I'm just an old geezer black academic who is here to observe more than anything else, yet I must acknowledge the impressive cultural self-awareness and understanding of diverse aspects of popular culture demonstrated by these two young men. Saying nothing new to those stationed here for a minute but these boys did not come here to play.
These days, White Girl are more down to date Asian guys. And there's been a surge in white people joining AZN, a dating app, looking for relationships with Asians💞.
He didn't say that he is comfortable with an open relationship. He said he's comfortable with his girl continuing to have platonic friendships which she already had before she met him. People really need to stop projecting their insecurities on others.
Only simps would say that. If you actually think that those men only want to be friends with her for the sake of friendship, I got ocean front properties in Death Valley for sale. Those men want to sleep with her and some probably is sleeping with her when he is not looking.
This attractive Asian guy had such a confident, trusting vibe. He's so secure in his masculinity, it's so refreshing and very secure unlike the insecure guy asking him questions. Like damn, wish he was my bf!
@@vklnew9824Yes. You're right about that. I'm Asian and I have been married since 94. My wife don't have male friends, it is a big No, No. Only Simps allowed their woman to have male friends. Women want to called it insecure but there's a reason why I am still married. I am her #1 priority. She does not need other men's validation.
@@nero15green you minorities never wear the pants when it comes to white women that's the reason they allow you people to date them. That's what happens when you place them on a pedestal like everyone else.
I'm starting to see a reoccurring pattern where non Asian men are throwing shade at Asian guys for dating non-Asian women. They'll hide it behind jokes and other passive aggressive comments since they themselves are unable to land dates with women that they are interested in. At the end of it all, the guy seems comfortable and secure in his own skin. May they thrive and prosper!
That's cause these guys throwing shade were already struggling with the competition (white, black latino), but then they see asians who they thought were never part of the game suddenly rise up, that's more competition in an already competitive field for them and obvi they dont like it. Cause if you were a struggling white dude competing with blacks and latinos, last thing you wanna see is an asian dude killing it all of a sudden.
Because white guys want everything to be their world they'll go with the petite Asian women and put down their fellow white women like me and then get vicious over non white guys taking white women
There are guys on the internet that see Asian men with a beautiful non Asian woman and it really bothers them because they view Asian guys as bottom of the barrel and to see someone who they view as bottom of the barrel do better with women than they themselves do, it really sets them off.
I guess it doesn't bother me as an Asian guy because I don't seek validation from other races. I just wish desperate Asian guys quit putting other races of women on pedestals. No a good look.
Black and white men still try to size me up even though I'm extremely jacked with muscle. My pretty boy features will always overshadow my hard work, you learn to become the bigger man and not let it get to you. The jealousy of having white and other girls like you is unfathomable to them at this point.
Attractive asian guys make certain types of guys feel insecure and jealous. It makes them want to insult them as they dont want that asian guy to be better than them.
All I can say from experience is out in the ‘real world’ there is a lot more appeal towards Asian guys than a lot what mainstream media would like the general populace would like to believe. This Asian guy in the video is just very secure in his relationship. It’s a good attitude to have-and if she breaks that trust then dump her and don’t look back.
Lol exactly. I have no idea why people care so much and are so negative. They’re projecting their toxic views and it’s not something a successful person or a person who is doing well in their life would say. Why hate, just to hate? Especially on like a 20 second clip. I don’t get it.
That’s for *every* race of men, white men have it easier though. But they can still struggle. Try to not to think too much about it and focus on yourself. “On n’a pas la même vie .” PS: I think being Asian is cool. And I say this as someone who’s black.
the asian guy in the video is legit so secured about himself and his girlfriend. all these white men so fragile they got to diss on the asian man because they cant help it to see an asian man be successful
He was completely in the right in what he said. He was showing genuine confidence in himself and his relationship. Only insecure people would disagree with what he said.
Oh come on, those negative comments are mostly from the incel type of guys. They obviously are jealous of this Asian dude for being with a cute white girl and they couldn't get that type of girl themselves. I'm a thick Asian guy and I date mostly tall white women and I'm sure those incels would be insulting me if they see me online with a white woman. Lol!
As an asian i dont think this has anything to do with asian or not, some of them, yes, but if u watch all his other videos, they all have those kind of comments, its more abt women in US, no one trusts women in US anymore and they were in miami aka the wh0re city.
@@mmfong297 Well, I don't know about the lack of availability. Those incels wants to be with good looking women. I don't want to sound mean but there are unattractive or average looking women out there who are willing to date those incel type but of course those guys want to be with women who are out of their league.
Asian Man: secured White men: fragile insecurity got to talk down to asian man white men are fragile and cant take it when asian men take their women. Asians been taking their women since 2000 years ago. they mad mad HAHAHA
I think even if the guy wasn't asian he still would have been called a beta male and simp, this is more of a topic of toxic relationship dynamics as well as toxic heteronormative relationship roles; guys can't let their female partners have other male friends because her other male friends are predators lying in wait to take her from him or she's gonna find something better and leave him if he doesn't "wrangle her in." Conversely it's the same situation in reverse, he's not allowed to have any female relationships cuz those girls can't be trusted or are gonna encroach on her territory and take his man away/her guy's gonna be tempted to leave her for someone else, etc. Regardless, those types of toxic relationship traits perpetuates reducing your partnership to ownership, which isn't healthy. Also people trying to build the narrative that the girl was deleting incriminating messages got it wrong, she smelled the interviewers bullshit much sooner cuz that guy was going out of his way to instigate, better just to walk away cuz they were only fishing for what they wanted to hear. Overall this is not an issue of whether the guy was asian but more about perpetuating unhealthy relationship habits.
@@i0li0il0i Risk mitigation? If you're not trusting your partner to not cheat on you with an opposite sex friend, then that relationship is doomed to fail regardless. It's not a matter of wearing a label of "I feel secure," it all boils down to trust with your partner. If you don't trust your partner to run off with another guy or think that she doesn't have the discipline to not cheat on you if they hang out with a platonic friend then there's obviously other trust issues involved that makes it a toxic relationship. Also consider the reverse; are you cool if your partner won't allow you to hang out with a platonic friend who happens to be female, let alone have conversations w/females because of "risk mitigation?" If not, then how is that any different from a guy imposing that on their female partner?
