notes: dont give haters your energy. theyre like vampires who like to suck the happiness out of you because it makes them feel like they gained happiness themselves but deep down they're miserable themselves. - don't let them make you feel bad, because it will make them feel good. make them feel bad by being a better person. - you're better than some loser behind the screen whos just trying to take your confidence. - if they are jelaous of you, good! you have fans who are jealous of you and you know what would make the fans go crazy? become even better. - being talked about means people care enough about you to judge you for LIVING YOUR LIFE when their spending their life hating on YOURS. - if people didnt talk about you, how would you be successful? take those comments and make them boost you even more into your best successful self. - don't feel empathy for your bullies. youre going through shit too.. everyone is going through shit..so then why should u feel bad for them when they dont feel bad for you? don't be a moron. - why would u kill someone with kindness when they don't even know what that is? instead you should mirror their energy. show them how it feels. if they are unfazed, keep fucking doing it. keep doing it until they stop. dont step down because it doesn't work that same day. stand your ground. dont give energy to people who dont bother to give it back. -. don't share anything personal. they will always use it against you. - have no fear if they have a video or a secret about you. if youre scared, imagine how much POWER you have just given to those people..be brave. dont be scared about the consequences because in five years people will forget. - dont let things slide. give the same energy and make people aware about what you are. - tell people about whats going on. dont be scared about no bullies. what are they gonna do bite? girl bye.. get help and tell them.
Muy cierto, no confiarle a nadie tus problemas porque los usaran en tu contra. Me paso una vez y a diario me lo recordaban, hasta que encontre este maravilloso canal que me ha ayudado a aceptarme y convertir lo que soy en una version más elevada de mí y eso les dolio, no hay mejor venganza que demostrarles que todos los días serás mejor que antes🙂
She makes fun of God's creation and in the same breath she says God will bless me. Make it make sense. Those poor gremlins are lacking love, so give them love. If they say for example; i hate you, you look so disgusting, you respond back with: i love you. And they'll immediately say: omg sorry for what i've said I feel so bad. Don't answer hate with hate. Love heals. They lack love the poor souls
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868 She didn't made fun of physical appearance but of personality which yoy can mold and god does not give you a personality he gives you the free will. Also, what are you saying doesn't work in real life, I say it because of experience, it might work in the comment section of some social media...
Liz - building stronger women. I used to be a doormat, always shy, a people pleaser. Until I learned how to defend myself by always speaking up, calling them out on their behavior, I used to think I should be unbothered by their hate but then it is actually more satisfying whenever you call out your bullies for their behaviors and seeing them looking so shocked thinking you are not capable of defending yourself.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
I applaud Liz for standing up for herself and teaching other women do that. She’s so right - bullies are truly very ugly, weak people who hate themselves.
Unless they admit. Then I start doing the opposite. I give them more respect. We must not forget that we all have flaws. Strength comes through personal awareness. In fact many of them I met I actually do feel sry for. Because of system subjected upon them. And actually the system and people in charge who are the weak people/bullies. Because we're forced into prison cell/confinement and it's wrong. Some of its right but also burdens people take. I feel in large way. They've been given the 'Trip Foot'. It is someone who doesn't admit their flaws I dislike. I mean think, so much things we don't know/things learn. Basically near impossible to be perfect. Every way. Won't advocate but if changed holy crap I respect you. Cause I can only know how much strength takes.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
i was being bullied when i found this video and it made me cry. im very sensitive person and the people who do this to others dont care at all and i doubt they think about what they do to people, but THANK YOU SO MUCH, you made me feel free for just a moment. i'm a happy type of person and im ashamed that for a moment I allowed others to convince me to give my inner power away, YOUR beautiful and sweet and brilliant and honest! keep going :)
You give such practical advice without feeling ashamed or afraid. It's so needed in a world that's filled with "omg don't hurt others by speaking up, be empathic to bullies and be the 'bigger person', "kill them with kindness" etc bs. Especially for an agreeable girl like me.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
i had such a hard situation right know, a girl i blocked two years ago bc she's toxic started hating me for no good reasons and started stalking me and stuff and i was so panicked bc i felt weak, but this video reminded me who am i and that i shouldnt stress over it bc haters are just fans, thank you liz
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
I mean I understand that the older generation had to literally fight to be first and in turn had to find others weaknesses etc. to get to the top, but those traits should not be allowed in 2023.
Timestamps ✨: 3:49 - Do not have empathy for them 6:35 - Stop trying to be nice with them 7:53 - Mirror their behavior 9:38 - Don't tell them anything personal about you 10:27 - Take your power back by having no fear 12:00 - Take nothing lightly 14:09 - Tell people in authority 14:45 - Change any environment you don't feel safe in 15:39 - Focus on upgrading and healing yourself 16:18 - Haters and bullies always become fans
I befriended the girls who were bullying me and kinda became a mean girl. I saw in their friend group that the “main” girl was bullying all of them. I learned how to protect myself(but I am still learning ). You guys if there are any people who bully you, its better to realize that its a situation from which you can get an advantage. You can learn who you are, love yourself and then nobody can touch you with their words or in physical way.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Exactly.I hate the fact that people wanna blame victims when they're bullied and always make excuses for the bullies just cuz they had sad life...Having a sad life doesn't give you excuse to hurt anyone,....You shouldn't inflict pain on innocent people.Why would you do something that your inner child hates?
Isn't it powerful to know people might hate us cuz of their own insecurities? It makes our self worth grow instead of going down. Cuz there's always the possibility someone might dislike you cuz of what you have, not of what you lack. Lol, I've been so ignorant, now I know better. The hate they project on us is cuz they probably hate themselves. Haters should be motivating. It means we're doing something good when they aren't. Silly me always thought something was wrong with me meanwhile haters could have hated me for my good qualities.
Beautiful women get bullied and abused all the time. Looks are not the end all be all. Beautiful people are human and experience hardships like everyone else
“nobody who's living a successful and happy life does that” really something to keep in mind. They're on the internet judging you because they have a sad life. Stop giving them the attention and energy they asking for.
Literally before this video I was so afraid of being called weak for telling on these guys that were bullying me, but after watching I’ve realized the only thing that is weak is hating on someone for no reason and saying nasty things instead of focusing on not looking like a gremlin 24/7. Today they didn’t even have the chance to say anything like how they usually insult and bully me in the morning, because I walked straight to the office waited there for someone to talk to and told. I haven’t heard a word from them since. yk what’s weak bullying and not expecting consequences for your actions what’s not and never will be weak is standing up for yourself and telling. I feel so much better and they haven’t been on my mind since, I was so stressed before I felt a pimple on my face and that’s when I knew I had to watch a Liz video and get this problem fixed😂
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Liz thank you so much when you said not to have empathy for bullies. It is sadly normalized to let evil prevail and bullies get away with horrific behaviors. But the victims are left with no Allies to step in.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
i feel so blessed that i'm still 16, an age teen that starts to deal with larger barriers but Liz is here to LECTURE me advance before adulting and ASSIST me further. i went from insecure poor baby potato to confident b1tch feeling like a god 🤩🤩
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868 Ain't nobody reading that lol, you wrote a whole paragraph assuming what women do in real life without actually ever having an authentic talk with a woman before. Yikes..
@@wahhhoosn What? Ok you want to hear something cliché? No problem. Everyone is beautiful, no one needs anything. Your inside defines your beauty not your outside. You happy now?
I'm VERY grateful that I discovered your channel at only the age of 14. You helped me so much when dealing with fake friends, abusive parents and confidence. For all the kindness and help that you spread, one day Allah will give it back to you
Hey! What are you doing to face you abusive parents? I grew up in abusive household and family... Can i get your advice? What are you doing to face you abusive parents? did you go and tell authority?
