Setting RULES for my middle school kids (mom of teenagers)
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My name is Jess! I had a daughter (Lilia) at age 18 w/ my high school sweetheart. We mutually split up & co-parent to this day. I met someone new, got married at age 19, had twin boys (Kyson & Kaden) and another son (Landen). He cheated, we split ways, & he’s not around much. After juggling life as a single mom of 4 for some time, I met Chris, he had 2 sons: Caden and Tommy, who eventually became my step sons. After Chris and I got married, we had our 7th child together, Addelyn. We’re one big, complicated, blended family & every second of our story is on UA-cam, you can start from the beginning here: • 8 Weeks Pregnant!
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I had a lot of food aversions growing up and as an Adult I got diagnosed with ARFID which is typically an eating disorder that kids grow out of (I didnt) I would just recommend seeing a nutritionist for Kaden. Its really helpful and im getting more and more comfortable trying new foods everyday
Me too! It’s so relieving to FINALLY have what feels like an explanation for being “picky”. Having supportive people REALLY helps.
Happy to hear you’re finding relief in your diagnosis and finding new foods! 🫶
I’m the same way, but I’m still extremely picky about foods and things being in the same plate or touching each other (I think I have undiagnosed ARFID or autism) because all my aversions are sensory-related.
I used to only eat chicken or one specific soup as a kid (didn't try chicken noodle soup until I was 19-20 years old) to the point where my parents had to tell me that things like red meats were chicken to get me to try them or eat them.
Also, when I find things I like to eat (especially new ones), I eat them all the time until it makes me actually throw up and gag just thinking about eating it again.
@@alexisrobinson5652 literally same 💀 my mom called salmon Chicken fish when I was a kid to get me to eat it. I still dont eat red meat buts thats a texture thing
Literally me. I’m not diagnosed but I’ve done my research. There’s also definitely another underlying condition. Like when I was younger I used to eat rocks, chalk, soap. Ya know things like shouldn’t be consumed. Idk how I survived past the age of like 8. But my family try’s to guilt me saying that they were once picky too and they grew up cuz they weren’t a little kid anymore. And I’m like ok good for you?? Even the thought of putting a new food in my mouth makes me nauseous and want to run away.
I also have ARFID and these past few years I have wondered if Kaden has it. Personally I would get him to a nutritionist ASAP. The longer you leave this untreated the worse it gets.
I have tried to see someone but they said they couldn’t help.
I don’t eat meat, vegetables, most fruits, most dairy, no nuts (unless it’s creamy pb.) I did recently add eggs to my diet, but it was one of the hardest things I had to do.
It has gotten so bad that I eat the same thing every day. You have no idea what I would give to be able to eat the same dinner with my family.
Kaden saying he ate, made me tear up! for some reason it made me really happy to know that he had fun and ate food and it was all good!
Same here. It was a sigh of relief when he said he ate and there was all kinds of good stuff ❤ Now without that he conquered that fear he will want to go places with his friends all the time 😊
I agree whn Jess mom asked him n he replied ohh ya they had some good food made my heart explode for him. ♥
Has Caden ever been diagnosed or treated for arfid? (avoidant restrictive food intake disorder) His level of stress from not knowing if he will have his “safe foods” for the 2 days kinda points to some potential signs of having it.
Hell, you may have already talked about it a million times before and addressed it in videos. I have been watching on and off since 2016 so I admittedly don’t watch consistently and don’t know the context of lil dudes struggles. I apologize if this comes across as over stepping. Just sharing my insight!
My rule for swearing is that they can't use it to insult someone. Otherwise, I don't care if they swear once they're teenagers.
Same and NEVER swear at me lol
I was scared to swear around my mom at all until I turned 18 lol she wasn’t even strict either she told me she was shocked I didn’t swear. Now it’s part of my normal vocabulary at 25 years old 😂
I have the same rules as you regarding “bad” words. My phrase of choice is “words aren’t bad, but how you choose to use them can be bad.” It’s not okay to use it to hurt someone, but in songs they are allowed to sing them. My 6 year old has been obsessed with Hamilton for years, so I had to teach him that rule at a younger age than the rest. 😅
So what about the N word? You're saying that's just a word? Speaking is an action, and some words are not just words. They can be offensive to race and religion. Bad language cheapens a person's character, shows lack of self-control and creativity. It is neither a cool nor intelligent way to speak. At the end of the day, people will say what they want. They are "free" to do so, but that freedom doesn't make it always right.
