@@noodlegunoblongata Given his actions it's not the craziest assumption. Although he is a CO he may be paranoid when you're around criminals all day..tho he fit right in hehe
Keep in mind that the priority of the dispatcher should not be to make someone feel better, but to get as much information as they can as quickly as possible to relay
@@devino1337 as an ex calltaker & team leader I can assure you that people think clearer when they know there’s a supportive person actively really listening & being helpful on the phone…..
That's how my ex-husband used to treat me. He went to work one day and the kids and I were gone. We were in another state and a protection order was filed. You have to leave these monsters quietly, sometimes leave with nothing.
I admire your strength and courage to leave that situation. You made the right choice for you and your children. It must have been very difficult to just up and leave everything behind but you found the strength to do what most women aren't able to do until it's too late. I hope you and your children had much happier and safer lives once you left that monster.
It is the law - innocent until proven guilty. Sometimes it's very aggravating. But it's better than the opposite - people getting their livelihoods destroyed before they go to trial, and then being found innocent but still having had their livelihoods destroyed.
I remember this story. Ladies, please don't take this abuse and leave SILENTLY. Be discreet. You are loved and cherished no matter what an abuser tells you.
And sadly, many women stay to not “break up the family” or “for the kids.” If bad enough, the kids are at risk too, as with Chris Coleman and Chris Watts, and best to get help and leave the abuser.
@@mlisaj1111why do you all Over look monstrous women who do the same things and act as if it’s just men? Abusers come in all shapes and sizes. More women end the lives of their own children than men ever will.
Right! The first thing he asked was "Is she talking", instead of "is she breathing". He asked the questions oddly in reverse.. He wanted to know if she was talking because he knew that she'd tell the officers the truth the he'd shot her. The act he put on is sickening.
raised her children well?? 😂 She literally married a guy like chris to be around them. I could tell he’s no good the second i seen him. This is partly olivia’s fault.
You say it like 30 years isn’t a long time to be in prison. Google Natasha Waalen she was my sisters best friend. She was beat to death with a bat by one of my classmates. He got 8 years not “only 30 years” and is already out!
I had 3 drug charges when I was younger they gave me a 1.5 million dollar bond in " Louisiana", this man killed his beautiful wife and received a 150,000 bond ...
Fighting over the gun but gets shot in the back of the head? Just by chance missing the critical few minutes on cam? The last we see of her she's calmly walking along, not in some frantic mood..He's guilty as hell.
oh yes, oh yes, oh yes they both, oh yes they both reach for the gun , the gun, the gun, etc.... ! the sad thing that we are not in a musical, the way he killed her and was treating her before is disgusting.
@LoveDoveDarling this is the dumbest thing you could have written. This was a very toxic and manipulative relationship. He knew what to say to get under her skin, to make her feel little and powerless. He made her doubt herself. She probably thought he was right, she probably thought she just had to be better. She probably saw the problem within herself. Because that's how manipulation works.
@@wiiiz3absolutely. These ladies need a loving father figure so they don’t go looking for it in randoms- and more importantly so they know what they’re looking for. Men need strong fathers so they can understand how to protect and provide. Otherwise we end up with emotionless women with men that endanger and imprison because they don’t know how to lead. Many of the worlds problems can be traced back to poor parental jobs
@@crunkster5148 unfortunately there are many cases of the perpetrator and the victims coming from loving homes and this tragedy still happening. Some people just have or gain an entitlement and arrogance that makes them think they can treat others like that. I think society definitely plays a massive role in misogyny and misandry that allows this to go on. Men being fed a warped ideology of masculinity that causes them to be abusers or be abused and afraid to speak up about what they endured.
I broke down into tears watching that footage from the house. No one deserves to be talked to like that, pushed around, bullied. He's a creature, subhuman. May he meet a grisly fate in this life or the after. Rest in Peace Olivia
Trust me!!! He's gottenl tested several times... Scenario: The guy he's been roommates with probably for two years or someone on his unit that he may even have watched the game with and laughed a few times with may one day just walk up to him early morning and say PUT YOUR SNEAKERS ON and he'll be looking with confusion, "again put your shoes on home-boy and meet me in the corner I heard you like to whoop on women I just want to see how good you can fight" and that's how it'll be for him for a while and if he can fight real good he'll eventually get that one dude who makes Floyd Mayweather looks like an amateur... Trust me, it's guys down there that's lost mothers, sisters, aunties, cousins, friends, etc, this exact same way, and they prey on guys like him to walk through the door... He's going to run into guys with life sentences without parole that doesn't have a care in the world with his BITCH A@@...
It’s so sad. There’s so many women go through this and then they’re scared to leave because of the threats I swear on everything I would take my chances and run away. I will really take my chances and the police don’t do anything until someone is deceased or get murderedrest in peace Olivia.😢
Its sad she didn't know her worth and this marriage didn't have God in it because if it did, there would be plenty of love in it. Ungodly, Unequally yoke, soul-ties getting married without God's approval, these pastors marry anyone for money.
@@divinedianec3170I hate to break it to you, plenty of people/men that are in church every Sunday & pray everyday can be some of the worst humans. This has nothing to do with God.
As a husband of 15 years myself, I cant imagine being this evil to anyone much less my wife. Shes my world and my best friend, I would lay down my life for my wife. RIP Olivia my deepest condolences to the family.
I'm a domestic violence survivor. He said he would bury me and no one would find my body. I finally was able to escape when he tried to drag me inside to kill me. I put him in prison, but of course he took a plea deal. He was sentenced to 2 1/2 years for abduction and domestic violence. That was 2019, and I am no longer interested in any relationship.
It’s made me feel ptsd I didn’t realize I had because my father treated my mother the exact same way. I’m not married and have a pretty jaded opinion of marriage these days, but I couldn’t let myself become that or let that be the environment in my home. No adult should treat another adult like that especially family and loved ones.
ive lived through this and i know multiple people with a household just like this. alot of people are suffering every day.. my mom got beaten to death.
I was married to a guy like this. I stayed with him 6 months and he got worse and worse and worse. He would take me aside and lecture me on how the food should be arranged in the refrigerator, he demanded that I look him straight in the eye when he would get super close to my face, then he started being cruel to my dog and demanding she stay in one room, then he began stating that maybe I needed a beating, then I looked at my dog and told her we would be leaving and so we did.
I'm so glad you were able to get away! How long has it been? A LOT of people think the most dangerous time for a woman to escape her abuser, is just that day.. or the following few days. But depending on how psychotic and justified they believe they are at getting rid of you, that critical dangerous timeframe can be weeks, months or even years. I recently came across a story of a young man who just lost his mom. He started noticing someone was desecrating her grave with human waste so he put up a hidden camera. Sure enough, here comes his dad, whom his mom escaped DECADES ago! STILL hating her even after death! That will be my ex guaranteed. I found out the hard way when after he became abusive, and controlling in ways you mentioned, (he was also having an affair) he had the man I had every right to move on with killed. AND he got away with it! It's so awful what a lot of us women go through. Especially the judgment and ostracizing from the community, as if something like this would NEVER happen to them, their daughters, or their mothers. Unreal the amount of power and control they have. But yes please be safe and aware. Hope your dog is still around cause it's probably one of the only true friends you got. They even turn your own family against you! Peace and many blessings to you and yours.. 🌷
@springrain9438 I'm glad both of you women are alright. Sorry for your misfortune and terrible circumstances. Hopefully you'll one day be able to trust a man again. A real man and not scum.
It’s a tragedy that this is type of heartbreak and mistreatment is what her life was before having her precious life taken from her. Buying her own flowers on Valentine’s Day,being spoken to in such a degrading way,taken for granted and not being loved and treated the way she deserved. My heart truly breaks for her
Women who have children never think abt the pain their children will have when they date a man who looks like chris. Stay away from dreads and you won’t end up dead
I just got out of a very abusive relationship myself. Seeing this was gut wrenching. This could have very well been me… RIP Olivia my heart aches for you and your family 🥺
I lived with domestic abuse for 5 years until he finally pushed me out of his moving truck on highway 41 in Marietta Georgia. I look back now and realize how lucky I am to be alive today. Please if you know anyone or you even think someone you love is being controlled and abused remove them from the situation, call the authorities and demand your loved one press charges and get out of that situation
Notice his slip up? “Please DON’T tell me she’s alive.” Then he caught himself and he added ‘When she’s not.’ He is way too dramatic and overreacting; police ain’t buying it.
