Psychology Behind Making A Man (over 40) CHASE You

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  • Опубліковано 18 гру 2024

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  • @ginam.4990
    @ginam.4990 11 днів тому +5

    My last relationship this guy was always excited to see me (3 years). As an avoidant, I was as well internally. I rarely showed it externally. He reminded me of a Lab. I learned how I behaved was damaging to him and to me as well.

  • @therocknrollcook
    @therocknrollcook 10 днів тому +1

    You nailed it with unhealed people having a lack of gratitude! Totally same in my experience.😢

  • @jademeiklejohn8526
    @jademeiklejohn8526 12 днів тому +1

    YOUR grander vision changes my life every day and I'm 100% with you in the deepest capacity without romantic notions in the equation. This energy is the space that sums up my purpose

  • @Sherryyahoo
    @Sherryyahoo 12 днів тому +2

    Omg Jonathan, I was just thinking about Later Daters, I love the show! 💕🦋

  • @jademeiklejohn8526
    @jademeiklejohn8526 12 днів тому +1

    Jonathan the shift in the depth of feeling and understanding coupled with living out what you share in this specific video, I personally found profoundly undeniable since the last video of yours I listened to. You and I share this depth which is very safe and edifying and I live in New Zealand and have done all my life. What ever you're doing differently it works for me. Does this make me selfish.! Either way I thank you again and can't encourage you enough to keep up your mission ❤

  • @annabellacrewe8858
    @annabellacrewe8858 3 дні тому

    Hi Jonathan ! Love your energy and good pointers ! I use it...Have been working with my internal for many years now, being single and believing, I am prepared for a loving relarionship ! I turned 73" this year !!❤❤❤

  • @dexdex2397
    @dexdex2397 11 днів тому

    🤗🤗Thank you, thank you Jonathon for responding! Also praying for healing for you and your dearly departed son r.i.p.🙏🏼. Your UA-cam is positive.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 днів тому +1

      Thank you, I appreciate the kind words. 🙏

  • @Sherryyahoo
    @Sherryyahoo 10 днів тому

    Jonathan, love the photos of the boys 💕🦋

  • @susierea7396
    @susierea7396 12 днів тому +9

    Too many people depend on their partners to meet 100% of their needs. It's not realistic. Take care of yourself and share a life with another person. Most people dont know how to meet their own needs and do not want to take accountability for their unhapiness

    • @juliaskagfjord6207
      @juliaskagfjord6207 11 днів тому +1

      A friend of mine put it like "we should all be our own primary emotional caretaker"

    • @Sunlightsam24
      @Sunlightsam24 10 днів тому +1

      Or make unrealistic ‘demands’ then consistently reject as a result. Look at another couple and want to duplicate them, impossible. Plus I always remember no one really knows what goes on within a relationship, often including the couple themselves!

  • @GoldenAthena311
    @GoldenAthena311 11 днів тому

    Jonathan, watching your videos & reading the books you recommended really enriches my knowledge of Love IQ, thank you ❤😘👍🏻!!

  • @veronicanordenstrom8467
    @veronicanordenstrom8467 12 днів тому +1

    Hey yo Jonathon🙏😌 &chattfriends

  • @mariad1151
    @mariad1151 11 днів тому +1

    Skip "Attached." Not worthwhile IMO. You can watch Thais Gibson & you'll get the summary of the theory in 5 easy minutes. (She was here on Jonathan's show & they summarized it, too.) Beyond that, there's a fake premise that we're hard wired to couple.
    Attachment theory is hot right now. Psychology is ...based in the imagination. If you follow the history science at all, or contemporary debates in it, you'll understand how dubious it is. Psychology, unlike science, cannot even hope to ever prove anything it asserts, so imagine how off the mark it could be in light of the serious errors in the discipline of biology, for example.
    Add to that Thais' willingness to help you cure your attachment style (which is dubious in the first place), & you can understand how it all becomes "gypsies, tramps, & thieves" in the words of the immortal Cher. (Thais' "school" has the secret cure that you will not find anywhere else🤫 Where have we heard that before?!)
    Careful out there, girls❣️

  • @CindyKrueger-z4z
    @CindyKrueger-z4z 11 днів тому +1

    I’m binging that show as well!!!!

  • @susanharrie3326
    @susanharrie3326 12 днів тому