He Ghosted me went back to his ex had a baby what I'm I suppose to do with that ?? Ghost him back and focus on myself Love myself I come first I've learned a valuable Lesson. SELF LOVE is the best Love 😊
What if he is seeing someone, after 4 1/2 years he walked out.. my silence has worked to some extent cos now he does not know anything going on in my life. I miss him dearly and pray for a miracle
But no contact it's hard because I HV tried it, but I get attempted to text him. However sometimes I Text him and he ignores me. But currently I admitted to give up on him. though every day he is always on my mind. But I will be fine
Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
I have given the silent treatment for 10 months.. It's a little harder to have zero communication because we have children together, so... I don't know what else to do... He knows I look after myself... I've gone on holiday and posted and everything else...
I told this numerous times to my ex he still tries!! For years now. But I don't love him anymore because he cheated on me at the beginning. If they really want you nothing you say will stop them
4 years I have been silent on my ex husband and just the other day I called to check him coz of Corona shit,his voice was shaking babe come home please &am well.😊
My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend,He didn’t tell me why but he just came to say it will be for the best.Just yesterday,I missed one call from him but he hasn’t called again and I haven’t called back either. I want him back but I don’t know what to do
Silence is good but if he came back would not take him back because if he loved you he wouldn't of left in the first place! Single now and maybe one day a real man will love me!
Woow...I think all of this can happen when he is not in a new relationship....No .contact and silence take most of them away... The best way is to move on Which is difficult... But surely what did not kill you will surely makes you strong.......
Thought of that too...kinda no room for him to feel anything if he is in a relationship. My case for instance he broke up with me since i wasnt ready to start a family. But he broke up at the same time some few days before break up we had plans of starting a family now! So now he has another woman who he claims she is pregnant
Me and my husband (not yet annulled) broke up last feb 2019, i been no contact with him. Were in a long distance relationship. We talk, he said that he move on and his not mad at me anymore and ask me that he hope that i find someone else, but he refused to see me to talk and told his friends to stop pushing him to see me because he is still mad at me. I dont know what to do anymore. 😭 Help. If he move on like he said why he can't see me to talk? 😭 Is there any chance at all? He still mad at me.
Thank you for reaching out. Please take a look at this article, it will be helpful to you. www.withmyexagain.com/blog/is-my-relationship-over-forever/ Coach Alex
She just texted me earlier today after 9 days of NC and said she had found my passport. Asked me if I want to go over or she could bring it to me. Also, asked how I am doing. I replied and kept it very brief saying I will go over and that I am okay and hope she is too.
Me& My Ex Haven’t Spoken Since He Ghosted Me 12 Years Ago. For A Third Party🤦🏿♀️He Requested Me On Instagram & He Still Hasn’t Said Anything.That Was Dec 2017. I’ve Recently Deleted My Insta Account As His Posts Were Triggering Me.& The Fake Accounts Got Too Much..We’ve Got Unfinished Business But He’s Too Scared To Say Anything.
My ex asked me to be his girlfriend on the 28th December, dated for 4 months before he asked me, then dumped me on new years day 😂. I didn’t even know I gave him the silent treatment🤷🏻♀️ but I was hurt and I didn’t want to reply to his messges. Anyway cut long story short. He messaged me today 3 days after he dumped me and told me he made a mistake! Let him stew for a few hours and had a 2 hour convo on the phone and decided To gave him a second chance but we’re going back to the start clean slate and dating again and hoping he never does it again . Wish me luck 🙏 xx Ps... I love this guy and haven’t told him yet and he hasn’t used the L word with me but I think he does we’re just both not admitting it x
Hi Samantha, I am very pleased for you😊 I am going through a similar situation with my ex and am hoping we can make it work this time....😎 Good luck 🤞 kind regards and best wishes, Toby xx
My ex fiancé and I are on month 3 of being broken up. I made so many mistakes of begging and telling him I love him and crying to him that I can’t move on. Is it possible to go into no contact after all of that and for him to ever reach out? We last spoke the other day oh good terms catching up about life but I feel as I need to let him come to me. He’s told me within this break up that he will always love me and have a place in his heart for me and that if it’s meant to be it will be. “We don’t know the future”. He continuously says he wants to be friends so I’m just confused and think we need space.
