As an Asian man in his 40s married for 10 years w/ 2 kids I can tell ya looking back 20years+ us Asian guys definitely went through tough times. Although I didn’t think much and lived my whole life like “I don’t give a sh*t” attitude I was able to get by but there were lot more bullying and social outcasting involved in all places especially strong in high school & college slowly building up to workplace. One thing that really pissed me off among Asian communities were that there weren’t many who were willing to step out of their comfort zone. If you like someone go for it and don’t use I’m Asian I don’t have a chance attitude. Young fellas have it better these days but there are still many who live in this box. As for myself I’m 5’6 not exactly handsome nor rich. Only dated outside of my race (although I do love my fellow Asians) & currently married to a European woman.
AGREE, they need to go do what Asian people don't do, Go to Church, Social Groups, CITIES, COUNTRIES were they can't live in an Asian Bubble. Just be a HUMAN and fight the urge to view everything by RACE.
Aussie-Filipino mix here in my late 40's. Questions like "Was your mum mail order?" or "Is your mum a nurse?", among others, were quite persistent. The look on their faces when I tell them that Dad is the Filipino, brought to Australia on a Skilled Migrant Worker Visa in the early-mid 70's, because the Aussie blokes didn't want to do the hard jobs. He was a Mechanical Engineer in the Philippines, and could still do the job on Sydney's train network. My Aussie birth mother abandoned my sister and I, to run away with her lover, when we were still very young. My sister was a few months old and I was nearly 2 years old. Years later, my sister and I grew to young adults contributing to the Aussie economy as proud Filos, not Aussie 😂😂 Bless 😂😂
Sorry to hear about that and your mother. I can understand that and about Aussie (blokes) getting good pay, holidays and easy jobs. I've been living in Australia for almost 25 years now.
As a non-Asian woman married to a Chinese man, let me tell you this guys….there are a LOT of woman out there who find you attractive, we sometimes feel that because we don’t fit the Asian standard of beauty, you won’t like us. And from what my husband has told me, it can feel intimidating to them as well 😂 we all shy of eachother but wanna know eachother more
@@tartarus500San Francisco is more liberal but there’s def a mix of both libs and conservatives here, and I’ve seen a good amount of interracial couples tbh
Asian man with a black girlfriend here. Choose who chooses you. IMO second gen Asian women prefer White men. So, that leaves alot of us single. The good news is that we are actually desired by black women. Shoot your shot at chocolate beauties, Asian brahs they are out there and admire us.
I'm bucking the trends as first gen Asian woman. I like whomever works for me. Whereas ALL of my cousins and childhood friends have married their own kind. Not even other Asians. Their own kind of Asian. It's wild. But I've always been the black sheep in the family. Oh well. Love is love. I avoid WM though. Been told all of my life I would look good with a WM to the point it's put me off them. My Black female friends like Asian men though. We talk about these dynamics.
Holy crap I saw an Asian guy dating a black girlfriend at a theme park this winter while waiting in line. The are both 8+ in their own rights and it's clear both of them had life put together, but boy do they look incredible. They don't show off with intimacy, but you can tell they are relaxed with each other's company. They are not laughing or making drama, but there is so much smiling. It just kept me thinking how they got to know each other.
I live in the Central Valley Sacramento to Fresno and I can tell you that it is very normal to see Asian men with other races, especially latinas. Has definitely been an uptick these past couple years. Still rather rare to see with a white girl though. Women like men, just want variety.
According to my experience, they stare less when you got a baby. The focus is then not so much on you as a couple, but more on the baby and people connect positive feelings with babies
It’s pretty fire honestly because it’s a win for everyone. Also it changes the perception of the outside looking in. I’m thankful I was always able to date outside my ethnicity (Filipino) even since middle school, but it’s always makes me smile to see an Asian guy get with a girl that isn’t Asian. To me, it shows diversity, evolution, and expansion.
I still find most of my Asian friends not particularly open to the idea of dating non-Asians. My girlfriend is Latina/Black and we're going strong. I just hope to see more of our Asian brothers open to the idea of dating outside their race. But if you're just only into Asian girls, my advice would be just be more assertive, ask her out before the white guy gets to her lmao.
Asian women or asian mothers are very controlling. Unlike Asian father, they are cool with their daughters marrying out, but not asian mothers. So it seemed asian women have always been our enemy.
I'm a white woman but I always assumed Asian men would only want to date Asian women. I am not specifically looking for an Asian man but I am not against dating one either.
This! Asian guys are still too picky and closed to relations w nonAsian women. Absolutely agree in such scenarios, Asian guys need to be more aggressive securing Asian girls while she’s still in his circle
I am a 40 yr old asian male married to a 1/2 white, 1/2 black female for +10 yrs. We have 2 kids that looks super white lol Growing up, I did date mostly non-asians, but I do agree that in most cases, I had to make the initial communication.
Asian men are sexy and women know now, white men try to bring Asian man down because THEY KNOW we can easily take their women 😂 assert dominance Asian kings ❤
@@rickyayy does not matter asian men are left behind because we are shorter.If you are tall most probably you can get decent girls but if you are not nothing gonna help except money especially in west europe
You can tell these gentlemen are well read when they cite the success of hockey players in Malcolm Gladwell's book, Outliers, to give analogy of a positive feedback loop on how asian men are getting dating momentum in modern society.
My ex is white but there's alot more AM/WF these days. Glad to see this trend because Asian woman are not pairing with Asian men exclusively so i'm glad to see my Asian brothers looking being open and getting other women.
You should not be spreading misinformation about Asian women. The vast majority of all Asian women still stick primarily to dating and marrying their own men. It sounds like you, and those you are surrounding yourself with, are people who dont take pride in dating their own...which is totally fine, everybody can have their own preferences, but don't be out here lying about all other Asian women.
I’m am asian British man I’ve dated many white girls of various countries..never felt any discomfort or racial discrimination in this field …I just don’t know what all of you are on 😮
As a 30 year old in suburban new york, in high school we were definitely invisible. Now i find mostly latinas attracted to me. White women are still difficult for me to get dates with but still easier than Asian women. I think kpop really made a huge impact for me.
@@Billdean25on your profile you shit on Asian men and in all the comments, you legit a white man shitting on Asian men on the internet, you are the definition of incel. Why are white men incels 😂get a fucking life
@@Billdean25 Stop fawning for white women. They are incorrigible because they are the group that benefited from feminism and its current twisted state.
I Agree 100%. I have always questioned my asian buddies why they keeping dating these below-average asian girls, who don’t even respect them? Especially my asian bros who are 6ft with the “k-pop” look. They always end up with these freaking “mid” girls. If I won the “Looks” Lottery, I would never have looked back.
These pathetic Asian American losers would rather wait for the White men to be done with Asian women so they can have a chance. They're like beggars waiting for leftover foods and coins.
That is the incorrect way to view what is going on. No one is putting them on a pedestal (perhaps other than white men, and vice versa from Asian women). It's just that by default, Asian people with Asian people would be the most normal and sensical pairing just like it is for the vast majority of everyone else. Instead Asian women are the only group that avoids and hates their direct opposite sex in observable numbers, which is precisely why when you see comments like "who cares, love who you want", those people don't understand the phenomenon and the pain and confusion it can cause. While it can be true in many cases, "love who you love" can also be a completely superficial and ignorant statement as well.
