He's a Narcissist! He let her plan that wedding knowing all the time he would not be there. He wanted to humiliate her and disrespect her family. She should have never married him!
Ladies..never EVER pay for your entire wedding out of your own pocket...if the man isn't willing to invest any of his money...that's a humungous red flag!
@T Y not all black men are broke and don't pay for anything. There are some good men out there and the fact that your generalising and putting them all in the same category is unfair and can be seen as racist especially in today's social climate
Absolutely , and he took her keys, phone, rented car etc. & went where & did what. ,with whom she should have took the hint. I guarantee you he’s still taken advantage of her. Look at him taking over the ice cream,! He’s selfish.
You dont know what all happened to make that statement. The man of the house said thats a private matter. At that point we should hear crickets chirping.😳
I wish that the interviewer demanded them sit further from eachother and not interupt. That is a correct interview. I bet he uses that woman like a maid.
True, and even then they don’t care! It’s obvious this isn’t going to be a long term marriage. I don’t know why women even go through the trouble of maintaining a fake relationship for a few years just so they can say they have a man and are married or in a relationship 🙄 I’m happily married, but if I wasn’t, I’d rather be by myself than to settle for men like this idiot! He doesn’t like her family or her daughter and she says she won’t put a man before her kids, but yet she did. I wouldn’t be able to marry someone who doesn’t like or get along with my children, let alone one who feels and wishes I didn’t have any contact including phone calls with my daughter! She’s trash for allowing herself to even be with a man like him who has no respect for her or her family, so it’s no wonder that the man she chooses to marry is trash too. I’m not gonna feel sorry for her when this chump cheats on her and leaves her, because women like her deserve it and they need to be taught a lesson: if you allow a man to take advantage of you in a relationship when it’s clear he’s no good, then he will! In the end you’re left right back where you started at. Women like her need to learn how to be alone and make themselves happy first, before relying on a man to fulfill their happiness. And notice how she financially supports him? What a winner he is! 🙄 complaining that SHE spent all that money on the wedding, because we know he didn’t pay for anything 😂 Both of them are just straight up trash!
NB 50- Evidently, you have never seen "Bridezillas" or did not see this instalmment, but you obviously did not see how they had treated the "groom" coming up to the wedding.Looks like he had seen just about enough!
AskCHRISSY. oh yes her self worth gotta be low af! That man embarrassed her entire existence!! The humiliation, the disrespect! the completly shitting on her fckng finances!!!.......😡😡😡😡 Ill be mad for her since she dgaf😑😑
I wad have slapped that childish imature insult to manhood so hard he'd be ashamed to show his face. And dump him, keep any gifts, etc from him and his family and sell the ring.
Definitely something fishy going on there! Just see how he downplayed the fact that he didn't show up for the wedding. She got her big wedding and I got mine hahaha
@@thedankestmemes1116 another red flag was in the rehearsal he farts so loudly and it stunk so bad the officiant had to plug his nose. However, he didn’t take responsibility for the fart - he blamed her. Plus I knew the fart was really bad because in the next scene he was wearing new pants.
Well I do agree that one thing that he said there’s lotta things between them yes it is a whole damn family we are in a relationship daughters they are put your business out to everybody in the family it’s none of their damn business it was on in that relationship between them because you’re the two people that has to work it out
amela montgomery: Exactly, some women will settle for anything just to say they are married. I think she is pure crazy for marrying him, how a person treats you before marriage is how they will treat you during the marriage.....I hope she didn't expect much of a change in him after marriage lol
I'm so happy she said "no mother in their right mind would give up there child for a man".. Atleast she has that much common sense. I wish she would have more common sense not to marry that fool after he humiliated her but whatever..
Wow, ok. 1. He was a coward for not telling her he didn't want a big wedding beforehand, and 2. She was an idiot for actually going to Las Vegas to marry him THE NEXT DAY. What the heck?
That punk broke that's why the family didn't want her to marry him a blind man can see that. Look at the type of wedding she was having and after all that could go to Vegas to get married.
I'm telling you right now,. I dealt with a narcissist for almost 10 years, that dude is abusive. She will follow the pattern of defending him even though she knows he is abusing her. She does not love herself.
This episode disgusted me. It is unfortunate that desperation would cause a woman to marry a man like this. I would not have married this man he is completely selfish.
I would NEVER marry a man who has a problem with how close I am with my family, publicly humiliate me at my wedding in front of my loved ones, and make ME pay for the wedding instead of us going half. All to have a shotgun wedding the very next day.🤦🏽♀️ Somehow, he doesn't see a problem with ANY of this. That's why he didn't care about the money that was wasted because he didn't pay. 🤷🏽♀️ Can you say, "Narcissism" ? 🤯
I’m just amazed what some women will do, just because they’re afraid to be alone. If he can’t make you feel and treat you as a queen then there’s no need to be with him. I’m a newlywed and my husband made most of the preparations we discussed for our wedding before I got to Suriname. It was a destination wedding and he lives there and we had the most amazing fairytale wedding. He made sure everything and everyone was on time, I wasn’t with him the morning of the wedding because it’s customary that the bride leaves the night before, however I had absolutely nothing to worry about he was and simply is amazing before our wedding and currently the best husband God could have given me.
@Nina Bobina take it from me and only certain people understand this...I'm a orphan n grew up the black sheep so the "FAMILY" that was supposed to protect me, didn't. So I don't understand "family" it makes me mad when someone would rather go hangout with their family. I just don't get it and I have talked n I'm continuing my healing journey with my therapist
wow. she paid for the wedding, rental car and I'm sure both of their tickets to get to Vegas. Dude is with her for the money. That's it. that's so sad. Her daughter and family saw right through him.
He should have took her money..keys..car..wth was that about? He's saying everything is between us. Wth she was jiltted and he aint cute at all. Girl dont let that man stop you from speaking to your kid. SMH.