My ex does not comebk during my total silence.. He got new after .. Though he said always he was broken hearted due to me.. He found someone new after few months.
My ex came back and expected physical contact but I want him to be committed to me so I didn't go ahead in that expectation. So he said if we both are away from first marriage by divorce then v can think about future like that. But right now I want him with me and tell he is there for me.
I love the silence and quiet no more lies and acting no more love Bombing no more gaslighting or pretending🎉 no more using my money from my bank account like it was all yours and not mine in the first place! No more Contact with dishonest narcissistic people who i unfortunately used to know! 🎉😂
Hi my name is andreann please advice me whag to do if my ex wont contact me anymore.. I admit that i did something to her..i talk to her badly and doubting that she have another girlfriend.. She verh mad at me in the situation i give to her.. We dont have any problem to our relationship..the problem is me because i always jealous and doubt her every single time..i always look at my phone if she message or not or call me.. But shes online only.. But never message me.. I know i hurt her so mucn.. What will i do sir? Im very paranoid now because i dont know where she is..
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My ex and I have broken up for more than a year now he still follows me on Facebook and he still has me on WhatsApp he doesn't communicate at all and I'm also doing the same when he sees me he pretends to not know me and avoids eye contact but then stares at me from a distance
I wonder if they come back if you messed up alot i messed up lots of times but i was always there for her and the the minute i losts her i was dying chasing her begging but i wonder i always wonder if she will ever come back i blocked her # because i am honestly tired of hurting myself but either way i wish her the best with whom ever she may be with now .
I understand you have tried no contact before, Doreen. Please watch this video to understand how to do no contact successfully. ua-cam.com/video/Zh18joNiGZY/v-deo.html Coach Alex
Yes yes yes ..it works .silence make her to call me back...yesterday night she called me at night 2:05 Am...i don't react from last 9-10 days ago...but I blocked her number so I can't receive her call...but I am happy with her missed call.....that she have feel till yet for me
I av learnt dat silence is the best medicine am suffering it now he told me he want a break up i started begging him he didn't reply de reason for breaking up wat he said is only he is tired
Lol I love ur accent..no contact rule 4days in ...so done. God has a plan for all of us & if dey walk away..let them go. Thank u for this video..needed to remember doing the right thing.
Hii sir .. I really need your help please help me ... I had one 2 month's relationship ...between that relationship I was talking to one of my friend like a girlfriend ...but that friend was not my boyfriend or crush ...I love my boyfriend alot ...but he saw that chat and he don't trust me anymore and he was thinking I was cheating ...so he stopped loving me ...I want him back in my life what should I do ...what things or techniques I should follow please help me out
I think its true any matter happens if you silent the people shoud think many question in her / his mind what is your plan what you have now maybe you are happy and of course he or she got jealous,being silince many things can be question in mind ,,,
Silence is gold
"and ducktape is silver"😭
I want to just go away on my own and start a new life. Not because I am expecting anything to change but just for me to heal. I wish I could do that.
Silence is a very powerful tool
No contact can give me work on myself in my own way.. Not expecting them to reach out.
I left him.....I don't regret it and I don't want him Back.
I had Enough.
Better to move on and wait for the right man!!!
It's hard to move on sometimes and with the right actions it's possible to get someone you love back.
His voice is so soothing.
It's been 2 months he came back were talking again we both apologized
Maybe ex will come back maybe not but one is sure they will respect you as person as someone strong who is not depend on anyones attention.
He Ghosted me went back to his ex had a baby what I'm I suppose to do with that ?? Ghost him back and focus on myself Love myself I come first I've learned a valuable Lesson. SELF LOVE is the best Love 😊
Over the years i have learnt to be silent.never fight back.blocked no more calls following up.
