Does My Ex Miss Me As Much As I Miss Them?
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- Does My Ex Miss Me As Much As I Miss Them? Are you wondering if your ex misses you as much as you miss them? It's a great question. In this video we look closely at what your ex is experiencing during a breakup
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Got so many great emails last week from success stories and people doing the work! Wow. Thank you to everyone that sent them. Stay motivated!
For those of you who missed last weeks video: How Your Parents Impacted You, I highly recommend you watch it!
Hey I love your videos! I broke up with my ex, but when I wanted her back she wouldn't take me.
So I went to therapy to figure out my issues, and have been working on becoming the best I can be. She's been reaching out and we've been hanging out alot. If it wasn't for your videos I wouldn't have done half the work on myself I have.
Thanks again you two!
Coach Craig Kenneth
Thank for all of your videos, I was wondering if you have or done any videos that can help with someone going through a divorce? My wife and I have been together for 10 year, and are now going through a divorce after being married for 3 years. Trying to move forward alone is very lonely and emotionally painful. Can you please advise if you have any videos about divorce thank you.
Hi coach Craig! How can we email you with questions about your program?
I love you coach Craig and coach Margaret 🥰 you both are life saver 🥰💓 I'm already afraid to lose you both
Do you have any pets?
I don’t want my ex back, I just want her out of my mind
Exactly!!!!!! That shit is killing us
Yes a slow painful death.
Absolutely. 11 months on and she's on my mind everyday 😔😔
Me tooooooo...😅
I need the M.I.B neuralizer
Weekend is tough. Got extremely depressed during the weekend imagining ex might be spending time with someone else doing things we used to do on weekends. Been watching this vid over and over yesterday and today. It really calm my soul. You guys are life saver.
You better be working on the workbooks every single day! I don’t want any more excuses! You have them all
It's been a year and I'm still watching these videos 😔
Hang in there Carlos. I feel your pain.
Its been 2 1/2 for me....I still get times it's hurts.
Carlos - 18 months for me so don't feel too bad....
Also just so you know, it does get a little better day by day, month by month...
Hang in there 🙏
Thank you all for the encouragement. Your words are truly felt.
Invest in yourself. Don't let them live rent free in your head. Hugs Carlos.
You guys are so right about what happens to the person Who does the breaking up. My ex-girlfriend looks horrible and has gained a lot of Weight and is now dating an older man who could be her grandfather LOL. Meanwhile I am in the best shape ever and moving on to a better life. Thanks for your work coaches.
nice
Thats great for you, but if I were to find that myself, I'd feel really shitty again being sorry for her.. I already do. Because SHE is missing out and didn't have what it took to work things out. Something that may not always be easy for me either, but at least I can forgive, and try to help myself and others.
She wasn't it bro lol glad you made it through.
I think craig is still stuck on the applebees girl 😂
Haha I have exactly the same kind of story .. and you might be right!
Is Applebee’s a good place to eat?
Shizzle1975
It’s a decent chain restaurant- good for a salad, apps and other drinks and meals.
Stacey S thanks
You never forget your first real heartbreak. Dumbass.
When your ex remains single and goes quiet is when you should worry. I’ll guarantee they are processing the break up the right way and will move on in a healthy way. When they rebound you can assume they are hurting and filling the void. I’ve experienced both where most exes come back from rebound but the quiet and the ones that remain single tend to never return.
well, shit 😂
Hell yeah. Spot on👍
i have never thought of this way...thank you for sharing your insight. mine is in the rebound relationship...
Yeah I definitely agree but I rarely ever see that happen.
FACTS..🎯
Day 30 of NC.
Will I reach out? Nope.
Send her a 'Happy Birthday' this week? Nope.
Stop personal growth? Nope.
Enjoy my Asia holiday while my ex is missing me? Hell yes!
Recipe for regret. Unless she is a crazy mean one
Keep it up! You’re doing great
Fuck yeah you got the right mentality!
Any updates Lakon? :)
that's awesome. just got dumped and restarted NC recently after breaking contact. I'm just gonna go to Japan next year by myself.
