I absolutely love you! Everything you say resonates with me. I’ve watched a lot of counselors and read books and just found you on UA-cam and I love it! You are so right❣️❣️❣️
1. He wants to spend time with you 2. He doesn't act hot and cold 3. He feels safe to be vulnerable with his woman 4. He can honestly say his woman make him to be a better man 5. He protectives his woman 6. He gives that look "WOW"
I would have loved to see you guys at that moment being vulnerable, emotional and holding hands in a moment of Sorrow. I love men who can do that and not be ashamed. That is very attractive to a woman.
Why would people complain about what you offer freely to us? You also tell everyone who you are up front. Why would anyone complain about f bombs when you tell them they might want to leave if they don’t like that?! Also….repeating is a necessary part of learning a new skill. I so appreciate all that you offer to us Jonathon! You’re so real and true and funny and I enjoy you so much. ❤
I saw a post that said that if he looks at you like he's seeing a unicorn, that's a sign that he's falling for you. I clearly remember turning to see that look on my friend's face before we became a couple. I just relaxed and returned the look. That's when I knew that I was feeling the same attraction. He still gives me that look several times a week.
Jonathon don't change anything about yourself, you are PERFECT just the way you are. I love when you cuss to make a point...it makes me chuckle and that's a good thing!!
Here on a Sunday morning cleaning the bathroom and listening to this GEM. I am LOL continually with the yelling, the apologizing, the OMs, the Jonathan lady voice, the fbombs, the sweaty pits. Thank you JA.
Jonathan, I watched this video from 3 years ago! This video went for 1 1/2 hours. I remember all your videos that went on forever and we loved it. Your lives were so fun and so many people watched your videos.🦋💕
This is my husband's tablet ,but I use it all the time for crosswords and news and shows like yours. I would like so,much to talk with you. I agree with so much that you say. I've been married to a narcissist for almost 38 years. Think this is my last year. Can't take the craziness anymore. Thanks for listening. Elissa .
Your not egotistical, your a Leo . I’ve been watching your videos & I have adopted your teachings & broke off dating an avoidant. I took my power back & feel soo much better! Im hoping to meet a man with your qualities, Thank you 🙏
I am getting so much out of your videos. I believe I'm in a very genuine space with my guy, though it's only been six weeks. I am great at giving him space, because I have the same need. I am learning to speak up if I feel my value isn't being honored or appreciated (which is very rare), and I can easily take text breaks. I just want to learn to do whatever else I need to do to foster positive and healthy habits to see if we end up continuing to grow together. I definitely have some defects that can be frustrating for him, after all they annoy me too). So far, it seems we could be on a great path. I'm going to continue to learn from you. Every time he does something for me, no matter how big or little, I let him know that I am grateful. Your affirmation that this is important is something I am grateful for. Thank you!
The 6 ways: 1. He wants to spend time with you. He's not hot and cold. Is he wanting to spend more time with you or less time with you? 2. He's consistent with his actions and words. 3. He feels safe to be vulnerable with you. Vulnerability is sharing one's insecurities. One of the best doors to vulnerability is gratitude. 4. He can honestly say you make him want to be a better man. 5. He's protective of you. 6. He gives you that look of "WOW!". Not because you just got dressed up or getting ready to have sex or just had sex, but even after you've had 2 or 3 arguments.
I love how Jonathan is so strong and powerful in who he is as a person and coach. You don't show up as what people want from you. You show up as who you are. And if f bombs, cursing, swearing, making jokes and being real with your audience is who you are, he should be that. Not try to not swear and "sugar coat" things.
@@JonathonAslay I’m a 68 yr old widow and been dating a man who is 10 years younger which is no big deal. Im actually you feel in my energy then he is and we have had ups and downs like normal relationships have and thanks to you and your real talk . I love listening to you. Love your f bombs , you just crack me up and talk real at the same time. I enjoy every podcast and video. Keep it up from Toronto!
I kind of knew already. But the moment he shared a difficult subject with me and cried in my arms was such an intimate moment. I am so grateful for this. 😍 Oh, and in the end it's the small gestures: buying this salad servers cause he just thought I would like them etc....
He shows up at your door with flowers, he wants to see your smile as he gifts you... he wants to feel the joy of gifting....he wants to make you happy.... he's obsessed with making you smile with gifts, that's how you know he's crazy about you
Love takes time , but tell me when you just starting to know then , don’t go to far , just tell us how you know if the guy is into you when we just meet!
