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Hey, Petty Posse! Charlotte here, and boy do I have a juicy topic for you today. We're diving deep into the world of relationships where being petty isn't just a hobby-it's practically a love language! 🤣
Ever found yourself purposefully leaving dishes in the sink just to get back at your significant other for stealing the covers last night? Or maybe you've hidden their phone just to watch them frantically search for it, all in the name of love? Well, my friend, you're not alone!
Join me in this video as we explore the hilarious and sometimes downright diabolical ways petty love manifests in our relationships. From passive-aggressive notes to epic prank wars, we're spilling all the tea on how to keep the spark alive with a healthy dose of sarcasm and mischief.
So, grab your partner-in-petty and get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe even pick up a few new tricks along the way. Because let's face it, sometimes being a little petty is just our way of saying, "I love you, but I'm not afraid to mess with you a little." 😉
Don't forget to hit that like button, subscribe for more relatable content, and drop your own petty love stories in the comments below. Until next time, stay petty, my friends! ✌️
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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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My husband is a Civil War studies freak. He has many books, some from the 1800's, first edition. My daughter did a report using these books in her bibliography. Teacher accused her of a false list of books, claiming they are unavailable. The teacher called her a liar when she said we owned those books. My A student daughter was crushed and embarrassed. She told me and I promptly packed up our Civil War Library and dragged them to school. I walked her and the books into class and dropped them on the teacher's desk. "Re-check her bibliography.... now, please. She was all 'oh, my gosh, I had no idea. She was softly apologizing to my daughter. I said "Oh, no. You called her a liar in front of the whole class, so apologize in front of the whole class. " She sells real estate now. Case closed.
That would be the type of mother I would be!
Yassss mama!!!!
I love you, mom!!!! You got 💯 on your mom assignment!😁👍
@@ohcaptainmycaptain4829 You have to be even handed to raise good citizens. I always told them, "if you are wrong, you will take your medicine, however, I will still have your back. If you are right, I will work like a beaver to get you justice.
@@tarantulady8565 I always got your back, baby. I love you bear loves its cub.
My niece always plays with this girl that lives next door. This girl never shares her toys and always rubs her new toys in my niece's face. Like: "look at my new doll, no you can't touch it!" She always makes my niece cry. One day after her B-Day she got an Elsa doll she has been wanting (I had overheard her Mom saying she was getting it for her days earlier). True to nature she came straight to my niece to rub it in her face only to find my niece playing with a bigger and better version of Elsa, she also had Anna and Olaf (that I got for her). She immediately wanted to play with my nice and "share". My niece without skipping a beat said to her: "You can't touch them, play with yours!" I was so proud of her, that she is just as petty as her auntie.
Auntie win!! ❤
She’s your mini me.
What was the little girl's reaction? 💀
Thats Not petty babes, that is *JUSTICE*
That reminds me of when I was a kid I over heard my best friends mom talking to my mom about the gift she was going to give me it was my favorite princess at the time which nobody had heard of yet Anastasia. Her daughter lost S**t about it. So her mom gave her the toy and I got nothing from my "best friend" But A diffrent friend more then made up for a few years later. She found at a garage sale the dog from the movie. When you touched one of it's toes or back the ears would lift up. She remembered what that "friend" did and she was sweet enough to try and make up for something she didn't even do wrong. I still have it in storage somewhere.
I didn't do this but my mother did. So when I was in middle school a teacher wrote for my mom, she wanted to inform her that I wasn't doing well in English. (My mom was a journalist in the Air Force) My mom had double checked my work, so knew that it had been done right. She sent me back to the teacher with the teacher's note marked in red, she made sure to show where the teacher had written sentences incorrectly. Then she wrote at the bottom "You might want to check your work before submitting it".
LOL, that's hilarious. XD
A girl in my high-school was brutally dumped by her boyfriend through a handwritten note. She decided to be petty and gave the note to one of the English teachers, who corrected it with a red pen. The girl then gave it back to her now ex-boyfriend. 😂
I love EVERYTHING about this, and the reply petty too. 😅❤😂😂
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😂😂😂🎉
Pettiest thing I have ever done for my children that I can recall is upon taking them to a hands-on children’s museum, we were super excited because there was a traveling scooby doo exhibit (all three of my daughters are obsessed with scooby) there ended up being a few schools there that day for field trips. That’s no big deal my kids love everyone so they were equally as excited to see other kids even though the kids were at least 4-5 years older then them. When we went into a room were the children need to interact with the toys/exhibit an older kid walked right up to my four year old she said “hi I’m (insert name)” and he laughed ripped the building materials out of her hand and ran off. There were two parents and a teacher with chaperone name tags on watching the whole ordeal and watched as my four-year-old ran up to me sobbing and did absolutely nothing. I comforted my child and told them we could move on to another room and come back to that room. Once we had moved on, we’re playing with one another and we’re happy when the school group moved onto the room we were in I loudly announced “all right. Girls were going to move onto another room until the school group leaves. “ And when my oldest who is six asked why they had to stop playing I made eye contact with said parents and teacher and said “well the older kids don’t seem to wanna share any of the things with you girls and seeings how the chaperones aren’t doing their job and keeping the children in line and making sure everything runs smoothly. We will move on and be the bigger people and come back when they are done“. I heard two gasps and got a glare from the teacher. I’m too passive aggressive to say anything directly to them, but made sure to do the same thing with each exhibit they arrived too if we were already there.
Those will be the same kids who harrass people at work and the boss will ignore it ugh
@@AllUserNamesAreUsedTruth. And when you confront them, they're quick to play victim.
I’m embarrassed to admit I did the pettiest thing I’ve ever done for my child, but here goes anyway. When she was in 2nd grade, she had a male teacher who she was so excited about getting but when I say this dude had no business working with children, it’s an understatement. He had one of those area rugs from Walmart that was either a US map or a roadway with cars driving on it that he was oddly obsessed with and he would berate the students if they even tripped over it. Remember these were 7 years-olds! Around September my little girl comes out to the car and busts out crying. The school had taken soap out of the bathrooms that year and I couldn’t stand to think about her eating with dirty hands so I had clipped a hand sanitizer to her backpack. Apparently the cap had opened and the clear alcohol gel had dripped out on his rug. He flipped out and banned the whole class from hand sanitizer, yelled at her about being so “careless” and made her stay after class and scrub it out of his polyester rug. I started plotting and held my anger back until the end of the school year. When she went in the classroom to get her stuff I went with her and had concentrated food coloring (from my cake making side hustle) in my pocket that I dotted all over the bottoms of my shoes and walked all over that rug🤦🏻♀️. This was over a decade ago and I’m not proud of it, but it was the pettiest thing I’ve ever done for my kid.
Wait wait wait- THEY TOOK SOAP OUT OF THE BATHROOMS?!?!?! WTF?!?!
@@therealameliabedelia7821 Exactly! How disgusting is that? The teachers would give every kid a squirt of hand sanitizer before lunch as if that was the same thing as washing their hands?
@@therealameliabedelia7821 They did it because they said the kids were making a mess with the soap🙄
@@justtryme2020 In elementary school we were told not to use the hand sanitizer dispensers in the classrooms because it messed with the flooring. Most if not all classrooms had sinks though
@@sarahkinsey5434 What kind of flooring did the school have that hand sanitizer messed up😂? I thought all schools had that same generic 12x12” tile? This classroom didn’t have a sink.
The meanest girls in high school becoming a behavioral teacher has the same energy as bullies becoming nurses
No freakin doubt!
My thoughts exactly 💯
Or bullies becoming cops. All of it is unhinged 😅
OMG 💯! Today's nurse's (at least in Canada) are always the mean girls and bullies from high school! I think they choose that profession to be their sheep's clothing! They want to have tje appearance of being caring people to mask their real personality!
My mom is a nurse and I can 100% confirm this.
My son has learning disabilities (ADHD). The last year of secondary school (High school) The school specialist told my son he would never be able to graduate because they dont think he is ready to do some interships (special school program for kids with learning disability) so i told my son to not waiste his time with that lady anymore and he found him self a job where he works for 26+$/h in a shipping company...its been 2 years now and i sended that lady his T4 slip because i knew he was making almost the same amount as her...and told her that i wanted to thank you for always believing in him
When I was in like the 5th grade or so my teacher had picked me out to be her bullying victim. Being little I never told my mom cause I thought I was overreacting or that it wasnt that bad, but some other kids told their mom, who then told mine. Welp the same day she found out my mom bulldoszed in there and demanded a meeting while I just kinda hung out in the office. We could hear my mom tearing into the teacher and principle with all her 5'3 "I teach in the prison system and am unmedicated" rage. I still remember how the secretary was scared and just lookin at me as I happily chill. When the principle and teacher came out of the room they where shaking and I got icecream. It was a good time. Lol
I bet that was good ice cream!
