People need to stop kidding themselves. Men can and are physically abusive. No question. But women make up for that in being manipulative and mentally abusive. People act like women can do no harm, but put a few women in a room together and watch the fireworks. There's a bias towards women and I'm not saying it is or isn't warranted, but women like this know how to use that to their advantage.
Why do you say that the husband funds their lives? The woman was working at the family business until 2 weeks ago, by her testimony. And yet they claim that the husband “controls the purse strings” so the defendant has no access to any marital assets. Don’t get me wrong. This woman belongs in jail. But these situations are rarely cut and dry. We have no idea what the alleged victim is like.
The judge is absolutely correct! If the sexes were reversed they wouldn't be blaming the victim. I'm so sick of men being treated differently than women. There is so much unfairness in the justice system when it comes to female criminals. They get much lighter sentences and are treated with kid gloves. It's bs!
The same bias also applies in child care case 95% of the time the woman is granted custody of the children. The custody should be decided by which parent has the best interest of the children, not the sex of the parent.
I believe if a female wants to fight a male then she better be prepared to get hit like one as well. Don't be putting your hands on a male then cry/call cops when you get hit/Knocked the F.O. My son was taught it's not right to put hands on a female out of anger for a moment. Walk away or take a drive and cool off. But if the female wants to chase after you put hands on you & you need to protect yourself from harm then do so only until the threat is stopped. I taught my girls the same. And if they have spouses that put hands on them even once to call me so we can see if the situation can be helped or to pack their stuff to move back home til it is handled. I was beaten to the point I begged God to let him finally kill me cause I couldn't go through it anymore. God listened to my cries but took him out instead. The last time he beat me and wrapped a lamp wire around my neck he ended up having a major heart attack. I didn't know at the time I just felt the wire get loose enough for me to get away and run. I came back home to expect another beating but found him dead on the couch. I wish I could say that was the only man that beat me but I had to learn the lesson one more time to finally stand up for myself and I went toe to toe with him & I was able to get away. Never again.
She yawns repeatedly, has trouble standing up, and can’t remember things. She looks worse because she’s bra-less and in her pajamas. She isn’t being defiant. She’s either severely sleep deprived, intoxicated, in withdrawal or severely ill. She should be evaluated by a doctor. People just like her are ignored when exhibiting obvious warning signs and they die in jail all the time.
@@Pudef9 She was asking that because her husband doesn’t give her access to any of the marital assets even though she works for his/their small business just like he does. I find that worrisome because it’s a red flag that the abuse may be mutual. Why can’t she get into her own bank account?
@@kimpulsipher647 I’m sure she doesn’t have a separate account. But why doesn’t she have access to THEIR account? She’s supposed to be in court today for the DV charge. I hope we get an update. I looked at her record. It seems that she had a clean record for the past 10 years then got a meth violation in April and then the multiple DV charges. Hopefully the jail time did her good by getting the meth out of her system.
I absolutely love Judge Disanto but I am very disappointed she didn't revoke this smug woman's bond for a myriad of reasons including committing the same offense of assault, felony drug charges and she violated terms of her probation. If the sexes were reversed there is no way any judge would allow a man who was twice arrested on DV charges to go with low bail. Double-standards are disgusting.
this decision is absolutely disgusting, yet it is the very thing that a male DV victim is faced with. we are disregarded in this area of criminal justice, by both courts and the police, and where double standards are allowed to be perpetuated by the very system that should be completely unbiased and seen to act equally for both male and female.
It's almost a moot point because her bond was set at $25,000/10 percent in the new case. That would pretty much supersede her personal bond on the other court case in front of Judge DiSanto. And I don't know that I'd call $25,000 a low bond considering she doesn't have direct access to financial resources (or so she claims).
@@CreightonRabs her and her attorney knew the boyfriend would give her the bail which was why they were asking Judge Disanto if they could reach out to him for bail only. The man owns his own business and has multiple houses/trailers. That bail was nothing and she knew it.
Mrs. Parsons can barely stand up. Many of her answers are incoherent and she is constantly yawning. She should be seeing a physician, not a judge! People die in county jails every day because people assume that they are voluntarily behaving in such ways. And, if she dies, the victim will suddenly become her beloved soulmate widower and will sue for millions.
This woman will never follow the court orders. She thinks she makes all the rules. You can tell by her stance and her attitude she is nothing but a bully.
Judge is 100% right, if he was the abuser with this set of facts, there is no way anyone would accept saying "Well... she has responsibility too." or asking to allow him to call her to ask her to bail him out. That would never fly and would be considered disgusting.
Defense lawyers ask for preposterous stuff every day. I watched a video this morning where a man forcibly raped a 15 year old girl. He groomed her then lured her to get in his car and took her to an isolated place. He had showed her a gun and said he had it during the incident. The girl and her mom gave impact statements and it was heartbreaking. The girl was cutting herself! The defense attorney asked for probation only and the DA agreed they presented a plea bargain to the judge with no jail time where they would plea down to attempted sexual assault from a forcible rape felony. The judge didn’t allow it. He said that if they accept the plea to the lower charge, his sentence would be the maximum which is 10 years in prison. Or the defendant could go to trial for the original charge. Bottom line is that defense lawyers ask for unreasonable stuff every day. That’s just our legal system. Keep in mind that the defendant was saying that she didn’t have access to any money at all and that the victim has complete control of all marital assets. If that’s true, that is abusive in itself. I’m not sure why the abuser so adamantly didn’t want her children left in her husband’s care. But I think that situation needed urgent evaluation for the sake of the children. The woman said her husband doesn’t have any of his biological kids living with them. So why is that? I believe that the children are the most important consideration in homes where there is domestic violence and their welfare needs to be a top priority.
@@GoodnightJLHGreat comment; that case you mentioned sounds sickening. It's relieving when Judges don't go for these ridiculous deals for heinous crimes. Also agree that children of of the utmost importance in any case concerning DV or abuse in the home. They are the most vulnerable and most Judges see it that way as well 👍
@@Claudia-lq3ns I agree. And, regardless of genders of those involved, a domestic violence victim with no blood relation to the children shouldn’t be automatically considered a fit guardian. The children don’t belong with the defendant in this case but what about their father or other relatives? Do they even know the mother is in jail?
Her reaction at 18:15 to being told she had to have a GPS tether was very telling. She had every intention of just ignoring the order to stay away from the home until she was told it was actually going to be enforced this time.
I was a well battered husband over a 17 year marriage with two daughters. No one believed me my wife would blame me to others and so i lived a lonely victim life until i stopped. Recovery is possible just leave.
Did you ever report your wife to law enforcement? How long ago was this? I know that it used to be very hard for male victims to be heard but it’s much better now. But remember that this may not be akin to your situation. Remember Gabby Pettito? The defendant isn’t speaking well. Obviously there is something wrong with her and she should see a doctor. But she seemed to be saying that she doesn’t have any access to marital assets so has to ask her husband for money. If that is true, this isn’t a black and white abuser-victim situation.
@@TJiow64 You don’t get to keep all the marital assets just because your spouse uses drugs. Marital assets are half hers regardless of the choices she makes. I still find it suspicious that the victim controls all marital assets. I don’t worry about it for the sake of this woman. It would do her good to dry out in jail. But I do worry about the children. Just because a person is an alleged victim doesn’t make him a fit guardian for another man’s children.
She beats him up and then expects him to leave his home? She should go live in a damn trailer all by herself. It’s not his duty to stay away from her, it’s her duty to stay away from him.
Problem being; HE doesn't want her to leave him...He just wants his nice wife back...And, women really wonder why older men date younger women...? Because of ex-wives like HER! Instead of working out her issues, she decides to go on strike, and throw the dishes at him...Hint: That only attractive to men when sex immediately follows...
Edit 222:42 she is very close to submitt9ing sanctions on this defense attorney.. you can tell by how she worded things. if he were smart he would do his best to not appear before her anytime he can.
I would revoke her bond and lock her up! Men can take care of kids, get daycare etc. He can't fight back because he's a man. He'd get locked up! That doesn't make him weak!
I’ll BET you that her husband bails her out. There is something crazy about this whole situation. He calls the cops and gets her arrested 3 times yet lets her sleep there every night. That makes me suspect that he doesn’t want to take care of those kids of hers from another baby daddy.
@@grandmasoffgridliving Yes. That’s what happens. Women bail their abusers out of jail too. But unfortunately, no one is thinking about the children. He is NOT their father. He can’t even take those kids to the doctor because he isn’t a legal guardian.
I don’t understand. The woman was issued a $25,000 bond AND, if she makes bond, she will have an ankle monitor to keep her away from the home and her husband. This is what would be likely if it was a female victim in a case with no guns used and no serious injury. So, why do you say the man wasn’t taken seriously? What else could the police and the judge have done?
Honestly, they were saying that this woman’s husband controls all of their marital assets which is concerning to me. It really is possible that these people are both abusive to each other. The most important thing is the children. The kids don’t belong to the victim. He has kids but they don’t reside with him but he is basically granted sole temporary guardianship for 2 kids that aren’t related to him in any way. Those children deserve more consideration.
If the man has had to call the police 3 times (for charges) against this woman it's clear he's not the violent one in this relationship. I'd hate to know what she'd do against someone MUCH weaker than herself behind closed doors (male vs adolescent). Throw that woman in the slammer for 10 years. The kids will turn out much better.
@@pii-chan8804 I’m not suggesting that she be allowed to go home and take care of the kids. But I’m concerned that they are now without any sort of legal guardian since they aren’t the alleged victim’s children. Their welfare needs to be prioritized. And we really don’t know what kind of person the alleged victim is. Being a victim doesn’t make one a fit parent.
