I think a lot has happened to loni which is y she don't say much bout herself,so she just kills it with a joke so she don't have to talk too much if at all
Having a miscarriages is no joke. I've had 4 miscarriages & 2 stillborn babies. Now I have 3 beautiful daughters & a grandson. My heart goes out to woman that have gone through that experience of miscarring & having a stillborn baby.
God loves you Loni, and He has a plan for your past pain in life. My mom lost 3 kids and God eventually blessed her with a miracle 1 pound 8 ounce baby at 25 weeks gestation and I was born. And I’m now 22 going on 23 in June
Cray May yes I noticed this! it bothers me bc in my head I think she's a really good friend to those other girls. lol in my head I know them. Loni will make self depreciating jokes to make the other girls feel better. So glad when Loni opened up they comforted her.
This is the realest Loni has ever been! Loni usually doesn't like to open up and I commend her for doing so. I feel so sorry for her band her miscarriage, but Auntie Loni has a lot of children she looks after and their blessed to have her in their lives!
i love the real bc this show is like therapy for these girls sometimes. you get to see these ladies have breakthroughs and work things out. Loni is such a sweet person, she supports the others a lot. I'm glad she was vulnerable for a moment. Loni seems like an awesome friend♡
MsBrooklyn11232 my heart breaks for her. There was an episode where she was talking about her younger brother getting presents from his dad and she didn't get anything. Her mom could barely get them presents, LL broke down because she was young and didn't know why she didn't get any presents. I love her.
Sooo sad Loni. Dang man😭. Loni if you're reading this...You are AMAZING and you have a wonderful, loving heart. Thank you for sharing your story. You might not be a biological mother but you are still a mother to many children. Everyone needs an Auntie Loni ❤️️❤️️
christian doodles a miscarriage is when a pregnant woman has complications and loses the baby during her pregnancy, mostly during the first trimester. A stillborn baby is when the pregnant woman makes to the final trimester but the baby dies. They would have her give birth but the baby is dead. Loni had a miscarriage because she lost her baby at 8 weeks, that's first trimester
Blackbutterfly223ifY, loni is still a mother. Her body gave birth to her baby. And further more all women and girls who've had abortions are mothers too. You said it " a misscarage is when a pregnant woman has complications and loses the BABY" so the baby is outside loni now. Even if it was born dead, it's still loni's child.
Loni has lived people. This is a legend sitting on that table. This woman has many stories to tell. We just don't take her too seriously because she's an entertainer. Loni isn't fake at all she's just not prepared to reveal her true identity and what she had been through. Loni has two types of personality. The comic or funny personally and the REAL Loni. On this segment she revealed her real self and I think that's very courageous and applauding.. Loni Love
Moussa Keita Yeah, all those laughs could fool you into thinking there isn't more to her than that, but I get the sense that you're right- the good comedians have a full life to back their jokes up.
So sorry Loni 😞 💔 I really know how your feeling. I lost my daughter after I gave birth to her. I carried for 8 months until she was ready for the good Lord to take her I never got to hold her nor kiss her they only let me see her for 10 seconds and I will forever cherish those 10 seconds she was alive. 💖💖💔
Elijah Meadows yeah I can agree, and I’m a guy. As I’m getting older I’m realizing that I’m more emotional than I ever thought. I was always kinda a person that didn’t ever really hardly cry or show emotions that much. Now I’ll 😭 in sight about something 😂🤷🏽♂️
Ugh...this takes away all of my negative thoughts about when I feel like Loni isn't being very nice. So Ms. Loni, all the love to you and your future baby, if that's your will and His. Hugs and with love!
*knows your a virgin* Me:*misses your period* Also me: *gets a pregnancy test check to make sure I’m pregnant or not*. EDIT: wow I didn’t think it would get this many likes and for people who are being rude thinking I’m dumb a) English isn’t my first language b) I’m getting my B.A in Sociology and Minor in Psychology thank you
Jay 2.0 I think her jokes are authentic, and I hope you're not suggesting that she has to cry to show her true self. Even while crying, she was still cracking jokes.
Loni is the type of person that has built so many walls of self-protection it's hard to see her real personality. I honestly think her whole thing of not wanting to be married or have kids is some sort of defense mechanism because she doesn't want to be hurt. The few times she's been emotionally vulnerable were the one time where they were talking about baggage, when she was talking about getting her education and this. I think she has a complex about her weight and I think she doesn't trust she'll ever meet a man who would want her as she is. Therefore she adopted this whole wild persona to protect herself. Again, this have just been my observations from only seeing her on this show. I actually think Loni is the most emotionally sensitive of the ladies. Sometimes her mask falls and we get to see how she really is, but it's rare. Comedians tend to be tortured people anyways.
Every time Lone cries, I cry. She does so much to make others happy and show that she's happy, when she's been through so much. I respect her so much and send all my love to her. Such a beautiful person.
Everytime one of them cries, I'm almost crying with them too. IT's only when she cries that I know she's telling the truth and not joking, because when she laughs I don't know if she's just joking.
Nellie K. Adaba shes a natural comedian. Everyone has different ways that they tell their stories ... if even somethings serious she may laugh because thats how she copes with it...
What I find really beautiful is that Adrienne was able to make Loni laugh after she’d just been crying and like I mean those girls are family, I love it
Miscarriages are normal. I hope that one day the discussion can take place to where women can heal the best ways possible when miscarriages take place. We need free counseling for women (and their partners) bottom line. I'm sure it exist.
She also talked about how she was going through postpartum depression on an episode. So that probably explains why she was super emotional last season.
