Marriage Expectation Vs. Reality!
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- Опубліковано 13 січ 2015
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MARRIAGE EXPECTATIONS VS REALITY... enjoy. hahaha
LOL this is so amazing!
OMG this was too funny!
Heey nikki !!! Omg Im so thankfull with you I think this series its my favorite ever I watch your videos for almost 3 years and you are amazing :)
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HAHA I'm glad you guys like the video! We definitely had fun making this video;)
I loved it💗💗💗💋💗💋💋💋💋👣👣👣👣💛💙💜💚❤️ I love you!!!!!! +nikkiphilip
I really love this video and I think it's so funny because the beginning was definitely spot on but even the music that you put with each scene was perfect between expectation and reality hahaa 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
I definitely blushed at the way he kissed you after the sex and the city rant. So cute! But man I'm not ready to date anyone yet. I'm 18, but I really don't think i can handle that. Haha *embarrassed laughter*
Lol it was pretty unexpected
I can say as someone who didn't even kiss someone till I was 20, it was well worth the wait. I hear so many people saying how much they regret who they did "first things" with because they felt pressured and it makes me feel happy knowing that I wasn't pushed into anything I didn't feel personally ready for.
Victoria Turner Same! My first kiss was with my current boy friend.. he likes to remind me that i practically stabbed him in the face because it was so quick.. I wanted to get it over with ahah
***** Agreed!! I've had supportive Christian parents growing up and although they taught me about boys and what to do and what not to do.. I sometimes decided to go my own way and mess up multiple times but God led me where I am today with an amazing Godly man! God works our crazy paths into something so beautiful!
Do everything at your own pace!It doesn't matter if you have a boyfriend for the first time at 14 or 40 as long as you feel comfortable. :)
This might be one of my favorite videos of yours! As a fellow married lady, it was so spot on and encouraging.
I agree!
HAHA Nikki! this is hilarious! The first one i totally pictured him walking in the door and you yelling from the bedroom "HEY HONEY, I'm editinnnnng, hold on!!!" Thats our life. haha
I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now, and I completely agree with Nikki's idea that sharing religious beliefs takes a lot of pressure off of a relationship. Both my boyfriend and I are atheists, and it makes life much simpler =)
I'm a little jealous. I'm an atheist and the BF is catholic :/
My parents are Christian and Mormon, and they have been happily married for 29 years =) They just limit their religious discussions, and neither of them like going to church, which helps.
kaseymmb Also, some of the core values are the same, still, right? Like taking care of others and stuff like that? I mean, if my boyfriend was Christian, I would still share a lot of core values with him. All of the things Jesus presumably preached are universal good traits, like not getting angry with others, and treating them fairly, etc.
So as Christina Ann said, if you just limit your discussions to that stuff - what you agree on - it's totally fine! My boyfriend sort of believes in ghosts, because he's actually experienced some really weird stuff over the years. And since I didn't, it's hard for me to take it seriously. But I sort of just go and say "you know what? I don't know if it's true or not, since there's no evidence for either. So I'll just wait for the ghosts to make an appearance."
I agree with this so much!!
I've always heard your name throughout youtube but have never taken the time to watch your videos. Lo & behold I come across this one and you talk about some of my favorite things: Jesus, Marriage, Marriage at 20 (which is what I'm considering at 19 right now), Being Happy, Being Happy in Marriage. Honestly I'm sold & I feel like I've been missing out! Time to binge watch :)
She is amazing! You'll definitely enjoy her videos. She also has a vlog channel btw:)
And an advice channel! It's called asknikkip
and a collab channel!! called justlikethat!!
She's the best. She's like the big sister I never had.
I've been binge watching for 3 hours!!
I hope you address friendships this week. I'm dealing with a lot of difficulties with my best friend because she has been in an emotionally abusive relationship for a year and a half and it literally drives me insane to see her putting herself through that. I hope you talk about ways to deal with the issues associated with being a good friend but not taking that role too far. She's been stressing me out so much, and I just want to find a way where I can still be her friend, but not let her life affect me so much at the same time. Idk what to do, it's a difficult situation. If anyone has some advice I'd really appreciate it!