@@pii-chan8804 I have a male friend whose girlfriend called the police on him more than once. She stayed in his home. They weren’t married, so unlike the couple in this video, it was my friend’s home not their home. My friend had access to money at least. So he posted bond and stayed at a hotel and had an electronic tether. The case went to jury trial. One witness was the girlfriend’s brother who testified that when my friend drank to much, it’s awful. How so? Well, when my friend drinks too much, he gets out the karaoke set and he sings. And it isn’t pretty, LOL. Turns out, the accuser had mental health issues and got paranoid at times but she wasn’t being abused. So, despite being arrested twice in Michigan with DV charges, the jury unanimously found him not guilty. Anyway, my personal experience is that false accusations of DV can and do occur. So I don’t think that the fact that he was the one who called the police proves that she is guilty. I think she is most likely guilty and I think the best possible scenario for her and her children would be that she would dry out from the drugs and get effective drug treatment.
The defendant assumes he won’t testify or she can get petty from a jury. Her lawyer was already trying the violence was mutual crap. I don’t know how her 1st bond wasn’t revoked. Hopefully her felony probation officer will file a violation (not getting arrested is always a condition).
@@North_West1 Michigan judges aren’t allowed to completely revoke bond without a special hearing. And the charge has to be more serious than her charge. She didn’t use a gun and the husband wasn’t seriously injured.
I’m VERY worried about the children. They are NOT the husband’s kids. He has kids of his own but they don’t live in the home. Just because he is a victim doesn’t mean he should be allowed to have sole custody of someone else’s kids without thorough investigation. I think the judge dropped the ball on the children in this case.
so if i beat up a woman TWO SEPARATE TIMES! and violated probation and had a triplicate of felony drug charges and yawned and lounged against the podium... i'm not even going to play about the size of the book they would throw at me.
True. That’s as it should be. But they are throwing the book at her too. The judge assigned a bond she can’t possibly pay. If it’s true what she says and the husband has complete control of her money, she’d may as well stay in jail because she would have no money to live on. Jail will be good for her. She can dry out from all the drugs.
Where did you see “a triplicate of felony drug charges”? I’m a retired physician. This woman wasn’t “lounging”. She could barely stand up. She was also incoherent at times. Could be sleep deprivation, intoxication or withdrawal. But it could also be a medical issue. She was just in an altercation and could have a subdural hematoma from head trauma, for instance. This woman has no business testifying until she’s evaluated by a doctor. People regularly die in our country’s county jails. And so many of them have obvious warning signs similar to this woman and are ignored. If she does die, the victim will suddenly become her soulmate widower and sue for millions. And he would win because this video is incontrovertible evidence.
@@GoodnightJLHshe's a multiple abuser and has no problem with her memory, answers questions quickly and clearly and has zero problems standing. Her problems are with violence and drugs. It's probably best that you retired if you think this woman has some "head trauma" or other impairment. She is probably going through some mild withdrawal, if anything. She has broken every court order and the lawyers are victim blaming the man. As someone who has seen female on male DV and is familiar with multiple studies that show women are often violent with their male partners and the men don't ever hit back i find their attitudes disgusting. Check out the CDC study about non reciprocal IPV in hetero couples.
@@presterjohn9088 I didn’t say she had head trauma. I said it was possible. I suspect she had drug withdrawal as a most likely issue. But people die from drug withdrawal often in our jails and the taxpayers pay for that big time. I absolutely agree that she should be in jail. But just because you find a prisoner disgusting doesn’t mean you get to ignore medical issues. We had a similar case in Boulder County jail a few years ago. Woman drug addict. She was withdrawing, choked on her own vomit and died. She and her son were caught shoplifting together. Now her son is a very wealthy man.
@@presterjohn9088 Lawyers blame victims on a regular basis. Gender is irrelevant. I don’t like it either. My take on this is that the lawyer was too lazy to pull up her original bond conditions and he believed her when she told him she was supposed to be in the home with the children. His whole case was based on this false assumption and he got pretty frazzled. He appeared to be angry and was grasping at straws. That’s what he gets for being lazy.
What a piece of work that woman is. Such a typical abusive mindset. How is CPS not involved with this family, given mom's alleged DV and drug history? I suspect the 16 yo is actually running the household--not the drug addled mother. This woman seems completely unconcerned about anything, except her being inconvenienced.
I agree. But I also expect that the husband/victim may not be a good parent. He has children of his own but they don’t live with him at all. He shouldn’t automatically be temporarily given sole custody of someone else’s kids just because he is a victim. We need to put these children first.
@@lizetteolsen3218 I agree with you EXCEPT that he is NOT “dad”. He has none of his biological children living with him. Now he has complete control of these children but he doesn’t have legal custody so he can’t even get medical care for those kids. And Mom isn’t even allowed to contact the victim through a 3rd party so she can’t arrange for the children to go to an actually family member. The judge dropped the ball bigtime on these kids.
@@GoodnightJLH I thought it was only the teen who was her daughter. The younger kids are shared. Given my experience working with CPS in my corner of the world, the age of the teen largely means she would be ignored for intervention unless there is an imminent threat to harm. So many cracks in the system. I was on a work meeting this am and the group was talking about how negatively impacted kids are just trying to stay at grade level b/c of parents addiction, criminal, poverty, etc. Not having a stable home means the kids get dragged between and with disruptions for school. In one school, the child is on target, In school2, the child may be bored. In school 3, the child may be behind. When primary school age kids are disrupted 3x, the child will not graduate HS. How is that for a grim factoid?
@@lizetteolsen3218 No. She specifically said that her husband has biological children but they don’t live in the home with them. The 2 children are only hers.
She’s sick. Most likely drug withdrawal but it could be something else. The repetitive yawning, leaning on the podium and her oddly confused answers to questions are indication for a medical evaluation.
The defendents stance is one of total disrespect to the judge.😬 Bet she scared her husband into dropping the domestic charges.😖 She has fried her brain from the drugs, can't remember what her cases were or results of chargers😒
She can barely stand up and can’t stop yawning. It could be drugs but could also be sleep deprivation or it could be a serious illness. She was not competent to take place in that hearing and she should have been seeing a doctor rather than a judge at that moment. I’m not suggesting she be let out of jail. But ignoring someone who can barely stand up is exactly the reason why we see so many people die in our jails. Remember that it doesn’t matter if this is drug withdrawal. If she dies, her husband will sue and be made a multimillionaire.
I’ve been guilty of standing like this and it usually happens when I’m called outside and I’m not wearing a bra. I kinda slouch behind something or cross my arms because I don’t want the cold temperature to make it obvious I’m not wearing a bra 😂
If I was the victim I would be afraid for my children if she was allowed to be around them. Even if she had no history of attacking them. Without him to take out her frustrations on she could very well take it out on the children.
The problem is that the children in the home are not the victim’s children. The defendant testified that the victim doesn’t have custody of any of his biological children. I think the judge really let the children down in this case. The children should come first. Their real fathers should be notified that the mother is in jail any CPS should determine where the children should live. Just because someone is a victim doesn’t make him a suitable single father for another man’s children.
@@user-tl6vs3so4p She didn’t have a conviction. Just a charge. I wonder if the children’s father even realizes that she’s in jail. It disgusts me that this judge isn’t giving any consideration to the welfare of these children. I hope they are okay.
She needs to go to jail, she’s the ABUSER; the entitlement of this woman to beat up this man and she wants to reside at the home which she’s not allowed to stay there she needs to be in jail.
this attorney is ridiculous...WTH?? If the roles were reversed, people would be screaming from the streets about letting the defendant contact the victim. This is is atrocious.
Male DV defendants are let out on bond every day. And, just like this female defendant, they are jailed if they contact the victim. The victim could have actually had her jailed even earlier but he didn’t complain. That’s common with female victims also. Keep in mind that no one “let” the defendant contact the victim in this case. If the judge on the original case had a crystal ball, he might have predicted the defendant would violate bond and ordered an electronic tether but he didn’t realize that would happen and we don’t see as many electronic tethers used in Michigan as we do in some other areas. Judge Alex Manning in Atlanta uses electronic tethers very commonly and for both male and female defendants. But it’s expensive and the county pays for it. Wayne County, Michigan isn’t wealthy.
@@jen-a-purr LMAO. If you don’t want to read what I have to say, you are welcome to scroll on by. But I watch lots of these and I see that defense attorneys ask for ridiculous things pretty much routinely. And male perpetrators of DV are usually treated leniently and they frequently reoffend.
Which will be never bc it's a woman. Women's prisons don't really exist. Media and television created them to give women the danger fantasy they crave.
She's bullied him to drop charges The State needs to press them regardless of whether the DV victims want to Or not And she is also abusing the kids too I bet
Sigh. The judge dropped the ball as far as the kids are concerned. The victim doesn’t have any of his own children in the home yet he is basically being given sole temporary custody to 2 kids who aren’t related to him. Being a victim doesn’t make someone a fit parent. These kids deserve better.
@@GoodnightJLHI don’t think you can say that just because he doesn’t have his own kids living with him he isn’t a fit parent. Most fathers don’t get custody of their kids because the mothers most often do. Case in point, why does this woman have her kids? Where is the father of her children? Why didn’t he get them years ago? Just because his kids live with their mother primarily doesn’t make him unfit as a parent. She definitely is an unfit parent and I don’t see how she even has custody of any kids at all.