Last year in February, I was raped by a person who wouldn't take no for an answer. It was awful and I blamed myself. A month later I found out that I was pregnant. Before I found out, I hadn't put any thought into that possibility. Instead, I began to drink every day and when I felt sick, I blamed my daily hangovers. Then my period was late, then stopped, then started again but with spotting. Then came the day that I began to bleed and had the absolute worst pain in my pelvic area that I had ever experienced. Something was wrong. So after spending three hours alone in the emergency room, the doctor came in and told me that I was pregnant but that I had miscarried. To say I was shocked would be an understatement. I've not been the same person since that day. I still blame myself for the loss because I'm sure that my drinking is what caused it although the doctor assured me that miscarriages, especially in first pregnancy, are often. But still I have guilt. Both for the rape and losing my baby. I know everything happens for a reason but I often wonder what my life would be like if things had gone differently. I'd have a twelve month old little boy or girl and I'm sure I'd be a very different person than I am now.
ashmoonz I'm so sorry you went through that... please don't ever blame yourself for the rape or the pregnancy that followed or the misscaraige. Miscarriages happen VERY often in the first 3 months...Like very very often...So much so that most people don't even know they were originally pregnant. Also alcohol usually doesn't cause misscaraige..most heavy drinkers continue the pregnancy and give birth to children with FAS so your drinking likely had nothing to do with your loss. Praying for you though
Mbaliville That made me cry because i experienced the same.. And now that im older.. I realize that everything do happens for a reason.. But still hurts..
its not something you like to talk about. i lost my first baby at 7 weeks and some of my family anf closest friends dont even know because i dont want to share it with everyone
So sorry for your loss. Be comforted that your baby is in heaven Loni. There are so many children that would love for you to be their mom through adoption.
My mom miscarried her first child and then was told she couldn't have kids and then was blessed with twins(my sister and I) prematurely. We are now 23 and in college.
Wow same thing happened with my co worker,she was told she couldn't have babies and then her bf was joking and said he was gonna give her twins and she freaking did ! So crazy !
Loni my heart broke when you told your story, you are just like me .. you look strong from the outside and you are but you are so hurt inside and so emotional .. covering everything with jokes.. i feel you girl
My cousin was born with a disability and the doctors told her all her life she couldn’t have a baby. She now has my baby cousin, she’s a healthy 3 year old. Glory to god!
I love tamera for being conscience of jeannie's wishes and stopped bringing up her having a baby and just say passing the torch to Adrienne and NOT Jeannie DOPE ❤❤
My wife has had 3 miscarriages and it's the most difficult situation a woman can ever experience. Women are truly strong individuals ..so when I see you ladies cry I understand. My heart goes out to all the moms and those who've experienced that loss.
I have a coworker who has had an unplanned pregnancy. At first she was so blasé about the it. A few weeks after she found out, she had a miscarriage. After that I can see that she was really bummed out, and always backtracking, trying to figure out what she did wrong. Miscarriage is no play. A couple of months later she got pregnant again, so it's all good.
after an ectopic pregnancy i kept telling myself i didnt want children. one because i wasnt ready. two because i hadnt found my husband and 3 because i didnt want to get my hopes up. But God is good and after six years i had my first baby with a man who is an amazing father and husband. my boy is now 8 months😍😚 Thank you for sharing loni you are beautiful and one day you just never know!
Thank you Loni for sharing your story, I’ve had 2 miscarriages myself, the last one was an ectopic pregnancy that burst my only good fallopian tube so it was hard finding out in my mid twenties I was infertile. This all happened after I had my son at age 19, which was young yes, but he is a blessing, doctors said I had so many issues I should’ve miscarried. He is now 15 and I thank God we decided to have him or we would’ve probably had no children at all. Life is so precious. I pray for all you ladies who’ve been through this including Loni, there’s no pain like it. God Bless
Girl, I feel like I was meant to see this video. I lost my first at 16 weeks, and I was in the exact same position. I was upset and angry, and my boyfriend was excited, and when I finally became okay with it, I miscarried. I've had another child and am pregnant again and I hate it. I can't calm myself down until the baby gets here and I know he/she is okay. It's so hard being a woman sometimes.
Y'all I am a virgin but one time it didn't come for 3 months and I was so scared. I thought God made me the next Virgin Mary. Finally I went to the obgyn and they said i wasn't pregnant. Thank the lord!
Poor Loni. Despite the fact that i'm a man, i do really appreciate your courage to just let it out smth sooo personal and inspirational for all those women out there....give ya props
although I LOVE when Loni opens up and gets real, it really broke my heart. Thank you for sharing your experience, Loni. Sorry if comment section gets tough sometimes. We appreciate and respect you.
I've had 4 miscarriages and 1 stillborn i have my son ashes. So i still have him with me. But i felt like God hate me are curse me. It's just not fair i see people that have kids and act like they wish they didn't have them. Some days i feel dead inside because I'm a mother without her child. Writing this ,my tears are falling but i know that they are all in heaven.💔👣😢
Some days i open up my babies 📦 and cry over it. If he feels my tears over his ashes maybe he'll come to me in my dreams. I'll even take that if it wasn't for my mom i probably would've been killed myself the pain is so hard to live with.
Ashley Mitchell I know it may feel like a punishment from God but please know that he loves us and wants the best for us. We may not understand why the hard times fall upon us but we do all have to overcome some kind of hardship and God is always there to restore and heal our hearts. I too have had a stillbirth and it has been one of the hardest things I have had to try to get over. I still miss my daughter but I want you to know that a year later I was blessed to have a healthy beautiful baby that I cherish to death. Please don't give up hope. Sending lots of love your way...