My ex wife is white. My current gf is 11 years younger (I'm 45) and is also white... i was a bit of an outcast as a kid in my extended family, and Asian chicks didn't really dig me. I was too weird for them. But other chicks found me amusing enough. Anyway, don't pursue chicks. Pursue your ambitions and they'll find themselves attracted to you
Whatever is going on I'm loving it. Use to be pretty hard work here in the mid west, does seem alot easier now. Could be the way I approach after covid, get go right in with a smile. Got so many to date can't keep up. I will say work on communicating, your heath and body. Taking dance lessons really boosted me along with working out. Get a lot points if you like Latin ladies if you know salsa, batchata, and sensual batchata.
Back in the 90s and in middle school in a white community where there were maybe 5 Asians total, the most popular couple was a WF/AM pair. I had plenty of Hispanic and WF (girls at the time) into me and my prom date and gf (different girls) were WF. The pairing has always been normalized, it's just toxic when it comes to online dating... the same toxic people who can't find matches IRL.
It's always been socially acceptable for non-AF to date AM. The issue isn't whether they're open to it or not; the issue is that AM generally don't make sexual advances to the same proportion as men of other races. You have to understand that the burden of approach and sexual escalation lies squarely on men. A woman will not initiate no matter how attracted she is to a particular guy because it falls outside the purview of their traditional gender role.
Whenever I did try, I have always succeeded with white wm irl. But problem is that I did not even know they saw it as advances nor was it my intentions. I'm just too shy to do that. So when I gave up on girls and started to talk to girls as bros, I got positive feedback.
Asian guys are generally very picky when it comes to girls they see themselves dating. Also people tend to be attracted to people who find them attractive. It's true.
I'm Blasian with a filpina ❤ asian men been winning. Its just now my brother's got the respect they should of had from the beginning 💯 be happy everyone F that hating shiiiii !
How are they your brothers, stop being embarrassing I never saw asian guy call black men brothers, and how you blasian you look full black, anyway stop with nonsensical cheerleading of other races of men
While dating out is not as common for asian men the rates are much higher than in the past. As per usual people are coping and seething in the comments section 🤣 Alot of y'all can do insane mental gymnastics.
But ur women loyal, so ur not single. Asian women backstabbed us, which hurt more. I rather be indian lol. I dont wanna go through backstabbing as it hurt more than being not popular.@@ThaThree
@@ThaThree It's interesting how white incels view all Asian men tbh. The things they complain about women doing to them they have no issue making fun of for Asians.
@@CoolNumber1 I think in the end, it just comes down to looking after yourself well. If you focus on being healthy, working out and good presentation, you'll find that things are okay regardless of ethnicity. It's true some ethnicities have it easier but hard work transcends. Wish you the best bro ♥️
Married a Japanese guy 🇯🇵 as a Black Brit 🇬🇧 🇯🇲 everyone was like gross 🤮 Asian guy 😢even though he’s handsome (the attitude 12 years ago) now with K-pop/ anime / k wave etc those exact same girls are like does he have a brother? Oh, how the tides have turned!😂
Bro, the reason why tides are changing is because there's been Asian guys out there getting non Asian girls for the past decade, those are the dudes that need recognition! Honestly, when you've been dated interracially, you realise how weird society is so focussed on ethnicity when really it doesn't matter at all. Culture is important but you realise that you find many commonalities in places you wouldn't have though prior.
I can agree that it only matter if your korean, tall, or rich. I have been trying to make a different for ten years and finally gave up and went back to the homeland and for the first time I was treated like I exist in this world. For one fact we average asian guy shouldn't have to lower our standard and go for fat women. Either way it is suck being asian and short. Don't give up ya just skip all the bs and go back to the homeland. Don't waste 10 years like me.
The OGs suffered the slurs and demeaning jokes back in the day so our brothers today could reap the benefits. This is just one step in the right direction. We still have so far left to go.
only in western society, those who are stuck in that snowglobe will remain narrow minded with those demeaning stereotypes ,but outside of the western society. . The whole world thinks differently. lol
I think of The Under the Infuence Gen z Asians because they fit the archetype you described. Open relationships are definitely more common in gay Asian relationships because I see it. But open relationships and marriages are more common in the gay community than the straight community
How sick of a society do you have to be to ask the question "is dating asian men finally normal"? Since when was it abnormal to date men of a certain race? Last time I checked, all races belong to one species and can interbreed.
I think it's a sick title. When was it ever abnormal to Asian bothers? I'm a mixed black brother. A lot of black sisters, latitno sisters & European sisters that I have dated have a lot of their friends dating Asian brothers. Just because some of the Asian sisters prefer only White males does not mean Asian brothers have stopped dating. Instead have thrived in dating non Asian women. I'm not sure what the big deal is?
Im happy that Asian men are finally getting the recognition that they deserve for far too long the stereotypes always make them look bad but now they're getting the love and respect 😊
I'm just simply happy with my Japanese husband. I'm Asian myself and I'm just glad I have him in my life. But before he met me, he dated a white woman though.
Hey y’all a dub for us Just went out with a Russian girl last Monday from DC area and I’m Vietnamese Chinese from Philly. Def the future is here! Met on a Christian dating because i hold those beliefs myself. I’ve been matching with only black, Caucasian and Latina women. Im also 5’5 she was 5’6 so yeah we got it However ive only matched with Asian women 1/4 of the time :/ so 🤷♂️
I’ve seen too many guys date outside of their race and they tend to show off their women as a prize rather than a partner. Pride in relationships should come from mutual respect, love, and understanding, rather than focusing on superficial differences. It’s interesting how society tends to place significance on cultural or racial differences especially when it comes to dating and relationships when, in the end, we're just human beings with more similarities than differences.
@@k..l-8818 Oh I’m so sorry, you know since this is through writing, it’s hard to tell if someone is insulting you or taking stuff out of context. I apologize bro. I’ll delete what I said🙏
That is true on your first part. I am Hispanic (Mexican) and am dating a Dutch woman (Netherlands) and I often show her off to my family and friends like she’s a trophy. She is still a person of course and I just adore her a lot.
Lots of social media helped but also the communities where the individual grew up. I grew up in the 90's and the perception of asians all knowing kung fu was very common. Also remember that in the days prior to 2000, most asian men were physically smaller in size due to diet. Once my friends and i started eating what the western world eat, our physique are the same. Im 5'8 and 180lbs bulk built. The girls look at large physique as masculine, superior, strong and naturally thats what women want. I attract white and black women the most in my 20's but now in my 30's i attract lots of asians but thats my area. Toronto and vancouver it was easily for me as an asian to attract asian but lets say florida or texas. It was a different story. Still possible but depends on how you dress, physique and talk.
