Should You Elope?

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  • @jenny-yn3lu
    @jenny-yn3lu 7 років тому +1568

    Having a big wedding 👰 doesn’t mean the marriage will be successful

    • @jjtt850
      @jjtt850 7 років тому +65

      Juna Antenor Having a 'marriage' doesn't mean it's a marriage either.

    • @sunrises8760
      @sunrises8760 7 років тому +4

      Juna Antenor Exactly

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 7 років тому +24

      Juna Antenor truth I know people who spent 100k on a wedding and lasted 1 year .

    • @thembicosta4394
      @thembicosta4394 7 років тому +1

      Juna Antenor What is a big "marriage"?

    • @AngeliinaAngel
      @AngeliinaAngel 7 років тому +15

      exactly and its not abt gettin married its abt stayin married. anybody can get married but can they last ?? can they survive

  • @mamamara3223
    @mamamara3223 7 років тому +591

    "Planned" eloped 13 years ago and still going strong!

    • @DominiqueSBG
      @DominiqueSBG 7 років тому +11

      Mara Fairfield Yes! So glad to here this!!!😄

    • @golummcsmeagolhomie2396
      @golummcsmeagolhomie2396 6 років тому +5

      Mara Fairfield nice! I myself am a big fan of the “elope and grope” strategy

  • @lilmakori
    @lilmakori 7 років тому +928

    I agree with Adrienne. I actually wanna elope, because I spending thousands of dollars on a one day doesn't make any sense to me.

    • @LGSN96
      @LGSN96 7 років тому +68

      lilian makori That one day is a celebration of binding with one person for the rest of your life. It's a pretty big deal, but I do get where you're coming from. Not everybody has that kind of money to spend.

    • @tylerthurston7918
      @tylerthurston7918 7 років тому

      lilian makori
      THE REAL

    • @livelife7955
      @livelife7955 7 років тому +15

      I also agree, it's the memory that counts. Do something intimate and special, not crazy expensive.

    • @priscilaandrade8618
      @priscilaandrade8618 7 років тому +13

      To me the wedding is a celebration of love with your S.O and the biggining of a new life together. I think its a very special and important moment in a person's life. With that being said, since its such an important and intimate moment i think it should be shared only with people who are close to the couple. I don't think any person is close to 400 people to invite them to the wedding. You wouldnt invite 400 people to see the birth of your child, so why invite so many people to your wedding? IDK, never was a fan of big weddings. My wedding had 50 people, didn't spent much money, but was the most special and fun day of my life so far.

    • @jiminsmix3403
      @jiminsmix3403 7 років тому +18

      A wedding is never about the marriage. It's a party for your friends and family. That's it.

  • @ohhthatemma
    @ohhthatemma 7 років тому +803

    Jordin has been WIFEY MATERIAL. I'm not at all surprised she took the opportunity when the right partner came along. I wish for her blessings and success in this marriage!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

    • @MaishaOnTop
      @MaishaOnTop 7 років тому +6

      Emma Mufundi Amen friend!

    • @ohhthatemma
      @ohhthatemma 7 років тому +9

      Right? And it's a Christian marriage!

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 7 років тому +8

      Emma Mufundi exactly Jordan is the type of girl I always tell my nephews they should find.

    • @ourhomeiscool
      @ourhomeiscool 7 років тому +3

      Emma Mufundi REALLY?! :-D That just made me smile. She is precious!

    • @laurencameron3150
      @laurencameron3150 7 років тому +13

      Yeah but they eloped because she pregant IMO and being that her family is religious, she knows that "daddy dont play that"

  • @valeriaperez9349
    @valeriaperez9349 7 років тому +231

    Loni’s hair is perfect on her.