@@memorywhole366 it really was. Life at home wasnt so great lots of times cause of the whole "teach at a medium security prison and am unmedicated" thing but I always knew my mom loved me and would burn a building down for me.
With the cremation story, its one thing to hold onto the cremated remains until she paid back in full, thats fine. Its another for him to say hes going to dispose of her remains a little at a time, thats heartless and so wrong. It went from petty to straight up unhinged.
He really was a monster like everyone was calling him.
I really hope he was lying for clout because that is HORRENDOUS behavior. If he really loved his aunt he wouldn’t be tossing her into the wind.
I totally agree, this should not be a part of a petty video it's just cruel if he cared about his Aunt he should have been more respectful.
And burning THE BIBLE. Like yeah it might be her favorite book, but you think auntie is going to be okay with him BURNING THE BIBLE 😳
How about just put them in another urn to show your cousin but don’t actually do it? What idiot loans $5k out!?
Yeah. He is sick and awful! WTH an evil human.
Fun Fact: abuse/desecration of a corpse (yes cremation remains count) is a felony even under the vaguest of legal definitions such as "to treat a corpse in an offensive manner."
Edit: Also fun fact, Human remains don't qualify as people or property; they are in a legal grey area. Typically, courts view them as "quasi-property" and the next of kin are recognized as having the legal right to the remains for the purpose of providing proper burial.
He has the Chinese word "sin" tatooed on the back of his hand.
I should just stop watching Charlotte, but I tend to enjoy the videos, not usually her reactions to them. I don't get how some of these things she laughs about and just thinks are people getting harmless payback for a wrong against them. The ones of people who would knowingly desecrate the ashes of someone's loved one for petty revenge aren't good people. I don't get the laughing about it. It's truly disgusting. I guess that's why I do watch her to remind myself that while there are many good people out there, bad people still exsist.
@@ruthsimpson8436 The "fun fact" makes me a pick me person?
Awww, we can tell you're projecting insecurities😊@ruthsimpson8436
Fun fact, when you get the ashes, they are your property and you can do whatever you want so it’s actually not abuse or desecration… but you would know that if you decided just to Google a little bit more
"Imagine the biggest bully in school being, like, a teacher."
I don't think we have to imagine it. Thinking back, I'm sure we all had at least one or two that made you wonder why on earth they ever got involved in teaching in the first place.
It's shocking how many adults are so mean to kids.
Same here.
4th grade. Ms. Cleaver. What a bitch. I'll never forget how she made me feel. I hope she got a new career.
Here's my (f., 42) petty parent story (I'll try to keep it short):
When my son was little, I always took him to the playground when the weather was good. We usually met other parents there with their children.
While my son ran over to the children to play on the slide, I sat down with the other parents and we chatted. Everything was as usual. Well, at least for the first 30 minutes after we arrived at the playground.
Then my son came to me crying and told me that there were two younger children who were throwing sand at every child that reached the bottom of the slide. My son got sand in his eyes because of this and so did the other children who used the slide (they were all literally covered in sand).
My son pointed to the two bullies and I watched them for a short while. I now saw for myself how they threw sand at each of the sliding children.
Their mother sat directly behind the two boys. She was reading something and didn't look up for a single second.
I went to the two boys and told them to stop throwing sand at each child immediately or I would have to talk to their mom.
They just laughed and threw sand again at the next kid who came down the slide. Then I got angry and a little louder: "You'll stop this IMMEDIATELY!"
Their mother also heard that and suddenly snapped at me: "Don't yell at my children! You don't have the right to do that!...What do you think of talking to MY children like that?..." and so on .
I interrupted her: "If you had just looked up from your book for a moment, you would now know why I spoke to your kids!"
Then I told her what I had seen myself and that as a mother I expected her to teach her children how to behave even when they were on a playground.
Then she said to me: "I raise my children in an anti-authoritarian way! I let them do what they want and they learn by themselves what others are willing to accept and what they are not." I couldn't believe what I had just heard, but she went back to her book and let her boys carry on as before.
And again one of the sliding children got a load of sand thrown in his face and the two brats burst out laughing.
I asked the boys' mother if she really didn't want to do anything about this behavior, but she didn't even pay attention to me. She acted like I was air.
Now I was really pissed!
I bent down and took sand in both hands. I went over to her and threw the sand forcefully into her face. Because she didn't see me coming (because she had her eyes in her book instead of on her boys), she was very surprised and jumped up.
She cursed and yelled at me about throwing sand in her face while she tried to shake the sand out of her clothes and hair. I had to giggle because now SHE was really pissed: "How dare you throw sand in my face!...."
I just said: "I was raised anti-authoritarian!" and went back to the other parents, who were applauding and laughing.
The end of the story: She packed up her things and left with her sons (they weren't seen much at that playground after that).
Our children were all covered in sand, but it was still too early to head home for a bath. The playground had a water pump and because the weather was so nice, we stripped our kids down to their underwear and had them wash themselves a little to get at least some of the sand off. So it was a lovely afternoon with lots of fun for our children and us. Playing with water in summer is always fun, even if you're an adult. 😉
Wow that petty
Being anti-autoritarian is one thing and this isn't it. This is a woman who couldn't care less about doing her job as a mother.
From what i understand being anti autoritarian is talking to your kids to tell them how it's quite mean what they are doing and they should behave better so as not to be d***s and ending up dying alone!
This lazy ass mom couldn't even be bothered to look up what it actually mean it seems.
Don't have kids if you're not willing to put the effort in, seriously! Those are not your childhood dolls, children are their own human being with feelings and thoughts, they need attention and boundaries.
@ Mother01 That woman’s sons were committing assault against every child in whose face/eyes they threw the sand. It was her responsibility, as their parent/guardian, to prohibit them from breaking the law and hurting other children and to teach them right from wrong. 💯 She was most definitely in the wrong for her lackadaisical parenting, and letting her sons get away with that deplorable behavior, and I fully support your decision to throw sand in her face (although that was also you breaking the law and assaulting her - she totally deserved it, and so did her boys, if you ask me).
I hope 🤞🏻 your child was okay 👌🏻, as sand in the eyes 😫 is not only very painful, but can cause severe damage to the eyes 👁and harm one’s vision. I also hope the other children who were victimized by those brats were okay. But that other mom gets no sympathy from me, whatsoever! 🙅🏻♀ Shame on her *and* her kids! 👎🏻 It’s kids who do stuff like that and take pleasure in it and have no consequences for their actions who grow up to do far worse things. 😬 That is scary, that that clueless mother was completely fine with her kids hurting multiple people, and she did not see fit to stop them or correct their abhorrent behavior. I think, she has no business being a mom, based on this example of her parenting skills (or lack thereof).
My son's gifted teacher caused me to bring my petty out passive aggressively. My son was given a packet of papers to work on in class over several days. His gifted class is one period per day. And NOTE: it is NOT a graded class. He lost the packet and told his teacher and asked if she could give him another copy. He told her he would stay in at break and during his study period to redo the pages he did and do better to keep up with it. She told him "copies cost money, and I don't have the money to print you a new packet. You should've kept up with it." And threatened him with in school suspension for asking for another one. My son told me about this and I sent a letter with a 5 dollar bill in an envelope. I told her how sorry I was to hear that she couldn't afford to copy a 20 page packet for 1 cent per page (my best friend is a teacher at the same school and told me it was not even out of their pocket to make copies and the cost per page). I said I was happy to pay for his new copy of the pages and any other copies that other children may need, and she could contact me if she needed help paying for copies in the future. She sent a letter home with the 5 dollars included with just a note that said she copied the new pages for him and he was such a bright child and a joy to have in her class with a "sorry for the miscommunication". No mam, you communicated just fine and so did I. Don't f*** with my kid because you're lazy and rude. ✌️
Two boys were bullying my daughter. I called the principle so many times, wrote emails.. to no avail. We put her in kickboxing. One day I get a call that she kicked one boy in the groin and side kicked the other in the stomach and that she would be suspended. I WENT TF OFF .. (in a calm tone) threatened to file charges and sue the school. By the end of the conversation principle was apologizing to me . 😤
Idk if this is “petty” but this is one time that I went to bat for my child against the school system lol
Yes
Good I’m glad you went off on the principal and if you didn’t put her in kickboxing they would of done something to her
Similar thing happened with my son, school rang me trying to suspend him for defending himself. Lets just say, he sure as shit wasn’t suspended.
Being petty to an adult while making an entire group of childrens day so much better is next level. That man is a DADDY! WE LOVE HIM!
I lived in a duplex, the mother n teen daughter screamed fought often. I could control their TV in one bedroom......woke up one night around 1:00 am to screaming. TV was on, changed it to " the haunting" . Ha they immediately stopped screaming, I heard the teen say " omg I'm never sleeping in this room again " hahahaha problem solved. Going on 3 yrs of peaceful sleep
Shout out to the father defending his son in the discreet way he did. That's a dad!
