Woman Stalked by Her Ex-Boyfriend Has a Warning for Unsuspecting Women
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- Опубліковано 24 січ 2022
- Aziza Murphy went viral on social media after sharing the frightening details of her ex-boyfriend stalking her relentlessly for months. From creating fake profiles online to calling more than 1,000 times per day, and even breaking into her mother’s home-Aziza’s ex would stop at nothing to get to her. She opens up in an episode titled, “Watch Your Back,” with a warning for unsuspecting women.
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Ladies here are a few tips to look out for: 1. moving to quickly ( trying to move in, asking for a key, talking about long term too soon)2. Love bombing and then picking fights just to repeat the cycle 3. Accusing you of flirting or cheating with every man who's not related to you 4. Going through your things without permission, your phone, laptop, storage boxes, closet etc. 5. Talking badly about the women he dated before you 6. If he treats everyone like crap but is nice to you...your turn is coming 7. if he's over 30 and has a trail of short term relationships and no real friends 8. if he starts asking questions in a way that seems like he's compiling data but never shares the same amount of info 9. If you've dated for a month and don't have concrete/verifiable info about his life before you 10. If he tries to guilt you or coax you into spending all your time with him and less or no time with family and friends.......RUN!!!!!!
This is perfect and the exact things that happened. Thank you for sharing
Exactly….my stalker had several of those traits
@@azizamurphy You're welcome. I went through a similar experience and I wish someone would have told me some of the warning signs. I'm glad that you and I both got out safely 💛
You got it right
This!!!!
As a black woman stop caring about what the cops are going to do to a black man who might kill you or your children.
Thank you!!! My mouth dropped when I heard that part smh
Yes!
A lot of black women feel this way, my mother included. They don't realize self love and love and protection for your children must come first.
Not all b men murder b women what about wm that kill bw black woman are not protected from all races of men
I’m sick of these crazy ass men trying/killing these beautiful Black Women. Black Women go get you a FOID Card. Go learn how to use a Gun. And then SMOKE HIS ASS!!! Never let your Guard down. Law Enforcement don’t give two rats asses. Protect Yourself at all cost.?
Singleness is becoming more and more attractive everyday.
You'd better say it...
Straight facts & its sad and scary.💯
@@chriselain36rakes89 I say it all the time VERY SCARRRY!
u don't have to be in a relationship for this to happen. please don't let this be a reason
I'm still holding on to me. It's crazy out there.
Why is his picture being blurred. He is a convicted criminal.
The show does not want to be sued.
You can find his picture online. Seti Yasin
@@BooHooGuessWho Thank you
Exactly
He” is a Transman that’s Why PD didn’t take as a high priority
The sad thing is the police won't do anything until the victims defend themselves and then the VICTIM is treated like the criminal! Our society is so broken....
True
NOW she should obtain a CCW & Train like a Mf!!!!Stay Safe💜🙏🏽🙌🏽💪🏾👑
Yeah the police let these ppl get worse
So true and it’s so sad
Or the police won't do anything until the victim wine's up dead which is very sad and messed up indeed. This so-called "Justice System" is not an ally for innocent victims at all. Smh. 😔
The authorities treat stalkers the way educators treat bullies....Things aren't serious until the victim take matters in their own hands. So much could be prevented if/when those in the position could do whatever it takes to make that person feel safe. Just like a child/student shouldn't feel afraid to go to school....A woman/man shouldn't be afraid to be in their homework, work, etc. Stalkers need to feel there are serious consequences to their actions
A new Song From Isaiah 43:2
"You Said " by Steven F Gooden
YOU MOVED OVER THE VOID & SPOKE
THRU SPACE & FILLED THE EMPTINESS
THE DARK GAVE WAY & LIGHT CAME IN
YOU SPOKE THE WORD AND ALL BEGAN
YOU SAID 3X
YOU SAID THEN MAN TOOK HIS 1RST
BREATH
YOU SAID LIVE & LIFE ROSE DEFEATING DEATH
YOU SAID YOU SAID 2X
YOU SAID THAT
I WILL BE WITH YOU
THROUGH THE FLOOD AND FIRE
ILL PROTECT YOU I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOIN THRU
BUT KNOW THAT I AM WITH YOU
YOU SAID 3X
YOU'RE NOT ALONE IKNOW JUST WHAT TO DO
HOLY HOLY ARE YOU LORD
MIGHTY AND THE ETERNAL ONE
ABBA FATHER I LOVE YOU
MORE AND MORE
YOU SAID MY NAME AND
CALLED ME YOUR OWN
I KNOW I'M NOT ALONE.
ISAIAH 43:2
I WILL BE WITH YOU
YOU SAID
בבקשה
Fully agree.
Hi educator here….I never dismiss a claim of bullying. I have had to address everything from a parent telling me a child told there child “nah nah nah nah boo boo”…to students saying “they are mean to me”. The claims are always addressed the first time I’m told. Even though the definition of bullying according to the government is that the behavior happens more than once.
This comment should be pinned. Facts 💯!
I can totally relate to what you're saying
I remember her story playing out in real time on Twitter. It was so sickening and so disgusting how this man was standing on her front porch and the stories that she was telling us. The Baltimore police was no help to her. Women please get a GUN or two. They are out here killing black women left and right just for not going on dates with them. We are so sick of this.
That was a trans men yes it wrong but now do we have to worry about that too and should biological male get the blame for trans men actions
@@naturalbeauty5028 The Answer is No! You Shouldn’t get blamed for a Trans Man’s Action And Or Anyone’ Else’s Action For That Matter! Your Only Responsible For What You Do And How You Conduct Yourself!
I agree
@@naturalbeauty5028 wait… what?? Idc if it was a woman stalking, harassing, and threatening another woman. My statement still stands. Period.
@@NiaJByas yea I'm confused by homegirl comment
The way the police mishandle abused women is disgusting. Smh. He didn't hurt you yet.. wtf
I know it's sick =(
So true. They say that they have to put their hands on you, first. WTH?
True.. Until its one of them.
Gabbie Petito
They’re notoriously wife beaters themselves, they probably have sympathy for the devil.
