@@lucicist You may be mature for your age, but you still have many more life lessons ahead of you before you can start calling yourself mature. Maturity is more like a metric of lessons learned than a quality of your personality
@DeadRat nah, before a curtain virus I was a student helper working in my school's inclusion and the people.that we help with social interaction tend to be the people who's predicted grades are around the grade 8 to 9 mark(the two highest grades for GCSE) so my conclusion of intelligent people not being very good with social interaction is based upon what I have seen, not based on blind stereotyping.
@@House_of_Killjoys Bro.. You are only thinking of one type of intelligence, intelligence various in multiple ways and you are basically stereotyping them which i will explain later on why. For instance Linguistic-Verbal Intelligence which is intelligence you are very good with your words and writing, not all of these people are sociable but many are since their way of words attracts people. Take Malcolm X for example; he may not be Einstein level smart but is very well smart, and very sociable/charismatic thus attracted many peoples attention. Interpersonal Intelligence people which i consider more of a verbal intelligence and can be very social due to their way of understanding people and their emotions. (You can make a conclusion on this as for why and how) Also a lot of other types of intelligent people are very sociable and attract others but media.. well you know they stereotype them. Oh and you only ever met two "Intelligence" people.. but you really gonna base whole group of various intelligent people based on few or from your evidence 2..?? Also grades do not define that someones intelligence especially since there are many, it simply means they are hardworking and/or curious(like learning).. unless they are like elementary schoolers with high school or college school knowledge level lol. Many Psychopaths are very sociable (charismatic) too.. and they are considered very smart or intelligent (I don't need to explain this one lol). I also so want to add very good liars, in this list too.. making very good lies (which are very much believable) and not saying the real truth is prove to be very hard especially considering needing to control over your emotions, also makes them very smart and can be very charismatic especially if they have a mind of psychopaths or have Antisocial personality.
Would it be better to say “Sorry if I offended you” after the sentence you typed? I’m not sure if saying that is just as bad as saying “No offence but…” I’m not too sure about which one would be better.
@@Burning_Marshmallow I just say what my intention is, like: "Hey I have to say because this is bothering me. . ." "I don't think we understood eachother here. . ." Saying what is it you intend is way more effecttive than saying wha you don't.
I present to you, the most unlikely conversation between two smart people ever: A: "Hey, I have this thing I need you to do. But don't worry, it will only take a minute." B: "I can't do it. That's not in my job description." A: "No offense, but you have to do it." B: "That's not fair." A: "Look, I really need you to do this, because it needs to be perfect." B: "This might be a stupid question, but why don't you do it yourself?" A: "Because I have a high IQ, therefore I'm smarter than you." B: "What? That makes no sense. I don't get it?!" A: "See, I told you so."
"Expecting perfection is to set yourself up for failure." I'm guilty to this when I was on my teenage days. Now I've learned not to look for perfection, that's why I discovered the key to one's satisfaction, which is to do the best of what you can offer, that way you'll not regret at the end! 🙂
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1. “It’s not my fault” 2. “This needs to be perfect” 3. “That’s not in my job description” 4. “It’s not fair” 5. “I have a high IQ therefore I am smarter than you” 6. “No offence but...” 7. “This might be a stupid question” 8. “I can’t do it” 9. “This will only take a minute” 10. “I told you so”
“It’s not fair” is a perfectly reasonable phrase. The statement “life isn’t fair” is stupid. Anyone who says that is just complacent in the dull, awful world they live in.
But... IQ is not a measurement of how intelligent you are, even though it stands for Intelligence Quotient. It's really dumb that they named it that because all it determines is how much you're capable of achieving if you choose to apply yourself to the fullest. And your IQ decreases with age anyway, especially if you don't apply yourself over the years. If you do have a much higher IQ than someone, then if you're using it as an excuse to try and make them do something, maybe they don't have the capability to achieve that and YOU should be the one doing it instead.
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Mother: your posture is wrong, why are you even walking with an ice-cream in your hand? Get a plate! You never eat properly and drop things everywhere.
i say none of these except no offense, when i mean no offense but understand it may come across as offensive. And I'm also single for 23 years, and I'm 23 years old. Wouldnt say I'm smart tho XD
6: Spending more money than you make 7: Spending time (aka, your life) on pettiness 8: Thinking "time is money" (I can get money back. Time/life can't be un-wasted.)
If the question is indeed stupid, adding that phrase would not make it less stupid, if anything, it makes you look less confident. If you have a question, just ask and ppl will admire your confidence for asking questions. Anyone who judge someone who genuinely try to ask questions, should mind their own business and a proof of their childiness. Also, people like to act smart so by asking questions, enforces that behavior and helps to bond with whoever you are speaking with. Think of it as a presenter to a group of ppl, you would feel better if people are engaging in your presentation by asking questions instead of *cricket noise*. Teachers usually like it too cos they feel like they are doing something productive. That being said, it helps to he prepare before entering into a class/meeting/discussion. For example, if you don't want to sound stupid in class, pay attention in class, read materials before the class and write notes. Same thing in business meetings. That way, when you ask a question, it will be a question that has not been addressed instead of lagging the session by asking questions when it was already addressed earlier. So instead of adding "This is a stupid question but", avoid it all together cos it hurts you more than it helps you and do your prep before entering into a discussion to avoid asking "stupid question"
@@cymjeff92 honestly, it can depend quite a bit on how you say it and in what environment you are in, lets paint a picture, you're at a party, everyone is more or less full or drugged, you laugh a bit with a smile and laid back attitude, then say something along the lines "Hey mate, this is a stupid question but [...]" in which you proceed to ask the question and then you both laugh it off and they might even answer it honestly, I should ofc mention that depending on how "stupid" the question is, it can even be laughed off as a joke, so that sentence doesn't always hurt you, in some situations it can even make the other party look dumb for not even having thought about the question you're asking (meaning that it can be said with those opening words to mock another party which has ignored something that could potentially be obvious).
Quick Summary: 1. 0:43 "It is not my fault." 2. 1:07 "This needs to be perfect." 3. 1:32 "This is not in my job description." 4. 2:00 "This isn't fair." 5. 2:26 "I have high IQ and therefore I am smarter than you." 6. 2:50 "No offense but...." 7. 3:14 "This might be a stupid question but..." 8. 3:33 "I can't do it." 9. 3:54 "This will only take a minute." 10. 4:19 "I told you so." And yes, my fellow human beings, I have accomplished the power of Time Travel. EDIT: 798 likes!!!! Thanks a lot people!!! You all have just made my day!!! Now I know many of you are asking how I "travel through time". But we all can do this. Just follow the steps: 1. Go to the playlist tab on this channel. 2. Change the "sort by" filter to "last video added". 3. Click on any playlist and scroll down to the end. Look out for new thumbnails. If you are not sure, then click on the video and check the number of views. Less than 100 views means you have accomplished your mission. *Note:* This works faster on laptop or PC. *Note 2:* You don't have to be a member to do this. That's it from my side, try it and tell me how it goes. Much love, Bless you all. Sending more power to you all.
1. "It's not my fault" 2. "This needs to be perfect" 3. "That's not in my job description" 4. "It's not fair" 5. "I have a high iQ therefore I am smarter than you" 6. "No offence but..." 7. "This might be a stupid question, but.." 8. "I can't do it" 9. "This will only take a minute" 10. "I told you so"
I wish I was smart maybe my parents would actually appreciate me instead of looking at other children and smiling over them. I’m trying my best I sometimes even clean the floor just to please them.
I think such traits require some sort of intelligence to have this kind of behavior, although I do think there are other traits and personalities necessary for these types of behavior to pop up.
@@kukalakana I hate that word because all competitions or school program will have smart people in it and they all very confident And I am a lazy but very intelligent and not too confident but shy
Yeah, some of these are a huge stretch. Some of these are related to EQ ("No offense, but..." "I told you so"), but some of these have absolutely nothing to do with any form of intelligence. "This might be a stupid question" has nothing to do with intelligence, that's strictly a confidence thing (and I'm a little uncomfortable with condeming people for saying that - it's one thing to judge someone for saying "I have a higher IQ and am therefore smarter than you" because that's being a douchebag, but judging someone for lacking in confidence seems kind of nasty to me).
Smart people care about how they're perceived, even if they don't agree with it or judge other people the same way. Smart people play the game of social interaction even if they don't like the rules or expectations.
"I told you so." I used this phrase countless times as a child. It wasn't because of some superiority complex or bragging (maybe some bragging). It was more of a disappointed response after warning them of a likely outcome. Of course, the warning went unheeded and the outcome came to past, which was often a problem that could've been avoided if they had listened. I stopped using this phrase because I've gradually learned that people tend to not listen to advice and will often forge their own path/solution, either that or they want to complain.
I also do it because most of the time when I warned someone about something and instead, they all teamed up and made fun of me and when the thing I warned them happened. They were all panicking and blaming each other so I always say "I told you so" lol
I've learned in my latter adult years that you almost never can stop human momentum, and you shouldn't want to. A person only truly does what they're inclined to do in the first place, forcing or convincing them otherwise only leads to unproductive outcomes One, they probably compensate by fulfilling their desire in some other way, and usually in excess. Two, they probably do that thing anyway and lie to you and whoever else necessary. Three, they resent you as being the principle reason they didn't do what they were inclined to do. And four, in the end they probably end up doing that thing one day anyway. Weeks, months, years, decades late.... so what was the point? I've learned that when someone is inclined to do something stupid, destructive, or just benignly unproductive..... let them do it. And I don't try to stop them or talk them out of it, in fact, I support them. And when things go wrong for them, and they usually do lol, I'm there for them then too A heart who cares enough to criticize, cares enough to help too. That's my motto now. If you care enough about a person to say "I told you so", you should care enough to help them with their self-inflicted problems. And if you don't care to help them with their problem, then what do you care about them doing something stupid in the first place???
I want to point out that saying “that’s not in my job description” should be perfectly acceptable if people don’t want to continue being taken advantage of. It’s not about a willingness to go above and beyond. Sometimes it’s about setting boundaries. People should get payed for the work they do and not be told they have the wrong attitude if they expect to.
I agree, and think that whoever wrote the script for this video is ignore these complex factors regarding workplace culture. I've seen this happen plenty of times while working at an office before. Older co-workers will literally try to give their work to younger co-workers or try to get them to do the work they don't feel like doing even if the person is not that experienced in it or already has a lot to do. Telling them this statement doesn't mean you're "not smart", and that's honestly absurd thinking. People are allowed to stand up for themselves if they are being taken advantage of. In fact, not speaking up when this is happening or you are aware this is going on is actually what's "not smart" because then you are letting people pile work onto you and overworking yourself when you should be getting your own stuff done. Some entries in this video are a bit off.
Like pointed out in the video, it is generally the better idea to consult with you direct manager about the tasks you are unwilling to do, instead of straight up avoiding the situation with the phrase "it's not my job description." Meaning, the video is referring to the situation when someone avoids a task like that, instead of communicating with superiors.
@@muyodosel1658 I hear you, but just by including this in the list they are perpetuating a value system that has become a problem for workers. Everyone feels like they need to go above and beyond and have good work ethic and that has created an environment where employers can easily take advantage of already underpaid workers. By including this phrase to mean you are “not smart” or mature (as this video seems to be more about maturity) it feeds that unhealthy culture that makes people feel they shouldn’t set personal boundaries.
At a job I once had, I had a coworker with whom I had nothing in common. We were polite but not friends. Our boss demanded we become friends. (she had done this with others) She got so mad when I, politely, told her that there was nothing in my contract that requires me to be friends with anyone let alone the coworker. I am polite and I do my job. That's contractual. Requiring me to be friends with someone with whom I have nothing in common is not only not in my job description and unacceptable, it's highly inappropriate. She transfered me to another branch and I promptly got a different job and quit.
I think the point she tried to make was that "smart people™" would be more tactful than snarkily saying "that's not in my job description," but I agree there's a time and place for everything... including being blunt and rude. Some people truly deserve it, if only to keep them away from you.
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Probably not, its more about emotional intelligence rather than maturity. On the other hand, maturity and emotional intelligence usually go hand in hand so it wouldn't be an inaccurate title.
@@TheOrangVegetal They could go with something like "I don't mean to be rude, but I have no control over my curiosity or opinions." Then say the indubitably rude thing. (Honesty goes far.)
2:52 This one is mostly true, although people overuse this. Whenever I say "no offense," it pertains to something that may be misinterpreted as offensive, but, in reality, is not, not something that is actually offensive.
I don't agree with a lot of what's said, since a lot of the phrases mentioned can be used appropriately in some situations. I am also very concerned about #8. To say that you cannot do something is to doubt your competence in a situation, which depending on the circumstances may be justified. It would be counter-intuitive to say you can do something that in reality you cannot, and even detrimental if you were to perform a task that you are not suited for where the consequences can result in some sort of loss, such as being asked to perform a stunt jump despite not having prior experience. Self doubt is as an important emotion as confidence. The degree of each you feel should reflect your ability, and there is always wisdom in knowing your limits.