Brilliant, awesome dad.
One hundo ❤
That was genius 👏 🙌
God that dad was awesome. I love it.
That hit hard for me. My son had similar “friends” and his name is also Logan.
When my son was in elementary school, I had late stage breast cancer. As a result, I became an advocate for cancer patients & was active in almost every breast cancer event in our state. My son would usually go with me. At one event, he got his hair colored with bright pink temporary spray on hair color. His middle school had a policy against "non-human colored hair". We washed his hair when we got home & got most of it out. There were still traces of it when he went to school, but you had to get REALLY close to see it. I got a phone call from his school while I was in a meeting regarding a breast cancer charity, demanding I come pick him up. Thinking he was sick, I went to his school only to have a woman with very obviously bleached blonde hair with black roots, drag my son out of the principal's office by the arm & inform me (in a very condescending, snarky tone) that he was suspended for the rest of the day for "having hair color not found in nature." I took my son's hand, looked her up & down in a very obvious way, smiled a very fake sweet smile & replied, "And exactly where in nature would YOUR hair color be found?"
And yes, I filed a complaint with the school board (with pictures) & the suspension was struck from his record. That woman was not employed in the school office the next year - don't know if she was removed or left on her own for some other reason, but she was gone.
Yes!!!
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COMPLETE NONSENSE!!
Former teacher of 25 years here.
That school had nothing better to do???
When I was in High School we had a rule, NO HATS IN CLASS. One boy lost his hair during chemo, so he was allowed to have one. The boys class got a new substitute teacher for a month. The sub told the boy he didn't care if the kid had cancer, NO HATS.
The sub took the hat and said the kid could have it back when he talked to the students father about the student learning respect. The sub didn't realize the father was the head of the schools English Department. The sub was replaced the next day and put on a city black list.
@@FirstnameLastnamesThis is about adults getting power trips and bulling kids, not about school rules. Schools are for learning not for physically standing out, why would you put self estem on superficial things like hair color? Also is toxic and those are kids, also they are kids they get influences by their piers actions , so no is not a good idea to let them "express themselves" whatever that means by a hair color. How about they express themselves by being just them that is more than enough
This was years ago. I had been drooling over the coffee ninja when it first came out. My husband told me had gotten me one for xmas. Xmas Eve comes around and there's nothing under the tree for me. He said he'd left it at his mom's house so I wouldn't use it before Xmas day. Xmas day comes and there's no coffee ninja under the tree. There was actually nothing under our tree for me. I spent over 1,500 on him that year. He then had no choice but to tell me he never bought it so I cut all the toes off of his socks. I did that for a year. Everytime he bought new socks the toes came off. I never got my coffee maker but he hasn't lied to me since. 😂😂😂😂
I love that the basket of oranges was an actual good gift.. The Orange Lady has the choice to either throw out a very nice gift in front of everyone, or share the oranges with everyone and she can watch everyone enjoy them. Win win.
My kid (6th grade) had a horrible bully of a teacher. So our joke at home was “I’m no cactus expert, but I know a prick when I see one” At Christmas that year we gifted the teacher a little potted cactus. The teacher was not in on the joke, but the fact that it sat in the classroom window the rest of the year made him feel better.
I want to put that on a T-shirt.
@@sandragarner2912 I have a t-shirt that says that. Got it years ago! 🤣
My daughter’s kindergarten teacher told her she needed to go faster on her penmanship exercises. My little girl happily shrugged and said, ‘I ranned out of fast.’😂😂😂
What kind of incompetent teacher focuses on penmanship in kindergarten??? That should be addressed in first and second grade. How does a teacher not understand that kindergarten is all about play to learn!! Not an outdated idea from the 1950’s like formal, explicit instruction on handwriting!! Ooof!!
@@Starcatt966Penmanship shouldn’t be the only focus, but it is an important element of learning how to write, which is a skill that children should be at the beginning stages of grasping by kindergarten at minimum, even more preferably around preschool age. It takes time to learn penmanship, and it’s an important element in the process of developing a child’s motor skills. Again, it shouldn’t be the only focus, and no child should ever be made to feel badly about their progress, but it’s important nonetheless, as is play. But just like writing and penmanship, play should not be the only focus either. Balance is important in order to set children up for success.
Children are extremely capable of learning how to write in kindergarten. It’s so important to take advantage of their brains being sponges in those early years as much as you can. The older they get, the harder things will become. Ensuring ALL elements of their development are being addressed matters greatly. Play is a BIG part of that, most definitely, but it is not the only part. Children that age are eager to learn as much as they can, which is why it is vital to introduce them to as many different avenues of learning as possible. Play cannot teach everything, nor can traditional school work, which is why both matter.
A kindergartner is in no way too young to learn writing and penmanship. That’s not an outdated 1950s practice. What children learn and when are based on guidelines that follow a child’s developmental timeline. It’s not something pulled out of thin air. Additionally, there are many ways to make it enjoyable for children to learn. Not all teachers go to that effort unfortunately, but many do. Limiting a child by believing they are too young to do anything other than play is not beneficial to them.
My mother was an incredible preschool teacher for many years and beloved by her students and their parents. She gave everything she had to her classroom. She made sure the children in her class were able to write their names and write short sentences by the end of the school year. Was it the best penmanship? No. But it was a start. Every single child was so incredibly proud of what they accomplished. And she made sure to foster a very fun learning environment, with elements of play, sensory, positive stimulation, and activities that catered to supporting their developmental progress and milestones in ALL areas. She never placed limits on any child, nor made a child feel badly about their skill level, and the results spoke for themselves. All of her students were set up and prepared for their future in elementary school, with a solid foundation in all areas of learning. Those kids thrived because of it, and their little brains soaked it all up as much as they possibly could. Had playing to learn been the only sole focus, those children would have greatly missed out and would have wasted their brains potential at an age where it is geared for learning new things at faster rates than in future years. There is nothing wrong that can come from providing a child with a comprehensive education through multiple modes, avenues, sources and skill sets, from as early of an age as possible, when approached in an appropriate manner and handled in a positive way.
@@Starcatt966uh…. Most if not all children are taught how to write at nursery age. It’s absolutely expected for nursery aged kids to be able to write. They learn it early because it’s easier to pick up then
@@BhappyDright? That comment is so dumb 😂
@@BhappyD not in kindergarten!!! At all!
Back in '96(I think) my middle school was trying to go fully into uniforms beginning the following fall. They came at us with this info within the last month or so before summer break. Teachers were getting a barrage of upset questions every day until they announced an assembly (open to parents) with only a few days left in the year.
The timing of such a thing was sus. The vague wording on the flyers was sus. And the absolute dismissal of questions was super sus... No one wanted uniforms. Half the student body couldn't afford the things they were calling for and we were literally prepubescent children trying to discover our awkward selves in the late 90s... You can imagine the emotions bubbling up.
So assembly rolls around and very few parents are there. My mom was very excited to attend though. We get through end of year awards and announcements and at the very very end they shoehorn in talks about the uniforms. They blather on through expectations and where to buy clothes and then come to where they're obliged to ask if anyone has questions. Mom raises her hand and stands up without waiting to be recognized. Then she belted out, "Are they mandatory?" The students inhaled in unison, the vice principal starts stammering, "Well.. well......uh..." Mom asks again, enunciating hard this time, "Are. They. Mandatory?" VP gives a meek, "no"... Mom thanks her and walks out, patting my shoulder as she leaves. The uproar was as loud as a cafeteria full of sixth graders could possibly be. We were all so relieved. The staff were sat on stage just red-faced and we were just dismissed. They didn't even try to follow that up.
The assembly was held grade by grade and they obviously didn't volunteer the info for the other groups... But the whole school knew by the next day and my mom was a hero. The next year started with a handful of kids in uniforms and some half hearted attempts to boost compliance through incentives... But my mom had become a substitute teacher while she was also going to school for a criminal law degree. Between her dgaf attitude and willingness to fight against administration, they dropped everything relating to uniforms by the end of that year.
Mom was a badass. Everyone loved her and I miss her very much
I was a petty parent when my son started school. It started in Kindergarten a bully wouldn’t leave my son alone so he waited for the other kid to put his hands around the edge of the desk, and then my son slammed two desks together, smashing the bully’s hand, and sending him to the nurse. My son had issues with this kid all the way until the end of middle school in 8th grade. Each time my son defended himself and each time I got involved and would come with contracts I wanted them to sign, affidavits that the principle, and assistant principle would have to sign, since they were the ones Refusing to discipline the bully. They wanted to always punish my son, but never the bully. It all came to a stand still when I had the district official standing behind my son that they complied. By the end of the 8th grade I had to pick up my sons records from school, and in the files was a note that said “warning to High School officials Mom is possible attorney” I 😂😂😂 so hard. I knew the law, but not a lawyer. I just successfully scared the shit out of them, using their same game. 😁
That Dad is the WHIP. His son is going to grow up to be a solid human. LOVE IT.
