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  • Опубліковано 14 вер 2022
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 332

  • @Andrewjoestar
    @Andrewjoestar Рік тому +505

    I love your content hamza but I do miss the old unfiltered video format

    • @Random-qi3vv
      @Random-qi3vv Рік тому +42

      he released a 2 hr unfiltered video old style yesterday bro. this is the new format. A quality MASSIVE video on his main channel and livestreams on his 2nd channel

    • @rojetx8204
      @rojetx8204 Рік тому +32

      Hamza fans are the least supportive I've ever seen.

    • @njc2438
      @njc2438 Рік тому +9

      same tho I'm not a big fan of the shorts either

    • @erenyeeagah204
      @erenyeeagah204 Рік тому +8

      To be fair this one is kinda like his old unfiltered videos except no bathrobe and with chat and on the couch

    • @shonx3405
      @shonx3405 Рік тому +1

      Agreed

  • @MezbahRijvee
    @MezbahRijvee Рік тому +67

    We all lost a best friend. It’s part of growing up in life

  • @reef6826
    @reef6826 Рік тому +198

    Hamza your ego is getting stronger by day, your confidence is inspiring, and you do have a positive impact on young men, but your moral judgment is becoming hazy, it’s easy to slip into a nihilistic mindset. Check yo self. Much love.

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому +6

      Example?
      Self improvement is the opposite of nihilism.

    • @jotteredits
      @jotteredits Рік тому +6

      @@PauIdenino nihilistic=no absolute moral principles

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому +3

      ​@@jotteredits And nothing matters in life, so basically black pill, or opposite of self improvement

    • @jotteredits
      @jotteredits Рік тому +1

      @@PauIdenino okay hamza is more like existentialism than nihilism

    • @player111q7
      @player111q7 Рік тому +3

      I am pretty sure you mean narcissist

  • @mastuhyeet6422
    @mastuhyeet6422 Рік тому +31

    It's good that you found when you did instead of having to find out about it later once that friendship strengthened. Gotta keep that circle small and know people better before you open up.

  • @rizzlybea
    @rizzlybea Рік тому +38

    Thumbnail editor has to be behind bars after this one💀

    • @ClassyCuber
      @ClassyCuber Рік тому +5

      For real 💀 For a split second I thought this was some video mocking Hamza.

  • @royalegamer2704
    @royalegamer2704 Рік тому +3

    Hamza keeps it real this is why I listen to his advice videos he isn't afraid to address his short comings and feelings abouts past relationships impacting current situations. And it is always weird if a close male friend starts getting close and date your ex girlfriend / lover.
    It's basically like your real life bro dating your ex-wife that be super desperate and inappropriate.

  • @AliUguz
    @AliUguz Рік тому +31

    I don’t think you should publicize your personal drama to your audience. If you have issues with your close friends you fix it with them and work it out and you don’t bash them in front of thousands of people.

    • @BilalAhmed5
      @BilalAhmed5 Рік тому +2

      He’s just being authentic with his audience and sharing the details

  • @adritrace88
    @adritrace88 Рік тому +24

    You need to be an exemplar Adonis too. This whole thing, talking about it and your reaction was feminine. As others have said, level up your stoicism

  • @Qbabeats
    @Qbabeats Рік тому +9

    Much love hamza u make my day

  • @TheRealHerbaSchmurba
    @TheRealHerbaSchmurba Рік тому +144

    It is extremely cold to tell someone who you know you were falling in love with that wants to be with you, that you will sleep with other women as if she was just wind passing by. Its how you said it. If you think you will date other women then you tell her that even though you like her that you want to keep your options open. But saying that you WILL sleep with other women is cold hearted, its as if you have already decided to her that she isnt worth it before even traveling. Also there are some things that you keep private. I understand this desire to be authentic with your audience, but from my view it is very clear which friend you were talking about and now all the hundreds of thousands of subscribers will think ill of him and he will likely get so many notifications that are negative because of a mistake he made. Did he breach bro code? 100%. Was he on a journey of self improvement, still learning and not fully developed yet? Yes. Like sure you can be pissed that it happened, but telling your audience all the details is vengeance because Im pretty sure now that his development will be halted because of all the hate he might get as a result of you just itching to tell the world what he did.

    • @snuzzletv1338
      @snuzzletv1338 Рік тому +5

      Who was the friend he lost? Chris?

    • @TheRealHerbaSchmurba
      @TheRealHerbaSchmurba Рік тому +6

      @@snuzzletv1338 i figured it was Nabeel as theh seemed quite close, but I guess it must be Chris.

    • @esto1347
      @esto1347 Рік тому

      Well said

    • @zeynnr1
      @zeynnr1 Рік тому +6

      he must take responsability for the things he done. This negative messages that he will get could open his eyes. Remember, always be grateful for the bad things that happened in ur life.

    • @opax
      @opax Рік тому +15

      I completely agree I hope Hamza sees this because it can be easy to fall into an echo chamber with this type of content.