The first thing you should be silent after breakup is to help you move on.
💯💯
The silence is deafening but it is also speaking volumes.... I'm done. It's me time. Happy .However he is, is not my affair 👍
Both sides as a human will choose silence, then what????? Who is going to beg?
That doesn't work on guys that sleep around. All guys don't want commitment. They want lot of bed warmers.
I don't know that I have it in me anymore. Sometimes the only winning move is NOT to play
I dont think so, cuz shes talking to someone now 😔
You take her, she has known where I've been for 22 years,
Silence is Golden
What if he is seeing someone, after 4 1/2 years he walked out.. my silence has worked to some extent cos now he does not know anything going on in my life. I miss him dearly and pray for a miracle
Hahaha, i did this almost 1 week and he start to calling me and texting me with lots of love🤣😍 Now he is mine💪🏻👌🏻🤣
Great video. I followed your advice three years ago and never had any contact with my ex ever again. Now she has a one-year-old child.😅
Indortunately, you are one of the exceptions…but Life is not finished yet…
😂
Scrapped it yesterday night. Total silence now!!
Tanks a lot coach we are now together coz of your advices it works for me
true silence really works
Thank you for watching, Shuwisai.
Coach Alex
But no contact it's hard because I HV tried it, but I get attempted to text him. However sometimes I Text him and he ignores me. But currently I admitted to give up on him. though every day he is always on my mind. But I will be fine
Wow. Silence is gold.
Not only exs can be anyone
This is very true I was quiet on my ex for months and suddenly he called
Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
Yes I believe the power of silence .....
What if he is confused and a coward? Will no contact still work? Will he still come back to me?
I have given the silent treatment for 10 months.. It's a little harder to have zero communication because we have children together, so... I don't know what else to do... He knows I look after myself... I've gone on holiday and posted and everything else...
Silence can be very noise.
I told him that I will never take him back so I doubt he will try to again in the future
I told this numerous times to my ex he still tries!! For years now. But I don't love him anymore because he cheated on me at the beginning. If they really want you nothing you say will stop them
Good information but, I will never want him back, I left for a reason.
4 years I have been silent on my ex husband and just the other day I called to check him coz of Corona shit,his voice was shaking babe come home please &am well.😊
Doesn't it depend on the reason for the breakup?
And if they are already talking to someone else?
That applies if you don’t have any kids with them 🤷🏽♀️
My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend,He didn’t tell me why but he just came to say it will be for the best.Just yesterday,I missed one call from him but he hasn’t called again and I haven’t called back either.
I want him back but I don’t know what to do
I lost my love last few months so please please please pray for me his come back
Silence is good but if he came back would not take him back because if he loved you he wouldn't of left in the first place! Single now and maybe one day a real man will love me!
Woow...I think all of this can happen when he is not in a new relationship....No .contact and silence take most of them away...
The best way is to move on
Which is difficult...
But surely what did not kill you will surely makes you strong.......
Thought of that too...kinda no room for him to feel anything if he is in a relationship. My case for instance he broke up with me since i wasnt ready to start a family. But he broke up at the same time some few days before break up we had plans of starting a family now! So now he has another woman who he claims she is pregnant
It’s so true go no contact it’s been a month I’m not calling or texting being silent with him
Me too.
Me and my husband (not yet annulled) broke up last feb 2019, i been no contact with him. Were in a long distance relationship. We talk, he said that he move on and his not mad at me anymore and ask me that he hope that i find someone else, but he refused to see me to talk and told his friends to stop pushing him to see me because he is still mad at me. I dont know what to do anymore. 😭 Help.
If he move on like he said why he can't see me to talk? 😭 Is there any chance at all? He still mad at me.
Silence really it works
Even he just say that we dont had a chance. Because he dont want me anymore..
