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I did seven years in state prison (I used to be a dumbass) and the first thing I was taught was do not let anyone disrespect you for free. That goes into the next lesson and the topic of the video, never back down from a fight even if you think you'll lose. If you let someone disrespect you and you back down then you will be a target for the entire time you're locked up. I'm 5:10 about 155-165. Played sports and lifted my whole life but I don't cut an intimidating figure, so naturally I was tried a few times. I took those lessons to heart and you know what happened? Except for one guy every other person who I called out copped dueces soon as we're in the cell away from the cameras, guards and any help they may get. Not saying I'm a badass at all, but I did have my mind made up that I was gonna unload on anyone who squared up with me. People like that wanna look tough in front of others by picking on someone they think is weak, but they don't have any heart and that makes up for a lot in a fight or confronting people. If they expect someone to just fold when they don't and the target becomes the aggressor they don't know how to react. If you're not already locked up you should try to avoid fights as much as possible because that's a great way to get locked up.

I damn near had at least one fight each year of school

Christ says to turn the other cheek.

Was at a restaurant with friends. A woman and her bf were sitting at a table nearby. The woman was attractive, so I looked at her numerous times. She looked my way several times, too. When they were walking towards the door, the guy walks straight towards me, her right behind him. He then stands several inches away from me, looks at her while he is pointing at me and says to her, “Is this what you looking at?” He asks her the same question again and again. Sitting there I thought to myself, I can get my ass kicked sitting down or standing up. Which one will it be. The guy was bigger than me, and had an aggressive attitude. My friends were cowering down. Not one had my back. My decision was to stand up to him, thereafter, I look him straight in the face. Showed no fear. Tell him, “What’s your problem, man? You got problems with your woman?” He didn’t say a word. Stone face. Was not expecting that response from him. Eventually, him and his gf leave but not until after I said a few more things to him. His demeanor became apologetic. Had I remained seated, refusing to defend myself, I would have been wrecked.

Dam right it is! Laws dont make bad people go away, badasses make bad people go away 💪👍💪

12:17 my boss is trying this with me. He made a comment saying maybe they didn't need me but I just ignored him. I wanted to tell him any job can be taught to anyone as to imply that his job can be taken too.

7:00 ok what if they come as a gang

4:20 yes

Highly emotional person regards everything as a bully

I agree with you but now I’m 80 with a multiple number of physical injuries from my past and thus limiting my ability to fight as in my youth. I must also mention that I have black belt in several systems

I had a Danish manager say in the meeting, "small head". He wasn't looking at anyone but considering i was the only minority surrounded by other Asians, I guess he was making a remark on me. But that was a case of "plausible denial" because he didn't speak directly to me. It's an insidious form of racism, I should have probably brought it up but he did that only once, so i'm not sure if it was under the definition of bullying, or if he was just joking.

The advice in this video is solid gold.

Completely agree with you 💯

Agree brother! I've trained in various arts and defensive tactics for over 50 years. This skill set has helped me many times throughout my life!

Wow. This video is killing it! (Not to mention filled with good advice as always.) I have been following you and reading your books for a long time. I Hope you keep finding success here on UA-cam.

Usually uneducated people that get into physical fights. Most educated people aren't going to be throwing punches at each other. A physical fight should be the last resort. If a bully just talking trash to you and not actually hitting you then you could either fight him with words, ignore him or do what my friend did. Show humor. This one boy in my class tried to bully my friend with words but my friend put humor into it. He would talk about messing with my friend mom then my friend would humorously say knock yourself out my mom old. The bully never got the reaction he wanted from my friend, so he just gave up trying to bully him. Now if a bully put their hands on you then you have to fight them. Luckily, I never had a guy grab my butt. Back in the 2000's guys didn't touch each other butt because that would show you were gay meaning the gay person would then get bullied. If your a big muscled up person people are less likely to even try to bully you. Teachers are the real problem. Alot of kids get in trouble for defending themselves from bullies so they figure ok if i don't fight back and just tell a teacher i won't get into trouble which doesn't really help. I explained to a teacher sometimes kids are forced to fight but my teacher like no they're not they can always walk away. I'm thinking that doesn't always work.