Narcissist are an all time high now or we finally have a word for it now! Ladies and gentlemen, be careful.
REAL TALK,ON A ALL TIME HIGH!!
facts. Had my ex do the same thing. It’s scary
I think we finally have a word for it
Absolutely. Thanks to the university of FB I am well educated on the spectrum of narcissist, terms etc. I now realize that narcissist are everywhere ie work, family, friends 🤦🏾♀️
Low key going threw it now
18 months sentence is NOT good enough after he puts her through HELL
The justice system protects criminals
Exactly
You took the words out of me. I so agree!
I didn't hear what the charge was or if she got a restraining order. I'm wondering what he was actually convicted of this time and in other cases. She needed an attorney to represent her interests
Just to turn around and repeat the same hell to another unsuspected woman.
Traits of a narcissist:
- They try to move in with you quickly
-Claims he's "in love" with you within a short time
-They force gifts on you that you don't want and didn't ask for and they are insulted if you refuse them (lovebombing)
-They send you several texts, phone calls, or IG messages in a row without waiting for a reply from you
-You give them your number and all of a sudden you get random people texting you claiming they have the wrong number (it's him impersonating)
-Your friends and family start to turn on you for no reason and they think that you are disgusting (he is spreading gross lies behind your back)
-He tries to use other people to appeal to get you back after you have dumped him (flying monkeys)
-Future faking
-Very persistent, doesn't take no for an answer
-Tries to isolate you from people (usually by turning you against each other)
-Probably already has someone as they do not value loyalty to anyone in a relationship
-Is secretly bise*ual, not kidding about this one
This is all true never again stay away from these creeps run
I'm sorry, do you know my ex? Holy shit even the last trait is on point. lol are we all dating the same lunatic
Yes she is brave. And other women need to speak out against him and others like him. Because he's gonna do it again.
A new Song From Isaiah 43:2
"You Said " by Steven F Gooden
YOU MOVED OVER THE VOID & SPOKE
THRU SPACE & FILLED THE EMPTINESS
THE DARK GAVE WAY & LIGHT CAME IN
YOU SPOKE THE WORD AND ALL BEGAN
YOU SAID 3X
YOU SAID THEN MAN TOOK HIS 1RST
BREATH
YOU SAID LIVE & LIFE ROSE DEFEATING DEATH
YOU SAID YOU SAID 2X
YOU SAID THAT
I WILL BE WITH YOU
THROUGH THE FLOOD AND FIRE
ILL PROTECT YOU I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOIN THRU
BUT KNOW THAT I AM WITH YOU
YOU SAID 3X
YOU'RE NOT ALONE IKNOW JUST WHAT TO DO
HOLY HOLY ARE YOU LORD
MIGHTY AND THE ETERNAL ONE
ABBA FATHER I LOVE YOU
MORE AND MORE
YOU SAID MY NAME AND
CALLED ME YOUR OWN
I KNOW I'M NOT ALONE.
ISAIAH 43:2
I WILL BE WITH YOU
YOU SAID
בבקשה
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
A mammy will date him next and blame her or probably go after her with him.
@@luxbeauty4952 y'all need to stop with this mammy $#!+. Y'all get a new term and run it in the ground. Be creative! Why was that even necessary for this video, situation or my comment? Ridiculous. This mammy stuff is mad disrespectful! Find a new term or better yet stop pointing the finger and worry about YOUR soul and how you're impacting/helping others. Because that ain't it!
@@sabrina21clark no it’s going to stand. A mammy would justify his crazy and partner with him hurting other black woman because of their kanngz
This happens more than we think. This could've ended much, much worse!
A new Song From Isaiah 43:2
"You Said " by Steven F Gooden
YOU MOVED OVER THE VOID & SPOKE
THRU SPACE & FILLED THE EMPTINESS
THE DARK GAVE WAY & LIGHT CAME IN
YOU SPOKE THE WORD AND ALL BEGAN
YOU SAID 3X
YOU SAID THEN MAN TOOK HIS 1RST
BREATH
YOU SAID LIVE & LIFE ROSE DEFEATING DEATH
YOU SAID YOU SAID 2X
YOU SAID THAT
I WILL BE WITH YOU
THROUGH THE FLOOD AND FIRE
ILL PROTECT YOU I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOIN THRU
BUT KNOW THAT I AM WITH YOU
YOU SAID 3X
YOU'RE NOT ALONE IKNOW JUST WHAT TO DO
HOLY HOLY ARE YOU LORD
MIGHTY AND THE ETERNAL ONE
ABBA FATHER I LOVE YOU
MORE AND MORE
YOU SAID MY NAME AND
CALLED ME YOUR OWN
I KNOW I'M NOT ALONE.
ISAIAH 43:2
I WILL BE WITH YOU
YOU SAID
בבקשה
The thing is it hasn't ended. He got 18 months not life. We as women have to protect ourselves with arms. The cops, the courts have failed me and countless other women. Triggering af.
Facts
It ain't over I pray for her 🙏
You are so right about that. It ends badly for so many....I just pray he serves that time because most don't even with a record like mine had or he had before her.
See, this is why WE as women have to check a Man out. Get that background Check. It's worth your LIFE~
Sometimes men that stalk don't even have a record because the victims are too afraid to go to the police.
A new Song From Isaiah 43:2
"You Said " by Steven F Gooden
YOU MOVED OVER THE VOID & SPOKE
THRU SPACE & FILLED THE EMPTINESS
THE DARK GAVE WAY & LIGHT CAME IN
YOU SPOKE THE WORD AND ALL BEGAN
YOU SAID 3X
YOU SAID THEN MAN TOOK HIS 1RST
BREATH
YOU SAID LIVE & LIFE ROSE DEFEATING DEATH
YOU SAID YOU SAID 2X
YOU SAID THAT
I WILL BE WITH YOU
THROUGH THE FLOOD AND FIRE
ILL PROTECT YOU I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOIN THRU
BUT KNOW THAT I AM WITH YOU
YOU SAID 3X
YOU'RE NOT ALONE IKNOW JUST WHAT TO DO
HOLY HOLY ARE YOU LORD
MIGHTY AND THE ETERNAL ONE
ABBA FATHER I LOVE YOU
MORE AND MORE
YOU SAID MY NAME AND
CALLED ME YOUR OWN
I KNOW I'M NOT ALONE.
