Relationship History Lessons | Episode 35 | Give It To Me Straight Podcast

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  • Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
  • They say history is bound to repeat itself and the same can be said for relationships. If you don't acknowledge what has happened in the past, can you truly look forward to a better future for your relationship? In this episode, Jon and Alex offer their mediocre advice to listener questions about the denial of being ghosted, when being a healthcare worker and drinking don’t mix, changing family holiday traditions, living a lie after a traumatic event, and what exactly are your duties as a best friend.
    (0:00) Intro
    (11:35) Our Listeners Give Their Advice
    (17:27) Who Needs A Maid Of Honor Anyway?
    (20:01) Whoever Smelt It, Dealt It
    (22:19) From Being Ghosted To Going On Vacation
    (25:56) Drinking On The Job Never Ends Well
    (32:50) Sorry Grandma, We’re Not Coming To Christmas
    (36:48) The Harsh Truth About Escaping A Traumatic Event
    (40:30) Will Refusing To Go To Therapy End The Marriage?
    (44:09) Dogs, Parents, And Your Kids Safety
    (55:05) What Falls Under Best Friend Responsibilities?
    (1:02:19) Icks
    (1:08:16) Listener Review
    Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 89

  • @rosalindulloa5510
    @rosalindulloa5510 10 місяців тому +190

    Parts of the video were crashing! I thought it was my WiFi at first’

  • @kaylene6618
    @kaylene6618 10 місяців тому +66

    Thank God for John needing a summary of every question since it glitched during the reading🤣😂😂

  • @MJ-em1jp
    @MJ-em1jp 10 місяців тому +47

    Your podcast feels like a reward for surviving Mondays. 😁 Love you guys!

  • @busraytekin
    @busraytekin 10 місяців тому +27

    Hi guys, video is breaking down time to time. Example 55:44 - 56:15

    • @giveittomestraight
      @giveittomestraight  10 місяців тому +14

      Thanks for flagging this! We're working to address this ASAP! We'll likely have to reupload, but in the meantime, you can listen to the audio version on Spotify or Apple to get the full episode. So sorry!

    • @busraytekin
      @busraytekin 10 місяців тому +1

      No worries, thank you :)@@giveittomestraight

    • @Sal-tm3tp
      @Sal-tm3tp 10 місяців тому

      Broken down for me around 26mins also!

  • @edina4198
    @edina4198 10 місяців тому +12

    I just have to say that Jon is becoming my favorite person on the internet. I am getting just such good vibes from him. Controversial opinion: I am also starting to get annoyed with all of the negative talk between the two of them about him being the "less smart one". He is such a gentleman and always lets the half serious jokes slide. It literally only shows how much more emotionally intelligent he is here.

    • @josepharmstrong6852
      @josepharmstrong6852 9 місяців тому +3

      Emotional intelligance is a lie. Jon is a mature dude. I Often agree with his takes

    • @stayreckless115
      @stayreckless115 9 місяців тому +2

      Apart from all that mumble jumble Jon is Jon he decided to be the person he is 🙏🏽 and that is life, perspective is how you choose to live life. 🤙🏽 Jon is the friend I need in my life most def 🙌🏽💯

  • @juarezbabe
    @juarezbabe 10 місяців тому +15

    So off beat but “more passion, more energy” was definitely the theme of todays podcast! 🤣A very in tune Jon and Alex today ❤️

  • @Ivysaur544
    @Ivysaur544 10 місяців тому +6

    You both are just my kind of unhinged! I look forward to your podcasts every week, thank you for adding some positivity into everyone's Tuesday :) To anyone reading, if you're going through tough times just know that you're never alone and everything will be alright

  • @LauraMartinez-te6sw
    @LauraMartinez-te6sw 10 місяців тому +3

    “You’re releasing the devil!” 😂 I LIVE for this podcast. Your relationship feels so genuine and makes us “normal” couples feel like we’re not alone. Keep up the good work!

  • @samibreneman2888
    @samibreneman2888 10 місяців тому +12

    Tuesdays are the best days love listening to you guys! Relationship goals for sure

    • @giveittomestraight
      @giveittomestraight  10 місяців тому +2

      Tuesday’s are pretty great!! Thank you so much!!

  • @pamelasutton3055
    @pamelasutton3055 10 місяців тому +10

    Jon needs the questions printed out so he can read along… unless everyone else needs Alex to constantly breakdown every question. Saying that with love.

  • @Mancalashawty
    @Mancalashawty 10 місяців тому +3

    I’m trying to get my boyfriend to watch these with me because I genuinely feel they are giving me tools to me a better partner and be more understanding of the other side of things. Slay Alex and Jon!!!!