I used to get bullied till one day I started blowing up frogs with fireworks and hurting animals in really really horrible ways and sometimes people after that my neighberhood friends found out and nobody at school or at home messed with me again eventually I got put in multiple psych-wards and went to jail a few times and then 3 or 4 years ago I changed the way I lived what I put in my body and how I treat people and my environment

I've been noticing lots of younger dudes record on their phone while they antagonize & threaten people. They are always in groups of 2 or 3 guys. I have zero respect for these fools

If you live your life in a way where people are wanting to physically fight you, you are an idiot.

*ALL REAL BULLYING ARE ALL CLOSELY RELATED TO MALIGNANT NARCISSISM, ENVY, JEALOUSY, HATE, TARGETING THE PERCEIVED WEAK YET IT IS VERY COWARDOUS OF THE BULLY BECAUSE A BULLY WOULDN'T DARE TRY SOMEONE WHO IS ACTUALLY STRONG ENOUGH TO DEFEND THEMSELVES AND FIGHT BACK.*

In these times i wouldnt recommended it... this guy will get you guys killed...

*SELF-DEFENSE IS CRUCIAL! SELF-DEFENSE IS SELF-CARE, SELF-RESPECT AND SELF-LOVE ALSO FOR OTHER YOU LOVE AND CARE ABOUT! THEY THINK TWICE ABOUT MESSING WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE AN AURA THE PERMIATES "IF YOU START SHIT THEN I'LL END YOUR SHIT! FUCK AROUND AND FIND OUT!"*

Great video. It came at the right time, brother🎉🎉🎉

I had to fight growing up and had no other choice,every day, i fought before, and after school, i started doing karate and judo to start i also did muay Thai jkd and bjj because of the constant bullying , i lost so many fights because of being scared i got beatens at home as well i started fighting back and still lost😂 as it was never one on one when i started doing damage the bullying stopped ,during that time i also started fighting back at home against my mothers abusive boyfriend it quickly became me not knowing anything other than fighting , i started getting in trouble and getting locked up , eventually losing everything and going in and out of prison , as i never learned to deescalate situations. present day with my 20s and thirtys mostly gone because of prison i, at the very least ,know that i can defend myself and the people i love whether or not a weapon is involved .these days, i stay away from hi risk areas and situations, and so far, so good i haven't had any fights in about 2 years or so. i still train and learn daily different self-defense techniques. im ready if anything goes down.

Hand to hand combat is one thing but once a weapon comes out that is a whole different scenario 🤷🏻‍♂️

I started a new job a couple of years ago. Unlike my previous job, i had to deal with the blue collar mentality. I tried to be "nice" in order to learn, but the niceties were taken as weakness in this environment. I had 0 choice but to show my teeth. Attitudes changed once i tapped into my teenage mentality. Its an atmosphere of respect and theres only one way to get it. It's not in being an asshole, but being willing to be an asshole.

Before watching this. P&$$¥, Pu$$¥ & Pu$$y! Now let me see what the answers are!

Ive trained at a few MMA Gyms and Ive gotten into it with all types of fighters whether it be ones who train or amateur contenders. They all saw me as the small, new, young guy. A lot of fighters are cowards for picking on people they know aren’t as skilled as them at martial arts and I always let them know that and that I didn’t care how intensely they trained. Some people see a kid with more potential and get insecure.

I started off with martial arts because I was smaller and an easy target for bullies. Eventually despite them being twice my size once I cracked them they soon learned. Eventually that got me into boxing. I plan to get my son and daughter into both wrestling and boxing. Start them off with weightlifting first though. That’s just the way of the world.

i dunno im from canada and dont live in one of the handful of poor violent neighbourhoods in the country. Im probably 100km from the nearest sketchy neighborhood that i could easily avoid.

Bullys are really walking heavybags begging you to workout, they just have a funny way of welcoming you.