@@majorharmony1703if physically abusive and it’s getting out of hand then yes if not then stand up against them and say ur opinion loud and clear and try finding a place to stay before u stand up for urself cuz most of the time they either hit u or kick u out I got kicked out multiple times and got beat up too
I can’t tell you how much your advice from this video helped me as a person who used to get bullied a lot at school (verbally) a couple of months ago and it really destroyed my mental health and self-esteem. You are right, bullies and haters are like super obsessed fans of you and they are only trying to pick on you because in reality they have their own major problems. Thank you and Happy New Year!💗💗💗
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
1. do not have empathy for them, have it for myself 2. stop trying to be nice to them mirror their behaviour 3. don’t tell them anything personal about you anything you say will be used used against you 4. take your power back by having no fear leak it, do it when somebody is not scared of anything, they have nothing on you 5. take nothing lightly drama queen, scream 6. tell people in authority 7. change any environment you don’t feel safe in whatever you need to do to have mental peace the weakest human beings are the ones that bully others 8. focus on upgrading and healing yourself focus on anything that you feel is best for you 9. haters and bullies always become fans i think any day is a good day when a hater cries “It’s always the miserable, ugly looking gremlins”
Not that haters are actual killers or anything but they are killers of the mind and peace of someone. So yeah I’m gonna stop killing with kindness and just give them back what they deserve. Or ignore them and let karma do its work (if people do stupid things/hate on you, that energy they will put somewhere else than you too, it might as well go somewhere else bad and bad back to them)
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
I'm glad she mentioned about leaving the space, environment, the country if we don't feel safe there. bc there are some bullying that go beyond school or workplace, that can't be spoken about and is just v dangerous. I really thought she was gonna completely speak solely from her past experience, but I'm glad she incorporated all aspects. lover her for these lil things that are not often praised enough xx
Fr l feel like the country you live in determines how people there behave. I live in a third world country, and when I went on a vacation and met ppl from all over the world (mostly the UK), I was surprised by how overly nice they were, like??? People in my country never smile at you for no reason, ppl in my country are never as empathetic as these strangers I just met. I was also bullied non stop in HS, and all I can say is....I'm moving to a first world country next year and I CAN'T WAIT.
thank you so much for this video liz. i had always encountered bullies or jealous girls / people at school and work. when i was in school my fake "friends" and roommates turned on me and tried to talk badly about me and ruin my reputation and spread lies and rumors about me around school or to any guy i liked. there also were random girls from my school that i never even talked to that would make fun of anything i put on social media - i was like wtf did i do to you i dont even know you?? youre so right that its always the ugly gremlins that bully! i always ignored them and it would piss me off so much when people would be like "just smile at them! just try to be their friend and be nice to them! " they tried to act like i was the problem bc i didnt just try to be nice to them after they had spread rumors and bullied me. like wtf?? absolutely not. they dont deserve my energy youre so right! thank you for this video. it helped me feel less alone
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
1. Don’t feel empathy for them 3:47 2. Stop trying to be nice to them 6:37 3. Mirror their behavior 7:54 4. Don’t tell them anything personal about you 9:40 5. Take your power back by having no fear 10:21 6. Take nothing lightly 12:01 7. Tell people in authority 14:11 8. Change any environment you don’t feel safe in 14:47 9. Focus on upgrading and healing yourself 15:41 10. Haters and bullies always become fans 16:21
I still can't stand up for myself and my best friend I'm like too shy but they did something really bad to me..and my bestie stood up for me but why cant I?
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
I had such a hard time all throughout school if I had this advice 6 years back I think my life would be completely different, I don't have regrets because it made me who I am and now I've learnt from these lessons but I encourage everyone going through this to tell someone don't let it slide like I did.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
@@user-so4sv1dq4z You're right being such an empathetic person can cause so many people throughout your life to take advantage of you, it's only when you realise you always come first that you really feel free
At my old job people didn’t like me because I was too polite and said “sorry” too much. They bullied me bc I “seemed abused” and I was being abused at home. Now, I can look back and just kind of laugh that they are such losers that they used my pain as entertainment because nobody who does that is happy with themselves
Some people who gain authority truly have no life never had a sense of feeling safe in there own space without that authority so they choose to belittle others around them. Whole times they are the joke themselves.
Yeh, they were just projecting their own misery and pain onto you. They're losers, so many creepy losers like that in the world. I don't know how people can act so creepy, obsessive and weird and still think they're normal.
This came just in time. I just cut off my narcissistic mom, who was my biggest bully, and once I told my dad I wasn’t going to talk to her anymore, he tried to play off her abuse and say “no, she loves you”. I didn’t stand for it anymore and I even moved to a different country to get away from her. This video is a big affirmative for me that I did the right thing and that overcoming your biggest bullies is possible
Your dad doesn't want to lose the ducking resource he has called your mom's thingies, so don't listen to him. He has an agenda, and he's as guilty as she is. Live your life happily away from these 2.
@@WhiteStripesStripiestFan True, if your own mother bullies you instead of supporting you, what did she leave for the rest of the world to do? Some women are not qualified to be mothers.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
This is the advice I really wish I heard back in high school. The trauma still lasts 2 years after I graduated but I'm healing now, realizing these points you mentioned myself as well and so hearing these out loud was extremely validating and affirming. Thank you so much Liz!
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
This is so real. My class was racist as hell and I decided to go to the principal because....do I look like a joke to you????? And after they called me a snitch for telling.....I am not your friend what do I have to lose when i "snitch" on you??? nothing
im so sorry to hear this. i hope things are going well for you now. you’re not a snitch at all. they’re sick individuals and im glad you reported them!
I can't go to principle,bc they will do nothing,and i have abusive parents that will never be on my side,bc it's also happened in 6th grade with the same person,than he transferred to my new school after obe year.,idk what to do,the only solution that i have is that i should fight with him😊
Leave them bro. Honestly. You deserve better. Only thing that is best for you is what matters. I had a ''close friend'' who actually was never really a true friend. I still don't tell him that. To this day. But know it to be true. Assume that anyone who is around you isn't your friend. They can be nice now/piggyback on you and then stab you in the back later on. Don't stay/put up with these losers. Grow bigger than them. Literally anything and everything that is for you. Rhino.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
i used to be bullied so badly i used to have panic attacks before school everyday i changed and started homeschooling i’ve been thriving and i have never ever felt happier, environments really change you as a person. do what’s best for you and love you all
Litterally people hate this woman for no reason, LIZ JUST TELLS THE FACTS AND THE HATERS CANT STAND THE TRUTH
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I was once bullied so bad because of my sexuality. I was isolated for a long time and don't know what to do. Luckily I got in a better environment and I can improve myself. But when I achieve more accomplishments I got haters instead, they are the one who know they can't "touch" me like the bullies, so they be hating and that's even more miserable of them. Thank you Liz for this video ❤️
I'm sorry to hear that. The way you see it now is an amazing perspective. I'm so happy for you. Idk if this helps in any way but having more haters means you're doing something right that other people are afraid to do. Thank you for sharing ❤️
I love that for you 💜 I used to be bullied all through middle school, high school and college because of my curly hair (I used to love my hair but all the bullying got me to hating it) and it got to a point where the bully would literally throw things at me, pull my hair and call me names and of course for a 13 y/o it's really damaging, I guess they were miserable people idk
I was convinced of Liz's words from my own experience. In high school there was a group of boys who tried to bully me. But I never stayed alone with them and avoided them. I finished school two years ago. And I see how some of these guys follow me on Instagram and try to arrange to meet me. But I still avoid them, because of all their disrespect and cruelty. Such things cannot be forgiven.
i tried the “kill them with kindness” technique with my emotionally/verbally abusive ex and after 4 years, i finally snapped and started fighting back and giving him the same energy he gave me anytime he’d try to put me down (this was the first time in my life i was ever aggressive towards someone) and that’s when he finally stopped being mean to me. we’re no longer together but he always messages me saying that he didn’t realize how kind i was to him and that he should’ve treated me better. So, they can tell you’re being kind to them, but they won’t change unless you better yourself and put them in their place. Even then, it’s not that you’re changing them, you’re just changing their demeanor towards you. Don’t stay with someone like this.
I don't care about bullies/haters having the bad past/ family issue excuse. No matter what. I heavily agree with you on this. I feel bad for people who are treated badly when they treat others nicely. Not when they take out their issues on other people.
