some advice,because I went through that : clean your house spick and span,dress elegantly,do a lot of haircare, skincare, go and walk in nature, accept all invitations,be the "yes" person for a while, do a lot of walking, eat healthy,block your ex everywhere, see positive people, don't even mention your ex, you will eventually move on, and feel free
He Ghosted me went back to his ex had a baby what I'm I suppose to do with that ?? Ghost him back and focus on myself Love myself I come first I've learned a valuable Lesson. SELF LOVE is the best Love 😊
Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
What if he is seeing someone, after 4 1/2 years he walked out.. my silence has worked to some extent cos now he does not know anything going on in my life. I miss him dearly and pray for a miracle
I have given the silent treatment for 10 months.. It's a little harder to have zero communication because we have children together, so... I don't know what else to do... He knows I look after myself... I've gone on holiday and posted and everything else...
Thank you for reaching out. Please take a look at this article, it will be helpful to you. www.withmyexagain.com/blog/is-my-relationship-over-forever/ Coach Alex
I love the silence and quiet no more lies and acting no more love Bombing no more gaslighting or pretending🎉 no more using my money from my bank account like it was all yours and not mine in the first place! No more Contact with dishonest narcissistic people who i unfortunately used to know! 🎉😂
She just texted me earlier today after 9 days of NC and said she had found my passport. Asked me if I want to go over or she could bring it to me. Also, asked how I am doing. I replied and kept it very brief saying I will go over and that I am okay and hope she is too.
I told this numerous times to my ex he still tries!! For years now. But I don't love him anymore because he cheated on me at the beginning. If they really want you nothing you say will stop them
4 years I have been silent on my ex husband and just the other day I called to check him coz of Corona shit,his voice was shaking babe come home please &am well.😊
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Woow...I think all of this can happen when he is not in a new relationship....No .contact and silence take most of them away... The best way is to move on Which is difficult... But surely what did not kill you will surely makes you strong.......
Thought of that too...kinda no room for him to feel anything if he is in a relationship. My case for instance he broke up with me since i wasnt ready to start a family. But he broke up at the same time some few days before break up we had plans of starting a family now! So now he has another woman who he claims she is pregnant
Silence is good but if he came back would not take him back because if he loved you he wouldn't of left in the first place! Single now and maybe one day a real man will love me!
But no contact it's hard because I HV tried it, but I get attempted to text him. However sometimes I Text him and he ignores me. But currently I admitted to give up on him. though every day he is always on my mind. But I will be fine
Thank you for watching. Please take a look at this video to understand why begging is the last thing you want to do. www.withmyexagain.com/blog/begging-an-ex/ Coach Alex
I think its true any matter happens if you silent the people shoud think many question in her / his mind what is your plan what you have now maybe you are happy and of course he or she got jealous,being silince many things can be question in mind ,,,
My ex came back and expected physical contact but I want him to be committed to me so I didn't go ahead in that expectation. So he said if we both are away from first marriage by divorce then v can think about future like that. But right now I want him with me and tell he is there for me.
Hi,everyone im new here,but it's not the first time to hear bou't this kind of advicing and some tips of having a relationship,Honestly i was committed now a Long distance relationship,and eventually not seeing each other in real😔,but it was so sad that we are always fighting and i really dont know was the totally status of myself to his life?But i love him and i dont wanna loose him?
My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend,He didn’t tell me why but he just came to say it will be for the best.Just yesterday,I missed one call from him but he hasn’t called again and I haven’t called back either. I want him back but I don’t know what to do
My ex fiancé and I are on month 3 of being broken up. I made so many mistakes of begging and telling him I love him and crying to him that I can’t move on. Is it possible to go into no contact after all of that and for him to ever reach out? We last spoke the other day oh good terms catching up about life but I feel as I need to let him come to me. He’s told me within this break up that he will always love me and have a place in his heart for me and that if it’s meant to be it will be. “We don’t know the future”. He continuously says he wants to be friends so I’m just confused and think we need space.
Silence is gold
"and ducktape is silver"😭
I want to just go away on my own and start a new life. Not because I am expecting anything to change but just for me to heal. I wish I could do that.
some advice,because I went through that : clean your house spick and span,dress elegantly,do a lot of haircare, skincare, go and walk in nature, accept all invitations,be the "yes" person for a while, do a lot of walking, eat healthy,block your ex everywhere, see positive people, don't even mention your ex, you will eventually move on, and feel free
Silence is a very powerful tool
Better to move on and wait for the right man!!!
