Psych2Go to be honest you're right , but i broke up wirh her, now when i see her wirh some1 else i just want her bak , i dont even remember why i broke up woth her. Could u help me?
Psych2Go I am not being relationship built even if I am 19 years bc not need in the future thinking sometimes go marriage.... but you get helped me thanks sharing new things
I mean, we broke up for a reason. Why go back? You just miss the idea of being with someone. You only want what your brain already knows and is familiar with.
Lady.Whatever I hear this a lot but I feel it’s not true in a lot of cases. I don’t miss the idea, I miss being with her in a relationship. I’ve seen a lot of attractive girls but I just can’t see myself loving them or being excited of being in a relationship like with my ex. Just sayin sometimes missing the idea isn’t true.
I dont know. I have broken up with my ex after almost four years 6 months ago...during those 6 months we only met twice for a short period of time....We met again two days ago and it hit me so fucking hard. I realized that a lot of things I balmed her for were not her fault, I realized that in six months I have been slowly realizing that there is not many girls like her and most of all...I can think of her flaws and how irritated I was but still I somehow feel like we were great match and if we talked more and coordinated our dreams, we might be together for much longer time...I dont know whether this is just an idea I miss...I think about her and I feel like crying, feel pain in my chest for how sad I am...
The reason people break up is also important. An ex of mine and I had dated when we were younger, but it was a long distance relationship. Several years later we began to talk again. We've been happily married for 6 years now.
My ex and i were together for over a year and we just broke up 5 days ago because he said he isnt ready for a relationship but when he is hes going to take me back
I don't get why people can't enjoy being single. It's actually very freeing and you learn more about yourself. You learn to love yourself and if you focus on making yourself better, you'll be a better partner in the future for that lucky person. It's a win win!
alias46913 My friendship circle broke (we had a lot of mutual friends) and because I was close with his family, I had to face losing them too. Not being able to drive or use public transport, I can't even get out of the house to actually improve my life in any way. I have gained nothing but loneliness from the breakup. It doesn't mean that I should get my ex back, or that I'm even ready for any relationship, but the stuff that everyone told me about life getting better after a break up were all lies to try and make me feel better.
Alias46813 Thank you because I’m in the 5th Grade and my ex said she was breaking up me and said why but she didn’t answer and I asked her what she liked about me like is it because I’m black, Looks wise or personality she couldn’t answer all she came up with is you
Moses Simmons if they somehow make it obvious that he/she wants to get back with you, you should send them this video and see what their reaction is ༼ つ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ༽つ
The struggle of an Introvert: Getting with your Ex together is unhealthy. Getting to know someone new know is annoying and uncomfy. Solution: remain single and read some outstanding books.
This is so true. The idea of having a new person and having to go on the process of share all the info again and be comfortable seems tiring and to be honest, not worthy. Being alone doesn’t sound bad. I’m grateful for my friends :).
i feel like i won’t ever be as comfortable as i was with my ex that recently left ;(( we were 5 years in and idk if i can love and talk comfortably with someone new
Tell Me This Jesus what a bitch. Someone that truly cares about you should always allow you some time for your passions and never force you to do anything.
anonimo aninimus - im believing my ex was seeing/ doin someone else when we broke up, however i was smart enough to start collecting riding mowers instead of sulking or gettin back with her, probably has 10 kids by now n i could care less.
All relationships have a unique dynamic, and end in unique ways. Take all advice as that: advice. Think things through, don’t be impulsive, and do what’s best in the long term as opposed to what satisfies your emotions the most now. Good luck!
I agree with most of what you said except the focusing on the emotions now. Instead of doing that, one needs to focus on the future and the past just is not there.
Getting my heart smashed like raspberries in a sauce Was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was like Goku almost dying, getting up stronger than before.
Tip: Don't compare your past relationships with the one you have now. Also, never based the new one on your past relationship. If it didn't work it doesn't mean that the new one would fail too. Giving chances is important because people are different.
Yea I get what you mean but literally I told my ex not to keep shit from me that would affect our relationship because that's why my other relationship ended, but no he did the same thing as my ex did. The sad part is it could've been fixed if he had said something
I read somewhere that getting back with an ex is like starting something again with an unbalanced start. When you start with a new person, you're both at the same stage of emotion with them without personal baggage between you two. But with an ex, you're not sure if your ex is at the same stage with yours. Maybe while you're holding onto their shirt to go to sleep every night, they're giving their shirt away for someone else to hold onto. It's full of risks that you're getting your heart broken again.
I feel you bro but you'll get through it. Even when you feel like "what do I do now", or "this is hopeless". You'll get through it. Me and these two other comments rooting for you so keep pushing forward young king
Sounds like my former bf. Our relationship was unhealthy so I left. It was a bit lonely at times but I knew it was the right thing so I could heal. He on the other hand, fell into a depression and claimed he lost the will to live. I felt so terrible. Now he wants us to get back together.
@@Em_Elizabeth my gf broke up with me 💔 because she said her studies were more important and that she won't have enough time for me 😢 but says she loves me.... It's bs and yet we were going to go to Germany together to study 😢 💔 so cruel
Hey guys, everyone here is probably going through a rough time right now. I just wanted to tell you, that on one day you will realise that there is no reason to be sad or depressed anymore. We are all in the same boat, we feel like shit, but this will change. Mabye tomorrow or in a month, but it's certain that it will change. I wish you guys all the best, you will get through this.♥️
4:17 This is not an absolute. Someone else “may” come along, not someone else “will” come along. You have no control over what someone else will or will not do. There is no guarantee that you will find love or love will find you. You can only hope and have luck, if true, long-lasting love is what you want in your life.
Legless Rest Syndrome Not exactly. There people who have fallen in love and they were in the worst position they ever were in their lives even perhaps clinically depressed and pessimistic. Those things don’t determine if you see someone special to you or not. In actuality, you should be with someone when you have the least amount to give, because then you know that they’re loving you for truly who you are and not what you have to offer.
Aneko Foxx Ironically, this is why my ex broke up with me. He was so pessimistic and had such low self confidence that he thought I saw him as a burden, but I never did. He broke up with me because his head was lying to him about my feelings for him, in other words. He also broke up with me because in the last 3 months of our relationship he started feeling like nothing made him happy anymore. We had a great relationship, but he hid his feelings so I never had the chance to even clarify that I never, ever would've seen him as a burden. He recently told me that he still feels that nothing makes him happy anymore, 4 months after the breakup. He really, truly couldn't see how special and amazing our relationship was because he fell to his worst. Depression and anxiety make you blind to others' love for you, and it doesn't matter who it is.
YES i actually need this video, cuz convincing myself is a bit harder than i thought it would. I always try to force myself to not only look on the good side of him, but also the bad side (and the reason why i broke up with him) but sometimes i would miss him again. Tbh, i miss the memories, not the person.
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Psych2go, thank you! I actually needed this, having an obsessive ex who wants to go back with me even though I already have a boyfriend. he keeps bugging me with the past and all he remembers is the good memories but he refused to accept the argument that his mistakes and faults were that severe. Thank goodness I’m out of that relationship, it was really toxic and it changed me to be a strong person but it made me depressed for months :(
My former bf is the same way. In a moment of weakness, I sent him a text. I missed him, though our relationship was unhealthy. He said some nasty things, that I'm selfish and cruel to have left him. Then after I blocked him, he apologized and asked for another chance. He won't take no for an answer and said he'll commit suicide if I don't.