Yess! I used to be a major people pleaser. And then I stopped giving a flying f about people who are selfish, they turned into my haters. The more you try to stay in your own lane, the worse they chase you lol. I'm glad I have the law of assumption that I can weed them out early on and also make my real life "haters" disappear. Thankfully, I don't have haters on my UA-cam channel yet. And I hope it stays the same. ❤️❤️
Thank you Liz. I was bullied by my aunts, uncles, parents, siblings, “friends”, boys, ext. for 21 years of my life and because I was told 24/7 I was ugly and fat, that’s all I saw myself as. I was able to get out of that and realize it isn’t true. Definitely still working on my self image because years and years of bullying doesn’t go away so quick. I and I grateful for this video: thank you
oh honey, that is not true. ur so beautiful inside and out and absolutely do not ever let that get to u. those ppl are miserable and full of jealousy. i'm so glad u have realized it's not true and am glad u are currently working on building urself back up. good luck babe 🩷🩷
Same girl I just got called that how can someone be that big? By my father’s friend but do you know what his life is so pathetic. Haha even though I just bawled my eyes out I realised that I can just be a better person and when I become successful they will come and beg me. Even though I am working on myself rn to be a better version of myself like working out and stuffs. I feel so sad that I have been bullied not in severe way or anything but for the past 14 years of my life I was been made fun of I was always the person they will make fun of as a joke and that “joking” became too normal to me that I realised even though it affected my life and childhood so much I would act like I don’t care at all and it has affected me I’m not showing any feelings. I feel so sad rn but I know that I will be a successful person when I become an adult.
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
I’m 15 and going to highschool and i’ve never got bullied this hard in my life and this video helped me alot ❤ Thank you my big sister Liz for inspiring me always i love you so much
I’m almost 15 so me too and i just get so much of hate and rumours about me :/ i hope that we’ll do and feel better as soon as possible! Sending you love ❤
my goodness i cant believe i actually cried while watching this, thank you so much for this, much much much needed. she literally described my entire life and man it just feels so good to have a slay queen just lifting you up like this, literally screamed preach on each of her sentences. i wish i could hug this video instead of just liking and leaving a comment, may God give you everything youve ever wanted. thank you so much
as someone who always got bullied and still does, im so grateful to have liz tell me how to deal w them. though i wish i had her a few years back when i was at my lowest but i feel like those moments did make me strong enough to be able to deal w them according to the way liz tells me!! it's really big what she does for all of us
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Thank you so much for this video, Liz. You were one of the main people who helped me begin my healing journey from an abusive relationship and childhood trauma, and also given fantastic advice and insight that has kept me from reaching out to both my ex & abusive father, who were also people who blamed their horrible actions and insults on mental illness, trauma from childhood, and so on. It's taken a lot for me to realize 1) I'm nobody's unpaid therapist, 2) someone who genuinely loves you will not manipulate you to the point where you feel you're all that's keeping them alive, and 3) it's okay to put yourself first when you need to the most. Thank you for creating this channel and sharing so much I doubt I would've realized alone. Sending you love & peace of mind. 💖
Years later I saw my bully again in the store. She greeted me and acted like nothing happened. How is nothing wrong? If she was sorry, she would lower her head and not have spoken to me except to apologize. At that moment my brain hallucinated, I couldn't believe it. Bullies never change. She tried to find out personal stuff about me. Be careful. Don't tell them anything personal about you or they will use it against you and don't be nice to them like Liz says. (Sorry for my English).
this is so true, i used to bully people i was truly the most awful person and guess what?? i was ugly, i hated myself, i wasn’t confident and i was so so so pathetic but now i’m confident i’m gorgeous i’m a bad bitch and i’m a lot nicer to people imo. bullies are insecure and pathetic
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
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this is not healthy nor optimistic, she’s so naturally beautiful but becoming so angry and using a lot of negative words calling people ugly ? that’s a bully
@@arlenesaadat1188 can't find a time stamp huh? bullies, who have lowlife, low energy => ugly in soul. If you didn't catch that simple message then learn English
Thank you so much Liz for saying it’s not weak telling someone. I’ve always thought to myself if I tell someone I am weak “I can do this on my own” even tho i don’t feel any better. I’m gonna tell someone because no way I’m going to be treated this way.
I just went through age discrimination bullying in college, I was taking a Biology class and every one there is in their late teens and early twenties, I was the only one that was 33 years old, as soon as I walked in the classroom people started there to call me old loser , old woman , saying that I shouldn’t be there , more than 20 people were mocking at me at the same time!!! and saying horrible things when I walked into the classroom, so evil!! Pure evil!!!! I talked to the Biology professor and he basically took these people side and saying that I have mental issues like WTF!!!???? I’m still so angry at this that when you reach out for help to a Dean or counselor they laughed at you and say that you are not mentally healthy!! Like seriously!!! Bullying and discrimination is real!!!!! People wake up!!!! Bullying can happen anywhere at any age , Seriously!!! This is a serious hate crime that must be punished it!!!
Accept that you don’t deserve this. I’d rather use my time for knowledge rather than spending my time mocking people, what a waste of time for them! 👏 Do what you love to do, sending major love. Don’t let them affect you physically and mentally. Stay away from this toxic people 😡
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I love how her videos aren't like those typical advice videos where they only tell you to "not give a fuck" she actually gives nice advice based on her experience .
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
I’ve been bullied my entire life…until now that I’m working in a healthcare system.These bullies are like high schoolers who never change their hearts now that they’re adults. This time I am standing up for myself like I did before! They’re actually insecure and cowards and they have so much hatred inside their hearts it spills all over.I would NOT let anyone get into me ever again! They’re not worth a single second in my thoughts! And yep! Being cold and distant and mirroring their behaviors always work!
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
All this is so relatable. Thanks for posting this. I'm doing comedy and recently got broke, posted in the local comedy forum saying I'm devoted to comedy and working side gigs just to continue it and would appreciate any support. I went completely broke over the weekend and this guy who I thought was my friend and another comedian, totally was cyberbullying me, but indirectly, like super passive aggressive style. I called him out and now I am like, I see you. I cut him off immediately. Thanks for posting this!
the fact that her life was hard she was bullied and she had an abusive parent and she is telling us how to deal with our own lives , she is so strong , im grateful for her , we love you liz
Thank you sooo much Liz. I’ve watching your videos for 6 months and it is like reminding myself my value. And I want to say something to other on comments, If you are being bullied, that means you are an important person. Like, you are special. Trust me, no one will bully an average normal person. Remember, celebrities used to be bullied when they’re young. Do not let them make you sad🤍 Lots of support
Putting other people's opinion of you off the pedestal is such a great tip I use daily. I hope this helps in some way. I apologize if this came off as unsolicited advice ❤️
I suffered from bullying for many years as a child, and suffered bodyshaming from friends, family, acquaintances and strangers even on the street. Over the years I have gotten older, and I have accepted this evil they have done to me. Let's not kid ourselves the wounds remain, the scars remain. But you don't have to reopen the scars by hurting yourself. If people have insulted or disrespected you, you have to move on but for YOU not for Others! You have to make your mind stronger, don't be afraid of scars and wounds, no one can kill your dreams. People can play a dirty game, insulting you or hurting you instead of being better people than them, you have to move forward, achieve your goals and your dreams. And one day you will look back and you will see that despite the fools you made it, and I am sure that you will live a beautiful life and they who are ignorant will be living a bad life. Who is strong and intelligent and above all wins in this world, who was stupid, mediocre and bad won't go very far. trust me.
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You just managed to accomplish something my counselor can only dream of. I needed to hear this. Although, with me fear is a vicious cycle. Combined with compulsively checking and unblocking my former stalkers to make sure they're not gearing up for another attack. Anxiety truly sucks but you managed to make a bit of a dent in it. Truly greatful and subscribed!