  • @EstefanyGonzalezXO
    @EstefanyGonzalezXO 7 років тому +494

    Loni is over this conversation lmao 😂

    • @lianet777
      @lianet777 7 років тому +45

      Estefany Gonzalez she’s not; she was thinking back to her time when she eloped. She kept going back to memory. That’s a body language thing. She was thinking about it the whole time

    • @Famegonna9999
      @Famegonna9999 7 років тому +2

      Estefany Gonzalez 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 7 років тому +9

      Estefany Gonzalez KLol cause it brings back bad memories

    • @xredb
      @xredb 6 років тому +3

      I noticed, hahaha

  • @Destinay4lyf
    @Destinay4lyf 7 років тому +767

    A small intimate wedding is *NOT* eloping. Heck can you even put much planning into eloping? If the couple thought about having an intimate wedding or party or just a getaway but their closest loved ones know....then its not eloping.

    • @ericax7812
      @ericax7812 7 років тому +7

      Naseeha Amrika
      Lol true, true

    • @SJ-tb2wq
      @SJ-tb2wq 7 років тому +83

      Elope: verb (used without object), eloped, eloping. to run off secretly to be married, usually without the consent or knowledge of one's parents. 2. to run away with a lover.

    • @Destinay4lyf
      @Destinay4lyf 7 років тому +4

      Exactly!!!

    • @priscilia48
      @priscilia48 7 років тому +2

      Their parents didn't even know. They did it at spontaneously with their friends

    • @CaribbeanPatience
      @CaribbeanPatience 7 років тому +8

      I think they mean in the sense that you have talked about getting married and committing to one another and wake up one day and just decide to do it without all the hoopla of a wedding

  • @uniqueunique28
    @uniqueunique28 7 років тому +131

    If your going to get married make sure that person is right for you they should have the same morals and values you do if not it won’t work

  • @christina2311
    @christina2311 6 років тому +113

    I don't care about the wedding, I just want to be married to the love of my life. That's enough .

  • @puppyalvin
    @puppyalvin 7 років тому +71

    Eloping is just the bride and groom ALONE! no family present.

    • @andreafoxx1695
      @andreafoxx1695 6 років тому +15

      agree because ppl want be private and be happy

  • @fadumayusuf3027
    @fadumayusuf3027 7 років тому +261

    Adrienne always so aware of the damn audience lmao

    • @lianet777
      @lianet777 7 років тому +77

      Faduma Yusuf that’s what a good host does. They’re aware of the audience and actually engage with them. These are the people that put them up there where they are today

    • @faizasaeed1000
      @faizasaeed1000 7 років тому +12

      actually coz adrienne is siting in a corner and it gets obvious when she looks at the audience but if u observe all of them look as much as she does even tamera who is at a side is straight n can see the audience without her turning her face

    • @Cynthiaa.c541
      @Cynthiaa.c541 6 років тому +2

      if you notice sometimes she will talk to the audience

  • @ellenwhite2973
    @ellenwhite2973 3 роки тому +28

    When you elope, the wedding truest becomes about you and your partner. No family trying to give opinions, the vows don’t have to be so “speech” like... it’s about you and your love. That’s all.

  • @shirlstemple8741
    @shirlstemple8741 7 років тому +51

    Jeannie's thoughts are always my favorite! Love is very very personal. 👌🏾

  • @doseofdeja1425
    @doseofdeja1425 7 років тому +43

    I eloped and I couldn't agree more with Genie!! Saved all the opinions and naysayers from ruining my decision 😚

  • @tab0108
    @tab0108 7 років тому +85

    I eloped and it was planned. Got married on the beach in Mexico and our best friends attended. No regrets.

  • @candlewoodsecurity5204
    @candlewoodsecurity5204 6 років тому +6

    6 yrs into our relationship.....I eloped...it was the only day off my huni and I ever had at the same time....we drove to Vegas, went to the county clerks office it was empty...good sign....found an Elvis chapel...they had a licensed minister to do a 2 min I do's...you sign and then I got a small arrangement of flowers and you have an actual ceremony with Elvis as an officiate. a young Elvis walked me down the isle while singing and the photographer was taking awesome pics and it was perfect... we didn't tell anyone...we stood at an amazing hotel with a beautiful view, we got pictures, a dvd and a fabulous time in Vegas...best day of my life :)

  • @kittenmayz611
    @kittenmayz611 7 років тому +189

    Me & my husband eloped(planned) & it was the Best decision i ever made.