I really tried. I was understanding, compassionate, trying to help him heal from things, looked deeper into his disrespect, I tried it all, tried all the conversations, found ways to talk things out and yet I was still met with disrespect, ungratefulness, hardly the bare minimum, his emotional unavailability which has its own series of problems, being dismissed, him being defensive, not being heard, feeling unloved, unappreciated...the cycle. I feel bad because maybe if i was stronger i could carry on, but im just not happy anymore. Im tired. He has things he needs to heal and I can't burn myself, trying to keep someone else warm. It's hard and I love him but it needs to end.
We didn't even fight. There was nothing wrong in our relationship. I was really happy, having her but then she broke up with me. She told me it was because, it's a relationship with a long distance and stuff like this. I really need her. Doesn't matter if as a friend or as a girlfriend. She was always the one, who could help me, when I was down. I realize it everytime I feel down now and wish I could text her. But the breakup made it impossible. We don't text anymore.
Nokori as much as this hurts, being her friend can be harmful to you, I tell you not only because psychologists have written about that in books, but also by previous experiences of mine. Be thankful you guys don't talk, best wishes to you!
I just ended a year-long relationship, a few weeks ago with someone who was emotionally abusive. We've completely cut contact but still live in the same city. While I feel myself becoming more happy that I'm out of that abuse, I still miss Person B. You could say that they were person B for the first few months. That's when we had the most fulfilling memories. They've changed so much that they're definitely Person A, not at all mentally stable. I keep having these visions that they'll come back and try to treat me the way they did in the beginning. But I could never fall for that, as much as I still miss them. In time, they'd slowly unravel back into Person A again, which would send me right back to the unhealthy relationship I was in. I'll definitely be able to look out for signs of emotional abuse in the future, when I am ready to be with a new partner.
This is exactly what im going through, Same experience, And now that i left they want me back and begging me and it’s making me soo week cuz i know going back is NEVER the choice but they keep making me feel bad for them and miss everything we had , I really hope you got through this tho and you’re happy now , Wish me luck 💞
I grew up in a family where verbal abuse was totally normal. I didn't know it was abuse until she dumped me. Now I realize it was abuse but it never registered in my brain. I've repented like he'll and apologized. Can I get her back and seek absolution?
Familiarity is a big reason an ex comes back. They at.least know what we're about. And also, it's slim pickings out there especially the older we get. I'm happiest being single especially at this time of my life. Blessings to everyone!
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There are some break ups that I could say it's fine to get back and rekindle the relationship. Like they have the right love but not the right time or the reason behind was just so lame. But yeah, generally speaking, these are indeed sound reasonable...
This video is just what I needed. My 6 year relationship ended and it is so hard having my life upside down. Thank you, it really helped clearing my mind.
I found it better to be single. Don't have to suffer and feel vulnerable. I just brush off every romantic feeling, because I know it would never make me happier than I'm now. Maybe in another life though... 😊
I broke up like a week ago, and certainly I feel much better and comfortable. Now I don't have to worry if I said something wrong when he didn't talk to me and feel miserable because of it.
Dude since my last relationship I have never been happier to be single. I feel free and not caged or anchored down from everything. I'm actually looking forward to the holidays as a single person; I can't express the happiness I feel.
I have an ever looping issue. When I'm single, I feel very unwanted and alone. When I try to find someone, I figure it out very quickly that I fucking hate people. I can't stand even normal human behavior. It makes me distance myself from them. Then I'm back to being single, and the cycle continues.
I think I'm that way because I spend most of my time alone. I go to school, I probably in total small talk to three people, I go home, do my homework, talk to my family and eat, and then sit in my room and sleep. I find it almost crazy that I hate simple human behaviors :/.
The reason I kept going back to my ex was because I was working nights downtown with no car, I would always get harassed by random men and followed ect. My ex was one of the few men who would ask if I was ok, walk with me, give me a ride, fight for me and defend me. So if keep going bad after every bad experience with strange men as if he was my protection. But I now just travel w packs of other women, I carry an knife ,pepper spray or gun if I can and met nice ppl who want to make sure I'm safe. Just sucks the amount of sexually abusive/creepy perverts there are in the world
For a while I kept clinging onto my ex but tbh, being fully single is an amazing feeling, I could do what I want, say what I want and learn more about myself
I was devastated when my ex and I separated, and I went to years of therapy and even got a job to try to get him back. Three years after the divorce, though, I'm so relieved I don't have to live with him anymore!
I always remember the good and the bad things. When I remember the bad things I get angry, annoyed and in certain way I start to hate him, but I love(d) him so much that surpasses hatred. I gave him everthing, but I never believed him when he told me that he loved me because I'm really insecure and I trust no one, and his actions didn't help to make me feel sure neither, like there was so many contradictions in what he said and did. He always comes back, but then he always fades away. We both were/are mentally sick. It's really shitty that I can't even trust myself because of my mind, I don't know which intentions are real anymore, so I avoid talk to people. He understood me so well... I really felt part of something. The pain is really huge, and although he hurt me so much, I want him back. I was like Wendy, and he was like Peter Pan...
my breakup is still fresh and i feel like i can’t focus on any of the bad things, i just keep thinking about how i fell in love for the first time with him and i don’t feel like i will ever be loved like that again
My ex was abusive, and she didnt allow me to talk to my friends about it. She used to hit me, bite me, scratch me and talk me down. I wasnt bad to her, ever. Even after we broke up, i was nice to her, even tho she didnt deserve it at all. She, singlehandedly made me suicidal, depressed and fucked up. I had to talk to a lot of schoolcouncellors, doctors, psychologists and was even prescibed antidepressants at some time. To this day, i can’t feel love for other people. No compassion, no empathy nor sympathy. No love, no one means anything. I lost hope. I died with that love i so desperately needed.
Amelia Says: same here. She did a complete 180 and became a total bitch to me afterwards. I do miss our relationship because there was everything I wanted, but she wasn’t the person I built her up to be in my mind
I'm just a kind of person who doesn't like to get involved with an ex anymore because I literally hold a grudge to someone. I may forgive but I didn't forget what my ex has done in the relationship. I'm a good girl type in the relationship but once I'm done, I'm done.
Basically,g just remember all the bad things that you hated about your ex to avoid getting back with your ex. Yeah, i learned that with gf #3. I'm on my way to getting #19 as we speak. Don't be afraid to try out many ppl peeps because thats why there are millions of ppl for you to choose from.
I needed this video, first time watching it today. I'm separating from my husband of 7 years and thought to myself "maybe we should just be together" but after this it helped clear my thoughts.
Three days in surviving break up from a man with commitment phobia. In one of our last communications, I told him we've been "trying to pound a square peg into a round hole" because we share an incredible love and chemistry, but it still wasn't enough for him. I'm a Christian and constantly seek (and often find) affirmation from God about my problems. So when I came across this video just now and saw the square and round pegs inside the heads, I knew God was confirming to yes, stay away. Grateful!
