He said I'm not the GIRL he fell in love with. And that sums it up. He's an ephebophile. Probably just been waiting for her to be legal. Just like he was waiting for his first wife. He met her at her 18th birthday for crying out loud. Look back and you'll probably find that he was stalking her. Waiting.
@opixlxEphebophilia is when an older adult is sexually attracted to post-pubescent teenagers or adolescents but still biologically adults-usually those in the age range 15-19. Adults with this attraction are called ephebophiles.
Can't understand how sibling wanted to sleep with other sibling's partner. It's incest level of disgusting. Even if the flesh and blood totally different, after all they still brother/sister (in law)
Jesus that second one is terrifying. The fact that men/boys start committing violence against women and start being sexist at increasingly younger ages is very concerning . I still can’t get over the fact he’s 15 he’s still young and hopefully they can find a way to fix him if they don’t he’s going to continue and make sure his other victims can’t talk
I’m pretty sure he’s doing that at least partially because he’d never faced any consequences and the parents are enabling such “mistakes” or “mishaps”. What could go wrong ffs
Why are you making this a gender thing as if there aren't 15 year old girls that don't do heinous things? If you don't raise your kids right, they'll turn into monsters no matter the gender. His parents condone his actions which led him to be that way.
Her mom saying "I will be a grandmother" and her sister thinking she would be the "cool" (wtf? more like crazy) aunt are totally insane. They never been part of her family and (thankfully) never will.
Your ex was a predator, you were 18 and he 25 , after he got you he moved over to your sister who was even younger. Keep your distance from your sister and mother they are trash. Good luck to you and your husband.
Wow mother in total denial of sons sexual predator. I've seen it before the internet has created this They know it for a fact. And if it's their first offense they can get it wiped off their record.
Yeah I had this happen with my rapist caregivers convinsed he wasn’t capable of it due to his disability’s and that fucked up the rest of his life he tryed to hunt me down once he was 18 and when he couldn’t get to me or find me he went after my family with werid msges and trying to hook up with my underage family memebers i wish people understood that even if they really didn’t understand what they where doing they need to be corrected Note luckly he was an idiot and did not think to check where I lived at the time since I haven’t even moved
DO NOT REPLY TO THE EX. They are not to be given info about you. This is your enemy. Why would you tell them anything. ESPECIALLY IF INNOCENT DEFENSELESS KIDS ARE INVOLVED.
@Red-os8bg I believe she's trying to cover for him. Protect him. She obviously knows by her response. I don't think she is actively involved. As in, lining up the gals for him. However, I could be wrong.
I don't know how they found out about my pregnancy? I told my ex-husband I was pregnant. You know the ex-husband that's married to her sister gee I wonder how they found out...
Typical behavior of a groomer. He’s a predator who goes after teenagers and he’ll eventually leave the sister for someone younger. Your ex husband is a predator.
No matter how bad the circumstances are, there is always some trashy people who are going to shame the victim and try to make them feel less than, so saddening 😢
@@sierraalice8072FACTSSSSS! Some people are just too naive. Most attempted kidnappings happen from places like daycare because of situations like this. People letting their guards down because someone claims to be 'family'
I’ve been in similar situations, but not with family members. I cannot tell you how much of a relief it is to have your spouse believe you when something happens to you that you didn’t start and didn’t want to happen to you and that other people you trusted don’t believe your side which is the unvarnished truth. It breaks a huge part of you & ends your relationship with those people regardless of whether or not you can keep them out of your life. There’s just a giant mark in your life at that point in your life that can never be erased no matter what anyone does or says. And it really breaks your trust in a way that you can’t explain it anyone who hasn’t been there.
OP 1 was an idiot to reveal as much about her personal life as she did. A simple "lol, no thanks" or even just deleting the email and blocking her ex would have been a better, safer, response.
😂 oh wow that email she wrote him sums up what I was thinking. Hope she focuses on her new family and moves on. I would've felt the same way after losing husband and baby, glad her friend saved her
Story 2: I’m sorry for what you went through with your husbands nephew but you are a married woman now and you need to be more independent. What is your age? Therapy may be needed for you. Rest assured if the nephew did it to you he will do it to others sadly. The mom knows what her son did.