    • @bubblybuddy3441
      @bubblybuddy3441 7 років тому +20

      KITTEN MAYZ right! I had my "small wedding" (200 ppl went) at a restaurant and i hated it! I hate being the center of attention. It was so awkward for me. It was a civil ceremony but now I am going to have a symbolic one in Cancun this August with my family and close friends. Sometimes big events like that aren't for some people.

    • @LJ-yp8vx
      @LJ-yp8vx 7 років тому +5

      My husband and I did as well! Just the two of us and I wouldn't have had it any other way. Saved us money!

  • @jyabriel08
    @jyabriel08 7 років тому +151

    My husband and I eloped in the not planned way. We spoke about it multiple times and just decided to do it - $100 bucks well spent. Didn't tell family or anything it was just us against the world.
    I definitely believe it's not ideal for everyone and sometimes I wonder what would have happened if we did it the traditional way but we're still together 4 years later
    Some people can get married after 6 months and stay together forever, some people can date for 10 years and break up. It is what is.

    • @ceciliamartinez6292
      @ceciliamartinez6292 7 років тому +6

      jyabriel08 that's beautiful. However would you consider doing the wedding at renewing your vows ceremony like Tamara said? Just asking because you did say you sometimes wonder but if not that's fine. I personally can't live wondering for the rest of my life what if....

    • @jyabriel08
      @jyabriel08 7 років тому +3

      I was actually thinking about doing it for our 5th year but my husband is currently deployed. So maybe for your 10 year we'll renew our vows and have a big celebration. The only thing I miss from having a wedding is the dress and the cake lol.

    • @KAMYLAH29
      @KAMYLAH29 2 роки тому

      How long were you together before you eloped?

  • @twirltwirlful
    @twirltwirlful 7 років тому +152

    I’m DYING at Adrienne’s lil “ok” at 0:25 😂😂😂

  • @cecileissowa6691
    @cecileissowa6691 7 років тому +88

    Im most likely going to elope. I can't please everybody

    • @bubblybuddy3441
      @bubblybuddy3441 7 років тому +1

      Cecile Victoire right!

    • @angelicaa93
      @angelicaa93 6 років тому +7

      Cecile Victoire that's what hubs & mine situation was. Everybody was against us from the start. We dated for a little over a year & then he proposed to me in September of 2014. We wanted our wedding to be December 2014, 3 months later but eloped that day instead. There was too much drama & stress & I felt like I was fighting armies just to be with him & for people to be happy for us. Been married 3 years & together for 4 1/2 years.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 7 років тому +29

    I honestly feel like... at the end of the day... First of all let's congratulate Jordin on this AMAZING news !!! She genuinely looks happy and Its so crazy to see her married now ! But i feel like whether you wanna an extravaganza and go all out or even if you want to go to the court house and elope then that is up to you ! As long as you married I'm happy for you !

    • @bubblybuddy3441
      @bubblybuddy3441 7 років тому

      Myronn Coleman right! Sometimes those big events aren't for everybody. On my wedding day i felt so awkward. But thank god I'm having a retake in Cancun with close friends and family. 💜

  • @WhittyHutton
    @WhittyHutton 7 років тому +38

    If I ever got married I would elope because I just lost my father and I wouldn’t want a big wedding unless he was there

  • @Pal3sa
    @Pal3sa 7 років тому +8

    Eloping saves so much money.
    Do what works for you but remember that eloping means more money for a honeymoon &/or your future.

