldn’t even give me money
Xuan260 saaame
I’m 24, still have a curfew. I’ m allowed to sleepover at my cousin’s place twice a month like yo’ if I did that, my allowance will be cut off and kicked out of the house!
Pretty Chicken Jisoo at 24 shouldn't you be free already like have a job and support yourself
Most people at 24 are looking for their first legit job after graduating uni/college or decided to go back to school. I don't know many 24 year olds that have a job that pays them enough to move out, pay their bills and school loans tbh
Mademoiselle De La foret
I am 23 most of my school friends have a job but since I opted for medicine thats not happening anytime soon😅😆
Anita sharma are u an mbbs student ?
Anita sharma I am also a medical student so I understand how hard it was to work while studying, everybody tells me why I am 22 and still do not have a job. So I recently started a job last year, while studying, while also doing my placement in a clinic sigh *-*
Wah. If she was my daughter... I dunno what will happen.
But, let's appreciate how Euijin is so mature all through out the show? Hahaha. This guy... Makes us love him more
Euijin such a amazing man.
Bless the younger daughter she is so sweet
Euijin really the best😍 so mature he really did his best in this program hehe his words are so meaningful💓
The youngest daughter is a gem🤩
20:07 Euijin is really on fire in this ep! Hope he'll guest again or become a regular! He's very insightful. I loved his character since The Unit. He's a mature beagle! 😂
Feeldog has great remarks too
bless euijin for having such wise words to say :')
aigoo~~ i just hope she'll be back to reality soon. life is not all about enjoying. you need to be responsible too. im glad the younger sister is matured enough.
At a certain extent I relate to the girl. Because I also argue with my parents mostly with my mom. She constantly stresses me out and compares me with my friends and my relatives. Which is why I would constantly go out with my friends at night or during the day. But as much as I don't want to go home, I do. I don't stay out overnight without telling them or else something worse will just happen.
I can relate to that but as much as I want to escape the antagonizing torture of comparison; making you feel like you're worthless.. I'm broke xD so yeah I just listen to it on my right ear and take it out on my left ear. I just can't wait when I can earn money so I can escape this hellhole
I went through some similar situation, like you folks. Best I can say is, try to see it from a different perspective and stay strong, it might feel like suffering but you can learn a lot from it. Some parents are strict for a reason, maybe it was their education or the way they see things, you might not understand, but you can't change that. Absorb the good things, take a deep breath and move on, once you get older you'll be grateful for good part of it. Toodeloo
I’m the same, I can leave for weeks and come home like nothing happened. My father stresses me out most days, so I go out and stay with friends. The difference is that I stay with my grandpa(mothers father) and my father lives with us, so he has no say in how I spend my days. I also, am very prompt with my bills and I pay my grandpa every week for expenses. Theres a mutual understanding.
Thank you for each and every comment within this thread. You guys are the mature ones who keep it real. You guys know that the situation is bad, but you don't handle it irresponsibly. Thank you for sharing the thoughts I was thinking about. I rarely see comments so articulate, where I agree with fully. Also, this may seem like a useless thing to say, but I truly believe it that for all of you who commented, things will get better. The universe works in ways we don't even understand.
I can't relate. My dad called me fat and made fat jokes when I stayed the weekend due to court ordered with him. Then to come up to my alcoholic stepdadr who beat my mother everyday basically. She would kobe he should up the cops didn't do anything. I have PTSD fro.him touching me and other mental illnesses. Had to take care of my disabled sister who had cerebral palsy had seizures and is quadrapaligic. Yet no matter what I didn't go out much even when I wanted to. I never drank and still drink. I came late 2 times because the car broke down and I took a taxi. I never burdend my mother just because I was bullied at school and people telling me to kill myself. No excuses in a way. But everyone is different you tell someone no and you'll get 1000 reactions...
Euijin should be permanent member on hello counselor!
I just wanna cry! I feel so bad for the mom trying her best but her daughter doesn’t even know the amount of love her mom has.
I'm 26 , worked my whole life and finished school, and yet I still feel like i ddnt do enough for my future. I hope this girl knows what shes doing right now wont matter one day :(
Euijin indeed is a man☺
I was crying after watching this :( I'm the older sister too that's why I feel sad hearing this kind of story...I just hope after this show she'll really go out less. And will be praying that she'll be able to reach for her dream to become a barista.
