you're not incompetent, you just need to get over your fear of success...

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  • @Chronically_Heather
    @Chronically_Heather Рік тому +179

    The title drew me in immediately. I pressed PLAY and just started watching this and I'm already feeling the relatability of it! I'm so afraid of putting myself out there fully because yes, I'm afraid of rejection, but also, I'm afraid of success and I just can't explain why! I look forward to what this video has to teach

    • @TanzytheglowupG
      @TanzytheglowupG Рік тому +9

      Me too like im crying over here 😢❤ tears of relief and happiness!

    • @AntaneseTooREAL
      @AntaneseTooREAL Рік тому +4

      Me!

    • @pinas.passport
      @pinas.passport Рік тому +3

      Literally same, damn this girl just talks right to my soul😱🤭

    • @MersseyToyin
      @MersseyToyin 5 днів тому

      Thank you for this
      Because I used to think success isn't supposed to be scary but thats not true, we have to do it afraid when we get to that level well adjust

  • @crystaltharrell
    @crystaltharrell 2 місяці тому +6

    I held myself back because I was afraid. I dimmed my Light because I thought it would help me be accepted by others. I set goals that weren’t always aligned with my Highest good because they felt more acceptable. But NOW… now it’s time to show up more authentically and give myself the love that I so easily give others. It’s time to be who I was always meant to be in this very moment. Now, not later ❤ Thank you for this video!

  • @Bloom2Grow
    @Bloom2Grow Рік тому +23

    The saying says “Do it scared anyway”

  • @IRMAYVONNE
    @IRMAYVONNE Рік тому +36

    One nose boop for bubby 🐶💞

  • @Diaryofdes
    @Diaryofdes Рік тому +5

    Run it tf back ! She basically said if they not hating you not poppin.. Aw ok. She said what she said.! 😂❤

  • @CBDentalStudioTT
    @CBDentalStudioTT 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes to everything omg! This is the content that I need! Thank you for giving of yourself and your thoughts to us ❤

  • @EmmaDivaOfficial
    @EmmaDivaOfficial 4 місяці тому +1

    Lots of wisdom nuggets here. Thank you!

  • @desimisa
    @desimisa Рік тому +1

    18:13 „Staying unhappy and dissatisfied with your current situation is going to be as permanent as you make it.“ I wind it back at least 3 times 💯

  • @pattywilliams788
    @pattywilliams788 Рік тому +64

    This video is GOLD, Bria! Whenever you made a point or gave some truth that we mostly know on unconscious levels, my mind was saying YES! YES! YES! Believe that you deserve the good that comes to you; failure doesn’t have to be the final step; treat yourself like you are a friend or family member; change is necessary or we don’t grow but stagnate; and don’t let others define you or break you down because those people don’t really care about you. I am so glad that you worked through these issues or recognize them where you refuse to let them steal your joy or keep you from being your wonderful self. Thank you for sharing and reminding me (who is much, much older than you) that I deserve the good that life offers. ❤️

  • @tierrashavonn
    @tierrashavonn Рік тому +41

    Oh my goodness… this series is DEFINITELY for me! So glad you’ve been hitting all the mental points for us. Fear can be so crippling. For everyone watching this video and you run across this comment, KEEP GOING!! FOOT TO THE PEDAL BABE! 🤍

  • @officiallymelvina
    @officiallymelvina Рік тому +1

    I'm so late to this one but so glad I got to it. I really needed this topic 🥴

  • @tarasdiary
    @tarasdiary Рік тому +3

    25:58 i had a "best friend" who was never supportive for me throughout my happiest & saddest moments in my life while i was always supportive for her. i remember when i got my dream car for my 21st birthday, she was completely silent about it, everyone else around me in my group congratulated me and were happy for me but she never said a word and i always noted that in my head but shrugged it off in hopes she just forgot to say something. i was completely wrong, she really just wasn't happy for me and only cared for herself, thankfully she's no longer in my life, she kept leaving our friend group and even left me during a time i lost one of my grandparents, left when other ex friends left me years ago, and somehow i kept letting her back in but once she left again for the third time, i put my foot down and no longer will accept her back in. the right people will be there for you in your worst & best times! I've got best friends who stayed through both and i'm forever grateful for them. as always, wonderful video bri