R.I.P. Olivia. May her children find some peace in their continued journey in life. Hesrt breaking seeing the video of him verbally & physically abusing her.
I'm sorry for the family's loss. It was EXTREMELY DIFFICULT to watch the video of how he was treating her. That woman was BEAUTIFUL! That is a black eye on the world now.
I bet there are still some jail groupies who will write to him, send him canteen money, and think he will change for them. I will never understand the mindset of these women.
Laidies if a man ever speaks to you like that ONCE... Leave him immediately. There will always be services that are out there to help you leave quickly.
@@jojuanb6832it’s definitely not, but too many of us are taught that we’re just supposed to get used to it. So the more the opposite is taught, the better ☺️✨
The immediate worry when he was told she was still breathing was very clear to me. Then the quick question "is she talking?" Also very telling. I'm so sorry for her and her family that she couldn't survive.
His "ooh good" after hearing she was still alive sounded like one of my kids opening a Christmas present they don't like, but I've taught them to be polite and say something positive even if they think it's rubbish!
I loved my parents so much that I acted extremely excited for every gift. I asked for a Nintendo on my 10th birthday and they got me some off brand cheap video console and although I wanted to bust it to pieces with a hammer I jumped for joy and hugged their necks really tight.
"she's shot in the head" "where is she shot?" "in the head!" "she's shot? in the head?" "yes she's shot in the head" _"Where_ was she shot, in the head?" *breh* this dispatcher's comprehension skills aren't good enough, I'm sorry to call them bad at their job but dispatchers need to be capable of fast understanding, this guy had to ask the same question like 5 times to get caught up.
I'd prefer absolute certainty rather than a dispatcher mishearing/ the caller mispeaking or finding out they're just randomly guessing and sending people into a completely different situation
A dispatchers goal is to get as much information out as much as possible. You don't understand the type of attitude they must have - he did it right. You're just arrogant
@MikeyArrived If that's the case, why was he unable to retain the information he was provided the first time it was given to him? Why did he require the caller to repeat himself? Why was he not able to understand the very simple facts he was provided? He actually did not gather any additional information apart from what the caller had to say twice.
@nuclearthreat545 Dispatchers are not criminal investigators. They are not sourcing and sussing information to build a case. Their job is to dispatch authorities and other first responders.
This is overt abuse, there’s also COVERT abuse. You know gaslighting, sly comments that are condescending and belittling but you can’t even put your finger on it and why it crushes you. Yeaaah. That happens as well. 🥲 to be fair, it’s mostly women that emotionally abuse, but men do it as well!
@@flyingchimp12 Who the fuck claimed they were in one? We’re talking about the video. Crazy. You pulled that thought directly from your asshole. I’m with my middle school sweetheart and married. So. Nope. Lmao Also you ever use your critical thinking and think maybe people actually just recognize abuse better in this day in age since we’ve advanced in science and psychology. Lmao If you really must know, my MOTHER was a diagnosed covert narcissist, who coached me against my dad, after taking me to cheat on him with her multiple times. LMAO
Just an FYI dispatch can pull the IDS location from a phone call. They already have your general location so the whole "slow down and tell me the address" is bs and a waist of valuable time.
Every narcissist says “if you’re not with me, you’re against me”. This is a major sign of a controlling, abusive partner who rather kill their (ex) partners than to let them go be happy with someone else. Beware!
My question is, at the time, how many customers actually knew about his issues. Can’t imagine having that many customers after the beginning of all this.
@@Bouch1018 I know people who personally support evil people. They know the evil they do but they still support them. So the people who supported him were probably her enemies or other evil people.
Yup. Most people with an injured loved one would ask things like “are they ok? Do the doctors think they will pull through? Can I go be with them or at least visit briefly? ” … not “are they talking?”
That home video, he kept yelling at her and she hardly replies him. Yet he went on and on like trying to provoke her into responding. So he could have an excuse to hit her or something. Then, he'll use the all time abuser's favourite line- "You made me do it."
Broke my heart as well. I can't speak for her of course but I was just reliving this dead-end panicked feeling of like "ok, this is one of 'those' times, there's nothing i can say or do to stop it, but i know it's gonna end eventually, just like the other million times before. So just keep your head down, don't react, just ride it out, it's fine." But no, turns out silence is also the wrong answer so yeah. That poor woman.
He still managed to use that line when fabricating his story by blaming it on the fact that she was the one that grabbed the gun and he was "trying to de-escalate the situation". What a scary situation and person.
This is why people can say they don't believe in Jesus, but someone who believes that there is a judgement and that we will have to answer for our actions in life, would never behave like that demon.
@@teamtwiistz Well I'm a believer and this is just a flat out lie, we've even seen numerous pastors and people in churches be domestic and children abusers
He was stupid not to have deleted the whole videos. It showed him being verbally abusive. To delete the crucial 3 minutes sealed his fate. It must have been mentally torture for the poor woman. He must have been a good man before they got married, what makes them turn into a person that would treat their wives like this. Have you heard the saying walking on eggshells.
@@diddsdaddiddsdad6865She knew who he was before the marriage. Most ppl aren't Denzel Washington. They can't hold a fake version of themselves past a few weeks. Sometimes even sooner than that I know personally not just speculation. Unless she married him within a week of knowing him she knew exactly who he was before exchanging those vows.
@@Thegoldenchild415stfu, people change and are manipulative . Out of everything in this video, you’re that much of an incil That you respond with that . Smh
The way hes yelling at her in the kitchen is crazy almost doesnt seem real. Like hes a movie character or something. You always hear of this going on but rarely ever see what really goes on behind closed doors. Horrible
I’ve seen it many times as a kid & seeing it as an adult brought back memories and made me cry for that lady. It made me grab my wife & shed a tear. I can only think of how she will never experience any type of abuse with me, I vow to break the cycle I grew up in.
Stfu, it's not always easy for domestic violence victims to just leave and start over somewhere else. There's money to consider, also the consideration that the abuser will find and end the victim. You can't tell a victim to "run with your life". Some have children and fear the custody outcome. There was a case I've seen that a husband was incredibly abusive and still got equal custody and the courts looked at the victim as crazy for wanting to keep her kids away from their abusive father. His abuse turned to his children. When the mother went to pick up the kids (she didn't have help with someone to pick them up to keep her away from her abuser for her) he threw her down some stairs and shot her. I believe her kids made it, but there are other cases where the father kills the children as revenge or another way to hurt the victim. If you want to tell other people this then go yourself and find true crime stuff that showed the episodes of abusive partners, there were tons of abusive husbands that they talked about ending their wife's life and sometimes both the mother and the children.
Took me 4 years but I did it. I left my abusive bf and am in much worse condition because of it. I am financially ruined and will not recover on my own for a while. This is why people choose to stay. Life can get so much worse if you leave because you built something together and not everything can be split evenly. Of course it's important to put yourself first, take care of your mental health. Anyone would "just leave" if they could. But chances of finding a house on your own are slim. And surviving off of a single full time job has become increasingly difficult too. People stay for those kinds of things.
Poor Olivia, my heart breaks watching how he spoke to her & treated her. I live on my own because of angry man syndrome , I choose not to share my home with a man ever again after experiencing living with such negativity. Its so sad that Olivia never got the chance to choose peace.
@@ME-NICCA I’m gonna go on ahead and get rid of the suspense for you right now. YOU ARE NOT THAT QUALITY PARTNER. YOU ARE NOT THAT GUY. Go on and saunter (a big word I know) back over to your fresh n fit podcast with your binky. If there is an animal in your presence, may the universe protect it from your dusty mindset.
Hear hear! I am with you. I will NEVER let one of them things around me again on any serious notes. I get more from resting on an old tree, than from even acknowledging them any more than I must.
That’s why self love is important. If she loved herself she would be here cuz she wouldn’t have been with that fool. Most ppl don’t even know their problems stem from a lack of love within themselves. He’s a weak asx bully.
He’s 45. Not 18. And it’s part of a deal that saves the court and taxpayers a lot of money in future appeals. There are thousands of examples of injustice in our justice system. This is not one of them. Pointless appeals hold up the courts and prolong trials for victims of other crimes.
Why do omestic abusers always get let out, and get such light sentences, it is evil, and a failiure of our justice system, they get away with victim blamingits sick!
He had to hurry and clean it up when he blurted out "Please don't tell me she's alive!....and she not be. Nice save there, sir. Then "is she talking? SHE TALKING!??" He seems more terrified that she's alive and talking than anything else.
