I don’t have a problem in my life with a man or woman I have a problem with either drug addicts and homeless strangers or I’ll meet at least one weirdo at work I’m just tired of it.
@@KittyCatFurbabiesMaria1972 my problem is that I’ll just stare then shake my head I’m always on high alert I’ve been like this sense I’ve gotten almost hurt by men at times SA and groomed as a child no wonder I’m on high alert I’m tired of it. So now I’m smiling at these men and bringing out my box cutter…had some weirdo thought I was a hooker because I was at the bus stop in a nice dress. I had a damn interview. It’s just exhausting. So what do I do put my head down? Annoying I’m trying to find a good in between
I have an Instagram stalker who's made over 100+ accounts to stalk me from. He stalks and tries to message me and uses random men's pictures pretending it's him/claims he's someone new each time. He said he's "craving me." I have many means of protection but am still freaking out. Not sure where he lives either or what else he's capable of.
Obsessive stalker sucks, I hope the stalker eventually moves on and gets a new romantic partner since those stalkers are unusually the ones that want you as thier partner
This is driving me insane also. My ex is blocked on every platform along with as many friends of theirs as I can think of. And yet still somehow manage to spy on me! It's becoming like I am their only source of evil entertainment???
It makes no sense that they don't want you to be with someone else and move on. I don't understand. Why would they waste so much time obsessing, etc.? Why do they not go to jail for stalking, surveilling, intimidating, bullying, & paying flying monkeys to mess with you? Sometimes the cops are in it!
Divorced the Covert narc 22 years ago. I remarried and was harassed by the flying monkeys. We moved 800 miles away to a mountain. 6 or 7 flying monkeys contacted us, and the Covert Ex called my husband...pretending he called the wrong number...twice. He remarried and he still needs to bother my life.
I haven't been involved with none of mine in years and they still pop up randomly. That's the scary thing, getting random messages, abuse by proxy or popping up in person out of nowhere.
I just wanted to thank you for doing this work! It is so informative to get the other perspective. Plus, humor to a traumatic situation is easier to digest. My ex narcissist has been stalking and harassing me for 2 years. And we were together for 10 months. Think I might try motivational speaking, to help others as well.
My ex is literally stalking me. He has trackers in my car, i found a hidden camera in my room. He shows up at every bar i go to, he messages me "dont forget butter" when i go to the grocery store. Im starting to lose my mind. I have threatened the police. He told me he has planted things in my house and will have me framed so my kids will be taken from me if i contact the police. I feel like a prisoner of my own life and i dont want to be here anymore..
Report it all to the police, but first make sure you've documented everything he's done and stored that evidence somewhere (ideally multiple places) safe. In fact don't stop talking about his behaviour to everyone in your life so the knowledge is out there if he does something more serious. Creating safety plans to escape if he escalates is also critical.
@@christymarch7245 Dealing with a stalker too (ex) although nothing to the extreme you are. Getting a lawyer has helped mostly by giving me more confidence in dealing with his sh$#, mostly because I have a game plan and someone who has dealt with this before. The lawyer sent a cease and desist letter which worked for 2 weeks until the ex started stalking me again but not as bad (ie has yet to show up at my house). Lawyer suggested contacting him first if my ex shows up at my house and he’d coach me what to say to the cops so they will take me more seriously. The formal cease and desist letter should also help me for when I need to get an order of protection (know only a matter of time) because my ex stated he understood he needed to leave me alone and has now ignored it. I was also scared of my ex’s reaction if I did certain things (like I was worried about blocking him at first because I knew he’d explode or if I called the cops). But being scared of his reaction kept me somewhat more trapped. I personally had to use the riptide method for my own safety but the big thing I need to do is NEVER respond to anything he does or contact him. Just feeds them. I know you’re in a different position but don’t be scared to call the police or to get a lawyer.
i have a sibling who is extremely obsessive and controlling and i’m working on finding an escape plan. i just fo with the control to avoid being physically hit & verbally attacked & the rest of my family just enables it
My own cousin has been extremely obsessive with my life. It's weird asf! Because she has been cyberstalking me for the last 13 years! Yes, always protect yourself and let the police know for paper trail.
I’m cracking up because the video at the beginning it was soo real!! I been here before , changed my entire life ans still would no leave me alone , I am now free ! Loving my life w out hiding!!
That’s true my ex use to do those things to me and I was honestly very scared because I made it clear I’m done with him and he would always threaten to kill me and I got tired of it and put a restraining order on him
Hello … I just wanna say Thank You!!! I was married to a man who displays “all 8” NPD characteristics…. for 35 years!!!! So I too know a few things about the disorder. But… finding ur channel has given me hope for the guy!!! I sent him ur link so Thanks more than you know!!
My ex narc is stalking me to a point I've become a bit paranoid because he can be violent at time. He doesn't even care I've got a protection order against him. He still find way to make me very uneasy every time I step out of my house. I've gotten arrested five time He still follow me around. He's excuses every time he needs to see his kids granted he can see them at his mom place every weekend.