For me it's "better than nothing" In my life i never made even 1 girl friend let alone girlfriend. She was my first friend, first best friend and first everything. It was LDR and she was the sweetest girl ever. But as time passed her whole personality changed from a caring gentle and sweet to a baddie, aggressive and harsh one. She still loved me but she had no control over what she says and how much it hurts me. I couldn't handle that change and hence decided to part ways. But i never left her, we would still talk almost everyday and that's how it goes
God this woman hurt me so badly that I can’t even comprehend the pain I feel, it’s been so long and the heart ache is still so sharp. I’m so so afraid to love again that just the thought of it makes my stomach turn. But I feel the loneliness deep in my soul. This isn’t a cry for help or whining just something I had to get off my chest. I’ve begged god to help me find love again and to ease my pain. I want nothing more then to forget and love once more…
I agree with almost everything you said except for the fact that we gonna find love when we are ready, well love comes when you are not looking for it.
Thank you so much for this video... it's just what I needed to hear right now. I'm at the part where I'm just remembering the good parts of my 11 year relationship.. I cant seem to think about the bad right now but I'm glad I'm not alone and that everyone goes through these same motions.
My ex initiated a serious relationship and even planned a future for us together including moving to another country, marriage and kids. One random day after a small argument, he ended it once and for all. I cried and begged. I don't want to talk to him ever again
Lol me and my ex broke up back in 2014, yet she always seem to come back to me every year after her new relationship is also falling apart. The funny thing is once she has established contact with me again, she always starts to act distant or fed up with me again before she gets into her next relationship. There seems to be a pattern of some sorts. Now I am really wondering if this is normal or that my ex may have some personality disorder like borderline. Either that or she still isn't over me after all those years. Has someone experienced a situation similar like this??
Theshowdown 93 Maybe she tries to replace you in every relationship , has they fail she comes back right at you or you are either her replacement for what she didn't found on them. I didn't had exactly that experience but something very similar. Have you tried talking with her about this? I wish you the best luck!
Theshowdown 93 - dont fall for it, shes just messing with you. next time she comes back DONT DO IT. tell her to get lost, shell be like a rubber band bounce back n forth.
It could be like the video was saying, she just keeps romanticizing her memories of you then comes back at the end of each relationship expecting to find her ideal version of you but you're still you're true self. When she remembers this she gets upset and annoyed with you. Ignoring her next time she comes back may be your best option.
Cindy Gopez - just wasnt ment to be. my ex n i would bounce back n forth as well - over 7 years. the last time , it was done for good. that was over 10 years ago and i havent regretted it since.
I was there, i only wanted to get back to her and i thought my life wont have meaning without me having her again, as time went by and i experienced other relationships with other girls , I found out i was only stupid and desperate and now i thank god i did not get back to her
I’m actually glad I’m not going back to my ex. Like ever. Yes, we had good times and bad times but it got toxic overtime. I’m happy with my current relationship.
There are some bad traits different people will sympathize with and some bad traits that different people won't sympathize with.I can't sympathize with arrogance though.
if it’s a real break up where they just don’t want the other person then you should never chase them and don’t let them go back into your life if they consciously left they should know the consequence, cause that means they never loved you in the first place (assuming you were not pretending)
I breakups a 6 months relationship well people may say it's not long but I put my heart and soul into it to make it work well I guess things that aren't meant to be together it will never last.
In quarantine, I was lost, sad, and confused, and that's when I met him. I can say that he was a big help from God someone to talk to, someone to laugh with and someone to know at that time, but now that I'm happy and learning how to be by myself, our connection is taking different paths because, as the video stated, you grew as people, you also grew apart. It's difficult to let him go because he was there for me in my sad time's. Maybe his time in my life is over. It's sad
VirtualFunction Literally no matter what relationships end, usually awfully. Why do people even fucking bother? There are so many other things that can make you happy, like pursuing a career, having good friends, starting a hobby, vacationing, getting educated, etc. All these dumbass highschoolers I know that think their relationships will last until the end of time.
VirtualFunction I don’t know about that. That’s just a really negative way to view relationships. I can say that your view point could change if you met someone that you just clicked with. That’s what happened to me, being in love with someone is one of the greatest feelings, being vulnerable with someone. Knowing the other person so well that you can tell when their having a bad day and trying to help them feel better or just listening. Idk I’m really happy though because my partner is also my best friend
kskits ._ meh that’s not true. I would rather have lived my life loving than not knowing what that feeling is like. Having a relationship is a lot of work because you grow and change with the other person. I want to feel rather than shy away from it because I’m afraid of getting my heart broken. It’s worth the risk if it’s the right person.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
getting back with your ex is like this: " you go to the fridge n get out a quart of milk, BUT its sour. you put it back and say ' maybe tomm itll be fresh' " - george carlin satan would have to ice skate to work for my ex gf and i to EVA get back together.....👍 thank yall for the likes😊
Me and my fiance have been on and off for 4 years, we have both made dumb decisions and mistakes and have both grown up a lot since then. We have both tried talking to new people while still being in love with each other and everything always pointed back to one another. Sometimes God works to teach us lessons that we might just be too stubborn to learn so we need that extra push.
i actually searched for this because i my ex just broke up to me just days ago and that 11 years of happy and lonely memories is really hard to forget and i feel i can't cope up anymore. It is so painful.
Need to get this off my chest.... My ex was one of those neighborhood friends turned sweethearts. We dated for about 2 years in high school and everything went fairly well. ( had occasional fights here and there) Well, one day she caught porn on my phone for the second time and completely ignored me after breaking up with me thru text. The next week I saw her with another guy. I feel like I got cheated on and still have no closure bc she never gave me a reason why she wanted to break up, but I kinda already got the gist. Would not want to get back with her ever! Sorry for dragging on, this’ll get lost in the sea of comments anyway.
Baumrinde so catching your significant other watching porn twice means texting "it's over" with no explanation and getting into another relationship a week later? Female logic I swear. I can find more loyalty from a dog then from females. Females treat men like cars. Y'all run them dry then when something breaks you want a new one. Given watching porn can damage a relationship but that's something y'all come together and work out. My thing is she didn't leave an explanation or left it open for a discussion to even attempt to fix it. Just find another boyfriend. Smh get help with the porn thing and stay single for a while. The right one will come. My statements above are a general conclusion. There are nice women out there. Most of them over looked. But it's the majority that speaks for them all sadly.
Random Guy I don’t think I’d want to hurt her. Not because I still care but because I don’t wanna stoop to that level. In the end, I’d be just as inconsiderate as she was.
Shamarr Washington As a porn-loving female... ;) I don't think there's anything wrong with it, *if* all parties agree, if it's not a substitute for the real relationship, and as long as everyone understands that porn isn't always realistic and shouldn't be measured against your partner(s.) My ex and I discussed porn pretty early in our relationship and found that neither of us was threatened by the other watching it. In fact, I have porn to thank for my getting lucky many times. ;)
*scrolling thru youtube shortly after getting back with someone for the 7th time in 3 years* “7 Sound Reasons You Shouldnt Get Back With Your Ex” IM CRYING I HAD TO WATCH IT
I had the energy to finally break off a 2 year abusive relationships 3 months ago. It hurt a little, and still does but i feel so much happier i dont have to keep experiencing all that again. The only scary part is who my next partner will be since me and him dated through high school. Im hopeful and still learning!
Me 2 months after watching this video..Honestly thank you. This video reminded me of how toxic she was, that it wasnt just "a true love story" The first reason in this video has really woken me up. Used to cry everyday about her, constantly. Now I havent cried about her for a good week. I'm feeling a lot better about it.
