10 Signs Your Partner Doesn't Love You (Even If You Think They Do)
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2022
- Here are 10 signs your partner doesn’t love you even if you think they do. If any of these sound familiar, there’s a good chance that your partner is faking their feelings for you! Even if they say they love you, actions speak louder than words.
It can be hard to know if you’re in a relationship with someone who just likes you but isn’t actually in love with you. How can you tell the difference between real love and fake love? Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between someone who genuinely loves you and someone who is just faking their feelings for you.
We all want to feel loved, but some people just don't have it in them to show affection or care about anyone else's feelings. If your partner is one of those people, then this video is for you. It outlines some common warning signs your partner doesn’t love you anymore.
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thank you, married 9 yrs, feeling beat, tired, hopeless, alone while together and paying her bills. Currently I don't think I have the strength to have the drama of a divorce. I am 75.
but your video tells me I am not crazy and I need to move ahead. thanks and God Bless you
Good Lord. You got married at 66??? Go with god my son 😬
Bill....do what makes Bill happy...people can only wish to live to be your age... you've made it this long bro💪🏾💯...dont let anybody dictate how you feel or take away your happiness...You are living Bills' life...not anybody else...but thats just my opinion...listen to music you like...any comedy also helps...you got this...
lets make Bill happy again💯💪🏾👍🏾
@@PickleRick65Age is just a number, and commitment never goes out of style.
You're 75 😄 ?
You might as well stay married 😄.
You don't have much time left 😄.
@@user-bb2vn8vz5xyour a cnt hopefully he lives a lot longer than you will🤡
Every single one of these signs are spot on. Sadly I found myself trapped in a bad marriage with a leach & a narcissist, however I found the courage & strength to move forward with a divorce.
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there are prayers for fixing divorce and brokenness marriages. Although me and my wife are now back together and our love is even stronger but I was a total mess when she first dumped me.
I hope the BEST for You. The healing process; years. Every day after, will be your best day. Why? You are no longer in that situation, being harmed the worst way - emotionally.
God bless you.
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Yes I am going through the same thing 😢😢
@@adibee88uuuu
*Me, a single male in their late 30’s, watching this at 2am*
Fascinating.
nice point we’re all busy ,but if someone is important to us we make sacrifices
The fact that people have to watch this video is the answer to this question already
Yes, true
Wow that just hit home for me 😢. Thank you
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Statics show 50% marriages end in divorce
Another 35% are unhappily married but elect to stick it out
Only 15% are happy and glad they married their present spouse
The odds are not good
Be very selective
These statistics are suspicious. Be careful.
I totally believe this. I was part of the 35% but stuck it out for 25 years because I thought he was at least faithful. Turns out I was wrong due to his porn use so now I'm getting a divorce, so I will be part of the 50%.....
I'm still thinking why people still feel the need for marriage. That's pretty much useless nowadays. You don't need marriage to be able to love someone for the rest of your life. 😅
wow that's really eye opening :(
The 50% stat isn't actually accurate. Someone looked at the number of marriages and divorces in a year, but did not take into account all the people that were already married.
I wish this video was available in 1997 a month before I got married. It would have saved me a lot of pain.
Why because even if it was available you wouldn't listen anyway, you know how you are, you are always one to learn things the hard way , so even if this video was available and you heard it seven times you still would not have listened ,
@@rickrick3169narc
Are you still married? I’m in a similar situation where I wish someone could have gotten through to me before I got married.
I was in a relationship like this for 11 years, he was a narcissist, and every one of these facts was him. I am now in a very loving relationship, and the difference is amazing, and he is amazing.
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there are prayers for fixing divorce and brokenness marriages. Although me and my wife are now back together and our love is even stronger but I was a total mess when she first dumped me.
I dated a woman for 10 years she was so controlling, manipulative, and downright mean. Found out she was cheating with her ex. She would say she was grocery shopping but I always knew better. Now I'm single and happy. I dont think I'll ever be in a relationship again.
These are all the reasons why I’m leaving him…. I can’t take it anymore 😢 i want to be happy
I wish it were that simple for me.
You will be in bliss
❤sorry hunny , me too
Iam in the same broken blues 😢 everything he is saying all these things that I have indeererd I I have no emotion left o feel so dist oppon and unloved😢😢😂
@@PatriciaLeiserson-ut5ug I think we all are.....many people I know are going through this.......energy change. If anyone needs someone to talk to....Im usually always around. No since in going through this alone.