23 years! Twenty three years!!! If The Almighty hasn't stop him, who can? I brought this curse upon myself, having procreating with a body full of demons, I am cursed for life! He is still asking our grown children about my whereabouts, left Germany to Canada had to come back and I'm still running for my life. Developed heart disease and so on... I used to love and cherish life, but death seems the only solution. And just like he told my mother, he won't leave me alone until I'm 6 feet under. There is NO HELP!
I love your channel so much. I think I’m starting to understand that I am a narcissist and I have childhood trauma that I never dealt with. Would you do a video series of steps for a narcissist to take if they want to heal. (P.S. I am also going to therapy, would just be curious to hear your take on it) Peace n love man
Well done for being so brave to announce this 👏 can't be easy given the symptoms. A sibling of my mine I've been watching these videos with believes they have the condition too. I'm starting to believe this is far more common that realised
It's rare for a narc to be self-aware. You may need to do a lot of work, but you are blessed with the intuition to get that help, and that's so important.
Been 5 yrs for me. When he came to my house I heard he was going to follow me to new Zealand if I moved there so I didn't move there to protect my granddaughter. He since married and has 2 kids but is going out with my neighbour who helps him as well. I'm a pretty strong woman.and had to physically fight the narc and he's quietened down quiet abit. If I'm standing outside he'll yell at me but I rub it in by smiling back. I use to spend alot of time in my Lounge but now go to the back of house as I can see narc's girlfriends house.
No contact is best!!! I wouldn’t even want to see the house let alone him bc I wouldn’t want to give him no ideas. Narcs are weird and deranged. At least the one I know is. Good Luck to you Sis.
😂 cracks me up .. makes a clear point too. Thank you for helping me understand this. My narcissistic is about to get arrested a third time and I’m going through hell. 😢 so I appreciate the laugh x
We have a 6 year old baby boy togethere and she litterally will hurt him, if she thinks it might just get under my skin. She made him cry last weekend saying he wouldnt be able to see dad this weekend cause i pissed her off that i went to a pool hall/bar to eat freaking dinner! DO NOT HAVE KIDS WITH THEM!!!! IT SUCKS!!
Help help!!!! I was involved in end narcissistic mess. Now I'm being stalked online with my Google account being access remotely. Every time I was gaslight ed this deranged individual would take my device. If I can send you what I know please help me. My hope is to press charges.
I'll see you tomorrow at your gym 😂😂 classic. Thank you for adding humor to it too. It's a serious subject we all know that but at the same time that scene DOES happen and what you said ... They actually say that. We could've been together those 5 years 😂😂😅.
Also final thaught.... Anyone else wonder, if a narc is insecure and with someone who truelly loves them. Why then is it a bad thing?? They have someone amazing who loves them?? Isn't that the point?????
I finally got my ex out of my house, I found out my phone was hacked by him, got a new phone which sent him into a frenzy. I want to file a restraining order, I caught him yesterday walking around my job, then around my home. I'm not sure what to do when he's watching from a distance already. Restraining order isnt going to help when he's already so many feet away watching. I'm just exhausted.anyone I hangout with, he's causing trouble for. I literally am loosing my mind.😕
Mine popped up 3 years later trying to get revenge honestly fake revenge because I never done anything to deserve that but she was embarrassed that I didn’t run after the garbage truck and beg for my trash back and this is after she went around telling lies about me stalking her come to find out that nut was stalking me
"The second amendment is there for a reason"....yep. I agree. I also agree about using humour to make things easier to digest. I often use humour for that purpose. Lee as far as Narcissists go - I appreciate your work.
I don't know what he is thinking but it's not good because it's been no contact and the last thing they said to me was that they didn't want to see me with anyone else I stayed away ever since , and they told me they had HEAVY insecurities when we were talking before no contact smh they still stalks me too smdh Ima just continue to stay away
This is crazy after a week of “talking & dating”this narcissist woman she stalked & harassed me for a month. She called me for a month non stop 118 times some days 60 calls on no caller id even when she saw me block her number in front of her, she showed up to my house 3 times & wouldn’t leave my house for 4+ hours each time. The first time I escaped & called the police. The second time she SA’d me the third time she followed me back in to my flat intimidating me, think it’s funny & broke into my apartment she stayed for 7 hours & I refused to acknowledge her so she left abruptly. She didn’t care that I called the police she continued. The police are not taking it serious because she’s a woman. I pushed her because she wouldn’t let me leave or call or get help. I told the police I had to push her the accused of assaulting her. This is 7 months ago I’m scared she’ll come back because I have no one who well help. No one is taking this serious!
You make jokes but this is serious shit. My husband stalks me all while he has his ex wife do all the public profile harassment on social media. We were together for 20 yrs and once we split this pass Feb he went back to her. The most horrible shit I've ever been through in my entire life
Believe me I sympathise with how scary this is and the dark times really are not funny what so ever. But I feel that by using humour to address the more child like symptoms the narc displays, may encourage someone in the earlier stages get away easier? In many women's shelters we don't know how but we often find humour brings us closer together. It's hard to be scared when you're allowed to safely giggle in an environment that fully validates and supports one and other. If chuckling at relentless tantrum style behaviour gets me through the next hour without breaking down I'll take the comedy all day long. I doubt his intent is to cause more upset. I hope you're okay? Have you got any support? Are you safe? Xx
Me that was me smhh it honestly came from being teased by girls in junior high and hs so when a girl stopped fwm I snapped and couldn’t handle the rejection cuz I was scared of losing something I know I couldn’t easily get…lowkey ashamed cuz of it still
Its even worse when its a parent. She wanted to kick me out because she thought i would beg to stay but when i got my own place she couldn’t take it. Its been years and she still wont leave me alone. If i dont answer my phone she calls other people acting like she’s worried about me and tell them to call me too. Its disturbing and im at my wits end. She created all these situations to keep me around. Now she needs my help for something all the time.
