you're not incompetent, you just need to get over your fear of success...

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    you're not incompetent, you just need to get over your fear of success...

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  • @Chronically_Heather
    @Chronically_Heather 9 місяців тому +167

    The title drew me in immediately. I pressed PLAY and just started watching this and I'm already feeling the relatability of it! I'm so afraid of putting myself out there fully because yes, I'm afraid of rejection, but also, I'm afraid of success and I just can't explain why! I look forward to what this video has to teach

    • @TanzytheglowupG
      @TanzytheglowupG 9 місяців тому +6

      Me too like im crying over here 😢❤ tears of relief and happiness!

    • @AntaneseTooREAL
      @AntaneseTooREAL 9 місяців тому +2

      Me!

    • @pinas.passport
      @pinas.passport 7 місяців тому +1

      Literally same, damn this girl just talks right to my soul😱🤭

  • @IRMAYVONNE
    @IRMAYVONNE 9 місяців тому +24

    One nose boop for bubby 🐶💞

  • @Bloom2Grow
    @Bloom2Grow 9 місяців тому +11

    The saying says “Do it scared anyway”

  • @Talalovee
    @Talalovee 9 місяців тому +34

    Aspiring UA-camr here with no viral videos and I love how you put this. Everyone keeps telling me hopefully one of your videos go viral but honestly the numbers scare me and I know that it will immediately put me in another bracket because I know that my content is 🔥🔥🔥. I’m afraid of that and I’m always in my head! But I need to get over it because we got BIG goals. Love this series Bria. We need this 💕

    • @ToniArnay
      @ToniArnay 9 місяців тому +2

      Keep on going! I know you can make it!

    • @Talalovee
      @Talalovee 9 місяців тому +1

      @@ToniArnay thank you lovee!!! 💕💕💕

    • @ColorOfCozy
      @ColorOfCozy 8 місяців тому +1

      ima a month late but im also in the same boat! I love seeing other creators of color so I'm following right away 😋 you got this homie

    • @Talalovee
      @Talalovee 8 місяців тому

      @@ColorOfCozy awwww thank you so much!! 💕💕💕

  • @tierrashavonn
    @tierrashavonn 9 місяців тому +38

    Oh my goodness… this series is DEFINITELY for me! So glad you’ve been hitting all the mental points for us. Fear can be so crippling. For everyone watching this video and you run across this comment, KEEP GOING!! FOOT TO THE PEDAL BABE! 🤍

  • @Highitsmonse
    @Highitsmonse 9 місяців тому +20

    WOW … I didn’t realize how much I’d resonate with the fear of being seen & fear of the unknown until this video really highlighted it for me. I feel a little closer to success now that I know what was really blocking me. ❤

    • @ToniArnay
      @ToniArnay 9 місяців тому +2

      Keep on pushing! You are almost there 🙌🏾🙏🏾😇

  • @Diaryofdes
    @Diaryofdes 9 місяців тому +2

    Run it tf back ! She basically said if they not hating you not poppin.. Aw ok. She said what she said.! 😂❤

  • @pattywilliams788
    @pattywilliams788 9 місяців тому +62

    This video is GOLD, Bria! Whenever you made a point or gave some truth that we mostly know on unconscious levels, my mind was saying YES! YES! YES! Believe that you deserve the good that comes to you; failure doesn’t have to be the final step; treat yourself like you are a friend or family member; change is necessary or we don’t grow but stagnate; and don’t let others define you or break you down because those people don’t really care about you. I am so glad that you worked through these issues or recognize them where you refuse to let them steal your joy or keep you from being your wonderful self. Thank you for sharing and reminding me (who is much, much older than you) that I deserve the good that life offers. ❤️

  • @deedeesaidso5910
    @deedeesaidso5910 9 місяців тому +5

    hey bestie, I promise you I am so hard on myself it ain’t even funny and in many ways i thought I didn’t deserve certain stuff and that keeps me very stagnant. Need to start convincing myself that I deserve it. The one thing that I need to work on is visualizing my success. Sometimes I wish i had more supportive people around me, but it’s something that I can’t worry about right now.

