The Golden Rule of Relationships nobody talks about | Eram Saeed

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  • @nabeelakamal341
    @nabeelakamal341 Рік тому +5

    Ma’am Eram Sayeed , aapke ek ek alfaaz 200% sahi hai , emotionally uljhe hue logon ko agar sahi waqt par sahi mentoring mil jaaye to zindagi azaab hone se bach jayegi …..

  • @fatimah338
    @fatimah338 2 місяці тому

    Zabardast 👏👏👏👏👏👏
    Nobody else can make me realize this but you do ❤️

  • @ayeshasaher4653
    @ayeshasaher4653 3 роки тому +9

    aap k dresses bhi boht achay hotay

  • @saykay1
    @saykay1 3 роки тому +7

    Very true. We need to heal ourselves first and then we can have a happy relationship. If we are not happy as a single we will never be happy as a married person. I really like your talks because you talk about balancing and you understand that women and men both are different and hence have different needs and varied ways of expressing their love.

  • @mimi-gf8bd
    @mimi-gf8bd Рік тому

    I love how well spoken this woman is. I love how after being through a traumatic experience, she rose so high. I see myself in her. We just have different type of trauma, but her words are so healing. Selflove is so important. I agree with every word. May Allah bless her.

  • @familyday7668
    @familyday7668 7 місяців тому

    Excellent Vloging

  • @samraimtiaz9013
    @samraimtiaz9013 5 місяців тому

    Thank u so much ma'am I really need this 😢

  • @ambreensultan9863
    @ambreensultan9863 3 роки тому +5

    An awesome way to convey and address each and every issue without blaming either party; men or women..
    Another thing which is most common in relationships is not physical abuse but mental abuse or i would say psychological abuse, where one person tries to control you and wants you to be what they want. How do deal in such situation? When you don't have any right to talk about what you want and you are forced to do what others want of you.

  • @hannanquacey230
    @hannanquacey230 Рік тому

    shes just awesome, i wish she spoke english fully😪😔

  • @khanscontenthub4566
    @khanscontenthub4566 6 місяців тому

    Nice information

  • @zainabshoaib4789
    @zainabshoaib4789 3 роки тому +2

    She is really intelligent ❤

  • @nawan2348
    @nawan2348 3 роки тому +2

    Kisi se umeed na lagain sewaiy Allah swt k, insaan dosroon se jo chahta hai woh pehlay khud usper amal karary

  • @iramnauman734
    @iramnauman734 3 роки тому +1

    Well explained. Very nice.
    Dil ko sukoon mil gya sun k really. ❤️❤️

  • @KawaiAestheticGirl
    @KawaiAestheticGirl 3 місяці тому

    Kamal baat🎉❤

  • @sarafrajahmad8720
    @sarafrajahmad8720 Місяць тому

    Nice

  • @syedasamra772
    @syedasamra772 2 роки тому

    I recently came across your vidoes and I can not appreciate more

  • @qaisrafatima1338
    @qaisrafatima1338 Рік тому

    Excellent erum

  • @90zeenat
    @90zeenat Рік тому

    Each and every single word is so true❤

  • @sidrakhan4514
    @sidrakhan4514 3 роки тому +2

    JazakAllahu khayral jaza fid dunya wal akhira aameen
    For ur precious time and for helping stay blessed maam ur an inspiration for me...

  • @mudasserhussain1102
    @mudasserhussain1102 2 роки тому

    Erum ur each n every sentence is wonderful ....i feel ur discuss ion is miraculous

  • @zainabshoaib4789
    @zainabshoaib4789 3 роки тому

    She is saying truth !!

  • @AsifAli-uk1bn
    @AsifAli-uk1bn 3 роки тому +1

    Absolutely right madam well done

  • @shaziakhan3515
    @shaziakhan3515 2 роки тому

    Very good and informative video, but easier said then done .

  • @RS-ls3vy
    @RS-ls3vy 3 роки тому +1

    abundant love to you and god bless u abundantly - i was so hurt since last two days and now happened to see this video flashed all of a sudden - gods way of helping me through u...... was feeling sad angry hurt before video.... after seeing ur video feeling empowered now - pearls of wisdom ..... subscribed n look forward to your videos.

  • @ramsharqazi5941
    @ramsharqazi5941 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you madam make more videos about this topic👍👍

  • @Mujii1984
    @Mujii1984 2 роки тому

    Agree with # Ms Irum.

  • @priyanka8718
    @priyanka8718 3 роки тому

    Love you Mam, please create more videos in youtube... you dont know how many women you are helping other women..