@MoonNearSaturn Is the N-word just a word?
@MoonNearSaturn "Acts of speaking can be observed as actions intended to achieve a specific purpose by verbal communication. By this description, everyday utterances can be thought of as speech acts that can be recognised in terms of their intended purposes of questions, assertions, and requests."
There you go. I looked it up. Did you?
And, as I stated clearly in my first response, people have the freedom to say what they want. But not everything they say is going to be moral or right, just because they have that freedom. And you don't have to explain how life works to me. You are the one up on your high horse gasping and asking how DARE I say something contrary to what you think is in the dictionary! I am use to living in this world, having to share it with people who don't agree with me, which is why I was civil in my response. Unlike you who are immediately belittling someone who said something you neither agree with nor fully understand. Like you said, live and let live applies to everyone, not just yourself and those who think, and speak, like you.
Also, my first response was not intended for you but the original commenter. I believe in Freedom of Speech and that no person should be punished by the law for what they say. I believe we agree on most things here.
@MoonNearSaturn Like I said, you are arguing with the wrong commenter. My first comment was directed at the original commenter, saying words are not just words, using the n word as the obvious example. We both agree the Freedom of Speech is Freedom of Speech. This is an action that shall not be infringed upon. We both agree that while this is a freedom, not everyone will speak as they should. But no one should go to prison for it.
I just don't know how you so quickly escalated the topic of swear words/bad language to going to prison or getting punished for saying them. I don't think anybody here is against Freedom of Speech. Just some people don't like or agree with everything that is said, and that's okay.
@MoonNearSaturn No hard feelings:) and now the original commenter edited out that "words are just words" so some of what we were discussing doesn't even "make sense" anymore🙄. Lol
Love watching you and your family!!
Hi Jessfam!! I love your videos you’re such a great mom!❤
Jess your 100% on point I have 5 sons (2 mine 3 took in) discuss everything with them n i taught them that they are just words its all in how you use them in the form of expression n yup if u think they're not sayin ur in denial n thats not good just set boundries. Kids may act like they don't want them but they know they need them to stay in their lane 😊. N now ALL r now productive men in law medical own company so keep doin u girl. ❤
I love jessfam videoss and honey is growing so fastt
I love the sound effects over the cuss
I love that they had such a good time! And that Kaden found things to eat!! ❤
I prefer to use the Libby app from the library just bc of finances, but I LOVE psychological thrillers and have the same response in my brain as you! I love to listen to books while I do mindless chores, like laundry, or cooking or grocery shopping etc! One I just read recently that was a 5 star one for me was First Lie Wins!
As someone who isn't that long out of middle and high school (with a brother who just got into the same 6-12 magnet school i graduated from), even if your kid isn't cussing themselves, I can guarantee that someone they are around is (and this extends beyond cussing. In my 7th grade year, the first year at that 6-12 school, I can't tell you how much PDA I saw, both on the bus and at school...) It's a good conversation to have with your kid instead of punishing them for even asking. I know personally I feel like my mom never did anything remotely close to that with me (the only thing she ever did was grill me about if I had a girlfriend and then tell me I was confused). I knew cuss words from a young age, and even before middle school, my parents would often argue (although it got worse with time) it used to be that they wouldn't cuss in front of me at all, then only certian words were ok (that was around the 1989 album release lol, my brother was still like just a year old.) And then it just rapidly got worse. Anyways, rant aside, it's important to teach your kids that there is an appropriate time for words like that (I like Momma cusses take on it. I feel like there are moments and times that it is ok, and obviously moments and times it's not.)
I love your idea for the bathroom sending prayers for everyone
I love Jessfam videos they always make me smile ❤❤❤
I seriously love your videos you and your whole family make my day ❤️❤️🫶
That breed is so good and they are honestly the best breed when it comes to staying out of trouble..our dog is the same breed and she is so smart and she knows how to get her way
My BoJack Stella is 4 and has never been a chewer unless the remotes were left out. She was just an escape artist from the backyard for a while.