Omg Loni I didn't expect that I'm sure no one expected that Loni is just so tough in the outside but she is kind to but, on the inside shes all emotions
I cried...love Loni! That was brave to share. You can tell it hurt her a lot to go through that. For every woman that has had to go through such pain, my prayers are with you.
I almost cried. Yes, because in the old time days and even now, some men blame women for miscarriages or if the child is a female, and here nobody blamed her, she blamed herself. I wish her all the best.
Dee Jay I used to get nervous if it was late cause of thinking maybe something's wrong health-wise, but nowadays my period is so irregular I don't even worry about it lol
gigglyfitzgirl girl mine too. I sometimes got late periods and irregular bleeding. Finally went and got it checked out, turns out I had imbalanced hormones. So I'm always nervous now.
Dee Jay dead ass. when I was younger and I just started learning about sex ed, my period was late and I just knew I was about to be the next Virgin Mary 😩😂
Dee Jay aww man I thought you would've been less nervous. At least you now know the cause of it. I have imbalanced hormones too and this last medicine I went on threw me even more off.
gigglyfitzgirl girl ! They gave me progesterone pills... I had my period for a week like usual, it ended. Then came back for another full week a couple days after. I have the period tracker app and now it's never accurate. I'm stressed
I literally knows what loni's tears means two years ago I was pregnant and six months later I lost my baby, today lm four months pregnant and lm having nightmares about losing another baby losing a baby is an indescribable pain please pray for my baby 😭
Miscarriages are definitely painful, I know. First I had a stillborn at 38 weeks, baby girl and 2 miscarriages after. I actually told my fiance at the time he should marry someone else bc I didn't think I could have children. But thanks to God blessing me, I have 3 beautiful boys now!!😊 I wouldn't trade motherhood for anything else, it is a gift! So just know when and if you supposed to have your children, you will! Be blessed😊
aww 😩. I feel so bad for loni, people like her don’t deserve this. I see how vast it has affected her. I hope she understands it not her fault and that people love her. we love you loni 🖤
Awe, loni's story made me cry. I've miscarried before and we just definitely took it different ways. She made sure she didn't get pregnant again but mine made me realize how much I wanted a baby and we started trying
I appreciate Loni so much for sharing her painful experience. My ex-wife miscarried our twin boys early in our relationship and after two wars I'd hardened my emotions so much to avoid pain that I didn't feel the impact of that loss until Loni shared this. My boys would have been 22 years old this year. Now I feel the full grief of losing them. It hurts, but I feel blessed to finally acknowledge that pain and slowly let go of it. Thanks Loni!
This just strengthens my understanding of Loni so much. She doesn't share things so often because she's an entertainer. She has already been through the worst, or just so many bad events in her life that she wants to share her joy. She wants to bring happiness because she already understands what it means to go through so much, I'm the same. I don't want to be known as someone who's such a downer, I want to crack jokes and see people smile. I want people to know me as the person who makes everyone smile when they need it. Loni, Thank you for sharing.
I love Loni Love more every single day. You can tell in her face she's debating bringing it up or not and I'm so glad she had the strength to talk about it because it's real life and lots of women face that reality every day. Loni, you're amazing. Nothing but love.
I've watched this episode on TV and a time or two on here. And it gets me every time. Loni, i respect you for sharing your story and I also give my apologies. It is never hard to talk about it. I myself had 3. I was 16 1/2 weeks with the first, about 10 weeks with the second. The Lord blessed me with my now 7 yr old daughter and than I had my third miscarriage after my daughter. I Thank God for blessing me with 1. Things happen in life for a reason. May God continue to bless you in many ways. ❤️
My story is similar to Loni's I was 28... pregnant w/a boy 5th month...went in labor...he was still born...I was in labor for 3 days He was due on my mother's bday...lost my mother when I was 17 And I never ever wanted kids after Kaleel ...my heart was already in a trillion pieces losing him made it worse
To bring this comments section up a little my sister had a miscarriage. She was so scared for 4 years and then one day she was blessed with 2 beautiful twin girls ❤❤
Omg Loni! I went through the same thing! 😭 and 3 years later I was pregnant again and I was terrified and scared of any complications- thank the Lord for blessing me with a baby boy. And even after the pregnancy I had anxiety because I didn't want to let him down. You're a tough girl Loni. X
I never experienced a miscarriage, I cannot imagine. But I have experienced infertility issues. Loni's story is so heartbreaking. She's so brave to share her story with us.❤
I kept repeating this episode of the real, because it hits me 😭😭,I could feel your pain as if it happened to me. I'm proud of you Loni for sharing your story. Thank you!! 🙏🙏You are blessed ❤❤
she's such a beautiful woman, my heart goes out to her, as mom's we have to always be grateful we have are little ones not everyone is blessed to have children.
I NEVER wanna hear anybody say that Loni is not real EVER again. We love you Loni. 😢💜
I want to give Loni a huge hug.
Mark McCune Me too 😞
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I know...she really put herself out there...much respect to Loni. Thanks for sharing.
I think a lot has happened to loni which is y she don't say much bout herself,so she just kills it with a joke so she don't have to talk too much if at all
Ive had 3 miscarriages and im now pregnant again. Im hoping this one makes it. I feel for you.
im wondering as well. much blessings
I hope you and baby are doing okay sending prayers
Hope you're well!!
I wish you nothing but the best and great success.