My wife ended it after 15 years, we have 1 daughter and she left me to be with another man 2 years ago and I just found out she’s pregnant by the guy she left me for. 2 years later and I’m still traumatized over this😔 I have moved up in life and doing so much better financially and as a man but I still think about the 15 years we had together and how she ended like i never even mattered .
How are you doing? Feeling?
My god, that must be devastating
Had no clue if my ex gf was going through any struggle, she didn't communicate anything! Ended us suddenly, no warning. We had a great relationship overall.
3 years in relationship, still missing my ex which I were with for 6 years. Deep struggle with feels and conscience.
Do not hesitate to reach for a therapist, it always help.
Any updates about the changes that happened in your life?
Thats sad
@@aguy4401 I've been single about 9 months now. Been doing okay, maybe a bit much substance (ab)use, keeping somewhat in shape and spent this summer fixing the fasade of the house. The last breakup didn't hit me too hard, it was destined. My self confidence were already low and I couldn't, and still can't, find peace and quiet. My thoughts drift to my first love at times, it makes me feel down but I make use of every time it happens to remember myself that it is a closed chapter in my life and I need to keep on going.
Also when a door closes another one opens. This is totally true. Right before Christmas this cute girl I have met through work reached out to me and we've been chatting ever since. She has told me that she's got feelings for me, but I'm feeling a bit numb and having a hard time to relax and go with the flow. I'm feeling like a hopeless young, awkward and shy teenager again. I hope she shows me patience and can make me feel safe.
@@TH-bj1pbupdate?
I doubt she even remembers my name.
Love you guys. Margaret's calm aura inspires so much confidence.
Heard rumors that my ex is jealous of me going out with a "friend" 9 months after our break up. Looks like I'm doing something right ha
I’ve been in the position you’re commenting about. I broke up with a girl, and 8 months later she began dating another man. I became jealous and felt separation anxiety, followed by acting out. Long story short her and I did actually hook up again for a while, but the relationship disintegrated.
I never did the whole begging/pleading/gesture thing... straight after the break up.. I searched on youtube what to do after a break up, found you and several other coaches. And went straight into no contact... currently its been around 2 months, and he messages me about something every 2 weeks... something usually objective..
kinda direct indirect but not leading to much talk after apart from one time.. but.. no contact is working.. even though its small.. he comes around every two weeks with an objective but relevant excuse to message me.
My emotions have also calmed and I dont get the anxiety anymore, and I dont cry as much at all.. in fact its been a couple of days since I cried and thats a big deal cos it was at least once a day, sometimes three times a day. And I've started getting along with my life.
Ellen Bartlett same here! How’s it going now?
One of my exes did same, contacting me every month or two after break up asking how life s going and then leaving my answers with no reply. After 6 or so month I asked why he msg me and ignore that’s weird. He ignored again. After 1 year he msged me on my Bd and was asking for apologies and wanted to be friends. I wasn’t interested romantically so I said ok. Every time since that when he contacted me he was apologizing and saying how sorry he feels and that he wanted to contact me but every time he felt like he doesn’t deserve it. Guilt is horrible thing guys :(
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My ex comes back every year for the last seven years lol. It's like our yearly celebration lol. Thanks to no contact
In regards to my ex.. Hell to the fucking no.. She figuratively and literally walked away, and never looked back.. Most exes don't miss shit from my personal experience
I agree
Craig: we gotta look at what went wrong
Me: my life went wrong
I would almost bet my entire life savings the answer is a solid... NO.. she doesn't
SJ I feel the same way 💔🥺
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@@dwightschrute8141 crickets ....
As the dumper I was relieved at first, now I can hardly do anything and think about him everyday. 😔
So, the dumper can have the remorse too??
This is really interesting to hear as a dumpee 7 weeks NC now. How are you feeling now
@@Troy12-fitnessmodel Still think about him, tho feeling better about myself. I'm sure he feels the same. Time really does help.
you didnt miss enough to reach to him? if he started to work on himself?
@@StarReact001 I did, but he would just hang up. I believe now he just didn't care like I did.