I'm assuming you've addressed your concern. If you haven't, I would do that first. Just let her know that you're worried about her and that you care about her. I don't think that's taking things too far at all really. In the end though, whether she wants to admit it or not, she'll realize that her relationship is bad for her. Honestly, there's probably a good chance that she already knows she's in a destructive relationship, but is just having trouble getting out. I think the best thing you can do is still be there for her throughout this mistake she's making. It sounds like this relationship isn't going to last much longer, and she'll really need a good friend to lean on after the fact. I know you're frustrated with her, but I hope you can stay calm and patient with your friend. There's probably a lot of underlying issues on why she's staying with this guy, and she probably really needs a friend to help her through all of those issues.
I've been in your friend's position before, and one of my good friends was very frustrated with me for not getting out of my emotionally abusive relationship soon enough. But thank the lord she was still there for me throughout the relationship, and continued to be there for me when I got out of it. I'm very thankful for that.
I hope I helped a little, and I wish you the best of luck.
I agree with Trista. You need to talk to her about it. Find out exactly what she expects from you.
I had a friend who was in an emotionally and physically abusive relationship and it is so hard. Where do you draw the line between being a good friend and getting in the way of something that ultimately has nothing to do with you. I had the same struggle.
All I could do was be there. Let her offload to you if that's what she needs to do. Go and get her when she is upset. Take her out for lunch and do fun stuff together. Do what you can to make her day better.
I have had to get up in the middle of the night and get her to take her away from him.
In the end she left. But it was hard and now she has to go through the civil courts to get her money and stuff back.
Bottom line. Be there and be supportive. Get ready to catch her when she falls. Let her fall. And pick her up again when she is done :-)
Good luck I know it's hard xxxxx
These two girls are very right. I myself have dealt with this as well. I was in a destructive relationship. It was very unhealthy for my life, I eventually made the best decision to move on from the relationship and what made it bearable was having my best friend there for me. During the downfall of the relationship, I tried very hard not to put it off on my friend and make her life as hard as mine was at the time. I tried not to lay too many details on her and whine to her constantly. But it was nice to have her to keep me company when it was all I could think about everyday.
Personally, I thought it was nice that she was there for me and was helping me through it but on the other hand there were times where she pushed me too hard to end it completely. It made me feel like I was completely alone. In the end, obviously she was right but my point is you definitely should express your feelings to her and let her know it is putting stress on you and you are worried about her, but don't make it seem like an ultimatum and make her feel like she has no one to go to. Be there for her no matter what. It will be a very hard time for her if and when she comes out of the relationship.
I wish the best for you and your friend. I hope she makes the right decision.
savvyhart I agree with the other girls on this, although I didn't experience any of this myself. I befriended a girl after she got out of an emotionally abusive relationship, and it's still very hard to be her friend, because it affects every aspect of her life still.
I think an important thing to note is to make sure you tell her, that it's okay that she's using you in this period of her life. As savvyhart said, she was worried about taking advantage of her friend. Just sit her down and tell her, "you know what, I know your life sucks right now, and I love you. So no matter what the heck you need from me, I'm going to be there, the way I know you'd be there for me too."
Letting her know, that you'll go as far as she wants you to go.
And I also think you have to be careful with yourself, still. It's a hard line to walk, but don't let her bagage pull you down. You have to be strong and have at least a little part of your life that you do not spend on her. It can be done. Just give her whatever help she needs, and try to give yourself some air at the same time. It would be terrible for you to help her and get a depression or something, because you didn't take care of yourself. Whenever she doesn't necessarily need you, go out with friends or do something else without her. And then when she calls and needs you - be there.
I wish you all the luck in the world. I can only imagine how hard this is for you.