Hey Fast Tapps, I'm glad you're feeling better! We go back to our exes most times because we're not confident in our futures & fail to realize that not everyone is meant to be in our lives :/ I also made a video about exes; I hope it can help you too👉🏽 ua-cam.com/video/2HTxRSCpDD4/v-deo.html
Natalia Ramírez - i was in a couple before. actually were online. was good freinds with one for years, then she got bent outta shape about something. havent herd from her since. i was about to go meet her in person. 2nd one, i flew to meet , dated a while n i moved to be with her. were still together. long distance relationships wont work forever.
I just went through a tough and abrupt break up.We were cool until she went home to inform her Dad about our relationship as possibly marriage .The news turn out to be a disaster after receiving a call that she doesn’t love me anymore.Now she wants us to be friends.2 months after breaking up with me she still can’t tell me what went wrong but After watching this,I really Thank you for giving me the courage to move on and be happy.
Unfortunately she didn’t do anything wrong it was all me. I need to remember what I did and love her for who she is and hope she finds someone better meanwhile try and heal and forget about her.
Linda Bright thank you but I shouldn’t have to use spells to win someone’s heart over I’d rather God almighty help me. If it was truly meant to be let it be but I won’t use spells. I’m happy you got you’re ex back and I wish you well.
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Thank you. Almost 3 years ldrs and finally got to meet up in reality... then the person I once knew started going only downhill. I do forget really often about person A, because I was used to person B and now they are gone.... Very sad, but true and I'll do my best ot focus on the negatives, what pulled me away. Hopefully that person changes someday. If not then it was not meant to be. I've never seen myself as the problem, even if I try to. It's only her that causes chaos. Well not anymore, I have to see a change or nothing at all. Even if I don't believe that I've ever find a good partner in that horrable twisted period of time we live in, I'll learn to be enough with myself. Thanks again
I know that feeling. When your the only one invested and truly care its messed up because your inviting them to confuse you and manipulate you into believing they actually do care. Its all bs. I was chewed up and spit back out by a girl who never really valued me long term wise but its fine, someone else is probably out there for me
I got out of a 2 year relationship and I wanted to get back so bad. And a few months after the breakup she called me, and said she wanted to get back. At first I was ecstatic but then all of the sudden my memory was flooded with all of the negative things that showed we just weren't capable of lasting. I told her no and have felt so free since then.
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Psych2Go - yup, watched it, commented , pure awsomeness🤘
Psych2Go nice video
Psych2Go thank you guys! You're always so supportive
Psych2Go to be honest you're right , but i broke up wirh her, now when i see her wirh some1 else i just want her bak , i dont even remember why i broke up woth her. Could u help me?
Psych2Go I am not being relationship built even if I am 19 years bc not need in the future thinking sometimes go marriage.... but you get helped me thanks sharing new things
I always say "A break up comes with a reason, never forget that reason."
when you get dumped... whats the reason besides she got bored of you?
Isn't that the truth we all are blinded to? Well said my friend.
indeed
In my case there are 5 distinct reasons...this is the sad truth...
Stacy 1988 uhhh yeah expensive way to get them back
I mean, we broke up for a reason. Why go back? You just miss the idea of being with someone. You only want what your brain already knows and is familiar with.
Lady.Whatever I hear this a lot but I feel it’s not true in a lot of cases. I don’t miss the idea, I miss being with her in a relationship.
I’ve seen a lot of attractive girls but I just can’t see myself loving them or being excited of being in a relationship like with my ex.
Just sayin sometimes missing the idea isn’t true.
@@Plutonic_Blue yeah it can be you still love her but you can still get over it with time its just about mindset honestly
I dont know. I have broken up with my ex after almost four years 6 months ago...during those 6 months we only met twice for a short period of time....We met again two days ago and it hit me so fucking hard. I realized that a lot of things I balmed her for were not her fault, I realized that in six months I have been slowly realizing that there is not many girls like her and most of all...I can think of her flaws and how irritated I was but still I somehow feel like we were great match and if we talked more and coordinated our dreams, we might be together for much longer time...I dont know whether this is just an idea I miss...I think about her and I feel like crying, feel pain in my chest for how sad I am...
Naverich what about getting back together?
And What if that reason was my fault? I feel very guilty. Because I think it was because of my personality of being alone.
The reason people break up is also important. An ex of mine and I had dated when we were younger, but it was a long distance relationship. Several years later we began to talk again. We've been happily married for 6 years now.
Exactly.
That's so beautiful. I almost cried.
I wish that could happen with me and my ex
Drafting Punk i’m sorry but that’s terrible, i laughed 💀💀
My ex and i were together for over a year and we just broke up 5 days ago because he said he isnt ready for a relationship but when he is hes going to take me back
i didnt cry when i broke up with my boyfriend but the thought of starting sum new and doing it all over again is exhausting
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@@niqz1660 honestly i got back w him n honestly i didnt feel nun no feeling like im really over him bt idk what to say to him now..
exactly.
Same. Been single since then
WEEEEEEEE ARE NEVER EVER EVER EVER GETTING BACK TOGETHER
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like ever!
Same!
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I don't get why people can't enjoy being single. It's actually very freeing and you learn more about yourself. You learn to love yourself and if you focus on making yourself better, you'll be a better partner in the future for that lucky person. It's a win win!
alias46913 ya its win win but what about that dreams you two dreams when you were in relationship ! it's all trash ? that their its hurt
alias46913 My friendship circle broke (we had a lot of mutual friends) and because I was close with his family, I had to face losing them too. Not being able to drive or use public transport, I can't even get out of the house to actually improve my life in any way. I have gained nothing but loneliness from the breakup. It doesn't mean that I should get my ex back, or that I'm even ready for any relationship, but the stuff that everyone told me about life getting better after a break up were all lies to try and make me feel better.
xTwilightWolvesx feeling the same way. Three mos and still painful.
Alias46813 Thank you because I’m in the 5th Grade and my ex said she was breaking up me and said why but she didn’t answer and I asked her what she liked about me like is it because I’m black, Looks wise or personality she couldn’t answer all she came up with is you
Lol a girl saying she enjoys being single just means she enjoys hooking up and sleeping around LOL good for you (and even better for all those dudes)
And this came out legit the same second my ex texted me
Moses Simmons you know what to do then
I sometimes wonder if the internet lies..
Moses Simmons if they somehow make it obvious that he/she wants to get back with you, you should send them this video and see what their reaction is ༼ つ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ༽つ
Moses Simmons what'd he/she say
THEY KNOW
The struggle of an Introvert:
Getting with your Ex together is unhealthy.
Getting to know someone new know is annoying and uncomfy.
Solution: remain single and read some outstanding books.
Personal Power that's the fear introverts have. It's terrifying going out there and meeting new people
I agree so much to this 😅
This is so true. The idea of having a new person and having to go on the process of share all the info again and be comfortable seems tiring and to be honest, not worthy. Being alone doesn’t sound bad. I’m grateful for my friends :).
i feel like i won’t ever be as comfortable as i was with my ex that recently left ;(( we were 5 years in and idk if i can love and talk comfortably with someone new
yes
Reason 1: She deleted all my steam games cuz i spent too much time on them.
That 1 reason is enough for me
Tell Me This Jesus what a bitch. Someone that truly cares about you should always allow you some time for your passions and never force you to do anything.
