Why Gen Z Men Reject Feminism
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Ask Google "why is my wife yelling at me" and it will tell you to be considerate towards her feelings.
"Potential triggers for a wife's yelling include feeling unheard, financial stress, mental health struggles, disrespect, etc. It's important to understand the root cause."
Ask Google "why is my husband yelling at me" and it will give you the domestic abuse hotline.
This is what social engineering looks like.
So fucked up..
UA-cam is the only google product I use. You really think a company who programmed their AI to not return images of white families isn't gonna hate men?
I just tested this and for me it was the opposite
"why is my wife yelling at me" resulted in Emergency numbers and helplines in Belgium
"why is my husband yelling at me" resulted in My Husband Yells At Me: 10 Common Reasons
I have seen this in the CEO Diary Podcast with Dr. K. Society is declining so fast because of the internet, it's crazy
The same goes for most AIs like ChatGPT and Bing. Not only do they say things like "if your wife says 2+2 is 5, then she must be right", but they also don't generate images of male characters being remotely violent with female characters. Oh, but they will happily show strong female characters beating up male characters.
I wonder if the Kotaku women will see this video and claim Asmongold is a alt-right misogynist because he cares about men's issues.
100% they will, and so will r/gamingcirclejerk
They 100% will. They are animals backed into a corner and they are just preaching to their choir now. Can't wait for Kotaku to fold and we can all tell Alyssa Mercunte to go learn to code.
And then block him again.
Kotaku only writes guides now
They don't want equal rights, they want superiority
"How many women directed genocide throughout history and how many men?"
Historically, queens in Europe were 40% more likely to start wars than kings.
And Queen Mary I literally committed a genocide against protestants. But even though there was someone who literally had the nickname "Bloody Mary", "there would be no wars if women ran the world".
If you notice the more chaotic politics and world events have become has been so since more females have entered the realm. I think there was a reason throughout history why females were not allowed to vote or hold important positions. Far too emotional and irrational
Don’t confuse them with facts
That’s true relatively speaking but since there were 95% male leaders more male caused them.. its a shit statistic that doesnt say much. Besides that, i do agree with you.
Asmon rich non working male is very disconnected from this subject and has many poor takes on this subject.
Elizabeth Bathory inspired the entire myth of the vampire with her atrocities.
"They are not trying to win an argument, they are trying to shut down an argument". Perfectly said Asmon.
exactly RIGHT.
Yeah
Asmon's opinions have gotten way more fair than they used to be. It's refreshing. Props to him for doing the homework.
Feminism’s problem is treating 99% of the average man as if they are the top 1% of men that are in office and actually have power. I’m not oppressing anybody, on average women probably make more $ than I do. But yet I’m treated like I’m a senator trying to pass laws against women, or I’m somehow more well off because I potentially have an ancestor 200 years ago who had slaves.
Everyone has an ancestor who owned slaves. Literally everyone.
@@jacobwiren8142 Only if you mean slavery in the broadest sense. Most people do not have an ancestor who engaged in a system of racially-dictated chattel slavery. Being a temporary indentured servant, with full rights as a citizen, is not the same as being property.
@@jacobwiren8142no they don't, slaves were expensive, if you are working class and come from a long line of working class people your family probably never owned slaves.
@@BH-te5fsactually the only places that didn’t happen were racially homogenous
@@sludge164 My guy, go far enough back in your family tree and someone has owned slaves. Slaves have been around for thousands of years, if you're going to argue that your ancestors didn't own, work, or take slaves, you're woefully naive.
Modern ideology
Fighting for equality ❌
Only my group matters 👍
There is nothing modern about this. This is literally the whole human history.
Whenever it was something else, it is just that the various group interests aligned.
@@cocosusprime the language is modern, womeneze. Before it were just strong men will come "we gonna butcher you and take your resources"
Today it's masked with "equality"
@@TheScience69, we always do.
Equal Rights, Equal Fights
Rightwingism is the norm of all things. But as Agent Smith said during the first Matrix Movie
*_" Did you know that the first Matrix was designed to be a perfect human world? Where none suffered, where everyone would be happy. It was a disaster. No one would accept the program. Entire crops were lost. Some believed we lacked the programming language to describe your perfect world. But I believe that, as a species, human beings define their reality through suffering and misery. The perfect world was a dream that your primitive cerebrum kept trying to wake up from. "_*
To me all those Leftie & Progressive ideologies are an attempt to twist the true nature of all things and create "fronts" and problems that just aren't real and truly just an opinion.
And this all just becomes dangerous when those *BORED PEOPLE WHO REFUSE TO REALIZE HOW GOOD THEY HAVE IT,* vehemently defend their crazy ideologies.
They refuse to accept that the perfect rightwingism world effortlessly ensures happyness.
There is not enough misery within it for them to feel like their lifes have an important mission cause there are no problems to solve.
As a male, I've seen sexism several times but mostly against male.
As a teen trying to get a job in fast food restaurant employees telling me the boss only hire girls cause they clean better than boys. (mostly in subways)
As a college student trying to be a waiter cause it paidwell. They hired attractive girls instead even tho I was busboy there (happened in 2 restaurants)
As an adult, my job in construction you need 4-5 years experience to apply to big companies but woman gets instantly hired as soon as they get the diploma
So yeah I grew sceptic about the purpose of feminism nowadays.
Historically theyd hire one (pretty)woman everywhere just so the boss had a good looking woman around on his payroll. Now you get tax cuts for hiring certain % of women that are so large that if you dont your business literally cant stay competitive(by design)...
Its a 'soft' mandate
Had it happen with a little gaming store in a city I lived when I was younger. If you don't want to hire me, just don't hire me. Don't tell me you only hire women because they are more trustworthy and responsible.
I think he had other reasons he only hired women but that's besides the point...
@@MultiIhatethis Abusing power dynamics is a common one. That can be in trying to get sexual favors in return for favoritism at work, or in the sense that women tend to be less argumentative to "authorities" so you can pressure them to do or accept things more easily(in context to actual work, or pay)
But alot of women are happy to abuse or take advantage of any or all of these also these days as its all become normal and normalized.
As a teen i worked at a coldstone where the boss only hired girls. The only men were me and my brother and the GM was a sexist who literally would tell the boss all the men are too slow to work there. I had to fight for my job at 16 and play work politics to get the other woman to speak up for me and my best friend who also is a male from being fired because she didn't like men. Funny thing is when a 300lb woman came into the store and shit all over the bathroom (walls around the toilet it was everywhere it was like she exploded) The Toxic Fem GM asked me to clean it because "I'm a man" I told her to do it because she's the GM lol. She later called the store owner and HE cleaned it up. I think she loves woman so much he should have made her clean it. The audacity to tell me to clean it because I was a man was insane to me. Some people just have no business with even an ounce of power.
So true, I remember at a Uni careers fair where a company was like "this is an opportunity for women only" 👀
As a man who lives and grew up in Finland its always ridiculous to me when I hear a Finnish woman complain how women are disadvantaged here,etc,etc. the things you hear in the U.S. and every single time I bring up how she wasnt forced to sacrife a year of her life before college for mandatory military service with the threat of going to prison they dodge the subject or say thats not relevant. Now I didn't mind going to the army for a year and didnt think much about it because it was something I knew was coming since I was kid. It gave me more time to mature but when I think about it now its kind of bs. When I started college every girl I knew from high school was already on their second year, starting internships,etc. 1 year ahead of me and I was 1 year older with 1 year less experience pretty much. In the end I got a bunch or stupid, fun and awful memories from my 1 year in the army but if I have ever seen inequality between genders I would say this is one of those things.