Your son having food aversions sounds like my son. He went to the 6th grade camp last school year and he ate things I never thought he would. It worked out great!
Good morning Jesssfam happy Friday afternoon and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you all amazing Supporter
"i want peach themed".... gets nothing peach...lol
Lemons would be a good one to do
i haven’t seen a jesssfam video in months and i forgot you had a dog lol also is there not an intro anymore??? i need to like go on a marathon and watch every video i missed but that’ll take hours 😅
edit: OH MY GOD KYSONS VOICE
She hasn’t filmed one yet.
They have been using a drone shot of their property in place of an intro for a couple of vids
I guess now is a bit harder to make an intro since Big Caden doesn't want to appear on videos
@@MelDiaz1995 he doesn’t need to be in the intro if he’s not in the videos tho
@@ilTHfeaa of couse and i think he is a really smart guy since he wants to have his privacy and I'm glad Jess respects that privacy, I'm just saying that maybe that is one of the reasons why they don't make a new intro
i grew up in a household where “shut up” “crap” and “sucks” (as in “that really sucks”) were bad words until i was around 13. My mom however had the same rule! If it’s a song lyric, it’s allowed! since it’s in a song to express meaning and not just said for no reason-most of the time. Love you guys! 💗
I would argue that no word is ever said for no reason. Like if I’m upset and is say something is BS that’s not for no reason. Could I use other words sure but it’s not for no reason.
Id start singing shut up and crap and sucks Lol.
@@blakekaveny right, i guess what u meant was using it when. it “necessary”. like saying h*ll instead of heck if that makes sense
Your kids are growing up to so fast. I love y’all for y’all videos. How is Lily Lily Lily Lily’s dad doing sorry I asked.
I totally agree with cussing. I actually allow my young children to cuss. They have never cussed in public or towards another person, it’s just a way for them to express themselves. They usually use their words when they’re excited 🤣
I don't know the layout of the peach bathroom, but I can totally envision an accent wall of wallpaper covered in peaches! I think it would be awesome
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i love you so much i’ve been here since the start💖💖
Needy much?
my 2 cents is they can only cuss if it’s not in a derogatory way. like if you hurt yourself and cuss, we all do it. (i’m not a mom but im already making rules for my kids lol)
Yell FIRE.....people respond to FIRE.
That wouldn’t make sense. If someone yells fire everyone would run out but necessary look at who’s saying it 😅
I’m definitely teaching my kids that now
My family grew up with the rule to scream fire 🔥
I live in Australia and I’m in grade 6 and I had a beach camp too it was so fun I know I live across the world but mine was amazing hope they had fun
Growing up in my family no one used actual cuss words. We didn't even say shut up. We might have said darn it and rarely dang it or heck but that was pretty much it. We didn't say shut up either. Dad hated it when we said something was gross and he always corrected us by giving us the proper definition of the word. I was in my twenties the first time I ever heard my Mom say Dam it which made all of us stop whatever we had been doing and pick our jaws up off the floor. Because it wasn't something that we ever said in our house. This video made me really think back to how it was in our house growing up and I realized that none of us ever really used cuss words or swear words because it wasn't even used in the select few shows that we watched on the TV. We didn't watch much TV and when we did it was usually as a family. Back in the late 70s and early 80s there were not many channels to choose from and the selection of shows to watch were very slim and other than educational children shows we usually only watched a them with our parents and siblings. You have to remember that most people didn't have a TV in their bedroom and most young children were going to bed between 7:30-8:00pm and it wasn't until we were in high school that we stayed up past 9:30-10:00pm on a school night.
I remember when my son could go to camp for the first time. He said, “How come I only get three days?”🤠❤️
you should check out what "mommacusses" says about the whole "bad word" and kids saying them. I was like wow...that makes total since to me and I loved it and ended up using it. My daughter was a teen already and I had told her that I was not stupid that I know that if she has not physically had the word come out of her mouth or typed it then she has thought the word(s). She laughed at me and got bright red so I knew then and there, She is now 20 and still doesn't really like to swear in front of her dad but she lets the words fly with me (not major words). to me they are words, we do not allow negative slang words that are cruel and just made up and used to hurt people. The same way that I dd not condone using anything to physically hurt people I m not condoning using words to hurt a person mentally and emotionally.