@HoodQueen258 tell that to the 80% of the world's population. Can't help it when you're a woman and you're the masculine incredible hulk. You're a gorilla giant
im black with R&B, rap & pop music... made it easy for blacks to date whites. hopefully with k-pop and blackpink with make it better for our wonderful asian brothers.
@@baddie21358you have 100 + comments on this channel. Why do you watch their videos if you don’t like Asian men? And before you assume,( I’m not Asian)
@@jialian93 I don't know where you're located or what you look like. But I'm South East Asian and I get mistaken for being Samoan or some even thought I'm Native American. I'm also very thick. I guess some blondes do attract to me because of my physicality.
I was at a club in Australia. Most of the crowd were white with some Asians and darker peeps. This one Korean guy was getting so much attention 😂😂. Girls even asked for his number/insta etc. Times have changed lol
Tell you what, I'm 40 and have grown up in Belgium, was never exactly in the front row in the dateable pool in all my high school years, but started to get coveted in my late college years (but also, I was in an art uni, so people were more openminded than regular people). Then came to live in Taiwan for 15 years, and the norm of interracial couples was white dude/ taiwanese girl. For over a decade. Now, for the past year or 2, I finally see more and more white girl/Taiwanese guy couples, and that's heartwarming.
Agree, but its also due to work-migration. 20-30 years ago not many women moved to asia for working, it was almost only business men. So of course you could see mainly white guys with taiwanese women. Nowadays there are plenty of business women or students travelling around and going to Asia, so naturaly amwf couples increasing as well
"Semi white like Eastern European" lol Eastern European is white. There are a plethra of blonde hair blue eyed Polish people, which is in Eastern Europe bordering Germany, you don't get much whiter than that.
I am thinking people are forgetting the elephant in the room. I think Boba Milk Tea was the gateway drug for Asian popularity. While not quite as popular as coffee it is still immensely popular to the point that people will drive out to find a good Boba place which leads to seeing/learning more asian culture.
There are a lot of black women attracted to asian men, but we do not see many asian men with black women and we tend to worry about racism from your family.
TikTok really help too. It shows a variety of asia guys. Funny, athletic, charismatic, instead of just the stereotypical nerds from Hollywood. Also seeing AMWF relationships helps. People can get used to seeing Asian guys as relationship material through TikTok.
much of it is due koreans changing the asian guys image from nerdy kunfu master to charming gentlemen. the nerdy desexualized image has been in the making for decades in western media by the way.
@@SylvesrerSam Kpop did a lot, BTS for example became way bigger than Nsync and Backstreet boys. They planted the seeds in young girls to make asian men very desirable
Yes never seen south asian men with other women even pakistani women are marrying chinese men in droves, pakistani men getting cuked by chinese men for chinese loan lol
The spread of Asian culture has changed the game, similar to how African Americans produced culture (e.g., jazz, hip hop, comedy, sports, movies) that was cool and interesting, while being different from the dominant white culture. It's now cool to like Asian culture in a way it never was before. Like you said: kpop, anime, manga, kdramas, Asian hypebeast fashion, food trends, sushi, hotpot, kbbq, bubble tea, martial arts, sports (we have the best player in baseball). All that has made Asian men more accepted by the dominant culture that wants to take part in the cool and interesting things this pan-Asian culture has to offer.
I can tell you with 100% certainty that Ukrainian girls in Lviv are interested in East Asian guys! I joined the International Legion 🇺🇦🪖 and apparently Ukrainian women think Asian army guys are REALLY sexy!
I'm Filipino and been dating white women since 1999 and I'm a 1st gen immigrant. Been married to one for over 20 years. But I would get a lot of looks back in the early days.
Similar here. Ultimately married a fellow Fil-Am, but no issues dating others. At a majority white college, they sometimes approached me. Never felt uncomfortable.
It's becoming more socially acceptable. I think the real hard knock question is will it ever be considered "normal" in the west for AMAF pairings? The fact I have to ask that question still says a lot.
Stop being a cuck waiting for Asian women and date out. So many Asian American men are so pathetic. Asian men worldwide are getting disrespected because of Asian American cucks like you.
I have a daughter that is latina and irish her boy friend is chinese and hes really cool she asked me was it alright i said as long as he treats you right no matter what race.
as an mono asian guy. I did date some non asian women mostly Quebecois girls. they are cool and wild. I even been with a girl that is a poly, i myself not a poly but i give her a shot. I learned alot and I respect the spectrum but that doesnt make me a poly but she end up a very good friend of mine. my recent experience was with a real yellow fever rich girl. i dumped her because she only wants me on her bed activities and objectifying me and she doesnt want relationship. so yeah those are my dating experience as an asian dude living in canada and im having a dating fatigue lol
@kcuba2741-i agree. No disrespect to Koreans but the Korean wave definitely doesn’t make our image more masculine as the guys depicted always look feminine and doing heavy rounds of chemotherapy. Different strokes for different folks though glad that it’s working for them though
@morbidsoyI agree. Overall Asians are getting recognized. But it definitely feels koreans because of K-pop is getting more attention. Even South East/East Asian Americans born in American needs attention. The hype with Koreans specifically that lives in Korea gets all the attention. I wouldn’t be surprise if Korean Americans are less noticeable versus Koreans from Korea.
I grew up as an Asian immigrant in the 20th century and everywhere I lived until I moved to California was less than 1% Asian so I never dated an Asian woman as there were so few of them where I lived.
Thank god I live in Hawaii, I don’t have to deal with this problem as much 😂 but from my experience, I’d rather date in Asia anyway than in the Western. I also gotta add that I love Latina women and they also love Filipinos. 😁
For me in California it was completely different, and that was more than 20 years ago when I was dating. Asian women wouldn’t give me the time of day but all other races of women didn’t care. (I was tall so anything else didn’t matter.)
Not sure if it’s a slang in Cali. But I do get it 😂. Where I’m from we say are you white? oh which ethnicity from Europe? White white = USA British from the colonize days
Thats funny ... as central European I always disliked beeing called white. I always say I'm slavic. I guess its white but feels weird and too wide. Like being called Asian doesn't have to sit with everyone cause are they Indian, Chinese, Thai, Kazach? ... gives you no idea. So to each their own 😊
@@ivanagajova4868 yeah it’s each to their own. Depending which country/city. Racial profile operates different. Where I’m from Asians are east or south East Asian. South Asians are profiled as browns. In UK, south Asians are Asians. While east or south East Asians are considered as Orientals
I don't think this is the case. I think that due to your content, the algorithm just recommends you more examples of what you want to see, and now you think Asian men are normal. But I have not found that to be the case at all.
I like it for you guys (random french black dude), met some asian dudes in UK and France, globally they are cool . IT's cool women are finally stopping the BS
You don't have to be a gen z korean guy to succeed in dating. Differences between different kinds of asians are going to be bit harder for non asians to point out.
as an asian man that is integrated in an european sociaty that also is into non asian women i cant unsee the weirdness the invironment and ppl makes it look wrong
What are you insinuating? That a lot of Asian men can only have a shot at pre-owned non Asian women, with tons of baggage, irreparable mental trauma & little to no value, left-overs?! .... ...