For #8, what they mean is basically you should be more confident in yourself. Not cocky, but just you respect yourself. While it's good to know what you can't do, it's better to try to expand your limits than give up instantly. You should always know that there's more to be done. But if you *do* doubt yourself, always think: "Am I giving up for a better cause, or am I giving up because I think I can't do it?"
I also have an opinion on the first phrase. The first phrase states that usually smart people take the heavy load for an incident, regardless if they are really the cause of the problem I feel that this is not (technically) fair as this puts smart people in a position where they're basically the "superior" key to fixing a problem and people would use them so much that smart people would stress the hell out and it also makes them feel bad about themselves as they would at some point think it's actually their fault without thinking that the actual person who really caused it would take the fault and so this means that justice is not even an option for them and I feel bad about it
@@butlerofthemeows4314 But there are things I _literally_ cannot do, and if asked to do such a task, I should be honest. Otherwise, I’m just setting myself up for failure, which won’t help me or the people who need the task at hand done and done correctly.
@@butlerofthemeows4314 Psych2Go: traits of Intelligent people - lack of self confidence. Also Psych2Go: things that intelligent people will NEVER say - "I can't do this" because intelligent people have confidence in their abilities
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Wow, a lot of those examples said are objectively wrong when you consider the phrase "appropriate to the situation" within less than ten seconds of the video. "Its not my fault" is correct in scenarios that aren't the person's fault. "Its not fair" is correct in scenarios like racial oppression. "I have an high a high IQ and I'm smarter than you" is appropriate when someone doubles down on idiotic viewpoints. Such as idiots like Alex Jones "No offense" is used when someone doesn't really want to say what they're thinking but have no choice "This might be a stupid question" is a point blank acknowledgement of an alternate perspective on what they're about to say "I can't do it" is an acknowledgement of your limits. "I told you so" is pretty obvious as to why.
"this might be a stupid question" .... No? It's not called not being smart, it's called being afraid. Yall EVER seen how class works nowadays? You LITERALLY get bashed on both by teachers and pupils if you DARE to ask a question they think is 'stupid' and I'm honestly done with it, so I'd much rather say it first.....
@@Nekotaku_TV Don't say the question? You shouldn't have to keep quiet at all, in fact, you shouldn't have to day it mught be a stupid question in the first place.
@@Nekotaku_TV okay I'll just keep quiet about something I need to know very badly because it's possible that other people will think it's stupid, and so I won't know the answer and then I won't be able to work as efficiently and then I won't be able to continue with my education/job because I didn't say anything and I'll be stuck nowhere in life. And when they ask me why I got kicked out/fired, all I have to say is "oh I was afraid to ask a question that was crucial to my development in my studies/work field because others may find it stupid and bash me for even asking"
Title is kinda clickbaity. Not all intelligent people are gonna think the same, and everyone's gonna have flaws regardless of how smart they are. Just because you say some of the things on this list doesn't mean you're not intelligent :)
Bingo! It all comes down to statistics, and they will never be fully accurate since everyone thinks differently, intelligent people do tend to think alike with one another, but there's so many variables to each person's story that they could never shape out the same. Unless we were all immortal, then we would all be guaranteed to be the same, and different at the same "time", thanks time for being weird.
Personally, I agree lets say you act childish but in reality, you are pretty intelligent. Being a respected person is different from being intelligent, like you said, everyone has flaws.
This video seems to confuse life experience and wisdom with intelligence, I mean there is some correlation but this video doesn't even make a distinction between the two, Psych2Go sometimes gets a bit psuedo-science like or seem to misinterpret some things from time to time. I mean they're decent overall but it is often just a content machine pumping video after video out; seems like a lot more people are noticing this one video in particular as somewhat subpar to other videos regarding the same topic
Then you wouldn't say "It's not my fault" because you don't want to look defensive. Instead you would say something like "I feel like XYZ had an impact on this situation/had more impact than expected, which is why the problems happened." Essentially, you calmly state the reason for the failure and don't get defensive about it.
@@AutomaticDuck300 what if you don't care to be percieved a certain way and would just rather get your point across in a simple sentence? Or if you just don't know what happened in a situation and the only thing you know is that you weren't involved in it occuring?
@@bluerobot3806 then you would say that you weren't there when it happened. Or something like "I followed procedure completely so I'm not sure what went wrong." It's the fact that saying "It's not my fault" means that you come across as defensive and not being able to handle criticism (even if it's completely unfounded).
@@AutomaticDuck300 I don't see why you can't just simply say"it's not my fault" and it be a bad to seem or sound defensive. Why is it on them on what they're saying and not how they say it? When and why would a regular degular person come to the conclusion that they're being defensive for saying something so simple?
"It is not my fault." Is totally legit if you get blamed or shouted at for something that literally is not your fault nor responsibility. "This is not in my job description." Is also totally legit for a example if you are asked to use dangerous equipment you are not trained to use or say drive a vehicle you don't have clearance for. "I can't do it." Can also be legit though I would prefer "unable". "I told you so." Can also be legit if you have been warning others about something but they dismissed your warning.
I agree with everything except "I told you so". I just don't see an acceptable situation for this phrase. It is compketely pointless and indeed only used to brag. Peoole won't magically start listening to you when you say it even if you ARE correct. In fact may even choose not to listen to you because of this. So why even bother saying it?
@@Hollow__Heart Its supposed to be used at the point where its plainly evident that you were right. Like say the specialist who said that it was unsafe to launch Challenger in the circumstances and the launch should be aborted would have been entitled to say so after it blew up. Or the engineer who warned that the Miami bridge would collapse. Perhaps they will listen to you the next time. Personally I have used it after I said that a load should be strapped down and it had fallen over.
@@Suojeluninja Yeah, you could have the right to say it in certain situations. However, I think people who see that you were right would notice it without you pointing that out. And people who just don't care will still do what they want even if you are right. Just my thouths, can't say you are wrong here.
@@Suojeluninja I can see what you mean here, and as hollow heart said you have the right to say that in those certain situations, but I feel like it would come off as a bit childish or immature. but that's just my opinion.
I'm glad I am consciously aware of those phrases, The only one I was guilty of was the "This will only take a minute" I typically use it as a way to assure someone that what they are asking is not an overwhelming inconvenience. You are correct though in that it typically sets them up to be disappointed when the task takes longer than projected and is often not appreciated regardless of however daunting it may have been to complete it with haste. Thank you for the self reflection.
For ADHD people is the phrase "I can't do it" pretty common. Your brain physically doesn't allow you to do something at that moment especially when the brain is in "waiting mode". Lot of the phrases can be used by an ADHD person like the "no offense" because they lack of better way to say something. I'd like to edit specifying that we just have a different sense of what is normal and what is not but it doesn't make us any less emotionally intelligent
@@ZcattheNobody the video is based on a study done by LinkedIn. Psych2Go is not to blame, LinkedIn is. It's less of a "intelligent people don't do this" and more "businessmen say that intelligent people don't do this".
I don’t really agree with most of these because I feel like they’re just things that most people do and aren’t really a sign of intelligence but rather your personality. I especially disagree with the this might be a stupid question one because I feel like just because someone isn’t confident in their question doesn’t mean they aren’t smart. 2 of my best friends are really smart and yet one has high self confidence and the other doesn’t, that doesn’t mean that one of them is smarter then the other. The only one I agree with is the boasting about your IQ part because I don’t care how smart you are, if you’re rude then I don’t want to be around you.
Very true. Studies have shown that intelligent people tend to be more self-reflective and thus more critical of themselves than people with low intelligence, who often are unable to recognize their own shortcomings and thus unable to learn and improve. As a rule of thumb, a really stupid person will not be aware that he is asking a stupid question. Intelligent people also have the experience that they usually understand explanations easier than others, so if they don't get something and have to ask a question, they are more likely to feel embarassed about it. Thus assuming (or being aware) that your question might be a stupid question can actually be a sign of high intelligence. Granted, actually saying "this might be a stupid question" is not a smart move, because you belittle yourself infront of the others and expose your lack of confidence, but that is a matter of social skills and manipiulative tactics, not of overall intelligence.
I disagree with number 8. Smart people know their limitations. I know I can’t perform brain surgery and if someone asks me to do it, I wouldn’t “set my mind to it” and try and do more damage. I would suggest the requester find a brain surgeon and may try help to find one. While it’s good to stretch your skills, faking until making it is an irresponsible way to do it.
I agree with you! I think that intelligence is knowing what you can and cant do and be willing to question everything. For example, you wouldn't say a swimmer is a smart swimmer if he swims into a current or tries holding his breath as long as he can. A smart swimmer knows what not to do to avoid hurt.
Well I think they mean that you not trying to do the thinks you actualy can bc you think you not capable at this or not in the mood for it. For example cleaning your room. We all a able to do that with our own methods. And a smart person do it bc the person know that it will eventuell be too much too handle.
@@mirachan4830 At the same time though, not knowing you can't do something is harmful, is it smart to try to skydive on your own without any experience? Not having limits is harmful, saying you cant do something now is different.
@@jeremiahpeter4774 yeah may you can overdo youreself but lets for real the example chiruge, is a not that good bc if you study several years to be capable of it then nobody expect that you actualy can't see blood. So, you have to be a little bit concret to wich problem you refering to. That what I said it's what I think they mean. And sorry I didn't think someone with no education of a specific supject think "hec yeah I do that thought?" Every mum tought her kids that they go to the doctor when they sick. If she dont, then I just ask myself, why do she think that would be a good Idea?
Wisdom is a form of intelligence as it can only be gained through years of experience or at least from years of watching other people's trial and error
I think this is a semantic thing but Wisdom cannot be gained without intelligence. It's a collection of past data and the various outcomes of happenings to predict a future state of being for one's self/others. Some people might be wise without experiencing actual events due to our imaginations.
there seems to be some generalization and assumptions made here. "it's not my fault" is legitimately valid at some points. some people have been blamed for some rather weird things that took place without their knowledge and/or consent. some times its completely outside of their power of realm of influence. in this type of situation I would say it's completely intelligent for them to not take the blame. "it needs to be perfect" this just classified people with OCD as "not smart". not to mention almost every mathematician and scientist. perfection maybe an illusion and un-obtainable, it should be strived for in many situations. "that's not in my job description" while many times it is used in the act of being lazy, think about the times it could be detrimental. the anesthesiologist being asked to perform the brain surgery. or the flight attendant being asked to fly the plane. it's LITERALLY not in their job description lol. "it's not fair" hmmm they seem to try to make this into a narcissistic only phrase. sometimes it's actually not fair, but this phrase can be used when on the outside of a situation. "it's not fair that her child has to pay for the mother's contract" the IQ statement really depends on topic, while its extremely rude and condescending. if working on logical problems. I think this person needs more of a reality check in the area of manners however. and I would think that this one is a valid "smart people" generally will not use this statement. I've used the "no offence" as I have known a few others too, usually due to a lack of a softer way of saying something. while some may use this as a precursor to be mean and rude. some use this phrase to set up feed back on things someone maybe able to improve upon, and sadly in todays world many people take offence to even the smallest of criticisms. "this might be a stupid question" well first off no question is stupid 'cept those not asked. however I can see possible ways of this phrase being used. sometimes people can understand the concept as a whole but maybe stuck on a very simple base of an idea, especially when crossing into other areas of expertise. "I can't do it" understanding a persons limit is not a bad sign. again going back to examples from earlier... I would want the anesthesiologist and the flight attendant to say "I can't do it" rather than "sure, I'll get right on it!". if you don't ever say "I can't do it" because of what Ford said. that would mean you could hold up the 100,000 ton building with your bare hands. welcome to squishdom also the "I can't do it" could be a smart person having a moral limit to an action. "this will only take a minute" "hey I gotta carry in the groceries from the car, this will only take a minute"... IDK... seems legit time to say it. "I told you so" ummmm rude yes... but often said by scientists that proved a hypothesis after being told something couldn't be done. Some people with the "Can do" attitudes often strive for that moment. how about examples? most people: "man will never be able to fly" Wright brothers: "told you so" most people: man will never set foot on the moon NASA: "Told you so" many of these things seem to be personality trait issues rather than a sign of someone lacking intelligence. I can agree with many of their videos, this one... seems a bit reckless without greatly restricting the scenarios of each phrase.
"i told you so" can actually be used to bring someone up, my friend has AP classes and thought she was gonna fail her ap maths exam. i told her that she'll pass perfectly fine, and she did pass with flying colors! so yknow what i said? "told you that you'd pass!" though the phrase, "i told you so" is very commonly used with negative connotations, it can be good.