ISAIAH 43:2
I WILL BE WITH YOU
YOU SAID
בבקשה
@@poodle3927 Exactly. Only God knows the heart of her man. The first thing she said was he was kind and loving. Only God can choose for me. "And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light." 2 Cor 11:14
@@lareinelester685 I don't think any woman with children should be online meeting men because that's so dangerous. Even not meeting a man in person is dangerous. Ari Lennox is a friend of hers. Why didn't this girl take the route Ari took??? Once this guy went on this girls phone and found she was talking to another man it just made things worse.
@@poodle3927 In today's time, it doesn't even matter where you meet men. Most of them come as angels of light and turn into devils. I know several people who met their spouses online and have been happily married for years. So I'm not going to knock it. I personally don't but I don't judge those who do. My problem is most women don't have a relationship with God to allow Him to choose. He is the only one who can read the hearts of men.
Can we talk about the men who also use other women to help stalk you?! There are some seriously messed up people who dislike you simply on the word of another. Don’t know you from a can of paint and will want to help him harm you.
Omg yes we can talk about it! Thanks for bringing this to the conversation. It's real real out here.
That is so weird. Why can't they think for themselves
I can relate to that. Smh
This is ridiculous. When a woman says it’s over, why can’t some men just let them go. My prayers go out to this woman and her family. It makes me so mad that she had to put this on social media to get a HELPFUL response from the police.
I agree! Women should feel safe and protected by police not like they are crazy or unworthy of protection. It's time we had better laws for women!
Because these are not normal individuals. They have issues stemming from many things.
Agreed, this is a problem for all women but especially black women. I think the system is overwhelmed with all the stalking cases. They run from harassing texts/phone calls that eventually stop to men actually trying to kill these poor women.
What makes this story even more layered is that her ex is biologically a woman (transgender) and many police don’t care to get involved with LGBT issues and possibly why her ex slipped through the cracks.
She also didn’t mention how she lost her job behind this situation because he showed up to her job harassing her.
May God
continue to Cover
and Bless her in Jesus Mighty Name
Went through the exact same thing
for 3 years.
The level of psychological and spiritual warfare this brings is almost unbearable.
So Glad you lived to Tell your Experience
I have this guy that's still calling me.
Even though he's blocked I can still see if he's called. Such a weirdo.
Leave people alone if they're done. People have the right to choose!
Tell the police!
I stalked my ex boyfriend for 22 years. F that b n. He tried to give me hiv. He knew he had hiv and still went with me and did not tell me. Luckily the b did not give it to me. I told him he can't call the police because I know several others he gave it too. Now the b n is dying of aids and I still send that b n dirty emails. Got what he deserved.
"Look mom you did such a good job." That little boy is so precious!
A new Song From Isaiah 43:2
"You Said " by Steven F Gooden
YOU MOVED OVER THE VOID & SPOKE
THRU SPACE & FILLED THE EMPTINESS
THE DARK GAVE WAY & LIGHT CAME IN
YOU SPOKE THE WORD AND ALL BEGAN
YOU SAID 3X
YOU SAID THEN MAN TOOK HIS 1RST
BREATH
YOU SAID LIVE & LIFE ROSE DEFEATING DEATH
YOU SAID YOU SAID 2X
YOU SAID THAT
I WILL BE WITH YOU
THROUGH THE FLOOD AND FIRE
ILL PROTECT YOU I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOIN THRU
BUT KNOW THAT I AM WITH YOU
YOU SAID 3X
YOU'RE NOT ALONE IKNOW JUST WHAT TO DO
HOLY HOLY ARE YOU LORD
MIGHTY AND THE ETERNAL ONE
ABBA FATHER I LOVE YOU
MORE AND MORE
YOU SAID MY NAME AND
CALLED ME YOUR OWN
I KNOW I'M NOT ALONE.
ISAIAH 43:2
I WILL BE WITH YOU
YOU SAID
בבקשה
Don’t do that! These monsters can have the most amazing parents n still be sick in the head.
@@lynzypooh80 Yeah, because the amazing parent who didn't mean any didn't correct their entitlement behavior from the jump.
@@sherrisolomon2843 girl please.. I’m speaking from experience! My best friend had the most amazing parents.. she was just unruly and rebellious disgusting. So like I said.
Amen that she did!!! He will be a loving and real man too.
I hate that so many of us can relate to her story.
I can’t
Never had a man stalk me guess I’m not pretty enough
Ikr? It's devastating. She's a reflection of many ladies out there. I'm glad she spoke out
January is Stalking Awareness Month. Stalking is a crime in all 50 states. Thank you for shedding light on this awful crime that is often overlooked.
Yes! It’s a crime, but what should you do? Throw the restraining order at the perpetrator???
A 9 millimeter costs WAAAAAYYYYY LESS than moving from place to place! Get you a nice firearm, get training to use it, and don’t let ANYONE know you have it! Then STAND YOUR GROUND as the police are always screaming…. “I had to stand my ground because I feared this black man was gonna kill me”.
Smith& Wesson semi automatic runs around $700 in the DMV area, I know because I got one! So it’s gonna be me or you and it sure ain’t gonna be me! FACTS
An insecure man with an ego and flawed reasoning is a deadly combination.
I'm so glad she is here to tell her story.
Is it because the police departments are made up mostly of men that these issues are not taken seriously?
The fact that it took social media for the police to do their damn job is insane.
This is why so many of our Black people go missing or murdered and nothing gets done about it or not as quick as white people.
You know why If he killed her a lot of people would be losing there jobs they couldn't say they didn't know because the whole world knew nothing was done to protect her
My sister went through the same thing. After trying to leave several times, she was finally able to do so. She got no help from anyone, because his parent was a sheriff. Years later after relocating, FBI came to her house (had remarried) Her ex was on the run after hurting someone else. It had been over 10 yrs. Wow!!