I Can honestly say I have throughouly enjoyed EVERY single video so far in this series , and I hope more series come in following months! You have wonderful advice and tips and just general knowledge , it's so refreshing to have somebody let you in on a few things but not shove any beliefs down their throats. Love ya girl :)
Wow! I feel like a ton of pressure just lifted from my shoulders! "marriage is seasonal" is so true and good to know! I'm not married, but I've been with my bf for 5 years and there are times when I would think to myself, "I'm so lucky to have him! What did I do to deserve him!" and other times I would think, "OMG! This is not going to work out! I better escape from this before it's too late!" hahaha
Dear NikkiPhillippi thank you for this advice! I love the new "transparent" style in your recent videos and your focus to make absolute honest videos rather than trying to show off a perfect life. I'm sure you are helping so many people with these type of videos! PS: you are my favorite UA-camr 😙
I love how you manage to combine comedy and really deep and truthful words in the same video. I can't wait to see what you've got for us for next week! I hope you're having a beautiful day! xx
who the hell would watch 20 minutes of this...?
people who want to and people who love Nikki (like me) :)
not you! :)
It's not 20 minutes of the expectations vs. reality scenes. She talks about some things in the video as well.
I know! I wish it was longer!! I love her videos:)
I wish it was 20 minutes of expectations bs reality that was hilarity !!
I was about to go to bed, and I'm so glad I watched this video. I've been married for two years and this is all so true and relevant. I admire you for being so open and being real about your life. Ps. Loved the beginning. That was spot on! :) xo
Haha a UA-camr handbook would be so helpful right? I actually remember watching a video you made about UA-cam tips that actually helped me so much! I loved this video- the intro was hilarious and so spot on!
Hahahaha loved this! Nikki, your advice on marriage/relationship is always so helpful to me. I quote you all of the time about the "relationships go through seasons" thing. Lol. I just find it so true.
We got married at 18 and 21. We just celebrated our 14th anniversary a few days ago. You gave some solid advice. Marriage can be hard, but couples need to just gear up and muscle through those hard times together. Great video.
In all honesty I seriously think this is the best video you have ever done...I'm getting married this year and I agree with you 100%. I think everyone should see this video because I have never seen a video like this and it is so encouraging. Great job! :)
For the longest time I was 'looking' for someone. That was probably one of the stupidest things I have ever done, and continuously witness other people do. The moment I started just loving myself, being content with myself and really accepting MYSELF...my bf walked into my life. I wasn't looking, wasn't in need of anyone, didn't EXPECT it. And boom. The universe will reward you when you are ready.
My bf is my best friend, 100%...if we weren't best friends, we wouldn't be together, and that's a fact. I didn't expect it, it just was. As for marriage, I am definitely scared of it. I am not one to rush into it and I often judge, which I know is wrong of me, but I just don't understand why some people rush into it. BUT, everyone has a different opinion, a different way of life and a different personality. So I try not to judge or criticize people's choices. With the divorce rate so so so high, and the need for people to have so many expectations in relationships, it's hard to believe, hope and wish that a marriage would make it.
I liked the way this post started, I like the way you explained everything and I especially love the fact that you make sure everyone knows people are different and they don't have to listen to what you say. I think everyone is allowed to have their own opinions, and I believe that with certain experiences and relationships, peoples thoughts, actions and experiences change.
Fabulously funny intro clips sweet Nikki. Excellent discussion on healthy and not so healthy expectations. Love your expression of sharing similar faith and the trajectory of married couples paths merging spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc. Such a precious memory of your mom/dad, too. An awesome reminder for us all, especially those who are or will be parents. VERY proud of you, your content, and your light. These #howtobehappyjanuary vids make me think of an old children's song, This Little Light of Mine. ☺️ Keep shining! Hugs! ~ Melody
This was so great!! The beginning was so funny but so true, I made my husband watch it with me and we LOL'd. But you also have such great advice, I totally agree with you about sharing the same faith as your partner, is such an important part of a relationship.
This was so funny! I thought you were going to do Expectations VS Realities for the whole video but it was still great (:
bahaha!! the intro was so on point!!! especially once you have been married for a few years!
I just realized that I have been subscribed for 1 year because I started in how to be happy January last year. And when I first started watching your videos I remember that I loved you so much because you are so happy and also you are real with your subscribers. I really wanted to tell you that I love you❤️ and keep doing what you're doing. You rock!👍
Hahaha omg the realitys are so accurate!! Especially talking while he was on the phone. When I get home from work I talk allll about my work day and drama and I ask how his day was and his response is always "uh good I guess" lol
This was so awesome!! I died laughing like the whole time! Awesome video Nikki!
hahaha! the intro was SO funny! this is an amazing video, Nikki! good job, girl!
