How I lightened My Skin Tone Fast! No Gatekeeping!

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024

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  • @Naylovebrizzle
    @Naylovebrizzle  2 роки тому +538

    Concerning Questions about my hands or dark knuckles . Please note, I am on a skin lightening journey! My knuckles have always been a tough area for me and I’ve been working on them. I address this in my newest skin lightening video. So watch it instead of constantly asking the same questions ! Thank you! Watch the video : ua-cam.com/video/9_iks936HrA/v-deo.html

  • @Starsnotdiamonds
    @Starsnotdiamonds 2 роки тому +5161

    Girl, stop. You do not need to lighten your skin. Black is beautiful and black is excellent.

  • @screamsella
    @screamsella Рік тому +1121

    People are disappointed in this but honestly this is gunna clear up my dark areas. I hate that my hands are darker than my whole body. Thanks for sharing knowledge even if it’s controversial.

  • @FitBabe
    @FitBabe 2 роки тому +5283

    The blond hair. The blue eyes. The excitement over people asking if you’re mixed 😔. I really hate that the world we live in makes people of color (but especially black people) feel this way. I really hate how white supremacy has fooled the entire world into believing in, and striving for Eurocentric beauty standards. I understand where the feelings come from so I don’t blame you, but I hope one day you can appreciate your naturally poppin melanated skin. In the mean time stay safe with all of these harsh products.

  • @antonae2122
    @antonae2122 2 роки тому +3373

    I think these tips are helpful for someone like myself who is looking for a way to treat localized hyperpigmentation in areas like the armpit, bikini… I’m not interested in lightening my entire body, but I respect a person’s choice to do whatever makes them happier in the skin that THEY ARE LIVING IN!

  • @ElitaAli1
    @ElitaAli1 2 роки тому +1085

    Sometimes dark skin females get teased. But it seems to be ok to be dark skinned if you are a male. But the dark skinned males are the ones that's doing the teasing 🙄

  • @neldormiveglia1312
    @neldormiveglia1312 2 роки тому +3467

    I am not black but I must say it's disheartening to see people do this to themselves. I am NOT criticizing you for doing it because I know society is to blame, but it's sad. If you are black and you're reading this, YOU ARE STUNNING. Don't let anybody make you think otherwise.

  • @Karina0950
    @Karina0950 2 роки тому +1608

    Dark skin is beautiful. Love yourself

  • @bascal133
    @bascal133 Рік тому +360

    I'm shocked that this is humanly possible, I was thinking it would be a 2-3 shade difference, it's like 20 shades O_O

  • @Layslaylay
    @Layslaylay 2 роки тому +2420

    this is so sad...praying for you sis.

  • @sydneymiddlebrook8275
    @sydneymiddlebrook8275 2 роки тому +1452

    You’re original complexion was SOOOOOOOOOOOO Beautiful! 🥹🥹

  • @lookinforladies
    @lookinforladies 2 роки тому +2987

    Bruh your skin was so beaultiful before

    • @celestinakontor8904
      @celestinakontor8904 2 роки тому +93

      Fr

    • @Prince_BNice
      @Prince_BNice 2 роки тому +294

      What type of person calls a woman bruh? Are you serious?

    • @amimeii
      @amimeii 2 роки тому +107

      Wrdd shii type sad

    • @aliciareece636
      @aliciareece636 2 роки тому +393

      You’re saying that now but I bet your girl is this color she is now 😕

  • @heyyleshheyy
    @heyyleshheyy 2 роки тому +335

    These comments are SO sad. All of you wanting your skin lighter. 💔 Just breaks my heart. I have definitely had my struggles with my brown skin but it is a gift and blessing. God created you just the way you are. You are ENOUGH.

  • @2manyscars
    @2manyscars 2 роки тому +1219

    this absolutely breaks my heart, she doesn’t even look the same, why do people feel that they need to lighten their beautiful dark skin…

  • @Mia-sp8jc
    @Mia-sp8jc Рік тому +102

    This treatment seems great for hyperpigmentation - will def. give this a try!