  • @hoodiecolin6011
    @hoodiecolin6011 Рік тому +3

    yhea, I don't think I could relate more to a video, this is sort of creepie I just went through something almost exactly like this, I was dating a girl we broke up , after a week my cousin which I was very close with, we had very initiate conversations, since I'm in high school I had to see this every day, she was still a girl I had feelings for, but what hurt most was the betrayal, I was left without and escape, I count not just pretend internally that that didn't bother me. And the second part 2 with guy that take your personal conversation and seek about them with other people to try to vilify you. AMAZING VIDEO VERY HELPFUL AND RELATABLE.

  • @isaiahtwait9069
    @isaiahtwait9069 Рік тому +2

    Hamza and really everyone should read Cicero on friendship. Hearing some of the wisest people to have ever lived speak about things like that will truly be life changing.

  • @mcfc48
    @mcfc48 Рік тому +102

    This is a really difficult watch. Hamza i've noticed a recent trend and you seem almost nihilistic in every video. I really think a therapist could help you, I know you've mentioned therapy in the video and I hope you're continuing with it. It seems now you're at the top you're struggling with it. Hope you can get back to the old you :)

    • @bdotttt1983
      @bdotttt1983 Рік тому +2

      You obv don't know what nihilism means

    • @olddirtybastiat3915
      @olddirtybastiat3915 Рік тому +7

      Nihilistic? Do you mean narcissistic?

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому +9

      Nihilistic? Self improvement is the opposite of nihilism.

  • @Aaron_777
    @Aaron_777 Рік тому +1

    Honestly it hurts how rare you can find someone like hamza, generally its hard to find men like this

  • @secretincognito2993
    @secretincognito2993 Рік тому +10

    Can’t help but agree with most comments here. Hamza, your territorial behaviours and general controlling behaviour with women (and by extension to men) will continue to cost you relationships and cause issues, drama and so on in your relationships.
    I noticed the same thing with Andrew Tate. High drama, toxic relationships. What men must understand today is women are not attracted to the guy who sets rules, commands and acts overly alpha (which is really just an angry beta)
    They may be attracted at first yes but the outcome dependence is a huge turn off. You shouldn’t care if the girl you are dating is around some guy or friend. If they cheat, they were going to ANYWAY.
    Secondly if a male friend betrays you, it’s technically your fault for not vetting your friends. And it’s a good thing, cuz now you know he’s off the team.
    Instead of controlling people, let go. You’ll be happier.
    Another note - never rub it in a girls face that you aren’t exclusive. Actions not words. Finally trying to do monogamy as man who has high notch count does not work. Boredom, cheating, drama,, lack of sex, jealously… these are the eventual outgrowths of monogamy in our day and age. Hell, even women don’t like monogamy these days. Even if it’s what they ‘say’ they want

  • @odmurko
    @odmurko Рік тому +15

    Praise in public, criticism in private 💯

  • @kingray6246
    @kingray6246 Рік тому +4

    I had this exact situation happen to me, except my best friend ended up dating her, I had dated her for one year. I called him out, he made excuses. I haven’t talked to him since

  • @samarthshetty1327
    @samarthshetty1327 Рік тому +32

    in videos before u have critisized sleeping around but now you tell that girl you are going to do that in Thailand is this not hypocritical and wrong?

    • @luckynumberpineappledaddy
      @luckynumberpineappledaddy Рік тому +2

      in Thailand where people tend to go... for a certain type

    • @vercettii
      @vercettii Рік тому +2

      @@luckynumberpineappledaddy 🤨

    • @TheRealHerbaSchmurba
      @TheRealHerbaSchmurba Рік тому +15

      The more I watch Hamza the more I realize how much of his content is anti self improvement.

    • @luckynumberpineappledaddy
      @luckynumberpineappledaddy Рік тому

      yes @daddy?

    • @a.f6435
      @a.f6435 Рік тому +3

      In a recent livestream Hamza said if he was with a new girl he couldn’t go more the a week or two without sleeping with her. Seems he lacks self control

  • @AneesSaghir
    @AneesSaghir Рік тому +13

    damn i miss the old hamza videos. the new ones just feel like clickbaitish and too generic, like they lost meaning.

  • @hms5915
    @hms5915 Рік тому +2

    3 videos today, goat fr

  • @joshua.johnson
    @joshua.johnson Рік тому +11

    It’s good that you told her the truth, but I think there’s a level of commitment that he’s missing in his mind. I get everyone has their different takes on relationships, but when it comes to intamacy, I believe it’s something that should be made exclusive with a partner you love so dearly. As a Christian, I go as far as to say I’m waiting til marriage, and I’ve actually found a beautiful girl who’s the same as me and a virgin. Both of us have talked about it quite extensively, and we’ve both agreed we’re going to save our virginity for each other once we’re married one day. Now, I know everyone doesn’t think like me, but I do still think that if you truly love someone, then you should be willing to keep intimacy as something special between the two of you. It’s honestly quite a selfish attitude to have to think that it’s an essential thing to be able to always have access to sex. Part of love and a relationship is giving up your own wants and desires for the other person. Otherwise, the relationship is actually built on lust. This is a huge debate we’re having in the modern age that a lot of people have a large array of different views on, but at the end of the day, love is about two people who form a relationship and make vows to each other in some way. I am still glad Hamza was honest with her, so he could save her from heartbreak in the future.