That was actually a big point of the story. Her family weren't supportive at all. They pretty much treated her like dirt, she did things for them all of the time and not only were they not grateful they seemed to resent the fact that she had her own money and her life was successful - till this guy showed up. They laughed at her and made fun of her getting married, and her daughter outright resented the fact that her mother would now be spending money on herself and this man and NOT spending it on her (I'm not speculating her daughter SAID this point blank.) Its no wonder she eventually married this guy. All of the people in her life treated her like crap, what was one more? Really sad.
I saw this episode and her daughter is a spoiled brat. She is an adult and living rent free with her mother. She didn't like that her mother had happiness in her life and actively tried to break them up. I wouldn't be with a man who's child treated me like that. Again, her daughter is a full grown adult. Watch the full episode; you'll change your perspective.
@@michelleprieur1 Exactly! The daughter was awful. I'm looking at all these comments like did y'all watch the full episode? I understood why Dion left her at the altar. I believe too that the daughter was also alittle envious of her mom being the one to get married.
@Medeathat's the stupidest response. Sometime victims keep hurting themselves and bare some of the responsibility People that don't want to grow up repeat that phrase to get out of looking like a moron She deserves that blame and so do people like u
Agreed. I always shake my head at the men who marry obvious bridezillas, but of course this goes both ways. She knew how he was, everyone she asked told her not to go through with it. In the end, it was her decision and noone else's.
"other than her love for her family we're ok...", wait, what?!? having love for your family is a problem?!? she's a fool for marrying this narcissist. smdh
The reason he didn't show up to the wedding was because he wasn't in control of it. The marriage had to happen on HIS terms. Trying to cut his wife off from contact with her family is also very controlling. He is scared to death that the people who can see him for what he is might influence her. I just hope she can admit her mistake and go back to her family.
She's either desperate, stupid or mentally ill. Nobody comes between me & my kids. He sounds like a control freak. All I can say is Good luck ol girl. You gonna need it!
Are they serious? So he steals your keys, car, money, leaves you at the altar, does now Call or show up to wedding, you paid for the wedding, and you still marry him? This is a joke right?
vermary 📬 He could have called or texted. SMH..It not what you do it how you do it. So sad. He was ghost and he will be missing in action again. 👻 ghost. If you don't stand for something... You will fall for anything.
I'm more concerned about WHY this woman is still with this man! This is not just a matter of being "in love"! But she's dealing with something on a deeper level. Whether it be low self-esteem, fear, desperation, or whatever, she needs help!
"she got the big wedding she wanted even though I wasn't there, and I got the small wedding I wanted, so it would out well". Worked out well?!?!? Wtf????
He had the audacity to say that it all worked out well because she got the big wedding that she wanted, that he didn't even show up for, thus humiliating her & he got the small wedding that he wanted so it all worked out well for the both of them !!!!! UNBELIEVABLE!!!!!!! She still married him, even though he really don't want her to talk to her own child, by her admission!! Completely unbelievable!!!!
Acosya2 Not unless there was an EXTREME reason for why he didn't show. Like, unless he's laying in a hospital bed because he got shot trying to rescue a bus full of orphans from a terrorist, he better be at that altar. Lol
A lady I went to Church with did the same thing. He has the nerve to be a Pastor now. He told the Church that God sent her to him but I wonder what God thought when this ninja walked out?
Neither one is rapped tight! How are you going to say "My wifes love for her family is what comes between us!" Really? A she should have realized that he wasnt ready to get married! It's like she was desperate! They don't look happy.
Nina Horn Or maybe he was ready for marriage, but not a bridezilla. Men want a wife, not a monster. If a woman wants a husband, he should know this before planning the wedding.
I hate that this is my number one , most favorite episode. 😩 UPDATE! They are now divorced! She filed for the divorce on 8/7/2017 and a judgment was filed 12/8/2018. Not sure if it's finalized at this point, but I'm glad that it didn't work for them two. On another note, Anita was in trouble and facing felony charges for workers' compensation insurance fraud. Apparently, she was lying to her doctor and falsifying documents.
Update: they divorced On 08/07/2017 a Family - Marriage Dissolution “Divorce case was filed by THIMBRELL, ANITA MAXWELL against THIMBRELL, DION DONALD in the jurisdiction of Los Angeles County Superior Courts, Stanley Mosk Courthouse located in Los Angeles, California.”
You know they got PROBLEMS. I would’ve said yes let’s get married and then left his bum ass at the alter in Vegas. Changed my number and email and moved so he could never find me 🐸☕️
Triza Muli I agree with you That not respect for her But , they both stupid and deserve to be eachather She's more stupid than he is I WILL KICK HIS ASS SO HARD AND HE WILL LAND IN LAS VEGAS BY HIM SELF ,, NEVER GO WITH HIM IN BED,, ,,YOU (WE ) ARE GIRL SCHULD LOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY A LOT YOU HAVE ONLY ONE FAMILY BUT BOYFRIENDS AND HUSBANDS YOU CAN HAVE SO,SO,SO MANY 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 YOU CAN CHANGE THEM LIKE YOUR UNDERWEAR ,EVRY DAY, BUT YOU WILL STILL HAVE ONE FAMILY🤗🤗
This is horrifying. "The biggest thing between us is her love for her family"?! Why would you want to marry someone who abandoned you on your wedding day and humiliated you in front of everyone you know?
I feel bad for her. I couldn't imagine being stood up on my wedding day. I think she still married him because she payed money for the dress and everything. She must of really loved him.....alot
"That's the biggest thing that's between us - her love for her family" ????? Are you kidding me? This guy is a selfish, controlling psycho! She's a complete nut for marrying him, after he left her standing at the alter! run, Run, RUN !!!!!
Yes you have to keep your eyes wide open and trust your gut. Marriage is hard enough with a good guy never mind a guy who wants to cut you off from your own daughter! It really is so sad!
He look's like he was playing her when he skipped the wedding, he probably was cheating the day of the wedding. And she spend all that money and she still married him?
After HUMILIATING this woman he had the nerve to say, “She got the big wedding she wanted, even though I wasn’t there; I got the small wedding I wanted in Vegas”. Does anyone know if they’re still married?
After being left at the alter in the presence of all my family and friends, there would not have a wedding in Vegas or any where else on this planet. He could have lease extended her the respect of a simple phone call, explaining his absence.