And I'm so proud of Euijin, the advises he gave was just so, I love him❤️ Let's support UNB, they need more love and support
EUIJIN IS SO MATURE I LOVE HIM SO MUCH
”I’m gay” I died😂😂😂😂
Its already a privilege to stay out once a week
aHHHH this story reminds me of my story.. my older sister passed away almost 9 months ago due to this problem. But my sister was a little different. My sister worked almost everyday just to help my family pay for rent, wifi, food, clothes almost everything. She also liked to go out with her friends and drink. My mom didn't like it so they would always argue. In July of last year, my sister got mad at my mom for lecturing her and ran out the house. She never came home and my family lost her.. I just want to say, going out with your friends is fine but don't stay out for days. You never know what will happen. The thing I can relate to is that this is me and my sisters age. She's 20 and I'm in 9th grade like her sister so this really breaks my heart..
Aww, I'm sorry to hear, I'm sorry for your loss. I hope your mother doesn't blame herself. It's not anyone's fault. Accidents happen. Things happen. Life happens. It must be very tough for you and your family. But no matter what, instead of being sad thinking of your sister's passing, allow this to be an extra reminder to work hard. I'm sure your sister wouldn't want to see you and your family sad and fall apart over this. This might be too soon to say, but I know, that when you get older, things will get better. Things will always work out in the end, for sure. I know you will try very hard in life bc of what you've experienced in your life. I believe everything happens for a reason, and your sis did not die in vain. Continue to stay positive and support your parents as well, emotionally if not financially, be loving, patient, and understanding. I believe in you :)
WTF. She's the worst. Everybody gets yelled at by their parents. Argue, being compared with siblings or friends by their parents. She should have understood her mom. I think Its just her mom was just having a hard time thinking what she could do to give her kids a better life stressing and everything. She doesnt have a husband to rely on, so as a result she easily gets angry at everything. We as their children should understand our parents. I was fuming mad when she said that she doesnt want to go home because she do not want to argue with her mom. Like WTF dude Your mom is helpless you should have helped her instead on doing stupidity.
엄마가 용돈을 주니까 저렇게 술먹기 쉽지...그리고 딸이 솔직히 헌팅 받았을거라고 믿기어려운 외모인데...
LMAO I'M DYING I'M CACKLING SO HARD RN
"Hi! I sit at table number three! You sit at table number two, right? I think you're kinda cute :D"
"Hello! I'm gay"
*T H E E N D*
I knew that was Eujin. His eyes and mouth gave it away. I only remember him with blonde hair from when I saw him in The Unit. Then when they said "Eujin" I was like "Yus".
Why is the mom still giving her money???
Euijin from bigflo ❤️😍😍😍😍
Feeldog ❤❤❤❤
Lora Hann He is from Bigflo? Omg... they went to my city a few years ago & i didn't recognize him at all....
으포리아euphoria
Lol yeah he is! ❤
Watch the unit you'll know more about him 😉
Where r u from if you don't mind me asking?
Lora Hann I'm from Malaysia! & I lived in the East Malaysia. Bigflo went to Miri, Sarawak on 2016 (if I'm not mistaken!)
으포리아euphoria oh that's really cool
It's nice to meet you 🌺
hopefully you'll meet him one day❤
Ahhhh the youngest daughter is soooo cuttteeeee fkkk love how she treats her mum good girl wish her the best when she grows up
honestly I think that if she just came on ON TIME, then that would solve everything. Once she starts coming home on time, she'll have this new sense of responsibility and will want to start being responsible for other things too
Me at the age of 20 i start supporting my parents unti now i build a house for them..
I understand her to an extent. I mean... she's completely of age now and can do anything she wants!
HOWEVER, as long as she's under her mother's roof, she should be more responsible. Now that she's also an adult, she should talk it out with her mom. I don't think she should stop going out 100% but she needs to find a healthy balance with work, school, family, and friends. It might be hard at first, especially since she's at that age where she wants to just go out and have fun, but I think that with time she will realize.
Some people NEED to learn the hard way, so they won't make the same mistakes again.
My mom is always begging me to go out with friends 😂😂 The great thing is that when i do want to go out, she doesn't mind. She said "as long as you go to school and work, I don't mind when you go out. just come back at the time that you promise to".