I am a very picky eater and that is what has held me back from a lot of things
Jess I have been following you since you decided to do pregnancy updates with Lilia. Haven’t missed a single video of yours lol. I feel like I know you. My family even know you lol!!
I said to my sister just last night “have you seen the video Jess did with Addie? Jess as in game and Jess Jess” haha
They are so mad at you for making them go, but I but they’re not going to want to leave 😭 and tell you how much of a great time they had don’t worry mom! You can for sure tell they’re hitting the teen age years
We have the same dog lol mine is a boy though they’re about the same age and he is crazy 😂😂 he loves chewing everything so glad Honey has been doing such a great job
When my son turned 13 he asked if he could cuss around me. I told him as long as he is not directly cussing at anyone in our home I was fine with it.
I will say my doggo who passed away last year was the BEST puppy, didn’t chew anything! Sometimes you do get lucky ✨
I love you Jess your my favorite UA-camr
I personally think bad words are disrespectful and not in good taste. If you have a good vocabulary you do not need bad words to get your point across whether it’s in anger or not. The whole saying it in songs when an appropriate age I get but that would mean they are listening to appropriate music at that right ages and now in days that’s hard! I was always told skip over it. Just my thoughts but who says I’m right or your wrong just my way of thinking. I find vulgarity very unappealing.
You are so spot on period
Yes absolutely have them scream, this is not my mom, this is not my dad, get away from me, I don’t know you.
I’m 25, sisters 28, brother is 33. Shut up is still, the only, bad word at home! 🤗 it’s a good rule, never ever been allowed to say it
My son is about to go to middle school and he’s come to be about his friends saying bad words too. We have a very open relationship and I don’t think that I would have ever had that conversation with my parents so I think our generation seems to be doing something right. I told him it’s okay as long as it’s not towards people and in a mean or disrespectful way. The “F” word is still a restricted word. He’s my oldest and I haven’t had a problem with him using words irresponsibly at home toward or around siblings. I kinda feel like normalizing it a little will help to teach responsible language as they grow
I really think getting Kaden look at by a nutritionist for ARFID is a good idea because when he is talking about not having food to eat at the camp I am thinking he may have ARFID I would look into the term and see if he lines up with it and if he does then I would look into getting a nutritionist opinion about it and he might feel better knowing why he has that fear of not being able to eat just about anything
Jess herself has said Kaden is such a picky eater maybe there is a medical term for it
Does little Kayden have social anxiety? He was funny about the sleepover thing
I’m in the UK, Scotland & at the age of 33 I’ve swore in front of my mum a handful of times 😂😂 it’s more of a respect thing, like my mum was the same with my grandparents too? She knows I’ve swore since my teens but as long as she didn’t hear me she didn’t bother or if I was doing it to be disrespectful to an adult then I would of been pulled up and spoken too but I don’t think I ever did! I have 15 year old and she’s never swore in front of me but admits that she has swore with her friends & so has my 11 year old 😆 I’m glad they can tell me about this though and we also talk openly things which I think is so important when you are raising kids. No question will be unanswered here
@MoonNearSaturn that’s amazing! I would love to visit Iceland too one day 😊 I’m very proud to be Scottish 🏴
Good vid
I went to a camp a few weeks ago and I don’t eat to but I dint die so I think Kayden will do good
i wouldn’t care if my kid swears as long as it’s not like mean like you said jess. i started swearing extremely young but i used to get in trouble for it and it just made no sense to me bc my mom would get mad at me and then say it all the time.
My parents were the same way. It’s very hypocritical to not want them to say but also say it yourself. My parents basically what me say whatever I wanted. But I knew that it’s always about how you say it and the context in which it’s used.
My parents had a saying "Do as I say! Not as I do!" Use to piss me off when they said that to me!
@@melissacross9263 That’s never good. Any child expert will tell you kids learn by watching and seeing and they copy. Also that’s not teaching them anything.
What’s up fam ❤
Hey Jesssfam
My son is 13 like Lilia and in 8th grade as well and the cuss word thing… I always tell him to know his audience. Like don’t cuss around your grandma kind of thing lol
My youngest (10) won’t use idiot or stupid towards other people either, he thinks that’s a swear word too 😂 Love him
What’s going on with upstairs? Are you working on it? So Addie & big Caden can have her own rooms? Or are you waiting to give them the rooms your parents are using? And make upstairs rooms so the twins can have their own rooms?