  • @Highitsmonse
    @Highitsmonse Рік тому +23

    WOW … I didn’t realize how much I’d resonate with the fear of being seen & fear of the unknown until this video really highlighted it for me. I feel a little closer to success now that I know what was really blocking me. ❤

    • @ToniArnay
      @ToniArnay Рік тому +2

      Keep on pushing! You are almost there 🙌🏾🙏🏾😇

  • @natashaadams4060
    @natashaadams4060 Рік тому +4

    Fear of success... Definitely. Several of these fears have been overcome at this point because knowing the issue is half of the solution. I am still working through many of my fears of success.
    I LOVE the idea of doing visualization just before sleep. I have been doing visualizations in my morning routine and feel great until lunch, so I think adding this in as a bedtime ritual would be ideal. Thank you!!! ❤😊

  • @lolaBee9
    @lolaBee9 Рік тому +6

    This is exactly my problem. I've had this problem time after time in my life. Now it's keeping me from finishing school.
    My weird brain is trying to procrastinate on watching this video but I'm pushing through it cus I really want to get past this

  • @malaikaamaii
    @malaikaamaii Рік тому +3

    This video was reassuring for me. I noticed that I am afraid of success. That’s not going to stop me from accomplishing my goals

    • @ToniArnay
      @ToniArnay Рік тому +1

      You Go🥳❤️🙏🏾😇

  • @shootingstarshelle
    @shootingstarshelle Рік тому +17

    This is so aligned with my church service from last night! Thank you again for these recent videos!!! This is definitely a sign of me bridging some gaps and healing the old and new me. Love you Bri❤

  • @araities
    @araities Рік тому +10

    You pointed out eveything that was wrong with my life and that was straight up so cool! I wonder if i should apply to scholarships but always ended up imagining myself getting rejected (aka fear of success), and i am now on my way to fix this

  • @lillianlillian
    @lillianlillian Рік тому +4

    this came at the exact right time because I've been struggling so bad lately to overcome this fear. I have such big dreams but starting,,,,whew

  • @DilCardyn
    @DilCardyn Рік тому +5

    Such a powerful message! It's amazing how our own fear of success can hold us back and make us doubt our abilities. This video really resonated with me and reminded me to push past that fear and believe in myself.

  • @deedeesaidso5910
    @deedeesaidso5910 Рік тому +7

    hey bestie, I promise you I am so hard on myself it ain’t even funny and in many ways i thought I didn’t deserve certain stuff and that keeps me very stagnant. Need to start convincing myself that I deserve it. The one thing that I need to work on is visualizing my success. Sometimes I wish i had more supportive people around me, but it’s something that I can’t worry about right now.

    • @appleofhiseye1514
      @appleofhiseye1514 3 місяці тому

      Please read the power of the subconscious mind by Joseph Murray. It really helps and the richest man in Babylon by George S Clason

  • @ShauntaviaWilliams
    @ShauntaviaWilliams 3 місяці тому +1

    Facts 🙌🏾

  • @mindfulpaths101
    @mindfulpaths101 Рік тому

    “People don’t hate on crusty dusty people”😂🎉

  • @Bya4747
    @Bya4747 Рік тому

    Bubby aww.. thats a sign of comfort..the couch drop

  • @HeyItsMaori
    @HeyItsMaori Рік тому

    I pray I remember these things as I continue to grow and achieve different levels of success.

  • @AustinRoberts88
    @AustinRoberts88 Рік тому +4

    Sooooooo on point. I had a business that got VERY successful in my twenties and it scared the shit out of me. Now I’m starting another one after doing a lot of work on myself and realizing that success is what I’m afraid of since I already know I have the potential. It’s hard to talk to anyone about it because they’re usually just like “well that’s dumb” but they’ve never really pushed themselves to be successful so they think I just magically happened to build a business by accident.