You forgot 1 thing, they always say this in exams. "Oh i didn't study" and gets a perfect score or "Im probably going to fail" But every time they say that they are always above passing score
I feel like you can be an intelligent individual who’s going through a really hard time (i.e. depressed, unmotivated, lack of self confidence, poor external circumstances, etc) and still say these things.
please don't take this video too literally. it has some good points but they're generalizations not to be automatically applied to everyone in every situation. some examples - there's so many things wrong here. for one thing - its not a sign of intelligence to allow yourself to be exploited and do jobs your WEREN'T hired to do. and "i told you so" is perfectly acceptable when you're constantly ignored and things get screwed up because of the stupidity of others. i'm CONSTANTLY punished for the mistakes of others and i'm damned sick of it. there's other examples too. now, please do a video where using sexually oriented expletives in your common speech is a sign of ignorance and immaturity. i'm constantly hearing idiots defend the indefensible saying there's nothing wrong using the "f" word in everyday speech, around kids, in public, as a verb, adjective and noun. that disgusting word is in our movies, tv shows, our songs, on t-shirts and protest signs. IT EVERYWHERE! you can't escape it and its damned disgusting.
@@cjmacq-vg8um I agree with the notion that everything the clip said is questionable, it would first need to differentiate between what types of intelligent people who never use said expression as its current generalization is too broad, but from the topics in question that it seemed to refer to, it seems like it targeted socially adept people, but the notion of "never" is certainly exaggerated as most people tend to do mistakes before learning from them to varying degrees. As for your request to psych2go to make a video to tell people they are immature or ignorant for using swear words in everyday speech, it could be argued that your inability to accept people saying whatever they want, wherever they want is a sign of immaturity in its own right, yes, you may not like how normalized it is in your environment, but I doubt a single content creator regarding mental health will affect said people that you want it to affect, not to mention it almost feels like you wish to force your own perception of using said word as if the users themselves suddenly become more immature or ignorant for using it. Do keep in mind, using any word you don't know the original meaning of or its uses, can make you seem immature or ignorant. From your few words I get the impression that you believe it always signify the joining of two people doing a sexual act, however it's sometimes used as a swear word that more or less simply curses a situation, even though the word may have had an original meaning, what matters more is how people use it, meaning that even the meaning of a word changes depending on its usage. Honestly, rather than promoting shaming, I would advise you to promote acceptance, people will use as mentioned, whatever words they want, whenever they want, in any situation they want, the only thing you can change is how you view them and associate with said people. If it troubles you as much as you seem to imply, then I'm troubled that you keep putting yourself in situations where it makes you believe "IT EVERYWHERE!" which makes me question your choices.
Intellectuals speak a lot. High intellect people know how useless speaking/sharing their opinion/ideology/theory/lessons of life/, truly is. This is why we just aren't that socialized.
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I think most of these phrases can be stated by anyone depending on the context, regardless of intelligence. 1. “It’s not my fault” If it REALLY isn't your fault, and you're being blamed for it, then you'll definitely say it at some point. 2. “This needs to be perfect” Less on literally achieving perfection, but to keep yourself in a high-mental state, especially for high-stakes work. 3. “That’s not in my job description” When you're a consultant/professional specializing in a particular service, you won't be fond of doing something outside of what you learned/trained to do. Instead, you redirect them to someone who CAN - and get a referral fee ;) 4. “It’s not fair” When it's literally not fair - like working hard for a project to succeed and have other people take the credit. Or worse, not get paid for it. 5. “I have a high IQ therefore I am smarter than you” Less of actually lording your IQ to other people, but rather a last ditch argument against someone who's extremely stubborn to get them to do their job. 6. “No offence but...” Can't think of anything here. I don't really say this. 7. “This might be a stupid question” Confidence issues. 8. “I can’t do it” Context - for instance, if you're too busy and they're demanding you to do another task, either put it on hold until you finish existing tasks or direct them to someone who can. You might even get a referral fee, huehuehue 9. “This will only take a minute” For small tasks, like household chores or menial tasks. They may not necessarily take one minute, but it denotes you they will have your attention shortly. 10. “I told you so” Catharsis. For instance, if they insist the solution is one way, despite trying to convince them to come up with another. Then they screw themselves over. You don't even have to say it, actually.
"This might be a stupid question..." Confidence issues? Sure. But that does not make one unintelligent. If it was asked as part of a class, or if you're fresh into a job, you wanna dot the i's and cross the t's. Nothing wrong with questioning the obvious, in case everybody is wrong about something they all just assumed. It CAN happen.
Your argument for referring business partners to others with tasks you weren't originally expected to do is a number one way to miss out on any future opportunities and lets the people you work with not rely on you. By saying, "that's not my job description" or "i can't do it," it comes off as someone who's giving you their own hard-earned cash, "This person can't adapt to little changes I've asked for them." Then they'll spread the word telling their colleagues and partners that they needed to be referred to another person for a problem the person they originally paid money for (us) wasn't willing to be more open-minded. I absolutely get not doing labor outside of your description, but small acts like those can go a long way. You are also a business when working a job; since you're still giving service to a company, that service/product is your time.
@archwaldo thanks for pointing that out. I admit when I made a mistake and don't blame others for it, but I also don't wanna be blamed for things where I didn't do anything wrong. Also there are some tasks that are usually the work of a whole other department in the company. Why would I have to do them especially when I don't have the right skills for them? It just stresses me out and makes my day miserable when I have to do things I'm not really comfortable doing, also makes me champion in procrastinating. That has nothing to do with seeing some work as inferior to what I'm paid for, just seeing some work as "not meeting my abilities". Directly connected to 8. Some things are just not fair e.g. being paid less than your colleagues for doing the same job. If you don't talk about it then you'll never get equal pay. I got a colleague who's daughter earned more after just finishing her apprenticeship (in a not top paid job) than her mom after years of working and getting experience. I think I'm allowed to point out face to face with my boss that this is not fair without having my intelligence questioned.
"This needs to be perfect/is not good enough" is nothing but setting aims, intelligent people will work on something for as long as they need to, to make it perfect from their point of view. Making something flawless is always possible, it just takes time. And now let's be honest here, most of us don't even know what to do with their years over years of lifetime, so making something "perfect" is the only reasonable option.
I agree, and it isn't always a matter of bringing about "perfection", but rather just what improvements can be made. For most things, improvements can always be made.
"In this world, nothing perfect exists. It may be a cliche, after all... but it's the way things are. That's precisely why ordinary men pursue the concept of perfection ,it's infatuation.... But ultimately,I have to ask myself: what is the true meaning of being perfect? And the answer I came up with was: nothing. Not. One. Thing. The truth of the matter is, I despise perfection. If something is truly perfect, that's it. The bottom line becomes. There is no room for imagination. No space for intelligence. Or ability. Or improvement! Do you understand?! To men of science like us, perfection is a dead end, a condition of hopelessness! Always strive to be better than anything that came before you, but not perfect." - Bleach, fictional character Mayuri Kurotsuchi
@@a_angry_bunny Appreciate the quote, but I think in reality, scientists rather strive towards perfection, like medicine that easily heals any desease, or protheses that are exactly like real body parts. But it is true that the idea of reaching a limit seems offputting.
“That’s not in my job description” Being overnight security instead of just night shift cashier/drive through window attendant wasn’t in my job description, but it was fun just watching the back door camera and seeing what was going on.
So Intelligence is not just about IQ.In many media you can see arrogant,but intelligent people.Light Yagami from death note is an example for a childish,yet superiorly smart.
@@ahmadmanga Actually 'L' defines 'Kira' as 'childish' to the task force early on the series.L also considers himself childish,but is actually very very practical and unimpulsive.But hides it with his antics and emotionless face.
'THIS MIGHT BE A STUPID QUESTION BUT..' 'this is bad because it makes people lack confidence in what youre about to say' ... that's... what im going for.. im trying to make them think what im gonna say is bad so theyre prepared incase its bad
@@AutomaticDuck300 that depends on the situation. A lot of bad things happening to people can be completely out of their control. For example any kind of assault. It's not your responsibility to try to prevent it, it's not your fault, it's the responsibility of the person who assault you to not assault you but they did. And it's the responsibility of justice to bring, well, justice, and prevent it from happening. So sometimes it's healthy and actually intelligent to say, it's not my fault
I don't agree with some of them but the worst one is "I can't". It's so important for people to stop pressuring themselves needlessly, this point is only fuel for your mind to go "You aren't trying hard enough, do more, do more". It's really really unhealthy to not know when to stop and say "I can't" .If you feel like you can't do it, don't force yourself, sometimes you just can't do something no matter how hard you try, that's life.
@@SansAziza yes they know traps after seeing another rat get got by traps. And also when they see new food they nibble on it and stay away for a few hours and if they are not poisoned they know the food is safe.
Hi Psych2Go. I want to start by saying that I love this channel, and I deeply admire the thought and sensitivity you put into your videos. As someone who struggles with mental illness, has worked with mental illness, and has many loved ones with mental illness, that compassion means a lot. That said, I find myself having a viceral reaction to some points in this video, and after sitting with them a while find myself craving more nuance. The majority of the points you make are good ones, but there are three that stand out. “That’s not in my job description." - While sometimes this phrase can be callous and dismissive, there are times when it's setting a healthy boundary, particularly at work. People with authority often take advantage of those whose job is unrelated, and make unrealistic demands of their time and energy. Sometimes it is worthwhile to sacrifice for a cause, or to meet an important goal, but it's not always the case. In other cases, it's important to preserve integrity and dignity. “It’s not fair.” - While often this phrase is used to express one not getting their own way, there are times when unfairness needs to be confronted. Say when someone approaches you in bad faith, or makes assumptions about an issue that cast it in the worst possible light. Fairness begins with ourselves as individuals, and when considering others and the world around us I don't feel it's out of line to expect fairness in turn. “I can’t do it.” - I understand that in the context of the video the phrase means that there is no goal you cannot meet, given time, dedication and sacrifice. But there are times when positive affirmations of your own potential push beyond your limits. How many times have I seen a friend or a client push themselves beyond their capacity to reach a lofty goal, only to burn themselves out and spend long periods of time in recovery? How often have I done the same? Sometimes the healthiest thing to say is "I can't do this." For someone such as myself whose barriers include ADHD, autism and bipolar disorder, acknowledging and respecting my limits - at least in the short term - has been liberating, and overall positive for my mental health. I'm hoping all of this is conveyed with the good faith that it's intended. These are my thoughts and feelings on the subject, and hopefully doesn't read as a rebuke. Thank you again for all of your wonderful content, and I hope this can start a positive conversation.
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Understanding the difference between academic and social intelligence is important, but what's more important is understanding just how little most of these phrases actually matter when understanding your intelligence. Especially "I can't do it." Understanding your current limitations is a sign of a great deal of intelligence! I was being trained to work in the cash office at a hardware store, with 0 prior experience, and less than a week to get the hang of it before the employee who was moving out of state would be gone, and the store would NEED me, or someone else, to fill the position. I spent 2 days attempting to grasp all of the information and committing it all to memory, before I realized I lacked a lot of crucial communication and organization skills that would be NECESSARY to do the job correctly. Knowing that, and understanding that the store needed someone on a strict deadline, I told my manager that I couldn't handle the position. If I had committed to it, and attempted to work that position anyway, I likely would've cost the store a lot of money, my managers a lot of grief, and myself my job. I fully understand the intent of this video, but it's irresponsible to frame the video in a way that says "Smart people never say this", (because therefore, "Stupid people may say this") when people who are actually intelligent often DO say these phrases within certain contexts. The comment section is surprisingly helpful, but I can't help but feel bad for the people who may have watched this video and walked away with a worse view of themselves or others around them because of it.
I disagree. Doesn’t the way you’re raised have a bigger impact on your habbits? For example, if you grow up with parents always blaming it all on the world around, aren’t you likely too adopt these habbits? Or the ”this might be a stupid question,” can’t the low confidence come from, for example, incompetent teachers not willing to answer the ”stupid” questions? And can’t these sayings also come from immaturity?
I dont see how the habit of blaming everything coming from childhood makes it any different than you just having it in general. That is a really idiotic statement. If you blame your mistakes on everything and everyone else, how do you expect to grow, and why does it matter whether you got it from your parents or not?
i understand you're point. but i'm nothing like my parents or my siblings. somehow i escaped their genetic stupidity. there's so many things wrong here. for one thing - its not a sign of intelligence to allow yourself to be exploited and do jobs your WEREN'T hired to do. and "i told you so" is perfectly acceptable when you're constantly ignored and things get screwed because of the stupidity of others. i'm CONSTANTLY punished for the mistakes of others and i'm damned sick of it. there's other examples too. now, please do a video where using sexually oriented expletives in your common speech is a sign of ignorance and immaturity. i'm constantly hearing idiots defend the indefensible saying there's nothing wrong using the "f" word in everyday speech, around kids, in public, as a verb, adjective and noun. that disgusting word is in our movies, tv shows, our songs, on t-shirts and protest signs. IT EVERYWHERE! you can't escape it and its damned disgusting.