I've been married to my wife since I'm 19 years old. We've had major disagreements and we almost separated once before. I would never, in a million years, wish harm on a person I loved. Let alone the person I chose to marry. It does not matter what they do. I chose to spend the rest of my life with my wife, and we're in a much healthier place now because we both live by the vows we made to one another. We will not give up on one another, even in the darkest of times and the hardest of strains; we will work and rebuild so long as we are faithful to one another. This is pure evil and the men that could do this to their wives aren't men. They're cowards who cannot control their emotion.
We don't know how old you are so using the age you were when you got married means very little. Should have said I got married to my wife at 19 (now 56) or whatever age you are because for all as know you're 20 and have only been married a year.
@Woodman-Spare-that-tree WOW! What exactly do you mean with this racist and stereotypical statement? Troll much? I guess you wouldn't react if your mother was murdered. I think that's called a psychopath. Shame on you for this thought, let alone typing it out.
First red flag I noticed was “ what up Mr butler “ when they’re were walking in to her on the ground . Like you don’t stop freaking out and say “what’s up Mr butler “ in calm voice
Anyone else feel that it is weird to have camera in your house for no reason. Like I get having external cameras for security but having camera coverage in your house like a store is just weird to me. It gives me controlling vibes.
you KNOW he was watching her around the house and waiting for her to fuck up or something so he could go off on her. he deleted the videos, he controlled the cameras. so grossly abusive, i could genuinely throw up.
@dnache7553 some apt/ condo bldgs don't allow exterior cameras or video doorbells, so having an interior one can alert you if someone is inside your home. Of course, it seems odd to keep them running once you're inside.
That’s the point. And many cops are aware of the fact that CCTV is increasingly used by abusers to monitor their victim inside the home. When I was living with my abusive ex years ago, before the physical abuse started, he had a psychotic episode and I called 911, one of the cops in particular who showed up noticed the cameras my ex had inside the home all over the place and recognized what it was long before I did. He stood there and told me this is not a good situation and you need to get out of here before this gets worse. Unfortunately I wasn’t exposed to that level of abuser before so it didn’t really sink in until much later.
I'm so sorry to those of you that have experienced abuse in any way. I'm a victim as well. I made it out and I hope and pray that anyone experiencing abuse can get out of the situation.
Same my heart bleeds for those who’ve dealt with it. It’s such a hard thing to explain to people who haven’t experienced it. Some of the things I talk about make me feel stupid retrospectively but I forgive myself for allowing it and now know how to spot abuse and stand up for myself. I hope the same for everyone else who’s experienced it. I’m happy to see you got out too. Bless you ❤❤❤
What do you mean by "shocking"? Is this the first time you are learning of spousal abuse and murder? Are you surprised that his sentence was so lenient?
I hate dispatchers who start giving an attitude to callers who are yelling. They are yelling because theres a traumatic event happening. How can they calmly answer you????
Well you do realize that your face is quite a large area. You could have been shot in the forehead or the cheek and you’d have two different outcomes on the person who was shot. Cheek is an easily survivable spot to be shot. But the forehead your dead
I dont, because in cases like this it helps. Also if an intruder comes in, the camera tells the story. I was in a relationship like this so just in case I UNALIVE him, it's on camera, why. Sometimes it's good for your safety.
He thought Mr. Butler would take his side because they "know " one another smh and probably because he's black. Mr. Butler's whole demeanor read this 🥷 ass is grass! 😅
My friend, she is white syrian. Dating very, very similar type of guy. He bought her a toy for her birthday. My husbands friend. Also Syrian. His sister was shot outside a tire shop after many attempts by her lover to meet her and she finally caved. All had a similarity I will not mention on yt. My experience and observations, many of them all the same. Combative speech. Men and the women. Complain, lazy and desperate.
@@sukaenacornelius9285bruh u being racist not all blk ppl are lazy complain n all all over a few ppl u group us all together racist aah and weird n ur saying all this yet all yall do is obsess with us steal our culture n date us 😂like girl ur weird n trust nobody hoping on u u not cute 😂
I saw this case on the series "Married to Evil." Olivia was an extremely intelligent young lady who was very business savvy and extremely driven. She is the reason Chris' food truck business was taking off. That was one of the things Chris felt threatened by was the fact that she was making more money than him and how she was very goal oriented. He was fired from the prison because he beat up a prisoner pretty bad; that's why he had to figure a different means of employment. This was truly one of thee most saddest cases I've seen of extreme control, intimidation, verbal and mental abuse. He controlled her so much that he did not even allow Olivia's family to their wedding. Her oldest daughter urged her mother to leave, but she wanted to fight for her marriage. I'll never understand how someone could bring harm to a person who has done nothing but show unconditional love to them. Heartbreaking! 💔
He wanted to control her. He was a monster and knew that her family would see through him, so he stayed in hiding also estranged her from her family (The people who truly loved and cared about her) he wanted to make her conpletely independent of him without intervention and so she'd have no support system. I too was with a man who was like this so I can tell you first hand what type of person that monster is...
Not smart enough to leave. Doesn't love children to stay with such a man. She could've left and didn't. No more pity for those who stay when they are so smart.
This makes me want to go home and love on my husband even more. The small things I complain about have nothing on what this man is doing to his wife! I’m so thankful that God protected me from evil like this. He literally answered my prayer when he created my husband. Praying for this woman’s family 💐
People are always quick to ask why do women stay with abusive men or abusive women and it’s because they fear this right here.. being murdered by them. I hate for anybody to go through this. My heart goes out to her family
When an attorney says, "we'll never know what happened in that room", they really mean, "i know he did it, but if I admit that I look more pathetic defending him". LMAO
“Ill forgive you one day but today i cant” SHATTERED my heart. What ever ounce or innocence that was left in that child now washed away by the murder of her mother at the hands of her father. I pray she can heal and get help. Sad.
This is exactly why you should leave toxic situations ASAP. It's very simple, if a relationship doesn't bring you joy or peace.... YOU NEED TO LEAVE. The home video tape was the hardest part for me to watch. This type of person is incapable of loving someone. Love is kind. This ish was worse than abuse to me. 🙏 up for her family. ❤
Dude said “please don’t tell me she’s alive!” Mmhmm and that home footage was deplorable. It’s sad that Olivia thought that she had to put up with a pathetic monster like that.
Yeah, those cameras were *not for security,* they were for him to monitor his wife.
He is a sick bastard
true crime commenters make shit up constantly
@@noodlegunoblongata Given his actions it's not the craziest assumption. Although he is a CO he may be paranoid when you're around criminals all day..tho he fit right in hehe
As soon as the inside cameras were shown I said the same thing. He was monitoring her.
@@noodlegunoblongata you sound like you abuse women
'Is she talking'.........he was very nervous when he heard she was still alive.
He thought he had a one sided tale. The other side scared him horribly
Yep 😂😂
lol deff all the investigators need to believe it
Right! Even before “is she breathing?” He asked “is she talking?”… my heart went out to her 😢
Hes ruthless..
Some of these dispatchers do not need to be dispatchers
Some of these dispatchers, need to be dispatched of. And put to work in a completely different field of work...
Keep in mind that the priority of the dispatcher should not be to make someone feel better, but to get as much information as they can as quickly as possible to relay
There is no answer you can give that won't result in 5 more questions. All I want to hear is "HOLD TIGHT, HELP IS ON THE WAY."
@@devino1337 as an ex calltaker & team leader I can assure you that people think clearer when they know there’s a supportive person actively really listening & being helpful on the phone…..
@@devino1337 Anyone with a hair of empathy and some E.Q. can do both at the same time effectively and efficiently.
His lawyer saying, “We’ll never know what happened in that room” when all the evidence shows that HE SHOT HER is insane.
They mean the details
Exactly! My reaction was “ No sir we actually do know what happened”
Just a lawyer being a lawyer 😅
That's how my ex-husband used to treat me. He went to work one day and the kids and I were gone. We were in another state and a protection order was filed. You have to leave these monsters quietly, sometimes leave with nothing.
On the one hand great news on the other hand he is probably out there abusing somebody else
Yep. I can never understand how so many stay. Praying for them all in this situation
@@ricocalmes8771 and that's her fault how..?
I admire your strength and courage to leave that situation. You made the right choice for you and your children. It must have been very difficult to just up and leave everything behind but you found the strength to do what most women aren't able to do until it's too late. I hope you and your children had much happier and safer lives once you left that monster.