  • @gigglyfitzgirl
    @gigglyfitzgirl 7 років тому +65

    Didn't Tamera have like 4 separate parties with 4 different outfits for her wedding? Lol that wedding lasted like a whole week. 😭

    • @Neeshpeesh123
      @Neeshpeesh123 7 років тому

      gigglyfitzgirl 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 omg bol

    • @gigglyfitzgirl
      @gigglyfitzgirl 7 років тому +1

      Neeshpeesh123 😅😅🤣

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 7 років тому +3

      I would too if I could afford it

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 7 років тому

      gigglyfitzgirl are u sure u aren't talking bout Jeannie lol

    • @gigglyfitzgirl
      @gigglyfitzgirl 7 років тому

      Myronn Coleman I could've sworn it was Tam.

  • @kiranv4605
    @kiranv4605 7 років тому +163

    What in the Blanche Golden Girls is that top Adrienne???????????

    • @kaijoslynn
      @kaijoslynn 7 років тому +14

      All their outfits kinda looked old today...

    • @sannp5620
      @sannp5620 7 років тому +10

      lol true,but she does look good in it😊

    • @Olivia-ou7gu
      @Olivia-ou7gu 7 років тому +7

      tamera looks like a friggen pilgrim with her hair and top... michele dougger looking ass

    • @DeeL3
      @DeeL3 6 років тому +1

      Omg. . . this comment. . . LOOOOOOOOOL

    • @jane62603
      @jane62603 6 років тому

      Kiran G she is a bit of a Blanche

  • @MaishaOnTop
    @MaishaOnTop 7 років тому +93

    LONI THAT GLOW MAMA !!

  • @theechubbyone
    @theechubbyone 7 років тому +11

    I wouldn't elope, my smallest lowkey idea would be the courthouse with just family and have brunch or a meal nearby to celebrate but it will definitely be an intimate event with no bridal party, my checklist is simply: food, entertainment, venue, color scheme and call it a day. The wedding isn't as important as the union itself.

  • @heythere5817
    @heythere5817 4 роки тому +8

    Elopeing doesn't mean a rush. It means going away to get married with just the couple. Mine was planned for six months.

  • @thelovvornlife4504
    @thelovvornlife4504 7 років тому +2

    Yaaasss for the full segment clips!! Praise the loooorrrdd. Bye A you looked sooooo good!

  • @jenny-yn3lu
    @jenny-yn3lu 7 років тому +35

    Yes. You save money 💰 not everyone has a big packet like you guys

  • @priscilaandrade8618
    @priscilaandrade8618 7 років тому +6

    Me and my husband always had the dream to elope. When we goT engaged and told our parents ( they would be part of it as well) they got all sensitive because some family members wouldnt be part of the moment (we wanted only our parents and brothers sharing the moment). Well, we ended up planning a intimate small wedding (50 people) and decided to spend money in our honeymoon. Even though i regret not eloping anyways (planning a wedding is only fun if you dreamed with it your hole life. I personaltly hated, just wanted to be married and done with the hole thing) not spending so much money was the best decision EVER. I never got the point of big weddings anyways.

  • @jdinthehouse3070
    @jdinthehouse3070 7 років тому +2

    Thank you for the long clips!!! Yes!!! 🎉🎉🎉🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @aMaryK1
    @aMaryK1 7 років тому +34

    No shade.. i just bought my grandma that H&M plaid shirt that Tamera's wearing

  • @danyielsays4621
    @danyielsays4621 7 років тому +20

    Im loni when it comes to this topic👌💁 just sipping tea,nodding my head and smiling 😂 #teamsingle

  • @Neeshpeesh123
    @Neeshpeesh123 7 років тому +66

    I just wanna say I’m here for the all day girl chats. Yass please!

    • @gigglyfitzgirl
      @gigglyfitzgirl 7 років тому +2

      Neeshpeesh123 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @gigglyfitzgirl
    @gigglyfitzgirl 7 років тому +75

    I just know Jason Derulo is somewhere crying over this right now.

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 7 років тому +10

      Maybe not now but later when he grows from an immature f**boy to man. For now,he is still running after plastic dolled up women with with gigantic butts for one night stands.I don't know how they even get together in the first place.Guess he was Jordan's frog to kiss before finding her prince.