Tell Me This - yep if ya were married thats grounds for a divorce
anonimo aninimus - im believing my ex was seeing/ doin someone else when we broke up, however i was smart enough to start collecting riding mowers instead of sulking or gettin back with her, probably has 10 kids by now n i could care less.
jokes on her, you can just redownload or contact steam to regain access to previously deleted content.
Alaeri ツ YOU DON'T GET IT. ITS ABOUT THE DAMN RULEZZZZZ
why am i crying in the club rn
Ain't no crying in the club hey hey
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All relationships have a unique dynamic, and end in unique ways. Take all advice as that: advice. Think things through, don’t be impulsive, and do what’s best in the long term as opposed to what satisfies your emotions the most now. Good luck!
I agree with most of what you said except the focusing on the emotions now. Instead of doing that, one needs to focus on the future and the past just is not there.
what if i dont know what is best for me in the long run
Getting my heart smashed like raspberries in a sauce
Was the best thing that ever happened to me.
It was like Goku almost dying, getting up stronger than before.
The Mediocre Artist Fer AXAG , exatly
That's deep
And watch yourself turn into a super sayian
The Mediocre Artist Fer AXAG Thanks for bringing goku here XD
Kakarot* and Vegeta is better.
Tip: Don't compare your past relationships with the one you have now. Also, never based the new one on your past relationship. If it didn't work it doesn't mean that the new one would fail too. Giving chances is important because people are different.
Yea I get what you mean but literally I told my ex not to keep shit from me that would affect our relationship because that's why my other relationship ended, but no he did the same thing as my ex did. The sad part is it could've been fixed if he had said something
@@nibberoup-6677 that’s all on him. You advised him yet he ignored. Don’t overthink it since it was all on him.
I went back to my ex many times cause i was blindly in love when really he will never change.
If you love someone, but want something major about them to change, then you instead love the idea of what they could be and not who they are.
Girl, same.
Same here. I kept thinking things were going to be different but they were just empty promises. Oddly I still miss him at the weirdest times
Me too. It is so not worth it. We finally broke up
Exactly don't ever go back then
I read somewhere that getting back with an ex is like starting something again with an unbalanced start. When you start with a new person, you're both at the same stage of emotion with them without personal baggage between you two. But with an ex, you're not sure if your ex is at the same stage with yours. Maybe while you're holding onto their shirt to go to sleep every night, they're giving their shirt away for someone else to hold onto. It's full of risks that you're getting your heart broken again.
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I got depressed
My grades dropped
She left me
I’m broken now
A month after you got abandoned I was too. It’s ok man, you gotta pick up your pieces and rebuild stronger than before
You can begin again :)
I'm rooting for you!
I feel you bro but you'll get through it. Even when you feel like "what do I do now", or "this is hopeless". You'll get through it. Me and these two other comments rooting for you so keep pushing forward young king
Sounds like my former bf. Our relationship was unhealthy so I left. It was a bit lonely at times but I knew it was the right thing so I could heal. He on the other hand, fell into a depression and claimed he lost the will to live. I felt so terrible. Now he wants us to get back together.
@@Em_Elizabeth my gf broke up with me 💔 because she said her studies were more important and that she won't have enough time for me 😢 but says she loves me.... It's bs and yet we were going to go to Germany together to study 😢 💔 so cruel
Hey guys, everyone here is probably going through a rough time right now. I just wanted to tell you, that on one day you will realise that there is no reason to be sad or depressed anymore. We are all in the same boat, we feel like shit, but this will change. Mabye tomorrow or in a month, but it's certain that it will change. I wish you guys all the best, you will get through this.♥️
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This is not an absolute. Someone else “may” come along, not someone else “will” come along. You have no control over what someone else will or will not do. There is no guarantee that you will find love or love will find you. You can only hope and have luck, if true, long-lasting love is what you want in your life.
Aneko Foxx - true, ive dated a few women, but only had 2 serious relationships eva.
I think it's better to think optimistic about that. When you have that attitude, you wouldn't see if somebody is special for you or not.
Legless Rest Syndrome
Not exactly. There people who have fallen in love and they were in the worst position they ever were in their lives even perhaps clinically depressed and pessimistic. Those things don’t determine if you see someone special to you or not.
In actuality, you should be with someone when you have the least amount to give, because then you know that they’re loving you for truly who you are and not what you have to offer.
Aneko Foxx Ironically, this is why my ex broke up with me. He was so pessimistic and had such low self confidence that he thought I saw him as a burden, but I never did. He broke up with me because his head was lying to him about my feelings for him, in other words.
He also broke up with me because in the last 3 months of our relationship he started feeling like nothing made him happy anymore. We had a great relationship, but he hid his feelings so I never had the chance to even clarify that I never, ever would've seen him as a burden. He recently told me that he still feels that nothing makes him happy anymore, 4 months after the breakup.
He really, truly couldn't see how special and amazing our relationship was because he fell to his worst. Depression and anxiety make you blind to others' love for you, and it doesn't matter who it is.
someone else WILL come along if your a woman. Someone else MIGHT come along if youre a man.
YES i actually need this video, cuz convincing myself is a bit harder than i thought it would. I always try to force myself to not only look on the good side of him, but also the bad side (and the reason why i broke up with him) but sometimes i would miss him again. Tbh, i miss the memories, not the person.
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how areyounow?did you moveon? cause I'm going through a horrible breakup :(
That last sentence. So important.
I’m 7 months into a breakup and this is exactly me. We were not meant to be together despite all my work to make it happen
Why am I watching this? I don't even have an ex.
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Psych2go, thank you! I actually needed this, having an obsessive ex who wants to go back with me even though I already have a boyfriend. he keeps bugging me with the past and all he remembers is the good memories but he refused to accept the argument that his mistakes and faults were that severe. Thank goodness I’m out of that relationship, it was really toxic and it changed me to be a strong person but it made me depressed for months :(
Chibi Leah - you were better off out of it. all y gotta say is ' harrasent' or ' restraining order'
My former bf is the same way. In a moment of weakness, I sent him a text. I missed him, though our relationship was unhealthy. He said some nasty things, that I'm selfish and cruel to have left him. Then after I blocked him, he apologized and asked for another chance. He won't take no for an answer and said he'll commit suicide if I don't.
dangerous toys56 haha I just saw this now but I think I did say that because he was that annoying. But I’m really happy now :)
Emma Loura it sucks right? I hope you take care :)
I really tried. I was understanding, compassionate, trying to help him heal from things, looked deeper into his disrespect, I tried it all, tried all the conversations, found ways to talk things out and yet I was still met with disrespect, ungratefulness, hardly the bare minimum, his emotional unavailability which has its own series of problems, being dismissed, him being defensive, not being heard, feeling unloved, unappreciated...the cycle. I feel bad because maybe if i was stronger i could carry on, but im just not happy anymore. Im tired. He has things he needs to heal and I can't burn myself, trying to keep someone else warm. It's hard and I love him but it needs to end.
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We didn't even fight. There was nothing wrong in our relationship. I was really happy, having her but then she broke up with me. She told me it was because, it's a relationship with a long distance and stuff like this. I really need her. Doesn't matter if as a friend or as a girlfriend. She was always the one, who could help me, when I was down. I realize it everytime I feel down now and wish I could text her. But the breakup made it impossible. We don't text anymore.
Nokori as much as this hurts, being her friend can be harmful to you, I tell you not only because psychologists have written about that in books, but also by previous experiences of mine. Be thankful you guys don't talk, best wishes to you!