Sounds like youre talking about USA. Come to Europe. Here are also overweight people, but much much less. You know, we are cooking by ourselves and are eating real food
Filipinos have always been winning! Ya’ll other Asians need to catch up. Joe Battan the one of the top 3 hip hop pioneers father Filipino mother Black. Before Beyonce, Whitney Houston there was Marpessa Dawn mother Black and father Filipino. All of these when dating Black women was illegal and life threatening. Filipinos didnt care they dated them married them and started families wit them. The list goes on. Filipinos have always been winning and not like east asians w micro pens.
You won't want to date with the women in their late 30s and 40s....they have baggage and they want to settle with a provider. To quote Marnie...."And...that's you!"
I’m a gen X Asian man who married my white HS girlfriend almost 20 years after initially dating her. Had to finish college grad school and have tons of fun in our 20s and 30s. Now we have children where strangers tell us they’re gorgeous and asks us if we consider getting them into modeling. Too bad for the kids but we raise them not to rely or live off their looks, pure work ethic and being intellectually prepared is our focus.
Y'all mention Eastern European women like Asian guys but where do you even find them in America? I'm in NY and I get no matches with eastern Europeans here really.
Difference between thicc and heavy. Its all in the ankles, neck, and waist. Everybody got different bodytupes, but if you are generous in the above 3? You gotta start counting calories. And this goes for everybody.
dating tip here from a 5.6ft asian viet american. i got nose surgery and my looks went from a 6 to 8. i got JACKED. did a session a month for 2 years on my large pores and acne . i learned chinese spanish and vietnamese. i ate hard foods for 5 years to get that JAW line. i made sure to eat sleep and think healthy. drink only once a week and get your vegetables fruit and water (you heal from inside not outside). and never act like you want to sleep with her the first date (ive always acted like i wasnt interested in XXX the first date but i was). touch her arms and shoulders once in a while. ask her questions. TINDER is a GOLD mine. bumble and hinge is more for long term relationship
I get that it's not as normal and I may be an outlier but I've actually never dated an Asian girl not necessarily by choice but the environment I was in. Been all white girls. Married to a Caucasian women (blonde hair blue eyes) and my kids are wasian.
As an Asian man in his 40s married for 10 years w/ 2 kids I can tell ya looking back 20years+ us Asian guys definitely went through tough times. Although I didn’t think much and lived my whole life like “I don’t give a sh*t” attitude I was able to get by but there were lot more bullying and social outcasting involved in all places especially strong in high school & college slowly building up to workplace. One thing that really pissed me off among Asian communities were that there weren’t many who were willing to step out of their comfort zone. If you like someone go for it and don’t use I’m Asian I don’t have a chance attitude. Young fellas have it better these days but there are still many who live in this box. As for myself I’m 5’6 not exactly handsome nor rich. Only dated outside of my race (although I do love my fellow Asians) & currently married to a European woman.
AGREE, they need to go do what Asian people don't do, Go to Church, Social Groups, CITIES, COUNTRIES were they can't live in an Asian Bubble. Just be a HUMAN and fight the urge to view everything by RACE.
No
@@HoodQueen258 why
keyword: currently 😀
That's cool I am native apache and my girl friends are chinese.
Aussie-Filipino mix here in my late 40's. Questions like "Was your mum mail order?" or "Is your mum a nurse?", among others, were quite persistent.
The look on their faces when I tell them that Dad is the Filipino, brought to Australia on a Skilled Migrant Worker Visa in the early-mid 70's, because the Aussie blokes didn't want to do the hard jobs. He was a Mechanical Engineer in the Philippines, and could still do the job on Sydney's train network. My Aussie birth mother abandoned my sister and I, to run away with her lover, when we were still very young. My sister was a few months old and I was nearly 2 years old. Years later, my sister and I grew to young adults contributing to the Aussie economy as proud Filos, not Aussie 😂😂 Bless 😂😂
Your dad is a legend
@@rickyayy He sure is
Based dad
Sorry to hear about that and your mother. I can understand that and about Aussie (blokes) getting good pay, holidays and easy jobs. I've been living in Australia for almost 25 years now.
"My Aussie birth mother abandoned my sister and I"
she found a man she was really attracted to?
As a non-Asian woman married to a Chinese man, let me tell you this guys….there are a LOT of woman out there who find you attractive, we sometimes feel that because we don’t fit the Asian standard of beauty, you won’t like us. And from what my husband has told me, it can feel intimidating to them as well 😂 we all shy of eachother but wanna know eachother more
I feel like everyone hates me 😂
Yes it is now. There are way more interracial relationships for Asian Males with Non-Asian females, especially in major cities that are diverse.
@@Billdean25 I heard people say it happens a lot in conservative cities more than liberal ones.
@@tartarus500 never seen a white girl with an Asian man
@@tartarus500San Francisco is more liberal but there’s def a mix of both libs and conservatives here, and I’ve seen a good amount of interracial couples tbh
@@Billdean25 I know some attractive asian guys who go to college in NY and they dated a lot of non asians but I dont live there so idk
@@what3899 lol don't listen to the troll
Happy my bros are seen now. Just wish they could have experienced it with me back in grade school.
Lol yeah I dated a white girl in grade 8 and 11. Never had issues with any races.
Asians were so invisible for so long
@@Billdean25 lol how can you see my height? I'm not actually tall tho, I'm only 5'7.
you still got game, asians dont raisen. Now is the time to reject those who rejected you Lol
@@Billdean25oh we found the white guy hiding behind the screen, incel 😂
Looks, money, game, frame, preselection & status equal genuine 🔥desire from women. Vital Asian men (& all men for that matter) understand this.
You see a lot of interracial couples on social media that go viral. Especially with Asian men.
No
@@HoodQueen258 cope browncel
@@HoodQueen258you are anywhere and always leave comments about how Asian men cannot date anyone loll
That is so true. Btw i love your pfp.
Asian man with a black girlfriend here. Choose who chooses you. IMO second gen Asian women prefer White men. So, that leaves alot of us single. The good news is that we are actually desired by black women. Shoot your shot at chocolate beauties, Asian brahs they are out there and admire us.
I'm bucking the trends as first gen Asian woman. I like whomever works for me. Whereas ALL of my cousins and childhood friends have married their own kind. Not even other Asians. Their own kind of Asian. It's wild. But I've always been the black sheep in the family. Oh well. Love is love. I avoid WM though. Been told all of my life I would look good with a WM to the point it's put me off them.
My Black female friends like Asian men though. We talk about these dynamics.
I've dated two black women during college days.
@@SL-lz9jrCurious, who told you you would like good with WM? Self-hating AFs?
Holy crap I saw an Asian guy dating a black girlfriend at a theme park this winter while waiting in line. The are both 8+ in their own rights and it's clear both of them had life put together, but boy do they look incredible. They don't show off with intimacy, but you can tell they are relaxed with each other's company. They are not laughing or making drama, but there is so much smiling. It just kept me thinking how they got to know each other.
black women and women of all races desire Asian Men now. But Black Women are more likely to be proactive in seeking an asian man
I live in the Central Valley Sacramento to Fresno and I can tell you that it is very normal to see Asian men with other races, especially latinas. Has definitely been an uptick these past couple years. Still rather rare to see with a white girl though. Women like men, just want variety.
