We've Separated
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- Опубліковано 22 сер 2024
- Sad news today. Hayden and I have separated. Our relationship just wasn't working.
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At 38 and male I went through a non amicable separation and divorce. It was traumatic but also liberating. I am now 78 and married but before this marriage I lost a wonderful wife to cancer.
We can’t really plan our life. Things happen out of our control that shape our lives.
I will only say I have followed you from the beginning. If the separation saddens you then I am also saddened. If you also feel a burden has been lifted then it was time for a separation and you and Reece will have sunny skies ahead.
I wish Hayden the best as well.
With love and friendship from the US.
That was very kind of you to share that with us and it couldn't have been easy. There is absolutely no shame in two people separating, if things are not meant to be, they aren't meant to be. That is all we need to know in order that we don't bombard you with unnecessary questions and you are therefore right to not to go into detail. I wish you and of course Hayden too, luck in your new lives. Thinking of you.
My partner and I have watched you almost from the start when you were travelling around in your little caravan. We've enjoyed watching you grow as you've progressed on your journey. We're both sorry to find out that your relationship hasn't worked out but you have achieved so much while documenting your journey. We hope you feel better soon and are excited to see you overcome more obstacles and achieve so much more going forward.
This is brave. It's a good sign you'll do ok.Thanks for sharing.
I’m really sorry to hear this . Chin up darling. 😢
So sad Karen. I'm sure you are a very strong woman and you will complete the house build well on your own, making a lovely home for you and Reece. ❤
I’m sorry sorry to hear your news! I see the pain in your eyes, sending you and Reece much love from the uk 🇬🇧 xx
Karen, you are very much loved and appreciated
Sorry to hear this. Onward and upward as they say all the best in continuing with the house build can't wait to see the videos, all the best.
So sorry to hear this. It’s never easy. Wishing you strength and healing and resilience.
So sorry to hear this! Thank you for sharing. Please take care of yourself during this transition time.
You are worthy of a loving and supportive partner, Karen. I'm sorry things didn't work out as expected but I truly believe that you will come out of this with so much wisdom and growth for both you and Reece. Take care of YOU!
Although most of us watching don’t actually know you personally, I’m pretty positive that you are one of life’s nice people. Sorry to hear your news, you have friends around the world.
Onward and upward 👍
Sending you a warm hug. I've watched from the start.
Oh, no. I'm so sorry for you guys. Been there...but you will get through it.❤
Sorry to hear this, but I'm glad that your son is foremost in your concerns.
Hey this video must of taken some doing. Sorry to hear about the split. Maybe you and Reece can hit the road again. Get yourself back over to the UK 😁 Hey and keep that big beaming smile on your face.
Chin up. Good luck with the house build. Looking forward to seeing what you do with the land now you’ve got free rein on the planning.
So sorry to hear your sad news, you seem very strong and determined which is very commendable. Best of luck and glad you’re focussing on other really important things.
Oh Karen, so very sorry to hear this. Stay strong hun...yes time heals, been there as have a lot of people. We took the path of staying friends for the sake of kids...it was hard at first, but we chose that path and now, all these years later we really are great friends. Have watched every video you have made. Keep smiling lovely lady... From Sth Australia xx
Thats very sad news , keep busy with your new beautiful house build ..Life goes on
Sorry to hear of your problems. Take care. I will continue to follow your adventures.
Sorry to hear the sad news. Life does go on so all the best for the future. Take care of #1.
Sorry to hear, but I've seen the struggles way before your separation. I could tell you weren't happy. Prayers you will come out ahead.
Sorry to hear that. Thanks for sharing. Hope you have some good people around you for support.
I’m so sorry to hear your bad news, I did suspect something was not right with you two some time ago but still I hoped it wouldn’t come to this. So very good luck for the future and the house competition I will be watching eagerly ❤❤
Oh dear, so sorry to hear this 😢
I'm so sorry to hear your news, have been there, it's not easy. Hang in there, better days will come. With love x
So sorry to hear this Karen. You are a lovely lady. Please take care of yourself.
I’m so sorry to hear this. Maybe I read something into it, but felt like you had a a lot of things going on in your life besides the house build.
Really sorry to hear this, Karen. Stay strong. Wishing you the very best going forward. You have a massive UA-cam community that is behind you and sending you love. x
Wishing both of you and wee Reece all the best going forward 😊
So sorry to hear this Karen. It’s a very difficult time for you. I wish you all the best for your future and look forward to seeing your progress with the house build and caravaning.
I am so sorry to hear this news. It is so important to have Reece as the focus to remain friends which you are doing.
So brave of you to post this video Karen. Wishing you, Reece and Hayden all the best. It's never an easy transition but great it can remain amicable for Reece and you've both been able to find your feet.
