Sex Offender interview-Bill
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- Опубліковано 26 гру 2020
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Bill, a sex offender in Pinellas County, Florida.
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How can we as a society stop molestation and rape ? I honestly feel like it’s the root to so many people’s trauma !
People who shouldn’t be parents need to stop having unprotected sex. There should be rigid mental testing and evaluation for those who are expecting to make sure they won’t fuck their kid up. Parenting should absolutely not be a god-given right.
Yes people who have been through trauma need therapy etc..to prevent this
@@FurubaFangirl98 Two healthy, well-adjusted people can breed sadistic psychopaths, serial killers, rapists. These people aren't just made, a lot are born. I think harsher punishments would help dissuade some from harming others, but only to a certain extent. It's like an itch these empathy-devoid fucks need to scratch; the urge to harm others. I wish drugs, cosmetics, weapons, yadda yadda would be tested on these skid marks. Would save innocent animals a world of pain. Too bad that'll never happen because EvErYoNe Is A hUmAn BeInG wOrThY oF rEsPeCt!!!!1
We can’t stop it, we can only lead by example.
I've had this same thought so many times how can we put an end to this cycle how can we make a difference
As someone who has experienced abuse as a child, and is now a psychologist, this is a fascinating insight. Thank you Mark for your work.
I’m a therapist too. The damage the abuse does is lifelong.
If you think this is interesting, i believe this man makes an appearance in a 60 minutes show that addressed the nature vs nurture argument in regards to sexual
proclivities... Links below : -
ua-cam.com/video/OiquubYVbWQ/v-deo.html
This piece of trash should not be on the street. Ya he had a hard life, so did a lot of people. Life in prison... no mercy for sex offenders. I know what I speak of, most sex offenders will repeat if they feel opportunity is right. 20+ years as a probation officer, these pieces of human trash always made me sick.
@@DP-jd6qr thank you it's people in the comments feeling sorry for this thing
@@DP-jd6qr how many people did you ever see that were put through rehabilitation as intensely as this guy?
My dad and uncle were sexually abused by my grandmother and physically abused by my grandfather. My uncle committed suicide when he was 24 and my dad committed suicide when he was 49. This video hit me hard because people don't talk about the sexual abuse at tbe hands of a mother very often. I hope this man continues to heal, he can help others with the same issues.
I’m so sorry for your loss Courtney. I hope you find peace and happiness in life 💗
@@michellehudson2290 thank you for the kind words, I think now because of the loss and grief that life had brought me I am now truly able to appreciate and value love and peace 💛
agree. fems get away wth all kndza perversions n crimes. my oldr sistr molestd me repeatedly n my mthr did not believe me.
@@woodynorris8224 I don't feel comfortable leaving my children with anyone..
Try and get well Bill
Just stay away from
My family!
As a child, I was raped, molested, abused. I have a very hard time listening to child molester. Its hard to have to relive my horror. But, Bill, I hear you. I see you. I feel you. And I am so proud of your growth. I couldnt type this without crying. I believe you. Remember, you too, were abused too. You own your wrong! Thank you, Bill. Thank you
That is all very brave and open minded for you to admit and say to someone who has harmed others. Thank you for giving a forgiving victims perspective. I hope you have been happy and loved in life…it sure sounds like it!
Wow you have a great and positive perspective you are so strong for being this openminded. God has blessed you I hope you have a great life.
❤️❤️❤️
Sending love
Souls like yours is the very hope for humanity. Thank you.
Sex offender or not I don’t trust any adult alone around my kids
Smart man. Even the people you think are trustworthy have issues.
I agree with you
I don't trust you around my kids either Johnathan Charles.....
@@justinofboulder Lol
@grow seeds you think a school setting is the same as a kid being left alone in a house?
This makes such a massive difference removing the secrecy around such a hidden subject ...giving back ..making changes ..and raising awareness so others can face their behaviour ...it’s the way forward to protect our children from abuse ..Thankyou xx
You're absolutely correct.
I believe this is the same guy in this 60 minutes Australia episode. This is one way of reducing the rate of it happening. ua-cam.com/video/OiquubYVbWQ/v-deo.html
the way forward is TO ASK FOR HELP BEFORE RUINING A LIFE
We definitely need to hear these stories and talk about these issues. Understanding is the root to a better future for all of us.
@@Oultrepreu agreed!!!👏👍
This was the first sex offender video where I can genuinely say I feel like he meant everything he said he’s not playing victim he’s not justifying anything he’s taking accountability , very very interesting insight I appreciated this one greatly
Remember he's a diagnosed psychopath which means he's very good at getting you to believe what he wants you to believe.
Exactly 💯❤
I don’t believe him.
I agree! He's not making excuses, and he didn't have to participate in this video. Every other abuser of this type points the finger at someone else; usually their victims and/or their own upbringing.
He is that’s because he’s suicidal in my eyes though.
I was abuse by a sibling, it started at 6yrs old, and it FUCKED me up! I was lucky, my mom believed me and took action immediately. They went to a week long program, like rehab, and we both went to counseling. But back then in the Midwest the help sucked. One counselor took both us back in the same room and asked me questions in front of the sibling. I didn’t go back. After years of drug abuse, toxic relationships, and self hate, I’m in a much better place now. My husband has helped me so much. Made me realize a lot of things about a lot of different situations that I had no control over. I have 3 beautiful girls and I watch over them like a hawk if we’re around this person. Cuz even tho he hasn’t done anything to anyone else I still dont trust them. If you’re child comes to you and tells you there’s abuse going on, listen! Most kids dont lie about that shit
Sorry but why would you still see this sibling at all let alone have your children around them? Maybe you should reconsider.
Reconsider the relationship with this sibling. If you don’t cut it off, you will never be free. Just do it.
Stories where siblings sexually abuse is horrific on another level.. like what has happened to them that they think acting like that towards ur siblings is normal? They were probably molested too. I’m glad ur doing well no, God bless you!
Very sorry you went through all that. Glad you didn't grow up to repeat the molestation that was done to you.