@@kreggie891 You misunderstood me. My point was that we don’t know if the victim is a fit parent. If he had custody of any of his kids, that would be evidence that he had been previously found to be a fit parent. In the absence of such evidence, we just don’t know if he is a fit parent. So I think that needs to be investigated. I also think if the children’s actual father is a fit parent, they should go there.
@@GoodnightJLH Kreggie didn't misunderstand you at all. You are the one jumping to the conclusion that he isn't fit. He owns his own company. He is obviously the responsible one here... at least on the face of it. Let me put it another way... ... just because she gave birth to the children.. doesn't mean she is a fit mother. The evidence here is... that she is NOT a fit parent. And that's not me jumping to conclusions. That's me actually watching the video. You may want to watch it again as well. She has smuggling charges, drug charges, domestic violence charges. So I'm a bit confused as to why you seem to be siding against the husband while disregarding her history entirely.
@@twelvewingproductions7508 I never ever said he was unfit! And I certainly don’t think that she is a fit mother. What I said was that children shouldn’t be left in the care of a nonrelative without a home evaluation and without checking to see if the children have a perfectly capable father. I was a step-parent for many years. If my ex went to jail, the children should have rightly gone to their other parent.
I think the defense was trying to say that the defendant has no access to her own assets because the victim doesn’t allow her to access any of their money.
Not sure who was worse the accused yawning her face off like she was bored as hell, or her lawyer trying to push the fact she should be able to remain at the house when she had clearly breached the order not to return from a previous charge . SMH🤦🤷
I really respect Judge DiSanto here, especially. Her consideration for the husband, and admonishment to defendant's counsel regarding his attempt to attach blame to the victim of a domestic violence incident, were both handled perfectly, IMO. Recognition of how this would be playing out if the genders were reversed was exactly what defendant and her counsel needed to hear. Just - respect to you, your honor.
Not that I approve of this awful person, but the stance and the yawning definitely reminds me of being in front of a judge withdrawing from heroin/fentanyl. Your back hurts horribly and it’s hard to stand up straight, and you can’t help but constantly yawn. Luckily it looks like she doesn’t have the restless legs yet, but she will if that’s the case.
@@JasonW1220She doesn't even have the common courtesy to cover her mouth when she yawns. She is devoid of any social graces. She obviously has no respect for herself...how can she have respect for the law?
She needs to spend some time in jail so she can understand the seriousness of ALL of the charges. She is expecting her husband to not press charges and thinks she will get off scott free. At her age she should know not to carry rx drugs unless they are in a proper prescription bottle. Lots of yawning and giving excuses= no sense of accountability.
You need to watch the video again. No one kicked the husband out. But the woman’s lawyer is very POORLY trying to explain that those aren’t his kids so shouldn’t be living with just him. And he is saying that defendant has no access to marital assets because her husband has complete control so she has nothing. Lawyer was asking if defendant could have a 3rd party communicate with the victim in order to facilitate care of the children and that was denied. The children’s biological father and grandparents should be notified and there should be a social services or CPS evaluation of the home situation. The victim isn’t legal guardian so can’t even give permission for the kids to get medical care. The woman handled this situation poorly. She was ordered out of the house. I don’t know if she told her lame lawyer what was going on. I had stepkids. Had my partner (who was their parent) been incarcerated, those kids would have rightly gone to their other parent or grandparent but not to me.
Good judge and even though he said stupid things at least the lawyer was trying to help his client. She also had every intention of going back to the house..when she heard the words gps you can see the dissapointment in her face.
yea you could tell she was planning on it. dude needs to file for divorce NOW. her having multiple dv incidents pending will make the process fair for him.
I believe her lawyer is engaged in that delightful legal professional task commonly known as 'turd polishing'. He's also likely highballing his ask in an effort to get whatever relaxation of the bond conditions he *can* get for his client.
The lawyer got lazy. He didn’t do his homework. He didn’t read the actual court order for bond conditions and just took his client’s word for it even though she’s obviously somewhat “out of it”. The judge corrected the lawyer’s incorrect assertion that Jill was allowed to be in the home with the kids. Once the lawyer realized he made this error out of laziness, he was frazzled and grabbing at straws.
They need to make pressing charges for domestic violence automatic. It's wrong to expect the victims of violence to do it. There is so much fear and shame involved in many cases and, they know they're exposing themselves to further violence.
No cause they can b used to hang urself plus shoe lases any string rope or wire also can b used to make weapons they usually give u undergarments with no wires strings etc & slip on shoes
That defence lawyer is disgusting. The victim should be held accountable, yeah right. I wonder would he be making the same bs excuses if the defendant was male & his daughter was the victim. He is a vile human being & so is his client.
Watch some cases with male defendants in DV and rape cases. Defense attorneys ask for leniency more often than not. The problem here is the attorney was too lazy to read the bond conditions of her previous case. He believed her version even though she is obviously not capable of clear logical thought. The lawyer based his case on the false assumption that the defendant was allowed to be in the house with the children and that the victim would live in another family home. When the judge called out the error of that assumption, the attorney got frazzled and started grasping at straws.
If this lady has a bra on she needs to throw it away and go shopping immediately!! Since I have gone there she needs to throw that dress away with the bra! Lord have mercy! 👗
@@GoodnightJLH After seeing her shirt was actually real short I did think it could have been pj’s. I am so vain that in the event that I ever got arrested I would have asked to put a bra on. Lol. I don’t know if they would let me but I would ask. You are probably on the money with what happened with that whole thing. 👍
Nah. The lawyer got frazzled. He didn’t do his homework. He didn’t read the actual court order of her bond conditions so he made a fool of himself claiming that she was allowed to be in the home with the children. Hard to tell if the woman’s blatantly disregarded court orders or if she just didn’t understand. She is obviously cognitively impaired during the hearing. Drug withdrawal is most likely but it could be several other things. Closed head trauma would look the same, for instance. And she was just in an altercation.
@@elvickRULES The court did NOT award temporary custody. So the children aren’t under anyone’s custody and I think that’s a problem. I’ve seen some other cases where a parent was incarcerated and the judge very carefully made sure the children were cared for.
This one pisses me off. If the sex's were reveresed eh would have had bond revoked and sit in jail until court. She has 2 domestic voilence charges, and a drug charge? oh and going to the family home when told not to?
$25,000.00 is actually a very high bond. Here in Michigan, judges have guidelines. The judges have to go through a process to hold people without bond. The media covered it with the Crumbley case. The parents of the Oxford High School shooter are charged with manslaughter and they tried to flee. But they still actually have bond assigned. Male abusers get let out on bond often, I’m afraid. We often hear about wives being murdered by their husband who was out on bond for DV.
He's a good lawyer. He's the person you want representing you if you get in a jam. That being said, I can't be a defense lawyer cause I would never have the audacity to ask for leniency on contact so the victim in the case could pay my client's bond against their trauma. Nope, nope, nope.
For most part I have seen negative comments about her Lawyer, but in my eyes, I saw a lawyer trying do the best he could for his client with the circumstances and actions that had happened.
She seemed to not care, until the Judge was closing all the loopholes she was abusing. She seemed to care not even posting bond, just because she wasn't allowed to return to the residence. She just gave up by saying ok to everything, once she realized she wouldn't be able to violate the court's orders.
Wanna bet they'll be a third offense in the future. She doesn't care that the court has ordered her not to contact the victim or go back to the 2nd street home. She will!
so she gets drugged up, violent, attacks her husband, around her children and HE gets kicked out of the house? While he's the only one earning, did nothing wrong, etc, she expects him to go live on a boat? Let her go live in a hotel until they get it sorted out.
That was actually the order. SHE was ordered to leave. But, those aren’t HIS kids and their welfare isn’t being addressed at all. And she is saying that her husband controls all marital assets so she has no access to money that is half hers. Those children need to be evaluated by CPS immediately. Just because the man is a victim doesn’t mean he would be a good parent to these kids who aren’t even related to him. The fact that none of his biological children live with him is concerning.
BTW, he is not the only one earning. She was working at their small business just like he was. For some reason, she doesn’t have access to any of the marital assets which is suspicious.
He probably controls the marital assets because she’s a drug addict and would probably use all of the money on her addictions. Typical behavior. Blame the man no matter what happens.
Why do I think everything that she was told is just bouncing off her head. I would bet she will be back in front of the Judge within one to two weeks. Toss her in Jail for a few days…..
Why? Because this woman is incoherent and has no business testifying right now. She should be seeing the doctor, not the judge. She can barely stand up, she keeps yawning, and she can barely answer questions. Is she severely sleep deprived, intoxicated, in withdrawal or is this a medical issue? Does she have head trauma under that thick hair? After all, she was just in a physical altercation. People like this frequently die in jail. If she does die, this video would be evidence that serious warning signs were ignored. I’m a retired physician. And this woman needs medical evaluation.
Oh yes it would! This attorney isn’t doing a good job at all. The defendant is obviously somewhat incoherent and should see a doctor. But she seems to be claiming that she has no access to marital assets because her husband completely controls her money. And she also has some sort of issue with her husband being left in complete control of his stepchildren. So there are issues here that need to be evaluated. I think is good that this woman stay in jail. I also think she should be thoroughly examined by the jail physician. But I think the biggest issue is that we don’t know if her children are safe. Being a victim doesn’t make one a fit parent. And being an alleged victim, like this man is even less evidence that he is fit to parent someone else’s children.
Shame on that lawyer for asking such a thing!!! If the situation were reversed they would never put up with such an outrageous suggestion!!!! Absolutely disgusting And he gets the privilege of demanding money for bail from him!!! Outrageous
She acts like the judge is disrupting her life for no reason. Also apparently the court is boring her. Her constantly yawning and attitude is so disrespectful.