My parents are divorced too, and I live with my mom. I hope that she learns how to manage her time, so her relationship with her mother will be fine too. She should consider herself lucky, I'm sure there are other people her age who don't have a parent around who looks out for them the way this mom does.
Im not sure about laws in Korea, but in the Netherlands, parents are still responsible for their child until they turn 21. Tbh she can go out all night long, but as long she lives under someone else's roof, living off of someone else's money, she should follow the rules more.
Omggg the younger sister is so cute and kind and pretty. SHe has such a beautiful, kind and considerate mindset...... I want to be her friend!!!!!!!
6:36 "I'm gay"
I'M CRYINGGGGGGGGGG IT'S SO TRUE WHY ARE THE CUTEST GUYS GAY
Ellen Chan he's actually not gay and has a wife and kids 😂 he was just saying that to tease youngja
Ik that lmfao it was a joke. I'm saying in general when there are really cute guys, and girls try to hit them up they always say i'm gay
I have only watched the intro of the video but I have to say, that girl is 20! She's free to do whatever she wants
I get she's technically an adult, but since she's living under her mom's roof she needs to follow some rules. If not, she should move out and start acting like an adult.
reyanime Yeah exactly. She actually is old enough to do what she wants but if she’s still depending on her parents for financial support and to have a place to live, she’s got to follow some rules. Otherwise she’ll need to grow up and live on her own
Yes im agree.
@@wiwiastuti2717 same here i dont even dare to hung up when mine mom is calling me she is the one who hung up first
@@choiyeonjun1804 yes
I can't relate. My mom wants me home to right after school.
😂😂
UNB tho 😏😏
We in the same situation my is more I can’t go even at my friends house or school party 🎈
Euijin always be a kind and behave person..love euijin hyeong😊
따돌림 당한거랑 헌팅 술집 가는게 무슨 상관이야 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
싸돌아댕기고 싶은데 핑계댈게 없으니 ㅋㅋ
man euijin is such an intellectual
20:27 She is totally me! 😂
Please, whoever read this comment, don't imitate her behaviour. You'll never know how much you love your parents until you live independently, seperate from your home. I mean, it's okay if you want to hang out with your friends but is it too hard to be on time??
Euijin wrap it well. Please considerate your mom position, be mature girl. I believe in your deepest heart you know it was wrong. Fighting!
I can tell that the older sister is hurting and wants to get back at her mother for something, but what she doesn’t realize is that her selfish, petty actions are also hurting her younger sister, who is completely innocent in this situation. The younger one wore an old coat to school because she knew her mother could’t afford a new one, while the older one spends her money at bars and on motel rooms most nights of the week. Overtop of that she doesn’t work, or even go to her GED classes. I feel no pity for her, she’s a selfish person looking for excuses. Life is going to come crashing down on her one day.
The younger daughter is a gem.
Looking at the comment section I think I realized that some people don't understand that not everyone is from the US or the rich countries in Europe, not everyone has the money to move out because in some countries it's harder to get a job that pays enough to pay the rent than to win on lotto. In my country, we have around $3 minimum wage and that's what 50% of all jobs here pay and you're considered as lucky if you even get such a bad paid job, while the most rents are around $500-700 for a small apartment. Another issue here is that the higher your degree is the harder is it to find a job because the country is poor on itself and no one is able to pay you for the high degree. So yeah, some people don't have the privilege of living in countries where it is normal to move out at 18 because even if you get a job that pays well, you rather stay with your parents to save up money and to support them with it instead and give them and yourself a better life. :)
Euijin really does give great advice even the pd was smiling at him impressed
I feel bad for the mom 💔
The mother is so lucky got to held Euijin hand 😆💕 the gay part 😂😂😂
It doesn’t mean that when you’re already 20, you can drink and party always. Euijin is right, the best feeling is when you’re drinking with your friends to celebrate the goal that you achieved.
Lol, I’m 14 turning 15 but I’m so mad and frustrated right now. Hahaha.
She looks like a baby omg she looks so cute to me. I would've never expected
Euijin
for all the comments saying how they would be treated by their parents if they did something like that. BUt honestly, I'm grateful my parents would beat me up and keep me home, I'd never wanna end up like that and have the audacity to spend money and time like this
For me having fun is just an excuse. That girl suffers a lot,I don’t know her story or wherever but for me having fun is just a excuse. It’s like she avoids home because of something, maybe because of her mom cause they are always arguing. And for alcohol, for her I thinks it’s just an « antidote » to forget pain not to have fun.
