@@gemdom6585 All my life I have been abused, first my mother use to beat my face in with her fist! I can remember back to being 10 months old!!!! I never understood why she hated me so much! She died at 70 with stomach cancer!!!!! I worked 14 hours a day and went by her house to make sure dinner was prepared and cleaned her house from her dogs pooping! She never said will you help me. God never failed me...
I needed to hear this truth 50 years ago. Yet I praise God for my 3 beautiful children. I praise Him even more for showing up & showing off throughout my whole life. All my life He was,He is,and He always will be my perfect peace. AMEN!
I’ll be talking about a man and the woman in the world or I’ll be talking about God I thought this comment this passage was about dealing with a human man a man with desires needs wants and lust with lustful thinking and for lustful ways😮😢
YEEEEEEES PRAISE THE ALMIGHTY FATHER GOD FOR ALL THINGS ARE TRULY POSSIBLE WITH FATHER GOD HIS SON JESUS AND THE GIFT THE HOLY SPIRIT AMEN THANK YOU LORD AMEN I,WE ARE WISHING YOU ALL THE BEAUTIFUL BLESSINGS ,LOVE ❤AND ALL PEACE ✌ 🎉🎉🎉
Ive been through all the things you are talking about I've bn with my husband for 22yrs in dating and marriage but he was so obsessed and power hungry to dominate in the relationship insecure never wanted to give me my space to Thrive . Iventually i left with 4 children started over at 40yrs in another city bcoz he was abusive couldnt let me go . I escaped and lived as a fugitive for 5yrs until he passed away in 5yrs thats when my normal life began . I was empty and broken but God we doesnt fail on his promises gave strength each day and i walked the journey looking up to him . Am now 61yrs happy of the decision i took 20yrs ago and am still learning each day what life has instore for me ❤❤❤
O, God , so many of you,, this is my story" that's why the marriage is, to understand and love when it is difficult to do this, not only in good times😊😊😊😊😊
Being human is not human is being insane and an insane world, which is full of hate why because so many people want what they want do what they want to do and don’t really know why they’re doing it
I am a very happy person, but my husband is the opposite. I read you loud and clear. Even though i am 73yrs old. He is angry because i went out of town to teach, and yesterday he told me is still angry about that. So, i told him to go live at the farm house. Its sad, he missed my birthaday, so i am stepp8ng back because he is so unhappy. So, you are right, I will continue on my journey. Such a shame. I think he is such an unhappy person. I have to leave no matter what.
It's so sad we allow our so called husband to love us I tend to keep picking the wrong ones...from my 5 yr childhood to my first marriage to my 2nd marriage I picked alcoholics and Narcissistic abusers thinking I could change them I keep hoping I will become strong it's so hard I'm a good person but to good..I wish you the best
Yes everything he states is me lonely I'm not young sadly ai can't find the right one...hopefully I can stay strong by listening to Denzel Washington and all you who share his ideas on your channels thank you!!!
For some reason, you think this message is just for women! Wrong!! It’s for Men and Women!! I understand it isn’t easy living with an unhappy person! Your husband might be unhappy because of the exact reason, that this video is saying! Maybe you should try sharing this message with him, instead of rejecting him ! Showing compassion for others is part of being happy!
I have always loved Denzel Washington. I really enjoyed this motivational speech. I am divorced after a 18 year marriage. I wish I would have listened to this before I committed to marriage. Denzel speaks the truth so plainly. All the signs of a toxic relationship were there before marriage. Fortunately, Denzel not only warns against toxic relationships, he motivates the listener to move forward after experiencing one. Thank you Denzel. Keep being the wonderful man that you are.
maybe we as some women.my husband has me about as spoil as our grown son and daughter.36 years of marriage and my children's doesn't help make it any better😂 I am one spoil mother wife.yes Blessed. Blessed Blessed🙏🏾
I had to learn the hard way.. everything Denzel is saying is the truth..I was co,-dependent for 27 years..I just lost who I was,.my husband passed away..I loved him very much...but I was never really happy 😢..
Thank you Denzel. I am 79yrs old. When I was 31 I quit my 7 yrs marriage and have since then lived with a stigma of refusing my ex husband to marry a second wife. I wish all ladies could hear this message. My daughter will surely get this talk. Blessings
I have listened to what has been said... this applies to men also...some men give there every thing and work for every thing and some women forget that the man is just not there to provide money
Yeah , some men work hard to provide for the wife and kids and when they got home , they need a calm and loving support, not only complaints and demands, and ,, bye bye"😊😊😊😊😊😊
Choose your self first and know your self wort. Happiness comes from within you and not from people ladies. Don't be afraid to be alone. Thanks sir 🙏🙏❤❤
It's so true I did all of the things hus talking about but at the end I left but empty bcoz I poured a my cup 🥤 of life to him and I got drained left at 40yrs and start over am now 61yrs happy at the decision I took then viz I hv peace something I nvr had around him 😢
Been abused by my father, then my husband! Just went with the flow to survive! Thank you! You’ve showed me I am worth something! 43 years of just going with the flow to survive!