She is yawning because of opiate withdrawal. Not because she is bored or being lazy. Yawning ,sneezing,goosebumps are the first signs of opiate withdrawal…….. she is screaming on the inside , “get me my dope !!!!” She can barely even put up this little charade in front of the judge. It is killing her and she just wants her fix. It’s a physical dependency. The best way I can describe it is a scale from 0 to 100 for the flu and feelings of desperation on a scale from 0 to 100 are both at 100% right now if that makes any sense. Imagine the most severe anxiety you have ever felt on top of the having the most severe flu bug you could ever imagine and then times that by 100…..so anxious desperate and sick as hell and the only thing that will take away the pain is another fix..
@@MrsBees I was trying to give the best explanation I could on going through withdrawal with the physical and the psyche… she did act ignorant, entitled and extremely disrespectful for sure but the yawning seems like textbook opiate withdrawal…. Don’t forget to smile 😉💋
Look at some male on female DV cases. It’s normal for DV defendants to be let out with a TPO and a tether They are only held without bond in cases of serious injury. Michigan requires a special hearing to hold a defendant without bond.
Her Counsel's argument: "I know he is the victim...and I realize this is the 2nd occurrence...but shouldn't he bare the responsibility of giving her his home and have him bail her out of jail and pay for all of her living expenses"? Wow.
This chick is a real piece of work….she don’t care about this whole court process. The way she was responding and her whole demeanor shows she’s a bully and don’t care!!
I get why people are complaining about how Judge DiSanto didn't revoke her bond on the other case, but, if I'm not mistaken, that would have to be addressed at the Sept. 7 hearing. I believe that there are specific procedures under Michigan Court Rules, including the ordering of a show cause hearing where the prosecutor would have to argue for a bond revocation. With that said, it appears that the defendant isn't getting released from Wayne County Jail because of the new bond on this case.
I agree. Plus, this was a case where there were no serious injuries and no deadly weapons. A GPS tether would keep her away from the victim if she were to make bail. She is innocent until proven guilty. Bond conditions are supposed to attempt to ensure the victim and public at large are protected plus that the victim won’t flee. A tether will do that. And male abusers are bonded out every day with similar bond restrictions.
The passive aggressive banter between the judge and the attorney at the end is so great lol they’re being respectful but also trying to get their points across lol
@@user-kh7kt5km8f I was a single dad that worked and there’s millions of single parents that work. There’s things called schools day care baby sitters family members. Are you really asking how this would be possible?
This woman is impaired in this video. I’m not sure how long she has been in jail. Maybe she is sleep deprived. Maybe she was just arrested and is intoxicated. Maybe she’s going through withdrawal. But she really should be medically evaluated. She’s too impaired to testify. Remember, this woman was just in an altercation. Does she have head trauma? If she has a subdural hematoma and drops dead in 3 days, the victim will suddenly become her soulmate widower and sue for millions.
I had to pause this video for a minute. The urge to throw my tablet against the wall was too strong. I am so glad her husband decided to press charges. She reminds me of my abusive ex. Same attitude. Different gender. And I am stunned that she is allowed to live with her kids.
Is her lawyer seriously trying to argue that the victim (husband) is partially at fault?! There's no way that they would allow a MAN back to the home if he had TWO domestic assault cases pending as well as felony drug charges
Holy crap, this lady is using the court system to help beat up her husband who funds her and her kids lives. This is insane.
People need to stop kidding themselves. Men can and are physically abusive. No question. But women make up for that in being manipulative and mentally abusive. People act like women can do no harm, but put a few women in a room together and watch the fireworks. There's a bias towards women and I'm not saying it is or isn't warranted, but women like this know how to use that to their advantage.
The marriage and child support system has been extremely biased for decades.
She was accused of throwing things at her husband.@@debunkthejunk1
@@debunkthejunk1women initiate domestic violence just as often as men.
Why do you say that the husband funds their lives? The woman was working at the family business until 2 weeks ago, by her testimony. And yet they claim that the husband “controls the purse strings” so the defendant has no access to any marital assets.
Don’t get me wrong. This woman belongs in jail. But these situations are rarely cut and dry. We have no idea what the alleged victim is like.
The judge is absolutely correct! If the sexes were reversed they wouldn't be blaming the victim. I'm so sick of men being treated differently than women. There is so much unfairness in the justice system when it comes to female criminals. They get much lighter sentences and are treated with kid gloves. It's bs!
The same bias also applies in child care case 95% of the time the woman is granted custody of the children. The custody should be decided by which parent has the best interest of the children, not the sex of the parent.
I watch lots of these cases. And I see defense lawyers of male abusers and rapists do the same thing. They trash female victims too.
I believe if a female wants to fight a male then she better be prepared to get hit like one as well. Don't be putting your hands on a male then cry/call cops when you get hit/Knocked the F.O.
My son was taught it's not right to put hands on a female out of anger for a moment. Walk away or take a drive and cool off. But if the female wants to chase after you put hands on you & you need to protect yourself from harm then do so only until the threat is stopped. I taught my girls the same. And if they have spouses that put hands on them even once to call me so we can see if the situation can be helped or to pack their stuff to move back home til it is handled.
I was beaten to the point I begged God to let him finally kill me cause I couldn't go through it anymore. God listened to my cries but took him out instead. The last time he beat me and wrapped a lamp wire around my neck he ended up having a major heart attack. I didn't know at the time I just felt the wire get loose enough for me to get away and run. I came back home to expect another beating but found him dead on the couch. I wish I could say that was the only man that beat me but I had to learn the lesson one more time to finally stand up for myself and I went toe to toe with him & I was able to get away. Never again.
@@GoodnightJLH🙄
@@GoodnightJLH Did you miss the point intentionally or do you just have crappy comprehension skills?
What a class act she is , stands in court and yawns multiple times . Defies everything and just seems very trashy .
She yawns repeatedly, has trouble standing up, and can’t remember things. She looks worse because she’s bra-less and in her pajamas. She isn’t being defiant. She’s either severely sleep deprived, intoxicated, in withdrawal or severely ill. She should be evaluated by a doctor. People just like her are ignored when exhibiting obvious warning signs and they die in jail all the time.
I wonder if that's not a fake yawn trying to show disrespect to court, like I m not listening to you.
Seriously!! The yawning was excessive 😆
@@SS11660I think it's opiate withdrawal
That’s exactly what it is.
Imagine telling the person that was assaulted that they need to leave their home. The au-fucking-dacity of this battle axe
And she wants him to pay her bond!!!
@@Pudef9
She was asking that because her husband doesn’t give her access to any of the marital assets even though she works for his/their small business just like he does. I find that worrisome because it’s a red flag that the abuse may be mutual.
Why can’t she get into her own bank account?
@@GoodnightJLH I missed that, thank you.
Maybe she never thought of having a seperate account. Most married people do not use seperate accounts
@@kimpulsipher647
I’m sure she doesn’t have a separate account. But why doesn’t she have access to THEIR account?
She’s supposed to be in court today for the DV charge. I hope we get an update. I looked at her record. It seems that she had a clean record for the past 10 years then got a meth violation in April and then the multiple DV charges. Hopefully the jail time did her good by getting the meth out of her system.
How does a drug addicted, husband abuser get to be the sole supervisor of children?
don't ask questions you already know the answer to...
ovaries
Because she chose to totally ignore the court order to stay away from the home.
Because she's the woman and it's disgusting
Simple, he's not the father
No child needs a mother like that
No child needs a Mother or a Father like that. An abusive partner I mean.
I absolutely love Judge Disanto but I am very disappointed she didn't revoke this smug woman's bond for a myriad of reasons including committing the same offense of assault, felony drug charges and she violated terms of her probation. If the sexes were reversed there is no way any judge would allow a man who was twice arrested on DV charges to go with low bail. Double-standards are disgusting.
this decision is absolutely disgusting, yet it is the very thing that a male DV victim is faced with. we are disregarded in this area of criminal justice, by both courts and the police, and where double standards are allowed to be perpetuated by the very system that should be completely unbiased and seen to act equally for both male and female.
@@user-vn6nz2vx7yI agree but women face the same thing on rape!
Also cps should be notified to remove the children from that toxic environment.
It's almost a moot point because her bond was set at $25,000/10 percent in the new case. That would pretty much supersede her personal bond on the other court case in front of Judge DiSanto. And I don't know that I'd call $25,000 a low bond considering she doesn't have direct access to financial resources (or so she claims).
@@CreightonRabs her and her attorney knew the boyfriend would give her the bail which was why they were asking Judge Disanto if they could reach out to him for bail only. The man owns his own business and has multiple houses/trailers. That bail was nothing and she knew it.
Listening to Miss Parson's use of words and her body language she just doesn't give a rat's arse at all.
She is going to do whatever she wants to do.
And yawn all the way through 😴🥱😂😂
Her lawyer is fighting hard for her and she doesn't give a crap. You can't fault him. That's his job. I could never be a defense lawyer.
The judge will allow it, that's obvious.
Mrs. Parsons can barely stand up. Many of her answers are incoherent and she is constantly yawning. She should be seeing a physician, not a judge!
People die in county jails every day because people assume that they are voluntarily behaving in such ways. And, if she dies, the victim will suddenly become her beloved soulmate widower and will sue for millions.
I made the same observations.
This woman will never follow the court orders. She thinks she makes all the rules. You can tell by her stance and her attitude she is nothing but a bully.
Completely agree. She's an entitled arrogant POS.