Mandy Ashley your baby will make it in Jesus name❤️❤️❤️
Having a miscarriages is no joke. I've had 4 miscarriages & 2 stillborn babies. Now I have 3 beautiful daughters & a grandson. My heart goes out to woman that have gone through that experience of miscarring & having a stillborn baby.
I'm so proud of you. It must have been such a heart breaking time. Even when you probably didn't feel like you were you are so strong.
Wow ... You are strong. 💞
I'm so sorry :( I haven't had a miscarriage but I had a stillborn at 21 weeks and it sucked! :'(
Yes, several miscarriages and one stillbirth. I have one son though...still blessed but it FOREVER changes/affects you
🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️💜
God loves you Loni, and He has a plan for your past pain in life. My mom lost 3 kids and God eventually blessed her with a miracle 1 pound 8 ounce baby at 25 weeks gestation and I was born. And I’m now 22 going on 23 in June
Jenna Kaufman I was born at 24 weeks 1lb 5oz, im 28
Happy birthday
Amen
Vanessa Williams hooray
My bday is on 23 June too
I could always tell loni covered up pain with her jokes.. she avoids opening up. I really appreciate her for this❤ this got to me 😪💔
Cray May she would've been a great mother, but she's a great aunt
Cray May yes I noticed this! it bothers me bc in my head I think she's a really good friend to those other girls. lol in my head I know them. Loni will make self depreciating jokes to make the other girls feel better. So glad when Loni opened up they comforted her.
Cray May most comedians do this. I've heard many of them say that. Not to mention Kevin Hart's "Laugh at My Pain"
Sugar Spice & Sparkle m
Dude I am crying!!
This is the realest Loni has ever been! Loni usually doesn't like to open up and I commend her for doing so. I feel so sorry for her band her miscarriage, but Auntie Loni has a lot of children she looks after and their blessed to have her in their lives!
MsBrooklyn11232 I know what you mean. loni....... my heart dropped. I have always loved her
No matter how many kids are around her , it's not the same as having your own
MsBrooklyn11232 I was so shocked !! I understand her a lot more now!!
i love the real bc this show is like therapy for these girls sometimes. you get to see these ladies have breakthroughs and work things out. Loni is such a sweet person, she supports the others a lot. I'm glad she was vulnerable for a moment. Loni seems like an awesome friend♡
MsBrooklyn11232 my heart breaks for her. There was an episode where she was talking about her younger brother getting presents from his dad and she didn't get anything. Her mom could barely get them presents, LL broke down because she was young and didn't know why she didn't get any presents. I love her.
When Loni started crying and saying “I was pregnant”. I felt that.
I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks a year ago 🙁 and now I’m 6 months pregnant!! Never lose faith
Congratulations
Congrats
How old’s your baby now?
Any update ??
Sooo sad Loni. Dang man😭. Loni if you're reading this...You are AMAZING and you have a wonderful, loving heart. Thank you for sharing your story. You might not be a biological mother but you are still a mother to many children. Everyone needs an Auntie Loni ❤️️❤️️
She is a biological mother. The baby may not have lived. But she did give birth
christian doodles she had a miscarriage, not a stillborn baby
But what is a misscarage ?
christian doodles a miscarriage is when a pregnant woman has complications and loses the baby during her pregnancy, mostly during the first trimester. A stillborn baby is when the pregnant woman makes to the final trimester but the baby dies. They would have her give birth but the baby is dead. Loni had a miscarriage because she lost her baby at 8 weeks, that's first trimester
Blackbutterfly223ifY, loni is still a mother. Her body gave birth to her baby. And further more all women and girls who've had abortions are mothers too. You said it " a misscarage is when a pregnant woman has complications and loses the BABY" so the baby is outside loni now. Even if it was born dead, it's still loni's child.
Loni has lived people. This is a legend sitting on that table. This woman has many stories to tell. We just don't take her too seriously because she's an entertainer. Loni isn't fake at all she's just not prepared to reveal her true identity and what she had been through. Loni has two types of personality. The comic or funny personally and the REAL Loni. On this segment she revealed her real self and I think that's very courageous and applauding.. Loni Love
Well said, Moussa.
Moussa Keita agreed. Very well said
Moussa Keita Yeah, all those laughs could fool you into thinking there isn't more to her than that, but I get the sense that you're right- the good comedians have a full life to back their jokes up.
Moussa Keita All the love to you loni
It's often the clowns who have a lot to hide behind that thick make up and smiles. (Pls don't take this literally).
Loni's story broke my heart. Sometimes the things people have stored up inside.
So sorry Loni 😞 💔 I really know how your feeling. I lost my daughter after I gave birth to her. I carried for 8 months until she was ready for the good Lord to take her I never got to hold her nor kiss her they only let me see her for 10 seconds and I will forever cherish those 10 seconds she was alive. 💖💖💔
God bless her soul. I can't stop crying. I wish you get all the strength in the world to heal. Love n blessings from india
Alissa Serenity your faith and optimism is your strength ♥️ never lose it
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Wow 8 months I think that's literally the hardest thing I can fathom going through I hope you're at peace 🙏
oh my god, I am so sorry to hear that.....I hope you can find peace and healing
Loni is such a sensitive soul. You have no idea what people have been through. We love you Loni.
Natural Fantastic It seems like Loni never opens up bout some issues in her life....and now we all got her
She’s a cancer they’re very sensitive and emotional
cam jones I'm a cancer and I'll admit this is very true.