Well, you shouldn't have asked for it
I find these videos very healing for me. I suffered from emotional, mental, and sexual abuse from the ages of 6 to 8. I didn't speak about these things until I was in my 20s. Long story short, the people who committed these things against me can no longer be held accountable. Because of this I found myself being full of anger and rage, wanting to commit harm against any sexual predator out there. But watching these videos makes me realize that a lot of these people were them themselves abused, and they're just continuing the cycle because of their trauma. I'm not saying this gives them a pass or that their actions shoul be excused, just that for me this helps me put things in better perspective, and that I can have empathy for them. Thank you for these videos
Sending healing hugs Tyler xx
I have to disagree with you. There is no excusing profiles ,predators, rapists etc etc. They groom which is premeditated. They're only concern is their own self gratification and therefore they are selfish and could care less about who they hurt or destroy. NO EXCUSES can be made for selfish desires self gratification. They know it's wrong yet place their sick desires first. Can't blame drugs or alcohol..I'm not buying those as excuses either. This guy talks a great talk. I wish him well..it's a battle I'm sure..I wish them all well.
Good on you for letting go of the anger and resentments around it. You must be very strong. Those lifelong and ongoing painful emotions are one of the most insidious parts of abuse. Those unresolved feelings from the trauma can really weigh on your soul and eat away at you. You are a strong and brave man for sharing your experience.
I’ve been working on forgiving for a long time myself. It’s to bring yourself peace not to give them a pass for what they did to you. Finding a healthy way to help you let go of some of that rage and resentment is amazing. Good for you brother
Well said!
As a victim of abuse as a child, I can appreciate his openness and frankness about his journey. It does my soul good to know that treatment for sex offenders is finally evolving and having some sort of a positive tangible outcome.
I wouldn’t trust him …. He’s for sure a smart sex offending psychopath.
@@EBlueTX Exactly this, I really don't understand how the original poster thought he was being open and frank, I'm sorry but he just looks like a psychopath who learned, though repeated therapy how to fool people.
Well then you know they are sociopaths and will tell anybody what they want to hear this guy has been thoroughly trained by psychiatrist this adds to his danger
A pedophile crossed some lines in my pre-teens years without it going so far as actual abuse but same! I fear somehow we're more easily duped because we so desperately want, almost need to hear there's hope.
Ill admit, I suspect his frankness
After watching a few of these “sex offender” videos… this is the first to have the comments open. The community response to this content was what I was anticipating. Im not sure if it’s the choice of Mark or the person in this interview… but I appreciate it. I feel, for society, this topic needs a de-escalated space to circulate. So much empathy for all victims of abuse. But also ready to hear the now predators to hopefully explore any deeper or obscure possible options to prevent these things from happening. Thank you Mark & good luck to all the humans moving forward.
The lesson we learned from that To Catch a Predator show is that there is no sharp line between a monster and a horny middle class Dad. The boogeyman Other is a useful tactic of shitty powermongers; once they rally a mob to murder, it's a short step to redirect it.
This channel is a step towards solutions, instead of making the issue taboo to talk about. More important than what people do, is WHY they do it. If you dont care about the why then you will never really understand or learn anything. Why do evil people do what they do? There has to be reasons right? If they don’t care about other humans or they hate humans…well…why? Let’s figure out why, thischannel seems to be about figuring out the why. This gets us closer to better understanding and solutions. If all we do is kill or silence preadators, we will never be able to find ways to prevent more of them and our understanding will stay primitive.
I appreciate it also
Insh'allah
This isn't the first one to open with commenting on.
Watching these videos make me feel so lucky to have had a relatively normal childhood. I had drug users all around me but they all loved me and I was never abused. I am so thankful .
@Dexter Morgan Jesus christ man, are you being serious? If so I'm so fucking sorry you had to go through that.
thanks for rubbing it in.. and no you did not have a normal childhood :)
@soniagill5958 the key word here is relatively. I was never caught in a raid, abused etc. Things that did happen to a lot of my friends. So yeah speaking relatively, I did have a pretty normal childhood. Sorry if that triggering.
thanks for rubbing it in :) @@adriennecruz3132
@@soniagill5958wow this is such an unnecessary, gross comment. i hope you work through the baggage you have and become kinder to others. - from someone who was severely abused at my bio home and in foster homes.
I appreciate the fact that he came an gave an interview to Mark, he didn't have to. Let's just learn something from it and move on.
Seriously, That's great advice.
Yes I learned a lot honestly.
Good wisdom, Madam
I honestly feel it’s not our place to just simply forget and not hold him accountable, he needs to get that acceptance from those children he hurt deeply.
@@Ashley-up4qf Also a good point 🧐
Bill is clearly very articulate and intelligent. I want to believe he is genuine and rehabilitated and would not commit another offense on a child, but I would not have him around my daughters... Much better safe than sorry! My wife and I were very careful about protecting our girls by not putting them into a situation where they could be abused when they were children. The trauma he experienced as a child and he later inflicted on other children lasts a lifetime. Sadly, the cycle continues. I truly wish him well with his recovery...
Sex offenders mainly target single mothers
@@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807 idek what to call your reply based on this comment. Unnecessary 😂
@@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807 ok??
It's so sad how repetitive the cycle of sexual trauma can be and I really hope he begins breaking the cycle and helping others to do the same. He seems like a good guy but if he were to reoffended by the time any knew it would already be too late. I don't think that's the case with him but it's such a difficult situation.
@@jennifercochrane8218 fr huhh
I’ve read somewhere that most paedophiles struggle personally with their feelings and attractions before offending.. there really needs to be some way people can express what there going through and get help before they hurt someone
There is, they just lie and say there isn't as an excuse to offend. Do not let this man fool you.
It’s hard to listen to a child molester that says he’s happy. I think of the man that groomed and molested me when I was 13-14. His name was Les, and he was an instructional aid at my middle school and then at my high school. He was never held accountable for what he did. People don’t know and think he’s just great. And in many ways he is a wonderful person.
My abuser only got 2 years house arrest. A slap on the wrist for the amount of pain he’s caused. I think the only way to really move on is forgiveness. Anger and hatred do nothing but poison your body. Letting it go, then working on the aftermath instead of stewing in toxic emotions, is the best way to deal with it. I believe karma will catch up with my abuser eventually. But for my own sanity, letting go of the resentment and anger I’ve harboured towards him is the kindest thing I can do for myself.
@@spencerk4077 p pml
I'm sorry for those that are victims to this 10 pounds of bullshit in a 5 pound bag like this! I can't imagine how traumatizing it is when your abuser gets a slap on the wrist, or serves an appropriate amount of time, only to victimize another person.
This man doesn't fool me.
yes... but at least he was caught fast and received an effective treatment during his time of serving. Some are never caught and they groom and do worst things, and they never ever get punished.
I only hope that what he is saying is true... though
I think someone has to tell for people to know.
Nothing worse than a Bill, a light bill, phone bill.. etc, etc.
a beasty Bill 😅
Lol I guess the only good one would be a BILL-ion dollars.