Filipino but engaged to a French woman here. The looks we sometimes get, I tell ya.
Well done
According to my experience, they stare less when you got a baby. The focus is then not so much on you as a couple, but more on the baby and people connect positive feelings with babies
It’s pretty fire honestly because it’s a win for everyone. Also it changes the perception of the outside looking in. I’m thankful I was always able to date outside my ethnicity (Filipino) even since middle school, but it’s always makes me smile to see an Asian guy get with a girl that isn’t Asian. To me, it shows diversity, evolution, and expansion.
@@Billdean25 I’m curious to know your reasoning behind that thought
He butthurt that why lol a troll alway a sad existing
I still find most of my Asian friends not particularly open to the idea of dating non-Asians. My girlfriend is Latina/Black and we're going strong. I just hope to see more of our Asian brothers open to the idea of dating outside their race. But if you're just only into Asian girls, my advice would be just be more assertive, ask her out before the white guy gets to her lmao.
Asian women or asian mothers are very controlling. Unlike Asian father, they are cool with their daughters marrying out, but not asian mothers. So it seemed asian women have always been our enemy.
I'm a white woman but I always assumed Asian men would only want to date Asian women. I am not specifically looking for an Asian man but I am not against dating one either.
This! Asian guys are still too picky and closed to relations w nonAsian women. Absolutely agree in such scenarios, Asian guys need to be more aggressive securing Asian girls while she’s still in his circle
Discrimination against asian guys exist, don't try to dodge the topic.@@kimckawa
yup. i was only into white and asian chicks (epsically japanese ) until i went to latin america. the most fun and best women are latinas
I am a 40 yr old asian male married to a 1/2 white, 1/2 black female for +10 yrs. We have 2 kids that looks super white lol Growing up, I did date mostly non-asians, but I do agree that in most cases, I had to make the initial communication.
And that show muscle 1000...I mean Physical 100 on Netflix helped show Asians in a different light.
Love that site show
Everyone loves Sexyama
Asian men are sexy and women know now, white men try to bring Asian man down because THEY KNOW we can easily take their women 😂 assert dominance Asian kings ❤
@@rickyayy does not matter asian men are left behind because we are shorter.If you are tall most probably you can get decent girls but if you are not nothing gonna help except money especially in west europe
I feel like it kpop and kdrama effect not Netflix
You can tell these gentlemen are well read when they cite the success of hockey players in Malcolm Gladwell's book, Outliers, to give analogy of a positive feedback loop on how asian men are getting dating momentum in modern society.
My ex is white but there's alot more AM/WF these days. Glad to see this trend because Asian woman are not pairing with Asian men exclusively so i'm glad to see my Asian brothers looking being open and getting other women.
hopefully ❤
You should not be spreading misinformation about Asian women. The vast majority of all Asian women still stick primarily to dating and marrying their own men. It sounds like you, and those you are surrounding yourself with, are people who dont take pride in dating their own...which is totally fine, everybody can have their own preferences, but don't be out here lying about all other Asian women.
For the way you telling like that we will make that you will regret what you chose for all of you very soon
I’m am asian British man I’ve dated many white girls of various countries..never felt any discomfort or racial discrimination in this field …I just don’t know what all of you are on 😮
Korea and Japan had a big part in it. Try 98 percent tbh. Let's not kid ourselves.
It’s far from normalized. Maybe slightly better in some areas, but AM struggle the most in dating Western women 😢
Same as a 5"3 AM its still hard
Travel to non speaking English countries.
Automatically saying "I just don't date Asian guys" is in fact racist because it's based on negative stereotypes and bias and not personal attraction.
As a 30 year old in suburban new york, in high school we were definitely invisible. Now i find mostly latinas attracted to me. White women are still difficult for me to get dates with but still easier than Asian women. I think kpop really made a huge impact for me.
@@Billdean25 bruh you're 40 and still looking? That's not an Asian men problem, that's a you problem, sorry.
@@Billdean25 nah trust me it's a you problem. get off the internet.
@@Billdean25on your profile you shit on Asian men and in all the comments, you legit a white man shitting on Asian men on the internet, you are the definition of incel. Why are white men incels 😂get a fucking life
@@ponunidude don’t reply to him, he’s hiding behind a screen as a white man. He is not Asian
@@Billdean25 Stop fawning for white women. They are incorrigible because they are the group that benefited from feminism and its current twisted state.
The PROBLEM is my Asian bros. should stop putting Asian women on a PEDESTAL!
I Agree 100%. I have always questioned my asian buddies why they keeping dating these below-average asian girls, who don’t even respect them?
Especially my asian bros who are 6ft with the “k-pop” look. They always end up with these freaking “mid” girls. If I won the “Looks” Lottery, I would never have looked back.
I agree 100%. I have always questioned my Asian buddies why they keep dating these below-average asian girls, who don’t even respect them.
These pathetic Asian American losers would rather wait for the White men to be done with Asian women so they can have a chance. They're like beggars waiting for leftover foods and coins.
That is the incorrect way to view what is going on. No one is putting them on a pedestal (perhaps other than white men, and vice versa from Asian women). It's just that by default, Asian people with Asian people would be the most normal and sensical pairing just like it is for the vast majority of everyone else.
Instead Asian women are the only group that avoids and hates their direct opposite sex in observable numbers, which is precisely why when you see comments like "who cares, love who you want", those people don't understand the phenomenon and the pain and confusion it can cause.
While it can be true in many cases, "love who you love" can also be a completely superficial and ignorant statement as well.
My ex wife is white. My current gf is 11 years younger (I'm 45) and is also white... i was a bit of an outcast as a kid in my extended family, and Asian chicks didn't really dig me. I was too weird for them. But other chicks found me amusing enough. Anyway, don't pursue chicks. Pursue your ambitions and they'll find themselves attracted to you
Whatever is going on I'm loving it. Use to be pretty hard work here in the mid west, does seem alot easier now. Could be the way I approach after covid, get go right in with a smile. Got so many to date can't keep up. I will say work on communicating, your heath and body. Taking dance lessons really boosted me along with working out. Get a lot points if you like Latin ladies if you know salsa, batchata, and sensual batchata.
And then there’s latinas like me that can’t dance to save my life 😂😂
Back in the 90s and in middle school in a white community where there were maybe 5 Asians total, the most popular couple was a WF/AM pair. I had plenty of Hispanic and WF (girls at the time) into me and my prom date and gf (different girls) were WF. The pairing has always been normalized, it's just toxic when it comes to online dating... the same toxic people who can't find matches IRL.
@@Billdean25 says the currycel
It's always been socially acceptable for non-AF to date AM. The issue isn't whether they're open to it or not; the issue is that AM generally don't make sexual advances to the same proportion as men of other races. You have to understand that the burden of approach and sexual escalation lies squarely on men. A woman will not initiate no matter how attracted she is to a particular guy because it falls outside the purview of their traditional gender role.