    • @bubblybuddy3441
      @bubblybuddy3441 7 років тому +9

      Rosa he lost a good one -.-

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 7 років тому

      gigglyfitzgirl nah he worried about hooking up with THOTS..😂

    • @SJ-tb2wq
      @SJ-tb2wq 7 років тому +4

      No he ain't. He's young and has access to a bunch of hot broads! He might think about it when he's pushing 40 and wants to finally settle down.

    • @G95_
      @G95_ 7 років тому +1

      I was actually waiting to see this comment!!! Literally, poor Jason Derulo loooooool

  • @melaniemoore2945
    @melaniemoore2945 7 років тому +5

    So happy for Jordin!

  • @Oldaccount-wx2lg
    @Oldaccount-wx2lg 7 років тому +1

    Loni looks so fucking beautiful and her hair is just out of this world!!!!

  • @GoodOlAllisonHarvard
    @GoodOlAllisonHarvard 7 років тому +6

    2:19 LMAO Adrienne: "I don't know her..." 😂🙌🏾

    • @Olivia-ou7gu
      @Olivia-ou7gu 7 років тому

      yeah what was with that shade... why can’t they just act professionally and not like high schoolers. Report the story..

  • @absolutelyridiculous3696
    @absolutelyridiculous3696 7 років тому +44

    I remember Jeannie saying whenever she has a breakup she always look fatter and more beautiful.
    I was like "what the hell!!!!??"
    But daaaaaaaaaaaaaaooouuuuuuummmmmmmmmmm
    I believe her she's looking dope asf😥😥😥😁😍😘
    Yaasss hun bunch!!!!🙌🙌🙌👐👏👏👏👏👏👍👍

  • @chocolateprincess8543
    @chocolateprincess8543 3 роки тому +4

    Yes!❤️❤️❤️ I will most definitely be eloping in the future .😌

  • @bubblybuddy3441
    @bubblybuddy3441 7 років тому +5

    I had a civil ceremony and a party of 200 people. I felt so awkward. Hate being the center of attention. But right now we are going to have a symbolic ceremony in Cancun with close friends and family. Im more excited for the smaller party than the big one we had. Sometimes big events (like huge weddings) arent for everyone.

  • @somieesomiee
    @somieesomiee 6 років тому +5

    Adrienne's point 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @blancavillasenor2370
    @blancavillasenor2370 7 років тому +3

    you guys are my pre marital counseling cause a girl out here lonely and broke but looking for advice

  • @xredb
    @xredb 6 років тому +3

    I'd rather have a small wedding and tell everybody later

  • @miaqueen3306
    @miaqueen3306 7 років тому

    I can never decide who i like the best out of them..love them all!

  • @kristenknight9985
    @kristenknight9985 6 років тому +7

    Jeannie: Was the guy dressed like Elvis?
    Adrienne: Was Elvis there?
    The shade!! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lashdb2057
    @lashdb2057 7 років тому +87

    I feel like Jeannie's question to Loni about having a feeling before marriage was personal. She probably is looking back and remembering her feeling. Sigh, I feel so much for Jeannie

    • @IfyouBelleve
      @IfyouBelleve 7 років тому +6

      Lash DB I agree they did another topic where she didn't feel ready to marry Freddie when he asked her

    • @lashdb2057
      @lashdb2057 7 років тому +1

      IfyouBelieve oh sigh. Was that today too?

    • @jennyeddins7809
      @jennyeddins7809 7 років тому +2

      Lash DB that was a while back when they were talking about proposals.

    • @TheLifeandThoughtsofShan
      @TheLifeandThoughtsofShan 7 років тому +3

      Lash DB that's what sprang to mind for me... I agree also because I had an experience such as this I didn't listen though and disaster struck later so it's good to follow your mind not your heart

  • @11SierraMist11
    @11SierraMist11 7 років тому

    Loving these longer videos!