Lmaoo
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Seeing him so articulate after all he has been through makes me mourn for the child he was and the adult he could have been without his own abuse. Thought provoking indeed
Yes, me too. He had huge potential, az all human beings do, without the abuse n trauma.
Alot of people who have been abused in childhood don't become sex offenders,you have a choice.
@@lesleycooper3088 and yet many do. One would never know. Either way my comment was strictly addressing his trauma. Cheers xX
Gimme a break man!!
What about the child he sexually assaulted?
Tbh I don’t believe pedophiles can “recover.” Also this guy doesn’t seem remorseful at all and kept talking abt himself and not the children he traumatized. Ew.
So important that treatment for sex offenders is advancing, it helps keep children safe in the long run
So even for sex offenders that simply got caught peeing outside?
@@Bstonz85 what?
@@dustyw How many people on the sex offender registry are there for peeing? Go on the sex offender registry right now, and find me one person on there who’s there for peeing in a bush.
@@dustywI’ve heard of cases where they did and didn’t get on any list but I’ve heard of cases where they did as well
@@Bstonz85yeah I know which is really stupid 🤦🏿 in never understood that shit
I was the special ed services coordinator for a foster care agency. I would estimate that 85% of the children I worked with were the admitted victims of molestations. When I hear people feeling sorry for pedos and thinkng its amazing how they've changed, I feel sick to my stomach at the thought they might be responsible for protecting some child. The one thing everyone needs to factor in assessing these situations is pedophillic grooming. Abusers first hunt for vulnerable children. They target children who are poor, neglected, have low self-esteem, are rejected by their peers, are soft or scared of conflict. Second, they then groom the children by twisting their reality, by exploiting their desperate circumstances, by pretending to love them, by isolating them from friends and family and anybody who might protect them. Third, they avoid arrest and imprisonment for their lifelong careers as child molesters by calculated concealment. More often than not pedos will destroy the reputations of the very children they are abusing, they'll smear them as liars, spread stories about them, do everything to paint them as not credible, they will beat/torture/do sadistic or violent things in front of the children to plant fear in them, they will drug the children and introduce them to hard drugs. Molesting a child Its not something that just "happens" and its never a mistake. The mistake is picking the wrong kid. The mistake is doing it in the wrong place. The mistake is getting caught. Twice, almost a decade apart. Think about all of the 365 days worth of children between the mistakes.
I agree. I also think the interviewee just learned to speak the lingo to sound less likely to offend. Notice he started to say "I have a beautiful... (grandchild) then he changed it to "grandchildren". He was only thinking of the one he wants to molest.
I can't watch this. You can tell you have been around the victims alot. Then the children grow up and think about killing their selves everyday, cause they were never enough for anyone to give two shits about
@@kellykilander1885 that's not true I over came abuse as child and I have no desire to take my own life in fact I love my life not everyone dewls on the past some of us rise above it and move on.
Not every child predator grooms the child in fact most don't bother in most cases it's a just a sper of the moment thing that they touch a child inappropriately but never do it again most of the time it's not even premeditated. Your theory is unfounded.
@@sugarsundae3400 No one said every predator goes through the grooming process every time. However the sizing up of their victim is grooming just sped up. Notice not many predators try it unless they think they can get away with it. It's all predation. They don't do it in front of other adults who are not predators. They choose carefully and instinctually. Like predators.
He has learnt how to say all the right things. I wouldn't let him anywhere near children ever. He makes me very uncomfortable to put it mildly.
I felt that the moment he began to speak!
i’d say that its okay to not want to have this guy around your children because of his past and thats okay. but i’d say that some guys like this guy isn’t satisfied for what he has done
Yes, he has "learned" his lessons.
He’s around his grandchildren
@@zainaarmeen6718 Not good.
I came across these videos and watched at first out of anger. Thinking why the hell is this story important given what their actions were. But after watching and being someone who was abused it’s been very healing to hear the other end of the story.
I appreciate you sharing all walks of life and their stories.
Mark, thank you for doing all of the videos that you do!! They are a meaningful contribution to attempting to shed light on on of the many factors that could help all of us prevent the decay of society from getting worse then it is!
He sounds like he is just mechanically repeating what he was told in therapy. I feel bad for him, but I would never let him be alone with a kid.
Exactly!
No one gives a fuck about your opinion
Yep. And as i look through other comments who feels sorry for him or even protecting him thats how new victims are made unfortunately people are dumb who believe that these people can change..
@@merah989 i wouldn't leave him alone with my daughter, but unless you believe he should be murdered or segregated indefinitely from the rest of society, I think it is possible for him to live in society with others (just not around kids and alone).
Yep
Kudos to mark for posting everyday
Yes, he's always working
Amazing man , putting in so much work behind these videos
Her has a great work rate.
He does it all for free too which is insane
@@Luis-zx3ls It really is . Im surprised youtube demonitizes him
I work with youth 12 - 18 in a program for youth that sexually harm. We don't call them sex offenders because they can change. Our program is a year long and our recidivism rate is 7.3% so if it is caught at a young age there is his hope for re-direction in life. This is one of the best talks I have seen from an adult offender and I will share it with my youth in the program I work at. I see so much insight in Bill and I believe he is being completely honest.
Thank you for your work.
I try to give credit where it is due, but there's a part of my brain that says to me, "wow! This guy is really good at manipulation! He almost had me convinced that he was reformed. Just like prison, these guys learn how to work the system. He sure knows how to say the exact right things..."
Regardless of how wrong I might be, I can't shut that part of my mind down.
Sounds like you've got some good instincts! Several things he said raised red flags for me, yet he still managed to fool me into thinking therapy helped him. 🤦♀️
@@jamegumb9731 Well, for starters he said he was no longer a psychopath. That's not something that's curable AFAIK. He also said no sex offenders thought what they did was right and that they wanted to change when all I've seen, at least the majority of them make excuses, plays the victim and take little to no responsibility for their wrongdoings. They're more upset of being caught and registered as a Sex Offender than anything.
You aren't wrong.
agreed i feel disgusted by the people in the comments feeling sorry for him or commending him on his ‘intelligence’ and ‘articulation’ he’s literally a piece of shit
Prison are meant to reform people & he seems as if he was reformed. look into other countries prison systems and they don’t nearly have the same amount of people reoffending, cause they truly reform.
I listened to the entire interview and not once did he mention how his actions affected his victims. He didn't even pretend to care about them. I still gave this a thumbs up because this provides insight into the twisted psychology of a predator.