  • @cierrariddlespriger1446
    @cierrariddlespriger1446 2 роки тому +754

    Blue eyes, blonde hair, lightening your skin, cringy voice???……what’s really going on?!

  • @sedingwemaduo
    @sedingwemaduo 2 роки тому +93

    respect the openness-transparency🌹

  • @Johnwwickk
    @Johnwwickk 2 роки тому +1007

    The internalize self-hate is stunning

  • @Aniexo_
    @Aniexo_ 2 роки тому +947

    I know the comments are against it but I appreciate this. Bc I’m going to use this method on my inner thighs and butt. I feel like it’ll even out with the rest of my thighs. ❤️

  • @anonamous6320
    @anonamous6320 2 роки тому +501

    Stop. Your light enough now. Even with pale skin you can see your African features.

    • @user-wx4nv8xr3d
      @user-wx4nv8xr3d 2 роки тому +93

      i wanna look like her. She's so gorgeous now.

  • @ihama99
    @ihama99 2 роки тому +784

    Wow. You were created with dark beautiful skin for a reason....

  • @eristotle2380
    @eristotle2380 2 роки тому +767

    no matter how light you get with these creams, you can never escape that sammy sosa unnatural undertone to your skin that screams to everyone, 'this is not my true color!'. please let the world know that you love and respect yourself by wearing your real hair and your real shade proudly

  • @roshnip1984
    @roshnip1984 2 роки тому +1820

    this is so problematic

  • @crystalharris1065
    @crystalharris1065 2 роки тому +922

    It takes LOTS of courage to come on UA-cam and share this, so for that, I do admire and commend you. You are BEAUTIFUL at ANY shade, but at your "before" shade, you were BREATHTAKINGLY GORGEOUS! It was just something about that mouth-watering, milk-chocolate melanin accompanied by that thousand-watt smile of yours! However, as a melanated beauty myself, I do understand your reasoning. I live in Mississippi. It is rather disheartening to get glossed over for someone with a lighter skin tone SIMPLY because of that. Even in that, people are entitled to be attracted to whatever or whomever they're attracted to. Still, a person should not be MISTREATED or judged more HARSHLY because of their skin tone. For those of you who want to claim "internalized self-hatred," please do take a moment to acknowledge/take into consideration the following factors that may impact someone's decision to change the color of their skin 1. social environment, 2. hurtful past experiences 3. differing levels of tolerance for rejection and repeated discriminatory treatment. Quick question: Is it also self-hatred for someone to get a Brazilian Buttlift or to alter her shape by wearing corsets? I'm simply saying that at the end of the day, no matter WHAT the reasoning, people do have a right to work on whatever it is THEY don't like about themselves--- even if it IS already "amazing" to everyone else. For all those with disparaging comments, she TOLD you that if you don't like skin lightening, you could stop watching at THAT point! BTW, I clicked on because I want to lighten my knees and elbows. Thanks for the helpful information, Sis.!

  • @dominiquemichelle13
    @dominiquemichelle13 2 роки тому +375

    Whew this is deep. Praying you get your healing. Praying you fully accept yourself. Praying that you get all those voices out that told you your skin tone was ugly. Meanwhile in Europe they are injecting themselves to be darker....... Melanin is a true gift from god and the cosmos. Praying for you.

  • @JannahSaber
    @JannahSaber 2 роки тому +160

    Beauty isn’t white skin, blue eyes or blonde hair love urself ur beautiful the way u are and shouldn’t go the extra mile to please anybody 💜

  • @murselaydogan8337
    @murselaydogan8337 2 роки тому +260

    The evanesce cream is my favorite , Ive tried other Permanence products, and the evanesce worked wonders on my hyperpigmentation. I also had areas on my body that were basically 7 shades darker and this lightened it up quickly. Love these products!