❤mental healness❤ Anybody else feel like the skits are word for word, the conversations you've had before? Cos it's as if lee knows my situation and I'm in another country!! 🤣🤣 This guy is good ❤ Also anyone else see that orange T black jacket combo he wore a couple days ago 😍😍😍 Oh my!
And I have no intention of moving on to a "new guy". I've put that out of my mind. #1 because the eX is not going to allow it. But really bc I'm so rattled that it's going to take years of therapy to heal. And then, by the time I do ever heal, I will be too old to date. 😮 (I'm in my early 50s rt now)
What if it's a friend? He told our mutual friend that he will not stop bothering us until we say its over. We already told him 3 times what the issues are and have ignored him for 6 months. He has managed to wear down a mutual friend and that friend is asking us to tell him we are done. We dont want to give into the manipulation. He has cornered my husband in public. Please advise.
I'm in a battle with my ex and he is doing this to me. I have a restraining order but he's made his way back into my life a couple times over the last 2 years and I don't see him in person but he harasses me via phone and internet with texting and calling. He even cha get his number when I block him. I hate this.
I am asking for advise I noticed 2 days ago someone I know keeps posting fakebook accounts of 11 accounts they continued this for 5 years now I know exactly who it is he won't leave Me alone finds my address or number I had to change my number 2 times I am so tired of it. I really need advise on this
@@jacquelinefroehle3583 omg.. this is how i feel. He is married with 3 kids. The damage it did to my soul. I have never been able to remarry or have a longer than 2 year relationship. I get anxiety filled and fearful. I've had therapy and just shake it.
I'm rolling 😂 LMAO @ "this is not a gym this is my backyard" I can only imagine this happening to me my pitbull gonna have himself a nice new chew toy 🎉
I got my ears on!! I've literally been trying to break it off with my (ex) b f for OVER TWO YEARS. He constantly accuseS me of Cheating & Lying- except i'm NOT. I gave him one hundred percent , but he only cussed me daily because he resents me so much because he thinks i'm a cheater , (except i'm not). So I finally gave up hope. Problem solved, right? Wrong! He follows me.He stalks me, he shows up at 2 o'clock in the morning uninvited, and unannounced. I never know where he is, but he is sure to be close around somewhere. He will not accept the breakup. Most narcissists do the discard. Not him. He thinks of me as his property, Forever and ever.😢
Oh & he WILL NOT take any steps to get better. Won't even? Click the button to watch a simple two minute therapy video, Or won't even breathing slowly Thru his nose one time....
Please help my ex is still not leaving me alone its been a year he just dont get it that i dont want to be in his life....he is been calling me selfish for leaving him...but i just couldnt take anymore i choose myself...
They act like they hate you around other people so nobody will believe you Whose going believe a person in a relationship stalking their ex!!! And stuff like the skit ...and people will tell you your delusional
@@cindybrown9898 People who go through this don't just let it happen. They do go to the police and file restraining orders? And 99% of the time, it doesn't help.
Whitney m here again hiding under someone elses email just to get my ❤mental healness❤ fix!! This video is my LIFE I had no idea I've been getting stalked, harassed and terrorised by him and an entire crew of flying monkeys. He won't get his hands dirty himself which is worse. Because the people he is involving do not care that I have a baby and intentionally inflict harm on us both. I've moved house and changed my number and phone a million times but they break in. I'm now getting cctv and alarms. Why if he doesn't want me and has the life he wanted, can't he get on and enjoy himself? The smear campaign is affecting the way the general public are treating me. The flying monkeys are just as deranged, juvenile and entoxicated. This isn't narcissism anymore is it? This is sociopaths? To have no remorse and go to depths to harm an infant?? ❤mental healness❤🙏I'm binging your videos because you're the only one who knows the cycle🙏 ❤mental healness❤ Keep doing what you're doing. New series vote *waving the red flags* please (because apparently I still can't spot them 😒) ❤stay loyal to UA-cam in your success lee. ❤ mental healness❤
I had some weirdo try to get me into his car god forbid I stand up for myself can’t instigate they say okay so then sit there with my head down and pretend like no one is around me? Then if I give them a quick side eye or stare at them even for a moment they literally flock toward me not everyone but one or two leave woman alone men and woman leave men alone. Gah just leave people alone I’m tired of it. No wonder I’m on such a high damn alert all the time I’m just surviving. 🙄
Not going to lie it’s actually scary. It’s even worse because it’s online and in my life. I didn’t even renew my lease idk what to do. This person did not like me at all, I spent years chasing him, making conversation, even let my guard down to confide in him. He violated me several times and when I discovered that I completely cut all communication changed my lifestyle but it’s scary because that doesn’t stop him. I’m more afraid of what I’ll do because I’ve become hyper aware of my surroundings. Unfortunately I don’t have enough to get the law involved. It’s very exhausting I’m only 26 my life just started and I have to deal with this.