Hurt people, hurt people.
He wasn’t asked about his victims. He is trying to take responsibility for his behavior That’s all he can do. He can’t change the past
Watch a different video. I came to hear about him. Your comment makes no sense.
@@noahfletcher3019 yours doesn’t
@@pecan11 lol good one
I had an in-law relative who was imprisoned for similar reasons. He passed suspiciously while incarcerated and I feel no remorse. Sometimes, and not often enough, people get what they deserve.
Prisoners probably got to him. No one likes pedos
The hardest part for people to accept is that offenders aren’t monsters or inhuman. We want to mythologize them because it makes it easier for us to feel safe if we can separate from someone like this. Which doesn’t mean what they do isn’t monstrous or evil. But to throw them away without any questions is foolish and emotion based. We’re more likely to perpetuate harm by not investigating why some people become this way, and how to mitigate it. I don’t feel sorry for this man, except maybe the child version of him, but I think it’s important for him to be heard.
exactly
This comment needs more likes.
When he says he got his psychopathy score down, does that mean he is less of a psychopath or that he learned what the "right" answers are on the test?
Of course 😂
Research Ed Kemper. He killed his grandparents at 15, ended up at a psych ward. Got his phychopathy score reduced. Fooled the doctors to letting him out in society. He became a serial killer.
Bill is an offender. I truly believe he's playing the convincing card. There is no cure.
Right answers imply right thinking and awareness.
It's striking how how he doesn't express guilt, remorse, or compassion for his victims.
I dont think he has any. Its all about him.
Because he is a psychopath. Your score on the PCL does not change because of therapy.
Because he's a diagnosed psychopath. It's incurable. This interview is so chilling.
@@user-rz4xl6dt7k you cant compare an innocent defenseless child to an adult drug addict. If you think anyone would need good reason to feel sorry for a child victim then clearly something is wrong with you!
He is not able to express emotions regarding other people. At least he isn't faking it..
I had Robert Hare as a Professor when doing my Criminal Justice degree. If someone scores in the 30's on the Hare Test - keep a very wide berth. No joke. I remember another Prof stating that he didn't believe in the death penalty, except in two cases: 1. Psychopaths, and 2. Pedophiles. Why? Because generally speaking, we can't effectively treat them (and despite what this guy says, I don't believe he's the exception). Psychopaths are be extremely good at adapting to situations. They can read a person in front of them, and know what they want to hear. That's their best skill, listen to how put together and intelligent Bundy, Kemper, Dahmer, etc, sounded. This is textbook.
I came looking for this comment and found it, thank you...no one recovers from being a psychopath, they just get smarter at cheating the system with enough exposure to therapy and terms, how to navigate the world in a smarter way but still serving themselves.
I would love to believe he has changed, but when someone boasts about scoring off the charts for psychopathy, you have to pause and question his agenda and who he is trying to convince, or his rehabilitation. Many people who are psychopaths navigate in this world without doing jail time, but most end up abusing/manipulating those around them for personal gain/power/career/sexual gratification and leave a trail of destruction in most cases.
It was sad to hear of his own abuse, but he barely said anything with respects to the guilt for his own victims and what they might be going through because of his actions...lacking empathy, still.
@@DinkyPixie Same here, and your reply was what I was going to say too. If he tested as a psychopath then that is the lens he will see the world through. ASPD is no joke.
This the one. Shit cannot be cured
This is the comment I was looking for. A con artist will always con, and I was very suspicious when said he was scoring lower on the HARE test. A psychopath will manipulate the situation to tell you what you want to hear.
AGREED
Incredible interview. Thanks again, Mark, for shedding light to these topics.
As far as we’ve come with dealing with molestation and child sex abuse as a society, it feels like there’s still not enough done. Reading everyone’s comments is so painful.
Yes i agree we still need to build gas chambers for them. Why it takes so long..
I honestly can’t believe his wife would be that careless with her daughters safety, she knows what he did and still chose him.
thats a woman with some limited options
Women literally choose guys in jail to date. So I don't put it past who a woman won't date.
I agree
It says a lot about his wife; she has major issues herself, there’s no other way around it. She lets her daughter around him. Once a sex offender always a sex offender; much like addicts. You can be in recovery for a lifetime but you’re still an addict!! I was molested as a child and it has caused life long pain and agony. There is no “cure” for psychopathy either.
@@james-jl2ej sex offenders have even said there isn’t a cure only some things help lessen urges. That is pure evil it isn’t like being a drug addict at all. Maybe you’re struggling with those issues yourself but this is not a place to judge only to state opinion and discuss.
He talk a real good one. I still don’t trust him tho and would never let him around my kids.
Uhhh nobody is putting you in that position.
Truth is I wouldn't trust you around my kids. You are much of a stranger to me as he is.
Don't trust anyone around your kids. No one.
The thing is don’t trust anyone !!! Your own family too....
No one is asking you to. Of course not. He’s not legally allowed to be around ANY children.
Very good to get this kind of information out to the public. I find this interview honest and open.
He doesn't feel right to me. I want this to be very true for him. He's intelligent, but glib, a-l-m-o-s-t self-congratulatory, his confident acceptance/assertion that he's cured or in control in ways others are not feels off. And mentioning his relationship with grandkids a couple of times, almost as if to boast. That last statement that just 'injecting rational thought' is 'all it takes' makes my teeth grate, rational thought is not what helps people with deep damage.
He knows what to say. Being able to articulate "what you are supposed to do" doesn't mean you actually practice the principals.
Marie Bernier, I agree with you. He's intelligent & a manipulator, he learned from the best as a child and had his refresher courses in prison. He knows exactly what to say to convince people he's "ok". He's NOT ok. But I would bet he's got a lot of people feeling 'sorry' for him & convinced that he *is 'ok' and 'cured'. He's smart, he understands why he's the way he is. But that doesn't mean he changed.
Yes, he's slick. I kinda gagged when he said registration laws "can be so confusing" and then a little grin. He is a registered s.o. , he knows how it works and how to work it. Not buying one word he said.
And a nod is as good as a wink, to a blind horse!!
You read my mind.
every single video reminds me of the importance of healthy parenting. all of these people have had some type of trauma in their childhood which contributed to the decisions they've made and how their lives turned out. broken people coming from broken families. it really makes me want to ensure that i care for my future children and all of the children in my life now.
Well said
Girl u are so right
People should be approved to have babies.
Mark’s work is taking our collective shadows and shining the light on them. Thank you 🙏🏾. My compassion for others expands with each of these interviews. We have to look at our shadows to overcome.