Was this filmed before or after Landon’s second perm?
Shirt link?!
not me here when its less than 100 views!! yayyy new vlog
Does Landon still do karate?
does anyone know what kind of dog honey is
Watching you from Pakistan 🇵🇰 💜
love your vlogs
lots of love
Did Tommy move back with his mom?
Listening to audiobooks is phenomenal, and if your a visual person the descriptions in some of the books, like my favorite ones which I over recommend to people because of how good it is, are insanely good. Redwall by Brian Jacques, it’s an insanely good British series, which the kids really seem to love British things.
I'm 28 and that was my parents rules once we were 13 we could cuss as long as it wasn't to hurt feeling or challenge authority figures. They just taught be mindful, and all words can hurt its how you say it. 🤷🏼♀️ and I will do the same with my kids when they get that age.
I’ll be teaching my son HOW to use a swear , only in songs , only at home in proper context stuff like that .
Is addy still in your room? I don't think I've seen her room tour yet but I might of missed it
If kids are being taken yell fire because people are going to run and see what is going on it will create a big thing.
Hey, how’s it going? Hope all is well. What happened to just Jess on UA-cam do you still have that account because I loved it?
My parents always taught me swearing is fine if used correctly. Of course you shouldn’t tell someone to F off. But if I’m watching a football game and I say that was Fing fantastic absolutely nothing is wrong with that. I didn’t disrespect anyone. They always taught me it’s a just a word. Very few words you shouldn’t say at all. With most words it’s how you say them and the context in which you say them.
Used correctly?
@@nancyfarkas3592 Yes like I said you shouldn’t tell someone to go F themselves. But if I drop something and say shit. That’s perfectly fine. That’s kinda thing.
Instead of a vlog one day would you do a sit down q&a video
We don’t allow “stupid” “shut up” or any slurs of course. Any other cuss word is okay within reason. But know your audience. Don’t do it in front of grandma or other kids. But at home it’s fine with me. They still never really do it lol
Hi landon it's me Eli from. Malachite
I’m almost 18 and I have never said a swear word like EVER!!
I even feel bad if I think a swear word😂idk why
@MoonNearSaturn I’m definitely human 😂
Nah my family just doesn’t say things like that
@MoonNearSaturn true
I do other stuff just not swearing
Besides my account is shared with my friend so we just though that suits us
@MoonNearSaturn haha lots of things
@MoonNearSaturn don’t be terrified though
@MoonNearSaturn good. I’m not a bad person I swear 😂
I guess I will be old fashioned about yet another thing, lol. I talk to my kids about everything. Nothing is off limits. Yes, I have 1 (almost 2) in middle school. I have no illusions that cussing around friends happen. So be it. BUT…I rarely cuss (mostly under my breath) and don’t want my kids to cuss in front of me. I never cussed in front of my parents and still don’t. My kids couldn’t even tell you what words were cuss words until they were 8ish.
Freida McFadden is good for thrillers
My 13 year old son was just asking if he could say shit because it wasn't a real swear word. But I told him no it wasn't appropriate 😂 I have heard maybe 2 slip ups but I don't ever hear it which I'm thankful for.
My mum taught us to scream fire or rape. Everyone wants to get away from a fire or help people away from it. Hearing a child scream rape will draw people from hopefully everywhere to attempt to stop it.
I let my 6 year old swear if there’s simple swear words in songs around the house, as he isn’t swearing AT me or anyone or being disrespectful, he’s just using a word.
My 5 year olds favorite word is f*** and he definitely says it when adults aren’t around… it honestly doesn’t bother me much as long as he knows not to say it infront of other kids/adults and definitely not at school. (He knows he isn’t actually allowed to say it but he does it in secret and that’s why it doesn’t bother me 🤷🏻♀️) I can remember being a kid and it was the “cool” thing to do to secretly say cuss words just because they were only meant for adults to use 🤷🏻♀️😂
My daughter is 14 and in the 8th grade and I don't mind her cussing as long as it's not excessive or around little kids.