OMG !!! I watched this episode when it originally aired and was shocked and hurt for this woman. Well I am getting married in three months and I could not imagine this horror ..... ON HER WEDDING DAY!!! and she still married this clown!!!
I sensed an insecurity in her and NO MAN should ever even try to get in between a mother and a daughter relationship, nor a woman should have to chose between her daughter and her man. PERIOD.
Ethel Cabanlit Theres insecurity in him also, when a person constantly place you in situtation were you have to always prove your love a devotion they are insecure. He left her at the alter total humiliation, but called the next day that was intentional, now he dont want her to have a relationship with her daughter whom she love why so she can prove her love for him if she stop. She and others need to wake up!!!
Standing her up was egregious enough. That told me all I needed to know to deduce the narcissism. However, he's still attempting to drive a wedge between her and her daughter after her daughter's ONLY offense was doing what any loving child would do (defending her mom against someone who mistreated her mom). Everything about this relationship is TOXIC. I know it sounds harsh, but I sincerely hope that this marriage doesn't end fatally or with a missing person's report. Emotional abuse usually precedes physical abuse.
Not showing up for the wedding was very cowardly. And to not even call or text back??! How childish! Whether he realizes it or not, his decision to not show up was very selfish and controlling. He wanted to have control regardless of the cost. If you willfully stand someone up at the altar, then you don't love them... period.
There's more to this story, why he let her spend all that money on their wedding and he didn't show up. Something's wrong with this man. Her love for him is blind.
Jasmine Lee Well what's the difference with children not talking to their parents because their spouses or fiancée/fiancé have not been accepted in their lives. Its very common in this modern age and you don't live to please your parents or your grown ass children. You live to please your self and make sure you build as much support system while you burned the old negative support system down, period!
Aselitha84 it’s not that parents and children have to speak; it’s that your partner should never suggest you cut people out of your life if you a happier with them in it. It’s a classic sign of an abusive/controlling relationship.
Audra Michelle that’s not nice. This can happen to the strongest woman out there. It sneaks up on you and it will make or break you. She’s a little older so she might just stick around pray for her. Satan is using him as a tool to ruin her 🙏🙏🙏
I wanted to find out what happened to them over the years, so I just tried to find something online. So far, I've read that she had been charged with insurance fraud. The article says that she claimed to be injured while working, but wasn't honest about previous injuries to her neck and shoulder being from a previous incident. Hmm. I wasn't a fan of the show, but when I saw the preview for this episode when it was about to air, curiosity got the better of me, so I tuned in. I don't recall very many of the details, but I do recall that the couple and the bride's daughter all seemed to have huge issues. The groom and daughter couldn't stand each other, the bride would take up for the groom, the groom wanted to keep the bride away from her family, (a huge red flag!), etc. Having all that, plus whatever else we don't know about, happen, and she still married him. Wow. I imagine there was possibly lots of mental and physical abuse adding up on a regular basis. They all needed help.
My wife watched this show, so I couldn't help seeing a few episodes. I didn't see this one, but I always wondered why the grooms went through with these weddings. These "bridezillas" are usually just horrible, self absorbed, abusive people. An impending wedding isn't an excuse for how they behave. Hope it works for them.
we would be in court b/ct his behind just got beat up...he is sooo selfish and need major mental help it take 2 people to get married he could not got married in Vegas without her he had that planned out he neva planned to show up
I guess when some women get to a particular stage in life and get a man, they'll hold on ,no matter what, just so they don't have to be alone. Instead of NO man, ANY man will do.Sad
He's a Narcissist! He let her plan that wedding knowing all the time he would not be there. He wanted to humiliate her and disrespect her family. She should have never married him!
Sara Edmonds I wonder if they still married
Sara Edmonds exactly right. I worry for that woman. She’s a victim and likely doesn’t realize it yet :(
+ღ ღ
Exactly. I worry about her, too. He seems very abusive.
Sara Edmonds
That was my first thought... That's a narc move! Smh
That’s how abuse relationship starts , they remove you from everyone you know and pretend they love you
I was thinkin that too..i hope not tho..hope they build a happy successful life together n the familys too
True
Emmanuella Alliali Thankyou
jessa gaith I hope to that they are happy and they gets along with their family.
Her family hates him for a reason, I hope it last but I'm sure it won't he's not marriage material
Ladies..never EVER pay for your entire wedding out of your own pocket...if the man isn't willing to invest any of his money...that's a humungous red flag!
Ridiculous
Our parents went 1/2 & 1/2...
@T Y not all black men are broke and don't pay for anything. There are some good men out there and the fact that your generalising and putting them all in the same category is unfair and can be seen as racist especially in today's social climate
Absolutely , and he took her keys, phone, rented car etc. & went where & did what. ,with whom she should have took the hint. I guarantee you he’s still taken advantage of her. Look at him taking over the ice cream,! He’s selfish.
@Eugene Butler What part of going your own way involves popping up on a wedding video involving women
No real man tells his wife not to talk to her child....RUN!
A real man would dump the hell out of you if you neglect your child
You dont know what all happened to make that statement. The man of the house said thats a private matter. At that point we should hear crickets chirping.😳
Landa Henderson You’re defending this?
@@KCohere33 No im saying that we do not have all the facts about what happened behind closed doors to for a valid opinion or concern.
@@KCohere33 We have a habit of judging or forming an opinion without all the facts. Out of fairness to the couple i reserv my opinion
"That's between us, that's not between me and them."
So many red flags for abuse....
Agreed. He wants to isolate her from her family, which is NEVER okay.
Aaron DeWitt
agree 100
I wish that the interviewer demanded them sit further from eachother and not interupt. That is a correct interview. I bet he uses that woman like a maid.
Aaron DeWitt he tested her, she passed so now he gonna try and alienate her from her family then beat the hell out of her ijs never
Ammorree Stevens he ain't worth it. I'd pish on see ya
Some women will accept absolutely anything to have a man.
Know your worth ladies.