This good stuff! I see that the more independent I became, the more he disliked it. Finally, he accepted it and our marriage was much greater. We were partners then, as it should be. We started to work together, not just me trying to please him. In the end, he was wonderful.
Everything hè said in this video was for me. 3 years of suffering. I want to divorce him hè don’t let me go and trying to convince me I have it all wrong. Hé do nothing in this house and with his life. I carried the whole house and costs on my shoulders. I’m tired.
@@carolsmith4119 life is a gift from Jesus Christ... I have blamed myself for years for the abuse I have insured through the years..... the older I get the wiser.... like a friend use to say, I didn't get this far by being dumb 🥰❤️😇💋
GOD first. You are right Denzel. I learned the hard way and I opened my eyes. I'm ready for someone who has more than me. Not a man who has less than me.
So so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so true 💯
I did all of the 😂above and lost myself yes my resentment built up until I felt I was nothing. I am taking your advice in all the things you are teaching us. I can become a full cup with much work. Thank you.
I have done this make myself small so he feels big. This wasnt a marriage ordain by God, and it ended in divorce. Denzel has an amazing connection with God. He speaks well.
This is very true,we many women av already failed ourselves trying to make happy monster husbands,young ladies watch out u av time to make choice for ur life
Thank you! This is powerful! I have to step back & reexamine myself! I have to ask a lot of questions. This made me real emotional. I will listen to this several times!
@Now I read your post and smiled when you said you have to reexamine yourself and ask yourself a lot of questions. I love it. ❤ I smiled because I wrote a book, which was recently published 100 Thought-Provoking questions. I will not put the full title because this format is not for advertising. I pray my book gets into the hands that are ready for a change in their lives. Your post is a confirmation that the book wasn't written and published in vain. Sending you much love on your self-awareness journey. ❤❤
@ thank you for responding in such a timely manner. I love this person, but I have to ask a lot of questions as well. I want this person to know that my life is very valuable and that I too value his life. But I do not have time for games and I do not have time for anyone that is not truly in it for sincere purposes. We plan to marry soon and so I have to examine myself and make sure this is what I wanna do as well as ask him series of questions to make sure he’s sincere and this is what he truly wants to do. I was married for 33 years and my husband passed away and now I’m ready to go on a journey with someone who’s gonna be totally committed to myself, as well as myself being totally committed to him. I wish we could communicate outside of this line so I could ask you some in-depth questions instead of exposing them on this site…. if you’re able to communicate with me in such a manner, please let me know, if this is the case I will kindly send you my email address. Thank you and have a great day!
@nowatalady, Yo do that, listen to it many times. It’s essential to learn these things while still young. It’s painful to run from a relationship but your self respect, dignity and values comes first If one doesn’t respect oneself the other person has no reason to respect you. A man admires and treasures a woman who has dignity, principles, self esteem and values. Never accept any less. Be proud of yourself.
You’re never alone when u choose yourself, it takes strength to make a decision to stand 🆙 instead of choosing to lay down. It’s the power of choice. Ppl can’t walk on u if ur not choosing to be a door mat. Amen, powerful words 💪🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥
Thank you sir for your sound words of encouragement. I will re-register and retrieve the draft proposal of my doctorate degree that has been shelved for 10 years while I'm a home executive from supporting my husband to our town up children to our grandchildren while deep down I wish to have long hours in a library just doing my research and accomplishing a need to address social ills impacting humanity especially the marginalised and discarded. The last time I finished a manuscript my husband was in medical care. I will sit on the waiting area and write as if my life depended on the manuscript. He recovered by the Grace of God but even after publication he forgot a simple word to say congrats how did you manage!
Thank you so much Denzel.What a good lesson I learned today. I don't need a man to show me my worth.I have been there trying to please others but I took a bold decision at the age of 67 that I should start celebrating my worth and be happy with myself in this journey.