    • @jrm679
      @jrm679 Рік тому +1

      you put my thoughts into words brother! Im glad you found someone with the same values as you

    • @joshua.johnson
      @joshua.johnson Рік тому

      @@jrm679 me too, bro, my relationship with this girl is helping me to grow into a man. I now have someone who looks up to me and depends on me to be stoic and a leader. It’s very humbling, but it’s also very rewarding.

  • @CrusaderEthan
    @CrusaderEthan Рік тому +53

    the chat is just way too fucking spurgy, just some feedback. i'm leaving this comment because the fast-paced dopamine that the chat gives is overwhelming and just unnecessary and i'm not gonna watch this video because of it. Loved the old format, still love you and your vids and you're a constant source of inspiration - keep going Hamza 💪🏻

    • @belgflfpdlfpgldfpgldfpglf
      @belgflfpdlfpgldfpgldfpglf Рік тому +5

      You could listen to it instead of watching it, I wouldn't want you to miss out on this important knowledge. Also, its that way because its a clip from a stream.

    • @tomiwa247
      @tomiwa247 Рік тому +3

      @@belgflfpdlfpgldfpgldfpglf that's what I was about to say, I agree

    • @unkon129
      @unkon129 Рік тому

      @@belgflfpdlfpgldfpgldfpglf legit I wanted to say that
      I just listened to this vid and IT was alright
      Or, just don't give a fuck about that

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому +1

      You don't need to look at the chat.

  • @hectoralvarez7785
    @hectoralvarez7785 Рік тому +190

    Harsh take but it's your own fault mate. Having people like that so close to you without checking them is your responsibility.

    • @marinatedlips1885
      @marinatedlips1885 Рік тому +7

      @@Tynes1 is that bad?

    • @hectoralvarez7785
      @hectoralvarez7785 Рік тому +23

      @@Tynes1 I said it's harsh and I would criticize any man in his situation the same not just because he's Hamza.

    • @hectoralvarez7785
      @hectoralvarez7785 Рік тому +19

      @@Tynes1 I agree with him on most of his opinions. I think your grouping me with his haters, I mean I'm subscribed for a reason. As a man you should be extremely critical of your immediate circle. I think it's good that this happened to Hamza, he learned a good lesson from it. He even admits now he wouldn't be friends with any feminine men like Chris.

    • @zabbwolfe
      @zabbwolfe Рік тому +2

      I'd say its more of a learning lesson. He now knows to avoid people who'd do something like this.

    • @faxx5155
      @faxx5155 Рік тому

      @@hectoralvarez7785 you’re right the other guys an idiot. he thinks hamzas perfect i guess

  • @arafattanvir144
    @arafattanvir144 Рік тому +3

    HAMZA I MISS YOUR OLD UNFILTERED CONTENT

  • @zeynnr1
    @zeynnr1 Рік тому

    I had the exact problem and i did block that friend. I never knew if it was the best thing to do, but now i know.

  • @a.f6435
    @a.f6435 Рік тому +11

    Hamza is wrong on this and I usually agree with him on most stuff. Good on most people for putting one in the chat because he is wrong

  • @Call-911Now
    @Call-911Now Рік тому +7

    Bro got me worried for a second

    • @wreday720
      @wreday720 Рік тому

      lool what did you think he was gonna talk about?

    • @Call-911Now
      @Call-911Now Рік тому

      @@wreday720 that maybe 1 of his other friends or his girlfriend Betrayed him

  • @whatislifebro
    @whatislifebro Рік тому +80

    dont stream hamza, and less videos, a couple a week, this is coming from a viewer not a hater, love.

    • @MrJesan74
      @MrJesan74 Рік тому

      Fair enough, what's your opinion on Hamza streaming?

    • @dosedna4147
      @dosedna4147 Рік тому +2

      @@MrJesan74 I really enjoy it, but I can see why others might not.

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому

      You don't need to watch the streams

    • @whatislifebro
      @whatislifebro Рік тому

      @@PauIdenino i dont, they are shit.

  • @projectjohn7743
    @projectjohn7743 Рік тому +5

    I hope Hamza doesn't let this guy hurt his view of Christians. I also pray for that dude, that he can realize how wrong he was to Hamza.

    • @jotteredits
      @jotteredits Рік тому +2

      A ‘Christian’ does not tolerate fornication and adultery

    • @projectjohn7743
      @projectjohn7743 Рік тому +2

      @@jotteredits no, I agree with that, I mean him violating bro code and being against good masculine values. Hamza is not yet a Christian, but it is okay that the dude told Hamza not to sleep around.