Funny, a study just came out showing that something like 6/7 Finnish women agree with mainstream social justice talking points vs 1/7 men. It also showed that the more you agreed the more miserable you were on average. Interesting read
Lets not forget that if the worst comes to pass everyone will expect the women and children to flee west and all men to grab a rifle and march east.
They haven't changed that yet? I thought most of us in the Nordic were pretty similar there? in Norway in 2010 they made it so gender didn't matter, everyone has to show up now for that first meeting at least.
it's never going to be "good enough" for some people, they'll just keep moving the goal posts.
Similar in the US. Politicians talked about bringing back conscripted service during the big Middle East conflicts. Men in the US would have Ben forced to serve. Women wouldn't be. Who's pushing for equality again?
"If you want a word about gender equality, it shouldn't be gendered"
I HAVE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR OVER A DECADE NOW
Never heard of this my entire life but it just hit me like a bunch of bricks. Yeah, why is it gendered? Let's make sure, whatever it is, both side gets the same.
But that's socialism
It should have been called, 'equalism'. It refers to the point of equality, and authentic fairness, without including the presupposition of a gendered favoritism bias.
Same. First I heard of feminism and what it apparently stands for I thought ‘what a unnecessarily one-sided term’. No matter how you slice it it implies that either men or masculinity is a bad thing.
But what if they don't actually want it?
"No one wants to be born with Original Sin, they wrote a while book about it." Is lowkey one of the best jokes Asmon has ever made lol
XD that was kinda funny and clever
i dont get it
@@Chocolatnave123 the bible
The main character said we were all born with original sin and should treat each other nicely. People got so pissed, they nailed him to a cross.
@@erikrungemadsen2081 Jesus didn't really talk about original sin very much. The closest he got was when he said "He who has not sinned cast the first stone". But original sin was a doctrine of the theologian St Augustine of Hippo.
A man dedicated his savings for a mens shelter since there are no mens shelters. The feminists sued him into oblivion.... he passed away just wanting to help men as he was once homless from divorce.
you cant drop info like this without telling the source man
@@user-ei3ux3pd7zI don't recall feminists suing him just denying gov funding. The guy's name was Earl Silverman, you can look him up with mens shelter for more details. Unfortunately dude self-deleted shortly after the shelter closed from lack of funds.
@@arthurblack2663 Thanks for info. 👍
@@arthurblack2663 Goverment is in control of ''ze feminists'' so thats effectively the same thing..
Its also more likely to be an assassination, not a suicide.
@@arthurblack2663 this is a two fold failure, though. If it's true women were resistant too it, if men had donated and had his back he would have been okay. I just had a guy call into my work panicking that his gf was going to unalive him so I know how serious this stuff is. Tried to get him some help. But men have to help with this stuff and should have rallied around him. If he didn't have funds that's why
A couple of years ago I was on R*ddit and responding to some far left people who were going on about how "gen z will save us", I told them that gen z will end up being the most conservative generation in a long time, they laughed and insulted me. I bet today they are screeching to the skies.
Don't forget: you are told _by authoritarian demagogues from the Left_ that Gen Z men are becoming more conservative. Context always matters.
people often rebel and do the opposite of their parents. millenials being hyper liberal are pushing their kids towards conservatism.
Well that's great but is it enough to fix the fact of our declining populations?
I love how other people tell us how we should behave. That's the classic "You're lazy" or "You don't work hard enough" we've been hearing from older generations but now it's "You will save us" because they were too lazy to help themselves. It's almost as if the older generation was projecting what they wanted to see in the younger gen.
@@Dante02d12 this is something that nobody else talks about but im gonna bring it up here because i feel like people ignore this thought process. so my theory is: Every single generation after gen Z will be more conservative than the last, and the left is trying to take over the culture to counteract this. Think about it, most modern people of the left want to live child free lives, as seen by the rapidly declining birth rates and the new sense of self prioritization taking over old gen Z and young millennials, you wanna know who are having children? People with traditional conservative family values, people who go to church, etc. A majority of the time, children eventually take on the values they were raised with, including myself. The left knows this, so they attempt to take over social media and education, turning it into an echo chamber of leftist ideology, therefor swaying people away from right wing values.
The hardest feminist will tell men to share their feelings but the moment we talk about double standards or anything that even slightly puts women in a negative light, they minimize what you say
No.
@@admaanhason7410 Yes, I've seen it happen in real time and to myself. If you don't and the people around you don't do it that's great. It doesn't mean a lot of people do.
Buy your "male tears" coffee cup.
They want you to share approved feelings.
Girlfriend: ''Why are you always so stoic? You need to share your feelings with me!''
Boyfriend: *Cries over the fact that his mother, dog, and brother all died recently*
Girlfriend ''Ew'' *breaks up with him*
Schrödinger feminism : every women is the eternal victim of men AND strong independant woman who can do everything better then men. Now when something happen (when the box is open) they choose the more rewarding status.
What's disheartening is most women happily take advantage of this too. Which means most women don't actually have principles they find immutable, they simply act based on what is best for them in the moment.
Us gamers call it the "Option select"
@@waiwai5233… I mean you’re right, but you don’t have to be an incel about it…
yes, thats women in a nutshell, they are not actually good.@@Bonesawisready926
you must watch "Kevin Samuels" the stuff these girls on his show are saying is unbeliveable, you cant even make this sh.. up^^
"Genocide was committed by all men"
Look up Ghandi's daughter.
Bloody Mary's another good one
Who was that lady Mao was with? Didnt she cause some trouble?
The more I learn about Ghandi, the less I understand why people idolize him.
@@miragebarrage9748he fits the narrative of oppressed vs oppressor.
Princess Mabel from Holland is a good example
But why do these men have no father figures? Could it be women are incentivized to divorce and can divorce because she is unhappy and still get custody no matter what?
Yep, the all the divorce laws must be changed to be fair for men.Divorce are actually oppresive to men and geared to giving women custody when most of the are not responsible enought to be single mothers or have custody as our society has shown for decades now.
So I work an office job for a large company and on international woman's day the head of HR (who is a woman) sent a company wide email in response. I'm all about equality, but to paraphrase what she said it was along the lines of, 'Men need to understand the advantages and luxuries they enjoy in the workplace, especially when it comes to career progression' . I worked so hard to get where I am now, and instead of empowering and uplifting woman, it undermined the effort of and diminished every male that has worked to get where they are. Also this is in a company where majority of upper management is female, and she was praised and applauded for doing this. HOW is this okay?? This is the point where modern societal feminism is at (in many cases) so it's no WONDER we're seeing younger guys turn on and become aggressive towards what was originally about genuine equality.
And after reading that email is when some dude goes to rumble and continues his Tate or Fresh and Fit podcast on his phone about how to become more masculine and get an overseas traditional woman to become his wife and live a happy life.
100%
The CEO of the company I work for is a woman. Half or more of the administrative positions are held by women.
Yet during company meetings and presentations, they bring up inequality towards women in the workplace etc.
A female CEO and a heavily-female administration, telling a huge group of men who make significantly less money about how much work "we still have to do towards equality". The dissonance is insane.
And yes of course the women in the company are celebrated every year on international woman's day. Celebrated purely for the genitals they were born with.
And of course it includes people who identify as women.