I used to feel like I needed my ex too. But I realised that I don’t. You’re going to have to form a sense of independence.
Nokori I think you’re brave for facing your reality. Keep going🏁🏁
Nokori- did she ever contact you again? My ex dumped me after 7 years! No real reason! She hasn’t spoken to me in 5 weeks. It sucks..
Sorry but ur brave
My fiancée broke up with me a week ago, your recent videos on breakups actually helped me a lot to see things as they are :)
my 2 year and 5 month relationship ended 4 days ago and I feel absolutely alone to the point to where I can't eat or be in my own room
Kiarrah russell how are you feeling now?
We want to know
How are you??? I hope you are doing much better
Me too i let my 2 siblings sleep in my room everynight cos being alone fucks me up
Youl get over it honestly just do distractive things get to learn about you etc hope your feeling better now
This tone helped me rationalize myself. I needed to hear this . Thank you. It’s so hard to think rational when you’re feeling emotional.
I just ended a year-long relationship, a few weeks ago with someone who was emotionally abusive. We've completely cut contact but still live in the same city. While I feel myself becoming more happy that I'm out of that abuse, I still miss Person B. You could say that they were person B for the first few months. That's when we had the most fulfilling memories. They've changed so much that they're definitely Person A, not at all mentally stable. I keep having these visions that they'll come back and try to treat me the way they did in the beginning. But I could never fall for that, as much as I still miss them. In time, they'd slowly unravel back into Person A again, which would send me right back to the unhealthy relationship I was in. I'll definitely be able to look out for signs of emotional abuse in the future, when I am ready to be with a new partner.
This is exactly what im going through, Same experience, And now that i left they want me back and begging me and it’s making me soo week cuz i know going back is NEVER the choice but they keep making me feel bad for them and miss everything we had , I really hope you got through this tho and you’re happy now , Wish me luck 💞
I grew up in a family where verbal abuse was totally normal. I didn't know it was abuse until she dumped me. Now I realize it was abuse but it never registered in my brain. I've repented like he'll and apologized. Can I get her back and seek absolution?
"You can't force anyone to love you"
*looks at collection of visual novels*
that's true
Familiarity is a big reason an ex comes back. They at.least know what we're about.
And also, it's slim pickings out there especially the older we get.
I'm happiest being single especially at this time of my life.
Blessings to everyone!
Remember that it is healthier to let go than to hold on to a love that isn't there anymore. ✨
This video is something I don't want to hear...but something I definitely need to hear. It's always nice to have logic to listen to. Thanks you guys!
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There are some break ups that I could say it's fine to get back and rekindle the relationship. Like they have the right love but not the right time or the reason behind was just so lame. But yeah, generally speaking, these are indeed sound reasonable...
im sorry to everyone watching this stay safe and better yourself
This video is just what I needed. My 6 year relationship ended and it is so hard having my life upside down. Thank you, it really helped clearing my mind.
Hey, u doing fine now?
@@anxley6263 thank you for asking. I am a bit better.
I found it better to be single. Don't have to suffer and feel vulnerable. I just brush off every romantic feeling, because I know it would never make me happier than I'm now. Maybe in another life though... 😊
I broke up like a week ago, and certainly I feel much better and comfortable. Now I don't have to worry if I said something wrong when he didn't talk to me and feel miserable because of it.
Dude since my last relationship I have never been happier to be single. I feel free and not caged or anchored down from everything. I'm actually looking forward to the holidays as a single person; I can't express the happiness I feel.
I have an ever looping issue. When I'm single, I feel very unwanted and alone. When I try to find someone, I figure it out very quickly that I fucking hate people. I can't stand even normal human behavior. It makes me distance myself from them. Then I'm back to being single, and the cycle continues.
I think I'm that way because I spend most of my time alone. I go to school, I probably in total small talk to three people, I go home, do my homework, talk to my family and eat, and then sit in my room and sleep. I find it almost crazy that I hate simple human behaviors :/.
The reason I kept going back to my ex was because I was working nights downtown with no car, I would always get harassed by random men and followed ect. My ex was one of the few men who would ask if I was ok, walk with me, give me a ride, fight for me and defend me. So if keep going bad after every bad experience with strange men as if he was my protection. But I now just travel w packs of other women, I carry an knife ,pepper spray or gun if I can and met nice ppl who want to make sure I'm safe. Just sucks the amount of sexually abusive/creepy perverts there are in the world
Never thought I’d be watching this sigh
Do you need help?
For a while I kept clinging onto my ex but tbh, being fully single is an amazing feeling, I could do what I want, say what I want and learn more about myself
I was devastated when my ex and I separated, and I went to years of therapy and even got a job to try to get him back. Three years after the divorce, though, I'm so relieved I don't have to live with him anymore!
I've moved on from my ex and moved forward with my life and am spending time with good quality friends
I always remember the good and the bad things. When I remember the bad things I get angry, annoyed and in certain way I start to hate him, but I love(d) him so much that surpasses hatred. I gave him everthing, but I never believed him when he told me that he loved me because I'm really insecure and I trust no one, and his actions didn't help to make me feel sure neither, like there was so many contradictions in what he said and did. He always comes back, but then he always fades away. We both were/are mentally sick. It's really shitty that I can't even trust myself because of my mind, I don't know which intentions are real anymore, so I avoid talk to people. He understood me so well... I really felt part of something.
The pain is really huge, and although he hurt me so much, I want him back.
I was like Wendy, and he was like Peter Pan...
I hurt her too so much probably, but i still want her back. :)
my breakup is still fresh and i feel like i can’t focus on any of the bad things, i just keep thinking about how i fell in love for the first time with him and i don’t feel like i will ever be loved like that again
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My ex was abusive, and she didnt allow me to talk to my friends about it. She used to hit me, bite me, scratch me and talk me down. I wasnt bad to her, ever. Even after we broke up, i was nice to her, even tho she didnt deserve it at all. She, singlehandedly made me suicidal, depressed and fucked up. I had to talk to a lot of schoolcouncellors, doctors, psychologists and was even prescibed antidepressants at some time. To this day, i can’t feel love for other people. No compassion, no empathy nor sympathy. No love, no one means anything. I lost hope. I died with that love i so desperately needed.
Amelia Says: same here. She did a complete 180 and became a total bitch to me afterwards. I do miss our relationship because there was everything I wanted, but she wasn’t the person I built her up to be in my mind
literally the only time to not think positively ahah?,,,
Elle Blep Yeah, cause people end up thinking up a persona whom which the person they used to love really isn't.
Elle Blep no, sometimes it's better to worry
I can't help but think about the positives.. it's almost as though there isn't a better person out there..
@@net_lag dealing with this right at this moment. Not sure if I should move on or what.
@@sakibshahriar1613 hehe... I had this problem long ago. I still do but it's significantly less now. Just hang in there I guess.
I'm just a kind of person who doesn't like to get involved with an ex anymore because I literally hold a grudge to someone. I may forgive but I didn't forget what my ex has done in the relationship. I'm a good girl type in the relationship but once I'm done, I'm done.
A New Love Official i wish I was like you
Basically,g just remember all the bad things that you hated about your ex to avoid getting back with your ex. Yeah, i learned that with gf #3. I'm on my way to getting #19 as we speak. Don't be afraid to try out many ppl peeps because thats why there are millions of ppl for you to choose from.
Nando Ginkaku I stopped at #10. Long story short, I was almost arrested and she moved.