LOVE YOU BOTH!
Love From INDIA! 🇮🇳♥️🇮🇳
Craig - can you do something that talks more about why they look AWFUL!? I noticed my almost ex husband looks .. just bad. I truly, accidentally came across a photo of him from someone I hadn't yet unfollowed, but I thought he looked bad - heck even our dog looked super grey (anxiety). I feel like I"m doing great and honestly don't really want a relationship at this time. I finally feel free and feel how oppressed I was, constantly feeling like he was going to leave and had one foot out the door. I just am so baffled at why they look SOOOOO BAD as the avoidants?!? Why don't they just return? They thought life was so much better with out us, and it just turns out life is so much better without THEM! I still care about him, which is why I'd love to know why they are torturing themselves.
I sent my ex a text before seeing these no contact videos. I know better now. Thank you Coach Craig and Coach Margaret!
Please, pretty please, can you do a video about an ex who ends the relationship even though they love you because they have personal issues to address and are going to therapy?
Yes, please
Both coaches are absolutely amazing and they talked about so accurately❤️wowed
Why would an ex still be resentful towards you if they were the ones that dumped you due to circumstances outside of your control and are actually engaged even?
To justify their decision 🙏
@@kylel7158 but I didnt do anything :/, so this is it? How long will resentment last?
@@kylel7158 No, we broke up in October of 2017 and in August of 2018 she already got engaged. She is still resentful
@@kylel7158 I know shw is resentful because last April she posted on hsr WhatsUp "I saw that" - Karma, after I talked with our mutual friend and have told them about my struggles with my parents (who have hurt my ex, she becamo disappointed in them, they were part of the breakup) And this February she posted on WhatsUp the picture with her new bf (whome everyone was hiding from me for months and months and months that they were together for some odd reason) and she wrote "Know your worth" while she didnt post anyrhing like that on any other social media. I think she feels guilty as someone has said
@@ModernWanderer I'm not sure what she meant by that but it was definitely a form of contact wasn't it. I know it's difficult but try not to look too far into what she's saying. I know they say that there's always hope as long as both people are not dead, but when there's an engagement, I feel as though that's a cut-off to at least begin moving on and looking for another partner. It sucks man, I know.
Like you said. The dumper will be drawn to your growth, but what if the dumper only feels correct in their decision to break up? ( i.e. They see you're doing much better after breaking up and take this as a sign that you're better off without them) does this ever happen?
Twables Selbawt Lol maybe then it is for the better that you're broken up! If you start getting successful and better after a breakup it's a sign it was a toxic relationship.
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Craig, you should do some videos on being the rebound. Because its really hard when you fall in love with someone who was out of a long relationship and then leaves without reason 6 months or so afterwards.
Tips on how to move on when you feel you lost the one but they suddenly changed...
love sucks!!! These videos are the only thing getting me through this tough ordeal =T
I don’t think my cares at all but what is getting better… Is I’m starting to care less about her everyday myself….
Thank you Coach Craig and Margaret. I just wanted to tell you I have been watching your videos for a few weeks now. I wish you did more for the regretful dumper(me).
I missed my ex as soon as I broke up with him. I haven't seen him for almost 3 months and I have tried and tried to reach out but I think he did no contact on me, so I did no contact on him.
Because I may have been the one to initiate the break up but he was the one that didn't fight to keep the relationship going and walked away.
We finally had a good conversation a couple of days ago. I guess I have my work cut out for me to try and win him back.
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Coach Craig and Coach Margaret, with your expertise dealing with "bucketful of anger" problems and impulsive lifestyle, I have recently learned that it is one of the main issue of PTSD and how it affect greatly families and relationships.
Is not forgetting enough? Because if they don't forget you and yet never reach out, or come back after 35 years later, when both of you have separate families and have no scope or desire to get back together, what purpose does "not forgetting" serve?
My ex isn't grieving while he's sleeping with someone else
Yeah, I doubt she thinks about me after telling me how comfortable she was with this new guy and spending the whole weekend with him.