Truly eyeopening. Your channel is a gift to humanity.
My opinion, because we're all graced with one: Eight years in daily, intensive treatment, after prison, for "touching a child" and "showing a child my genitals"? He also downplayed his failure to register. Calculating, devious, manipulator. Egocentric and anti-social. He exudes psychopathy. Telling people what he thinks they want to hear. He talks the talk, but not he's not selling it, no matter how much he believes he is.
I agree. I hope I'm wrong, but I fear for his grandkids. It's probably too late.
Geez....he paid his debt to society, and got intensive therapy. All the things that should happen after being convicted of a crime such as this.
He is still not within the law if he has not registered correctly. So he has no complied with the law and should be held accountable.
@@rhondaquintero7369 ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Psychpaths are so incredibly charming. Anyone (including the expert doctor that invented the test for psychopathy that he references) can be fooled. He gave himself away when he admitted to being a psychopath. There is no known cure. He's incredibly convincing though. Watch out for that level of charm, it's a give away.
All ya'll who are feeling sorry for him. Just remember that molestation creates addicts, molesters , suicidal, prostitute or low self esteem
Comments are not feeling sorry. A lot of comments stressing the importance of listening, while simultaneously acknowledging that his crimes are awful and that he is still the monster who committed the crimes, and doesn't deserve sympathy. I see what you're saying, but I'd rather listen to a guy who served time than rage while on the shitter looking at the dude on my phone. Definitely not to be trusted, but I like to be rational instead of reactionary, and learn rather than rage.
Right on.
My self esteem was always very low.
I still suffer from depression and i,m 60 now and have had a lot of therapy.
My abuser was a sibling and I later found out he and my other sinlings were abused too.
I,ve forgiven him, but I lied for him to save his marriage.
He threw me under the bus to save himself, but now he has to live with himself.
I have broken all contact.
He,s dead to me
Thank you for having common sense mate 🤝 fxck this pos scumbag
I agree it's fascinating. I'm a victim...but one keyissung point. He never once acknowledged the immense pain and damage he caused the children. He didn't acknowledge the lives he ruined.
Most ASPD individuals can’t comprehend that pain in a way that would be expressed normally. Their brains are like shut off, or maybe damaged or underdeveloped in the region that shows activity for that kind of empathetic exploration of the emotional experiences of others.
He’s learned the lingo. Dangerous.
I agree because of his high scores at the psycopathy test. Cognitive empathy is easy to display but I hope he truly matches his words.
@@thebridewearsblack yeah exactly I was believing him until he said he did the hare test then was like oh he's just saying what he's supposed to say!
@@Sarah-pr6xw what does that mean? What’s the hare test?
@@DuckiesDad08 Hi how are you?
So it's this really interesting test and it was invented by a psychologist called Robert Hare who specialises in studying psychopaths. He was frustrated that there wasn't a test to measure the level of psychopathy in a person so he made this scale. You answer questions and the higher your score the more psychopathic you are. It goes from 1 to 40. Normal people get a score of between 1 and 10. To be a full blown psychopath it's from 30 up but from 10 up its psychopathic tendencies. So you can watch cool UA-cam videos on it or look up robert hare and it'll explain it well.
He's done the time and has a productive life with loving family members. Keep in mind murderers get less time
Amazing interview.
What I took away from it is, it's okay to distance yourself from toxic family and never look back if you acknowledge it's for your better growth.
Even if you have to physically still see them as an adult; to soul-distance a little for your own well being.
I do this today when I visit my family.
I also took away from this interview that this man's rehabilitation experience was a success, good for him, I hope there are more.
Mark mentioned reparenting, cool that is a term I'm hearing recently too.
I imagine Mark asking his roster of 20-30 questions in his sleep, lol.
Happy new years to all who visit this channel and all who are interviewed, wherever you are.
I liked the term re-parenting too. I never heard that before .
This person was also in an episode of 60 Minutes Australia. I believe it was about a trailer park inhabited by pedophiles and sex offenders. He also presented himself in the same manner as he did in this interview. His self-awareness is very interesting.
Yep! Mark also did a interview with the lady they also had on the same documentary
How's he going to start by saying that he grew up in a typical good family and then immediately after say that he was abused mentally, sexually and physically... That's not typical by any means.
Starting to think otherwise . Way too common
I think he meant they looked like a good family, mom stayed at home with the kids, dad had a good job etc. It all looked good except it wasn't.
I don't totally believe his story.
Thank you Bill for your vulnerability and honesty. I hope that through this you have helped a potential abuser avoid acting on their impulses and through that potentially prevented someone else being sexually abused.
I can’t feel sorry for anyone who harmed a child. You had urges and you acted on those urges. You made a choice and you ruined an innocent child’s life forever. It happened to him and it caused him pain, and he wanted to inflict it on others. It’s just... ugh. No.
I agree. But i think its more understandable if the abuser himself has been a victim to sex crime... Trauma can do shit to your brain and biology we dont really know all about. But yeah we still have free will, but i think that can be inpaired because of trauma in some sense. Also some scientist say we dont even have free will, that everything is predetermined by history... I dont think its so easy to say it like "he wanted to inflict it on others"... but yeah some truly evil people do exist also. So yeah i dont feel sorry but i think it can be understandable on many levels. But ofcorce the victim is the one to feel sorry for in a situation of abuser and victim.
Agree!
So true but it explains WHY this shit continues to happen. Like a kid who grows up watching daddy beat up on mommy. He's way more likely to be a wife beater. Just ugly.
At least this guy does not appear to feel sorry for himself, he is addressing his problems has owned up to his crimes and is openly discussing it so that others can learn from his mistakes.
I wish people felt this way when that female sex offender described how she molested her 8 year old son multiple times, even on Webcam to a complete stranger.
Can someone, who's scored so highly on a psychopathy scale, be "treated" and "normalised"? Is it possible? Or is it just lip service to get out of the secondary prison 🤔
It's called neuro plasticity
No. There’s no cure or way to be normalized. He knows how to “behave” and how to control his behavior. However, if there were no consequences for him, he’d go back to offending. They are unable to feel remorse, guilt, or empathy for any person. The only thing keeping him in check is the fact he’d go back to prison.
Well you can bump your head and wake up a completely different consciousness. Don't you think this could be cured?