In other words, companies celebrate people who were born female, or those who renounced their masculinity, with absolutely no tie to their performance or hard work.
Truly it is a mystery why so many men are bitter about it.
Complain about it, make your voice heard, that’s what women did that’s why they are the bosses. If you don’t think it’s fair then push back. Don’t expect them to give up their new found power though. Men didn’t want to give it up, why would women want to? You have to at least ask, and if that doesn’t work then demand it
50 years to women lose the right to vote... i bet on it.
@@fifab82the way men complain is different from women tho .. it is aggressive and violent and causes even more destruction for the society
its because as a man, you are constantly told how horrible you are and how much power you have over everything apparently, im still yet to see any of the benefits though
Then embrace it. Miserable people will always hate you for no reason, be strong in your beliefs and determined. Don't give them an inch
For some men and boys when they are told that they are bad and evil all of their lives someday they might finally believe it. Most of the time they only take themselves out but not all the time
@@fullmetalalkami6466 I just make jokes about it. Like if I come up with a good idea at work to fix something and get compliments I just look at the outspoken feminist I work with and say something like "male privilege is amazing, you should try this". The uptight shrews hate jokes because laughter keeps them alone in their misery, make them suffer alone while in your presence.
@@simshengvue5799 lol….. thats not a social problem that’s having bad parenting
@@white_isnt_a_race2338 Which benefits? Based on your username I'm 99% sure this is bait.
For a woman, having an OnlyFools is OK, do what you want with your body and reputation, but do NOT come to me after 10 years whining about why I don't want you.
Have some accountability.
Growing up and watching the societal shift over the last 2 decades or so made it almost impossible for any sane man to be / stay a feminist. Women were behind and struggling in some ways, so we changed literally everything to help and cater to women. That's fine! I'm okay with that, I want everyone to have equal opportunity. Now, men are behind and struggling, and what do women say? "Man up", "that's men's problem", "women are just better". Women have really showed their true colours, and yes I'm confident in that generalisation.
Look up the statistics for college attendance and graduates by gender, look up deaths of despair, look up homelessness, look up sentence inequality, job mortality, the list goes on. Men are hanging on by a thread and yet feminism keeps grinding. Women look at the top 0.0001% of men, these rich CEO types, and cry about oppression, not realising that the majority of men are way below them already.
"Amen sis" "preach" "yas queen"
Generalization isn't helping, it cheapens your otherwise solid statement.
@@ba3725 When I see a single reason to believe it's not all women, I'll say it.
@@Koroar I don't think you've talked to a large enough variety of women recently. There's a bunch of very kind-hearted women I know, and it looks to me that you've only been exposed, either through social media or through real life, to the kind that you mentioned in ur comment. I believe a lot of what you're saying though, because I've met a lot of nasty women who hope for all men to suffer and all that (and those appear to be the ones that surround you online/irl) but u just gotta trust me when I say not all women are like that.
Sorry if my answer seems like it sucks, but I feel like for this type of question, rather than answering with statistics that some people may prefer (like "according to a survey by Rice University, only 12.3% of women in the U.S. believe in true gender equality"), it's better to use empirical evidence, so yeah.
@@user-wr2lq8nm6d Women can feign humility and morality all they want. Theyre kind hearted so long as they have something to gain from it. Women dont go agaisnt the norm, and at the end of the day theyre not gonna be there for you. Im sure every guy that went through a painful soul crushing divorce once though that they had "the one".
Too many people value being "right" over solving a problem.
Not everything is a problem ...just live and accept people being not too perfect....
What if the solution is sexist, racist, phobic and all slurs they throw at you. When they won't acknowledge the problem how can we talk about the solution.
I hard disagree. I think it's about emotions and control and has nothing at all to do with being right. The right answers should be obvious and simple but it gets muddled for an agenda.
@@DrHuxley- There is no obvious answer for this. It's too complex. I honestly do not think there is an answer. I was saying years ago that Japan was just ahead of the curve. Well. The US has caught up to where Japan was and Japan is further still. All those years ago Japan didn't have social media or Tinder. What they had was an economic system after the crash that incentivized being single and an absolutely exploitative toxic work culture. Some other social stuff in their too, and they didn't have this version of feminism. But those were the two big problems. Back then it was mostly men checking out after looking at it. Now it's both men and women. Well. The US is catching up fast to where Japan was. Add in social media and other internet apps. Here we are. To fix this we have to rearrange the economy, which isn't going to happen. Fix work culture, which isn't going to happen. Fix some social stuff, which isn't going to happen. And convince the entire country to drop certain parts of social media. Which isn't going to happen. We're going to have to do the same thing Japan is reluctantly doing. Redefine normal. It isn't going away. It's a new feature of society we just have to learn to deal with.
Oh And Asmon is wrong. It's possible to work very hard, do everything right, and still end up broke. He got very very lucky. He knows that, he says that, but I don't think he truly understands the full ramifications. I know he still has RL friends outside of this that aren't doing the greatest. He's talked about it. But it's very hard to put himself in that mindset completely.
@@halycon404didn't read all that, but Japan is a miserable place to be alone.
Everywhere is now.
I've always been a more "effiminate" guy ever since I was young and I always found it interesting that most of the toxic masculinity I've experienced actually came from woman. Primarily ex girlfriends lol
The toxic anger thing is something I've only seen women do in the way it gets described.
Same!
That's because women will act not like men, but as what they perceive men to be, often without having actually studied men's behaviours. You see this a lot in modern Hollywood writing too. Women display tons of ''toxic masculinity'' according to the definitions of its own writers, but they don't realize it because they're writing women.
@@jamescheddar4896 Seriously, once guys get over the age of 16-17 they don't bully anymore, its very rare.
Largely, same
It’s pretty funny watching Asmon try to say that women aren’t a causal factor in this instance given that every relationship he has with women in his life starts with him giving them money and ends the moment he stops doing so.
😂😂
Honestlly, he's trying too hard to justify it.
In 100 years they will describe our society as the age of madness.
You assume the insanity won't get worse and become predominant.
Madamness
@@philosophos4893 If it isn't stopped today then yes,it'll go worse and worse,potential dystopian society!
Go back 100 years and tell me it wasn't more mad. I think we're exiting the long age of madness. It's an uncomfortable transition, and we seem prone to relapse.
@@SamBourgeois-mr4hq Not true
One of the big problems for the "good" feminists that theoretically don't hate men, is that they rarely if ever acknowledge, let alone criticize, the feminists that hate men in their name.
That makes it very hard to defend the ideology as one that is really about equality for men and women. It comes across more often as "men and women should be equal, but also women should be more equal than men."
Ideologically, they can't criticize it. Diversity of tactics is a political ideology that is specific to the left. It's why they don't call out riots or physical attacks against ppl who don't agree with them.
@@TitusAndromadonIt isn't specific to the left. Lol
This is the recourse of ALL ideologues.
No True Scotsman fallacy basically
Tbh it’s more of a situation where two things are happening:
- echo chamber effect that is the internet, where you tend to surround yourself with confirmation bias
Along with:
- the Lefts propensity for cancelling itself having different viewpoints
The patriarchy concept is widely understood by normal people to be problematic for everyone in that type of structure. Unrealistic expectations on all gender roles.
But twitter is full of psycho people who surround themselves with people who support a view that doesn’t reflect the majority of people and blows it up, making it seem like it’s mainstream … but it’s not.
Don't ask "good feminists" to call out "bad feminists".