Moving onto someone else that soon after is like a drug to numb the pain of the loss. When I see that it is a much more clear sign that they are actually hurting. It is when they don't move to someone new nor are contacting you that is confusing. Someone who is not hurting is just content either way.
Not YET
RoSo :(
Same!!
Honestly my fear is that I’m the rebound and they’ll find the one after me, get married and sail on with that dream person built a family and live happily ever after
Hi Craig and Margaret, I've been watching your videos for almost 1 month, right since my bf broke up with me, I just wanted to thank you both for your work and for how much this videos are helping me. I started with NC since the beginnnig (I didn't know I was doing it actually, I'm just not a person who will beg and do those things) and, althoug he hasn't reached out yet, I feel much better watching your channel. Sorry if there's any mistake, I'm from Spain. UN ABRAZO GRANDE and thank u
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@@dwightschrute8141 he reached out in a party. I was in a different floor and he came to say hi becuase he said he knew I was coming and someone told him I was there. He never reached out by msg or anything, ASSHOLE hahahahahaha But I don't care anymore so it's fine
Love this video, My ex broke up with me and left me for another guy after I found out she was having a affair, we were supposed to get married in a week (cold feet maybe). But I have had no contact for around two weeks now, I have been definitely working on my self.. 💪 getting my confidence and focus back.. the reality is as much as I still love her...I actually dont think I would ever take her back even if she ever contacted me... she would have to be magician with her words and actions for me to change my mind..her loss.
We all deserve better than being disrespected.
Any update
Well she reached out direct/indirect, I guess! She gave my apartment key back, by using her friend to give it to me.....she ghosted me 4 months ago, I went NC immediately....still hurts that she could never face me to break up with me and couldn’t face me to give me the key back! Sit her and just wonder why???
Hi there. Really had a great time listening your talk. Again i learned something new. But what if the ex is very "high pride"and even if he misses me and want to txt me but bevause of his pride he will not do so?
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My ex miss me he said but his talking to someone else 😢 like how can you love me when you talking to someone else
Dont contact him and go out and have fun. I broke up with a girl because I thought there would be someone better. I was at the clubs and saw her. Immediately I got jealous and went up to talk to her. I ended up taking her home and we rekindled things. Thing is she was out having fun and that was attractive.
In my 46 years I've never seen a rebound work. Years ago an ex reached out after 4 months. It was a traumaticaly nasty split. At the time I saw her as the one that got away. After those 4 months I said no. Best decision ever for her and I.
@@jmoody546 I'm in Oz mate. Bit expensive... you on a chat service?
@@jmoody546 be strong buddy. Happiness is from within, not from without. Pun intended.
Misses isn’t the same as love rember that I had to
Coach Craig and Margaret...I am always happy to see your dynamic tandem. Both of you are highly experts but also both of you are nice and you speak from the ❤️. I always look forward to listen to both of you. You're the best!🌼💙🌼🌼💙🌼🌼🌼💙🌼🌼🌼
Margaret is like Craig’s hype man
I did the breaking up, I thought I just needed to do it to rekindle our relationship. But After a month i came back but I found out that I got replaced after few days. I grieved a lot for what had happened. I was the dumper and ended up being a dumpee.
Turned out you're giving her a favor
Good
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes!
Hi. Im a 32 year old father of a ten year old. Its been a year and a half since me and my ex wife separated and i still sit here and cry and miss her so much and think of her daily.
I have the same story as Craig!
Me and my ex had a great relationship but after a year, she sniffed something in the air, which I had never raised with her and she said ' I can't see myself being married to you've.
I was like wtf? I haven't even raised it. I did give up a good job for her because I didn't want to move away. She freaked when I did that.
Avoidant.
6 mths no contact...she is very sad she hurt me, that I know.
Just working on myself now.
Miss her terribly.
We did reconnect 2 mths after breakup. She said to me at break up 'When your ready reach out. I'll give you space and let you come to me'.
It was like she set the terms for reconnect toon? I didn't know what I know now. I should of said no.
When we did we felt kindhearted and tender with each other but we didn't kiss or be romantic.