True, and even then they don’t care! It’s obvious this isn’t going to be a long term marriage. I don’t know why women even go through the trouble of maintaining a fake relationship for a few years just so they can say they have a man and are married or in a relationship 🙄 I’m happily married, but if I wasn’t, I’d rather be by myself than to settle for men like this idiot! He doesn’t like her family or her daughter and she says she won’t put a man before her kids, but yet she did. I wouldn’t be able to marry someone who doesn’t like or get along with my children, let alone one who feels and wishes I didn’t have any contact including phone calls with my daughter! She’s trash for allowing herself to even be with a man like him who has no respect for her or her family, so it’s no wonder that the man she chooses to marry is trash too. I’m not gonna feel sorry for her when this chump cheats on her and leaves her, because women like her deserve it and they need to be taught a lesson: if you allow a man to take advantage of you in a relationship when it’s clear he’s no good, then he will! In the end you’re left right back where you started at. Women like her need to learn how to be alone and make themselves happy first, before relying on a man to fulfill their happiness. And notice how she financially supports him? What a winner he is! 🙄 complaining that SHE spent all that money on the wedding, because we know he didn’t pay for anything 😂 Both of them are just straight up trash!
Any old man at that, too! Smh!
Dee_88 Royal_Idiot .......... ABSOLUTELY!!!!!! THANK YOU!!! SINGLE AND PROUD!!! I WILL NOT SETTLE!!!
Naturalbeauty50 Well said..n very true
NB 50- Evidently, you have never seen "Bridezillas" or did not see this instalmment, but you obviously did not see how they had treated the "groom" coming up to the wedding.Looks like he had seen just about enough!
she has LOW self-esteem....this is by far the saddest thing.
i know right she doesnt have dignitu
dignity
none whatsoever...like its truly the SADDEST THING.
AskCHRISSY Sometimes it has nothing to with self esteem or pride. Lack of common sense, trusting too much and poor judgment can be major factors.
AskCHRISSY. oh yes her self worth gotta be low af! That man embarrassed her entire existence!! The humiliation, the disrespect! the completly shitting on her fckng finances!!!.......😡😡😡😡 Ill be mad for her since she dgaf😑😑
“Is my daughter crying?”
“Yes”
“Good, let her cry, cause she was acting bad all week and this is what happens.”
*What??*
my thoughts exactly 🤣
Yeah, this woman is definitely not wrapped too tight.
Caily well her daughter was talking shit and stuff all the way up until the wedding but she had the right to talk shit to that man lol.
😂😂😂😭😭😭
I'm with you. No woman should EVER put a man above her child. Yikes!!!
Where's her dignity!!! No way would I have ever married or talked to this man.
Beatriz Rodriguez Hes a complete loser
I wad have slapped that childish imature insult to manhood so hard he'd be ashamed to show his face. And dump him, keep any gifts, etc from him and his family and sell the ring.
"Her love for her family is the only thing between us" Excuse me, WHAT?!
What they need between them is 3,000 miles and an ocean lmao
blxssingss Right! What person does not want you to have contact with your family! He seems controlling and abusive
Lol
@@CassieCas0106 Narc
@@TheMabes69 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sounds toxic. He husband sounds like an abuser. Trying to isolate her? Narcissism. Scary. Sad.
She is desperate and pathetic
@@janetboreland8765 DON'T forget JUST plain STUPIT!
Definitely something fishy going on there! Just see how he downplayed the fact that he didn't show up for the wedding. She got her big wedding and I got mine hahaha
He sure does. I hope they don't end up on fatal vows next. He is toxic and she is a fool.
He gonna kill her for insurance money! 😥
Dion is controlling. The Vegas wedding was under his control. Shes a complete fool.
Yea and he said she got the big wedding that she wanted and he got the small wedding he wanted smh
@Israel
*BAHHH HA HA HA*
i needed a good belly laugh... thank you for that bit of total idiocy...
*GOOD JOB SKIPPY*
@Israel *WRONG AGAIN, BOOMER*....
happily married to a *REAL* man for 4 decades.....
but nice effort.....
This is what happens when you are desperate
"The biggest thing between us is her love for her family"
Speechless
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@@thedankestmemes1116 another red flag was in the rehearsal he farts so loudly and it stunk so bad the officiant had to plug his nose. However, he didn’t take responsibility for the fart - he blamed her. Plus I knew the fart was really bad because in the next scene he was wearing new pants.
@@michaelscarn378 lmao... thanks
What. The actual. Fuck.
@@michaelscarn378 😮 oh Lawd no 🤮 what a nasty individual i just couldn't and wouldn't have married him for so many valid reasons
I could never marry him knowing that he just humiliated me in front of everybody I knew and loved! That’s super embarrassing!
Let's not forget about all the views of bridezilla
Well I do agree that one thing that he said there’s lotta things between them yes it is a whole damn family we are in a relationship daughters they are put your business out to everybody in the family it’s none of their damn business it was on in that relationship between them because you’re the two people that has to work it out
Wait! So she married him after all? Wow! Some women are desperate!
Right he stole money for her and didn't want her to talk to her daughter smh she had low self esteem
He didn't want a big wedding, that's what it was.
+LaKya Hanna No it was her family they knew how it got down especially the daughter it had nothing to do with wanting a small wedding
That damn nigga is just sorry wedding day is suppose to be about the bride!
amela montgomery: Exactly, some women will settle for anything just to say they are married. I think she is pure crazy for marrying him, how a person treats you before marriage is how they will treat you during the marriage.....I hope she didn't expect much of a change in him after marriage lol
She got the big wedding even though I wasn't there and I got the small wedding I wanted. This guy is whack!!!
He's gay
Very
The female is just his meal ticket❗
@@katrinagarnett3256 lĺĺlĺ
She was crazy to go marry this man!
Sadly I think she's slow
Ianat Ylercu lmao
Lawd I hope they don't have kids!! 🤦🏿 they both slow
No, all jokes aside tho... I was thinking the same thing. Then I’m like what happened in your pass??
Very damn slowww
Me too
I'm so happy she said "no mother in their right mind would give up there child for a man".. Atleast she has that much common sense. I wish she would have more common sense not to marry that fool after he humiliated her but whatever..