  • @lolaBee9
    @lolaBee9 9 місяців тому +5

    This is exactly my problem. I've had this problem time after time in my life. Now it's keeping me from finishing school.
    My weird brain is trying to procrastinate on watching this video but I'm pushing through it cus I really want to get past this

  • @shootingstarshelle
    @shootingstarshelle 9 місяців тому +16

    This is so aligned with my church service from last night! Thank you again for these recent videos!!! This is definitely a sign of me bridging some gaps and healing the old and new me. Love you Bri❤

  • @desimisa
    @desimisa 7 місяців тому

    18:13 „Staying unhappy and dissatisfied with your current situation is going to be as permanent as you make it.“ I wind it back at least 3 times 💯

  • @natashaadams4060
    @natashaadams4060 8 місяців тому +3

    Fear of success... Definitely. Several of these fears have been overcome at this point because knowing the issue is half of the solution. I am still working through many of my fears of success.
    I LOVE the idea of doing visualization just before sleep. I have been doing visualizations in my morning routine and feel great until lunch, so I think adding this in as a bedtime ritual would be ideal. Thank you!!! ❤😊

  • @user-fm5tb5xd9o
    @user-fm5tb5xd9o 9 місяців тому

    Bubby aww.. thats a sign of comfort..the couch drop

  • @saravand
    @saravand 9 місяців тому +1

    definitely feeel this whole video as a new youtuber! it’s nice to know i’m not alone ❤

  • @Dil.Careem
    @Dil.Careem 8 місяців тому +4

    Such a powerful message! It's amazing how our own fear of success can hold us back and make us doubt our abilities. This video really resonated with me and reminded me to push past that fear and believe in myself.

  • @HeyItsMaori
    @HeyItsMaori 9 місяців тому

    I pray I remember these things as I continue to grow and achieve different levels of success.

  • @Beeatrix
    @Beeatrix 2 місяці тому

    I really enjoy that you aren't just spouting off the same lame LOA points of talking. Actually getting to the root of why we ruin our own manifesting. 💯

  • @araities
    @araities 9 місяців тому +8

    You pointed out eveything that was wrong with my life and that was straight up so cool! I wonder if i should apply to scholarships but always ended up imagining myself getting rejected (aka fear of success), and i am now on my way to fix this

  • @lillianlillian
    @lillianlillian 9 місяців тому +3

    this came at the exact right time because I've been struggling so bad lately to overcome this fear. I have such big dreams but starting,,,,whew

  • @malaikaamaii
    @malaikaamaii 9 місяців тому +2

    This video was reassuring for me. I noticed that I am afraid of success. That’s not going to stop me from accomplishing my goals

    • @ToniArnay
      @ToniArnay 9 місяців тому +1

      You Go🥳❤️🙏🏾😇

  • @AustinRoberts88
    @AustinRoberts88 9 місяців тому +3

    Sooooooo on point. I had a business that got VERY successful in my twenties and it scared the shit out of me. Now I’m starting another one after doing a lot of work on myself and realizing that success is what I’m afraid of since I already know I have the potential. It’s hard to talk to anyone about it because they’re usually just like “well that’s dumb” but they’ve never really pushed themselves to be successful so they think I just magically happened to build a business by accident.

    • @user-be7tc2bd6e
      @user-be7tc2bd6e 9 місяців тому

      Amigo,keep on grinding and don't talk to others about what you want to do. Just do you.I did 10 yrs of civilian contracter work over-seas ( Iraq,Qatar,Kuwaitt & Afghanistan ) doing mercenary work,then logistics.Been back in america for over a year now and hating it. LOL. I didn't even want to come back to america,but,had no choice,the US military got kicked outta Afghanistan,so the contracters had to bounce-TOO. LOL.I'd rather be hunting/fighting insurgents/terrorists,that's what I'm good at.Before becoming a civilian contracter I volunteered to go on 4 deployments to go fight in Iraq,with the Texas Guard ( i also did 2 tours back-to-back ) my first tour was in 2005 with an infantry unit at Camp TQ and we did joint missions with the Marines. ON these 4 tours I arrested/detained countless Iraqee citizens and insurgents,kicked in countless doors and-KICKED-much &&& !!! LOL.I didn't tell anyone what I wanted to do,JUST did it. I'm advising you to do like-wise.