Elijah Meadows yeah I can agree, and I’m a guy. As I’m getting older I’m realizing that I’m more emotional than I ever thought. I was always kinda a person that didn’t ever really hardly cry or show emotions that much. Now I’ll 😭 in sight about something 😂🤷🏽♂️
Ugh...this takes away all of my negative thoughts about when I feel like Loni isn't being very nice. So Ms. Loni, all the love to you and your future baby, if that's your will and His. Hugs and with love!
I'm so proud of Loni for opening up ❤️ That explains why she loves children so much.
ikr
Anyone cry the second Loni started? Man this woman has such a beautiful soul.
*knows your a virgin*
Me:*misses your period*
Also me: *gets a pregnancy test check to make sure I’m pregnant or not*.
EDIT: wow I didn’t think it would get this many likes and for people who are being rude thinking I’m dumb a) English isn’t my first language b) I’m getting my B.A in Sociology and Minor in Psychology thank you
This makes no sense. Idiot
@@285Aklima HUMOR
Hahahaaa same here!
Wasted money
facts lmaooo
I admire Loni soo much more now that she is letting her true authentic self show
Jay 2.0 I think her jokes are authentic, and I hope you're not suggesting that she has to cry to show her true self. Even while crying, she was still cracking jokes.
MisterRoseMan I do feel like Loni is not as forth coming as alot of the girls are. No shade btw, just an observation
Jay 2.0 she needs couseling
Loni is the type of person that has built so many walls of self-protection it's hard to see her real personality. I honestly think her whole thing of not wanting to be married or have kids is some sort of defense mechanism because she doesn't want to be hurt. The few times she's been emotionally vulnerable were the one time where they were talking about baggage, when she was talking about getting her education and this. I think she has a complex about her weight and I think she doesn't trust she'll ever meet a man who would want her as she is. Therefore she adopted this whole wild persona to protect herself. Again, this have just been my observations from only seeing her on this show. I actually think Loni is the most emotionally sensitive of the ladies. Sometimes her mask falls and we get to see how she really is, but it's rare. Comedians tend to be tortured people anyways.
ladynottingham89 she need therapy
Every time Lone cries, I cry. She does so much to make others happy and show that she's happy, when she's been through so much. I respect her so much and send all my love to her. Such a beautiful person.
Everytime one of them cries, I'm almost crying with them too. IT's only when she cries that I know she's telling the truth and not joking, because when she laughs I don't know if she's just joking.
Thought I was the only one
Or anybody cry makes me cry
@@aleshatran u have a good heart
Nellie K. Adaba shes a natural comedian. Everyone has different ways that they tell their stories ... if even somethings serious she may laugh because thats how she copes with it...
What I find really beautiful is that Adrienne was able to make Loni laugh after she’d just been crying and like I mean those girls are family, I love it
The way Adrienne said “sure” at the beginning killed me 🤣
Sad to know that's the reason Loni never had kids.
gigglyfitzgirl yes that moment was very sad
gigglyfitzgirl I know right. It makes me sad. But I'm glad to know that she's made peace with it and managed to be happy again.
She's mentioned before in the show but it's still really sad
Miscarriages are normal. I hope that one day the discussion can take place to where women can heal the best ways possible when miscarriages take place. We need free counseling for women (and their partners) bottom line. I'm sure it exist.
luvpink26ify Which episode? Is it on UA-cam?
Tamera's been handling her emotions really well this season! Not a lot of crying from her.
Drake Reid I noticed that too gud for her
Drake Reid she's not pregnant anymore
ForeverandAlways.......lol. true
Drake Reid ikr I was a little concerned lol
She also talked about how she was going through postpartum depression on an episode. So that probably explains why she was super emotional last season.
Last year in February, I was raped by a person who wouldn't take no for an answer. It was awful and I blamed myself. A month later I found out that I was pregnant. Before I found out, I hadn't put any thought into that possibility. Instead, I began to drink every day and when I felt sick, I blamed my daily hangovers. Then my period was late, then stopped, then started again but with spotting. Then came the day that I began to bleed and had the absolute worst pain in my pelvic area that I had ever experienced. Something was wrong. So after spending three hours alone in the emergency room, the doctor came in and told me that I was pregnant but that I had miscarried. To say I was shocked would be an understatement. I've not been the same person since that day. I still blame myself for the loss because I'm sure that my drinking is what caused it although the doctor assured me that miscarriages, especially in first pregnancy, are often. But still I have guilt. Both for the rape and losing my baby. I know everything happens for a reason but I often wonder what my life would be like if things had gone differently. I'd have a twelve month old little boy or girl and I'm sure I'd be a very different person than I am now.
ashmoonz I'm so sorry you went through that... please don't ever blame yourself for the rape or the pregnancy that followed or the misscaraige. Miscarriages happen VERY often in the first 3 months...Like very very often...So much so that most people don't even know they were originally pregnant. Also alcohol usually doesn't cause misscaraige..most heavy drinkers continue the pregnancy and give birth to children with FAS so your drinking likely had nothing to do with your loss. Praying for you though
ashmoonz never blame yourself for being raped, luv. Ever!
i hope you are doing well now. she or he's an angel.
ashmoonz I'm so sorry
Sometimes God allows women to go through miscarriage to save you. I pray you get through this.
This got me cryin’
Loni is the realest. Inspired.
Mbaliville right
yea, loni is so real
Mbaliville That made me cry because i experienced the same.. And now that im older.. I realize that everything do happens for a reason.. But still hurts..
Mbali I just want to have kids👶🍼 one day☉💖☄ I on birth control💊👶🍼🙏💝📿
oh come on. you know thats a lie. she is not even in the position to be the realest. it would be nice for her to have a podcast.