I've watched your first point in action my entire life. I'm not sure where precisely it began because I don't really know anything about my extended family besides 'he was a dirty old man' or 'she managed to break a new bone every month.' Anyway, my grandparents have always ranted and raved about the way the world and everyone in it fucks them over at every turn. I'm not entirely sure how I didn't end up like that because they primarily raised me, but I know my mother isn't like that either. However, my mother's three siblings and my few cousins that came from those siblings are all the exact same; everyone's out to get them and it's never their fault unless you say something that directly points the blame at them and then they get pissed for a month before they start saying "maybe I am like that" but they're still mad about it- Sorry, anyway... Yes, I think social upbringing has something to do with those sorts of outlooks. I was also raised by the internet so my breakaway from the pattern might've been influenced by listening to and watching other much more mature people talk about and deal with problems. I hope to be an equally positive influence on my youngest cousins because my mother and I about as close to opposites to their families as it gets. It's just not a healthy way to live- thinking everyone is trying to ruin your life and being pissed off 24/7. I'm half-certain I can blame my severe social anxieties on my family because of their behaviour throughout my childhood, but I try to be better than that and seek help when I need it, and just break the cycle in general.
@coons Exactly. I'm well aware that the emotional abuse I've faced isn't my fault. Therefore, whenever I say "this might be a stupid question" or anything similar out of fear, I'm well aware that it became a habit due to my upbringing. I would also often lash out at people for no reason. However, I do know that it's up to me to break out my habits and get the therapy I need. (Which, I have been getting!) I'll take accountability if I hurt someone else, get something wrong, or anything else that is truly my fault and my fault alone. But how I was treated and the results of that will never be my fault. The only thing that is- is if I *continue* any toxic behavior that I'm eventually made aware of is toxic. Sure, many of my toxic behavioral patterns developed from my past, but that doesn't give me *any* excuse to continue it. I can't hurt someone and go "oh, I was severely emotionally abused! So it's not my fault I keep hurting you over and over!" When it very much is. Again: my past *explains* my actions, but it doesn't and will never *excuse* them. *Especially* if I continue them even after being called out. And you're right with your last statement, as well. They equate being mentally healthy with intelligence. From my understanding, there are also different types of intelligence. Anyone, mentally healthy or not, is fully capable of being intelligent in their own way. Emotional intelligence, mathematical intelligence, social intelligence, et cetera. I still consider my IQ immensely low, though. I'm a true idiot at heart.
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I recently realized that the more I talk to myself the better responses I give because I always ask myself first whether what I'm saying is neccecary or not.
I say "this might be a stupid question, but..." because I have anxiety. I over think my every decision. It essentially means that if the person I'm talking to is displeased or confused, then I understand because I feel I put it across as such, usually because I decide that's the most acceptable way to say it which will avoid the most negative outcomes. I don't say the rest, which also makes me wonder, if you are forced to question your own intelligence based off of a UA-cam video and other people's thoughts, are you really that intelligent? Or do you simply have a different thought process?
Number 7 doesn't feel right to me: "This might be a stupid question, but..." I'm not sure it's a good thing to shame people for having the self awareness to recognize they may not be fully understanding something, nor to dissuade them from seeking information...if you're not sure about something, surely the 'intelligent' thing to do is ask? Maybe you mean not to start a sentence with that particular phrase but ask the question anyway, but I don't feel like your meaning is entirely clear in the video.
@@thebutterscotchkid2481 Well, to me it would be like saying "I'm not racist, but..." and then proceeding to say something racist; regardless of the semantics of the word "shame", the title 'Intelligent People NEVER Say These 10 Phrases' is certainly something I'd disagree on, at least on this particular point - regardless of the introduction of a professed caveat.
Happy Sunday everyone! Do you feel more intelligent already? ;)
"Nope my brain haven't been working tho."
i'm stupid so no
I need to goto school physically tomorrow where it is a dark period time of my life since it is also exam week -_-
I’ve been working on a paper for 3 days straight, so no
yes! :D
This is more like maturity rather than intelligence but I guess maturity is a good indicator of emotional intelligence
wow im mature at 14 and i thought i was dumb but yet theres a sliver amount of evidence so I might just be wrong.
@@lucicist You may be mature for your age, but you still have many more life lessons ahead of you before you can start calling yourself mature. Maturity is more like a metric of lessons learned than a quality of your personality
@@impactium_8508 thanks for correcting me I was lacking information and other words in my statement
@@impactium_8508 but regardless thanks for this insight
This is a hundred percent correct
Being socially mature or socially confident and being intelligent are NOT the same thing, though
Yes, that's an important distinction. Thanks for pointing that out.
I'm in Mensa, and I just opened a sentence with "I'm in Mensa."
😂😂
@DeadRat nope, from my experience I would say most highly intelligent people have no social skills
@DeadRat nah, before a curtain virus I was a student helper working in my school's inclusion and the people.that we help with social interaction tend to be the people who's predicted grades are around the grade 8 to 9 mark(the two highest grades for GCSE) so my conclusion of intelligent people not being very good with social interaction is based upon what I have seen, not based on blind stereotyping.
@@House_of_Killjoys Bro.. You are only thinking of one type of intelligence, intelligence various in multiple ways and you are basically stereotyping them which i will explain later on why.
For instance Linguistic-Verbal Intelligence which is intelligence you are very good with your words and writing, not all of these people are sociable but many are since their way of words attracts people. Take Malcolm X for example; he may not be Einstein level smart but is very well smart, and very sociable/charismatic thus attracted many peoples attention.
Interpersonal Intelligence people which i consider more of a verbal intelligence and can be very social due to their way of understanding people and their emotions. (You can make a conclusion on this as for why and how)
Also a lot of other types of intelligent people are very sociable and attract others but media.. well you know they stereotype them. Oh and you only ever met two "Intelligence" people.. but you really gonna base whole group of various intelligent people based on few or from your evidence 2..?? Also grades do not define that someones intelligence especially since there are many, it simply means they are hardworking and/or curious(like learning).. unless they are like elementary schoolers with high school or college school knowledge level lol.
Many Psychopaths are very sociable (charismatic) too.. and they are considered very smart or intelligent (I don't need to explain this one lol).
I also so want to add very good liars, in this list too.. making very good lies (which are very much believable) and not saying the real truth is prove to be very hard especially considering needing to control over your emotions, also makes them very smart and can be very charismatic especially if they have a mind of psychopaths or have Antisocial personality.
"Its not my fault"
My brother: breaks a plate
Parents: *blames me*
Parents: *yeah, we big brain*
Yeah if you were smart enough, you’ll come up with reasons to push the blame back
Well, it's normal and funny 😆
@@joesr31 then they be like: OH? You're talking back HUH?
This could be great for Among Us.
Fun fact: saying "no offense" will offend somebody more than without it
Saying no offence implies you are about to say something offensive purposely.
Would it be better to say “Sorry if I offended you” after the sentence you typed? I’m not sure if saying that is just as bad as saying “No offence but…” I’m not too sure about which one would be better.
@@Burning_Marshmallow, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all
@@SilveeYT If someone is fucking up it's better that you say something than to rub their back.
@@Burning_Marshmallow I just say what my intention is, like:
"Hey I have to say because this is bothering me. . ."
"I don't think we understood eachother here. . ."
Saying what is it you intend is way more effecttive than saying wha you don't.
I present to you, the most unlikely conversation between two smart people ever:
A: "Hey, I have this thing I need you to do. But don't worry, it will only take a minute."
B: "I can't do it. That's not in my job description."
A: "No offense, but you have to do it."
B: "That's not fair."
A: "Look, I really need you to do this, because it needs to be perfect."
B: "This might be a stupid question, but why don't you do it yourself?"
A: "Because I have a high IQ, therefore I'm smarter than you."
B: "What? That makes no sense. I don't get it?!"
A: "See, I told you so."
This is gold
are you a god?
This is amazing 😂
afmsfnsidkfnwef who tf talks like that anyways wtf
'I will do it because I want to.'
I'm so intelligent that I never call anyone dumb or stupid. I call them "insolent fools."
I call them peasants. BOW
I prefer being called peasant over an insolent fool ;)
Ha! I win hahaha
@@Psych2go I'm too sensitive to be called an insolent fool
Extra points if you dis people in another language.
ばか (fool)
Claim your "I guess I am an idiot" here. I know I surely did.
Claimed.
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"Expecting perfection is to set yourself up for failure."
I'm guilty to this when I was on my teenage days. Now I've learned not to look for perfection, that's why I discovered the key to one's satisfaction, which is to do the best of what you can offer, that way you'll not regret at the end! 🙂
my perfectionist brain could NEVERRRR
@@Mrs.Genz123 That's why I've yet to actually finish any of my drawings
The amount of mcyt references that have been showing up are crazy...
Ranboo’s crown
Disc poster
An enderman throw
ANOTHER disc poster
Technoblade plushie
Dream pillow
“Your new boyfriend” poster
A Ranboo poster
Wilbur and Tubbo’s shirts
Whoever is animating is trying and succeeding in summoning this entire fandom over and over again-
AND IT WORKED
Timestamp for will and tubbos shirts?
@@graysonlevi9461 3:43
Could I have timestamps for all of these? ^^
@@anna_9195
Ranboo’s Crown- 0:09
Disc Poster- 1:45
Enderman Throw- 3:03
2nd disc poster/techno plushie/dream pillow/new boyfriend poster/Ranboo poster/tubbo and Wilbur shirts- 3:36
1. “It’s not my fault”
2. “This needs to be perfect”
3. “That’s not in my job description”
4. “It’s not fair”
5. “I have a high IQ therefore I am smarter than you”
6. “No offence but...”
7. “This might be a stupid question”
8. “I can’t do it”
9. “This will only take a minute”
10. “I told you so”
Thank you
“It’s not fair” is a perfectly reasonable phrase. The statement “life isn’t fair” is stupid. Anyone who says that is just complacent in the dull, awful world they live in.
@@InkSans_FandomSoda I agree, life is shit and we should be allowed ro complain about it
Lol
But... IQ is not a measurement of how intelligent you are, even though it stands for Intelligence Quotient. It's really dumb that they named it that because all it determines is how much you're capable of achieving if you choose to apply yourself to the fullest. And your IQ decreases with age anyway, especially if you don't apply yourself over the years. If you do have a much higher IQ than someone, then if you're using it as an excuse to try and make them do something, maybe they don't have the capability to achieve that and YOU should be the one doing it instead.
kid: "drops his ice cream"
mother: oh no. you should be more careful
kid: would you mind telling me what I could improved on, so I can do better next time.
mother: 👁👄👁
I'm dying of laughter
You made my day
exactly, injustices exist, some things in life are just not fair.
Mother: your posture is wrong, why are you even walking with an ice-cream in your hand? Get a plate! You never eat properly and drop things everywhere.
XDDD
The "why smart people struggle with relationships" video made me feel VERY smart and this one brought me down to earth
i say none of these except no offense, when i mean no offense but understand it may come across as offensive. And I'm also single for 23 years, and I'm 23 years old. Wouldnt say I'm smart tho XD
When you regularly say all of these:
Uh oh same
@@bluegloriousgames all
Ikr TIL (for the millionth time) I am unintelligent
Chuckles, i am in danger
Ouch
5 things to quit right now:
1. Overthinking
2. Worrying
3. Trying to make everyone happy
4. Living in the past
5. Doubting yourself
6: Spending more money than you make
7: Spending time (aka, your life) on pettiness
8: Thinking "time is money" (I can get money back. Time/life can't be un-wasted.)
9. Making a list on what to quit and then not actually doing the list
10. Making unrealistic goals and beating yourself up over not being able to achieve them.
HOW DID YOU DESCRIBE ME SO WELL????
12. Binging self-help videos on UA-cam instead of working on yourself
Usually when I say "This is a stupid question but..." it's because I don't want them to think I'm stupid for asking a stupid question
If the question is indeed stupid, adding that phrase would not make it less stupid, if anything, it makes you look less confident. If you have a question, just ask and ppl will admire your confidence for asking questions. Anyone who judge someone who genuinely try to ask questions, should mind their own business and a proof of their childiness.
Also, people like to act smart so by asking questions, enforces that behavior and helps to bond with whoever you are speaking with. Think of it as a presenter to a group of ppl, you would feel better if people are engaging in your presentation by asking questions instead of *cricket noise*. Teachers usually like it too cos they feel like they are doing something productive.
That being said, it helps to he prepare before entering into a class/meeting/discussion. For example, if you don't want to sound stupid in class, pay attention in class, read materials before the class and write notes. Same thing in business meetings. That way, when you ask a question, it will be a question that has not been addressed instead of lagging the session by asking questions when it was already addressed earlier.