  • @bf666bf
    @bf666bf Рік тому +1

    Ugh... I just don't bother with people. Not worth it. 😒

  • @mr5timewcwchamp
    @mr5timewcwchamp Рік тому

    I want to see my friends happy, so them dating an ex isn’t an issue. But my close friends, we run it by eachother first. And we don’t compete for the same woman at the same time.
    The male friend betrayal honestly hurts more than anything. Just went through something similar, except he told my girl about my past before her and I were exclusive.
    You have to stand your ground because you’ll get gaslighted like crazy for calling this out.
    I’ll probably be in therapy for a few sessions after this. I’ll be fine, but processing losing a friend over this just hurts.

  • @hris431
    @hris431 Рік тому +3

    This hit really close to home because I was once the guy who betrayed his best friend in the same way. I didnt understand it then but after I started self improvement I have really been thinking about it and I regret doing that with all my heart. Never again.

  • @LuckyBastardCandleCo
    @LuckyBastardCandleCo Рік тому +13

    So fucking sad. Dont have to imagine. Been there dude. Wish i had more self respect instead of the countless benefit of the doubts, and olive branches. Could care less about the chick, but when your bro stabs you in the back, almost hard to believe.

  • @Tiredofkiling
    @Tiredofkiling Рік тому +1

    Best way to deal with this is to not give them any more of your energy. Stop making videos about them. Stop venting about it on stream, or to your girlfriend. Focus on the positives of your life right now. Make THEM jealous of how good your life is instead of ruminating on what THEY are doing.

  • @LuckyBastardCandleCo
    @LuckyBastardCandleCo Рік тому

    If you get over this please let us know how you did it

  • @yeti2237
    @yeti2237 Рік тому +5

    But what if you're sleeping with every girl around? Are they now all off limits to your friends? You have a girl why don't you just sleep with only her? What's going on man?

  • @RazaNaqvi51214
    @RazaNaqvi51214 Рік тому +1

    HAMZA MAKE A FULL GUIDE ON DIET

  • @vasilis1380
    @vasilis1380 Рік тому

    Everything happens for a reason

  • @YouAreStar449
    @YouAreStar449 Рік тому +1

    I am a girl....unfortunately going through it month ago ... and yeah the part of long term imagination was hard and till now the whole private conversations still hurt
    Btw what she did was also out of her "religious " side

  • @terrortycoon2378
    @terrortycoon2378 Рік тому +1

    I just had a thought. I think your ex got with your best friend as a way to get back at you. She thinks by putting a wedge between you and your best friend is going to hurt you and it probably has hurt you to some extent. But in the long run it is going to be better because any friend who can be pried away from his friends by a woman especially if it's your ex is no trustworthy friend and he would only end up backstabbing you further down the road

  • @lawbringer2959
    @lawbringer2959 Рік тому +67

    Hamza your view of women and relationships has changed drastically ever since this new girl and I don’t like it. Something feels terribly wrong here.

    • @wllulu
      @wllulu Рік тому

      What's his new opinions?

    • @newbiegain117
      @newbiegain117 Рік тому +19

      Lmao. You kids audit hamzas every move

    • @vismong102
      @vismong102 Рік тому

      Grow up man you sound like a kid

    • @derstoepsler
      @derstoepsler Рік тому +9

      @@newbiegain117 Bro uploading gta gameplay💀

    • @MLGskippy
      @MLGskippy Рік тому +8

      He’s a grown ass man bro why are u getting attached to his dating habits lmao

  • @BF-eb4xs
    @BF-eb4xs Рік тому +10

    I mean yourself saying to the girl you’re gonna sleep with others, and I’m not gonna make you my gf. I’d say that’s Brutally honest. No girl, who as you said… loved you, and loved her wants to hear that, let’s be honest. Tricky one tbh

  • @nightbreed9305
    @nightbreed9305 Рік тому +4

    Bro's got comments shooting out of his ear.

  • @LuckyBastardCandleCo
    @LuckyBastardCandleCo Рік тому

    Thanks for having the balls to talk about this topic like that

  • @Arbion26
    @Arbion26 Рік тому +1

    Scandalous, money greed and lust

  • @LuckyBastardCandleCo
    @LuckyBastardCandleCo Рік тому +1

    Honestly surprised how many ppl don’t resonate to what he’s saying in the comment section, holy smokes

  • @hdkl6892
    @hdkl6892 Рік тому

    Literally going through this shit right now.

  • @hotboot2382
    @hotboot2382 Рік тому +5

    0:54 SCOTLAND FOREVER!!!!!