I called my daughter's principals boss after a very heated argument where she made a ridiculous report that had the cops show up to my house and she was withholding info that they were legally requured to tell me.
For reference, my daughter has moderate to severe autism and is non verbal and the info they withholding was needed for medical reasons.
I also got a teacher fired for lying on their application about their experience with kids on the spectrum.
The school now fears me 🙃
Yess!!! As someone on the spectrum I've seen first hand how most schools treat autistic kids. It always makes my day to see someone push against that.
As they should. Every school should have a healthy fear of parents not the other way around. Our schools have stepped out of their place and parents need to shove them back into it.
We’re talking about a person. You don’t get to own a person. 😂 This so weird. He kidnapped his auntie. 😂
Ppl only do their job when the boss is watching
My daughter is a special education student. A few years ago, she received a new aid, let's just call her M. My daughter was happy that this new aid was one of the ladies from our church, and expected to have a great school year. Soon however, she started coming in with bruises on her arms and in tears. I asked her what happened and she wouldn't tell me. Eventually I demanded to know, and she told me that M had grabbed her arm's, shook her, and called her mean names. When I tried to talk to M, she promptly told me, " The only thing wrong with your child, is that you wont let her grow up!" -wrong and multiple specialists would agree, as would her doctors, and medications- so I tried to talk to the principle. They "assured" me that my daughter must be confused because M had been a teacher for decades, and would never.. then they practically banned me from the school. I called the teachers board and CPS and reported my concerns. This resulted in M grabbing my daughter ( in 2nd grade at the time) and yanking her into a dark class room where she started to shake her and cuss her out...until the lights flipped on. A class has been in there watching a movie, and she was reported. The school does not call me, but once my daughter gets home, I hear about it. So, I drive her back to the school and demand to speak with the principle. For the next hour I get to hear apologies and assurances that this is unprecedented, and I demand that he apologize to my daughter for not believing her. Then I get the satisfaction of commenting on the bottom of M's pink slip, and filling out a report for CPS to investigate the school. My daughter was relieved and happy to prove she was not lying, and I took her for ice cream.
Apparently in first grade we were given a religious assignment in school, where the teacher would read out a statement and we had to write our answer yes/no. It was something along the lines of what it means to be truly alive. I was a literal child: no matter the question, I answered along the lines of: that would suck, but my heart would keep beating, so I would still be alive. Apparently the teacher sent the assignment home with me and asked my mother to review it with me and " explain why I was wrong".
My mom did, in fact, go over the assignment with me. After which she wrote a formal letter to the teacher saying, while she personally would've answered the questions differently, my logic was flawless and should be respected. Also a polite version of "WTF is this assignment anyway? And why are we penalizing kids for using their judgement on moral judgement questions?" I never had any issues with that teacher ever again.
Imagine being in a pandemic, the cafeteria has rules so that the virus wouldn't spread or something, and because a student threw something away without asking which goes directly against those rules, you go and pICK SOMETHING OUT OF THE TRASH TO MAKE A POINT.
I know, it's attempted murder at this point.. she was probably an anti vaxx anyway and just thrived on the military rules
Talk about having behavioral issues 😂
No she made the little girl go pick it out of the trash and hold it
@@goodcitizen-ft9bg 1) No. She clearly said that *the woman* took it out herself and put it back in the girl's hands. 2) How does this nitpick in any way disregard the major point of my comment? Buzz off.
Just tells u how much was tyranny vs science
Not me (I don't have kids), but a friend of mine. Her daughter (9/10ish) was always being picked on by the neighbourhood kids - she has a noticeable limp from a car accident when she was younger, and they tease her relentlessly about it. Whenever she (mom) brings it up with their parents, she is dismissed as being whiney and too overprotective. She lives in a neighbourhood with an HOA and they have certain requirements for holiday decor - in this case Halloween - from the ornaments you could use right down to the candy you gave out. They're doing pretty well, so it was a higher income neighbourhood and they expected "the good stuff" by way of candy. On the list were Ferrero Rocher (divine, but pricey). She, being the compliant neighbour that she is, bought a shitload of Ferrero Rocher chocolate balls and she and her daughter spent the day carefully removing the wrappings, and replacing the chocolate with a Brussel sprout and then carefully wrapped them up again. They then spent Halloween couching, watching movies and pigging out on really top-quality chocolate, while unsuspecting brats were carting the produce section around in their little baggies. I would have loved to be a fly on the wall when they got home and opened them up! The HOA send around a snarky group WhatsApp blast to the members stating how disgusting whoever gave them out was to ruin their children's Halloween. Oh boo-hoo. Stop being whiney!
Trick or treat!
She's amazing. 😂
in middle school I had a teacher who failed me on an art assignment (this was kinda the last straw) my picture was 3d. Colored and shaded beautifully. She failed me because "the background isn't colored in" I had been struggling with this teacher. She tried to teach middle schoolers like they were in college and I had her for 3 classes. So my dad ended up going in and basically ripping her a new one. From then on she was super nice to me.
Not only did that one dad be petty he didn’t take it out on the Karen’s kid! He elevated their birthday while making sure his son was happy yet showed everyone he is awesome and better then her
I'm so here for the dad who gave those kids the best party so his son didn't feel left out and to show up that mom. Like, no one was hurt, kids got an amazing afternoon of fun, son didn't feel left out.
He’s amazing! He reminds me of dads (parents and parental figures in general) in my small town who showed up and showed out for all of the kids in attendance, not just certain ones. Yeah there were shitty people, but I specifically remember the adults who genuinely cared about all of us kids, especially in these group settings. Parents who held their kids accountable for how they treated others, parents who treated us like kiddos should and not just little subordinates.
The issue is if your child becomes too close to certain children things can rub off and no one wants certain things to hinder their children's lives. His views? Probably VERY hindering.
@@DeborahWalkerXOXO what do you mean?
@cait8480 r4c!5m, h0m0ph06!4, s3x!5m. Homes where that is the norm tend to bleed out into the community. He was at the school saying some THINGS and he has M4G4 in his handle? He was definitely saying some THINGS, that I wouldn't want my child to get involved with. I need my children to stay out of jail, not get accused of s3xu4l 454ult one day. Just be a normal person who believes in decency and being good. For real.
I'd like to see the mom's face once the other parents started doing what he was doing
That dad is a great father! I loved how he used kindess in a petty way against the karen and gave the kids a time of their life. That was awesome!
Yeah, that was great. Not the reaction the Karen was hoping to get.
I had a friend turned squatter in my apartment. She stayed over one day, secretly started getting her mail delivered to my house and never left. She just stayed hauled up in my bedroom. I had my brother come over and disconnect all of the power outlets in the bedroom so she couldn’t charge her phone, her laptop or watch TV. Long story short, she started spending her time else where. ❤
The noise I made and the LENGTH of that nosie at 8:40 when he said "the trash or the toilet, ya know, somewhere more respectable" THE SATIRE. I CANNOT. AHHHHHHH
I screamed, “NO!” really loudly. He is a psychopath. You don’t even joke about these things.
One of my teachers in high school told my parents she knew I wasn't going to graduate. I was ALWAYS an honors student and graduated with a 3.8 GPA.
I ended up switching to online school halfway through high school and happened to run into that teacher after graduation at the grocery store. (oh also her husband *WAS* the principal... but that's another story). She walks up to me and just asks "so did you even end up graduating?" and I, appalled at the sheer audacity, look her in the face and cheerily tell her that I did thank you and I graduated salutatorian actually, with honors! Her face was priceless and her husband was trying not to laugh at her lmao.
I had gone over the allotted amount of days I could miss in high school because I was very prone to get strep and I got chicken pox at 17. The school called my Mom and she said yes she is sick and she is at home. Then the principal said I have been reported as truant so my mom got me out of bed got me dressed and took me to the school we marched into the office she stormed into the office she said look at her do you believe me now? The shade of white that the principal and vice principal turned was priceless. We never had problems with excused absences after that.
If you have an illness, they should be creating a 504 plan to accommodate you so you can get instruction and still get credit for your “seat time”. It is required by law.
@@TheBaumcm Oh Hunny this was 1990 and there wasn't much care given at my school.
@@TheBaumcm Even now in the 2020's they don't always do this. I had multiple disabilities (not all were diagnosed at first and the school told me they couldn't do anything until I was diagnosed, then I got diagnosed and they locked me in a room because my disability made me 'too much') and I would just get in trouble for having a disability. I'm pretty sure what my school was doing was heavily illegal and ableist, but I was a child with an anxiety disorder (and I was mute) so they could do whatever and I wouldn't be able to say.
In Canada you could be charged for intentionally bringing someone with a dangerous communicable disease to school, and the school officials could be charged for insisting you do so. The Canadian Quarantine Act has teeth.