Nikki! This how to be happy January is next level! I could definitely see you writing a self help / motivational book or being a motivational speaker. You have really opened my eyes in this series to things I know but forget about on a day to day basis and need to be reminded of. Your amazing at giving advice. Keep up the great work, girl!
I've been married for 17 years my husband & I married when I was 18. I agree with everything you said in this video! I think allot of marriages also break because they hold on to that expectation & don't realize how reality can be just as great. When I made a decision to invest in my marriage 100% & leave that spoiled little girl who was used to always getting her way in the past it turned our life around. My husband has been their not only in my best moments but always at my lowest points. When I saw him as my best friend it changed our relationship. Their is s quote I heard somewhere that says fake friends want to see you do good but never better then them. I separated myself from those girls that always thought they had the best advice but they themselves didn't have a successful relationship. Anyways thank you for this I think this will help allot of people.
I am laughing so hard at the beginning of the video.
Girl! I can relate! Relationships are hell. They are amazing a beautiful but oh my gosh are they hard. Love sucks even if you are madly in love its still stressful.
(Marriage is number 7 on the most stressful events in a persons life list.)
The one thing that I have to keep in mind is everyone has a different perspective on life and sometimes they just don't match up & thats okay.
I am in love with #howtobehappyjanuary . Loooove you Nikki!
Soooooo inspirational! I'm a newleywed, almost a year, and this hits the nail on the head! Marriage is so much more complex than people make it out to be, but it is so worth it! My husband is my absolute best friend and I wouldn't have it any other way! Love you Nikki!!
Wow! This is so great! As my husband and I have only been married a year and a half I am noticing all of the things you mentioned in this video!! I like knowing I am not the only one going through some of these things being married and I like that you mentioned "feeling alone" because that definitely registered with me! Thank you for all of your fun and inspirational videos!!
I'm pretty sure this is my favorite How to be Happy January video so far!! The intro is obviously amazing, but your advice in this really got to me. I completely agree with you and you worded it in such a good and understandable way! Thank you!!
I love ur expectation vs reality videos!! Pls do more of these! Luv u!!!
I loved how you end your video with free dance time when you can just be yourself, have fun and just a great way to end!!! ILYSM
This is such an amazing video, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and advice! 7 years of marriage is something to celebrate! My church has premarriage courses, but they're thinking of doing first year of marriage mentorships with couples who have been married for a while and this video is exactly the type of advice that I would love to hear from a mentor. Thanks for keeping it real!
The expectation vs. reality....so hilarious and true! I just randomly stumbled upon your draw my life video. Instantly felt like I could identify with you on some levels and started watching other videos. I enjoy how open and honest you are. Also...I agree with you on not uploading a video just to upload something. xo!
Nikki, I have been watching your videos for a really long time. I have to say that this is by far the best content you've ever produced. I'm celebrating my 14 year anniversary with my husband this weekend and you are absolutely 100% in your advice, and I truly hope it resonates with your viewers. I appreciate the work and effort you've put in to this video - super important message.
HAHAHAH this is soooo trueeeee!! Love this video girl!! Doing a great job!
N,
This series of videos has really helped me on emotional levels I cannot even describe. Thank you so much for filming these. I think this series was placed on your heart for a reason and it has really helped me feel more confident and happy and see some things much more clear.
I love you!! 💛
I'm happy that you're being so open. I like this side. It makes you seem more real and approachable.
I loved the beginning, adorably done! I also agree with your expectations and I'm also lucky to come from parents who have a happy marriage, and instilled reality into me.
I just wish I could find someone. I often struggle with self doubt and plain old giving up when it comes to finding someone to 'put up' with me, my quirks and my diet (food allergies) so part of my how to be happy January is trying to overcome those nuggets of self doubt....
But anyway, awesome video and keep being the Nikki we love!
I LOVE your videos Nikki but I especially love this one! You are such a good speaker and great inspiration. The beginning of this video is REAL! LOL love it!!!
Nikki i just wanted to say i love you're videos. However this one might be my favorite of them all!! Thank you for shedding some much needed light!! You are freakin awesome!!