@@i0li0il0i Although men and female are different, not everything is different and require "different standards," which unfortunately give rise to the discriminant double standards that plague us today. Men and women having platonic relationships and their partners secure that they're not gonna cheat on them isn't one of those things that are held and "different standards" (although if you have reason to believe they may hook up with someone behind your back, then there's obviously other issues with the relationship that makes you think every girl you get together with is not trusted to not cheat on you for talking to another guy). You're right, trust is earned, however it's also a degree of faith. My girl did have male platonic friends before I got together with her, I trust that the friendship is still platonic if they decided to hang out and I'm not there. Also that's not fair for her to have to end her friendships just because she's now together with someone, does that mean that I have to end my platonic relationships with my female friends just because I'm now with someone? You're absolutely right when you say trust in a relationship is about boundaries, however those boundaries are demonstrated through your partner utilizing those boundaries to decline a male friend if they start shooting advances, which also means those guys don't respect their friendship if they're willing to try to advance on your girl. And since we're talking about boundaries, having platonic friendships with the opposite sex is important as a whole to help develop boundaries as well as just learning and developing an overall good social support network. If your partner imposes that you cannot keep those platonic and healthy relationships, then the problem lies there to begin with, which will ultimately end in tragedy. Conversely if you impose such limitations on your partner for the sake of "maintaining those boundaries," then you're just trying to control who her friends are, which will probably end with her cheating and leaving you in the end. As far as the guy in the video is concerned, he did nothing wrong. He stated their healthy relationship which they backed each other up on, the interviewer was trying to make him question his relationship choices and make him look like a simp, and his girl was cutting the interviewer off because she knew the interviewer was hard pressed in instigating and she was not having it. Pretty clear cut and dry, the interviewer was not respecting their relationship just cuz the guy didn't give an answer an Andrew Tate lemming would give, interviewer can fuck off.
@@LeadLeftLeonI am Asian and red pill to the max but I am very traditional and I was born in the old country with traditional views. This guy is definitely a Simp. Allowing your woman to have male friends is asking to get cheat on, if she haven't already.
I'm sorry to see Asian men struggling with this. I know Asian men as gentlemen, which people with lesser minds will easily confuse for meek. You two show a lot of strength in your character and communication that few others rival of whatever human ethnicity.
I think Eastern European women (not that I'm saying that is what this woman is in this clip) tend to be more open to dating Asian men. My older brother (who is also Chinese American) happens to be with a Russian woman and they have a child together. And it helps if you live in a large city, such as NYC.
If you UA-cam the G Khan era, the Mogolians conquer most of Eastern Europe for about 200 years. Therefore, there is a very profound influence of Asians culture in eastern Europe
Sorry guys, that video clip was uncomfortable to watch. Especially, since the interviewer was obviously jealous, but Asian bro had swag and held his own.
I love the chemistry you two have. Your messages are very much right on for the new Asian Americans gen. For those Asian Americans dating white girls and being attacked on internet, remember it is a normal course of societal reaction. It is incumbent to the Ams to believe on themselves and do not back down due to negative reactions from the whites or blacks. In the end AM will gain more respect and society will gradually accepts the new world order!!!
@@vklnew9824you are all over this comment section having temperamental episodes. What's your deal? Did some asian guy bang your prom date or something little boy. Every comment is redundant and bland "asian guys are weak😢" "asian men don't wear the pants in the relationship🥺" "asian men aren't real men😥" give it a rest. Grow up
Black guy here also, you two are quite the pair. I enjoy studying the collision of races on the romantic battlefield. You two do quite the service for males and Asian males. Not sure what you all went to school for, but you are having more of an impact on your community than say a doctor or engineer could likely ever have. Congrats.
Look at the men facial expression, does he look he afraid of lossing her? End of the day people should not give a shit of why the white girl is dating him, it’s their business 😂. Simple as that.
The audience for these types of street interview shows is basically looking to judge and shit on other relationships and drunk people that say dumb stuff
If people hate him for being Asian with a good-looking white girl, I agree. I don't think it's wrong to criticize his take on his girl having guy friends though.
Asians are more conservative as in only seeing one person at a time, we believe in family oriented. That's why Asians doesn't have a high divorce rate like other non-asians.
And Asian women treating their own man as second class citizens while dating white man most of them are extremely entitled think to themselves they are special everyone's wants them in reality most man of other race such as black man even Asian guys don't even like Asian women they would rather to date a eastern European women who's more feminine more hotter than Asian women alot this Asian chick are just delusional the only man like them are mostly white guy most man of other race like Don't like Asian women
The invention of the word SIMP has ruined romance. Most guys think another guy is "simping"for a girl if he's just being nice and supportive of his partner. Men are more afraid of looking like a simp than loosing their partner from bad treatment.
Unfortunately no. I was dating a guy who was worried it looked like he was simping for me in front of some random guy in the park. This was how i learned about the word in the first place.It's very much out in the real world in the US. @@mattiaslp9645
When I lived in Germany, all of the women I have been with were Eastern European. I wanted to get with this local German girl but I ended up getting with a Romanian whom I met at a Gothic event. We would do archery every Wednesday. Now I'm stationed in Japan. My dating here has been mixed Japanese, Korean, European, Filipina, Chinese, Vietnamese & Thai. I seem to attract more Eastern European just because. These guys who are haters are the simps and incels that got burnt really bad.
Asians should be happy they do better with East Euros than they do with Anglos & Germanics. Which countries often come up in most beautiful women lists. The Russian Empire & Ukraine
Calling others "simp" when you ricels practically worship ww. The funny thing about ww in interracial date is that she always wears the pants in the relationship.
The part I live in USA I've seen less than 5 Asian guys with white girl. When someone is on their phone when someone else is talking most times isn't a good sign. If the guy knows he isnt for long run I assume at least he knows what's the relationship about
The interviewer is perplexed by the Asian man's lack of willingness to restrain and control his girl. There are reasons why Black guys have a bad reputation for being jealous and possessive. For all we know, the two people may not even be at the stage where they're exclusive to each other.