  • @nancypaopal3
    @nancypaopal3 8 місяців тому +2

    I have not comment for this channel but finally this is one I felt needed one lol when it comes to guys thinking I think we should consider Jon’s advice/ thinking more, I think maybe you were exception to the rule but truth is, sex on first dates can turn a guy away. Like Jon said he got what he wanted, easy, done, next! However, there is times when a guy just wants a girlfriend without being a boyfriend, which in a lot of cases in this modern world of dating is the case. Now and days people are afraid to ask in a years worth of dating let alone months what they are? Like what?! The fact that there’s guys that gaslight woman saying it’s too soon, it’s beyond me, I had an old friend who was dating someone for 2 years and asked me if it was too soon to ask what there future holds like what!? I encouraged her to speak up because wtf it’s been 2 years, that guy gave her nothing, got mad at me that I encouraged that like wtf lol they broke up and asks but why did he take me to trips and all that…. Well he got benefits of a girlfriend (sex! Let’s be real) without being a boyfriend.

    • @deraralu8809
      @deraralu8809 4 місяці тому

      You're so Intelligent ❤❤. It's great you told your friend the truth ❤

  • @heyitskait578
    @heyitskait578 9 місяців тому +1

    Oh boy. The dog and the kids story sounds like a perfect case for Judge Judy lmao

  • @karinasanchez8991
    @karinasanchez8991 10 місяців тому +1

    “One foot in a coffin” 😂
    John your reading was great we need more of it! Love you guys always entertaining love listening to your great advice! Alex your so beautiful 🤩

  • @Shanyata
    @Shanyata 10 місяців тому

    Great episode again! You two are hilarious😂❤

  • @loftnessmonster18
    @loftnessmonster18 9 місяців тому +1

    LOL the uninvited dog to the wedding got me good. Had my in-laws had their dog back when my husband and I got married, I could almost guarantee they'd show up with the dog at our wedding like it was no big deal.

    • @beancheese3148
      @beancheese3148 9 місяців тому +1

      I wouldn’t mind it either but some dogs are disruptive, especially during ceremony. And some guests might be allergic. I guess it just depends who shows up and if they’re a good boy. :)

  • @amandaburke4013
    @amandaburke4013 10 місяців тому +3

    Hey, the auto from 25:56-26:30 is cut, that takes the way of the content

  • @nikospodcast
    @nikospodcast 10 місяців тому +2

    Lol Jon energy is amazing each week it gets better and better! He must have had taco bell wearing his crocs and coffee! Let's gooooo great episodes. It's like Jon is reading my comments and I'm his hype man each week lol.....oh Alex is always great. #happyanniversary #smoothgliding

  • @peaceloveom
    @peaceloveom 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank god for the summaries and cliff notes because the video quality always cut out during the questions! Lol

  • @MariaHuerta-sg2eg
    @MariaHuerta-sg2eg 9 місяців тому +1

    The icks has me dyingggg!!! Lol

  • @imaginariumchoreography117
    @imaginariumchoreography117 10 місяців тому +6

    I had my dog on my wedding and let every friend bring theirs. My dog is my kid.. who is traumatized (she was adopted from the streets) and does not like kids. So I did not let kids near our wedding. It was the best. The dogs were on their best behavior and ate steak

  • @Keasestange93
    @Keasestange93 3 місяці тому

    Nice mindset ❤

  • @lisamarie161
    @lisamarie161 10 місяців тому +1

    I feel for Jon. My anxiety is through the roof whenever I go to a car wash because they are so impatient. I had a guy yell at me once and then went to go get what seemed like his manager to kindly help me out. So I just don’t go anymore lol 😂

  • @jademurphy-nh2tl
    @jademurphy-nh2tl 4 місяці тому

    The babysitting story with the dogs was a trigger recently my sister in laws daughter got bit in the face by her MIL dog and the MIL refuse to remove from the house and they decided to buy ANOTHER PUPPY🤦🏼‍♀️ absolutely insane!

  • @marisolquiles5293
    @marisolquiles5293 10 місяців тому

    Seems *curated* lol John

  • @ashlinpavone6311
    @ashlinpavone6311 10 місяців тому

    First comment! Love listening to you guys! I always get excited to see a new video pop up on my feed! This is currently my favorite podcast!

  • @leightonboyce4449
    @leightonboyce4449 10 місяців тому +1

    Goo-Goo whatchoo doin bout this glitch-fest. I need to soak in the entire video and be able to revisit it when I’m marathoning Jon and Alex.