The most petty revenge story agsinst an ex I’ve ever heard was shrimp. A woman lost her house her house to her ex during a divorce settlement. The last night she stayed in it she hid cooked shrimp in small crevices, including inside curtain rods.
Her ex husband moved in with his new, younger wife before the smell started. Both went crazy and spent thousands of dollars on professional cleaning, buying new furniture, repainting every room, and replacing the carpet. Failing to rid their home of the smell.
Oooooh what a FABULOUS, FABULOUS PETTY!!! I have no further coherent words. Except to say Thank you! for passing this on 😂😂😂
@20:00 I LOVE THIS DAD AND I'M HERE FOR IT!!!!!!! DO NOT mess with my kids feelings on purpose. This dad is AWESOME!!! His complete takeover of the birthday party is literally the funniest shidd ever!
8:24 I lost it at “burn her little by little” 😂😂😂
Imagine: “Sir, the cremation of your aunt’s toes is complete, bunions included. We are awaiting your payment. We have her ankles scheduled for next week.”
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
Pretty sure it’s illegal to get rid of part of all of the ashes.
😂😂😂
That guy is evil. He does not need to disrespect the dead.
@@user-wt1eo9ho7ipeople dump ashes all of the time ...in the ocean, in the woods, etc. Probably not supposed to do it, but when has that ever stopped anyone.
The irony of her reaching into the trash and giving her the orange back when the whole concern of her getting up was due to covid 😅
Be careful taking what a child says, especially at that age, verbatim. I had a high school student who made it sound to his mother (my colleague) that I was making fun of him for being adopted. He didn’t include that he had said he was lazy because it ran in his family, and I told him that would be like me saying I was white (Indian) because I am also adopted and it runs in my family. His mother came at me at our teacher in service and I asked what exactly he had said. I asked if she was aware, first and foremost, that I am also adopted. When I disclosed the full nature of the conversation, it took a lot of the bluster out of her.
@@TheBaumcm that's true. I was just basing it off what was said.
Fellow toronto people hear! 💕
When I was in middle school I had a Bully witch was my teacher, she did alot of things, but one that I remember is this teacher had the nerve to tell my mother that I wasn't allowed to wear skirts or boots to class (keep in mind I was in a public school, no uniforms) so the next day my mom sent me to class with a skirt AND boots 🤣
Live in Texas and my son's teacher (who is Hispanic) told him flat out that he didnt really go to Mexico. It really upset him ecause basically told him he was a liar in front of his friends. So this past sping break while in Mexico I took plenty of picture and printed them off on my little personal printer and sent them to school with him this morning to show his friends and yeah, his teacher.
As a person who works in the death industry, cemetery sexton, I just want to say that the funeral homes do not weigh the remains or record how much they cremains are left of the person.
It is perfectly legal to dump cremains out, or scatter them, as long as you have the property owners permission to scatter them.
As far as the man holding the cremains from his cousin it is perfectly legal. Even though she would have had to sign off on the cremation since he paid for the services he got the cremains. If the funeral home didnt get paid they would have held the cremated remains until payment was made and after a determined amount of time (set forth in the contract) they could dispose of them (often in the trash) if payment was not made.
I don’t understand pls help is simpler words pls
If you pay you own even if it's your auntie's ashes, what he's doing is legal@@Amf809
That's really not a universal truth. Where I'm from, you're not allowed to keep cremains, scatter them, or dump them. Human remains in whatever form need to be interred in graveyards, even if they're in urns. Alternatively we have forests that meet the regulations of graveyards, where people can buy a plot under a tree and get buried there. Throwing away pieces of the cremains would be SO illegal here. There are serious repercussions for that, with very high fines or up to three years in prison.
@@Amf809 Go back to school, mebbe?
That is what I'm saying!!! But he says he didn't scatter the ashes nor replaced her ashes. He paid for it, pay him back!
Had a teacher that had an entire petty class (though everyone wishes they had gotten the chance to participate she was so aweful). Her entire 5th period class got up and walked out to spend the period in the library regardless of her complaints. When the princepal reviewed the situation he found her to be so lacking as a teacher that he moved her to a library position and when she couldn't do that right she was let go. So thank you 5th period.
wow, i’m curious, what was she doing (or not doing) that caused that big of a unanimous reaction? 🫢
Please tell us what she did to make everyone react this way
The dad at the birthday party (his kid wasn’t invited to) was speaking 100%, unadulterated FACTS!
Best story i have with my mom being petty. I was 17 in my first job and I got sick. Like doubled over vomiting sick.
I had only called out once before because my car got blocked in by a snow plow and the snow was 3 feet deep. I called in and was told tough shit and that I had to come in anyway. My mom was watching me as I was hung up on and I was sobbing. My mom took the phone from me and called them back.
I don't remember much but I do remember after she hung up she told me not to worry and I had the rest of the week off.
When I got back to work, I was told not to worry next time I was sick and to just call the manager directly.
My mom didn't like my best friend's mom from the time she and I were 6 until today, at 40. Never ONCE did she involve us kids or stop us kids from playing or stop us kids from doing *anything* together that was safe, healthy, and well supervised. Because of this, and her mom involving me in my friend's life, I met my husband. So I'm like grateful to both mom and her mom for keeping their petty between them and not us.
I will never understand how some people think it's okay to take things out on precious babies. I get that it was 9 year olds they're still babies they don't deserve to be drug in the middle of grown-up business. You leave babies out of it. Good on him for noticing it right away and for playing the petty card but also still doing it with class❤
My son had a teacher that just hated him in grade 7... had issues with him since beginning of the year, one time he hit my son in the face with a book (his nose bled with that), another incident he threw my sons books out the class, books went flying out the door, papers all over the place, text book included, books were in pieces after that, teacher then proceeds to send me a letter to tell me I need to pay for the text book... to say I was livid would be an understatement, decided bugger that, dug out our piggyback and emptied it out, counted out R150 in 5c and 10c coins (5c being the majority of the coins, probably only had about R10 in 10c).... dumped the coins in a plastic bag, mixed up and not counted out, walked into his classroom, dropped the bag on his table, he looked confused and asked "what this?", told him "it's the money for the textbook that YOU ruined".... he looked defeated and I didn't have to pay for the text book....
The dad is a legend. Not all heros wear capes
Edna Mode : No Capes!
My petty death story: when my bio dad died, uncle and grandma tried (I repeat) TRIED to blame my 14yo brother. I (as the eldest child) was the benefactor of his belongings (he was not a rich man). I made sure they were legally not allowed on the property, and my little brother helped me sort dads belongings. We made sure to put aside ashes and special objects that they wanted. So now, whatever objects of dads they have is out of the kindness of our hearts, even though they were ugly and rude.
It's been nearly a decade and I am still ignored, but know deep down that they can't remember him without thinking of us.
And that is how you do it. The point of being petty is to not lose your soul in the process but address the injustice. Cousin wasn’t being petty, but evil. Petty doesn’t mean disposing of her ashes. Petty would be posting a scripture a day to the cousin about money lending or taking aunty for a ride and posting pics, or saying things like your mom likes me better.
The guidance counselor at my grade school tried to convince my parents that my brother had schizophrenia when he was like 8. When the school made her stop talking to him, she tried to stalk me and my friends for awhile too, but the school made her stop that too. I didn't realize how weird it was until I was an adult.
I had an absolute monster of a grade one teacher. She was so bad I cried everyday going to school. My mum got permission from the principal to come sit in the back of the class for a week and she stared daggers at the teacher the entire time. The teacher never picked on me again.
Re: Light bulbs - make sure you get the bulbs from the microwave, oven, and fridge as well. Especially the little one from the ice dispenser if the fridge has one. You can replace all of them but they'll have to look in the manuals for each of the appliances to figure out what pissy little bulb fits in said appliance and how to put the damn thing back in there
That’s actually a thing it’s called “administrative bullying”. I experienced this as a child and so did my four kids. Thankfully I’m the parent that will be at the school the very next day to hold them accountable. It’s bad enough with bullying from the students but when it comes from the administrators it’s pitiful and unfortunate. Kuddos to this fellow mom. ❤👍👏😊
You should also know that for every administrative bully, there are about 10 kids who like to make stuff up and get adults who actually hold them accountable in trouble. It happened to me, and many of my colleagues. I had all my ducks in a row so they couldn’t do anything but it doesn’t stop them from behaving like this. Both situations are solvable when the parent and teacher behave as the mature adults they pretend to be, with the student’s best interests in mind, to address the issue.
I had a teacher do stuff that was so ridiculously over-the-top. It was automatically assumed that I was lying. And then she put red ink swastikas on my holocaust project. My mom knew that’s not some thing I would even consider lying about, given that I’ve worked on it with my grandmother, who lost siblings. She finally started believing me, but yeah, this was a well repeated teacher at an academic magnet school. That was the cream of the crop of a fairly large city, and she still did shit like that to me.