I'm just ecstatic to see Asian guys winning in the U.S. BUT....that last part "Yikes ...she was like we gotta go".... Nahhhh not that part. Asian men let 2024 be you guys year
I'm a white woman of 57 in a long term relationship with a white man. The only reason I never dated a N.E. Asian man is because I never came into contact with them. But I think N.E. men (from K dramas and Taiwanese dramas) are very good looking and masculine and they look cute too. The ironic thing is that I recently found out that one of my female ancestors was Indigenous Siberian! I'm from UK - half English/half Swiss. I have mitochondrial dna D4 which is very common in Korea.
yea how can you just assume that she doing something like "oh she's deleting messages" yea it MAY be BUT it might not be LOL! isnt that insecure to 100% ASSUME she must be deleting messages hello shrugs
This is why many wessie hate Russia (besides the politics) but racially Russia is a mixed society between East and West (ethnically). Some „purist“ Rus hate that too, hence Russian skinheads.
Gotta love how all them dudes hating on that Korean dude (or Asian dudes in general) talking as if they dated an Asian dude themselves to be so in depth with their analysis on Asian guys. LOL It’s so interesting that, when any other dudes out there dating whomever, nobody bats an eye. But God forbid an Asian guy dating whomever and everyone loses their shit. Hahaaa
I appreciate your guys take on this, i'd say that as a black guy who frequents this space randomly, my issue, being a little more on the conservative side, is that a loooot of women will try to convince men that they are insecure for not wanting their women to have platonic male friends; Especially one on one when to me its more secure to be able to acknowledge you are willing to end the relationship for something that you feel very uneasy about instead of pretending youre this secure guy because you let your girl do what whatever while in a relationship since you "trust" her(forgive the runon sentence). A loooot of women will shame men for having standards all the while maintain standards which are clearly not feminist lol. No hate to him at all
Only insecure dudes would see this guy as being a simp. Meanwhile, women will fawn over a guy who is secure, confident, and doesn't try to control his girlfriend's every move.
Trust is earned, not expected. But there’s a point where a person deserves trust, but doesn’t receive it because of the other person’s traumatic experiences
Basically no guy truly don’t care about there chick hanging out with other guys. This dude just saying he’s ok with it because if he try to put his feet down his girl would dump him and move on to the next and deep down inside he knows that.
Ive dated plenty of pretty girls outside of my race..mainly white..and my bm is even white as well...i definitely exerienced some hate throughout the years..you guys are pretty much spot on with your insight on it.
I have female friends but I won’t do one on ones outside of a coffee or maybe lunch catch up. I’m a realtor so we need to keep in touch with people like that.
To me the clip seemed kinda like the couple was tired of being bothered by the interviewer. Especially the chick. She was the one acting more weird. Like cutting her man off from speaking and also ending the convo. I just didn’t like her attitude. Too dominating. Seemed rude to me. For all we know he could also just being dating her for the time being. Might not be super serious but he also isn’t going to be jealous and having trust issues with her. In reality he can always dump her if he doesn’t like what she does or how she acts. Simple as that. Give the man some credit that he can make the decisions himself.
The negative asian comments are for sure racist. However, as far as hanging out 1:1 with dudes, nah that should not slide and it doesn't matter that the guy is asian.
Great subject to discuss. I am a Vietnamese American married to a beautiful, intelligent Brazilian woman. She's a babe, and I don't fall into the K-pop or nerdy Asian guy. I'm an above average looking dude and I make a living as a professional artist in entertainment. I live in Orange County. As far as the guy interviewing, it comes off as if some people can't wrap their minds around an Asian man hooking up with a woman outside of their ethnicity. Sorry... Not sorry. That mindset is racist and it needs to be eliminated. Asian dudes are capable of being with any women as long as they are legitimate. As far as hanging out with other people on our own, we are respectful and loving to each other. There's no room for fuckery when it comes to our bond.
The first mature comment here. Most are just "bros" still struggling to find a relationship and are arguing tactics as if relationships were a battlefield.
I am Asian and I dont think the interviewer was hating on the fact that he was with a white girl, not once did I catch that vibe. He was more concerned about the fact that the Asian guy was okay with his girlfriend having male friends hence why he was hittin him with critical questions. This is a debate that has been going on for some time and alot of men feel like it is not okay for their girlfriend to hang out with other males. I'd actually love to see the full video, cause Asian dude was starting to throw him back with questions and things were about to get a lil spicy 😂
Haha I absolutely do not care. I had a hot ex call me in the middle of the night saying she's drunk and going to spend the night at a friend's place. I was like cool, bye. 15 mins later she calls back and is pissed I was cool with it and said it was a test. If you know, you know.
Im not so quick to say ppl are hating, just because it dosent co-sign this guy. I will say this, if your putting up with things in a relashionship, for the sake of being with that person, especially if you wouldnt allow it , if your bf or gf was the same ethnicity as you then yes, your being disingenious.
It doesn't matter what race he is. No guy should stand for it. There is no need for a women to be alone with another guy without her man there or except at work.
I hate to say this but that guy will learn the hard way. If you are in a relationship and if u whether as a male or female spend time together one on one with your friend of opposite gender... u r simply distespecting your partner. You dont really respect and love him/her.
Only thing disagreeable is if the female regularly spends time with other dudes, there's higher probability of infidelity. Doesn't matter how much confidence the dude has. It's a matter of "when" not "if". Eventually it would happen and it could be years wasted on the wrong person. The trope "he's just a friend" occurs over and over again. If you don't want this, don't date these kinds of females or don't take them seriously. Good luck.
Please... blonde white girl here who dated an attractive, tall Asian guy for 5 years (in HK). I never cheated, he wasn't a simp. It was just a normal relationship. We got a lot of stares for sure, but just ignored.
I think these comments are from stereotypical redpill dudes; they cant stand that the dude has a reasonable take on a healthy relationship. Like even the "interviewer" is one of those redpill instigators, constantly trying to find an angle to criticize a woman he's throwing loaded questions at; thats literally 90% of his content. And yea, WSHH is mostly non-black people pretending to be a negative stereotype of black people at this point.