  • @knowledgeseeker1997
    @knowledgeseeker1997 Рік тому

    Golden words

  • @baigbaig4257
    @baigbaig4257 2 роки тому

    boht,achi,bat,love you from s h b karachi 🛏🚪🎭🗼

  • @hummerarazaraza7525
    @hummerarazaraza7525 3 роки тому +1

    Well done said

  • @shafaqshafique2247
    @shafaqshafique2247 6 місяців тому

    Please can you make another video on this topic witb more elaboration.

  • @ayeshaamir1740
    @ayeshaamir1740 3 роки тому

    It really helps me.. Ur talk is so inspirational.. M very gratful..

  • @aframirza4020
    @aframirza4020 2 роки тому

    Your Family is so lucky!

  • @mujahidnayeem722
    @mujahidnayeem722 2 роки тому

    Always you took good topics

  • @syedzameer1650
    @syedzameer1650 Рік тому

    Thankyou ❤

  • @sophiafarooqui5668
    @sophiafarooqui5668 2 роки тому

    Fantastic

  • @alihaasimasimrasheed7187
    @alihaasimasimrasheed7187 2 роки тому

    Super ✨

  • @sidraansari1279
    @sidraansari1279 Рік тому

    Thank you ma'am

  • @sweety_24K
    @sweety_24K 3 роки тому

    Very nice I got answer what I have been looking for .. 💕

  • @shahanaahsan1023
    @shahanaahsan1023 3 роки тому

    You are Amazing.

  • @motivationalspeech2627
    @motivationalspeech2627 2 роки тому +1

    ❤ beautiful

  • @leelapai2469
    @leelapai2469 2 роки тому

    Very valuable advise

  • @ayeshaakram7216
    @ayeshaakram7216 3 роки тому

    Thank you for your very informative and thought provoking videos. Please keep making these videos.

  • @MaryamCH-x1c
    @MaryamCH-x1c Рік тому

    Right 👍

  • @WIslamiclifestyle401
    @WIslamiclifestyle401 Рік тому

    thnk u

  • @ayeshasaher4653
    @ayeshasaher4653 3 роки тому +6

    kahan say layti han kpray?

  • @gazalabegum6896
    @gazalabegum6896 2 роки тому

    Thank you once again. Wonderful advice

  • @sumairaahmed4318
    @sumairaahmed4318 3 роки тому

    Practical knowledge, thanks a lot

  • @rafiaasghar5353
    @rafiaasghar5353 3 роки тому

    More than amazing 👏

  • @madihasarwar8467
    @madihasarwar8467 3 роки тому

    Very well said

  • @divascorner8720
    @divascorner8720 3 роки тому

    Your dressing sense is awesome

  • @-erajsalim8145
    @-erajsalim8145 3 роки тому +11

    Can please guide us on how to practice self-love?

  • @Mahdbloxfruits
    @Mahdbloxfruits 3 роки тому

    Your videos are amazing 👏 😍 💖 💕 ❤ 🙌

  • @abidafahad2144
    @abidafahad2144 3 роки тому +1

    Loved every word ❤️

  • @sobiaghafoor7434
    @sobiaghafoor7434 3 роки тому

    Love to listen to u, love u

  • @mdfaiyaz4110
    @mdfaiyaz4110 Рік тому

    Mam pora video urdu mein banaye please

  • @cbwcontentwriter4886
    @cbwcontentwriter4886 2 роки тому

    So beautiful Miss Erum......

  • @aqsaaa333
    @aqsaaa333 3 роки тому +6

    Being a teen, I really needed to watch this. Pls make more videos like this. And keep up the good work. 💕

  • @hamzaashfaq8738
    @hamzaashfaq8738 3 роки тому +1

    Hi! I loved this video. Can you make a video on love marriages in our society and how to tackle the family values colliding with it?

  • @DieticianAkbarSayyed
    @DieticianAkbarSayyed 8 місяців тому

    Hi how can I connect with you I'm going through a very critical situation in my life

  • @Jkns-w3k
    @Jkns-w3k Рік тому

    All worldly relationships are Attachments only, no true Love in it..
    True love, is the love that we received from God called Grace, this is beyond Attachments.. this loves makes the 2, to become 1...
    Do not compare this love with worldly love

  • @sairakhan3726
    @sairakhan3726 2 роки тому

    Besides all other appreciations which you deserve, your taste and choice of dressing is also impressive. Eram gee what brand do you use ????