  • @Wholesomereads
    @Wholesomereads 2 роки тому +454

    To each their own! I’m just thinking about young brown boys and girls with beautiful skin seeing this tutorial. I hate to be insensitive but you can’t tell me this isn’t textbook self hate. Your original brown skin was so pretty!!

  • @1NV4S10N
    @1NV4S10N 2 роки тому +48

    I'm not going to lie, you still look beautiful even with the much lighter complexion but your ds was so lovely.

  • @JK-ll3yk
    @JK-ll3yk 2 роки тому +43

    Please stop before it's too late😭😭lots of people who lighten their skin struggle at a future date to stop it/reverse the effects.

  • @zhoriongipson8437
    @zhoriongipson8437 2 роки тому +78

    When watching this video, the only thing I could ponder, is what happened in your life that made you not like yourself? What comment penetrated so deeply that cause you think light skin brings acceptance? God gave us a temporary existence in these bodies, so what caused us to be so ungrateful to obsess over vanity, when there is so much more to focus on. This makes me sad:(

  • @youngkid6926
    @youngkid6926 2 роки тому +371

    I don’t see any problem with your skin before but still I respect your choice. If you wanted to be lighter, still it’s up to you and I totally understand as long as it makes you happy and comfortable and be confident.

  • @Orlanzepol123
    @Orlanzepol123 2 роки тому +23

    I honestly didn’t think one could lighten at home. I thought you had to have it done professionally.

  • @conversationswithadrianne
    @conversationswithadrianne 2 роки тому +102

    I saw someone in real life who lightened her skin and it scared the 💩 out of me.
    Looked like death.

  • @pinklilyz420
    @pinklilyz420 2 роки тому +32

    People need to stop the judgement. We all want to change something whether it's lightening/darkening our skin, hair, eyes, getting plastic surgery or botox. Who are we to judge what someone chooses to do with thier OWN body. If you wouldn't do it. Good for you. Then don't. But let people do what they want. It's thier choice. Just like changing something you don't like is yours.

  • @alexisalexisbfrazieryahoocom
    @alexisalexisbfrazieryahoocom 2 роки тому +42

    you was beautiful when you were dark skin.. hope you find healing mentally not just physically

  • @cardiyansane1414
    @cardiyansane1414 2 роки тому +92

    Natural ?!?? Pls

  • @glw5166
    @glw5166 2 роки тому +70

    I am not interested in lightening my skin (and not judging you at all) but this product can be very good for scarring that darkens skin. Thank you for sharing.

  • @nenethebrat
    @nenethebrat 2 роки тому +34

    this is so sad.. self love is so important

  • @228sippmiester8
    @228sippmiester8 2 роки тому +91

    i’m real life trying not to be mean , sister you look casket ready , your texture looks off .

  • @ombreblue153
    @ombreblue153 2 роки тому +71

    I don’t plan completely changing my tone . Just a few shades lighter and help my hyperpigmentation and scars

  • @katescame1
    @katescame1 2 роки тому +27

    Ahhhh the negative comments 😡. I wonder why you are here… there are billions of UA-cam video. It’s ridiculous that this video title if obviously for people who are interested to lighten their skin tone. That’s her skin, her choice!

  • @tonymckinney1355
    @tonymckinney1355 2 роки тому +36

    Don't over lighten, or you will look unnatural. You don't want to look like those black women (crazy) on those African soap operas

  • @alisonkrane5299
    @alisonkrane5299 2 роки тому +36

    Stop telling her what to do , it’s her life !

  • @chilloutce
    @chilloutce 2 роки тому +136

    Its crazy because I heard skin lightening so common in Jamaica. I can tell right off bat you were darker. Your skin will be light but I can still tell , from your finger ridges, orange patches etc… did a good job lightening your skin but still noticeable. Plus most darkskins or more dark tone people don’t even look right when lighter or atleast to me , it makes your looks look so off but nice job‼️

  • @tamiahall3203
    @tamiahall3203 2 роки тому +86

    Lightening your skin and blonde hair. Whose beauty standards are you trying to meet?