There taking women's organs in Baltimore and Detroit and the police know
@@godsgirl7201 😮😮
This story sounds so similar to Taylor McFadden-Robinson’s story, except she was recently murdered on 01/23/2022 by her husband. She tried everything to get help from law enforcement and the courts after he broke into her home, tried to run her over, stalked and harassed her and Florence County (SC) judicial system failed her. He terrorized her while she was being a great mother and building several businesses. The judge didn’t even grant the order of protection. Now, a beautiful young lady and mother of two young boys who had so much life going for her is gone at 29 years old. On 11/15/21, two sisters, Jazmyn and Jamie Green, were also murdered due to domestic violence when one sister was desperately trying to get out of the relationship with the father of her children. He killed both sisters! This also happened in South Carolina, a state with one of the highest rates of domestic violence in the nation. These are just some stories, and I’m sure there are countless others. It because of the laws and lawmakers who appoint the judges. This is NOT right! Thank you for sharing this story so we can contact legislatures and government officials so women who suffer domestic violence can be taken seriously.
Omg this sad! My heart is so broken! Jesussss! 🙏🏽🤍🤍🤍🙏🏽
@@heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj You’re right, it’s so incredibly sad. Taylor was a wonderful young lady. I had the pleasure of meeting her and she left such a great impression and accomplished so much. That monster took her away from her boys and family and the community. It’s just awful. I’m just going to keep praying for Taylor’s family, and The Green girl’s family. 🙏🏽. Just tragic.
In the past in another city over 20 years ago I was able to get an order of protection after said boyfriend nearly killed me after begging them for help for months but NOT where I live now. You have to be married they said this time for me to get an order of protection even if they arrest him I have to have him legally evicted because he lives in my home. WTHE. Crazy!!! No woman deserves this much less having the law kiss their butts pretty much because they sure could prevent way more deaths and don't care.
I have family all through Greeleyville and Kingstree! So I am familiar with the story!! So sad God bless her baby boys 😘😘
@@michelepace777 you’re right. These laws are crazy!
Children are angels in disguise helping you get thru hard times.
It's 2022. I'm shook that every woman isn't well armed and ready to "wish a MF would"
They're busy trying to be feminine and land a sugar daddy
I’m all about the pew pew life
I’m about to take the class
Lol! So very true
@@Nokss87 that's sad😞
Ladies don't ever worry about what will "happen to him" if u need to call the police. Your life is FAR more important if it gets to that point. Black, white, or other.
Amen.
That is so frightening. She had to run. Society & law enforcement need to do better in understanding the psychology of a stalker & especially how to protect & assist victims of stalking.
Cops told my daughter that her ex boyfriend would get over it eventually. He did but only after she went back out with him and made him miserable. We read Pat Browns book "how to save your daughters life". She mainly, like the book said, made herself ugly, no make up ugly clothes stopped being a trophy. Then she took him on the ride of his life in his car at high rates speed on the highway while he was drunk. He never came back.
@@sissykim3975 Absolutely 💯 AWESOME!!!
A new Song From Isaiah 43:2
"You Said " by Steven F Gooden
YOU MOVED OVER THE VOID & SPOKE
THRU SPACE & FILLED THE EMPTINESS
THE DARK GAVE WAY & LIGHT CAME IN
YOU SPOKE THE WORD AND ALL BEGAN
YOU SAID 3X
YOU SAID THEN MAN TOOK HIS 1RST
BREATH
YOU SAID LIVE & LIFE ROSE DEFEATING DEATH
YOU SAID YOU SAID 2X
YOU SAID THAT
I WILL BE WITH YOU
THROUGH THE FLOOD AND FIRE
ILL PROTECT YOU I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOIN THRU
BUT KNOW THAT I AM WITH YOU
YOU SAID 3X
YOU'RE NOT ALONE IKNOW JUST WHAT TO DO
HOLY HOLY ARE YOU LORD
MIGHTY AND THE ETERNAL ONE
ABBA FATHER I LOVE YOU
MORE AND MORE
YOU SAID MY NAME AND
CALLED ME YOUR OWN
I KNOW I'M NOT ALONE.
ISAIAH 43:2
I WILL BE WITH YOU
YOU SAID
בבקשה
My daughter is having the same situation in Florida right now. Her child’s father have beat her, threatened her, stabbed her, tried to strangulate her, and her case has been addressed by district attorneys in NY and Florida and he still continues his behavior. He is 10 years older than her and got her pregnant at 16 while she was in high school. When we moved her to what we thought was a safe, gated community, he used a private detective to track her and showed up at my home. He called cps in NY and FL multiple times and made false claims of abuse with cps and the police showing up at my home, searching my home, and drug testing my daughter in front of my g-son. He violated multiple OOP from NY. One of his recent act of harassment was to go to court in Fl, told them he lived in my home, that he was threatened by my daughter, and the judge sent the police to my home and threw my daughter out of my home onto the street. He was able to make this claim because he stole my mail out of my mail box, diverted my mail at the post office and sent mail to his address during the diversion and this established him by FL law, as living at my address. By the time we realized our mail was diverted, he removed the diversion and so the PO wouldn’t do anything. He didn’t show up for the court date after he had my daughter removed from my home because he knew this wasn’t true but the judge refused to hear the case further. He continues to show up at my home randomly and threaten my daughter even though the ring is recording him. But it is the attitude of the court and police that is shocking. The court won’t grant an order of protection, and the police won’t arrest him or even take a statement about his behavior. They tell us that until he hurt or kill her there is nothing to do. Do you know how helpless and debilitated we feel. We cannot keep running and changing address because in FL it is so easy to find anyone. My daughter almost never come home anymore and stays at one friend or another’s home at night. We feel so helpless and abandoned. We feel like the court and the police has just left us on our own to handle this this criminal who is known to them. This has sucked the very life out of us. I pray every day for God to protect my daughter. This monster has emotionally,and mentally crippled my daughter. There really is no help for women in these situations.