Thank you Jonathan! You’ve helped me a lot; to detect extreme infatuation for what it is! A hundred hours of getting to know a person is a basic standard for me now, or even a longer period! Yes! And my power is mine and should never be given away! And I’ll not idealise sex as a proof of love! The deeper trust is a must! Hot and cold behaviour is a warning sign! Greatfulness! Vulnerability! Keeping my bounderies! The inner work! That look of WOW!!!!My inner beuty!!!WOW! I feel 💪 You took me back to my own boundarises! Thank you so much! It works! I feel like a better woman! You’re WOW Jonathan!
I literally wiped the vomit from my ex as he went through a stem cell transplant, I was there daily for as long as the hospital allowed, for 63 days, when only one of his grown children showed up once. As a retired nurse I did his daily care and was expected to do so by the staff, but I was happy to do this for him because I loved him. Come to find out he was exchanging love messages between 2 other women, as sick as he was, he still had the energy to cheat. Ironically, he was a former pastor. I have your books, and I love myself finally too much to even risk my heart again. I’d rather have a dog…they are loyal. And you are right…I gave away my power…I didn’t listen to my intuition over the 7 years we were together. I’m ok with being single…finally, and I’m happy.
I like what you share Jonathon! It's helping me a lot! I'm 46 and recently divorced, I want a healthy, happy relationship that will last the rest of my life. Your wisdom is appreciated 🙏 Thank you 😊
JA your videos are my daily 'pick me up'. You motivate me not only to be a stronger woman but you have shown me how to 'love my self' I'm grateful for your wisdom and advice! THANK YOU JA 🙏. PS swear as much as you want! I love it ❤
I learned a year ago, just because my heart is open, which in turn, my legs were open. I finally realized, just because I was feeling this, doesn't mean he was. But he "cared deeply" for me. I've run into that a couple of times. I end up being "the runner up" Love your advice Jonathon. I wish we could just hang out! Lol
My fiance cheated on me with two different women in 2019, I dumped him and have been single ever since. I currently study and work remotely and am a recluse. I have no idea how to reconnect to society. I am in my early 30's, smart, pretty(so I am told) and successful. But I have trust issues up the wazoo!
You are so brave. You’re reconnecting by being vulnerable and sharing your story on this platform. My fiancé also cheated on me early in our relationship and while I’ve chosen to forgive, I still feel the impact of his actions. You are powerful and brave!
After a long day at work, I am very grateful and appreciative to have you share this list here. It resonates deeply with me - especially #6. I remember when my late husband first gave me the "wow" look and I asked him why he was staring at me the way he was. What he said made me speechless...something that's not easy to do...lol. I know I have been giving my power away and have been completely clueless when I started looking for a man again. I will do my best to use this complete list in the future and no longer give my power away and stand in my sovereignty. Thank you again Jonathon - YOU ROCK!!! 🎸☺👍
The first 22 minutes of this video made me cry with relief from the resonance!!! My boyfriend hasn't been vulnerable with me since we started out as friends. He sometimes expects me to know him well and he sometimes thinks he knows me, then becomes stunned when he sees he was pegging me wrong. We've had at least five hours for 25 days spread out for 12 months. We haven't had sex, at all. Thank God because we haven't really talked about a relationship, other than we want marriage "with someone." Maybe I shouldn't even call him my boyfriend. He's been busy, but also with other women he's dating, so he says.
Mr. Jonathan Aslay , if most of our women had you be big brother, we are lucky, thanks you so much for sharing your great experience to everyone, you are nice.
I think Pastors/ Priest and Religion leaders needs to start teaching young people about relationship about what to allowed and what not to allowed. Good points. I love your videos.
I listened to the audio book The Untethered soul’ thank you so much for bringing it to my attention! I’ve shared it with many friends struggling with the lockdowns! Most helpful Jonathan- arohanui (love) from NZ!
OMG I just finished reading “The Untethered Soul” truly a Gem, I didn’t realized there was a book like so, why are so many asleep people around 😮 thanks for referring this book, loved every bit of it ❤
Jonathon your words of wisdom saved me from feeling used. Now, i know i am being loved .I won't be cod and alone in a Michigan Winter: Count down to the P in the V has started...and as time passes i feel so good, prepared...appreciating his patience and respect. is he reading your book...? he is still in the first chapter...the point he wants to go through the process ...Who am i to win the heart that middle seasoned attractive man with big blue eyes?.I am not that special...simply Jonathon channel showed up in our lives and our stars are aligning again. Thank you Jonathon...you are way better than some pastors out here...you provide value...and TRULY you are a spiritual being having a human experience.