Knowing that those people have no effect on you if you simply don't care is the first step. Then you try to work on yourself if their opinions affect you. This video is a wake up call for many people Liz, thank you so much for sharing it. ❤️
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you can tell she genuinely believes what she’s saying she is so passionate about become a better person and healing and I think she is an amazing role model for us girls
Keep being you! You’ve definitely healed from your past traumas! Your amazing! It’s easy to focus on the negative haters when there are so many positive die hard fans that love you! Stay blessed ❤
14:45 "Change any environment where you don't feel safe." I wish I'd heard that in third or second grade, instead of spending 5 years in a class with people who gossip about you, spread rumors, shut you out, and do nothing to hide it.
Im to grateful i found your channel. You do not know how much you have helped me these past few months. You helped me eliminate toxic people from my life, how to deal with those people that bring you down. I use to be such a people pleaser and therefore i was like everyones therapist they would only come to me to trauma dump/vent. People would walk all over me and i never really had true friends. But from you videos i learnt how to stop and put myself first. You have helped me deal with my own traumatic pasts, and helped me heal so much and change myself for the better. I have started taking much more care of myself and spoiling myself. Thank-you so much Liz for all your amazing videos and just being the amazing, strong woman that you are. Thankyou for your kindness and help, may the world continue to give the same kindess back
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Liz.. you have no idea how much you are helping me. Being a very sensitive individual ,I've been through some hard times. And you really help me a lot to make peace with myself and my anxiety
Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
OMG . I love you for saying these powerful words . Thank you… I felt this way but hearing reminded me how to deal with my NB bullies . Your a STAR … keep sharing cause your got alot to give that makes a difference . Your Not just talking .. you give wisdom . ❤
Thanks Liz for this video! Being emotionally bullied is the worst thing to happen cos you cannot prove that they bullied you. People just don’t believe because you do not have solid proofs like physical bullies. I once told my school about it and they didn’t believe me and the teacher even hated me and talked shit about me just because they think I lied and make those fake scenarios. They blamed me for making things bigger just for my emotions. They thought I was jealous of them and tried to accused them. I’m still first year of high school and I’m so scared for my next three years in that school.
@@malisha5094 I can’t girl I was there with abroad study program and I has to live w my bullies 😅 I tried to move apartment but the school doesn’t let it happen
I have been struggling dealing with bullies and haters who made up rumors about me out of nowhere, thank God now I have the guide on how to handle this problem. Thank you Liz ❤
I often try to help bullies change and see the light.. so naive.. we have to learn to put up better boundaries around ourselves so we can continue being the kind, caring individuals we aspire to be 💕
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Liz is a really strong women! It's been a year now watching her videos & i must say that SHE BIRTHED THE NEW ME. Literally! She has helped overcome alot and I hold so much love and gratitude for her in my heart. She has brought alot of positive changes in my life through her advises and I have a huge respect towards her for that. Thank you so much Liz ♥️♥️
This girl's advice is what I call "toxic femininity". I happen to agree that "toxic masulinity" is a thing and is a problem. But lets not kid ourselves, the same toxic advice exists with femininity. Toxic masulinity is telling guys you have to be strong always and can never cry. It's toxic because sometimes guys do in fact wanna cry, so they fake themselves. This channel is the same. "Don't ever cry. You are strong. The people that hate on you are just jealous." In theory, this is sound advice, but when you are faking your own happiness, now that is toxic.
"It's always the miserable ugly looking gremlins that bully." BAHAHAHAHHAHA LIZ ILY
that's messed up. judging people on the way they look.
LMAOOO IKRR!
@@dotdotdot3 you guys are the bullys judging people for their appearances. and commenting it
@@jesuschaveziii6520 we were literally agreeing with the video.
@@dotdotdot3 i was literally disagreeing
imagine paying a therapist to tell you what liz tells us for free
They don’t say it as good as her
liz better than most therapists fr
She is a therapist
Off topic but I love how it says this was commented 29 min ago but the video was uploaded 18 min ago lmao
@@h34rteyezz86 wait what😭😭😭
Please listen to her advice. Mirror those haters or better Avoid them. Your mental health & peace is more priceless than any situation.
What do you mean mirror them?
notes:
dont give haters your energy. theyre like vampires who like to suck the happiness out of you because it makes them feel like they gained happiness themselves but deep down they're miserable themselves.
- don't let them make you feel bad, because it will make them feel good. make them feel bad by being a better person.
- you're better than some loser behind the screen whos just trying to take your confidence.
- if they are jelaous of you, good! you have fans who are jealous of you and you know what would make the fans go crazy? become even better.
- being talked about means people care enough about you to judge you for LIVING YOUR LIFE when their spending their life hating on YOURS.
- if people didnt talk about you, how would you be successful? take those comments and make them boost you even more into your best successful self.
- don't feel empathy for your bullies. youre going through shit too.. everyone is going through shit..so then why should u feel bad for them when they dont feel bad for you? don't be a moron.
- why would u kill someone with kindness when they don't even know what that is? instead you should mirror their energy. show them how it feels. if they are unfazed, keep fucking doing it. keep doing it until they stop. dont step down because it doesn't work that same day. stand your ground. dont give energy to people who dont bother to give it back.
-. don't share anything personal. they will always use it against you.
- have no fear if they have a video or a secret about you. if youre scared, imagine how much POWER you have just given to those people..be brave. dont be scared about the consequences because in five years people will forget.
- dont let things slide. give the same energy and make people aware about what you are.
- tell people about whats going on. dont be scared about no bullies. what are they gonna do bite? girl bye.. get help and tell them.
THIS
Love your videos! And how you are Being yourself 😉🫡
Muy cierto, no confiarle a nadie tus problemas porque los usaran en tu contra. Me paso una vez y a diario me lo recordaban, hasta que encontre este maravilloso canal que me ha ayudado a aceptarme y convertir lo que soy en una version más elevada de mí y eso les dolio, no hay mejor venganza que demostrarles que todos los días serás mejor que antes🙂
Thank you❤❤ I Will save this note
i love your pfp💜
liz is the woman i never knew i needed in my life
Exactly
@Be Straight yeah
Yessss
She levels you up unlike anyone else ❤️❤️
@@riasacc ???
“It’s always the miserable, ugly looking gremlins” had me laughing 😂 just love your realness queen 💗
She makes fun of God's creation and in the same breath she says God will bless me. Make it make sense. Those poor gremlins are lacking love, so give them love. If they say for example; i hate you, you look so disgusting, you respond back with: i love you. And they'll immediately say: omg sorry for what i've said I feel so bad. Don't answer hate with hate. Love heals. They lack love the poor souls
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868 she obviously talks about personality traits,not psychical ones. We can choose that. You need to calm down.
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868 She didn't made fun of physical appearance but of personality which yoy can mold and god does not give you a personality he gives you the free will. Also, what are you saying doesn't work in real life, I say it because of experience, it might work in the comment section of some social media...
@@nadanada8967 she said: ugly looking gremlins. Keyword: ugly-LOOKING
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868
The fact that they’re lacking love is not an excuse to bring down other people with them💀
Dealing with abusive parents and learning to speak up for yourself is SO on point. That is SO true and relatable.
Well she was never abused…I know some of this
Liz - building stronger women. I used to be a doormat, always shy, a people pleaser. Until I learned how to defend myself by always speaking up, calling them out on their behavior, I used to think I should be unbothered by their hate but then it is actually more satisfying whenever you call out your bullies for their behaviors and seeing them looking so shocked thinking you are not capable of defending yourself.
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Men too
I applaud Liz for standing up for herself and teaching other women do that. She’s so right - bullies are truly very ugly, weak people who hate themselves.
@@SentinelAboson ur fake lol
Ya they're just miserable and project their crap on us. That's always been how it is and I've known that forever.
Unless they admit. Then I start doing the opposite. I give them more respect. We must not forget that we all have flaws. Strength comes through personal awareness. In fact many of them I met I actually do feel sry for. Because of system subjected upon them. And actually the system and people in charge who are the weak people/bullies. Because we're forced into prison cell/confinement and it's wrong. Some of its right but also burdens people take. I feel in large way. They've been given the 'Trip Foot'. It is someone who doesn't admit their flaws I dislike. I mean think, so much things we don't know/things learn. Basically near impossible to be perfect. Every way. Won't advocate but if changed holy crap I respect you. Cause I can only know how much strength takes.