    • @kerry-j4m
      @kerry-j4m Рік тому

      Amigo,keep on grinding and don't talk to others about what you want to do. Just do you.I did 10 yrs of civilian contracter work over-seas ( Iraq,Qatar,Kuwaitt & Afghanistan ) doing mercenary work,then logistics.Been back in america for over a year now and hating it. LOL. I didn't even want to come back to america,but,had no choice,the US military got kicked outta Afghanistan,so the contracters had to bounce-TOO. LOL.I'd rather be hunting/fighting insurgents/terrorists,that's what I'm good at.Before becoming a civilian contracter I volunteered to go on 4 deployments to go fight in Iraq,with the Texas Guard ( i also did 2 tours back-to-back ) my first tour was in 2005 with an infantry unit at Camp TQ and we did joint missions with the Marines. ON these 4 tours I arrested/detained countless Iraqee citizens and insurgents,kicked in countless doors and-KICKED-much &&& !!! LOL.I didn't tell anyone what I wanted to do,JUST did it. I'm advising you to do like-wise.

    • @ThatGuy-vi6cj
      @ThatGuy-vi6cj 9 днів тому

      What was the work you did to get over it?? Or did you just keep moving forward because imposter syndrome for many people keeps them paralysed but for some they find a way to keep moving forward. How did you do it?

  • @KaelaMae
    @KaelaMae Рік тому +7

    You never miss Bria! I thank the universe for earth angels like you❤️

  • @MichalaLynne13
    @MichalaLynne13 Рік тому

    I’m obsessed with this video and I haven’t even finished watching it yet

  • @thewashingtonfamilyfun5189
    @thewashingtonfamilyfun5189 2 місяці тому

    Same way kids are they don't get loud until parents get otp. Lol😂😂😂

  • @only1kadence404
    @only1kadence404 Рік тому +4

    I literally hyperventilated at every milestone…I’m both relieved that I found out what’s blocking my energy, yet not surprised in a way…success is hard for ALL these reasons so it feels EXTREMELY good to be heard and FELT about them ❤

  • @purplegirl8036
    @purplegirl8036 Рік тому

    I waited all day to get to this video. I knew I was stopping myself from my success but I couldn’t figure out why I felt the strong desire to hide

  • @briberryblush
    @briberryblush 6 місяців тому

    I didn’t expect my world to change the way it did after this video thank you ❤

  • @renee_monique
    @renee_monique Рік тому

    how do i like this more than once

  • @UmuhozaDivine-e5q
    @UmuhozaDivine-e5q Рік тому +1

    This video is more helpful to me and am still in rebuilding myself,thank you very I keep watching all your videos coz it seems you talk all about me

  • @ruita3189
    @ruita3189 Рік тому +4

    Watching Bria’s videos help me feel grounded😌✨✨

  • @TheScienceofSelfCare
    @TheScienceofSelfCare Рік тому +3

    Gah your videos are always SO timely. I feel like no one ever talks about this, yet it’s so important! Great video, Bria ❤️👏

  • @maameefua.koomson
    @maameefua.koomson Рік тому +3

    Ugh Bria I love your content and you so much! I have always loved UA-cam and have been watching it since I was in middle school, but I've never felt as closely connected to a creator as I do with you. Your age group, living in the South, choosing to stay at home vs going out now, getting over the fear of money, I could go on and on!!! Your channel is truly my safe space 🥹
    This video made me realize I have a fear of judgment and it is holding me back from reaching new levels of success on my own journey 😭Whew called me allllll the way out but I needed to hear that! Thank you for all you do. Thank you for still going and creating content even when you experience failure or tough moments. I'm forever rooting for your success and happiness!!!!

  • @rethabilenxumalo9742
    @rethabilenxumalo9742 Рік тому

    3:16 🥺🥺🥺so this video is really gonna make me cry, coz its so true

  • @Beeatrix
    @Beeatrix 7 місяців тому

    I really enjoy that you aren't just spouting off the same lame LOA points of talking. Actually getting to the root of why we ruin our own manifesting. 💯

  • @dominiquemelissa7613
    @dominiquemelissa7613 Рік тому

    Girl i love you so much, i needed to hear everything you said as someone who's also scared of changes

  • @KrisRipper
    @KrisRipper Рік тому +3

    This is a fabulous video! (And... unsolicited thought incoming, please feel free to roll your eyes and dismiss it! But have you considered coaching? Your energy is *so rich and positive*, i genuinely feel a bit coached just watching the video!)
    Thanks so much for both the personal side of this video, which is super relatable, and the action steps towards the end! Excellent work!