  • @KrisRipper
    @KrisRipper 9 місяців тому +3

    This is a fabulous video! (And... unsolicited thought incoming, please feel free to roll your eyes and dismiss it! But have you considered coaching? Your energy is *so rich and positive*, i genuinely feel a bit coached just watching the video!)
    Thanks so much for both the personal side of this video, which is super relatable, and the action steps towards the end! Excellent work!

  • @tarasdiary
    @tarasdiary 9 місяців тому +1

    25:58 i had a "best friend" who was never supportive for me throughout my happiest & saddest moments in my life while i was always supportive for her. i remember when i got my dream car for my 21st birthday, she was completely silent about it, everyone else around me in my group congratulated me and were happy for me but she never said a word and i always noted that in my head but shrugged it off in hopes she just forgot to say something. i was completely wrong, she really just wasn't happy for me and only cared for herself, thankfully she's no longer in my life, she kept leaving our friend group and even left me during a time i lost one of my grandparents, left when other ex friends left me years ago, and somehow i kept letting her back in but once she left again for the third time, i put my foot down and no longer will accept her back in. the right people will be there for you in your worst & best times! I've got best friends who stayed through both and i'm forever grateful for them. as always, wonderful video bri

  • @anastassiya_lebedeva
    @anastassiya_lebedeva 9 місяців тому

    Go girl! Perfect timing for this video❤

  • @TheScienceofSelfCare
    @TheScienceofSelfCare 9 місяців тому +3

    Gah your videos are always SO timely. I feel like no one ever talks about this, yet it’s so important! Great video, Bria ❤️👏

  • @MichalaLynne13
    @MichalaLynne13 9 місяців тому

    I’m obsessed with this video and I haven’t even finished watching it yet

  • @KaelaMae
    @KaelaMae 9 місяців тому +5

    You never miss Bria! I thank the universe for earth angels like you❤️

  • @GrowWithJeaux
    @GrowWithJeaux 9 місяців тому

    THANK YOU, I needed this

  • @natashaxhuggins
    @natashaxhuggins 9 місяців тому

    Oh THIS is the one i needed 😭🫰🏽 thank you Bria!

  • @ruita3189
    @ruita3189 9 місяців тому +4

    Watching Bria’s videos help me feel grounded😌✨✨

  • @chaoana.lerato
    @chaoana.lerato 9 місяців тому

    The fear of success is such a real thing and I'm glad that people like you are speaking out about this. Thank you 💚

  • @xoxo.serena
    @xoxo.serena 9 місяців тому

    thank u sm for this girl!!! i really needed it

  • @user-qj7nf9kn2z
    @user-qj7nf9kn2z 9 місяців тому +1

    This video is more helpful to me and am still in rebuilding myself,thank you very I keep watching all your videos coz it seems you talk all about me

  • @maameefua.koomson
    @maameefua.koomson 9 місяців тому +3

    Ugh Bria I love your content and you so much! I have always loved UA-cam and have been watching it since I was in middle school, but I've never felt as closely connected to a creator as I do with you. Your age group, living in the South, choosing to stay at home vs going out now, getting over the fear of money, I could go on and on!!! Your channel is truly my safe space 🥹
    This video made me realize I have a fear of judgment and it is holding me back from reaching new levels of success on my own journey 😭Whew called me allllll the way out but I needed to hear that! Thank you for all you do. Thank you for still going and creating content even when you experience failure or tough moments. I'm forever rooting for your success and happiness!!!!