@@ricocalmes8771ok so what’s that got to do with that lady wierd comment but in saying that most people named Rico I’ve meet are wierd
letting that man out on bail was one last slap in the face to his victim. great job, justice system!!
Typical.
It is the law - innocent until proven guilty. Sometimes it's very aggravating. But it's better than the opposite - people getting their livelihoods destroyed before they go to trial, and then being found innocent but still having had their livelihoods destroyed.
@ideamonkey Sure, bail is great for people who aren't suspects for violent crimes. This man is however a violent criminal.
Bail is nonsense. If you're poor, you're guilty and sit in jail.
It’s not the justice system at fault. It is solely Texas.
She bought her own flowers on Valentine's Day. What a gut-wrenching story this was
Life is crazy, she bought those flowers,they caught her attention on that specific day
Unfortunately I believe that’s why he killed her. He must’ve thought someone bought it for her.
@@BriMcilwainnah he didn't think that. It just reminded him of his deficiency as her partner
@@BEATSofDevil 1000% correct. We get killed over wounded egos at an alarming rate
@@BEATSofDevilfactsss
What's crazy about aggressive people is, the exact moment they meet someone crazier than them, they always fold
He a punk... He beat on women behind closed doors... That's a coward
That’s so true! Aggressive people act big until they meet someone who calls their bluff. Suddenly, they fold. It’s all an act. 🙄
WORD!
Like a deck of cards!!
Bullies fold. Not aggressive people in general.
I remember this story. Ladies, please don't take this abuse and leave SILENTLY. Be discreet. You are loved and cherished no matter what an abuser tells you.
And sadly, many women stay to not “break up the family” or “for the kids.”
If bad enough, the kids are at risk too, as with Chris Coleman and Chris Watts, and best to get help and leave the abuser.
@@mlisaj1111nah most stay because they are too lazy to work and would rather be supported by a guy.
@@JoryBarrett ok incel
@@ElusiveAries REEEEEEEEE
@@mlisaj1111why do you all
Over look monstrous women who do the same things and act as if it’s just men?
Abusers come in all shapes and sizes. More women end the lives of their own children than men ever will.
F... man! When I saw the title I thought that she survived!
Me too
Me too
Same 😢
"killer" was a big clue
I know i am devastated
He got reaaaal nervous at the thought of her being able to talk. Sealed his guilt right there.
Yup
Right! The first thing he asked was "Is she talking", instead of "is she breathing". He asked the questions oddly in reverse.. He wanted to know if she was talking because he knew that she'd tell the officers the truth the he'd shot her. The act he put on is sickening.
Yes, he did!!!
This is kind of olivias fault for choosing a man who LOOKS like chris 🧔🏿♂️… sad story. Hopefully girls will learn from this.
@@TheBeigeRaiderWhat the hell is wrong with you??? It's not her fault at all. It's HIS for being an evil POS.
The fact the daughter considered forgiving him shows the loving family he destroyed
She was so beautiful, kept a lovely home, and raised her children well, Olivia's crime was loving a monster.
R.I.P sweetheart 🙏🏻
I wouldn't call it a crime but def a mistake..
These narcissistic abusers fake who they are until they get control
She dedicated her life to him & her children---- and look how he thanked her. 😢
No, she did not raise her children well because she brought a monster around them🙄
raised her children well?? 😂 She literally married a guy like chris to be around them. I could tell he’s no good the second i seen him.
This is partly olivia’s fault.
He's so narcissistic that his excuse was that him wanting a divorce would be so tragic that she would want to end her own life...
Right… the delusion.😴🚮
He flipped it she defo mentioned divorce and he was having none of it.
rip olivia but what does she expect being w a men who looks him 🤷 I knew he was bad news the moment i. seen him.
Exactly. WTF.
good point
He pretty much executed her and only got 30 years. It's sickening. RIP Olivia, I hope your daughters can find peace too xx
only hahahahaha woman moment
@@noodlegunoblongata yep. you definitely abuse women. you're in here being evil and misogynistic. you're a terrible person. I hope you know that.
@@noodlegunoblongatahe shot her in the back of the head, he's a fn coward.
@@noodlegunoblongataso is your idiotic comment a man moment?
You say it like 30 years isn’t a long time to be in prison. Google Natasha Waalen she was my sisters best friend. She was beat to death with a bat by one of my classmates. He got 8 years not “only 30 years” and is already out!
I had 3 drug charges when I was younger they gave me a 1.5 million dollar bond in " Louisiana", this man killed his beautiful wife and received a 150,000 bond ...
You must have had a lot.
Yeah Louisiana is BS about the bonds. I had a $50,000 one & it’s all about putting you on paperwork & paying fees smh
This gave me flashbacks to my abusive husband. Ugh. 5 years finally over & healing finally
@MikaylaH-x1j BIG FACTS!!!
Fighting over the gun but gets shot in the back of the head? Just by chance missing the critical few minutes on cam? The last we see of her she's calmly walking along, not in some frantic mood..He's guilty as hell.
oh yes, oh yes, oh yes they both, oh yes they both reach for the gun , the gun, the gun, etc.... ! the sad thing that we are not in a musical, the way he killed her and was treating her before is disgusting.
Came to say the exact same thing!
He is very guilty, he k#led her.
This .Doesn't make sense. How did she do that to herself? Smh.
It’s a glimpse into the level of IQ from the average African American.
His mental abuse towards her is so sickening...
I want to feel bad, but she chose to be in that relationship and to stay a part of it later on.
@LoveDoveDarling this is the dumbest thing you could have written. This was a very toxic and manipulative relationship. He knew what to say to get under her skin, to make her feel little and powerless. He made her doubt herself. She probably thought he was right, she probably thought she just had to be better. She probably saw the problem within herself. Because that's how manipulation works.
hes a POS but shes probably just another useless western womb-men
But yeah keep glorifying the plantation
Toll paid.
Whomever you are, you do not deserve to be abused, verbally, physically, mentally, or sexually. If I can get away, so can you. 🌞🙏🕊️RIP Sweet Olivia 🕊️
Add emotionally 😢
this is why we need to teach young girls to have self-worth at a young age. She'd rather be with someone who bullies her than alone.
@@wiiiz3absolutely. These ladies need a loving father figure so they don’t go looking for it in randoms- and more importantly so they know what they’re looking for. Men need strong fathers so they can understand how to protect and provide. Otherwise we end up with emotionless women with men that endanger and imprison because they don’t know how to lead. Many of the worlds problems can be traced back to poor parental jobs
@@wiiiz3so true😢
@@crunkster5148 unfortunately there are many cases of the perpetrator and the victims coming from loving homes and this tragedy still happening. Some people just have or gain an entitlement and arrogance that makes them think they can treat others like that.
I think society definitely plays a massive role in misogyny and misandry that allows this to go on. Men being fed a warped ideology of masculinity that causes them to be abusers or be abused and afraid to speak up about what they endured.
Anybody that is going through DV remember you ARE strong enough to leave and you are loved.. man or women ! Rip to Olivia ❤️
I broke down into tears watching that footage from the house. No one deserves to be talked to like that, pushed around, bullied. He's a creature, subhuman. May he meet a grisly fate in this life or the after. Rest in Peace Olivia
Sadly there are many like it and a lot of women living in misery 😢
Yes it was sad to watch, especially knowing her fate.....
Narcissist and just evil.
Trust me!!! He's gottenl tested several times... Scenario: The guy he's been roommates with probably for two years or someone on his unit that he may even have watched the game with and laughed a few times with may one day just walk up to him early morning and say PUT YOUR SNEAKERS ON and he'll be looking with confusion, "again put your shoes on home-boy and meet me in the corner I heard you like to whoop on women I just want to see how good you can fight" and that's how it'll be for him for a while and if he can fight real good he'll eventually get that one dude who makes Floyd Mayweather looks like an amateur... Trust me, it's guys down there that's lost mothers, sisters, aunties, cousins, friends, etc, this exact same way, and they prey on guys like him to walk through the door... He's going to run into guys with life sentences without parole that doesn't have a care in the world with his BITCH A@@...
It’s so sad. There’s so many women go through this and then they’re scared to leave because of the threats I swear on everything I would take my chances and run away. I will really take my chances and the police don’t do anything until someone is deceased or get murderedrest in peace Olivia.😢
Hearing her sister, talk about her and saying all she wanted was to be loved… Literally broke my heart
Its sad she didn't know her worth and this marriage didn't have God in it because if it did, there would be plenty of love in it. Ungodly, Unequally yoke, soul-ties getting married without God's approval, these pastors marry anyone for money.