  • @Alzxx77
    @Alzxx77 Рік тому

    You violated when u said you were gonna sleep wit girls there but fair play

  • @marcwilliamsvaldez9328
    @marcwilliamsvaldez9328 Рік тому +10

    Yea the girl thing is disrespectful, dont get me wrong, is the truth and is more honest and better to end things and go on your way but to tell somebody that.... thats kinda disrespectful, still idk what she wanted, like you in other country being in love? Thats also weird

  • @MariaK222
    @MariaK222 Рік тому +2

    I agree. IMO, It’s against bro code to steal your best friend’s girl lol

  • @Woxvu
    @Woxvu Рік тому +24

    You wouldn't do that to the girl you have now because you see her as higher quality. The girl knew that in your eyes that she was nothing but a sack of meat to rub your member with. No sht she tried to move on from you as fast as humanly possible.
    Also, I am starting to worry about his current relationship with "Anastasia". Hamza has shown no sign of good relationship skills (as we have seen repeatedly). His current one might, no WILL, crash and burn and I bet u 100k that his audience will call her Rebbecca from then on.
    Kind of sad... I used to look up to him...

    • @maxreign9071
      @maxreign9071 Рік тому +15

      You're right, this man ain't ready at any capacity rn.

    • @xinonamiiumx
      @xinonamiiumx Рік тому +1

      Yeah but what you don't get is women lie about this type of stuff. Imagine your girl leave off to college for a few years. You think she finna tell you she's messing with other dudes. No. She'll ghost you and act like you don't exist. IG in today's society telling the truth is a crime

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому

      You completely missed the point of the video, didn't you?
      It's not about her, it's about the male friend.

    • @Woxvu
      @Woxvu Рік тому

      @@PauIdenino point A led to Point B. Point A is Hamza's responsibility and Point B was caused by his foul behavior, in which the friend probably saw as disgusting making him push away from him. The friend lost respect for him as a person and when Hamza confronted him saying that "He does not know the meaning of masculinity and brotherhood" he realized that he was being used and was not expected to be someone to oppose him for the things he has done. That is not masculine, that is manipulative and toxic. Hence why he reacted in such a way.
      Oh and by saying this is only about the friend, you are cleary tunnel visioning on his perspective a bit too much instead of seeing the girl as part of the situation at hand.
      Make your own judgment

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому +1

      @@Woxvu I made my own judgement and completely disagree

  • @vinceyyybabey4653
    @vinceyyybabey4653 Рік тому +2

    It's Chris - the one with black hair , youve shown him in past videos

  • @frunji_2137
    @frunji_2137 Рік тому +9

    You told her you're going to date and sleep with other girls there and you see that as a normal thing and she did the same thing. When you left she started dating and sleeping with other guys, it just happened to be your friend. You're in the wrong here ngl.

    • @ay2ale606
      @ay2ale606 Рік тому

      They didn't have sex and he just was train with ex

  • @jrm679
    @jrm679 Рік тому +72

    You should conduct yourself in private the same way you do in public. If you were angry at your friend for sharing private details, I get that, but if you are ashamed for other people to hear about certain things you're currently doing, then maybe the things you are doing are worth regretting.
    Also, It was disrespectful to just have sex with whoever you wanted in Thailand. You have the self-control and could have chosen to not have sex with anyone for as long as you wanted, and continued the relationship when you got back. It was honest, but it wasn't moral.

    • @LuckyBastardCandleCo
      @LuckyBastardCandleCo Рік тому +1

      Disagree, not at all about the girl.

    • @TheGodLycan
      @TheGodLycan Рік тому +1

      but he didn't want to...

    • @aleksandry.7213
      @aleksandry.7213 Рік тому

      @@LuckyBastardCandleCo well it definitely involves the girl

    • @LuckyBastardCandleCo
      @LuckyBastardCandleCo Рік тому +3

      ​@@aleksandry.7213 he was just straight forward and told the truth, broke it off which is a totally legit decision. nothing immoral about that. His homie pretending that bro code doesnt exist and cozy-ing up to her is what is disrespectful. no? I mean it obviously involves her, but homies dont go for the rebound of chicks that were sexual partners of a brother, unless explicitly given the green light to. How are people pretending like thats fair game? Friendship must not mean shit to most these ppl. She is free to do whatever the F she wants, a brother just doesnt do that shit, unless they are a snake in the grass, just my opinion.

    • @jrm679
      @jrm679 Рік тому

      @@LuckyBastardCandleCo I understand he isnt angry at the girl, Im just saying how he treated her was wrong

  • @Meowmed1
    @Meowmed1 Рік тому +2

    Don't be like Sneako.

  • @ExperimentalKana
    @ExperimentalKana Рік тому +2

    bro he censored it but chatsaid it f chris man💀

  • @magnussol7550
    @magnussol7550 Рік тому +3

    You said a disrespectful thing to say.

  • @urukoro7226
    @urukoro7226 Рік тому +7

    Isn't Chris that other gym bud of his that wore glasses? Please correct me if I'm wrong lol

    • @user-ck4gg8pi7j
      @user-ck4gg8pi7j Рік тому

      Yeah it is, Christian

    • @IGamingStation
      @IGamingStation Рік тому +1

      It is, but I thought that dude is religious? I wouldn't imagine him cheating.