AM has a chill relationship w WF - BM interviewer is skeptical that F-M relationships can survive unless there is exclusive access. The interviewer skepticism suggests a POV of a highly competitive and may be predatory dating mating environment that makes a trusting relationship the WF AM claims they have as being difficult to believe in if not impossible. AM have to overcome negative stereotypes - however, successful Korean pop has raised the Asian style awareness.
@@vklnew9824 < A Tiger AF might play with their food, but food is still prey. Being tasty helps if it is a Tiger. Princess AF may wear skirts, but they require a Prince Charming or a Knight in shining Armor.... so the Princess requires money, muscle, or a combo of both.
I think people say these things because usually Korean guys are not cool with their girlfriends having guy friends and such. I just don't think he is that into the girl in the video because if he was, I don't see him being so nonchalant about it. It didn't help that she was on her phone and then quickly turned to say, "we need to go" like she is the 'boss' in the relationship.
If asian men wanted to date outside of their race, aint no stereotypes goimg to stop us...truth is, most asian parents want their sons to marry asian women. This is a cultural that sometimes is hard to break away from.
I'm just an old geezer black academic who is here to observe more than anything else, yet I must acknowledge the impressive cultural self-awareness and understanding of diverse aspects of popular culture demonstrated by these two young men. Saying nothing new to those stationed here for a minute but these boys did not come here to play.
These days, White Girl are more down to date Asian guys. And there's been a surge in white people joining AZN, a dating app, looking for relationships with Asians💞.
yep
These dudes have diverse cultural nuances. Respect.
He didn't say that he is comfortable with an open relationship. He said he's comfortable with his girl continuing to have platonic friendships which she already had before she met him. People really need to stop projecting their insecurities on others.
Platonic?😂 you really believe that?
the people who disses the asian man is legit more insecure than the asian man. most of them are insecure white men too. why are white men so fragile?
@@JohnLee-db9zt What other type of relationship could he have been talking about?
Only simps would say that. If you actually think that those men only want to be friends with her for the sake of friendship, I got ocean front properties in Death Valley for sale. Those men want to sleep with her and some probably is sleeping with her when he is not looking.
@@thebeatnumber She and her platonic Fboi friends must be reciting the Bible. 🤣
This attractive Asian guy had such a confident, trusting vibe. He's so secure in his masculinity, it's so refreshing and very secure unlike the insecure guy asking him questions. Like damn, wish he was my bf!
She is deleting messages
is he a real man?
Dang the blonde girl knows shes deleting stuff wuttt thats crazy. This is why i aint trusting girls so easily holymoly
@@baddie21358 p@ki
agree, thats why so many people get divorce cause they want to lock down relationship and spend 30 years on it and get a divorce
The interviewer was really trying to push his bias across rather than being neutral lol
The interviewer was a douchebag.
I’m an Asian man, this dude it a total SIMP! He’s getting used like a B1**ch
The Asian bro has the right response. The girl cashed out and the guy isn't insecure. Haters going to hate.
He doesn't wear the pants in the relationship
How so?
@@vklnew9824Yes. You're right about that. I'm Asian and I have been married since 94. My wife don't have male friends, it is a big No, No. Only Simps allowed their woman to have male friends. Women want to called it insecure but there's a reason why I am still married. I am her #1 priority. She does not need other men's validation.
@@nero15green you minorities never wear the pants when it comes to white women that's the reason they allow you people to date them. That's what happens when you place them on a pedestal like everyone else.
@@mikef2811 I agree with you I beat my wife too
I'm starting to see a reoccurring pattern where non Asian men are throwing shade at Asian guys for dating non-Asian women. They'll hide it behind jokes and other passive aggressive comments since they themselves are unable to land dates with women that they are interested in. At the end of it all, the guy seems comfortable and secure in his own skin. May they thrive and prosper!
Non Asian men are most threatened by Asian men. It's been like this since the Gold Rush.
@@Billdean25 Not texting you, I can assure you 😂
Just return the favour. White, black, Latino and Indian guys are very "dish it, but can't take it"
That's cause these guys throwing shade were already struggling with the competition (white, black latino), but then they see asians who they thought were never part of the game suddenly rise up, that's more competition in an already competitive field for them and obvi they dont like it. Cause if you were a struggling white dude competing with blacks and latinos, last thing you wanna see is an asian dude killing it all of a sudden.
Because white guys want everything to be their world they'll go with the petite Asian women and put down their fellow white women like me and then get vicious over non white guys taking white women
There are guys on the internet that see Asian men with a beautiful non Asian woman and it really bothers them because they view Asian guys as bottom of the barrel and to see someone who they view as bottom of the barrel do better with women than they themselves do, it really sets them off.
I guess it doesn't bother me as an Asian guy because I don't seek validation from other races. I just wish desperate Asian guys quit putting other races of women on pedestals. No a good look.
Your face needs to touch concrete
Especially white guys 😂
It’s 90% white guys who hate on Asian males, yet they love Asian women SMH
@@UpInYourGrills you asians don't wear the pants in your relationships
Black and white men still try to size me up even though I'm extremely jacked with muscle. My pretty boy features will always overshadow my hard work, you learn to become the bigger man and not let it get to you. The jealousy of having white and other girls like you is unfathomable to them at this point.
Best part about being asian man who’s into other shades. We don’t care when asian girls are off doing whatever with Tyrone or chad
That ego is going a mouth is going to get your face jacked up one day, keyboard warrior.
@@vklnew9824Dude, you are the biggest incel in this comment section go touch some grass 😂😂😂😂😂
No matter what race you are, if you are with a pretty girl, you will receive hate.
Black men size you up lol why are you with black women
Attractive asian guys make certain types of guys feel insecure and jealous. It makes them want to insult them as they dont want that asian guy to be better than them.
They know Asian are kings, the most dominant race in history.
💯💯💯
@@OGtruthserum 😂😂😂
So much for manosphere and red pill space lol.
All I can say from experience is out in the ‘real world’ there is a lot more appeal towards Asian guys than a lot what mainstream media would like the general populace would like to believe. This Asian guy in the video is just very secure in his relationship. It’s a good attitude to have-and if she breaks that trust then dump her and don’t look back.
Lol exactly. I have no idea why people care so much and are so negative. They’re projecting their toxic views and it’s not something a successful person or a person who is doing well in their life would say. Why hate, just to hate? Especially on like a 20 second clip. I don’t get it.