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Not only woman
"Do not let it slide easily. It isn't a joke. " Thank you for this. The best advice ever!
Yes
This comment section is full of toxic women. 🤣🤣🤣🤣.I don't why women think they are good.They are bad and useless.
Other people might claim your being over sensitive. Issue run into every time.
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
i was being bullied when i found this video and it made me cry. im very sensitive person and the people who do this to others dont care at all and i doubt they think about what they do to people, but THANK YOU SO MUCH, you made me feel free for just a moment. i'm a happy type of person and im ashamed that for a moment I allowed others to convince me to give my inner power away, YOUR beautiful and sweet and brilliant and honest! keep going :)
Can u please share ur story? I am also facing same
I’m the same situation rn, really scared for Monday since I wrote a 4 page report on my bullies before watching this video and handed it in..
You give such practical advice without feeling ashamed or afraid. It's so needed in a world that's filled with "omg don't hurt others by speaking up, be empathic to bullies and be the 'bigger person', "kill them with kindness" etc bs. Especially for an agreeable girl like me.
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
in liz we trust
Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
facts.
fact
Wise
"Any day is a good day when a hater cries" 🤣🤣 I swear I love this woman 🖤
@@margeryojije7862 That doesn't matter, it takes time but at least we can acknowledged that its good advice.
@@margeryojije7862 RIGHT
As much as I agree that haters are miserable I cannot say stuff like that its hurtful and it’s worse I’ll just remain positive and happy
So true
if your pfp is yourself, you’re absolutely gorgeous! i’m in love with your style ♡
The fact that she is just smiling through all of her problems and making sure we dont go through the same thing. Angel fr.
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
i had such a hard situation right know, a girl i blocked two years ago bc she's toxic started hating me for no good reasons and started stalking me and stuff and i was so panicked bc i felt weak, but this video reminded me who am i and that i shouldnt stress over it bc haters are just fans, thank you liz
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Make police reports! Create a paper trail
The not empathizing with those who bully or belittle others hit me the most.
truee. as a very empathetic person, that reality check was very much needed.
They don't deserve empathy. They deserve nothing energy wise from you.
@@htniroc same
I mean I understand that the older generation had to literally fight to be first and in turn had to find others weaknesses etc. to get to the top, but those traits should not be allowed in 2023.
@@SR77736 well said
Timestamps ✨:
3:49 - Do not have empathy for them
6:35 - Stop trying to be nice with them
7:53 - Mirror their behavior
9:38 - Don't tell them anything personal about you
10:27 - Take your power back by having no fear
12:00 - Take nothing lightly
14:09 - Tell people in authority
14:45 - Change any environment you don't feel safe in
15:39 - Focus on upgrading and healing yourself
16:18 - Haters and bullies always become fans
Thank you so much 🥰 She motivates me to become better everytime. To anyone reading this, take back your power. You're the main character. Love you ❤️
Thank you so much❤
U are an angel, ty
Thanks
Thank you
I befriended the girls who were bullying me and kinda became a mean girl. I saw in their friend group that the “main” girl was bullying all of them. I learned how to protect myself(but I am still learning ). You guys if there are any people who bully you, its better to realize that its a situation from which you can get an advantage. You can learn who you are, love yourself and then nobody can touch you with their words or in physical way.
I agree so much with this. Us, who get bullied are actually the strongest people. We can make the best out of the worst situation.
You have met a real life Regina George
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
I grew up and it wasn't easy, but it didn't make me a bully! A bully needs to take responsibility for bullying others! Hallelujah Amen ❤
Exactly.I hate the fact that people wanna blame victims when they're bullied and always make excuses for the bullies just cuz they had sad life...Having a sad life doesn't give you excuse to hurt anyone,....You shouldn't inflict pain on innocent people.Why would you do something that your inner child hates?
Imagine bullying someone who look as gorgeous as Liz. Honestly, I would just be embarrassed... The jealousy is just too obvious. 😭
So true!!! Liz is the epitome of beauty,if someone hates on her look..i mean come on...😂😂😂its just stupid
Isn't it powerful to know people might hate us cuz of their own insecurities? It makes our self worth grow instead of going down. Cuz there's always the possibility someone might dislike you cuz of what you have, not of what you lack. Lol, I've been so ignorant, now I know better. The hate they project on us is cuz they probably hate themselves. Haters should be motivating. It means we're doing something good when they aren't. Silly me always thought something was wrong with me meanwhile haters could have hated me for my good qualities.
@@laure9242 youre totally right!! Couldnt explain it better!
@@laure9242HAHAHAHAHAHA I love my haters so much
Beautiful women get bullied and abused all the time. Looks are not the end all be all. Beautiful people are human and experience hardships like everyone else
“nobody who's living a successful and happy life does that” really something to keep in mind. They're on the internet judging you because they have a sad life. Stop giving them the attention and energy they asking for.
True...
Literally before this video I was so afraid of being called weak for telling on these guys that were bullying me, but after watching I’ve realized the only thing that is weak is hating on someone for no reason and saying nasty things instead of focusing on not looking like a gremlin 24/7. Today they didn’t even have the chance to say anything like how they usually insult and bully me in the morning, because I walked straight to the office waited there for someone to talk to and told. I haven’t heard a word from them since. yk what’s weak bullying and not expecting consequences for your actions what’s not and never will be weak is standing up for yourself and telling. I feel so much better and they haven’t been on my mind since, I was so stressed before I felt a pimple on my face and that’s when I knew I had to watch a Liz video and get this problem fixed😂
this !! u got this girlie i’m rooting n praying for u
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Liz thank you so much when you said not to have empathy for bullies. It is sadly normalized to let evil prevail and bullies get away with horrific behaviors. But the victims are left with no Allies to step in.
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
i feel so blessed that i'm still 16, an age teen that starts to deal with larger barriers but Liz is here to LECTURE me advance before adulting and ASSIST me further. i went from insecure poor baby potato to confident b1tch feeling like a god 🤩🤩
Yessss SOOO PROUD OF YOU!!!
I also went from having depression and bad anxiety to being the happiest and confident person ever lol
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868 Ain't nobody reading that lol, you wrote a whole paragraph assuming what women do in real life without actually ever having an authentic talk with a woman before. Yikes..
@@wahhhoosn What? Ok you want to hear something cliché? No problem. Everyone is beautiful, no one needs anything. Your inside defines your beauty not your outside. You happy now?
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868 looks like someone’s projecting 🤭 lmaooo
Wow.. u really have been holding that for a while 😂😂 anyways what does all that got to do with her comment
I'm VERY grateful that I discovered your channel at only the age of 14. You helped me so much when dealing with fake friends, abusive parents and confidence. For all the kindness and help that you spread, one day Allah will give it back to you
Hey! What are you doing to face you abusive parents? I grew up in abusive household and family... Can i get your advice? What are you doing to face you abusive parents? did you go and tell authority?
exactly sister🫶🫶🫶 i'm 14 too and she has helped me sososo much. may allah bless you and liz💖
@@majorharmony1703if physically abusive and it’s getting out of hand then yes if not then stand up against them and say ur opinion loud and clear and try finding a place to stay before u stand up for urself cuz most of the time they either hit u or kick u out I got kicked out multiple times and got beat up too
Omg yeah me to i was 14 when i discovered her , ( now i am 15) and she is like my second Mum ❤️. Love her so much🫂
Mashallah
I can’t tell you how much your advice from this video helped me as a person who used to get bullied a lot at school (verbally) a couple of months ago and it really destroyed my mental health and self-esteem. You are right, bullies and haters are like super obsessed fans of you and they are only trying to pick on you because in reality they have their own major problems. Thank you and Happy New Year!💗💗💗
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
1. do not have empathy for them, have it for myself
2. stop trying to be nice to them
mirror their behaviour
3. don’t tell them anything personal about you
anything you say will be used used against you
4. take your power back by having no fear
leak it, do it
when somebody is not scared of anything, they have nothing on you
5. take nothing lightly
drama queen, scream
6. tell people in authority
7. change any environment you don’t feel safe in
whatever you need to do to have mental peace
the weakest human beings are the ones that bully others
8. focus on upgrading and healing yourself
focus on anything that you feel is best for you
9. haters and bullies always become fans
i think any day is a good day when a hater cries
“It’s always the miserable, ugly looking gremlins”
Not that haters are actual killers or anything but they are killers of the mind and peace of someone. So yeah I’m gonna stop killing with kindness and just give them back what they deserve. Or ignore them and let karma do its work (if people do stupid things/hate on you, that energy they will put somewhere else than you too, it might as well go somewhere else bad and bad back to them)
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
the people who hate on you are always the ones that have it worst and lack self respect.