I left my then husband many years ago because of his controlling abusive cruel behaviour the best thing I ever did unfortunately my son is trying to behave the same way towards me putting me down deeming me trying to control me so even it means that by loosing a relationship with him my daughter in law and grandchildren iv 24:05 e distanc 24:11 ed myself from him it’s very painful but I refuse to be controlled and by him thank you for the video
So so so true,i realized that being alone which i was for over 20yrs now that i sacrifice my goals for my husband who still left me with to young children and the other relationship was just as consuming so i had to walk away and he kept coming and coming,he was obsessed because he didn't want someone else to have me,i saw how dangerous it was becoming,halliluia i got out and stayed alone with my two children
In 2019 I was with someone who was playing mind play with me and hitting me the church help me to get way from him I have someone who is very nice to be how so I understand why some woman are on there own may the Lords face shine on you Denzel and your family god bless you and your family 🙏❤️🙏
Thank you. Some of these changes have help me come up from the dark world I was in. God helped me emencialy I know the light exists 🙏. I'm no longer under the bus.I have worth to offer to myself and others. Thank you Abba 😊 amen 🙏
Thanks Denzel. I've been so very vital in shaping and guiding so many people in my lifetime then watch those same people turn around and talk negatively to me as if they're above me. I made sacrifices in my life put my children while working endless hours of overtime as a nurse ,schools like NYU,Cornell University and Upstate Medical University and then things were said to me that actually made me cry when I'm alone. Everything that you said in parts has applied to me and my ways of not hitting back because I don't like hurting people's feelings. That's God in me. At the same time I was hurting inside, crying when I'm alone and pretending that it's okay when it was not. I felt as though you were talking directly to me. I gave so very much of myself to everyone in my family and beyond who ever needed me but what you said is so very true because they used me then they all one by one turned away because I put their worth before my own. It's hard to acknowledge things sometimes but I take my hat of to you because you hit the nail on the head. You gave me a new strength to follow because I deserve it. I wish I could tell you some things that I went through it's too much to write but in spite of it all there's a fighter in me who knows that I deserve better. Thanks for everything that you do you were chosen to do God's work. I can feel it in my spirit. I listened because you are my favorite actor but I listened I realized because you were chosen for this part also by God Almighty himself. Continue to lead your voice is commanding I could not put down my phone because everything you said was true and real. Congratulations my love, you've helped me more than you know. I am going to call the shots from now on. Amen. Much love and appreciation to you always Blessings to you and your family always. ❤❤❤❤❤
My husband never respect and appreciate me. We married for 17 year no honeymoon , no holiday, no anniversary, no birthday celebration and no pocket money and no money for ingredients for daily meal. I just finished 3 exams I take a my exam paper send to my husband and children. No reply and when I back non of them happy for me. Everyday I cook for them they greedy for foods and never say thank you or say yummy or delicious. But he say no need to say. I feel so hurt. After I try to tell he how he hurt me , he reply me he don't know how to respect and appreciate people . I been isolated myself at my mom house alone. I feel so disappointed
I'm so sorry, you went through that too, I'm going through the same thing. No appreciation, always wanting from me more. And I'm still here , don't have the guts to leave. I thought I was the only one going through this
Am also going through such my sister's I almost feel into depression my husband cares for another woman who don't know the half of how I suffered for him to be where he is today now he as money he doesn't give me money nor care for my needs within 7yrs he as touched just 4 times 😭😭😭😭 but spend more loving time with the girlfriend he as no respect for me at all he insults me and raise his hands on me after 3 boys we gave birth too he as broken me and am shattered and hide my pains.
@@phinailoya4757 I'm so sorry what keep me going is that I have Jesus in my heart. And he gives me the strength and his love to keep on going trusting in him. I will be praying for you
People respect you when you love, respect and appreciate yourself, you must dig deep and find self love, find true Joy within and you will shine, don't let anyone dim your light, do not continue to give your energy to darkness because you will be drained and it's not worth your happiness, I pray that you all can find it in yourself to choose yourself, Blessings to you ladies 🙏🏾
💯💯💯💯% TRUTH! Listen and take in what this man of wisdom is saying. The truth hurts, but it's right and needs to be said! Kudos 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 for sharing and open our eyes 👀 to reality. 🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow, that was a lot of good sound advice, don't be deceived, it's gonna take a lot of revelation from above and humility to fulfill that vision, and yes it's possible, but not without God. Amen! Glory to our heavenly Father.
I listened to your whole video and your absolutely correct! All I ask for in a relationship with a guy is truth and honestly. If he can't deliver I move on and not wasting my time for him! I am comfortable in my own skin and will not tolerate people who don't to hear the truth. Thank you for your video and I pray more women can stand up for themselves! 🙏🏼❤️
I am tired of people not respecting me take advantage of me this was so long ago but I had to step up and what you say is so very true if you cannot stand up for yourself you lose your worth I knew that from a long time ago so therefore I stayed away from that crowd
Never settle for less! I use to tell my husband I dersever my respect and that I treat him like A King which he was not! But I bet you I got my Respect from him before he pass away.And that he should treat me like A Queen.