It's hard to move on sometimes and with the right actions it's possible to get someone you love back.
No contact can give me work on myself in my own way.. Not expecting them to reach out.
I left him.....I don't regret it and I don't want him Back.
I had Enough.
His voice is so soothing.
It's been 2 months he came back were talking again we both apologized
Maybe ex will come back maybe not but one is sure they will respect you as person as someone strong who is not depend on anyones attention.
Over the years i have learnt to be silent.never fight back.blocked no more calls following up.
He Ghosted me went back to his ex had a baby what I'm I suppose to do with that ?? Ghost him back and focus on myself Love myself I come first I've learned a valuable Lesson. SELF LOVE is the best Love 😊
Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
Great video. I followed your advice three years ago and never had any contact with my ex ever again. Now she has a one-year-old child.😅
Indortunately, you are one of the exceptions…but Life is not finished yet…
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Both sides as a human will choose silence, then what????? Who is going to beg?
I don't know that I have it in me anymore. Sometimes the only winning move is NOT to play
Silence is Golden
The first thing you should be silent after breakup is to help you move on.
💯💯
You take her, she has known where I've been for 22 years,
true silence really works
Thank you for watching, Shuwisai.
Coach Alex
Tanks a lot coach we are now together coz of your advices it works for me
Not only exs can be anyone
Wow. Silence is gold.
The silence is deafening but it is also speaking volumes.... I'm done. It's me time. Happy .However he is, is not my affair 👍
Scrapped it yesterday night. Total silence now!!
Silence really it works
Yes I believe the power of silence .....
Silence can be very noise.
Good information but, I will never want him back, I left for a reason.
That doesn't work on guys that sleep around. All guys don't want commitment. They want lot of bed warmers.
Not true, it works on everybody, they just good at playing the game.
I am listening from Kolkata in India
What if he is seeing someone, after 4 1/2 years he walked out.. my silence has worked to some extent cos now he does not know anything going on in my life. I miss him dearly and pray for a miracle
It’s so true go no contact it’s been a month I’m not calling or texting being silent with him
Me too.
this channel saved me
I have given the silent treatment for 10 months.. It's a little harder to have zero communication because we have children together, so... I don't know what else to do... He knows I look after myself... I've gone on holiday and posted and everything else...
Silence is more powerful ❤❤
I lost my love last few months so please please please pray for me his come back
I will stay away from love .
I dont think so, cuz shes talking to someone now 😔
Even he just say that we dont had a chance. Because he dont want me anymore..
Thank you for reaching out. Please take a look at this article, it will be helpful to you.
www.withmyexagain.com/blog/is-my-relationship-over-forever/
Coach Alex
And if they are already talking to someone else?
What if he is confused and a coward? Will no contact still work? Will he still come back to me?
I love the silence and quiet no more lies and acting no more love Bombing no more gaslighting or pretending🎉 no more using my money from my bank account like it was all yours and not mine in the first place! No more Contact with dishonest narcissistic people who i unfortunately used to know! 🎉😂
So true Silence good ideas.
Sir I'm from MANIPUR but I'm very near to you because of your valuable messages to me.I like 👍 it ❤
That's right. I support this silence explanation
Thanks sir for the advice it worked and we are now together
She just texted me earlier today after 9 days of NC and said she had found my passport. Asked me if I want to go over or she could bring it to me. Also, asked how I am doing. I replied and kept it very brief saying I will go over and that I am okay and hope she is too.
I told him that I will never take him back so I doubt he will try to again in the future
I told this numerous times to my ex he still tries!! For years now. But I don't love him anymore because he cheated on me at the beginning. If they really want you nothing you say will stop them
4 years I have been silent on my ex husband and just the other day I called to check him coz of Corona shit,his voice was shaking babe come home please &am well.😊
Hahaha, i did this almost 1 week and he start to calling me and texting me with lots of love🤣😍 Now he is mine💪🏻👌🏻🤣
We're on a break right now. Have known each other for 6 yrs. We are both in our 70's so I don't have alot time to wait. I hope he calls.
Damn. Hope it's good
Pray for me coz i need her
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Coach Adrian
You"re great. Tnx so much for yor advise. You're my idol.
Doesn't it depend on the reason for the breakup?
I believe at least I found my self from this
My ex finally unblocked me in wa. After 4 month. And after pray everyday. I hopefully this is good sign for us.