New challenges for you to embrace and doors to open and walk through… always enjoy the journey… we will be here to follow along and support 💕
Oh that’s hard…. you are good to come out with it here and that’s a big deal so thank you for putting us in the picture. You will be okay of course Karen, but that’s not to diminish in any way how you are doing, that’s your business but know there are so many of us that are genuinely thinking of you. May you and Hayden keep Reese first and foremost as number 1 consideration as you navigate life separately and I hope you do okay on this next part of your life journey and the house finish goes well. All the best. ❤
I'm so sorry to hear your news.
When I watched this video I felt for you. We have followed you on YT made our decision to buy our Bailey Cartegena as a result of your adventures. Even been to some of the places you stayed. Met you at a Covi show for a selfie with you 😊. I hope you have friends you can visit or have over for a coffee. As others have said, things do get better.
Thank you for sharing with us! I always enjoy your journey in caravanning and on the land and look forward to your future adventures and the house being completed! Sending support to you from a fan in Seattle Washington, USA!
So very sad, especially when a wee one is in the mix. I’m sure the both of you will be good friends for the sake of Reece. Hope all goes well for both parties take care
So sorry to hear this I have been following your blogs & you an amazing in what you have done with what you have achieved, keep your head up lovely lady x
Stay strong. You'll be fine! Looking forward to your new journey!
Awe am so very, very sorry for you both that your relationship didn’t work out! It will take time for you to adjust, but you have Reece to keep you busy! Lol. Take things slow because you don’t want to rush into anything.except getting your beautiful house finished..You and Reece deserve your nice new home, and I look forward to watching your building vids when you’re able…..God Bless You All…and “your stronger than you think” lots of love from The UK…… ❤xxxxx
The decision is always a hard one, try to make it work or recognise that it isn’t and move on, good on you for making the best decision for you despite the probably overwhelming feelings of sadness and loss. Time for you to reclaim your agency and to make your own plans, we’re all lifting you up.❤️
Sending you big hugs from the UK. Stay strong, you will get through this and you have your wonderful boy to share your life with you ❤
My heart goes out to you and your son. You're a great person and you'll get through this better than ever. All the best from America
It's sad that it happened but happy that it was amicable. Best of luck to you both.
Sending a fatherly hug from the California. Reece has 2 fine parents to guide him along. You’ll get through this.
Bugger - sorry Karen. Like so many I’ve been watching since the beginning and seen your relationship blossom and your family grow. Hope you can see through the blackness of the moment to a brighter future of adventures with Reece.
So sorry Karen. You are absolutely spot on, time does the healing, the path is not lineal but up, down and around. It’s wonderful to hear you still have the house and land, super important moving forward. I learned a lot about myself through my grief, finally coming out the other side a stronger person. Stay kind to yourself. I’m looking forward to seeing your home in the future. Love from Australia x
Kia kaha Karen. We're here, we will wait till you're ready to share again.
Aww Karen I am so sorry to hear of this… I have been watching your channel for ages. Thank you for sharing your life… it does and will go on… please take good care of yourself and don’t forget to give yourself some love from time to time… I think you are an abso amazing woman 🥰
Sorry to hear you have separated, it's not easy staying together in a relationship with all the pressures of modern living, I'm sure with a bit of help you can finish building your cabin and make it a comfortable and relaxing place to live.
Sorry to hear this. You are right it’s time and distraction and personalisation that are the secret. My only advice is don’t take too much on it’s tempting at first but you need to find your new level.
I'm sorry it didn't work out between you. Long long absences can be both a boon and a blessing sometimes. I'm just glad you got to keep your lovely land and your new home. You are a strong woman and you will thrive with the autonomy this gives you. Keep on keeping on!! xo
You are stronger than you know Karen. I know you’ve got this, I hope everything becomes clearer and easier in the future.
Maybe we’ll see your brother again soon? 😊
Big hugs to you,Reece and Hayden. We want you to know that our home is always open and do make yourselves welcome here.
Love from Nicola, Robert and Pearl. Xx
Sorry to hear this and some healing comes by saying just a little. Step by step you will steadily evolve into a new life. Thanks for sharing.
Sad news after all your efforts to provide a great place for your family to live.....I'm sure you'll still do that for you and your son and have plenty of adventures and good times to come.
So sorry to hear your sad news. Hope you’re ok and that Reece is ok too! Sending love from the UK.
Sorry to hear this, never an easy time. Who will be helping with the house build now?
You'll see soon!
So who is the mystery man?
Unfortunately these things happen it is sad but like lots are saying you seem a strong woman you will get on with your life with Reece and finish building your home. Have always enjoyed your videos. All the best Karen from another Karynn.
If you need any help I be always here I’ve been watching you for years love every video stay positive and keep moving forward
Sorry to hear your news, I hope it works out for you and I look forward to more videos from you.