  • @NotTheSameGirl26
    @NotTheSameGirl26 9 місяців тому +1

    Your content is so inspiring. You’ve been filling in the blanks for me as I grow and seek more within myself. I see your growth and love your mindddd. Thank you sharing and leading by example.

  • @Talalovee
    @Talalovee Рік тому +35

    Aspiring UA-camr here with no viral videos and I love how you put this. Everyone keeps telling me hopefully one of your videos go viral but honestly the numbers scare me and I know that it will immediately put me in another bracket because I know that my content is 🔥🔥🔥. I’m afraid of that and I’m always in my head! But I need to get over it because we got BIG goals. Love this series Bria. We need this 💕

    • @ToniArnay
      @ToniArnay Рік тому +2

      Keep on going! I know you can make it!

    • @Talalovee
      @Talalovee Рік тому +1

      @@ToniArnay thank you lovee!!! 💕💕💕

    • @ColorOfCozy
      @ColorOfCozy Рік тому +1

      ima a month late but im also in the same boat! I love seeing other creators of color so I'm following right away 😋 you got this homie

    • @Talalovee
      @Talalovee Рік тому

      @@ColorOfCozy awwww thank you so much!! 💕💕💕

  • @Emya111
    @Emya111 Рік тому +2

    This series of videos should be seen by EVERYONE because she's spitting facts after facts !! Everyone need to see these ! I'm so excited whenever Bria post something like it makes my week better ! Thank you Bria !

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Рік тому +1

      aw this made my day, I'm so honored!

    • @Emya111
      @Emya111 Рік тому

      @@BriaJonesgirl stop it ! YOU MAKE OUR DAYS ! ❤❤❤

  • @w3justvibe
    @w3justvibe Рік тому

    I really resonate with this and I know it and over told myself but hearing it from someone else makes me feel less crazy. Like I am worthy or these good things and they should be happening to me yet I'm in shock everytime like it isn't something I really wanted

  • @itsmebrittanyseville
    @itsmebrittanyseville Рік тому

    People might not like this one but you NEED to do it for you. I love that your vision is “us” as a collective but some people will take advantage of that and act as if WE edited the videos, WE filmed, WE are living the experience you’re living and the reality is, we’re not. That’s why some watch, to get a peak into this life and then others watch because they relate. Speak on yourself more. YOU are figuring out for yourself not us and that should always be okay. You can help us until you help you and that is always priority

  • @ChelseaSpeaks
    @ChelseaSpeaks Рік тому

    Super random but I love love love energy. Ugh so refreshing! Thank you for being so vulnerable and authentic. ✨😍

  • @southernnaturalhairaffair7912

    Amazing video! I have a fear of being seen, however I’m putting myself out there more. Love the way your dog is living his/her best life on that sofa🤣🤣

  • @CelosiasStudios
    @CelosiasStudios Рік тому

    Absolutely love your pep talks

  • @AltoGoddess
    @AltoGoddess Рік тому

    I always come back to your channel for a breath of fresh air. You are so real and honest. I feel like you’re that one bestie that will snap me back to reality😂.

  • @malliamarshae
    @malliamarshae Рік тому

    30:39 so the entire video resonated with me. Your videos help me so much, not just with self analyzation, but watching your journey is just inspiring and I just want to thank you.

  • @yogawchris
    @yogawchris Рік тому +4

    Phenomenal message Bria! The fear of success has been holding me back. I love that haters represent moving in a prosperous direction. Sending love and light. I was bullied growing up and had no idea how the irrational thought patterns of that time remained conscious from decades ago. I am going to try the visualization practice tonight!

  • @matthewgoetzka8855
    @matthewgoetzka8855 Рік тому

    congrats on 300k! 🎉 I subbed yesterday at 299. Your videos are super insightful

  • @jeannastorey
    @jeannastorey Рік тому

    This s the video I needed. I've been anted to grow my youtube channel for years now. I start posting or I'll have a really good idea and I'll start working on it, and then I'll stop mysefl and I think this video really showed me why I keep doing that.