Wow. This is so sad and so infuriating
Put the recording of him harassing you and your daughter on social media. Also get a gun to protect your self.
Ma’am pls get you an your daughter guns, one thing the police can’t do is arrest you for defending yourself if he threatens you at your home domestic violence is on the rise now an it’s gut wrenching that some of them end in tragedy I pray God continue to protect your daughter as well as you. Nobody should have to live in fear.
@@Clearbluesky771 that is exactly what the lady cop told us to do.
@@ladynae7126 the lady cop told us to defend ourselves. They can only arrest him if he is on my property, I am there and the cop is there. We called the cop multiple times but by the time the cop arrives he is gone. He keeps taking different Ubers to my home and tailgating the residences through the gate to get in. Because of their app system, I don’t know who to call to alert them he is using their car service to commit a crime. Our security has him on alert but they are there only at nights. Thank you for your sympathies response. Only God can stop this.
I blame the black Manosphere for this happening to black women.
her boyfriend was trans which is a woman!
I understand EVERYTHING this young lady going through!!! Glad I didn't have children we was 5yrs in!!! Less than a year of engaged and living together it ended in one bad choice he made and got caught!!! He tortured the hell out of me for 2yrs, tried beating the crap out of me, got caught tampering with my car, tried to get me fired,even approach a guy he thought I was seeing!! it GOES ON!!! HE said " I NEVER REALLY LOVED HIM IF IT WAS THAT EASY TO WALK AWAY!!" He basically blames me for not fighting for him BECAUSE HE LITERALLY GOT CAUGHT CHEATING!!! No one should EVER have to experience something like this!!!
I went through stalking and other types of abuse but by the grace of God, I'm out!🙏 I have alot of trauma and sometimes, I feel as if I'll never get over it. There are times where I just breakdown and cry uncontrollably.
Narcissist! I went through similar
There taking women's organs in Baltimore and Detroit and the police know
Add me to this list. My covert narc ex-husband. He's a used car salesman. Smh, yeah he truly sold me a bridge. I am forever changed.
You was involved with a malignant narcissist. Glad you got out of that poisonous union. Darkness and Light can't join together.
Glad that she survived. I'm curious as to why his image and name is blurred out considering he has been convicted. Also; if and when you meet someone on social media, you have the responsibility to diligently continue to use the internet to be a detective and see who you are dealing with. If he already had stents with the authorities it would not have been hard to find information on him. A $100 background check can save your life and your families lives. We have to take some responsibility for our own safety.. Many blessings
Victim blaming. How many times have you paid $100 for a background check on someone? Please.
@@Mizzlibrarian83 I don't use dating apps. Also, I would pay for a background check in hopes of keeping myself and my family safe. I'm not victim blaming. However; we are all responsible for our own safety. With the state of the world today, That would be money well spent. Or, don't and take your chances. Thanks for your input. Many blessings.
@@Mizzlibrarian83 You have one life. You have many $100. You choose. Many blessings
Deb ,you are so on it , women and men need to know and see his face, just in case he tries to get involved with someone in their family or the person themselves.
It's free to do research these days. Many individuals post their everyday details on social media for the world to see.
They should not keep posting and saying what state she is in. God bless her and her family. There should be a national posting of serial stalkers for all to see and be aware of.
Most women in the US are not taken seriously in stalking cases. I had a similar situation. Women need to work together and change this and help protect each other.
Stoo the premarital sex. That's one way
@Tavia Pounds yes I do know it happens with no physical contact. I'm sorry your going through that and hopefully you'll never have to use your gun. Your very smart to have it and with the things happening you are very lucky to be able to have that type of protection. I can't even imagine the hell your in. You didn't even open the door as far as inviting lust in. I bet God takes care of this situation for you.
@@rachelross5829 Nobody no matter what deserves to be stalked….I was stalked by someone I didn’t know and never spoke to. Saying that women “invite the lust in” is just victim blaming when the stalkers should be blamed.
@@kellygosa7438 deserves? I'm sorry if I indicated that. Consequences to our actions is just a fact of life and we sometimes don't have discernment and let these types in. My kid just showed me a video of girls dressing like boys so they can walk to the gas station and not be bothered. That's dicernment. That's the world we live in and our actions cause things to happen to us. I had to learn cause I know how men can become obsessed.
This is why women, ESPECIALLY SINGLE MOTHERS NEED TO TAKE THEIR TIME when first getting involved with a man. You have children who come first and you need to protect.
I broke up with my ex boyfriend in 2014 and the harassment started immediately after. He would come to my jobs and just stare at me from the door, made numerous calls when I could've gotten fired, among other things. I've since changed my number, moved, and changed employment but he would email me for years saying he loved me and wanted me back. About a week ago he calls my phone! Idk how he obtained my information but I'm now awaiting a court date for my harassment claim. I've clearly stated that I want nothing to do with him but he insists that I still love him. Just the thought of him disgusts me so the fact that he believes that is obsurd!
Change your number and don't tell nobody where you live
I went through the same thing except I was denied a restraining order, blamed for the abuse and they took my children so this is clearly a civil rights and women’s issue and it’s a shame and it’s disgusting
I’m so sorry to hear that they took your children
@@jalendann6254 Thank you 🙏🏽 my mother adopted them and it took me a year to get my baby back. I fought CPS for years. My mother had to hire an attorney.
Tears when she said her son was trying to cheer her up at the hotel😭❤️ what a sweet baby
This is why I haven't been in a relationship for 9 years. Too traumatizing. I had been through too much by myself without family emotional support. No help from no one...on my own. The man tried to ruin my life. We women need to be extra careful when it comes to dating. At least I feel peace and a great sense of sanity.
This is serious. I have buried SEVEN close friends, church members and neighbors. They all died in domestic abuse events. There's nothing like waking up to a news report, hearing your friend's 911 call, and learning those were her last moments. Get out while you can!!!
Maybe the city/state should not have been included in the interview.
Sad reality of many women around the world, women must really learn to protect themselves and detect deviant behavior, it can't go on like this. In any case, my support for this woman.