I believe in all that you are saying. I am 62 and divorced 21 years, remarried and widowed 10 years. It is so hard to even get a date now. I go online and can’t get any dates from men my age. They were looking for women in their 50s or younger. I get discouraged, but I have finally learned to love myself. So, if I can’t find someone that I even slightly am attracted to. I love where I live and don’t want to look too far away. Any ideas on attracting more men here in my happy place?
Men are so sweet when they realise you are Really vulnerable.. Not needy. There is a difference. They enjoy a warrior in life to relate to.. Not a clingy, lazy, needy mentally dependant bulk.. much less an agressive, impolite girl who's insincere and unrealistic.
'There is always a blind vendee, for each blind vendor'. I did my best to translate it. It's a Turkish proverb and also my grandmother used to tell it a lot. We have many other proverbs like that, which means if you exist on earth there is always someone who is going to like you. Point is firstly allow yourself to see your intrinsic beauty, allow yourself to fall in love with your real self, as you said Jonathon. By the way great video, thanks a lot❤
It's hard to believe when I saw my test results turned negative of HSV2 after using the herbal medications I got from (Dr. Ani) a great doctor who I came across on UA-cam who help people get rid of their sickness thank you so much dr.aniherbalhome1@gmail.com for your wonderful work.
Johnathan….Golden nuggets of wisdom, thx u. I laughed out loud when listening to your answers to some of the final questions….priceless! It really is so hard to bump into your forever, right person. You have your beautiful person now, but we all feel the struggle. So happy for you! And thanks for the truth and the laughs!!
Perfect ! Thank you for this ! I just happened upon it and so glad I did ! 'We' are in a young 'relationship' and I'm elated to report we both exhibit all of your 6 topics...... This excites me.....and comforts me also ! Hopefully , we are on our way to establishing a solid foundation. Thank you for this vote of confidence ! Be well. J4
Excellent! I'd heard many advices of some famous relationship coaches, but Jon said it the best. Jon is straightforward & explained it thoroughly. He is very to the point! Good job, Jon!
Quite right…if you can’t be there for them for better or worse and vice versa ……it’s not love….love takes real time to build…..doesn’t happen overnight…but sexual attraction and lust yep that definitely does…..
Jonathon you provide good content...and we have to be tolerant to one another. I consider you as a messenger of a divine message. I like your style ...you are vulnerable...and real. You speak from experiences....i can't stand the so called " godly men" preaching to women. I want to learn from someone who went through the process.
So true. Mine kick me out when I could just walk on my broken ankle. And when he found out I had bowel cancer, that was the end. He lefted and walked into another relationship the next day.
Mine was sometimes vulnerable with me. He told me once after sex I was too good for him. Looking back I think he might of said that because he was cheating and he knew I was faithful and how much I loved him and how I was there for him through sickness and everything
Too good?maybe a lie, its his reason to go, he wants many women. Maybe yes, its true, he knows himself but he doesnt want you or love, or relationship, dont waste any minute any more on this guys and what he did. Forget. Be more realistic. Thats not love. Love yourself, and then you will find a good and right guy and a healthy relationship. We attached often to wrong guys.
Talking about how if a man loves you, he will be there when you need assistance or are having a rough time. That is all well and good, but what if you need the assistance of a man when you are simply getting acquainted, or a man you know socially. I have found that most men will decline that request with a few exceptions. My Grandfather, who was Scottish, lived with five Irish women (my Grandmother and her sisters) and they adored him because he was always there to help and he treated them with respect and a genuinely me like. He would always help a woman, family or no. He was the same with every woman, young to old. I noticed this growing up and decided that was the deciding factor for me in whether a man was really a man or a selfish beast. People wonder why women often live in fear; because she perceives that she will be alone in the world eventually and not be able to rely on men,; in general, to assist her, should she need it. My significant other(who passed in 2011) had that quality. He just treated people well, in general. I wish it was not so rare. Many men do not realize how their masculinity would just flourish if they practiced this. Lots of appreciation and smiles coming from the ladies too.