I dumped him bc I felt like he was manipulating me. The women who work with him at the bar tag me on fb. First thought nothing about it until the last girl did it. She works at 2 different clubs tagged me and I’ve been to both. It just happens to be his club. Also his idiotic buddy and another girl mentioned i go a lot of different places, or as she put it I aaa cheating on them. I just laughed about it then but I want nothing to do with him esp now im putting boundaries between us. I use to be real nice and now I have the feeling he still watches me.
When I see these signs because the narcs they find out for the one to fly monkeys because the ones that we talked to they will find out information then they give it to the exmark or narcs and then from there let me say this lie they will take a picture of your state ID or your social security and that's the only way they will follow us and at the end of the day I'm just moving on with my life and in God's gracious or hope for the next move on with their lives what does supplies thank you LEE
Listen though, if you really hate someone, what's the worst thing you can think of to happen to them? Losing their life? Freedom? Happiness? Money friends and family? Stalking does all of those things to that person. They spend their money on you, they spend their energy and time on YOU, they lose friends and family because people get freaked out about their obsession. The best part is, it's all self inflicted.
Sounds good and all, but the thing is, them stalking you and losing themselves in the process does not only destroy them, it destroys you, too. The more they obsess over you, the greater the potential to hurt you in ways you'll never ever be able to come recover from. Some stalkers have literally k----- the loved ones of the people they were obsessing over. It's a terrifying experience.
Nice. But how do you get rid of random people who are obsessed with you, not ex-lovers, not ex-friends, just "homeless" internet parasites who just targeted you because you sneezed in their general direction?
They also fear you doing alll the good things y’all use to do. Damn I know he’s getting some good loving. Damn Ik he’s comfy. Damn he’s eating my food. He was possessive n controlling before he went to jail. DO U THINK HE STOP WHEN HE GETS OUT ?
I don't know what to do anymore. I just don't understand. I just one person. It's so many other people on the planet to stalk and bother.
But the narc wants you …if you’re being stalked by them then please stay safe and talk to the police , they are obsessed
@@KittyCatFurbabiesMaria1972 I’m dealing with one now talking about they were in my state last year not creepy at all
@@Tonyconstanza hope ur safe and ok ?
I don’t have a problem in my life with a man or woman I have a problem with either drug addicts and homeless strangers or I’ll meet at least one weirdo at work I’m just tired of it.
@@KittyCatFurbabiesMaria1972 my problem is that I’ll just stare then shake my head I’m always on high alert I’ve been like this sense I’ve gotten almost hurt by men at times SA and groomed as a child no wonder I’m on high alert I’m tired of it. So now I’m smiling at these men and bringing out my box cutter…had some weirdo thought I was a hooker because I was at the bus stop in a nice dress. I had a damn interview. It’s just exhausting. So what do I do put my head down? Annoying I’m trying to find a good in between
4 years of going no contact!! He still won’t leave me alone. He can’t grasp reality. It’s over. It’s been over for years!
stay safe
I have an Instagram stalker who's made over 100+ accounts to stalk me from. He stalks and tries to message me and uses random men's pictures pretending it's him/claims he's someone new each time. He said he's "craving me." I have many means of protection but am still freaking out. Not sure where he lives either or what else he's capable of.
yikes. that's scary
Craving you, haha, not that it's funny to be stalked, but my God, wtf?
Obsessive stalker sucks, I hope the stalker eventually moves on and gets a new romantic partner since those stalkers are unusually the ones that want you as thier partner
Damn 100+ accounts😭😭
Backyard? Mine showed up at my job blocked on every platform and still seeing the person she claimed she broke up with. At my job!!! Outa no where!!
This is driving me insane also.
My ex is blocked on every platform along with as many friends of theirs as I can think of.
And yet still somehow manage to spy on me!
It's becoming like I am their only source of evil entertainment???
It makes no sense that they don't want you to be with someone else and move on. I don't understand. Why would they waste so much time obsessing, etc.? Why do they not go to jail for stalking, surveilling, intimidating, bullying, & paying flying monkeys to mess with you?
Sometimes the cops are in it!
The final discard is when god steps in and say enough is enough 🙏🏾✝️
I have an obsessive person doing this to me now. 2 years. It is scary.
@@RuthRandoms 7 months, she just won't stop
@@Kaliosthesecond 😥
@@Kaliosthesecond I've locked mine now (yet again...keep feeling sorry for them and letting them back in, STOP IT RUTH I keep telling myself).
Divorced the Covert narc 22 years ago. I remarried and was harassed by the flying monkeys. We moved 800 miles away to a mountain. 6 or 7 flying monkeys contacted us, and the Covert Ex called my husband...pretending he called the wrong number...twice. He remarried and he still needs to bother my life.
Get him off you
They never really get over their exes. Checking them up for years on social media and get nostalgic, even if their relationship was terrible.
This what I’m going through now. He said he has an addiction and craving for me that is too strong. It sucks.