So instead of adding "This is a stupid question but", avoid it all together cos it hurts you more than it helps you and do your prep before entering into a discussion to avoid asking "stupid question"
@@cymjeff92 honestly, it can depend quite a bit on how you say it and in what environment you are in, lets paint a picture, you're at a party, everyone is more or less full or drugged, you laugh a bit with a smile and laid back attitude, then say something along the lines "Hey mate, this is a stupid question but [...]" in which you proceed to ask the question and then you both laugh it off and they might even answer it honestly, I should ofc mention that depending on how "stupid" the question is, it can even be laughed off as a joke, so that sentence doesn't always hurt you, in some situations it can even make the other party look dumb for not even having thought about the question you're asking (meaning that it can be said with those opening words to mock another party which has ignored something that could potentially be obvious).
same!
@@doopyman ok
There is no such thing as a stupid question.. only a stupid answer
“This needs to be perfect.”
Is it just me or is this something that I always think to myself but never say?
Quick Summary:
1. 0:43 "It is not my fault."
2. 1:07 "This needs to be perfect."
3. 1:32 "This is not in my job description."
4. 2:00 "This isn't fair."
5. 2:26 "I have high IQ and therefore I am smarter than you."
6. 2:50 "No offense but...."
7. 3:14 "This might be a stupid question but..."
8. 3:33 "I can't do it."
9. 3:54 "This will only take a minute."
10. 4:19 "I told you so."
And yes, my fellow human beings, I have accomplished the power of Time Travel.
EDIT: 798 likes!!!! Thanks a lot people!!! You all have just made my day!!!
Now I know many of you are asking how I "travel through time". But we all can do this. Just follow the steps:
1. Go to the playlist tab on this channel.
2. Change the "sort by" filter to "last video added".
3. Click on any playlist and scroll down to the end. Look out for new thumbnails. If you are not sure, then click on the video and check the number of views. Less than 100 views means you have accomplished your mission.
*Note:* This works faster on laptop or PC.
*Note 2:* You don't have to be a member to do this.
That's it from my side, try it and tell me how it goes.
Much love, Bless you all.
Sending more power to you all.
Wtf, the video was just released
wait how did you comment before this video was public?
I was lookin for a comment like this lol
3 days ago but posted 26 seconds ago??
@@pedrocamargo278 lol
Alternate title: "Phrases you should never use (during your daily life)"
It makes you sound more trustworthy and less arrogant
True, true.
I say I told you so all the time
1. "It's not my fault"
2. "This needs to be perfect"
3. "That's not in my job description"
4. "It's not fair"
5. "I have a high iQ therefore I am smarter than you"
6. "No offence but..."
7. "This might be a stupid question, but.."
8. "I can't do it"
9. "This will only take a minute"
10. "I told you so"
Tanx
Saved me 5 mins. Thanx
@@incognitolettuce4877 i agree so much
People who say number 5: Stephen Hawking thinks you’re a loser
Haha, I do that
"Smart people never say i cant do it"
Me: i can do it,but im too lazy to do so
I wish I was smart maybe my parents would actually appreciate me instead of looking at other children and smiling over them. I’m trying my best I sometimes even clean the floor just to please them.
Your so nice!
My parents are like that, like damn it hurts.
lol
Ooooh, another time traveler 😉
it doesnt mean that you arent smart. maybe your parents are only looking at your grades? grades dont measure intelligence.
This sounds more like "confident people" rather than intelligent
I think such traits require some sort of intelligence to have this kind of behavior, although I do think there are other traits and personalities necessary for these types of behavior to pop up.
I know right. It got me when they said "it seems like you lack confidence," as if smart people *never* lack confidence. 😂
@@kukalakana I hate that word because all competitions or school program will have smart people in it and they all very confident
And I am a lazy but very intelligent and not too confident but shy
Yeah, some of these are a huge stretch. Some of these are related to EQ ("No offense, but..." "I told you so"), but some of these have absolutely nothing to do with any form of intelligence. "This might be a stupid question" has nothing to do with intelligence, that's strictly a confidence thing (and I'm a little uncomfortable with condeming people for saying that - it's one thing to judge someone for saying "I have a higher IQ and am therefore smarter than you" because that's being a douchebag, but judging someone for lacking in confidence seems kind of nasty to me).
@@Type75Advance "not too confident but shy" lmao
To be wise is not the same as being intelligent.
I STRONGLY AGREE ✔️
ok
But normally you can’t be wise without having at least superior intelligence.
And an apple is not a fruit
@@shirase8244 what why
i say its not my fault but only when its not my fault
Smart people don’t worry about how other people percieve them or the everyday cliches they might use, so there’s that….
You're completely right
Why you callin me out
Sometimes u need ppl to like u
Smart people care about how they're perceived, even if they don't agree with it or judge other people the same way. Smart people play the game of social interaction even if they don't like the rules or expectations.
That's not always true
"I told you so."
I used this phrase countless times as a child. It wasn't because of some superiority complex or bragging (maybe some bragging). It was more of a disappointed response after warning them of a likely outcome. Of course, the warning went unheeded and the outcome came to past, which was often a problem that could've been avoided if they had listened. I stopped using this phrase because I've gradually learned that people tend to not listen to advice and will often forge their own path/solution, either that or they want to complain.
Old habits die hard, I see. :/
I still do that and only for that reason, not to brag. Yes, it's a bad habit, but in the same breath i do offer to help with their problem
I also do it because most of the time when I warned someone about something and instead, they all teamed up and made fun of me and when the thing I warned them happened. They were all panicking and blaming each other so I always say "I told you so" lol
I've learned in my latter adult years that you almost never can stop human momentum, and you shouldn't want to. A person only truly does what they're inclined to do in the first place, forcing or convincing them otherwise only leads to unproductive outcomes
One, they probably compensate by fulfilling their desire in some other way, and usually in excess. Two, they probably do that thing anyway and lie to you and whoever else necessary. Three, they resent you as being the principle reason they didn't do what they were inclined to do. And four, in the end they probably end up doing that thing one day anyway. Weeks, months, years, decades late.... so what was the point?
I've learned that when someone is inclined to do something stupid, destructive, or just benignly unproductive..... let them do it. And I don't try to stop them or talk them out of it, in fact, I support them. And when things go wrong for them, and they usually do lol, I'm there for them then too
A heart who cares enough to criticize, cares enough to help too. That's my motto now. If you care enough about a person to say "I told you so", you should care enough to help them with their self-inflicted problems. And if you don't care to help them with their problem, then what do you care about them doing something stupid in the first place???
@@arkguy5103, that's toxic. :c Never stoop to another person's level...
I want to point out that saying “that’s not in my job description” should be perfectly acceptable if people don’t want to continue being taken advantage of. It’s not about a willingness to go above and beyond. Sometimes it’s about setting boundaries. People should get payed for the work they do and not be told they have the wrong attitude if they expect to.
some can be used in a different context soo...
I agree, and think that whoever wrote the script for this video is ignore these complex factors regarding workplace culture. I've seen this happen plenty of times while working at an office before. Older co-workers will literally try to give their work to younger co-workers or try to get them to do the work they don't feel like doing even if the person is not that experienced in it or already has a lot to do. Telling them this statement doesn't mean you're "not smart", and that's honestly absurd thinking. People are allowed to stand up for themselves if they are being taken advantage of. In fact, not speaking up when this is happening or you are aware this is going on is actually what's "not smart" because then you are letting people pile work onto you and overworking yourself when you should be getting your own stuff done. Some entries in this video are a bit off.
yeah
Like pointed out in the video, it is generally the better idea to consult with you direct manager about the tasks you are unwilling to do, instead of straight up avoiding the situation with the phrase "it's not my job description." Meaning, the video is referring to the situation when someone avoids a task like that, instead of communicating with superiors.
@@muyodosel1658 I hear you, but just by including this in the list they are perpetuating a value system that has become a problem for workers. Everyone feels like they need to go above and beyond and have good work ethic and that has created an environment where employers can easily take advantage of already underpaid workers. By including this phrase to mean you are “not smart” or mature (as this video seems to be more about maturity) it feeds that unhealthy culture that makes people feel they shouldn’t set personal boundaries.
At a job I once had, I had a coworker with whom I had nothing in common. We were polite but not friends. Our boss demanded we become friends. (she had done this with others) She got so mad when I, politely, told her that there was nothing in my contract that requires me to be friends with anyone let alone the coworker. I am polite and I do my job. That's contractual. Requiring me to be friends with someone with whom I have nothing in common is not only not in my job description and unacceptable, it's highly inappropriate. She transfered me to another branch and I promptly got a different job and quit.
0:09 Ranboo cup
1:48 discs on the wall
3:06 enderman chair
3:36 room of dream smp stan (relatable)
(I love you animators for doing this)
Also in the beginning saying do you blur out word very easily it a tommyinnit reference since he blurrs out word alot
1:13 there is a Poster on the wall with „New riend“ I am sure it means „New Boyfriend“ 🧡
i know i love how they added that
It's at 69 likes
@@ungabungalunga1002 YOOOO
imagine if they asked a lawyer to do surgery and he doesn’t say “thats not in my job description.”
It sounds a bit rude. The lawyer could say "Sorry but I'm not qualified to do that you need a surgeon"
I think the point she tried to make was that "smart people™" would be more tactful than snarkily saying "that's not in my job description," but I agree there's a time and place for everything... including being blunt and rude. Some people truly deserve it, if only to keep them away from you.
dsmp timestamps
thumbnail: ranboo mug
0:08 ranboo mug
2:02 the kid resembles tubbo a bit (idk if it's him)
3:35 left to right: disc poster: your new boyfriend poster, dream in the corner, techno on the shelf, and ranboo poster above the tv
"Jump off a building and survive."
"I can't do it!"
"YOU IDIOT."
*Dies on impacted
You fool!
"i told you so" admittedly I use this cause people don't LISTEN and screws up EXACTLY AS I POINTED OUT .
Nobody's mature when they are pissed .
Title should be "MATURE People NEVER Say These 10 Phrases".
But they do 🥺
Probably not, its more about emotional intelligence rather than maturity. On the other hand, maturity and emotional intelligence usually go hand in hand so it wouldn't be an inaccurate title.
@@TheOrangVegetal They could go with something like "I don't mean to be rude, but I have no control over my curiosity or opinions." Then say the indubitably rude thing. (Honesty goes far.)
god take over this channel if you mind please
I mean, it depends what you mean by mature, because I can be mature, but around my friends often choose not to be mature lol
Introverts, who don't socialize and so don't talk too much: *"I missed the part where that's my problem."*
*_oof_*
Got some serious spider-man nostalgia right there
I felt that
Ahahah I was listening to this, felt never saying this, then realize I tend to be an introvert
that's me.
mute people: i dont have such weaknesses!!!
2:52 This one is mostly true, although people overuse this. Whenever I say "no offense," it pertains to something that may be misinterpreted as offensive, but, in reality, is not, not something that is actually offensive.
I don't agree with a lot of what's said, since a lot of the phrases mentioned can be used appropriately in some situations.
I am also very concerned about #8. To say that you cannot do something is to doubt your competence in a situation, which depending on the circumstances may be justified. It would be counter-intuitive to say you can do something that in reality you cannot, and even detrimental if you were to perform a task that you are not suited for where the consequences can result in some sort of loss, such as being asked to perform a stunt jump despite not having prior experience.
Self doubt is as an important emotion as confidence. The degree of each you feel should reflect your ability, and there is always wisdom in knowing your limits.
I don't uderstand but all I can say is if I say I can do it I can do it if I have invincible will and play my cards right
For #8, what they mean is basically you should be more confident in yourself. Not cocky, but just you respect yourself. While it's good to know what you can't do, it's better to try to expand your limits than give up instantly. You should always know that there's more to be done. But if you *do* doubt yourself, always think: "Am I giving up for a better cause, or am I giving up because I think I can't do it?"
I also have an opinion on the first phrase.
The first phrase states that usually smart people take the heavy load for an incident, regardless if they are really the cause of the problem
I feel that this is not (technically) fair as this puts smart people in a position where they're basically the "superior" key to fixing a problem and people would use them so much that smart people would stress the hell out and it also makes them feel bad about themselves as they would at some point think it's actually their fault without thinking that the actual person who really caused it would take the fault and so this means that justice is not even an option for them and I feel bad about it
@@butlerofthemeows4314 But there are things I _literally_ cannot do, and if asked to do such a task, I should be honest. Otherwise, I’m just setting myself up for failure, which won’t help me or the people who need the task at hand done and done correctly.
@@butlerofthemeows4314 Psych2Go: traits of Intelligent people - lack of self confidence. Also Psych2Go: things that intelligent people will NEVER say - "I can't do this" because intelligent people have confidence in their abilities
This is mostly about "socially intelligent" people NEVER say
clicks people CLICKS!!!!
I'm not social in the slightest, but I never say these phrases. My smarts mostly come from logical thinking skills.