He didn't say "ask" for assistance. He said a man who loves you will be there for you. It's inappropriate to ask a man you're seeing casually for assistance, IMO. You don't even know him that well. Jonathan's speaking of people who are past the initial casual stage. He's talking over 100 hrs of time spent in person with each other, and who are emotionally attached. Not casual. Two very different things. I think men don't like weak women who can't do for themselves. I think they like women who are capable of handling their lives....except for certain things. Things that require strength, things that need emotional support from a partner. Those things cannot be handled by one person alone, esp the brute strength things. If you don't have a bf, you have to hire a handyman for the physical strength things.
@@donnab8345 Hi, Donna, What I am talking about is a man's general attitude towards women, not a particular citsinstance. It might have not been clear, and I was not saying that Jonathan was wrong in his observations snd knowledge. I was sinply saying that my Grandfather treated all women with respect and an attitude of service, should they need it. He was happy with that feeling, not what he would gain by it. To me that is the highest expression of masculinity.
It is better to trust your significant other to monitor his own behavior when away from you, than to try to control him. That is treating him like a child. This is not what most women do, however. Because of their own insecurity, it has to be ok with them what he does, or they will try to control him. This makes for an unhappy relationship. Neither of them is maturing.
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I love your honesty and your F-bombs..... you speak my language!
I absolutely love you! Everything you say resonates with me. I’ve watched a lot of counselors and read books and just found you on UA-cam and I love it! You are so right❣️❣️❣️
1. He wants to spend time with you
2. He doesn't act hot and cold
3. He feels safe to be vulnerable with his woman
4. He can honestly say his woman make him to be a better man
5. He protectives his woman
6. He gives that look "WOW"
Thank you! Took him forever to get there. 🙄
That's the best part of Jonathon. His squirrel moments.
Thanks. I don't have 90 minutes to hear him repeat things he's said in other videos.
💯 Debbie
“If you are not smiling about the guy you’re with, he is not your guy.” So true!
So, so true!
I would have loved to see you guys at that moment being vulnerable, emotional and holding hands in a moment of Sorrow. I love men who can do that and not be ashamed. That is very attractive to a woman.
It's sacred and precious when it is guenuine
Why would people complain about what you offer freely to us? You also tell everyone who you are up front. Why would anyone complain about f bombs when you tell them they might want to leave if they don’t like that?! Also….repeating is a necessary part of learning a new skill. I so appreciate all that you offer to us Jonathon! You’re so real and true and funny and I enjoy you so much. ❤
Awe... thank you 😊
I saw a post that said that if he looks at you like he's seeing a unicorn, that's a sign that he's falling for you.
I clearly remember turning to see that look on my friend's face before we became a couple. I just relaxed and returned the look. That's when I knew that I was feeling the same attraction. He still gives me that look several times a week.
When a man loves a woman, she’s the first thing he thinks of when he wakes up. She’ll be the first person he texts that morning.
Same feeling as for women
Sharing the love story of your parents' love throughout the years. ❤. The "wow" factor is precious.
Yes!
@@eileendry5627opi8
Jonathon don't change anything about yourself, you are PERFECT just the way you are. I love when you cuss to make a point...it makes me chuckle and that's a good thing!!
F bombs are a shock......
Found you yesterday and I have been binge watching you since. I love how real and brutally honest you are. It's like a breath of fresh air. Thank you!
Awe... thank you 😊
"If it comes from the heart, you can NEVER say the wrong things to the right person"
Exactly
Hey Jonathan, you are awesome❤❤
Here on a Sunday morning cleaning the bathroom and listening to this GEM. I am LOL continually with the yelling, the apologizing, the OMs, the Jonathan lady voice, the fbombs, the sweaty pits. Thank you JA.
He’s a decent human being 💕🦋
Jonathan, I watched this video from 3 years ago! This video went for 1 1/2 hours.
I remember all your videos that went on forever and we loved it.
Your lives were so fun and so many people watched your videos.🦋💕
Yes, it’s about time. Somebody said exactly what love is.
You are incredible ! WE need more men like you in the world.
Lo e your, advice..keep up the great work!!!
Appreciate it!
