Negotiating Boundaries and Limits in D/s Relationships (BDSM checklist bonus!)

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  • Опубліковано 19 лис 2024

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  • @DesiresLaidBare
    @DesiresLaidBare  6 років тому +6

    What areas are important to you discuss when it negotiating out the best D/s dynamic for you?

    • @DesiresLaidBare
      @DesiresLaidBare  6 років тому

      Ian Corzine thanks for that insight! Do you mind expanding on what you mean by “outside” activities?

    • @hajeansonne
      @hajeansonne 6 років тому +1

      Desires Laid Bare this isn't so much for a D/s relationship but when negotiating for a scene there are some main points I always hit and I always start with the most awkward first. 1. Can I put anything inside of you? ( if so what and where, and follow up where can I touch you/not touch) 2. How do you feel about mid scene negotiation? (Personally I only take things away never add unless it is a partner I know well and is something we have done before) 3. What are your aftercare requirements? ... I also review physical and mental health, and what safe word system we will be using among other things.

    • @stephanieking4005
      @stephanieking4005 5 років тому

      In public we r not as out as I would like but he says others don't need to know. But at home I'm completely at his command.

  • @carolinering310
    @carolinering310 4 роки тому +2

    I guess top priority is that we both feel comfortable throughtout the whole negotiation process and when we start practicing 24/7 D/s, which is what we're currently trying out.

  • @bendrantantolin5013
    @bendrantantolin5013 4 роки тому +2

    Their limits and boundaries. And state the rules for all scenes. My priority is to make sure my subs happy and want to always be my subs..

  • @djwavess1258
    @djwavess1258 5 років тому +2

    Thanks for share information about Dom and sub . As a dom guy love dom daddy / baby girl relation

  • @chip2373
    @chip2373 8 днів тому

    The Download of the D/S negotiating guide does not work. It simply says this content is not available.

  • @qzwxecrv0192837465
    @qzwxecrv0192837465 3 місяці тому

    JUST DIscovered this channel, the guide is not available 😞

  • @brandiweeks8012
    @brandiweeks8012 2 роки тому +3

    It says guide not available

    • @l17420
      @l17420 Рік тому

      Same for me, a gif file embeded on the page says "THIS CONTENT IS NOT AVAILABLE"

  • @Reticrick
    @Reticrick 6 років тому +4

    my wife and i really want to go ds, thank you for these videos.i knew she wanted to be dom'd but that is vague. this opened dialog

  • @rouseproductions
    @rouseproductions 2 місяці тому

    Sweetheart I don't know how old this video is and it looked but you are become member thing doesn't work as well as your download checklist does not work just FYI

  • @quentinfool
    @quentinfool 4 роки тому +2

    But "when" does it become time to negotiate? 1st date, first sex,.. other things that make detailed negotiations the next logical step?

  • @RemainForeverHealthy
    @RemainForeverHealthy 6 років тому

    Very informative video. Thanks.