  • @kezia-priscillavalentine1274
    @kezia-priscillavalentine1274 7 років тому +13

    Wait this is the first time Adrienne's stylist has slipped up

  • @AS-kf1ol
    @AS-kf1ol 7 років тому +3

    I hate the term eloping... We went to the courthouse and got married. Period. We planned to do it, it wasn't done on one random day. But it definitely happened on a Monday morning with 2 family members only. Then we went straight into the immigration process bc my husband isn't American and although we met, dated and lived together abroad, I wanted to go home to NY and take him with me. People have asked us if we'd do a "real" wedding... Like foh, you think our wedding wasn't real? Do you think our marriage isn't real? You don't know real love until you're in an international marriage, dealing with being separated and the very costly and invasive process of immigration. It's like Jeannie said, It's about what the couple needs/wants. Some couples who just got married on their own are way happier than couples who had huge weddings.

    • @jetnight88
      @jetnight88 Рік тому

      But if you rush you get blinded at the fact later.... Oh by it's too soon

  • @jtaggartt
    @jtaggartt 7 років тому +3

    My husband and I bought our first house together so we didn't have a huge wedding. It was just us and his mother and my bestfriend. We didn't want to spend a bunch of money on one day. Our wedding was magical without all of that.

  • @100Stratusfiedx
    @100Stratusfiedx 7 років тому +8

    Getting married period is just not the wave for me

  • @yahainHotPink
    @yahainHotPink 7 років тому +1

    Most cases of eloping are more planned than not! This is nice for Jordin & Dana

  • @caenterprisellc6922
    @caenterprisellc6922 2 роки тому +4

    Having a big wedding doesn't mean it will be successful. We had a wedding (planned for 1 year) with a guest list of
    over 100 people and spend approx 12k of personal saved money to pay for the wedding. I am now divorced and are no longer friends with none of the people that attended the wedding. Through everything one friend and family member called a few times over the past 2 years. I'm not hurt by it nor will I mend it. I just know who they really are. The thought of having a big wedding irritates me especially if there will be a bunch of people there so called there for me that I don't like and I don't care about. I'm not having a big wedding.

  • @MYMusicMYLove
    @MYMusicMYLove 7 років тому +4

    I think it's a romantic idea especially when you've known your s/o for a long time. However, I couldn't do it. It would break my mother's heart for her not to be at my wedding. However, I wouldn't mind a very small, cheap and intimate gathering.

  • @Joy-ut6yi
    @Joy-ut6yi 7 років тому

    I'm here for these long videos

  • @HummingbirdQueen
    @HummingbirdQueen 7 років тому

    Loni looks so beautiful today... she will always be beautiful but today the way her hair, makeup, and outfit is, really accentuate her features.

  • @gracesaysgrrr
    @gracesaysgrrr 7 років тому

    My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 5 and we are renewing our vows on our 10th anniversary in 2019 because when we got married, our families couldn’t be there.

  • @gigglyfitzgirl
    @gigglyfitzgirl 7 років тому +27

    A video almost 5 minutes long? Ok I see you, I see you.

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 7 років тому +3

      gigglyfitzgirl my sissy is back 😍😍😍

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 7 років тому +2

      gigglyfitzgirl did u see my comment in the section btw lol

    • @gigglyfitzgirl
      @gigglyfitzgirl 7 років тому +1

      Myronn Coleman yasss lol. 💜💖 Someone told me abt the web exclusive videos so I subbed again. 😂 And yes I saw your comment, and gave it a thumbs up. I normally do 😉😄

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 7 років тому +1

      gigglyfitzgirl girl we missed u and swaggypro I don't know where she is tho lol

    • @fg1434
      @fg1434 7 років тому +1

      Not only that they gave us two full videos for once 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Anbu_Leaf
    @Anbu_Leaf 7 років тому +1

    The fact that eloping by definition means in the spur of the moment, but where I️ live I️ can’t see that truly happening because u have to get a marriage licensee have specific I️.d. Last year me and my husband literally was going to just do it but found out we needed these things first.