This is my husband's tablet ,but I use it all the time for crosswords and news and shows like yours. I would like so,much to talk with you. I agree with so much that you say. I've been married to a narcissist for almost 38 years. Think this is my last year. Can't take the craziness anymore. Thanks for listening. Elissa
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Your not egotistical, your a Leo . I’ve been watching your videos & I have adopted your teachings & broke off dating an avoidant. I took my power back & feel soo much better! Im hoping to meet a man with your qualities, Thank you 🙏
That picture of your mom and dad is spectacular! I honestly thought it was you, younger. Your mom looks beautiful and your dad handsome.
Thank you so much!!
I am getting so much out of your videos. I believe I'm in a very genuine space with my guy, though it's only been six weeks. I am great at giving him space, because I have the same need. I am learning to speak up if I feel my value isn't being honored or appreciated (which is very rare), and I can easily take text breaks. I just want to learn to do whatever else I need to do to foster positive and healthy habits to see if we end up continuing to grow together. I definitely have some defects that can be frustrating for him, after all they annoy me too). So far, it seems we could be on a great path. I'm going to continue to learn from you. Every time he does something for me, no matter how big or little, I let him know that I am grateful. Your affirmation that this is important is something I am grateful for. Thank you!
I may be wrong! I'm not sure my radar is working properly. Trouble in paradise.
The 6 ways:
1. He wants to spend time with you. He's not hot and cold. Is he wanting to spend more time with you or less time with you?
2. He's consistent with his actions and words.
3. He feels safe to be vulnerable with you. Vulnerability is sharing one's insecurities. One of the best doors to vulnerability is gratitude.
4. He can honestly say you make him want to be a better man.
5. He's protective of you.
6. He gives you that look of "WOW!". Not because you just got dressed up or getting ready to have sex or just had sex, but even after you've had 2 or 3 arguments.
I love how Jonathan is so strong and powerful in who he is as a person and coach. You don't show up as what people want from you. You show up as who you are. And if f bombs, cursing, swearing, making jokes and being real with your audience is who you are, he should be that. Not try to not swear and "sugar coat" things.
🙏
@@JonathonAslay I’m a 68 yr old widow and been dating a man who is 10 years younger which is no big deal. Im actually you feel in my energy then he is and we have had ups and downs like normal relationships have and thanks to you and your real talk . I love listening to you. Love your f bombs , you just crack me up and talk real at the same time. I enjoy every podcast and video. Keep it up from Toronto!
I love him too Brenda Lee
@@barbgrant8213you go girl 💕🦋
I kind of knew already. But the moment he shared a difficult subject with me and cried in my arms was such an intimate moment. I am so grateful for this. 😍
Oh, and in the end it's the small gestures: buying this salad servers cause he just thought I would like them etc....
He shows up at your door with flowers, he wants to see your smile as he gifts you... he wants to feel the joy of gifting....he wants to make you happy.... he's obsessed with making you smile with gifts, that's how you know he's crazy about you
You are a hero and remind me of the person who takes off his coat when a woman is cold. I’m so glad I’m listening to you and thank you.🦸♂️
You're right about falling in love, because everything falls break, but you can say growing in love, sounds much better.
Love takes time , but tell me when you just starting to know then , don’t go to far , just tell us how you know if the guy is into you when we just meet!
Thank you Jonathan! You’ve helped me a lot; to detect extreme infatuation for what it is! A hundred hours of getting to know a person is a basic standard for me now, or even a longer period! Yes! And my power is mine and should never be given away! And I’ll not idealise sex as a proof of love! The deeper trust is a must! Hot and cold behaviour is a warning sign! Greatfulness! Vulnerability! Keeping my bounderies! The inner work! That look of WOW!!!!My inner beuty!!!WOW! I feel 💪 You took me back to my own boundarises! Thank you so much! It works! I feel like a better woman! You’re WOW Jonathan!
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I literally wiped the vomit from my ex as he went through a stem cell transplant, I was there daily for as long as the hospital allowed, for 63 days, when only one of his grown children showed up once. As a retired nurse I did his daily care and was expected to do so by the staff, but I was happy to do this for him because I loved him. Come to find out he was exchanging love messages between 2 other women, as sick as he was, he still had the energy to cheat. Ironically, he was a former pastor. I have your books, and I love myself finally too much to even risk my heart again. I’d rather have a dog…they are loyal. And you are right…I gave away my power…I didn’t listen to my intuition over the 7 years we were together. I’m ok with being single…finally, and I’m happy.