They put up with you...they don't enjoy you. They only discuss important things. They don't hug you when you get home. They have weekend fun activities that don't include you. But basically.. they just put up with you. Because to them your assets...money and work ethic... are useful
Just like when say your crazy and your got theming wong but youknow th a only start shit wen thay doing wong robustly thasafr
Not putting up with me...more like using me!
@@mildredwilson9562Say what???
Preach!!!!
Spot on. Recently discovered I’ve spent 25 years married to a narcissist. They hit every single one of these. I recall asking them to dream of the future with me and they always refused claiming they were too stressed at work. During a cruel attempt at a partial discard, they told me they didn’t see me in their future. It’s been painful but eye opening. I filed for divorce. I can give myself the love and future I wanted.
How are you doing now? I am in the process of divorce right now
I wish God will help you finding a true love ❤️. A man that truly cares and cherishes you , gives you love and affection. Amen
Did not dicuss future but stayed with you for 25 years. Does not add up.
I’m so broken I never thought their would be an ending. He moved out and I went to the court house and got the paper twice but I just can’t bring myself to fill them out. I was with him for 20 years and he moved out once our daughter left to college I tried to convince him to come back but he’s only been back to sleep with me then leaves. You’d think I’d respect myself a lil more after all he has arranged for the owner of the home we rented to allow me to stay not inside the home but the garage is what I know now as home. This from the guy who payed for everything now all I hear is I will continue to pay untill the end of this year. The sad thing is I have no money to fight him and lawyer up and I know he has for years hid through investments or bitcoin hidden money.
I wish you all the best for the future. I truly hope you find someone who loves you and is on your wavelength. My friend has been in a loveless marriage for 20+ years and is trapped for many reasons. Scared to divorce because of uncertainty.
I experienced most of this in my last relationship with was for 4.5 years. It hurts a lot. The words never matched the actions. It feels awful to finally open your eyes and realize how manipulated you were. 💔
Well it is as though you're talking about me ...
I wonder maybe he felt the same like you do now 'manipulated' ..
But l liked him (maybe not every day , but I did . And my feeling switches off and on which I don't understand myself )
If I ever said or do something it was not for manipulation . Whatever , it came naturally .
I guess I’m the one that doesn’t love anymore, but after 14 yrs of his narcissistic abuse, it’s about time. Yay🎉 for me. I hope this for us all!😊
I know how you feel. I was with a narcissist for 13 years. It's the only breakup I ever had where I was joyous and optimistic right after. My only regret is wasting all of those years with her, but I choose to look at it as a learning experience. If I can help it, I'll _never_ put myself through that again. I know all of the signs now. 🙂
I'm 61, reasonably thoughtful and intelligent, just got over a three year relationship that went the other direction. This is a great video and you nailed it and hit many things right on the head, just confirming what I already knew and what I'm learning right now. Thank you for this this is a good one.
I hope you come through this. I fully understand.
I am here if you need to talk. I really do understand.
It's heart breaking.😢
@@rickrick3169 did not see your comment from a year ago, but I'll answer it now. My IQ is tested twice at 136. I'm aware of the dunning Kruger effect. I'm probably underestimating myself.
@@ladyb5888 Hi, thanks for your nice comment. I'm doing great. I did learn a lot from that experience.
It's interesting to see that there are people who would disagree with the video. Being in a relationship like this is confusing, exhausting and affects your mental health. You can end up a shell of the person you were. Is it worth it?
I was in a relationship like this (with 8 out of the 10 points) for almost 8 years. It only ended when he died. He prioritised all his social commitments before me, but I was the one who helped him through his last days. Not his golf buddies, not the whole rest of the community that he would always drop everything to be there for. He was a good guy, a decent man and universally liked within the community. I love him but I was miserable with him, and even though I miss him, my mental health has improved a lot since his passing.
These words of Yours are to the core of ones ability to be in love with their SO. I wish all,,,the best of luck ,finding and living with the person that helps them grow,,in their heart ❤
Sounds like mine, but he is still alive and change golf buddies for his work and we can shake hands. 😢
Dude I feel like I’m not me anymore I step out and I can’t get the confidence I once had anymore and I’m an attractive dude and I know it and I haven’t yet been able to get my confidence back I put walls up man bad and I hate that about me bc I want to tell them how I feel but my ex really fukd me up
If they request anytime apart, practice patience or are the last to contact you. They don’t care about you that much, let them walk and take back control.
Narcissist.... get out!! Run!!!!
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This video is absolutely the BEST and just spelling out the truth of relationships! I spent almost 2 decades in a "bad relationship". The man I'm with now is a God sent! I wake up a princess every morning. I want nothing but for him to have the best and happiest life possible. We're best friends, partners, and cheer leaders for each other. I just wish I was able to be with him longer...