  • @In_time
    @In_time 6 років тому +2

    Yes!! Adrienne nailed it.
    Always hated that song “it’s a beautiful night, we’re looking for something dumb to do, hey, baby, I think I wanna marry you”😳
    “Dumb”? Fr?
    👋🏻

  • @LiLmSzDiVa
    @LiLmSzDiVa 4 роки тому +1

    I really like the idea of a planned eloping.

  • @melissadin9718
    @melissadin9718 7 років тому

    Excellent advice Adrienne.

  • @Nanyal1
    @Nanyal1 7 років тому

    Finally. Longer videos

  • @msxeunybunxy
    @msxeunybunxy 7 років тому

    I love Adrienne's answer. We all need accountability on some level, no matter how old we are.

  • @mamartinez9340
    @mamartinez9340 5 років тому +11

    I eloped at age 15 with my 19 yr old school sweetheart. On June 20 😉on June 27 we will be celebrating our 38th anniversary. We had to wait for the longest 7days to officially marry by his grandfather at his other grandpa family home in the country. We waited on my mom to sign consent. We are happy serving each other in God grace. First love and only 💘 love. Young couple can survive marriage at young age or to one partner if truly committed . thanks for reading. God bless. Ma Martinez

    • @CedySeb
      @CedySeb 4 роки тому +2

      That is so beautiful. May God bless you both

    • @emyyyxx
      @emyyyxx 2 роки тому +2

      ngl it’s kinda weird he was dating a underaged 15 year old…. umm.. you couldn’t even legally give consent :/

  • @nieshathompson2080
    @nieshathompson2080 7 років тому

    Look at A! Soundin all grown spittin knowledge!

  • @thechildofgodpodcast116
    @thechildofgodpodcast116 3 роки тому

    I too plan it yes, but if not don't rush into it, because that will become a regret later

  • @sajini7925
    @sajini7925 7 років тому +15

    00:35 Adrienne you ok boo??

  • @reneelemos909
    @reneelemos909 7 років тому

    Tameras makeup is so pretty today. Love pop of color

  • @kimchimiyuofficial
    @kimchimiyuofficial 6 років тому

    I love intimate weddings. Because first, it saves money and second, it is more special because my loved ones are there on my special day.

  • @bennygreene1421
    @bennygreene1421 2 роки тому +1

    Elopement is the personal business between man and woman, and you notice every time you tell your business you suddenly have millions of opinions from people.

  • @girl8295
    @girl8295 7 років тому

    I love the H&M SHIRT Tamera is wearing. I saw it in the store a couple of months ago.

  • @vanessaventura7958
    @vanessaventura7958 7 років тому

    Finally a long video!

  • @ToniChauntel
    @ToniChauntel 7 років тому

    Loni is HAAAPPPYYY!!! She is glowing, WHAT IS GOING ON!? It’s a different kind of glow too 🤔 like.. she got a fine man glow lol

  • @kaydianstewart9646
    @kaydianstewart9646 7 років тому

    Beautiful and sound advice given ladies. Absolutely love you group of girls :)

  • @lumieredarling3739
    @lumieredarling3739 7 років тому

    I think it depends on the people and if they want that for themselves. I don’t think I would ever do it (because I overthink a lot and I’m a bit of a perfectionist/traditionalist), but who’s to say it wouldn’t be good for someone else?

  • @morganstewart3558
    @morganstewart3558 4 роки тому +1

    I never thought about it before, but this is kinda making me wanna get eloped

  • @Famegonna9999
    @Famegonna9999 7 років тому +1

    She's pulling a Brandy Norwood on us.

  • @shaedavis53
    @shaedavis53 7 років тому +12

    I would like to elope. I am a very private person and this would be perfect for me.

  • @haileekaleemwright
    @haileekaleemwright 7 років тому

    Loni looks amazing!!

  • @SallyandPaul
    @SallyandPaul 7 років тому +1

    You GO GIRL!