This is such a w comment
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
I'm glad she mentioned about leaving the space, environment, the country if we don't feel safe there. bc there are some bullying that go beyond school or workplace, that can't be spoken about and is just v dangerous. I really thought she was gonna completely speak solely from her past experience, but I'm glad she incorporated all aspects. lover her for these lil things that are not often praised enough xx
She alsp talked about this in her video "why you cant change",she left the country herself and she is slayingg
Fr l feel like the country you live in determines how people there behave. I live in a third world country, and when I went on a vacation and met ppl from all over the world (mostly the UK), I was surprised by how overly nice they were, like??? People in my country never smile at you for no reason, ppl in my country are never as empathetic as these strangers I just met. I was also bullied non stop in HS, and all I can say is....I'm moving to a first world country next year and I CAN'T WAIT.
@@owlofathena1247 Congratulations Boo!👏
i am going through the same, idk how to deal with her?
I'm actually thinking of doing the same. Fed up of dealing with these people. One who was my best friend. Who is no longer best friend.
thank you so much for this video liz. i had always encountered bullies or jealous girls / people at school and work. when i was in school my fake "friends" and roommates turned on me and tried to talk badly about me and ruin my reputation and spread lies and rumors about me around school or to any guy i liked. there also were random girls from my school that i never even talked to that would make fun of anything i put on social media - i was like wtf did i do to you i dont even know you?? youre so right that its always the ugly gremlins that bully! i always ignored them and it would piss me off so much when people would be like "just smile at them! just try to be their friend and be nice to them! " they tried to act like i was the problem bc i didnt just try to be nice to them after they had spread rumors and bullied me. like wtf?? absolutely not. they dont deserve my energy youre so right! thank you for this video. it helped me feel less alone
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Bullying shows you have no self respect.
this woman is purely iconic
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
1. Don’t feel empathy for them 3:47
2. Stop trying to be nice to them 6:37
3. Mirror their behavior 7:54
4. Don’t tell them anything personal about you 9:40
5. Take your power back by having no fear 10:21
6. Take nothing lightly 12:01
7. Tell people in authority 14:11
8. Change any environment you don’t feel safe in 14:47
9. Focus on upgrading and healing yourself 15:41
10. Haters and bullies always become fans 16:21
Yes and set boundaries against them. Reserve your energy.
ily
I still can't stand up for myself and my best friend I'm like too shy but they did something really bad to me..and my bestie stood up for me but why cant I?
7:54 also mirror them
Thank you. Seems she knows what she's talking about so I'll be watching the full vid ^^
“you are actually the strongest one out there and all the people that were bullied before are successful now” ❤ thank you for this
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
I had such a hard time all throughout school if I had this advice 6 years back I think my life would be completely different, I don't have regrets because it made me who I am and now I've learnt from these lessons but I encourage everyone going through this to tell someone don't let it slide like I did.
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
@@user-so4sv1dq4z You're right being such an empathetic person can cause so many people throughout your life to take advantage of you, it's only when you realise you always come first that you really feel free
At my old job people didn’t like me because I was too polite and said “sorry” too much. They bullied me bc I “seemed abused” and I was being abused at home. Now, I can look back and just kind of laugh that they are such losers that they used my pain as entertainment because nobody who does that is happy with themselves
you ate
How disturbing and sad. They thought you seemed abused and their initial instinct wasn't to smother you in love??
Some people who gain authority truly have no life never had a sense of feeling safe in there own space without that authority so they choose to belittle others around them. Whole times they are the joke themselves.
I dealt with a similar thing at my old job.
Yeh, they were just projecting their own misery and pain onto you. They're losers, so many creepy losers like that in the world. I don't know how people can act so creepy, obsessive and weird and still think they're normal.
This came just in time. I just cut off my narcissistic mom, who was my biggest bully, and once I told my dad I wasn’t going to talk to her anymore, he tried to play off her abuse and say “no, she loves you”. I didn’t stand for it anymore and I even moved to a different country to get away from her. This video is a big affirmative for me that I did the right thing and that overcoming your biggest bullies is possible
I'm so sorry you went through that. You are so strong and did not deserve that. You've been through a lot and you've done the best you can. 💕
Your dad doesn't want to lose the ducking resource he has called your mom's thingies, so don't listen to him. He has an agenda, and he's as guilty as she is. Live your life happily away from these 2.
@@WhiteStripesStripiestFan True, if your own mother bullies you instead of supporting you, what did she leave for the rest of the world to do? Some women are not qualified to be mothers.
Huge congrats, u must be well off
We have the same story
My grandpa has this exact mindset, and the way my life was better when I listened. Thank you Liz for making this, I needed this for a "friend".
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
This is the advice I really wish I heard back in high school. The trauma still lasts 2 years after I graduated but I'm healing now, realizing these points you mentioned myself as well and so hearing these out loud was extremely validating and affirming. Thank you so much Liz!
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
This is so real. My class was racist as hell and I decided to go to the principal because....do I look like a joke to you????? And after they called me a snitch for telling.....I am not your friend what do I have to lose when i "snitch" on you??? nothing
im so sorry to hear this. i hope things are going well for you now. you’re not a snitch at all. they’re sick individuals and im glad you reported them!
you absolutely did the right thing. your classmates are pathetic.
I can't go to principle,bc they will do nothing,and i have abusive parents that will never be on my side,bc it's also happened in 6th grade with the same person,than he transferred to my new school after obe year.,idk what to do,the only solution that i have is that i should fight with him😊
Leave them bro. Honestly. You deserve better. Only thing that is best for you is what matters. I had a ''close friend'' who actually was never really a true friend. I still don't tell him that. To this day. But know it to be true. Assume that anyone who is around you isn't your friend. They can be nice now/piggyback on you and then stab you in the back later on. Don't stay/put up with these losers. Grow bigger than them. Literally anything and everything that is for you. Rhino.
@@noluwa7576 Monsters. These people are dispicable. And sick. I agree.
“I think any day is a good day when a hater cries” 😂💅🏼
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
i used to be bullied so badly i used to have panic attacks before school everyday i changed and started homeschooling i’ve been thriving and i have never ever felt happier, environments really change you as a person. do what’s best for you and love you all
@@luckygirl0303 i hope you're doing amazing ♥
Litterally people hate this woman for no reason, LIZ JUST TELLS THE FACTS AND THE HATERS CANT STAND THE TRUTH
I was once bullied so bad because of my sexuality. I was isolated for a long time and don't know what to do. Luckily I got in a better environment and I can improve myself. But when I achieve more accomplishments I got haters instead, they are the one who know they can't "touch" me like the bullies, so they be hating and that's even more miserable of them. Thank you Liz for this video ❤️
I'm sorry to hear that. The way you see it now is an amazing perspective. I'm so happy for you. Idk if this helps in any way but having more haters means you're doing something right that other people are afraid to do. Thank you for sharing ❤️
I love that for you 💜 I used to be bullied all through middle school, high school and college because of my curly hair (I used to love my hair but all the bullying got me to hating it) and it got to a point where the bully would literally throw things at me, pull my hair and call me names and of course for a 13 y/o it's really damaging, I guess they were miserable people idk
I was convinced of Liz's words from my own experience. In high school there was a group of boys who tried to bully me. But I never stayed alone with them and avoided them. I finished school two years ago. And I see how some of these guys follow me on Instagram and try to arrange to meet me. But I still avoid them, because of all their disrespect and cruelty. Such things cannot be forgiven.
You’re such an awesome person, thank you for playing a huge role in my healing journey
Girl..... This is so important it should be taught in schools. Thank you so much for sharing this with people.