I like what you share Jonathon! It's helping me a lot! I'm 46 and recently divorced, I want a healthy, happy relationship that will last the rest of my life. Your wisdom is appreciated 🙏 Thank you 😊
JA your videos are my daily 'pick me up'. You motivate me not only to be a stronger woman but you have shown me how to 'love my self' I'm grateful for your wisdom and advice! THANK YOU JA 🙏. PS swear as much as you want! I love it ❤
I learned a year ago, just because my heart is open, which in turn, my legs were open. I finally realized, just because I was feeling this, doesn't mean he was. But he "cared deeply" for me. I've run into that a couple of times. I end up being "the runner up"
Love your advice Jonathon.
I wish we could just hang out! Lol
My fiance cheated on me with two different women in 2019, I dumped him and have been single ever since. I currently study and work remotely and am a recluse. I have no idea how to reconnect to society. I am in my early 30's, smart, pretty(so I am told) and successful. But I have trust issues up the wazoo!
Date yourself. Prepare for nurture & entertain yourself. Your suitor will appear when you're in your element
You are so brave. You’re reconnecting by being vulnerable and sharing your story on this platform. My fiancé also cheated on me early in our relationship and while I’ve chosen to forgive, I still feel the impact of his actions. You are powerful and brave!
I love the fact of 100 hours face-to-face time to know if he is falling in love with you and vice versa.
After a long day at work, I am very grateful and appreciative to have you share this list here. It resonates deeply with me - especially #6. I remember when my late husband first gave me the "wow" look and I asked him why he was staring at me the way he was. What he said made me speechless...something that's not easy to do...lol. I know I have been giving my power away and have been completely clueless when I started looking for a man again. I will do my best to use this complete list in the future and no longer give my power away and stand in my sovereignty. Thank you again Jonathon - YOU ROCK!!! 🎸☺👍
You crack me up! Great content!
Glad you enjoyed
Jonathon your repeating your explanation is a very good way that what you are sharing as a coach is a very good thing to do.
Your mother is beautiful! 💕🦋
38:26 omg your exuberant expression of frustration here has me laughing hysterically 😂
Jonathan, of course you are making a difference. Your heart says that all the time. Your words are also eloquent. ♥️
Wow, thank you
The first 22 minutes of this video made me cry with relief from the resonance!!! My boyfriend hasn't been vulnerable with me since we started out as friends. He sometimes expects me to know him well and he sometimes thinks he knows me, then becomes stunned when he sees he was pegging me wrong. We've had at least five hours for 25 days spread out for 12 months. We haven't had sex, at all. Thank God because we haven't really talked about a relationship, other than we want marriage "with someone." Maybe I shouldn't even call him my boyfriend. He's been busy, but also with other women he's dating, so he says.
"If you're not smiling about your guy you're with, then, he ISN'T your guy! " 😂😂😂
Ex
Thank you so much, Jonathon. Your videos always awesome!
Mr. Jonathan Aslay , if most of our women had you be big brother, we are lucky, thanks you so much for sharing your great experience to everyone, you are nice.
"Get busy living or get busy dying!" You nailed it, Jonathan!
You are awesome, Jonathon! Keep encourage us to do it the right way
I am stunned people have the odasity to complain. I guess the truth really hurts some people. The truth will set you free!
Audacity
I think Pastors/ Priest and Religion leaders needs to start teaching young people about relationship about what to allowed and what not to allowed. Good points. I love your videos.
But how can they talk about relationships when they have never had one???🦋💕
I listened to the audio book The Untethered soul’ thank you so much for bringing it to my attention! I’ve shared it with many friends struggling with the lockdowns! Most helpful Jonathan- arohanui (love) from NZ!
I also believe that a relationship is a TWO-WAY STREET! It has to be a "give and take" thing.
Jonathon, you are my go to relationship guru. This is AMAZING. I'm so grateful for your content ❤
Wow, thank you!
I can’t believe how many people don’t ask real questions
Timing is everything!
I ask real questions but a lotta people are full of 💩 and will lie so you wind up in the same position unfortunately either way 😢
Enjoy listening to you..just started few wks ago..keep the truth going Johnathan...
Yes, I believe when you can just think of someone and say wow then you know you are in love.
You are awesome Jonathan. I love your ‘F’ bombs and excitement for the truth. You provide great content. LOVE IT! 😊
My friend looks at me with a Wow! I can feel the love between us but it is a platonic friendship and always will be.