Thank you for reaching out. Please take a look at this article, it will be helpful to you.
www.withmyexagain.com/blog/is-my-relationship-over-forever/
Coach Alex
Why do you want your ex, back in your life.their out of your life for you to move forward.,"word of wisdom ".
She ditched me for an ugly tomboy, OMG, i begged i cried. I am picking up myself now. i hate myself for doing that last yr.
You"re great. Tnx so much for yor advise. You're my idol.
I broke up with my ex but I am the one who is.hurt.I suffered depression, anxiety .He is very mad at me
She just texted me earlier today after 9 days of NC and said she had found my passport. Asked me if I want to go over or she could bring it to me. Also, asked how I am doing. I replied and kept it very brief saying I will go over and that I am okay and hope she is too.
That's right. I support this silence explanation
Me& My Ex Haven’t Spoken Since He Ghosted Me 12 Years Ago. For A Third Party🤦🏿♀️He Requested Me On Instagram & He Still Hasn’t Said Anything.That Was Dec 2017. I’ve Recently Deleted My Insta Account As His Posts Were Triggering Me.& The Fake Accounts Got Too Much..We’ve Got Unfinished Business But He’s Too Scared To Say Anything.
My ex finally unblocked me in wa. After 4 month. And after pray everyday. I hopefully this is good sign for us.
So true Silence good ideas.
My ex asked me to be his girlfriend on the 28th December, dated for 4 months before he asked me, then dumped me on new years day 😂. I didn’t even know I gave him the silent treatment🤷🏻♀️ but I was hurt and I didn’t want to reply to his messges. Anyway cut long story short. He messaged me today 3 days after he dumped me and told me he made a mistake! Let him stew for a few hours and had a 2 hour convo on the phone and decided To gave him a second chance but we’re going back to the start clean slate and dating again and hoping he never does it again . Wish me luck 🙏 xx
Ps... I love this guy and haven’t told him yet and he hasn’t used the L word with me but I think he does we’re just both not admitting it x
Hi Samantha, I am very pleased for you😊 I am going through a similar situation with my ex and am hoping we can make it work this time....😎 Good luck 🤞 kind regards and best wishes, Toby xx
mine too.hard to handle her back she sees am diffrent everytime we meet ...am in dilema
My ex fiancé and I are on month 3 of being broken up. I made so many mistakes of begging and telling him I love him and crying to him that I can’t move on. Is it possible to go into no contact after all of that and for him to ever reach out? We last spoke the other day oh good terms catching up about life but I feel as I need to let him come to me.
He’s told me within this break up that he will always love me and have a place in his heart for me and that if it’s meant to be it will be. “We don’t know the future”. He continuously says he wants to be friends so I’m just confused and think we need space.
Guys plz pray for me that me and my ex getting back together.. I still welling take the risk and I changing myself just for her..
You are very good Alex. You really do know what you are talking about. Soraya x
Thank you, Soraya!
Coach Alex
Then what happens when both of you decide to keep quiet
You bask in the glow of peace and serenity, that's what you do!
My ex does not comebk during my total silence.. He got new after .. Though he said always he was broken hearted due to me.. He found someone new after few months.
Sir I'm from MANIPUR but I'm very near to you because of your valuable messages to me.I like 👍 it ❤
My ex came back and expected physical contact but I want him to be committed to me so I didn't go ahead in that expectation. So he said if we both are away from first marriage by divorce then v can think about future like that. But right now I want him with me and tell he is there for me.
I love the silence and quiet no more lies and acting no more love Bombing no more gaslighting or pretending🎉 no more using my money from my bank account like it was all yours and not mine in the first place! No more Contact with dishonest narcissistic people who i unfortunately used to know! 🎉😂
I am at no contact period now for 12 days
Update soon❤️
Sending you lots of positivity, Indah!
Coach Alex
Don't want him back, because within 2 months, he got a new girlfriend. No one can see his face and say that he was in 5 years of relationship before
Such men don't make good husbands. You dodged a bullet sister
My ex lied me he called me at morning and said he will come to meet me at evening but he didn't come and he didn't contact.