Even her mother said that she runs aways before, that means that she wanted to avoid something at home so she wants to escape.
Yeah, it's not as easy as all the comments are saying, why doesn't she just grow up, why doesn't the mother just cut her off. I think the girl does suffer a lot. No one does anything without a reason. I think the girl is very much aware and is very much pained by her situation. I think she's trying to avoid the guilt of being useless, not being able to help out her family in every way, unable to come home and face her family that all she can be is a failure, not getting her GED, not getting a job, not being to help out at all. On top of that, she's constantly compared to her mom's friends kids or her perfect sister. So, it's not like she didn't try or doesn't fully understand her family's financial situation. I mean, she comes home 3 days a week. She's tied up, can't move forward, can't stay home. Tbh, I feel like her being adamant about staying out for 4 days is bc of her sugar daddy (if I'm assuming correctly). I feel like it's not for her own fun, to party, to have fun, to be a 20 yr old, it's actually the requirement of the sugar daddy himself. Once again, she's tied up. She's doesn't have freedom at all, she's actually very limited. At the same time, I think her mom is unable to be strict on her cuz she knows what she's gone through and the mom doesn't want to hurt her more either. All she can do is just get angry and frustrated and argue with her daughter. She's at her wits end and has no idea how to handle this tangled up situation. I mean, the mom should just start dating and get a father figure to help straighten her up. Heck, where is her real dad at? Divorce doesn't mean you get to leave the picture and walk away hands free. It just means the original arrangement isn't working, but they still gotta be a team for their kids.
sidesideful you just write everything that I wanted to say and it’s feel good to see that someone understand my though. I was angry because of some comments say: she is immature, why doesn’t just the mother cut of the money. Maybe because it’s not that easy, I think there are a story about that family and it’s not because you saw this for like 21min that mean that you can judge someone from what she does. And even if you know her story, people are different, we all react differently.
And finally I really want to beg Hello Consulor to have professional like psychology or psychiatrist because laughing and trying to blame the daughter without understanding her feeling, it’s not really helpful for her.
I have a sister just like that, and I used to be just like the little sister, I feel so bad for her cause she’s going through so much pain that she isn’t telling out of consideration of others, she’s an angel but it’s a curse. She will never be happy if she continues to please others like this, I hope she will realise that soon.
She has a boyfriend who apparently is in the army and yet she has the audacity to go to pick-up bars?! Wouldn't her boyfriend be shocked or be concerned about that? Aside from that, her mom worked hard for her, she can't repay her back by at least going home every night? I'm dumbfounded.
Being an adult is not just about the age or the perks of being one. It's also a responsibility. Turning into adulthood means you have to start leaving behind childish ways or reasonings. I'm not saying that adulthood is nothing but seriousness and you're no longer allowed to be as crazy as you want, but adulthood is the time where you have to be as mature as you can be. Now if this daughter can't still understand what it means to be an adult then she should not dare call herself an adult. She's still a child, just turned 20.
Prince Euijin 🤴 💕
Her mom looked so heartbroken, i love herrr :((
저런애들도 헌팅술집가면 ㅈㄴ대우받으니까 중독되는거임
I understand this girl's frustration, and how her childhood wasn't fun because she was never included and now that she's 20 she feels like she's behind and needs to catch up through drinking and partying, but she needs to realize that she's being selfish and setting herself up for disaster and her mother only wants whats best for her.. She's jobless without a diploma, and as a mother that's so worrying to see because how will she be successful in the future? The mom is at her limit and can't work again, so providing funds will soon be a struggle for her.. And like, while cussing at your daughter isn't the nicest I can see where her frustration stems from too. And I get being compared to a sibling, especially a younger one, hurts your pride a lot but the little sister is left cleaning up the mess the older one left behind! Ugh, I know the girl just wants to 'live her life' but she needs to get her life together because the longer she waits the harder it's gonna get; alcohol and bars will always be there and it's not uncommon for 21,22,23 etc. to do what she's doing now.
One word for her. Useless. Feel sorry for her mum and sister. The way she talk and how her sister was telling her story shes not innocent anymore
Daughter has lost her mind tbh. The parents don’t seem overly strict they just want her to be safe