  • @TheQueRose
    @TheQueRose 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Bri 🫶🏾

  • @brianamarez2429
    @brianamarez2429 2 місяці тому

    I didn’t expect my world to change the way it did after this video thank you ❤

  • @MissChayBella
    @MissChayBella 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Bria needed this

  • @matthewgoetzka8855
    @matthewgoetzka8855 9 місяців тому

    congrats on 300k! 🎉 I subbed yesterday at 299. Your videos are super insightful

  • @JordinSolis
    @JordinSolis 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for this ❤ so spot on

  • @miriamrosee
    @miriamrosee 3 місяці тому

    I love your energy!!

  • @DamolaKayode
    @DamolaKayode 6 місяців тому

    Loved this so much! ♥️

  • @AyeshaK_9
    @AyeshaK_9 4 місяці тому

    This was amazing! And so needed ❤

  • @catrenaluang
    @catrenaluang 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for posting this. I got to me at the right time. 💕

  • @kimorasuniverse
    @kimorasuniverse 9 місяців тому

    you always have a video out with something i need to hear! thank you for these videos, they've really changed my perspective on how i think about myself!

  • @BridgeOfLifeStudio
    @BridgeOfLifeStudio 9 місяців тому

    Sooooo good! I love your video's. They help and are SO motivational 🥰

  • @danisilva23
    @danisilva23 7 місяців тому

    I needed to hear it. Thank you for sharing it☺

  • @louisehudson3650
    @louisehudson3650 9 місяців тому

    You are absolutely 100% right. You give great advice and thank you for being transparent!

  • @CelosiasStudios
    @CelosiasStudios 9 місяців тому

    Absolutely love your pep talks

  • @Rejoicealeximpact
    @Rejoicealeximpact 9 місяців тому

    Always dishing out the best 🎉🎉❤❤ thank you Soo much bestie b 💞

  • @margauxgrunenwald2303
    @margauxgrunenwald2303 Місяць тому

    Thanks soooo much for yet another amazing video, your content is the best!

  • @chertolivefree
    @chertolivefree 9 місяців тому

    🙌🏻yes this video definitively resonates thank you for this!!💙

  • @misterrashad611
    @misterrashad611 9 місяців тому

    thank you for this video xoxo

  • @NotTheSameGirl26
    @NotTheSameGirl26 4 місяці тому +1

    Your content is so inspiring. You’ve been filling in the blanks for me as I grow and seek more within myself. I see your growth and love your mindddd. Thank you sharing and leading by example.

  • @marionblanco1030
    @marionblanco1030 6 місяців тому

    I absolutely love you!!! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and creating this amazing content!! ❤

  • @nayacmaynor
    @nayacmaynor 9 місяців тому +1

    Bria, Bria, Bria! You continue to drop these emotional ass gems. Your authenticity is something I’ve always loved about you. I totally can relate on this topic - there’s so many fears that come with new heights

  • @jlnae
    @jlnae 9 місяців тому

    I Love me some Bria! You’re always speaking on what I need to hear ❤

  • @bee.bnt11
    @bee.bnt11 9 місяців тому

    THANK YOU QUEEN

  • @zinhlethinane
    @zinhlethinane 9 місяців тому

    Girl, I prayed for money to invest in a business coach. I manifested it and today I received the money from my brother, as soon as I had it I felt like I was gonna pass out. I literally could not breathe and every fiber of my being was telling me to not invest this money, that I was making the wrong decision and I'd regret it. I had to step out, breathe, say some affirmations and only then did I come and without even look I just clicked on the screen and paid the damn coach. Fear of success is real, self-sabotage is real and it's a serious battle everyday

  • @BlaqueeSwann
    @BlaqueeSwann 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this ! I really needed to hear everything you covered ! I know I’m holding myself back because I’m worried about what people will think about me making changes for myself . Like you said when you grow it can throw the balance of things off and even the people around you . I feel I’m not good at what I do but my work speaks for itself . I appreciate being opening about these struggles

  • @missbea5100
    @missbea5100 9 місяців тому

    I love this weekly reads thanks so much!!