What a powerful journey of resilience and healing! You've emerged stronger and found happiness despite your past pain. Your response to Dan was perfect-assertive and final. Surrounding yourself with loving, supportive people like Tony and your new community shows your strength and commitment to moving forward. Keep focusing on your bright future!
Gotta laugh at such idiocy. Even if OP’s ex was despicable enough to cheat on her with her 19 year old sister, he was absurdly stupid to think she was going to make a loving, loyal partner to him. She cheated with her sister’s husband, and she was still a teen. Those facts should have relegated her to “girl to have fun with temporarily”. Him trying to have a relationship with her is hilarious. Of course she doesn’t respect him. He cheated on her sister and didn’t bother to come when she lost their baby. What’s to respect? The fact she’d do those things and her age practically ensured she’d be horrible to him as well. It takes a special type of evil to cheat with your sibling’s spouse.
These stories are both shocking and hilarious! The cucumber incident at 2 a.m. had me in stitches. It's amazing what some people will say to their doctors. Thanks for the entertaining content!
Wow, what a powerful and emotional story. I can’t believe what you’ve been through and how strong you’ve stayed through it all. It’s heartbreaking to hear about the betrayal and pain you experienced, but it’s also inspiring to see how you’ve rebuilt your life and found happiness again. Your resilience is truly admirable. Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your life with us. Wishing you all the best with your new family and hoping you continue to find peace and joy.
This probably happened before in the past and you guys just don't know it yet get in touch with some friends or old girlfriends that he might know of and see if there's a trail
Don't make any amount that don't put pictures of your kids or your baby on the up there on the internet on Facebook just leave them out and make it about you and your husband no baby Pistons
right after i heard the " you're not the same girl I fell in love with" and then proceeds to go for the barely legal 19 yr old...he basically likes women who are barely legal and the fact that he called her a girl and not a WOMAN sums it all up honestly, this is just gross
I think we are safer in our homes alone. A lot of perpetrators are known to victims. The possibility of getting attacked by strangers is a lot less than a possibility of being attacked/molested.
I don't know why people who have been cheated on their partner still care about their partner or their good memory. The partner definitely doesn't care because they choose to cheat. It's delusional to think they will not do it again. For me, maybe I can forgive but will not ever have a relationship with them again. Just no contact.
This is so messed up. First the ex is a creepy weirdo that sleeps around with girls that just turned 18, now the 15 year old turning 16 is starting to do the nastiness with a vulnerable woman who was drugged. The fuck is life man?! God bless that woman too, cause she needs a breather and a family to love her, cause clearly she needs love. God bless her husband for taking her side too, cause not a lot of people would choice their spouse over those who are blood relatives.
This format is just too hard to follow. From the jittery distracting background to the half-second phonics card blitz, it's just a frenetic recipe for adhd.
Honey, you told your ex that you are pregnant. He probably told them that you contacted him with the information (technically you did, but in response to HIS email), so he covers himself. Wouldn't trust any of them.
The 2nd story, the girl sounds dumb AF why are you taking "sleeping pills" from ppl you don't even know? & acting too scared to stay in an unfamiliar town? Regardless, it sounds like her husband's family are insane. She should've pressed charges bc that boy will definitely likeky do it again. The OPs SIL needs to be locked up too
Definitely not victim blaming nor trying to. I agree that the people who harmed her need to be locked up bc there's no justification. If this is a recent story, I hope they get got by the justice system. I can also acknowledge that it's insane to take sleeping pills from someone, especially immediately after that person's unhinged son tried to SA you. Sadly, she was probably safer to stay alone than with strangers (even if they are in-laws).
great video, really well put together! it's interesting to hear such personal stories, but i can't help but wonder if bringing up past relationships like this is healthy. shouldn’t some things just stay in the past?
One like the second one hurts me because I was a victim of a sa from someone underage. The police wouldn’t do anything cos he was underaged. His caregivers claimed he wasn’t capable because he was mentally disabled. Resalt? He tryed to track me down once he turned 18 where he couldn’t find me he turned to my family sending my mum harrasing msges and trying to hook up with underage female family members. Luckily he is actually stupid and didn’t think to check the last adress he knew I was at
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He said I'm not the GIRL he fell in love with. And that sums it up. He's an ephebophile. Probably just been waiting for her to be legal. Just like he was waiting for his first wife. He met her at her 18th birthday for crying out loud. Look back and you'll probably find that he was stalking her. Waiting.