You tell "bad feminists" that they're not feminists.
It's VERY effective. They don't have a counter for it.
giant leap in woman being liberal, slightly more conservative men, half the videos I see on this data just analyze the men becoming more conservative as if that's the odd thing.
Women going to the left isn't that interesting. The left promises them more free rides so they abide.
because this people are progressive... that is why, they think they are right at all cost and if you are becoming conservative that is bad... because man are the only ones that can stop or change stuff.
If only there was historical knowledge of women destroying society
Yes. Because alot of people that do the analysis and that work in media, have the deeply flawed idea that "Progress" is always a leftward march over time. This means that they don't even think twice about how insane the left has gotten over the last 2 decades, and instead are terrified and flabbergasted by even the slightest push in the other direction.
A visualization of how different philosophical views see things:
1) Progressive worldview can be seen as driving on a collapsing bridge and staying ahead of the crumbling behind you, meaning any slowdown or reversal in thier mind would be catastrophy.
2) Extremely conservative people view it as a road where on the left side of the road is a cliff-face and on the right is further inland, thus safer from falling off a cliff and therefor consider 0 drawbacks to going further right (and thier strongest argument is that the values they hold got humanity through actuall millenia of evolution and the rise and fall of civilizations).
3) The centrist position see a road along the top of a mountain ridge, where if you steer too far to either side you will obviously fall off the edge and crash and burn.
Personally I am in the center. If something is tried and obviously isn't working, the solution usually isn't to TRIPPLE DOWN on that path, but to turn back onto the road. And if you over-correct to the other side, you neee to turn back again before going off that edge instead. It's a balancing act.
it's funny how we use that word "liberal" yet those liberals want the most rules and structure the world to their ideals in a forceful way and anybody who disagrees is a bigot.
as a mother of 3 young boys, i have genuine fears about them growing up in a culture that demonizes masculinity. i was raised in a conservative christian home where men were revered as the strong leaders, head of house figures. women were nurturers and supporters. and i don't personally think there is anything wrong with these roles, it has been the structure and backbone of the family system for thousands and thousands of years. and i might get a lot of hate from other women when i say this but we can see examples in society where when women are given leadership control, the systems fail. one example, the education system is now almost completely dominated by women, and our education in this country has gone to shit. and i believe it is because women are more easily manipulated. i said what i said. i think men need to be supported now more than ever, and i try my hardest to raise my boys with the mindset of being a strong leader and protector, but this world is definitely doing its best to make it as hard as possible for men to succeed in that role.
You're one of the reasons why this nation could even exist. Thank you for embodying the role of a steadfast mother, unwavering in your duty to this world, and for preserving the timeless identity of women cherished by our ancestors since the dawn of humanity.
I love hearing comments like this from women. It gives me hope. God bless 🙏
Finland has more female than male teachers and their school system is pretty good tho, the problem with American schools is censorship and lack of funding.
They’ll either grow up as monks or be destroyed by modern women.
There is no hope for modern family units.
@@StrawberryCocoaPowderThe Finnish school system has gone severely downhill since leadership over its design and planning was transferred to the Left. Discipline has plummeted, and finland has dropped quite low. On some facets of education, Finland is now below the OECD average. We are now trying to figure out what went wrong, and it's mostly that all discipline disappeared.
the only "self help" advice ive seen that blames others are ones coming from women "you're 3000lbs? you're a 10/10 that man is just dusty"
at least from what ive seen on the men's side, they call you a loser and if you want chicks, you increase your value with fitness and finances and game. The insulting of women is just that, insulting, but at least from what ive seen, the ownness is always back on the men, and not to make demands of the chicks.
The whole "men do it, too" is so tiring. The point that it's overwhelmingly one-sided is just disheartening. Being milquetoast is lame as hell.
Surprise surprise, Asmon can't stop being a simp and always stands for in the same category as Hassan Poki and Amurat.
Honestly, redpill and men like Andrew Tate and gigachad based cultures weren't even a thing until peak feminism, they're born out of years feminism and misandry. People seems to forget that every action will have a reaction.
To illustrate the how little people care about men, or perhaps how much toxic feminism has spread, you almost can't talk about men's issues without paying lip service to women's issues or downplaying male issues.
Generally speaking, the issues women have are different than men, so it’s also just dumb to say, “men do it too”.
Another funny thing about the "but (insert group) does it, too." response.
This is a smaller percentage of that group that is like this. If you have such a problem with this type of behavior, why are you trying to copy it?
All of the complaints they have with "toxic masculinity," but when they adopt it, it makes them empowered.
The word you're looking for is "Egalitarian"
If you ask a feminist about egalitarianism, they will tell you that's an MRA talking point.
No.
@@admaanhason7410 care to explain that?
@@admaanhason7410explain?
@@SirBladewind What is there to explain? I'm an egalitarian feminist.
@@johndoe...... ...?
Playing a victim gets addictive after a while
Most red pill content doesn't say their problem is women per se. They say work on yourself, fix yourself. Go earn, go to the gym, but avoid women because they won't help you get better, especially if you are already broken. You will not be valued by a woman or society except in your capacity to earn. Going into it with eyes open and knowing that doesn't hurt a guy. It lets them engage without being surprised by the way the world will treat them. It also tells them it is on them to fix it and themselves.
A lot does demonize women and generalize. They have great advice but can be much as as$ pulls as toxic feminist. Same coin different sides.
Be the kind of man Uncle Iroh would want you to be.
Underrated comment right here
The goat!!!😊
FAAAAAAACTS
basado
Real one
An entire generation of boys were treated by the school system like defective girls, and many have never experienced a day of male leadership in their lives. The fact that things in society are still working as well as they are is a miracle.
For real
I was just getting outta school as shit was changing, Im never letting a kid in public school if I have one
Give it another 10 years. I would start stocking up and moving far far away from cities.
More like three generations.
@@OniGanon i guess I can attest to 2 at least myself
"They're not trying to win an argument, they're trying to shut down an argument."
TRUE
Having a masculine father figure and a feminine mother growing up is one of the best things for someone to have and learn from to respect both sides equally.
Why do they only only need "father father" but need "mother" with no "figure" attached?
@@user-og6hl6lv7p because we're talking about men
@@user-og6hl6lv7p Even my mother knows why that is and she is a feminist LOL. Boys need father figures to teach them, she was always glad when i got a male teacher in primary school (there were a lot of female teachers). Male teachers really click with boys, just as female teachers click more with girls. Same goes with parenting lol.
Whos the guy in the red shirt? I don't recognize him.
That’s asmondgold
He has a new Shirt 😮😮 Holy moly. Big respect to asmon for a new Shirt 😂❤❤
Rare shirt LULW
That's a dark side of asmond - the clean one.
I think it's an out of season April fools jokes
I’ve never understood how people that man hate never sit and question if men are so bad why don’t they consider how a mother raises a son?
Because those people can’t ever hold women accountable for anything
because blaming a woman for something would break their brain
For them the mother will either be a poor single mother so its actually the not present dads fault for everything wrong the mother does. If the parents are together then it's actually still the dads fault and he's the abuser who made everything bad.
Obviously these kind of women often never had a father themselves so they just don't understand, they hate because it's something they never had.
And then you just have all the rich/middle class girls from a perfect nuclear family who are spoilt and lived without struggle who NEED to be a victim somehow to capitalise on the attention. Never mind they're the most privileged in society.
They forget that.
