You get what you pay for: the higher the prices, the better the service

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    This is the third part in my three-part series on why successful men use escorts. Just like in the commercial marketplace, you typically get what you pay for in the sexual marketplace, as well. In this episode, I respond to the most common objections to the use of escorts, in particular, and to transactional relationships, in general. This should help women better position themselves to effectively target successful men for relationships, if they so choose.
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  • @psychacks
    @psychacks  21 день тому +93

    This is the third part in my three-part series on why successful men use escorts. Just like in the commercial marketplace, you typically get what you pay for in the sexual marketplace, as well. In this episode, I respond to the most common objections to the use of escorts, in particular, and to transactional relationships, in general. This should help women better position themselves to effectively target successful men for relationships, if they so choose.

  • @machrellibet9457
    @machrellibet9457 21 день тому +639

    I’m doctor Orion Taraban and this is Psychacks better living with psychology.

  • @Khan-rz8qi
    @Khan-rz8qi 21 день тому +313

    Cost and benefit is a REAL thing. Husbands often voice how their sex lives are often neglected and get more expensive as a product of time. They find themselves having to do more and more for women who start to desire them less and less. Lack of sexual tension and familiarity often breeds resentment. And remember, "wives don't owe their husband's sex", under these circumstances, why do people expect successful men to be so enthusiastic about marriage? Marriage is a living man's funeral.

  • @artawhirler
    @artawhirler 21 день тому +333

    My parents are both long gone now, but they used to say that the secret to their successful marriage was that they agreed in the beginning to always treat each other as well as they would treat a stranger.

  • @thestresstheoryofhansselye3607
    @thestresstheoryofhansselye3607 21 день тому +378

    You don’t necessarily get what you pay for, but you sure as hell pay for what you get-------

  • @enjoybendlife
    @enjoybendlife 21 день тому +310

    Most of the women that have been in my life, including both my ex wives, masked their feelings towards me to get what they wanted. Only when the relationships come to an end do you see who your partner really is.

  • @ringoheinrich7021
    @ringoheinrich7021 21 день тому +169

    An old colleague of mine once said: "You always have to pay for women. It is just the question, whether you pay for an hour or for a lifetime."

  • @quantarrow
    @quantarrow 14 днів тому +37

    Money is not meant to control people, rather it is meant to be put to work producing more money for you. You cannot build wealth without putting money in its rightful place

  • @sircefiro
    @sircefiro 21 день тому +37

    Shit man, the part about the stranger in the supermarket being treated better than the husband is so right

  • @user-rj4xl5bl2s
    @user-rj4xl5bl2s 21 день тому +92

    I agree with you that a relationship is a privilege. Escorts are not just for sexual encounters. An older rich widower might not ever want to remarry but is missing going out to dinner, to events etc. vacations with a partner. Money can’t buy love, it buys attention and time.

  • @HighLifeWorkout
    @HighLifeWorkout 21 день тому +69

    If I order takeout instead of cooking every now and then, that doesn’t mean that I can’t cook or that I don’t enjoy a home-cooked meal. It might just mean that I appreciate the convenience of having my food delivered as opposed to buying groceries cooking it and cleaning up after. (This is an analogy.)

  • @matthewcampbell2947
    @matthewcampbell2947 21 день тому +535

    The only difference I can see between women in the modern dating pool and escorts, is that escorts continue to be happy when they are paid.

  • @ManPursueExcellence
    @ManPursueExcellence 21 день тому +822

    Imagine if women treated their husbands like they treat their boss from work.

  • @NicToBeAnnounced
    @NicToBeAnnounced 21 день тому +78

    This guy is the truth. I wish I was aware of true female nature at a younger stage of my life.

  • @rayrwyr
    @rayrwyr 21 день тому +112

    Romantic relationships such as marriage need to be recognized and treated as transactional to be successful. For example, the husband role may require being the primary financial provider, protector, leader, heavy-lifter, handyman, s3xually masculine, being father of children in the relationship in exchange of wife-provided services such as feminine s3xuality, cooking, cleaning, house-managing, birthing of babies, nurturing, and so on.

  • @timotharcher
    @timotharcher 21 день тому +109

    Fresh Salt into Normies wound... Splendid! Get them Orion.. straight into the stratosphere of truth!

  • @Savvynomad225
    @Savvynomad225 21 день тому +72

    Pro tip: this same concept works with small local restaurants too. You can know which restaurants are good by knowing how long they’ve survived. They won’t survive if the food is bad

  • @marriagecausesdivorce7540
    @marriagecausesdivorce7540 21 день тому +133

    All men pay. Beta male husbands pay the most. Chad and Tyrone pay virtually nothing other than wasting their time. The average punter or "John" pays by the hour or until completion. Regardless of how each of these guys pay, they are all paying one way or another. You have to pay to play. This is how the game works. There is a cost to doing business.

  • @RTFLDGR
    @RTFLDGR 21 день тому +39

    "A relationship is a privilege and must be maintained." :-) truth wisdom.

  • @alfredsutton4412
    @alfredsutton4412 14 днів тому +18

    Exactly ... a great study.