She started dating someone during that time and I was pissed.
I told her that's it, sort yourself out and when you do, I'd be interested in being romantic again but not friends.
Hmm..
I love the "I miss the cat" theme you guys have, because I KNOW that when my ex calls, that's exactly what she's going to say. We divorced less than a month ago, and I kept our cats, which were the love of her life before she walked out on our marriage.
Wow .. the cats where her love of the life in *you're* marriage.. these woman don't love us like we do .. sorry men
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You guys have that good 90’s feel that is so rare when it comes to relationships. But I have to disagree with you, once disrespect is shoved into the picture. I. Don’t. Give. A. Sh**
What if they are with somebody they like more than you?
Move on buddy. Happiness comes from self, not another. You're going to fine. Maybe not today. Maybe not tomorrow. But you will be. Find the faith within.
@@seanmcgarry1408 I always say this and found out it can be a statement coming from and avoidant, I'm an avoidant :(
It's not a fault to be avoidant. Failure to recognize is. Most of my life has been as an avoidant then someone comes along and changes all of that. That's when you stand up and relish in your pride. Everyone can change for the better. Letting someone in to break your heart is one of the strongest things one can do.
@@seanmcgarry1408 I think I realized that a bit too late
@@Outsider_aa there is no shame. Life is to live and learn.
It depends. Long time ago I was in a 5yr relationship. I was not happy for a host of things that Craig mentioned. When I broke up with her after a 1.5yrs I missed her quickly and asked to get back together but when we broke up for the last time 3yrs later I did not miss her at all, we never got in touch apart a couple of times to sort some beurochratic things but actually I felt a huge relief and even when a few months later was told by a mutual friend that she was with someone else I felt absolutely nothing.
Global what is the reason you break up?
lol idk about my ex, i mean she said " i need to find myself" and around a week later or two she is dating the guy she told me not to worry about and is still dating him i think they are at like 7 months or so idc by now, just have to keep on working on myself, i just would pay a million dollars to hear a "sorry i messed up" but oh well, any ways good luck guys, be strong and there is light at the end of the tunnel!
If they did they would have u back move on forget about them
My ex reached out and asked me if im willing to do Something with her and Our son, the indirect direct approach! I agreed and we had a nice Family day where she was obviously trying to get close to me, Afterwards we went to her place where she then started to bombared me with qurstions like: are you still seeing this girl? I wanna know whats going on in your Life but i can't since you blocked me everywhere! Arent you interested in knowing whats going on in my Life? And that shes happy that we started to get along again! Told me that she wants another child she even thought of a name! I didnt respond to Any of those questions except the one where she asks If im not interested in her Life where i answered with NO! Why is she asking me all that?
My ex husband is remarried and of course on Facebook seems to be living his best life ever. It has been nearly 15 years since he divorced me and I live 1200 miles away. I miss him STILL and I am still single. Thank you for at least comforting me with your words that he may be missing me more than I realize. There is little if any reason to believe that we will ever reunite but I do believe that “With GOD ALL THINGS are possible “
35 years lmao
Ask me if im alive tomorrow lol
Thank you so much Craig and Margaret. I found this channel several weeks ago. I'm just now brave enough to comment, but have watched a lot of your videos.
This gave me hope lol I will get the mother of my child back 🙏🏼
Alejandro Cortez same boat dude. Best of luck to you
At least having a child together means that they will absolutely never forget you. They have a person who is half you to constantly remind them of you.
Patrick Sutton 💯 agreed
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It's really the hardest thing...it's terrible...
May God bless🌼 both of you have more ❤️good health and long life.🌼🐦🌼🐦🐦🌼🐦🐦🐦
What if the ex is always partying and drinking since the break up...what does that tell me? she said she doesn’t wanna deal with the bad emotions....ain’t that sad.
Ex finally reached out but wouldn’t meet up. After several reach outs with her not showing much interest through her subtext, I told her I needed her to stop reaching out unless she wants to work things out. This was four months later.