Gurl continue being you and I literally meditate and rewatch all your videos to feel good and confident in myself
Same here! Liz is dope
@@Soroaa_ perioodddd
Hey army 🥺 we really healing
Same.
i tried the “kill them with kindness” technique with my emotionally/verbally abusive ex and after 4 years, i finally snapped and started fighting back and giving him the same energy he gave me anytime he’d try to put me down (this was the first time in my life i was ever aggressive towards someone) and that’s when he finally stopped being mean to me. we’re no longer together but he always messages me saying that he didn’t realize how kind i was to him and that he should’ve treated me better.
So, they can tell you’re being kind to them, but they won’t change unless you better yourself and put them in their place. Even then, it’s not that you’re changing them, you’re just changing their demeanor towards you. Don’t stay with someone like this.
Finally somebody with proper advice. Simply "ignoring" isn't enough sometimes...
listening to liz is like life changing, like my whole perspective just changed. Thank you liz, i respect you a lot : )
I don't care about bullies/haters having the bad past/ family issue excuse. No matter what. I heavily agree with you on this.
I feel bad for people who are treated badly when they treat others nicely. Not when they take out their issues on other people.
Yess! I used to be a major people pleaser. And then I stopped giving a flying f about people who are selfish, they turned into my haters. The more you try to stay in your own lane, the worse they chase you lol. I'm glad I have the law of assumption that I can weed them out early on and also make my real life "haters" disappear. Thankfully, I don't have haters on my UA-cam channel yet. And I hope it stays the same. ❤️❤️
Disappear 🤣
@@gl11672 lol yes. They just go away!!
@@user-lf4th7px6u omg thank youuu ❤️
@@user-lf4th7px6u okay, I'll make a video soon
i love this woman so much she doesn’t know how many lives she’s saving rn
“Any day is a good day when a hater cries” my favourite quote ❤
Thank you Liz. I was bullied by my aunts, uncles, parents, siblings, “friends”, boys, ext. for 21 years of my life and because I was told 24/7 I was ugly and fat, that’s all I saw myself as. I was able to get out of that and realize it isn’t true. Definitely still working on my self image because years and years of bullying doesn’t go away so quick. I and I grateful for this video: thank you
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oh honey, that is not true. ur so beautiful inside and out and absolutely do not ever let that get to u. those ppl are miserable and full of jealousy. i'm so glad u have realized it's not true and am glad u are currently working on building urself back up. good luck babe 🩷🩷
your not ugly society is
Same girl I just got called that how can someone be that big? By my father’s friend but do you know what his life is so pathetic. Haha even though I just bawled my eyes out I realised that I can just be a better person and when I become successful they will come and beg me. Even though I am working on myself rn to be a better version of myself like working out and stuffs. I feel so sad that I have been bullied not in severe way or anything but for the past 14 years of my life I was been made fun of I was always the person they will make fun of as a joke and that “joking” became too normal to me that I realised even though it affected my life and childhood so much I would act like I don’t care at all and it has affected me I’m not showing any feelings. I feel so sad rn but I know that I will be a successful person when I become an adult.
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
I’m 15 and going to highschool and i’ve never got bullied this hard in my life and this video helped me alot ❤ Thank you my big sister Liz for inspiring me always i love you so much
the exact same for me! hope we can both heal and find peace, take care ❤️
Keep yourself safe! Emotionally and physically!
I’m 15 too 😭😭
Same age guys :) hope you heal ❤️
I’m almost 15 so me too and i just get so much of hate and rumours about me :/ i hope that we’ll do and feel better as soon as possible! Sending you love ❤
I've been following exactly all that you're preaching in this and i've been SO much happier, you're a real one Liz 💗
my goodness i cant believe i actually cried while watching this, thank you so much for this, much much much needed. she literally described my entire life and man it just feels so good to have a slay queen just lifting you up like this, literally screamed preach on each of her sentences. i wish i could hug this video instead of just liking and leaving a comment, may God give you everything youve ever wanted. thank you so much
as someone who always got bullied and still does, im so grateful to have liz tell me how to deal w them. though i wish i had her a few years back when i was at my lowest but i feel like those moments did make me strong enough to be able to deal w them according to the way liz tells me!! it's really big what she does for all of us
go for it! im being bullied too, i know its really hard sometimes to deal with them, but we can do it
@@wilskokk ofc we can! haters are our biggest fans
@@wildflcwrhqney why? What are they biggest fan.
Same. They just mess up with my life and criticise everything I do and it’s exhausting. I have friends but only 1% of them genuinely cares for me.
I love how confident she is, she is SLAYINGGGGGGG
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‘Any day is a good day when a hater cries’ Love this♥️
Thank you so much for this video, Liz. You were one of the main people who helped me begin my healing journey from an abusive relationship and childhood trauma, and also given fantastic advice and insight that has kept me from reaching out to both my ex & abusive father, who were also people who blamed their horrible actions and insults on mental illness, trauma from childhood, and so on.
It's taken a lot for me to realize 1) I'm nobody's unpaid therapist, 2) someone who genuinely loves you will not manipulate you to the point where you feel you're all that's keeping them alive, and 3) it's okay to put yourself first when you need to the most. Thank you for creating this channel and sharing so much I doubt I would've realized alone. Sending you love & peace of mind.
💖
Years later I saw my bully again in the store. She greeted me and acted like nothing happened. How is nothing wrong? If she was sorry, she would lower her head and not have spoken to me except to apologize.
At that moment my brain hallucinated, I couldn't believe it. Bullies never change. She tried to find out personal stuff about me. Be careful. Don't tell them anything personal about you or they will use it against you and don't be nice to them like Liz says.
(Sorry for my English).
Hello sis your English is very very good, love. You haven’t made even one mistake.
The bully is like the one who bullied Moon Dong Eun in The glory who became a narcissist in adulthood
this is so true, i used to bully people i was truly the most awful person and guess what?? i was ugly, i hated myself, i wasn’t confident and i was so so so pathetic but now i’m confident i’m gorgeous i’m a bad bitch and i’m a lot nicer to people imo. bullies are insecure and pathetic
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Liz, I listen to this video a lot. You have no idea how much you help me over and over again. Thank you from the depths of my heart. Thank you!
Thank you so much. I was just cyber bullied and I’m in tears rn. Thank you for everything you do on this platform. We love you Liz…
liz`s energy is so healthy and optimistic
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this is not healthy nor optimistic, she’s so naturally beautiful but becoming so angry and using a lot of negative words calling people ugly ? that’s a bully
@@arlenesaadat1188 where did she say that people are ugly💀
@@windws7137 watch the whole video!
@@arlenesaadat1188 can't find a time stamp huh? bullies, who have lowlife, low energy => ugly in soul. If you didn't catch that simple message then learn English
Liz is positive person. She tells direct, help us understand ourselves and others. Very young, open and wise woman.
Thank you so much Liz for saying it’s not weak telling someone. I’ve always thought to myself if I tell someone I am weak “I can do this on my own” even tho i don’t feel any better. I’m gonna tell someone because no way I’m going to be treated this way.
I just went through age discrimination bullying in college, I was taking a Biology class and every one there is in their late teens and early twenties, I was the only one that was 33 years old, as soon as I walked in the classroom people started there to call me old loser , old woman , saying that I shouldn’t be there , more than 20 people were mocking at me at the same time!!! and saying horrible things when I walked into the classroom, so evil!! Pure evil!!!! I talked to the Biology professor and he basically took these people side and saying that I have mental issues like WTF!!!???? I’m still so angry at this that when you reach out for help to a Dean or counselor they laughed at you and say that you are not mentally healthy!! Like seriously!!! Bullying and discrimination is real!!!!! People wake up!!!! Bullying can happen anywhere at any age , Seriously!!! This is a serious hate crime that must be punished it!!!
Accept that you don’t deserve this. I’d rather use my time for knowledge rather than spending my time mocking people, what a waste of time for them! 👏 Do what you love to do, sending major love. Don’t let them affect you physically and mentally. Stay away from this toxic people 😡
@@Allah.is.lovingi’m so sorry , take care
I'm 39 and in college. If this happened to me I would crack up laughing 😅😅😅😅 bullys are dumb. Plain and simple.