It's tough being an Asian guy. We have to work for everything. No privileges given.
That’s for *every* race of men, white men have it easier though. But they can still struggle.
Try to not to think too much about it and focus on yourself.
“On n’a pas la même vie .”
PS: I think being Asian is cool. And I say this as someone who’s black.
Pretty much every male who isn’t born into a connected family
the asian guy in the video is legit so secured about himself and his girlfriend. all these white men so fragile they got to diss on the asian man because they cant help it to see an asian man be successful
We gotta push shit uphill for the same fucking results as whites. It's bullshit.
There's White Privilege but to an extent🤷
He was completely in the right in what he said. He was showing genuine confidence in himself and his relationship. Only insecure people would disagree with what he said.
White girl here... my preference is Asian guys. We do exist!
Why are you surprised? This is the US.
And on top of that, this is from Worldstar, where people of a simplistic mindset hang out.
Seriously man, in US asian dudes are looked down especially by black dudes, they think their dik size is superior.
World star is hood crowd. Chinese dudes are dorky. Strength societies don’t value nerds and geeks the same way
This isn’t limited to US. It’s just as bad in Europe.
Facst smh
Oh come on, those negative comments are mostly from the incel type of guys. They obviously are jealous of this Asian dude for being with a cute white girl and they couldn't get that type of girl themselves. I'm a thick Asian guy and I date mostly tall white women and I'm sure those incels would be insulting me if they see me online with a white woman. Lol!
It’s wild out there. She’s a soft 7. Not swimsuit model good looks that should make anyone think unbelievable
@@LeadLeftLeon She's not my type, too skinny for me. I prefer tall and curvy girls but that's just me.
As an asian i dont think this has anything to do with asian or not, some of them, yes, but if u watch all his other videos, they all have those kind of comments, its more abt women in US, no one trusts women in US anymore and they were in miami aka the wh0re city.
America has full of thirsty guys, partly bc of the lack of availability. The simping, the jealousy and sht talking is beyond anywhere in the world
@@mmfong297 Well, I don't know about the lack of availability. Those incels wants to be with good looking women. I don't want to sound mean but there are unattractive or average looking women out there who are willing to date those incel type but of course those guys want to be with women who are out of their league.
I think the internet is just jealous that he has a girlfriend who is beautiful.
That is true but it is also true that a women from US cannot be trusted especially if she looks like that. And they were in miami aka the wh0re city.
@@i0li0il0i most of them are especially black dudes.
Pretty not beautiful. It’s wild out here people acting like she a swimsuit model and this is an unbelievable result lol
He doesn't wear the pants in the relationship
Asian Man: secured
White men: fragile insecurity got to talk down to asian man
white men are fragile and cant take it when asian men take their women. Asians been taking their women since 2000 years ago. they mad mad HAHAHA
I think even if the guy wasn't asian he still would have been called a beta male and simp, this is more of a topic of toxic relationship dynamics as well as toxic heteronormative relationship roles; guys can't let their female partners have other male friends because her other male friends are predators lying in wait to take her from him or she's gonna find something better and leave him if he doesn't "wrangle her in." Conversely it's the same situation in reverse, he's not allowed to have any female relationships cuz those girls can't be trusted or are gonna encroach on her territory and take his man away/her guy's gonna be tempted to leave her for someone else, etc. Regardless, those types of toxic relationship traits perpetuates reducing your partnership to ownership, which isn't healthy.
Also people trying to build the narrative that the girl was deleting incriminating messages got it wrong, she smelled the interviewers bullshit much sooner cuz that guy was going out of his way to instigate, better just to walk away cuz they were only fishing for what they wanted to hear. Overall this is not an issue of whether the guy was asian but more about perpetuating unhealthy relationship habits.
Finally someone who gets it. The amount of asian males who are upset by this is troubling. They still “blue pilled” to the core
@@i0li0il0i Risk mitigation? If you're not trusting your partner to not cheat on you with an opposite sex friend, then that relationship is doomed to fail regardless. It's not a matter of wearing a label of "I feel secure," it all boils down to trust with your partner. If you don't trust your partner to run off with another guy or think that she doesn't have the discipline to not cheat on you if they hang out with a platonic friend then there's obviously other trust issues involved that makes it a toxic relationship. Also consider the reverse; are you cool if your partner won't allow you to hang out with a platonic friend who happens to be female, let alone have conversations w/females because of "risk mitigation?" If not, then how is that any different from a guy imposing that on their female partner?
Asians don't wear the pants in their relationships
@@i0li0il0i Although men and female are different, not everything is different and require "different standards," which unfortunately give rise to the discriminant double standards that plague us today. Men and women having platonic relationships and their partners secure that they're not gonna cheat on them isn't one of those things that are held and "different standards" (although if you have reason to believe they may hook up with someone behind your back, then there's obviously other issues with the relationship that makes you think every girl you get together with is not trusted to not cheat on you for talking to another guy).
You're right, trust is earned, however it's also a degree of faith. My girl did have male platonic friends before I got together with her, I trust that the friendship is still platonic if they decided to hang out and I'm not there. Also that's not fair for her to have to end her friendships just because she's now together with someone, does that mean that I have to end my platonic relationships with my female friends just because I'm now with someone?
You're absolutely right when you say trust in a relationship is about boundaries, however those boundaries are demonstrated through your partner utilizing those boundaries to decline a male friend if they start shooting advances, which also means those guys don't respect their friendship if they're willing to try to advance on your girl.
And since we're talking about boundaries, having platonic friendships with the opposite sex is important as a whole to help develop boundaries as well as just learning and developing an overall good social support network. If your partner imposes that you cannot keep those platonic and healthy relationships, then the problem lies there to begin with, which will ultimately end in tragedy. Conversely if you impose such limitations on your partner for the sake of "maintaining those boundaries," then you're just trying to control who her friends are, which will probably end with her cheating and leaving you in the end.