Lil Redd *their.
Alexus Lauren
Yes, she gets points for not abandoning her daughter for a man. There are a lot of women who do. SMH.
Yeah you'd that huh? But my mother left me and my dad for another guy and never looked back, I was 14
Wow, ok. 1. He was a coward for not telling her he didn't want a big wedding beforehand, and 2. She was an idiot for actually going to Las Vegas to marry him THE NEXT DAY.
What the heck?
+Julia Caro That could not be me if he had stood me up not only would I NOT marry him his car would be beyond jacked up after I bust the windows out
agreed
He didn't want a big wedding, that's what it was.
Julia Caro lol lol Right. he was cheating. I bet! like my grandmother said" you like it I love it" 👊✌💋
That punk broke that's why the family didn't want her to marry him a blind man can see that. Look at the type of wedding she was having and after all that could go to Vegas to get married.
I'm telling you right now,. I dealt with a narcissist for almost 10 years, that dude is abusive. She will follow the pattern of defending him even though she knows he is abusing her. She does not love herself.
This episode disgusted me. It is unfortunate that desperation would cause a woman to marry a man like this. I would not have married this man he is completely selfish.
Right on
"He stole my money, he stole my keys, and he stole my phone. If he doesn't come back, he's going to prison." 😂😂💀💀💀
Then married him after he stole from her smh. BLESS this child
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Briana R OMG😱😱😱
3:23... The look on his face
he would not of had asscess to my monet. at all....
I would NEVER marry a man who has a problem with how close I am with my family, publicly humiliate me at my wedding in front of my loved ones, and make ME pay for the wedding instead of us going half. All to have a shotgun wedding the very next day.🤦🏽♀️ Somehow, he doesn't see a problem with ANY of this. That's why he didn't care about the money that was wasted because he didn't pay. 🤷🏽♀️ Can you say, "Narcissism" ? 🤯
Nina Bobina Don’t forget the car that he rode around in on the wedding day.
I’m just amazed what some women will do, just because they’re afraid to be alone. If he can’t make you feel and treat you as a queen then there’s no need to be with him. I’m a newlywed and my husband made most of the preparations we discussed for our wedding before I got to Suriname. It was a destination wedding and he lives there and we had the most amazing fairytale wedding. He made sure everything and everyone was on time, I wasn’t with him the morning of the wedding because it’s customary that the bride leaves the night before, however I had absolutely nothing to worry about he was and simply is amazing before our wedding and currently the best husband God could have given me.
Amen
WELL SAID...
@Nina Bobina take it from me and only certain people understand this...I'm a orphan n grew up the black sheep so the "FAMILY" that was supposed to protect me, didn't. So I don't understand "family" it makes me mad when someone would rather go hangout with their family. I just don't get it and I have talked n I'm continuing my healing journey with my therapist
You never choose a man over your child 🤷🏾♀️ and you leave me at the aisle there’s no coming back ! She’s too old to not have self esteem
wow. she paid for the wedding, rental car and I'm sure both of their tickets to get to Vegas. Dude is with her for the money. That's it. that's so sad. Her daughter and family saw right through him.
She's has the lowest self-esteem I've ever seen on anyone.
Tyese Conner Cant be worse than "Danielle" on 90 day fiance. Just can't be!
Wouldn't be the first time a man marries a woman for money.
He should have took her money..keys..car..wth was that about? He's saying everything is between us. Wth she was jiltted and he aint cute at all. Girl dont let that man stop you from speaking to your kid. SMH.
He would never get a second chance from me. He wouldn't exist in my life after that day.
Let me exist in your life
true that..even if he's a billionaire and lick my feet to apologize 🖕
I know that's right sista💯
She wants to separate herself from her family, her support system. They aren't the ones who left you at the altar.
That's a sign of an abuser. And is he giving you gay vibes?
That was actually a big point of the story. Her family weren't supportive at all. They pretty much treated her like dirt, she did things for them all of the time and not only were they not grateful they seemed to resent the fact that she had her own money and her life was successful - till this guy showed up.
They laughed at her and made fun of her getting married, and her daughter outright resented the fact that her mother would now be spending money on herself and this man and NOT spending it on her (I'm not speculating her daughter SAID this point blank.)
Its no wonder she eventually married this guy. All of the people in her life treated her like crap, what was one more? Really sad.
For real
I saw this episode and her daughter is a spoiled brat. She is an adult and living rent free with her mother. She didn't like that her mother had happiness in her life and actively tried to break them up. I wouldn't be with a man who's child treated me like that. Again, her daughter is a full grown adult. Watch the full episode; you'll change your perspective.
@@michelleprieur1 Exactly! The daughter was awful. I'm looking at all these comments like did y'all watch the full episode? I understood why Dion left her at the altar. I believe too that the daughter was also alittle envious of her mom being the one to get married.
The bride is 100% to blame for forcing this relationship in the first place. She knew he wasn't shit and ignored the red flags. Shameful
They're divorced now.
@Medeathat's the stupidest response. Sometime victims keep hurting themselves and bare some of the responsibility
People that don't want to grow up repeat that phrase to get out of looking like a moron
She deserves that blame and so do people like u
Agreed. I always shake my head at the men who marry obvious bridezillas, but of course this goes both ways. She knew how he was, everyone she asked told her not to go through with it. In the end, it was her decision and noone else's.
@Medea victim of WHAT???!!! 🤡🙄 She's a grown ass woman!!! 🧐
You all want to label everyone a victim instead of her taking responsibility!!!? 🤡
Desperation, it was. She could've picked better unless the sex positions kept her from changing her mind
"other than her love for her family we're ok...", wait, what?!? having love for your family is a problem?!? she's a fool for marrying this narcissist. smdh
jacie9799 lmao ayah!!!🤣🤣
Right? "It worked out well." Please...
The reason he didn't show up to the wedding was because he wasn't in control of it. The marriage had to happen on HIS terms. Trying to cut his wife off from contact with her family is also very controlling. He is scared to death that the people who can see him for what he is might influence her. I just hope she can admit her mistake and go back to her family.