Brave young woman! Thanks Tamron for highlighting this issue. Sad to say but part of the reason alot of cops don’t take these situations seriously is because, statistically, many police officers themselves are perpetrators of domestic violence.
Absolutely! Had to contact Internal Affairs and the Mayor’s Office over how sarcastic and demeaning an officer was towards me regarding my oldest sister’s missing persons case. Don’t ever let an officer talk down to you! Keep going until you talk to that one officer who will help you!
I’m so glad that she took it to social media. Stalking and threatening someone should not be taken lightly. Baltimore City police are the absolute worst.
Just because it seems over doesn’t mean it is. These people stay mad for years. Tam shouldn’t have mentioned she was in Baltimore
I don't believe she's in Baltimore. I think it was a decoy to throw him off. Tam and her team are much smarter than that, they're not trying to be sued.
Gorgeous, well spoken, and eloquent… I’m happy she is still with us but my heart aches for the women who reached out but their voices were not heard until death….
I understand how she feels. Had a stalker moved and it changed my life. Never felt so much peace. I don't know why people decide to stalk someone. I felt I was the nicest most forgiving person and had he changed I could have forgave him. The police aren't always the nicest in those situations but there is usually that 1 officer who makes you feel worth protecting. A woman officer found the guy in the woods near my house. I moved asap. She was God sent. I hate hearing these stories.
This is awful. I have an ex that keeps popping up every year. He stalked me robbed me , broke my prescription eye glasses and the cops did nothing to help me. I had a hard time trying to get a restraining order. This was around the time Sandra Bland was killed . The shady police said I needed to get in the care with them to meet a judge to issue the order. and I was not getting in a car with the police to go anyplace. The newark police did nothing. they just told him to go away for the night. Thank God I got away had to live w/ family for a while and Thank God for them. I blocked him from every social account and still tries it. There needs to be better protection in order for women .It's ridiculous
This guy was more than just a narcissist he was also a psychopath. A person who suffers from just narcissistic personality disorder will eventually move on & go to the next victim(supply). But a psychopath is more dangerous & they will kill you. “If I can’t have you no one can” types. I dated a narcissist but thank God he wasn’t a psychopath. I changed my number after being harassed & he just move on. I haven’t heard from him in 4 years! Thank God!
This behavior seems sociopathic in my view
@@shirleyashanti3031 Crazy AF man, full stop.
I unfortunately now know this feeling now because something that happened over the Christmas holiday. Police do not have a sense of urgency about this type of thing. However, one police sergeant made it clear to me that if there was legislation specifically about grooming and the actions which constitute stalking that would be the thing that would prompt the police to move. I hate that by and large it takes physical harm to the victim or public humiliation of the police department in order for local law enforcement to move on your behalf. The psychological trauma is real and it deserves the same protection as physical harm.
This is horrific. The criminal justice system doesn't protect women and then punishes them when they do what they must to protect themselves.
Yes
They sure do Sentient
Hearing all of this just brought me to tears. I went through this years ago & it led to several years of depression. By God’s grace, I’m okay now. He made several Facebook pages, threatened to kill my mother & I, said that he wanted to rape me, hang my body from a tree, etc. This wasn’t even someone I dated. He wanted to pursue me, told me that God said I was his wife & begged me not to pray about him. Ladies, it took me forever to speak up. I was hoping that he would just go away. If someone is threatening you, please say something right away. It could save your life. And please take a self defense class, carry a firearm, etc. I appreciated this segment so much. Use your voice ladies 💕
I thank God for your life and that you are better now. I’m praying that you WILL continue to move from strength in strength. Thank God you spoke up🙌🏾
Stalking is a form of Domestic Violence. She should have been provided with a Victim Advocate to explain to her what happens next….to help her navigate through the criminal justice system, to advocate on her behalf! #IHaveZeroTolerenceForDV
SHE IS A SMART, BRAVE, BEAUTIFUL & STRONG WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The amount of BM that responded to this story asking, "well what she do?" was enough to make me want to never date again. It's sick out here!
I experienced a similar situation. Ex that stalked me, sent nasty and embarrassing msgs to me and my friends from fake social media accounts, emails to me and my mom at her job/work email. He truly tried to ruin my friendships and familial relationships. I also called the police on 3-4 different occasions, I tried to file a restraining order and was told that this was not the first time this man had been in trouble with the law but that I had to have evidence of a physical assault before I could file a restraining order and that it takes an overwhelming amount of evidence to get a restraining order from harassment/stalking. They told me to keep a log/file of all the incidents and to call the police if he showed up at my apartment bcz as long as he didn't have belongings or mail being sent there, they could arrest him for trespassing. I live in TX. Then they sent me on my way to fend for myself. I got a few more harassing texts, calls from various numbers and then one day I got a call from a detective who asked a few questions about the situation and after that I never heard from him again.
I've always wondered what makes people stalk someone? Is it about control? Fear? Power? Stalkers are a special kind of sickness. The fact someone spends their entire day texting, creating fake social media sites, following someone, shows a deep level of evilness. Are there programs that can counsel this type of psychological illness?
Obsession and love addiction maybe. They also might want to terrorize their victim and make them fearful. They seek to control others. They can’t stand to be told no because that causes a narcissistic injury leading to psycho behavior.
Therapy will not help if he doesn't want it. It's easy to fake responses; you just say and agree to what they're suggesting
Well, if they are a narcissist, no. Narcs don't change. Very few. Therapy basically only performative to appease someone else.
Sex is a bond. Women shouldn't be having it with just anyone. I learned my lesson the hard way. Ww need to take responsibility for our actions as women as well.
@@rachelross5829 I’ve had 2 stalkers that i didn’t know from a can of paint. 1 of the 2 is a sheriff who stalked me for over 9 consecutive years. So its not always sex or something you’ve done to make someone obsessed enough to stalk you. Ppl need to start getting mental health help because its a lot of mental sickness in this world. Ppl please be safe.
As a domestic abuse survivor, I know how she feels. Praying for everyone in these situations to break free & for safety BTS 🙏🏽💜
Stop announcing the location of stalking victims!