As far as the guy in the video is concerned, he did nothing wrong. He stated their healthy relationship which they backed each other up on, the interviewer was trying to make him question his relationship choices and make him look like a simp, and his girl was cutting the interviewer off because she knew the interviewer was hard pressed in instigating and she was not having it. Pretty clear cut and dry, the interviewer was not respecting their relationship just cuz the guy didn't give an answer an Andrew Tate lemming would give, interviewer can fuck off.
@@LeadLeftLeonI am Asian and red pill to the max but I am very traditional and I was born in the old country with traditional views. This guy is definitely a Simp. Allowing your woman to have male friends is asking to get cheat on, if she haven't already.
I'm sorry to see Asian men struggling with this. I know Asian men as gentlemen, which people with lesser minds will easily confuse for meek. You two show a lot of strength in your character and communication that few others rival of whatever human ethnicity.
I think Eastern European women (not that I'm saying that is what this woman is in this clip) tend to be more open to dating Asian men. My older brother (who is also Chinese American) happens to be with a Russian woman and they have a child together. And it helps if you live in a large city, such as NYC.
Helps that Russians are also seen as “outsiders”. And most think all East Euros = Russian
Russia is a European culture with some strong Asian influences [Tatar Turkic peoples]
If you UA-cam the G Khan era, the Mogolians conquer most of Eastern Europe for about 200 years. Therefore, there is a very profound influence of Asians culture in eastern Europe
I'm in NYC. Where do they find these east Europeans ? Not exactly matching with them.
@@jialian93use a chinese dating app, then you find them.
Sorry guys, that video clip was uncomfortable to watch. Especially, since the interviewer was obviously jealous, but Asian bro had swag and held his own.
Dude probably understands it's his turn so he doesn't seem that invested in her.
I love the chemistry you two have. Your messages are very much right on for the new Asian Americans gen. For those Asian Americans dating white girls and being attacked on internet, remember it is a normal course of societal reaction. It is incumbent to the Ams to believe on themselves and do not back down due to negative reactions from the whites or blacks. In the end AM will gain more respect and society will gradually accepts the new world order!!!
You minorities never wear the pants in your relationships.
@@vklnew9824you are all over this comment section having temperamental episodes. What's your deal? Did some asian guy bang your prom date or something little boy. Every comment is redundant and bland "asian guys are weak😢" "asian men don't wear the pants in the relationship🥺" "asian men aren't real men😥" give it a rest. Grow up
Only simps follow that rule. People isn't attacking him for dating a white girl...people are attacking him for being a weak simp.
I am sure it is Hispanics that are also complaining not just Whites, And Blacks yeah.
The guy doing the interview has the same views as the people in his comments. I blocked him a long time ago
Black guy here also, you two are quite the pair. I enjoy studying the collision of races on the romantic battlefield.
You two do quite the service for males and Asian males. Not sure what you all went to school for, but you are having more of an impact on your community than say a doctor or engineer could likely ever have. Congrats.
Look at the men facial expression, does he look he afraid of lossing her? End of the day people should not give a shit of why the white girl is dating him, it’s their business 😂. Simple as that.
She is deleting messages right on camera
Lol
How low can the Russian gold digger go
He didn't say anything wrong and if they're cool with it then fine. Asians guys are cute af imo, y'all are wanted just depends on the girl 😊
The audience for these types of street interview shows is basically looking to judge and shit on other relationships and drunk people that say dumb stuff
He's doing something right when he's got haters.
If people hate him for being Asian with a good-looking white girl, I agree. I don't think it's wrong to criticize his take on his girl having guy friends though.
Asians are more conservative as in only seeing one person at a time, we believe in family oriented. That's why Asians doesn't have a high divorce rate like other non-asians.
And Asian women treating their own man as second class citizens while dating white man most of them are extremely entitled think to themselves they are special everyone's wants them in reality most man of other race such as black man even Asian guys don't even like Asian women they would rather to date a eastern European women who's more feminine more hotter than Asian women alot this Asian chick are just delusional the only man like them are mostly white guy most man of other race like
Don't like Asian women
Just one thing to shut those bad-mouthers up: the chances of Asian guys staying with his mate till the end of their life, is a lot higher.
Because you guys don't wear the pants in your relationships.
@@vklnew9824 LOL one angry jealous loser
The invention of the word SIMP has ruined romance. Most guys think another guy is "simping"for a girl if he's just being nice and supportive of his partner. Men are more afraid of looking like a simp than loosing their partner from bad treatment.
I’d counter that boss itch and boss babe has done the most damage. Men want a sidekick not a business partner
Partial. Women w average looks on the high horse w high expectations contributed to the rise of Simps.
no its just the internet trolls that call every guy a simp. you dont hear it irl. try not to be on the internet so much.
Unfortunately no. I was dating a guy who was worried it looked like he was simping for me in front of some random guy in the park. This was how i learned about the word in the first place.It's very much out in the real world in the US.
@@mattiaslp9645
If they are average, then why go after them at all. Men need higher standards than "will she sleep with me" @@devasta75
When I lived in Germany, all of the women I have been with were Eastern European. I wanted to get with this local German girl but I ended up getting with a Romanian whom I met at a Gothic event. We would do archery every Wednesday. Now I'm stationed in Japan. My dating here has been mixed Japanese, Korean, European, Filipina, Chinese, Vietnamese & Thai. I seem to attract more Eastern European just because. These guys who are haters are the simps and incels that got burnt really bad.
Asians should be happy they do better with East Euros than they do with Anglos & Germanics. Which countries often come up in most beautiful women lists. The Russian Empire & Ukraine
Calling others "simp" when you ricels practically worship ww. The funny thing about ww in interracial date is that she always wears the pants in the relationship.
@LeadLeftLeon Could also be that Slavs get hate outside their own kind too.
The part I live in USA I've seen less than 5 Asian guys with white girl. When someone is on their phone when someone else is talking most times isn't a good sign. If the guy knows he isnt for long run I assume at least he knows what's the relationship about
@@wiikendsthe Russian girl is cheating
She is deleting messages
She is a mid
They trust each other
The more haters the better, it means they're threatened! WE ARE GOING IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION!
You guys don't wear the pants in the relationship
@@vklnew9824
HATER alert ⚠️
@@invisiblerevolution nice of your triggered rear end to like your own comment. Seems I made my point without really trying.