I should have watched this a while ago. Saved it for when I get doubtful... Things can't work out if only 1 person is willing to make it last.
I needed this video, first time watching it today. I'm separating from my husband of 7 years and thought to myself "maybe we should just be together" but after this it helped clear my thoughts.
Ayyy I did this all and people called me negative for talking trash about my ex
Ivy - what like they expect y to praise him/her for it? bunk dat. just say NONE YA. 👍
Three days in surviving break up from a man with commitment phobia. In one of our last communications, I told him we've been "trying to pound a square peg into a round hole" because we share an incredible love and chemistry, but it still wasn't enough for him. I'm a Christian and constantly seek (and often find) affirmation from God about my problems. So when I came across this video just now and saw the square and round pegs inside the heads, I knew God was confirming to yes, stay away. Grateful!
For me it's "better than nothing"
In my life i never made even 1 girl friend let alone girlfriend. She was my first friend, first best friend and first everything. It was LDR and she was the sweetest girl ever. But as time passed her whole personality changed from a caring gentle and sweet to a baddie, aggressive and harsh one. She still loved me but she had no control over what she says and how much it hurts me. I couldn't handle that change and hence decided to part ways. But i never left her, we would still talk almost everyday and that's how it goes
God this woman hurt me so badly that I can’t even comprehend the pain I feel, it’s been so long and the heart ache is still so sharp. I’m so so afraid to love again that just the thought of it makes my stomach turn. But I feel the loneliness deep in my soul. This isn’t a cry for help or whining just something I had to get off my chest. I’ve begged god to help me find love again and to ease my pain. I want nothing more then to forget and love once more…
I agree with almost everything you said except for the fact that we gonna find love when we are ready, well love comes when you are not looking for it.
Thank you so much for this video... it's just what I needed to hear right now. I'm at the part where I'm just remembering the good parts of my 11 year relationship.. I cant seem to think about the bad right now but I'm glad I'm not alone and that everyone goes through these same motions.
These videos always show up when I need them most
My ex initiated a serious relationship and even planned a future for us together including moving to another country, marriage and kids. One random day after a small argument, he ended it once and for all. I cried and begged. I don't want to talk to him ever again
Why does this sound so familiar?😢
@@godfreygeorge5531 There are similar people who play with people's feelings as if they're toys i guess.
Lol me and my ex broke up back in 2014, yet she always seem to come back to me every year after her new relationship is also falling apart. The funny thing is once she has established contact with me again, she always starts to act distant or fed up with me again before she gets into her next relationship. There seems to be a pattern of some sorts. Now I am really wondering if this is normal or that my ex may have some personality disorder like borderline. Either that or she still isn't over me after all those years. Has someone experienced a situation similar like this??
Theshowdown 93 Maybe she tries to replace you in every relationship , has they fail she comes back right at you or you are either her replacement for what she didn't found on them. I didn't had exactly that experience but something very similar. Have you tried talking with her about this? I wish you the best luck!
Theshowdown 93 - dont fall for it, shes just messing with you. next time she comes back DONT DO IT.
tell her to get lost, shell be like a rubber band bounce back n forth.
It could be like the video was saying, she just keeps romanticizing her memories of you then comes back at the end of each relationship expecting to find her ideal version of you but you're still you're true self. When she remembers this she gets upset and annoyed with you. Ignoring her next time she comes back may be your best option.
Cindy Gopez - just wasnt ment to be. my ex n i would bounce back n forth as well - over 7 years. the last time , it was done for good. that was over 10 years ago and i havent regretted it since.
Cindy Gopez that's really unhealthy..
I mean yah..but I am back with my ex after 5 years and we are much better then in the past :3
that's awesome!!!!
This gave me hope
Wait , you were apart for 5 years and then got back together again?Just making sure I am not confused.
ExoticLiving Doll i think thats what she meant
how did you get together again?
I was there, i only wanted to get back to her and i thought my life wont have meaning without me having her again,
as time went by and i experienced other relationships with other girls ,
I found out i was only stupid and desperate and now
i thank god i did not get back to her
I feel dumb watching this now since it’s been an year after breaking up and I had to figure all of this out by my own
You got this!!! Still it’s never too late to figure your feelings out
I’m actually glad I’m not going back to my ex. Like ever. Yes, we had good times and bad times but it got toxic overtime. I’m happy with my current relationship.
There are some bad traits different people will sympathize with and some bad traits that different people won't sympathize with.I can't sympathize with arrogance though.
I love you pshy2go !!! If It werent for you, I would of never found out about my psychosis disorder.
One simple reason..
She didn't like cats.
He didn’t like dogs- no, all animals. I knew it wouldn’t have lasted
On my gosh, I don’t even know you but everyone deserves someone better than that. I might be a bit of a cat person..
Fuck cats.
Yeah he asked me on a date... to an aquarium... complete with a bird petting zoo and other hands-on animal activities. He didn’t even have fun wtf
Oh my gawd!!!
Psych is on their feels
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I don't trust any anymore. I don't even want to be with someone. Being single is....lonely yes, but liberating at the same time.
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if it’s a real break up where they just don’t want the other person then you should never chase them and don’t let them go back into your life if they consciously left they should know the consequence, cause that means they never loved you in the first place (assuming you were not pretending)
I breakups a 6 months relationship well people may say it's not long but I put my heart and soul into it to make it work well I guess things that aren't meant to be together it will never last.
In quarantine, I was lost, sad, and confused, and that's when I met him. I can say that he was a big help from God someone to talk to, someone to laugh with and someone to know at that time, but now that I'm happy and learning how to be by myself, our connection is taking different paths because, as the video stated, you grew as people, you also grew apart. It's difficult to let him go because he was there for me in my sad time's. Maybe his time in my life is over. It's sad
A relationship is simply a breakup waiting to happen. Why people obsess over them is truly baffling...
VirtualFunction Literally no matter what relationships end, usually awfully. Why do people even fucking bother? There are so many other things that can make you happy, like pursuing a career, having good friends, starting a hobby, vacationing, getting educated, etc. All these dumbass highschoolers I know that think their relationships will last until the end of time.
VirtualFunction I don’t know about that. That’s just a really negative way to view relationships. I can say that your view point could change if you met someone that you just clicked with. That’s what happened to me, being in love with someone is one of the greatest feelings, being vulnerable with someone. Knowing the other person so well that you can tell when their having a bad day and trying to help them feel better or just listening. Idk I’m really happy though because my partner is also my best friend
kskits ._ meh that’s not true. I would rather have lived my life loving than not knowing what that feeling is like. Having a relationship is a lot of work because you grow and change with the other person. I want to feel rather than shy away from it because I’m afraid of getting my heart broken. It’s worth the risk if it’s the right person.
Living is simply death waiting to happen. Why people obsess over it is truly baffling
@@exoceanadmin9630 lol
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@Howard K. McNally Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@Howard K. McNally Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
getting back with your ex is like this:
" you go to the fridge n get out a quart of milk, BUT its sour. you put it back and say ' maybe tomm itll be fresh' " - george carlin
satan would have to ice skate to work for my ex gf and i to EVA get back together.....👍
thank yall for the likes😊
dangerous toys56 I appreciate the George Carlin quote 😎
Larry Panozzo - felt fitting for this topic lol👍
dangerous toys56 where is the vídeo of this quote ?I want to see it :(
#Ephy Juliana - 😨 i cant find a vid of it, i know he sed it tho.