Denzel is a powerfully empowering lecturer, definitely worth listening !❤
He is fabulous.
God, first, then everything falls in Devine order. Denzel speaks truth. 😊
@@enomierosenthal7795 Amen God first 👍🏾you speak the truth as well Queen 👑 I approve this message🙏🏾😄
@@enomierosenthal7795 yes!
Yes Lord
Amen, stop searching and seek God. God will handle the rest ❤❤
Sound information BUT that’s not Denzel Washington speaking! #ijs😮
Ladies this is great advice. We should NEVER stop being who we really are so that a man can feel better about himself.
I was that woman. Lots of regrets. I am alone now and happy. God is good. Thank you Denzel .
I hope to be that woman soon.
I’m happy and proud and you and others there strength.
Me too!😀
Amen! And thank you! 👏👏👏
Because of Denzel's motivated quote's I have learnt a lot and try to do better...Best advices and truthful indeed 👍
😢 regret nothing do the best that you can and always always believe in yourself. Be your best friend.
This is worth both women and men and girls and boys to listen to.
Great for
PRE COUNSELING.
Very very true 👍👍. Women wake up and take this advice seriously. Never let anyone control your happiness or your life.
@@gemdom6585 for sure 😃😊
@@gemdom6585 All my life I have been abused, first my mother use to beat my face in with her fist! I can remember back to being 10 months old!!!! I never understood why she hated me so much! She died at 70 with stomach cancer!!!!! I worked 14 hours a day and went by her house to make sure dinner was prepared and cleaned her house from her dogs pooping! She never said will you help me. God never failed me...
Yes Lord sister hell I been woke so I no he ant lieing I been there.
Such life lessons should be taught in schools.
Yes, I heard this from my parents. I am happy to hear a man of God speak it.
Value yourself no one deserves to be mistreated no one
Sooo true 👍.
You are speaking Truth. The truth sets us free. Continue to be God’s vessel.Amen!
I needed to hear this truth 50 years ago. Yet I praise God for my 3 beautiful children. I praise Him even more for showing up & showing off throughout my whole life. All my life He was,He is,and He always will be my perfect peace. AMEN!
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I’ll be talking about a man and the woman in the world or I’ll be talking about God I thought this comment this passage was about dealing with a human man a man with desires needs wants and lust with lustful thinking and for lustful ways😮😢
Thank you mr D washinton God Bless you sound words be bless happy new year to you and family
We love you here in Trinidad and Tobago
YEEEEEEES PRAISE THE ALMIGHTY FATHER GOD FOR ALL THINGS ARE TRULY POSSIBLE WITH FATHER GOD HIS SON JESUS AND THE GIFT THE HOLY SPIRIT AMEN THANK YOU LORD AMEN I,WE ARE WISHING YOU ALL THE BEAUTIFUL BLESSINGS ,LOVE ❤AND ALL PEACE ✌ 🎉🎉🎉
Ive been through all the things you are talking about I've bn with my husband for 22yrs in dating and marriage but he was so obsessed and power hungry to dominate in the relationship insecure never wanted to give me my space to Thrive . Iventually i left with 4 children started over at 40yrs in another city bcoz he was abusive couldnt let me go . I escaped and lived as a fugitive for 5yrs until he passed away in 5yrs thats when my normal life began . I was empty and broken but God we doesnt fail on his promises gave strength each day and i walked the journey looking up to him .
Am now 61yrs happy of the decision i took 20yrs ago and am still learning each day what life has instore for me ❤❤❤
You just told my story 👍
You just told my story 👍
❤ The Truth will definitely make you Free..Densil is definitely right..
O, God , so many of you,, this is my story" that's why the marriage is, to understand and love when it is difficult to do this, not only in good times😊😊😊😊😊
💯% FACTS
Dear everyone who reads this, we don't know each other but I wish you all the best in life and happiness🌼
Being human is not human is being insane and an insane world, which is full of hate why because so many people want what they want do what they want to do and don’t really know why they’re doing it
Thank you, and same to you 👍🏾🙏🏾🤗
❤❤❤
ThankYou and I sent back the same greeting to you.
Back at cha
I am a very happy person, but my husband is the opposite. I read you loud and clear. Even though i am 73yrs old. He is angry because i went out of town to teach, and yesterday he told me is still angry about that. So, i told him to go live at the farm house. Its sad, he missed my birthaday, so i am stepp8ng back because he is so unhappy. So, you are right, I will continue on my journey. Such a shame. I think he is such an unhappy person. I have to leave no matter what.
So sorry. I pray that he will change.