They also want to blame men for "beauty standards", but leave out the whole fact that its not fathers teaching their daughters they need to care about cosmetics or fashion, its their mothers, sisters, aunts, and female peers. Dudes don't really care about those things, we can appreciate them some, but anyone who wants more than a fling knows that those things wash down the drain and aren't important in the least. Its not men who force these things its women.
Because humans are complex are take information from every possible avenue not just his mother? Also boys tend to emulate men in their live rather then their mother because they often wanna be men you know.
Each gender has their own struggles. The problem with extremist feminists is that they only see the advantages that men have.
What advantage does society give men?
@@spagooter1807Men are far more likely to be a victim of a violent crime - it’s stupid to go out late at night on your own. We are not invincible to criminals, in most cases we are the main target.
The problem is that most of the "advantages" they cite don't even apply to most men. The entire core of modern feminism is pretending like every man walking is Jeff Bezos.
Well, right now there's outright, blatant, systemic racism against men.
@@fahimtajwaar2521no... men trend to be very careless about that thats why, men arent the N1 target not even close
Gen Z are seeing what happened to their Millennial fathers and opting out. They don’t want to go through the same bullshit.
That pendulum everyone talked about is swinging back.
What pendulum? An online survey answered by about 200 people? That pendulum?
@@davidlauderdale7147what are you trying to achieve
50 years for women to lose the right to vote.
@@davidlauderdale7147 well you dont live in reality if you dont see this in the real world... hell even on the internet that is true... the pendulum is called "men's wants" if men wants feminism to be gone it will... if women want feminism to be gone it will never be gone... unless they did the same as before... manipulate men into voting feminism in but on the oposite... women can only do stuff if majority of man allowed... is just a fact.
@davidlauderdale7147 leave the woke signs and stickers up so you can be thanked
Women decided to collectively replace the idea of a husband with the Government. The government, understandably, is okay with this so long as women vote for more government. So, of course men would shift towards the "Less Government" party. The government is the Chad a man's fiance cheated on him with. What does it make you when you pay your wife's boyfriend to call you names and villainize you?
The government's enforcement arm is a bunch of men with guns, ironic isn't it?
Yep, this is what I've been saying.
No, government is the abusive lying spouse.
So it's the government's fault
the guy said that only men commit genocide, he just forgot that all these men who committed genocide had wives who accepted and encouraged them
The problem with the "only men commit genocide" statement is that the data comes from a human history where the vast majority of rulers or people in positions of power where male, so it's bluntly no surprise that the vast majority of genocides were headed by men. This doesn't prove that women don't commit genocides cause there weren't enough women in power to head such horrors. With that logic we can say "only men were inventors" even though we know this isn't the case.
There have been PLENTY of horrible and outright evil female rulers/leaders in history, I full believe women are capable of heading a genocide if given the power to do so. Men and Women are both human, we're equally capable of saintly feats and horrors, to suggest otherwise is dehumanizing.
Queen Isabella and the Spanish Inquisition want to say hello. lol
I am training myself to live alone and be dependent on no one. There is no need for someone who would be menace to my peaceful life.
It’s so engrained in society that Zack found a way to blame men at the end lol
Lol yep, probably doesn't even realize it either.
he's also just 30-something.
because of how sheltered all of you were, 33 really is the new 23.
you all need to go way older (70s) if you want to find the world's last real men.
@@asdfbeauthe seventy year olds were the ones that hepled this along they were hippies then bank managers then helped push the patrioct act. They were the FIRST sellouts
He's also pumping out the just world fallacy all day long
He's a normie that doesn't exactly focus on political shit. Can't be helped ig
I agree that a lot of this is self-inflicted, but one point that isn’t highlighted enough in this video is how institutionalized this is. I’m finishing up in University and the attitudes that this guy is complaining about in the video is being TAUGHT. I walk out of the class actively trying not to hate women because of how disrespectful my class is towards men. The professor encourages it!
Then you should do something about your issue, not hate women.
You did not listen to a thing they said did you?@admaanhason7410
@@levilhirondelle4561 In the video? The video has nothing to do with the comment. Try not to mix those together.
Now, do you disagree with my comment?
@@admaanhason7410 I ment the comment you were replying to
@@levilhirondelle4561 What exactly do you not understand?
Like Bill Burr said: "They can't take responsibility for their own actions. It's always somehow our (men's) fault."
Asmon is giving feminism a pass here. The character from Metallic Rouge said it best(so much wisdom in Anime), it doesn't matter what the movement was originally about, it was always going to get greedy eventually. It isn't some women hijacking feminism, feminism simply worked so well that women(in general) got greedy and didn't know when to stop.
The movement was originally evil dude.
last time i pointed out that women have all of these beneficial school and work programs while men have none i was called a misogynist and was told to go to behavioral training to "undo my internalized misogynism". funny how that works.
Don't ever take that shit again
Get offended get mad and make it clear how disgustingly offended you are, you can legitimately get people in so much trouble for discrimination if you are visibly upset and honest
Lmao behavioral training. This world is fucked.
@@VemoNotRated That's true, not only does this appear to be interpreted as intentional harassment (6 months max imprisonment) under Public Order Act, but it ALSO breaches Article 14 of ECHR--especially if it involves power dynamic. Employers are also held liable for staff conduct under vicarious liability, but I'm sure many know work-arounds with their insurers, which is why they use policies which push for a more neutral or 'healthy/safe' (corporate language) work environment to at least demonstrate their willingness to facilitate a positive working space. I cannot think of a possible defence for the accusers in this incident as currently presented, it is unreasonable to be verbally abusive over a simple misunderstanding.
As long as you respect women as people you're not a misogynist. Her use of the word doesn't even fit the definiton, pointing out simple matter of fact has nothing to do with the definiton LOL. The victim mindset is real with people.
@spoonerman "As long as you respect women as people"
The definition of mysoginy is not "Being disrespectful towards women". 🤦
There is a word for it. Egalitarian, meaning you actually want equality without picking one side's issues over the other.
How about utalitarianism?😊
Egalitarianism when applied to men and women is arguably worse than feminism since it hurts both sides instead of just one. Women's sports for example isn't egalitarian, yet it's necessary to be fair because women aren't equal to men.
@@sticks7857 Egalitarian doesn't intrinsically mean you instantly ignore obvious aspects that aren't equal for specific reasons such as in sports. Just that you are able to treat situations without a specific bias towards one side or the other. As in both men as women have problems, we don't need to just worry about one side or the other as they can both be worked on. That is an exceptionally simple minded view of the idea.
@@JohnA... Men and women have different problems, and treating them as though they're equal when they're anything but isn't going to work. We can see this playing out in real time as forced quotas in workplaces to have an equal representation of different groups in the name of egalitarianism is causing a competency crisis as they're forced to hire less qualified people in order to meet those quotas.
@@sticks7857in that case you've clearly not understood the concept of this ism.
About the "women don't genocide" comment. If you look at ancient Japans history with female rulers a lot of the post-Himiko ones were total war mongers. Evil doesn't prefer a any particular set of wobbly bits.
Let's be real, a lot of women had to do x2 evil in power to be taken seriously.
@@ba3725 Who the f said they committed x2 the evil? Only a handful were genocidal psychos, not all male or female rulers. Look up Indira Gandhi to know what happens when you try to 2x your evil xp.
Also, you proved the point. They chose power over innocent lives and more WAR-CRIMES against women.
@@ba3725? No?
Chances are those women were probably already royal, and you're saying it as if it was some sort of ritual.