Nikki, this totally touched my heart, especially where Im at in life. Im not married but Im in a relationship and this really helps clear the fog. "Marriage is seasonal." I especially love that. There will be those amazing times where you fall in love with your other half over and over again and then there will be times when you question your love for him. But I love that.. Quote, I guess you could call it.
I love watching these videos you make and I would love to see more and more. The reason why I actually started following you years ago was because of all of your positivity and your insights and how you share it with us. I love it so much. Youre amazing Nikki!!
May God continue to bless both you and Dan. (:
This was a great video! I love this series!!
Gosh Nikki you are such a fabulous speaker! I can see you doing a TED talk someday!
The dance at the end made my day! I love how you are just so real and true to yourself. I missed watching your videos. Glad to be back
I'm really loving how deep and personal How To Be Happy January is this year. I'm enthralled by it! And Nikki is doing an AMAZING job! Keep it up girl!
Thank you so much for making this :) I'm at the stage in my life where some of my friends are starting to get married and have children so this has helped me really ponder what I want in my future husband. Love you so much!! Keep up the fantastic work :)
*THE BEGINNING WAS SO FUNNY!*
and yes! put up videos you are proud of (:
you are such a big inspiration to me and so many other girls
thans so much Nikki😘
This video is on point! I don't comment often but I really enjoyed this video. Iv been together with my husband for going on 9 years and married almost a yr, lived together for 4. What you mentioned about what your mom had said, I started cracking up cause sometimes I look at my husband and think the same thing lol then other days I'm like omg I love you and so on. There are definitely times where every little stupid thing bothers me or him but we talk it out and let it be, we're different people and it's going to happen but we never go to bed angry and it is a struggle like life is in general.
This made me laugh so much! haha love you Nikki! ♥♥
✨🙌🙌yaaaassssss!!!!!!🙌✨Loved this so much Nikki!!!!!!
THIS IS ALL SO TRUE! hahahahaha THANK YOU NikkiPhillippi for speaking the truth and just doing it in such a fun way (: Expectations and reality can be super different, but it ends up not being a bad thing - reality is sometimes even better because it's not sickly sweet - it's just real and fabulous and love is just as strong!
*And I actually blogged about expectations some time ago, come to think of it! I totally agree with your points, and I think that's conveyed here, too: cominguprosestheblog.com/expectations-why-they-suck-and-how-to-kick-them/
Wow! This is soooo awesome Dan and Nikki! This is unique and funny! I love it!
Hahaha this gives me life right now!! My reality is crazy similar! Lol and your bye dance at the end was so goofy.love you and your videos. You beautiful person you!
I just wanted to say thank you and wanted to ask you to please don't stop being who you are because I feel like this world needs a lot more people like you. I've scrolled across plenty of youtube channels and found things in common with them but have never come across someone like you where literally, everything you believe I believe too. Some things I actually didn't know though because first of all.. I'm only 18 so I've never been through a marriage before but I do believe that even when dating a person they should be your best friend too. I've only watched about 7 of your videos so far and already subscribed in like the first few minutes of the first one lol. I have so much love for you! Please keep doing what you're doing
Love this video Nikki! You and Dan are amazing people!!
Haha! Great video! It's so funny! And there is so much good advice at the end. Loved it! :)
I LOVED this! Thank you for your videos!!
this video is the best video I have seen in a long time! You are so funny and so so smart! I love your videos
I just adore you and Dan so much!!! I'm loving How to be Happy January !!! Great job girl!
LOVE THIS hahahha Nikki this was amazing, good job! 😊
Thought you were SO spot on about the best friend expectation! Thanks for the video, Nikki! I happen to agree with pretty much all the advice you gave..
literally love this video!!!!