It's so sad we allow our so called husband to love us I tend to keep picking the wrong ones...from my 5 yr childhood to my first marriage to my 2nd marriage I picked alcoholics and Narcissistic abusers thinking I could change them I keep hoping I will become strong it's so hard I'm a good person but to good..I wish you the best
Yes everything he states is me lonely I'm not young sadly ai can't find the right one...hopefully I can stay strong by listening to Denzel Washington and all you who share his ideas on your channels thank you!!!
For some reason, you think this message is just for women! Wrong!! It’s for Men and Women!! I understand it isn’t easy living with an unhappy person! Your husband might be unhappy because of the exact reason, that this video is saying! Maybe you should try sharing this message with him, instead of rejecting him ! Showing compassion for others is part of being happy!
Whoa. This is facts. Opening my eyes to see more. "Go for the best."
I have always loved Denzel Washington. I really enjoyed this motivational speech. I am divorced after a 18 year marriage. I wish I would have listened to this before I committed to marriage. Denzel speaks the truth so plainly. All the signs of a toxic relationship were there before marriage. Fortunately, Denzel not only warns against toxic relationships, he motivates the listener to move forward after experiencing one. Thank you Denzel. Keep being the wonderful man that you are.
it's all true Denzel.
I am divorcing after 37 years, and looking forward to finding out who I am.
I think we as women get wanting to keep our men happy and being a co-dependent mixed up…this is an eye opening…Thank you Mr. Denzel
maybe we as some women.my husband has me about as spoil as our grown son and daughter.36 years of marriage and my children's doesn't help make it any better😂 I am one spoil mother wife.yes Blessed. Blessed Blessed🙏🏾
@@naturalqueen482
You are lucky and blessed ✨💖😉
I had to learn the hard way.. everything Denzel is saying is the truth..I was co,-dependent for 27 years..I just lost who I was,.my husband passed away..I loved him very much...but I was never really happy 😢..
This is so very true ..Id rather be by myself...then put up with the nonsense... life is short to short for the madness
😂 who really wants to be by their self get real wake up
Some really do! I know them. They are not alone, just not with a man!!
The Lord is always with you!❤🙏🏽 you have to have him as your foundation in your relationship
Thank you Denzel. I am 79yrs old. When I was 31 I quit my 7 yrs marriage and have since then lived with a stigma of refusing my ex husband to marry a second wife. I wish all ladies could hear this message. My daughter will surely get this talk. Blessings
I was married to man with whom I compromise my life for
Fifty years of marriage.He is dead now. I am free.Thank you Sir.Thats true.Praise God.
After twenty years of neglect in my marriage, feels good to be alone. ❤I sleep better now.
@@Foxie635 me too
I hear you stay strong 💪 sis.
Good for you, Sis!❤
Same here, tomorrow is my twentieth divorce anniversary 🎉, I could never be happy than this, regretting all my previous years
I have listened to what has been said... this applies to men also...some men give there every thing and work for every thing and some women forget that the man is just not there to provide money
Yeah , some men work hard to provide for the wife and kids and when they got home , they need a calm and loving support, not only complaints and demands, and ,, bye bye"😊😊😊😊😊😊
YOU ARE A GOOD COUNSELLOR
Choose your self first and know your self wort. Happiness comes from within you and not from people ladies. Don't be afraid to be alone. Thanks sir 🙏🙏❤❤
Thank you for reminding us to choose first our self that’s very important. 🙏❤️❤️❤️💯
Awesome commentary! I heard every words loud and clear and I live it to the fullest! ASE’
It's so true I did all of the things hus talking about but at the end I left but empty bcoz I poured a my cup 🥤 of life to him and I got drained left at 40yrs and start over am now 61yrs happy at the decision I took then viz I hv peace something I nvr had around him 😢
For sure, oneself first. No one to shake me and destroy my life.
God First in my life, and everything else come behind it, Amen 🙏 🙌 Hallelujah 😇🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️
Hallelujah ❤❤yes praise ❤Jah❤
Glory be to Jehova
We agree.❤❤
Amen, Amen and Amen🙏🙏🙏
Amen
Right on! We are so often afraid of the unknown we stay stuck where we are. There is always something better, it’s called peace and self respect.
@@shellshelly5552 so true.....
@@shellshelly5552 life is so precious 💞💕💞💕🥰❤️
I do agree I think everyone on here listening also does,that's why we are all here on UA-cam listening to Denzels advice
Facts❤
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT! ❤💯
Both men and women should honor each other.
A man should not treat her like a maid and a woman should not treat him like a homeboy !
AMEN AMEN AMEN 🙏🏿 🙌🏽
I love this 👍🏽👍🏽
I have accepted that, and people will try to bring you down.
People will be jealous of you for being happy.
Yes Ma’am!
Let them be jealous.
