It Took Me 13+ Years of Fighting To Learn What I'll Teach You In 12 Minutes

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  • @Fer-De-Lance
    @Fer-De-Lance 17 днів тому +6

    Ed, thank you for sharing. Math was very hard for me, it took me 4 times to get through Calculus 1. But I did get through it. Math makes you realize the importance of doing things in order and keeping tracking of different things, so does physics. I did try to get into the US Army to be an officer through ROTC. I was medically rejected but I did not quit, I fought all of the way. I have been successful in fields that have broken combat veterans.
    Thank you again for sharing your wisdom. Namaste!

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому +3

      Hey another guy who decided that he wasn't just gonna give up on calculus. Haha, I thought I was the only crazy one. Kudos for you keeping with it and still finding a way to help. That's huge man.

  • @Bobby_101
    @Bobby_101 18 днів тому +5

    I used to think since very young age that nothing is impossible to learn, if only I just give it enough time, effort, clear explanation or experience. Everything can be broken down in simpler steps and learned. I used to never give up on even highly unlikely things.
    Later I realized I was wrong, and it almost completely depends on your IQ and natural talent (depending on severity). And those who just don't get things will burn a lot more energy trying to get something and even after ten times more effort they get less results. And simply it's not worth it when it comes to return on investment, especially if you have below average energy and focus span.
    Or, you can always make peace with the fact that everything will be harder for you then the average person, and you will work a lot more at everything just to get less results and that is that. And be grateful for what you do have.

    • @LilYungGrabBagJr
      @LilYungGrabBagJr 18 днів тому +3

      Yeah some people are actually gifted at so called "mental toughness" we all have different areas where we can thrive everyone can't do everything

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  18 днів тому +4

      Sure, but there's also a desire and tenacity aspect of personality. If you really want to learn or do something, you tend to work a lot hard and display a lot more grit. You don't easily get discouraged, because EVERYTHING has difficult parts.
      Not everyone can be like you and just accept a short coming. There is a blurry line between not having talent and just not having worked hard enough.
      Individual desire and tenacity make that line for most people.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому +3

      @@LilYungGrabBagJr Just because you aren't gifted at something doesn't mean you can't develop that asset. You're not gonna be good at most things. Especially when you start. In fact, I'd say no one is good at anything when they first start. So then what, you just go through life with no skills? No, that's not how it works.

    • @Bobby_101
      @Bobby_101 17 днів тому +2

      @@EdLatimore1 It's really about the ratio of talent compared to hard work, of course hard work being a talent as well, as it depends heavily on natural dopamine and adrenaline levels, how much effort hard work takes for you physiologically.
      But as a heuristic, yeah I agree, at the end of the day everyone can get better compared to their own standard, and we have no other choice but to work on getting the skills we want.
      I just still advise to be realistic, and know when the talent level is so low where it's simply not worth the squeeze. Giving up in certain moments is not a negative thing, it can be a positive given a certain context.
      For most people with an average ability, I agree hard work is worth it.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому +2

      @@Bobby_101 Well yeah, I don't think someone should try to get to the NBA if high school ball is killing them, but I also think we sell ourselves short. Some things are difficult, no matter how much talent you have. In fact, I'd even argue that one trainable "talent" that will make a difference is a bit of persistence. All things have an opportunity cost and a sunk cost. I think you need a certain level of delusion to not mistake the latter for the former.

  • @123Nay
    @123Nay 7 днів тому

    This is definitely a word. I am an aspiring writer and I’m dealing with big time writers block, self doubt, procrastination etc…. This is the time I must learn to be resilient. Thanks for the reminder.

  • @justwall3345
    @justwall3345 18 днів тому +3

    I appreciate your knowledge and insight man, very inspiring.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  18 днів тому +1

      Hey thanks a lot man. I just try to help folks!

  • @Mortsandmore
    @Mortsandmore 8 днів тому

    Spot on! Love this. Well said Ed

  • @Retired-jr3qs
    @Retired-jr3qs 12 днів тому

    Great to see you on UA-cam Ed. Your life story is inspirational.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  12 днів тому

      @@Retired-jr3qs thanks! I'm having fun!

  • @NickSlingerland-yd8hy
    @NickSlingerland-yd8hy 16 днів тому +1

    You are an amazing human Ed. Keep up the good work

  • @David_10157
    @David_10157 17 днів тому

    Great stuff. Very motivating.
    You are the reason I decided to pick up a second language three years ago. You posted a message on Instagram about doing tough things, like learning a foreign language to the B1 level. Initially, I thought, "Of course I can do this in a matter of months." Finally, a little over two years later, I did it-DELF B1 in French. It's hard. You have ups and downs. If you're not strong in grammar in your native language, you'll pick up a bit of that too. It's like you mentioned in the video about math: you start at the bottom and learn your way up.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому

      Oh wow thanks man. I'm happy to have made that type of impact on your life!

  • @lopa-u9f
    @lopa-u9f 18 днів тому +1

    distinguish between 'belief' and 'knowing'
    and be aware of what you claim to know but is actually belief
    also important to distinguish between potential, capacity, ability - all which have interconnected and variable on a spectrum of relevance to desire-achievement

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  18 днів тому +1

      @@lopa-u9f all very very true!