@opixlxSome sexually attracted to teenagers almost exclusively. Like a pedophile is to children
@opixlxEphebophilia is when an older adult is sexually attracted to post-pubescent teenagers or adolescents but still biologically adults-usually those in the age range 15-19. Adults with this attraction are called ephebophiles.
@opixlxGoogle is a thing bro
@opixlx if I'm right, it's a adult who is interested in people in 15-20 age range, it's pedophilia but a bit different
@opixlxsomeone who is attracted to late age teenagers.. so like 15 to 19 exclusively
Like Kendrick Lamar said "to any bitches that talk to him and fall in love, just make sure you hide your little sister from him"
What song is that? Is it a song where he’s talking about how he’s garbage? Just that part out of context I may be reading it wrong.
@@Sochi314not like us is the song, and Lamar’s talking abt drake in it
@@Sochi314what’s your favorite rapper
@@DartM0nke-r2rprobably Drake lmao
@@LilAreola444 fr
Can't understand how sibling wanted to sleep with other sibling's partner. It's incest level of disgusting. Even if the flesh and blood totally different, after all they still brother/sister (in law)
Yes, it’s pathetic and just tells me you can’t pull no man so you choose the only one in close proximity to you
LMAOOO great minds think alike cuz that’s exciting what i thought hearing this story like wtf smh
It actually sounds like grooming. He likes teenagers. 18 (wife) and 25(husband). And then he waited for her sister to turn 18.
The Golden Child "babydoll" sister is a creep. The ex is also a creeper. Nasty, too close to home breeding all around.
@@AmethystEyes how’s is it grooming she’s 18 that’s the legal age to become a adult
18 op and 25 ex... he's not a husband he's a groomer
Fr and then she said she had a dysfunctional family. She's a victim.💀💀
18 and 25 isn't grooming unless he met her at 16.
wondering what a 25yro has in common with an eighteen year old. like. yall.
@@artemislove2941 same thing a 25 yr old has in common with a 20 yr old.
Exactly
It's not your fault it's your ex's husband's fault because he cheated on you with your sister and they should go to hell for it.
You look like you have a hot sister someone would cheat on you with
This!
Should you go to hell for your sins as well.. if they feel sorry and ask the lord for forgiveness why shouldn’t he forgive them
@@ChildOfGod028 chill she just wishes they dont get forgiveness
@@coraline2006 my point is why would a Christian wish that on someone
Jesus that second one is terrifying. The fact that men/boys start committing violence against women and start being sexist at increasingly younger ages is very concerning . I still can’t get over the fact he’s 15 he’s still young and hopefully they can find a way to fix him if they don’t he’s going to continue and make sure his other victims can’t talk
I’m pretty sure he’s doing that at least partially because he’d never faced any consequences and the parents are enabling such “mistakes” or “mishaps”. What could go wrong ffs
Why are you making this a gender thing as if there aren't 15 year old girls that don't do heinous things?
If you don't raise your kids right, they'll turn into monsters no matter the gender. His parents condone his actions which led him to be that way.
There andrew tate in the internet too not only the teenagers
People like that boy don't change and don't get better.
@@draconicfeline6177 yeah but we can dream
Her mom saying "I will be a grandmother" and her sister thinking she would be the "cool" (wtf? more like crazy) aunt are totally insane. They never been part of her family and (thankfully) never will.
Your ex was a predator, you were 18 and he 25 , after he got you he moved over to your sister who was even younger. Keep your distance from your sister and mother they are trash. Good luck to you and your husband.
Wrong word yes it is still clear the age gap is playing apart,
but she was of age lol he's not a predator unfortunately
@@ChrissaTodd still kinda creepy though
At 18 you are an adult. Nevertheless, the guy is a creep because even at almost 40 he went for teenage girls.
bro was a apex predator💀☠️🙏
The girls are technically adult but the large age gap definity make him a creep
That SA teenager needs to have a prison sentence even if he was underage he likely SA another girl. He escalated to a grown woman.