Thank you Mr. Denzel!!!😊❤
Amen!! Yes jealousy is a whole disease!
"Jealousy" of any kind is in the Fugley File of personality traits... opposite of the 'Twelve Avenues of Bliss'
So very true what Denzel's saying. Honesty always is supreme.
Been abused by my father, then my husband! Just went with the flow to survive! Thank you! You’ve showed me I am worth something! 43 years of just going with the flow to survive!
You have just described me. And it’s been ruff being under narcissistic control. It will drive u insane. I pray for happiness for us both 🫠👍🙏❤️
❤❤me too....but I'm 😢 still thriving and so r u❤❤❤.....praise Jah ❤❤❤❤
I've through the same as you. It made me very bitter and couldn't forgive easily, but thanks to Jesus Christ, whom I accepted as my Savior
All values I have strived for all my life and instill in others.
Thank you Denzel for your eloquent words of wisdom.
I am living in my peace. Amen
Very important messages to all women to know your worth! Thank you Denzel!👏👍!
This good stuff! I see that the more independent I became, the more he disliked it. Finally, he accepted it and our marriage was much greater. We were partners then, as it should be. We started to work together, not just me trying to please him. In the end, he was wonderful.
I feel sad about the elder lady thing should be much better since you have grown old together
A man don't want his mate to be independent he wants her. All ti him self
Everything hè said in this video was for me. 3 years of suffering. I want to divorce him hè don’t let me go and trying to convince me I have it all wrong. Hé do nothing in this house and with his life. I carried the whole house and costs on my shoulders. I’m tired.
He hits every point you can't go wrong if you follow what he says and put God first🙏🙏❤️🥇
Absolutely true! I can relate! Wished I had heard this when I was younger, but it’s never too late as long as you have life. ❤❤❤❤
Amen to that. I feel you.
@@carolsmith4119 life is a gift from Jesus Christ... I have blamed myself for years for the abuse I have insured through the years..... the older I get the wiser.... like a friend use to say, I didn't get this far by being dumb 🥰❤️😇💋
GOD first. You are right Denzel. I learned the hard way and I opened my eyes. I'm ready for someone who has more than me. Not a man who has less than me.
Amen to that sista 🙌 🙏 ❤
Amen to that sista 🙌 🙏 ❤
This is some of the best advice that I have heard from a man to a woman in a very long time. Amazing
Ladies please take this advise ,I’ve lived it . God bless you all .
So so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so true 💯
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I saw it in other women. Didn't. check on my own narcicisstic mess.. started showing in.physical.health as well
I did all of the 😂above and lost myself yes my resentment built up until I felt I was nothing. I am taking your advice in all the things you are teaching us. I can become a full cup with much work. Thank you.
I have done this make myself small so he feels big. This wasnt a marriage ordain by God, and it ended in divorce. Denzel has an amazing connection with God. He speaks well.
This is very true,we many women av already failed ourselves trying to make happy monster husbands,young ladies watch out u av time to make choice for ur life
Thank you! This is powerful! I have to step back & reexamine myself! I have to ask a lot of questions. This made me real emotional. I will listen to this several times!
@Now I read your post and smiled when you said you have to reexamine yourself and ask yourself a lot of questions. I love it. ❤
I smiled because I wrote a book, which was recently published 100 Thought-Provoking questions. I will not put the full title because this format is not for advertising. I pray my book gets into the hands that are ready for a change in their lives. Your post is a confirmation that the book wasn't written and published in vain. Sending you much love on your self-awareness journey. ❤❤
@ thank you for responding in such a timely manner. I love this person, but I have to ask a lot of questions as well. I want this person to know that my life is very valuable and that I too value his life. But I do not have time for games and I do not have time for anyone that is not truly in it for sincere purposes. We plan to marry soon and so I have to examine myself and make sure this is what I wanna do as well as ask him series of questions to make sure he’s sincere and this is what he truly wants to do. I was married for 33 years and my husband passed away and now I’m ready to go on a journey with someone who’s gonna be totally committed to myself, as well as myself being totally committed to him. I wish we could communicate outside of this line so I could ask you some in-depth questions instead of exposing them on this site…. if you’re able to communicate with me in such a manner, please let me know, if this is the case I will kindly send you my email address. Thank you and have a great day!
This is so POWERFUL!!!
@nowatalady, Yo do that, listen to it many times. It’s essential to learn these things while still young. It’s painful to run from a relationship but your self respect, dignity and values comes first If one doesn’t respect oneself the other person has no reason to respect you. A man admires and treasures a woman who has dignity, principles, self esteem and values. Never accept any less. Be proud of yourself.