In most states you can go online to check on when someone is released from prison. Aziza may be able to set up alerts to her phone or email. There is no way Aziza should only be relying on law enforcement to check the status.
This is frightening to the core ….
And eye opening …someone I’ve been talking to said that he created a fake page on Facebook and has communicated with me….
People are crazy the lengths they will go to
Wow, a man like this, who has absolutely nothing to live for and no moral compass is a very dangerous individual! Now it’s time to shift mindsets, from victim to victor which consist of taking a self-defense class, training at a firing range and getting a gun, and becoming an advocate for stiffer prison sentences! As this this cases get more notoriety, it will pick up momentum and more people will join forces! Don’t sit on it, the time is now! And know, we are lifting up you, your family and all that is to transpire in 🙏 prayer, you shall prevail!!
It's not just black women, it's women period. I feel like men still don't think stalking is serious. Like women get killed by their stalkers. I remember telling my brother that someone made me uncomfortable and he said I was overreacting. I think because it doesn't happen to them as often they just don't understand.
Listen to your own intuition.
A new Song From Isaiah 43:2
"You Said " by Steven F Gooden
YOU MOVED OVER THE VOID & SPOKE
THRU SPACE & FILLED THE EMPTINESS
THE DARK GAVE WAY & LIGHT CAME IN
YOU SPOKE THE WORD AND ALL BEGAN
YOU SAID 3X
YOU SAID THEN MAN TOOK HIS 1RST
BREATH
YOU SAID LIVE & LIFE ROSE DEFEATING DEATH
YOU SAID YOU SAID 2X
YOU SAID THAT
I WILL BE WITH YOU
THROUGH THE FLOOD AND FIRE
ILL PROTECT YOU I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOIN THRU
BUT KNOW THAT I AM WITH YOU
YOU SAID 3X
YOU'RE NOT ALONE IKNOW JUST WHAT TO DO
HOLY HOLY ARE YOU LORD
MIGHTY AND THE ETERNAL ONE
ABBA FATHER I LOVE YOU
MORE AND MORE
YOU SAID MY NAME AND
CALLED ME YOUR OWN
I KNOW I'M NOT ALONE.
ISAIAH 43:2
I WILL BE WITH YOU
YOU SAID
בבקשה
Brave young lady.
Thank you Tamron keeping up with this young lady.
This is why i am ok with being single. I would not know how to do a background check on someone nor would i want to have to do that. I am ok. I will just serve the lord with all my heart and live in peace
Thank the Lord that she and her family are all still alive! 🙌
18 MONTHS???? He should have gotten AT LEAST 5 - 7 years !!!
I had a guy stalk me in college. I was already going through personal health challenges and this caused things to be even worse. When I first met him, I thought he was too charismatic but I decided to be friendly anyways. Things slowly turned crazy. Initially we got to know each other because we had a class together and group projects. When I gave him my number, he would text me normally, but then he wanted to work together and hang out. It got too much, that I told him to his face, I am not interested in working with you. At this point, I didn't realize how crazy things were. Because then, he learned my class schedule and would wait outside my classroom. He wanted to look through my phone at one point. It was just crazy. When I told him to leave me alone, he would write me long messages that he thought I am the love of his life. My brother and my parents friend, who knew him, had to confront him. Thank you Jesus, he is out of my life.
Stop meeting people online..
This is so absolutely ridiculous!
I can't believe there's some monsters like this in the world. Why torture someone like this?
Why did she hide his face? Shame the devil and show his face.
Probably doesn't want to get sued. Because you know that'd put them in court together. Imagine if she lost the case then she'd have to pay him. 🤦🙆
His name is Seti Yasin.
I feel sorry for her having to deal with that level of trauma and distress, worrying about her kids safety. I’ve been through it you don’t sleep because you’re constantly watching, your kids sleeping not knowing when you will have to fight for your life. When you go to work or to the store you have to watch your back and wear hats pulled down over your face, you can’t go to same places to shop you have to like change who you use to be. It’s hell! Thank God they survived it and he’s in jail, now they gotta have a plan in place for when he gets out they need to leave that state. Simply because this time he did time for his craziness and he’s gonna be angry! We all need to pray for them!
Wow thank you for this kind of programming. Lots of women get murdered each day because some men exploit the darkness inside them. This man not only needs to be in jail but need serious psychiatrist help.
Thank you...rehabilitation .
Remember the movie Sanaa Lathan played in "The Perfect Guy ". The guy did exactly that stalked her. The police, regardless which state you live in do has their hands tied legally.
Don't forget in Florida a black mother with kids shot warning shot in front of her soon to ex husband. When he continued to walk forward she shot and killed him. The white female D.A. sent her to jail. Yes, she was a domestic violence victim. The white woman D.A. knew it and still sent her to jail. Couple years later her story spread and the people demand her release. The white woman D.A. was fighting against it, but she was release.
It’s the most terrifying thing. Especially when you have baby’s you have to protect. I never wanted to leave my house. He would try to run me off the road throw things at my car etc. I became a hermit in my house. I blocked my windows with dressers and etc ; the courts allowed supervised visits with our kids , when I had everything on video ! It was the scariest time of my life. I feel your pain babygirl. The police take nothing serious. They say there’s nothing we can do. Etc.
"He hasn't killed u yet so I bet he won't"? Seriously?😡😡
Horrifying
Off topic but she is gorgeous, absolutely stunning
She really is. She’s breathtaking! 💕
This is the best thing about social media. It helps cries or help spread quickly!!! And hold everyone (The Police) who don't act son enough accordingly!!! So glad they are safe.
This is why I don’t date.
Sometimes i wish women could just have sex with a guy & tell him she’s like super busy all month long & he’ll just leave her alone
No man out there who claims he’s cool or “chill” is at all. They’re all stalkers and weirdo’s who freak out when a girl doesn’t want them
Where is this poor excuse of a man? Everyone here should harass and threaten him and not allow him to sleep. For even a minute .
I remember this when she first posted it. I’m so glad she did it and I hope many more women have the courage to speak out
I pray for peace in the young woman's life and for her family. This can be a lingering trauma that can spread throughout her family and to those who love her. Peace to you, Aziza, and be well.