  • @Mariella905
    @Mariella905 2 роки тому +180

    I think you look beautiful no matter what tone you are. I keep repeating myself, Permanence is outstanding for skin lightening. I love their products. No what you purchase, it works! I have gotten into my groove system and am very content. If I may make a suggestion, I have added glycolic acid to my daily regimen and I have been blown away how impactful it is. Thank you for sharing your journey. I’ve followed you for a long while and used your recommended products but Permanence is all I will use.

  • @jboss729
    @jboss729 2 роки тому +288

    Smh. I am a thèrapist and you outta be ashamed of yourself coaching. Black folk to wànna be lightt. Smmmh.

  • @vineretel
    @vineretel 2 роки тому +16

    Stop comment this girl skin change, its her choice! Thank you, for the video

  • @tevans596
    @tevans596 2 роки тому +113

    I like your enthusiasm on the sensitive subject. You don’t miss a beat 😆 . Definitely a new experience for me to see. Many blessings to you.

  • @tacowolf9623
    @tacowolf9623 2 роки тому +21

    THIS WOMAN REALLY JUST CHANGED RACE- WHATT

  • @lovely_lotus_
    @lovely_lotus_ 2 роки тому +119

    As a black and Asian mixed woman who's also extremely light/yellow skinned I always find it so bizarre and sad when I see WOC bleach their skin. Brown skin is so beautiful and smooth and I hate the fact that lots of black and brown girls aren't taught to love themselves from the get-go. I feel like this is a desperate attempt to be accepted and attract white folks and other colorists. I pray you and women like you are able to defeat your insecurites, inner demons and inferior complex some day.

  • @MM-bw1lo
    @MM-bw1lo 2 роки тому +17

    Megan Good was prob using this same stuff and I doubt anybody asked if she was mixed especially when she rocking contacts, sad and know she's gonna revert back, it never stays that color long got a friend who did the same and literally moved to Seattle because living in Texas and Arizona makes her skin darker

  • @ITS.ME.90.
    @ITS.ME.90. 2 роки тому +125

    It's interesting to see different beauty perceptions.. I am a white woman and have always been so jealous of dark skin I have always felt black women are the most beautiful but I guess this is kind of on the same level as a white woman using fake tan to darken their skin.. each to there own If this makes you happy you are stunning either way but I can't help feeling sad for you losing your perfect dark skin.. either way you are beautiful though so whatever makes you happy 😊

  • @Keithjordan1234
    @Keithjordan1234 2 роки тому +30

    We all are allowed to do what we want please leave her alone..skin whitening and plastic surgery or whatever you do to change or enhance your body is your business stop bashing her..we are so quick to judge

  • @dom6ciberat
    @dom6ciberat 2 роки тому +33

    I’ve used permanence and honestly the brand is really good . They ship really fast too.

  • @najmaahmed7202
    @najmaahmed7202 2 роки тому +18

    some of These comments are so unnecessary. Anywho thanks for sharing darling. Very interesting to see your results!

  • @Ahn-mu3db
    @Ahn-mu3db 2 роки тому +45

    This is so sad. The shade looks almost sickly/ashen :( you looked so moisturized and had a beautiful complexion before all this

  • @loyaltyb71052
    @loyaltyb71052 2 роки тому +64

    Sad to say, I know many people who use skin lightening. With that said your results look like that iv method of skin lightening. I have never seen someone with their entire body change that drastically from ANY topical. Don't mislead people that suffer from esteem issues about their complexion. We need mental health treatment in our community some serious 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @alidoruk5588
    @alidoruk5588 2 роки тому +78

    I’ve used the Depigmenting whitening body lotion and it works for me… good size too. Lasts a really long time .