@@divinedianec3170I hate to break it to you, plenty of people/men that are in church every Sunday & pray everyday can be some of the worst humans. This has nothing to do with God.
Me to she was a good wife and mother and she didn't deserve that abuse
As a husband of 15 years myself, I cant imagine being this evil to anyone much less my wife. Shes my world and my best friend, I would lay down my life for my wife. RIP Olivia my deepest condolences to the family.
That’s because you are real man.
Sure buddy. Totally normal things to tell strangers online. We’re all totally convinced.
@@Ted_Shecklernot everyone is sick like you and Olivia’s husband.
@@Ted_Shecklerfound the person who’s miserable with their life and has never had someone lmao
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.” Ephesians 5:25 🤍
I'm a domestic violence survivor. He said he would bury me and no one would find my body. I finally was able to escape when he tried to drag me inside to kill me. I put him in prison, but of course he took a plea deal. He was sentenced to 2 1/2 years for abduction and domestic violence. That was 2019, and I am no longer interested in any relationship.
Glad you're still here❤
Hahah
The footage of him abusing her is so hard to watch.
My God its savage . Shame .
@@chloeew4627after living through that for 17 years, I couldn’t watch the footage. Ugh.
@@Dee-JayW the abuse fetish you had got old?
It’s made me feel ptsd I didn’t realize I had because my father treated my mother the exact same way. I’m not married and have a pretty jaded opinion of marriage these days, but I couldn’t let myself become that or let that be the environment in my home. No adult should treat another adult like that especially family and loved ones.
@@Dee-JayWGod Bless you ❤
The footage of the way he treated her breaks my heart. I’m so disturbed to think someone somewhere is being treated like this 💔
Also just goes to show you how people act when they think no one is watching... Scary
Imagine😢
I was treated like this by my ex and baby father when they got mad at me so glad I got away !
The footage is so hard to watch. It’s horrifying to think this happens behind closed doors more often than we know. Breaks my heart. 💔
ive lived through this and i know multiple people with a household just like this. alot of people are suffering every day.. my mom got beaten to death.
I was married to a guy like this. I stayed with him 6 months and he got worse and worse and worse. He would take me aside and lecture me on how the food should be arranged in the refrigerator, he demanded that I look him straight in the eye when he would get super close to my face, then he started being cruel to my dog and demanding she stay in one room, then he began stating that maybe I needed a beating, then I looked at my dog and told her we would be leaving and so we did.
I'm so glad you were able to get away! How long has it been? A LOT of people think the most dangerous time for a woman to escape her abuser, is just that day.. or the following few days. But depending on how psychotic and justified they believe they are at getting rid of you, that critical dangerous timeframe can be weeks, months or even years.
I recently came across a story of a young man who just lost his mom. He started noticing someone was desecrating her grave with human waste so he put up a hidden camera. Sure enough, here comes his dad, whom his mom escaped DECADES ago! STILL hating her even after death! That will be my ex guaranteed. I found out the hard way when after he became abusive, and controlling in ways you mentioned, (he was also having an affair) he had the man I had every right to move on with killed. AND he got away with it!
It's so awful what a lot of us women go through. Especially the judgment and ostracizing from the community, as if something like this would NEVER happen to them, their daughters, or their mothers. Unreal the amount of power and control they have. But yes please be safe and aware. Hope your dog is still around cause it's probably one of the only true friends you got. They even turn your own family against you! Peace and many blessings to you and yours.. 🌷
@springrain9438 I'm glad both of you women are alright. Sorry for your misfortune and terrible circumstances. Hopefully you'll one day be able to trust a man again. A real man and not scum.
what things did you demand on him it takes 2 we cant both be the boss
@@tonyjeff9436 if you write please ppl use punctuation when doing a sentence. it's easier to read it w/o rereading it . , ; ? , etc....
@@tonyjeff9436perhaps you should drink less.
It’s a tragedy that this is type of heartbreak and mistreatment is what her life was before having her precious life taken from her. Buying her own flowers on Valentine’s Day,being spoken to in such a degrading way,taken for granted and not being loved and treated the way she deserved. My heart truly breaks for her
Look at how he froze and stood silently in guilt from what he’d done as his daughter approached hysterically
That was her daughter his stepdaughter I believe
Yeah, I noticed that too
Women who have children never think abt the pain their children will have when they date a man who looks like chris.
Stay away from dreads and you won’t end up dead
She knew for sure
He showed no empathy or remorse he’s an animal
Don't ever tell them you are leaving them.
This Is Not All Of Us Trust Me
@@michaelsanders9015yes it is tbh
@@EdwinHernandez-py5gjpretty much all of them.
@@annaactras7644 we’re all like this including my self
Them? Abusive people?
That poor child’s scream…. I felt that in my soul.
Me too, it broke my heart.
Yes so sad !! He didn’t love his daughter either because he wouldn’t have caused her such pain!!!
I just got out of a very abusive relationship myself. Seeing this was gut wrenching. This could have very well been me… RIP Olivia my heart aches for you and your family 🥺
I lived with domestic abuse for 5 years until he finally pushed me out of his moving truck on highway 41 in Marietta Georgia. I look back now and realize how lucky I am to be alive today. Please if you know anyone or you even think someone you love is being controlled and abused remove them from the situation, call the authorities and demand your loved one press charges and get out of that situation
I’m glad u made it, u seem like a good person
Girl❤ thank God indeed
I too am lucky to be alive.
@@user-zi9ky3zx7w it sad how people become devalued and your know their personal possession.Jealousy can be Fatal in the mind of a psychopath
I’m so happy your alive and I hope your doing so much better you never deserved that 💔
I cannot believe the way he was talking to her, I’m so sad for her I’m in tears. He never loved her. What a monster.
Where?? Please add the timestamp. Thank you! I’m. Still watching though. So, I may get to it eventually.
@@AidaShawJ.D. At 13:26
He ain't the first or last...Sad to think that, cos people never learn.
she could have left it takes 2 baby it takes 2
@toenailsjeff9436 Eww.
3:44 The *panic fear* in his eyes when he asks 'Is she talking?'
Yeah, that whole section had me 🤔😶😶 he was legit terrified when he thought she was alive and talking
Why would you ask that question?? that's a huge red flag right there.
“ ohhh good “ how do people like this exist. Baffling.
Notice his slip up? “Please DON’T tell me she’s alive.” Then he caught himself and he added ‘When she’s not.’ He is way too dramatic and overreacting; police ain’t buying it.
real though
R.I.P. Olivia. May her children find some peace in their continued journey in life. Hesrt breaking seeing the video of him verbally & physically abusing her.
I'm sorry for the family's loss. It was EXTREMELY DIFFICULT to watch the video of how he was treating her.
That woman was BEAUTIFUL! That is a black eye on the world now.
oh dear cry me a river welcome to the real world
@@tonyjeff9436dude if I looked like you I'd cry a river too. 🤢🤢🤢
@@tonyjeff9436 How about I make you cry HER a river?
He was a bully!!! Yeah, he did it. He hates women and has no respect. SMH 🤦🏽♀️
Agreed 💯
He probably like men and takes his frustration out on women.
Well, he'll be in a cell with one everyday for the next 30 years...
Look at the total lack of emotion on his face when his daughter pulls up hysterical. Dude is a psychopath.
I bet there are still some jail groupies who will write to him, send him canteen money, and think he will change for them. I will never understand the mindset of these women.
Laidies if a man ever speaks to you like that ONCE... Leave him immediately. There will always be services that are out there to help you leave quickly.
By then though, through coercive control, you have given up and believe everything they say about you and you are completely terrified of them.
It's not so easy for some to just pick up and leave..I'm praying for those who need the strength..🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@jojuanb6832it’s definitely not, but too many of us are taught that we’re just supposed to get used to it. So the more the opposite is taught, the better ☺️✨
Sigh …
I speak to my girl like that …😮
Luckily, I don’t have a gun.
AMEN
The immediate worry when he was told she was still breathing was very clear to me. Then the quick question "is she talking?" Also very telling. I'm so sorry for her and her family that she couldn't survive.
That kitchen footage is just heartbreaking. What a fucking monster.
After surviving this, I had to fast forward through the footage.