Where did u find him, Angela?
10/10. It's over. I wonder if she knows it too. We both pretend we still care. I do half of this list, she does the other half.
Not everyone is going to have an relationship because of love. I was married for ten years. It felt more like an business model than a lovely relationship. Sadly it took me years to realize how unhappy and lonely i felt.
We were to different in many ways that we never had a chance to be happy together. After the wish to divorce, my partner tried everything to make my life more difficult. Of course my ex-partner did this because of fear and emotional distress.
Despite of many years of suffer, i learned a lot what is important to me. That me need of happiness is important. This is something i own my ex partner. That i was able to leave from it.
I am in a relationship again, for two years now. Holding hands every time we leave the house. Cuddle several times every day were together. We just love each other like we love ourselves.
I hope one day they meet someone who loves you as much as you do, cares about you, and is willing to fight for the relationship.
OMG! After 22 years of marriage. I am very fortunate, I can't relate to any of this video. My husband truly loves me and I truly love him! Thanks for sharing this. As a couple we are truly blessed. We are very happy and very contented in our marriage! ❤❤❤❤
I usually always in a relationship where I’m the one who loves more than them.
Good Morning, B.D.!!! Immaculate and very articulate list as always. So many of us learn what "love" is through so many different sources... Family/upbringing, media, etc. It's important to be in touch with yourself - if something doesn't feel right, you should feel safe and confident enough to talk to your partner about it, and your partner should have concern that it bothers you. Really, a lot of the time we have differences that won't be changed... But making compromises and listening to one another is truly a gift. 💖💖💖
Love is NOT a feeling but rather a BEHAVIOR. It's how you treat the other person. It's wanting for them that which makes them happy. It's agreeing to do that which the like.
Red flags. Do not ignore.
This actually made me realize how much my partner loves me... It also makes me realize how I do not require all points due to my mental health, tho I truly love him. I hope he'll never doubt my love for him
Perfect. It helps me get back on track with what I am looking for, instead of taking lack of love personally and trying to improve myself to get it. Thank you VERY MUCH! 👁
This video has very important points. If your tap dancing, hyper vigilant and constantly guessing what to do to keep your partner, get out and get help.
Thanks so much for sharing this. The information couldn’t be more timely.
Definitely enough to think about ❤
In my view, the best way to avoid all, or most of these factors is to prolong getting married, or in a serious relationship until you have reached a comfortable emotional and psychological level of maturity, and even then bear in mind that nothing is permanent but change; therefore, be prepared to adjust and adapt to whatever the circumstances present.
You don't need signs, you just know when you've checked out.
thank you for this video. it really helped clear my mind. i finally recognize where i stand in this "relationship"
On number 3 and this comes from a lifelong bachelor I have noticed but most couples forget about I love you I want you to accomplish your dreams and I will support you while you reach for them not use it as a excuse to argue and fight
I'm guilty of all this by mirroring him, that is how i knew it was time to go. I walked his shoes and felt the lack of love and realized i was wearing rose colored glasses for too long.
😢the man I thought I would grow old with, hit all 10, all 10, every single one😢
It’s so hard to find someone that cares sooooo hard,,,,
Thanks for your presentation. Agree with most of it. When it comes to close relatives ir friends, not so black and white. Relatives and friends can be tricky to navigate because they often gave motives for not wanting to let you go , jealousy, dependency, priorities. So they can
be rude or unwelcoming or picky
and hard to please or " over protective". And if you find yourself on the receiving end of very unfavourable comparisons to his other women, LEAVE! He'll have feelings for you - but they'll be cruelty, contempt and deep dislike.
As I experienced in a connection last year. Can't call it a real relationship.
Excellent information and advice. Thank you!
I wish I had seen this 7 years ago. It would have saved me from so much pain. It’s sad that 6 year relationship ended because he no longer had time for me but I want to be happy. Even if it’s by myself.
Really?
This was so helpful because I in relationships right we're as close as we used to be since Covid19
Thank you so much 😊
They could also be broken hearted, disillusioned, depressed...immature or have CPTSD, come from a dysfunctional family.
I found the courage and strength to move forward with a divorce. This is very helpful to me. Thank your sir for the information.
Thank you ! 😢 LET ME PREPARE TO GO MY SEPERATE WAY
My husband once said that once he won me over he didnt think he had to try as hard anymore.
That csme from a boys mindset. Once he grew up, he was worth hanging on to.
Been married 31 years now.