    • @lopa-u9f
      @lopa-u9f 18 днів тому

      @@EdLatimore1 my comments are typically critical-constructive backed by desire to help others, as that is how I like to be treated - we can all be part of eachothers growth if we are open to it (still have yet to watch your video on ego-deeath because I have a lot of established ideas /understandings on that sort of stuff and need space to be able to watch+comment effectively)
      all with love - notgaay

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  18 днів тому

      @@lopa-u9f it's all love indeed my friend

  • @oscarlogrono511
    @oscarlogrono511 18 днів тому +1

    GM Champ! Thanks for the morning push!

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  18 днів тому

      Morning! Let's get after it!

    • @DavidJ-ty5jm
      @DavidJ-ty5jm 18 днів тому

      I'm an Upper Midwesterner that currently lives in Louisville and you would not believe the amount of spoiled, lazy, delusional, narcissistic p***ies there are in this worthless city.. I live by the message presented in this video and these losers see me as a loser for doing so!! Outrageous 😑

  • @SonYoungyen
    @SonYoungyen 17 днів тому +1

    Inspirational

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому

      Much appreciated my guy. Hope you subscribed!

  • @UchihaGoma
    @UchihaGoma 17 днів тому +1

    Amazing video

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому

      Hey thanks! Hope you enjoyed and subscribed!

  • @CoachKen10
    @CoachKen10 17 днів тому

    Great wisdom sir!

  • @dwaynecunningham2164
    @dwaynecunningham2164 18 днів тому +7

    I was great at math until they stopped using numbers.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  18 днів тому +2

      @@dwaynecunningham2164 ha then it becomes hell

    • @dwaynecunningham2164
      @dwaynecunningham2164 18 днів тому

      @EdLatimore1 one day the Greeks showed up, and that was it for me, my friend.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  18 днів тому

      @dwaynecunningham2164 hahaha

  • @shempshempleton4746
    @shempshempleton4746 18 днів тому +1

    Excellent advice. Keep it coming and your subscriber numbers will go parabolic. God bless :)

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  18 днів тому +1

      Thank you! Here's hoping man!

    • @shempshempleton4746
      @shempshempleton4746 17 днів тому

      @@EdLatimore1 I'm not a gambler, but I'd bet on it. You're providing something that's in short supply and that people are looking for: legitimate wisdom from personal experience. Rock on.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому +1

      @@shempshempleton4746 That's true. I am hard to replace. Not really anyone out there like me. Thanks for this vote of support man. It means a lot.

    • @shempshempleton4746
      @shempshempleton4746 17 днів тому

      @@EdLatimore1 MP. I'm glad to hear that you recognize your value. You've EARNED the right to have a healthy self-respect. If you ever forget that, just drop me a line and I'll help bring you back to the proper frequency :)

  • @w1cked001
    @w1cked001 17 днів тому +1

    The mind adapts and converts to its own purposes the obstacle to our acting. The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.
    -Marcus Aurelius

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому +1

      So very relevant

    • @w1cked001
      @w1cked001 17 днів тому

      @ great content. I practice bjj and mt and see the value in seeking out incrementally harder challenges to progress. Miss being in the burgh!

  • @CarlosGomz70
    @CarlosGomz70 18 днів тому +1

    Good. Thanks

  • @JamesWhite-cr5ys
    @JamesWhite-cr5ys 18 днів тому +1

    Yes indeed.

  • @FreeUnsolicitedAdvice
    @FreeUnsolicitedAdvice 17 днів тому

    Kudos for finishing your education!! I too finished my degree in my 30s.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому +1

      Very awesome! It's hard work but worth it

  • @jackdempsey9346
    @jackdempsey9346 18 днів тому

    Loving the channel!

  • @Bren12602
    @Bren12602 17 днів тому

    3:50 facts

  • @TeaRiker
    @TeaRiker 14 днів тому

    I'd be really interested to learn more about how you graduated with a physics agree.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  14 днів тому

      I should make more content about that!

  • @arifaahmed5454
    @arifaahmed5454 11 днів тому

    could u give me how to develop a body for boxing ?

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  11 днів тому

      edlatimore.com/how-to-get-into-boxing/

  • @sincityinfinity6255
    @sincityinfinity6255 17 днів тому

    Didn’t Deontay Wilder start boxing at age 22 and won a bronze in the Olympics the next year? Maybe I’m wrong but I think Wilder started late too.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому

      I think he started a little earlier, but not by much. He's a freak of nature though haha. The height alone. If he had started earlier, he probably would have gone undefeated.

  • @RenoVaTio1958
    @RenoVaTio1958 15 днів тому

    And your problems become more complicated

  • @sincityinfinity6255
    @sincityinfinity6255 17 днів тому

    Boxing is a joke compared to MMA. Floyd mayweather is arguably the best boxer of all time yet HS boys on the wrestling team can beat him up in a fight.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому +2

      You've boxed and competed in wrestling?

    • @sincityinfinity6255
      @sincityinfinity6255 17 днів тому

      @@EdLatimore1 yeah and also aware of how inefficient boxing is in an actual fight.

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому +2

      @sincityinfinity6255 Alright

    • @sincityinfinity6255
      @sincityinfinity6255 17 днів тому

      @@EdLatimore1 James Tony vs Randy Couture

    • @EdLatimore1
      @EdLatimore1  17 днів тому +2

      @@sincityinfinity6255 ...Anthony Joshua vs Francis Ngannou