She's either desperate, stupid or mentally ill. Nobody comes between me & my kids. He sounds like a control freak. All I can say is Good luck ol girl. You gonna need it!
Chelle K 💯🙌💯
Narc
Chelle K fact
That sounds plausible.
What abusers do separate you from your family and friends
Tamu Malone the very 1st thing!
so true
Tamu Malone Yessss and Amen
Tamu Malone YES. Happened to a family member of mine. Isolate and continue the abuse.
Damn right! He beating her ass!
THAT NINJA IS PROBABLY LIQUIDATING HER ASSETS AS WE SPEAK!! 😳😳
🤣🤣🤣😂😂
Are they serious? So he steals your keys, car, money, leaves you at the altar, does now
Call or show up to wedding, you paid for the wedding, and you still marry him? This is a joke right?
once i heard that he doesnt want her to talk to her daugter at all, i would have let if it was me. theres no way i staying
kendrajrockin5 my daughter comes first.
Maybe her daughter is a pos.
I felt bad for her until she decided to marry him anyway.
If she took that asshole back after that she deserved the humiliation from before.
+rose dickerson
sad, true....
+rose dickerson definitely!! she doesn't have it all upstairs
chesiregirl exactly,
Might be the man was fed up of the family butting into their life, and he had cold feet.
vermary 📬 He could have called or texted. SMH..It not what you do it how you do it. So sad. He was ghost and he will be missing in action again. 👻 ghost. If you don't stand for something... You will fall for anything.
I'm more concerned about WHY this woman is still with this man! This is not just a matter of being "in love"! But she's dealing with something on a deeper level. Whether it be low self-esteem, fear, desperation, or whatever, she needs help!
Why is the Camera man still taking pictures while she's sitting at the table alone. LMFAO
LaLa Knight He figured he'd do his job since he was getting paid regardless!
LaLa Knight He came to take pictures. The reason he was there. Don't blame him.
we gotta get that footage!😂😂😂
LaLa Knight
Hahahaha! 😂💀💀
LaLa Knight cause that's what's he's payed to do
Omg she blames her daughter, then she married him!!!!
crazy right...smh..I remember watching this when it aired and thinking what in the entire fu*k
if a man can't get along with my children, no way I marry him.
When your children are grown and fucked up, you can have them.
I totally agree with you.
I don't know of one man who would marry a woman who has children with bad attitudes, especially one who has a grown daughter with a bad attitude.
These are the same childern that will have to take care of your old ass.
A Cherished Gem exactly !!!!
The saying is true..."There's a sucker born every minute!"🤣🤣🤣
every second I bet
Anita she be in Ripley's believe it or not record book for being the world's dumbest bride ever!!!!!!!!!!!!! No way would I marry this 0!!
Humiliate me like that in front of my family, you do not get a second chance.
Heyitsleaf ....HUMILIATE me regardless....kicked to the curb.
Amen to that..true
Heyitsleaf He doesn’t like her family
"She got the big wedding she wanted, and I got the small wedding I wanted." You just can't make this stuff up!
😂 I searched for somebody in the comment who caught that too
I was like hell naaaaaw
"she got the big wedding she wanted even though I wasn't there, and I got the small wedding I wanted, so it would out well". Worked out well?!?!? Wtf????
it really is all about what he wants, she has been brainwashed, made to feel worthless and to think she's nothing without him
Chloe Presley omg i know i was like wtf!
But she didn’t have the wedding she wanted because there wasn’t one so what is he talking about???🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️🤔
Chloe Presley mouth on the floor. Wtheck! No sir, we would never speak again. You go do you
That statement was so telling
I’m glad she still has a relationship with her daughter
He had the audacity to say that it all worked out well because she got the big wedding that she wanted, that he didn't even show up for, thus humiliating her & he got the small wedding that he wanted so it all worked out well for the both of them !!!!! UNBELIEVABLE!!!!!!! She still married him, even though he really don't want her to talk to her own child, by her admission!! Completely unbelievable!!!!
“She got the big wedding she wanted, even though I was not there.” 😂😂😂😂😂
That sent me😂😂😂
Deedei SMH
That was so rude
@@jennifersanaipei6182 hell yeah. there wld have been no way to marry him. he let her spend tht shit. i wld have been fire fire 🔥 hot..
Total idiot.
NEVER IN MY LIFE! MARRY A MAN THAT LEFT ME AT THE ALTER!!
Acosya2
Yes,I agree with you 1000000000000% times
He is not WORTH it
Acosya2 Not unless there was an EXTREME reason for why he didn't show. Like, unless he's laying in a hospital bed because he got shot trying to rescue a bus full of orphans from a terrorist, he better be at that altar. Lol
I wouldn't even marry a man who left me at the prom.
A lady I went to Church with did the same thing. He has the nerve to be a Pastor now. He told the Church that God sent her to him but I wonder what God thought when this ninja walked out?
Acosya2 right! she lost all those deposits&$ to marry the clown in vegas????
She may have lost some dignity after her husband left her at the alter but she completely lost her dignity by marrying him the next day 😒
Anybody else just come here for the comments? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😁✋ ME
Me!!🙋🙋😆😆😆😆
This is awful
Yes.
Yes yes yes and everybody is on the same page
That lady has some mental issues and he has some serious control issues as well TOXIC
Neither one is rapped tight! How are you going to say "My wifes love for her family is what comes between us!" Really? A she should have realized that he wasnt ready to get married! It's like she was desperate! They don't look happy.
Nina Horn Or maybe he was ready for marriage, but not a bridezilla. Men want a wife, not a monster. If a woman wants a husband, he should know this before planning the wedding.
You're abusive, and if you were a man saying exactly what you did to a woman, you'd get your ass kicked. Psycho bitch.
I hate that this is my number one , most favorite episode. 😩
UPDATE!
They are now divorced!
She filed for the divorce on 8/7/2017 and a judgment was filed 12/8/2018. Not sure if it's finalized at this point, but I'm glad that it didn't work for them two. On another note, Anita was in trouble and facing felony charges for workers' compensation insurance fraud. Apparently, she was lying to her doctor and falsifying documents.