Sorry to hear this. Much love to you both.
I am sorry you will both be in pain -love to you both and all the very best for what lies ahead for you in the future
Sorry to hear, but it's just something that happens. It will be some grief, but it will pass and things will be better again.
Obladi..Oblada..life goes on.Stinks right now but someday the sun will shine again.We luv ya!!
Take care and stay strong, you've been through a lot in recent years. It will work out for you I'm sure.
So sorry to hear that you have split but glad it was amicable. We all love you and care out here on the other side of the World. Enjoy life and remember "Tomorrow id the first day in the rest of your life". Enjoy IT.
So sorry to hear this news.
Wow there is a mountain of beautiful messages of love and support. Sending you a warm hug Karen ❤
I'm so sorry to hear. Sending you strength and love. All the best for your new future.
Im so sorry for what you your going through, I hope you can figure out what next and take your time for yourself, take care of yourself , with lots of hugs from all of us
So sorry to hear this, time will do its thing but I hope your heart mends soon.
Keep positive and keep up with your plans. Sad to hear but just move on. You have a wonderful son who is a delight.
So sorry to hear that.😔
So sorry to hear this sad news a specially all the hard work you both put into your new home 🏠 chin up x
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I am so sorry to hear that. I know how tough it can be. My 38 year marriage ended and it is true, it is never just one thing (in most cases). We couldn't have children so that complication doesn't exist, although at my age they would have been long grown anyway. You are a tough Woman and I look forward to what ever you are up to posting. Take care and God Bless, Paul from Florida. Always here for you, as we all are.😀
Hiya. Bummer! Didn't see THAT coming. Stay safe. All the best to you.
So sorry to learn this - hope you mange to get through this x x
Sorry to hear that it didn’t work out for you both best of luck to Hayden in his new future and best of luck to you Karen sending you lots of positive vibes so you can get the house finished be settled and happy. The upside is that you are both wonderful parents and Reece is happy and healthy because of it. 🙂
Sorry to hear that, but glad that you are able to keep a good relationship with Hayden for Reece's sake. Lots of hard work finishing the house to keep you busy. There will always be something to do.
Sorry to hear that, Karen.
All the best to you, Reese and Hayden.
Feeling for you at this time, and hoping that you are able to continue to grow the wahinetoa/strong independant woman, that you are Karen. Kia kaha /Stay strong! Arohanui/lots of love..Keita.
Keep the chin up missus. A new beginning, a new adventure, maybe also time to fulfil what life has to offer. Either way, I'm sure you'll make a success of whatever you aspire to do, with Reece with you every step of the way. Much love from Northern Ireland 💖
So so sorry to hear this Karen but dont get down just keep your positive attitude and carry on with your fantastic son Reese "m already looking forward to seeing further progress on the house but just remember Rome wasn't built in a day.
Lots of love to you and Reese all the way from Canada XXX
We both feel terribly sorry to hear this sad news Karen. Take good care of yourself and Reese. Regards, Bob and Lina. LH. ❤
Much love to you and sorry to hear your news. Take care.
Why don’t you pack up and come and have summer in the UK. It’ll take your mind off things. Take care ☮️
So sorry to read this Karen. Life has a habit of throwing curveballs when you least expect it to, hopefully you can move on and with a bit of luck you'll come out of this a happier, contented, stronger person than you're obviously feeling right now. When children are involved it always seems worse as there are more than two people involved and children through no fault of their own seem to always be the ones worst affected, I do hope you can overcome these difficulties and at least Reece is young enough to not be affected by this as much as an older child who would most certainly have. I wish you and Reece and Haydn too, all the love and luck in the world to come through this in a calm, peaceful manner and that you all come out of this whole again. xx ❤
Keep moving forward Karen. Thanks for sharing. Kia kaha
So sorry to hear that you have separated but I which you all the best for the future
Time heals all wounds, and you and Hadyn are doing the right thing putting Reece's needs first - he has to be the priority, as he no doubt loves both of you very much.
Best wishes to you all as you build new lives.
I hope you get into your house soon, Karen! It will bring you a lot of peace and healing. 🙏🏻🤞🏻
I'm so sorry to hear this. I split from my husband last year, we'd been together nearly 13 years and it was tough but I'm so happy now and it was the best decision I could have made for my happiness. We have 2 young children too but they're happier because I'm happier. I also get on with my ex for the sake of the children. Sometimes it's just not meant to be. I know you'll be happy in the end though 💖 glad you're carrying on with the build on the land. Xx
I’m 50 single and that’s the way it’s staying. Three times married . Just wish people would stop trying to set me up with people 😂
Thanks for having the courage to share your sad news .Loads of love from Nelson NZ xxx
We are so sorry Karen. This is happening on a regular basis unfortunately.
Respect & best wishes to you both.🙏♥️