I wish I heard this message 3 decades ago 😮
@@paulinekhainza8131 me too!!!! You're never too old to learn something new...... I'm so thankful God saved me from hell!
Never too late. I feel the same. May God help us.❤
You’re never alone when u choose yourself, it takes strength to make a decision to stand 🆙 instead of choosing to lay down. It’s the power of choice. Ppl can’t walk on u if ur not choosing to be a door mat. Amen, powerful words 💪🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥
AMEN💕AMEN
WOW! That's the truth! 100% true!
So nice to hear that!!! Thank you Mr Denzel.
GOD bless you🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Thanks coach Denzel for sharing ❤
I've been doing all those things but I took my power back and start loving myself back, I'm a happy single beautiful woman.❤
Thank you sir for your sound words of encouragement. I will re-register and retrieve the draft proposal of my doctorate degree that has been shelved for 10 years while I'm a home executive from supporting my husband to our town up children to our grandchildren while deep down I wish to have long hours in a library just doing my research and accomplishing a need to address social ills impacting humanity especially the marginalised and discarded. The last time I finished a manuscript my husband was in medical care. I will sit on the waiting area and write as if my life depended on the manuscript. He recovered by the Grace of God but even after publication he forgot a simple word to say congrats how did you manage!
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Thank you so much Denzel.What a good lesson I learned today. I don't need a man to show me my worth.I have been there trying to please others but I took a bold decision at the age of 67 that I should start celebrating my worth and be happy with myself in this journey.
So true!! Filled with wise words. Thank you for putting in so eloquently.
AMEN, it's so true, very true. I'm 61, I know . This is God's honest truth . ❤
Your life will demonstrate what you believe about yourself.Good Words Good Thoughts Good Deeds simple Start practicing those 3 things ❤
Thanks!
These are some of the mistakes that I have made in the past because of my Kind Heart. And he ended up taking my kindness for weakness. 😢
This is so true❤
AMEN AND AMEN 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I left my then husband many years ago because of his controlling abusive cruel behaviour the best thing I ever did unfortunately my son is trying to behave the same way towards me putting me down deeming me trying to control me so even it means that by loosing a relationship with him my daughter in law and grandchildren iv 24:05 e distanc 24:11 ed myself from him it’s very painful but I refuse to be controlled and by him thank you for the video
I was engaged 3 times. I ended each one because I felt I could do better. Still single at 66.
This is very powerful!!
The best advice anyone can give!
So so so true,i realized that being alone which i was for over 20yrs now that i sacrifice my goals for my husband who still left me with to young children and the other relationship was just as consuming so i had to walk away and he kept coming and coming,he was obsessed because he didn't want someone else to have me,i saw how dangerous it was becoming,halliluia i got out and stayed alone with my two children
Thank you! 🙏🏽
Thank you Denzel I am alone but in peace and I am glad ! Your words are amazingly beautiful
Thank You. This is what I am going through now with my relationship. He wants to do what he wants to do, and I should go with it no matter what.
This may be a time for you to "step back, reflect and re-evaluate if this is a good relationship for you."
You need to exit. Do you know the Lord Jesus? Only He can give you what you need.
Stay strong, don’t settle for less.. You can do this 🙏🏽
Don't settle. Take a stand.
He's speaking the truth. I've been there & done that.
Now this is coming from A man about how we female's should be treated! So listen to him very GOOD LADIES!And He should have been a motivated speaker!