There’s a reason you watched this video you miss her 🤣🤣
Me and my fiance have been on and off for 4 years, we have both made dumb decisions and mistakes and have both grown up a lot since then. We have both tried talking to new people while still being in love with each other and everything always pointed back to one another. Sometimes God works to teach us lessons that we might just be too stubborn to learn so we need that extra push.
are yall together
@2:18 "you miss knowing someone *inside and out* " ..... Yuuup
i actually searched for this because i my ex just broke up to me just days ago and that 11 years of happy and lonely memories is really hard to forget and i feel i can't cope up anymore. It is so painful.
i’m so sorry, 11 years is a long time, i hope you are doing better by now 💙
Funny because my ex just asked me to hang out and I got this on my recommendations right after 🤨
FBI agent helping you out 🧐
I needed this
Much needed watch
Me and my ex broke up last weekend, my heart breaking thing was writing her a final goodbye letter earlier tonight..
You should do one on, 'being happy' 'on our own' 'forever'!
He treated me like I was his psychologist, and I had to make decisions for him. He never loved me, he did a amazing work pretending he did...
Need to get this off my chest....
My ex was one of those neighborhood friends turned sweethearts. We dated for about 2 years in high school and everything went fairly well. ( had occasional fights here and there) Well, one day she caught porn on my phone for the second time and completely ignored me after breaking up with me thru text. The next week I saw her with another guy. I feel like I got cheated on and still have no closure bc she never gave me a reason why she wanted to break up, but I kinda already got the gist. Would not want to get back with her ever! Sorry for dragging on, this’ll get lost in the sea of comments anyway.
Well, I think she felt the same as you: Cheated on
Baumrinde so catching your significant other watching porn twice means texting "it's over" with no explanation and getting into another relationship a week later? Female logic I swear. I can find more loyalty from a dog then from females. Females treat men like cars. Y'all run them dry then when something breaks you want a new one. Given watching porn can damage a relationship but that's something y'all come together and work out. My thing is she didn't leave an explanation or left it open for a discussion to even attempt to fix it. Just find another boyfriend. Smh get help with the porn thing and stay single for a while. The right one will come. My statements above are a general conclusion. There are nice women out there. Most of them over looked. But it's the majority that speaks for them all sadly.
Random Guy I don’t think I’d want to hurt her. Not because I still care but because I don’t wanna stoop to that level. In the end, I’d be just as inconsiderate as she was.
Shamarr Washington As a porn-loving female... ;)
I don't think there's anything wrong with it, *if* all parties agree, if it's not a substitute for the real relationship, and as long as everyone understands that porn isn't always realistic and shouldn't be measured against your partner(s.) My ex and I discussed porn pretty early in our relationship and found that neither of us was threatened by the other watching it. In fact, I have porn to thank for my getting lucky many times. ;)
Random Guy Nah fam, I was mad but I got past it.
Wish more people realized this ._.
*scrolling thru youtube shortly after getting back with someone for the 7th time in 3 years* “7 Sound Reasons You Shouldnt Get Back With Your Ex” IM CRYING I HAD TO WATCH IT
I had the energy to finally break off a 2 year abusive relationships 3 months ago. It hurt a little, and still does but i feel so much happier i dont have to keep experiencing all that again. The only scary part is who my next partner will be since me and him dated through high school. Im hopeful and still learning!
Me 2 months after watching this video..Honestly thank you. This video reminded me of how toxic she was, that it wasnt just "a true love story" The first reason in this video has really woken me up. Used to cry everyday about her, constantly. Now I havent cried about her for a good week. I'm feeling a lot better about it.
Hey Fast Tapps, I'm glad you're feeling better! We go back to our exes most times because we're not confident in our futures & fail to realize that not everyone is meant to be in our lives :/ I also made a video about exes; I hope it can help you too👉🏽 ua-cam.com/video/2HTxRSCpDD4/v-deo.html
For me, we just needed to focus on our mental health, now that we're mentally okay now should we try again?
Could you talk about long distance relationships?
Natalia Ramírez I second this.
Natalia Ramírez - i was in a couple before. actually were online. was good freinds with one for years, then she got bent outta shape about something. havent herd from her since. i was about to go meet her in person.
2nd one, i flew to meet , dated a while n i moved to be with her. were still together.
long distance relationships wont work forever.
Agreed! I am currently in one. Been in one for 3 years so far.
my long distance relationship was like 10thousands km away , waited 3 years for her and now when we close to meet each other she broke up with me
Though im alone now, i still believe in love. I will focus on myself this time 'round though. Thank you. This was validating. 😌
It’s really hard breaking up
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I just went through a tough and abrupt break up.We were cool until she went home to inform her Dad about our relationship as possibly marriage .The news turn out to be a disaster after receiving a call that she doesn’t love me anymore.Now she wants us to be friends.2 months after breaking up with me she still can’t tell me what went wrong but After watching this,I really Thank you for giving me the courage to move on and be happy.
Unfortunately she didn’t do anything wrong it was all me. I need to remember what I did and love her for who she is and hope she finds someone better meanwhile try and heal and forget about her.
Linda Bright thank you but I shouldn’t have to use spells to win someone’s heart over I’d rather God almighty help me. If it was truly meant to be let it be but I won’t use spells. I’m happy you got you’re ex back and I wish you well.
Popcorn Hype! Lol what’s her name then keyboard warrior?
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Pizza > Bacon
Don't Read My Profile Picture We poor mortals are not designed to decide which of these gifts of Heaven is the best.
Am I the only one who doesn't really like either of them? I mean, they taste really good. But I can only eat so much without feeling unhealthy.
Don't read my profile picture - You racist!! seriously tho bacon can be a topping on pizza so...
I'm amazed that this of all statements didn't start a flame war.
Janelle Tare that's because you are an individual that has some self control
This is exactly what I needed, 2 years all went down the drain. Appreciate the channel, thank you very much!
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Thank you. Almost 3 years ldrs and finally got to meet up in reality... then the person I once knew started going only downhill. I do forget really often about person A, because I was used to person B and now they are gone.... Very sad, but true and I'll do my best ot focus on the negatives, what pulled me away. Hopefully that person changes someday. If not then it was not meant to be. I've never seen myself as the problem, even if I try to. It's only her that causes chaos. Well not anymore, I have to see a change or nothing at all. Even if I don't believe that I've ever find a good partner in that horrable twisted period of time we live in, I'll learn to be enough with myself. Thanks again
I don't remember anything good about him. I was the only person invested. I actually hate him. Used and betrayed.
I know that feeling. When your the only one invested and truly care its messed up because your inviting them to confuse you and manipulate you into believing they actually do care. Its all bs. I was chewed up and spit back out by a girl who never really valued me long term wise but its fine, someone else is probably out there for me
Only Gods love truly satisfies us. That longing in our hearts can only be filled by perfect love in Jesus Christ
Jesus literally saved my life when no one else was around. He's amazing.
Never want to be with a cheat
I got out of a 2 year relationship and I wanted to get back so bad. And a few months after the breakup she called me, and said she wanted to get back. At first I was ecstatic but then all of the sudden my memory was flooded with all of the negative things that showed we just weren't capable of lasting. I told her no and have felt so free since then.
keep your head up king 👑
This video tell us the truths we NEED to hear but don’t WANT to