Cody Stepp Same thing happened to me same time frame... it’s now been two months since she last reached out, didn’t even ask her to get together again after her declining twice all ready, over six months total of the breakup. I don’t believe I’ll hear from mine again, feels hopeless... hang in there brother, sounds like you made the right move I should have said that after the last reach out
The Book Peddler thanks buddy. It helped me find peace. I love her but I’m not going to pine over someone who wont put in the effort. The work always talked about is this moment. I’m fine without her if that’s what happens and I know if I found her I can find better out there too if need be.
Cody Stepp Absolutely, sounds like your frame of mind is on point. I’m pretty much getting there myself as well. Hell with it if they don’t value you what’s the point of cryin over it. Best wishes man.
I applaud you for standing your ground. It may inspire her to respect you and submit.
Nicely done man. You are the prize, she has to realise that before someone else does.
Dynamic duo
I’m in a middle of a divorce which I started, but there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think about her. I’m told things will be ok, but I can’t see when that will happen. I cry and want to stop the divorce. I think it has gone to far now. I think I made a terrible mistake, but can’t stop it. Don’t think my wife wants to anyway. Wish there was a way to turn off these feelings.
My ex and I worked together, but in different departments. We began to talk to each other when her hours changed. She had to clock in at my computer because I was the first person to get to work and had a key to get in the building.
Over time, we talked more and more. Until one day, she mentioned her birthday was coming up. I asked if she was going to celebrate and she said no. I asked her out for her birthday and she said yes.
We were together 4 months.
The breakup was a shock to me.
She was coming over to watch a movie at my place and as soon as she walked in the door, she sat on the opposite couch of me and began breaking up with me. She began to cry saying it wasn't my fault and that she doesn't want to break my heart.
From that point on, work went from pleasant to dreadful.
Somehow, it looked like we were working things out and went on one more date about six weeks after the first breakup. But it quickly fell apart.
I'm anxious. She's avoidant.
We both began to act childish.
I did all the wrong things including a hand written letter.
I almost quit my job because I felt she was antagonizing me. Around the same time, little did I know, she put in for a transfer to another location within the company a couple miles down the road.
Her last day was my first day of no contact. And I contemplated seeing a therapist. I decided not too.
On day 38 of no contact, she shows up at work ten minutes before I leave. I see her, but she doesn't see me. She was there for work related reasons in another department, but she began hanging out too close to my work area for my comfort. I began to get anxious. I was stressing. My hands were shaking. I didn't say anything to her. When I left, I blew up her phone with calls and voicemails.
I also began venting on Facebook. She couldn't see my posts, but we each had a common friend and the friend took a screenshot of everything I posted. I pretty much deserved to have that happen for putting it all on Facebook.
I've lost my self respect and hate I let her affect me this way. Now I'm irritable, work stresses me out, little things set me off. I don't like being in my house because that's where the breakup happened.
I finally set up an appointment with a therapist. My appointment is Tuesday.
Similar problems I was anxious, she was avoidant. I did the letter like an idiot. I'm on 35 days NC and could careless at this point; I've moved on with my life. A lot of these women do not love themselves but we cant lose ourselves either. I'm very happy with my life just going to be single for awhile and live life like God intended. And yeah, dude I would get off social media for awhile. I've been off it way before we even broke up but its not going to help being on it.
Can't wait to get the second part of the workbooks! 😍 Thank you!
You’ll love them! Each one has 4 exclusive videos!
@@CoachCraigKenneth How much would I pay for the workbooks? I need coaching
Well I know mine doesn't miss me. He.found someone else. Thats Ok it won't last with her either he has a bad.track record. He.is older but not wiser.
Wish I could share some things with, unfortunately - the cost are just too much. I hope in time that someone wil sponsor your program, to help offset the cost to what is affordable., even if you can qualify for grant programs or take insurance - at least co-pays are $20.00 -that's affordable. . Lol
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The both of you hit many valid points and inspirational out look as well most importantly - self help.
The both of you do share a lot of good information - openly from several perspectives, not just one way.
Thank you.. keep up the open and honest approach, the people will love it ..o!!