@@ballshapebs872 4:44
Bruh wdym by socially intelligent
In case you don't have time❤
1. ,, it's not my fault"
2. ,, this needs to be perfect, it's not good enough "
3. ,, that is not in my job description"
4. ,, it's not fair"
5. ,, I have a high IQ and I'm smarter than you"
6. ,, no Offense but... "
7. ,, this might be a stupid question but "
8. ,, I can't do it"
9. ,, this will only take a minute"
10. ,, I told you so"
Edit- 1k likes?? Ayo guys r u good??
edit2- 1,9?! WOAH YA NEED TO CALM DOWN
edit3 2,4? okey im giving up
edit4- some wise man told me to not give up here
thank ya all for likes❤
edit5- hell yeah almost 3k bois LETS GOO
no but seriously i sidnt expect ir to blow up
edit6 it got 3k likes thank you guys!!
edit69 requested by turtle in replies
thank you fir 69420 likes
edit8- what the h?? I'm just editing and some of you guys are having problems with that
what you sre expecting me to do? delete it all?
people are so nasty nowadays, are these edits only thing you can notice?
Bro you must be the stupidest person I’ve ever seen, you’d said all the ten phrases smh
Hue Janus she did not actually mean to say it, she was just pitting a lit of these things
Wow, a lot of those examples said are objectively wrong when you consider the phrase "appropriate to the situation" within less than ten seconds of the video.
"Its not my fault" is correct in scenarios that aren't the person's fault.
"Its not fair" is correct in scenarios like racial oppression.
"I have an high a high IQ and I'm smarter than you" is appropriate when someone doubles down on idiotic viewpoints. Such as idiots like Alex Jones
"No offense" is used when someone doesn't really want to say what they're thinking but have no choice
"This might be a stupid question" is a point blank acknowledgement of an alternate perspective on what they're about to say
"I can't do it" is an acknowledgement of your limits.
"I told you so" is pretty obvious as to why.
@@fluffybunny0827 i got it bro it was irony
@@OneManCast Well put!
i practically say all of this phrases and everyone around me tells me i'm smart
i'm not smart
"this might be a stupid question"
.... No? It's not called not being smart, it's called being afraid. Yall EVER seen how class works nowadays? You LITERALLY get bashed on both by teachers and pupils if you DARE to ask a question they think is 'stupid' and I'm honestly done with it, so I'd much rather say it first.....
Then don't say it...
@@Nekotaku_TV Don't say the question? You shouldn't have to keep quiet at all, in fact, you shouldn't have to day it mught be a stupid question in the first place.
@@Nekotaku_TV okay I'll just keep quiet about something I need to know very badly because it's possible that other people will think it's stupid, and so I won't know the answer and then I won't be able to work as efficiently and then I won't be able to continue with my education/job because I didn't say anything and I'll be stuck nowhere in life. And when they ask me why I got kicked out/fired, all I have to say is "oh I was afraid to ask a question that was crucial to my development in my studies/work field because others may find it stupid and bash me for even asking"
@@threecheeseburrito No you misunderstood... don’t say ”this is a stupid question”.
@@reptilelover2129 No you misunderstood... don’t say ”this is a stupid question”.
“The measure of intelligence is the ability to change.”
―Albert Einstein
Do you have a video going deeper into this?
Wow im a dumbass then
@@aashycoconut same
@@aashycoconut same
@@Psych2go I need to make one 😏
Title is kinda clickbaity. Not all intelligent people are gonna think the same, and everyone's gonna have flaws regardless of how smart they are. Just because you say some of the things on this list doesn't mean you're not intelligent :)
Bingo! It all comes down to statistics, and they will never be fully accurate since everyone thinks differently, intelligent people do tend to think alike with one another, but there's so many variables to each person's story that they could never shape out the same. Unless we were all immortal, then we would all be guaranteed to be the same, and different at the same "time", thanks time for being weird.
yeah like having Anxiety what is even talking lmao
Personally, I agree lets say you act childish but in reality, you are pretty intelligent. Being a respected person is different from being intelligent, like you said, everyone has flaws.
This video seems to confuse life experience and wisdom with intelligence, I mean there is some correlation but this video doesn't even make a distinction between the two, Psych2Go sometimes gets a bit psuedo-science like or seem to misinterpret some things from time to time.
I mean they're decent overall but it is often just a content machine pumping video after video out; seems like a lot more people are noticing this one video in particular as somewhat subpar to other videos regarding the same topic
bingo! it's so true underrated comment im smart and everyone is too! (expect trump) but anyways not all people think the same! :D
“I can’t..” Often times I know I can, I just simply choose to put it off or not do it.
“Learn that saying ‘no offense’ is not a permission to offend someone”
About the first one, would if it’s actually not someone’s fault and they are trying to defend themselves?
Then you wouldn't say "It's not my fault" because you don't want to look defensive.
Instead you would say something like "I feel like XYZ had an impact on this situation/had more impact than expected, which is why the problems happened."
Essentially, you calmly state the reason for the failure and don't get defensive about it.
@@AutomaticDuck300 what if you don't care to be percieved a certain way and would just rather get your point across in a simple sentence? Or if you just don't know what happened in a situation and the only thing you know is that you weren't involved in it occuring?
@@bluerobot3806 then you would say that you weren't there when it happened. Or something like "I followed procedure completely so I'm not sure what went wrong."
It's the fact that saying "It's not my fault" means that you come across as defensive and not being able to handle criticism (even if it's completely unfounded).
@@AutomaticDuck300 I don't see why you can't just simply say"it's not my fault" and it be a bad to seem or sound defensive. Why is it on them on what they're saying and not how they say it? When and why would a regular degular person come to the conclusion that they're being defensive for saying something so simple?
@@bluerobot3806 it might be fine in a regular situation but in a professional situation, you definitely don't want to say it.
Pfft.. I don’t say, “It’s not my fault”..I say, “It’s your fault”. I knew I was intelligent....
🤣👌
certainly, the correct statement when it is the other person's fault
*Intelligence 100*
Big brained timee
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Me you regularly say it's not fair : IT'S NOT FAIR I WANT TO BE INTELLIGENT
"It is not my fault."
Is totally legit if you get blamed or shouted at for something that literally is not your fault nor responsibility.
"This is not in my job description."
Is also totally legit for a example if you are asked to use dangerous equipment you are not trained to use or say drive a vehicle you don't have clearance for.
"I can't do it."
Can also be legit though I would prefer "unable".
"I told you so."
Can also be legit if you have been warning others about something but they dismissed your warning.
I agree with everything except "I told you so". I just don't see an acceptable situation for this phrase. It is compketely pointless and indeed only used to brag. Peoole won't magically start listening to you when you say it even if you ARE correct. In fact may even choose not to listen to you because of this. So why even bother saying it?
@@Hollow__Heart
Its supposed to be used at the point where its plainly evident that you were right.
Like say the specialist who said that it was unsafe to launch Challenger in the circumstances and the launch should be aborted would have been entitled to say so after it blew up.
Or the engineer who warned that the Miami bridge would collapse.
Perhaps they will listen to you the next time.
Personally I have used it after I said that a load should be strapped down and it had fallen over.
@@Suojeluninja Yeah, you could have the right to say it in certain situations. However, I think people who see that you were right would notice it without you pointing that out. And people who just don't care will still do what they want even if you are right.
Just my thouths, can't say you are wrong here.
@@Suojeluninja I can see what you mean here, and as hollow heart said you have the right to say that in those certain situations, but I feel like it would come off as a bit childish or immature. but that's just my opinion.
@@jelliifyysh
It is way less childish or immature than ignoring a danger you were warned about.
Me before watching: *Lemme guess, I’ve said them all*
Same
And won't stop🙃
When you realised that your bff is more intelligent than you...
@Peko With a bat Can ya explain why please?
@Peko With a bat Ohhh i see!! Thank you! ^^
“Crazy people are considered mad by the rest of the society only because their intelligence isn’t understood.”
― Wei Hui
Woah
That's deep
And sad
Agreed. Does Musk seem alright in the head, to you? Did Einstein?
Normies aren't creators. Don't forget that. 👌
I'm not crazy then, I'm psychotic
jk
And sometimes they’re just crazy.
I'm glad I am consciously aware of those phrases, The only one I was guilty of was the "This will only take a minute" I typically use it as a way to assure someone that what they are asking is not an overwhelming inconvenience. You are correct though in that it typically sets them up to be disappointed when the task takes longer than projected and is often not appreciated regardless of however daunting it may have been to complete it with haste.
Thank you for the self reflection.
For ADHD people is the phrase "I can't do it" pretty common. Your brain physically doesn't allow you to do something at that moment especially when the brain is in "waiting mode". Lot of the phrases can be used by an ADHD person like the "no offense" because they lack of better way to say something. I'd like to edit specifying that we just have a different sense of what is normal and what is not but it doesn't make us any less emotionally intelligent
Yea. I think this video takes data that was written by the people who think they are smarter than the average person.
yup
@@ZcattheNobody the video is based on a study done by LinkedIn. Psych2Go is not to blame, LinkedIn is.
It's less of a "intelligent people don't do this" and more "businessmen say that intelligent people don't do this".
yes, as someone with ADHD I also found offense to the "it has to be perfect" because that's often how I feel.
as a person who thinks they have adhd this is very true
I don’t really agree with most of these because I feel like they’re just things that most people do and aren’t really a sign of intelligence but rather your personality. I especially disagree with the this might be a stupid question one because I feel like just because someone isn’t confident in their question doesn’t mean they aren’t smart. 2 of my best friends are really smart and yet one has high self confidence and the other doesn’t, that doesn’t mean that one of them is smarter then the other. The only one I agree with is the boasting about your IQ part because I don’t care how smart you are, if you’re rude then I don’t want to be around you.
Smart people are usually aware of the impact of saying "this might be a stupid question" and not say it, as it willing displays their low confidence
Very true. Studies have shown that intelligent people tend to be more self-reflective and thus more critical of themselves than people with low intelligence, who often are unable to recognize their own shortcomings and thus unable to learn and improve. As a rule of thumb, a really stupid person will not be aware that he is asking a stupid question. Intelligent people also have the experience that they usually understand explanations easier than others, so if they don't get something and have to ask a question, they are more likely to feel embarassed about it. Thus assuming (or being aware) that your question might be a stupid question can actually be a sign of high intelligence.
Granted, actually saying "this might be a stupid question" is not a smart move, because you belittle yourself infront of the others and expose your lack of confidence, but that is a matter of social skills and manipiulative tactics, not of overall intelligence.
@@greatestgrasshopper9210 exactly
Why do I feel like u said all the things she mentioned.
0:40
I disagree with number 8. Smart people know their limitations. I know I can’t perform brain surgery and if someone asks me to do it, I wouldn’t “set my mind to it” and try and do more damage. I would suggest the requester find a brain surgeon and may try help to find one. While it’s good to stretch your skills, faking until making it is an irresponsible way to do it.
I agree with you! I think that intelligence is knowing what you can and cant do and be willing to question everything. For example, you wouldn't say a swimmer is a smart swimmer if he swims into a current or tries holding his breath as long as he can. A smart swimmer knows what not to do to avoid hurt.
I think u misunderstood what the point was intended to mean
Well I think they mean that you not trying to do the thinks you actualy can bc you think you not capable at this or not in the mood for it. For example cleaning your room. We all a able to do that with our own methods. And a smart person do it bc the person know that it will eventuell be too much too handle.
@@mirachan4830 At the same time though, not knowing you can't do something is harmful, is it smart to try to skydive on your own without any experience? Not having limits is harmful, saying you cant do something now is different.
@@jeremiahpeter4774 yeah may you can overdo youreself but lets for real the example chiruge, is a not that good bc if you study several years to be capable of it then nobody expect that you actualy can't see blood. So, you have to be a little bit concret to wich problem you refering to. That what I said it's what I think they mean. And sorry I didn't think someone with no education of a specific supject think "hec yeah I do that thought?" Every mum tought her kids that they go to the doctor when they sick. If she dont, then I just ask myself, why do she think that would be a good Idea?
4:28 i mostly say i told u so when my friends get killed in games
These things WISE people don’t say not INTELLIGENT people.
Wisdom is a form of intelligence as it can only be gained through years of experience or at least from years of watching other people's trial and error
Intelligence is knowing how to correct someone.
Wisdom is knowing when to...
I think this is a semantic thing but Wisdom cannot be gained without intelligence.
It's a collection of past data and the various outcomes of happenings to predict a future state of being for one's self/others. Some people might be wise without experiencing actual events due to our imaginations.
Wisdom is part of intelligence...
@@xMrjamjam yes but intelligence is not equal wisdom
there seems to be some generalization and assumptions made here.
"it's not my fault" is legitimately valid at some points. some people have been blamed for some rather weird things that took place without their knowledge and/or consent. some times its completely outside of their power of realm of influence. in this type of situation I would say it's completely intelligent for them to not take the blame.
"it needs to be perfect" this just classified people with OCD as "not smart". not to mention almost every mathematician and scientist. perfection maybe an illusion and un-obtainable, it should be strived for in many situations.