i love this series..i wish you did it all year round
I enjoyed this a lot! I really needed it too! All of your videos are great, and I can't wait for your cup to release!! 😁
I honestly love you outlook on everything! I have been watching your videos for about two years and have slowly progressed in absolutely loving your videos. I feel like I know you (we all do) and its great that someone is covering these topics who is so widely known here on UA-cam!! It's awesome to look up to someone who has the same beliefs as me! I do agree with most everything you say, which takes a lot! Its a crazy world out there. Thanks for being true to yourself!! God bless :)
I absolutely love all of your videos, especially the How To Be Happy January ones. They're so inspirational and different from the other videos that I see here on UA-cam. Your videos are so happy and uplifting and I will never get tired of them. I can tell that you put 100% in every video that you make and I can see the time that you put into making them. The amount of effort that is brought in your videos makes your viewers want to keep supporting you in everything you do, which is why so many people like watching them :) Your videos aren't just inspirational and uplifting, but they're also humorous. The video clip that you had of you and Dan was hilarious as well. I want to thank you for your interaction with your viewers and the smiles that you help bring to my face as well as your subscribers! :)
Didn't think the kissing would end at one point LOL
The beginning was spot on! My husband and I have the same reality LOL
You are the most inspirational person I have ever heard talk. When you make these videos, it just changes my whole perspective. You make me feel happy and like I'm never alone, and you aren't either. I love you so much. Please never change and keep doing what you do because it's amazing.❤️
Hahaha "It'll be over in like 2 hours!" I've heard that one TOO many times :)
NIKKI!!! As a married person I absulogely LOVED this video the racing part had me dying! Thank you so much for this video! I love you and your videos!!!
I love the skit you and Dan did. It feels like that sometimes. But I love that you are trying to make January a happy place!
You seemed much more like yourself in this! loved it! You should make a clip of just the first part, the expectations vs reality, i was LOLing and wished I could share it on FB bc it's so true lol.
Thank you SO much for this video! I am only 14 so I am not all that worried about marriage, but I think that I am the type of person that has expectations that are wayyyy too high. I not only set expectations for others, but mainly for myself, and I always end up dissapointing myself, which obviously doesnt feel good, and is kind of depressing at times, but I found your advise to be "life/mind set changing" in a way, atleast the expectations part of your advise. This series has inspired me so much! I have liked/favorited every single one of the videos because they have helped me so much, as I said before I am only 14 and I feel like you are like a big sister to me hahaha, Love you Nikki! THANK YOU ❤️
These expectation ones are hilarious!! Great video nikki!!
We really do need a UA-camr handbook! This is such a brilliant video, hun! The intro...SITC...bahaha!
I absolutely love this series. It's amazing and I always look forward to how to be happy January!
Hahah this was great Nikki :) You guys make such a great couple too.
Nikki! I haven't seen your videos in a really long time. I am catching up today, and O-M-G watching your video fills me with great joy! I love what you are doing! Keep being your beautiful self.
This series is really awesome! It gave me lots to think about...so much so that I have to let it marinate a bit then come back and watch through again. Thank you!
Hahahahaha love this! Especially when you're talking and your husband is on his phone!
Nikki you do these kinds of videos so well! As a fellow married christian, I seriously love your honesty and all round great advice 😊
I just Love this!! You should do more of them..
Omg, the end was just too good! Haha :D
This video is delightful! Thank you for your insight, I loved this!!
Amazing video ❤️ love you Nikki thank you so much for making these videos!
my favorite would have to be the first one. flowers vs. tampons. LOVE IT!
You guys are my goals! Loved the video! 😘
Loved this video Nikki!! One of your best in my opinion. The beginning was hilarious and quite steamy lol, but then you touched on some really important subjects that i completely agree with. I've never really been in a serious relationship before and that's because I have yet to find all the things you mentioned like that person being your best friend, dating being looking for a life partner etc. I can't wait to find what you and Dan have, I know people joke about relationship goals but you two really are because you're so real about what marriage really consists of, love you guys and great video as usual Nikki!
This is a great video. You're very well spoken!! I really enjoy your videos!
LOL "he's my homie" you guys are so cute i can't even
I really like this video! I love your fun scenes in the beginning and your talk was well organized and thought out :-) I also really like your advice. Thanks so much!
Love u Nikki I was waiting for this video!
Spot on Nikki! Thank you for being so honest and transparent! Please don't ever stop sharing. It it so encouraging! Love you!
AMAZING VIDEO!! THIS WAS SO HILARIOUS AND I LOVE IT! Your filming and editing are FANTASTIC!! You are SO STUNNING, SWEET, FUNNY, and TALENTED!! God bless you! Ily!!
this is a great video! love it nikki! i wish it was always howtobehappyjanuary!