I deleted her contact but she still messages me once in a while like every 4 days or so I’m not gonna try anything with her though even though I’m very desperate
I was with my ex for a month and she broke up with me because she had to go to school, it’s been 3 months now , and I still Remember her everyday. She already found a new guy and everything at her school , but idk I still miss her and the fact that she went to another guy so quickly I feel like she may come back to me when she comes back home
I think my situation is the one that he doesn’t think of me at all or miss me, he told his friend and the breakup wasn’t for a big issue like cheating he just didn’t want to be with me anymore
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So my ex girlfriend's best friend text me, said she was in town and thought about me and asked me how I was doing. Do you think my ex put her up to it? Maybe she is missing me? I sure hope so
Did the friend ask to meet with you? Might have been a set up.
@@mixedchickULike not outright, but she did say she was on my side of town. It was very painful but I've found a good woman that has helped
@@LightOfReason7 Good on the new gf. How'd you meet her. I'm thinking about dating again soon.
@@mixedchickULike actually Match.com, good luck
My ex ain't stalking my social, I have no fb or ig! I only have snapchat and she deleted me off that! :( She blocked twice before and then added me back months later but this time round she just deleted me?
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I feel like ones women move on there done.
That isnt necessarily true. In some cases yes, both sexes are capable of moving on fast but its not like they dont think about you.
When I watch these videos i have some hope, when not i’m just hopeless
Great video bro
My ex just called me saying they were looking at our pictures
Lucky I wish mine would. I’m deployed right now and she left me while I was out here. Every time I have a moment to myself I just sit here and hope and pray she will FaceTime me or txt me. I look at pics of us a lot and just cry. This is so hard and idk what to do anymore
Nice!
My ex has moved on like 4real I'm just not gonna stress her any more but they are in there own lil world! We have kids together so we not talking about us just the kids and what I can help pay for
My ex is crazy
It’s really tough for me today. It’s day 10 no contact. And I checked his Instagram today and he finally deleted the pic of him and I together. Smh it hurt me so bad. This really sucks and I’m pretty sure it’s over for good.
Don't lose hope, but that doesn't mean you should unhealthily obsess over reuniting with him! Work on yourself! Stop counting the days of no contact, it's torture! Live your best life, surround yourself with work, new activities, family, friends and put him away into the back of your mind! Amazing things will happen then!! just wait n see... It's difficult, it's not easy. The pain is real! But use that to motivate yourself to stop feeling that way, and to find the person you were before u even met him! Force a smile, force some joy for now if u have to, and I promise u the hurt will slowly flow out of u! Do YOU!
Adam Hattia thank you, I appreciate you for that ❤️
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I know what it means when they don't text you back or takes days or over night but what does it mean when your ex texts back with in say 2 or 3 minutes or less? Is this a dumb question? Does it mean they are feeling ok with the conversation? Thanks
My ex broke up with me after 4 years. She reached out to a friend a couple weeks after about some clothes that didn’t exist at my house. I told my friend to tell her they aren’t here but he forgot to tell her. Was that her reaching out or really just asking? Curious.
I don't want him back as a lover , but I MISS my friend - We were friends long before being lovers. How can I regain that friendship?
Hey coach can you make a video on how to handle a break up or how to get an e ex back if your ex girlfriend is an empath? I’m not even sure if no contact is the right way to go when it comes to empaths
My Ex of 20yrs left me + the kids and went on holiday with his new woman who was a work colleague. Now I have started divorce proceedings.
I proud of your strength, good for you, its his lost
I am praying for you even though I am furious with your ex.❤️
True SteelerFan Thank you x
Helen Olskaya Thanks x
@@sanlaw584 You are so welcome, i know how it feels when someone walks out on you, when he tries to comeback ( & he will) be strong, stand your ground & dont back down, Good Luck too you, 🙏🙏🙏🙏
my ex text me in Feb he had not change still mean to me. I am over it he crazy
I broke up with my ex and i miss him and want tk reach out every single minute of everyday but he needs to heal.
Jaz But when you’re the dumper you’re suppose to be the one to reach out?! 😳
Is he actively trying to heal?