Bullies are motivated by two things. Territory or social status. When a bully stares at you he is saying I am alpha in this hood. If you are not from that area don't escalate by having a staring match. Let him know you see him and go on about your business. Always first try to avoid physical contact. Win or lose you always always leave a part of yourself behind. That's why you choose your battles. Otherwise you will end up like me. Old and beaten and scarred and everything hurts. Even the old gunshot wounds. It will come back to haunt you in your old age. Walk away from the alpha stare. Then switch to self awareness self defense. Which is range, distance, and space or zone. The alpha bully will next violate your zone. Which is in your face. I never ever let anybody violate my personal zone. That's when you strike the bully. Notice how uncomfortable you feel when someone is in your face. That's your figh or flight ramping up. Strike. Nothing fancy. All that spinning and triangles and that stuff won't work on the streets. You have to keep it simple and fundamental. Remember there's no referee on the streets. Use only gross motor movements. Now in the scuffle make sure you know your distance. Close if he has a gun. Distant if he has a knife. And finally range. Utilize your range to deliver powerful punches and still maintain distance to avoid a counter attack. Now territory is a little different. The bully thinks he can take your purchases or your jewelry or whatever. Let him have it. You should try to distract by tossing your wallet to the ground or a few bucks out of your pocket. Usually the bully will grab it and go. And you are still alive. And your family who might be with you. Just run to a safe spot. However if you are like me. I will not tell anyone. I will simply hunt the bully down. On my terms. On my turf. And take my stuff back and his too. Range. Distance. And zone. Never let another man enter your personal space without your permission. But every time you get physical just know that you will always leave a part of yourself behind. Win or lose. So carefully choose your battles.

Damn. Ur mitts are bigger than ur head!

One thing training gives you is it takes away your primal fear, anxiety, or dread, both of pain, and agressive people. You might get beat, but they're going to earn every bit of it, if you're trained. And more often, the agressor is unpleasantly surprised at the results.

You forget about spiritual bullying where you have a certain group of people (Christians and Hebrew Israelitss) push their beliefs on them telling them if they don't believe in what THEY believe, they're goongnto hell. My response is, "Since YOU believe in that shit then YOU go to hell and take your God with you". I said that to one old yt man and he left the table we were eating at.

It's not worth fighting anymore. Pigs can send rats to poke the bear and the sheep will gawk from their social media feeds. And in one reality, you can look like you're fighting and in another you can look like you're "tweaking". Didn't know hallucinations can also file for social services. Good luck out there, it's a gay world. lol

Fighting really is an inescapable necessity; the cost of not fighting is much greater in the long run, and I learned that the hard way. I never back down from conflict anymore.

The only times people try to bully me is when they have the leverage in their favor. I'm an MMA instructor, so I often have police officers, security guards, coaches, professors, etc. trying to mess with me, only while they're on the job of course. Then I run into them in public and they won't even give me eye contact... Nobody wants to try me on an even playing field.

I grew up similar, only overseas. Same conclusions. Great vid.

I was bullied backed down a thew times as a younger kid, had a thew fights in later life won and lost multiple violent altercations, its stuck with me i have a huge grudge i cant let go of and i feel like i need to face all dangerous situations and i probably create alot because i always want to test my bravery now , i know im alot braver than i used to be but I think my soul still seeks revenge and i always need to prove myself I dont want god to think im a coward and i see everything as threat now

Fax my 10 year old brothers bullies turn him into inside joke behind his backk disguises them self as his friends thier older and act like popular kids hes light skin thier black and we live in a very ghetto dirty neighbor hood so i be at the bus stop to intimidate the older kids😂

As a certified former bully myself when you ignore non physical bullying the bully will take it as disrespect and will resort to physical bullying to get a reaction

Yup

I’m an X-Hockey player and played up to semi pro, I’ve been in my fair share of fights on and off the ice and I always loved getting into the locker room after a fight to see what kind of damage I took😂 IMO attitude is everything when it comes to defense. If u look like u can fight ppl are less likely to wanna throw hands. Love your videos great topics. Don’t be scared be prepared 💪🏻👊🏼👊🏼🤛🏼✌🏼

It’s a mindset thing. As a kid in middle school, I got beat up multiple times. As long as you stand up for yourself, that’s the only thing that matters in the end.

You are a grown ass man talking about bullying you sad ASF lol 😂😂😂😂😂

Always called the “pretty boy” bc I look like my mom. Mix that with being a Navy Brat there was always somebody who wanted smoke. But I fight like my daddy. Bullies became my friends when I put them in their place lol.

Ever stop to think ,you have a great gift as a speaker and teacher. I just started judo at 69. Elders too must remember, you won't feel any better of you back down , even though you use your age as an excuse. Especially men ,until we're bedridden we must maintain our status as men.

I not afraid what my opponents is going to do to me I'm more afraid of what I'm going to do to my opponents 💯