  • @apdsouza
    @apdsouza Рік тому +6

    Your morality is fucked Hamza... With all due respect learn to respect someone's emotions... If you think you're gonna cheat then just break up... Don't leave them in a state of potential limbo

  • @Shapex8
    @Shapex8 Рік тому +2

    We a are NOT in a fucking movie. Stay hard!

  • @emptyyourmind3810
    @emptyyourmind3810 Рік тому +4

    Bro everyone has drama in their own life. I love your videos but this kinda go out of the main purpose of your channel I don't think is a good idea bring that part of your personal life to the viewers. We are here to improve not to listen your drama. Nothing against you talking about it it's is important but you should do that in therapy or someone close to you. I hope you can pass over this obstacle and keep bringing the value you always do. Please don't turn in another of that UA-camrs man. We have faith in you.

  • @apdsouza
    @apdsouza Рік тому +9

    Let's be honest Hamza... You didn't really respect her... You loved her as a person... But you didn't respect her enough to put your ego aside and make sacrifices... Being loyal and faithful isn't rocket science especially when it's a question of only 3-6 months
    Adios respects the emotions of the people he's chosen... He may have certain urges and that's totally fine because he knows how to deal with these emotions... He's disciplined enough to see the long term picture rather than focus on instant gratification... If you would've stayed loyal and committed to this individual even during your trip you're relationship would've come out stronger than ever... But you didn't
    This was very Jeffrey of you to do tbh... And being honest and blatantly stating that you're gonna murder someone's mental state even before you do so doesn't make it any better... Man up a little... Learn to control your emotions and ego or you'll never be a strong father figure to anyone

  • @a.f6435
    @a.f6435 Рік тому +14

    In a recent livestream Hamza said if he was with a new girl he couldn’t go more the a week or two without sleeping with her. Seems he lacks self control

    • @xinonamiiumx
      @xinonamiiumx Рік тому

      You do know that women can't go weeks without sex right.

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому

      Doing a healthy activity is not lacking self control.

    • @a.f6435
      @a.f6435 Рік тому

      @@PauIdenino healthy activity? Sleeping around is NOT healthy. Why do you think so many people get STDs and emotional damage from it

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому

      @@a.f6435 Sleeping with your girlfriend is sleeping around?

    • @a.f6435
      @a.f6435 Рік тому

      @@PauIdenino he wasn’t talk about girlfriends he said “any girl in with or meet” besides you don’t have a real emotional connection with someone after two weeks or even less would call a girl ur girlfriend after two weeks

  • @marziepan367
    @marziepan367 Рік тому +5

    26:20 the irony

  • @ozcangunes3920
    @ozcangunes3920 Рік тому

    He had his eye on her

  • @karoori2582
    @karoori2582 Рік тому +3

    everybody saying your becoming more egotistic, I dont think so at all. Honesty is better than putting up a false image, be authentic, your older videos were good for the first few times I watched you, but it started to feel less and less authentic. Im liking this hamza better, the thumbnails are cringe though ngl.

  • @jreverie7018
    @jreverie7018 Рік тому +1

    One thing I'd love to hear someones opinion on - I just don't really get the sleeping with multiple people, not exclusive pairing with stoicism and redpill ideas? They seem to be polar opposites/don't really make sense in terms of pairing? Dunno. Atleast with stoicism ideas it seems to make no sense. The whole idea of loyalty being important but sleeping around doesn't really seem to pair well either ? Eh

  • @terrortycoon2378
    @terrortycoon2378 Рік тому +2

    I think anyway you look at it your friend was not trustworthy. If you ask me I think you seeing him with the girl and experiencing a gut feeling is your mind trying to tell you to disassociate with both of them. Because any guy who respects his friends is not going to be so desperate as to hook up with one of their exes or a girl their friend is on bad terms with. It shows where his priorities lie and they are not with you.

  • @atialuvit
    @atialuvit Рік тому +10

    Hamza, while I still love and appreciate the content and messages you’ve provided me and everyone else, I cant help but be disappointed in some of the behavior displayed in this video. It seems to me that the whole “Would you rather me lie?” comment is coping with the fact that you weren’t disciplined enough to stay loyal to the person who was clearly falling in love with you. I also highly doubt that the people agreeing with what you said have truly ever been in love in their life, as once you’ve gained that perspective you cannot defend what you said. I do feel sympathy for you because of what your “friend” did, but you cannot lie and say that you couldn’t have done better in this situation. Much love from Pennsylvania bro

  • @Jp-nr8wd
    @Jp-nr8wd Рік тому

    One question, why is the chat sending pretty much the same message in loop ? love the content but that is sus

  • @thestraycat69
    @thestraycat69 Рік тому +2

    Airing this publicly was a sign of weakness, he was in the wrong I don't disagree, YOUR in the wrong right now acting this way. Only women gossip like this, though I do agree on the over all.