@@vklnew9824 He don't give a shi@. He's dating her for fun time not for marriage. If she cheats just get another replacement white girls.
How is a girl who talks to other males going in the right direction. Slightly less attractive girls who only talk to you >
Asian guys have always been known to be last in pecking order so if asian guys are winning, these commenters feel lower than low.
pecking order? that pecking order was made up to give their a desire narrative. don't believe in that garbage though.
The interviewer is perplexed by the Asian man's lack of willingness to restrain and control his girl. There are reasons why Black guys have a bad reputation for being jealous and possessive. For all we know, the two people may not even be at the stage where they're exclusive to each other.
She is deleting messages on camera
He interviews everyone. Quit while you're at it.
"it's usually what they do they blame black men why asain women don't like them" - Where?@@ThirsTDemon
I'm just ecstatic to see Asian guys winning in the U.S.
BUT....that last part "Yikes ...she was like we gotta go".... Nahhhh not that part.
Asian men let 2024 be you guys year
I'm a white woman of 57 in a long term relationship with a white man. The only reason I never dated a N.E. Asian man is because I never came into contact with them. But I think N.E. men (from K dramas and Taiwanese dramas) are very good looking and masculine and they look cute too. The ironic thing is that I recently found out that one of my female ancestors was Indigenous Siberian! I'm from UK - half English/half Swiss. I have mitochondrial dna D4 which is very common in Korea.
You're one of the defective ww who's easily manipulated by a picture screen.
Most Asians in the West look nothing like K-pop. It takes a different kind of male to purposely feminize his appearance. K-pop dudes get paid to do it
Bunch of dudes are mad cus my asian brothers are getting some love.
Simply put, they are hating because they are jealous.
There's a reason why these haters are hating on the internet while the asian guys are gaining result out there. Not built the same
Asian guys are the most underrated in the western world. They’re being oppressed in many ways in western societies.
She is deleting messages right there
That ain't true at all......they BALLIN OUT OF CONTROL. ..nice one though..."oppressed"...😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 They are shot callin
Western men insecurities.
He is confident because he know he can replace her the moment she cheat lol
maybe she's texting someone they're supposed to meet up for lunch
yea how can you just assume that she doing something like "oh she's deleting messages" yea it MAY be BUT it might not be LOL! isnt that insecure to 100% ASSUME she must be deleting messages hello shrugs
This is why many wessie hate Russia (besides the politics) but racially Russia is a mixed society between East and West (ethnically). Some „purist“ Rus hate that too, hence Russian skinheads.
That you both are not bleaching your skin and kept your natural eyelids speaks volumes about your self-confidence and love for self
Asian dude is more secure than anyone who talked shit about him. this is why he has a hot white girlfriend. lol
You guys must get exhausted having to raise a whole generation of Asian American men. You're doing good though brothers👍
And end of the day, if y’all correct she cheating and shit, would be her loss, if he found out and dump her.
Gotta love how all them dudes hating on that Korean dude (or Asian dudes in general) talking as if they dated an Asian dude themselves to be so in depth with their analysis on Asian guys. LOL
It’s so interesting that, when any other dudes out there dating whomever, nobody bats an eye. But God forbid an Asian guy dating whomever and everyone loses their shit. Hahaaa
My Asian boyfriend has treated me better than any other man in my life. He’s secure, loving, affectionate and amazing in every way
Trust but verify
I appreciate your guys take on this, i'd say that as a black guy who frequents this space randomly, my issue, being a little more on the conservative side, is that a loooot of women will try to convince men that they are insecure for not wanting their women to have platonic male friends; Especially one on one when to me its more secure to be able to acknowledge you are willing to end the relationship for something that you feel very uneasy about instead of pretending youre this secure guy because you let your girl do what whatever while in a relationship since you "trust" her(forgive the runon sentence). A loooot of women will shame men for having standards all the while maintain standards which are clearly not feminist lol. No hate to him at all
Only insecure dudes would see this guy as being a simp. Meanwhile, women will fawn over a guy who is secure, confident, and doesn't try to control his girlfriend's every move.
Trust is earned, not expected. But there’s a point where a person deserves trust, but doesn’t receive it because of the other person’s traumatic experiences
great content again. 굿잡 fung bros
Fascinating how overall men face similar dilemmas.
Overall, Date your Own.
She should not be texting while he’s talking. She should show some respect
That discount Aba was tryna instigate hard. Wtf
That man interviewing them was so bewildered by a man not controlling his girlfriend. I bet the interviewer is a real control freak.
Yo as an Asian guy that grew up LOVING 90s R&B, i gotta say... THAT SHIT FUCKED ME UP in my expectations with women. Fckin R&B smh lol
Many of those comments are from troll accounts. Look at the usernames and pictures.
wow so many haters, handsome asian man pulls attractive white woman, keep doing your thing bro
7:30 Bruh Asian dudes are like AMD and White Dudes are Nvidia 💀
Basically no guy truly don’t care about there chick hanging out with other guys. This dude just saying he’s ok with it because if he try to put his feet down his girl would dump him and move on to the next and deep down inside he knows that.
Yep he’s playing with a scared hand
He's not scared. He can literally dump her and get another girl
It’s going to take the next generation for this to go away
Ive dated plenty of pretty girls outside of my race..mainly white..and my bm is even white as well...i definitely exerienced some hate throughout the years..you guys are pretty much spot on with your insight on it.
I have female friends but I won’t do one on ones outside of a coffee or maybe lunch catch up. I’m a realtor so we need to keep in touch with people like that.
To me the clip seemed kinda like the couple was tired of being bothered by the interviewer. Especially the chick. She was the one acting more weird. Like cutting her man off from speaking and also ending the convo. I just didn’t like her attitude. Too dominating. Seemed rude to me. For all we know he could also just being dating her for the time being. Might not be super serious but he also isn’t going to be jealous and having trust issues with her. In reality he can always dump her if he doesn’t like what she does or how she acts. Simple as that. Give the man some credit that he can make the decisions himself.
The negative asian comments are for sure racist. However, as far as hanging out 1:1 with dudes, nah that should not slide and it doesn't matter that the guy is asian.