Me too 😔💔
Thank you for this. So glad I found your channel! New sub
Especially the ones that are sociopaths
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That skit though.........."There is no fence that can lock out my love"! 😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂 👏👏👏👏👏 Hilarious....... but you got your point across!👍Brilliant!!!!
I haven't been involved with none of mine in years and they still pop up randomly. That's the scary thing, getting random messages, abuse by proxy or popping up in person out of nowhere.
It's about control, always !
You are fun
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And control is about saving themselves from the embarrassment of rejection. Let's dig deeper to the root analysis
I just wanted to thank you for doing this work! It is so informative to get the other perspective. Plus, humor to a traumatic situation is easier to digest. My ex narcissist has been stalking and harassing me for 2 years. And we were together for 10 months. Think I might try motivational speaking, to help others as well.
Same. I was thinking the same thing. I am an empath and wow I have learned so much on Narcissism
My ex is literally stalking me. He has trackers in my car, i found a hidden camera in my room. He shows up at every bar i go to, he messages me "dont forget butter" when i go to the grocery store. Im starting to lose my mind. I have threatened the police. He told me he has planted things in my house and will have me framed so my kids will be taken from me if i contact the police. I feel like a prisoner of my own life and i dont want to be here anymore..
Report it all to the police, but first make sure you've documented everything he's done and stored that evidence somewhere (ideally multiple places) safe.
In fact don't stop talking about his behaviour to everyone in your life so the knowledge is out there if he does something more serious.
Creating safety plans to escape if he escalates is also critical.
Can you move?
@@christymarch7245 Dealing with a stalker too (ex) although nothing to the extreme you are. Getting a lawyer has helped mostly by giving me more confidence in dealing with his sh$#, mostly because I have a game plan and someone who has dealt with this before. The lawyer sent a cease and desist letter which worked for 2 weeks until the ex started stalking me again but not as bad (ie has yet to show up at my house). Lawyer suggested contacting him first if my ex shows up at my house and he’d coach me what to say to the cops so they will take me more seriously. The formal cease and desist letter should also help me for when I need to get an order of protection (know only a matter of time) because my ex stated he understood he needed to leave me alone and has now ignored it.
I was also scared of my ex’s reaction if I did certain things (like I was worried about blocking him at first because I knew he’d explode or if I called the cops). But being scared of his reaction kept me somewhat more trapped. I personally had to use the riptide method for my own safety but the big thing I need to do is NEVER respond to anything he does or contact him. Just feeds them. I know you’re in a different position but don’t be scared to call the police or to get a lawyer.
Stay strong this pple are stupid phonies you are The power they can't have!! Live your best life and laugh about them
Restraining order...
It's hard to move on when you live in the same city as them.
stay empowered
been watching you for over a year or so. you're really good at capturing the stressed out expressions. Love you!
i have a sibling who is extremely obsessive and controlling and i’m working on finding an escape plan. i just fo with the control to avoid being physically hit & verbally attacked & the rest of my family just enables it
They do love backups. Oh my god, so true. That's the line, don't have kids with them no matter what
You ain't lying!
“I’ll see you at your gym tomorrow” 😂
His one lines are comedy gooold 😅🤣
My own cousin has been extremely obsessive with my life. It's weird asf! Because she has been cyberstalking me for the last 13 years! Yes, always protect yourself and let the police know for paper trail.
I’m cracking up because the video at the beginning it was soo real!! I been here before , changed my entire life ans still would no leave me alone , I am now free ! Loving my life w out hiding!!
How did you get him to leave you alone? Did he die?
Omg that skit is exactly what happened to me man. That is HILARIOUS. I’m getting ready to restrain his cheatin ass
Girl run
That’s true my ex use to do those things to me and I was honestly very scared because I made it clear I’m done with him and he would always threaten to kill me and I got tired of it and put a restraining order on him
Did it help?
Hello … I just wanna say Thank You!!! I was married to a man who displays “all 8” NPD characteristics…. for 35 years!!!! So I too know a few things about the disorder. But… finding ur channel has given me hope for the guy!!! I sent him ur link so Thanks more than you know!!
You can lock up my body but can never lock up my heart😂
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My ex narc is stalking me to a point I've become a bit paranoid because he can be violent at time. He doesn't even care I've got a protection order against him. He still find way to make me very uneasy every time I step out of my house. I've gotten arrested five time He still follow me around. He's excuses every time he needs to see his kids granted he can see them at his mom place every weekend.
Thank you, this makes so much sense. It's crazy, but I appreciate knowing. The more you keep it this level, the better. Excellent
Omgosh told my narc ex that i am done...he tells me we have to stay together forever & i can so relate to everything you said in this video.
I love the artistic viewpoints you put out there so everything resignates.
OMG! YOURE HILARIOUS!!
Brothers..plus..no worries!
" I'm so glad I never ever had a baby with you, cuz you can't love nothing unless there's something in it for you..." You Should Be Sad by Halsey
23 years! Twenty three years!!! If The Almighty hasn't stop him, who can?
I brought this curse upon myself, having procreating with a body full of demons, I am cursed for life!
He is still asking our grown children about my whereabouts, left Germany to Canada had to come back and I'm still running for my life. Developed heart disease and so on...