"that's not in my job description" while many times it is used in the act of being lazy, think about the times it could be detrimental. the anesthesiologist being asked to perform the brain surgery. or the flight attendant being asked to fly the plane. it's LITERALLY not in their job description lol.
"it's not fair" hmmm they seem to try to make this into a narcissistic only phrase. sometimes it's actually not fair, but this phrase can be used when on the outside of a situation. "it's not fair that her child has to pay for the mother's contract"
the IQ statement really depends on topic, while its extremely rude and condescending. if working on logical problems. I think this person needs more of a reality check in the area of manners however. and I would think that this one is a valid "smart people" generally will not use this statement.
I've used the "no offence" as I have known a few others too, usually due to a lack of a softer way of saying something. while some may use this as a precursor to be mean and rude. some use this phrase to set up feed back on things someone maybe able to improve upon, and sadly in todays world many people take offence to even the smallest of criticisms.
"this might be a stupid question" well first off no question is stupid 'cept those not asked. however I can see possible ways of this phrase being used. sometimes people can understand the concept as a whole but maybe stuck on a very simple base of an idea, especially when crossing into other areas of expertise.
"I can't do it" understanding a persons limit is not a bad sign. again going back to examples from earlier... I would want the anesthesiologist and the flight attendant to say "I can't do it" rather than "sure, I'll get right on it!". if you don't ever say "I can't do it" because of what Ford said. that would mean you could hold up the 100,000 ton building with your bare hands. welcome to squishdom also the "I can't do it" could be a smart person having a moral limit to an action.
"this will only take a minute" "hey I gotta carry in the groceries from the car, this will only take a minute"... IDK... seems legit time to say it.
"I told you so" ummmm rude yes... but often said by scientists that proved a hypothesis after being told something couldn't be done. Some people with the "Can do" attitudes often strive for that moment. how about examples?
most people: "man will never be able to fly"
Wright brothers: "told you so"
most people: man will never set foot on the moon
NASA: "Told you so"
many of these things seem to be personality trait issues rather than a sign of someone lacking intelligence. I can agree with many of their videos, this one... seems a bit reckless without greatly restricting the scenarios of each phrase.
Um, they did start the video by mentioning appropriate to the situation.
@@OneManCast oh, no, I get that part, but their approach alludes to these being the rule and not the acceptations, rather than the other way around.
"i told you so" can actually be used to bring someone up, my friend has AP classes and thought she was gonna fail her ap maths exam. i told her that she'll pass perfectly fine, and she did pass with flying colors! so yknow what i said? "told you that you'd pass!"
though the phrase, "i told you so" is very commonly used with negative connotations, it can be good.
Some of this can be seen as a lack of "interpersonal" or "social" intelligence though. But in most cases I agree.
Totally agree. Many of their videos seem to be generalisation and do not offer explanation from the perspective of psychology as a science.
Next video : 10 phases only 🧠 intelligent people would say
Your pfp is me after I watched this video knowing I say them
Time traveler 😉
Hahahahahahah this is perfect lol
Good idea! Do you want to be part of our team?
Yesss please!❤️
You forgot 1 thing, they always say this in exams.
"Oh i didn't study" and gets a perfect score
or
"Im probably going to fail" But every time they say that they are always above passing score
I feel like you can be an intelligent individual who’s going through a really hard time (i.e. depressed, unmotivated, lack of self confidence, poor external circumstances, etc) and still say these things.
please don't take this video too literally. it has some good points but they're generalizations not to be automatically applied to everyone in every situation. some examples -
there's so many things wrong here. for one thing - its not a sign of intelligence to allow yourself to be exploited and do jobs your WEREN'T hired to do. and "i told you so" is perfectly acceptable when you're constantly ignored and things get screwed up because of the stupidity of others. i'm CONSTANTLY punished for the mistakes of others and i'm damned sick of it. there's other examples too.
now, please do a video where using sexually oriented expletives in your common speech is a sign of ignorance and immaturity. i'm constantly hearing idiots defend the indefensible saying there's nothing wrong using the "f" word in everyday speech, around kids, in public, as a verb, adjective and noun. that disgusting word is in our movies, tv shows, our songs, on t-shirts and protest signs. IT EVERYWHERE! you can't escape it and its damned disgusting.
@@cjmacq-vg8um I agree with the notion that everything the clip said is questionable, it would first need to differentiate between what types of intelligent people who never use said expression as its current generalization is too broad, but from the topics in question that it seemed to refer to, it seems like it targeted socially adept people, but the notion of "never" is certainly exaggerated as most people tend to do mistakes before learning from them to varying degrees.
As for your request to psych2go to make a video to tell people they are immature or ignorant for using swear words in everyday speech, it could be argued that your inability to accept people saying whatever they want, wherever they want is a sign of immaturity in its own right, yes, you may not like how normalized it is in your environment, but I doubt a single content creator regarding mental health will affect said people that you want it to affect, not to mention it almost feels like you wish to force your own perception of using said word as if the users themselves suddenly become more immature or ignorant for using it. Do keep in mind, using any word you don't know the original meaning of or its uses, can make you seem immature or ignorant. From your few words I get the impression that you believe it always signify the joining of two people doing a sexual act, however it's sometimes used as a swear word that more or less simply curses a situation, even though the word may have had an original meaning, what matters more is how people use it, meaning that even the meaning of a word changes depending on its usage. Honestly, rather than promoting shaming, I would advise you to promote acceptance, people will use as mentioned, whatever words they want, whenever they want, in any situation they want, the only thing you can change is how you view them and associate with said people. If it troubles you as much as you seem to imply, then I'm troubled that you keep putting yourself in situations where it makes you believe "IT EVERYWHERE!" which makes me question your choices.
"The ability to speak does not make you intelligent" -Qui-Gon Jin
Hello there cultured one
Intellectuals speak a lot.
High intellect people know how useless speaking/sharing their opinion/ideology/theory/lessons of life/, truly is.
This is why we just aren't that socialized.
Truth!
“Wise men speak when they have something to say, fools speak because they have to say something”
- Aristotle
one of my favourite quotes ❤
Lmao my teacher thought I was dumb cuz I didn’t talk much
"you attract what you think"
me thinking of my crush:
Im just..
0:13 ranboo cup
1:48 discs cat & 13
3:06 enderman.. blanket i think? also smiley face, maye reference to dre
3:37 "the discs", poster with your new boyfriend, dream in da corner, techno plushie on the closet, ranboo poster
i am proud of the artist in this video
"It's not my fault"
Me: "haha jokes on you I always blame myself.
Nah, if it's genuinely not my fault I'm definitely not taking the blame or feeling responsible for it.
When you usually admit what you did:
@@XSemperIdem5 well in a family filled with narcissistic elders.
You learn how to receive the blame here
I think most of these phrases can be stated by anyone depending on the context, regardless of intelligence.
1. “It’s not my fault”
If it REALLY isn't your fault, and you're being blamed for it, then you'll definitely say it at some point.
2. “This needs to be perfect”
Less on literally achieving perfection, but to keep yourself in a high-mental state, especially for high-stakes work.
3. “That’s not in my job description”
When you're a consultant/professional specializing in a particular service, you won't be fond of doing something outside of what you learned/trained to do. Instead, you redirect them to someone who CAN - and get a referral fee ;)
4. “It’s not fair”
When it's literally not fair - like working hard for a project to succeed and have other people take the credit. Or worse, not get paid for it.
5. “I have a high IQ therefore I am smarter than you”
Less of actually lording your IQ to other people, but rather a last ditch argument against someone who's extremely stubborn to get them to do their job.
6. “No offence but...”
Can't think of anything here. I don't really say this.
7. “This might be a stupid question”
Confidence issues.
8. “I can’t do it”
Context - for instance, if you're too busy and they're demanding you to do another task, either put it on hold until you finish existing tasks or direct them to someone who can. You might even get a referral fee, huehuehue
9. “This will only take a minute”
For small tasks, like household chores or menial tasks. They may not necessarily take one minute, but it denotes you they will have your attention shortly.
10. “I told you so”
Catharsis. For instance, if they insist the solution is one way, despite trying to convince them to come up with another. Then they screw themselves over. You don't even have to say it, actually.
You're right, most of the phrases actually have their appropriate uses. They just should not be used so easily.
"This might be a stupid question..."
Confidence issues? Sure. But that does not make one unintelligent.
If it was asked as part of a class, or if you're fresh into a job, you wanna dot the i's and cross the t's. Nothing wrong with questioning the obvious, in case everybody is wrong about something they all just assumed. It CAN happen.
Your argument for referring business partners to others with tasks you weren't originally expected to do is a number one way to miss out on any future opportunities and lets the people you work with not rely on you.
By saying, "that's not my job description" or "i can't do it," it comes off as someone who's giving you their own hard-earned cash, "This person can't adapt to little changes I've asked for them."
Then they'll spread the word telling their colleagues and partners that they needed to be referred to another person for a problem the person they originally paid money for (us) wasn't willing to be more open-minded.
I absolutely get not doing labor outside of your description, but small acts like those can go a long way. You are also a business when working a job; since you're still giving service to a company, that service/product is your time.
@Reality Is A Dream Your name is wrong too.
@archwaldo thanks for pointing that out.
I admit when I made a mistake and don't blame others for it, but I also don't wanna be blamed for things where I didn't do anything wrong.
Also there are some tasks that are usually the work of a whole other department in the company. Why would I have to do them especially when I don't have the right skills for them? It just stresses me out and makes my day miserable when I have to do things I'm not really comfortable doing, also makes me champion in procrastinating. That has nothing to do with seeing some work as inferior to what I'm paid for, just seeing some work as "not meeting my abilities". Directly connected to 8.
Some things are just not fair e.g. being paid less than your colleagues for doing the same job. If you don't talk about it then you'll never get equal pay. I got a colleague who's daughter earned more after just finishing her apprenticeship (in a not top paid job) than her mom after years of working and getting experience. I think I'm allowed to point out face to face with my boss that this is not fair without having my intelligence questioned.
Average human's "This will only take a minute" VS. Intelligent's "I can speedrun this"
I’ll be saying “it’s not fair” until i’m gone. Because it’s not. Life’s not fair.
What?
Perhaps working towards accepting the unfairness of life is preferable
@@thehornswogglehumdinger9612 i do that in most scenarios
Redundant thing to say. Since life is not fair, it's more productive to view and analyze it in other ways.
@@pRopaaNS analyze it in what ways?
This video should’ve been titled something like “things mature people don’t say” or something like that
Exactly
"This needs to be perfect/is not good enough" is nothing but setting aims, intelligent people will work on something for as long as they need to, to make it perfect from their point of view. Making something flawless is always possible, it just takes time. And now let's be honest here, most of us don't even know what to do with their years over years of lifetime, so making something "perfect" is the only reasonable option.
I agree, and it isn't always a matter of bringing about "perfection", but rather just what improvements can be made. For most things, improvements can always be made.
@@null8291 yes.
"In this world, nothing perfect exists. It may be a cliche, after all... but it's the way things are. That's precisely why ordinary men pursue the concept of perfection ,it's infatuation....
But ultimately,I have to ask myself: what is the true meaning of being perfect?
And the answer I came up with was: nothing. Not. One. Thing.
The truth of the matter is, I despise perfection. If something is truly perfect, that's it.
The bottom line becomes.
There is no room for imagination. No space for intelligence. Or ability. Or improvement! Do you understand?!
To men of science like us, perfection is a dead end, a condition of hopelessness! Always strive to be better than anything that came before you, but not perfect." - Bleach, fictional character Mayuri Kurotsuchi
@@a_angry_bunny Appreciate the quote, but I think in reality, scientists rather strive towards perfection, like medicine that easily heals any desease, or protheses that are exactly like real body parts. But it is true that the idea of reaching a limit seems offputting.
@@progdragon9218
Here's the thing though.
Once scientists create perfection they are out of a job. Who needs scientists when everything is perfect?
“That’s not in my job description” Being overnight security instead of just night shift cashier/drive through window attendant wasn’t in my job description, but it was fun just watching the back door camera and seeing what was going on.
In the military saying: "that's not in my job description" can literally save lives (fun fact)
Excellent point!
good point
It definitely can.
Sorry Psych2Go, us smart people yell out POGGERS when getting a quad kill.
nice pfp
@@adaptsight u too bro
Fellow mcyt fan?!?! Did you notice the Ranboo crown on the mug on the first drawing? I feel very targeted.
@@emeraldkitty7232 uhh
@@emeraldkitty7232 I hate minecraft youtubers
MCYT + Minecraft easter eggs!
Ranboo cup: 0:08
Enderman planket: 3:04
Disc poster: 3:53
Dream plushie: 3:53
Ranboo poster: 3:53
Technoblade pellow: 3:53
Your new boyfriend poster: 3:53
go ahead summon a whole fandom I'll wait.