  • @zinhlethinane
    @zinhlethinane Рік тому

    Girl, I prayed for money to invest in a business coach. I manifested it and today I received the money from my brother, as soon as I had it I felt like I was gonna pass out. I literally could not breathe and every fiber of my being was telling me to not invest this money, that I was making the wrong decision and I'd regret it. I had to step out, breathe, say some affirmations and only then did I come and without even look I just clicked on the screen and paid the damn coach. Fear of success is real, self-sabotage is real and it's a serious battle everyday

  • @alexsiamartinez1472
    @alexsiamartinez1472 Рік тому

    I felt all this! I’m a real estate agent doing all the back work but I’ve been soooo scared to put myself out there.

  • @nayacmaynor
    @nayacmaynor Рік тому +1

    Bria, Bria, Bria! You continue to drop these emotional ass gems. Your authenticity is something I’ve always loved about you. I totally can relate on this topic - there’s so many fears that come with new heights

  • @tyiannatinsley5986
    @tyiannatinsley5986 4 місяці тому

    I am so happy UA-cam suggested you to me a few days ago. Literally have watched a video a day since! Love you girl 🫶🏾

  • @FlowWithJeaux
    @FlowWithJeaux Рік тому

    THANK YOU, I needed this

  • @aprilmae137
    @aprilmae137 Рік тому

    Thank you for being real. It’s motivating. ❤
    I have a horrible fear of success. ESP around creepers online.

  • @HighVibes4U
    @HighVibes4U Рік тому

    Thank you‼️💯💌🫶🏾

  • @Varezenmanifests
    @Varezenmanifests Рік тому

    Holy shit girl!! This is the exact thing I was talking to myself about the other night on my bike ride. You covered it ALL!!
    People have gotten very negative and it’s all because they don’t have it too so therefore you shouldn’t have it. Or they think they work harder so they deserve it more than you. They are also hating because they are jealous of your success. I have to accept that and I’m sure the first comment will be the band aid that needs to get ripped off and it’s smooth sailing from there.

  • @oliviamacellaro4309
    @oliviamacellaro4309 Рік тому

    profound timing that i've found your videos at this time

  • @leahbalman2351
    @leahbalman2351 Рік тому

    One of my favourite videos I watch over and over to give me the kick up the butt that I very much need! Thanks so much B!!!! XXX

  • @shallyway
    @shallyway Рік тому +2

    Your videos are always right on time! Thank you for explaining everything so thoroughly. I've definitely been dealing with and healing from the fear of success. My biggest take away is that success is actually good and we can expand ourselves and our lives the more successful we become. Change is what has seemed scary, but change is actually good!!! :D

  • @missbea5100
    @missbea5100 Рік тому

    I love this weekly reads thanks so much!!

  • @beautifuldae
    @beautifuldae Рік тому

    Gurl, I appriciate you so much for this! It was exactly what I needed to hear, the way I needed to hear it thank you.

  • @caniadey1440
    @caniadey1440 Рік тому

    This content is gollllllld❤️❤️The tip about breaking down everything is what I needed❤️❤️Tk u Bria

  • @chaoana.lerato
    @chaoana.lerato Рік тому

    The fear of success is such a real thing and I'm glad that people like you are speaking out about this. Thank you 💚

  • @brandi5126
    @brandi5126 Рік тому

    When I say this is on TIME. It is on TIME. Love your channel. Glad I found you and subscribed.

  • @louisehudson3650
    @louisehudson3650 Рік тому

    You are absolutely 100% right. You give great advice and thank you for being transparent!

  • @thatgirlthepod
    @thatgirlthepod 6 місяців тому

    Thank you Bria! Your videos always give me the tough love/pep talk I need to keep going. As always, this resonated and was so helpful ❤

  • @xoxo.serena
    @xoxo.serena Рік тому

    thank u sm for this girl!!! i really needed it

  • @deenyables
    @deenyables Рік тому

    This got me you called me out and I’m happy. I learned to make steps wow thanks Bria !!

  • @luusikateme
    @luusikateme Рік тому

    Yes! Tho the journey is extremly hard too.

  • @MissChayBella
    @MissChayBella Рік тому

    Thank you so much Bria needed this

  • @SunshinepoeUGC
    @SunshinepoeUGC Рік тому

    Absolutely love this video! It hit home for me. I had no idea I had a fear of being seen, success, and criticism. It is definitely a reason why I having issues moving forward in my life when it comes to my career and becoming an influencer. Thank you so much for this video! Now I know it to work on!