I used to love and cherish life, but death seems the only solution. And just like he told my mother, he won't leave me alone until I'm 6 feet under.
There is NO HELP!
I love your channel so much. I think I’m starting to understand that I am a narcissist and I have childhood trauma that I never dealt with.
Would you do a video series of steps for a narcissist to take if they want to heal.
(P.S. I am also going to therapy, would just be curious to hear your take on it)
Peace n love man
Love this! Best to you and your family 👪
Well done for being so brave to announce this 👏 can't be easy given the symptoms.
A sibling of my mine I've been watching these videos with believes they have the condition too. I'm starting to believe this is far more common that realised
Wish you all the best with your healing ❤
It's rare for a narc to be self-aware. You may need to do a lot of work, but you are blessed with the intuition to get that help, and that's so important.
Been 5 yrs for me. When he came to my house I heard he was going to follow me to new Zealand if I moved there so I didn't move there to protect my granddaughter. He since married and has 2 kids but is going out with my neighbour who helps him as well. I'm a pretty strong woman.and had to physically fight the narc and he's quietened down quiet abit. If I'm standing outside he'll yell at me but I rub it in by smiling back. I use to spend alot of time in my Lounge but now go to the back of house as I can see narc's girlfriends house.
No contact is best!!! I wouldn’t even want to see the house let alone him bc I wouldn’t want to give him no ideas. Narcs are weird and deranged. At least the one I know is. Good Luck to you Sis.
😂 cracks me up .. makes a clear point too. Thank you for helping me understand this. My narcissistic is about to get arrested a third time and I’m going through hell. 😢 so I appreciate the laugh x
i appreciate it you watching
We have a 6 year old baby boy togethere and she litterally will hurt him, if she thinks it might just get under my skin. She made him cry last weekend saying he wouldnt be able to see dad this weekend cause i pissed her off that i went to a pool hall/bar to eat freaking dinner! DO NOT HAVE KIDS WITH THEM!!!! IT SUCKS!!
Chock full of TRUTH!!!💯💯💯
Help help!!!! I was involved in end narcissistic mess. Now I'm being stalked online with my Google account being access remotely. Every time I was gaslight ed this deranged individual would take my device. If I can send you what I know please help me. My hope is to press charges.
Dude... your humor, so effin funny I couldn't stop laughing out loud man, thx for uploading this video!
I love your skits!
I'll see you tomorrow at your gym 😂😂 classic. Thank you for adding humor to it too. It's a serious subject we all know that but at the same time that scene DOES happen and what you said ... They actually say that. We could've been together those 5 years 😂😂😅.
Also final thaught....
Anyone else wonder, if a narc is insecure and with someone who truelly loves them. Why then is it a bad thing?? They have someone amazing who loves them??
Isn't that the point?????
lol "this is not a gym this is my backyard how did you find me " 😂
I finally got my ex out of my house, I found out my phone was hacked by him, got a new phone which sent him into a frenzy. I want to file a restraining order, I caught him yesterday walking around my job, then around my home. I'm not sure what to do when he's watching from a distance already. Restraining order isnt going to help when he's already so many feet away watching. I'm just exhausted.anyone I hangout with, he's causing trouble for. I literally am loosing my mind.😕
Mine popped up 3 years later trying to get revenge honestly fake revenge because I never done anything to deserve that but she was embarrassed that I didn’t run after the garbage truck and beg for my trash back and this is after she went around telling lies about me stalking her come to find out that nut was stalking me
"The second amendment is there for a reason"....yep. I agree. I also agree about using humour to make things easier to digest. I often use humour for that purpose. Lee as far as Narcissists go - I appreciate your work.
I don't know what he is thinking but it's not good because it's been no contact and the last thing they said to me was that they didn't want to see me with anyone else I stayed away ever since , and they told me they had HEAVY insecurities when we were talking before no contact smh they still stalks me too smdh Ima just continue to stay away
4 years separated and still dealing with an obsessed narcissist. Ready to burn the marriage certificate 🔥
I love these skits.
appreciate it
Yeah, I'm to the point where I'm taking a gun safety/shooting course.
For six to seven years I keep rejecting this woman and she won’t give up 😂😂😂😂😂
Good words Lee,
This is crazy after a week of “talking & dating”this narcissist woman she stalked & harassed me for a month. She called me for a month non stop 118 times some days 60 calls on no caller id even when she saw me block her number in front of her, she showed up to my house 3 times & wouldn’t leave my house for 4+ hours each time. The first time I escaped & called the police. The second time she SA’d me the third time she followed me back in to my flat intimidating me, think it’s funny & broke into my apartment she stayed for 7 hours & I refused to acknowledge her so she left abruptly.
She didn’t care that I called the police she continued. The police are not taking it serious because she’s a woman. I pushed her because she wouldn’t let me leave or call or get help. I told the police I had to push her the accused of assaulting her.
This is 7 months ago I’m scared she’ll come back because I have no one who well help. No one is taking this serious!
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You make jokes but this is serious shit. My husband stalks me all while he has his ex wife do all the public profile harassment on social media. We were together for 20 yrs and once we split this pass Feb he went back to her. The most horrible shit I've ever been through in my entire life
Believe me I sympathise with how scary this is and the dark times really are not funny what so ever.