Good job man! :D
In the beginning when it's ranboos cup the saying do you blur out words it a tommyinnit reference since he does that
3:40 Dream is here
Love number 6. I always cut anything that could be offensive out of my argument and then people get offended anyway because they dont agree.
School has lied to me.
I'm not intelligent.
I don't deserve anything. - me from kindergarten all the way to now
Oooh, another time traveler 😉
Lol
how did you comment 2 days ago if it was only released today?
@@migantomon117 how
@@thatonepersonwhoeatscheese7348 be a member
Not Ranboo’s crown on the mug-
There’s more, look at 3:45
I think she's a little bit of a Fan of the Dream SMP... just a little
So Intelligence is not just about IQ.In many media you can see arrogant,but intelligent people.Light Yagami from death note is an example for a childish,yet superiorly smart.
I love how you described Light as childish! I didn't use that word to refer to him but it makes sense!!
@@ahmadmanga Actually 'L' defines 'Kira' as 'childish' to the task force early on the series.L also considers himself childish,but is actually very very practical and unimpulsive.But hides it with his antics and emotionless face.
@@ameennasar2583 Oh, I remembered that... It makes me realize how many years since I last watched/read Death Note.
the little people dancing at the end made me feel... SO FRIGGIN HAPPY
'THIS MIGHT BE A STUPID QUESTION BUT..' 'this is bad because it makes people lack confidence in what youre about to say' ... that's... what im going for.. im trying to make them think what im gonna say is bad so theyre prepared incase its bad
"It is not my fault."
Me, having an issue with thinking nearly everything is my fault: B)
BAHAHAHHAHAHA, SAME I-
I n t e l i j e n d
Not everything is your fault but it's your responsibility to take necessary action so that fewer bad things happen to you.
@@Che_Yo [insert mannequin picture here]
@@AutomaticDuck300 that depends on the situation. A lot of bad things happening to people can be completely out of their control. For example any kind of assault. It's not your responsibility to try to prevent it, it's not your fault, it's the responsibility of the person who assault you to not assault you but they did. And it's the responsibility of justice to bring, well, justice, and prevent it from happening. So sometimes it's healthy and actually intelligent to say, it's not my fault
I don't agree with some of them but the worst one is "I can't". It's so important for people to stop pressuring themselves needlessly, this point is only fuel for your mind to go "You aren't trying hard enough, do more, do more". It's really really unhealthy to not know when to stop and say "I can't" .If you feel like you can't do it, don't force yourself, sometimes you just can't do something no matter how hard you try, that's life.
"This will only take a minute"
Microwave : Yes, yes it will.
I hate this kind of stereotypes, intelligence is intelligence no matter how you express it
Rats know traps when they see them. Check out vermin intelligence.
@@SansAziza yes they know traps after seeing another rat get got by traps. And also when they see new food they nibble on it and stay away for a few hours and if they are not poisoned they know the food is safe.
@@lombardo141 Badgers can open simple locks. (I can keep doing this. Heh)
Also the different types of intelligence, smh
Do you mind elaborating on intelligence is intelligence no matter how you express it? We'd love to hear more about your thoughts.
Hi Psych2Go. I want to start by saying that I love this channel, and I deeply admire the thought and sensitivity you put into your videos. As someone who struggles with mental illness, has worked with mental illness, and has many loved ones with mental illness, that compassion means a lot.
That said, I find myself having a viceral reaction to some points in this video, and after sitting with them a while find myself craving more nuance. The majority of the points you make are good ones, but there are three that stand out.
“That’s not in my job description." - While sometimes this phrase can be callous and dismissive, there are times when it's setting a healthy boundary, particularly at work. People with authority often take advantage of those whose job is unrelated, and make unrealistic demands of their time and energy. Sometimes it is worthwhile to sacrifice for a cause, or to meet an important goal, but it's not always the case. In other cases, it's important to preserve integrity and dignity.
“It’s not fair.” - While often this phrase is used to express one not getting their own way, there are times when unfairness needs to be confronted. Say when someone approaches you in bad faith, or makes assumptions about an issue that cast it in the worst possible light. Fairness begins with ourselves as individuals, and when considering others and the world around us I don't feel it's out of line to expect fairness in turn.
“I can’t do it.” - I understand that in the context of the video the phrase means that there is no goal you cannot meet, given time, dedication and sacrifice. But there are times when positive affirmations of your own potential push beyond your limits. How many times have I seen a friend or a client push themselves beyond their capacity to reach a lofty goal, only to burn themselves out and spend long periods of time in recovery? How often have I done the same? Sometimes the healthiest thing to say is "I can't do this." For someone such as myself whose barriers include ADHD, autism and bipolar disorder, acknowledging and respecting my limits - at least in the short term - has been liberating, and overall positive for my mental health.
I'm hoping all of this is conveyed with the good faith that it's intended. These are my thoughts and feelings on the subject, and hopefully doesn't read as a rebuke. Thank you again for all of your wonderful content, and I hope this can start a positive conversation.
I have been summoned by: ✨R A N B O O✨
how did ranboo summon you what did he do
@@Tigerdazzledash there was a bunch of dream smp references in the drawings and there was ranboos crown
@@capy4765 oh lmao i thought ranboo shout out this video or sum
Me as well!
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The fact that I'm apparently more intelligent than I thought I was is not what I was expecting at all.
>"There are different ways to be smart"
>"If you say these things, you're not smart"
Pick one
LMAO EXACTLY
i picked the second one- i think i just like beating myself up-
Understanding the difference between academic and social intelligence is important, but what's more important is understanding just how little most of these phrases actually matter when understanding your intelligence. Especially "I can't do it."
Understanding your current limitations is a sign of a great deal of intelligence!
I was being trained to work in the cash office at a hardware store, with 0 prior experience, and less than a week to get the hang of it before the employee who was moving out of state would be gone, and the store would NEED me, or someone else, to fill the position. I spent 2 days attempting to grasp all of the information and committing it all to memory, before I realized I lacked a lot of crucial communication and organization skills that would be NECESSARY to do the job correctly. Knowing that, and understanding that the store needed someone on a strict deadline, I told my manager that I couldn't handle the position. If I had committed to it, and attempted to work that position anyway, I likely would've cost the store a lot of money, my managers a lot of grief, and myself my job.
I fully understand the intent of this video, but it's irresponsible to frame the video in a way that says "Smart people never say this", (because therefore, "Stupid people may say this") when people who are actually intelligent often DO say these phrases within certain contexts. The comment section is surprisingly helpful, but I can't help but feel bad for the people who may have watched this video and walked away with a worse view of themselves or others around them because of it.
The mcyt references were strong with this video-
But for real, this video helped as always!
i agree
i didnt even watch the whole video yet and i already saw one
0:31 on the cup
“No offence but” and “this might be a stupid question” really got me...
“Do you tend to blurt out whatever is on your mind?”
*casually portrays Ranboo on screen.*
Is it just me or was that Ranboos crown on that mug
@@shootingstarsXD That's what I just commented lol
Everybody says these things eventually. It has nothing to do with intelligence or lack thereof. Why? We are HUMANS who make mistakes!
Exactly!
I always thought I was intelligent but maybe I'm not according to this video
3:41 Dream, Techno, Cat, Mellohi, "Your new boyfriend" and Ranboo posters.
You and the animator are people with taste my god
YES!
I disagree. Doesn’t the way you’re raised have a bigger impact on your habbits? For example, if you grow up with parents always blaming it all on the world around, aren’t you likely too adopt these habbits? Or the ”this might be a stupid question,” can’t the low confidence come from, for example, incompetent teachers not willing to answer the ”stupid” questions? And can’t these sayings also come from immaturity?
I dont see how the habit of blaming everything coming from childhood makes it any different than you just having it in general. That is a really idiotic statement. If you blame your mistakes on everything and everyone else, how do you expect to grow, and why does it matter whether you got it from your parents or not?
i understand you're point. but i'm nothing like my parents or my siblings. somehow i escaped their genetic stupidity.
there's so many things wrong here. for one thing - its not a sign of intelligence to allow yourself to be exploited and do jobs your WEREN'T hired to do. and "i told you so" is perfectly acceptable when you're constantly ignored and things get screwed because of the stupidity of others. i'm CONSTANTLY punished for the mistakes of others and i'm damned sick of it. there's other examples too.
now, please do a video where using sexually oriented expletives in your common speech is a sign of ignorance and immaturity. i'm constantly hearing idiots defend the indefensible saying there's nothing wrong using the "f" word in everyday speech, around kids, in public, as a verb, adjective and noun. that disgusting word is in our movies, tv shows, our songs, on t-shirts and protest signs. IT EVERYWHERE! you can't escape it and its damned disgusting.
I've watched your first point in action my entire life. I'm not sure where precisely it began because I don't really know anything about my extended family besides 'he was a dirty old man' or 'she managed to break a new bone every month.' Anyway, my grandparents have always ranted and raved about the way the world and everyone in it fucks them over at every turn. I'm not entirely sure how I didn't end up like that because they primarily raised me, but I know my mother isn't like that either. However, my mother's three siblings and my few cousins that came from those siblings are all the exact same; everyone's out to get them and it's never their fault unless you say something that directly points the blame at them and then they get pissed for a month before they start saying "maybe I am like that" but they're still mad about it-
Sorry, anyway... Yes, I think social upbringing has something to do with those sorts of outlooks. I was also raised by the internet so my breakaway from the pattern might've been influenced by listening to and watching other much more mature people talk about and deal with problems. I hope to be an equally positive influence on my youngest cousins because my mother and I about as close to opposites to their families as it gets. It's just not a healthy way to live- thinking everyone is trying to ruin your life and being pissed off 24/7. I'm half-certain I can blame my severe social anxieties on my family because of their behaviour throughout my childhood, but I try to be better than that and seek help when I need it, and just break the cycle in general.
@coons Exactly. I'm well aware that the emotional abuse I've faced isn't my fault. Therefore, whenever I say "this might be a stupid question" or anything similar out of fear, I'm well aware that it became a habit due to my upbringing. I would also often lash out at people for no reason. However, I do know that it's up to me to break out my habits and get the therapy I need. (Which, I have been getting!)
I'll take accountability if I hurt someone else, get something wrong, or anything else that is truly my fault and my fault alone. But how I was treated and the results of that will never be my fault. The only thing that is- is if I *continue* any toxic behavior that I'm eventually made aware of is toxic.
Sure, many of my toxic behavioral patterns developed from my past, but that doesn't give me *any* excuse to continue it. I can't hurt someone and go "oh, I was severely emotionally abused! So it's not my fault I keep hurting you over and over!" When it very much is. Again: my past *explains* my actions, but it doesn't and will never *excuse* them. *Especially* if I continue them even after being called out.
And you're right with your last statement, as well. They equate being mentally healthy with intelligence. From my understanding, there are also different types of intelligence. Anyone, mentally healthy or not, is fully capable of being intelligent in their own way. Emotional intelligence, mathematical intelligence, social intelligence, et cetera.
I still consider my IQ immensely low, though. I'm a true idiot at heart.
0:33 ranboo mug
3:38 there's a lot here lol but..
-Tommy's disc poster
-techno plush
-dream blob
-Ranboo poster
-wilbur your new boyfriend poster
Love this video the drawings and and e everything in general are amazing
I recently realized that the more I talk to myself the better responses I give because I always ask myself first whether what I'm saying is neccecary or not.
I say "this might be a stupid question, but..." because I have anxiety. I over think my every decision. It essentially means that if the person I'm talking to is displeased or confused, then I understand because I feel I put it across as such, usually because I decide that's the most acceptable way to say it which will avoid the most negative outcomes. I don't say the rest, which also makes me wonder, if you are forced to question your own intelligence based off of a UA-cam video and other people's thoughts, are you really that intelligent? Or do you simply have a different thought process?
@YsuperY Plays definitely
I always say this, just in case
@@myrtila it just be like that
Number 7 doesn't feel right to me: "This might be a stupid question, but..."
I'm not sure it's a good thing to shame people for having the self awareness to recognize they may not be fully understanding something, nor to dissuade them from seeking information...if you're not sure about something, surely the 'intelligent' thing to do is ask?
Maybe you mean not to start a sentence with that particular phrase but ask the question anyway, but I don't feel like your meaning is entirely clear in the video.
...They literally said in the video that they aren't shaming anyone, mate-
@@thebutterscotchkid2481 I must have missed that, mate. Point still stands though.
@@alexsmythemusic I...don't see it that way, but opinions are opinions. Have a good day, sir!
@@thebutterscotchkid2481 Well, to me it would be like saying "I'm not racist, but..." and then proceeding to say something racist; regardless of the semantics of the word "shame", the title 'Intelligent People NEVER Say These 10 Phrases' is certainly something I'd disagree on, at least on this particular point - regardless of the introduction of a professed caveat.
I would say something but i'm sure as hell i will appear an idiot arrogant