  • @dhiszc00kie
    @dhiszc00kie 2 роки тому +109

    I just want to lighten my dark neck. Do you have to always use this to keep the results?

  • @Cheeky171
    @Cheeky171 2 роки тому +96

    People can lie so much in the comments. Skin lightening is bad and you may not see the consequences now but it will come. Look how your brown skin is trying to come out I can still see it. So sad you did this to yourself, I can only pray for people like this.

  • @monaelenasucador7289
    @monaelenasucador7289 2 роки тому +30

    It’s your body, your life. I don’t understand why so many people are acting like its a bad thing that you’re happy? Light skin, dark skin, all colors are beautiful. No need for anyone to be acting holier than thou or trying to put you down.. 😑

  • @starlikenoother9688
    @starlikenoother9688 2 роки тому +239

    I personally don’t believe in skin lightening. I have always had this chocolate complexion and will always keep it but that doesn’t give me the right to criticize or claim that she hates herself. I was probably raised differently and so that may be why I’m content with myself. Everyone has a back story and we cannot judge someone whom we know nothing about. All we know is that she lightens her skin. So should we say say that black women hate themselves when they wear these horrible wigs? Or when we make our hair platinum blonde? Let her find her way. As long as she’s happy and healthy then I’m not judging.

  • @sarahsmyth5383
    @sarahsmyth5383 2 роки тому +14

    Lighten hair eyes and skin...basically she is ashamed ..absolutely white washed sad.

  • @latishawalker5009
    @latishawalker5009 2 роки тому +13

    Ma’am you need a paradigm shift. You are brain washed into differentiating skin tone. That is slave mentality. Why do you want a lighter skin complexion? Because you’ll feel beautiful. The slaves master made the the lighter skin work in the house and the darker ones worked in the field. The white folk differentiate skin tones. It doesn’t matter what skin tone you are, you are beautiful and worthy. If you are fixing hyperpigmentation to even skin fine but to change you skin color it’s a deeper issue within yourself. Love the skin you are in.

  • @wind358
    @wind358 2 роки тому +12

    Whoa, I just imagined if the comments were opposite-equivalents, and were on a white girl tanning routine video.

  • @Ilikelasagna
    @Ilikelasagna 2 роки тому +202

    How light are you trying to go? I think you’ve gotten to a pretty tone (all your tones have been beautiful) but just asking lol you’re already very light! I’m an esthetician so I’m also questioning how this is actually affecting your melanin cells

  • @ladiablita1588
    @ladiablita1588 2 роки тому +66

    Definitely gonna try! it’s weird when people don’t understand that I like to be a lighter shade during the winter compared during the summer when I’m more exposed to the sun , a little more bronze etc , but DURING THE WINTER I like when I’m lighter tone so perfect timing to try some products ! thank u 😊

  • @Zick_Gobbler69
    @Zick_Gobbler69 2 роки тому +12

    I'm already light skinned but I wanna be lighter. I look best light. Fuck what anybody gotta say.

  • @glitter2glaze21
    @glitter2glaze21 2 роки тому +13

    Wow this is really Crazy!

  • @Jayylouezi
    @Jayylouezi 2 роки тому +26

    lol I’m convinced y’all need therapy. Self hate is so cancerous

  • @pensiveczar2239
    @pensiveczar2239 Рік тому +18

    Skip all these sanctimoneous lectures. I appreciate the tutorial and will definitely consider adding this process to my own light-skin journey. Thank you.

  • @Goldenxo90
    @Goldenxo90 2 роки тому +136

    This skin tone is better than the other brand you used. The other one made you look white. This one looks like a healthy golden tome

    • @Naylovebrizzle
      @Naylovebrizzle  2 роки тому +21

      Thank you!