  • @chelsea4854
    @chelsea4854 10 місяців тому +1

    Hey guys there's like a 30-second pause on the video between 25:58 - 26:26. Incase you didn't notice. I thought my wifi cut lol

  • @ninnx3
    @ninnx3 3 місяці тому

    Yeah Alex definitely said that someone was in a pickle and Jon laughed at her.. watched it coincidentally last week, laughed my ass off

  • @khrystynashevchenko
    @khrystynashevchenko 10 місяців тому

    5 stars 😂

  • @emmakatemiddleton
    @emmakatemiddleton 10 місяців тому +1

    I just love you guys😅 Discovered y’all on Instagram, started seeing your Shorts on YT, had to subscribe- not disappointed👏🏽 and yes, I’m a real one who watches all the full videos😂♥️

  • @kirstenkrieger1937
    @kirstenkrieger1937 10 місяців тому +2

    Glitchy! Still love you guys though

  • @oc2538
    @oc2538 10 місяців тому +1

    If you are bored and need a hall pass then what happens when a spouse is sick, has issues or other struggles....that means you are not there for the long term.

  • @jackierivera9621
    @jackierivera9621 10 місяців тому +4

    Umm first question.. no this is not freaking normal for a married couple? Does anyone value a marriage anymore?

    • @actuallyterry
      @actuallyterry 9 місяців тому +2

      I agree. So few people value marriage. I think most times when there is a 3rd person involved the relationship ends in ash.

  • @martiebrown7080
    @martiebrown7080 10 місяців тому

    👏 yes!! Always look forward getting new episode each week! Who else would love to get new episode every day or least every other day?! ❤😊

  • @sadiewebb6404
    @sadiewebb6404 10 місяців тому

    OMG IM NOT ALONE let me tell you when I said electric screwdriver to my fiancé and his carpenter friend 😅🥴😬😑 at least I’m not the only one who made themselves look like a complete idiot 🤣😂

  • @HellJess
    @HellJess 10 місяців тому

    I can do the spanish translation. I know a couple that live in my city (in mexico) who also copies your videos🙊🙊

  • @joeydsmomma
    @joeydsmomma 10 місяців тому

    So upset the video glitched in 3 different spots so I feel like I missed half the video 😢

  • @christyschmidt-mc5hk
    @christyschmidt-mc5hk 10 місяців тому

    I wanna meet them so bad lol

  • @val3535
    @val3535 9 місяців тому

  • @michaelaandrade9783
    @michaelaandrade9783 8 місяців тому

    Call out the scabby content creators 👀

  • @annajonsgaard
    @annajonsgaard 9 місяців тому +1

    Yep… ur dyslexic Jon.
    *Reads question
    “I don’t know what I read”

  • @isabelascarneiro
    @isabelascarneiro 10 місяців тому

    The podcast is freezing in a couple parts and I swear is not my wifi

  • @karenlynn1720
    @karenlynn1720 10 місяців тому

    Jon bernthal would be a bad ass person to be friends with

  • @karenlynn1720
    @karenlynn1720 10 місяців тому

    Y'all are still saying it wrong tho 😂😂💙💙

  • @lipalesamonchusi3085
    @lipalesamonchusi3085 9 місяців тому

    "giving Hunger Games"

  • @JulieCee97
    @JulieCee97 9 місяців тому

    Gee willikers 😂😂

  • @Diana_Gonzalez_Art
    @Diana_Gonzalez_Art 9 місяців тому

    I’ll translate 😂😂 hire me. I speak Spanish

  • @josepharmstrong6852
    @josepharmstrong6852 9 місяців тому

    The opinion of everyone is either I'm not going to judge them but not for me.This will be the majority becasue the worst thing you can ever do now adays is publicaly judge someone for something which used to be religiously controlled. Or I think it will not work because of x reason. The 1% opinion is marrage is a contract between you and your partner wittnessed by god and it's imoral to do that to your self your partner and god. It's wrong becasue it will damage your relationship because you forsaken the vow and broken it. If you don't want to get married then don't comitte to one.

  • @cateb.l5343
    @cateb.l5343 10 місяців тому +1

    Zero cares about Taylor Swift and her relationships. 🤷‍♀

  • @georgeaksich9017
    @georgeaksich9017 10 місяців тому

    The fact he says "ick", wears stuff like a chubbies hat and a "oh kale yeah" shirt, has that freddy mecurey stache and looks like/ has the same mannerisms of Matteo Lane. Your husband is 100 percent bisexual or gay.

  • @stayreckless115
    @stayreckless115 9 місяців тому

    Fuckin Alex and Jon man I swear couple married goals because they are who they are and that’s why it works 🫡🤙🏽🙏🏽