@@iamxtimkongx2664 I’m not sure as I don't talk to him. But I hope he is.
@@PeteAndersen I understand that! I want to but I dont want to hurt him more by reaching out and giving him hope that were gonna reconcile.
What’s happens when they jump in to a relationship right away. Like days after the break up. How can they grieve
Exactly what happened to me. Now its going 5 months after our break up and they are still together.
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Hey coach can you make a video on how to handle a break up or how to get an e ex back if your ex girlfriend is an empath? I’m not even sure if no contact is the right way to go when it comes to empaths
Empath would be Anxious Attachment. No Contact is always the right way to go.
We're just 5 months relationship but we have a lot chemistry, he showing me what love is and then he blocked me everywhere 3 months now and I still thinking about him every single day and I love him so much though he hurt me by blocking me but I still missed him
Im losing all hope for my case, we had a long distance relationship, i am no contact, it has been 3 weeks, but i still feel that im not ready to reach out, but i have seen a few videos about long distance (but we used to see each other, every 2 months), and it doesn't give me much hope, so i think i will just move on. It has been so painful
Abril Garcia I was in a long distance relationship and she broke up with me before Christmas last year. I’ve begged for a week and stuff before finding these videos. What I’ve learned from Craig is to keep no contact and don’t reach out. Only reach out when they do but for the time being, best to just work on yourself. In your case tho, best to go through the sadness first and allow yourself to go through the process. Once you have some strength later, spend time to improve on yourself. I recommend Craig’s books or communication videos. I am really really sorry you are going through this and I completely understand what you are going through. The first week was hell being not able to sleep, eat or be motivated to do anything but plead. Now I’ve been in no contact for 3 months+. I hope you do hear from your ex and your situation improves. Stay strong and hang in there :)
@@FirstLast-pn3xh thank you so much, I will, even tho I am going thru the pain I am being positive. And I do want to have a Skype call and everything with the Coach, but I am Mexican and our pesos are double than dollars so is kind of expensive jaja, but I do hope I will do it soon. Thank u
Craig, imagine someone had exactly the same experience you had with the Applebee's girl.
What would you tell them?
A commitaphobe ...that was my experience.
Wish you a wonderful ,healthy ,long life and lots of Love from Srilanka 💓💓💓
I have Ptsd and decided to break up when I was going through a tough time. Will she come back I don't know but do you really want someone who will leave when you need them most
What if you broke up with them first, said we didn't have to talk everyday and wanted to remain friends, then they pull all kinds of strings to pull you back in then you all are on/off for a period of months, then they start seeing someone else without telling you for three months and you are upset because they weren't being honest....... I've been no contact for 2 months.
Long distance relationship for two years. He never not reply but really short worded responses. Have I ruined my chances from two texts seperately in two weeks? Restarter no contact but in three days I'm going to London where he lives which was th original plan where we would have been spending time. I have new plans n activities to do for myself continue no contact. I even plan to take my stuffs with his relative (my friend) when he's not at home so he won't know. Do I leave a message or how do I increase my chances....
Very insightful and realistic feedback that had no biased. Beautiful
Do exes miss their rebounds?
So.....even if they are STUBBORN as hell and you think they wont reach out they will.....is that true??
No or they would have you back
Vanessa Jones or they fear of rejection, too stubborn and lie to themselves,
My avoidant was thinking that i want a baby then she sabotage all our 9 years relationship at 28 years...im not ready to have one at this moment but she literally mentalize that we need to have one
So my ex keeps contacting me every four or five days because I am doing no contact. She is in a new relationship, which started just a week after we split, though I did think we had split up!, but I guess its a rebound relationship. anyway she contacts me just a day after she has returned from a holiday with the new man, and again just this Friday gone, just asking how I am and if my day has been good. I have replied to both after a delay, but the convo goes no where its just chit chat, she says its just friends now and she wants to keep in touch as good frineds would. I have told her I don't want just friendship. So what do I do when the next message comes from her, as I know it will sooner or later. Im back in no contact again and staying strong! Help guys !
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