@@naomikatepp Oh that's too relatable. Reminds me of when I'd have convo's about teachers doing something and I was always hit with the 'Why would they do that? They're a teacher - it's obvious that you're lying' LIKE AHUEANFOIEFN. TEACHERS ARE ALSO JUST HUMANS. THEY CAN BE SHITTY.
That Dad handled things perfectly! 😊
People should never blame the child for something the Dad did.
Well done, Dad!
When life gives you oranges you threw out in the trash, give it back TENFOLD! 🤣
Orange mom clocked the counselor with classsss…no pun intended
The ashes story shows how awful a human can be. Throwing ashes away is cruel and not petty.
I'm going through something similar . I had my mother cremated and because I had a medical emergency my cousin picked up the ashes . She now won't return them and is causing a lot of trouble . It's really upsetting and has caused me so much heartache .
I would love to be thrown after cremation (of course not in the sewer system 😅), but it's illegal where I live 😂
That is just trashy
I hope it was a joke in very bad taste. Otherwise, it is sub-human behaviour.
Why won’t she give your mom back?
I'm not a petty parent but I went silently nuclear on my son's school and it turned out great.
My kid is ADHD. When he was in first grade, he had a very strict homeroom teacher who did not want to cooperate. She had this "I'm the authority here' attitude, she was always right, never listened to suggestions and always said that she never had a student so naughty and by what she said, she had 20 years of proffesional experience.
My kid always lashed out, never wanted to cooperate, he was always walking away from his desk, and sometimes he would run away from classroom, and was very disruptive. So she would call the school's behavioral specialist, psychologist, or counselor. Sometimes all of them. They would get him out of the classroom, out of her hair, usually letting him PLAY in their office. Also I was always getting emails from them and I was at school three times a week.
And this continued, and sometime after the christmas, it escalated so much that I was called for a meeting with like the whole school board, and this was a very weird thing, because only the psychologist was aware that I actually reacted to all of this and I wasn't neglecting my kid, or them. I had a few ideas how to try to fix this situation but I was always shunned by the teacher as I'm not qualified. I was never opposive to her or anything and the whole meeting was everyone rallying against me and the psychologist, and at the end they made me sign a paper - that I am aware that they will call ambulance or police if he is too disruptive to be handled.
And they did, two hours after I left school. So I got a call, as per procedures, I came to school, my kid was already calm, all the specialist ladies were in the classroom, and he was just hanging on the carpet with his 'calm bunny' plush and doing something in his workbook, and just before the ER came in, the behavior specialist lady said that I should agree to them taking my kid away. And I thought fckit, let's see what was the idea all about. So the medics came, they were kinda confused, they said my son is calm so there's no reason to take him, but they had to take us since I agreed to it, we got a ride in the ambulance (my kid was a 7yo boy then, he loved it) while the medic was trying to tell me that I'm getting tossed around by the teacher and I should fight. We went to psychiatric ER. We got some doctor very confused, because I had A LOT of papers from our specialists - I was very serious about therapy, I was doing a lot of leg work going to all of the drs, psychologists, physical therapists, and I even got some parent courses and I had papers on everything. So he gave me another paper, stating that my kid was disruptive and getting him admited to a mental hospital was my schools idea for their problems. And he said that I shouln't let them treat me like this, since clearly I was adressing my son's problems accordingly.
So I went to my son's psychiatrist, to get a note in his papers of this incident, she gave me another paper (just confirming that I adressed this and that my son is in therapy) I went with all the papers to the educational departament that was supervising the school (they run facilities where the students are diagnosed/evaluated and we had papers with diagnosis and his support program that school was obliged to follow), to just you know, report the incident. I did all of this just to cover my ass with all those papers, in case if the school decided that I'm not doing enough and call CPS or something on me.
So the nuclear part is that all those papers and reports started a real avalanche of consequences.
The school was audited, and notified that the support program wasn't done properly. The homeroom teacher lost our class, and was forced on after-school club duty and her contract was reduced to half. My son got 3 more afterschool hours of therapy and counseling from school (which was amazing because he got to hang out in that cool office and I didn't have to ride him around the city to get that therapy). The school got a few thousand FEE from ER for unreasonable call, and the paramedics came next year to school board and parent board meeting to give a talk about reacting procdures for future reference.
We did not have the ambulance there. but the rest was pretty much the same, I still have nightmares of discussing with entitled teachers about how easily my son could be calmed down if they came off their high horse to actually Care enough. I am glad . you also covered all your bases, did the Same here, got praise by all Specialists involved. How would a parent not know more than a teacher? Only we don't have a degree does not mean we study basically everything there's to know about their condition, to help them being their best selves, right? Kudos to you from germany♡
Nice! I love a parent who advocates for their kid(s).
@@zapbutton8553it is frustrating when children are failed by adults, whether faculty or parents, as a former educator. The problem always arises when the student’s interests are subverted for someone’s ego. I had some parents who didn’t want accommodating or diagnosis because that would reflect poorly on them. Just remember that those teachers also deal with parents who couldn’t give a toss less and not all don’t care. These days, teachers have to do more paperwork than the school psychologist just to show they are following accommodations. That doesn’t mean that all of them do but that they are all aware.
I loved that one at the end! That dad should get an award for being a good dad!
I have personally cremated a lot of people. I used to work in a funeral home. I never once weighed anyone's ashes. Maybe it has to do with what state you were cremated in, but in Arizona, it's not a thing. I also have never heard of a cremation costing $5,000 unless they were burned in a casket. Most people are put in a cardboard box and pushed into the retort (big machine that burns bodies) for around $1,200.
As someone who was often not invited to parties, the last story makes me feel happy the kids still had a good time.
I grew up in a single-parent household and we lived in a small town and my class size was only 14 people myself included. Everyone knew everyone and all the parents would throw class-wide parties for their kids every year and would exclude me on purpose every time. Not getting invited to 13 parties a year for 8 years straight stung like crazy. I didn't understand why or even know what I could have possibly done wrong to just be shunned like that... Years later as an adult, my mom told me why. One of the parents got into their head that autism was contagious and they convinced every parent the same (this was in the 90's by the way. Autism wasn't widely understood or well-known in that time) the kids picked up on this attitude and excluded me at school too. It was a crappy, lonely time when there was no reason for it to be like that at all.
Oh my, people can be so stupid. I hope you left this behind for good! Just know you probably did not miss out on the kids raised by those people, lol...
How awful. I’m so sorry you dealt with that.
I’m so sorry you were treated so badly. I’m sending these thoughts to everyone who mistreated you: lost cellphones, flat tires, bad batteries and animals that crawled up into their engines and died on the hottest day of the year. Petty is what petty does!
@@sharim Thanks. I don't really feel as angry towards the kids who excluded me as they didn't know better at the time. A few reached-out and apologized as adults when they realized what they unintentionally did. But the parents had no excuse.
My mom would try to make the most of things on my birthday and we would go have dinner and see a movie. Which built up my love of cooking and cinema 💜
@@CrusifoxMedia I’m glad you’ve forgiven the innocent parties. It does no good to carry negative feelings. I still stand by my sending petty annoyances to the adults, who should have known better!
Petty parent story: My daughter is autistic, and she self-soothes in public places by making strange sounds, singing a little bit, and rocking. We were at a restaurant, sitting in a booth. In the booth behind us is an older woman. Amelia is making her noises and rocking, and this woman keeps giving my daughter the stank eye. Amelia isn't being loud or disruptive, the noises can't be heard over the sounds of everyone talking in the restaurant (unless you're right next to her). Eventually this woman mutters (but loud enough so I can hear) to the person sitting across from her about how I should discipline my daughter better, so she doesn't disrupt people in public. This lit my momma bear fuse. I turned to woman, and loudly asked her "Did your mother teach you to be inconsiderate of disabled people? Because you seem old enough to know better." The look on this womans face was priceless. She had a "well I never" look on her face, rolled her eyes at me, and told the lady sitting across from her that she was ready to go.
My love language is quality time, but my love language to others is baking! I will bake all day every day for those I care about!
The dad who amped up the bday party is awesome. I can usually get along with people like that, even if we don't agree. Especially in towns like that, all the kids have been friends for their whole lives or close to.
The cremation guy is *not* just petty he's malicious and mean. He claims to have loved his aunt but thinks nothing of getting rid of her remains little by little over money (granted $5000 is a pretty big sum in today's economy but still!) and then replacing her ashes with (I think) ashes from burnt pages of the bible and he's proud enough of what he did to post it online. If I were his parents, they'd better make sure their funeral plans are iron clad because you obviously can't trust this man to respect their remains when they depart.
I agree, that is not respectful at all. Is the cousin wrong for doing this to him, yes. But he is wrong to do that. He would not want that done to his mother's ashes.
He’s heartless and nothing is funny or petty about his story
@@rebel1612THANK YOU!