Wow mother in total denial of sons sexual predator. I've seen it before the internet has created this They know it for a fact. And if it's their first offense they can get it wiped off their record.
At least the husband believed her and took action. With six siblings, I am sure there are nieces among them, who need protection from the predator.
Yeah I had this happen with my rapist caregivers convinsed he wasn’t capable of it due to his disability’s and that fucked up the rest of his life he tryed to hunt me down once he was 18 and when he couldn’t get to me or find me he went after my family with werid msges and trying to hook up with my underage family memebers i wish people understood that even if they really didn’t understand what they where doing they need to be corrected
Note luckly he was an idiot and did not think to check where I lived at the time since I haven’t even moved
That mom knows her son is a predator and will keep covering for him
I’m so happy this girl got the husband, child and family she deserved.
DO NOT REPLY TO THE EX. They are not to be given info about you. This is your enemy. Why would you tell them anything. ESPECIALLY IF INNOCENT DEFENSELESS KIDS ARE INVOLVED.
Exactly what I thought. No reply, no contact, no info about anything. Block the bastards.
Chill out
Op was dumb enough to cause this drama again lol.
2nd story, the son has done this before. Especially with the way she reacted.
Kids gonna be a serial killer 😮
Yeah
Serial R_pist. With the way that went down, OP's not his 1st. The actual questions : How many already. What are their ages.
@Red-os8bg I believe she's trying to cover for him. Protect him. She obviously knows by her response. I don't think she is actively involved. As in, lining up the gals for him. However, I could be wrong.
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I don't know how they found out about my pregnancy?
I told my ex-husband I was pregnant. You know the ex-husband that's married to her sister gee I wonder how they found out...
When he said baby doll my face went like this:
😵
I wanted to throw up. Was also groomed multiple times throughout my life, instant flashback
@akamered4483
Girl/Dude same😭
he went after op’ because she was a child, and went after her sister. because she’s also a child
Typical behavior of a groomer. He’s a predator who goes after teenagers and he’ll eventually leave the sister for someone younger. Your ex husband is a predator.
I thought that the thumbnail said cheated with HIS sister, adn I couldn't breathe for a whole 10 seconds.
😭😭
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Your husband's nephew is not a child. Hes a young man. His path is set. There is no helping him.
'I dont know how they know about my pregnancy.'
Cuz you told your ex in the email and he told them? 🙄🙄😮💨
Simple response:
Lol, no, bye
I thought about "Fuck off"
I would've replied: "Sir, this is the Krusty Krab."😂
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I would reply: "lol Jokes on you, bye"
The fact he tried to touch you and the mom defends it is wild
No matter how bad the circumstances are, there is always some trashy people who are going to shame the victim and try to make them feel less than, so saddening 😢
cheats is vile, but with a friends, or familty, it is evil.
OP was 18 and her sister was 19? That’s awful of him!
Ummm why would they try steal her baby? That’s a huge jump!
I worked in daycare and you’d be surprised
@@sierraalice8072FACTSSSSS!
Some people are just too naive.
Most attempted kidnappings happen from places like daycare because of situations like this. People letting their guards down because someone claims to be 'family'
Also, the guy seems to be pedophile, so it is a real danger
I’ve been in similar situations, but not with family members. I cannot tell you how much of a relief it is to have your spouse believe you when something happens to you that you didn’t start and didn’t want to happen to you and that other people you trusted don’t believe your side which is the unvarnished truth. It breaks a huge part of you & ends your relationship with those people regardless of whether or not you can keep them out of your life. There’s just a giant mark in your life at that point in your life that can never be erased no matter what anyone does or says. And it really breaks your trust in a way that you can’t explain it anyone who hasn’t been there.
What a terrible betrayal from both of them.
OP 1 was an idiot to reveal as much about her personal life as she did. A simple "lol, no thanks" or even just deleting the email and blocking her ex would have been a better, safer, response.
exactly bro sometimes people are a bit too stupid
Exactly
Congrats to OP for being freed from this demon. Sometimes winning looks like losing. ♥️
How did toxic mother and sis find out about the baby? It's obvious. OP's ex told them.