They can be normalized but never truly back to square one. The avoidance and lack of empathy are always there but it's possible to get them to be back in touch with their emotions if it's a case like this. If they're psychopathic or sociopathic by nature and it isn't caused by trauma it's much harder (nearly impossible) to have the same emotional capacity as an unaffected person
Yes. You can learn to suppress the disorder. It's just the same as techniques to reduce the effects of depression or anxiety. No it can't be cured of course, but you can certainly learn to challenge those abnormal thoughts. With effort and time those who struggle to feel empathy can learn to understand it and apply it despite not feeling it.
Amazing insight , and it seems there is effective treatment for these issues and well done Bill for completing your treatment and speaking so candidly . Fascinating point about empathy and reconnecting with being empathetic to others .
These stories are great and SO INFORMATIVE AND BRAVE. Thanks to you both
You can be socially awkward or a loner
without hurting people (especially children).
What he did was wrong. Some people actually go on fine in life after being abused and some people dont. He obviously got screwed up as a kid. His actions are his responsibility but you cannot ignore the events that led him to become the way he is.
@nun for brains you're missing my point.
right..
Something about his 📷 camera phone peeking out of his pocket is really disturbing to me.
do you know why?
I mean... if he was recording that’s absolutely his right to do for his safety if he wanted to. He doesn’t know if the person recording him could edit the video and change the context of his story in anyway since it is going to be posted to the world.
I got a bit of a chill about the camera in his pocket too. Thought I was the only one. Creepy.
It looks like a bug crawling out of his shirt😲
Natalie, I think it very well is a big bug! 🐞
As a criminal investigator and trained and qualified in interrogations, he's expressing genuine responses to the questions. Not a lot from his facial queues and body language gives any indication of deception or distrust. I respect his willingness to only accept the reality of his decisions and actions. He'll forever walk with the label on his head and that's his burden to bear. And so it should.
Sounds like he’s kinda minimizing everything. Like: “Oh I did some sexual stuff with some kids, I got treatment and I’m all fixed now”... Is it really that simple?
Exactly!!! He took a childs innocence. This is the exact reason why I dont ever leave my children w anyone. Especially family. Abuse usually happens by someone who is close to you.
Years and years of intensive therapy can work. It's pretty much the only way to reform pedophiles.
Yes
9:30 he's definitely taking responsibility
lol what do u want him to say he said literally what happend yall r crazy
I never knew there were such centers for sex offender rehabilitation. What a good thing.
They should have only cremation centers for those if you ask me. 🤷🏻♀️
@@prettynailsbym1676 trust me, you don't want paedos to be scared of admitting their desires. That can only result in them hiding from the law and abusing in the shadows.
If paedophilia is recognized for what it is (a terrible and dangerous psychiatric issue) paedos can be monitored even before they attack, as soon as they are diagnosed.
there's a really good louis thereoux documentary on one.
He was also sexually abused at a young age. Hurt ppl hurt ppl.
There's no such thing as a sex offender being rehabbed!! It's a sexual orientation and you can't change that!
The conversation with his son, I've never witnessed such a beautiful relationship between father and son. Absolute tear jerker
Wow. Just...ugh, thinking about his childhood and how unfair life is. Its just not fair. What a shining example of healing and change and growth. He shares some deep truths here, about molestation as an addiction and how no offenders want to do what they do. I love this compadduon so much. The world would be such a kinder place if we could all realize this truth and come from a place of understanding. For the majority of offenders or folks in jail, just ask them how they were treated as children, what type of environment they grew up in. How much love, attention, opportunity, and support they had, and wed realize most ppls arent monsters, yet products of their enviornment. Thank u for sharing Bill!
Uhh … he’s an admitted psychopath. Which doesn’t improve with treatment. They lie, deceive, and con for sport. The entire interview is a con so people like you will think he’s reformed and a “shining example of healing and growth”.
True, but there are still many offenders who actually enjoy what they are doing, those who were born this way, those who are far beyond ''redemption'' and too deep into pathology/deviance. Not this man of course, not all of them but some.
It’s very common for sexually abused children to become the offender
I would not allow him around my children if I had any, and I would never excuse what he did, but I believe him.
I feel the same pal
I don’t. But what’s he gonna say. He will reoffend or be doing so as he speak.
I don'*, he's playin* people he*e.
I don't believe a word that dribbles from his disgusting pervert mouth.
@@LuxMeow the fuck are you doing with *
He says he *was* a psychopath, but now he's not! Psychopathy is not curable.
dr. ramani - "sociopaths are made, psychopaths are born".
I think he still is, the therapy made him hide it better💀
incorrect
Psychopathy by way of trauma is much different than that of born or innate instinct. You can unlearn learned behavior, not as much as he claims he did, but you can tell that he's got a sense of right and wrong even if he still seems shut off. Thats 100% a product of his own trauma and therefore could be changed, however with him it doesn't exactly seem as if it has
@@kristen4137 Chnage your belief and you change your actions .
this man has the balance of personal responsibility and influencing factors right on 100%. Taking personal responsibility is key to recovering.
Very impressed and grateful for his honestly, directness, accountability and sharing. There's no such thing as perfect, no one gets to judge, and all kids, even this dude, deserve to be safe.
“You put yourself in temptations way your going to fold eventually” wise statement..
This guy seems well spoken, psychopaths are keen learners. He's very slick. I would be careful with him! Getting >30 on the Hare test is not something to mess with and not 'recoverable'. They're traits, and he got smarter to navigate the test with therapy. :(
Unfortunately that thought also came to mind
There was a much celebrated bespoke psych scheme in US prisons to rehabilitate murderers a few years back. The re offending rate actually went up. They just learnt to say what the psychologists wanted to hear. The scheme has been dropped.
@@sarahholland2600 it's VERY easy to manipulate. Just imagine all the ones we DON'T know about.
So true, cognitive empathy is easy for them to display and that is such a high score. As someone who is studying a double degree on Criminology and Psychology I agree that this kind of profile is quite dangerous. I hope he truly matches his words with actions, at least for the fear of being punished again
ok christine
where is the state funded 20 years of intensive therapy for the victims
feels weird having his phone camera showing out his shirt pocket. Makes me feel like he's filming everything, although probably just a paranoid thought xD
i thought the same thing. could also be totally random, though.
I thought this too🤣
Some of these offenders are from a movie called “predator park”. I’m glad you did a more in depth story about these people.
How about interviewing some diagnosed psychopaths and sociopaths?
This man scored high on the psychopath scale - like I said in earlier comments, I really hope he has rehabilitated and not just being cunning and saying what people want to hear.