Do a police report. Make a paper trail. Maybe even get an order of protection
I was dealing with some of my classmates who hate me. I found that out yesterday, and today you posted this video. So grateful for this!
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I love how her videos aren't like those typical advice videos where they only tell you to "not give a fuck" she actually gives nice advice based on her experience .
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
I’ve been bullied my entire life…until now that I’m working in a healthcare system.These bullies are like high schoolers who never change their hearts now that they’re adults. This time I am standing up for myself like I did before! They’re actually insecure and cowards and they have so much hatred inside their hearts it spills all over.I would NOT let anyone get into me ever again! They’re not worth a single second in my thoughts! And yep! Being cold and distant and mirroring their behaviors always work!
Agree
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
All this is so relatable. Thanks for posting this. I'm doing comedy and recently got broke, posted in the local comedy forum saying I'm devoted to comedy and working side gigs just to continue it and would appreciate any support. I went completely broke over the weekend and this guy who I thought was my friend and another comedian, totally was cyberbullying me, but indirectly, like super passive aggressive style. I called him out and now I am like, I see you. I cut him off immediately. Thanks for posting this!
the fact that her life was hard she was bullied and she had an abusive parent and she is telling us how to deal with our own lives , she is so strong , im grateful for her , we love you liz
You are 💯% correct! Successful people will never disparage others because they are too busy being the best version of themself.
Thank you sooo much Liz. I’ve watching your videos for 6 months and it is like reminding myself my value. And I want to say something to other on comments, If you are being bullied, that means you are an important person. Like, you are special. Trust me, no one will bully an average normal person. Remember, celebrities used to be bullied when they’re young. Do not let them make you sad🤍 Lots of support
Video right on time! This morning I was actually wondering how do we deal with negativity and haters as a content creator.. Thank you Liz 💕
Same..
Putting other people's opinion of you off the pedestal is such a great tip I use daily. I hope this helps in some way. I apologize if this came off as unsolicited advice ❤️
@drishwitch Thankyou very much for your tip!
I suffered from bullying for many years as a child, and suffered bodyshaming from friends, family, acquaintances and strangers even on the street. Over the years I have gotten older, and I have accepted this evil they have done to me. Let's not kid ourselves the wounds remain, the scars remain. But you don't have to reopen the scars by hurting yourself. If people have insulted or disrespected you, you have to move on but for YOU not for Others! You have to make your mind stronger, don't be afraid of scars and wounds, no one can kill your dreams. People can play a dirty game, insulting you or hurting you instead of being better people than them, you have to move forward, achieve your goals and your dreams. And one day you will look back and you will see that despite the fools you made it, and I am sure that you will live a beautiful life and they who are ignorant will be living a bad life. Who is strong and intelligent and above all wins in this world, who was stupid, mediocre and bad won't go very far. trust me.
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your words hold so much power, thank you
You just managed to accomplish something my counselor can only dream of. I needed to hear this. Although, with me fear is a vicious cycle. Combined with compulsively checking and unblocking my former stalkers to make sure they're not gearing up for another attack. Anxiety truly sucks but you managed to make a bit of a dent in it. Truly greatful and subscribed!
Knowing that those people have no effect on you if you simply don't care is the first step. Then you try to work on yourself if their opinions affect you. This video is a wake up call for many people Liz, thank you so much for sharing it. ❤️
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Something I learned from my aunt is “you should never have to *tolerate* anything”
you can tell she genuinely believes what she’s saying she is so passionate about become a better person and healing and I think she is an amazing role model for us girls
Keep being you! You’ve definitely healed from your past traumas! Your amazing! It’s easy to focus on the negative haters when there are so many positive die hard fans that love you! Stay blessed ❤
14:45 "Change any environment where you don't feel safe." I wish I'd heard that in third or second grade, instead of spending 5 years in a class with people who gossip about you, spread rumors, shut you out, and do nothing to hide it.
Yeah. I wish I trusted my instinct more.
Can't wait to watch this. Thank you girl for helping us out
she is our QUEEN
@@sabina6579 exactly 💯
Im to grateful i found your channel. You do not know how much you have helped me these past few months. You helped me eliminate toxic people from my life, how to deal with those people that bring you down. I use to be such a people pleaser and therefore i was like everyones therapist they would only come to me to trauma dump/vent. People would walk all over me and i never really had true friends. But from you videos i learnt how to stop and put myself first. You have helped me deal with my own traumatic pasts, and helped me heal so much and change myself for the better. I have started taking much more care of myself and spoiling myself.
Thank-you so much Liz for all your amazing videos and just being the amazing, strong woman that you are. Thankyou for your kindness and help, may the world continue to give the same kindess back
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Hello ,Liz, i am glad to learn from you . Every single word you say in your videos is just healing .
Liz.. you have no idea how much you are helping me. Being a very sensitive individual ,I've been through some hard times. And you really help me a lot to make peace with myself and my anxiety
Counting The Hits
As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy.
Standing Strong
I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.
Excellent!! Don’t have empathy for them, have empathy for yourself! Wise lady!!
OMG . I love you for saying these powerful words . Thank you… I felt this way but hearing reminded me how to deal with my NB bullies . Your a STAR … keep sharing cause your got alot to give that makes a difference . Your Not just talking .. you give wisdom . ❤
I'm so grateful she's here giving free advice to all of us, I love her so much, she's the best of all time❤❤❤
Thanks Liz for this video! Being emotionally bullied is the worst thing to happen cos you cannot prove that they bullied you. People just don’t believe because you do not have solid proofs like physical bullies. I once told my school about it and they didn’t believe me and the teacher even hated me and talked shit about me just because they think I lied and make those fake scenarios. They blamed me for making things bigger just for my emotions. They thought I was jealous of them and tried to accused them. I’m still first year of high school and I’m so scared for my next three years in that school.
Change your school girl
@@malisha5094 I can’t girl I was there with abroad study program and I has to live w my bullies 😅 I tried to move apartment but the school doesn’t let it happen
Please go away from that school ,talk with your parents about that
@@faeyiixoxo try to talk your parents. Cant you change classroom?
@@kiralawliet1382 I tried to but my parents don’t believe in those emotional bullying either.
I have been struggling dealing with bullies and haters who made up rumors about me out of nowhere, thank God now I have the guide on how to handle this problem. Thank you Liz ❤
i know its weird" i dont know you" butt wanna be my friend ?😊 i wanna meet new people and also improve my English but talking to them
@@Allthestarshavereasons hey who r you, maybe we can be friends but im concerned
I often try to help bullies change and see the light.. so naive.. we have to learn to put up better boundaries around ourselves so we can continue being the kind, caring individuals we aspire to be 💕
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@@user-wq7kv7wt8f yess , give me your instagram or any social media so we can chat
Liz is a really strong women! It's been a year now watching her videos & i must say that SHE BIRTHED THE NEW ME. Literally! She has helped overcome alot and I hold so much love and gratitude for her in my heart. She has brought alot of positive changes in my life through her advises and I have a huge respect towards her for that. Thank you so much Liz ♥️♥️
This literally made me set my boundaries and not let people walk all over people
Liz is such an inspiration ❤ bullies will always exist unfortunately… if you are reading this happy holidays to everyone here ❤ good vibes 🙌🏽🫶🏽
This girl's advice is what I call "toxic femininity". I happen to agree that "toxic masulinity" is a thing and is a problem. But lets not kid ourselves, the same toxic advice exists with femininity. Toxic masulinity is telling guys you have to be strong always and can never cry. It's toxic because sometimes guys do in fact wanna cry, so they fake themselves. This channel is the same. "Don't ever cry. You are strong. The people that hate on you are just jealous." In theory, this is sound advice, but when you are faking your own happiness, now that is toxic.
Why this women ever existed?
@@Tom-px9hd why do you watch her channel?
@@kflecha1 I am a straight man and I love woman but when I see this type of toxic women talking bullshit about men I cannot tolerate.