It should be a wakeup call to some women, I mean maybe somebody will see it and leave an abusive situation.
It really pissed me the f**k off
The fact that a Judge watched that footage and decided to give this man a chance at walking free again is disappointing
A man/husband should protect, love, build up, encourage. This man has let demons into his soul
His "ooh good" after hearing she was still alive sounded like one of my kids opening a Christmas present they don't like, but I've taught them to be polite and say something positive even if they think it's rubbish!
I loved my parents so much that I acted extremely excited for every gift. I asked for a Nintendo on my 10th birthday and they got me some off brand cheap video console and although I wanted to bust it to pieces with a hammer I jumped for joy and hugged their necks really tight.
@@desertweasel6965same here I stopped expecting stuff until they got me a game I reaaaaally wanted. I couldn’t stop showing appreciation
Right!! Smh
I’m sure he wanted to go in and check her condition, and possible intimidate her and try make her too scared to talk 😢
R u British at all
"she's shot in the head"
"where is she shot?"
"in the head!"
"she's shot? in the head?"
"yes she's shot in the head"
_"Where_ was she shot, in the head?"
*breh* this dispatcher's comprehension skills aren't good enough, I'm sorry to call them bad at their job but dispatchers need to be capable of fast understanding, this guy had to ask the same question like 5 times to get caught up.
💯
When I tell you that made me itch
I'd prefer absolute certainty rather than a dispatcher mishearing/ the caller mispeaking or finding out they're just randomly guessing and sending people into a completely different situation
@@mssecretshut up 🙄
@@mssecretyou people that take up for these pathetic dispatchers are the same type too yell at a McDonald's worker
I am CONVINCED every 911 dispatcher is a professional troll just waiting for their moment to showcase their complete incompetence.
Checks out
A dispatchers goal is to get as much information out as much as possible. You don't understand the type of attitude they must have - he did it right. You're just arrogant
@MikeyArrived If that's the case, why was he unable to retain the information he was provided the first time it was given to him? Why did he require the caller to repeat himself? Why was he not able to understand the very simple facts he was provided? He actually did not gather any additional information apart from what the caller had to say twice.
@ probably to verify by proof, if he changed his answer then it can be used in court
@nuclearthreat545 Dispatchers are not criminal investigators. They are not sourcing and sussing information to build a case. Their job is to dispatch authorities and other first responders.
1:06 “where in the hehuhhhd”. Smh 🤦🏼♀️. Good lord. Please fire that man.
Yea seriously 😢
Fr!
Absolutely. He's awful
Yes so horrible
Bro talking like he is in country kitchen😭😭😭
Those videos in the home need to be shown to teenagers so that they know what abuse looks like.
This is overt abuse, there’s also COVERT abuse. You know gaslighting, sly comments that are condescending and belittling but you can’t even put your finger on it and why it crushes you. Yeaaah. That happens as well. 🥲 to be fair, it’s mostly women that emotionally abuse, but men do it as well!
@@BakedBrain7100 You know it very well 😔 Couldn't have explained it any better.
@@BakedBrain7100what is with this culture of everyone thinking they’re in an abusive relationship.
@@flyingchimp12are you dumb?
@@flyingchimp12 Who the fuck claimed they were in one? We’re talking about the video. Crazy. You pulled that thought directly from your asshole.
I’m with my middle school sweetheart and married. So. Nope. Lmao
Also you ever use your critical thinking and think maybe people actually just recognize abuse better in this day in age since we’ve advanced in science and psychology. Lmao
If you really must know, my MOTHER was a diagnosed covert narcissist, who coached me against my dad, after taking me to cheat on him with her multiple times. LMAO
He’s a Psychopath and a Narcissist and she deserved better.RIP.✝️🙏🏼
Exactly, clear narcissistic sadistic behaviour
They are really hard to leave
All psychopaths are narcissists. Same with sociopaths. Not all narcissists are sociopaths or psychopaths though:)
@@annetteniebelski7513 Not to hard for God and clearly this marriage didn't have God in it.
You are a psychiatrist ?
Just an FYI dispatch can pull the IDS location from a phone call. They already have your general location so the whole "slow down and tell me the address" is bs and a waist of valuable time.
Every narcissist says “if you’re not with me, you’re against me”. This is a major sign of a controlling, abusive partner who rather kill their (ex) partners than to let them go be happy with someone else. Beware!
That's the guy she picked it's her fault
@@markforresttvthey never start off like that so your comment really is a red flag about yourself
@@markforresttvyour moms fault she didn’t swallow
@@markforresttvBro every man that says this outs himself. The lack of empathy is the biggest red flag of you being just like this man.
Sounds like the Democrats and MSM
At least her kids knew their mom loved them so much. How sad to lose mom so young. RIP Olivia, you deserved all the love in the world.
Letting the dude out to serve on his food truck outside of the house where he blew his wifes brains out. Absolutely bonkers!
My question is, at the time, how many customers actually knew about his issues. Can’t imagine having that many customers after the beginning of all this.
@@Bouch1018they had to know it was all over the news.
@@lovelylady7097 that’s what I was thinking. Idk how he could have pulled that off
@@Bouch1018 I know people who personally support evil people. They know the evil they do but they still support them. So the people who supported him were probably her enemies or other evil people.
"Murder is wrong and everything, but that 2 for 1 lunch plate special is a good deal."
He got 30 years for executing her. He terrorized her in that house and then killed her. He’s a monster.
“Is she talking?” Strange question
Your UA-cam handle. Are you Canadian? Used to love that show.
Yup. Most people with an injured loved one would ask things like “are they ok? Do the doctors think they will pull through? Can I go be with them or at least visit briefly? ” … not “are they talking?”
🤔...mmm 🤯
@@pushindaisies5327😂 that was my fav show as a kid .... and yes, I'm Canadian aswell
😂😂😂😂
That home video, he kept yelling at her and she hardly replies him. Yet he went on and on like trying to provoke her into responding. So he could have an excuse to hit her or something. Then, he'll use the all time abuser's favourite line- "You made me do it."
Broke my heart as well. I can't speak for her of course but I was just reliving this dead-end panicked feeling of like "ok, this is one of 'those' times, there's nothing i can say or do to stop it, but i know it's gonna end eventually, just like the other million times before. So just keep your head down, don't react, just ride it out, it's fine." But no, turns out silence is also the wrong answer so yeah. That poor woman.
He still managed to use that line when fabricating his story by blaming it on the fact that she was the one that grabbed the gun and he was "trying to de-escalate the situation". What a scary situation and person.
Their favorite line my ex cut my hand open right through the tendons and I had to get surgery as well as pointed a shotgun at me.
He's a bully and a monster.
He’s a loser
Why
This hurts. A woman who is verbally and physically abused by her husband still picks up roses at a store.
He was soo mean and evil to her. I don't know what she was hoping to see in him, but it never came true.
This is why people can say they don't believe in Jesus, but someone who believes that there is a judgement and that we will have to answer for our actions in life, would never behave like that demon.
Right...ain't nothing about him attractive idk what she seen in him
@@teamtwiistz Well I'm a believer and this is just a flat out lie, we've even seen numerous pastors and people in churches be domestic and children abusers
she probably wanted to believe she was loved, and to also be there for her children not just out for herself
Like most people in abusive relationships
7:20 She had no idea. That 3 minute window is so frightening!
He was stupid not to have deleted the whole videos. It showed him being verbally abusive. To delete the crucial 3 minutes sealed his fate. It must have been mentally torture for the poor woman. He must have been a good man before they got married, what makes them turn into a person that would treat their wives like this. Have you heard the saying walking on eggshells.
@@diddsdaddiddsdad6865It’s “walking on eggshells” but yeah
@@bunnyluver2176 🤭🤭
@@diddsdaddiddsdad6865She knew who he was before the marriage. Most ppl aren't Denzel Washington. They can't hold a fake version of themselves past a few weeks. Sometimes even sooner than that I know personally not just speculation. Unless she married him within a week of knowing him she knew exactly who he was before exchanging those vows.
@pennyproud1621 not every relationship is the same. And people can be very good at hiding their true selves
That home surveillance footage was extremely triggering. I’m am shook
Send this man to HOMOSEXUAL Prison!!
Right it was HORRIBLE to watch.
@@scottlee38that’s where he wants to be any way
@@scottlee38i wish I could save youtube comments
@@scottlee38preach
She's so beautiful. I cant imagine how her daughter felt seeing his nasty abusive behavior.