Addie's not able to say the word "hell" but can freely sing and dance to sexually suggestive music on Tik Tok... umm okay?
I taught my daughter to yell fire if someone is trying to take her.. people will respond to the word fire before anything!
hey hey good morning
I grew up not saying those words they were totally off limits, and as an adult I still really don’t, they were never a habit. With my kids I really had to think about how I would approach this topic. I decided that *I* do not want to hear those words come out of their mouths and I would RATHER they not say them at all, and I feel like using them shows a lack of vocabulary. BUT, I understand wanting to go along with the vernacular their friends use and I decided I do not have a problem with them saying those words with their friends as long as I never hear them and they don’t use that language in front of any adult. No taking the Lord’s name in vain is the only hard rule I have.
What happened to the perm. It’s gone
Been watching since you announced you were pregnant with Lilia and starting vlogs
I have always been very open with our son...when I was growing up I wasn't allowed to have a voice. By the time I had our son I promised to myself he was allowed to have full input on whatever the discussion was about....he was apart of the family so of course we wanted him to tell us how he felt...and if he was upset yes he was aloud to use curse words..bit he was never ALLOWED to be DISRESPECTFUL..if he started being "ugly" our discussion was over I'm done listening, talking or communicating....my whole approach was if your old enough to use those types of words then your old enough to use them the proper way..to think about what you're going to say ..along with why you feel this way...
Mu opinion only I'd rather my son say the F*×+ all day long than go around saying Jesus Christ in a angrily way..or say GD... we dont have the right to damn someone especially in God's Name or I swear to God...oh and there are a few others that I personally don't like...one starts with a P@$$/..Cu^t...its degrading...that's all
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I had surgery in high school and one of the pain management tools I was told about in pre op was to cuss. It actually helped until the meds could kick in. Even thinking it helped but saying f🤬 out loud took my pain from a 10 to a 9/8.5 for real! 🤷🏾♀️
I remember an experiment we did in high school (super appropriate) where we tested to see if cussing helped in "pain" situations. We all put our hands in ice water, those who were allowed to curse lasted like twice as long! It was actually surprising
@brief402 it's about mental toughness not cussing. Anyone that thinks cussing helps are wrong
@samg873 not necessarily. We repeated the test some weeks later with the 2 groups swapped and the results were identical.
We also had to do a paper on whether it was a real or fake. There were actually many studies done on the subject
I wouldn’t limit them to cuss because it releases stress.
I'm English from England you have TJ MAX we have TK MAX funny that
Growing up we were not allowed to say “bad” words until we turned 18. I mean obviously we said the with our friends but around family and my mom was a NO. We’d get in so much trouble. They’re adult words so when we were legally considered an adult we could use them but not before then.
My daughter is an only child. So since she was 4 because I swear like a trucker country girl. So yep. And she never swore at first in grade 7.
Nike made shoes with blood, I wouldn’t let my kids wear Nike
As an adult my grandmother would crack me up: you say shit she would say “not in my kitchen that goes in the toilet” she had one for the f word one day and I don’t think anyone that heard what she said ever has said that word in front of her again. Last summer I did the whole shit thing to her and she didn’t find it so funny but she’s 83
now you make me curious as to what grandma said!
In my house, saying "stupid" is more of a problem to me than them saying the F word. (Oldest is 8.5) They're not allowed to say cuss words at school, around certain family, toward a person in anger, or to hurt someone's feelings. Saying "sh*t, that hurt" is cool. Saying "F you, a-hole" is not. lol.
I have autism and I am very sensory with food. I can’t eat anything too mushy too hot or too cold.
If you learn them how to swear appropiate, it is not a bad thing. Everyone does it at some point. I don't realy like to use the bad words personally and instead try to find less harsh ones. In my household some words are never okay with me. I do not want to hear them at all. For in my language in certain regions and with kids streettalk it is cool to swear with a specific bad illness. I will not allow that.
I do not know what the age of Honey is but this is a great time for you to get a dog trainer that way when she gets older she will not turn up your house upside down because trying to train a dog yourself is impossible
Most people won't notice swears now a days and ignore kids who say this isn't my parent cause lots of kids say that when throwing tantrums I've told my kids to yell fire 🔥 most people will notice that more then swearing or saying that's not my mom
My sister has a dog named honey