  • @Alisalah-vc8yn
    @Alisalah-vc8yn Рік тому

    wait is he talking about the black guy who appeared in his 1y/o videos?

  • @jjboss7896
    @jjboss7896 Рік тому +13

    Hamza. You are emotional. Men aren’t supposed to be emotional…

  • @harshadadagale4253
    @harshadadagale4253 Рік тому

    Please need context can't watch 2hours for it who betrayed Hamza?

  • @levihillsman7843
    @levihillsman7843 Рік тому

    Lol the donkey was calling your boy on his man code violation

  • @abdulrahmanbuanz8393
    @abdulrahmanbuanz8393 Рік тому +2

    Not really an adonis move hamza

  • @aleksandry.7213
    @aleksandry.7213 Рік тому +38

    So you said that you essentially fell in love with this girl, and then proceeded to tell her you would sleep with other girls. It’s not the truth that hurts her, it’s your actions. You want to do essentially whatever you want and expect her to be able to leave things open and potentially continue things as if nothing happened. That’s shitty hamza, you still fell possessive of her, but she’s not your and your friend can do whatever he wants.

    • @zeynnr1
      @zeynnr1 Рік тому +3

      he is hurt bcs of the friend, bcs he betrayed him and talking bad about him behind his back. Is not about the girl

    • @aleksandry.7213
      @aleksandry.7213 Рік тому +9

      @@zeynnr1 he didn’t do anything behind his back, they didn’t even hook up or anything. This is about hamza overcoming his own jealous and possessive nature. The friend posted pictures of them together publicly, if hamza had an issue with it he should have brought it up with himself

    • @zeynnr1
      @zeynnr1 Рік тому +8

      @@aleksandry.7213 Did u even watch all the video? Hamza said that that guy was telling the girl everything hamza would tell him. All the personal stuff. And venting is OK and beneficial, so I see no problem telling all the story

    • @aleksandry.7213
      @aleksandry.7213 Рік тому

      @@zeynnr1 I agree you should vent in order to articulate your thought and feeling, but don’t vent for vents sake. I just don’t see this as such a big betrayal as hamza is making it out to be

    • @xinonamiiumx
      @xinonamiiumx Рік тому +5

      @@aleksandry.7213 You obviously didn't watch the video then and you obviously don't understand men and women clapping your best friends ex is a big no no. There's nothing else to it.

  • @Limbaugh_
    @Limbaugh_ Рік тому +1

    Y’all weren’t even committed before you left it’d be different if you were already dating a long time

  • @Uncleanwiener1231
    @Uncleanwiener1231 Рік тому +10

    Hamza, your developing a bit of an ego problem. You have an audience of over half a million people what you say has a lot more gravity behind it then it did two years ago. If I had a friend who told everything about why we are having difficulties in our relationship to an audience as big as yours I would feel immensely disrespected. And you are being very disrespectful to this ex friend of yours. Deal with your relationship issues in private and to put it frankly stop being such a drama queen it’s not like all the 12-18 year olds in your comments can do much for you in this situation aside from send death threats to your exes and ex friends
    If you really need to talk about this with someone other than your immediate circle find a psychological professional who can give you practical steps backed by science to help you process the problems your suffering from

  • @baki3156
    @baki3156 Рік тому

    omg i live the exactly same

  • @friedrichs.8004
    @friedrichs.8004 Рік тому

    Na man it is codex to not approach the ex of your closest brothers

  • @shuaibnur8117
    @shuaibnur8117 Рік тому +2

    I think you could have handled this better

  • @draco1419
    @draco1419 Рік тому

    What happened plss tell?

  • @Penguin-wk7gq
    @Penguin-wk7gq Рік тому

    That was way out of line

  • @pilly3815
    @pilly3815 Рік тому

    Damn Chris...

  • @terencenordberg7482
    @terencenordberg7482 Рік тому +15

    It’s weird even when a mate is actively following your ex’s social media a year after you broke up.
    But then, genuine solidarity amongst male friends is rare..

  • @ezeukwu_chukwudumebi
    @ezeukwu_chukwudumebi Рік тому

    I feel like, she planned all this out probably to get back at you and toil with your emotions, you should have deleted/blocked
    both their Instagram account and have peace of mind

  • @stevenreid5427
    @stevenreid5427 3 місяці тому

    Now imagine they were fucking while you were together, and after you broke up. had a baby even though your best friend lives with his 1st baby momma and you hang out with the man everyday. you don’t know until the child is 2-3 years old, and you only found out because your best friend text you an apology about it.

  • @LuckyBastardCandleCo
    @LuckyBastardCandleCo Рік тому +1

    The only bright side I see is that it happened sooner than later. Sounds like a desperate for psy kind of dude. Those ppl make bad friends. That or Hamza did something to that dude in the past that he held onto. Or maybe thats just a harsh reality of life, be careful who you call brother, really careful

  • @nicolasdazefilms
    @nicolasdazefilms Рік тому +2

    Youre a good man hamza, but if you actually loved her, you wouldnt throw that relationship away for banging randoms.