    • @Hanadkarshe
      @Hanadkarshe 2 роки тому +40

      @@Naylovebrizzle yo this man was hella disrespectful and the way u responded was like so mature and ik u probably wont see this but anyone who goes to comments look at how respectful she is

  • @xywoo3390
    @xywoo3390 2 роки тому +204

    The evanesce cream is my favorite Ive tried other Permanence products, and the evanesce worked wonders on my hyperpigmentation. I also had areas on my body that were basically 7 shades darker and this lightened it up quickly. Love these products!

  • @yusuf5400
    @yusuf5400 2 роки тому +111

    The Depigmenting whitening complex is my go to. I’ve lighted drastically . I would say I’ve lighted almost 5 shades and I’ve only used it for a month now!!!

  • @ems8717
    @ems8717 2 роки тому +37

    I didn’t know u can change skin tone this drastically. Isn’t it cancerous ?

  • @sarahham88
    @sarahham88 2 роки тому +10

    No disrespect but I’m curious as to why someone would want to change their complexion. I looked at your older vids and you had beautiful skin. I know some people wanna be tan and that’s just temporary, but to change yourself permanently seems scary. I understand under arms etc places that can be troublesome to some ppl. Just curious that’s all.

  • @SongofBeauty
    @SongofBeauty 2 роки тому +19

    Your skin is lighter for sure but it doesn’t look as vital or pretty because it looks unnatural and you’ve probably damaged it. Please stop this is dangerous and can really mess with your liver. You have son that deserves to know black skin is beautiful and have a healthy Mom. Much love. ❤️

  • @tuimoala74
    @tuimoala74 2 роки тому +13

    Beautiful!! Do what you want to do to make you happy!!

  • @BILASPURMAGAZINE
    @BILASPURMAGAZINE 2 роки тому +7

    Thanks for this review . I’m going to purchase and see how it works for me !

  • @lb6902
    @lb6902 2 роки тому +19

    Question, if you stop using it, will your original color return?

  • @Alexsjusa
    @Alexsjusa 2 роки тому +8

    Oh my gosh why are you doing this? It doesn’t look natural. Careful of forcing skin turnover like that.

  • @CinnamonCaramelStick
    @CinnamonCaramelStick 2 роки тому +8

    Lmfao the people hating on her so hard. It's HER body. Some women's features look AMAZING in black as night skin tones, but judging by the thumbnail picture I think she looks way better on the left. It suits her more. She doesn't deserve the hate and the people hating on her are racist and mad because they think she's trying to be white lol. Skin tone isn't everything and when y'all realize that racism will stop.

  • @itsYourChance
    @itsYourChance 2 роки тому +13

    So this probably works great on any hyperpigmentation or melasma. Im getting this. Im very very light but as i gotten older and due to diabetes, or medication now i have diff skin issues. This is a really Good video. And i avoid the sun always just too sensitive to it.

  • @vancesumrall1829
    @vancesumrall1829 2 роки тому +8

    im so sorry white supremacy made you feel like you had to do this to yourself. I hope you can raise your son to love himself.

  • @fitgirl5613
    @fitgirl5613 2 роки тому +16

    Looks like she gets glutathione injections which is very expensive, about 2 thousand dollars each time u get it done, u have to keep getting injections to maintain the light skin through out the year, no cream will get u that many shades lighter, certain creams will only lighten blemishes and possibly make u a shade lighter unless u can get a cream that has a large percentage of hydroquinone , currently only 2% of hydroquinone is the legal amount u can buy at a store, glutathione injections is what sum celebrities use to achieve major skin lightening

  • @tatianajaimes327
    @tatianajaimes327 2 роки тому +40

    Judging her is like judging people for tanning… all skin colors are beautiful. Maybe she just prefers lighter and there’s nothing wrong with that. Just how there’s nothing wrong with white ppl getting a tan to look darker. You do you girl

  • @luxetitan2673
    @luxetitan2673 Рік тому +13

    Thank You for all your help ❤

  • @cfoster6804
    @cfoster6804 2 роки тому +34

    The before picture that you showed of yourself...you made a HUGE mistake! Your color was gorgeous!!