OMG I just finished reading “The Untethered Soul” truly a Gem, I didn’t realized there was a book like so, why are so many asleep people around 😮 thanks for referring this book, loved every bit of it ❤
Indeed 🙏
Jonathon your words of wisdom saved me from feeling used. Now, i know i am being loved .I won't be cod and alone in a Michigan Winter: Count down to the P in the V has started...and as time passes i feel so good, prepared...appreciating his patience and respect. is he reading your book...? he is still in the first chapter...the point he wants to go through the process ...Who am i to win the heart that middle seasoned attractive man with big blue eyes?.I am not that special...simply Jonathon channel showed up in our lives and our stars are aligning again. Thank you Jonathon...you are way better than some pastors out here...you provide value...and TRULY you are a spiritual being having a human experience.
I believe in all that you are saying. I am 62 and divorced 21 years, remarried and widowed 10 years. It is so hard to even get a date now. I go online and can’t get any dates from men my age. They were looking for women in their 50s or younger. I get discouraged, but I have finally learned to love myself. So, if I can’t find someone that I even slightly am attracted to. I love where I live and don’t want to look too far away. Any ideas on attracting more men here in my happy place?
I like your show. You tend to over explain yourself. Us women are pretty intelligent.
Jonathan is just the best!!get busy living or get busy dying - love that quote ❤
Men are so sweet when they realise you are Really vulnerable.. Not needy. There is a difference. They enjoy a warrior in life to relate to.. Not a clingy, lazy, needy mentally dependant bulk.. much less an agressive, impolite girl who's insincere and unrealistic.
Exactly
Best compliment my Man ever gave
"You're not need" He always returns
I was marred for 60 years from 18 to 70 he passed in 2021 miss him very much he was the only one in my whole life my sole mate
You were blessed 🙌
You absolutely were blessed 💕🦋
You are so funny 😂. I love watching your video’s. I’m a new subscriber. If I’m having a bad day or need advice I go to your video’s first.
Thanks for subbing!
Jonathan is hysterical, I laugh watching him all the time. 💕🦋
'There is always a blind vendee, for each blind vendor'.
I did my best to translate it. It's a Turkish proverb and also my grandmother used to tell it a lot. We have many other proverbs like that, which means if you exist on earth there is always someone who is going to like you. Point is firstly allow yourself to see your intrinsic beauty, allow yourself to fall in love with your real self, as you said Jonathon. By the way great video, thanks a lot❤
Thank you... btw, my parents are from Istanbul
Sorry they moved to US. You could be in Istanbul
Even though I’m Greek , that’s a pretty good Turkish proverb.
Watched many of your videos J
This so far for me is the best, cause everything you've shared is how I feel and look at life. THANK YOU 🌹
Heck yeah, people reveal themselves all the time!! Especially in veiled humor or twisted rhetoric.
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Found your information very insightful. Looking into some of the books recommended. I Have a new perspective.
Johnathan….Golden nuggets of wisdom, thx u. I laughed out loud when listening to your answers to some of the final questions….priceless! It really is so hard to bump into your forever, right person. You have your beautiful person now, but we all feel the struggle. So happy for you! And thanks for the truth and the laughs!!
Glad you enjoyed it
You are right. People often pull away when they don't care. Mm
Yes
You speak your truth and I love it 😻
I love it you call it as it is. 😂
QUESTION - love languages - what’s the point if your own language is not catered to in some way.
Good point
Thanks!
Perfect ! Thank you for this ! I just happened upon it and so glad I did ! 'We' are in a young 'relationship' and I'm elated to report we both exhibit all of your 6 topics......
This excites me.....and comforts me also ! Hopefully , we are on our way to establishing a solid foundation. Thank you for this vote of confidence ! Be well. J4
You're so welcome!
Excellent!
I'd heard many advices of some famous relationship coaches, but Jon said it the best.
Jon is straightforward & explained it thoroughly.
He is very to the point!
Good job, Jon!
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Amen
It certainly resonates with me. Thank you
You are so welcome
Amazing video, thanks for sharing.
"Repetition is the mother of skill" 👍🏼👏🏼
📞 Jonathon! I met a great guy and you’re awesome! Thank you for sharing your experience and keep doing it with a passion!
Love how real you are! Being straight forward and sincere saves time and any doubts! Thank you!
Great video. Hit the nail on the head. Thank you.