@@asmyself4021In some cases it was.
@@uu-kq6mn In what cases?
I never heard of a queen that had to double the deaths just to be taken seriously.
No, genocide wasn't all men. Look up the history of Madagascar.
If women had seats of power more often, I don't think there would have been less death or wars, it is simply that the role women played in politics was usually different, but behind almost every despot are women who usually agree with them.
Just look at how many serial killers get married in prison. The common name is "Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome" and a certain percentage of women are attracted to and sexually fetishize violence.
Feminist - WE WANT EQUALITY !
World War 3 draft time.
Feminist - YOU CAN'T DRAFT US THAT'S NOT FAIR.
( Equality )
You're right, it's either it's all or none. I think a draft shouldn't exist 💀
Yup. Once problems like potential war will start showing up, they will quickly change their tune. We've seen it a bit when Biden called potential recruitment to the army.
I wonder if women will participate when it finally happens
Draft is slavery, like literally.
“How do you write women so well?”
“I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.”
Or
“Don’t try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other.”
Yeah bring sexism into this discussion. Great idea.
@@ba3725 You can't discuss feminism without it.
3:31 That's what I've always been confused about since I was a kid. The name "feminism" itself inherently leans toward women yet everyone says it's just about equality.
They should call it equalism.
They're selling t-shirts on amazon that say "ALL men are evil" let that sink in xD
Brett, it's not that serious.
@@rogervanbarenhard disagree there, roger
@@daarksideyt Ikr? The kind of attitude that some men have regarding sexism done by women towards men : "It's just a joke, don't take it seriously" "women are more emotional, who cares what they say" is exactly why misandry continues to grow in the west.
Clearly profitting off dividing people, sheesh...
@@rogervanbaren Would you say that if Amazon was selling shirts that said all women are evil?
There is going to be a very large amount of bitter, unhappy women in 20 years childless and husbandless.
Is having a children and husband signage of success? Or is that your own opinion?
They made their choices, don't make the mistake of feeling sorry for those strong and independent queens.
@@davidlauderdale7147 It might just be his opinion but I've seen this thing called "biological clock" tick for women time and again
At least half of them will feel unhappy about this, whether they chose the single life early or not
There already are today.
@@LunarEdge7I’ve never heard of such a phenomenon. Do infertile men also have this “biological” clock?
13:15 Gen Z don't know what a woman nor a man is.
Gen Z lads are more Conservative on average than millenial men. We have no issue with this. Gen Z women are the ones going further left on average.
While I do agree that improving the family structure and going back to nuclear families the norm would help a lot. The issue is that feminist cant let that happen. Because you'd need to fundamentally change how divorce law and the family court work.
These two things currently heavily favor women.
Try to convince a feminist that for the betterment of society, no fault divorce should be abolished and default parental rights in the case of a divorce should be 50/50.
At best, you'll be called pejorativs. At worst, you've just summoned a screeching banshee.
You know why there term "toxic feminism" is not really used?
Because that would be redundant...
true, the discrimination is in the name itself
Probably because its a weird term you made up.
@@BH-te5fstoxic feminist as a term has existed at least since around 2014-2016 during that rise of the social Justice movement. This guy didnt make it up
@@GlobalOutcast I'm sure in whatever weird, dark corner of the internet you guys live in this is a common term. In the real world, where people work jobs, raise families, and don't obsess over this terminally online garbage, it's just another thing to ridicule.
@@BH-te5fs Thats a lotta assumptions there pal.
Sorry bud but just because you don't hear it doesn't mean people don't say it.
Also I literally only use UA-cam and occasionally discord to game with my friends so idk what "dark corners" of the Internet you are referring to.
Will never not make me laugh that misandry is paraded as feminism nowadays
"nowadays"?
it's at the roots of the ideology.
the actual egalitarian idiology is a seperate thing.
Its all misandry and the hatred of children.
@@nonyabisness6306 the form of feminism you're talking about has only been popular for the last 10 yrs or so.
That's exactly what it has lol.
@@i_dream_of_memesthat's not true. literally the first feminists where like this.
This comes down to a person wanting other people to be something that that other person refuses to be. The question is now, who gets to acquiesce and why? What gives a person enough value that they are worth acquiescing to? If one person has more value, why is the other person so disposable?
If they show their hatred for men on the surface, out loud, just imagine the hate they REALLY have INSIDE
Who goes to war and gets blown up or watches their buddy get blown up in a trench? Who takes all the hard jobs? I work in a pulp mill. 12 hr rotating shifts, 4 days on, 4 days off. Take a nap then repeat. There's zero women here. Not because they won't hire women, we'd love to have some women around here it's all smelly dudes right now but women don't apply to jobs like this. Same with construction and any field that involves long shifts and or hard labor. And that's one of the real reasons for the wage difference between men and women. They want to force gender equality then are you going to force women to go to war and take hard jobs or is it only going to go in the other direction?
You know the answer to your questions brother. Equality only goes one way when the feminists are in charge.
Soldiers go to war, civilians do not. Poor people get the worst jobs.
Your issue is that you actually seem to want people to die fighting in somebody else's wars. The only thing 'gained' from forcing more people into war is more casualties.
@@admaanhason7410 "Soldiers go to war, civilians do not. Poor people get the worst jobs."
historically speaking that is fairly true, you had the "war front" and the "home front". while yes people at the home front were working hard to ensure they get the equipment to the frontlines, you need to realise that a lot of these people didn't wanna go to war. take ww1 for example, if you were a young men who refused to go to war, you would literally be shamed and called a coward for not fighting for you country, then you had the veterans who came back from the war and looked down upon as pathetic and useless. in either case, you you lost either way. the best way i can put it, if you were a civilian, life fucking sucked, badly. but if you were a soldier, you didn't care if life sucked, you would care more then you live another day and not die a gruesome death (big difference).
i don't think OP was insinuating he wanted people die fighting in a war. i think he addressing that if people want gender equality, why not also force women to serve (in the same way that men get drafted), if you wanna have gender equality, you have to enforce the same standards across the board.
@@admaanhason7410 Bro you are coping so damn hard in these comments. "Soldiers go to war, civilians do not" what were soldiers before they joined the army? On that's right civilians. What would happen if a draft was issued? A lotta civilian men would become soldiers.
@@merlin5662 It's the complete opposite. You don't need to force people into the military, you need to not force _anybody_ into the military. Saying that women should be forced into the draft "for equality" is a bad faith argument, no one should be forced into it. Do you understand?
In one of the arguments on the web around feminism, one of the feminists easily told me the ultimate truth about all of the arguments like this. 'Feminism is not about women being equal to men, feminism is about women have more rights and privileges, so stop bringing men problems to the argument -- feminism does not care of men problems by it's name'. That's a quote (translated from the language we had a discussion).
Not even trying to hide their disdain for males aren't they?
@@DingusJoe64they never were
this is what every -ism does, once it has power: the mask comes off and we move to "ok it's happening, but it's good that it's happening"
It's one sided. It's no good.
The college I went to now has a massively higher female attendance and graduation rate than male. Despite this they still have a litany of programs exclusive to women that aim to aid them along in their education. They even have entire female only programs now. Men attend and graduate at a significantly lower rate, yet women are still the ones getting held up and primarily supported.
_Why?_
Imagine if it was the other way around.
Back in the early 70's, it *was* the other way around... SO... we *changed* it... and now, here we are.
So... why don't we do something about the current situation?