Ummm he’s a big no. The payment plan could have been a reasonable option, with the condition she won’t get the ashes til everything is paid in full. And make a contract for the payment plan. I can’t believe that he actually disposed of some of the ashes!
Yeah he's vindictive. clearly there. There's more issues there but for him to just do that and then lie and replace the ashes. No matter what he's replacing them with is just completely out of pocket. He can get sued. I hope somebody who knows them sees it and lets her know and he has to face some sort of charges for improper disposal over body or something
I feel bad for the birthday kid too because that kid probably didn't have a saw in posters son not being invited. They are all friends, mom probably told her son some bs lie as to why is friend didn't come. Good on all the other dads that pitched in and helped posters kid feel included too! Gold Medal for best dad goes to poster for sure ❤
20:46 BEST DAMN PARENT!!! 👏🙌👏🙌👏🙌
Literally have tears welling up!
The repair men took the light bulbs out in the hallways at work, and then they didn't replace them. People were stressing out over the dark hallways and because it was a small chandelier that had unique
bulbs, and no one knew what kind to get. I grabbed a flashlight and got the code for the light bulbs that were needed off the part you screw the bulb into. At first, my manager was telling me that I was wrong and that it was just the number for the chandelier model, but my coworker typed the number into the computer and up popped the light bulb. We bought the bulbs. I screwed them in, and as I flicked the switch on, I turned my head slowly towards my manager. Gave her a petty smirk, winked, then walked away.
My manager at the time had a "everyone is wrong all the time except for me. I'm smarter than everyone else" type of mentality. Even though most of the time, she ended up being wrong. We'd get into a weekly fight with her because she'd always end up making the schedule to where no one was working for at least 2 hours a day or even a full day and refused to see the error. At some point, all of us got fed up and created the team of petty and spite.
My brother in law broke into my first home and flipped everything in my house upside down. Everything. My couches, chairs, soaps, pantry food…. My cases of waters.. even my bedroom. They flipped my dressers, my whole house was upside down. My revenge came years later when he wasn’t doing so great and had to move in with his mom. I took habanero peppers crushed them and took the oils and smeared them on the crotch of his underwear… all of them, in the Texas heat. It wasn’t just flipping my furniture that got me to this place. He wasn’t the best person to be around. He is better now😂
My son isn't old enough for me to have been petty yet, BUT I can share a story about my mom from when I was little. When I was in elementary school, my teacher harped on AR reading/points (reading and taking a comprehensive quiz about the book basically) To a ridiculous extent. Well, this teacher would put me in lunch detention, take away recess, take away any free time because I was not getting enough "points." So I just read books WAY below my reading level, or I would just look up books and take the AR test for them. This made her more mad, so we called a parent-teacher conference. At this time, my mom was single, worked and was trying to get into a nursing program- so she got very annoyed if the school called about something ridiculous. So during this meeting, after the teacher explains everything, my mom just sits back and says "you're mentally fighting with a 7 year old, and she's winning. The fact that this is bothering you so bad, and she is not affected says a lot." And then my mom would take the books for the rest of the year, write summaries for them and i would test with the summaries.
My beautiful brown skin daughter came home, early from her high school upset because her cheerleading coach screamed at her for not wearing the proper gear (white bra and white panties) under the white uniform. She said she tried to explain why she couldn’t wear white underwear, but the coach cut her off, said she was talking points for not having the proper white underwear, and told her to leave.
I went straight up to the school, walked, into the gym and surprise she was screaming at another student.
I asked if I could speak to her. she said to come to her office. I smiled and said “oh no, it won’t take long, right here is fine”. (I wanted to talk to her in front of witnesses, and also in front of the same audience that she likes to scream at). I kindly asked her why they were required to wear only white undergarments. And I stressed ONLY white undergarments. She replied “so the underwear wouldn’t show through the white uniforms.” I smiled and said, “may I show you something?” I pulled out a white square swatch of material and a brown one, laid them both across my brown arm, and then put my arm inside of my daughter’s uniform. The white material showed through easily, but the brown material was undetectable. I said to her, “My daughter was trying to explain to you that, as her skin tone was brown, brown undergarments would be work better with the white uniform.” And then I gave her the squinty eyes death stare, gave her the squinty eyes death stare, gave her the squinty eyes, death stare…. I said “So…if she chooses to continue with cheerleading, after today, she will be wearing her skin-tone color undergarments that don’t show through with the white uniform.” I looked at the other girls, and apologized to them for interrupting and then I thanked the coach for her time. When she got home from school the next day, she told me the girls were saying your mom is so awesome.
Forget the light bulbs, just unscrew every socket , cut the wires and then screw the socket plate back on. So they can run all over the house from one socket to the other to charge a phone and having zero idea why it’s not working. Flipping breakers and stuff. Good thing I’ve been married twelve plus years and growing. Alhamdulillah. Because otherwise I would be really petty 🤣
The Dad @ 18:47ish Right on! My kid was in a 'special ed' class,
The stupid teachers called the garbage pail kids when they thought no one was listening.
They were starting to integrate the schools, and a lot of these kids lived in a group home.
It is amazing how many handicapped kids lived in group homes or convalescent hospitals
They didn't get invited to birthday parties, My kid had DMD so he had a minimal amount of birthdays so I did the best I could to make them the best one yet.
One year we had a big Pirate Party, we had an accessible play pirate ship made around a tree,
as soon as the kids came in there were little booths & they got a tattoo & a beard or mustache & a bandana & I sewed big hoops on the bandanas so they had the pierced ears, and then we had a treasure hunt only one or two parents came & stayed,
But we got those that stayed to play & help.
It was great we did a big fake out during the treasure hunt, they had to find hidden scrolls, to undo the clues that lead to the 'Treasure of the Blue Shark'!
It took me weeks to figure out & make the scrolls, my Mom found a pinata
That was a Blue Shark hence the name! And It was too hard for these kids to get trad. pinata, it was too hard to get on the ground, etc... I made special Bootle Bags of treasure
They had beads & candies & all kinds of stuff fake tattoos wax mustaches, all kinds of stuff It was great how these kids all made sure everyone got a bag or two the able-bodied kids helped the kids that needed it. It was one of the best parties ever.
Even if I do say so myself. I had a blast the older kids had a blast outfitting the little pirates as they came it.
This is one of my favorite of his BDays. the follow up is a few years later.
I was at work, my son had passed away about five years before this, &
I was taking the garbage out or something & a young woman in a power wheelchair
called out my name, I turned and walked back to her she said, IDK if you remember I am &
said her name, I said, "Oh! of course, you came to the, (we kinda said it together),
Pirate Party!"
I said, yes, I remembered her and thanked her again for coming because a lot of times
Not all kids could come when invited. So, it was good when she could, she stopped me,
She said, "I saw you & couldn't miss the opportunity to tell you,
Thank You so much. That party was the only one I ever went to,
Being in the group home it was very hard for them to allow me to accept any invites,
being able to spare an aide to drive her & stay with me for a whole afternoon.
Thank you, I never had as much fun as I did at Taylor's party, thank you again."
Then her aide was back & she had to go, I told her how wonderful to see her all grown up!
She was so sweet & kind, I remember when I was giving out invites one of her aides was picking her up, I gave her the invite, and I told them that it was a powerchair accessible 'cause my son was in one, & that there would be a ton of people to help & she'd be fully supervised & she was welcome to join in, I was so happy that she and most of the other kids showed up.
It is weird but even though there was no way my kid could get others sick or anything.
He had DMD, not the plague, but more than a few, once they found out he was terminally ill,
They just start to create space between the kids & the next thing you notice,
no more party invites from other kids, play dates are broken than never rescheduled,
We are so sorry, life is so busy, maybe in a few weeks when things calm down..?
But that call never came.
It was sad that the kids didn't understand why, but they also stopped asking after a while.
I guess if you gonna go petty this man's way is one of the best!
He deserves the Dad of the Year award! IMHO
It is all for & about the kids! All the kids need to be included!!!!!
Sorry about the short novel, but I really needed to share! peace!
What a sweet memory and meeting that young lady remembering it so fondly as well, you also earn a reward. I don't know if I should be sad for your loss or happy that you can talk about the good time you gave him, because i think that is probably what matters in the end... So I will be both and take this with me, thank you for sharing!❤
The last dad telling his story is a GEM!!!!
Ultimate petty revenge, fish juice. Pour that into a bowl with a paint brush. Go to every air vent in the house paint the INSIDE with the juice. Entire house will reek for months. Bonus points for throwing a small piece as far in as possible. This also works for light switches, they will never know!