  • @Arsenalfan4ever
    @Arsenalfan4ever 2 роки тому +34

    Sis you should be proud of your race. My mum is natural light skin I’m more medium tone . She always says be proud to be black 👍🏾✌🏾

  • @successfulMillennial
    @successfulMillennial 2 роки тому +9

    This is really sad...then she threw on the blonde hair and blue contacts...but you still have African nose and mouth area of features... just sad, really want to be something you're not... took away all that nubian beautiful skin tone to look ashy😪😔

  • @StrawberryCoke
    @StrawberryCoke 2 роки тому +5

    No offense but you went like 2 shades too far, it looks too unnatural, it's that odd obviously bleached skin tone

  • @anime-yt5536
    @anime-yt5536 2 роки тому +11

    The serum is my favorite . It’s sooooo good!

  • @leeluv96
    @leeluv96 2 роки тому +15

    I love my over all skin color. I have an issue with an area of my face that is dark and seems to be getting darker. From under my bottom lip to under my chin and out to my cheeks a bit is much darker than the rest of my face. Makeup does not cover it. It just makes me look dead like the vampires in the movies. LOL I've tried fade creams, bleaching creams, whitening soaps, lemon juice, etc... nothing has worked yet. I also have scars from childhood on through just living life, dark elbows, and dark knees. They don't bother me BUT if I find something thing that helps my chin, I may do other spot treatments for the other areas. I'n leave my stretch marks alone. Those are my "war scars" ❤

  • @beth3916
    @beth3916 2 роки тому +14

    You mentioned you're using it about two weeks - how did you get to this stage? What product/s you used from your original brown?

  • @kresivarivkah612
    @kresivarivkah612 2 роки тому +6

    I apologize. I'm a light skinned woman. It looks weird when dark skinned women lighten their skin. It looks off. I burn my skin the the Summers to get a deeper tine. It goes away as soon as Autumn hits. Please, don't do this women. 👀
    You are beautiful. As a mixed woman I can tell that you are not mixed.

  • @sailing1stwatch
    @sailing1stwatch 2 роки тому +17

    Do what makes you feel beautiful! The light skin, blue eyes, blonde hair. I tanned and had braids for years because it made ME feel beautiful and people always had something to say... Dress as a boy or dress as a girl. Whatever gives someone the internal confidence for their journey is ALL that matters.

  • @PullOverItsDaPopo
    @PullOverItsDaPopo 2 роки тому +203

    Wow sis, seeing your transformation from your old videos to now is heartbreaking, I know you've probably heard it all before & you don't think this is a problem but just know your natural look was beyond beautiful. Whoever told you your dark skin/kinky hair was not "correct" doesn't like their own dark skin & kinky hair that's their problem. Your melanin is rich & beautiful your hair was already curly you just need to take care of it & put as much effort in it as you do skin bleaching. You do not look how you think you look, you may think you get more recognition for looking mixed & having blonde hair but it is not genuine, it's not you. Don't abandon the little black girl inside of you. Top quality men love natural hair & dark skin. Men who chase light skin will not take you seriously because they fetishize it & hate themselves. It is flex to love yourself, it's easier to change your outer appearance than your inner but you have to be the one to believe in your beauty. Racism is real & that's why we have colorism, but those things are highly immoral & are only the rules of low vibrational & low self-esteem humans. Remember they wanted to be like us, they wanted our kinks, our lips, our skin tone, our baby hairs, hairstyles so they can get the same men who scream they don't like blackness. Even older women who make ignorant comments don't love themselves no matter how beautiful they are because society's racism & colorism effect tore them to shreds so they feel the need to tell others they are also inadequate. You can be a brown-skinned natural-haired baddie, you don't need to go through all of this to be that. Listen to some Megan Thee Stallion & get in tune with yourself!

  • @GinaL514
    @GinaL514 2 роки тому +11

    Outstanding results based on your goal!!