Facts, despite women telling the world how hard they have it and the larger social agenda telling everyone gender roles do not exist by choice.
Can I ask, I'm open to listening
this is completey false 😅
Whenever I did try, I have always succeeded with white wm irl. But problem is that I did not even know they saw it as advances nor was it my intentions. I'm just too shy to do that. So when I gave up on girls and started to talk to girls as bros, I got positive feedback.
No change on my end at all
Your profile picture exposes the reason.
gee, I wonder why?
Asian guys are generally very picky when it comes to girls they see themselves dating. Also people tend to be attracted to people who find them attractive. It's true.
Not me lol, I swipe right on profiles with a photo of a scenery. Even a scenery rejected me. 😭
I'm Blasian with a filpina ❤ asian men been winning. Its just now my brother's got the respect they should of had from the beginning 💯 be happy everyone F that hating shiiiii !
period
If they're winning
They shouldn't be making videos like this every week
so basically you are still with a blasian woman.
How are they your brothers, stop being embarrassing I never saw asian guy call black men brothers, and how you blasian you look full black, anyway stop with nonsensical cheerleading of other races of men
They're winning until they play football against my black high school football team
While dating out is not as common for asian men the rates are much higher than in the past. As per usual people are coping and seething in the comments section 🤣 Alot of y'all can do insane mental gymnastics.
@@Billdean25 those are unrealistic statistics
Asian men are intimidated by non Asian women imo
It does sound like Asian men were the last to be picked.
Trust me. Us South Asians are still waiting to be "picked". Even the incels see us at the bottom of the barrel. 😂
But ur women loyal, so ur not single. Asian women backstabbed us, which hurt more. I rather be indian lol. I dont wanna go through backstabbing as it hurt more than being not popular.@@ThaThree
@@ThaThree It's interesting how white incels view all Asian men tbh. The things they complain about women doing to them they have no issue making fun of for Asians.
@@CoolNumber1 I think in the end, it just comes down to looking after yourself well. If you focus on being healthy, working out and good presentation, you'll find that things are okay regardless of ethnicity. It's true some ethnicities have it easier but hard work transcends. Wish you the best bro ♥️
We need to be a GigaChad or a Pirri type but thanks for K-pop. It helps out a little bit.
Married a Japanese guy 🇯🇵 as a Black Brit 🇬🇧 🇯🇲 everyone was like gross 🤮 Asian guy 😢even though he’s handsome (the attitude 12 years ago) now with K-pop/ anime / k wave etc those exact same girls are like does he have a brother? Oh, how the tides have turned!😂
Such a great combination. If you get babies, they will look absolutly beautiful ❤
Bro, the reason why tides are changing is because there's been Asian guys out there getting non Asian girls for the past decade, those are the dudes that need recognition! Honestly, when you've been dated interracially, you realise how weird society is so focussed on ethnicity when really it doesn't matter at all. Culture is important but you realise that you find many commonalities in places you wouldn't have though prior.
Don't see it
I mean
Look at you
Stop lying
You're a virgin by force
Incel
@@HoodQueen258 what.?
I can agree that it only matter if your korean, tall, or rich. I have been trying to make a different for ten years and finally gave up and went back to the homeland and for the first time I was treated like I exist in this world. For one fact we average asian guy shouldn't have to lower our standard and go for fat women. Either way it is suck being asian and short. Don't give up ya just skip all the bs and go back to the homeland. Don't waste 10 years like me.
Koreans are short for white standards
The OGs suffered the slurs and demeaning jokes back in the day so our brothers today could reap the benefits. This is just one step in the right direction. We still have so far left to go.
only in western society, those who are stuck in that snowglobe will remain narrow minded with those demeaning stereotypes ,but outside of the western society. . The whole world thinks differently. lol
yes we suffered, im happy the newer gen kids are getting their love thanks to kpop, social media, etc
I think of The Under the Infuence Gen z Asians because they fit the archetype you described. Open relationships are definitely more common in gay Asian relationships because I see it. But open relationships and marriages are more common in the gay community than the straight community
How sick of a society do you have to be to ask the question "is dating asian men finally normal"? Since when was it abnormal to date men of a certain race? Last time I checked, all races belong to one species and can interbreed.
I think it's a sick title. When was it ever abnormal to Asian bothers? I'm a mixed black brother. A lot of black sisters, latitno sisters & European sisters that I have dated have a lot of their friends dating Asian brothers. Just because some of the Asian sisters prefer only White males does not mean Asian brothers have stopped dating. Instead have thrived in dating non Asian women. I'm not sure what the big deal is?
There are many Asian guys with Latina here in California.
Im happy that Asian men are finally getting the recognition that they deserve for far too long the stereotypes always make them look bad but now they're getting the love and respect 😊
I'm just simply happy with my Japanese husband. I'm Asian myself and I'm just glad I have him in my life.
But before he met me, he dated a white woman though.
@@Billdean25 Your life must suck so bad for you to pretend to be an Asian guy and write so many comments.
@@Billdean25 that's cuz you're south asian
Hey y’all a dub for us Just went out with a Russian girl last Monday from DC area and I’m Vietnamese Chinese from Philly. Def the future is here! Met on a Christian dating because i hold those beliefs myself. I’ve been matching with only black, Caucasian and Latina women. Im also 5’5 she was 5’6 so yeah we got it
However ive only matched with Asian women 1/4 of the time :/ so 🤷♂️
Sad
5 ft 5?
Which site?
lmfao im viet chinese american and im 5.6 and want to date a white christian women. we must be lost brothers
@@ceeIoc upward
@@baddie21358sad? We’re happy 😅
I’ve seen too many guys date outside of their race and they tend to show off their women as a prize rather than a partner. Pride in relationships should come from mutual respect, love, and understanding, rather than focusing on superficial differences. It’s interesting how society tends to place significance on cultural or racial differences especially when it comes to dating and relationships when, in the end, we're just human beings with more similarities than differences.
Ok poet
@@Already.Forgotten that was a compliment, what’s wrong with poetry?
@@k..l-8818 Oh I’m so sorry, you know since this is through writing, it’s hard to tell if someone is insulting you or taking stuff out of context. I apologize bro. I’ll delete what I said🙏
@@Already.Forgotten no problem
That is true on your first part. I am Hispanic (Mexican) and am dating a Dutch woman (Netherlands) and I often show her off to my family and friends like she’s a trophy. She is still a person of course and I just adore her a lot.
Lots of social media helped but also the communities where the individual grew up. I grew up in the 90's and the perception of asians all knowing kung fu was very common. Also remember that in the days prior to 2000, most asian men were physically smaller in size due to diet. Once my friends and i started eating what the western world eat, our physique are the same. Im 5'8 and 180lbs bulk built. The girls look at large physique as masculine, superior, strong and naturally thats what women want. I attract white and black women the most in my 20's but now in my 30's i attract lots of asians but thats my area. Toronto and vancouver it was easily for me as an asian to attract asian but lets say florida or texas. It was a different story. Still possible but depends on how you dress, physique and talk.