Exactly
And, it will be only a matter time before she begins physically abusing the children .... like when she can't do it to her husband anymore.
She needs to be put in jail.
@@preciousbeautyj1043 a man would be under the jail for same things
Judge is 100% right, if he was the abuser with this set of facts, there is no way anyone would accept saying "Well... she has responsibility too." or asking to allow him to call her to ask her to bail him out. That would never fly and would be considered disgusting.
put her in the slammer she's needing a rest from all the beatings she give out.
Defense lawyers ask for preposterous stuff every day. I watched a video this morning where a man forcibly raped a 15 year old girl. He groomed her then lured her to get in his car and took her to an isolated place. He had showed her a gun and said he had it during the incident. The girl and her mom gave impact statements and it was heartbreaking. The girl was cutting herself! The defense attorney asked for probation only and the DA agreed they presented a plea bargain to the judge with no jail time where they would plea down to attempted sexual assault from a forcible rape felony. The judge didn’t allow it. He said that if they accept the plea to the lower charge, his sentence would be the maximum which is 10 years in prison. Or the defendant could go to trial for the original charge.
Bottom line is that defense lawyers ask for unreasonable stuff every day. That’s just our legal system.
Keep in mind that the defendant was saying that she didn’t have access to any money at all and that the victim has complete control of all marital assets. If that’s true, that is abusive in itself.
I’m not sure why the abuser so adamantly didn’t want her children left in her husband’s care. But I think that situation needed urgent evaluation for the sake of the children. The woman said her husband doesn’t have any of his biological kids living with them. So why is that?
I believe that the children are the most important consideration in homes where there is domestic violence and their welfare needs to be a top priority.
@@GoodnightJLHGreat comment; that case you mentioned sounds sickening. It's relieving when Judges don't go for these ridiculous deals for heinous crimes.
Also agree that children of of the utmost importance in any case concerning DV or abuse in the home. They are the most vulnerable and most Judges see it that way as well 👍
Welcome to feminism.
Equality - until it gives men the same rights. Then women don't want it.
@@Claudia-lq3ns
I agree. And, regardless of genders of those involved, a domestic violence victim with no blood relation to the children shouldn’t be automatically considered a fit guardian. The children don’t belong with the defendant in this case but what about their father or other relatives? Do they even know the mother is in jail?
Her reaction at 18:15 to being told she had to have a GPS tether was very telling. She had every intention of just ignoring the order to stay away from the home until she was told it was actually going to be enforced this time.
@thomasdalton1508 I agree. I was thinking the same thing. Smh.
She huffed 😂😂. Like girl🙄
Exactly!
She didn’t even pretend to care or act bothered. Even dirt bags try acting like they give a fuck.
$100 say's he bailed her boobs out in the moring...
I saw a similar reaction to the random drug testing... she's quite nervous about that.
I was a well battered husband over a 17 year marriage with two daughters. No one believed me my wife would blame me to others and so i lived a lonely victim life until i stopped. Recovery is possible just leave.
Thanks for sharing.
Did you ever report your wife to law enforcement?
How long ago was this? I know that it used to be very hard for male victims to be heard but it’s much better now. But remember that this may not be akin to your situation. Remember Gabby Pettito?
The defendant isn’t speaking well. Obviously there is something wrong with her and she should see a doctor. But she seemed to be saying that she doesn’t have any access to marital assets so has to ask her husband for money. If that is true, this isn’t a black and white abuser-victim situation.
If, as reported, she is a drug user/addict, her husband may have withdrawn access to family money so that she doesn't spend it on her habit
Same problem. But my youngest is only 12. I will keep giving money. Hopefully, she will get help.
@@TJiow64
You don’t get to keep all the marital assets just because your spouse uses drugs. Marital assets are half hers regardless of the choices she makes.
I still find it suspicious that the victim controls all marital assets. I don’t worry about it for the sake of this woman. It would do her good to dry out in jail. But I do worry about the children. Just because a person is an alleged victim doesn’t make him a fit guardian for another man’s children.
Her entire demeanor, from the beginning to the end, shows her disdain for the entire judicial system!
Her body language spoke volumes.
It's called ENTITLEMENT!!! They should treat her exactly like they treat male batterers! Women can, and DO, kill their domestic partners.
She’s a mess she’s not even supposed to be in the home, her husband need’s to kick her to the curb. She is using him.
She obviously has no respect for the court. She is yawning all the way through the proceedings
More so, herself 😢
She beats him up and then expects him to leave his home? She should go live in a damn trailer all by herself. It’s not his duty to stay away from her, it’s her duty to stay away from him.
Problem being; HE doesn't want her to leave him...He just wants his nice wife back...And, women really wonder why older men date younger women...? Because of ex-wives like HER! Instead of working out her issues, she decides to go on strike, and throw the dishes at him...Hint: That only attractive to men when sex immediately follows...
yeah but she needs to raise kids while he slaves away
Been there, done that
It’s also her duty to wear a fkn bra. 🤦🏻♂️
Her non-stop yawning is so indicative of her attitude towards this situation.
I noticed that too, and most of the time, she didn't even cover her mouth.
It’s not unusual for people to have difficulty sleeping in jail.
It’s also a symptom of coming off drugs.
The yawning is from drugs. Not sleep deprivation. Saw it a ton with detox patients.
Yup, opiod withdrawl…
To hear John Goldpaugh completely disregard the MALE victim is completely disgusting.
Absolutely disgusting agreed.what are having trial now.
And then said the victim should bail her out?! Wtf..
Show me a defense attorney and I will show you someone who could be utterly deleted by society and nothing of value would be lost.
Edit 222:42 she is very close to submitt9ing sanctions on this defense attorney.. you can tell by how she worded things. if he were smart he would do his best to not appear before her anytime he can.
I guess he has no ambulances to chase. A true POS.
I would revoke her bond and lock her up! Men can take care of kids, get daycare etc. He can't fight back because he's a man. He'd get locked up! That doesn't make him weak!
She's apparently still in custody on the new charges, so it's highly unlikely that she'll be released.
I’ll BET you that her husband bails her out. There is something crazy about this whole situation. He calls the cops and gets her arrested 3 times yet lets her sleep there every night. That makes me suspect that he doesn’t want to take care of those kids of hers from another baby daddy.
@@GoodnightJLH Except he would have done so the day she was arraigned. As of Aug. 22, she's still in custody at the Wayne County Jail.
@GoodnightJLH no.. it's what happens in abusive relationships. My daughter was in one.
@@grandmasoffgridliving
Yes. That’s what happens. Women bail their abusers out of jail too. But unfortunately, no one is thinking about the children. He is NOT their father. He can’t even take those kids to the doctor because he isn’t a legal guardian.
It’s sad men aren’t taken seriously in these matters
I don’t understand. The woman was issued a $25,000 bond AND, if she makes bond, she will have an ankle monitor to keep her away from the home and her husband. This is what would be likely if it was a female victim in a case with no guns used and no serious injury.
So, why do you say the man wasn’t taken seriously? What else could the police and the judge have done?
Been there…you are correct.
I love it. The woman claims the DV is the husband's fault. Then her lawyer claims it the husband's responsibility to bail her out.
Honestly, they were saying that this woman’s husband controls all of their marital assets which is concerning to me. It really is possible that these people are both abusive to each other. The most important thing is the children. The kids don’t belong to the victim. He has kids but they don’t reside with him but he is basically granted sole temporary guardianship for 2 kids that aren’t related to him in any way. Those children deserve more consideration.
If the man has had to call the police 3 times (for charges) against this woman it's clear he's not the violent one in this relationship.
I'd hate to know what she'd do against someone MUCH weaker than herself behind closed doors (male vs adolescent).
Throw that woman in the slammer for 10 years. The kids will turn out much better.
@@pii-chan8804
I’m not suggesting that she be allowed to go home and take care of the kids. But I’m concerned that they are now without any sort of legal guardian since they aren’t the alleged victim’s children. Their welfare needs to be prioritized. And we really don’t know what kind of person the alleged victim is. Being a victim doesn’t make one a fit parent.
@@pii-chan8804
I have a male friend whose girlfriend called the police on him more than once. She stayed in his home. They weren’t married, so unlike the couple in this video, it was my friend’s home not their home. My friend had access to money at least. So he posted bond and stayed at a hotel and had an electronic tether. The case went to jury trial. One witness was the girlfriend’s brother who testified that when my friend drank to much, it’s awful. How so? Well, when my friend drinks too much, he gets out the karaoke set and he sings. And it isn’t pretty, LOL. Turns out, the accuser had mental health issues and got paranoid at times but she wasn’t being abused. So, despite being arrested twice in Michigan with DV charges, the jury unanimously found him not guilty.
Anyway, my personal experience is that false accusations of DV can and do occur. So I don’t think that the fact that he was the one who called the police proves that she is guilty. I think she is most likely guilty and I think the best possible scenario for her and her children would be that she would dry out from the drugs and get effective drug treatment.
If I was her husband I’d leave her there
I feel so bad for the children. The victim deserves all the respect and care that we would give to female victims.
The defendant assumes he won’t testify or she can get petty from a jury. Her lawyer was already trying the violence was mutual crap.
I don’t know how her 1st bond wasn’t revoked. Hopefully her felony probation officer will file a violation (not getting arrested is always a condition).
@@North_West1
Michigan judges aren’t allowed to completely revoke bond without a special hearing. And the charge has to be more serious than her charge. She didn’t use a gun and the husband wasn’t seriously injured.