Much condolences to her family❤
This made cry. Buying her own flowers for Valentine. That Broke my heart. What scumbag. I Hope he rots in Jail. Should had gotten Life in prison.
Remember.. she picked him
@@Thegoldenchild415stfu, people change and are manipulative . Out of everything in this video, you’re that much of an incil That you respond with that . Smh
@@Thegoldenchild415Don't be a silly old small d here. Nobody deserves to die, you guys don't get it until it hits home
She Probably bought them for him
@@Thegoldenchild415I found the abuser in the comments. 🚩🚩🚩
The way hes yelling at her in the kitchen is crazy almost doesnt seem real. Like hes a movie character or something. You always hear of this going on but rarely ever see what really goes on behind closed doors. Horrible
cos shes useless
I grew up with this. It wasn’t my dad though. It was my mother. On him and me.
I’ve seen it many times as a kid & seeing it as an adult brought back memories and made me cry for that lady. It made me grab my wife & shed a tear. I can only think of how she will never experience any type of abuse with me, I vow to break the cycle I grew up in.
I felt this too. I was in shock. I can’t even imagine what these women in this relationships feel. My heart sank. May she rest in peace.
100% it’s so crazy, pathetic and cruel.
Never put up with an abusive partner, run with your life folks
That’s much easier said than done! Such a reductive and heartless take.
Stfu, it's not always easy for domestic violence victims to just leave and start over somewhere else. There's money to consider, also the consideration that the abuser will find and end the victim. You can't tell a victim to "run with your life". Some have children and fear the custody outcome. There was a case I've seen that a husband was incredibly abusive and still got equal custody and the courts looked at the victim as crazy for wanting to keep her kids away from their abusive father. His abuse turned to his children. When the mother went to pick up the kids (she didn't have help with someone to pick them up to keep her away from her abuser for her) he threw her down some stairs and shot her. I believe her kids made it, but there are other cases where the father kills the children as revenge or another way to hurt the victim. If you want to tell other people this then go yourself and find true crime stuff that showed the episodes of abusive partners, there were tons of abusive husbands that they talked about ending their wife's life and sometimes both the mother and the children.
Leave with absolutely nothing!! It’s not worth your children going to your grave
Absolutely
Took me 4 years but I did it. I left my abusive bf and am in much worse condition because of it. I am financially ruined and will not recover on my own for a while. This is why people choose to stay. Life can get so much worse if you leave because you built something together and not everything can be split evenly. Of course it's important to put yourself first, take care of your mental health. Anyone would "just leave" if they could. But chances of finding a house on your own are slim. And surviving off of a single full time job has become increasingly difficult too. People stay for those kinds of things.
It's a shock to see the video of the emotional abuse Chris put his wife through. Very much reminded me of my dad, yelling around our household.
Poor Olivia, my heart breaks watching how he spoke to her & treated her. I live on my own because of angry man syndrome , I choose not to share my home with a man ever again after experiencing living with such negativity. Its so sad that Olivia never got the chance to choose peace.
You choose to stay alone, because you don't know how to pick a quality partner.
@@ME-NICCAthat’s false…you don’t always know someone is going to be abusive until it’s too late.
@@ME-NICCA I’m gonna go on ahead and get rid of the suspense for you right now. YOU ARE NOT THAT QUALITY PARTNER. YOU ARE NOT THAT GUY. Go on and saunter (a big word I know) back over to your fresh n fit podcast with your binky. If there is an animal in your presence, may the universe protect it from your dusty mindset.
Hear hear! I am with you. I will NEVER let one of them things around me again on any serious notes. I get more from resting on an old tree, than from even acknowledging them any more than I must.
@@solomoon3083brilliant 👏🏻 😊
How unbelievably sad. This poor lady. All she wanted was to be loved.
Rest in Paradise, Olivia Simmons ❤️
He was a corrections counselor. As in worked at a prison counseling prisoners. Let that sink in.
Yeah,,,,,,,,,,
That’s why self love is important. If she loved herself she would be here cuz she wouldn’t have been with that fool. Most ppl don’t even know their problems stem from a lack of love within themselves. He’s a weak asx bully.
Her need for live from him cost her her life.
your a funny guy
he killed a women and he only gets 30 years? thats sick
He murdered her after (at least) mentally abusing her for a long time.
And in TEXAS! Of all places......
The "justice system" is sick
He’s 45. Not 18. And it’s part of a deal that saves the court and taxpayers a lot of money in future appeals. There are thousands of examples of injustice in our justice system. This is not one of them. Pointless appeals hold up the courts and prolong trials for victims of other crimes.
30 years that's quite a bit. They normally only get a few years. Very sad
Why do omestic abusers always get let out, and get such light sentences, it is evil, and a failiure of our justice system, they get away with victim blamingits sick!
He had to hurry and clean it up when he blurted out "Please don't tell me she's alive!....and she not be. Nice save
there, sir. Then "is she talking? SHE TALKING!??" He seems more terrified that she's alive and talking than anything else.
he looks special needs what a bubba
His eyes turned into peppermints when he was asking 😂😂😂
15:52 My jaw hit the floor when I heard he was a *correctional counselor* WTF ?
nah. most cops abuse their wives.
More times than not correctional officers have the same mentality as the inmates they see over
They’re usually the worst. couldn’t make it as police, angry, and frustrated
i was like "SURPRISE!" 🤪🤦🏻♀️
I've been to jail a couple of times . They are miserable people and I've always thought "what hell does that person's other half have to live with?" .
I've been married to my wife since I'm 19 years old. We've had major disagreements and we almost separated once before. I would never, in a million years, wish harm on a person I loved. Let alone the person I chose to marry. It does not matter what they do. I chose to spend the rest of my life with my wife, and we're in a much healthier place now because we both live by the vows we made to one another. We will not give up on one another, even in the darkest of times and the hardest of strains; we will work and rebuild so long as we are faithful to one another.
This is pure evil and the men that could do this to their wives aren't men. They're cowards who cannot control their emotion.
His daughter’s behaviour shows you how that family cannot control themselves. If that’s their culture, it’s not a desirable one.
We don't know how old you are so using the age you were when you got married means very little.
Should have said I got married to my wife at 19 (now 56) or whatever age you are because for all as know you're 20 and have only been married a year.
@Woodman-Spare-that-tree WOW! What exactly do you mean with this racist and stereotypical statement? Troll much? I guess you wouldn't react if your mother was murdered. I think that's called a psychopath. Shame on you for this thought, let alone typing it out.
@@Woodman-Spare-that-treesomeone was murdered and your making it about race, absolutely disgusting
First red flag I noticed was “ what up Mr butler “ when they’re were walking in to her on the ground . Like you don’t stop freaking out and say “what’s up Mr butler “ in calm voice
Anyone else feel that it is weird to have camera in your house for no reason. Like I get having external cameras for security but having camera coverage in your house like a store is just weird to me. It gives me controlling vibes.
you KNOW he was watching her around the house and waiting for her to fuck up or something so he could go off on her. he deleted the videos, he controlled the cameras. so grossly abusive, i could genuinely throw up.
@dnache7553 some apt/ condo bldgs don't allow exterior cameras or video doorbells, so having an interior one can alert you if someone is inside your home. Of course, it seems odd to keep them running once you're inside.
I was just wondering why they would have cameras in their living room/kitchen like that. Definitely strange.
That’s the point. And many cops are aware of the fact that CCTV is increasingly used by abusers to monitor their victim inside the home. When I was living with my abusive ex years ago, before the physical abuse started, he had a psychotic episode and I called 911, one of the cops in particular who showed up noticed the cameras my ex had inside the home all over the place and recognized what it was long before I did. He stood there and told me this is not a good situation and you need to get out of here before this gets worse. Unfortunately I wasn’t exposed to that level of abuser before so it didn’t really sink in until much later.
@@Terminal.Rainbows to monitor her every move. Even when she was asleep, probably.
I'm so sorry to those of you that have experienced abuse in any way. I'm a victim as well. I made it out and I hope and pray that anyone experiencing abuse can get out of the situation.
🫶🏽❤️🙏🏽
Same my heart bleeds for those who’ve dealt with it. It’s such a hard thing to explain to people who haven’t experienced it. Some of the things I talk about make me feel stupid retrospectively but I forgive myself for allowing it and now know how to spot abuse and stand up for myself. I hope the same for everyone else who’s experienced it. I’m happy to see you got out too. Bless you ❤❤❤
Another coward and bully. Shocking
I'm afraid in America it's only gonna get worse before it gets better. We need good men to stand up too!