But I feel that by using humour to address the more child like symptoms the narc displays, may encourage someone in the earlier stages get away easier?
In many women's shelters we don't know how but we often find humour brings us closer together.
It's hard to be scared when you're allowed to safely giggle in an environment that fully validates and supports one and other.
If chuckling at relentless tantrum style behaviour gets me through the next hour without breaking down I'll take the comedy all day long.
I doubt his intent is to cause more upset. I hope you're okay? Have you got any support? Are you safe? Xx
Love the honesty
Me that was me smhh it honestly came from being teased by girls in junior high and hs so when a girl stopped fwm I snapped and couldn’t handle the rejection cuz I was scared of losing something I know I couldn’t easily get…lowkey ashamed cuz of it still
Its even worse when its a parent. She wanted to kick me out because she thought i would beg to stay but when i got my own place she couldn’t take it. Its been years and she still wont leave me alone. If i dont answer my phone she calls other people acting like she’s worried about me and tell them to call me too. Its disturbing and im at my wits end. She created all these situations to keep me around. Now she needs my help for something all the time.
My mom and dad are obsessed with me that they do not want me to go out or work… it is sick and disgusting that this is coming from my family.
My Mom Is Obsessed With Me Can’t Even Do Simple Living Tasks Without Being Watched And Listened To
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Anybody else feel like the skits are word for word, the conversations you've had before? Cos it's as if lee knows my situation and I'm in another country!! 🤣🤣
This guy is good ❤
Also anyone else see that orange T black jacket combo he wore a couple days ago 😍😍😍
Oh my!
🤣 🤣 🤣 Yes I had tHt conversation with him last night. Exact word by word
Your skit just described the past two years of my life perfectly.
To a "T"!
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And I have no intention of moving on to a "new guy". I've put that out of my mind. #1 because the eX is not going to allow it. But really bc I'm so rattled that it's going to take years of therapy to heal. And then, by the time I do ever heal, I will be too old to date. 😮
(I'm in my early 50s rt now)
I'm going through this now
Bahahaha the skit in the beginning made me laugh out loud. Too funny lol
It's lowkey funny when you play 2 different people
"There's no fence on this planet that can block out my love.". 😄😂
Race me for your heart!! These skits give me life, lol.
What if it's a friend? He told our mutual friend that he will not stop bothering us until we say its over. We already told him 3 times what the issues are and have ignored him for 6 months. He has managed to wear down a mutual friend and that friend is asking us to tell him we are done. We dont want to give into the manipulation. He has cornered my husband in public. Please advise.
He can talking bout he prepared himself causevhe knew I was going to be salty toward him. So he already knew how I would react because of what he did
I'm in a battle with my ex and he is doing this to me. I have a restraining order but he's made his way back into my life a couple times over the last 2 years and I don't see him in person but he harasses me via phone and internet with texting and calling. He even cha get his number when I block him. I hate this.
I am asking for advise I noticed 2 days ago someone I know keeps posting fakebook accounts of 11 accounts they continued this for 5 years now
I know exactly who it is he won't leave Me alone finds my address or number I had to change my number 2 times I am so tired of it. I really need advise on this
How about since 2010? How obsessive is that?
I divorced the Covert narc in 2000 and he and his flying monkeys still contact me and my husband.
@@jacquelinefroehle3583 omg.. this is how i feel. He is married with 3 kids. The damage it did to my soul. I have never been able to remarry or have a longer than 2 year relationship. I get anxiety filled and fearful. I've had therapy and just shake it.
Mines been since 2012 ugh
I'm rolling 😂 LMAO @ "this is not a gym this is my backyard" I can only imagine this happening to me my pitbull gonna have himself a nice new chew toy 🎉
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I got my ears on!!
I've literally been trying to break it off with my (ex) b f for OVER TWO YEARS.
He constantly accuseS me of Cheating & Lying- except i'm NOT.
I gave him one hundred percent , but he only cussed me daily because he resents me so much because he thinks i'm a cheater , (except i'm not).
So I finally gave up hope.
Problem solved, right?
Wrong!
He follows me.He stalks me, he shows up at 2 o'clock in the morning uninvited, and unannounced. I never know where he is, but he is sure to be close around somewhere.
He will not accept the breakup.
Most narcissists do the discard. Not him. He thinks of me as his property, Forever and ever.😢
Oh & he WILL NOT take any steps to get better. Won't even?
Click the button to watch a simple two minute therapy video, Or won't even breathing slowly Thru his nose one time....
Please help my ex is still not leaving me alone its been a year he just dont get it that i dont want to be in his life....he is been calling me selfish for leaving him...but i just couldnt take anymore i choose myself...
This is facts all facts wish the 🌽 ball would leave me tf alone. Definitely lame asf
Understatement
My current situation stalked bu my mom my exes ......they must know were i stay
Omg what are y'all doing here. This is UA-cam how did you find ME
Crazy self will tell people I'm chasing him..... WOW
They act like they hate you around other people so nobody will believe you
Whose going believe a person in a relationship stalking their ex!!!