The audacity of the ex husband and her sister.
Two words for the 1st story "THE AUDACITY!!!"
😂 oh wow that email she wrote him sums up what I was thinking. Hope she focuses on her new family and moves on. I would've felt the same way after losing husband and baby, glad her friend saved her
Her journey through heartbreak and betrayal is inspiring, showcasing resilience and the strength to rebuild a happy life.
Story 2: I’m sorry for what you went through with your husbands nephew but you are a married woman now and you need to be more independent. What is your age? Therapy may be needed for you. Rest assured if the nephew did it to you he will do it to others sadly. The mom knows what her son did.
Please make sure you block the ex
What a powerful journey of resilience and healing! You've emerged stronger and found happiness despite your past pain. Your response to Dan was perfect-assertive and final. Surrounding yourself with loving, supportive people like Tony and your new community shows your strength and commitment to moving forward. Keep focusing on your bright future!
That's not right and she and his son .should Go to jail for assaulting a child.
I beg your pardon ? The child that sexually harassed her ?!
The son ,15 assaulted the woman
Are you demented?
When I tell you I have only listened to this for two minutes and my mouth has dropped 5 times already 😭😭
Gotta laugh at such idiocy. Even if OP’s ex was despicable enough to cheat on her with her 19 year old sister, he was absurdly stupid to think she was going to make a loving, loyal partner to him. She cheated with her sister’s husband, and she was still a teen. Those facts should have relegated her to “girl to have fun with temporarily”. Him trying to have a relationship with her is hilarious. Of course she doesn’t respect him. He cheated on her sister and didn’t bother to come when she lost their baby. What’s to respect? The fact she’d do those things and her age practically ensured she’d be horrible to him as well. It takes a special type of evil to cheat with your sibling’s spouse.
Damn. This lady can't get a break.
These stories are both shocking and hilarious! The cucumber incident at 2 a.m. had me in stitches. It's amazing what some people will say to their doctors. Thanks for the entertaining content!
WTH is the funny noice at 2:35 it made me lmaooooo 😂
Haha
Wow, what a powerful and emotional story. I can’t believe what you’ve been through and how strong you’ve stayed through it all. It’s heartbreaking to hear about the betrayal and pain you experienced, but it’s also inspiring to see how you’ve rebuilt your life and found happiness again. Your resilience is truly admirable. Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your life with us. Wishing you all the best with your new family and hoping you continue to find peace and joy.
Somebody should pull her to the side like “ girl don’t worry they clearly don’t care about you… you’re good”
5:03 and have some self-reflect on yourself 😂 I know I’m not the only who caught that
NTA, this is crazy!! Sounds like this man got what he deserves.
This probably happened before in the past and you guys just don't know it yet get in touch with some friends or old girlfriends that he might know of and see if there's a trail
Don't make any amount that don't put pictures of your kids or your baby on the up there on the internet on Facebook just leave them out and make it about you and your husband no baby Pistons
3:15 Bro that ex is the definition of womp womp
right after i heard the " you're not the same girl I fell in love with" and then proceeds to go for the barely legal 19 yr old...he basically likes women who are barely legal and the fact that he called her a girl and not a WOMAN sums it all up honestly, this is just gross
The nephew will do it again and dadly it may lead to prison
Not the mom and sister forgetting about what they did to her💀
You should never have responded to him. Those people can't be serious after what they did to you.
You’re not the same person he fell in love with because you’re not a young adult anymore
My dad raised me I don’t take anyone’s shit
Unbelievable out of all the people to cheat on you with he chose your sister, nah remove them from your life permanently. He got his karma. Lmao😂
The story is really touching and well-written!
I think we are safer in our homes alone. A lot of perpetrators are known to victims. The possibility of getting attacked by strangers is a lot less than a possibility of being attacked/molested.
When I heard about Tina and JENNY.. I giggled, squealed, and twirled around like a gay fairy.