@@kr1221E that's what I fear. I don't automatically have a negative concept of all the sex offenders that has spoken to us through Mark's channel. I even believe in some of them when I feel that they have been honest with us, but knowing that Bill is a psychopath makes it hard for me not to think that he's just calculating everything he has to say so that we think good of him. He said that he didn't even know how to cry and although thats sad, what else can you expect from someone who doesn't experience human emotions the same way you do?
The correct term is anti-social personality disorder there really isn’t a difference between a sociopath and a psychopath. Similar to how people are diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder some people are just more severe than other people.
@@Lostinmyhead23 There is a small difference. A psychopath can be a sociopath, but a sociopath isn't a psychopath. Psychopaths have great difficulty blending in with society and basically can't help what they do. They are more neurological. Sociopaths are kind of made that way...more nurture than nature. They have much better social skills and can blend in. They are way more calculating.
@@kr1221E I would call him more of a sociopath than a psychopath. I would love to see his test results
You can't undo psychopathy with therapy... He's just more adapt, and even more dangerous.
This. I really wish Mark probed him more on that point, I'm quite disappointed because I'd love to know more about it.
100%. It's scary.
I have to fight the urge to be blinded by disgust when listening to this person. I survived abuse at 8 and the thought of the damage inflicted on my soul makes me want to believe offenders are not able to be rehabilitated.
They can't, they can only be controlled.
Hopefully he stays away from kids.
As an abuse survivor, I entirely agree! These people get better at regurgitation, telling us what we wanna hear. Any unsupervised girls around him are potential victims.
The way he blames the registration requirements for his latest bout with the criminal justice system, Instead of accepting responsibility, tells me all I need to know about this man.
@Shannon S. Todd Isn't he technically an abuse survivor too? I mean I don't want to get too defensive of him but it seems to be a common theme.
@@nuuuuuut When you choose to inflict abuse upon others, especially those with diminished capacity for effective resistance, you lose the "abuse survivor" archetype.
Can't help but notice not a single apology to his victims..., not a single mention of the pain he caused THEM.
Not every narcissist is a psychopath but every psychopath is a narcissist, udigg?
@@5tarterpack No, not really.
A fleeting mention of the victims. Good for him that he feels his treatment was a success. I hope his victims have as much success in their treatment
None of these freaks ever mention their victims of course. It's all about them.
Seems narcissistic and all in his head. Mentions crying, but no emotions shown.
Excellent point!
To be fair, the interview is about him, not his victim. His victim might not appreciate being spoken about. At the end of the day he has to focus on himself, as we all do, to live his life the right way.
@@HE-162 Maybe hearing his remorse towards them would be something that helps them with their healing
I hope you keep talking and encourage others to get the help that is needed. This was encouraging to hear behaviors can change.
6:35 - I practiced as a nurse on various complex care psychiatric wards and *I never ran across a patient who increased or decreased their psychopathy rating after taking one of the standard examinations.* Psychopathy is something you’re born with, it’s not like sociopathy that is developed from being in specific circumstances 🤔
Yeah that's exactly what I thought too.
You're not a psychologist, you're just a nurse.
@@DaBeezKneez haha just 😅
I don't usually comment and I feel I have to on this one. He's already admitted he's a psychopath with no empathy. This 'man' right here is a learned human. Deep down, he's just the same as he has always been, he's just wearing a better mask.
I had the same thought. I’m not 100% sure, but it’s a definite possibility.
please stop mischaracterizing psychopathy. there is overlap with psychopathy and criminals, but not enough to encourage the stereotypes we've created.
I mean this really sincerely, not trolling or anything: do you think its possible for someone without empathy to learn how to be empathetic? Like a narcissist with no empathy.. do you think its possible for someone like this to ever really become an empathetic person?
Exactly.
You clicked on this video with bias confirmation. You already made up your mind about him before he even opened his mouth.
he seems like one of more sincere offenders. glad he has found the right path and hope he continues on it
Thanks Mark@Soft White Underbelly! I really enjoy your videos as they are very provocative and thought provoking.
I am an adult survivor of childhood sexual abuse and hate all pedophiles. I feel as though My pedophiles KILLED the loving, trusting little girl that I was and changed the whole projectors of my life. I actually feel like he killed the person I was destined to be. I was supposed to be something! I was supposed to do big things with my life. From the moment I was abused I went downhill drastically. Like a chain reaction…I ran away from home, made bad decision, got in trouble with the law (mostly due to my anger issues). Got involved with prescription pain killers to numb the terrible feelings inside me. That trauma messed me up my mind, heart and soul big time! I became very promiscuous very early in life. I had my first child at 15 and my second child at 16. The father was a 24 year old man. Needless to say, I was diagnosed with PTSD and had no idea how to parent properly. I have 5 children and 2 of them (22 and 34 years old) overdosed on fentanyl in 2015 and 2021. My parents were also robbed because they did everything right to give me a good life. Unfortunately their only mistake was trusting a long term friend who was not trustworthy around lil girls. I hate this for myself and I hate this for my parents. I eventually got big and strong and charged my main sexual abuser. He only received6 months in jail which is nothing to all the years and hurt I have suffered. IMO I did not get justice from the law system. What did give me justice is when I saw “him” at a coffee shop one day and beat the fuck out of him! After that all my anger issues (misdirected at other people) instantly vanished and I felt empowered. Today I am a 50 year old woman who can now take full responsibility and accountability for my own life and actions but only because I confronted (hurt) my abuser and spent years in counselling.
I always believed they are just hardwired that way and will never change. After listening to this man speak and tell his story, I can tell that he is genuinely sorry for what he’s done and he’s done a shit load of work to change and understand his sickening behaviour.
Wtg ped! You have opened my eyes and heart just a lil bit. Thanks
Thank you Mark for providing a safe space for people to talk about serious issues. I appreciate that you are not judgemental & are respectful to your guests. Thank you Bill for being open, honest & real. I'm sorry for the abuse you suffered as a child. You did the really hard work to turn yourself around. Good on you!
Amazing. The amount of honesty, insight, and recovery in this one man is remarkable and gives us hope.
I believe this guy is being honest. I worked with SVP's, most of them were sociopaths. Therapy has helped this man.
SVP?
@@sugarsore Sexually Violent Predators.
Therapy might have helped, but he is a sex predator. He is a psychopath, it is not curable. Those things will NEVER change.
@@justsayin124 He is loving the attention, I would never trust him.
Lol. I needed a good laugh. Thanks. He’s a changed sociopath! He’s changed!