Great subject to discuss. I am a Vietnamese American married to a beautiful, intelligent Brazilian woman. She's a babe, and I don't fall into the K-pop or nerdy Asian guy. I'm an above average looking dude and I make a living as a professional artist in entertainment. I live in Orange County.
As far as the guy interviewing, it comes off as if some people can't wrap their minds around an Asian man hooking up with a woman outside of their ethnicity. Sorry... Not sorry. That mindset is racist and it needs to be eliminated. Asian dudes are capable of being with any women as long as they are legitimate. As far as hanging out with other people on our own, we are respectful and loving to each other. There's no room for fuckery when it comes to our bond.
He was roasted for accepting “his girl” entertaining other males. A girl who serious doesn’t need to talk to other guys. She’s committed
The first mature comment here. Most are just "bros" still struggling to find a relationship and are arguing tactics as if relationships were a battlefield.
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I can tell you don't wear the pants in the marriage.
You probably don't wear any pants, you degenerate. @vklnew9824
Visiting Washington and Seattle , should we go to Kent? Any recommendations ?
Skip Kent. It’s broken. I recommend an evening then night out in Bellevue across the lake from Seattle. Saturday probably best
Honestly I don't care I hope they have a long relationship with each other.
Exactly, life is so much more smoother, when we mind our own business.
I am Asian and I dont think the interviewer was hating on the fact that he was with a white girl, not once did I catch that vibe. He was more concerned about the fact that the Asian guy was okay with his girlfriend having male friends hence why he was hittin him with critical questions. This is a debate that has been going on for some time and alot of men feel like it is not okay for their girlfriend to hang out with other males. I'd actually love to see the full video, cause Asian dude was starting to throw him back with questions and things were about to get a lil spicy 😂
I can say confidence is the way through guys will still regardless of the circumstances for that moment
My dude is going to get burned by this rule one day. By trying to prove he is secure, he is showing insecurity and falling into a trap.
Haha I absolutely do not care. I had a hot ex call me in the middle of the night saying she's drunk and going to spend the night at a friend's place. I was like cool, bye. 15 mins later she calls back and is pissed I was cool with it and said it was a test. If you know, you know.
Im not so quick to say ppl are hating, just because it dosent co-sign this guy.
I will say this, if your putting up with things in a relashionship, for the sake of being with that person, especially if you wouldnt allow it , if your bf or gf was the same ethnicity as you then yes, your being disingenious.
Literally all those bashful comments are made by people with no pfp so how can you even trust people that are too afraid to show their face???
@@PaulVonLoren bout the most random sh*t i ever heard. If you ugly just say that gang.
@@PaulVonLoren my fault, nobody asked for your presence. Have a good day.
It doesn't matter what race he is. No guy should stand for it. There is no need for a women to be alone with another guy without her man there or except at work.
I hate to say this but that guy will learn the hard way. If you are in a relationship and if u whether as a male or female spend time together one on one with your friend of opposite gender... u r simply distespecting your partner. You dont really respect and love him/her.
Native here but i love the asian girls.
Only thing disagreeable is if the female regularly spends time with other dudes, there's higher probability of infidelity. Doesn't matter how much confidence the dude has. It's a matter of "when" not "if". Eventually it would happen and it could be years wasted on the wrong person. The trope "he's just a friend" occurs over and over again. If you don't want this, don't date these kinds of females or don't take them seriously. Good luck.
Please... blonde white girl here who dated an attractive, tall Asian guy for 5 years (in HK). I never cheated, he wasn't a simp. It was just a normal relationship. We got a lot of stares for sure, but just ignored.
The asian guy in the video looks GOOD
Trust? More like honesty.
0:52 facts why this guy even asking this question. Like its insecurty in some fall
try doing this article on "Song Joong Ki and Katy Louise Saunders"
I bet if it were a black male friend, he would be saying something completely different 😅
Nope all his interviews are equal and the same no matter who it is.
Lol wtf. No one mentioned black people here bro. Lay off the BBC porn 🤣.
maybe that guy have girl friends too, and he also sometimes meet his girl friends one to one. that's how they get along with each other.
Bro uses feminist language to trick himself into being a beta male for his girl. "Babe, we gotta go." She runs the relationship.
Some asian dudes got game. Especially them Cambodians
It's mostly Japanese or Korean dudes
I think these comments are from stereotypical redpill dudes; they cant stand that the dude has a reasonable take on a healthy relationship. Like even the "interviewer" is one of those redpill instigators, constantly trying to find an angle to criticize a woman he's throwing loaded questions at; thats literally 90% of his content.
And yea, WSHH is mostly non-black people pretending to be a negative stereotype of black people at this point.
AM has a chill relationship w WF - BM interviewer is skeptical that F-M relationships can survive unless there is exclusive access. The interviewer skepticism suggests a POV of a highly competitive and may be predatory dating mating environment that makes a trusting relationship the WF AM claims they have as being difficult to believe in if not impossible. AM have to overcome negative stereotypes - however, successful Korean pop has raised the Asian style awareness.
Asians don't wear the pants in the relationship
@@vklnew9824 < A Tiger AF might play with their food, but food is still prey. Being tasty helps if it is a Tiger. Princess AF may wear skirts, but they require a Prince Charming or a Knight in shining Armor.... so the Princess requires money, muscle, or a combo of both.
not "ching ching wing wing" hahahahah
the "general population" - now that is always a group you should care about following...
I think people say these things because usually Korean guys are not cool with their girlfriends having guy friends and such. I just don't think he is that into the girl in the video because if he was, I don't see him being so nonchalant about it. It didn't help that she was on her phone and then quickly turned to say, "we need to go" like she is the 'boss' in the relationship.
Korean guys are smarter than western males then
She is cheating
If asian men wanted to date outside of their race, aint no stereotypes goimg to stop us...truth is, most asian parents want their sons to marry asian women.
This is a cultural that sometimes is hard to break away from.
I don't see what him being Asian has to do with his opinions. Any white guy could say the same thing.
A white guy who says the same thing would also get roasted. Deep down every male knows “his girl” shouldn’t be flirting with other guys
@@LeadLeftLeon they never said flirting. What if the guy is gay?
It's called JEALOUSY!
Men don't like simps.
Women don't like pickmes.