I’m VERY worried about the children. They are NOT the husband’s kids. He has kids of his own but they don’t live in the home. Just because he is a victim doesn’t mean he should be allowed to have sole custody of someone else’s kids without thorough investigation.
I think the judge dropped the ball on the children in this case.
That’s equality that woman wanted.
@@GoodnightJLHThe children should go to CPS. This violent woman should be jailed.
so if i beat up a woman TWO SEPARATE TIMES! and violated probation and had a triplicate of felony drug charges and yawned and lounged against the podium... i'm not even going to play about the size of the book they would throw at me.
True. That’s as it should be. But they are throwing the book at her too. The judge assigned a bond she can’t possibly pay. If it’s true what she says and the husband has complete control of her money, she’d may as well stay in jail because she would have no money to live on.
Jail will be good for her. She can dry out from all the drugs.
Where did you see “a triplicate of felony drug charges”?
I’m a retired physician. This woman wasn’t “lounging”. She could barely stand up. She was also incoherent at times. Could be sleep deprivation, intoxication or withdrawal. But it could also be a medical issue. She was just in an altercation and could have a subdural hematoma from head trauma, for instance. This woman has no business testifying until she’s evaluated by a doctor.
People regularly die in our country’s county jails. And so many of them have obvious warning signs similar to this woman and are ignored. If she does die, the victim will suddenly become her soulmate widower and sue for millions. And he would win because this video is incontrovertible evidence.
@@GoodnightJLHshe's a multiple abuser and has no problem with her memory, answers questions quickly and clearly and has zero problems standing.
Her problems are with violence and drugs.
It's probably best that you retired if you think this woman has some "head trauma" or other impairment.
She is probably going through some mild withdrawal, if anything.
She has broken every court order and the lawyers are victim blaming the man.
As someone who has seen female on male DV and is familiar with multiple studies that show women are often violent with their male partners and the men don't ever hit back i find their attitudes disgusting.
Check out the CDC study about non reciprocal IPV in hetero couples.
@@presterjohn9088
I didn’t say she had head trauma. I said it was possible. I suspect she had drug withdrawal as a most likely issue. But people die from drug withdrawal often in our jails and the taxpayers pay for that big time.
I absolutely agree that she should be in jail. But just because you find a prisoner disgusting doesn’t mean you get to ignore medical issues.
We had a similar case in Boulder County jail a few years ago. Woman drug addict. She was withdrawing, choked on her own vomit and died. She and her son were caught shoplifting together. Now her son is a very wealthy man.
@@presterjohn9088
Lawyers blame victims on a regular basis. Gender is irrelevant. I don’t like it either.
My take on this is that the lawyer was too lazy to pull up her original bond conditions and he believed her when she told him she was supposed to be in the home with the children. His whole case was based on this false assumption and he got pretty frazzled. He appeared to be angry and was grasping at straws. That’s what he gets for being lazy.
What a piece of work that woman is. Such a typical abusive mindset. How is CPS not involved with this family, given mom's alleged DV and drug history? I suspect the 16 yo is actually running the household--not the drug addled mother. This woman seems completely unconcerned about anything, except her being inconvenienced.
I agree. But I also expect that the husband/victim may not be a good parent. He has children of his own but they don’t live with him at all. He shouldn’t automatically be temporarily given sole custody of someone else’s kids just because he is a victim. We need to put these children first.
@@GoodnightJLH Given mom has some drug issues, I suspect dad does as well. Think chaos reigns in that household--and the kids pay the price.
@@lizetteolsen3218
I agree with you EXCEPT that he is NOT “dad”. He has none of his biological children living with him. Now he has complete control of these children but he doesn’t have legal custody so he can’t even get medical care for those kids. And Mom isn’t even allowed to contact the victim through a 3rd party so she can’t arrange for the children to go to an actually family member.
The judge dropped the ball bigtime on these kids.
@@GoodnightJLH I thought it was only the teen who was her daughter. The younger kids are shared. Given my experience working with CPS in my corner of the world, the age of the teen largely means she would be ignored for intervention unless there is an imminent threat to harm. So many cracks in the system. I was on a work meeting this am and the group was talking about how negatively impacted kids are just trying to stay at grade level b/c of parents addiction, criminal, poverty, etc. Not having a stable home means the kids get dragged between and with disruptions for school. In one school, the child is on target, In school2, the child may be bored. In school 3, the child may be behind. When primary school age kids are disrupted 3x, the child will not graduate HS. How is that for a grim factoid?
@@lizetteolsen3218
No. She specifically said that her husband has biological children but they don’t live in the home with them. The 2 children are only hers.
The judge just gave her a place to stay, the county jail 😂😂😂
The way the accused leans on the podium as if she controls this hearing is SICKNING !!!
She’s sick. Most likely drug withdrawal but it could be something else. The repetitive yawning, leaning on the podium and her oddly confused answers to questions are indication for a medical evaluation.
Ummm...Did you see the size of her chest...? You would be leaning like that too, if they were that heavy!!!
@@brentfarvors192that’s exactly what i thought. she’s trying to help cover herself lol
she's gross
@@brentfarvors192🤣 and apparently she doesn’t have any way to hoist those puppies up! 🤢
The defendents stance is one of total disrespect to the judge.😬
Bet she scared her husband into dropping the domestic charges.😖
She has fried her brain from the drugs, can't remember what her cases were or results of chargers😒
She can barely stand up and can’t stop yawning. It could be drugs but could also be sleep deprivation or it could be a serious illness. She was not competent to take place in that hearing and she should have been seeing a doctor rather than a judge at that moment.
I’m not suggesting she be let out of jail. But ignoring someone who can barely stand up is exactly the reason why we see so many people die in our jails. Remember that it doesn’t matter if this is drug withdrawal. If she dies, her husband will sue and be made a multimillionaire.
I’ve been guilty of standing like this and it usually happens when I’m called outside and I’m not wearing a bra. I kinda slouch behind something or cross my arms because I don’t want the cold temperature to make it obvious I’m not wearing a bra 😂
@@unapologeticallyamy9031
I suspect that she wasn’t wearing a bra when she was arrested and they didn’t allow her to get one.
@@unapologeticallyamy9031you sound as classy as her
If I was the victim I would be afraid for my children if she was allowed to be around them. Even if she had no history of attacking them. Without him to take out her frustrations on she could very well take it out on the children.
Who looks after the children when she's on a high?
The problem is that the children in the home are not the victim’s children. The defendant testified that the victim doesn’t have custody of any of his biological children.
I think the judge really let the children down in this case. The children should come first. Their real fathers should be notified that the mother is in jail any CPS should determine where the children should live. Just because someone is a victim doesn’t make him a suitable single father for another man’s children.
I was wondering why she had the kids with a DV charge.
@@user-tl6vs3so4p
She didn’t have a conviction. Just a charge. I wonder if the children’s father even realizes that she’s in jail. It disgusts me that this judge isn’t giving any consideration to the welfare of these children. I hope they are okay.
If she has no where else to go, let her stay in jail!
She needs to go to jail, she’s the ABUSER; the entitlement of this woman to beat up this man and she wants to reside at the home which she’s not allowed to stay there she needs to be in jail.
That’ll give her a place to stay.
this attorney is ridiculous...WTH?? If the roles were reversed, people would be screaming from the streets about letting the defendant contact the victim. This is is atrocious.
Male DV defendants are let out on bond every day. And, just like this female defendant, they are jailed if they contact the victim. The victim could have actually had her jailed even earlier but he didn’t complain. That’s common with female victims also.
Keep in mind that no one “let” the defendant contact the victim in this case. If the judge on the original case had a crystal ball, he might have predicted the defendant would violate bond and ordered an electronic tether but he didn’t realize that would happen and we don’t see as many electronic tethers used in Michigan as we do in some other areas. Judge Alex Manning in Atlanta uses electronic tethers very commonly and for both male and female defendants. But it’s expensive and the county pays for it. Wayne County, Michigan isn’t wealthy.
@@GoodnightJLHhush
@@jen-a-purr
LMAO.
If you don’t want to read what I have to say, you are welcome to scroll on by. But I watch lots of these and I see that defense attorneys ask for ridiculous things pretty much routinely. And male perpetrators of DV are usually treated leniently and they frequently reoffend.
This woman will not listen. She will do exactly what she wants until she is in prison.
Which will be never bc it's a woman. Women's prisons don't really exist. Media and television created them to give women the danger fantasy they crave.
She's bullied him to drop charges
The State needs to press them regardless of whether the DV victims want to
Or not
And she is also abusing the kids too I bet
Sigh. The judge dropped the ball as far as the kids are concerned. The victim doesn’t have any of his own children in the home yet he is basically being given sole temporary custody to 2 kids who aren’t related to him. Being a victim doesn’t make someone a fit parent. These kids deserve better.
@@GoodnightJLHI don’t think you can say that just because he doesn’t have his own kids living with him he isn’t a fit parent. Most fathers don’t get custody of their kids because the mothers most often do. Case in point, why does this woman have her kids? Where is the father of her children? Why didn’t he get them years ago? Just because his kids live with their mother primarily doesn’t make him unfit as a parent. She definitely is an unfit parent and I don’t see how she even has custody of any kids at all.
@@kreggie891
You misunderstood me. My point was that we don’t know if the victim is a fit parent. If he had custody of any of his kids, that would be evidence that he had been previously found to be a fit parent. In the absence of such evidence, we just don’t know if he is a fit parent. So I think that needs to be investigated. I also think if the children’s actual father is a fit parent, they should go there.
@@GoodnightJLH Kreggie didn't misunderstand you at all. You are the one jumping to the conclusion that he isn't fit.