Simple... society doesn't care about men.
It's even more pernicious than this. For the last decade+, we have been swallowed whole by third wave feminism and their adjacent ideologies, which in the beginning had merit. Certainly there were many inequalities for women that needed to be addressed, and in our effort to be more progressive we tried to right many of the wrongs in society. However, underlining these movements was an insistence that men needed to sit down and shut up, that we've been the ones talking for too long and it was time for someone else to speak. Early on in third wave feminism, men were invited to be allies to the cause, but were relegated to a secondary role, and an effort was made to diminish their voices, such that they no longer needed the support of men in their movements, and in fact detest them.
Now in a society that detests men, and devalues their word, it becomes very challenging for men to speak for themselves. While we were expected to support and lift up feminism for equality sake, the same treatment is not to be expected. It's our problem, and we need to fix it ourselves, but even bringing awareness to it's existence is viewed as an open threat to all the other groups that despise our existence.
Man does asmon have a new GF? the last 3 video's I've seen of his he has had a different shirt on
I think it’s his version of having a shower regularly.
If he gets a hair cut he will have to drop the goblin persona
Naw gotta look good for the outta context clips calling him buzz words
He has a bf
Like that 1 guy who was supporting a feminist protest and then a woman starts talking to him and is angry.. while he actually says I support you but then she gets angry and pushes him and he pushes back and then all women are angry at him 😂 wtf
That -1- guy but women can't point to -1- instance of sexism without being told it was one time.
Who is pushing to remove those positive masculine role models from modern media? That's right, the same people who complain about "toxic masculinity".....almost seem intentional doesn't it?
Imo, the issue isn't that feminist people don't care about men, but institutional feminism doesn't, and that's where the funds go and where policies are made.
Example:
For STEM, there are initiatives to get more women into those studies. For humanities, teaching degrees, etc , nothing for men, despite similar gaps. Do my feminist friends care about that? Absolutely. Feminist institutions? Not one bit.
Because a lot of issues around men aren’t taken seriously, it’s either handwaved or if you want to bring it up you’re called an incel
Then push back on the Incels who are misogynists and give other concerned men a bad name.
So what are you doing to change that?
He's talking about it, duh. The more men talk about it and care about it, the more it can affect politics and you will see it happen. For example, US government entertained the idea of adding the draft for women 4 years ago. If men keep pushing for equality, it might actually make the government abolish the draft (a win) or make women part of the draft as well (another win). Maybe you should pay attention to what is going on around you?
@@AnonningAnon but only men hear and take it seriously. In the end that doesn't help at all
... because society just doesn't care about men.
It’s a weird flex for modern feminism and their supporters to blame me for something that a very small percentage of men have done over the course of history.
Time to grow TF up…
12:30 Yup. I’m a 41 year old dad and the apprentices at work always want to treat me like a dad. They want to impress me, or more commonly, want to have confrontations that prove I care, if that makes sense.
I remember way back when all the male influencers started appearing. The real first one was Dr. JP who only encouraged men to get their life in order. It was actually healthy and supportive for like a month and then other people realized they could monetize it and here we are.
The feminists that reach out to men are the ones men will actually listen to.
Why would you listen to someone who denies/belittles your problems?
Case example: Norah Vincent
You want a woman to solve your problems?
“What should be the pinnacle/peak performance of a man? It shouldn’t be Andrew Tate; it should be Aragorn.”
Based.
Aragon is a fantasy character without flaws though lol
Who are the orcs, who is Sauron?
@@chinchilla505All great male characters will be based on Jesus. The perfect man has already been found. Aragorn is very Christlike
@@chinchilla505that's why he is one of the pinnacle of man kind
@@chinchilla505 He definitely has flaws in The Lord of the Rings
Why is the google def. for mysogynism say it means "person who hates woman", but feminism is "advocate of womans rights?"
Misandry is the hatred of men, but at this point feminism and misandry are the same thing.
Thanks Asmon, in general...
Daily I watch your UA-cam clips when i can, I'm mid 30's now! I wish I had a friend/coach like you to have some open ended conversations with.
Relatedly minded folks like you to debrief on "Health" would be a fantastic forum!
Keep preaching your truth, 100% the most relatable content for our generations XY Chromosomes.
I've got kids now, my partner has become more extreme over the past few years... We've had to separate for now... She feels she can say anything to me in a moment, even getting physical... I can't say boo without getting a regular tearing down!
Get this, I worked a decent career but the time I were working she considers 'not family time' so I should be getting up regularly to settle our year old in the nights, among a list of other bits and pieces, then never seems to remember the bits I do-do round home etc...
let her raise my step kids (her kids, I came in when they were under 5) while I provided all the income + support so she could be a mom.
The story of my detriment goes on, but in the end I have little wonder why suicides becoming the top killer in men of our generation (in NZ anywho)
Thanks for being such an open minded, reasonable human being Asmond!
sincere regards
An Australian here, in the news recently there has been headlines about a court case where this women set up an art exhibition in am museum where basically its a women's only gallery and no man can see it. the women basically said her exhibition is an "opportunity to gather in peace as women without men." and teach men how women were treated in history. the court case was brought up on discriminatory grounds. to quote from the "artist"' "The Ladies Lounge is an essential space for perspective and reset from this strange and disjointed world of male domination,” .... “There should be more of them.” '.
If you replaced the word, man. With any race, you’d realize how messed up it is.
I wonder how the court will rule on this case....
@@frakismaximus3052 Per the BBC, the court ended up ruling that the art exhibition must allow men to visit.
@@ImmortalKitsune damn beat me to the punch
This may be a unpopular opinion but the women in my generation don't seem loyal or worth trusting to start a long-term relationship with. I am born in the late 90s. I married a woman my age in my early twenties and was cheated on, told i had toxic masculine traits, and physically abused. I left this marriage and stayed single for years with deep trust issues when it came to women my age while i just dated around. I currently am with a woman 12 yrs my senior and yes she still is emotional but there is HUGE difference in generational ideology/standards/upbringing WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT TO CALL IT. Is so massively different and i cannot overstate it more. My point is this. I speak in majorities as nothing is black and white typically. Women in younger generations have been raised wrong and will end up old and alone because men will not stay with them as they demand w.e it is they think they want and in turn ruin the relationship they are in due to total lack of respect for their male counterpart. This will come from poor upbringings and poor social and societal pressures that the world convinced them of in early age masked as independence and equality.
I was also born in late 90s and I never had a relationship to beginn with because of social media and trust issues like you (after your marriage). I'm not alone because I can't get any woman. If I want to, I could. But I just can't trust anyone since social media is a thing. (it started very early for me to not trust anyone)
This is ruining my life but also isn't. It's kind of a crazy the time we live in. I'm mentally already preparing to die alone and I'm kind of okay with it. I wanted to get married and have kids someday but not like this, I rather stay alone and die alone than to be in a toxic relationship with trust issues just because I'm afraid to die alone (yes, people really are in a relationship because they don't want to die alone, I have seen examples in real life)
I think the key for GenZ Men is to look for GenY woman (or maybe not, what do I know)
Sorry for my English, I'm not native speaking English
is not unpopular bro... every man in 2024 that is still single or not knows this in their heart... you just roll the dice, there is no telling if a woman is going to be the love of your life or destroy it just because one day she saw on instagram that you are not giving her celeb life style xD
@@masonCS_ Yea i have heard similar things from friends and colleagues. The choice to die alone is becoming more appealing than just the RISK associated with committing to women in this social media filled generation I.E the younger ones. All i will say is this to that point. There is loving yourself where your fine being alone... Then there is loneliness they are two different things brother. I say keep a open mind trust your instincts and see what comes. I am more happy than i have ever been and it was finding that woman that makes me feel like I'm important to her that did it. Yes she could leave me and turn out not to be loyal as a lot of women can do. But i would never say she was abusive , toxic, cheater. IT would be just because we didn't work as people.