Thank you for the update. I recall watching this episode in full 😮😮😮, & astonished she still married him after being stood up at the altar.
This is too funny! Serves her right 😊😂
Low self esteem, no self worth, no COMMON SENSE!!!! Bless her heart.
You CONSIDERED CUTTING OFF YOUR FAMILY?!?! For a MAN WHO DITCHED YOU ON UR WEDDING but you married THE NEXT DAY IN VEGAS!?!?! Wwwwwhattttt?!?!?!?!?!?
good lawd! whaaat!!!
Update: they divorced
On 08/07/2017 a Family - Marriage Dissolution
“Divorce case was filed by THIMBRELL, ANITA MAXWELL against THIMBRELL, DION DONALD in the jurisdiction of Los Angeles County Superior Courts, Stanley Mosk Courthouse located in Los Angeles, California.”
Not surprised. She was desperate and he was a user.
Why Im Not Surprised🤷🏽
I don't know but thank you for being detective. I was wondering what happened.
Thanks Monique for keeping us posted on this story!!
msjreneful she’s a criminal
She is really slow, common sense is free & I believe she don’t have any............
You know they got PROBLEMS. I would’ve said yes let’s get married and then left his bum ass at the alter in Vegas. Changed my number and email and moved so he could never find me 🐸☕️
Horror Queen that was better than my idea 💡 I like that one ❤️❤️
Lmfao I love you 😂
Major problems !!
Periodt
no matter how desperate I am I can't tolerate this,there's many serious men about marriage out there.
Triza Muli
I agree with you
That not respect for her
But , they both stupid and deserve to be eachather
She's more stupid than he is
I WILL KICK HIS ASS SO HARD AND HE WILL LAND IN LAS VEGAS BY HIM SELF ,,
NEVER GO WITH HIM IN BED,,
,,YOU (WE ) ARE GIRL SCHULD LOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY A LOT
YOU HAVE ONLY ONE FAMILY BUT BOYFRIENDS AND HUSBANDS YOU CAN HAVE SO,SO,SO MANY 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 YOU CAN CHANGE THEM LIKE YOUR UNDERWEAR ,EVRY DAY,
BUT YOU WILL STILL HAVE ONE FAMILY🤗🤗
This is horrifying. "The biggest thing between us is her love for her family"?! Why would you want to marry someone who abandoned you on your wedding day and humiliated you in front of everyone you know?
A whole wedding set up only to be stood up at the altar. That's insane!
Only to go to Vegas the next day n get married. 👈👌😑
I feel bad for her. I couldn't imagine being stood up on my wedding day. I think she still married him because she payed money for the dress and everything. She must of really loved him.....alot
"That's the biggest thing that's between us - her love for her family" ?????
Are you kidding me? This guy is a selfish, controlling psycho! She's a complete nut for marrying him, after he left her standing at the alter!
run, Run, RUN !!!!!
Sick
Right, like I was wondering how 'love for family' comes BETWEEN.. but I suppose.
Yes you have to keep your eyes wide open and trust your gut. Marriage is hard enough with a good guy never mind a guy who wants to cut you off from your own daughter! It really is so sad!
He's shady.
Mary B Shady gay
He look's like he was playing her when he skipped the wedding, he probably was cheating the day of the wedding. And she spend all that money and she still married him?
Newyear2018 sick right?
After HUMILIATING this woman he had the nerve to say, “She got the big wedding she wanted, even though I wasn’t there; I got the small wedding I wanted in Vegas”. Does anyone know if they’re still married?
This sounds like an abusive relationship. Usually when they try and alienate you from your family, it's so they can control you and mistreat you.
He just didn't want to go to jail for taking her car, money and cell phone! She's a fool for still marrying him!
After being left at the alter in the presence of all my family and friends, there would not have a wedding in Vegas or any where else on this planet. He could have lease extended her the respect of a simple phone call, explaining his absence.
Precious Baby Doll *altar.
Precious Baby Doll Right!! He could've at least called. He wanted it his way. So he controlled the situation by not showing up.
Does anyone watch Dr. Phil? He’s said over and over: you teach them how to treat you. She’s a future episode on Dateline Crime.
That’s what i said! Or she’s gonna be the killer on ‘SNAPPED’
Omg
Her family obviously sees that he is no good for her. Love is blind.
Eternity With Christ Exactly....
Eternity With Christ thank u- LUST IS BLIND
And stupid
This isn't love this is signs of a desperate woman. Get a life, learn to love yourself & maybe help others.
We need a damn update. She's obviously slow and he's a controlling abuser.
Veg Vixxxen i agree!
Girl😂😂😂😂
She was arrested for insurance fraud recently!!! This lady is a mess.
Then Again as soon as I put my business on national television you can criticize me all you want!
Then Again are you her cousin?
Worst choice of youre life girl
Crystal Lover
I agree with you ,,both stupid
Just sorry for her family
Don't worry they not going be TOGETHER long time
Both Idiots 🤕🤕🤒🤒
Crystal Lover best choice of HIS life
Crystal Lover in the long run she made out like a bandit.
Crystal Lover UPDATE: Anita and Deon now currently divorced. Also she got into trouble for insurance fraud too.
Ajax Johnson yeah it’s called bridezilla for a reason I would’ve left her ass too
Well guys, thought you should know,they are now divorced.
want her to stop talking to daughter LMAO. she right ain't no woman gonna give up they offspring for a man of all people.
Unfortunately, i have met some women that would and do leave their children for a man.
Um.....then you haven't met my mother. She gave up two of her own children, myself and my sister, for a man.
+Chibi Lychee That's so sad
I mostly feel sorry for her, but I do find it sad as well.
chibi lychee, i hope u dont talk to her anymore
She crazy and he's controlling.......simple.
I would Never distance myself from MY CHILD for NO MAN.
OMG !!! I watched this episode when it originally aired and was shocked and hurt for this woman. Well I am getting married in three months and I could not imagine this horror ..... ON HER WEDDING DAY!!! and she still married this clown!!!