5 ft 8 is tiny
@HoodQueen258 tell that to the 80% of the world's population. Can't help it when you're a woman and you're the masculine incredible hulk. You're a gorilla giant
@HoodQueen258 your mom seems to like it
@HoodQueen258 when your a hood giant, of course you'll say that. You're the size of king Kong 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
im black with R&B, rap & pop music... made it easy for blacks to date whites. hopefully with k-pop and blackpink with make it better for our wonderful asian brothers.
I'm in my mid-40s, and I'm not tall or super rich. But I've been dating non Asian women since my 20s. My type is tall, blonde, and curvy. 😆
Damn I'm 30 and I find it's mostly latinas I have the most luck with. Blondes are the hardest by far for me to get a date with.
@@jialian93 we blonds need big sizes
@@baddie21358you have 100 + comments on this channel. Why do you watch their videos if you don’t like Asian men? And before you assume,( I’m not Asian)
@@jialian93 I don't know where you're located or what you look like. But I'm South East Asian and I get mistaken for being Samoan or some even thought I'm Native American. I'm also very thick. I guess some blondes do attract to me because of my physicality.
@@Billdean25 Thanks for that info Capt. Obvious.
I was at a club in Australia. Most of the crowd were white with some Asians and darker peeps. This one Korean guy was getting so much attention 😂😂. Girls even asked for his number/insta etc. Times have changed lol
All of Australia is filled with Asians
No Australian cannot tell the difference
No white Australian can tell a Korean from a Japanese
No they aren't
I'm Australian
Koreans are short
Asian men are short and introverted in Australia
Tell you what, I'm 40 and have grown up in Belgium, was never exactly in the front row in the dateable pool in all my high school years, but started to get coveted in my late college years (but also, I was in an art uni, so people were more openminded than regular people).
Then came to live in Taiwan for 15 years, and the norm of interracial couples was white dude/ taiwanese girl. For over a decade.
Now, for the past year or 2, I finally see more and more white girl/Taiwanese guy couples, and that's heartwarming.
i pity those asian men who married white women now their family values will also get ruined
Agree, but its also due to work-migration. 20-30 years ago not many women moved to asia for working, it was almost only business men. So of course you could see mainly white guys with taiwanese women. Nowadays there are plenty of business women or students travelling around and going to Asia, so naturaly amwf couples increasing as well
"Semi white like Eastern European" lol Eastern European is white. There are a plethra of blonde hair blue eyed Polish people, which is in Eastern Europe bordering Germany, you don't get much whiter than that.
Goebbels has entered the chat
I am thinking people are forgetting the elephant in the room. I think Boba Milk Tea was the gateway drug for Asian popularity. While not quite as popular as coffee it is still immensely popular to the point that people will drive out to find a good Boba place which leads to seeing/learning more asian culture.
There are a lot of black women attracted to asian men, but we do not see many asian men with black women and we tend to worry about racism from your family.
TikTok really help too. It shows a variety of asia guys. Funny, athletic, charismatic, instead of just the stereotypical nerds from Hollywood. Also seeing AMWF relationships helps. People can get used to seeing Asian guys as relationship material through TikTok.
It is “normal”! Of course, as long as the guy is a certain height.
much of it is due koreans changing the asian guys image from nerdy kunfu master to charming gentlemen. the nerdy desexualized image has been in the making for decades in western media by the way.
K pop is gay
It makes them look gay
A gay k pop would not make it in mainstream western media
Koreans aren't doing anything
they do. period. if you do some research on how koreans influence gen z in pop culture in asia and growingly in the world you will know.@@SylvesrerSam
@@SylvesrerSam Kpop did a lot, BTS for example became way bigger than Nsync and Backstreet boys. They planted the seeds in young girls to make asian men very desirable
Never seen one in real life
Yes never seen south asian men with other women even pakistani women are marrying chinese men in droves, pakistani men getting cuked by chinese men for chinese loan lol
The spread of Asian culture has changed the game, similar to how African Americans produced culture (e.g., jazz, hip hop, comedy, sports, movies) that was cool and interesting, while being different from the dominant white culture. It's now cool to like Asian culture in a way it never was before. Like you said: kpop, anime, manga, kdramas, Asian hypebeast fashion, food trends, sushi, hotpot, kbbq, bubble tea, martial arts, sports (we have the best player in baseball). All that has made Asian men more accepted by the dominant culture that wants to take part in the cool and interesting things this pan-Asian culture has to offer.
Hip hop and sports is western culture
Asian men aren't good at sports
Black culture is cool
Asian isn't
@@HoodQueen258I dare you to tell that to Shohei Ohtani and Yao Ming
Thank the Koreans.
💯💯💯💯💯 👍😂👍
I can tell you with 100% certainty that Ukrainian girls in Lviv are interested in East Asian guys!
I joined the International Legion 🇺🇦🪖 and apparently Ukrainian women think Asian army guys are REALLY sexy!
I'm Filipino and been dating white women since 1999 and I'm a 1st gen immigrant. Been married to one for over 20 years. But I would get a lot of looks back in the early days.
Haha I believe it Kuya 👌🏼
Similar here. Ultimately married a fellow Fil-Am, but no issues dating others. At a majority white college, they sometimes approached me. Never felt uncomfortable.
@@epvendetta It helps to be "pogi" 😁
@@ThePremiumChicken 🤣 indeed
All you need to do is watch all Wong Kar-wai films to know we Asian men are BOMB!
It's becoming more socially acceptable. I think the real hard knock question is will it ever be considered "normal" in the west for AMAF pairings? The fact I have to ask that question still says a lot.
Stop being a cuck waiting for Asian women and date out. So many Asian American men are so pathetic. Asian men worldwide are getting disrespected because of Asian American cucks like you.
FACTS
I have a daughter that is latina and irish her boy friend is chinese and hes really cool she asked me was it alright i said as long as he treats you right no matter what race.
11:05 Andrew was making the face of every parent.lol.
as an mono asian guy. I did date some non asian women mostly Quebecois girls. they are cool and wild. I even been with a girl that is a poly, i myself not a poly but i give her a shot. I learned alot and I respect the spectrum but that doesnt make me a poly but she end up a very good friend of mine. my recent experience was with a real yellow fever rich girl. i dumped her because she only wants me on her bed activities and objectifying me and she doesnt want relationship. so yeah those are my dating experience as an asian dude living in canada and im having a dating fatigue lol
I'm asian, I usually dated black and latino.
As an Asian man, we need to push more kpop and kdrama (especially when men are more prominent) all Asian guy should support Male Korean superstars
KPop is slightly gay, and definitely not masculine
@kcuba2741-i agree. No disrespect to Koreans but the Korean wave definitely doesn’t make our image more masculine as the guys depicted always look feminine and doing heavy rounds of chemotherapy. Different strokes for different folks though glad that it’s working for them though
@morbidsoyI agree. Overall Asians are getting recognized. But it definitely feels koreans because of K-pop is getting more attention.
Even South East/East Asian Americans born in American needs attention. The hype with Koreans specifically that lives in Korea gets all the attention. I wouldn’t be surprise if Korean Americans are less noticeable versus Koreans from Korea.