I appreciate his honesty and the fact that he did the work and made the changes necessary to make him a better person. He could've went a whole other direction with his life but he did the work, you have to respect whether you like it or not.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I really really really appreciated this guy and his revelations, Insight, his accountability, and I really believe that he has changed and overcame his demons. I think he also realizes reality. He could do what he wanted if he wanted to do it but he knows the skills and will utilize them to avoid another trespass. Thank you sir for sharing with us. Thank you mark for your work
Thank you Bill for sharing the knowledge and experience you gained from the treatment you received and participated in.
don't understand why there are so many people clicking on this video, knowing damn well the whole point of this channel is to show the stories of people who are otherwise judged, this is a platform for viewers to understand what makes people act the way they do. and yet, every single time, there are people judging the interviewee for how they have been affected by trauma, as if people choose how trauma will affect them. no-one chooses to be good nor bad, people only do what they can and know. you are not here to understand, you are here to judge so you can feel better about yourself. the same people who would also call themselves ''empaths'', yet are incapable of understanding a person, when they don't like what they've done, because their actions don't instill emotions of pity in you to make you feel like you're such a good person for feeling sorry for a victim. that is not empathy, that is ego.
I was molested by my own father for years and I will Never feel no remorse for these sick good for nothing pos
If anyone hates pedos, it is the guy who runs this channel. He cannot discuss the topic without tearing up.
Exactly!
How about you feel sorry for the victim. As a victim of child sexual abuse, these are WORDS. I don’t accept words. And I didn’t hear him say once how sorry he is to his victims. Not. One. Single. Time. So while he’s getting himself together, us survivors struggle daily with the horror of what happened. Trust me. To this day, I suffer from PTSD, anxiety, feelings of worthlessness etc. But he’s sorry so it’s okay. 👌🏼 All about me me me. That’s all I hear when I see this.
and ur comment was all about you...i also hv ptsd but i CHOOSE to forgive the perpertrators and to love this honest man
@@IwasBlueb4 so what. Good for you. Don’t shame others because they haven’t reached that stage in their journey or forgiveness. That is such a crappy thing to say. You’re dumb
@@IwasBlueb4 You "love" this honest man? How disgusting. As a survivor of this kind "lovable" pile of human excrement, you can keep your judgment and put your forgiveness where the good Lord spilt you. How high and mighty of you. Ugh, you're neck and neck with this filth.
@@ajjay457 Shes a waste. Sitting on her high horse of righteousness.
dont be selfish now look at me.
I truly hope that he’s actually rehabilitated and not manipulating the system , I hope it works , the more people rehabilitated can help slow down the sexual abuse. Obviously there’s always going to be monsters that will never change and it’ll never be perfect but this is one thing that we need to figure out how to fix as a community and what mark is doing I feel like is helping a lot of people and honestly realize how important being a healthy and good parent.
This video has been the best I've seen as far as Sex Offenders go. Bill's insight is exactly what I hope for with rehabilitating a sex offender. my ex husband sexually abused his sisters as a young child (no one ever told anyone) and then sexually abused our daughter. He has been in a sex offender prison that is HIGHLY rehabilitating in NJ. He's been in there since 2002 and is still there. What Bill says about how offenders are especially with empathy and how the center is ....is very true. Being the abused and being the abuser is both horrible and I'm so very sorry for both sides.
As a parent of little girls, I appreciate you taking the time to share these interviews.
I agree....
He is a psycopath as he said himself. They are experts at manipulation. I would not trust a single word he said.
I hope you realize that boys are equally vulnerable. Thats a very destructive misconception that only girls are vulnerable and only men are sex offenders. Completely untrue.
Small boys are molested by older girls all the time .. It is just way under reported.
Right
It sounds like you learned a lot during treatment.
I thank you for coming and sharing your story. It takes great strength to put yourself out there.
Hopefully someone who needs help will be inspired to seek it.
❤️🇨🇦
I was abused as well as a child and I am interested in psychology but I've noticed I tend to stay away from sexual abuser style things because I notice myself feeling like I will never understand as I know what it is like to be invaded personally, but I will say that this man "seems" to express remorse and is apologetic, and I use the quotes not out of disrespect but honestly out of respect for the victims of the situation because even if he is better(which is amazing if so) he may not be as well and I want to speak on respect in relation to victims of sexual abuse. Very serious topic which I feel was spoken very well and respectfully in this video. Lots of love and light to all people and wishing everyone safety and happiness 🙌
Excellent interview and great advice for understanding the need to speak about it before any action happens. I appreciate you sir.
He seems to be a master of the lingo, but I noticed him contradict himself throughout this interview. Psychopathy is not treatable, not at least in a way that could be considered a cure, it is a condition which must be managed carefully or there will be severe consequences. I'm glad he is able to at least feign humility and introspection, but I would not trust him, sorry. The way he glossed over his crimes and described them in such simple clinical terms indicates a lack of accountability to me. Pedophilia is not an addiction, it is a symptom of a deviant pathology.
P e d o p h e l i a is something that people are born with. It is not the same as being a SO.
@Lisa Shipley I agree with you. Its NOT something you are born with it's the result of sexual abuse as a child.
It’s because he had a bad childhood
@Lisa Shipley I read a big research done about this subject. I don't just post things here!
@Lisa ShipleyThe research that is done gives hope, actually. It is a brain matter, and that means that they can prevent people from acting out on their "orientation". It has nothing to do with making this acceptable.
Psychopaty is not fixable,his smooth talking everybody right now!!This is a dangerous man!
Disagree.
@@rhondaquintero7369 Im ok with you disagreeing, you may not have the same experiences as me.I was married to a psychopath for 6 years,and he was in intensive therapy for 4 of those years and he talked his therapists(psycologists and psychiatrists who were specialists on psychopathy)completely after the mouth.He said exactly what he knew he had to say to get «cured»,I guess you know that most psychopaths are extremely intelligent people(unfortunatly)
So they know how to play the game,and they do not change,it`s no cure for being a psychopath,they love them selves and that love is the only kind of love they are capable of,I could go on for a long time trying to explain this, but I don`t think you would change your mind anyway,and that is ok,everybody has their right to an opinion.
Be safe out there,ok❤️
Absolutely agree!
@@jaimeweinberg1365 Thank you!
I hope you have not experienced a psychopath,but since you agree I guess you have,and Im really sorry for that!
Are you ok and safe now?
Humans can change. We are self aware. Hope you can understand.
This man shows an extreme level of self awareness, it’s actually somewhat intimidating!
Thank you so much for allowing marginalized people to have a voice. It's so important for society to be able to talk about taboo subjects like this so that people don't feel like acting on their impulses is the only release.