  • @raheelahjabeen8973
    @raheelahjabeen8973 2 роки тому

    Always love ur videos learned alot from ur videos. But I also love ur dresses, just beautiful and perfect so gracefull. If u don't mind can u plz tell brand or designer. A humble request.

  • @syedanaheednasir7261
    @syedanaheednasir7261 3 роки тому

    Main Lahore sy hun mam

  • @benishsheikh372
    @benishsheikh372 3 роки тому

    Please teach me selflove

  • @memonagull408
    @memonagull408 3 роки тому

    U are just a love💖💖💖💖

  • @saizeb
    @saizeb 3 роки тому

    Yes but self love how ? Tell us how to self love ? Examples pls

  • @namnamo3476
    @namnamo3476 3 роки тому

    Please explain it in Urdu.

  • @iqrarafaqat4444
    @iqrarafaqat4444 2 роки тому

    Kamal

  • @almasmohamedalthaf9072
    @almasmohamedalthaf9072 3 роки тому

    So trueee

  • @saleemaliya468
    @saleemaliya468 3 роки тому

    Jazakallah hu khair
    Mujhe aisa he change khud mai lana hai. Kis tarah, kia ap meri help krskti hain?

  • @syedanaheednasir7261
    @syedanaheednasir7261 3 роки тому

    Please reply zror kijyiga

  • @fakhrazarin6986
    @fakhrazarin6986 2 роки тому

    I do that 🥰

  • @Urdunovels.9
    @Urdunovels.9 2 роки тому

    Asslam alaikum
    i want to cantact you
    kaisy krun ? i want to share my problem .

  • @manahil9103
    @manahil9103 3 роки тому

    How to approach you for face to face therapy ?

  • @mohammadfaraz4898
    @mohammadfaraz4898 2 роки тому

    The one who even left her children for her passion; what do you say about those women?

  • @tayyabaasif1449
    @tayyabaasif1449 3 роки тому

    The music is too loud. it sounds disturbing

  • @syedanaheednasir7261
    @syedanaheednasir7261 3 роки тому

    Assalam-0-Alaikum Mam ap
    sy milna ho tu kesy mila jyga????

  • @saemafahmi5283
    @saemafahmi5283 2 роки тому

    Nothing exists until you make them exist. Learn the dance between form and formless. Allah ne sabko apne problem ke solutions carve out Karne ki power de hai. We just have to recognize it and polish that.

  • @nainnawaz5485
    @nainnawaz5485 3 роки тому

    Mam. Is it possible that at sm stage self love becomes selfishness.. hw we can overcome this situation

  • @raziashabir8193
    @raziashabir8193 3 роки тому

    Lobe from iok

  • @zubairkhan1439
    @zubairkhan1439 3 роки тому +2

    Hyper narcissists or introvert people are who , what you are taking about . Sorry but it won't break the ice as introvert people always want other to listen to them . However what you are taking about direct the perfect to Avoid the dominant player .

  • @utopian2000
    @utopian2000 3 роки тому +2

    When u love urself people and ur partner thinks that u r selfish

    • @aha1775-m6g
      @aha1775-m6g 3 роки тому +1

      No being egostic and loving yourself is two different things. Usualy people who loves themselves also give love in abundance to others.

  • @self_study166
    @self_study166 3 роки тому +2

    So its ur point of view that if u dnt have self love ..then u wll expct ur partner to love u? I mean seriously? And incase u r filled with self love then bhaar me jaye tera pyaar i dnt want ur love ..um happy in my way; ....freedom of speech but i dnt think people to get heavily touched ...rather viewers must give urself a quick introspection and know urself...rather than someone telling you....else u r certainly triggering others 😀

    • @mahnoorarslan6223
      @mahnoorarslan6223 2 роки тому

      i guess you are not mature enough to understand what she wants to convey. instead of trolling her, look into urself to evaluate why you can't perceive the idea of self-love and self - acceptance in a good way.
      the way you are depicting self love "bhar mh jaye" etc, is the self love of uneducated person, GROW UP
      so better Self study, honey

  • @faizanhassan8212
    @faizanhassan8212 Рік тому

    I'm pretty much sure that your husband must be sleeping with any other woman since you don't possess him.

  • @ShakeelAhmad-qj5rm
    @ShakeelAhmad-qj5rm 9 місяців тому

    In abusive relationships u advice women to take divorce but what if husband require psychological treatment but wife in addition left him too😮

  • @sidraansari1279
    @sidraansari1279 Рік тому

    Thank you ma'am