@morbidsoy no woman likes Korean stuff
K pop is gay
@@kcuba1228 K pop is gay
White men and black men
White men with blond hair and blue eyes laugh at K pop
If you're Asian, thank a KOREAN for the change.
Except for Filipinos. They got game anywhere they go.
Filipinos have been there long before the Kpop and Kdrama stuff happened.
We had that rizz instinctually.
All that matters are tinder stats which have not changed.
I grew up as an Asian immigrant in the 20th century and everywhere I lived until I moved to California was less than 1% Asian so I never dated an Asian woman as there were so few of them where I lived.
If that's the case, then why aren't Hispanic women flying to Southeast Asia for Southeast Asian men?
Because they prefer being with their own or black and white men and sometimes Arab, but hardly Asians. They like to stay in North America.
Thank god I live in Hawaii, I don’t have to deal with this problem as much 😂 but from my experience, I’d rather date in Asia anyway than in the Western. I also gotta add that I love Latina women and they also love Filipinos. 😁
For me in California it was completely different, and that was more than 20 years ago when I was dating. Asian women wouldn’t give me the time of day but all other races of women didn’t care. (I was tall so anything else didn’t matter.)
How are Eastern European women “semi-white” ??
Well . . .
@zezekz4245 not really
Not sure if it’s a slang in Cali. But I do get it 😂. Where I’m from we say are you white? oh which ethnicity from Europe? White white = USA British from the colonize days
Thats funny ... as central European I always disliked beeing called white. I always say I'm slavic. I guess its white but feels weird and too wide. Like being called Asian doesn't have to sit with everyone cause are they Indian, Chinese, Thai, Kazach? ... gives you no idea. So to each their own 😊
@@ivanagajova4868 yeah it’s each to their own. Depending which country/city. Racial profile operates different. Where I’m from Asians are east or south East Asian. South Asians are profiled as browns.
In UK, south Asians are Asians. While east or south East Asians are considered as Orientals
I don't think this is the case. I think that due to your content, the algorithm just recommends you more examples of what you want to see, and now you think Asian men are normal. But I have not found that to be the case at all.
Well look at yourself. A lot of Asian American men blame it on their race instead of looking in the mirror and seeing what the issue is.
Bro Filipino men have been killing it with Eastern European women. Even in PH, i see a lot of couples.
the most common are marriages with russian, germans, americans
Filipinos is just a different breed man. Rizzing is just big part of our culture.
Second Gen Asian men are culturally different and probably much more relatable to non Asian women now too.
I'm white and I don't date Asian men because of their eyes and small pee pee
I'm first gen and I've never had problems getting any girls.
@@Billdean25 aren't you south asian
Finally!
Ricecel
Koreaboo
@@Blakberi73 gay
Remember Genghis khan
I like it for you guys (random french black dude), met some asian dudes in UK and France, globally they are cool . IT's cool women are finally stopping the BS
Thanks Brother. 🤘
You don't have to be a gen z korean guy to succeed in dating. Differences between different kinds of asians are going to be bit harder for non asians to point out.
as an asian man that is integrated in an european sociaty that also is into non asian women
i cant unsee the weirdness the invironment and ppl makes it look wrong
The best country for Asians is Brazil. The best choice in my whole life.
"...racially ambiguous Filipino guys have been doing good for 20 years..."
This is me, and I would agree with this very much.
It's called the wall. They hit it, then all of a sudden asian men [and their income] are no longer invisible 😅😅😅
What are you insinuating? That a lot of Asian men can only have a shot at pre-owned non Asian women, with tons of baggage, irreparable mental trauma & little to no value, left-overs?! .... ...
Can't believe it took so long for this to be normalised. Really want to see AMWF, AMXF
Lots of westernized white women are overweight feminists. Very attractive.
cushion for pushin.woooooooooooooooooooooo
Source?
Oh be quiet
@@LeahDyson-kq4bd you sound attractive
Sounds like youre talking about USA. Come to Europe. Here are also overweight people, but much much less. You know, we are cooking by ourselves and are eating real food
Filipinos have always been winning! Ya’ll other Asians need to catch up. Joe Battan the one of the top 3 hip hop pioneers father Filipino mother Black. Before Beyonce, Whitney Houston there was Marpessa Dawn mother Black and father Filipino.
All of these when dating Black women was illegal and life threatening. Filipinos didnt care they dated them married them and started families wit them. The list goes on. Filipinos have always been winning and not like east asians w micro pens.
I feel like it definitely is more and more common as time goes by.
That would have happened anyways
Most are 3rd generation
thanks to handsome korean kpop stars like J.K
but not to all asian guys.
You won't want to date with the women in their late 30s and 40s....they have baggage and they want to settle with a provider. To quote Marnie...."And...that's you!"
Im asian but 6’2 and 100kgs and ive done good with white girls because most people think im pacific islander like somoan etc
I’m a white gen X woman and have considered Asian men handsome and datable my entire life.
I’m a gen X Asian man who married my white HS girlfriend almost 20 years after initially dating her. Had to finish college grad school and have tons of fun in our 20s and 30s. Now we have children where strangers tell us they’re gorgeous and asks us if we consider getting them into modeling. Too bad for the kids but we raise them not to rely or live off their looks, pure work ethic and being intellectually prepared is our focus.
Asian man cooking
Love this channel. V positive
Y'all mention Eastern European women like Asian guys but where do you even find them in America? I'm in NY and I get no matches with eastern Europeans here really.
They do though
There’s a lot of Russian models in east asia
Dating sites is not good for asian men, as most women on dating sites are there for sex, and we asian hv stereotype of having small dik.
NO MONEY NO HONEY...
NO STATUS SOCIAL YOU COULD LOOK DOWN ON BY THE GIRL
Difference between thicc and heavy. Its all in the ankles, neck, and waist.
Everybody got different bodytupes, but if you are generous in the above 3? You gotta start counting calories.
And this goes for everybody.
dating tip here from a 5.6ft asian viet american. i got nose surgery and my looks went from a 6 to 8. i got JACKED. did a session a month for 2 years on my large pores and acne . i learned chinese spanish and vietnamese. i ate hard foods for 5 years to get that JAW line. i made sure to eat sleep and think healthy. drink only once a week and get your vegetables fruit and water (you heal from inside not outside). and never act like you want to sleep with her the first date (ive always acted like i wasnt interested in XXX the first date but i was). touch her arms and shoulders once in a while. ask her questions. TINDER is a GOLD mine. bumble and hinge is more for long term relationship
Woohoo! I’m too old now.
Checked Hinge.
Still 0 Likes.
😢 foreveralone
Same lol. Just put 6' for height in your profile lol
I get that it's not as normal and I may be an outlier but I've actually never dated an Asian girl not necessarily by choice but the environment I was in. Been all white girls. Married to a Caucasian women (blonde hair blue eyes) and my kids are wasian.
You don't look hot
Also you sound creepy
king shit
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@@baddie21358 u got any other job left to do or ur only job is to spread hate?
@@baddie21358 everyone knows the creepiest men are Pakistani. That's why y'all are known for graping women worldwide