In 2019 I was with someone who was playing mind play with me and hitting me the church help me to get way from him I have someone who is very nice to be how so I understand why some woman are on there own may the Lords face shine on you Denzel and your family god bless you and your family 🙏❤️🙏
Amen Amen
We really have to stand for our selves ❤❤
No truer words have been spoken
Thank you. Some of these changes have help me come up from the dark world I was in. God helped me emencialy I know the light exists 🙏. I'm no longer under the bus.I have worth to offer to myself and others. Thank you Abba 😊 amen 🙏
I can't believe this is me right here
I have been giving for 21 yrs , I fill Empty
And lost
Thanks Denzel. I've been so very vital in shaping and guiding so many people in my lifetime then watch those same people turn around and talk negatively to me as if they're above me. I made sacrifices in my life put my children while working endless hours of overtime as a nurse ,schools like NYU,Cornell University and Upstate Medical University and then things were said to me that actually made me cry when I'm alone. Everything that you said in parts has applied to me and my ways of not hitting back because I don't like hurting people's feelings. That's God in me. At the same time I was hurting inside, crying when I'm alone and pretending that it's okay when it was not. I felt as though you were talking directly to me. I gave so very much of myself to everyone in my family and beyond who ever needed me but what you said is so very true because they used me then they all one by one turned away because I put their worth before my own. It's hard to acknowledge things sometimes but I take my hat of to you because you hit the nail on the head. You gave me a new strength to follow because I deserve it. I wish I could tell you some things that I went through it's too much to write but in spite of it all there's a fighter in me who knows that I deserve better. Thanks for everything that you do you were chosen to do God's work. I can feel it in my spirit. I listened because you are my favorite actor but I listened I realized because you were chosen for this part also by God Almighty himself. Continue to lead your voice is commanding I could not put down my phone because everything you said was true and real. Congratulations my love, you've helped me more than you know. I am going to call the shots from now on. Amen. Much love and appreciation to you always
Blessings to you and your family always. ❤❤❤❤❤
My husband never respect and appreciate me. We married for 17 year no honeymoon , no holiday, no anniversary, no birthday celebration and no pocket money and no money for ingredients for daily meal. I just finished 3 exams I take a my exam paper send to my husband and children. No reply and when I back non of them happy for me. Everyday I cook for them they greedy for foods and never say thank you or say yummy or delicious. But he say no need to say. I feel so hurt. After I try to tell he how he hurt me , he reply me he don't know how to respect and appreciate people . I been isolated myself at my mom house alone. I feel so disappointed
I'm so sorry, you went through that too, I'm going through the same thing. No appreciation, always wanting from me more. And I'm still here , don't have the guts to leave. I thought I was the only one going through this
Am also going through such my sister's I almost feel into depression my husband cares for another woman who don't know the half of how I suffered for him to be where he is today now he as money he doesn't give me money nor care for my needs within 7yrs he as touched just 4 times 😭😭😭😭 but spend more loving time with the girlfriend he as no respect for me at all he insults me and raise his hands on me after 3 boys we gave birth too he as broken me and am shattered and hide my pains.
@@phinailoya4757 I'm so sorry what keep me going is that I have Jesus in my heart. And he gives me the strength and his love to keep on going trusting in him. I will be praying for you
People respect you when you love, respect and appreciate yourself, you must dig deep and find self love, find true Joy within and you will shine, don't let anyone dim your light, do not continue to give your energy to darkness because you will be drained and it's not worth your happiness, I pray that you all can find it in yourself to choose yourself, Blessings to you ladies 🙏🏾
@@siapg5970 Thank you
I hear you. Your wisdom is like that of Solomon. I can’t help but listen to your words of wisdom.
Wow wow and wow that was so good and true
Amen to this❤
Powerful message
Thank you Denzel for the wise word may the Lords face shine on you Denzel and your family god bless you and your family 🙏 ❤🙏
Nice words of wisdom, thank you Sir
AMEN And Thank you Lord And Mr Denzel Washington For this Powerful And Motivational Speech I Agree 💯 🙏🏿
So true Mr Washington. Grateful.
He couldn't of said it better. These are wise words to live by. Thank you ❤
💯💯💯💯% TRUTH! Listen and take in what this man of wisdom is saying. The truth hurts, but it's right and needs to be said! Kudos 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 for sharing and open our eyes 👀 to reality. 🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your advice is spot on and I appreciate every word
Bullseye.
Amen Amen speak the truth thank you so much for speaking life God bless you Mr washington
THANKS AGAIN FOR THE TRUTH ❤❤❤❤
This is so True
A true eye opening for all women and men..... Amen and Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you n bless you ❤
Absolutely an Amen to this! Thank you Denzel for speaking life to many including myself!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Setting the standard!!!
Best video ever 👌 of all times of Denzel Washington WORDS ❤
Food for thought. Thank-you. Most women never hear this from our dad's or mom's. 12/12/:24.
Wow, that was a lot of good sound advice, don't be deceived, it's gonna take a lot of revelation from above and humility to fulfill that vision, and yes it's possible, but not without God. Amen! Glory to our heavenly Father.
I listened to your whole video and your absolutely correct! All I ask for in a relationship with a guy is truth and honestly. If he can't deliver I move on and not wasting my time for him! I am comfortable in my own skin and will not tolerate people who don't to hear the truth. Thank you for your video and I pray more women can stand up for themselves! 🙏🏼❤️
I am tired of people not respecting me take advantage of me this was so long ago but I had to step up and what you say is so very true if you cannot stand up for yourself you lose your worth I knew that from a long time ago so therefore I stayed away from that crowd
Amen! Good Word‼️ Blessings💞
Thank 😊 you so much 4 your advice. Happy Holidays ✨️
I just love all your speeches Keep it up. I need to hear this all the time 😢
Positive words for women. Thanks for sharing 👍
Never settle for less! I use to tell my husband I dersever my respect and that I treat him like A King which he was not! But I bet you I got my Respect from him before he pass away.And that he should treat me like A Queen.