OMG the one where the person just replied in a comment saying they stole the tv tenured when they broke up and they would go sneak up to the house and turn the tv off - that's just the gift that keeps on giving. Tv remotes are usually set to a standard frequency, so it wouldn't even matter if he got a new tv. She could just get bored one night, go to the house, and flick off his show whenever she wanted! 😂😂😂😂
I love how that dad handled the entire situation and king mentality to him❤❤❤
(Mortician here to give some fun facts)… as far as cremation goes, some religions require final disposition to take place within 2 days (but that’s usually for burial not cremation) …
Also, withholding ashes from someone is a form of holding someone for ransom (big no no)
Also, Also, crematoriums usually weigh people BEFORE cremation (for the retort aka where the cremation takes place) not typically after the cremation process (adult cremains typically weight around 5lbs) --
feel free to ask questions folks ❤
Meh it's his auntie and he paid for it. She can have it back when she pays. He should definitely keep them safe though
@@brookeelizabeth808 lol not my pony, not my show. Just wanted to inform people from a professional standpoint.
@@brittwalton77 Question on it being considered "holding for ransom".
Would it still be considered as such, considering HE paid for her ashes while not being next of kin? Or does him being the one who executed and paid for that service give him a leg to stand on in terms of withholding?
Also, funeral homes may cremate when requested before payment, but often won't release the ashes to you without full payment either (in my experience), so wouldn't that also amount to "holding someone for ransom?" Just curious if the funeral homes I've interacted with are doing something illegal, or if this rule only applies to private citizens, and in what cases it would apply to a private citizen.
(Though it wouldn't surprise me if the experiences I had with my funeral home were illegal, as they made my Dad sign my Mother's death certificate and put down her SSN, and in his grief he accidentally wrote down his own SSN and was considered legally dead for about 7 months. I only found out YEARS later from a mortuary worker I knew, that in our state at least, my father signing the death certificate and writing the info like SSN is highly illegal and something they were not legally allowed to have him do, because of the exact issue than ensued).
To be clear I fully believe this guy is cruel, out of line, and should've just set up a payment plan or taken her to small claims court (him talking about 'wasting his precious time' is ridiculous, if he feels that strongly about a few days in court and missing work he could include the wages he'd be missing for those court dates as part of what he wished to be reimbursed for by his cousin, OR he should've refused to help with the payment altogether if he wasn't willing to go to court, considering he didn't expect to be paid back before he ever had the service paid for. Seems purposefully vindictive if it isn't rage bait). Plus, getting rid of the ashes of an Aunt he claims he loved is BEYOND out of line, legally and morally-but I was just wondering about the details of the law for curiosities sake. I've considered the mortuary field heavily, though I'm not currently in school for it, but I find it interesting to see where lines are drawn legally when it comes to corpses in the hands of next of kin vs other family members, funerary businesses vs private citizens, etc.
I had my husband cremated, his idea, and I still have him in the spare room closet, in the bag they gave me with the American flag because he was in the Air Force for five years! He would approve as it only cost $1500 and he was a tight wad.
I love the adult attitude of the dad at the kid's BD party. He saved his son's feelings and showed the mom what a grown up parent does.
Nooo the ashes story is crazy he’s a literal monster lol not only is he dishing out his aunts ashes over the balcony but he also burned pages from the Bible!!!! He’s wild 😂😂🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
This guy was so creative and inclusive in his petty revenge ! He got that Karen bad, wile making everybody else happy.
I love that man that took matters into his own hands and said its not the children's fault that you're offended look for your invite
oh my God, I love the car door idea! Can’t wait to use it thank you our pretty petty potato princess for posting petty programming! Stay petty!!
Okayyyy to the dad who hijacked that party, I used to live in a super small town as well where everyone knows everyone’s business. That type of petty stuff actually did happen and my sister and I were the victim to one of those parents wrath once but my mom made sure that we didn’t know about it and took over coaching my little cheerleading team just so we wouldn’t know and not be let down. I love my mom and that dad sounds like a good dad. We all just need Jesus honestly cause he does this kind of stuff out of pure and honest love.
Amen. Truly, more ppl need to hear of His love. All they ever seem to hear is from ppl who have never tried to read the Bible
With the cookie fiasco, I would follow up by calling the intended recipient and saying "Hey, I forgot if you are allergic to nuts or not. I hope those cookies were OK with you." Team lead: Um, what cookies? Cue chaos, grab popcorn, and enjoy the show.
19:00 the sound effects of Charlotte drinking made me laugh, spill my coffee and stub my toe... That's comedy gold, gold Jerry. Gold!
Fam, there are like three standard sizes of lightbub screw (or whatever it's called In english), and it's usually one for desk lamps, one for celling ones and so one, depending of the size of the lamp. Every place selling lightbulbs will know what to sell you. When it comes to shape, tone of light and power there are thousands of combinations. But you can buy something that will work easily, and then figure out your preferences.
When I was in 7th grade (1998-9), there was a 9th grader who wore Scooby Doo PJ pants to school, EVERY DAY. He had so many diff pairs! They updated the dress code specifically not allowing PJs. My SIL gave me a pair of drawstring plaid dress pants that'd I'd worn a few times. My 1st period b*tc# of a teacher & her equally b*tc# teacher friend across the hall sent me to the principal's office before class started & I was sent home for wearing PJs. This happened on the Monday the new dress code went into effect. My dad was PPPPPIIIIIIIISSSSSSSEEEEEEEDDDDD!!!!! He printed pages of clothing ads off Bill Gates Dial Up internet & cut out all the plaid pants, dresses, skirts, socks, blazers, etc. Then, strategically glued them onto a typed letter to the school. Similar to using candy bars/food wrappers to write something. He hand delivered it the next day after dropping me off in the same outfit that he washed while creating his masterpiece. He washed it each night & I wore it everyday for the rest of the week.
The scream I let out when he said he was treating her nice and they went to Walmart and everything!!! LMAO... :) I cannot stop laughing...lol OK WAIT... HE IS CRUEL... NOT LAUGHING NOW.
People used to do “belling” w/ newlyweds, where, originally, they’d stand outside their homes on their wedding night & ring bells & make noise. In more recent times, other pranks began being initiated-the removing lightbulb thing was a favorite. Another favorite was tying bells to the bottom of their bed, filling rooms w/ balloons, tying the chair legs together under the table, etc. The lightbulb thing, though, is a favorite.
9:03 Each and every week, send her a video of you holding teaspoon in a different location and show the contents blowing away in the breeze… A nice park, the seaside, a forest… Just let her think it’s her mother disappearing a teaspoon at a time.
Enjoy the intentional infliction of emotional distress lawsuit.
“Petty?” Try fucking unhinged
15:41 just sitting here, imagining him bumping around his house in the dark, trying to use the light on his phone to navigate his new life of no working lamps 🤣
My brother’s sixth grade teacher was one of the worst bullies ever. Keep in mind this was the 1970’s, today the man would have been jailed. He would force students to eat everything on their tray regardless of anything they said. My brother had severe food allergies. These were well documented in his files. Plus my brother knew everything he was allergic to and knew to avoid it. The teacher had all of this information, and still insisted my brother eat peas. This ended with an emergency room visit. The next day my mom informed the principal of the bill. She explained, he hired a bully and an idiot, so he could either pay the ER bill, as well as the hours she lost at work, or explain it to the school board. He paid the bill. But sadly, not really, both the teacher and the principal were fired before the year was over. The principal for buying outdated milk and meat, pocketing the rest of the money and the teacher for worse actions. The principal got jail time, sadly the teacher didn’t.
The steal the light bulb idea, you could go one step further and hide the fuses out of the fuse box and hide them round the house, like one in the cups at the back if the cabinet he never uses, one down the back of a chair, one in his dress shoes, one behind a book, make sure one or two are easy to find.
Petty ideas, take the chain from the toilet tank. Make cuts in the seals of all plumbing, make the curtain rods uneven, spray something smelly on the back of picture frames, put gum on the bottoms of their shoes. I've never actually done petty stuff like that but dang it sounds fun.
Ah, perfect. My Sunday is being filled with petty goodness.❤ My little story: I take care of my niece and one year the teacher bitched about her lavender body spray. It really was subtle, but the teacher made it a big deal(she was not allergic). So for her last day, I gave her a basket filled with lavender scented soap, body wash, spray and scented candle. She was pretty miffed and I made sure to be extra nice. So yeah..😅
Awesome 😅😂❤
How do you know she wasn't allergic? I'm allergic to lavender. It gives me migraines, and I start itching.
Also studies show the scent of lavender can be triggering for people with abandonment issues for some reason.
@@joannecraft9842 My niece asked her and she told her no, but found it offensive and suggested vanilla instead as it was more to her liking. I mean fair enough, but she embarrassed her in front of everyone and would do out of line things such as make her speak despite her having a stutter and anxiety. I had to put her in a different school with teachers who could get her therapy and were more patient with her. I wouldn’t have done such a thing if she was nice about it.
@@fibanocci314 I didn’t know that :/. My goal was not to trigger her, but I mean it seriously when I say thanks for letting me know.