Lisa Lee sameeee ugh I ended up here because I remember this episode and now that I’m getting married in a few months I cannot imagine!!!
Damn she actually thinks it was ok to be left at the alter just to get married the next day to a man who wanted his way??? Truly sad
Yes it is very sad
I sensed an insecurity in her and NO MAN should ever even try to get in between a mother and a daughter relationship, nor a woman should have to chose between her daughter and her man. PERIOD.
Ethel Cabanlit
Theres insecurity in him also, when a person constantly place you in situtation were you have to always prove your love a devotion they are insecure. He left her at the alter total humiliation, but called the next day that was intentional, now he dont want her to have a relationship with her daughter whom she love why so she can prove her love for him if she stop. She and others need to wake up!!!
Standing her up was egregious enough. That told me all I needed to know to deduce the narcissism. However, he's still attempting to drive a wedge between her and her daughter after her daughter's ONLY offense was doing what any loving child would do (defending her mom against someone who mistreated her mom). Everything about this relationship is TOXIC. I know it sounds harsh, but I sincerely hope that this marriage doesn't end fatally or with a missing person's report. Emotional abuse usually precedes physical abuse.
Then Again--- Good!
Not showing up for the wedding was very cowardly. And to not even call or text back??! How childish! Whether he realizes it or not, his decision to not show up was very selfish and controlling. He wanted to have control regardless of the cost. If you willfully stand someone up at the altar, then you don't love them... period.
ToLovelyJesus
Stole her stuff and left her at the alter and she in denial is she marrying a crackhead??
Adult Film Star Turned Model : Probably
Metahuman Turned Model *altar
There's more to this story, why he let her spend all that money on their wedding and he didn't show up. Something's wrong with this man. Her love for him is blind.
And she married him the next day after he disrespected her, her family and her guests like that? Are you mad?
Uh, no!
How can he even suggest that she does not speak to her own daughter??? this is a very questionable union.
Jasmine Lee Well what's the difference with children not talking to their parents because their spouses or fiancée/fiancé have not been accepted in their lives. Its very common in this modern age and you don't live to please your parents or your grown ass children. You live to please your self and make sure you build as much support system while you burned the old negative support system down, period!
Aselitha84 it’s not that parents and children have to speak; it’s that your partner should never suggest you cut people out of your life if you a happier with them in it. It’s a classic sign of an abusive/controlling relationship.
With women like her these men don’t even have to even try talk about being a lowlife
She may as well lay down at the front door and let him wipe his feet on her when he enters the house.
Audra Michelle that’s not nice. This can happen to the strongest woman out there. It sneaks up on you and it will make or break you. She’s a little older so she might just stick around pray for her. Satan is using him as a tool to ruin her 🙏🙏🙏
I think she is older it might not lasts long but i pray it does.🙏
LMAO she later got charged with insurance fraud. She's a low life.
Meme Love some people are just stupid. Plain and simple.
I remember this episode like it was yesterday. I miss Bridezillas. And voiceover lady. 🤣
He’s going to get everything he wants from her.....smh.....he’s using her for her money 💰
mrsslop922 I bet he has another woman or multiple
She's so DESPERATE ... very insecure!!!
That's really sad ☹️
She deserves better than that awful man
I wanted to find out what happened to them over the years, so I just tried to find something online. So far, I've read that she had been charged with insurance fraud. The article says that she claimed to be injured while working, but wasn't honest about previous injuries to her neck and shoulder being from a previous incident. Hmm.
I wasn't a fan of the show, but when I saw the preview for this episode when it was about to air, curiosity got the better of me, so I tuned in.
I don't recall very many of the details, but I do recall that the couple and the bride's daughter all seemed to have huge issues. The groom and daughter couldn't stand each other, the bride would take up for the groom, the groom wanted to keep the bride away from her family, (a huge red flag!), etc.
Having all that, plus whatever else we don't know about, happen, and she still married him. Wow. I imagine there was possibly lots of mental and physical abuse adding up on a regular basis. They all needed help.
Yup, I read that too. They are divorced now
My wife watched this show, so I couldn't help seeing a few episodes. I didn't see this one, but I always wondered why the grooms went through with these weddings. These "bridezillas" are usually just horrible, self absorbed, abusive people. An impending wedding isn't an excuse for how they behave. Hope it works for them.
It's more than a few episodes I thought to myself why on earth would he marry her ?
They did it for the free honeymoon.
that's what you call.... desperate!!!!!!!
He seems REAL shady
He's creepy. Girl. Run.
Freeway 22 - She should get in a jet and fly!!!!
He also seems sugary!! Another DL brother!!
He's only with that fool for her money. As soon as her money is gone, so will he !
He would have to have repaid me for EVERYTHING I spent!!!
Derrick Movies I agree and I wouldn't have married that scum bag even when he did showed up so creepy
Derrick Movies men pay for marrying women the rest of their lives. Shes lucky she only had to cough up on one day.
Mark Anthony boy bye
he should be singing soprano
.... um.... yeah. So, did he pay her back for that wedding he skipped? We'd be in small claims court, not Vegas. Smh.
Right lol and he had the nerve to say.. "She got the big wedding she wanted and I got the small wedding I wanted, so worked out well."
Why doesn't this have more likes? This comment is funny asl.
we would be in court b/ct his behind just got beat up...he is sooo selfish and need major mental help it take 2 people to get married he could not got married in Vegas without her he had that planned out he neva planned to show up
@@marqueshawash8611 mop mop
@@marqueshawash8611 mop
They taking pictures of her while she is sad as hell...that was petty as hell 🤣🤣🤣
Notice how she blames everyone else instead of the groom that DIDN'T SHOW UP 🤣🤷🏾♀️
He must have cheated or is a bum. Bc why else would her family have an objection about her marrying him. And he looks way younger than her too.
I guess when some women get to a particular stage in life and get a man, they'll hold on ,no matter what, just so they don't have to be alone. Instead of NO man, ANY man will do.Sad
Woman + big pocket + small brain = meal ticket
The Truth Hurts 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Him: That’s the biggest thing between us- her love for her family...other than that we’re ok.
Me: uhm What?! 😳