I can't believe how close the girls are and they never knew this. I commend loni for telling such a hard story.
its not something you like to talk about. i lost my first baby at 7 weeks and some of my family anf closest friends dont even know because i dont want to share it with everyone
Leah E Loni shares when she feels ready. The other ladies just share their secrets like it's bread lol
Leah E she actually mentioned it before on this show so idk what they talking about
luvpink26ify oh when?
i believe either it was in the test runs or season one
So sorry for your loss. Be comforted that your baby is in heaven Loni. There are so many children that would love for you to be their mom through adoption.
Can we give a round of applause to Loni she is such a strong woman. We love you❤
I wish I could give Loni a hug.
poopsieperez me too!
I pray if it's God's will that she's able to get pregnant n carry the baby n be healthy and well.
in Jesus name amen
Mirna Bonilla she just stated she never wants to get pregnant again you need to learn to listen and stop wishing things on people that they DONT WANT
Mirna Bonilla stupid bitch
See is soo sweet
Loni's children are Tamera, Adrienne and Jeannie.
Ebony Puru I love this
Ebony Puru Loni's children are also Aden and Ariah. she loves them endlessly♡
Ebony Puru
Yup. Tamar was one if hers, too.
So sad that Loni made sure she never got pregnant again because she miscarried before
It is truly traumatizing, you are never the same after the first one
~virgin~
Me-misses period
Me- oh I guess I am going to give birth to Jesus.
Duchess I was kinda late to the game to lose my virginity, BUT THIS WAS ME FOR ALL OF MY TEENS HAHA
Omg yesss
😂😂😂
Haha!!! That's the funniest thing I heard in a while.
Or u have cancer....or PCOS
I have lost four babies before I had my beautiful son and now pregnant with my daughter who is due in July
Congrats! God bless your family.
Mrz Wagz Blessing and healing for you glad you had two kids
Mrz Wagz Congrats x
Mrz Wagz Congrats.
God bless your family
My mom miscarried her first child and then was told she couldn't have kids and then was blessed with twins(my sister and I) prematurely. We are now 23 and in college.
Wow same thing happened with my co worker,she was told she couldn't have babies and then her bf was joking and said he was gonna give her twins and she freaking did ! So crazy !
You're blessings ^^
Thanks for giving me hope 😟
Y'all r rainbow babies
♥️♥️♥️♥️
Loni my heart broke when you told your story, you are just like me .. you look strong from the outside and you are but you are so hurt inside and so emotional .. covering everything with jokes.. i feel you girl
My cousin was born with a disability and the doctors told her all her life she couldn’t have a baby. She now has my baby cousin, she’s a healthy 3 year old. Glory to god!
Awww
I love tamera for being conscience of jeannie's wishes and stopped bringing up her having a baby and just say passing the torch to Adrienne and NOT Jeannie DOPE ❤❤
Kamal Morales right that irked me
Kamal Morales I was thinking the same thing.
hyper ritual why?
Kamal Morales Glad i'm not the only one who caught that, that was really great of her
Kamal Morales I noticed that, too. :-)
My wife has had 3 miscarriages and it's the most difficult situation a woman can ever experience. Women are truly strong individuals ..so when I see you ladies cry I understand. My heart goes out to all the moms and those who've experienced that loss.
Victor Edge thank you
Victor Edge Healing and blessings
I have a coworker who has had an unplanned pregnancy. At first she was so blasé about the it. A few weeks after she found out, she had a miscarriage. After that I can see that she was really bummed out, and always backtracking, trying to figure out what she did wrong. Miscarriage is no play. A couple of months later she got pregnant again, so it's all good.
ean dean I wouldn't say it's all good...
Gigi Gayle god blgess her💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I can see Loni start to get upset before she even really gets into it. She knows what shes about to say. I feel so bad for her 🤧
This is one of the best topics they’ve talked about on this show. It’s real....They are all so genuine.
I am not a woman but this is extremely sad that yall have to go through the process of losing a baby that's inside of you. I couldn't imagine...
ThatJesusMusic It's the worse feeling ever
it never happened to me, but my aunt lost 2 babies... and my cousin carried hers but it died at birth. But as a woman this is the worst feeling ever
ThatJesusMusic 😏 God bless you.
I couldn't imagine having a miscarriage....
My mom had 2 miscarriages when she told me that it was a lot to take in cuz she told me when I was young
after an ectopic pregnancy i kept telling myself i didnt want children. one because i wasnt ready. two because i hadnt found my husband and 3 because i didnt want to get my hopes up. But God is good and after six years i had my first baby with a man who is an amazing father and husband. my boy is now 8 months😍😚 Thank you for sharing loni you are beautiful and one day you just never know!
Nury Hernanadez So cute
Mariah Braxton i
this is really inspiring
did u have the child naturally after ectopic pregnancy?
Glory to God!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾💖✨
Thank you Loni for sharing your story, I’ve had 2 miscarriages myself, the last one was an ectopic pregnancy that burst my only good fallopian tube so it was hard finding out in my mid twenties I was infertile. This all happened after I had my son at age 19, which was young yes, but he is a blessing, doctors said I had so many issues I should’ve miscarried.
He is now 15 and I thank God we decided to have him or we would’ve probably had no children at all. Life is so precious. I pray for all you ladies who’ve been through this including Loni, there’s no pain like it.
God Bless
Lordy. I needed to hear this . I’m sorry she went through this, but I’m grateful she used her platform to speak on it. Bless
Jeannie madddd honest yo!!! Gotta love her
Jay 2.0 I know right? I Iove her she's so real and honest and not mention, funny lol.