  • @beautifuldae
    @beautifuldae 7 місяців тому

    Gurl, I appriciate you so much for this! It was exactly what I needed to hear, the way I needed to hear it thank you.

  • @iammorganalexis
    @iammorganalexis 9 місяців тому

    So good! I found your channel a while ago, and literally resonate so much with your content. Thank you for your belief in yourself and constantly showing up for you, as you are such a light for others! ❤️❤️

  • @chanelleee.
    @chanelleee. 9 місяців тому

    I really enjoy your perspective on this❤

  • @michellejpillay9378
    @michellejpillay9378 9 місяців тому

    Hi Bria, thanks for this video ❤ watched it at the right time, just what I needed to hear 👌🏻

  • @HighVibes4U
    @HighVibes4U 9 місяців тому

    Thank you‼️💯💌🫶🏾

  • @marieflows
    @marieflows 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for talking about this Bria!

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  9 місяців тому +1

      You are so welcome!

  • @dominiquemelissa7613
    @dominiquemelissa7613 8 місяців тому

    Girl i love you so much, i needed to hear everything you said as someone who's also scared of changes

  • @brandi5126
    @brandi5126 9 місяців тому

    When I say this is on TIME. It is on TIME. Love your channel. Glad I found you and subscribed.

  • @shallyway
    @shallyway 9 місяців тому +2

    Your videos are always right on time! Thank you for explaining everything so thoroughly. I've definitely been dealing with and healing from the fear of success. My biggest take away is that success is actually good and we can expand ourselves and our lives the more successful we become. Change is what has seemed scary, but change is actually good!!! :D

  • @Tips4SocialMedia
    @Tips4SocialMedia 9 місяців тому

    this is so good! i appreciate your channel so much. It has helped me since I found it!

  • @leahbalman2351
    @leahbalman2351 9 місяців тому

    One of my favourite videos I watch over and over to give me the kick up the butt that I very much need! Thanks so much B!!!! XXX

  • @thatgirlthepod
    @thatgirlthepod Місяць тому

    Thank you Bria! Your videos always give me the tough love/pep talk I need to keep going. As always, this resonated and was so helpful ❤

  • @itskayleeluv
    @itskayleeluv 9 місяців тому

    Amazing video! I am so thankful you were able to put into words and resurface all the fears I had subconsciously! I’ve got some journaling to do! Lol thank you!

  • @caniadey1440
    @caniadey1440 9 місяців тому

    This content is gollllllld❤️❤️The tip about breaking down everything is what I needed❤️❤️Tk u Bria

  • @Yatta333
    @Yatta333 9 місяців тому

    Hi Bria! I love your videos & how relatable & encouraging you are. I would love a video about how to start youtube/social media from scratch or what you wish you knew when you started.

  • @user-xu8di7sf8f
    @user-xu8di7sf8f 9 місяців тому

    I needed to hear this! So grateful for this video 🙏 I’ve been holding myself back because of the fear of success and judgement I might get from others 😔 but I’m ready to take the leap forward and suffer a little to grow because it’s all part of the process 💫 Let’s Goooo!

  • @AltoGoddess
    @AltoGoddess 8 місяців тому

    I always come back to your channel for a breath of fresh air. You are so real and honest. I feel like you’re that one bestie that will snap me back to reality😂.

  • @malliamarshae
    @malliamarshae 9 місяців тому

    30:39 so the entire video resonated with me. Your videos help me so much, not just with self analyzation, but watching your journey is just inspiring and I just want to thank you.

  • @yogawchris
    @yogawchris 9 місяців тому +4

    Phenomenal message Bria! The fear of success has been holding me back. I love that haters represent moving in a prosperous direction. Sending love and light. I was bullied growing up and had no idea how the irrational thought patterns of that time remained conscious from decades ago. I am going to try the visualization practice tonight!

  • @SunshinepoeUGC
    @SunshinepoeUGC 8 місяців тому

    Absolutely love this video! It hit home for me. I had no idea I had a fear of being seen, success, and criticism. It is definitely a reason why I having issues moving forward in my life when it comes to my career and becoming an influencer. Thank you so much for this video! Now I know it to work on!