Robin, I am short and it’s not really a bad thing we’re called “fun size” 🤣🎉
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No 6 is awesome Jonathan. Thank you so much for sharing. ♥️💯🇬🇧
haha you have the most liberating personality, Jonathon! If adopting strangers for brothers was a thing I would choose you
Awe... thank you 😊
"That is not a question!" LOL. I love it when he gets irritated. And he's right! Posting a simple statement is not asking a question.
Jonathon we see at least 100 hours of you so your fans just love you.😀
awe... thanks
Ahaha you're so candid, I like how you spill the beans, reality bites really
Quite right…if you can’t be there for them for better or worse and vice versa ……it’s not love….love takes real time to build…..doesn’t happen overnight…but sexual attraction and lust yep that definitely does…..
When Harry Met Sally. My absolutely favorite movie 🍿💕
He's growing closer than I thought. 8 months in.
Jonathon you provide good content...and we have to be tolerant to one another. I consider you as a messenger of a divine message. I like your style ...you are vulnerable...and real. You speak from experiences....i can't stand the so called " godly men" preaching to women. I want to learn from someone who went through the process.
So true. Mine kick me out when I could just walk on my broken ankle. And when he found out I had bowel cancer, that was the end. He lefted and walked into another relationship the next day.
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That wasn't a partner. 😑 Take time to heal... 💝 Big Hugz
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Your "slowly fading away...." moves and emoting are So incorporating the best parts of The Twilight Zone. 👏💫
Mine was sometimes vulnerable with me. He told me once after sex I was too good for him. Looking back I think he might of said that because he was cheating and he knew I was faithful and how much I loved him and how I was there for him through sickness and everything
Too good?maybe a lie, its his reason to go, he wants many women. Maybe yes, its true, he knows himself but he doesnt want you or love, or relationship, dont waste any minute any more on this guys and what he did. Forget. Be more realistic. Thats not love. Love yourself, and then you will find a good and right guy and a healthy relationship. We attached often to wrong guys.
No he didn't leave me or want me to go but didn't offer to quit cheating that's why I left him
@@reginawoess4928 this guy is so bad
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Jonathan, I luv your umph
Talking about how if a man loves you, he will be there when you need assistance or are having a rough time. That is all well and good, but what if you need the assistance of a man when you are simply getting acquainted, or a man you know socially. I have found that most men will decline that request with a few exceptions. My Grandfather, who was Scottish, lived with five Irish women (my Grandmother and her sisters) and they adored him because he was always there to help and he treated them with respect and a genuinely me like. He would always help a woman, family or no. He was the same with every woman, young to old. I noticed this growing up and decided that was the deciding factor for me in whether a man was really a man or a selfish beast. People wonder why women often live in fear; because she perceives that she will be alone in the world eventually and not be able to rely on men,; in general, to assist her, should she need it. My significant other(who passed in 2011) had that quality. He just treated people well, in general. I wish it was not so rare. Many men do not realize how their masculinity would just flourish if they practiced this. Lots of appreciation and smiles coming from the ladies too.
He didn't say "ask" for assistance. He said a man who loves you will be there for you. It's inappropriate to ask a man you're seeing casually for assistance, IMO. You don't even know him that well. Jonathan's speaking of people who are past the initial casual stage. He's talking over 100 hrs of time spent in person with each other, and who are emotionally attached. Not casual. Two very different things. I think men don't like weak women who can't do for themselves. I think they like women who are capable of handling their lives....except for certain things. Things that require strength, things that need emotional support from a partner. Those things cannot be handled by one person alone, esp the brute strength things. If you don't have a bf, you have to hire a handyman for the physical strength things.
@@donnab8345 Hi, Donna, What I am talking about is a man's general attitude towards women, not a particular citsinstance. It might have not been clear, and I was not saying that Jonathan was wrong in his observations snd knowledge. I was sinply saying that my Grandfather treated all women with respect and an attitude of service, should they need it. He was happy with that feeling, not what he would gain by it. To me that is the highest expression of masculinity.
It is better to trust your significant other to monitor his own behavior when away from you, than to try to control him. That is treating him like a child. This is not what most women do, however. Because of their own insecurity, it has to be ok with them what he does, or they will try to control him. This makes for an unhappy relationship. Neither of them is maturing.
I like the "vulnerable with you" sign.
He always wow to me after yrars we know each other❤❤
Oh come on Jonathan, break dance, show me your moves, lol💕🦋