Aww..now the healing can begin. It's NOT your fault Loni.
Chastity B. The Entrepreneur which fucktards disliked this video
Girl, I feel like I was meant to see this video. I lost my first at 16 weeks, and I was in the exact same position. I was upset and angry, and my boyfriend was excited, and when I finally became okay with it, I miscarried. I've had another child and am pregnant again and I hate it. I can't calm myself down until the baby gets here and I know he/she is okay. It's so hard being a woman sometimes.
You are strong
How did it go hun❤
Wow the reason this shows called the REAL. God bless her.
Y'all I am a virgin but one time it didn't come for 3 months and I was so scared. I thought God made me the next Virgin Mary. Finally I went to the obgyn and they said i wasn't pregnant. Thank the lord!
QueenCC 😂😂😂 You are a mess talkin about "You thought God made you that Virgin Mary!" Lol!
What did they say was wrong?
QueenCC I thought I was bewitched
MeMe Smith hormones. also I was eating a lot of junk food and gained some weight
ByFaith C How else do you become pregnant without having sex. I thought it was a miracle because I am sure I would know if I had sex
Poor Loni. Despite the fact that i'm a man, i do really appreciate your courage to just let it out smth sooo personal and inspirational for all those women out there....give ya props
I didn't know guys watch the real
@@daughterofzion778 lots of guys watch, plus there are guys in the audience.
I'm just glad I am not the only guy that watches the Real😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"dang I'm just gaining weight"
Adrienne
I've had three miscarriages (two actual and one chemical) and I now have a beautiful 17 month old.
Amanda Ramsey Congratulations 🎉 God Bless 💜
Congratulations mama
Congrats you deserve the world I’m so happy for you !!
Congrats on your rainbow baby!!
Amanda Ramsey what's chemical?
Nice to see Loni open up!
Jeannie's stories are LIT!
Right?!
I love how real loni is, god bless her because I can’t see her cry
Loni is so relatable I love her. She’s not forgotten what life was like before fame.
although I LOVE when Loni opens up and gets real, it really broke my heart. Thank you for sharing your experience, Loni. Sorry if comment section gets tough sometimes. We appreciate and respect you.
thiagobailon I always like your comments
Momo M thank you!
I've had 4 miscarriages and 1 stillborn i have my son ashes. So i still have him with me. But i felt like God hate me are curse me. It's just not fair i see people that have kids and act like they wish they didn't have them. Some days i feel dead inside because I'm a mother without her child. Writing this ,my tears are falling but i know that they are all in heaven.💔👣😢
Some days i open up my babies 📦 and cry over it. If he feels my tears over his ashes maybe he'll come to me in my dreams. I'll even take that if it wasn't for my mom i probably would've been killed myself the pain is so hard to live with.
Ashley Mitchell after hardship comes ease. don't lose faith in God! your ease is coming! xxxooooxxxx lots of love
Ashley Mitchell I know it may feel like a punishment from God but please know that he loves us and wants the best for us. We may not understand why the hard times fall upon us but we do all have to overcome some kind of hardship and God is always there to restore and heal our hearts. I too have had a stillbirth and it has been one of the hardest things I have had to try to get over. I still miss my daughter but I want you to know that a year later I was blessed to have a healthy beautiful baby that I cherish to death. Please don't give up hope. Sending lots of love your way...
Ashley Mitchell I know how you feel, i was in your shoes. it gets easier with time. may God bless you and be your strength. 😢
I love you!!!!
Omg Loni I didn't expect that I'm sure no one expected that Loni is just so tough in the outside but she is kind to but, on the inside shes all emotions
Awwww. Loni. 😭😭😭. I feel for you.
See why it's not good to judge others. Loni is as real as she is.
I cried...love Loni! That was brave to share. You can tell it hurt her a lot to go through that. For every woman that has had to go through such pain, my prayers are with you.
I almost cried. Yes, because in the old time days and even now, some men blame women for miscarriages or if the child is a female, and here nobody blamed her, she blamed herself. I wish her all the best.
I get nervous when I miss my period, as if I actually have sex. 🙄 Lmao I just naturally get nervous when it's late.
Dee Jay I used to get nervous if it was late cause of thinking maybe something's wrong health-wise, but nowadays my period is so irregular I don't even worry about it lol
gigglyfitzgirl girl mine too. I sometimes got late periods and irregular bleeding. Finally went and got it checked out, turns out I had imbalanced hormones. So I'm always nervous now.
Dee Jay dead ass. when I was younger and I just started learning about sex ed, my period was late and I just knew I was about to be the next Virgin Mary 😩😂
Dee Jay aww man I thought you would've been less nervous. At least you now know the cause of it. I have imbalanced hormones too and this last medicine I went on threw me even more off.
gigglyfitzgirl girl ! They gave me progesterone pills... I had my period for a week like usual, it ended. Then came back for another full week a couple days after. I have the period tracker app and now it's never accurate. I'm stressed
God bless her. Any christians in the house please pray for loni
Had a miscarriage this year in February. It never leaves your mind. I feel for you, Loni. 😔💔
Who else teared up, i know I'm not the only one??
Blush girl the tears just came outta nowhere.
I literally knows what loni's tears means two years ago I was pregnant and six months later I lost my baby,
today lm four months pregnant and lm having nightmares about losing another baby
losing a baby is an indescribable pain
please pray for my baby 😭
How is your pregnancy going?
Did you have your baby?
How are things?
I hope you're okay😢
Did you make it?
Who would've thought JEANNIE of all people would be the one to have little adorable MONACO!!!!!!!!!