  • @MichelleJacksonM_bluecaramel14
    @MichelleJacksonM_bluecaramel14 7 років тому +1

    Me and my husband planned elope we went to the justice of the peace with Just my mom so I love it if it’s planned because we loved each other and I’ve been engaged before and I was planning at wedding and then I realized how much it cost and I think you should be financially stable because I don’t want to be in debt because of a party and we loved it we plan on having a wedding celebration as an anniversary thing but it saved us money especially because we were also moving state lines and we were together almost 3 years before we got married and that last year we got serious about what we wanted for our future because honestly unless your super young when you first start dating someone if you are not talking marriage after three years then you might need to just move on not saying you have to be married by then because some people stay engaged long so they can finance the wedding of their dreams and that’s great but if you can’t see future don’t waste your time

  • @biancamartin1606
    @biancamartin1606 5 років тому +18

    My husband and I eloped planned with some witnesses don’t regret it. It’s what we wanted. And everyone was so surprised and that made it fun we’re very private my social media didn’t even know I was in a relationship whole t we were living together for a brick 😂 posting the pictures was hilarious lol

    • @bennygreene1421
      @bennygreene1421 2 роки тому +2

      Keep it always from social media. If not you will have people making stupid and vulgar comments.

  • @TheTamitude
    @TheTamitude 7 років тому

    No one ever knows what's gonna happen. It's a gamble

  • @hey2930
    @hey2930 6 років тому

    She’s still married too they’re so cute! ❤️☺️

  • @sandrascott6244
    @sandrascott6244 7 років тому +1

    i planned my eloping with my husband no fuss no big bills best day then announced it at my birthday party had a brilliant time xx

  • @cmtaylor531
    @cmtaylor531 5 років тому +1

    Eloped. I have zero regret and no remorse about the wedding bill. It was a planned elopement. We had been engaged for over a year.

  • @karolinej6828
    @karolinej6828 7 років тому +1

    Tamara: "What's his name? Day-nuh? Dah-nah?"
    Adrienne: "Day-nuh"
    Tamara: "DAH-NAH"
    Adrienne: "oh okay..."

  • @journeygalore
    @journeygalore 6 років тому +1

    Tamera: What is Daina Danna?
    Adrienne: Danna
    Tamera: Daina!
    Adrienne: okay😐
    0:20 😂😂 I love them

  • @vickymary99
    @vickymary99 7 років тому

    Adrienne looks gorgeous!!!

  • @irenenjeri8720
    @irenenjeri8720 11 місяців тому

    In my opinion planned eloping is the best..so intimate.

  • @smeak9246
    @smeak9246 5 років тому

    I don't think you should elope on impulse. I do think it's a great way to save money and have money for your future. Bringing the idea to your significant other will show you whether or not they want a marriage or just a wedding. They don't have to be on board with the idea but if they fly off the handle about the suggestion that relationship is going nowhere

  • @Krfran14
    @Krfran14 6 років тому +1

    Loni looks beautiful in this segment

  • @daliaali6155
    @daliaali6155 7 років тому

    I feel like Loni was trying to avoid Jeanie's personal questions

  • @aliciaveal1284
    @aliciaveal1284 7 років тому

    Took our asses to the courthouse and had it done lol.

  • @Itsellasky
    @Itsellasky 4 роки тому

    We did and it was planned 6mo(engagement) . it also happen to be during the Covid 19! Which means it still would have only been us. 5-20-20 💕Always Us. We saved money and everyone understood because of the Covid. It was great

  • @mistymoody6291
    @mistymoody6291 3 роки тому

    I totally agree that it's extremely important to plan out an eloping day, make sure that it's the right, well known future spouse; appropriate/intimate/private/romantic location as well as proper/ethical/wise/respectful etc., Choosen, intimate guest, to be present as the newlyweds take that important step to a new beginning, because it's not like there going on a blind date, or clubbling., 😏

  • @MeechinAtown
    @MeechinAtown 7 років тому +1

    Eloping is good... Me and Britney Spears were supposed to Elope back in 2006 when she left Kevin Federline.