Should be mentioned that all these signs and feelings can come and go in a long term relationship, real love can be tested but really hard to break...you could even break before it does.. LoL ❤️
8 years yesterday. And I feel like my partner no longer loves me, or wants me. And that Mt wants and Mt needs don't matter. I give 100% daily and do whatever I can to try and show them I love them, and want them. Because it hurts when your wifh someone so long. And no longer feel loved or wanted. I still love her, and I wanna keep my family. But idk what to do. I've tried talking to her. And it just seems like it doesn't matter. And it's not like I can go elsewhere to get needs or feelings met. So I'm at a complete and total loss. Should I just bottle it all up, until I just can't take it anymore? I don't feel that's the right thing to do. But I also can't stand the thought of coming home to an empty home everyday, where there was once my happy little family. Please send light and love my way if you could. And I'd like to send light and love to all!!
Doesn't sound like your family is happy. Give yourself a chance for happiness.
I wish my partner wants me this much
Universe is by your side ❤ don’t worry you won’t ever get lonely since universe is with you , create the world you need and work on it , talk it out and if they still don’t understand leave … sending strength love and support by my side , I’m with you mate ❤
You left out them wanting to take vacation without you, but want you to pay for it.
i wish i found this video 4 years ago. thank you. everything hits way to close to home.
Thank you so much for posting this video it was definitely what I needed to hear. I was just sitting here watching a lifetime movie and for some strange reason I clicked on your video and it brought light to my eyes 😊 Thank you so much and GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🙏
HAVE A WONDERFUL BEAUTIFUL BLESSED NIGHT
Thank you for sharing your videos
Eye opening list! I'm quite inclined to agree with it too! Still gonna stay single for a good while! In any case, great video! I especially love your words near the end of this! Thanks!🌹💜🌍
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there are prayers for fixing divorce and brokenness marriages. Although me and my wife are now back together and our love is even stronger but I was a total mess when she first dumped me.
It's 2024, and this hasn't been explained, taught until recently. Most parents didn't teach this to their children because the parents didn't understand it, nor did their parents, etc. It seems to me that a LOT of people will benefit from these explicit guidelines, in all kinds of relationships!
But I do wonder why no one has figured out or taught this before. Why has it taken us so long to figure out these basics that can be itemized on a on checklist?
I think this is your best (and most important) video yet. This explains so well many of the things in my past relationship that really urked me..... and now i know why. This will definitely help open my eyes in a future relationship. Thanks Brainy Dose!!!! I've saved this video in a youtube list :)
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there are prayers for fixing divorce and brokenness marriages. Although me and my wife are now back together and our love is even stronger but I was a total mess when she first dumped me.
@@lukebarrett2317 you're a lucky man! :)
@@markwilliams4489 No, I was lucky to have got the prayer when I did 😇
My husband is trying to change me since last 32 years.He keeps secrets from me.He doesnt care about my emotions.He dismisses them.He d insulted me hundred times in front of his family,my family and outsiders.Recently I caught his chats.I m shocked n devastated.I am loyal,Loved him in our life for such a long period.I m in deep sorrow.
groomed you -beyond what he deserves, me 2, 37 years.
With great power comes great responsibility Brainydose!
I’m actually experiencing every single thing this video is talking about
Yup happens to my family, friends and my daughters future ex. A lot of them got no feelings one another.
Tellement vrai ! Exactement tout ce que j'ai vécu avec D. pendant 18 ans.... jusqu'à ce qu'il me quitte pour une autre femme quelque temps avant notre retraite du travail. J'y rêvais depuis longtemps. J'avais tout plein de projets pour une vie moins stressante avec lui ! J'étais TRÈS AMOUREUSE et aveugle...
No. 10 hit hard 💯
Well said ❗✔️
Never found real love. 💔 😊 Alone is ok. Being alone is a choice. Enough BS. Sorry, but my experience. Getting married young was stupid.❤ Self-love.
It's time for me to be completely alone. No one will have the chance to know me again. I have been tested like I don't exist.
Yes, I was in relationship like this 4 years
Good video to make. When you're in the throws of a relationship, want and need so much for them to love you, it can be hard to see what's really going on. Good to have these bullet points laid out.
Exactly what I need to hear right now! Thank you for making my mind cleared, now I know! I distance now my self with toxic people!!
It's hard to distance yourself from you just work on change, changing you and you most likely will have a better outcome
I can certainly relate to the fourth and fifth ones. My ex was like that, then disappeared one day. Now the ones I've looked at treat me with very little concern for my well being.
They won’t let me walk away ..