He owns his own company. He is obviously the responsible one here... at least on the face of it.
Let me put it another way...
... just because she gave birth to the children.. doesn't mean she is a fit mother. The evidence here is... that she is NOT a fit parent. And that's not me jumping to conclusions. That's me actually watching the video. You may want to watch it again as well.
She has smuggling charges, drug charges, domestic violence charges. So I'm a bit confused as to why you seem to be siding against the husband while disregarding her history entirely.
@@twelvewingproductions7508
I never ever said he was unfit! And I certainly don’t think that she is a fit mother. What I said was that children shouldn’t be left in the care of a nonrelative without a home evaluation and without checking to see if the children have a perfectly capable father.
I was a step-parent for many years. If my ex went to jail, the children should have rightly gone to their other parent.
Glad the judge stood firm on this. This woman isn't going to stop unless she's forced to.
Hell yes go Judge Disanto yes
So the alleged abuser should be allowed to ask the victim to post bond?! O get he's a defense attorney and he's doing his job, but that's ridiculous!
I think the defense was trying to say that the defendant has no access to her own assets because the victim doesn’t allow her to access any of their money.
Not sure who was worse the accused yawning her face off like she was bored as hell, or her lawyer trying to push the fact she should be able to remain at the house when she had clearly breached the order not to return from a previous charge . SMH🤦🤷
It must have been cold in that prison...Not normal for the USA.
The defendant seemed a bit incoherent. It’s unclear why. Could be drugs, illness or severe sleep deprivation. But she needed medical evaluation.
She is yawning because of opiate with drawl.
This woman has been charged with so many crimes, she can't keep them straight! Get your life together woman!!!
Wait, her lawyer was asking the judge to allow the woman to contact her husband so that she can ask him to bail her out?!
That's crazy!
Yep…insulting
Like that’s going to happen.
The audacity of this freaking lawyer blaming the victim!
I loved how he wanted her husband who she had assaulted to post her bond
She isnt suitable to have custody.
The children aren’t his. There is a different baby daddy.
I really respect Judge DiSanto here, especially. Her consideration for the husband, and admonishment to defendant's counsel regarding his attempt to attach blame to the victim of a domestic violence incident, were both handled perfectly, IMO. Recognition of how this would be playing out if the genders were reversed was exactly what defendant and her counsel needed to hear. Just - respect to you, your honor.
I cannot believe a lawyer would have the audacity to put responsibility on a victim of assault to post bond for the abuser.
The Criminal: I should be allowed in the house.
The Judge: You realize you are the criminal, right?
The Criminal:
@24:29 disregard for court orders and disrespect for court in continually yawning. Wow
Take a look at her stance at the lectern.
She looked like she was about to pass out. She really should have been seeing a physician at the jail.
Not that I approve of this awful person, but the stance and the yawning definitely reminds me of being in front of a judge withdrawing from heroin/fentanyl. Your back hurts horribly and it’s hard to stand up straight, and you can’t help but constantly yawn. Luckily it looks like she doesn’t have the restless legs yet, but she will if that’s the case.
@@JasonW1220She doesn't even have the common courtesy to cover her mouth when she yawns. She is devoid of any social graces. She obviously has no respect for herself...how can she have respect for the law?
@@JasonW1220 yea I noticed the yawning right away. She is definitely not feeling well…
Bravo to the husband for pursuing charges. Men can be victims too, but it's viewed as taboo for them to report it.
Yes we are.
She needs to spend some time in jail so she can understand the seriousness of ALL of the charges. She is expecting her husband to not press charges and thinks she will get off scott free. At her age she should know not to carry rx drugs unless they are in a proper prescription bottle. Lots of yawning and giving excuses= no sense of accountability.
Ummm! I think that I would remember throwing knives at my husband!
They kicked the husband out, after she was arrested for assaulting him last time. Lol.
No the court did not! She was ordered out of the house but didn't listen & hubby let her!
You need to watch the video again. No one kicked the husband out.
But the woman’s lawyer is very POORLY trying to explain that those aren’t his kids so shouldn’t be living with just him. And he is saying that defendant has no access to marital assets because her husband has complete control so she has nothing.
Lawyer was asking if defendant could have a 3rd party communicate with the victim in order to facilitate care of the children and that was denied. The children’s biological father and grandparents should be notified and there should be a social services or CPS evaluation of the home situation. The victim isn’t legal guardian so can’t even give permission for the kids to get medical care.
The woman handled this situation poorly. She was ordered out of the house. I don’t know if she told her lame lawyer what was going on.
I had stepkids. Had my partner (who was their parent) been incarcerated, those kids would have rightly gone to their other parent or grandparent but not to me.
Good judge and even though he said stupid things at least the lawyer was trying to help his client. She also had every intention of going back to the house..when she heard the words gps you can see the dissapointment in her face.
yea you could tell she was planning on it. dude needs to file for divorce NOW. her having multiple dv incidents pending will make the process fair for him.
Good judge, not in this case. I love Judge Distanos, but I'm disgusted.
I believe her lawyer is engaged in that delightful legal professional task commonly known as 'turd polishing'.
He's also likely highballing his ask in an effort to get whatever relaxation of the bond conditions he *can* get for his client.
The lawyer got lazy. He didn’t do his homework. He didn’t read the actual court order for bond conditions and just took his client’s word for it even though she’s obviously somewhat “out of it”. The judge corrected the lawyer’s incorrect assertion that Jill was allowed to be in the home with the kids. Once the lawyer realized he made this error out of laziness, he was frazzled and grabbing at straws.
They need to make pressing charges for domestic violence automatic. It's wrong to expect the victims of violence to do it. There is so much fear and shame involved in many cases and, they know they're exposing themselves to further violence.
In my state, they don't let the DV victim decide whether charges are pressed. It is up to the prosecutor office.
@@cherimurphy6689 Yes. That's how it should be.
Why wouldn't they just keep her in jail? I mean, honestly........
Until they LOCK her up and throw away the key, she'll continue doing exactly what she always does.
I love this judge. No sugar coating
She is 100 %
I can't believe her lawyer asked the judge if she could asked her husband to post bail.
And ask him to move out of the house, so she could stay there.
That’s bs
That's insane, hope the husband says, "Oh hell no".
Are bras not allowed in jail?? 🤔
No cause they can b used to hang urself plus shoe lases any string rope or wire also can b used to make weapons they usually give u undergarments with no wires strings etc & slip on shoes
😅😂 they're to her waist line 😅
I was wondering the same thing!!
She could stay at any of those other places she mentioned and he could find help to watch the children. That’s how it is, she’s ridiculous.
She has a place to go, go to jail til the case is over. End of discussion
I've never seen a defendant yawn so much with so much disinterest. She just doesn't care.
That isn’t disinterest. That’s a medical issue.
Withdrawal
It’s from opioid withdrawal
What a disgrace.
That defence lawyer is disgusting. The victim should be held accountable, yeah right. I wonder would he be making the same bs excuses if the defendant was male & his daughter was the victim. He is a vile human being & so is his client.
Watch some cases with male defendants in DV and rape cases. Defense attorneys ask for leniency more often than not.
The problem here is the attorney was too lazy to read the bond conditions of her previous case. He believed her version even though she is obviously not capable of clear logical thought. The lawyer based his case on the false assumption that the defendant was allowed to be in the house with the children and that the victim would live in another family home. When the judge called out the error of that assumption, the attorney got frazzled and started grasping at straws.
If this lady has a bra on she needs to throw it away and go shopping immediately!! Since I have gone there she needs to throw that dress away with the bra! Lord have mercy! 👗
Ain't nothin wrong with some tig o bitties. Nobody would even blame you for being jealous.
@@MrLamigra1337 lol. My husband would agree. I am bigger than her by several cup sizes. I relate with her more than I am jealous of her.
I suspect that the altercation happened at night and she was arrested in her pajamas with no bra.
@@GoodnightJLH After seeing her shirt was actually real short I did think it could have been pj’s. I am so vain that in the event that I ever got arrested I would have asked to put a bra on. Lol. I don’t know if they would let me but I would ask. You are probably on the money with what happened with that whole thing. 👍
@@TRUMP-ki9vn
You can ask all you want but in cases of alleged violence they immediately put on the handcuffs and changing clothes isn’t an option.
I think this lawyer should post her bond himself, since he seems so interested. Wow.
Nah. The lawyer got frazzled. He didn’t do his homework. He didn’t read the actual court order of her bond conditions so he made a fool of himself claiming that she was allowed to be in the home with the children. Hard to tell if the woman’s blatantly disregarded court orders or if she just didn’t understand. She is obviously cognitively impaired during the hearing. Drug withdrawal is most likely but it could be several other things. Closed head trauma would look the same, for instance. And she was just in an altercation.
Not ethically allowed.
She could be yawning so much because she’s possibly detoxing from opiates. That is one sign of opiate withdrawals.
Exactly what I was thinking - give it another 4 hours & she will probably be really sick. Good!
I didn’t know.
Exactly right its the first stage of withdrawal
18:02 "Am I keeping you up?" 🤣🤣
She is basically asking to be rewarded with the home, while the victim should have to live elsewhere 🤷♂️WTF🤷♂️🤦
God, this is depressing. I feel so badly for the husband and kids.
I feel especially bad for the kids. They aren’t the husband’s kids so they are living with no legal guardian.
@@GoodnightJLHif the court is awarding temporary custody surely that comes with guardianship status by default 🙄
@@elvickRULES
The court did NOT award temporary custody. So the children aren’t under anyone’s custody and I think that’s a problem. I’ve seen some other cases where a parent was incarcerated and the judge very carefully made sure the children were cared for.