Mom and sister can't insist s*it. They have 0 rights when it comes to her and her baby. Wtf is wrong with people
Hahaha oh I kinda wish the response to the email was short and sweet. "I'm over it. Move on" lmao
I don't know why people who have been cheated on their partner still care about their partner or their good memory. The partner definitely doesn't care because they choose to cheat. It's delusional to think they will not do it again.
For me, maybe I can forgive but will not ever have a relationship with them again. Just no contact.
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Why would he think she'd be waiting for him 😂😂
I wouldn't be my sister and mom back into my life. Im sure the sister would want this husband, too.
The video is giving me vertigo 😵💫
I GOT A LOL AD WHEN IT SAID LOL IN THE FIRST STORY
You’re were the same “girl” he fell in love with because you became a woman. He clearly has a thing for teenagers.
This is so messed up. First the ex is a creepy weirdo that sleeps around with girls that just turned 18, now the 15 year old turning 16 is starting to do the nastiness with a vulnerable woman who was drugged. The fuck is life man?! God bless that woman too, cause she needs a breather and a family to love her, cause clearly she needs love. God bless her husband for taking her side too, cause not a lot of people would choice their spouse over those who are blood relatives.
This is what women talk about when we say how men switch up on us
WHY DID I LISTEN THIS ALL
This format is just too hard to follow. From the jittery distracting background to the half-second phonics card blitz, it's just a frenetic recipe for adhd.
Sorry I did the math wrong (said 42/35)
16 year old husband
Me:HOW THE F***ING HELL DID YOU GET 42 FROM 16?
I really liked the story, I even remembered my friend in places hahaha
“If I tell anyone one, the whole family is ruined” proceeds to tell the whole internet
Honey, you told your ex that you are pregnant. He probably told them that you contacted him with the information (technically you did, but in response to HIS email), so he covers himself. Wouldn't trust any of them.
The 2nd story, the girl sounds dumb AF why are you taking "sleeping pills" from ppl you don't even know? & acting too scared to stay in an unfamiliar town? Regardless, it sounds like her husband's family are insane. She should've pressed charges bc that boy will definitely likeky do it again. The OPs SIL needs to be locked up too
They went to the police but they couldn’t do more than that. Let’s not blame the victim.
Definitely not victim blaming nor trying to. I agree that the people who harmed her need to be locked up bc there's no justification. If this is a recent story, I hope they get got by the justice system. I can also acknowledge that it's insane to take sleeping pills from someone, especially immediately after that person's unhinged son tried to SA you.
Sadly, she was probably safer to stay alone than with strangers (even if they are in-laws).
The second one had me screaming with the F 10:18
"Baby doll" The actual audacity! 😒
jesus after cheating is wildddd thankfully you didnt take him back 😓😓
2:33 "So, I would obviously run into my ex and sister. NO-"
“I will tell my police friend and my lawyer friend.” This man’s contacts are crazy
great video, really well put together! it's interesting to hear such personal stories, but i can't help but wonder if bringing up past relationships like this is healthy. shouldn’t some things just stay in the past?
2nd Story: Wise good husband.
The barley legal sister got me dead
"I cringed hard" 😭😭😭
You need to report your nephew because if he's doing it now at 15 can you imagine he's 16 and 17 doing the other people report him to police
The first email op's ex sent, she should've responded with a picture of her baby bump, and her left hand with the ring on it.
U were 18 and he was 7+ years, so 25. That is grooming my fella.
U reap what u sowed Dan🤣😈
"Husband (40F)" 😭😭
Narcissistic behaviors for real. Walk away….
One like the second one hurts me because I was a victim of a sa from someone underage. The police wouldn’t do anything cos he was underaged. His caregivers claimed he wasn’t capable because he was mentally disabled.
Resalt? He tryed to track me down once he turned 18 where he couldn’t find me he turned to my family sending my mum harrasing msges and trying to hook up with underage female family members. Luckily he is actually stupid and didn’t think to check the last adress he knew I was at
It’s not your fault and congratulations on your baby
if they cheat with you, they will cheat on you
Erm can we talk about how in the second story op and her husband are 11 years apart
Do it for…. Dan?
"My husband, 40 F [...] He was really nice"... What ? That's an AI story, I guess, because it doesn't make sense.
That is a good husband from story 1
I don’t think people really understand what grooming is…