Fart
As soon as we saw that monstrous lifted truck, pretty much expected we were gonna meet a narcissist. Again...shocking
The criminal elite policians and other forces like islam are spreading more wickedness in the West.@@Bettinasisrg
What do you mean by "shocking"? Is this the first time you are learning of spousal abuse and murder? Are you surprised that his sentence was so lenient?
He never loved her… you don’t talk down on your wife like that! Rest in peace Olivia 😢
Any man talk to a woman like that did not love her. Just an emotional punching bag for him. Awful she had to live that way. It’s heartbreaking.
That dispatcher should be fired. He is absolutely unqualified 😮
For real wtf
"Where in the face?" Bro...
I hate dispatchers who start giving an attitude to callers who are yelling. They are yelling because theres a traumatic event happening. How can they calmly answer you????
Well you do realize that your face is quite a large area. You could have been shot in the forehead or the cheek and you’d have two different outcomes on the person who was shot. Cheek is an easily survivable spot to be shot. But the forehead your dead
Your face has more surface area than 90% of your body
“Please don’t tell me she’s alive”😂
Whoa !
that's says everything ....
@@tarantellalarouge7632yes crazy
Lmaooo hes lik, “ im fkd!”
@@VeeAmericanEagle the look on his face !
Do not get involved with people who are in law enforcement. He worked at correctional facility that tells everything. Bringing that violence home.
Your job doesn’t define you
That could be why his bond was so low.
I always found it weird for a person to have cameras all around the house including inside. No one deserves to be surveillance in their own home.
Cameras around the house isn't weird at all. Inside the house in every room is a bit odd
@@Cheesy-g9uI agree. We have them but not in bedrooms. We have 4 kids though so it's good to have.
@@Cheesy-g9uyea I always found it weird to have them everywhere like that. A lot of guys do this to keep tabs on a Woman
I think it’s important when you have small kids
I dont, because in cases like this it helps. Also if an intruder comes in, the camera tells the story. I was in a relationship like this so just in case I UNALIVE him, it's on camera, why. Sometimes it's good for your safety.
"What's up Mr Butler "
😂😂😂😂😂
Did that sound like an innocent person 😂
That's what I said to!!! Cause wtf
Absolutely not
He thought Mr. Butler would take his side because they "know " one another smh and probably because he's black. Mr. Butler's whole demeanor read this 🥷 ass is grass! 😅
That disgusted me. So casually...
She was better off claiming those unemployment cheques than living with this monster.
My friend, she is white syrian. Dating very, very similar type of guy. He bought her a toy for her birthday. My husbands friend. Also Syrian. His sister was shot outside a tire shop after many attempts by her lover to meet her and she finally caved. All had a similarity I will not mention on yt. My experience and observations, many of them all the same. Combative speech. Men and the women. Complain, lazy and desperate.
@@sukaenacornelius9285bruh u being racist not all blk ppl are lazy complain n all all over a few ppl u group us all together racist aah and weird n ur saying all this yet all yall do is obsess with us steal our culture n date us 😂like girl ur weird n trust nobody hoping on u u not cute 😂
@@YahshuaismyeverythingWhen did the comment mention black people? I saw a comment about Syrians.
Facts!!
@@sukaenacornelius9285women never go for the nice guys in this current day . They get brainwashed by the charisma and lust
"Is she talkin?" ............... Wait let me act like I'm concerned ..........."Is she breathing?"
I saw this case on the series "Married to Evil."
Olivia was an extremely intelligent young lady who was very business savvy and extremely driven.
She is the reason Chris' food truck business was taking off.
That was one of the things Chris felt threatened by was the fact that she was making more money than him and how she was very goal oriented.
He was fired from the prison because he beat up a prisoner pretty bad; that's why he had to figure a different means of employment.
This was truly one of thee most saddest cases I've seen of extreme control, intimidation, verbal and mental abuse.
He controlled her so much that he did not even allow Olivia's family to their wedding.
Her oldest daughter urged her mother to leave, but she wanted to fight for her marriage.
I'll never understand how someone could bring harm to a person who has done nothing but show unconditional love to them.
Heartbreaking! 💔
It's women like this that men like me can only dream of having but will never been given a chance... Rip Olivia
@@kwanholloway4112 Love your comment! ❤️
I pray God blesses you with a wonderful woman of your deserving. 😉
He wanted to control her. He was a monster and knew that her family would see through him, so he stayed in hiding also estranged her from her family (The people who truly loved and cared about her) he wanted to make her conpletely independent of him without intervention and so she'd have no support system. I too was with a man who was like this so I can tell you first hand what type of person that monster is...
Not smart enough to leave. Doesn't love children to stay with such a man. She could've left and didn't. No more pity for those who stay when they are so smart.
Thank you for those details. That is terrible! He's a monster.
What a piece of worthless filth he is. He’ll make someone a lovely little obedient househusband in jail.
cos she didnt lol western women useless
Yea it's not like that.
@@kenw2225there's always one in the bunch who will disagree that the sky is blue.. when it's blue. 😂
@@conservativemamabear3508 he's a big guy... not everyone in jail gets turned out
He might like it
This makes me want to go home and love on my husband even more. The small things I complain about have nothing on what this man is doing to his wife! I’m so thankful that God protected me from evil like this. He literally answered my prayer when he created my husband. Praying for this woman’s family 💐
You should tell your husband what you said. ❤It would be a good thing for him to hear 😊
Yes sister gotta love and appreciate our kings for being honorable and loving men. ❤
@@icantthinkofaname15 Absolutely!
love this for you
Why is God so selective on who is protected? Why didn’t God protect her?
People are always quick to ask why do women stay with abusive men or abusive women and it’s because they fear this right here.. being murdered by them. I hate for anybody to go through this. My heart goes out to her family
3:55 “CALM DOWN?” “HOW CAN I CALM DOWN IF SHES STILL BREATHING”
Also, the way he said "Please don't tell me she's alive" before correcting himself.
He was shock she was breathing
They tell on themselves
Ladies...if you are scared, quietly leave without saying anything. It will be painful, but you will live to love another day.
💯🎯🎯🎯
Watching him berate her was very difficult. He was convincing in the slightest with his “worried husband” act.
Yes. Brought me to tears. Us humans are too much.
You mean he wasn't convincing... Cuz I wasn't convinced a bit
@@wereallabitcrazee4312horrible liar
@@lcam9241I was thinking to myself, how does a person have it inside them to treat someone like that. Heartbreaking
When an attorney says, "we'll never know what happened in that room", they really mean, "i know he did it, but if I admit that I look more pathetic defending him". LMAO
Coward. Any man who bullies women like that is a 🐈coward.
She chose him ..
@@12savage68I hope he comes to marry you if he outlives his sentence
@@joeystarr1273 why ?some groupie will swoop in while he's locked up .
@@12savage68 "she chose him" she thought he was a good person?? have u heard of being manipulated?
@@chomperitisichomper she stayed when she found out he wasn't...🤷🏿♂️
May Olivia be able to rest in peace one day.
“Ill forgive you one day but today i cant” SHATTERED my heart. What ever ounce or innocence that was left in that child now washed away by the murder of her mother at the hands of her father. I pray she can heal and get help. Sad.
This is exactly why you should leave toxic situations ASAP. It's very simple, if a relationship doesn't bring you joy or peace.... YOU NEED TO LEAVE. The home video tape was the hardest part for me to watch. This type of person is incapable of loving someone. Love is kind. This ish was worse than abuse to me. 🙏 up for her family. ❤
If nothing else he said sounded suspect.. the line "don't try to scare me" was the MOST UNREALISTIC UNBELIEVABLE statement ever heard to be said.
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His stupid ass belongs under the jail.
For that horrible trial haircut alone.
@@tranquilrabies he or his barber?
@@tranquilrabies dudes with effed up haircuts be the craziest😂😂😂
And i do mean under
0:44 the husband's acting is atrocious
He was waiting to hear "and ACTION!" 😂
I was thinking the same thing
Horrible 🤦🏽♀️ 😂
AS FUCK!!!!
@@UnkindlyHumble"OLIVIAAAA" 😩
Dude said “please don’t tell me she’s alive!” Mmhmm and that home footage was deplorable. It’s sad that Olivia thought that she had to put up with a pathetic monster like that.