I will stay away from love .
this channel saved me
Silence don’t work if u have kids together 😩
I am listening from Kolkata in India
Hi my name is andreann please advice me whag to do if my ex wont contact me anymore.. I admit that i did something to her..i talk to her badly and doubting that she have another girlfriend.. She verh mad at me in the situation i give to her.. We dont have any problem to our relationship..the problem is me because i always jealous and doubt her every single time..i always look at my phone if she message or not or call me.. But shes online only.. But never message me.. I know i hurt her so mucn.. What will i do sir? Im very paranoid now because i dont know where she is..
Thanks sir for the advice it worked and we are now together
We're on a break right now. Have known each other for 6 yrs. We are both in our 70's so I don't have alot time to wait. I hope he calls.
Damn. Hope it's good
Both will listen your advise , how it will works them sir?
Why does my ex keep up the old lovey dovey posts but deleted the posts of us that didn’t have words (like profile pics) 🥴
Pray for me coz i need her
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Coach Adrian
Thanks for everything.. Please is it advisable to block him during the no contact ?
There is no meaning coming back only for a while..then gone again
My ex and I have broken up for more than a year now he still follows me on Facebook and he still has me on WhatsApp he doesn't communicate at all and I'm also doing the same when he sees me he pretends to not know me and avoids eye contact but then stares at me from a distance
Y haven’t I seen this video for long. Thanks for this video that is what am actually doing now. But if I lose him a better one than him is coming.
I love you Alex you are the best i will surely apply this from Africa....i watch most of your videos and i learned a lot❤
I learn a lot to your videos Coach Alex may God bless you
I wonder if they come back if you messed up alot i messed up lots of times but i was always there for her and the the minute i losts her i was dying chasing her begging but i wonder i always wonder if she will ever come back i blocked her # because i am honestly tired of hurting myself but either way i wish her the best with whom ever she may be with now .
being needy is incurable
I tried no contact before and I guess I was the percentage that it didnt work with. Now I need to try it again.
I understand you have tried no contact before, Doreen. Please watch this video to understand how to do no contact successfully. ua-cam.com/video/Zh18joNiGZY/v-deo.html
Coach Alex
Yes yes yes ..it works .silence make her to call me back...yesterday night she called me at night 2:05 Am...i don't react from last 9-10 days ago...but I blocked her number so I can't receive her call...but I am happy with her missed call.....that she have feel till yet for me
Can we apologize if we did something bad during the breakup?
what about when theres a baby involved and need communication
I av learnt dat silence is the best medicine am suffering it now he told me he want a break up i started begging him he didn't reply de reason for breaking up wat he said is only he is tired
Lol I love ur accent..no contact rule 4days in ...so done. God has a plan for all of us & if dey walk away..let them go. Thank u for this video..needed to remember doing the right thing.
Hii sir .. I really need your help please help me ... I had one 2 month's relationship ...between that relationship I was talking to one of my friend like a girlfriend ...but that friend was not my boyfriend or crush ...I love my boyfriend alot ...but he saw that chat and he don't trust me anymore and he was thinking I was cheating ...so he stopped loving me ...I want him back in my life what should I do ...what things or techniques I should follow please help me out
I think its true any matter happens if you silent the people shoud think many question in her / his mind what is your plan what you have now maybe you are happy and of course he or she got jealous,being silince many things can be question in mind ,,,
No body with a self value wants the same again
Depends on the situation
If you ever loved at all? You must be a taster...
Again and again, marrying ...a new wife each time something goes wrong?
Garbage comment.
Not the same, evolve, an evolve version of you
Excellent brother thanks for sharing 👍👍👍👍👍💐💐💐
Thank you for watching. I appreciate your kind words!
Coach Alex
I have tried it several times. Never worked. Women just moved on.
Even if they left you for someone else
Thank you for sharing this idea
Might help
You're welcome, Danica!
Coach Alex