Wow, so many of these points hit home. Was living with a woman who meant the world to me. After I found out I wasn’t the only guy in her life (business trips) it gutted me but as hard as it was asked her to leave. Been a long uphill road ever since. I regret promising myself i would never let another woman hurt me like that again and have held true to that.
😔I'm sorry that you had to go through that...but even though it may not seem like it right now ...but guess what? Her loss....Don't change yourself or make the next person suffer because yes that is very tempting but it's not right....just look at it like this, now you know what to look out for and what you want and do not want....make a list of things that will be deal breakers up front so that you can refer to it when you move on. Give yourself plenty of time to heal,be kind to yourself,maybe take a trip or hang out with some friends. Treat yourself to something that you have been wanting. If you don't have any pets also get one,animals are so therapeutic. They are always happy to see us ☺️ they love to cuddle unless it's a reptile😅just kidding but first and foremost ask God to heal your heart ❤️ sorry about the long text but I hope that this helps and just know that you are Loved ❤
Great video
Very helpful
At this point people can go I hate two faced snakes who play mind games and only want to use you. Then plot against you with people who don't care about you or your feelings.
Thanks !
Another sign is that they go i don't love you , i see you as a friend
Yup I knew it. My narcissistic husband of thirty five years does not love me, never has.
I have noticed all of the traits (despite the disrespecting the family part) in me when I got pregnant. We’ve been together for only a year and a half but the moment I had those feelings I broke up with him. I’m glad I realized that I just don’t love him at all. He doesn’t understand yet that I have saved him a lot of time.
She checks all the boxes……. But then again what she doesn’t realize I checked them long ago
My girlfriend is always on me for BS always doing things wrong, but yet her mom passed away I took time off to be with her, she goes and text her abusive ex behind my back and say I am doing not wrong, hard on the soul and heart, to the point it makes me sick,☹️
RUN!!!!!
Bravo if in doubt get out some people just like to try and control you
That is the whole reason why I'm saying I don't have a partner communicating engaging it only seemed like it was only in a professional way. No need to have anything to do with each other in that way
Some people are just no good, if someone tells you. Then you need to find out
Pretty sure I know. But let's do this.
THEIR ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN THEIR WORDS - is the summary of the 12 signs if your person don't love you .
I guess I must be lucky. I spent 43 years married to my best friend. Non of the above applied. The reason it stopped at 43 was I lost her to cancer. I would have gladly traded places with her. I would do another 43 with her.
Lucky you. Many of us ended up in horror show marriages. 90% bad most of the time. Littered in abuse and incompatibility.
Thank you so much 🫂
Wow …. I relate with every single one of these.
Yup, this happened in my 17 year marriage. Had children but i was always struggling to hold the family together. He just wanted to drink and hang out with his friends. I wasted so much time and damged our kids in the process staying.
This is the situation am in😭 and am tired of forcing myself to him😢
It’s a No Brainer🥵🫤Actions speak louder than words………… He will never make one excuse up to why he couldn’t meet you! Love never stops him from hitching a ride to walking to come see you and spend time with you! I thank god I learned that from a stranger. Never understood but as I got older I got wiser! When two people love each they respect each other, they are honest, they are committed! Love will make you act like a kid again. So stay with the one who has never stop being there and always honest! If he is embarrassed for whatever he can come up with! If wait for him tha😅what u will always be doing waiting! Life is short he might never have been the one if he never did one of these
Thanks man very much man
Wow such incredible information wish I had this information decades ago. Never too late. I met a wonderful man and he treats me very special. God finally answered my prayers in his time not mine. I am so grateful for being patient it really works. Manifest the love you want in your life. Sometimes a relationship can be a lesson or a blessing. Life has a journey for each one of us.
Thanks ❤
Thank you for this excellent video. Just my story
How can anyone be with someone they do not love? That's a lot of faking to do. It will eat at your soul. No wonder so many people are depressed.
Yes believe you me it’s hell.
That was my last relationship. Tore me apart that she didn’t reciprocate anything. I basically saved her life and pulled her away from depression and suicide. At the end of everything, she told me to move on so I did and went on a date. She got insecure that I moved on after she told me.
Spot on
I'm in a relationship like this, unfortunately there's a baby involved
So what you going to do?
Not all of this applies to your circumstance! But it's accurate to a certain degree.... Some times this info is worth the thought but it's also worth considering true self knowledge to really grasp what you can from this or the opposite.
It's hard but not impossible ❤
Number 11 love yourself and move on
It’s harder when you have kids together 😢 he does all these things
I only compare someone to someone else is when they do the same things that the other one did