  • @reneepowell9954
    @reneepowell9954 8 місяців тому

    how do i like this more than once

  • @southernnaturalhairaffair7912
    @southernnaturalhairaffair7912 8 місяців тому

    Amazing video! I have a fear of being seen, however I’m putting myself out there more. Love the way your dog is living his/her best life on that sofa🤣🤣

  • @Emya111
    @Emya111 9 місяців тому +2

    This series of videos should be seen by EVERYONE because she's spitting facts after facts !! Everyone need to see these ! I'm so excited whenever Bria post something like it makes my week better ! Thank you Bria !

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  9 місяців тому +1

      aw this made my day, I'm so honored!

    • @Emya111
      @Emya111 9 місяців тому

      @@BriaJonesgirl stop it ! YOU MAKE OUR DAYS ! ❤❤❤

  • @mrsaveabuck5969
    @mrsaveabuck5969 9 місяців тому

    I just want to say that you're Amazing! Thank you, thank you for this video..I am so grateful that i was guided to this video.I so needed to hear and i still need to just sit with this because this is me, wow it feels so.... good admitting that.I feel like you 're reading a page from my diary/journal/book.Thank you for this and for being so..... AMAZING!

  • @fakl7931
    @fakl7931 9 місяців тому

    Bestie Bri always coming through with the 🔥

  • @chelseakline9622
    @chelseakline9622 8 місяців тому

    Super random but I love love love energy. Ugh so refreshing! Thank you for being so vulnerable and authentic. ✨😍

  • @Mikaylaimani_
    @Mikaylaimani_ 9 місяців тому

    I just found you again & I loved this video thank youu for putting it out

  • @simplynaturalcai2661
    @simplynaturalcai2661 9 місяців тому +2

    Excellent breakdown and tips! I do have a fear of success which contradicts my excitement to succeed lol but I keep going. Loving this series 💙

  • @missbea5100
    @missbea5100 9 місяців тому

    This recent videos have been on point. 👏🏾

  • @mindfulpaths101
    @mindfulpaths101 9 місяців тому

    “People don’t hate on crusty dusty people”😂🎉

  • @purplegirl8036
    @purplegirl8036 9 місяців тому

    I waited all day to get to this video. I knew I was stopping myself from my success but I couldn’t figure out why I felt the strong desire to hide

  • @sumeennadeem145
    @sumeennadeem145 9 місяців тому

    Thanku for making videos on such relatable topics. I was feeling very low and found your channel, watched a few videos, and am feeling motivated now. I work from home so, I couldn't meet many people in daily life. Please make videos on mental health and how to keep ourselves going.

  • @fatimah_abm
    @fatimah_abm 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for this ❤
    Ive been looking for someone to just tell me this stuff, not that ion know em but hearing it from someone makes a difference

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  9 місяців тому +1

      I feel you on that, sometimes we just need to hear it!

  • @sarajamshidi6034
    @sarajamshidi6034 9 місяців тому

    This girl is amazing ❤

  • @tbear4eva3000
    @tbear4eva3000 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video! It's funny, in college I wrote an essay on the fear of failure. I really enjoyed this video and thank you for being real and honest. I think you are going to be one of my new favorite UA-camrs!😁💝

  • @aprilmae137
    @aprilmae137 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for being real. It’s motivating. ❤
    I have a horrible fear of success. ESP around creepers online.

  • @MKsquad_girls
    @MKsquad_girls 9 місяців тому

    Your videos help me a lot, thanks B

  • @only1kadence404
    @only1kadence404 9 місяців тому +4

    I literally hyperventilated at every milestone…I’m both relieved that I found out what’s blocking my energy, yet not surprised in a way…success is hard for ALL these reasons so it feels EXTREMELY good to be heard and FELT about them ❤

  • @misbahyousaf8140
    @misbahyousaf8140 9 місяців тому

    such a good video, keep making these kind of videos