Those triple DD'S ?
This one pisses me off. If the sex's were reveresed eh would have had bond revoked and sit in jail until court. She has 2 domestic voilence charges, and a drug charge? oh and going to the family home when told not to?
$25,000.00 is actually a very high bond.
Here in Michigan, judges have guidelines. The judges have to go through a process to hold people without bond. The media covered it with the Crumbley case. The parents of the Oxford High School shooter are charged with manslaughter and they tried to flee. But they still actually have bond assigned.
Male abusers get let out on bond often, I’m afraid. We often hear about wives being murdered by their husband who was out on bond for DV.
Every case is different. Quit living in a black and white world.
I LOVE Judge Disanto. She is always fair and down to earth. And she will tell it like it is!
He's a good lawyer. He's the person you want representing you if you get in a jam. That being said, I can't be a defense lawyer cause I would never have the audacity to ask for leniency on contact so the victim in the case could pay my client's bond against their trauma. Nope, nope, nope.
For most part I have seen negative comments about her Lawyer, but in my eyes, I saw a lawyer trying do the best he could for his client with the circumstances and actions that had happened.
She seemed to not care, until the Judge was closing all the loopholes she was abusing. She seemed to care not even posting bond, just because she wasn't allowed to return to the residence. She just gave up by saying ok to everything, once she realized she wouldn't be able to violate the court's orders.
I love it when she yawns and the judge says “Am I keeping you up”?
Wanna bet they'll be a third offense in the future. She doesn't care that the court has ordered her not to contact the victim or go back to the 2nd street home. She will!
I would bet the farm on it.
Why the hell should HE have to bond her out?! She got herself into this, figure it out!
It's either cold in the jail or she enjoys the attention.
The headlights are definitely on high beams
That's the contraband case from 2014, smuggling raisins in her bra.
The yawning is from withdrawals from either benzos or opiates.
so she gets drugged up, violent, attacks her husband, around her children and HE gets kicked out of the house? While he's the only one earning, did nothing wrong, etc, she expects him to go live on a boat? Let her go live in a hotel until they get it sorted out.
That was actually the order. SHE was ordered to leave. But, those aren’t HIS kids and their welfare isn’t being addressed at all. And she is saying that her husband controls all marital assets so she has no access to money that is half hers.
Those children need to be evaluated by CPS immediately. Just because the man is a victim doesn’t mean he would be a good parent to these kids who aren’t even related to him. The fact that none of his biological children live with him is concerning.
BTW, he is not the only one earning. She was working at their small business just like he was. For some reason, she doesn’t have access to any of the marital assets which is suspicious.
He probably controls the marital assets because she’s a drug addict and would probably use all of the money on her addictions. Typical behavior. Blame the man no matter what happens.
Look at those big ham hawkers!
let’s see what you look like after sitting in jail and having everyone judge you from a bad moment in your life.
Notice how she keeps yawning! That’s a sign that she’s going through withdrawals!
Why do I think everything that she was told is just bouncing off her head. I would bet she will be back in front of the Judge within one to two weeks. Toss her in Jail for a few days…..
Why? Because this woman is incoherent and has no business testifying right now. She should be seeing the doctor, not the judge. She can barely stand up, she keeps yawning, and she can barely answer questions. Is she severely sleep deprived, intoxicated, in withdrawal or is this a medical issue? Does she have head trauma under that thick hair? After all, she was just in a physical altercation.
People like this frequently die in jail. If she does die, this video would be evidence that serious warning signs were ignored.
I’m a retired physician. And this woman needs medical evaluation.
@@GoodnightJLHshe’s hung over
If a man was back for DV for a second time I doubt "they are working on their relationship " would come out of the defense attorney's mouth.
Oh yes it would!
This attorney isn’t doing a good job at all.
The defendant is obviously somewhat incoherent and should see a doctor. But she seems to be claiming that she has no access to marital assets because her husband completely controls her money. And she also has some sort of issue with her husband being left in complete control of his stepchildren. So there are issues here that need to be evaluated.
I think is good that this woman stay in jail. I also think she should be thoroughly examined by the jail physician. But I think the biggest issue is that we don’t know if her children are safe. Being a victim doesn’t make one a fit parent. And being an alleged victim, like this man is even less evidence that he is fit to parent someone else’s children.
Shame on that lawyer for asking such a thing!!! If the situation were reversed they would never put up with such an outrageous suggestion!!!! Absolutely disgusting And he gets the privilege of demanding money for bail from him!!! Outrageous
She acts like the judge is disrupting her life for no reason.
Also apparently the court is boring her. Her constantly yawning and attitude is so disrespectful.
She is yawning because of opiate withdrawal. Not because she is bored or being lazy. Yawning ,sneezing,goosebumps are the first signs of opiate withdrawal…….. she is screaming on the inside ,
“get me my dope !!!!”
She can barely even put up this little charade in front of the judge. It is killing her and she just wants her fix. It’s a physical dependency. The best way I can describe it is a scale from 0 to 100 for the flu and feelings of desperation on a scale from 0 to 100 are both at 100% right now if that makes any sense. Imagine the most severe anxiety you have ever felt on top of the having the most severe flu bug you could ever imagine and then times that by 100…..so anxious desperate and sick as hell and the only thing that will take away the pain is another fix..
@@ashes2ashes394 this is a LOT of assumptions. I know it's hard but try not to assume things... it makes an ass out of you
@@MrsBees I was trying to give the best explanation I could on going through withdrawal with the physical and the psyche… she did act ignorant, entitled and extremely disrespectful for sure but the yawning seems like textbook opiate withdrawal…. Don’t forget to smile 😉💋
If husband bails her out, we know this is their game.
All I have to say is if this was a man, he would be put in jail until his trial. Since this is a violent offense, there should be no bond.
Look at some male on female DV cases. It’s normal for DV defendants to be let out with a TPO and a tether They are only held without bond in cases of serious injury. Michigan requires a special hearing to hold a defendant without bond.
Her Counsel's argument: "I know he is the victim...and I realize this is the 2nd occurrence...but shouldn't he bare the responsibility of giving her his home and have him bail her out of jail and pay for all of her living expenses"? Wow.
Good example of forced sterilisation being good for the whole community! She’s pretty messed up.
What's sterilisation?
@@jacquelinecofield388Stops you being able to have children.
Agree OP but il get accused of being a into eugenics.
This chick is a real piece of work….she don’t care about this whole court process. The way she was responding and her whole demeanor shows she’s a bully and don’t care!!
I get why people are complaining about how Judge DiSanto didn't revoke her bond on the other case, but, if I'm not mistaken, that would have to be addressed at the Sept. 7 hearing. I believe that there are specific procedures under Michigan Court Rules, including the ordering of a show cause hearing where the prosecutor would have to argue for a bond revocation. With that said, it appears that the defendant isn't getting released from Wayne County Jail because of the new bond on this case.
Thank you for the update.
I agree. Plus, this was a case where there were no serious injuries and no deadly weapons. A GPS tether would keep her away from the victim if she were to make bail. She is innocent until proven guilty. Bond conditions are supposed to attempt to ensure the victim and public at large are protected plus that the victim won’t flee. A tether will do that. And male abusers are bonded out every day with similar bond restrictions.
I'm glad some states have wised up and the state presses charges in DV cases whether the victim wants to or not.
Damn that woman’s yawning would have me revoking her bond immediately
Why does she still have custody of her children? Domestic violence and addiction issues…people have lost custody for much less.
I don’t think the kid’s are his, maybe 1 of them are
The passive aggressive banter between the judge and the attorney at the end is so great lol they’re being respectful but also trying to get their points across lol
That judge was fair and very based. It's nice to see a judge that treats the victim either male or female with the same amount of Justice
I’m so glad that judge held strong. There’s no reason the kids can’t stay with their dad instead of her.
who would watch the kids....he's working
@@user-kh7kt5km8f I was a single dad that worked and there’s millions of single parents that work. There’s things called schools day care baby sitters family members. Are you really asking how this would be possible?
Nothing right now isn't a great answer.
I dont know how people can allegedly not know what theyve been charged or convicted of. 😶
This woman is impaired in this video. I’m not sure how long she has been in jail. Maybe she is sleep deprived. Maybe she was just arrested and is intoxicated. Maybe she’s going through withdrawal. But she really should be medically evaluated. She’s too impaired to testify.
Remember, this woman was just in an altercation. Does she have head trauma? If she has a subdural hematoma and drops dead in 3 days, the victim will suddenly become her soulmate widower and sue for millions.
Well, when you have as many charges and convictions as she has and your mind is as drugged altered as hers, I can believe it!
Judge Disanto represented me on a workplace injury. Great Judge.
She should be in jail. Bet the dad stays to protect the children. The violent one should leave.......end of
She is the definition of Femininity !!!!!
I agree. Opiates for sure! Good catch.
TOXIC femininity.
You can tell this woman sees nothing wrong with her actions and here she is biting the hand that she admits feeds her & her children.
I had to pause this video for a minute. The urge to throw my tablet against the wall was too strong.
I am so glad her husband decided to press charges.
She reminds me of my abusive ex. Same attitude. Different gender.
And I am stunned that she is allowed to live with her kids.
The judge is right. If it was a man beating a woman would he be asking for the mother to leave the home because the man doesn't have anywhere to go?
Is her lawyer seriously trying to argue that the victim (husband) is partially at fault?! There's no way that they would allow a MAN back to the home if he had TWO domestic assault cases pending as well as felony drug charges
Yes he is.