  • @shyantv6801
    @shyantv6801 Рік тому +1

    I get the whole Andrew Tate talking about masculinity, progressing and everything. But he's still the same guy who says stuff like he'd rather pick a male pilot than a female one or that women shouldn't be allowed to drive.

  • @lucifermorningstar4485
    @lucifermorningstar4485 Рік тому

    Sneaky Fucker Strategy, Brother.
    Be that as it may. Time is better spent cultivating new relationships.

  • @sebastiannitu9923
    @sebastiannitu9923 Рік тому +1

    Truth be told. There are certain thing that must be kept private. Me for example I would never really talk about family, personal relationship or personal problems. I would take about personal experiences that helped me develope as a individual and I might use them as a example to help others. But this to me seems too personal for you to talk about. You are not being honest with your audience because no one asked you about this have they? (If anyone has asked him then correct me if I am wrong). If nobody asks you about stn, don't start talking about stuff like that on here. Be the bigger person and get over it. Like a adult. Like a man.

  • @clarissaayres2060
    @clarissaayres2060 Рік тому +1

    It’s alright Hamza. At least you the fake friend has been weeded out.

  • @smollumine5313
    @smollumine5313 Рік тому +1

    boohoo what a big deal i lost all my friends 🤣🤣

  • @MaazUnfiltered
    @MaazUnfiltered Рік тому +3

    Learning lessons:
    “If something is deeply making you uncomfortable, DONT LET IT SLIP”
    “Men displaying feminine traits are red flags”
    I have achieved such massive respect from you when you told
    what you said to the girl prior to leaving.
    “I am not going to do a long distance. I will be there for 5 to 6 months so I will be dating and sleeping with other women.
    Do not wait for me…”
    damn bro. Mad respect for laying out the truth for her. Love you Hamza. MWAH

  • @BrroDii
    @BrroDii Рік тому +15

    So Hamza tells a girl he's going to cheat on her and gets upset when she cheats on him? Or maybe they weren't really in a relationship in the first place, but that just makes it even weirder that he gets so insecure about her hanging out with one of his friends. Why does he think he's entitled to have her wait for him and waste her youth on someone who refuses to commit to her? Hamza's really shown his true colors lately I think, this whole situation was created solely by his ego and insecurity. Like sure you're being honest about it, but the actually "right" thing to do would be to simply not cheat on her to begin with. It's even worse when he's allegedly trying to encourage young men to be independant and able to think for themselves, but whenever he gets insecure about his own shitty decisions he tells his chat to agree with him and shames those who don't. Then again, none of this is very surprising behaviour from a self-described "cult leader". He calls himself one and he acts like one too, complete with the removal of anyone's right to think for themselves. I think if there weren't so many lonely, vulnerable young men ripe for exploitation and selling dreams to, Hamza would still be cleaning toilets at McDonald's.

    • @joeltaylorthethird5443
      @joeltaylorthethird5443 Рік тому +1

      who hurt you bro ?💀 how did you switch up so bad

    • @BrroDii
      @BrroDii Рік тому

      @@joeltaylorthethird5443 Honestly I'm not even saying I hate him or that he's a bad person or anything like that, no one's perfect, but c'mon, he's acting pretty retarded here. He's still doing good things but he's been slipping a lot lately and I'm not the only one who feels that way judging by his comments these days. Nowadays only a fraction of his content is worth watching when back then everything he made had value. I used to watch him for advice and a new perspective but now his content is getting saturated with petty e-drama that I just don't care about, as well as plenty of pointless filler videos. He used to be quality over quantity but I guess he cares more about view count and keeping the algorithm fixed on him than making sure every video he makes is the best it could be. I don't know what new Hamza would say about it, but older Hamza encouraged people to move on from his content when they feel they don't need it anymore, and I feel like it's time to do that now.

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому

      They weren't in a relationship anymore. She was his ex.

    • @BrroDii
      @BrroDii Рік тому +1

      @@PauIdenino Okay so... why does he care then?

    • @PauIdenino
      @PauIdenino Рік тому +1

      @@BrroDii Because it's her ex and he was his best friends. Friends shouldn't be close with your ex's.

  • @ExperimentalKana
    @ExperimentalKana Рік тому

    bro why you spending time with jeffreys like that anyway?

  • @erenjeager5290
    @erenjeager5290 Рік тому +2

    Hamza bhai, I will never not love you but why would you start making things serious between you and her before you went to Thailand if you were gonna do what you planned on doing? It’s fine if you wanted to see girls there, but talking about making your relationship more official before you go to Thailand is something I don’t understand. If she was your ex when you left, she’s not yours anymore, and if one of your friends considers her to be a friend, that’s up for debate but he might not be your friend anymore. She probably thought the relationship was up when you left for Thailand, got mad, and got with your best friend to mess with you or get back at you. Other than that, I agree with the rest of the vid.