My heart breaks for Loni. I’ve had 3 myself and I completely understand her feelings of being terrified of possibly having another loss.
No mean comments today 🚫🚫
Bubbles45 M give it time the haters are coming
I'm a virgin but I still get nervous when my period is late or when I don't have one. 
Georgette Taylor Yea girl believe it or not but virgins can get pregnant too!
Omg! Me too!
Suaad Ahmed if you’re a virgin and get inseminated then you can be prego
Y’all fools lol
I rejoice nowadays when my period is late.
Awe poor Loni! She would have been an amazing mommy♥️
Miscarriages are definitely painful, I know. First I had a stillborn at 38 weeks, baby girl and 2 miscarriages after. I actually told my fiance at the time he should marry someone else bc I didn't think I could have children. But thanks to God blessing me, I have 3 beautiful boys now!!😊 I wouldn't trade motherhood for anything else, it is a gift! So just know when and if you supposed to have your children, you will! Be blessed😊
Beautiful story. God bless you and you're family. Thank you for sharing that.
Glad that Loni opened up💕
Don't cry loni it is ok you are still amazing and beautiful the way u r
aww 😩. I feel so bad for loni, people like her don’t deserve this. I see how vast it has affected her. I hope she understands it not her fault and that people love her. we love you loni 🖤
Awe, loni's story made me cry. I've miscarried before and we just definitely took it different ways. She made sure she didn't get pregnant again but mine made me realize how much I wanted a baby and we started trying
I appreciate Loni so much for sharing her painful experience. My ex-wife miscarried our twin boys early in our relationship and after two wars I'd hardened my emotions so much to avoid pain that I didn't feel the impact of that loss until Loni shared this. My boys would have been 22 years old this year. Now I feel the full grief of losing them. It hurts, but I feel blessed to finally acknowledge that pain and slowly let go of it. Thanks Loni!
Ronald James so sorry my condolences I wouldn’t know what to do I was high risk with my twins
This just strengthens my understanding of Loni so much. She doesn't share things so often because she's an entertainer. She has already been through the worst, or just so many bad events in her life that she wants to share her joy. She wants to bring happiness because she already understands what it means to go through so much, I'm the same. I don't want to be known as someone who's such a downer, I want to crack jokes and see people smile. I want people to know me as the person who makes everyone smile when they need it.
Loni, Thank you for sharing.
Thank you Loni for sharing your mommy story with us , I’m so sorry this happened to you I love you girl ❤️
I love how Loni opened up like this I love seeing this side of her💕
I respect Loni sharing the reason she doesn't have kids is because of the feeling she had when she had a miscarriage. 😢😢😢
I love Loni Love more every single day. You can tell in her face she's debating bringing it up or not and I'm so glad she had the strength to talk about it because it's real life and lots of women face that reality every day. Loni, you're amazing. Nothing but love.
I've watched this episode on TV and a time or two on here. And it gets me every time. Loni, i respect you for sharing your story and I also give my apologies. It is never hard to talk about it. I myself had 3. I was 16 1/2 weeks with the first, about 10 weeks with the second. The Lord blessed me with my now 7 yr old daughter and than I had my third miscarriage after my daughter. I Thank God for blessing me with 1. Things happen in life for a reason. May God continue to bless you in many ways. ❤️
My story is similar to Loni's
I was 28... pregnant w/a boy
5th month...went in labor...he was still born...I was in labor for 3 days
He was due on my mother's bday...lost my mother when I was 17
And I never ever wanted kids after Kaleel ...my heart was already in a trillion pieces losing him made it worse
I’m sending you love ❤
Wow... didn't see that coming, Loni. Helps us understand her more and people can relate to her on this level.
What strong women for being so open and honest on television.
This is why I love this show!
How can you not just feel the love. These women lay their lives daily and they just so real and relatable. Gosh ladies I love you ❤💕
Adrienne is a savage! haha "and look what happened to her" hahah
what happened to her?
To bring this comments section up a little my sister had a miscarriage. She was so scared for 4 years and then one day she was blessed with 2 beautiful twin girls ❤❤
That's Cool Too
Aw, congratulations to your sister & her 4 kids!
damn jeannie that condom expired when the world was supposed to end 😂😂😂😂😂
💀💀💀💀😆
Wouldn't that irritate her hoo ha?
Omg Loni! I went through the same thing! 😭 and 3 years later I was pregnant again and I was terrified and scared of any complications- thank the Lord for blessing me with a baby boy. And even after the pregnancy I had anxiety because I didn't want to let him down. You're a tough girl Loni. X
She's so strong 👏👑 you can tell she's trying to power through it but its just impossible to talk about without getting emotional
"I make up for it a lot" so sad how she thinks it's her own fault 😢
This girl chat has be the REALest!! So relatable in different ways.. the REAL has def stepped it up... The feeling was so REAL...LOVE YOU LONI!
I never experienced a miscarriage, I cannot imagine. But I have experienced infertility issues. Loni's story is so heartbreaking. She's so brave to share her story with us.❤
I kept repeating this episode of the real, because it hits me 😭😭,I could feel your pain as if it happened to me.
I'm proud of you Loni for sharing your story. Thank you!! 🙏🙏You are blessed ❤❤
she's such a beautiful woman, my heart goes out to her, as mom's we have to always be grateful we have are little ones not everyone is blessed to have children.
Loni turned that into a teaching moment. Wow. I love you Loni and I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
Same
Omg Loni! You had me straight in my feels. I'm so sorry for your loss! ❤
I love you Loni don't cry you are an amazing person