  • @Tips4SocialMedia
    @Tips4SocialMedia Рік тому

    this is so good! i appreciate your channel so much. It has helped me since I found it!

  • @AyeshaK_9
    @AyeshaK_9 9 місяців тому

    This was amazing! And so needed ❤

  • @Hersheychocolate12
    @Hersheychocolate12 Рік тому

    Why this title exactly what I’m going to therapy for.
    I feel so incompetent that that I will never find a self sustaining job to take care of myself. Without my parents or fam help I’d be homeless or have thought or still think tbh I can’t be in this world. It’s not meant for me. I’m going to work on that thru therapy and videos like this also help motivate.

  • @SunofGod13
    @SunofGod13 Рік тому

    Beginning of your video-I think your fluffy friend find your voice soothing 😊😊😊

  • @jashdelacruz2246
    @jashdelacruz2246 Рік тому

    Your videos taaaaaaalk to me!!! I always say I just want to be rich enough to be comfortable but not too rich coz I'm scared of its consequences..

  • @SimplyNaturalCai
    @SimplyNaturalCai Рік тому +2

    Excellent breakdown and tips! I do have a fear of success which contradicts my excitement to succeed lol but I keep going. Loving this series 💙

  • @TheQueRose
    @TheQueRose Рік тому

    Thank you Bri 🫶🏾

  • @margauxgrunenwald2303
    @margauxgrunenwald2303 6 місяців тому

    Thanks soooo much for yet another amazing video, your content is the best!

  • @natashaxhuggins
    @natashaxhuggins Рік тому

    Oh THIS is the one i needed 😭🫰🏽 thank you Bria!

  • @Hoo_huu
    @Hoo_huu Рік тому

    THANK YOU QUEEN

  • @missbea5100
    @missbea5100 Рік тому

    This recent videos have been on point. 👏🏾

  • @BlaqueeSwann
    @BlaqueeSwann Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this ! I really needed to hear everything you covered ! I know I’m holding myself back because I’m worried about what people will think about me making changes for myself . Like you said when you grow it can throw the balance of things off and even the people around you . I feel I’m not good at what I do but my work speaks for itself . I appreciate being opening about these struggles

  • @danisilva23
    @danisilva23 Рік тому

    I needed to hear it. Thank you for sharing it☺

  • @miriamrosee
    @miriamrosee 8 місяців тому

    I love your energy!!

  • @kimkimkimkimmie
    @kimkimkimkimmie Рік тому

    Ohh! Not the confirmation I needed!💁🏽‍♀️✨

  • @marionblanco1030
    @marionblanco1030 11 місяців тому

    I absolutely love you!!! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and creating this amazing content!! ❤

  • @JordinSolis
    @JordinSolis Рік тому

    Thank you for this ❤ so spot on

  • @StayStrong_LiveLong
    @StayStrong_LiveLong Рік тому +1

    You are a boss lady Bria! Great content once again.

    • @ToniArnay
      @ToniArnay Рік тому

      Agreed!😆🙏🏾👑

  • @EmpressChanelle
    @EmpressChanelle Рік тому

    I really enjoy your perspective on this❤

  • @fatimah_abm
    @fatimah_abm Рік тому

    Thank you for this ❤
    Ive been looking for someone to just tell me this stuff, not that ion know em but hearing it from someone makes a difference

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Рік тому +1

      I feel you on that, sometimes we just need to hear it!

  • @cosmeticsbydesi
    @cosmeticsbydesi Рік тому

    hii, I found you tonight well I was looking for new inspersion and empowerment. I've been struggling with mental health, as well as just moving all the time and not being able to find that happy medium. I've got to say watching the 3 or 4 videos I have already watched and being new to your channel, I am a fan.
    You give such good advice and helpful tips I will be using in the moving forward. You have also opened my mind to many different new ways to self improve and stop focusing on so much of what everyone is saying.
    attitude

  • @jaybube478
    @jaybube478 8 місяців тому

    1:51 we can’t really prepare for everything

  • @jlnae
    @jlnae Рік тому

    I Love me some Bria! You’re always speaking on what I need to hear ❤