Don’t expose your kids to your date until you have vetted the person for many many many months
👍🏿
I want to know why would Tam announce the city and state that she lives in. I am not sure if she lived there previously but that wasn’t smart at all. These people are crazy now days. Don’t know if he wants revenge for him going to jail. Don’t tell my location, that’s putting someone in harms way. Thankfully she and her family are doing fine.
She's so beautiful and I'm praying that she and her family continue to live in safe light.
I’am so glad she spoke about this! So many women go through this and are scared, many are even killed.
God bless her🙏🏾
She needs protection and notified before he gets out.
The sweetest most precious person and mom and friend I’ve ever met she is so strong we love you Aziza
A new Song From Isaiah 43:2
"You Said " by Steven F Gooden
YOU MOVED OVER THE VOID & SPOKE
THRU SPACE & FILLED THE EMPTINESS
THE DARK GAVE WAY & LIGHT CAME IN
YOU SPOKE THE WORD AND ALL BEGAN
YOU SAID 3X
YOU SAID THEN MAN TOOK HIS 1RST
BREATH
YOU SAID LIVE & LIFE ROSE DEFEATING DEATH
YOU SAID YOU SAID 2X
YOU SAID THAT
I WILL BE WITH YOU
THROUGH THE FLOOD AND FIRE
ILL PROTECT YOU I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOIN THRU
BUT KNOW THAT I AM WITH YOU
YOU SAID 3X
YOU'RE NOT ALONE IKNOW JUST WHAT TO DO
HOLY HOLY ARE YOU LORD
MIGHTY AND THE ETERNAL ONE
ABBA FATHER I LOVE YOU
MORE AND MORE
YOU SAID MY NAME AND
CALLED ME YOUR OWN
I KNOW I'M NOT ALONE.
ISAIAH 43:2
I WILL BE WITH YOU
YOU SAID
בבקשה
Given that this man has been convicted in connection with stalking, I think his face should not have been blurred out. Other women need to be warned about who this man is. It's the only way to help other women stay safe. The police sure aren't going to do it. It feels like they are only willing to come in afterwards to help solve the murders.
She may have to carry a gun or change her name and get off social media and move to another state.
I was thinking that too!
Police worried too much about catching people selling weed more than protecting people from stalkers 😫🥴
May he get some help while locked up, so glad she wasn’t another victim in that worst way and the laws in EVERY STATE NEEDS TO CHANGE WITH THE TECHNOLOGY!!!!!!!!!! 😡😡😡🤷🏽♀️
Stalkers are not dealt with like it is an Emergency ,you have to Get a Conceal and Carry and protect yourself,the police only respond after harm has been commited....At least he got 18 months in jail but he will be released and hopefully he will leave her alone...
My baby farther does this to me. But I dated years later just to run across another stalker who recently killed his ex and her boyfriend who stalked me and my daughter even try to talk to my daughter. When I heard he was in jail for murder…. I felt a release, Only to have my kids farther set up another FB and try to send me a request brings terror back into my life. I pray for women like us every time I wake up in fear. Good protect us pleased. I am done dating. I have no faith in ever dating as of now, maybe this will change but I am content in my situation.
I don’t think you should date. Since you keep attracting psychopaths. I hope you know that these people are soul less beings! I think you should pray to God to keep you protected and remove anything in your life that is not of God.
Having sex outside of marriage has consequences. I know
@@rachelross5829ppl get murdered by their husband more iften then you think or know so please don't bring you beliefs into the equation of stalking. Don't even try to a t as though you are Holy because if you were certain entertainment you wouldn't even entertain like UA-cam for one.
@@dmonroe4961 well in my experience I can say that I knew how my husband was before I married him. Being unequally yoked is a warning so we can be careful. My husband overdosed crippled himself but still engages in all abominations. I stay celebat and alone and will never let my daughter see me with another man. I believe God's word and live it. I live alone in the mountains safe cause I abide in him. My belief is that most of our issues stems from premarital sex but maybe this woman didn't have sex with this guy, I mean come on it was only 4 months lol. When people start realizing how strong a sexual bond is they'll start understanding and covering their cleavage. Demons are running amok more than ever now so my advise is to raise your kid alone your better off. My daughter will know what virtues morals, respect and what honoring vows mean. I was a Brooklyn runaway in the streets so I didn't have a good mom. No mom. I picked wrong guys. Woman need to know themselves and God before getting yoked if they want to do it right. My beliefs ......not yours obviously.
@@dmonroe4961 yeah and I don't allow e movies in my home. No cable or internet. I don't allow demons to get a foothold so yeah I live it not just read it. My belief in my creator is strong and I'm under his wing now. What I went through cause of lust premarital sex was mostly what I could have avoided if I had knowledge. Many will perish for lack of it. Believe that. Well just look around. Amazing times. Guess your hearts and homes people. These are no times to be playing with God. Chose your side. Live it
Having federal regulations on social media…not to remove one’s freedom of speech but to make one accountable for their actions. It’s unfortunate that we have to endure these treatments of narcissistic behaviors from others. 🙏🏾
I hear you. Thank you for sharing the very real trauma one experiences as a result of victimization. I also could not get police to act despite factual evidence.
I've been through this exact same thing. We met while I was entering the military. He was alot older and became really jealous. After I declined his marriage proposal he went NUTS! He damaged my cars and other possessions. I had restraining orders on him (which is no good people; trust me)!! I had to move my daughter and myself to another state. He still knew where I was regardless of the move. He was on MY ASSSSS! But let me tell you how good GOD is though: One day I got a phone call from my sister, she said he had died of a massive heart attack👐. Not glorifying anybody's death but GOD knew he was evil!
She may need to move far away because one day he'll get out. 18 months is not long at all! And I'm sure he probably won't have to serve the full 18 months.
I know EXACTLY what she's going through!!
He done this multiple times so my isn’t he in jail!. Eighteen months is nothing for tormenting all these women and their families.
Even when you notify police, you still arm yourself because that type of person kills you easily. 100 calls in a day!