Social media is to blame as well. Specifically, tik tok. Women literally get brainwashed by the shit they watch on that platform.
@@ArlindoBuriti but why the rush? I swear too little young people know how nowdays durle to economic collapse (you barely get a job, can't easily build a house, pay rent etc) people get married around 28-9 years old. Meaning you usually meet "the one" a few years prior.
24 and still single? That's normal. But this rush from peersa nd family is creating so much despair
"Monkeys can detect unfairness so obviously so can men". This is true, however monkeys tend to address unfairness with violent behavior lol
9:20 is exactly right. It’s not about discussion, or debate, or ideas, it’s about bullying into shutting up so they have the unchallenged floor.
"If you want a word that's about gender equality, it shouldn't be gendered." One of the snappiest quotes he's ever said.
To be fair, feminism was gendered because women didn't have all the rights that men had. It was more of "women want more rights" rather than "all people want equality". But in today's world yeah, we don't need to gender a word for gender equality.
I remember when the whole Hugh Mungus thing went down, like, 9 years ago, I saw feminists saying "Oh, yeah, women like that definitely give feminism a bad name!" and then, when asked what do actual sane feminists believe, they recommended reading Andrea Dworkin
My grandma has always said "women today have zero right to complain about feminism, they've never experienced true misogyny."
You grandma sounds like an intelligent woman! Shes absolutely correct.
I 100% agree about people just needing better family structures. I was very lucky to have my dad and mom around and willing to talk to me about my feelings and interactions.
My father is such a gentle giant. He looks all tough and big because he works out... but he's always been so gentle with us as kids, while also making sure that we understood the boundaries of respect. He roughhoused with us (which is SUPER important for kids to do with their father). He lectured us on shit we barely understood because
People need to stop having kids if they really don't plan on make sure that kid has a stable home. Stop having kids just because you love the person you're with. Love changes.
I worked for a major consultancy (
Where I work if you are in an area that has "problematic" DEI numbers i.e. too many white men, you have to get VP approval to hire another white man. You have to explain why the position isn't attracting the correct minorities. On the flip side we have areas with 50 employees in the org chart and every single one of them top to bottom is a woman and these areas are celebrated for "diversity". Our company is 75% women, almost 50% minority, yet we need greater diversity.
Is that a bad thing? They want more women to work.
@@HunterTN I bet you those women run ones are a nightmare to work in though.
@@davidlauderdale7147 It's anti-meritocratic, so yes. The only consideration for hiring someone should be their ability to do the job.
@@davidlauderdale7147 would they do that in women dominated industries? Not saying its necessarily bad but lets be fair at least, they would never be like "lets open up some opportunities for men nurses", they only do this shit for women.
Good God. Sometimes Asmon reminds me that not everyone follows politics. Feminism STARTED as a progressive/hyper leftist idea with no stated "end goal" to achieve. It didn't need to be "infected". The parasitism was baked in from the start.
What are you talking about? Feminism in its earliest politically effective forms stretched across liberal and conservative groups. The first wave feminists fought for the vote and for women to be able to own their own property and be protected in the event their husband or father died rather than having to rely on whichever man in their family got “their” inheritance. Second wave wasn’t even “hyper leftist” though there was a lot more overlap because pretty much every social movement was pretty leftist. That said there were LOTS of anti feminists on the far left. The hippy movement, who were avowedly leftie anti establishment, tolerated and even celebrated violence and rape against women.
@@fifab82 Feminism has it's roots within communism. This is well known by anyone who studies history. A core tennant of communist beliefs is the destruction of the nuclear family. Modern women are rejecting marriage and giving birth. Coincidence? I think not...
@@fifab82 source: trust me, bro
Everyone knows the University-line about feminism.
Some of us were alive to witness the bra-burning, the protests- all you know is what you've been told
@@asdfbeau His source is the fuckin history. And not the ancient one. You probably have family that's lived through the first wave of feminism, TALK to them, to the ones who lived it.
The progressive movement that started in the early 20th century had inherit flaws in the philosophy that would eventually lead to what we have today. You could make an argument that if feminism put the brakes on once second wave achieved its goals, we would be better off. I am saying that I don't think that would have been possible.
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Unfortunately, men like Asmon are why we are in this mess. Allowing a little bit of a bad thing (f--inisim) is just the beginning of the end. You could almost forgive the ones who allowed it at first because they couldn't see the consequences first hand, but now that we know what this ideology leads to, you should really check what you're advocating for.
Guy alone in room watches guy alone in middle of forest talk about men rejecting feminism 😂 What a time to be alive
It is not easy being a man. Don't get me wrong I'm doing well in terms of money and status but emotionally it is sad. I lost my brother to suicide 2 years ago and just had to take it on my back. I understand it is difficult to reach out to someone in this position. Then I saw my sister and how much support she got
in 2024 if you dont tell young man that nobody even other man dont give a fuck about what you are felling, you are doing a crime to them... when you see first hand how women have their needs first in the emotional side everytime but your hole life was like... you are important too... show your fellings, is ok to cry little timmy... it is brutal, some of my friends broke down in front of me because they were raised like that... i thank god my father never did that to me.
I'm so sorry about your brother.
The American pendulum. Never finding middle ground, always swaying from side to side.
In perpetuity
My idol will never be a fictional character. But if i ever had to have one from lotr it sure as fuck wouldn’t be the perfection of humanity that is aragorn. Thats asking for insecurity issues when Boromir is by far a better example from that franchise. Perfect people shouldn’t be idols. Idols should be those who fell, but got back up stronger.
A lot of men live quiet lives of desperation. No one cares about us. We must form a brotherhood, ala assassins creed, outer heaven, etc.
All of my favorite experiences have been around male friends and family and it's not even close I won't argue that.
Wait, has Asmon found collection of sweaters?
Or access to original series star trek outfits
You can't say the solution is better families and then say people are complaining about the external as an excuse. its true the solution is family and the external is what broke the family. You can't say people blame hoeflation when hoeflation destroyed pair bonding in women and put massive performance expectations on men in a society that hates and disadvantages them WHILE punishing them for trying to start families with women via pathological laws against them where the divorce prone women with zero pair bonding ability left is paid to leave him and destroy the family. You can't solve a problem if half the equation is censored because it makes people uncomfortable.
Probably the scariest truth about this is the fact that there are people who profit from dividing men and women
as a gen z I can say definitely what happened to me
I just quickly realized that the left, in general, don't have concrete, statistical data, but idealizations
Asmongold has made it as far to say that women and men are both to blame for the misogyny and misandry in the US, but he won't acknowledge that decades of misandry preceded any sudden uptick in misogyny. Feminism and the women who allied themselves with it are primarily responsible for the problems we see today. Again, we see the same thing of men weighing the blame for their own negative actions on men and letting women off lightly. Well, that's at least one step closer.
To find the truth, you don't add up the two opposing sides and divide by 2.
What did he say? "They are the cause of their problems"?
This is so ironic if you think about it.