And stuff like the skit ...and people will tell you your delusional
as long they don't interact with me or talk about me with ppl I'm friends with then I am not too bothered
ridiculous never in my life would i put up with such toxic behaviour....the police are there use them
@@cindybrown9898 People who go through this don't just let it happen. They do go to the police and file restraining orders? And 99% of the time, it doesn't help.
I am being stalked online an this person out here making fake profiles
Break it down.
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@@MentalHealness thanks
Whitney m here again hiding under someone elses email just to get my ❤mental healness❤ fix!!
This video is my LIFE
I had no idea I've been getting stalked, harassed and terrorised by him and an entire crew of flying monkeys.
He won't get his hands dirty himself which is worse.
Because the people he is involving do not care that I have a baby and intentionally inflict harm on us both.
I've moved house and changed my number and phone a million times but they break in.
I'm now getting cctv and alarms.
Why if he doesn't want me and has the life he wanted, can't he get on and enjoy himself?
The smear campaign is affecting the way the general public are treating me.
The flying monkeys are just as deranged, juvenile and entoxicated.
This isn't narcissism anymore is it? This is sociopaths? To have no remorse and go to depths to harm an infant??
❤mental healness❤🙏I'm binging your videos because you're the only one who knows the cycle🙏
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Keep doing what you're doing.
New series vote *waving the red flags* please (because apparently I still can't spot them 😒)
❤stay loyal to UA-cam in your success lee. ❤ mental healness❤
Once again I know you are serious but that was so damn funny 😁 😂 😀 😆 🤣
Lmaooo as traumatized and triggered I am by this…the skit is hilarious 😂😂 ugh
I had some weirdo try to get me into his car god forbid I stand up for myself can’t instigate they say okay so then sit there with my head down and pretend like no one is around me? Then if I give them a quick side eye or stare at them even for a moment they literally flock toward me not everyone but one or two leave woman alone men and woman leave men alone. Gah just leave people alone I’m tired of it. No wonder I’m on such a high damn alert all the time I’m just surviving. 🙄
Not going to lie it’s actually scary. It’s even worse because it’s online and in my life. I didn’t even renew my lease idk what to do. This person did not like me at all, I spent years chasing him, making conversation, even let my guard down to confide in him. He violated me several times and when I discovered that I completely cut all communication changed my lifestyle but it’s scary because that doesn’t stop him. I’m more afraid of what I’ll do because I’ve become hyper aware of my surroundings. Unfortunately I don’t have enough to get the law involved. It’s very exhausting I’m only 26 my life just started and I have to deal with this.
He’s also not a “bum” so from the outside looking in it’s like “what’s wrong with her? He’s perfect” but it’s nothing like that he’s horrible
I dumped him bc I felt like he was manipulating me. The women who work with him at the bar tag me on fb. First thought nothing about it until the last girl did it. She works at 2 different clubs tagged me and I’ve been to both. It just happens to be his club. Also his idiotic buddy and another girl mentioned i go a lot of different places, or as she put it I aaa cheating on them. I just laughed about it then but I want nothing to do with him esp now im putting boundaries between us. I use to be real nice and now I have the feeling he still watches me.
Female narcissist or bpd u need no contact they won't leave u alone until then if they your coworker that's tough for you avoid every chance u get
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When I see these signs because the narcs they find out for the one to fly monkeys because the ones that we talked to they will find out information then they give it to the exmark or narcs and then from there let me say this lie they will take a picture of your state ID or your social security and that's the only way they will follow us and at the end of the day I'm just moving on with my life and in God's gracious or hope for the next move on with their lives what does supplies thank you LEE
The skit was funny asf 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I think he doesn't give a shit about me 😂
How can I leave a spouse that is a narcissist
Very carefully....plan your leave and do not tell the Narcissist. Do it quietly....
@@jacquelinefroehle3583 but you have animals kid's and a business together
@@faxwithoutalltheacts plan carefully to get you all out safely ….. I wish I all the luck ever ..
10 years 😮😮😮
Listen though, if you really hate someone, what's the worst thing you can think of to happen to them? Losing their life? Freedom? Happiness? Money friends and family? Stalking does all of those things to that person. They spend their money on you, they spend their energy and time on YOU, they lose friends and family because people get freaked out about their obsession. The best part is, it's all self inflicted.
Sounds good and all, but the thing is, them stalking you and losing themselves in the process does not only destroy them, it destroys you, too. The more they obsess over you, the greater the potential to hurt you in ways you'll never ever be able to come recover from.
Some stalkers have literally k----- the loved ones of the people they were obsessing over. It's a terrifying experience.
I move states to often for him to keep up😂 but he stalks my socials
Nice. But how do you get rid of random people who are obsessed with you, not ex-lovers, not ex-friends, just "homeless" internet parasites who just targeted you because you sneezed in their general direction?
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mines just came to my house 😡
PANNING * for gold, btw ✔️
They also fear you doing alll the good things y’all use to do. Damn I know he’s getting some good loving. Damn Ik he’s comfy. Damn he’s eating my food. He was possessive n controlling before he went to jail. DO U THINK HE STOP WHEN HE GETS OUT ?
Let me get enough proof. This is gonna become a legal issue real quick. Police and lawyers. That's what they need to act right.