Both will listen your advise , how it will works them sir?
This is very true I was quiet on my ex for months and suddenly he called
You are very good Alex. You really do know what you are talking about. Soraya x
Thank you, Soraya!
Coach Alex
being needy is incurable
Woow...I think all of this can happen when he is not in a new relationship....No .contact and silence take most of them away...
The best way is to move on
Which is difficult...
But surely what did not kill you will surely makes you strong.......
Thought of that too...kinda no room for him to feel anything if he is in a relationship. My case for instance he broke up with me since i wasnt ready to start a family. But he broke up at the same time some few days before break up we had plans of starting a family now! So now he has another woman who he claims she is pregnant
No body with a self value wants the same again
Depends on the situation
If you ever loved at all? You must be a taster...
Again and again, marrying ...a new wife each time something goes wrong?
Garbage comment.
Not the same, evolve, an evolve version of you
Silence is your best friend...🙂
Absolutely!
Am going to try it from today
Silence is good but if he came back would not take him back because if he loved you he wouldn't of left in the first place! Single now and maybe one day a real man will love me!
Excellent brother thanks for sharing 👍👍👍👍👍💐💐💐
Thank you for watching. I appreciate your kind words!
Coach Alex
Okkkk .
Lets see if silence work in my case....
Then what happens when both of you decide to keep quiet
You bask in the glow of peace and serenity, that's what you do!
What if iam who block him?? , this consider as no contact too
I really like your explanation it doth make a lots of Suns!!
But no contact it's hard because I HV tried it, but I get attempted to text him. However sometimes I Text him and he ignores me. But currently I admitted to give up on him. though every day he is always on my mind. But I will be fine
Guys plz pray for me that me and my ex getting back together.. I still welling take the risk and I changing myself just for her..
What to do, if she started the silence?
Thank u for the encouragement I'm tired of begging him
Thank you for watching. Please take a look at this video to understand why begging is the last thing you want to do.
www.withmyexagain.com/blog/begging-an-ex/
Coach Alex
Y haven’t I seen this video for long. Thanks for this video that is what am actually doing now. But if I lose him a better one than him is coming.
I think its true any matter happens if you silent the people shoud think many question in her / his mind what is your plan what you have now maybe you are happy and of course he or she got jealous,being silince many things can be question in mind ,,,
Coach Abbey, Coach Adrian and myself
My ex came back and expected physical contact but I want him to be committed to me so I didn't go ahead in that expectation. So he said if we both are away from first marriage by divorce then v can think about future like that. But right now I want him with me and tell he is there for me.
Hi,everyone im new here,but it's not the first time to hear bou't this kind of advicing and some tips of having a relationship,Honestly i was committed now a Long distance relationship,and eventually not seeing each other in real😔,but it was so sad that we are always fighting and i really dont know was the totally status of myself to his life?But i love him and i dont wanna loose him?
She ditched me for an ugly tomboy, OMG, i begged i cried. I am picking up myself now. i hate myself for doing that last yr.
for how long i will do the silence mode coach alex???
Thank you Alex. It's certainly worth a try!
My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend,He didn’t tell me why but he just came to say it will be for the best.Just yesterday,I missed one call from him but he hasn’t called again and I haven’t called back either.
I want him back but I don’t know what to do
Is divorce the same as a break up
Thanks for everything.. Please is it advisable to block him during the no contact ?
Thanks powerful message.
That applies if you don’t have any kids with them 🤷🏽♀️
I love you Alex you are the best i will surely apply this from Africa....i watch most of your videos and i learned a lot❤
I learn a lot to your videos Coach Alex may God bless you
Best coach ever
No contact don’t work
You are totally right
My ex fiancé and I are on month 3 of being broken up. I made so many mistakes of begging and telling him I love him and crying to him that I can’t move on. Is it possible to go into no contact after all of that and for him to ever reach out? We last spoke the other day oh good terms catching up about life but I feel as I need to let him come to me.
He’s told me within this break up that he will always love me and have a place in his heart for me and that if it’s meant to be it will be. “We don’t know the future”. He continuously says he wants to be friends so I’m just confused and think we need space.
My silence pushed my crush away even though he started his cold shoulder treatment. Oh well.
so even if calling me sometime should I answer or not
There is no meaning coming back only for a while..then gone again
I hope you are right 😪
U look handsome day by day couch.. Thank you for ur advice 😘
Hope this works
What if he is with someone else